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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Brayden is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Lizzie. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call her and see if she

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Speaker 2: tells why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a

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Speaker 2: second date. But first, Braiden, how long has it been

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Speaker 2: since you heard from Lizzie?

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Speaker 3: Hey? So, I feel like it's been h five days?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, how many times have you reached out in

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Speaker 1: five days? A couple of times and nothing?

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Speaker 3: Nothing, no, no response, no no, like you know, DoD

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Speaker 3: like you know the text like no, nothing like that.

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Speaker 1: Just wow? Okay, So why do you think you want

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Speaker 1: to get a hold of her so bad? Was the

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Speaker 1: date great?

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Speaker 3: I mean yeah, I thought so. We went to this

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Speaker 3: roofsop wine bar downtown with a great view, you know,

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Speaker 3: see the whole city skyline lit up in light breathe.

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Speaker 3: She told me she was an amazing teacher, and I knew

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Speaker 3: she loves Taylor Swift, so I thought I'd be smooth

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Speaker 3: and drop the little tailor lyric in there. Like I said,

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Speaker 3: I don't know about you, but I was feeling in

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Speaker 3: twenty two.

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Speaker 1: Ye like that.

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Speaker 3: She laughed like smiled, but I thought I nailed it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah after that, like you just just I thought like

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Speaker 3: it clicked. Weird extra affection and the hands, light touches

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Speaker 3: on the back, rushing the legs under the table. It was,

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Speaker 3: you know, it was super sensual but still innocent, you know,

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Speaker 3: like in its own way. She's only physical touches one

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Speaker 3: of her loving which is so I leaned in on that.

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Speaker 3: It felts electic.

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Speaker 4: Okay, was she leaning into the physical touch as well

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Speaker 4: or she was just receiving.

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Speaker 3: It's so like she was leaning in too, Like she

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Speaker 3: made me feel out of ease, Like I've been on

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Speaker 3: dates where I feel like I'm no one performing, But

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Speaker 3: with Wizzy, it was like we were in our own bubble.

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Speaker 3: She's beautiful, Like I at a moment where I was like, okay,

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Speaker 3: you know this is someone I could see myself with.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, how did the day end between the two

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Speaker 1: of you.

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Speaker 3: Was a moment when we were sitting close holding hands

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Speaker 3: and I went to reach for her hand under the table,

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Speaker 3: but I, let's say I miscalculated and I grabbed between

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Speaker 3: her legs.

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Speaker 1: That could be an issue. Yeah, I know, I'm laughing.

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Speaker 4: It's kind of funny but alarming as well.

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Speaker 3: I felt awful. She joked me, She's like, what are

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Speaker 3: you doing? And I was like I immediately like go,

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Speaker 3: I'm said I'm sorry, like ten times with an accident,

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Speaker 3: and I told her it was an accident. I recovered.

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Speaker 3: But maybe she thinks I was trying to get fresh,

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Speaker 3: like way too soon. I swear it was so yeah,

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Speaker 3: I felt awful. It was not so great ending to

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Speaker 3: a great date.

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Speaker 1: So it ended with the grab.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's probably the reason she's ghosting you for.

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Speaker 1: It ended after that. Think what did she say?

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Speaker 3: She she was like, it's fine, it's fine, and then

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Speaker 3: come on. Then it just kind of ended.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, Braiden, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: You know, honestly, like one of the text way center,

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Speaker 3: I dropped like a mother Taylors slipper up and so

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Speaker 3: like it's me, Hi, I'm the problem. It's me.

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Speaker 1: So okay and nothing nothing, not even ha ha. Man. Well,

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Speaker 1: we'll see if we can figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song and come back and then call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, we'll get your first day follow up next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first date follow up

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Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us, Braiden is on the phone,

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Speaker 2: and Braiden is getting ghosted by Lizzie. So we're gonna

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Speaker 2: call her in a second and see if she'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a

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Speaker 2: second date. But first, Braiden, why don't you break down

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Speaker 2: your situation and what happened on your date again real quick?

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Speaker 3: Well, we, like I said, we went to this rooftop

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Speaker 3: wine bar downtown. We were getting along really well. We

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Speaker 3: were both you know, extra like I said, extra affectionate

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Speaker 3: with each other's physical touch. It was like a love language.

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Speaker 3: But then I accidentally like reached for an area that's

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Speaker 3: what wasn't supposed to and she didn't like that, and

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Speaker 3: I was like, really sorry, I do not need to

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Speaker 3: do that at all. Then after that, you know, just

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Speaker 3: the passion kind of fizzles towards the end. But I

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Speaker 3: just thought a great time before them connected with her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want that to be the reason everything

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Speaker 1: before that goes away?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I'm ready all right, here we go. Hi, I am hi,

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Speaker 1: mean aspecause Lizzie.

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Speaker 5: Please, Hey, this is Lizzie.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Lizzie, how are you. This is a radio show

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Speaker 4: and it's called the Jubile Show. Hi, Lizzie Amina, Hi

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Speaker 4: in Victoria and my name is Jubell.

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Wow?

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Speaker 1: Okay, yes, yeah before Oh sweet?

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Speaker 4: Hey?

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Speaker 1: So what's up? How are you doing? Doing good?

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Speaker 4: Cool?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: So I imagine you're you're calling because I'm ghosting Braiden. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 6: and I imagine Braiden is on the phone and you're

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Speaker 6: going to hear what I have to say.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, you really know what's going on?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Cool?

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Speaker 5: Can we hold off on letting him join?

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Speaker 6: I just kind of want to give you my sure.

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Speaker 1: First follow?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why are you coasting him?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 5: We had a very sweet day. It's fun.

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Speaker 1: It was.

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Speaker 6: It was like it really couldn't have been more perfect

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Speaker 6: up until you kind of red flags popped up. He

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Speaker 6: just kept saying that he was looking for the Taylor

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Speaker 6: to his Travis, which seems cute at first, but it

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Speaker 6: really in the entire conversation the entire day.

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Speaker 2: It took over Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey references or

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Speaker 2: you guys are talking about them getting engaged the whole time.

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Speaker 6: No, it was the references, Like he knew so much

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Speaker 6: about Travis, about the super Bowl championship, about what had

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Speaker 6: a leader he is, and then he was basically saying

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Speaker 6: that since I'm a music teacher, it's like I'm halfway

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Speaker 6: there to being his Taylor, Like.

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Speaker 4: Okay, cute is the athletic like Travis.

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Speaker 6: I mean, he was very good looking guy, but it

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Speaker 6: was just way too much and I just don't want

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Speaker 6: to be a part of some sort of like made

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Speaker 6: up plan in his mind of some power couple. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: like even when I walked in, he made a reference

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Speaker 6: to a song like, oh, I'm your trouble when you

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Speaker 6: walked in, and even like you know we're on the rooftop.

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Speaker 6: He thought it was like a special moment to say

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Speaker 5: I'm feeling twenty two.

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Speaker 1: References. Well, he said, you liked Taylor Swift. Do you

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Speaker 1: like Taylor Swift?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I think who doesn't like Taylor Swift.

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Speaker 6: I mean it's exciting to think about like a partner

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Speaker 5: Listen to music with me and things like that.

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Speaker 6: But this can't be all that we talk about, and

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Speaker 6: it was just too much.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you for telling us.

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Speaker 5: So you're gonna bring him on now?

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Speaker 1: Huh yeah on the phone. I want to talk to

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Speaker 1: you or should we call him trout? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I was.

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Was he hear me? All right? This was all meant

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Speaker 3: to be romantic, like we could have business, a great

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Speaker 3: team like NFL Star and Granny Win our energy, like

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Speaker 3: you got a dream big.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Brighten, I teach middle school choir. I'm not like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well you know what every superstar starts in middle

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Speaker 3: school choir. Taylor probably saying hot cross buns once, too cool?

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, that's about helping your case, Brandon.

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Speaker 5: I think you have this idea in your mind.

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Speaker 3: Look, I mean, Lizzie, I don't want any you know,

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Speaker 3: bad love between us. I just feel like I'm just

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Speaker 3: with your similarities with Taylor and my similarity to TRAVI

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Speaker 3: is I was just that's just kind of how I

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Speaker 6: Ran. I don't really know how to say this nicely,

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Speaker 6: but I think It's great that you are so into

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Speaker 6: Taylor and you're so into Travis and we have that

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Speaker 6: in common, but the level of the level of love

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Speaker 6: you have for them, like, I'm not there, It's just

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Speaker 6: not where I'm at.

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Speaker 5: And Brandon, what's in a you have to Travis exactly

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Speaker 5: that I miss?

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Speaker 7: Like, with all due respect, Well, the thing is okay,

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Speaker 7: maybe aside from the fact that I play a little

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Speaker 7: pretty good shape. But also, have you seen how much

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Speaker 7: Travis loves Taylor like he adores her? And I feel

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Speaker 7: that energy when I love I love heart.

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Speaker 8: That.

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Speaker 6: Wow. Okay, Brandon, I don't really know how to move

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Speaker 6: on from this conversation. It's just way over my head

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Speaker 3: Well, continue is like, I don't think you should run

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Speaker 3: for love, like I really believe in it. I really

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Speaker 3: believe in staying there. I don't think I'm just a

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Speaker 3: big believer of that, you know, like Travis Kelsey.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I love loves too. But this is

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Speaker 5: just not I don't know a nice way to put this,

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Speaker 5: but Brandon, this is weird. This is very very weird.

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Speaker 5: And somebody else might naturally weird, but I'm not.

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Speaker 3: I'm not matching you weird. That's okay, I mean that's as.

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Speaker 5: I'll be.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, let's make sure on something here, Lizzie, would

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Speaker 2: you like to go on another day with Brandon?

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Speaker 1: Will pay for it?

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Speaker 5: No? No, thank you for offering to cover the next date, Brian, Listen,

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Speaker 5: I'm really sorry, and I'm sure there's somebody out there

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Speaker 5: that would be a really good match for you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I'm sure I'll find my tailor someday.

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Speaker 8: Idea, when I'm in a luxury suite with my future

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Speaker 8: tailor at the next tour, the next errors tour, just

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Speaker 8: know that it'll be you. I'm waving at at the

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Speaker 8: jumbo Tron and now I'm just like, wow, love.

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Speaker 3: You.

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Speaker 5: Wile's First Date follow up