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Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janne Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast. Okay,

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Speaker 1: two things. One thing I have to get off my

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Speaker 1: chest right now is Julia's going to pre school tomorrow

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Speaker 1: and I just we just started talking about it and

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Speaker 1: I got a little teerio like are you gonna cry?

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm already like pre schwitzing in my eyes.

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Speaker 1: I did like I'm gonna started thinking about it. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: it's like, it's my girl, and it's I'm so excited

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Speaker 1: for her, but I want her to have like her independence.

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Speaker 1: But it's like she's getting so independent now that I'm like,

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Speaker 1: it's beautiful, but it's also like it's breaking my heart

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Speaker 1: a little bit. And realize is they have their old

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Speaker 1: little life then I know, and I'm yeah, but I'm

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Speaker 1: just so used to her screaming at the door when

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Speaker 1: I leave, and you know, even like when I came

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Speaker 1: here today for the podcast, I was like bye baby.

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Speaker 1: She's like bye mama, and I was like, I love that.

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Speaker 1: But also I'm like, oh, like she's good. Tomorrow will

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Speaker 1: be hard. She's probably going to cry too. She's not

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Speaker 1: going because we went to church. We tried this new

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Speaker 1: church out here um on Sunday, and she she went

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Speaker 1: right in like the kids center. I didn't even like.

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Speaker 1: I was like, but by like, so she's fine. And

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Speaker 1: we went to we went to orientation last week and

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Speaker 1: when we second we got in her classroom, it's like

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Speaker 1: I wasn't even there. She's gonna be fine. It's gonna

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Speaker 1: be me. And that's the thing that the teacher said

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Speaker 1: to Mr. Dora was like, the kids are fine, it's

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Speaker 1: the parents. And I'm like, because I again like and

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Speaker 1: I won't let her see me cry, but I will

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Speaker 1: definitely leave and cry. But I'm filling my day tomorrow

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Speaker 1: with like a lot of stuff to keep me like occupied. Good. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like I have a workout right afterwards, and then I'm

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Speaker 1: hanging out and Sarah. By the way, I have to

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Speaker 1: talk about Sarah because she's coming over to work out too,

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Speaker 1: and she has oh my god, so okay, so John,

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Speaker 1: you were sick, but she like, just to catch you

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Speaker 1: up from last week. She's been in this relationship for

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Speaker 1: six years and she basically it's a time. It's time now,

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Speaker 1: you know. It's like it's been six years, like either

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Speaker 1: crap or get off the pot, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: So she wants either an engagement ring or moving on

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Speaker 1: because she feels like she's being held back. And Amy

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Speaker 1: was like, well, why do you need the ring? And

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Speaker 1: she's like, this is just who I am. Like I

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Speaker 1: she's like me where it's like I just I do

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Speaker 1: want a piece of paper. Thought about it a lot too,

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Speaker 1: because she wants what she wants and guess what, great,

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Speaker 1: but she people need it. Yeah, and that's the thing, like,

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Speaker 1: and she's because like they he wants kids, they want

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Speaker 1: to have kids. But at the same time, it's like

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Speaker 1: she wants it in the order. She's old school, she's

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Speaker 1: from Texas. Like that's just how that that's what she wants.

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Speaker 1: That's you know, and her she's very close to their

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Speaker 1: dad and all like all that stuff. So she was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I think because she's coming with me the I Heart

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Speaker 1: Radio Festival in September, and she's like, I think I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna do it, like either before that weekend or after

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Speaker 1: that weekend and just be like, look if it's not

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Speaker 1: this year, like I'm I want you to know I

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Speaker 1: am dead serious, Like I'm dead serious. And then she's

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Speaker 1: like and I won't. I was okay, but then you

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Speaker 1: can bring it up again, because if you keep bringing

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Speaker 1: it up, he might be like, fine, here's your Ethan ring,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like one exactly so, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, why don't you just listen to the

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Speaker 1: podcast together and you know, talk about it afterwards. And

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Speaker 1: she texted me she was in New York and she's like,

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Speaker 1: I couldn't wait till the podcast came out. She's like yeah.

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Speaker 1: She she goes, I sat him down, and she goes, tied,

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Speaker 1: I want you to know I am dead serious about

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Speaker 1: I will leave, and he goes, trust me, Sarah. She was,

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Speaker 1: it is a ring this year? Yeah, she goes, if

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Speaker 1: it's if it's not a ring this year, I'm gone

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Speaker 1: and he goes, trust me, Sarah, I know, I got it, okay,

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Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, now no more, no more,

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Speaker 1: I go, no more, and now let's start planning it with.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he has the ring, but I think

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Speaker 1: he knows how serious she is and he's an idiot

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Speaker 1: if he doesn't do it. Because now she said, what

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Speaker 1: you know it's this year or no? He said, I

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Speaker 1: hear you. I trust me, Sarah, I get it. I know. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And so I was like, okay, Sarah, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: but you have to. I don't care if it's December

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Speaker 1: thirty one, Do not say one word about it again,

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Speaker 1: because you will ruin this for yourself. She'll totally ruin it.

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Speaker 1: So I just okay, now she knows, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: now let's play a wedding because she wants to like

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Speaker 1: get married next year. So I was like, let's get

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Speaker 1: on it. Come on. So she's like, I don't know where.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to be inside, so

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Speaker 1: we'll see. And when you say that when she says

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Speaker 1: this year, doesn't mean just she wants to be engaged

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Speaker 1: by the end of this year. By the end of

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Speaker 1: the end of this year. But it's August, I know.

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Speaker 1: But you can get a ring turned around fast, you can.

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Speaker 1: My only thing is so she I think she wants

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Speaker 1: it done on her birthday, and my fear is that

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Speaker 1: if it's not done on her birthday, she's going to

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Speaker 1: get upset and then who knows, maybe maybe he's doing

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Speaker 1: it on New Year's eat. So that so I was like,

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Speaker 1: just give him, like you said, until January one. I

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Speaker 1: just feel like, and then I love it so uncome.

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Speaker 1: I like the expectation and then it's going to be

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Speaker 1: like up and down and up and down. But but

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Speaker 1: but this is what I told her. I was like,

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Speaker 1: don't don't put that on you. You've said it, and

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Speaker 1: now live for the next because you've already lived six

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Speaker 1: years of when is it going to be? So now

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Speaker 1: you have a couple of months. Enjoyed his next couple

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Speaker 1: of months because hopefully it will be coming time. If

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Speaker 1: you're listening to this, you should go get the ring now.

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Speaker 1: Don't make her way. And she wants three diamonds. He's

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Speaker 1: also listening, like, let's get really specific. She's got a

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Speaker 1: Pinterest board if you want to see it, like she

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Speaker 1: showed me and it's beautiful a little like it's anxious. Well,

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Speaker 1: I feel anxious for her because she's going to be

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Speaker 1: waiting and waiting and waiting, and she's already waited six years.

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Speaker 1: But still but now she's voiced, and so what's another

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Speaker 1: three months? Like she needs like a sedative, like I

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Speaker 1: can't I have some for her? She needs just Friday,

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Speaker 1: but he needs to wait though, it needs to hold

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Speaker 1: off a second until I think, I hope he does

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Speaker 1: it her under that you would love her. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: bring her in November immediately. No, it's a November. It

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Speaker 1: needs to be in November on the show. Oh my god, No,

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Speaker 1: she would not be happy about that. There's there's one

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Speaker 1: thing about Sarah's she wants it to be like I

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Speaker 1: can't we drink it. I can get some orchids and

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Speaker 1: when it happens though, we'll have Taie and Sarah both

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Speaker 1: Hey girl, it's Janna Jen and Amy. Hi, Jana Jin

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Speaker 1: and Amy? Are you are you doing? I'm great. I'm

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Speaker 1: at work. I can't believe you're a lawyer. Wait wait

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Speaker 1: like lawyer work or are you at like housewives work? No? No, no,

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Speaker 1: my god, wait, what could a law do you practice?

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Speaker 1: I do copyright? So photographers mostly so are they do?

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Speaker 1: what I mean? Like they right, like you own me?

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Speaker 1: Emily help. I you know, now I'm all confused. I

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Speaker 1: don't even know if I practiced copy right law anymore. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. Um, well it whoever owns the end

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Speaker 1: guess if you're if you're in public and you're just

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Speaker 1: but it's my face. My my parents created the face

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Speaker 1: that in one of my arguments. Yeah, exactly, she owns

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Speaker 1: a paparazzi shooting you right now, me, I'm not a figure.

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Speaker 1: I've never I was never a sorority girl. I couldn't

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Speaker 1: be around girls like that. Are not like that. I

425
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:39,159
Speaker 1: can tell you that, I girl. I mean, I just

426
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 1: don't believe either. I'm telling you guys and tories in

427
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:46,280
Speaker 1: the other room, she was in a sorority too. Sororities

428
00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:49,480
Speaker 1: are what you the exact opposite. I don't believe it.

429
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 1: Like I promise you, I will do a whole show

430
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 1: on it, because they are like the most loyal friends.

431
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:59,080
Speaker 1: They never talk bleep about these girls don't know how

432
00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,520
Speaker 1: not to talk. Kind of got the only thing we

433
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,680
Speaker 1: all have, the only thing that does happen in authority.

434
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 1: I will say this is sometimes girls kind of claim

435
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 1: the fraternity boy, and it's real vague on how long

436
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 1: that last. But that's really the only issue you have

437
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 1: is that they like might kiss some say, and then

438
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:20,639
Speaker 1: that guy's off limits to hi fies, you know what

439
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,360
Speaker 1: I mean. But that's the only thing I do because

440
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:29,360
Speaker 1: I cannot go and I and it's not that I'm

441
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 1: not a girl's like Emily, Like I would and here's

442
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 1: the thing, I would be, like you, I'd naively go

443
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 1: on a show like this and be like everyone's gonna

444
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,920
Speaker 1: like me because I'm friends with everybody and I'm nice

445
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 1: to people, and I don't want people to me, and

446
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 1: so in the second when something happens, I'd be like why,

447
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 1: Like it would tear me up that like I hurt

448
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 1: some because sometimes I'm very sarcastic and that does get

449
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 1: me into trouble at times, but it's not. I'm never

450
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 1: malicious in a way where I mean to hurt somebody's feelings.

451
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:56,680
Speaker 1: And that was the other thing is like, that's why

452
00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:58,919
Speaker 1: the other new girl, Gina, I actually like we're really

453
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 1: good friends and we bond because I think we kind

454
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,399
Speaker 1: of have the same personality where I spent my whole

455
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 1: life kind of bantering with my sister, like making fun

456
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 1: of each other with exactly you should be able to

457
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 1: make fun of your friends and joke around and be

458
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 1: sarcastic without someone thinking you're a horrible person and getting

459
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:20,120
Speaker 1: mad and like crying and running away. It's like we want,

460
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 1: but we also like what we probably do wrong too,

461
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 1: is we they might not know us as well as

462
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,879
Speaker 1: other people know us, so then they don't they're confused

463
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 1: with how we deliver certain things, which is you know,

464
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:35,880
Speaker 1: something that I have to remind myself of like, oh,

465
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 1: this person doesn't know my sarcasm, so they're not They're

466
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,239
Speaker 1: gonna think I'm being either a bee or something, but

467
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 1: I'm just it's my way of love. I make fun

468
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:50,120
Speaker 1: of you, and I like exactly totally. My mom got

469
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 1: so held the out of shape over Fourth of July

470
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:53,439
Speaker 1: because I was like making fun of her and I

471
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 1: was like, Mom, like, you know me, like that's like

472
00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 1: what we like. I love you, That's why I'm like

473
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 1: being that way. But sometimes I guess we can take

474
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 1: it too far, Emily, But I don't know. I guess,

475
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 1: but you know what, I can take it too though, though,

476
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:10,680
Speaker 1: yeah totally right. Well yeah, but yes, but if it's

477
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:14,719
Speaker 1: if it's I don't know, yes, yeah, no, totally. Um well,

478
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 1: I love you. Thank you so much for being on

479
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 1: the show. I think you're so sweet and honestly, because

480
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 1: if you you're the reason now I want to watch

481
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 1: Real Housewives and Orange County, so I'm going to tune in. Look,

482
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:29,679
Speaker 1: I like you, Okay, I like you exactly, all right,

483
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 1: talk soon, okay, best she's by. Oh she's sweet now.

484
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,679
Speaker 1: I want to watch her because I just be honest,

485
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:41,120
Speaker 1: I'm just not like a Housewives gal. I'm not either,

486
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,239
Speaker 1: and I have a few friends that like watch it

487
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 1: and they're like obsessed with it, but I just it

488
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,679
Speaker 1: gives me anxiety. It made me so fund out that

489
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 1: people are criticizing her husband. Do you think that's it

490
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 1: would be worse for you for what they do to

491
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 1: you or what they do to Michael. Oh, that's tough.

492
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I know Mike can handle himself, because there

493
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: are times when things people do still say mean things

494
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 1: about Michael, but not like he's gay or something like that,

495
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 1: Like that's that's hurtful. It's really like you can say like, oh,

496
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,919
Speaker 1: he's a cheater, okay, whatever, what like ha ha whatever,

497
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: But like to say that he's gay or like Mascalini

498
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:24,159
Speaker 1: mess whatever where it is. Yeah, yeah, judge that or

499
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 1: anything like that would be really tough. I think hard

500
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: on the kids. Yeah, I just think that's you know

501
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:33,360
Speaker 1: that information lives online for I will admit that sometimes.

502
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna really admit it that sometimes I may

503
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 1: judge or be gossipy or whatever, but only like privately.

504
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 1: I would never write it somewhere. So that's the part

505
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: that throws me off that they're like say it to you.

506
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 1: When I talk bad about you, Janna, I just do

507
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:55,120
Speaker 1: it in the other or somebody else, like I mean,

508
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: and then we get over it. It's sign there is

509
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 1: some element of human nature. But they're bullies. They're adult bullies.

510
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,439
Speaker 1: Well that's the thing. And I'm like, you're and you're like,

511
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 1: you're signing up for that, like you're signing up to

512
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 1: be told, like and that just that gives me so

513
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: much anxiety, like that, like through the way I could

514
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 1: ever do reality shows if it was literally just me

515
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: and my husband and like my friends, like my friends,

516
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 1: Like I could never be in a show with other

517
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:21,119
Speaker 1: women that are attacking me and my personality and like

518
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 1: that would that would just eat me alive. But at

519
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: the same time, there are women that can do that

520
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,679
Speaker 1: and that do have thicker skin. And that's now, this

521
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 1: is why we have enjoy Just don't because here's at

522
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 1: the end of the Yes, I'm sure like yeah, like Delta,

523
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 1: Delta game whatever, But those girls, you cannot tell me

524
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: they do not talk behind those girls other girls backs.

525
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: I don't believe it for a second that they don't.

526
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't experience that in my stroority.

527
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 1: And they're still my closest friends. And what's crazy is

528
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 1: you can go twenty years without talking to someone, but

529
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: you have that like camaraderie, ay sister bond that if

530
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 1: you need something and you're like, hey, and I haven't

531
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 1: talked to you in twenty years. I'm a Delta Gamma.

532
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:11,440
Speaker 1: Here's my number five five like reads Weatherspoon Action, it's

533
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 1: sort of like the loyalty. Yeah, I want you guys

534
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 1: to email me at Janna Creem and I heart media

535
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 1: dot com because I'd like to discuss more about this

536
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: um sorority girl stuff, because story real stories, like I

537
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:24,719
Speaker 1: want to hear I don't want to We were like

538
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 1: a best friends, Like I don't like, I don't believe you.

539
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 1: I want to hear something. They've got a little pinky

540
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 1: but otherwise are you coming to say, yeah, Tori? You

541
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: say what? This is Tori? Who's our who's like just

542
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 1: so beautiful. There's a girl that hated you. I know

543
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: for sure. She's tall, she's beautiful, she's like a runway model.

544
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: And I was a Kappa and Tori was a Kappa,

545
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 1: which is so you guys are automatically best friends and

546
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: I don't guess and why I hired her that I

547
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 1: would not have this job without having the legacy to

548
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 1: co call upon too. Okay, read Weatherspoon. I don't believe

549
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 1: you're the world. It is true that because I'm sure

550
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 1: I'm breaking some sort of HR code here. But both

551
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 1: my assistants were kappas at a different school than mine,

552
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: but they are sorority sisters. We still have the same

553
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,399
Speaker 1: password and the same handshake. It does give them an

554
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: advantage with me because I know we're in the bond

555
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,239
Speaker 1: you have a handshake. But I'll also say, it's just

556
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: like sisters. You know, you you you talk crap about

557
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 1: each other, you know, behind everything, but well you did

558
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: talk crap about it. You know, I'm saying it does

559
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:33,880
Speaker 1: an example. But we all share the same last name

560
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 1: as like a sister. Like that's your bond, you have

561
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:36,920
Speaker 1: your last name. It's kind of like that, like we're

562
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 1: all sisters. We're gonna fight with each other, We're gonna

563
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: be upset that you borrowed each other's hair spray without asking,

564
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: but but it's like you all share the last thing

565
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: that It's like we're all Kappas and we all choose

566
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 1: to be in a story together, like you're choosing. It's

567
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: like you're kind of choosing to love each other, like

568
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: you're choosing to be in a sorority. You're going to

569
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 1: choose to love each other through that and like just

570
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 1: have that kind of be the end goal, you know,

571
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: and like we choose you, you choose us. There is

572
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 1: some LM in to it, and I'm sure people write

573
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 1: in and have had a different experience, which I totally respect.

574
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 1: But I can only say as Kappa's, we don't see Kappa's.

575
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 1: Isn't that just like Daddy's credit card? Like I will

576
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: beg no, listen, you're gonna find that maybe at some schools,

577
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: but maybe maybe it's a jealousy thing. I look, I

578
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 1: didn't go to college. I didn't, but I would never

579
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: have signed up and I probably would have been and

580
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 1: we would have been best friends. Like I could not live,

581
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 1: like I would have started ceremony. But you don't act

582
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: at least like break out, not just live. I mean,

583
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: if you go to college, you live in the dorms,

584
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 1: it's no different. It's just all girls. And we only

585
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 1: had two girls. We had two girl rooms, so you

586
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: just had to have two girls in your room. Did

587
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 1: any girls like hook up? With each other any want

588
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:53,719
Speaker 1: to ask. No, nothing that I knew about. I mean,

589
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 1: I'm all for it, but not you know, I'm sure

590
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: that it happened like there there it was there one

591
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: girl in your authority that you were like, I don't

592
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: I don't like her wife. There's girls in my astority

593
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 1: where I'm like, we probably don't share any common grounds.

594
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: Maybe another person, but that would never make me feel

595
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: a different way towards them, as being like, she's just

596
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,239
Speaker 1: a cap of sister, you know. So she called you

597
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 1: the weird girl that was like, shouldn't have been in

598
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 1: you would like pick up her phone and hang out

599
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 1: with her? Yeah, but that's me. I think. I don't understand.

600
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 1: Obviously you had friends that you're closer with or not

601
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 1: as close with. You know what. Your bottom line, it's

602
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 1: sorties are for some people and not brothers. Yeah, that's it.

603
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 1: And it's not that I'm not a girl's girls. I

604
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 1: love you. I love you, that's the thing. I know.

605
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 1: You think I would have you so and you totally

606
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: would have been a rush chair pledge. I don't drink

607
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: like I don't get I had a sip of alcohol

608
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 1: in my whole life. They don't make you. They don't

609
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: make you do anything but give you candy and presents.

610
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: I swear they don't make you do anything that candy.

611
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 1: Are you trying to make me fat sabotazed? No, But

612
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 1: I didn't drink till I was twenty one, and I

613
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: thought for sure, like, oh my gosh, I'm gonna come

614
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: in here and nobody's gonna accept me, Like how am

615
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: I going to fit in with the cool frat boys?

616
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: But you just like like it's just people were like,

617
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 1: we know, we just want you to be here, and

618
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: in this moment, you still don't buy it. And I'm

619
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 1: telling you the best time. I just have a hard

620
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 1: time so fun. I wish I could go move back

621
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 1: in now. It was so terrible. I didn't do college,

622
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 1: so I went to college and I it was not

623
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 1: on my list of they seem it was not of

624
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 1: my college bucket list. This is a good debate, though,

625
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: so for the next episode next week. So email us

626
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 1: is it Janna Kramer at Kramer at heart media dot com.

627
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 1: I want to hear you some writing, sister, but some

628
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 1: people don't like it and some people do, so it'll

629
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 1: make like an interesting debate because I'm nothing but open minded. Yeah,

630
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: I mean into each his own right. It was so awesome.

631
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: It was so awesome. I tell you your your therapist.

632
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: We actually had on a couple of weeks ago. She

633
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: was a Capa Legacy and that's how we found her.

634
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: The Colorado Leslie and you guys, he we did like

635
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 1: I did the celebrity cappas, Oh marke Megan mar There's

636
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: something hidden about Mega Markele. There's something dark about her.

637
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 1: That's a whole another conversation. Yeah, I've talked about it

638
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: before and I'm going to talk about it again. Hello Fresh,

639
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640
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641
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642
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643
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 1: literally just having this conversation with a girlfriend of mine

644
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: the other day. She was like, I'm obsessed with Hello

645
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646
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647
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648
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649
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650
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Speaker 1: that there's so many times when you're reading a recipe

651
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652
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Speaker 1: ever again. But with Hello Fresh, it delivers exactly what

653
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659
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Speaker 1: three boxes. So I think that's a win for sure.

660
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 1: And also it's so great about it is that there's

661
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 1: so many benefits of actually subscribing, so you can keep

662
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: enjoying Hello Fresh week after week. The accounted so easy

663
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664
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Speaker 1: you want and the meals that you want. Again, and

665
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Speaker 1: and enter cramer sixty. I know I'm talking about Sarah

668
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,800
Speaker 1: a lot, but she was telling me that she's obsessed

669
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 1: with the housewives and I've personally never watched any of

670
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 1: them County Atlanta. It gives me, do you watch them?

671
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 1: Of course? I get anxiety. That's what gives me anxiety.

672
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 1: Is our girls like being just like vicious? Someone? Really,

673
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: which one more give us? Like? New York? I get

674
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 1: New York and New Jersey up, Bethany, Bethany Frankel, York.

675
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 1: Bethany Frankel's New York. Yes, I saw her catch a

676
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago. You did. Actually it was like

677
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 1: a year ago, but that was really sad news that

678
00:34:53,320 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: just happened. What happened? Shoot? You know it was an overdose?

679
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 1: She's here? Oh my god, Hi, I'm so excited. Hi.

680
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: All right, I'm super stoked because I have like the

681
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 1: biggest personality ever in the studio right now. And you're stunning.

682
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 1: You're so sweet. Thank you. This is what botox and

683
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 1: filler look like, right, gorgeous. So I'm pregnant and I

684
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 1: can't do botox right now, and I'm starting to get

685
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,240
Speaker 1: the lines. So start to hear that in your twenties

686
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:32,399
Speaker 1: something so But first of all, gonna be thirty five

687
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 1: in December. Know what babe, I got a bronze. These

688
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:43,759
Speaker 1: things I can play. You're I mean, you're beautiful. Okay

689
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 1: for those wives of Dallas, I've got Leanne lackin in

690
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 1: studio and hey, Sarah, are you here? Baby? Hey babe,

691
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 1: guess who's in the studio. Oh my god, stop, Oh

692
00:35:56,560 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 1: my god. This is the official hot Dog. Don't you

693
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 1: touch my listen, don't make me take this off my head.

694
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:11,359
Speaker 1: My girlfriend Sarah is literally obsessive. When she I told

695
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: her that you were going to be on the show,

696
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,720
Speaker 1: she was like, I mean, what was your response, Sarah?

697
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 1: I flipped out like I look, just one flip or

698
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 1: was it like a backflip with a twist. I mean,

699
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:25,400
Speaker 1: we're talking Olympics here. We are gold metal, like landing

700
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: on one foot. I've officially started sweating now and I

701
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: might be wet, but don't worry. I got a panting

702
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 1: lime on Sarah, so I need. So we kind of

703
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: recapped the show about of last week's about how you

704
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: know you? And I'm gonna tell lean this right now.

705
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 1: You've been Sarah has been dating this guy for six

706
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: years and can't get the ring. Oh dude, you gotta

707
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 1: close your legs. That's that, and that's the tip. But

708
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 1: you have to cut him off, cut him off or wait,

709
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:57,400
Speaker 1: is he like tremendously older than you? Because I don't know? No, Okay,

710
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,600
Speaker 1: oh yeah, because mine's only five years. But you know what,

711
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: honest like too, I mean, I feel like it was

712
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: a lot of pressure from my friends too, that they

713
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,400
Speaker 1: were like, that's how I am. I'm like, it's just

714
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 1: so much outside pressure. But like, what did you do?

715
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 1: I um, basically waited for the ring like a dodo

716
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,399
Speaker 1: butt because it took me nine years, So you got

717
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:19,399
Speaker 1: three more years, nine years. She got three more years.

718
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: I just sit down and shut up and take it

719
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,760
Speaker 1: nine years that No, I don't want them for Sarah

720
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: or you go ahead, Sarah. What we're gonna say yourself? Yeah,

721
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: I'm exhausted. My weave is exhausted. But it's the it's

722
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 1: the panty lana in your underwear, exhausted. Everything is exhausted.

723
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: Anything I can't, I can't, I can't. Do you really

724
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,399
Speaker 1: wait for nine years? Okay? Do you live with him? Yeah?

725
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: They live together? Well, of course, no, californ Um, But like,

726
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 1: why why did you wait nine years? Well? Because that

727
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: mind's the right one, and I'm to face it. I'm

728
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: never going to find anybody to put up with my

729
00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 1: ask like he does. I mean, and he's a car

730
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,240
Speaker 1: so I don't go to jail. And I'm crazy, like legit,

731
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 1: my mom had me tested. My mom had me tested.

732
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 1: And I don't necessarily belong in an institution, but I

733
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: would sure fit in't. Oh my god, I'm having right now.

734
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, We'll come on down. I'll wait for you.

735
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 1: I mean, she didn't give him birth yet. She's in

736
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 1: New York right now with your boyfriend. Of I'm sorry,

737
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 1: you don't have that kind of time. Oh you're in

738
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: New York. Well that runs high. I just stick good

739
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 1: at stick it out. No, she lives, No, she lives here.

740
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 1: She's just she's following him places. Yeah. Yeah, I help him. Yeah,

741
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: it's just the whole thing. You you help him, help

742
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 1: and hope, Like it's a long story. He does like

743
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 1: hockey schools for kids, and like I'm involved in his

744
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: dad and she does like the hockey school with him. Yeah,

745
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: he sounds like a super nice guy. He wants to

746
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 1: work with kids. You know you're gonna get pregnant, but

747
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 1: she wants to ring first. Yeah, you gotta do it

748
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 1: in order. I mean, that's and she's from Texas. Why

749
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 1: I'm childless because you're from Dallas. After years to take

750
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 1: a ring, so none's crawling out of me except for

751
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:10,280
Speaker 1: something that I took an xlex to get out. See,

752
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 1: this is what you don't want, Sarah. Okay, this this

753
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 1: can be you in a couple of years. So I'm motivated,

754
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 1: like right now, but you know what, just just you

755
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: just keep them. You get pictures and you know, you

756
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: show them the shapes and the things you like, and

757
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 1: you've already done all that ye recently though, like that

758
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:32,760
Speaker 1: was the thing. What does he say is the reason?

759
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 1: He just his reason is like, I mean, hello at

760
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,320
Speaker 1: the years, but he's like, what you know, what's the rush?

761
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 1: You know why he will the rush is that I

762
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: have over reason. They dry up rambling, so I will

763
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 1: just say do you or don't you? Because if you don't,

764
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:51,400
Speaker 1: just let me go so that I can, like at

765
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,359
Speaker 1: least try with someone else. I mean, look, I'm young,

766
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: I'm fresh, but you know, give me time because like

767
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 1: when I left, when I left the one before Rich,

768
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 1: I mean, do the fact that Rich picked me up.

769
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, really, how did you meet him? Oh,

770
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: how did I meet him? Um? So, Um, I was

771
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: at the Ritz Carlton in Dallas and I went with

772
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 1: a friend on a Thursday night, you know because I

773
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 1: used to be the place to go and um, and

774
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 1: he saw me and then apparently he knew my friend

775
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: who was we were both models back then, and so

776
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: he went to her Facebook page and like found me

777
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,440
Speaker 1: and her friends and then started messaging me, which I

778
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 1: thought was totally cute to flirt with me on Facebook.

779
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 1: But then it was like, you know, do you want

780
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: to go out? And I was like, dude, I don't

781
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 1: take people from the internet. That sounds so stupid, like everything.

782
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:39,319
Speaker 1: And then he was like, well google me, and I

783
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: was like that is the most conceited thing I've ever

784
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 1: freaking heard. You want me to google your ass and

785
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 1: before or after I've sleep with you, I mean, come on,

786
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 1: it's ridiculous. So but then, you know what, we hadn't

787
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 1: ever like officially met. But then when I finally agreed

788
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 1: to go out with them, I opened the door and y'all,

789
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 1: I was like, he's a shit shit. I mean like

790
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 1: I was like, it's not menial, yeah, and and I

791
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 1: mean like I opened the door and I thought, did

792
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: I brush my teeth or my underwear clean? Did I

793
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 1: save everything? Sure I had not. I'm pretty sure later

794
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 1: that night when he was running his hand up and

795
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 1: down my leg that he was like braiding the hair

796
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 1: on but it didn't stop him. So I mean like

797
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 1: he has stuck through some serious and so it's been

798
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 1: nine years. Um, it's will in February we celebrate ten

799
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 1: years and we're still not married. So when did you

800
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 1: get engaged? A freaking ring? Until all your friends? I

801
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: gave it to you and then they'll lay off. And

802
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 1: then that did you buy? Did you buy yourself that ring?

803
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 1: He bought you that right? Yes, it's his heart of

804
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 1: hearty Sarah, it's the heart. It's got three hearts on it. No,

805
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 1: it's got a market you know, it's got three diamonds.

806
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 1: Want to be but he's a police officer. I literally

807
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:50,240
Speaker 1: thought that his father was a money manager and managed

808
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 1: money for a lot of really wealthy people. And then

809
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 1: when his sadly his father contructed lung cancer and it

810
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 1: metastasized into his brain and he and I took care

811
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 1: of his father until his father passed. And so his

812
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 1: father left all of the children very well off, and

813
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 1: so do you have any regrets of not having kids? No?

814
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 1: Have you seen kids? Sorry monkeys with teeth? No, regrets

815
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,919
Speaker 1: of not doing it like sooner, Like do you look

816
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: back and you're like I wish I like we were

817
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: married like five years ago. Really No, I'm so like

818
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:29,879
Speaker 1: go with the flow and you so you've just never

819
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 1: had the maternal instinct you didn't want You've never wanted kids,

820
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: so you don't want to see like, I'm just not

821
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 1: kid frondly does he have children? Yes? He has a

822
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 1: twenty year old Okay, yeah, do you now like girl

823
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:44,280
Speaker 1: or boy? Girl? Do you guys get We get along great,

824
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 1: we get along. About the ex wife? Um, I don't

825
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 1: really have to deal with her. I mean right because

826
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,319
Speaker 1: the child is grown, she's an adult. Yeah, thank god,

827
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 1: yeah saying that thing. No, not at all. I just

828
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 1: I'm just so curious because it's like I've like when

829
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 1: I was like five, I was like I want to

830
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 1: be a mom, like just like you have that maternal

831
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,399
Speaker 1: nurturing and I love women that know that the way

832
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 1: they don't that you grew up with a mother and

833
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,839
Speaker 1: a father and you had a nice childhood. No, No,

834
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 1: I mean I grew up with a mom and a dad,

835
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,359
Speaker 1: but they were divorced. My dad. I caught my dad

836
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 1: cheating like the whole nine yards, so it's like and

837
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 1: then you know, I dated that men from there. But

838
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,359
Speaker 1: I've always wanted to be a mom. Like but I

839
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 1: love the fact that, like when women know that they're

840
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: just like this is I don't and it's okay. And

841
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: I was. I was abandoned by my mother and my

842
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,720
Speaker 1: biological father divorced my mother before that, and my grandmother

843
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 1: gratefully took me in. And then I was sexually molested

844
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,359
Speaker 1: for the next eight years by my best friend's father

845
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 1: across the street every other weekend. So I didn't have

846
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 1: any desire to bring a child into a world that

847
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: I felt would do nothing but torture it. Right, But

848
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 1: what about changing that? Did you ever think my time

849
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 1: changing other people's lives? Like, That's why I do so

850
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: much charity and nonprofit and reach out to my community.

851
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 1: That's my thing. I pay it forward. I don't want

852
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: to see anybody with shame, shame kills, I don't want

853
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 1: to see anybody suffer. I am about making other people's

854
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 1: lives better because I know what it's like to not

855
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 1: have a great life. Wow, well that's beautiful. But that's

856
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 1: amazing though that you you you didn't become bitter from that,

857
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,839
Speaker 1: you'd become a you know drug, you have a choice. Well,

858
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: you know. And I've had a lot of friends like

859
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 1: when I tell them the whole, like everything that I

860
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 1: went through, They're like, how are you not a crack hooker?

861
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, by the grace of God. And

862
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:36,760
Speaker 1: you know, I make mistakes and I'm gonna keep falling

863
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 1: because I'm human. But at the same time, if I

864
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 1: don't try every day to wake up and be better,

865
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 1: do better, live better, give better, then that's my own

866
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:48,879
Speaker 1: damn faults. And you have nobody to blame and talk

867
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:51,399
Speaker 1: crop about but me. But because I get up every

868
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 1: day and live acts two, I've pitched my tent in

869
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,480
Speaker 1: the land of hope. Mind you, Sometimes that tent isn't

870
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 1: a damn swamp and I'm swimming from a lab with

871
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: a date or but you know, I'm still pitching it.

872
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 1: I'm still trying. And that's what life is about, dude.

873
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 1: You don't Life doesn't end until you quit. So don't quit.

874
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:13,360
Speaker 1: Don't quit, because tomorrow is gonna be different. I love that. Hey, Sarah,

875
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: we gotta take a call from Joe Nichols. So I

876
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 1: love you. We'll talk soon. You want to say, Battie

877
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 1: your love of your life? Fine, you got a girl,

878
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 1: you can get that rainy Um. So I'm playing a

879
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:34,319
Speaker 1: show with Um, Toby, Keith, Nelly, Joe Nichols. So we'd

880
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 1: have to take a call from Joe really fasty mind,

881
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 1: and you can just google him. He's real cute, so

882
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 1: you can jump on alien Joe. Hey, Darlin, it's Janna.

883
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 1: And by the way, I have a studio filled with

884
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 1: ladies right now. Hello, Hi Joy are you Oh there's

885
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: that country boy? Hey? How ex? I didn't are you

886
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 1: to come play a l A very sad? I think

887
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 1: I've always heard of the form, I've never been there,

888
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 1: And you've never been to l A. No, he's never

889
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 1: been to the Oh. Okay, for people listening that don't know,

890
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: the Forum is like an iconic venue in l A.

891
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,760
Speaker 1: And Jenna will explain. But this is like so crazy

892
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,760
Speaker 1: what you're doing that it's a tailgate fest. So people

893
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 1: can actually go to this concert in their trucks and

894
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 1: watched the show from their tailgate. Yeah, that's exactly right.

895
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 1: I don't have many trucks there are in LA. But yeah, hey,

896
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: my husband's got a truck. So he's the one out

897
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 1: of something, you know, so he'll he'll at least bring

898
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: his truck. But hey, Joe, what's that thing you're you're

899
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 1: you just released the Tradition Country Songs this year. Yes, Um,

900
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 1: it's called to Never Gets Told Traditional Country Series. Basically

901
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: what it is is, um, I went back and took

902
00:46:56,600 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 1: some of my favorite songs growing up, country songs by

903
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,320
Speaker 1: some of my favorite country singers. That it's just a series.

904
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 1: We released the song every month that uh, there's one

905
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 1: from a like a throwback song like that like no

906
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 1: getting from Me for money Mills. Yeah, people that are

907
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 1: closer to my age in the room, I'll know that song.

908
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:24,480
Speaker 1: You can try anything you I love that. Thank you

909
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: very quick Country radio right now, you have any are

910
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 1: you releasing any more singles? Or what's going on? Tommy

911
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 1: Tommy Thomas. We had it's been kind of a UM,

912
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:37,799
Speaker 1: I don't know how to put it, but it's been

913
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:41,760
Speaker 1: kind of a whirlwind of events. Again, they closed the labels,

914
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:44,280
Speaker 1: the imprint that I was on and kind of absorbed

915
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 1: me into a different label. In that time, we had

916
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 1: a song called Billy Graham's Bottle that, um, you know,

917
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 1: there's the staff. Half the staff was gone so they

918
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:56,320
Speaker 1: couldn't like really keep working, and so in the shuffle,

919
00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 1: you know, Billy Gram's Bottle was kind of lost. But

920
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 1: I think going to go in and recording new stuff

921
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: and I'm writing and looking for songs and and well,

922
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,240
Speaker 1: I love that, and I love you. I think you're awesome.

923
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 1: You've always been very sweet to me every time I've

924
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 1: opened for you, So thank you for that. And um,

925
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 1: I'm excited to see you in l A at the

926
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 1: Forum tailgate party. It's gonna be fun. September one, Labor

927
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 1: Day weekend. You can go to uh l A tailgate

928
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: Fest dot com to get your tickets. I love you, Joe,

929
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: I love y'all to thank you very much. And if

930
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 1: you want to see Joanna at the tailgate fest, you

931
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 1: can go. We're raising money for charity for the Red Cross,

932
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: so you can go to if only dot com and

933
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:41,720
Speaker 1: bid on two tickets, v I P tickets, pit passes

934
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:44,280
Speaker 1: and you get to meet Joe Nichols and Randy Houser

935
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 1: not me apparently, but that's fine. Were good are Yeah,

936
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:55,919
Speaker 1: it's cool. I'm fine whatever, just just it's all good.

937
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 1: I've been so busy. I'm the first. It's all good.

938
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: I'm the first person to be playing that show. It's

939
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: it's fine. I'll just don't don't seem better about this

940
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 1: at all. I don't at all. His doctor friends will

941
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 1: be like, they're like raging on. So it's cool. They'll

942
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:12,799
Speaker 1: be like five people for me. But if you guys

943
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 1: want to come early and support, you know, a little people,

944
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,439
Speaker 1: come on, she's not so little people, She's pregnant. Yeah,

945
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:21,319
Speaker 1: I got two people the name Hey, okay, so can

946
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 1: I just read this for tou liam. It says Leanne

947
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 1: is determined to change her impulsive behavior with the help

948
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:30,320
Speaker 1: of medication meditation. But you can read it as medication

949
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 1: and if you've got some past, yeah, see what pregnancy

950
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: does to you people? Nothing good. You think this is bad,

951
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: wait till the kid comes out? Literally underlined it two.

952
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 1: I was like, wow, she's that's that's very vocal to

953
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 1: do medication about, like your impulsive behavior meditation. You're not

954
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,839
Speaker 1: miss that medication, don't you? Because you're pregnant? I know right.

955
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,920
Speaker 1: My head is so cloudy. Um, so to talk to

956
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 1: me about so you're like admitting that you have an

957
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 1: impulsive behavior totally do from my childhood. Actually, Um, for

958
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 1: the first time at the season two reunion, I really

959
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 1: challenged myself. I said, I want to take behavioral management.

960
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 1: I want to learn how to manage my anger. I'm

961
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 1: not very good. I'm very quick to anger, and trust me,

962
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 1: nobody wants to give me angry Satan himself doesn't want

963
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 1: to come for me. Okay, Um, So I said, I

964
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 1: want to I want to do therapy alter my behavior. Well,

965
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,839
Speaker 1: I found out that actually you can't. There's a part

966
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 1: of your brain called the amygdala, and it's your fight

967
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 1: flight or freeze part of your brain. So when you're

968
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 1: amgdala kicks in, especially if you have PTSD like I do,

969
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 1: the entire rest of your brain shuts down and all

970
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 1: the blood goes to your amygdala. It's a survival instinct.

971
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: So I literally can't alter my behavior because my behavior

972
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 1: is keeping me alive. So when you're a child, if

973
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: you're tortured, you amygdala grows exponentially, and the larger that

974
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:55,799
Speaker 1: you're amigdala is the faster you react. So and then

975
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,600
Speaker 1: it's why you do sorry meditation. So monks have been

976
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: the only people and that have shown to be able

977
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 1: to shrink through migdala because they spend so much of

978
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:06,359
Speaker 1: their time meditating. So I took up meditation. I made

979
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 1: sure to meditate every morning every time before we went

980
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 1: and filmed. I was just I found my zen and

981
00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: you know, you can just watch the girls try to

982
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 1: get me out of my zoon. I was just, is there,

983
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 1: like is it tam transidental meditation or is it literally

984
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: just I m I went and did a meditation class

985
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: with David's Sunshine, the director of the Dallas Yogi Center,

986
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: that's his real name. Like, I want to be Land Sunshine.

987
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 1: I just want to be that. I at least want

988
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 1: the rainbows and the glitter one bang one bang um.

989
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:45,239
Speaker 1: So I took a class in it, and then he

990
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 1: was kind enough to gift me a meditation bowl and

991
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:50,839
Speaker 1: so I take it home, and you know, I took

992
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 1: it with me on if your drops, let's face it

993
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 1: every now and then. Banging the bowl really helped. So yeah,

994
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 1: basically I'm just a bowl banging be this year. So,

995
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:03,840
Speaker 1: I mean, you obviously have a personality that's but you

996
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 1: also have such like you have the person no you

997
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 1: have trauma from your childhood, you have you know, like,

998
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 1: do you sometimes put on that persona to mask that

999
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:15,880
Speaker 1: or is that just is that just your way of

1000
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:19,880
Speaker 1: being like trying to be fun and funny and I

1001
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 1: like to be Listen, I've lived the minutia who wants

1002
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 1: to swim through it on a daily base. So you're like,

1003
00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 1: I want to be happy, I want to be I

1004
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 1: want to have fun. I'm the fun girl. I'm the

1005
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,279
Speaker 1: party girl. I'm the one that every one of my

1006
00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 1: friends is like, oh my gosh, we're gonna have this

1007
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 1: event when you come sat at the table because you'll

1008
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 1: make the party. I'm the fun table. And so for me,

1009
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: it's hard because I've never really gotten to be able

1010
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 1: to show that to my cast members because they don't

1011
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:46,800
Speaker 1: ever want to see that. They want to be like

1012
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:51,000
Speaker 1: bully beast Bear, Well why don't you show them that

1013
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 1: the other side? And they're not you Listen, you can

1014
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,919
Speaker 1: put blinders on a horse, but that doesn't mean they're

1015
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 1: going to see something through the blinder. But what if

1016
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:02,520
Speaker 1: you get real, like real vulnerable and honest about I've

1017
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:05,879
Speaker 1: done that, You've tried, yeah, yeah, really, Like I mean, look,

1018
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 1: I did actual therapy on camera last year with a

1019
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 1: real therapist that I've basically told my therapist last year.

1020
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:14,879
Speaker 1: If I if you don't break me every time I'm

1021
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:18,320
Speaker 1: in here, you're wasting my time. I have no time

1022
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 1: to just sit here. And I can chat with anybody.

1023
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 1: I can go down to Starbucks and chat with somebody.

1024
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 1: I want to learn, I want to grow. I can't

1025
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 1: do that without guidance. And so that's one of the

1026
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:33,919
Speaker 1: things that I constantly am learning and growing. And I'll

1027
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: show you on my phone. There's actually a place in

1028
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: Dallas that I plan on starting to go to. It's

1029
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 1: a it's a neurological center where they put a cap

1030
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 1: on you and it just you stare at a really

1031
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: peaceful thing and then you get to see what your

1032
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:48,800
Speaker 1: brain is actually going through in this moment of peace.

1033
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 1: And my brain is what's called hyper vigilant. It never stops,

1034
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,000
Speaker 1: it's always going. It's if things are good, it's like,

1035
00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:00,319
Speaker 1: when's a crap and fallout, who's gonna tip me? How

1036
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 1: did the anger management classes work? Because I know my

1037
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 1: husband had to take some because he's got like he's

1038
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 1: got a very short temper and he it's it's it's been. Luckily,

1039
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:11,399
Speaker 1: he's taken anger management therapy and he's gotten so much better,

1040
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:14,239
Speaker 1: But it's still like when that's a part of you,

1041
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 1: like when it's your core, and when people push your triggers,

1042
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 1: and so what you have to do is change your triggers,

1043
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:23,839
Speaker 1: and you're everyone's going to get to see that. This year,

1044
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:27,439
Speaker 1: I changed my buttons. So you can type all you want,

1045
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 1: but you're gonna have to hit nipples to get me

1046
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,200
Speaker 1: to go, well, how did you how did you change?

1047
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 1: How did you change your triggers? Therapy hard, hard, weekly work.

1048
00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:39,960
Speaker 1: Does rich go to therapy with you? Sometimes he's gone

1049
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:42,840
Speaker 1: with me just so that um, he can understand what

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Speaker 1: it's like to go through like I mean, for instance,

1051
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 1: I'm actually now with a brand new therapist, and one

1052
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 1: of the things that I never knew. Part of my

1053
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: anger comes from the fact that I'm pissed at my

1054
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 1: three year old self for never telling anybody what I

1055
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 1: was going through. And my therapist just like, have you

1056
00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:58,320
Speaker 1: do you know what a three year old looks like?

1057
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, I don't, well you from your

1058
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:02,839
Speaker 1: three year old, But my three year old takes over.

1059
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 1: She's so angry at the world and I'm as an

1060
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 1: adult so mad at her for not telling somebody. Yeah,

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00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 1: And so for the first time when my therapist was like,

1062
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:13,920
Speaker 1: you know, Lee, and I'm really proud of your three

1063
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:15,400
Speaker 1: year old self because she did the right thing. She

1064
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 1: kept her mouth shut, she took it, and she survived.

1065
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 1: Not a lot of three year old survived. And and

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00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:23,320
Speaker 1: what's crazy too, and like a relationship because Michael and

1067
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,360
Speaker 1: I did a whole intensive It was like, I'm I

1068
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 1: always go to my five year old self, and he

1069
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 1: always goes to his you know, and his is another age,

1070
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 1: So are fourteen and five year old? Yeah? And I

1071
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 1: don't Yeah, I just want to be loved and told

1072
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:37,800
Speaker 1: I'm good enough. And that's your five year old that

1073
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 1: didn't get that. So my seven year old didn't get that.

1074
00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 1: My seven year old never got my mother's approval or

1075
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:44,759
Speaker 1: my mother's love. I never I was never told I

1076
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:46,799
Speaker 1: was good enough for my mom. So when your own

1077
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 1: mother doesn't want you, why would anybody else? Exactly? So

1078
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:52,840
Speaker 1: there's also so I have variations of all that, but

1079
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: you know that that what my therapist says to me

1080
00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:56,399
Speaker 1: is do you really want your five year old self

1081
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 1: front in your line? No? And that's the thing you

1082
00:55:58,040 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 1: have to you have to speak from here and that,

1083
00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 1: but it takes so it's like, oh my god, I

1084
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 1: never realized that I was speaking from my five year

1085
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 1: old self the internet and I didn't either. And you

1086
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 1: know what, though, when you revelation is amazing the change,

1087
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 1: and it's like, I mean, and you know what I

1088
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 1: do now. I actually have a picture of my three

1089
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:17,400
Speaker 1: year old self on my desk. Michael has a picture

1090
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 1: of me five year old in his wallet. So it's

1091
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 1: like he's because he knows now not to attack that

1092
00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 1: five year old and I speak, You're like, no, it's

1093
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 1: but it's work. But it's amazing though, and I'm doing

1094
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:37,440
Speaker 1: it all on national television. Okay, So there's here's my

1095
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:40,640
Speaker 1: question for that. How like, what made you you just

1096
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:43,959
Speaker 1: like open book, don't care because you know what, Look,

1097
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 1: did you think when I walked intoday you were going

1098
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:48,320
Speaker 1: to talk about this or we were going to connect

1099
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 1: on this level? Not at all? So think about how

1100
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,600
Speaker 1: many millions of people are out there struggling and not

1101
00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 1: understanding why they can't communicate with one another, and we're

1102
00:56:57,200 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 1: giving him the answer. I'm going to lead him through

1103
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 1: how to make it better. And if I can first

1104
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 1: of all give someone the answer of what the hell

1105
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: is going on and then give them the steps to

1106
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 1: take to be a happier person, why wouldn't I want

1107
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 1: to do that? Listen, honey, Jesus Christ nailed himself to

1108
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 1: a cross and bled to death. I'm not going to

1109
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 1: go that far, but I'm willing to go through the

1110
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 1: rest of it. So why not help other people pay

1111
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 1: it forward? I've listen at this point, You're not going

1112
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 1: to torture me or say something to me that I

1113
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 1: haven't already survived. That's to live it out though on

1114
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:34,320
Speaker 1: national TV, especially with girls being so vicious pett Yeah,

1115
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: I mean, doesn't that denis get to you at all?

1116
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 1: It's it's it's them, It's their problem, not mine. Yeah,

1117
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 1: but there's nothing that creeps in. Remember that's true. And

1118
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm very grounded, and I know who I am. The

1119
00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 1: one thing that my grandmother gave me is I know

1120
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 1: who I am, where I am, and when I am do.

1121
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:53,320
Speaker 1: I make mistakes and I own every single one of them,

1122
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 1: and I apologize for them, but I don't disguise them

1123
00:57:56,400 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 1: or make excuses for them. Is it getting easier as

1124
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:02,120
Speaker 1: you get older? One you care less. Like at forty,

1125
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Speaker 1: I felt like I was better than thirties. I'm hoping girl,

1126
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 1: that middle finger gets a lot of use. I feel like,

1127
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 1: as you like creep into your forties, I felt like

1128
00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 1: that's when I just you breathe. You breathe, and that's

1129
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:21,520
Speaker 1: why Bethany says it, but that's why you know. But

1130
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 1: like you breathe and then you're like, oh wait, because

1131
00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 1: here's your twenties. It is all about you. You know,

1132
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:29,520
Speaker 1: it's all about you. Every time everybody says something it's

1133
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 1: about you. Thirties you're like, were they talking about me?

1134
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 1: Is this about me? And then forties you're like, listen, honey,

1135
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: this is your damn problem. And come fifty you're like,

1136
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 1: really need to figure that out because that does So

1137
00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 1: you're as far as you guys, But I'm tag you're it. No,

1138
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Speaker 1: But I just I do love the fact that you have.

1139
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Speaker 1: You have you have sold to you have a story,

1140
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 1: and you have heart and you're not just playing a character. Now.

1141
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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to sell you anything. I'm just here,

1142
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:04,840
Speaker 1: thank you. If I live my authentic life and it

1143
00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: benefits one person, then my life will not have been

1144
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 1: in vain and all that struggle and all the minutia

1145
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: I went through, you know, had a purpose exactly. That's

1146
00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 1: what I was saying, take the pain and make it

1147
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 1: a purpose. And that's what that has been my journey

1148
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 1: my entire life. I am one of the of all

1149
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:28,800
Speaker 1: my cast I probably am the one person who's in

1150
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 1: my community the most hands on bringing awareness. Um you know,

1151
00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 1: I live and breathe happiest in my LGBT community. Um

1152
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 1: I just I feel at peace with other people who struggle,

1153
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 1: and I feel a connection, and I feel like I

1154
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 1: just want to, like I want to take their pain.

1155
00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 1: I just want to, you know, inhale their pain away

1156
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: and give them a moment of happiness. And so if

1157
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:58,160
Speaker 1: I can do that, that's you know, worth everything I

1158
00:59:58,200 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: have to go through to get there. I don't care

1159
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 1: how these girls torture me. I really don't. Seriously, I

1160
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Speaker 1: you're pregnant right now. I'm pregnant too today. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I'm how many weeks are you? Oh my god? Me too?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Well, I'm I'm do technically my do day.

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Speaker 1: my first one, and I just don't want to do

1203
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Speaker 1: be back. Yes, oh my god, is back. It's it's

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm good. Like yeah, I'm like, I'm

1208
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Speaker 1: not going to have you had natural all of them? Yes, yes, okay,

1209
01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 1: well that's awesome and oh my god, I'm just like

1210
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Speaker 1: I keep telling my husband because he's six six three

1211
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 1: something town this is too. We know when my husband's

1212
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 1: cocktails after we dropped these babies, all yes, seriously, and

1213
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Speaker 1: I'm like that's why. I'm like, because do you know

1214
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:18,800
Speaker 1: if you're having a boy or a girl. No, we're

1215
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:21,040
Speaker 1: waiting for the push. Okay, you're waiting for the us. Okay,

1216
01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 1: well we're having a boy. And like again, my husband's

1217
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 1: sex sex, he's not, um, I think he's like two something,

1218
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 1: but he's like he's he's have long babies. Your babies

1219
01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:32,280
Speaker 1: come out long. My three year old is looks like

1220
01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 1: a five year old. Yeah, my five year old looked

1221
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 1: about ten. Yeah, was like, um, how old is he again? Exactly,

1222
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 1: he's he's huge and he's but and you push that out.

1223
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Speaker 1: Oh my girl. I told my husband I don't know what,

1224
01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 1: but I was clearly meant to have your babies. I mean,

1225
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Speaker 1: my husband, my son was almost ten, Towns and you

1226
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:56,920
Speaker 1: did you tear. Did you tear it all? No? I didn't.

1227
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Speaker 1: Was amazing, Like he his time and he did the

1228
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Speaker 1: whole perennial what's they called the perennial perennial massage or

1229
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Speaker 1: whatever it's called, um, where they like move you up

1230
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 1: before the baby comes out. You're not going to there,

1231
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Speaker 1: We're gonna take our task. Oh my gosh. Good. And

1232
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Speaker 1: I told him. I was like, listen, um, my husband

1233
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Speaker 1: wants four. And I told him this baby has already

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Speaker 1: caused us to have to push our due dates forward,

1235
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Speaker 1: pushed up a week. It's it's already big. And I'm like, look,

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Speaker 1: unless you plan on reconstructing this bo vagina, Like I

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Speaker 1: don't know what we're gonna crazy? Oh my god? Do

1238
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Speaker 1: you well, what do you want? Do you want for?

1239
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 1: Or you find the three? You know, I'm fine with three.

1240
01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 1: I was fine with two. Yeah, same disease. Right, Um,

1241
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:46,760
Speaker 1: but you know, once to once they get all independent

1242
01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 1: and stuff, and you kind of missed that baby stage.

1243
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Speaker 1: So I know that's so we're just we're just talking

1244
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:54,960
Speaker 1: about that because my daughter goes to her first day

1245
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Speaker 1: preschool um tomorrow and it's just like I love the independence.

1246
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 1: At the same time, I'm excited to have the baby

1247
01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 1: now because I'm like, I want a baby again, you know,

1248
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Speaker 1: I wanted, like I want to feel that baby and

1249
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Speaker 1: umzing What I also love too is, um, we also

1250
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 1: meant not only our husband's sexex and we're both of

1251
01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 1: the so many weeks pregnant together, but you've also had

1252
01:05:15,080 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 1: um a miscarriage as well, and I've been very vocal

1253
01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 1: about my miscarriage is too, so UM. I actually, um

1254
01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:24,200
Speaker 1: went on your Twitter and I was seeing some of

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Speaker 1: the things you were posting about it, and UM, yeah,

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01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:29,240
Speaker 1: it's it's amazing. I don't know if you had the

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01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:33,440
Speaker 1: same um issue as me, but I'm sure you can relate. UM.

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Speaker 1: I did an article on my mom based business, like

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01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 1: on a website not for Lazy moms dot com, and

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01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 1: I talked about pregnancy after miscarriage and how I was

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01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:46,080
Speaker 1: afraid and it took me a little while to really

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Speaker 1: start to enjoy this pregnancy. And now I'm like, I'm

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01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:52,040
Speaker 1: trying to push you out of my head. I'm you know,

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01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:54,240
Speaker 1: just trying to like really enjoyed the same way I

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01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 1: enjoyed my mother too. You know, Monique, I hear you

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01:05:56,680 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 1: more than anything, and Honestly, it's I had a count

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Speaker 1: out on my phone to twenty four weeks because I've

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01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 1: just now started to be able to be like, okay,

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01:06:06,080 --> 01:06:09,000
Speaker 1: if the baby was born now, it could possibly have

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01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 1: like a sixty percent chance of living. And I still look,

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01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 1: this is so morbid. But every time like this is

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01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:16,440
Speaker 1: like t M I too. Every time I go to

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01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:18,440
Speaker 1: the bathroom, I look to see if there's blood. Yes,

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01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 1: I wrote an article, did you Oh my god, I

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01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 1: have to reach the article. I'm getting chills. But yeah,

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01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:27,000
Speaker 1: it's like and it had no idea, but it's it

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01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: sucks because we can't because because I still even though

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01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 1: I'm twenty four, even though I'm like, okay, there's a

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01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:33,720
Speaker 1: chance that if the baby came now would be okay.

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01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:36,240
Speaker 1: But there's still that chance. And because we've like you know,

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01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:39,520
Speaker 1: I've had multiple miscarriages, and it's just with you too.

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01:06:39,640 --> 01:06:42,360
Speaker 1: It's like I haven't gotten to the point where I

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01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:44,560
Speaker 1: can really relax yet and I have the monitor or

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01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:47,760
Speaker 1: I have the the the Doppler mark that hop. So

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01:06:47,840 --> 01:06:49,560
Speaker 1: it's like I try not to do every day. I'm

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01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: trying to do it every other day. But if I

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01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:52,720
Speaker 1: don't feel it, you know, feel the baby boy moving

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01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:55,600
Speaker 1: and I start freaking out. I'm like, I'm not for me.

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01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 1: I almost think that I don't deserve, like I don't

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01:06:57,760 --> 01:07:00,840
Speaker 1: not have that I don't deserve it, but that it's

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01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: not going to happen. I don't know, I just have

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01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 1: It's it's so scary. It's like it can't be that good.

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01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:09,400
Speaker 1: It's it can't because a way. Yeah, no, I totally

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01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:12,320
Speaker 1: feel you, But girl, just try to indulge in a

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01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 1: moment and just you know, try to figure out a

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01:07:15,080 --> 01:07:16,840
Speaker 1: way to just like push it out of your head

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01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 1: and just like you know, like one thing it taught

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01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:21,640
Speaker 1: me and I'm sure you can relate as well. Um,

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01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 1: we have literally no control. I'm like, you know, like

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01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 1: we literally have no control, but I think we do,

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01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:33,480
Speaker 1: like my head says that we do. Yeah, like my girlfriends,

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01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:35,480
Speaker 1: Like some of my girlfriends are fine with drinking wine

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01:07:35,600 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 1: during pregnant and no judgment if women do. And I

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01:07:38,880 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 1: know that one sip of wine wouldn't hurt me, but

1305
01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:43,520
Speaker 1: God forbid, if I took one sip of wine and

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01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 1: something happened to the baby, I'd blame myself for the

1307
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:48,280
Speaker 1: rest of my life. Yeah, and even with me, like

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01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:50,120
Speaker 1: I can't even stand the smell of it. Like my

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01:07:50,240 --> 01:07:57,120
Speaker 1: husband drinks our favorite wine weekly and my husband did that,

1310
01:07:57,280 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 1: I would be so bad that last like right there,

1311
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:03,440
Speaker 1: and I'm just like just the smell of it. I'm

1312
01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:06,400
Speaker 1: just like ill like that. It's so crazy because I

1313
01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:11,320
Speaker 1: loved wine girl, and it's saying every night like, yeah,

1314
01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:14,560
Speaker 1: I'm not pregnant. It's like my it's my sanctuary, my

1315
01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:17,760
Speaker 1: best friend. Ye and now it's like my favorite thing

1316
01:08:17,800 --> 01:08:20,639
Speaker 1: to drink is like a cinnamon tea with a little creamer.

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01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:28,000
Speaker 1: That's How are you on the Housewives? You're so nice?

1318
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:32,120
Speaker 1: Trust if you if you ever watched the episode, you'll

1319
01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 1: be like, what are you doing? Well? Now, I'm like,

1320
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:35,240
Speaker 1: now I'm going to because I just feel like we

1321
01:08:35,320 --> 01:08:37,000
Speaker 1: have so much in common and I can't wait to

1322
01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:39,680
Speaker 1: read's name your blog again? What is it? It's not

1323
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:42,360
Speaker 1: for Lazy Moms dot com? And you have a podcast,

1324
01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:50,040
Speaker 1: don't you with Heart Radio? Okay girl another Yeah, we

1325
01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:53,400
Speaker 1: just launched it two weeks ago, so congratulations, thank you.

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01:08:53,880 --> 01:08:57,599
Speaker 1: It's releasing on Wednesday. And it's funny because my husband

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01:08:57,680 --> 01:09:00,760
Speaker 1: is one of my co hosts. I love, so it's

1328
01:09:00,840 --> 01:09:03,120
Speaker 1: really funny, like you get to see a different side

1329
01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:06,439
Speaker 1: of us um outside of the show, because we're totally

1330
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:10,800
Speaker 1: like totally being ourselves and he's so unfiltered and people

1331
01:09:10,880 --> 01:09:13,040
Speaker 1: just cracked up and left. He's hilarious. What is what

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01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:16,160
Speaker 1: is your husband's background? What's his what do Oh? Yeah,

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01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 1: he actually played for Washington Redskins. Husband. Oh my god,

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01:09:25,080 --> 01:09:31,479
Speaker 1: where this lilired? Yeah? My husband played. He played for

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01:09:32,040 --> 01:09:33,880
Speaker 1: so he plays rookie here in Jacksonville, and then he

1336
01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:35,600
Speaker 1: played four years in Buffalo and then he played his

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01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:38,639
Speaker 1: last year and Redskins but he ended up getting hurt

1338
01:09:38,840 --> 01:09:42,519
Speaker 1: and never he only played um like the preseason and

1339
01:09:42,560 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 1: then got her and then he retired. What year was that?

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01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:49,880
Speaker 1: Oh god, it was it was four years ago. Okay,

1341
01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:53,559
Speaker 1: so my husband was already out. Wow, okay, that's so crazy.

1342
01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:55,960
Speaker 1: Eight years ago. Yeah, about to say if you were

1343
01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:59,080
Speaker 1: here at the same time, I know that, but no,

1344
01:09:59,160 --> 01:10:01,519
Speaker 1: But I definitely my husband. He's on the show a

1345
01:10:01,600 --> 01:10:04,040
Speaker 1: lot too, and it's like they I love I love

1346
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. I love that our husbands have stuff

1347
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:08,960
Speaker 1: that they want to say, you know, and they have

1348
01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:12,040
Speaker 1: their own personalities and oh my god, yeah, I love it.

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01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:14,360
Speaker 1: We do a topic on the private part, whether or not.

1350
01:10:14,520 --> 01:10:16,559
Speaker 1: We think it's the good idea to teach the kids

1351
01:10:16,640 --> 01:10:22,040
Speaker 1: the real name versus like the nicknames. That's good. And

1352
01:10:22,560 --> 01:10:25,240
Speaker 1: this this podcast he opened all the way up and

1353
01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:28,640
Speaker 1: he was so funny because my daughter, she likes to

1354
01:10:29,120 --> 01:10:32,000
Speaker 1: bust in the bathroom. She's three now, but now she

1355
01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 1: knows like, oh, daddy has a penis, mommy has a vagina.

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01:10:35,400 --> 01:10:38,280
Speaker 1: And so my husband's like, oh yeah, I can't be

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01:10:38,320 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 1: thinking about her anymore because she she has ways to

1358
01:10:40,520 --> 01:10:43,000
Speaker 1: observe it. That's funny. Well here, so that's my question

1359
01:10:43,080 --> 01:10:45,639
Speaker 1: for you too, is because I was taking a shower.

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01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:47,640
Speaker 1: I take a showers with my daughter, and then she

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01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 1: like put her like if I was like, oh wanni, no, no,

1362
01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:52,200
Speaker 1: like we don't touch that that that's like mommy's private part,

1363
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 1: like and you have one too, and she like was

1364
01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:57,000
Speaker 1: like touching hers and then like you know, then my

1365
01:10:57,080 --> 01:10:58,680
Speaker 1: husband has taken a shower with her before too, and

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01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:01,800
Speaker 1: he likes she's like definitely touched his wei and it's like,

1367
01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:05,360
Speaker 1: oh my god, He's like joely no like but it's

1368
01:11:05,439 --> 01:11:09,200
Speaker 1: like they don't know. So it's like that is that

1369
01:11:09,400 --> 01:11:12,680
Speaker 1: when you like stop like yeah, well when she she

1370
01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:15,839
Speaker 1: actually we shared the story. She actually walked into bathroom.

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01:11:15,880 --> 01:11:18,280
Speaker 1: My husband had just gotten up a shower. He's reaching

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01:11:18,320 --> 01:11:21,080
Speaker 1: for his towel and she just stopped leans to the

1373
01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:23,280
Speaker 1: side with the hand in her hip. But she said, Daddy,

1374
01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:27,639
Speaker 1: is that your penis? He was like at that moment,

1375
01:11:28,200 --> 01:11:31,360
Speaker 1: she was too. At the time, we were like, we're done,

1376
01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:33,280
Speaker 1: so he can't. He can't put her in a shower

1377
01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 1: with him anymore, which just sucks because it's so convenient, right,

1378
01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:41,960
Speaker 1: you're trying to just get washed super fast. Now it's

1379
01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 1: like I got this belly sticking out in the way,

1380
01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:45,519
Speaker 1: and I have to be the one hers and washed

1381
01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:48,400
Speaker 1: them up, and and he lotions them. And yeah, my daughter,

1382
01:11:48,479 --> 01:11:52,400
Speaker 1: she loves checking herself out. I'm like, why did she

1383
01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:54,720
Speaker 1: do this? By the way, isn't shaving so hard when

1384
01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:56,640
Speaker 1: you're pregnant. I was shaving this morning and I was

1385
01:11:56,680 --> 01:11:58,200
Speaker 1: just like, this belly is like in the way, and

1386
01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:00,240
Speaker 1: I'm like trying to like shave my life because and

1387
01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:03,280
Speaker 1: it's like probably have patches everywhere. Yeah. I got to

1388
01:12:03,439 --> 01:12:05,280
Speaker 1: that point where Chris had to just start like he

1389
01:12:05,360 --> 01:12:08,360
Speaker 1: puts my shoes on for me. He actually saved my

1390
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:10,600
Speaker 1: legs um a few times when I was pregnant with

1391
01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:13,479
Speaker 1: my son because my daughter, I thought, why with her, well,

1392
01:12:13,520 --> 01:12:16,200
Speaker 1: my son, I just stopped straight out. Yeah, that's kind

1393
01:12:16,240 --> 01:12:18,120
Speaker 1: of like, yeah, that's why I was with my son.

1394
01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:20,960
Speaker 1: Straight out straight out. Yeah, I really, if I had

1395
01:12:21,000 --> 01:12:22,680
Speaker 1: to guess, I would say that I'm carrying a boy

1396
01:12:22,760 --> 01:12:25,800
Speaker 1: for sure, because it's like sticking straight out like it's

1397
01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 1: it's so weird. It reminds me of my pregnancy with

1398
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:30,640
Speaker 1: my son all over again. What's your least favorite thing

1399
01:12:30,680 --> 01:12:33,600
Speaker 1: of being in the Housewives? Um? I do not like that.

1400
01:12:33,680 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 1: I'm a control freak. So when I'm watching episodes, I

1401
01:12:36,960 --> 01:12:39,400
Speaker 1: don't like that I don't have control over you know,

1402
01:12:39,680 --> 01:12:42,360
Speaker 1: what's being shown because I'm wait, why didn't make the rest?

1403
01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:44,599
Speaker 1: I remember when this tapp it? You know. So that's

1404
01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:47,680
Speaker 1: probably like my least favorite thing. Um, so you'd be

1405
01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:51,120
Speaker 1: a really great producer, Oh I would. Oh see, I'm

1406
01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:53,800
Speaker 1: such a control Even my producers they crack up at

1407
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:55,479
Speaker 1: me all the time because I'm always trying to like

1408
01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:59,000
Speaker 1: tell them what to do that like you were you

1409
01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:01,639
Speaker 1: were so funny thinks that listen to that. So it's

1410
01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 1: nice we work together. Girl. When you are in l

1411
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:07,080
Speaker 1: A and our babies are out. Let's have a glass

1412
01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:09,920
Speaker 1: of wine. What do you say? Okay, and my brother

1413
01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:12,599
Speaker 1: live in l A. Okay, come out. I will definitely

1414
01:13:12,640 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 1: reach out. All right, let's do it so in the end,

1415
01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:18,400
Speaker 1: you know, December on baby, I'm game. So I'm like,

1416
01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:22,720
Speaker 1: let's do it. Thank you so much for having for

1417
01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:24,479
Speaker 1: coming on the show. And I'm excited to listen to

1418
01:13:24,560 --> 01:13:27,400
Speaker 1: your podcast and go and also your blog and everything.

1419
01:13:27,520 --> 01:13:30,720
Speaker 1: So not for lazy moms. I cannot wait to meet you.

1420
01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 1: Oh ditto girl, Yes, okay, all right, thanks, bye bye.

1421
01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:41,120
Speaker 1: Oh I could be friends with her? Well, yeah, you

1422
01:13:41,200 --> 01:13:43,920
Speaker 1: guys are living pearl all live. Yeah. I love her literally,

1423
01:13:44,120 --> 01:13:46,600
Speaker 1: she's awesome. She's so I feel like we need to

1424
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:48,680
Speaker 1: have like her husband on two and then like my

1425
01:13:48,840 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 1: gone and then like do like that'd be like cute.

1426
01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:53,640
Speaker 1: We need to ask her. I was thinking about it

1427
01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:57,200
Speaker 1: because I wanted to know not for lazy moms. Sorry, no,

1428
01:13:57,400 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 1: it's okay, so next time, mental No, I want to

1429
01:14:00,479 --> 01:14:03,920
Speaker 1: ask her because we all have lazy mom moments, some

1430
01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:06,559
Speaker 1: more than others. I want to know what her lazy

1431
01:14:06,600 --> 01:14:10,960
Speaker 1: mom moment is. You have one, probably like putting on

1432
01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:12,760
Speaker 1: the TV when I don't really have to put on

1433
01:14:12,840 --> 01:14:15,360
Speaker 1: the TV. You know what I mean, I know what

1434
01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:19,320
Speaker 1: about you it's putting on the TV. It's also, um

1435
01:14:19,640 --> 01:14:22,360
Speaker 1: rock close at that age where he doesn't he doesn't

1436
01:14:22,400 --> 01:14:25,200
Speaker 1: always want to take a bath or a shower. And

1437
01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm like, you know what, I don't feel like fighting. Yeah, no,

1438
01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:31,760
Speaker 1: I totally get that. It's always like fighting baths. But

1439
01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:34,800
Speaker 1: she's got really bad skin, so I was like, technically

1440
01:14:34,880 --> 01:14:38,640
Speaker 1: I shouldn't give her a bath every day. So, but

1441
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:40,960
Speaker 1: I mean, she gets so dirty. I know, they get

1442
01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:45,160
Speaker 1: so dirty. I'm like, it's like wash, wipe, I know.

1443
01:14:45,720 --> 01:14:49,760
Speaker 1: I like, I'll give you a sponge bath. Um. This

1444
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:51,720
Speaker 1: was a really fun show and I kind of do

1445
01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:55,320
Speaker 1: want to watch now. I'm telling you, I'm flying tomorrow.

1446
01:14:55,520 --> 01:14:58,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna where are you going in New York? Okay? Cool? Um?

1447
01:14:58,520 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 1: For work? And I am going down to a marathon.

1448
01:15:01,520 --> 01:15:06,479
Speaker 1: You're running a marathon? No, I'm gonna. Well, that's I mean,

1449
01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:08,280
Speaker 1: I am too. I kind of want to start with

1450
01:15:09,280 --> 01:15:13,040
Speaker 1: I think I not to like play favorites, but Monique

1451
01:15:13,120 --> 01:15:15,360
Speaker 1: and Ellen, I think like we could be friends first

1452
01:15:15,479 --> 01:15:18,080
Speaker 1: and then then I'll watch Leanne with Sarah or something.

1453
01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:20,280
Speaker 1: I don't know if she's so entertaining. I think I

1454
01:15:20,360 --> 01:15:22,560
Speaker 1: might start with them, yeah, because I just feeling that

1455
01:15:22,680 --> 01:15:28,479
Speaker 1: show is full of fire. I just the masks. I like.

1456
01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:31,840
Speaker 1: I liked when she got vulnerable, So that's my like,

1457
01:15:32,200 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 1: that's where I'm like, get there, like stay there, stay

1458
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:37,240
Speaker 1: there with me. But then you have to make people laugh.

1459
01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:39,519
Speaker 1: It's like, you don't have to make us laugh, just

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Speaker 1: be real, like, just be you, be authentic. I love. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know that was so hard. I get that. Well,

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Speaker 1: this was fun. I'm excited. I'm gonna go prepare myself

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Speaker 1: for taking Jolie Debrey school. Our hearts will be breaking through.