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Speaker 1: Second date up date.

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Speaker 2: I am very curious to hear from the listener who

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Speaker 2: wrote to us today because in her email, she says

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Speaker 2: she met a guy one time. Okay, it wasn't on

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Speaker 2: an app and they never went on an actual date. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: they don't really know anything about each other at allconnection

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Speaker 2: but yeah, still she called him, quote, maybe the most

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Speaker 2: romantic man I've ever met in my entire life.

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Speaker 3: How I know, be romantic without knowing anything about each other?

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Speaker 2: I'm wondering the same thing. How does she reach that conclusion.

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Speaker 2: Let's find out. Her name is Tilly and she's on

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Speaker 2: the line right now. So, Tilly, I just got to say,

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Speaker 2: your email sounds full blown crazy.

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Speaker 1: Is that?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: It is crazy. That's literally why I'm calling you, because, like,

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Speaker 4: I've never heard of a situation like this. I've never

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Speaker 4: been in a situation like this.

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Speaker 2: You didn't watch a guy propose in the most romantic

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Speaker 2: way possible and then you fell in love with him

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Speaker 2: because you saw how romantic he was.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a movie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that could be it.

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Speaker 4: I mean it felt like a movie, like the meet

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Speaker 4: cute moment.

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Speaker 5: Okay, you if we're talking movie level romance, you've got

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Speaker 5: to set the whole scene for Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Tell us the whole story.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so here's the story. I'm at the gym, and

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Speaker 4: I'm at like a pretty high end gym. I got lucky,

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Speaker 4: I got up, you know, a membership through my work situation.

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Speaker 3: Okay, boogie.

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Speaker 4: It's like one of the fancy gyms. There's like a

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Speaker 4: tendance and there's like a juice cafe in the back.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I've been working out. I'm actually almost done. Like I'm

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Speaker 4: on my treadmill, I'm cooling down, okay, and this good

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Speaker 4: looking man comes up on the treadmill next to me

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Speaker 4: and we small talk. It's nothing crazy, Like we talked

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Speaker 4: for like less than thirty seconds, Like it was quick.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but the timing is good because you're just walking

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Speaker 5: and he's just starting.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, and I don't really think anything of it,

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Speaker 4: Like go into the locker room, I change Okay. Literally,

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Speaker 4: as I'm walking to my car, I hear miss miss

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Speaker 4: wait wait. I turn around. It's one of the gym attendants.

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Speaker 4: He has flowers and a card from this man that

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Speaker 4: I just met. Like, honestly, this is part of the mystery,

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Speaker 4: because how did this man secure flowers that fast?

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Speaker 3: And a card.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I am so jaded that my first thought is

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Speaker 5: he's been watching you and was prepared for this moment.

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Speaker 1: Before in the gym.

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Speaker 4: I guess it's possible that I certainly didn't recognize him

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Speaker 4: at all.

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Speaker 1: It's okay, it felt spontaneous. That's crazy.

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Speaker 4: It felt very spontaneous, which was part of the reason.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, how did you manage that? But there's a

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Speaker 4: number on the card, so I obviously text the number

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Speaker 4: and I'm like, thank you so much for the flowers.

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Speaker 4: I'm so flattered. But he is not the one that

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Speaker 4: answered the text. It was somebody that was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: this is his assistant.

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Speaker 1: Oh, make it happen even quicker.

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Speaker 5: It's kind of weird that he gave you his assistant's

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Speaker 5: phone number and not his phone.

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Speaker 3: Was just about to say that.

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Speaker 2: Unless he wanted her to know that he had an assistant,

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Speaker 2: like Texter, Yeah, that's possible.

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Speaker 1: It's something jose would for sure do. By the way,

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Speaker 1: I have two agents.

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Speaker 6: You don't know if anybody.

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Speaker 5: Realized, Okay, get away from Hey, did you ever actually

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Speaker 5: talk to him, like do we know his name?

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Speaker 4: That's the thing, I don't know his name.

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Speaker 3: What you didn't even send a good first text introducing himself.

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Speaker 4: No, the assistant says, there is actually a gift waiting

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Speaker 4: for you at a jewelry store and gives me an address.

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Speaker 1: Oh now, whoa, whoa.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if this is romantic anymore. Now I'm

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Speaker 3: getting worse.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, nobody cares what you think.

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Speaker 2: It's only a tilly, It's a romantic, a sugar baby situation.

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Speaker 3: I feels like I don't have a good personality, so

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Speaker 3: let me buy you. Did you go to the jewelry store?

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Speaker 4: I was curious, of course I went. I mean it

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Speaker 4: for the plot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're doing this for the plot of love,

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Speaker 2: so we support you in the decision.

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Speaker 1: What happened at the jewelry store.

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Speaker 4: I go to the jewelry store and there is a

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Speaker 4: bracelet waiting there for me, and I will say, like,

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Speaker 4: I don't feel like I can be bought, but I

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Speaker 4: can be impressed. And it's between flowers and a bracelet.

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Speaker 4: I'm kind of impressed, even though I don't know anything

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Speaker 4: about him, including his name.

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Speaker 1: So we yeah, oh my god, this is wild.

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Speaker 3: There's no setup of a date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I get the bracelet and then I text

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Speaker 4: the only number I have back to this and I'm

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Speaker 4: basically like, let's set this up, like how do we

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Speaker 4: meet or whatever. So we set up a whole situation,

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Speaker 4: a time and a place to meet, and then I

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Speaker 4: go there and he doesn't show up, And now nobody's

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Speaker 4: answering this number.

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Speaker 1: This rings like he does this, like he's set the trap.

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Speaker 2: He gives you a jewelry, he doesn't show up.

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Speaker 3: Why Now you're like, what is going on?

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Speaker 2: And now you have to get a hold of Yes,

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Speaker 2: I want to be in that game. It doesn't sound

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Speaker 2: it sounds like he's gonna play a lot of games

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Speaker 2: with I.

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Speaker 3: Mean, why would he stand you up? Like, That's what

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Speaker 3: I don't get.

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Speaker 4: My friends think maybe he's married or maybe that was

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Speaker 4: some sort of scam. But if it was a scam,

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Speaker 4: then like where's the request to let's get my money

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Speaker 4: or whatever.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but you better make sure that bracelet

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Speaker 3: doesn't have a tracker in it. No, dude, this is wild.

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Speaker 3: This is a wild story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean I was kind of skeptical at the start

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Speaker 2: of this when you said he was the most romantic

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Speaker 2: guy of all time, But after hearing the story, I think.

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Speaker 1: Brooke is one hundred percent sold. In fact, she's probably

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Speaker 1: ready to leave.

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Speaker 2: Her husband depending on how this call goes when we

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Speaker 2: come back.

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Speaker 3: Name, I already don't trust this guy.

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Speaker 2: You're only saying that because you're jealous, broke. We're gonna

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Speaker 2: call this mystery guy in just a second.

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Speaker 3: Or his assistant, you mean, wherever it is.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited to talk to anybody that picks up this

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Speaker 2: phone number and try and get you your second date update.

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Speaker 2: Right after this second date update, our listener Tilly told

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Speaker 2: us in part one that she met the most romantic

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Speaker 2: guy ever and wow, she was kidding meta.

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Speaker 1: Guy on the treadmill at the gym. They talked for

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Speaker 2: But as she's leaving just a few minutes later, she's

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Speaker 2: being chased down handed a giant bouquet of flowers, not

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Speaker 2: it's from treadmill dude. He already has a handwritten note

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Speaker 2: for her in a phone number for his assistant. Later,

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Speaker 2: she's told there's a necklace and a bracelet waiting for

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Speaker 2: her at a jewelry store, which turns out to be true.

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Speaker 3: Well, she is just a bracelet. I mean, don't oversell it.

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Speaker 1: This guy sucks. Forget No, I thought he was romantic.

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Speaker 1: You guys are right, he's a looser gems on it.

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Speaker 2: No, okay, So it was pretty cool until the weird

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Speaker 2: part was she was stood up by him waiting at

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Speaker 2: a coffee shop where she thought they were gonna meet.

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Speaker 3: Tilly, Are you nervous? Are you like? What are you

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Speaker 4: At this point? It's so crazy that I'm assuming it's

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Speaker 4: not gonna work out, but I cannot move on until

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Speaker 4: I know what the story is.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, we love it.

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Speaker 2: The bottom line is we need to figure out who

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Speaker 2: this guy is or figure.

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Speaker 1: Out some answer so till he can get some peace

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Speaker 1: of mind.

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Speaker 3: All we have is his assistant's number, right, So that's

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Speaker 3: who we're calling.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so that's all we have to go off of.

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Speaker 2: We're just gonna call it and see what happens.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but be polite, like this guy sounds professional.

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Speaker 3: We need to keep it buttoned up.

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Speaker 1: I would take that advice and turn it right around

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Speaker 1: at yourself. That'd be really good.

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Speaker 2: If he has an assistant, he's always busy.

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Speaker 1: Like we called, she's gonna be like he's not available,

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Speaker 1: and we'll see let's find out. Only one way to know.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial this number. We'll see who picks up

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Speaker 1: and what happens. But here we go.

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Speaker 7: Jeff, Hello, Hi, uh hi, my name is Jeff Professional Jeff.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know who.

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Speaker 2: This is, so hello, Yeah, Hi, Sorry. So I work

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Speaker 2: for a rate a show called Broken Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: And uh, this is gonna sound kind of odd because

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Speaker 2: I don't really know who I'm calling for here. But

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Speaker 2: we have a woman who is a friend of the show.

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Speaker 2: Her name is Tilly, and I believe your boss sent

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Speaker 2: her flowers and gave her a bracelet.

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Speaker 1: You have the wrong person, Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to talk about this.

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Speaker 1: Well just hold on. Do you know a lot about this?

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Speaker 3: I mean, you don't want to talk about this?

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Speaker 1: What the heck are you kidding me?

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Speaker 3: Did he have Oh no, oh, he is not going

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Speaker 3: to stand up up. You better call him back.

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Speaker 2: Okade, It's probably because you were scaring him, broke.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to dial it again. Here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hold on, I don't want to talk about this.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, coming in a little hot thank you.

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Speaker 1: Listen.

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Speaker 2: We're not trying to get into anybody's business here, especially

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, it seems like we don't.

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Speaker 2: The thing is, we're just reaching out because we need

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Speaker 2: to get a general answer about what happened with Tilly

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Speaker 2: and this guy that we're trying to get a hold of.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because it started out romantic and now it's feeling

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Speaker 5: not so great.

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Speaker 2: That's the thing you don't know is our friend Tilly

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Speaker 2: was completely blown away by this gesture. I'm assuming from

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Speaker 2: your boss. I still don't know. Yeah, that's true. I

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Speaker 2: have closure here, but we're talking way too much, so

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Speaker 2: I should just let you say something if you're still there.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, what is.

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Speaker 3: The most unprofessional asant?

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Speaker 1: Okay, do you know what I'm talking about with Tilly?

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Speaker 6: I do?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, what's going on? Can you fill us in?

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Speaker 2: Because we're very confused.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So here's the deal. This gut messed up. It's

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Speaker 6: way different than I thought it was going to go up.

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Speaker 1: Wait what got messed up?

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Speaker 6: I'm not the guy that was on the treadmill.

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Speaker 3: So you're the assistant.

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Speaker 1: You're the assistant.

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Speaker 6: I'm an assistant. I'm an assistant at the gym.

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Speaker 3: What uh wait wait, you're a gym employee. You work

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Speaker 6: I'm the one that brought her the flowers.

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Speaker 5: Oh, you're the one that rushed out and brought the

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Speaker 1: Guy with the not yes, okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: Why would she have your number? I thought she had

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Speaker 3: the assistants number.

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Speaker 6: This whole thing got messed up, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: The whole thing got messed up.

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Speaker 2: What the whole thing that you You're going to have

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Speaker 2: to explain a little bit because we we were under

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Speaker 2: the impression we were calling the assistant of the rich

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Speaker 6: I don't know if he has an assistant. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Do you a name? What's your name?

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Speaker 6: Mitchell?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Mitchell, ok So tell us what you do know.

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Speaker 6: I know I've had a crush on her for two months.

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Speaker 1: You've had a crush on Tilly?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What wait?

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Speaker 6: Wait? Wait?

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Speaker 3: Were the flowers not from the guy? Were the flowers

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Speaker 3: from you?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Oh my?

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Speaker 6: What?

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Speaker 5: Ohd on?

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Speaker 3: What a treadmill guy?

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Speaker 1: Where where's he? What the heck you're.

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Speaker 3: Saying the flowers were from him? Is what he's saying?

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Speaker 6: I'd been planning to approach her for a couple of months.

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Speaker 6: I did not know how to do it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, because you see her in the gym, because you

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Speaker 6: And I had flowers waiting for her that day.

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Speaker 5: Oh why didn't you take credit for the flowers.

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Speaker 6: Because I'm not rich. When I walked out to give

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Speaker 6: her the flowers, it was like she was seeing just

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Speaker 3: She didn't even say she liked rich guys though.

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Speaker 6: People go to that gym to meet rich.

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Speaker 5: Guys, Mitchell, because her work gives her a free membership there.

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Speaker 3: That's why she goes to the gym.

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Speaker 6: And also the rich guys.

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Speaker 1: To his credit, it can be both.

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Speaker 3: So wait, why I don't understand.

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Speaker 4: Still, I don't understand either.

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Speaker 1: Let's just let's just break the facade and tell you.

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Speaker 2: Because Mitchell Tilly has actually been listening to this call

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Speaker 2: on the other line, waiting to talk to I mean,

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Speaker 2: not necessarily you, but I guess yeah you.

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Speaker 5: Well, she was waiting to talk to whoever gave her

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Speaker 5: the flowers and the bracelet, which we haven't even gotten

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Speaker 5: a close answer.

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Speaker 3: To the bracelet.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, so crazy. Hold on, let's clear this up.

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Speaker 4: So you've had a crush on me. You were planning

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Speaker 4: a big romantic gesture, and then while you were in

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Speaker 4: the midst of doing it, you somehow decided that I

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Speaker 4: was just a gold digger and that the best course

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Speaker 1: I mean a gold maybe bracelet digger.

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Speaker 6: I wasn't just assuming you were a gold digger, isn't

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Speaker 6: that what you said?

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Speaker 4: You said you came out and I looked at you

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Speaker 4: like you were just an employee at the gym, even

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Speaker 4: though you are an employee at the gym and I

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Speaker 4: was just leaving the gym.

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Speaker 6: Let's be honest, in the real world, you're not going

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Speaker 6: out with a gem assistant. And as I was about

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Speaker 6: to give you the flowers, I saw that look on

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Speaker 4: That who wow, it's so ridiculous. The look on my

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Speaker 4: face would have been why if the gymas isn't running

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Speaker 4: at me with flowers?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Ye, I mean for you to put all this on me.

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Speaker 4: You built this entire fantasy up in your head over

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Speaker 4: the course of two months, only to just decide that

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Speaker 4: that's what I want. But how dare I? Like, what

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Speaker 4: are you even saying this doesn't make any sense.

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Speaker 6: And that's why I didn't go to the coffee shop.

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Speaker 6: I figured it would end something like this, and that's

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Speaker 6: what happened.

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Speaker 4: You didn't figure it would end something like this because

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Speaker 4: you figured it would never start, because you figured I

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Speaker 4: was gonna judge you based on your job or how

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Speaker 4: much money you had.

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Speaker 8: I really like you to focus just a little more,

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Speaker 8: just a little more on the flowers and bracelet.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you what. I'm going to return

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Speaker 4: the bracelet because I don't care what anybody's job is.

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Speaker 4: But if that's what you think of me, then there's

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Speaker 4: nothing here.

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Speaker 3: Oh Mitchell, you doug your own grave man.

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Speaker 6: So are you saying I can't like just say hello

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Speaker 6: to you anymore when you come to the jail.

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Speaker 4: I can't imagine why you would want to at this point.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, bro, dude, job if he's at the front,

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Speaker 5: you might have to.

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Speaker 2: At least need to like scan your card in a

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Speaker 2: bare minimum, But you need to have more confidence.

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Speaker 5: She could have really fallen for you had you played

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Speaker 5: this totally differently.

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Speaker 6: I just I think you're wrong there. I don't think

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Speaker 6: it was gonna So I'm going to tell.

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Speaker 4: You what you should do. Continue to judge people before

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Speaker 4: you know them at all, and see how well that

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Speaker 4: works out for you, because clearly it's going great.

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Speaker 3: That was sarcasm, Mitchell, if you didn't catch it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well it's at this point that I would like

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Speaker 2: to jump in and offer another date.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I love when the most romantic stories end this way.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: See, Now, normally we would ask the person that we're calling,

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Speaker 2: but in this situation, since so much has happened and

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Speaker 2: things have changed, Tilly will ask you first.

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Speaker 4: Are you out of your mind?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 2: I only said that because Brooke was making me ask

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's yeah, Bru. That was really awful. So this

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Speaker 1: call didn't go the way that we wanted it to go.

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Speaker 2: But Mitchell, do you have any last words for us

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Speaker 2: or for Tilly?

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Speaker 6: Look, I'm so sorry this whole thing went this way.

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Speaker 6: It was a misunderstanding from get go. But Tilly, if

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Speaker 6: you could just next time you're at the gym, wipe

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Speaker 1: Oh, he has been watching her the entire time.

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Speaker 4: That type of girl, Tilly, And now we're just spreading lives.

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Speaker 4: I always wiped down my equipment.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, at least Mitchell got a shot in on

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Speaker 2: the way out, So there you go, Mitchell, win for.

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Speaker 1: You, rookie Jeffrey in the morning. That definitely blew up

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Speaker 1: in the guy's face.

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Speaker 5: It was a good lesson though, to not assume things

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but if I am reading the text board right,

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Speaker 2: a lot of people are saying Tilly needed to give

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Speaker 5: Really, so kind of I felt bad for she waited

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Speaker 5: thirty minutes for a coffee shop for him to not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he ditched her.

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Speaker 5: He never showed up, and then he accused her of

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Speaker 5: being a gold digger without even knowing her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I understand that idea. But listen to this

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Speaker 2: text At seventy eight five nine to two. Someone said, clearly,

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Speaker 2: Mitchell is a guy who does not value himself. He

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Speaker 2: has low self image, low self esteem. But we should

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Speaker 2: still see him for what he is, a regular guy

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Speaker 2: who had a big crush on a girl for two months. Yes,

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Speaker 2: he had a bad plan, but he has a good heart.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but to me that means you need to work

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Speaker 5: on yourself and get yourself image up before you're you

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Speaker 5: gotta love yourself, man, Before you can love somebody else.

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Speaker 3: That's just how it goes.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't excuse leaving someone on a date. Yet that is true.

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Speaker 1: I mean, all that is really well said.

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Speaker 2: I do hope Mitchell knows that he's not the worst

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Speaker 2: person in the world before he buys a gift for

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Speaker 2: his next Jim crush. By the gifts, immediately he's like,

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Speaker 2: I'm bro, what did.

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Speaker 3: I think it? He's got a whole bracelet to regift

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Speaker 3: a whole Jim hot woman.

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Speaker 2: And I also hope Mitchell subscribes to our YouTube page

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Speaker 2: and he listens to all of our second date updates

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Speaker 2: while he's wiping sweat off of all the gym equipment.

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Speaker 3: Yes, because you know those high end clients don't do

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Speaker 3: it themselves.

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Speaker 1: No, they don't.

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Speaker 2: Go check that out. If you haven't subscribed to our podcast,

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Speaker 2: they're up available wherever you get yours.

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Speaker 1: That broken Jeffrey