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Speaker 1: He's slaughter up.

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Speaker 2: It's a fresh show. It's Kiki's court, all right, The

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Speaker 2: Honorable Ki Kahlik is here.

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Speaker 3: Take it away, all right, Let's get into the courtroom.

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Speaker 1: Hit that gable, Let's go. Yeah, I mean business.

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Speaker 3: I'm standing on business, all right, it says, Hey, Kiki,

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Speaker 3: I've been married six months now, and I already feel

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Speaker 3: a divorce coming. Since even before our wedding, my husband

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Speaker 3: and I have been saving and planning for our dream honeymoon. However,

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Speaker 3: his sister just ruined our plans and possibly our marriage.

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Speaker 3: The date of our honeymoon has been known for months, however,

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Speaker 3: my sister in law just scheduled her sea section in

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Speaker 3: the middle of the week that we're gone. My husband

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Speaker 3: is freaking out because he obviously wants to be there

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Speaker 3: for the birth of his first nephew, but I feel

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Speaker 3: like he can just meet his nephew after our trip. Now,

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Speaker 3: all of my in laws are pressuring me to reschedule

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Speaker 3: our honeymoon, and my evil sister in law sent me

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Speaker 3: the nastiest text saying, you know that you aren't able

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Speaker 3: to give my brother kids of his own, So don't

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Speaker 3: be selfish and take this moment away from my brother, Kiki.

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Speaker 1: That was it for me.

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Speaker 3: I've decided that I'm going on my honeymoon with or

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Speaker 3: without my husband. Am I wrong? If I go enjoy

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Speaker 3: my honeymoon solo the belts? Yeah, so below the belts

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Speaker 3: that was unnecessary. Oh my god, Well, judge Kiky, I'm

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Speaker 3: conflicted because you know, Keikey is saying, you know, honeymoons

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Speaker 3: and vacations can be rescheduled once in a lifetime. Moments

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Speaker 3: moment of being at his nephew's birth again if you

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Speaker 3: guys go on this honeymoon, right, But then you got

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Speaker 1: That's my other side who said when your sister sends

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Speaker 3: Said in that text, I need to go on this honeymoon,

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Speaker 3: so I don't put my hands on anybody because that's crazy,

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Speaker 3: Like you went so far low the belt because you

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Speaker 3: and I don't probably I don't know how this worked

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Speaker 3: with pregnancies and burths like you tell you because now girls,

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Speaker 3: it seemed like they're just scheduling.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what Friday would be good for me?

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Speaker 2: So yeah, if you're here a schedule Sea section.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's okay, scheduled, but like you're.

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Speaker 2: Going to schedule sea sections schedule, but you're going off.

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Speaker 2: It's scheduled off of your doctor.

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Speaker 1: Like if you if you want to have your doctor

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Speaker 2: You have to pick it. You have to pick this

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Speaker 3: Okay, because I thought we was letting Jesus take the wheel,

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Speaker 3: but it just seemed like now people could be like,

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Speaker 3: there is yeah, and do that, then schedule it when

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Speaker 1: Know what you were doing. I don't know. The sister

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Speaker 1: launch just evil to me.

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Speaker 3: And at this point I think you need to go

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Speaker 3: on your trip just to keep the peace, because Lord knows,

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Speaker 3: if you go to the hospital after what she said

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Speaker 2: So yeah, but her being a jerk doesn't change the

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Speaker 2: fact that he would miss the experience. I understand that

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Speaker 2: fact that it's a once in a lifetime thing. So

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Speaker 2: it's like, not only do I think that, do they

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Speaker 2: have to reschedule the honeymoon, but now that relationship is

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Speaker 2: like again, the date is the date the babies come,

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Speaker 1: So you would reschedule your honeymoon.

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Speaker 2: It comes down to this, do I want to miss

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Speaker 2: I mean now there may be they may never talk again,

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Speaker 7: And then on top of that too, I think what

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Speaker 7: But those words that were exchanged between sister law and

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Speaker 7: before I had my daughter. That is something you do

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Speaker 7: never ever ever touch. And that was such a shady comment.

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Speaker 7: That was terrible, And that's something they need to work

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Speaker 7: Like if you're my husband, like you're you're siding with me.

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Speaker 4: I don't want you to miss your nephew's.

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Speaker 2: Born, but that's the problem. So I side with you,

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Speaker 2: and I should because that was a messed up comment.

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Speaker 2: But then I so I side with you. We go

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Speaker 2: on our honeymoon and then I missed this thing that

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Speaker 2: I can never replicate, that will never happen again. Yeah. So,

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Speaker 1: Why I'm like, I'm so torn.

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Speaker 5: Also, for a scheduled sea section, only the father, it's

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Speaker 5: not a room full of people. Mom's not going to

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Speaker 5: be there, mother in law is not going to be there.

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Speaker 5: It's only the mom giving birth and the father, the husband.

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Speaker 1: But you know, you be in the waiting room, it's

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Speaker 3: You know you want to see the baby the first day.

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Speaker 2: You ain't see nobody that first day.

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Speaker 5: The mom don't want to see No, I'm telling you

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Speaker 5: they're not going to see anybody that first day.

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Speaker 1: Well, the baby though, right, you can see the baby.

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Speaker 3: Like if you have a baby tomorrow, I can meet

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Speaker 1: Tomorrow, tomorrow, the baby is in the room with mom.

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Speaker 5: After a woman has a sea section, I'm telling you

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Speaker 1: On the first day, So you're going on a honeymoon.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, I think without the A whole comment, you

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Speaker 2: tempted out of spite to go on the honeymoon. But

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Speaker 2: the problem is you're the one who misses out. You know.

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Speaker 2: It's it's like when when parents are getting along with

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Speaker 2: like a wedding, like I'm not going to the wedding.

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Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, well you're gonna make a statement. You are,

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Speaker 2: So is this statement really worth you missing out on

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Speaker 2: you can never have that moment back. Yeah, so I

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Speaker 2: the fix the problem. That's another thing. So is this

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Speaker 2: out because those two have an interpersonal problem, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that has nothing to do with the baby.

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Speaker 4: I don't think so. No, it's important to him.

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Speaker 7: It sounds like to be there, like Fred you were

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Speaker 7: you didn't have to be there when your nieces were born, right,

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Speaker 4: Like to you, was it No?

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Speaker 2: I wanted to be there right away for Polly, I

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Speaker 2: was well, No, for Polly, I was there the day

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Speaker 2: she was born. I was I was in Dallas when

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Speaker 4: That's an important to you.

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming I wanted to.

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Speaker 2: Be right there, and I really wanted to see Polly

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Speaker 2: And it's it's not about the problem I have with

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Speaker 2: It's about the baby, it's about everybody else, it's about

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Speaker 2: He concide with his wife and say hey to his sister,

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Speaker 2: what you said was so messed up, But then he

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Speaker 5: But if he doesn't take his wife's side after that

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Speaker 1: Six months into a marriage. Why are you trying me

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Speaker 1: like this land and you only.

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Speaker 2: Get one hunting?

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Speaker 5: You only if you get one honeymoon. You know what

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Speaker 5: I'm saying, It's a trip of a lifetime.

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Speaker 2: Victoria. Yeah, Hi, Victoria, how you doing? Hey? What do

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Speaker 2: you think? Very well? Thanks for calling me, Spaska. What

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Speaker 2: do you think here? So this this dude, his sister's

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Speaker 2: having a schedule sea section having a baby. His honeymoon

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Speaker 2: there was talk about rescheduling the honeymoon so that he

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Speaker 2: now it's like, well, I'm going on the honeymoon, forget

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Speaker 2: got to support me. You know, what do you do here?

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Speaker 8: I mean, I've gone my honeymoon because I mean, personally,

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Speaker 8: I'm hit two sea sections and I didn't want anyone

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Speaker 8: to sear me for like the first two weeks at least.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, unless it was like my husband or like

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Speaker 3: and not just like.

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Speaker 4: Doing and awing over my baby.

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Speaker 8: So I've gone moon and then you guys can have

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Speaker 2: So like a week later, like, hey, I'm back. Now

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Speaker 2: I'm saying I'm good. Let me see this kid like that.

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Speaker 2: That's good enough.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, okay, it's rude what she said.

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Speaker 2: So it was so rude. That's the kind of stuff

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Speaker 4: Beyond rude exactly.

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Speaker 2: That's that's some stuff that. Yeah, that might change the

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Speaker 2: relationship between those two forever. Thank you, Victoria. Have a

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Speaker 2: good day. Glad you called Myra. Hey, good morning, what

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Speaker 4: Good morning?

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Speaker 6: Oh man, you guys got me. I'm so upset with

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Speaker 8: I would have said cancel and reschedule it, and then

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Speaker 8: that text message came through it she volus for that,

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Speaker 8: you know, as somebody who dealt with like issues getting

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Speaker 6: That's a different kind of of deep.

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Speaker 4: I think I.

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Speaker 6: Think the brothers should really talk to the sister and

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Speaker 6: the sister in law needs to apologize.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like, no doubt, no doubt about that.

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Speaker 6: Again, I apologize, like he should be there because that's

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Speaker 6: important to him and that's a family. But like that's cutting.

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Speaker 8: At something deep that like his wife can't change the

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Speaker 8: fact that she's unable to.

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Speaker 6: Have kids and that's bogus, you know, Like, so she's

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Speaker 6: going to resent that forever because it's not her fault.

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Speaker 6: Her body can't do what she wanted to do.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I think that comment is totally separate from

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Speaker 2: all of this, like that, I don't know that they're

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Speaker 2: going to have to work that out, and the sister

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Speaker 2: in law is so messed up for saying that. But again,

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Speaker 2: it comes back to this moment in time and the

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Speaker 2: like is he really gonna be able to enjoy himself

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Speaker 6: But Mary, Yeah, no, I get that I mean, but marriage,

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Speaker 2: But like the other it wasn't like he just.

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Speaker 8: Said like oh you got like a nafty haircut. Like

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Speaker 8: it wasn't just like a comment you could get over right,

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Speaker 8: like yeah you are stupid faith or something like no,

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Speaker 6: Like that hurts.

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Speaker 4: That hurt me. Just look at me say like I'm so.

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Speaker 6: I mean, he should be there. Maybe they could leave

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Speaker 6: the day after. Maybe, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: That's I don't know.

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Speaker 8: I don't know if I could get over that.

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Speaker 6: It's like I had an in law.

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Speaker 8: That's that's I'm bogus like that to be.

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Speaker 6: All right, I don't know. It's hard.

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Speaker 4: I can't do it.

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Speaker 8: He should be there, that's his family has nothing to

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Speaker 4: But he's got to.

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Speaker 6: Do something to help mend that. Because the sister lansapolod,

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Speaker 2: Think so, toumayra, thank you have a good day again.

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Speaker 2: Though it's just I say the same thing, but like

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Speaker 2: there's got to be a way she has to support.

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Speaker 2: I think the wife has to support her husband's need

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Speaker 2: that's just the way to because again, who really misses out?

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Speaker 2: Who really misses out? Like this is a once in

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Speaker 2: a lifetime thing.

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Speaker 3: It is once in a lifetime thing. But you know

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Speaker 3: a lot of people want to text saying that uncle

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Speaker 3: can just facetimed it. It's his nef, it's his neph

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Speaker 3: it's not his first child, but I mean it's but

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Speaker 2: So this is really significant to him that.

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Speaker 5: He will be in his nephew's life for the rest

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Speaker 5: of his life. You know what I'm saying, he's got getted.

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Speaker 5: There's so many opportunities to watch that kid grow up.

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Speaker 2: You never know, you know, I get when you start

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Speaker 2: putting a foot down on these milestone moments. These are

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Speaker 4: I know, I'm so torn, but I have to be

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Speaker 3: Though.

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Speaker 7: Let's say that says when you get married, the family

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Speaker 7: that you create is now your family, kids are no kids.

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Speaker 7: Your wife is your family now, so that is priority.

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Speaker 7: And I hate to be that person to say it,

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Speaker 7: but it's true. I only feel for this person, for

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Speaker 7: see his nephew be born. That's important for me as

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Speaker 7: a wife, I would support that even with that comment

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Speaker 4: But after that, gloves are off thrown hands.

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Speaker 2: No, once that's over, Once that's then, then then he

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Speaker 2: needs to stand up and stand on business for her.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: But again, you know, think about birthday parties, think about weddings,

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Speaker 2: think about bursts, think about these things where family they

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Speaker 2: draw the line and go, you know what, forget about it.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna support you. I'm not gonna come. We're

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Speaker 2: not talking. I'm mad at you or whatever. That's stuff

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Speaker 2: that can never be never be recreated and never it

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Speaker 2: can never be fixed.

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 2: It's like you weren't at my wedding.

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Speaker 5: But you're gonna meet your nephew for the first time.

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Speaker 5: It doesn't have to be at the hospital. It could

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Speaker 5: be a week later, it could be after the honeymoon.

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Speaker 5: You don't got to be there at the hospital for

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's that, but I don't I didn't meet

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Speaker 3: And see I have. I'm the That's like, you know,

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Speaker 3: I want to be there. I want to meet him.

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Speaker 1: As soon as out.

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Speaker 2: That's what he wants.

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Speaker 3: It's tough, but like you do, have to stand by

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Speaker 3: your wife. Bro, you gotta stand by your lady.

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Speaker 2: All right. Key Judge Speaky has Kiki has spoken speaking spoken?

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Speaker 2: Hell you got's