1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: All right, it is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: or more, please submit your Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 4 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 1: FM dot com. All you have to do is click 5 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live 6 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're gonna read this one 7 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: right here, right now, and you never know it could 8 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: be yours. Yeah, this one right here, this one right here. 9 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for 10 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Thank enough you subject. 11 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 1: Can I change his mindset? Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been 12 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: dating a man for six years and we live with 13 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:40,239 Speaker 1: his parents in a two bedroom house. We had to 14 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 1: move in with them in twenty twenty after he lost 15 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: his job. I don't have any family in this town, 16 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: so I agreed to stay there temporarily. But he just 17 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: started working four months ago. He couldn't find a job 18 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: in his field for a long time, so I was 19 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: relieved when he started working full time because I thought 20 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: he would finally get our own place. Their house is 21 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: small and our bedroom is directly across from his parents' bedroom. 22 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 1: His mom uses the dining chair as the dining room, 23 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 1: excuse me as her sewing room, and that's where she 24 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: smokes her cigarettes, and you can smell the smoke all 25 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:19,839 Speaker 1: over the house. It's a madhouse. They're in their room 26 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: having sex and we're in our room having sex in 27 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: our full sized bed. There is one bathroom and the 28 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 1: shower does not work, so we all have to take baths. 29 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: This is sheer torture for me, but I love this man. 30 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 1: I often ask myself, why do I put up with this. 31 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 1: I'm twenty nine and can do better. I can find 32 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: a man with his own place, a great job, and 33 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: sane parents. I have invested six years into this and 34 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: I want him to stop being complacent and get us 35 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: out of here. He's happy with the home cooked meals, 36 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: watching movies with his parents, holidays with them, etc. But 37 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: I want out. My mother came to visit me and 38 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: got a hotel room. I stayed with her for two nights, 39 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: and it was nice to take a shower, have a 40 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: bed to myself, and not have to talk to his mother. 41 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 1: My mother told me to be patient with him and 42 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: things will work out. Should I move out and break 43 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: up with him, or should I follow my mother's advice. 44 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 1: Can I change his mindset? Or is he too far gone? 45 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: Please advise you guys have been living with his parents 46 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 1: long enough, and do you want to die from secondhand smoke? 47 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: I mean, really, that's kind of what this is coming 48 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: down to. There's so many things wrong with this letter 49 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: that we don't really have the time to go into it. 50 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: We really really don't. The thing about it is is 51 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:49,399 Speaker 1: I don't know why you have him. Figured this out 52 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 1: on your own. You can't continue to stay here. This 53 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: was supposed to be a temporary situation until he got 54 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: a new job. Thank god he's working again. Now after 55 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: six years with him, you're going backwards. He's becoming very comfortable, 56 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: too comfortable with mom and dad watching movies and the 57 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: home cooked meals and all that. You've been with him 58 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: six years. He hasn't even proposed to you, and you 59 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: know you can't change him. You can't change his mindset. 60 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:17,959 Speaker 1: He'll only change if he wants to change for you, 61 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: and so far that hasn't happened. When I finished reading 62 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: this letter, initially I had to go back up to 63 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: the top line because I wanted to make sure you 64 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: said that you know you were not married and you 65 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: were just dating him. You're just dating him. You've just 66 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: been dating him for six years. Any plans for the future, 67 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: do you guys talk about it? Are you just content 68 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: being with him for another ten years? Six years? I 69 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: think you should get your own apartment by yourself. Let 70 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: him stay with his parents, since he's loving it there 71 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 1: so much. If there's any hope of you, guys ever 72 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: being together, you being gone should help him make up 73 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: his mind. If this is not what you want, why 74 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: are you putting up with it? You even ask yourself 75 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: that again, you need to find an apartment and move 76 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 1: out today, Tommy, what you got? Can I change his mindset? 77 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: That's the question? Now? My pruestion to you is the 78 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: problem is change your own mindset? That seemed to be 79 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: the problem. Do you worry about his mindset? I'm worried. 80 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 1: I'm concerned with your mindset because you're the one and 81 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: set your man on doing this, this, this and that 82 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,039 Speaker 1: and here's what I what I really don't like that 83 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: I'm here? What I'm not here? Where is your job? 84 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: Why are you not working? Why are you not taking 85 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: care of at least yourself? And so you dependent on him? 86 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 1: Now you're up in his ragged ass house with his 87 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: mom and his dad all this this, this got to 88 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 1: be the worst sex in the world across the hall 89 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,479 Speaker 1: from somebody to mom and dadd and this got to 90 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: be straight ignorant. Okay, that's who want to do that? 91 00:04:53,640 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 1: I can't. I can't hill Mama, that's my mama over 92 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: the hall like that. I can't. I'm sorry, I just 93 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 1: can't hand that kind of set my MoMA over that 94 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: highland while I mean you over here highland. That just 95 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:10,280 Speaker 1: don't work for me. Let's change your mindset. So basically, 96 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 1: you went about your relationship completely wrong. You moved in 97 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 1: and moved in with him, all right, that didn't work, 98 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: so y'all lost efferything. Now you didn't moved in with 99 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: him and his mom, y'all not married. Everything you've done 100 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 1: is completely out of order. So you need to get 101 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: yourself together, won't you get you like Shirley saying, get 102 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 1: your own apartment. But let's get you a job. I 103 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: don't hear that you have a job. You need a job. 104 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: Get you a job so you can take care of you. 105 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: You twenty something years old, so anybody in there twenties. 106 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 1: I'm big on this be able to take care of 107 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 1: yourself first. Then we can figure out what we're doing 108 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 1: and how we move forward. But right now I'm dealing 109 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: with your mindset. I think it's your mind that we 110 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 1: need to be talking about. If he is who the 111 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: way he is, and he's like the way he is, 112 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: so be it. Get your mindset together, and then you'll 113 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: find you a man that's good and got the mindset 114 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 1: that you want in the head. That's right, that's right. 115 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 1: Why are we all always trying to change these men? 116 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 1: Why are we doing it? It's not gonna happen. They 117 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: do it on their own. Six years. Oh here and 118 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: mama holla and go at it with daddy, and then 119 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,039 Speaker 1: mama now smoking and making clue? What kind of closes you? 120 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: What did you sew in? What is you making in 121 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: this damn room? And everything you make it? This? I 122 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 1: made you a jumpsuit. Don't damn thing smell like bench 123 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 1: in the head mentor like one hundred in the soft back? 124 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: I don't want that. That's a soft back. All right? 125 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 1: All right, hold on, we're gonna hear from Junior coming 126 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 1: up with part two of the Strawberry Letter for Today 127 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject is 128 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: can I change his mindsets? Well, get back, mama, daddy, 129 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: what you're listening to? Morning show? All right, we gotta 130 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 1: recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is can I change 131 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: his mindset? Twenty nine year old woman wrote this letter. 132 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: She is in a relationship with a man that she's 133 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 1: been dating. They've been together for six years. He lost 134 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: his job. They had to move in with his parents 135 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: in their two bedroom house. This happened back in twenty twenty. 136 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: Her boyfriend lost his job. He's back working now, so 137 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: she's thinking that, you know, since he's back working, they're 138 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: getting ready to move out and moving to their own place. 139 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: Not the situation. Not the case here at all. The 140 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: boyfriend is loving living with his parents. Why because he's 141 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: getting home cooked meals, he gets to watch movies with 142 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 1: his parents. It's been holidays with them. But she wants out. 143 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: She's depending on this man to get them a house, 144 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: to move them out, to do all these things. They 145 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 1: live in this house. The shower is broken in the bathroom. 146 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: They have one bathroom. They all have to take baths 147 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 1: and this one bath The mom is a seamstress. She 148 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: sews in the dining room. She smokes all over the house. 149 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 1: It's just a mess. She's miserable in this place. But 150 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 1: she's looking to her man, trying to change his mind 151 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: to get him out of there, and that's not happening. 152 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 1: She says she can do better, but she's not. That's 153 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: basically the gist of the letter. Her mom came to 154 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 1: visit her. She stayed with her mom in a hotel, 155 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: got her own shower, her own bed. She liked that, 156 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: but her mother told her not to break up with 157 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: the man and to give it a little more time, 158 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 1: be patient, and things will work out. What she wants 159 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 1: to know is can she change his mindset or is 160 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: he too far gone? Junior? What say you? What you got? Junior? 161 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 1: I've I've seen these houses with these two bedrooms one bathroom. 162 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:45,079 Speaker 1: I know what this house set up looks like. I've 163 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 1: been in there. I know what this is. First of all, yea, 164 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: they have a sex and they house. That's fine. But 165 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: the problem I see how you lady took a shower 166 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 1: in over two years, so your crazy look sitting your 167 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: ass and that little last time up in that bathroom 168 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: with your knees in your chests, trying to wipe yourself 169 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 1: down this. Look ah, y'all in hill bathing. I know 170 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: what this looks like. You ain't here crying because you 171 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 1: know that shower head is rusted and it ain't working. 172 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: I know you tired of this. You gotta be tired 173 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: of a lot of things, changing mindset. You need to 174 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 1: change locations. It's what you don't care what you need 175 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: to do. If you get you a better man with 176 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: his own place, go out there and get him because 177 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:28,599 Speaker 1: you don't have to hit this. Aren't you tired of 178 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: these old lass conversations with his mama without a cigarette, 179 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: hanging out on I know, sitting that there man about this? 180 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: You know when I when I first met Cldis Johnson, 181 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 1: it was nineteen forty five. Yeah, you gotta be tired 182 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: of these old lass conversations. Do you just stat that 183 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:47,079 Speaker 1: window that's over that kitchen's sake and just hold for 184 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:50,199 Speaker 1: a better future with that curtain? Rod all? It ain't 185 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 1: you tired of looking up there on that wall and 186 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: saying King and Kennedy just hanging up there because you 187 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 1: wouldn't the little lass house. I know you got to 188 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,079 Speaker 1: be tired of this. How many times you watching the 189 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 1: times and you living in good time? How is watching 190 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 1: this as doing them? How is you doing this? How 191 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: is you in here with his parents? How long is 192 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 1: you what sitting there with his mama watching the lady 193 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:18,839 Speaker 1: sings the blue, watching the ladies sings the blue with 194 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 1: him MoMA and daddy and they just rubbing their feet 195 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: together on the end of that cow. And these cigarettes 196 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 1: won't stop. Ain't you tiling that that ass tray with 197 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 1: twenty two butts in it? Just sitting up there on 198 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 1: the town. You got to be tired of this? Can 199 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 1: you change your location? It's what I'm saying. Can you 200 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 1: just change your location? Do you have any money for 201 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: a studio with a working shower? Just a studio? Just see? 202 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: Can you just give it a Stadi even heard the 203 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: word ass tray as the scene one. But she's slowing 204 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,439 Speaker 1: and stacking them up, and then they got the nerve 205 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: to be over there, just cross the hall, giving it all, 206 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:02,320 Speaker 1: give it all across the hall, and you just got 207 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 1: the dirt. You couldn't touch me, So we're across the hall, 208 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 1: having six You couldn't touch me in this house. Ain't 209 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 1: you tired of that quilp that she saw that you 210 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 1: sleep on. Yeah, that quill that you're sleeping though. You 211 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 1: got to be tired of that quill. No change that 212 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:22,839 Speaker 1: stuff like smoke like tim and said everything she's sawing 213 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: smell like smoke. You gotta be tired of talking to 214 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 1: the postman every day because they're coming right up to 215 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 1: the bell box and you're everybody saying, how you doing? 216 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: Mister Williams? You know, you know, mister Williams, why don't 217 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 1: you just get out here? Forget mindset, change your location shirt? 218 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: That's all I got. Fuck, you ain't got to take this. 219 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 1: I didn't like my mama the town every weekend so 220 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 1: I could shower shout. But you know what, you know 221 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 1: what Mama told her to stay and ride something. What's 222 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:56,719 Speaker 1: so crazy about this? Ain't you tired of pulling them 223 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: tied out? That cat in that bathroom with them broken 224 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: shad and the dish rag you bathing with? How do this? 225 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: How could you do that? All the holes in the rag, 226 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 1: the tiles got rag. You ought to be tiling at 227 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:11,719 Speaker 1: the hot water about on the back of that dough 228 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 1: and that bad y'all tiling. That moon moves, the moon 229 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 1: moving everywhere every day. She got a brand new moon moved. 230 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: You ought to be tired of seeing this. No, just 231 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 1: don't make no sense. I can't do this. No, don't 232 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: call it asks us. You're too grown. You're twenty nine, 233 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: twenty people using one toilet. People go, oh man, I 234 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 1: know walked everybody. Don't lock that doing that bath room. 235 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:38,599 Speaker 1: I know you just walked in and then seeing this. 236 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 1: Mama was sitting on that toilet. I know you're just 237 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 1: seeing that. I know what you need. Now, baby girl, don't, 238 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: baby girl me put your clothes off. She's she's twenty 239 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 1: nine and she can do better. So do better, better, better? Yeah, leave, 240 00:12:57,840 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: do get your own apartment. Spenders a white shirt, sad Patty? 241 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 1: All right? Listen. Wallowed this up on Instagram at Steve 242 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 1: Harvey ethan to a comment on today's Strawberry Letter. You 243 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 1: can also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 244 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right 245 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show