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Speaker 1: talked back. Hey guys, damn man and it's a j

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Speaker 1: Welcome to a new episode of We Talked Back. And

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Speaker 1: we really appreciate you guys tuning in every Thursday. I

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Speaker 1: missed y'all, man, I missed yallole. You know. Look, So

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Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago, we had some nice gentlemen

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Speaker 1: and it's it's only right that we understand what women want.

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Speaker 1: We really didn't get a lot of clarity out of

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Speaker 1: still look ship vary from Nigga and Nigga because that's

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Speaker 1: the way to guy like you. They want one thing

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Speaker 1: have to be real mutable and flexible for these niggas.

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Speaker 1: But excuse me, these men, these niggles. So today we

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Speaker 1: have two beautiful successful black women on this um uture

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Speaker 1: feel of the Okay. I'm Lexi um. I am an investor.

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Speaker 1: I was born in Columbia, South Carolina, raised here in

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Speaker 1: um industry of hospitality. I own my own event company,

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Speaker 1: and I also am a lone officer for a company

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Speaker 1: called Better Um. Been in Charlotte for ten years. This

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Speaker 1: is my city, um, queen city all day. UM. Love

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Speaker 1: with my girls. And yeah listen, So these are two

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Speaker 1: More so like when I when I posted that it

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Speaker 1: they always say happy life, happy, happy wife, the life right.

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Speaker 1: So automatically, when you pour into a woman, she's going

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Speaker 1: But I mean, well, and the Bible say life for

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Speaker 1: to me, like sex, sex should not be the only

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Speaker 1: was just like if we could have the perfect person,

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Speaker 1: Are you right? No, that's fine. What if he got

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Speaker 1: Want other things like that. Okay, I need all right?

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Speaker 1: my black asshole, I'm not going to No, No, we've party. Now,

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Speaker 1: y'all go to head rocking the natural puffs I still have.

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Speaker 1: all that in your trip have he has he seen?

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Speaker 1: I don't know him, we're just on friends. If he

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Speaker 1: But then it'd be a nigger shaped like a fucking spongeball.

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Speaker 1: woman with some nigger you just described with the check basically.

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00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: So so does that make us more shallow or them?

423
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: I guess we're both shallow. Their shallow as far as aesthetics, because,

424
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 1: like they say, all women think they're attending what all

425
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: men think, they deserve it in and happy y'all don't

426
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,119
Speaker 1: deserve its in. You deserve the bitches that you couldn't.

427
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: I remember I was working. This was when I was

428
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 1: in London, and this nigga was talking about his wife

429
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 1: and they got divorced, not soon like very soon after that.

430
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 1: He said his wife was not a bit ley, she

431
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 1: was more like a reliable Honda in front of her

432
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 1: with everybody at the table, and she was just sitting there.

433
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: He looked like and he looked like a motherfucking pinto. Okay,

434
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 1: he was that man looking too bold with with looks

435
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: and what they expect a reliable Honda is what he

436
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 1: compared his wife too. And then he said, that's grounds

437
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:07,400
Speaker 1: for divorce. That's grounds for divorce. That's the fact. I'm

438
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 1: so every man. She feels like he deserved it in

439
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 1: and every woman that he did in his eyes. That's

440
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: why on my list, I said, um, you know that

441
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: they look good to me. I don't really care about

442
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 1: how anybody else feel about them, but um, girl, that

443
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 1: has definitely grounds for divorce. I wish you, nigga might be.

444
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: You know a lot of women put up with abuse

445
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 1: like that. They do from some basic guys nigga who

446
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,199
Speaker 1: don't control nothing outside his home. He just control whoever,

447
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 1: like the kids and the wife that's in the house.

448
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 1: You go to work, you don't run it over there.

449
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: Your family, your outside family, don't run it over there.

450
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 1: So these are constant people you could, girl, I would

451
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: beat his ass up on site, said the same things

452
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 1: out talking to listen, yeah out here talking about violence.

453
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: We don't promote violence, girl, Yes the funk we do nothing.

454
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 1: If you suck, girl, I just definitely stand out. I

455
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: want to hit the nigg with a sledge we don't

456
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 1: promote violence. That's one that's funny. I never t is

457
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: domestic violence. That's one thing that I will always look away.

458
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: I don't see how women really do it. I know

459
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: it's easier said than done, but I physically, physically or mentally,

460
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 1: I couldn't do it. Mental is worse, you know what

461
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Because it takes a person wave even longer,

462
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: you gonna have Stockholm syndrome. Like this is just okay,

463
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,880
Speaker 1: it's just normal living and this is just in my life.

464
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: And people get stuck. So you will never understand those

465
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: situations until you get in them. I would never the fuck,

466
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: if anything, I'm the abuser. Oh, I'll hit you. I

467
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: think I'm not gonna like a physical fight. I'm probably

468
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: gonna lose a little rat poison. I don't know. I

469
00:28:56,480 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 1: have to come out with you to cook me up.

470
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 1: So hey, look, let me tell you the only reason

471
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 1: why I went and killing niggas because it's tough getting

472
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: rid of a body. That's it. That's the only reason why. Yes, Like,

473
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 1: what are you gonna do? You're gonna be in Nick

474
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,719
Speaker 1: cutting this heavy ass man up by yourself. Like now

475
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 1: I got to bring a dead body like how what

476
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 1: I'll call it all y'all. First of all, need to

477
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:28,239
Speaker 1: be like y'all to help you mean, she didn't call

478
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 1: your mom and your sisters up? Yeah, I just could

479
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: not take it no more that I just read that

480
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 1: better be there for me, y'all read about that. I

481
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 1: will come. I will put money on your books. Y'all

482
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: read about that woman that killed her husband with a

483
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: pot of boiling because she and I said, free that

484
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 1: woman her whole hero. Listen, nicker, you better call your

485
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 1: mom and your sister nickers. My mom will be there now.

486
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: Mom gonna be there, but don't be there for sure?

487
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 1: If I don't know how, how would? Why are we

488
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 1: talking about discarding the body? What we want? We definitely?

489
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: I have a question for y'all, how okay. I had

490
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: a conversation with the guy and I was like, what

491
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 1: is your expectations when you are in relationship and with sex?

492
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: How many times do you expect to have sex throughout

493
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 1: the week? What the minimum? And what do you say?

494
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 1: He said? Once a day is a minimum I deserve?

495
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: Like that's what unless you're on your you know here

496
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: you go once every day? That ain't so? First of all,

497
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: I like the reaction my pussy because I feel like,

498
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: if you're giving it to him too much, you got

499
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: to work towards. Huh what does he have to work towards? Right?

500
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: I like that. That's what's a day is a lot,

501
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: Like we're in a commit relationship. I'm only with you,

502
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 1: only with me, Like if we funking every day, we're

503
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: not gonna be with only each other. After some time,

504
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: it's gonna be bored. I would I would get bored. Yeah,

505
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,719
Speaker 1: same old stroke every day, every day. Do you think

506
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: that's sex? I think variety. I think they like new pussy.

507
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 1: And that's one of the things that the nigger should

508
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 1: have said on that list, Like men do like variety

509
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: and it, but they also above a variety, they like

510
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 1: new pussy, Like you're the same old steak dinner. We

511
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: said that, damn the same way about though, That's what

512
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like we do too, But don't mean I'm

513
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: going to step out on your score, right you know Whoever,

514
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: women have a little bit more discernment when it comes

515
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: to that type of ship, Like, yeah, I might be

516
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: sick of it, but you don't really have to really

517
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: do some ship. Women need a reason men need the

518
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: time and a place for the most part man, so

519
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: women do too. But a woman that's happy in her

520
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: relationship is not about to just go out and smash

521
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 1: somebody else unless that's something that you know your made

522
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: have going on, Like y'all communicate that I have phone

523
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 1: sex with you or something like that. But I'm not

524
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 1: about to be going out and smashing nobody. I'm happy with,

525
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 1: you know, my relationship. And I think sometimes I think

526
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: sometimes men like if they're used to having capping whatever,

527
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: because I don't mention vaciations with their home girls and

528
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: get fuck because no, n I feel like women, I

529
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 1: mean and men ship, they're gonna step out at some point. Na,

530
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: I feel like, just switch it up a little bit.

531
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: I don't know that's right. Bring some type of toys,

532
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: all type of wing we watch. Then I have personally

533
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: never been in a situation where I've had other people

534
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 1: in my sexual life, but I'm open to it because

535
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: I know that it's something that I'm curious about personally.

536
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: And then also I know like men love that ship.

537
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: I like that I love that ship. Men love having

538
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 1: two women at the same time. Mostly y'all growing in

539
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 1: me seeing the two women period. That's good with nobody else,

540
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 1: y'all y'all grown, y'are too grown from me? Now what

541
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 1: y'all saying? Now, so y'all gotta have a nigked that

542
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 1: y'all could do three sins with. That's what you're saying.

543
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: I've never I'm not saying that. I'm saying I'm open

544
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: to more time out of the country in Jamaica. But

545
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: that's the thing. If you do it out the country,

546
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: how are you how how are you gonna do that

547
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,239
Speaker 1: because you don't what You're just gonna wear call them

548
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: with you and her because we're not just gonna be

549
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 1: out here messy. Yeah, no, I know. Like that's the thing.

550
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: That's where it gets tricky in my mind. I'm like, yeah,

551
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 1: that's how it works because I can't see myself sucking

552
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: any of my friends. Yeah, y'all nasty. I am so

553
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 1: child that when he got that. Y'all just too grown

554
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 1: from meat. Yeah, I'll funk all three y'all of it

555
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 1: right now. See this. Women have sex with women too,

556
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 1: Keep it fun, whatever it's fun. I just don't want

557
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,399
Speaker 1: to ever be in a relationship where we're just going

558
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 1: through emotions over and over it's a lot of relationships though.

559
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 1: That is especially marriage. That marriage. Yeah, it's sad. I

560
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 1: don't want to be there. No, I want to have fun.

561
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 1: We're having fun, so tam. So you're saying if it's

562
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 1: if it's too normal, you're gonna suck the relationship up.

563
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 1: And that's the biggest thing. I think it's fun when

564
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 1: you are able to have open communication about everything, like

565
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 1: if your man can come to you like babe, I'm

566
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,359
Speaker 1: bored and sex like I'm bored with you, I'm bored

567
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 1: with pussy everything like right. I think that's what we

568
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:58,359
Speaker 1: need to hear. Also, I think oftentimes the men step out.

569
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 1: They don't tell their woman what the problem is so

570
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 1: that she can correct it. They just go outside their relationship.

571
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 1: They go outside the relationship to complete their happiness instead

572
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 1: of talking to the person you with so that they

573
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 1: can have the opportunity to fix whatever it is. You

574
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, You just got that pussy and

575
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 1: he's been used to it. He's used to it. You

576
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: don't that's not fixable. But that's so you're saying, no

577
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: men can be um. You don't think any man could

578
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: be faithful. I don't I don't think any male really

579
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 1: wants just want one woman for their entire life. I

580
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 1: don't believe that. I don't agree with that. I think

581
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 1: there's somebody here that truly just are about one woman

582
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 1: for the rest, like after a certain phase in life,

583
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: like yo, I don't want nobody else. Be a mutual

584
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: agreement sometimes, but other than I believe that men and

585
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 1: like women, one woman for it's a mutual agreement and

586
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 1: it's not one woman, no more no. But I'm saying

587
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 1: there's times where it's like, okay, bab, let's make it excited.

588
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:58,879
Speaker 1: Let's do this, like like she said, if it's fun,

589
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:00,719
Speaker 1: it flows, and you know, you want to do something

590
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: that's like you know, yeah, but there's no longer one woman. Okay.

591
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: But as far as, like you said, stepping out on

592
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: the relationship, okay, So we're just saying in general, you

593
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 1: might want to bring somebody else in your relationship. Right.

594
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 1: So that's why I like a man to be experience.

595
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: I want you to have been with every woman possible.

596
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 1: I want you to have had your three sims. I

597
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 1: want you to have done all that stuff before you

598
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 1: even meet me, Like and if you're not, if you

599
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 1: feel like you are experienced everything, and we start talking,

600
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 1: let me know that, keep doing what you're doing. And

601
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 1: then look, but so you want a forty seven year

602
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 1: olds with I don't care how hold he is. So

603
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 1: that's why I put man. I should have been with

604
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: a good amount of women, really, So that's why I

605
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 1: put on my list were formed whole because I like

606
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: men who can get bitches, and I like a man

607
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: who knows how to fund me and can read my

608
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: body and that type of stuff. But yeah, I don't

609
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 1: want you to still be out head chase a pussy

610
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 1: because how you getting money and pussy at the same time.

611
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:03,439
Speaker 1: I just you're not. You're not. I was the one

612
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:07,959
Speaker 1: that I need to chase pu see with And look,

613
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 1: your man, it's gonna be hard for you because that's

614
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: every man's stream. Let's slow down together, baby, like with

615
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:29,280
Speaker 1: that mindset, because he's got me thinking about the Okay, okay, okay, girl,

616
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 1: by got it. This is don't pay me exactly because

617
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: we talked about it's for enter team of purposes only,

618
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:41,359
Speaker 1: especially when Tam talking bit the ship. I've been here

619
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: crying over there. I don't got no niggers, I don't

620
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 1: got no bitches. Girl. What you just don't follow me up? Y'all? Alright,

621
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: look so and that no, let's take a second Capades

622
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:08,400
Speaker 1: bills and we're back to you guys. And guess what.

623
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: We have a dumb bach story. Dumb bitch stories. So,

624
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 1: because we've all been a dumb bitch at least once

625
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: or twice, we have two dumb bitches on the show

626
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 1: with us today. And I like dumb bitches. In a

627
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: moment I listened, I shared my dumb bing stories. A

628
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: j has shared her dumb bing stories. Do y'all know

629
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: what it is? That's what I wanted to give me

630
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:37,319
Speaker 1: an example so I can kind of like a time

631
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: you got played a time where all right, let me

632
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,879
Speaker 1: give you an example with me. Is this guy I've

633
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: been dealing with and he went to prison. Yeah, he

634
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: was giving me a lot of money before he went

635
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 1: to prison. He can't. He went to jail, and I

636
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,399
Speaker 1: hadn't bossed up, so by the time he got home,

637
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 1: I had my own little bag. So I was living

638
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: in Europe a food back home when he got out

639
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: of jail, took him shop and bought him some shoes,

640
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 1: use and all that ship. And then I flew back

641
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 1: to Europe, And once I got off the flight, I

642
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,359
Speaker 1: checked Facebook and he was hugged up with a bit

643
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:10,720
Speaker 1: in the sneak because I bought him in a picture

644
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 1: on Facebook, and I was ready to get back on

645
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 1: the plane and come back to the United States. I

646
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 1: never played like that, not like you've been played in

647
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 1: a way before. Absolutely. My biggest thing is I've been ghosted.

648
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: So it's like, Okay, what was, what will happened? What happens?

649
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: How many times have you have you been like, um

650
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: ghosted habitually? I've been ghosted out of my years of

651
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: dating a lot um. I've been ghosted that actually hurt me,

652
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 1: probably three times that actually like And most of the

653
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 1: time it's because this man has a whole situation going on,

654
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:53,359
Speaker 1: and the feelings got strong, got caught up, and now

655
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, I gotta choose my girl over you.

656
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 1: You just somebody I'm just having sex with. You're not

657
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 1: nobody that I can really know or I can be

658
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: with because I got this going on, and so yeah,

659
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: I don't have anything, Like, I don't have anything exciting.

660
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 1: Do you like? She fail? I mean I wish I did.

661
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 1: I got stood up at a date. I don't have

662
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 1: no excess first of all. But no, um, you don't

663
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:24,320
Speaker 1: have no excess, no time to one and only. I

664
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: just don't clean nobody. Hey, look if if you ain't coming,

665
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: it ain't count. You know, we met when we were twenties,

666
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 1: so we've been in a relationship for a long time. Um,

667
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 1: I'm looking with a relationship almost seven years next month.

668
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 1: I can't wait for the wedding. You know what I

669
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:46,359
Speaker 1: was with my first boyfriend from I was seventeen years old,

670
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 1: and I didn't leave him alone till I was twenty

671
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,919
Speaker 1: seven years old. M and then I was a hole

672
00:40:53,000 --> 00:41:00,080
Speaker 1: for sho after turn on the lights, turn off the

673
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: lights on? It ain't funny for real. I had a

674
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 1: boyfriend in high school. Hey, he wan't really my boyfriend,

675
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: but he was my boyfriend for real. Um, and it

676
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 1: was like what junior senior year, I don't know. It

677
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: was embarrassing, But the whole time to this day, I

678
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: think he likes this girl, right, that was his best

679
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 1: friend at the time. He promised her that he would

680
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 1: take her to prom. So I had to go with

681
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 1: one of my friends boyfriends friends who I did not

682
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 1: know clearly, Yeah, I honestly have no idea. What his name?

683
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to this man. My man took another girl

684
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: from the same prom to the same prom. Oh that's

685
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 1: a listen. That is definitely an adolescent story. I look

686
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 1: after that. I was not playing with these niggas. I

687
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: don't you learn your lesson right there? What girl? And

688
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: then I did a tripper. I don't even know. I

689
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 1: don't even really remember the poem. I spoke too much

690
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 1: of my memory is coming. But oh yeah, that man

691
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 1: for sure. But um we went to the I had

692
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: a hotel room. Afterwards, they went to a party and

693
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 1: everything ch'all. And I was in there looking like a

694
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: dumb bit. So you are really good. He was in

695
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: the hotel about yourself. I had my friends, they're like

696
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 1: some of them and their man's and I told my

697
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 1: problem day to go to because I and then yeah,

698
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 1: so who was the prom this today? I have a story?

699
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: Mine was mine was I got played hard on this one.

700
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 1: Because he was a longtime friend. We went to college together.

701
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 1: Always been cool. We've you know, like, I went to

702
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:56,839
Speaker 1: him for advice, job opportunities, just a great resource as

703
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: a friend. We all went on to Miami for my

704
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 1: birthday last year. He was there for there for work

705
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:05,320
Speaker 1: and had like six girls with me, and he, you know,

706
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: saw all the girls I was hanging out with. And

707
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:11,439
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, I get a phone call,

708
00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:14,839
Speaker 1: maybe like later on two months after my birthday from

709
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 1: him saying, hey, you know, I don't know what's up

710
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 1: with your girl, but she's she's super whack. And I'm like,

711
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 1: where's this coming from? This is one the girl who

712
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 1: want to triple me. I'm like, where's this coming from?

713
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 1: What you're talking about? So I did, you know, found

714
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 1: out the story, you know, try to dig into us hee,

715
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 1: what's going on? And then when I confronted her, I

716
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:32,399
Speaker 1: was like, because I told her some personal stuff about

717
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 1: him because she knows my girls. So I told him like,

718
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:35,840
Speaker 1: you know, hey, he's got a kid, he takes care

719
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: of his kid. Nobody really knows he has a kid. Whatever,

720
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: But he took a personal because she confront of him

721
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 1: about it. But I was like, why would she confront

722
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 1: you about it? Where did this come from? And how

723
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,320
Speaker 1: did they know each other? They met my birthday and

724
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:50,760
Speaker 1: he followed all my friends after that after my birthday,

725
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:55,280
Speaker 1: So this guy made him been intimate again. We're good friends,

726
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 1: you know, and I sat down with my girl was like, yo,

727
00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 1: what's going on? This is what he's telling me. What happened?

728
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 1: So she pulls up her phone goes to I G

729
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: and this man going in, I want to fly you out,

730
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 1: take you shopping. I only want you. Me and me

731
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 1: and neck are nothing like we're just you know, we're

732
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 1: just cool. We're just cool. I was just intimate with

733
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,800
Speaker 1: him a month before my birthday, two weeks for my birthday,

734
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: and went in on all this stuff like I'll buy

735
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 1: whatever you want to buy, Like just going in. I'm

736
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 1: just like, this is one and this is one of

737
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 1: my friends. What's your friend? But look you see my

738
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 1: face and like see you on We on the same page. Listen.

739
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 1: So I compared her. I was like, why didn't you

740
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: tell me he was in your ends? She was ignoring

741
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: everything he was saying, but at the same time I

742
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 1: had to confirm her, like, YO, look, when any of

743
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,240
Speaker 1: my dudes, any of my name is coming in your dams,

744
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 1: come to you in a proper you come to me

745
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 1: immediately as a friend, You let me know immediately. And

746
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:55,279
Speaker 1: he of course, men're gonna lie. But I didn't think

747
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 1: because this is my homie for over ten plus years,

748
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 1: he's gonna lie to me like that, but he did.

749
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: But as my girl don't ever you know girl colde

750
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:07,759
Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah, because they have you looking at the

751
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 1: girls away. He came to you first about her because

752
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,800
Speaker 1: he thought it was okay. But wait, why did he

753
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 1: even think that was okay? And that's the thing, but

754
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 1: you know what's when men get money and they have

755
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 1: access to things, they feel like they can do whatever.

756
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: They have this ego about him that's just like you know,

757
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:28,880
Speaker 1: he felt like, oh I can get her and I

758
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 1: can still keep neck in my back pocket because you know,

759
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 1: I'm you know, like you've been the constant over the years.

760
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:36,799
Speaker 1: Yeah right, that's why you gotta do the same thing

761
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 1: on there as get money, get fine because look I'm

762
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 1: a blessing too, right No and me and it was

763
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:45,319
Speaker 1: just cool like he had a whole situation which just cool.

764
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 1: But it was this disrespect for me because the day

765
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: you could have just told me on me like what again,

766
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 1: the honesty, I'm digging your girls? I want her, can

767
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 1: I you know, can I get her number? More likely

768
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: I would have give her a number like what I

769
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 1: wounderstand you know what response about giving but he just

770
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:03,920
Speaker 1: took the right for me to even like present the situation.

771
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 1: She didn't want him, She definitely didn't want him, but

772
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 1: it was just like, dang, post me my homie, homie, Like,

773
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 1: there's not no dude, I'm just having sex with this

774
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 1: is like a friend, so a real friend, So yeah,

775
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 1: are you? I thought, at least that was heart breaking.

776
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna like that was a little hurtful girl. The

777
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 1: nigger and I don't know about your friend. Well she

778
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,919
Speaker 1: didn't wait how okay, wait wait wait? So you said

779
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 1: he was upset because you had told her stuff about him,

780
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 1: and she relaid the stuff back to him. So they

781
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 1: had to have had a conversation because she was getting

782
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:40,279
Speaker 1: tired of him contacting her, like he was going on

783
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 1: Instagram and she was just like, don't you have like

784
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 1: a biby mom? Why are you on my ship? That

785
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 1: was so okay, friend, you are right for friend, But

786
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 1: it was still I had to find out because I

787
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: had to set her down. It was never her coming

788
00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 1: to me like yo oh dudes and my d m

789
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: s and this was, um November, we don't even November.

790
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: All the way until January, there was constant communication between

791
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 1: them two, And I mean because I'm telling, telling, I'm

792
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:23,720
Speaker 1: telling if it was funny, I'm telling, I'm telling right away. Yeah, absolutely, dude,

793
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 1: is this your king? So what I'm hearing is Lexie

794
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 1: would like a man with good hair, and Nickel wants honesty. Money,

795
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 1: we want taking money now, we want money. We want

796
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 1: all want good sex and money. Everybody wants that look.

797
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 1: And if you don't eat this pussy, you don't like me,

798
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 1: Like you don't like me, You're not just to do

799
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,399
Speaker 1: your face, don't look like a hot Crispy kreem. Don't

800
00:47:56,440 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 1: know what you're doing because it ain't mean all right

801
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:08,399
Speaker 1: it looks So what I'm hearing is crazy. We ain't

802
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 1: no representations one in relationship. One has been single for

803
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:24,360
Speaker 1: years and you know, like like what we like? Alright,

804
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 1: So I'm on fact retriever dot Com trying to find

805
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 1: us a good random sex fact. It says couples usually

806
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 1: wait six to eight days before they're willing to enter

807
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:43,239
Speaker 1: into an exclusive relationship. What the fun Why don't you believe?

808
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 1: What's what's funny about? I mean, like, what's six or

809
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: eight dates? Dates? Yeah? To say that your elusive, that's

810
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: a lot, not not enough how many would you and

811
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 1: I have before? Y'all we probably were together for like

812
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: six months before we were exclusive. You had a conversation

813
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 1: and said we together. Young people do that, just like

814
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: younger people do that adults for something like I know

815
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 1: you said y'all man when you were twenty, right you

816
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 1: Now you could be thirty years old dating the man.

817
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 1: Like these guys don't want to sit down and kin

818
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:21,240
Speaker 1: up a conversation and say, hey, today we together going forward.

819
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 1: It doesn't happen like it happens when we're young, but

820
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 1: not as grown people. Everybody want to keep this little

821
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: like little gray area so that if they do funk up,

822
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: there's no accountability. It gets really messy. And accountability is

823
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 1: a huge one that is on my list too, Like you, okay,

824
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: you gotta be you gotta be accountable for your own actions.

825
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: Like and also the lack of communication. If you're not

826
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 1: talking to me every day, I don't feel like I'm

827
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:47,919
Speaker 1: important to you. I don't even need every day because

828
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: at least saying every day. But people act like when

829
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 1: you're talking to dating, somebody is supposed to text all day.

830
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 1: I'm not texting nobody all fucking day. I'm not talking

831
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 1: nobody all day, but I do expect good morning, have

832
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:00,840
Speaker 1: a great day, and I'm doing at least you have

833
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:06,400
Speaker 1: a good night. You know what I hate every day?

834
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 1: I ain't want to nigga. I ain't want a nigga

835
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:10,759
Speaker 1: text you good night, but you ain't talk to them

836
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: the whole day, Like what, I don't know anything that

837
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 1: you really don't like that's putting in all that effort

838
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:20,359
Speaker 1: and be like good morning, beautiful, good morning, this good

839
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 1: mor and that. Like now you're pissing me off. So

840
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:25,080
Speaker 1: do y'all let him, you know him into him? Like

841
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Speaker 1: after do you let a man know that you're not

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Speaker 1: into them as the first date? Oh? Yeah, I will,

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Speaker 1: but I wan't say. So what do you say? You're

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Speaker 1: just working on things in my life right now and

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Speaker 1: I just see you can't do that. Um. It probably

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Speaker 1: would be either I'm real direct because I really really

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Speaker 1: don't like you, or if I kind of like you

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Speaker 1: and I don't want to like maybe maybe save you

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Speaker 1: for later type ship. I might um give an excuse

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Speaker 1: like that, like oh I'm busy, or this week was crazy,

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Speaker 1: this and the third but that's that. That'd be the bullshit.

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Speaker 1: If you don't like somebody, you need to let them know.

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Speaker 1: I don't that part right. What you're gonna say, Hey,

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Speaker 1: I just really don't like how sharp your teeth are,

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Speaker 1: and I don't want to with you. No, you say, hey,

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Speaker 1: thank you for the date, but I don't feel like

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Speaker 1: we're compatible. We're compatible. My energy wasn't there tonight, or

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Speaker 1: I'm just not as attractive I thought I was gonna be. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that might hurt somebody's feelings, but I wish I don't

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Speaker 1: say ship like that. I'll just be like I put

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Speaker 1: it on me like I don't either. I go go.

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Speaker 1: That's a good way to do it to him. You

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Speaker 1: kind of put it on put it on you instead

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Speaker 1: of because then they get kind of like on a

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Speaker 1: defense kind of. Nobody likes rejection, but men especially do

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Speaker 1: not like to be rejected. No females do. We can

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Speaker 1: handle it better. We handle everything better, no more. I

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Speaker 1: think men can handle it. I think men can handle it,

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Speaker 1: just as the candle half the ship we can handle

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Speaker 1: Because I like nibe, you might be they can handle it.

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Speaker 1: Text me, he don't like me, Okay, I didn't know

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Speaker 1: you was gay. Okay, that parts is wrong with you.

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Speaker 1: That's a whole time to listen. We want to have

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Speaker 1: these lovely guests back on because even with this episode,

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Speaker 1: did we really well? Actually we gave three lists, didn't

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Speaker 1: we look? Oh yeah, in impossible impossible. Look guys, you'll

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Speaker 1: have a little bit of insight now into what women want.

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Speaker 1: So if you're that guy, hit nake up right, nicky,

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Speaker 1: you're looking. I'm not really looking for nothing. I'm looking

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Speaker 1: like I'm looking for my damn self right now. I

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Speaker 1: don't say I'm looking, but my options are open. My

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Speaker 1: doors are open. If you want to walk in and

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Speaker 1: talk to me, let's have a conversation. If you plug yourself,

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Speaker 1: go ahead and plug yourself naked. Oh I guess the

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Speaker 1: easiest way probably were I g So my Instagram is

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Speaker 1: Queen Underscore in in e k A oh yeah absolutely. So.

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Speaker 1: I do have an event Um company. We do events

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Speaker 1: in the city of Charlotte. Mostly is to bring back

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Speaker 1: business to restaurants, bars, lounges. Um. The hospitality industry took

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Speaker 1: a big hit during COVID, so we come in to

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Speaker 1: social events on their off nights. So usually it's going

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Speaker 1: to be an event during the week, but it's a

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Speaker 1: great diverse crowd. We have them once a month. Please

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Speaker 1: come through. Our next one is July at Nivole, a

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Speaker 1: rooftop in the Epicenter. It's gonna be super dope, great vibes,

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Speaker 1: sexy vibes and gonna be awesome. Um. Tickets are on sale.

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Speaker 1: We do have a website. Website is we are Hoco

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Speaker 1: ho c O dot com. But please register. I can't

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Speaker 1: wait to see all y'all there aj you should pull

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Speaker 1: up to. There's an Instagram as well. We do have Instagram.

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Speaker 1: It's Hospitality Coalition um so hoko. If you just type

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Speaker 1: that in Instagram you will see it and pop up.

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Speaker 1: But yes, we're doing something once a month, trying to

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Speaker 1: bring different vibes to the city. So maybe I appreciate.

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Speaker 1: I'm that the last one. I'm the next one, the

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Speaker 1: one after that. We out there yourself. Okay, it's Lexi

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Speaker 1: Johnson on Instagram at x i I Johnson. You know,

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Speaker 1: probably won't be at for too long, it won't. She

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Speaker 1: got her list girl. And then if you guys want

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Speaker 1: to follow, um, we just started party throwing parties and

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Speaker 1: you know, party promoting and stuff. It's one seventies six

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Speaker 1: marketing Underscore Group. Right now, we're doing parties in Columbia,

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Speaker 1: but we're gonna bring them into Charlotte Metro, you know,

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Speaker 1: colap Day. It's a whole lot of things on ICE

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Speaker 1: right now. Let's so what we are here working, y'all.

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Speaker 1: So look, if you enjoyed this episode, tune in every

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Speaker 1: Thursday on the I Heart Radio app or wherever the

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Speaker 1: fuck you get your podcast that and follow us also

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Speaker 1: Following me to you guys, artificial Tam bam. I don't

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Speaker 1: have no news, oh but my birthday Friday, and I'm

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Speaker 1: posting some new picks on we out here, all right,