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Speaker 2: It's the Fredshell. Hey Pete, good morning, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: How are you, Hey, good morning. I'm all right.

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Speaker 1: So Pete, tell us what's going on with this woman, Brinn?

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Speaker 1: How did you meet? We got to know about any

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Speaker 3: Okay, So we met at we were watching the playoffs.

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Speaker 3: We're at a bar. The playoffs were on. I was

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Speaker 3: watching the game and she seemed pretty great.

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Speaker 2: We hit it off.

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Speaker 3: I got her number, and we plan to go out again,

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Speaker 3: not football oriented, and grab some drinks and dinner a

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Speaker 3: just hit it off, like I don't know what happened,

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Speaker 3: because afterwards, she just starts acting a little off and

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Speaker 3: she's not really in a rush to go out another date.

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Speaker 3: And I thought we were connecting.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, we.

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Speaker 3: Could talk about all these other things, and then she

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Speaker 3: help me figure out why.

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Speaker 1: I do love a a meeting in the wild situation.

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Speaker 1: You know, we don't hear about a lot of those

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Speaker 1: I feel like all of these start on an app,

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Speaker 1: which is how everybody meets. I got that, But like

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Speaker 1: Does the person look the same We've obviously heard that

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Speaker 1: one before. They don't look the same as their pictures

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Speaker 1: if that works, then you're off to a better start.

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Speaker 2: But in this case, you're saying.

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Speaker 1: You did actually hang out separately, and now she's not

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Speaker 1: calling you exactly.

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Speaker 3: Like it's we got to know each other.

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Speaker 2: We were laughing, Like.

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Speaker 3: I think laughter's great. On a day you realize like,

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Speaker 3: oh I can connect with this person, and I just

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Speaker 3: I The silence afterwards is also like did I do something?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm okay if I did.

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Speaker 3: But I just want to know what I was so

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Do it again.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, Well, I get it, Pete. It's not like

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Speaker 2: a nice guy.

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Speaker 1: Let's call this woman Brin in just a second, Well,

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Speaker 1: play song will come back.

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Speaker 2: You'll be on the phone.

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Speaker 1: I don't want you to say anything right at first,

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Speaker 1: but at some point you're welcome to jumping on the call,

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Speaker 1: and the hope, as always is that we can straighten

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Speaker 1: this out and then set you up on another date

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Speaker 1: that we pay for.

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Speaker 3: Sound good, awesome, thank you, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Let's see what's going on Part two of Waiting by

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Speaker 1: the Phone. All shall be revealed next after Sabrina Carpenter

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Speaker 1: back in two minutes on The Fred Show, Nick Carpenter,

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Speaker 1: It's the frend Show. Good morning, twelve hundred bucks with

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Speaker 1: show vice Shelley in the showdown five pop culture questions

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Speaker 1: you can win in ten minutes the Entertainment Report right

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Speaker 1: before that, Hey Pete, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's

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Speaker 1: call it Brin. You actually met out in person. You

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Speaker 1: were watching football games, you got her number. You guys

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Speaker 1: went on a date. The date went well, but you've

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Speaker 1: and you want to know why.

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Speaker 3: That's exactly exactly it.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call it Brinn right now. Good luck, man. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: is this Brin? This is brid Hey brand Good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,

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Speaker 1: the Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you

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Speaker 1: do need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Can which have for just a second, would you mind?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Thank you very much for calling on behalf of

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Speaker 1: a guy named Pete. I guess you guys met in

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Speaker 2: Do you recall Pete?

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Speaker 4: I recall a Pete, but but.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't a date. Well, what do you mean? Because

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Speaker 2: he we just talked to this guy Pete.

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Speaker 1: He says he met you at a bar, you were

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Speaker 1: watching football, and then he asked you on a date.

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Speaker 2: And then he says you went on a date.

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Speaker 4: And so now thought, I want to hang out, like,

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Speaker 2: Sounds like a date, bough like dinner drinks possible?

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 4: Because because Pete's a guy and I've been a lesbian

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Speaker 4: for as long as I can remember.

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Speaker 2: Oh minor detail that.

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Speaker 1: Is a twist in the story that I did not seek.

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Speaker 1: Is Pete aware of your interests?

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Speaker 2: I mean, we didn't.

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Speaker 4: Talk about that kind of thing. I just I don't

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Speaker 1: So this dude approaches you asked what he thought he

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Speaker 1: You don't have to like qualify anything. Like, you know,

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Speaker 1: someone can ask you to hang out and that doesn't

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Speaker 1: that was a date, right, Well, that.

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Speaker 4: Doesn't happened that often. I guess.

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Speaker 1: Oh am, I the first to tell you that.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she does. Hold it? Where you been?

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Speaker 3: Mean?

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Speaker 2: We were wearing the same shoes?

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Speaker 1: Oh well, in that case, Gay both we like Birkenstocks.

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Speaker 1: What what was the dead giveaway there? I don't understand

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Speaker 1: bred what kind of shoes were we both wearing?

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Speaker 2: Steal to boy?

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Speaker 1: I guess honestly, I don't. I don't know that the

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Speaker 1: Gotten the look book on that yet? But what what

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Speaker 2: Brinn? That would have given it all the way?

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Speaker 4: They were definitely Nikeys from the men's section.

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Speaker 1: The women in his room Nikes from the men's section.

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Speaker 1: So I don't, okay, Peter, are you okay over there?

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Speaker 1: Because you're not saying much. You seem a little stunned, like,

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Speaker 3: Honestly take it's I mean, it makes so much sense now.

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Speaker 2: But I can't believe.

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Speaker 3: I called this in and now everybody gets to hear it.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, don't worry about that. Is this is the

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Speaker 1: lot of really bad stuff. What do you want to say, brins?

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Speaker 4: Oh, I just say you have my number if you

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Speaker 2: Oh wait a minute, how about that?

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Speaker 1: Like I don't think that's ever happened before, where people

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I might. I might need some time

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Speaker 3: just so every time I see you, I don't think

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Speaker 2: Eventually, you didn't know, you didn't know you got your

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Speaker 1: Hit me up.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 1: If you guys want to go on again, let me know.

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for that. You guys can go a little

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Speaker 4: Not the lesbian screening questions.

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Speaker 1: Well, we were trying to this would have avoided this situation.

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Speaker 2: Needs something, something needs to happen. Go to the next situation.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I guess my point is I feel like Pete

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Speaker 1: I think you've been very cool about this, and Pete,

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Speaker 1: and we'll pay for the date.

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Speaker 2: Or not date.

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for the outing, right, the activity or whatever.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Oh my god, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Just suggesting things that friends do.

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Speaker 2: They're bros. They're bros. What watching sports when they.

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Speaker 1: Met women who like men watch sports. I don't think

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Speaker 1: that's the giveaway. I'm just saying you like sports, and.

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Speaker 2: You're very very strange, I.

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Speaker 1: Might say, very very straight sports guys for her, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've seen her shoes. You guys, thank you for being

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Speaker 1: good sports and I'm glad we got this straighten down.

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Speaker 2: Good luck to both of you.

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