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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio is the Ben and Ashley I Almost

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Speaker 1: Famous Podcast. I've been I'm Ashley, and we are excited

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Speaker 1: to be with you this week. We have a great

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Speaker 1: show prepared for you. Actually, I have a lot to

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Speaker 1: catch up on. I've actually missed, actually a lot. I

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Speaker 1: three or four days. Actually, how you doing? It has

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Speaker 1: felt so long. It's only been seven days since we

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Speaker 1: sat here together actually in studio, and I've been great.

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Speaker 1: It's been a pretty relaxing week for me. Actually, I've

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Speaker 1: be't had one of those for a while. I haven't

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Speaker 1: seen you since I was and we can't get into details. Um,

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Speaker 1: but you know, I guess we talked the day after

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Speaker 1: lip sync battle and uh, and that was the last

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Speaker 1: moment I've been able to lay eyes on you. And

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Speaker 1: at that time I still had um makeup on my

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Speaker 1: face from the night before. So this I promised today

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Speaker 1: my makeup is a little less than last time. Well

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Speaker 1: tweet me guys, um, Ashley, I go to tell me

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Speaker 1: what you think about guyliner, because I think Ben rocked it.

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Speaker 1: And back into late two thousand's when it used to

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Speaker 1: be a more common thing. I was so into it.

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Speaker 1: I think it's so sexy. I mean, I want to

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Speaker 1: if I do this or not. I'm kind of into it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: did in the mirror and was like did. I don't

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Speaker 1: I mean, why does it become a thing again? And

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Speaker 1: then Nick uh posted a picture of Wells, Nick and

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Speaker 1: I at lip sync battle right after I got off stage,

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Speaker 1: and I read you the comments and they're hilarious. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm just everybody's super confused and hating on me for

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Speaker 1: having guyliner on. And there's a lot of things when

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Speaker 1: I just had to admit that to you and everybody listening. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that you do feel confident in makeup because

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Speaker 1: you look great in it. And uh, is that illegal?

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Speaker 1: Like quote illegal um of Nick to post because I

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Speaker 1: I mean, no, I don't think so. I mean, let's

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Speaker 1: think that it was a blast, right, it was a

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Speaker 1: great show. I had one of the best experiences I've

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Speaker 1: ever had. I think as long as we don't give

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Speaker 1: away the details, Um, I think showing that kind of

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Speaker 1: behind the scenes of it would be great. I mean

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Speaker 1: a really good time. I think Rachel and myself really

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Speaker 1: spoiled and and just a picture shared, why not what

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Speaker 1: we can apologize later? Well you know what picture I

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Speaker 1: will be using now to promote this week's podcast once

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Speaker 1: the uh one of you like in rock Star Attire.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's awesome, um be, I'll be excited to see you. Know,

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Speaker 1: it's been a good week for me, Ashley. I I

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Speaker 1: just launched we talked about it. Last week, I just

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Speaker 1: lost Generous Coffee Company UM and UH. I was actually

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Speaker 1: also want to respect UM, the victims and the scenaire

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Speaker 1: So it's a big week for me. UM. I've been

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Speaker 1: in support of something great. Ben, You're killing it. I

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Speaker 1: need to order my Generous coffee and put some pumpkin

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Speaker 1: right now. Is this big? Well? Actually, you can go

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Speaker 1: to Generous Movement dot com and buy your coffee today.

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Speaker 1: Look at that. Look at that. You just made a

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Speaker 1: great transition. Speaking of transitions, we should probably talk about

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Speaker 1: Peter joining the Winter Games. He is the first one's

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Speaker 1: been a officially announced. Um of course, per usual, Mike

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Speaker 1: Flies has been tweeting up the wazoo this week, teasing

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Speaker 1: what is it? Oh? Ben? Do you know? No? Definitely,

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Speaker 1: So this is what I know about Winter Games so far.

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Speaker 1: Nothing I just said goes back to I've been kissing girls.

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Speaker 1: about our podcasts. We need more listeners so we can

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Speaker 1: this is not a you know that that wasn't just

426
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,639
Speaker 1: a one time thing to start to become a coincidence.

427
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 1: So you know, I don't I don't do good with

428
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 1: the people that lurk in the corner, you know, if

429
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 1: like you want to come out to see me, um,

430
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:47,600
Speaker 1: you know, just trying up a conversation, you know. And

431
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 1: I don't do well when people like take a picture

432
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,119
Speaker 1: of me rather than with me. I always find that

433
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 1: a little awkward, like you're like a like an animal

434
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,080
Speaker 1: in a cage. I always kind of like break the

435
00:21:56,119 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 1: ice and be like, let's let's take a picture together,

436
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,159
Speaker 1: Like I don't want anything to picture of me. Just

437
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,680
Speaker 1: kind of weird. What's the best way for a girl

438
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 1: at one of your shows to get your attention? Um,

439
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 1: one time, there's I was in l A actually last month,

440
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 1: and I guess she like wrote on like on her phone,

441
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 1: she wrote you are daddy, And I put her phone

442
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 1: number right up right up to my face right when

443
00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:20,439
Speaker 1: I was DC. I thought that was pretty clever. What

444
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:24,440
Speaker 1: does that mean? You are? Time out? Guys. I need

445
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 1: my second here because this brings up a great point. Um.

446
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 1: It just came up with me this weekend. What in

447
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:36,480
Speaker 1: the heck does somebody calling me daddy? Me explain this?

448
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, it's a pretty it's a

449
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 1: pretty vague thing. Maybe they need a father figure. Maybe

450
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:47,040
Speaker 1: they just wanted to be dominated as daddy. I mean,

451
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 1: so some girl comes up to you and she's obviously

452
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,120
Speaker 1: attracted to you, and she calls you you are daddy.

453
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,360
Speaker 1: Here's my number. Like for me, I get a very

454
00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 1: like protective mindset. Then it's like, if you refer to

455
00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 1: me as your as your father a figure, I want

456
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 1: to care for you and look out for you. I

457
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,160
Speaker 1: don't want you hitting on me. That just makes things

458
00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: weird and man, it a low awkward. I guess I

459
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 1: could see it for me or and I don't I

460
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 1: think in that in that situation I don't know. I

461
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 1: think she just wanted to call me daddy. And I

462
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 1: don't know if it was in a nurturing way or

463
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 1: in some other kind of way. All right, well, we

464
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 1: need everybody out there listening to the almost famous podcast

465
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 1: right now to tweet at us, to Ashley and I

466
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 1: and that Vinnie and let us know when the heck

467
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,920
Speaker 1: you mean when you call somebody daddy in the most

468
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:34,679
Speaker 1: appropriate way possible. Hey, Vinny, which bachelor girl who you

469
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 1: haven't dated on the show yet? Would you want to

470
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:46,120
Speaker 1: call you daddy? Which girl? That's a great question. Call

471
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 1: my daddy? Um, that is a great question. I gotta

472
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: think about this. I don't know if we've got enough

473
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:56,680
Speaker 1: time for this. Wait, we're good at awkward time. Free

474
00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 1: call me daddy. Um, all in the anticipation continues to grow.

475
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: Come on, you're just trying to be careful, now, that's

476
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:13,360
Speaker 1: the problem. Um, I don't know. I'm trying to. I'm

477
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 1: just gonna give you a little word of advice. You

478
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 1: can fail and really mess up on this show, and

479
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 1: people are gonna care for just a little bit of time,

480
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 1: So you're okay to say it. Apologize later. I think

481
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,119
Speaker 1: I think somebody that I missed on Paradise that I

482
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 1: thought it was pretty cute, was Daniel l Okay? Okay?

483
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 1: So I mean, are we shipping this one? Ashley Nony,

484
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 1: my cousin wanted to date you so bad, but she's not.

485
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 1: I really wouldn't say that. She's mentally in this space

486
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,639
Speaker 1: to start a relationship with one of my friends. So

487
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 1: I didn't give you don't want her, You don't want

488
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 1: you don't want her? Call me daddy? Is that what

489
00:24:54,359 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 1: you're saying? She's gorgeous former model. Just don't think I

490
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:04,400
Speaker 1: want to, you know, put you in that position right now? Okay,

491
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,880
Speaker 1: maybe one day, but one day next time? Wiping him

492
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: up Ashley way to get him excited about I'd happily

493
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 1: send you a picture of her and you can decide

494
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,680
Speaker 1: whether or not you want a lot of text message. Hey,

495
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: I got this gorgeous friend who has such a sweet

496
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 1: and big heart, and she has such a good right

497
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,960
Speaker 1: and the and the best morals, and all she wants

498
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 1: is to care for somebody and to have somebody care

499
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,199
Speaker 1: for her back. But m and she really care likes you,

500
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 1: and she finds you very attecked it, But I'm not

501
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 1: gonna do it. Um, it's right now and with Anny

502
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:45,199
Speaker 1: I got, I got a couple of questions for you. Um, okay,

503
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 1: So one is I asked this questions a few weeks

504
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,120
Speaker 1: ago to Daniel when he came on the podcast. Um,

505
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: I've seen these videos that you put out there, and

506
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 1: then asked him, just out of my own curiosity, is

507
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 1: do you have somebody literally folle you around with a

508
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: video camera at all times of your life? Well? I

509
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: mean I wouldn't say all times of my life. Usually

510
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 1: want to have a big month planned out where I

511
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 1: have shows like, you know, three times a weekend. You know,

512
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: I have one of my buddies down here in South Florida.

513
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 1: He's been kind of seeming me since about two thousand

514
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,959
Speaker 1: and fourteen with all like my actually probably early two

515
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: thousand and twelve, but um, feeling a lot of my

516
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: bigger gigs. Um. At first, it kind of was just

517
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 1: I wanted to make a little short, um little promo

518
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: videos just to show people that, um, you know what,

519
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 1: I could do it and my cloud. I can show

520
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: my my personality that I'm not just a DJ, that

521
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 1: I'm not just pressing buttons. So I like these videos

522
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 1: to kind of show more of who I am as

523
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 1: an old, real person and then you know, once I

524
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 1: had filming me for about uh years now they listen,

525
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 1: I want to turn all this footage into like a

526
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 1: mini documentary of how you know, I was, you know,

527
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,719
Speaker 1: djaying some of the smaller venues and then I went

528
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: on a reality show and how my life has changed

529
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 1: from that, you know, trials and tribulations, and so I

530
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:00,679
Speaker 1: just want to kind of get all the footage that

531
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: I can and then hopefully within another year kind of

532
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:07,199
Speaker 1: put out like a little short, you know, documentary of

533
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 1: maybe even adding my upbringing in there, and then um

534
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: to now you know, current times. So it kind of

535
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: so to answer your question, yeah, I mean maybe sixty

536
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 1: percent of the time when I am traveling. Yet my

537
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: buddy Jared is with me. He's a good kind of mine,

538
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 1: so that makes it easier to just act naturale and camera.

539
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 1: So yeah, has it been good? I mean, has it

540
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: been good for your career to kind of highlight that. Yeah,

541
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: it has. Like I said, I owe people, you know,

542
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: sometimes it's hard when you go on a reality show.

543
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: They think that you're just you know, pulling like a

544
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: Paris hilt in. And now you're just trying to be

545
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 1: a DJ, but you know I've been I've been working

546
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:41,120
Speaker 1: in nightclubs in dejaying and you know, putting together events

547
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:47,400
Speaker 1: since probably two thousand seven. So um yeah, And that's

548
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: why I want to do this, just to show people

549
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 1: that I am just you know, on a pretty pretty

550
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: cool person to hire to have your nightclub. That I'm

551
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: not just you know, showing up her appearance, but I

552
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 1: can also you know, get the party going. So it

553
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 1: has helped those little promote videos. Speaking of that, what music,

554
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 1: what artists really get the party going? I would have

555
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 1: to say, and you even for myself, I think Drake

556
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 1: is always the go to move Like if you want

557
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 1: like a hip hop song, yeah, that would get people

558
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,920
Speaker 1: go on. And then now I think that song that

559
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: all the Girls is that the Cardi B song? Was it?

560
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,639
Speaker 1: Kodak um Kodak Yellow cordad Black? I forgot the name

561
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,200
Speaker 1: of it. If you if you were to think about

562
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:30,959
Speaker 1: Ashley and I in your club, it's just the two

563
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 1: of us were in the middle of the dance floor

564
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 1: and you're the DJ, and and you need to get

565
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: us going. When you think of Ashley and I, what

566
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 1: song do you play thank you. I think I actually

567
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: loves that you tailor soft song because I've seen a

568
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 1: singer in our snapchat like every day, thank you, thank

569
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: you performing quite well. Right then, thing on the boat,

570
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: she can sing it and she she has no same

571
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: you know what, actually likes to do. And it just

572
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: makes me feel so awkward inside. Um. She she liked

573
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: to singing in her camera, like you put their camera

574
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: to her face and she sings, and she like kind

575
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 1: of does this like posing thing as she sings. Um,

576
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 1: but she knows all the words and so it kind

577
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 1: of looks like a music video when you watch it back. Um,

578
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 1: it's something I could never pull off. I can't imagine

579
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 1: even doing that and how I would look doing it,

580
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 1: and actually can make it at work, But when you

581
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 1: watch it happen, Oh, it's it's hard. Only to Taylor.

582
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: You have to do the lips and the pause and

583
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: like looking to the side and like kind of squinting

584
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: her eyes a little bit. And I'm doing it right

585
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: now that you guys could see it so weird. Look

586
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 1: what you made me do? Look what you made me

587
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 1: do it? Oh my god, every second of this. Well, wait,

588
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: what about Ben? You got to answer the last question

589
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 1: about what would you play for Ben Ben? Oh Man, Ben,

590
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: I'm going on a limb here. I would have to

591
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: kind of go with like one of the classic songs

592
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 1: that everybody knows you're like, a classic rock song like

593
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: shot Do. I love that song. That's such a good song.

594
00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: He really gets me going to it really gets me going. Man.

595
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 1: That's weird that you said that. Hey, going back to

596
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise? Have you fallen in love on Paradise?

597
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 1: Have I fall in love? Um? I wouldn't say that

598
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 1: I was love, but I can definitely see that I

599
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 1: was heading in the right direction last time I was there. Yeah,

600
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 1: you mean last summer with Izzy. Yeah. Yeah, such an

601
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: unfortunate situation, but I think you probably grew from it.

602
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 1: You learned a lot about yourself in relationships. Yeah. I

603
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: think I was just leaving as you were coming in.

604
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: Uh No, I was there for a little while with you,

605
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: and I told you that if Wells wasn't going to

606
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 1: come in, that I was going to give you my rose.

607
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: Oh boy, Yeah, we're talking about that. Let's talk about

608
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: Ashley that I told him. I was like, I know

609
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: that it's not going very well for you and it's

610
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: not going very well for me. So if the guy

611
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: that I think is really cute doesn't walk in, then

612
00:30:56,160 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: then your roses your rose, My roses yours second hand

613
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 1: really realizing and um and she's great. She uh, I

614
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: hear great things about it. I haven't got to know

615
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: is he very well? But he was on the season

616
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: the Bachelor that I was a part of. Um yeah, yeah,

617
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 1: I didn't get to know her well, but I think

618
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 1: from everything I hear and from emby that knows her, um,

619
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 1: it just sounds like she's an awesome person, which again

620
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 1: reiterates my thought that those women that were on my

621
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 1: season Ambassador were a crazy good group of women. I

622
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: agree with that. If Anny, we are out of time,

623
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 1: but we really appreciate you coming and explaining your job

624
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: and who the heck you are beyond this franchise. That

625
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: is who I am. If you're ever de jailing in Denver,

626
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: let me know. I'll come out and I will I'll

627
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 1: head bob and and groove and move to any music

628
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:53,479
Speaker 1: you're playing. Right, sounds good? Then thanks for guys. Well,

629
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: you know when what you do when you're about to

630
00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 1: hit the club, you go shopping, do you? I? I

631
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: don't think I go shopping. Um, maybe because I'm just

632
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 1: too lazy, um, But actually I know that you really

633
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 1: really enjoy the stores. You know, sometimes I know where

634
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 1: to go and one of the places that I know

635
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 1: to go is Liotote because they helped me be more fashionable.

636
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 1: But they help me because they have these stylists. The

637
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 1: one time box is full of stylus selected fashion that

638
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Speaker 1: Moving into one of our favorite segments, one that we

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674
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675
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,919
Speaker 1: that you're writing into us. We've been um reading through

676
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 1: emails and emails and emails over the last couple of weeks,

677
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 1: and we've pulled out just a couple today to to

678
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 1: kind of to talk about. And so Ashley, with that,

679
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,360
Speaker 1: I want to lead you into point out some of

680
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 1: these emails that we think really stand out. Okay, the

681
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 1: first one is from Sophia hi Bett and Ashley. I

682
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: like to think I have a decent head on my

683
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: shoulders and I'm not want to over exaggerate or get

684
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 1: to ahead of myself. So I don't understand why some

685
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:47,360
Speaker 1: guys feel the need to hide their feelings or just ghost.

686
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: To give an example, I recently came back into contact

687
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 1: with a co worker we actually matched on bumble. We

688
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 1: met up for drinks and dinner one night and we

689
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:58,720
Speaker 1: had a great time, and that was that. We left

690
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 1: with the exchange of a side I'd hug and him saying, uh, yeah,

691
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 1: let's do it again sometime side hug sometime Did I

692
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: do something wrong here? Since that happy hour slashed dinner,

693
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 1: I haven't heard from him. I know, Ben, you are

694
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:17,439
Speaker 1: recently single and probably not approaching the dating scenes so much.

695
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: But I would really enjoy hearing an episode on how

696
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: you deal with this dating culture we're living in. Actually,

697
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:26,240
Speaker 1: I'm curious as to how you go about meeting people.

698
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 1: Do you deal with the ghosting and lack of communication

699
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 1: as well? Sophia, I have good email in this email? Yeah, okay, Well,

700
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: let's spend some time here. Um, and let's not let's

701
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: not hesitate. So let's start with the first couple of

702
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: sentence there. Um, why do you guys feel like they

703
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:42,439
Speaker 1: have the ghost Let's let's not just make this about guys.

704
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,319
Speaker 1: Let's make it about guys and girls, because I think

705
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 1: it goes both ways. Probably, Uh, we need to talk

706
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,839
Speaker 1: about it in in a universal sense. So here's the deal.

707
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 1: I don't understand this, but I do it myself. I've

708
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: done in the past. I mean, I guess I don't

709
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 1: know today, um what I do in situations like this,

710
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 1: because I haven't really started to step back out there yet. Um.

711
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: I would like to believe that I'm mature enough now

712
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,359
Speaker 1: and confident enough to say when something's not going well,

713
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 1: to stand up and say it. But but again, I

714
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 1: can't promise that because because in the past, through college

715
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 1: and even after college, I did ghost I would go

716
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: on a date and I would instead of wanting to

717
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: hurt the person's feelings by saying, hey, I'm just not

718
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 1: into you, I would just disappear. So maybe they thought

719
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 1: I disappeared. UM. I honestly, I want to believe it

720
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 1: comes from a place of just not having the courage

721
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 1: to be confrontational and also not wanting to hurt somebody

722
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: because you know they don't deserve to be hurt. It

723
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,359
Speaker 1: usually doesn't come from a bad place. It does come

724
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: from a place of not wanting to hurt the other person.

725
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 1: A lot of people will argue it hurts more to

726
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 1: be ghosted. UM. I have a ghosting segment on my

727
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 1: I Don't Get a podcast where we confront ghosters with

728
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 1: their ghost ease. But by doing that segment, I've learned

729
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: what I feel is the definition of ghosting, and I

730
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: don't feel like going on one day and then never

731
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: hearing from the person again is the definition of ghosting.

732
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 1: I think ghosting happens when you're having a rapport with

733
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: someone and it's spanned over at least weeks. I don't

734
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,359
Speaker 1: think going on one day and then never hearing from

735
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 1: that person again, it's goes that that's just a date

736
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:12,760
Speaker 1: that you're just not supposed to be with that person. Yeah,

737
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: and then today's culture too, I mean, and we'll move

738
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: down to the bottom of this paragraph or this email,

739
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:20,359
Speaker 1: UM with this, But in today's culture, it's really hard

740
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 1: to ghost. I would assume, uh, you know, back what

741
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:24,800
Speaker 1: was it four years ago when I was in the

742
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: dating scene. I mean, I haven't really gone back out

743
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: in the dating scene in four years. Um, social media

744
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 1: wasn't as big a thing, and so you could kind

745
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:34,359
Speaker 1: of disappear, you could, you know, you could turn off

746
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 1: your Instagram or whatever. Now, Um, you're gonna be able

747
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: to find that person. I'm gonna find you. That's true,

748
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: Like they can really find you. Um, Ben, how do

749
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: you feel? Okay? So I don't think I'm ghosting this person.

750
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 1: I don't think i'd be ghosting this person. But how

751
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 1: do I don't know? You let me know. So I

752
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:57,800
Speaker 1: went on this day with a guy like in July.

753
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:03,280
Speaker 1: Haven't gone a date since July. This guy I felt

754
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 1: nothing with, like justin nothing. It seemed forced, like just

755
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: the hour seemed forced to me. And of course I

756
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:16,280
Speaker 1: show disinterest or just not disinterest but just neutrality or whatever,

757
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:19,800
Speaker 1: and he will just keep texting me every couple of

758
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 1: weeks being like, hey, what are you doing? Um? Do

759
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: you want to do this? Do you want to do that?

760
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 1: And I keep saying like, oh, sorry, I can't do it.

761
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:29,760
Speaker 1: I'm busy. And the thing is like I usually am busy.

762
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 1: Why are they getting the hint? Is that ghosting to

763
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: just keep saying hey, I'm not doing it. I'm not

764
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: doing it by me, not like saying hey, sorry, didn't

765
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 1: feel anything. Uh No, I don't think it's ghosting it.

766
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,359
Speaker 1: I mean I think at some point you might want

767
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:48,959
Speaker 1: to confront it, right, I mean he obviously I still

768
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 1: believe there's something. He's still confused. Um, But it also

769
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 1: sounds like he's not very self aware and he's not

770
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: very aware of the situation. Um. I don't find that

771
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 1: to be inappropriate. The one thing I think that gets

772
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 1: confusing with all of this is when it starts to

773
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 1: hurt somebody else. Right, So you go on one date,

774
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: a date to a date, it's to discover, it's to explore,

775
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: it's gonna figure out if you want to go on

776
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: that next day. Now, if the other person isn't showing

777
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 1: a common interest in going that next day, I personally

778
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 1: believe to let it go at that point because it's

779
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:19,319
Speaker 1: only going to cause trouble if you keep pushing and

780
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 1: you keep prodding, you keep texting, and you keep trying

781
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: to find your way into their life. It sounds like

782
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 1: what this guy is doing to you. Um, I mean really,

783
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,839
Speaker 1: it's really mild. I'm just saying that I feel bad

784
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 1: because I feel like he should be getting the hint

785
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 1: by now. Well, I mean, at some point if you

786
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: feel like it's if if you feel um, kind of convicted,

787
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: I don't think it's wrong for you, uh to approach

788
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:43,720
Speaker 1: him and just say, hey, you know this isn't working.

789
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: I think you're great, but if we were to hang out,

790
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: it would send you the wrong message. And I don't

791
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: want to send you the wrong message because that would

792
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,359
Speaker 1: just get stickier in the end. And so it's that,

793
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: I mean, the question is really and I know you

794
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 1: walk a very thin line here, um, but you do

795
00:39:58,120 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: it really well. Is you have a lot of friends

796
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 1: that are our men and then our male and so

797
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 1: you know, if you don't see this becoming a friendship,

798
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,359
Speaker 1: then there really is no purpose, or you don't have

799
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 1: to hang out with this guy. It would just send

800
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: the wrong message to him. How do you feel about

801
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 1: people that you go on dates with them becoming a friend?

802
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 1: I just don't need that. It does that sound bad?

803
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: Like I just I have a lot of friends. If

804
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 1: I went on a date with you and you wanted

805
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: it to be romantic, like I'm I don't think that's

806
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 1: a smart thing for me to hang out with you again.

807
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: Just to be I'm real torn on this topic. You

808
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: are hitting a hot but me, that's my problem need

809
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:34,839
Speaker 1: to be so much more hard to get. And so

810
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 1: do you, Ashley. I know, I know, I feel like

811
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 1: I'm growing up. I think I'm going up a little bit. Ben,

812
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,479
Speaker 1: What do you think? I mean, how do you deal

813
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 1: with that friendship with somebody that you kind of would

814
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: want to date? Uh? Yeah, there, I mean I think

815
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 1: it's it's all scenario based. And so for example, I

816
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 1: had a family um that I grew up with that

817
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 1: had two daughters that were similar to my age and

818
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 1: a son, and we were all very close. They're like

819
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: my brothers and sisters and I love them. But I

820
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: absolutely love them and they're beautiful people. They're not only

821
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 1: physically beautiful, but they're just just beautiful human beings. And

822
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 1: we were friends and we always were friends, and there

823
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 1: never was you know, I kind of look back at

824
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:16,359
Speaker 1: this point in my life and I look back on

825
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,839
Speaker 1: that and think it was pretty impressive that we all

826
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 1: were friends for our whole lives, that there was never

827
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 1: any romantic feelings. Right. So, um, I think, for example,

828
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: those two girls felt like sisters to me, but they

829
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 1: also feel like friends to me, and and so that

830
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: is a very important friendship to me. It's it's a

831
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 1: very important friendship to me, and I will always have

832
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: them as friends. Um. But then I look at scenarios

833
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: where like we've talked about before, like ex girlfriends and

834
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: cannot be friends with your ex is, And I think

835
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 1: you can be, but I think it does add this

836
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 1: little bit of Um, there's just always gonna be that

837
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: little bit of tension. There's always gonna be that little

838
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 1: bit or can we really just be friends? And what

839
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 1: happens on the perfect night when we're out together, will

840
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 1: something happen that will spark something up again? And as

841
00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:01,799
Speaker 1: long as you're single, I think that appropriate world to

842
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 1: play in is are we friends? Are we not? Do

843
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: we have feelings? Do we not? But my buddies and

844
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:08,359
Speaker 1: I talked about this all the time. As soon as

845
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: you enter into relationship that has to be cut off

846
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 1: because it's no longer healthy or appropriate or beneficial or

847
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 1: mature of you to keep friendships like that because it

848
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 1: just adds a temptation and you have to set boundaries

849
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: because long term that's only going to affect and mess

850
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: with your mind. So I think it's an air based situation. Um,

851
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: And this is a great So I want to move

852
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: on here to the final piece of this email and

853
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: then we'll jump to your email. But this is such

854
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 1: a good email. We've gotten so far, We've got so

855
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 1: far on the weeds. And the question to me was

856
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: how how am I approaching the dating sooner? Or how

857
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 1: would I navigate um in this dating in this culture.

858
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 1: And then they asked you, actually, um, you know, how

859
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:53,240
Speaker 1: do you go about meeting people? And so let's answer

860
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 1: this as quickly as possible for me, I don't exactly

861
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,879
Speaker 1: know yet, but how I would imagine it going is this.

862
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 1: So there's these expectation. This is where I struggle. All Right,

863
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:04,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get into my I'm really. I feel like

864
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,359
Speaker 1: it opened up in my insecurities on this podcast way

865
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: too often. And then I get emails from people feeling

866
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 1: really bad and sad for me, and you shouldn't. I'm

867
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 1: actually I'm doing pretty well. Um, but this is an

868
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: insecurity of mine, um is. And I don't want you

869
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 1: to go Actually, I definitely don't want you to respond

870
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 1: when I say it's like, oh no, that's not true. Okay,

871
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:25,760
Speaker 1: don't dimiss my insecurity. Um. I think in this world

872
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 1: I never feel cool enough to date somebody because of

873
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,320
Speaker 1: the social media pressures out there, right, so everybody portrays

874
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 1: these lives on social media. They're hiking, their camping, um,

875
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,239
Speaker 1: they're traveling the world, They're eating the best foods. They're

876
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 1: always out with their friends, you know, doing boomerangs, of

877
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: tipping mimosas up and down, and you know, guys are

878
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:46,759
Speaker 1: taking shirtless pictures with the perfect perfect light lighting after

879
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:48,799
Speaker 1: they've oiled their bodies down so they look real nice

880
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:52,439
Speaker 1: and real ripped. And and I never and I see

881
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 1: this stuff, and I know that it's all the perfect

882
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 1: image getting displayed and it's not the true image getting displayed,

883
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: but it's still and I can't imagine for somebody that

884
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 1: younger than me, who hasn't been through it, that hasn't

885
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 1: fallen in love, that hasn't built a strong foundation in

886
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,959
Speaker 1: their life on their faith. Um, I don't. I can't

887
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 1: imagine how much this is canna affect them. Because for me,

888
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:13,879
Speaker 1: even as I'm starting to enter back in the dating world,

889
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 1: I never feel like any woman is going to sit

890
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 1: down to dinner with me and go, Wow, I'm lucky

891
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: to be sitting at dinner with you, because you're pretty

892
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 1: great and I would love to explore life with you.

893
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,479
Speaker 1: That is a big insecurity, and I know it rings deep,

894
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 1: but I do think a lot of it is because

895
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 1: of the pressures that we see to be perfect and

896
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,920
Speaker 1: to live the coolest, best life now on social media.

897
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,359
Speaker 1: And I don't know how to get past that. Um,

898
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,800
Speaker 1: I'm won't be little your insecurity. I won't even respond

899
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: to it if you don't want me to. But you

900
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: know it's ridiculous, right well, you know that you live

901
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,799
Speaker 1: like such an exciting life or I know you're the

902
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 1: last person to be able to say that. That's And

903
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 1: that's another thing, is that's why I feel I feel

904
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: terrible for the like I do live a great life.

905
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 1: I live a very exciting life. My life is it's

906
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: constantly moving and grooving with great things happening to it.

907
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 1: I'm meeting amazing people, and I'm and I'm able to

908
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 1: do great things. But I can't imagine if this was

909
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 1: me four years ago, when I was not doing these things,

910
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 1: how down and out I might feel. And I think

911
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: that's a sad part about social media or just the

912
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 1: pressures of the dating culture. I guess that's where it

913
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 1: comes from, is the question was how do I deal

914
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:22,359
Speaker 1: with dating in this culture to day? I think that's

915
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 1: where that's the negative part of dating in this culture today.

916
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 1: I think the positive part is that you're able to

917
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,479
Speaker 1: now get to know people better via social media because

918
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: you can get like explore their Instagram page or Twitter

919
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 1: page or facebooks before you go on these dates and

920
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 1: get to know what they're interested in. So you're going

921
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 1: into the dates a little bit prepared. But I wrote

922
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: a blog piece on Ahogany workplace. I was like, don't

923
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: set expectations too high, you know, don't try to get

924
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 1: to know them too much. So anyways to answer in

925
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: short is it's it's a hard time to day, but

926
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: it also, I think can be an exciting time to

927
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 1: day And I would like to believe that when you

928
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 1: finally meet that person, they're going to know you so

929
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 1: well and be able to kind of explore life life

930
00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 1: with you so well, and you're gonna be able a

931
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: document life so well that day him is going to

932
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:02,240
Speaker 1: be a blast. I want to believe that. I believe

933
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:04,320
Speaker 1: that's coming up for me. Um, We'll just see what

934
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: it happens. Well, I want to do like a p

935
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 1: s A for all the younger kids out there, Like, yeah,

936
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: I'm not like super affected by social media, um, because

937
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 1: but I'm like concerned about high schoolers out there who

938
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 1: are so influenced by these curated personalities like this facade

939
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 1: that people put out there, and just like that's not

940
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: real life, guys, and you shouldn't have to feel like

941
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: you have to compete with like all these filters and

942
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: all these like crazy things that people put out there.

943
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 1: I just can't even imagine how hard it must be

944
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: feel to be accepted in this weird image focused world

945
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: that we live in as somebody who's like not fully

946
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 1: developed yet. I agree. I mean I thought about it

947
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 1: last night actually, and then I want to hear how

948
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,719
Speaker 1: you're meeting people today. You know, I was cleaning up

949
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: my sink. I just shaved and I had a bunch

950
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 1: of hair that had like you know how you get

951
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 1: it in the bottom of your sink and you can't

952
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 1: get it out and I and it was like stuck

953
00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 1: to the side. So I was like scrubbing it and

954
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:00,839
Speaker 1: trying to find way to get out. Was like, this

955
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 1: is the picture that we need, because that's about ninety

956
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 1: percent of my life is in some way scrubbing hair

957
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: out of something. Um, it's not. It's not going on

958
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 1: these beautiful festivals. Caitlin does this thing. It's called real beauty.

959
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 1: Um backup posted something like that. I posted something like that.

960
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 1: It was just like straight up, no makeup, no filters.

961
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 1: I try to do that every now and again just

962
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:26,959
Speaker 1: to make people be like no, no, seriously, Like the

963
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 1: way that we look when we're at events is not

964
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:30,879
Speaker 1: the way we look when we wake up. I did

965
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 1: that this week. Like, you know, I just think it's

966
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 1: good to keep it keep it real, keep it real. Actually,

967
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: how do you mean people today? Um? Yeah, sorry, we're

968
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 1: like so off topic. No, it's good, it's good. I

969
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: think I think it's relatable, and I do think it's

970
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 1: coming from a place that you and I both talk

971
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 1: about off air um and it should be communicating to

972
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:52,360
Speaker 1: listeners out there because our lives can look fun and

973
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 1: they can look excited, and they are. I have a

974
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 1: great life. They're the best. Like I'm I'm obsessed with

975
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: my life right now. I'm so happy. Like I'm actually

976
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 1: at this place where like I drive around some times

977
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm so happy. This is what happiness is.

978
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 1: When those down Astley's haver was blown in the wind. Actually,

979
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: how you meeting dudes today? Well, I haven't gone a

980
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 1: date in a long time because, like, I just don't

981
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:14,720
Speaker 1: want to. They're so not fun. Then I really don't

982
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:18,280
Speaker 1: like going on first dates. I really just want God

983
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 1: to drop a man into my lap and then I

984
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:22,879
Speaker 1: can date him. I don't want to go on all

985
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: these dates to meet someone that I think I could date.

986
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:28,880
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? Isn't that is that

987
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: horrible for me to say? No, I don't think it's

988
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 1: bad for you to say at all. I mean I

989
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 1: think it's the place in your life you're at, and

990
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 1: you should accept that time and know that whatever is

991
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 1: going on in your life and your heart and your

992
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 1: character right now is beneficial and good. Don't force yourself

993
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: in the dating um. That's what the most fat things

994
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,840
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995
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1011
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1015
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Speaker 1: Please do? Okay. So I had Siggy Flicker on my

1034
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Speaker 1: other podcast this week and she gave me this this

1035
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Speaker 1: advice that really just stressed me out. Um My dad

1036
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 1: always used to say, like, when you're doing your thing

1037
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 1: and you have your career rolling, that's when you'll meet

1038
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:11,919
Speaker 1: somebody organically. And I was like, that's a lovely way

1039
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 1: of thinking about it. That's what I'm gonna do. Because

1040
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: we live very social lives, right Ben, And I don't

1041
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:19,319
Speaker 1: know about you, but I really do need my alone time,

1042
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 1: like to just decompress. I'm I'm an introvert, extrovert in

1043
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:24,879
Speaker 1: the way that like when I'm out and about, I'm

1044
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:28,360
Speaker 1: very like friendly and outgoing, but I do need my

1045
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 1: alone time to recharge. So the last thing I want

1046
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 1: to do at the end of the day is going

1047
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 1: on like a socially exhausting first date. Um So, I

1048
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:39,840
Speaker 1: always just hope that I would meet him organically, but

1049
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 1: she made it seem like I need to go and

1050
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:44,439
Speaker 1: like kind of like make it almost like a job,

1051
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 1: like I have to go on at least one first

1052
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 1: day to week and I'm like, really, um, the past

1053
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:50,920
Speaker 1: three times, the past three dates that I've gone on

1054
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 1: over the summer, and because I have taken a little

1055
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:55,279
Speaker 1: bit of a break of caring, because I like to

1056
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 1: think of my dad's motto, I'm going to find them

1057
00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:00,800
Speaker 1: organically doing the things that I love to do. Um.

1058
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 1: But these are how I met the past three dates.

1059
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: One met organically, that was the guy that I like

1060
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 1: the most. Um too, went on a hinge date and

1061
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 1: that was just straight uphoard three it was a setup

1062
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: and that that's set up was the one where I

1063
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 1: said I didn't feel any chemistry and it was hard

1064
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 1: to keep conversation for just an hour. Okay, so perfect.

1065
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:24,880
Speaker 1: So I mean we have the traditional organic, we have

1066
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 1: an app date who you know is becoming pretty traditional.

1067
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: I have a lot of friends and a lot of

1068
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:31,920
Speaker 1: people I know that have met on so through a

1069
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 1: dating app of some kind. Um. And so at the

1070
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:38,319
Speaker 1: end of this, I think all of us out there

1071
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 1: who are dating are trying and doing the best we can.

1072
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 1: So there's not these I think that's the one thing

1073
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 1: that always gets in my mind is are there secret

1074
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 1: ways at which people are meeting people that I'm missing

1075
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 1: out on, Like, am I just not aware of this

1076
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: super cool little nightclub that everybody goes to and everybody

1077
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 1: falls in love at um where there is this like

1078
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 1: secret television show out there that everybody seems to want

1079
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:02,719
Speaker 1: to go on to fall in love and meeting people

1080
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 1: and getting married and having babies? Like where am I

1081
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:08,239
Speaker 1: missing the mark? And I think the truth is is

1082
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:11,720
Speaker 1: for everybody out there listening, you aren't missing the mark.

1083
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 1: You're right on target. You're doing the right things. Your

1084
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 1: heart's open if you're ready and you're interested. I can't

1085
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 1: promise you that you'll meet somebody I don't want to

1086
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 1: do that. That's not the promise I can give you.

1087
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 1: I can promise you, though, that the pursuit is in

1088
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 1: the right direction if you're ready and if you're putting

1089
00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:34,280
Speaker 1: yourself out there and that's the only thing you can do. Okay, Well, Sophia,

1090
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:37,719
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that your date didn't go super well, but

1091
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 1: don't worry about it. You guys just you weren't meant

1092
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:43,279
Speaker 1: to be. Yeah, I mean you should have known what

1093
00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 1: the side hug you gotta go Pelvis to pelvis really

1094
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:48,879
Speaker 1: didn't Mark, don't go side hug that's when we got

1095
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 1: more emails coming up. I want to hit up one

1096
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 1: more email here at least um from one of our

1097
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:56,640
Speaker 1: listeners and try to respond, Okay, this one I think

1098
00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:59,720
Speaker 1: is really important, Hi, Ben and Ashley. I am interested

1099
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 1: and knowing what happens to everyone's original jobs they had

1100
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: before going on the show. I just find it disappointing

1101
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:08,879
Speaker 1: that these regular, normal, everyday working individuals prior to the show,

1102
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: and then they go on to find love, and then

1103
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 1: they never get back to their true normal life without

1104
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 1: having a celebrity status after the show. Anna, Anna, you

1105
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 1: quit and you do social media. I don't know what

1106
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:19,440
Speaker 1: she's talking about. Sounds like a great idea to me.

1107
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:26,399
Speaker 1: I have so many feelings on this one. Nothing frustrates

1108
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 1: me more than people commenting under our pictures on social

1109
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 1: media saying you really have to go get a job.

1110
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, I guess this podcast. I guess my

1111
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 1: I don't get a podcast. I guess the correspondent work

1112
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 1: that I do for Access Hollywood. I guess that me

1113
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:45,440
Speaker 1: hosting a clever news that's not a real job. Like

1114
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:48,439
Speaker 1: my four real jobs. They guess they don't count because

1115
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:52,280
Speaker 1: they're in media and because I went to broadcasting school,

1116
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:55,160
Speaker 1: like I have my masters and broadcasting. This is my job.

1117
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:58,879
Speaker 1: And just because it's fun doesn't mean it's not a job.

1118
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't go. I don't know why people

1119
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 1: complain about this. I think there is a little bit

1120
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 1: of a sellout factor, like if you start promoting products

1121
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: that you don't believe in and that you don't like,

1122
00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:10,399
Speaker 1: and I think that's wrong. Um, but here's the deal.

1123
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 1: A lot of the comments that you're getting, Ashley, that

1124
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 1: I get are happening about two o'clock in the afternoon

1125
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 1: Eastern time, which is about at the core of the

1126
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: work week. All right, I mean, this is the Wednesday.

1127
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 1: I just want to know what these people are doing

1128
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:24,719
Speaker 1: with their lives, um, and and all. You know, we

1129
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:26,359
Speaker 1: could go through all the jobs we have. I still

1130
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 1: have my full time job. I still love my full

1131
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 1: time job. I get to do some cool stuff on

1132
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:32,839
Speaker 1: the side. It doesn't really matter, honestly, And I think

1133
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 1: that's the part that's the most frustrated everybody out there too,

1134
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 1: that that has to take this, like, um, criticism of

1135
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 1: go get a job, why are you just famous? Now?

1136
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 1: We'll shoot Yeah, maybe maybe these people have a platform

1137
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 1: now and they can use it to either do what

1138
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 1: they've always wanted to do or tried to use it

1139
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 1: for good, right, And I think Jade has a really

1140
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 1: good point when she explains selling out and how many

1141
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 1: as she and Tner do. She's like, well, my house,

1142
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 1: my beautiful house, was on this and I'm providing like

1143
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:05,879
Speaker 1: the most loving, wonderful life for my daughter and right

1144
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:09,319
Speaker 1: now we're just we have a college fund for her

1145
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 1: which is almost done, and like we are providing the

1146
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:13,640
Speaker 1: best life for our kids, and like we're going to

1147
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,359
Speaker 1: just keep doing it. And I think this is the thing,

1148
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 1: and this isn't it something we need to keep expounding on.

1149
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 1: I think I'd be I mean, I've I've worked for

1150
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 1: five years and I still sit in the cubicle and

1151
00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:24,800
Speaker 1: I still have a computer in front of me, and

1152
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 1: I still love my Excel spreadsheets, um, and I do

1153
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: still with myself, even get frustrated with the idea that

1154
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: I could post a picture on Instagram and make a

1155
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 1: lot of money doing it and and be able to

1156
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 1: support myself so I don't have to sit behind the

1157
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:42,320
Speaker 1: cubic all at the time. And that's not a bad idea.

1158
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 1: It is a weird idea, and I understand why it

1159
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,720
Speaker 1: could be frustrating to see people do that. So here's

1160
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 1: where I get frustrated, and here's where the changing happens.

1161
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 1: I really don't care if Ashley, or if Jade or

1162
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 1: of Tanner. If these people are posting products on their

1163
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:57,279
Speaker 1: social media and they're making money from it and that's

1164
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,680
Speaker 1: what they're doing to survive, that's a great thing. And

1165
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:02,359
Speaker 1: like Jade said, she's able to support her family from it, well,

1166
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 1: I care about. But also at the same time, Tanner

1167
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 1: has a great job and he makes a lot of

1168
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 1: money from his job, so supplemental income. But so my

1169
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 1: point is this, it's what you're doing with it. Are

1170
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 1: you doing good with it? You've been given so much,

1171
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: You've been handed so much, You've literally gone on a

1172
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 1: show and we've became entertainers for whatever reason, um, which

1173
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 1: is an awesome thing. And I help everybody out there

1174
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: listening and that watches The Bachelor's really enjoyed kind of

1175
00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 1: watching our stories unfull because they are they are our stories.

1176
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 1: But now to all the entertainers out there, my call

1177
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 1: to action is what are you doing with it? Are

1178
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: you just making money? Are you just posting pictures. Do

1179
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 1: you just drive the nicest car, now, do you just

1180
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,720
Speaker 1: buy the bigger house? Do you wear the nicest clothes?

1181
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 1: Or are you giving back? Are you saying, hey, thank

1182
00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 1: you all for what you've given me. Now it's my

1183
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:55,600
Speaker 1: time to give something else. And that's what it might

1184
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 1: call is. So go make your money, Go post your pictures,

1185
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:00,720
Speaker 1: go support products, go out there and shake hands and

1186
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:04,320
Speaker 1: kiss babies for appearances. But in the day, make sure

1187
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 1: that you can sleep at night because something good is

1188
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 1: coming out of it. This is how I think about it.

1189
00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:12,600
Speaker 1: So say I go post an ad um. I'm able

1190
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:15,240
Speaker 1: to live off the ads that I can put together

1191
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 1: this charity event that's going to raise like hundreds of

1192
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 1: times more than what I got for that ad for charity.

1193
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 1: And same with you, Ben. Now you can go, you

1194
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:28,400
Speaker 1: do this podcast, you talk, you do you do ads

1195
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: during the podcast, and now you're able to go take

1196
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:32,920
Speaker 1: time off and go to Honduras. That's right, and then

1197
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:35,080
Speaker 1: go buy a generous coffee because I need you to

1198
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Speaker 1: one part about looking good is having good skin. That's

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Speaker 1: one thing Ashley you know, has talked about often. I

1201
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 1: talked about often. Actually, last night I had something pop

1202
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:52,920
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1233
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: So this topic, like I said, has really really affected

1234
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 1: me over the last few months. It makes me feel

1235
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 1: awkward inside in all sorts of ways. We have to

1236
01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 1: get some callers out there and we're asking the question

1237
01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 1: is it okay or do you call your boyfriend daddy? Um?

1238
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:50,160
Speaker 1: Right now, we have a couple of callers in the line. Actually,

1239
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 1: who are they? We got Carol from Ontario, Canada. Hi, Hi,

1240
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:59,040
Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling in gosh, no problem,

1241
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 1: Hey Carol, Um, So what do you think? Is it

1242
01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 1: creepy or is it fine? I think in the right context,

1243
01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 1: it can be slipped in and it's okay. Wait, in

1244
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 1: the right context, it can be what and it's okay,

1245
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:17,959
Speaker 1: like slipped in like in a joking way. It could

1246
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:23,000
Speaker 1: be like, oh, daddy, you know, I wish you could

1247
01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:27,800
Speaker 1: see my facial expression right now. Oh trust me, I'm

1248
01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 1: probably just in bed. See. Maybe it's not okay for

1249
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:34,000
Speaker 1: me because like my dad's number in my phone it

1250
01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:38,520
Speaker 1: says daddy. Like I just call my dad daddy half

1251
01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:43,840
Speaker 1: the time. I will definitely not work for you then.

1252
01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 1: But I think if you're calling your dad father, but

1253
01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 1: you know, if you just kind of slipped in daddy,

1254
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:56,320
Speaker 1: but I think it will be okay. Oh no, I'm

1255
01:01:56,440 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. So I gotta ask you. So when you okay? So,

1256
01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 1: if you slip in the daddy and you get it

1257
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,440
Speaker 1: and you sell it right and he's okay with it,

1258
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 1: how long do you have to wait to kiss him

1259
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:12,600
Speaker 1: afterwards before it's no longer awkward? I mean, I think

1260
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 1: you want to move in right away. Oh come on, Carol, Carol,

1261
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 1: violence the awkward silence will make it ten times words.

1262
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:25,080
Speaker 1: You need to fill it with something. Does your significant

1263
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 1: other enjoy it? I don't think he likes it particularly,

1264
01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:35,880
Speaker 1: but I think sometimes it surprises him, so it's like, oh, wow,

1265
01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 1: you know, things are getting weird, Carol. Can I call

1266
01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 1: my girlfriend mommy? No? No, okay, now I'm mad. If

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Speaker 1: you can call your boyfriend's daddy. I want to be

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Speaker 1: able to call my girlfriend's mommy. I mean, if she's

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Speaker 1: okay with it, whatever floats your boat. But I don't

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Speaker 1: think that's a societal norm. Okay, Well, what about I

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Speaker 1: can do like I like a little Latin flair, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like all about like the mommy or the poppy,

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Speaker 1: Like that's cute. I'm into that. Actually, I spent a

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Speaker 1: lot of time in Latin America, and what you just

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Speaker 1: did there is not Latin. Okay, Well, I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: have j LO songs. Yeah, I think I'm totally down

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Speaker 1: for the mommy. I think it's a little different too.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. We have somebody who has quite

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Speaker 1: a bit of explanation on this topic. It's Alyssa from Connecticut. Hey, Alyssa,

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Speaker 1: what is your theory on calling the dude daddy. So

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Speaker 1: I have like a theory because with my friend, I

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Speaker 1: will be like, oh, god, guys such a daddy. I

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Speaker 1: don't have a boyfriend, so I don't call my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: daddy because it doesn't exist. But I feel like there's

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Speaker 1: levels of like you're like, oh, he's such a daddy.

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Speaker 1: I follow some Instagram that plays hot guys called like

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Speaker 1: dirty daddy's, but now gilts are a whole other thing.

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Speaker 1: Well what can I say, Like, like, when I see

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Speaker 1: a really hot I'm like, oh my god, do daddy

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Speaker 1: Like I just I know Astley you love Harry Styles.

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Speaker 1: I just saw him last week and I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 1: who's the daddy? Like I wouldn't talk that, I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: call it daddy. But I feel like if I ever

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Speaker 1: actually heard my friends or ever thought to myself, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to call my boyfriend and daddy like I would

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Speaker 1: need there because that's not normal. This is where I'm

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Speaker 1: going to just stow this out here. And you're right,

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Speaker 1: Harry Style daddy, I'll let you too, because I can

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Speaker 1: use the exception to life. Yeah, he's the exception to

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Speaker 1: all things. So no, I just wonder, why is your

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Speaker 1: response even without a boyfriend. When you're explaining a good

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Speaker 1: looking guy, why is it? Daddy? That's what I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to get down to. I'm I mean, I don't even

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Speaker 1: know if I'm okay with people calling each other daddy's

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01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 1: and mommy's yet, because I don't even know what you're

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01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:58,120
Speaker 1: meaning by it, Like what do you mean? So I

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Speaker 1: don't Well, when I hear mommy, I get like ringey.

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Speaker 1: But Daddy. I feel like when you think of like

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Speaker 1: a Dil's, you're like, oh, I want like maybe like

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Speaker 1: that's your goal, Like I want to marry a dilt

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Speaker 1: and like raised my kids with like this amazing guy

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Speaker 1: and be like lusting after him always, when maybe you

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Speaker 1: were attributing, sorry, do you think of like a celebrity

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Speaker 1: Dil's Like who is it? Who's the idea Dil's? Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, there's like so many has been so bad?

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Speaker 1: Are you get too excited? I know? I always thinking,

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Speaker 1: like Nick Dreamy, like like what I think? I can't

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Speaker 1: believe you just said that, because Ben, that's what I

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Speaker 1: was just gonna say, And then how weird would that's been?

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Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, like, God, you deal with

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Speaker 1: my head? I see m Dreamy shut exactly. I can't believe.

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Speaker 1: I think that also, honestly was kind of like the

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Speaker 1: attraction for me to Peter. I was like, oh, he's

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Speaker 1: kind of a daddy. Hold on, hold on, yeah. I

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Speaker 1: was just gonna say, Peter defines gylt to me, and

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Speaker 1: he's not even a dad. He looks exactly like the idea.

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Speaker 1: That's why you say daddy, because it's like, oh, he's

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Speaker 1: hot and he's going to be a guilt nothing hotter

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Speaker 1: than a guy who was hot and a warm, loving father,

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Speaker 1: exactly like if I see I used to work at

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Speaker 1: at smothe place. I don't anymore, but when I used

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Speaker 1: to see guys coming with their babies, I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, you're ten times hotter than you would

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Speaker 1: have ever been. We'll see. We have Easton in the studio.

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Speaker 1: Easton is one of our sound guys and he just

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Speaker 1: got married and he said, hey, does my wedding ring

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Speaker 1: make me look more trustworthy and reliable? And I said,

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Speaker 1: I always say, like, we see wedding rings and we're like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, there's so much hotter. But I think

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Speaker 1: it's because we're like, oh my god, they settled and

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Speaker 1: like they're willing to be that person in our minds.

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Speaker 1: So it's like so much more attractive. But I would

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Speaker 1: never I would never like meet Ben and be like,

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Speaker 1: then you're such a daddy. I would like say it

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Speaker 1: to my sister. I'd be like, oh, but actually then

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Speaker 1: I don't think then like I'm not being rude, but

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Speaker 1: I don't think look at you as a daddy. But

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Speaker 1: like I wouldn't meet Peter and be like, oh my god, Hi, Peter,

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Speaker 1: nice to meet you. You're such a daddy. You and

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Speaker 1: Peter were intimate, would you say bring it daddy? Oh

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Speaker 1: my god. I don't know, like cringing thinking about that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I would like text my

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Speaker 1: sister my friends and be like, oh my god, he's

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Speaker 1: such a daddy or he was such a daddy. But

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. Maybe in the heat of

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Speaker 1: the moment, but like then I feel like I would

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Speaker 1: be like what did I just say? Sorry? Uh? I

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Speaker 1: would I would turn real awkward. Okay, So there's different

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Speaker 1: categories to this, Like so you look at Peter and daddy,

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Speaker 1: you look at me and be like, oh, he's he's

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Speaker 1: a wholesome, handsome one. He's a wholesome, young man who

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Speaker 1: looks like he has a good head on his shoulders.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to go to church to it, Ben,

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Speaker 1: and and Peter's a daddy. No, you take Bend and

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Speaker 1: you take Peter to uh man, my life? Good? Hey,

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Speaker 1: you know what, here's the deal? Um, this is such

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Speaker 1: an interesting topic and you have been a great caller. Dress.

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Speaker 1: I need all of the listeners out there to please

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Speaker 1: email us this week, Ashley. What's the email? It is

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Speaker 1: Ben and Ashley at I heart media dot com. You

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Speaker 1: guys are always all of your thoughts, all of your concerns.

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Speaker 1: Please let us know what you think you would call

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Speaker 1: Ashley if you're walking down the street, or what you'd

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Speaker 1: call me if you're walking down the street. And who

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Speaker 1: in your life do you refer to as a daddy?

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Alyssa. That was such a good call. On

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Speaker 1: next week on the podcast, we have Desiree hard Stock

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Speaker 1: talking about her new bridle line. It's gonna be great.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited. This has been a weird podcast. I've had

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Speaker 1: a blast with it. Ashley, You've been awesome. You made

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Speaker 1: me laugh as usual. Thank you all listeners out there listening.

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