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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Andy, Welcome to the program. How

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Speaker 3: Thanks for having me on. I love the show.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: We'll see if you still love it when this is over.

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Speaker 1: But waiting on the phone, of course, is what this

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Speaker 1: is called. We're trying to figure out why you may

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Speaker 1: have been ghosted by a woman named Amber, but we

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Speaker 1: need to know kind of the setup here. How did

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Speaker 1: you guys meet? How many days have you been on?

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Speaker 1: How to dose go? What's happening now? Kind of fill

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Speaker 3: So basic GISs. I go out to Lollapalooza, right, go

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Speaker 3: out there to have a great time, great music, meet

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Speaker 3: great people, and everything is going great from top to bottom.

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Speaker 3: I'm having a blast. I'm meeting new people, you know,

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Speaker 3: some great bands are there. And I meet this beautiful

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Speaker 3: all the right buttons, and I get her number and

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Speaker 3: we're planning to go on the second date. And then

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Speaker 3: nothing just just empty space. She's not responding to any

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: Now, I'm trying to play.

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Speaker 3: Cool, but I don't. She seemed like she was really

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Speaker 1: Now just nothing man the whole lot, Andy are we calling?

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Speaker 1: Are we calling Lalla Palouza the first date? Or did

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Speaker 1: you go on a date after that, like you got

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Speaker 1: her number and then went out, or we're saying Laala

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Speaker 1: was the date, Lawa was the date? I see, So

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Speaker 1: you're now you were trying to set up a date basically,

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Speaker 1: but you did hang out all day at the music festival,

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Speaker 1: so that's yeah, okay, But so you was just follow

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Speaker 1: up that you were trying to accomplish.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, like she said she was into it,

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Speaker 3: She gave me her number. It looked like all the

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Speaker 3: signs were green. So I don't understand the radio silent.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess she could have ditched you at any

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Speaker 1: know or whatever it is exactly. So yeah, she didn't

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Speaker 1: have to do that. She didn't have to give you

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Speaker 1: her number, that's all. That's all true. But you have

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Speaker 1: not been able to get ahold ever since. This great

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Speaker 2: And you want to know why. You want to know

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, like I don't want to be a

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Speaker 3: creep about it. You know, she's not into me. She's

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Speaker 3: spend a whole day together only for her to give

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Speaker 1: No, not a cree People love being called surprised by

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Speaker 1: the radio. Yeah, well sometimes it works out. So let's

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Speaker 1: hope for the best. Andy, Let's call Amber. We'll see

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Speaker 1: if we can get her on the phone. You'll be

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Speaker 1: jump in at some point. Obviously. What we're trying to

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Speaker 1: A Lot of Palooza festival, and then we'll pay for that.

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Speaker 2: Sound good? Yeah, that would be awesome. Let's find out

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Speaker 1: Part to you of waiting by the phone after chaperone

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Speaker 1: back in two minutes on the Fred Show. Chaperone, It's

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show, Good Morning Show, Vas Shelley the entertainer

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Speaker 1: ofport Good News Stories all coming up? Hey Andy, Hey all, right,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Amber. You met a lot of

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Speaker 2: Amber. Good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: Behalf of a guy named Andy says you mention you

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Speaker 1: at Lallapalooza the music festival, of course, and you know,

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Speaker 2: I guess you gave him your number.

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Speaker 1: He called us and said he's been trying to get

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Speaker 2: So what's going on? Amber?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so yeah, I remember him. Of course we had

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Speaker 5: he tried to give me drugs.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she Well, he asked if I wanted to partake

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Speaker 1: let's inject something. No, you know, I don't know what

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Speaker 5: He didn't really say exactly. He said extracurricular activities, and

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Speaker 5: I just don't want to. I just don't do any

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Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna play devil's advocate here. You know, some

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's possible. He can totally how was he can

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Speaker 1: But but even that is okay, even that's not for

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Speaker 7: No, it's not fair because I don't know a lot

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Speaker 7: of drugs that your users they only do it one time. No,

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Speaker 7: But I'm like, I'm only I'm only get it today.

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Speaker 1: But you've never heard of people that like that's not

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Speaker 1: Well I was just trying to, you know, come up

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Speaker 1: very very forgetful Andy. What's up with the drugs?

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Speaker 3: Nah, it's nothing like that, you know, kind of what

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Speaker 3: I asked her if she wanted to partake in a

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Speaker 3: I'm not offering heroin, but like, at a certain point,

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Speaker 1: And listen to this. All a man is trying to

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Speaker 3: I mean for one of its words. You like, you

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Speaker 2: You know, the environment.

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Speaker 3: It's it's a way to add a little bit more

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Look here, Aaron Rodgers, all he was trying to do.

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Speaker 1: Listen to this, Amber. All he was trying to do

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Speaker 5: Well, you know, he can find himself all he wants.

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Speaker 5: But I'm not interested.

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Speaker 1: You weren't interested. It's even the experimentation, the fact that

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Speaker 1: he had it on him, the whole thing. It just

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Speaker 1: doesn't eared uncomfortable with it is what you're saying. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: not for me, which is fair. So look, Andy, it's

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Speaker 1: too bad because it sounds like maybe something was happening here.

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Speaker 1: But for whatever reason, she's you know, this is beyond

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Speaker 2: No, I think I'm good. All right, Well, thank you

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Speaker 2: for your time, Amber. Andy. I'm sorry it's not going

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Speaker 2: to work out, but good luck to you as well.

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Speaker 3: Hey, it's all good. People have fun out, people have fun.

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Speaker 3: If she ain't about that, she ain't about that.

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Speaker 2: A fresh show. It's Kiki's court, all right, y all rise,

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Speaker 7: Take it away please, all right, let's get into the courtroom,

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Speaker 7: says hey, Kei key. My husband and I relocate it

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Speaker 7: with our kids to the Northwest Suburbs about two years ago.

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Speaker 7: Since our move, we've gotten really close with our neighbors.

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Speaker 7: They're a young couple with small kids like us, and

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Speaker 7: we have a lot in common. Two weeks ago, my

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Speaker 7: contractor working in our home to renovate our kitchen. This

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Speaker 7: I noticed on my ring camera that my neighbor's wife

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Speaker 8: Man.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm really, like truly weighing this because I

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Speaker 7: You wouldn't want somebody to tell you, say, you're the

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean at this point somebody probably I don't

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Speaker 1: That's an unfair burden you're putting on me, and you're

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Speaker 2: I didn't ask for that. Handle it. Hmm.

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Speaker 7: Then what if she doesn't handle it, because I don't

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Speaker 6: What about you know when we get into relationships, people

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Speaker 7: But you open in my house the way exactly my

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's that's the thing. Yeah, you want to

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Speaker 2: I don't know if this.

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Speaker 1: I'm now culpable. I am watching you do this. I

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Speaker 1: that the whole time I knew, Well, now, somehow I'm

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Speaker 1: You go to the source and say you fix this

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Speaker 1: or I will because it's messed up. I don't want

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Speaker 2: Hey, kJ, good morning, Good morning, how are you kJ? Great?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for attempting to listen to this whatever we're doing.

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Speaker 1: What do you think?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 8: I think kind of like what you guys said, I think,

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Speaker 8: so why should confront her and be like, hey, I

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Speaker 8: this over to him, because I think it's so messed

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Speaker 1: The kind Yeah, and something tells me that this is

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Speaker 1: know why you're sneaking around in your neighbor's house. I mean,

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Speaker 1: if this is a situation where it's sanctioned in your marriage,

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Speaker 1: you can hook up other people that I don't know

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Speaker 2: But you're sneaking around in my house.

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Speaker 8: I think she would give her like a week to

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Speaker 8: be like, if you don't tell them, then we will

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Speaker 8: and send that over to the husband.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I like that, Kidjay, thank you, have a good day,

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Speaker 1: Hey, brook brook You're you're voting non a monogamous here?

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Speaker 1: You think that she's this is what they do.

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Speaker 9: So no, I'm saying that if you are non monogamous,

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Speaker 9: much rather someone be like, hey, so are you cheating?

435
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Speaker 9: And I go no, so that you don't think I'm

436
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Speaker 9: a homewrecord.

437
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Speaker 1: Okay, so let me be clear. I want to know

438
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Speaker 1: more about you Brooks. So you're married, I am you're married,

439
00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:01,960
Speaker 1: and you hook up with other men women both everything?

440
00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:05,960
Speaker 1: I mean, what is the deal yes, both.

441
00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:08,359
Speaker 9: So I'm married and I also have a long term partner.

442
00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:11,159
Speaker 9: My husband also have a long term partner, and we

443
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Speaker 9: are also free to hook up with other people.

444
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Speaker 1: Oh wow, and so you've had people in your life

445
00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:18,240
Speaker 1: see you out there doing this and you have to

446
00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:20,280
Speaker 1: be like whoa whoa wo Like we don't advertise it

447
00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:24,240
Speaker 1: because we don't have to. But by the way, it's okay.

448
00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:25,399
Speaker 6: Yeah.

449
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Speaker 1: See I get that because there's still a stigma. I mean, look,

450
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Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are still not comfortable

451
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Speaker 1: or think that it's foreign, and I'm telling you it

452
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Speaker 1: is not foreign. You know people who are doing this

453
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Speaker 1: and they're just not telling you because they're afraid to

454
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Speaker 1: be judged.

455
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Speaker 2: No, many more.

456
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Speaker 9: People are not monogamous than you think they are.

457
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Speaker 2: I know, I know people that you know who are

458
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Speaker 2: doing this. Yeah who do tell?

459
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Speaker 7: Wow?

460
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Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm just saying no, no, no, no, I'm not

461
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Speaker 1: doing that.

462
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Speaker 2: I never will. But what I'm saying is you can't

463
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Speaker 2: dangle that. Well.

464
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Speaker 1: I'm going to My point is it's happening everywhere. It's

465
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Speaker 1: just not I feel like we're ten years ahead of

466
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Speaker 1: it being just commonplace. I think people are afraid to

467
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Speaker 1: be judged.

468
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Speaker 2: I can see that that's true. Brook, I mean, is

469
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Speaker 2: there part of you that there you go about it?

470
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Speaker 10: Yeah, we don't judge, just so you know. No, I'm

471
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Speaker 10: just a little jealous. I'm not part of it. Thank you, Brook,

472
00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:16,560
Speaker 10: having good day I can be that just sounds like

473
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Speaker 10: I could. I think it's it's cool, totally, that's your thing.

474
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Speaker 6: I just don't know how much time you have got

475
00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:24,160
Speaker 6: a husband, she's got a partner, then she's hooking up,

476
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Speaker 6: Like I don't even have time to like wash my

477
00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:27,840
Speaker 6: butt half the time during the day.

478
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Speaker 1: I'm like, you're going to hook up multiple people. You

479
00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:32,560
Speaker 1: should watch the button, you should wash your button because

480
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Speaker 1: you watch. But no I do too. I'm thinking she

481
00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,760
Speaker 1: probably does. I don't know that for a fact.

482
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Speaker 2: I love it.

483
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Speaker 1: I honestly I can't do it, like I've even hated

484
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Speaker 1: people who I was the accessory. Yeah, and I just

485
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Speaker 1: I can't, like, even if it's all in the up

486
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Speaker 1: and up, Like it's just weird for me to share

487
00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 1: certain levels of intimacy with you and know that you're

488
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,479
Speaker 1: just gonna go home and go to bed with your

489
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Speaker 1: husband after that. I don't know, there's nothing wrong with it, Like,

490
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Speaker 1: if that's what you want to do with your life,

491
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Speaker 1: that's fine. But for me, even if it's a one

492
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,560
Speaker 1: time deal or two weeks or a month or forever, like,

493
00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 1: can we go one at a time here?

494
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Speaker 10: Like?

495
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Speaker 1: Do we have to be sort of just mixing everybody's

496
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:12,640
Speaker 1: stuff to do?

497
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:14,399
Speaker 2: I don't like I don't like it.

498
00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,320
Speaker 1: I don't for me, but it's it's just because that's

499
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,320
Speaker 1: not within my comfort level, right, But I don't judge

500
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Speaker 1: anybody who does it.

501
00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 2: I just don't know that.

502
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,840
Speaker 1: I think that's what's going on here, because why are

503
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Speaker 1: we sneaking around in neighbor's kitchens if that's what's happening, right, So, Jessica,

504
00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:32,840
Speaker 1: you have the same arrangement good morning, good morning.

505
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Speaker 4: I don't have the famous they have going on. But yes,

506
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,159
Speaker 4: my husband and I participate in BDSM, And something that

507
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:42,600
Speaker 4: gets his rock sooth is when I text him and say, oh, honey,

508
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:46,160
Speaker 4: I've got another man in our marital bed. Like it's

509
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 4: completely consensual. We use protection. You know, we're not trying

510
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:53,960
Speaker 4: to have a baby or anything. I can't have baby,

511
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 4: so it would be fine if we weren't using condoms,

512
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,200
Speaker 4: but you know, sgd's and the like, But no, it's

513
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:02,400
Speaker 4: totally fine, like it works for us. He thinks it's

514
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 4: hot and you know, whole sometimes from work and we'll

515
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 4: just go at it again like rabbits. And I'm sorry

516
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,360
Speaker 4: that you guys don't feel like that's on the up

517
00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:11,800
Speaker 4: and out and it's not for you, but it's not

518
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:16,000
Speaker 4: for everyone, and that's fine doing anyone who doesn't like it.

519
00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,280
Speaker 4: And it's just you know, I don't like that they're

520
00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 4: sleeping in the neighbor's kitchen. I'll give you that. You know,

521
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 4: at least I do it in my own home or

522
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,440
Speaker 4: a part or a hotel room.

523
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Speaker 1: Well, let me let me just be I'm sorrying to

524
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: Rup just to be clear on one thing before Kiki talks.

525
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:31,880
Speaker 1: No one here thinks it's not on the up and up.

526
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's on the up and up

527
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:35,439
Speaker 1: with these folks, like I don't know if in this

528
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 1: situ this doesn't sound like a situation where everything is transparent.

529
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 1: But again, if that's what you want to do, and

530
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,199
Speaker 1: you guys and you guys are consensing adults and everyone's

531
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Speaker 1: on the same page, everyone feels good about it, well

532
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 1: then do it like by all means, but it wouldn't

533
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:51,679
Speaker 1: work for me. I think I'm just too jealous and

534
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,439
Speaker 1: I think too much. Like it wouldn't turn me on

535
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 1: if I'm dating you, Jessica. It is the exact opposite

536
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:58,199
Speaker 1: of a turn on.

537
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Speaker 2: He's running out of here.

538
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 1: My main part will retract into my body. If you're like, oh,

539
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:05,439
Speaker 1: I'm hooking up with some other guy, I'll be like,

540
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:06,160
Speaker 1: oh my god.

541
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 4: Like for me, it's so dramatic.

542
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 1: No I am no, Jessica, like I I just I

543
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:17,639
Speaker 1: know my limitations. It doesn't work for me, but I

544
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 1: mean it does work for a lot of other people.

545
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:22,159
Speaker 1: And in fact, the crazy thing is, I think in

546
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 1: some ways it saved people. I think it's ended people's marriages,

547
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 1: and I think it saves people's marriages because there are

548
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 1: people out there who would probably get divorced otherwise. But

549
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 1: they still like each other and they love each other,

550
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:33,920
Speaker 1: and they have a family, and they have an identity

551
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 1: and they have a life, so they stick with each

552
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 1: other and their proclivities. They find a way to fulfill

553
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,680
Speaker 1: themselves in other ways. And if everyone's on the same

554
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 1: page with that, then why not. Okay, drop Jessica dropped

555
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:49,880
Speaker 1: the mics. She's like, that's it, Hey, thank you so much.

556
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:53,479
Speaker 1: Have a good day you too. Uh see, look good,

557
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 1: we got Marissa. Hi, Marissa, how you doing good?

558
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Speaker 11: How are you?

559
00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 2: Marissa? Good morning.

560
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:01,159
Speaker 1: So just to recap here in Keiki's court and make

561
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: sure I get this right, there's a woman who's having

562
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 1: worked done in her house left town, had her neighborhood

563
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,200
Speaker 1: kind of overseeing. It turns out that her neighbor's hooking

564
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 1: up with the contractor and she caught it on the

565
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 1: ring camera and she doesn't know what to do with

566
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 1: this information.

567
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 2: What do you think?

568
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 1: Yeah?

569
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Speaker 11: So I think Fred, it's two separate things here, because

570
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,679
Speaker 11: I understand your point of not wanting to get involved

571
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 11: in other people's business. But if there was a type

572
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 11: of arrangement like this, keep it in your own house

573
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 11: in mind that I'm the person that I'm paying to

574
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Speaker 11: get my work done.

575
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Speaker 1: Yep.

576
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Speaker 11: But also going back to the point, I don't think

577
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 11: you confront the husband. You have to confront the person

578
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 11: who's doing it directly, because this happened to me. I

579
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,479
Speaker 11: found out that someone really close to me was cheating

580
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 11: and I confronted them directly, and I was like, hey,

581
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 11: I know, knock it off. You need to tell them.

582
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:52,920
Speaker 11: And if you don't tell them by this point, then

583
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 11: I'm going to tell them because they deserve to have

584
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 11: a choice in the matter.

585
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

586
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Speaker 11: I think because of that situation, you got to go

587
00:24:58,840 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 11: directly to the person.

588
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 2: Marissa.

589
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: I like the strategy, I think, Kiki you like it too, Judge, Kiki,

590
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 1: I like the strategy of going to the culprit and

591
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: being like, you need what is the deal? I need

592
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:11,879
Speaker 1: you to handle this and keep it out of my house.

593
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: Because you go to the other person, then it gives

594
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,679
Speaker 1: it gives the culprit in this case, the opportunity to

595
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: spin it. You know, you know you have proof. It's like,

596
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I think you're leaving yourself exposed.

597
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: It's like, tell the person involved to be less sloppy.

598
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 3: Yeah.

599
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 11: And in addition, I don't care why you're doing it.

600
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 11: I don't need to know. That's not my business. But

601
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 11: you need to know that other people know and that

602
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 11: you're hurting other people involved because of what you're doing.

603
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 11: So knock it off and go to the person, own

604
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 11: it and move on.

605
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 1: Yeah. Like, if you tell me one thing, why do

606
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 1: I have to live with your you know, infidelity? Why

607
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 1: do I have to Why do I have to keep

608
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 1: your secret. Why do I have to look at your

609
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 1: husband and wonder if he knows or if I'm the

610
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 1: only one that knows, and if he's ever going to

611
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 1: find out?

612
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 2: And then I get pull into it.

613
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 1: Because it was happening in my house, almost like I

614
00:25:58,440 --> 00:25:59,959
Speaker 1: sanctioned it, and then what if?

615
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, go ahead.

616
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 11: That's what happened to me, unfortunately, Like this situation, unfortunately

617
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 11: happened with my parents and my one my parent who

618
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 11: was doing it, asked me to keep that secret, and

619
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Speaker 11: I was like, you can't put that on me with

620
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 11: my other parent as well. So I know it's not

621
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 11: the same because that's family versus neighborly, but still you

622
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,399
Speaker 11: don't want to be involved in that situation when you shouldn't.

623
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Speaker 3: Have to be.

624
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 2: I agree that fair, I agree? Thank you Marissa.

625
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:32,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a good day. Yeah, I love you too.

626
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: Case closed. Another situation was alfy Tiki you did it?

627
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:37,719
Speaker 2: Oh, thank you.

628
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 1: I love how people are like man, I'm impressed with

629
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Speaker 1: your advice. For once, fred I am right way more

630
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 1: than I could go. I mean, at least eighty percent

631
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 1: of the time and the twenty percent of the time

632
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,399
Speaker 1: I'm wrong. I'm never going to admit it, but eighty

633
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: twenty that's not bad.

634
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 2: God, yeah, they talk better than they say. Tell me,

635
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 2: these are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. That's

636
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:58,399
Speaker 2: what I'm waiting for.

637
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 1: So them to just bootleg stick others logos on top

638
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,239
Speaker 1: of the like, Hey, Paulina, put another station's logos right

639
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 1: on top of the one, but leave the leave the

640
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:07,399
Speaker 1: Chicago skyline in.

641
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,439
Speaker 2: I can totally see it running in other cities.

642
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:12,640
Speaker 12: Now.

643
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:16,199
Speaker 1: Nothing would surprise me more like writing in our diaries,

644
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,439
Speaker 1: except we say them allowed. We call them blogs. Rufiah

645
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: you got one? Yeah, all right, take it away, thank you,

646
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 1: dear blog.

647
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 12: So last week I was out went on a family

648
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 12: vacation with pretty much everyone on just side of the family.

649
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 2: We do one every year.

650
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Speaker 12: We find like a lake house and then all the

651
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,919
Speaker 12: kids get to hang out before they all go back

652
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 12: to school.

653
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Speaker 2: How many people are we talking about total?

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Speaker 1: There was like twelve. How many of those are kids?

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Speaker 1: There's six of them, so you were almost outnumbered.

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Speaker 12: Yeah right, okay, But yeah, this time we went to

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Speaker 12: Michigan for the first time. I want to say, I

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Speaker 12: want to I don't know if I'm saying the city right,

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Speaker 12: but it's Dowjack Michigan, Sister's Lake, Sister Lake's Michigan.

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Speaker 2: We stayed on Magician.

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Speaker 1: Lake, which is very Rufio is a Magic fan.

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Speaker 2: Yeah I am.

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Speaker 12: But the station comes in over there, so shout out

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Speaker 12: to everyone. And now with Jack Michigan you can hear us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no way, yeah, half the time you can't hear us.

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Speaker 2: Parking lot I'm on the radio in Michigan.

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 12: So this is like this southwest portion of Michigan, like

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Speaker 12: close to Lake Michigan over there, because we went to

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Speaker 12: Saint Joseph, Michigan as well for the beach. But we

671
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Speaker 12: had a good time, did some boating, the kids went

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Speaker 12: to the beach, played some golf.

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Speaker 2: There is a lot of mosquitoes out there. I don't like.

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Speaker 2: I got bit like like inside the house.

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Speaker 12: I felt like, you know, they need some bug control

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Speaker 12: in that in that cab or whatever house was staying in.

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Speaker 12: But then I realized that I don't think I could

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Speaker 12: ever live in a small town like like where it's

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Speaker 12: like thirty five minutes to get to the grocery store.

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Speaker 12: I'm like, oh yeah, no, thank you. Like the space

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Speaker 12: is great, the house was great. You know, your neighbors

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Speaker 12: are far away, but then like the like the convenience

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Speaker 12: of like, oh I need to go get a coffee

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Speaker 12: thirty five minutes.

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Speaker 2: I'm like thirty five minutes. Yeah, I gotta go two

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Speaker 2: towns over to a Starbucks.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I was gonna say, I don't think your

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Speaker 1: dad sho's gonna accept fine, no, my stupid right order.

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Speaker 12: I did see an Amazon truck out there. I was like,

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Speaker 12: you working hard home because there's like and there was

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Speaker 12: on this lake. There was like an island, an island

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Speaker 12: where there's houses. I'm like, how you get how do

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Speaker 12: you get packages?

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Speaker 2: Hit? Like I got a boat that just pulls up

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Speaker 2: and then throws your package. I don't know.

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Speaker 12: But it was a lot of fun with Ashleton Parker.

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Speaker 12: He got to go on a boat for that. He

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Speaker 12: was sleeping the whole time. He's just whatever the boats,

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Speaker 12: you know, boats make kids fall asleep. I actually went

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Speaker 12: fishing for the first time and didn't catch anything. No,

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Speaker 12: then he gave up in like five minutes. It was like,

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Speaker 12: you didn't catch anything. He's just like, I'm done with this.

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Speaker 12: I'm like, that's why I don't like fishing.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 1: He didn't win anything. Bad news for you about fishing, bro.

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Speaker 1: You know you rarely war. Do you find my sister

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Speaker 1: I feel like I've been bitching about early, which I

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Speaker 1: don't mean to, but do you find well, No, he

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Speaker 1: was last week.

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Speaker 3: I was.

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Speaker 1: I went back and listened to it. I wasn't critical

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Speaker 1: of her parenting style by any means.

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Speaker 2: I just don't.

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Speaker 1: It's the difference between my mom and my sister's parenting

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Speaker 1: styles that I was talking about. It was very different,

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Speaker 1: cause we're talking about how your mom Paulina. You guys

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Speaker 1: have to say, but do you find these vacations to

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Speaker 1: be the least bit relaxing when there's six kids? Like

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Speaker 1: it's a quote unquote vacation, but like you didn't really

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Speaker 1: get to rest, did you.

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 12: Obviously with a newborn as well, because he's up every

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Speaker 12: whatever three and a half hours to eat, especially at nighttime.

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Speaker 12: But I mean, but they're able to all play together,

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Speaker 12: and they were all just they had a dance party.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, you all just do your thing.

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Speaker 12: Just don't kill each other, don't hurt each other, and

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Speaker 12: then I'm gonna be downstairs having an old fashioned yeah.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, well yeah, making memories and like stuff like

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Speaker 1: the fishing and whatever else like that. That's got to

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Speaker 1: be cool to see that, you know.

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Speaker 12: Like I didn't even want to go fishing something new,

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Speaker 12: and like I don't catch anything going fishing, so just

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Speaker 12: like you got to take a fishing just in case

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Speaker 12: you catch something, you could get it on videos. Like

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Speaker 12: he ain't going to catch anything, he's gonna give up

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Speaker 12: in five and that's what he did.

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Speaker 2: He's like, I don't want to do this anymore. Okay,

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Speaker 2: yeah right, I'm like, okay, cool, cool. But yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: it's it's it's relaxing.

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Speaker 12: To a point because obviously, like there's other people to

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Speaker 12: watch the kids. You know what I'm saying. It doesn't

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Speaker 12: have to always be me. There's other care and the

744
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Speaker 12: animals there, you know what I'm saying. So right, yeah,

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Speaker 12: that's true.

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Speaker 1: My sister's thing is I think she would rather for holidays.

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Speaker 2: It's just it's too much.

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Speaker 1: She has what almost a three and a half year

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Speaker 1: old and then a six month old or something, and

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Speaker 1: her thing is like to pack up everything and move

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Speaker 1: everything to go on vacation. It's not a vacation for us,

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Speaker 1: so we may as well to stay at home. And

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Speaker 1: I think, you know the counter to that, is well.

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Speaker 1: But you know, when everybody gets together away from home,

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Speaker 1: it lends itself to you know, new memories and new experiences,

756
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Speaker 1: and so yeah, it might be more work for everybody.

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Speaker 1: Else might be kind of lounging in a way that

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Speaker 1: you aren't put Like, I don't know, there's certain stuff

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Speaker 1: you're not going to do in your house or memories

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Speaker 1: not creating your house.

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Speaker 2: That you that you would I don't know. An old

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Speaker 2: magician like, it's good for the kids, it is. It's

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Speaker 2: for their memories and.

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Speaker 12: Stuff, that's what I would think. It's like what for

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Speaker 12: your sister, Like, yeah, you got to pack them all

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Speaker 12: up and take them. But then they don't see Grandma

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Speaker 12: all the time. They don't see Uncle Fred all the time.

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Speaker 12: So it's just like we're gonna uncle Fred.

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Speaker 1: Because Uncle Fred's got him join hanging out us, beer

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Speaker 1: in his hand.

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Speaker 2: Come here, kids, you can talk about life more. Fred

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