WEBVTT - Episode 178: Glowed Up & Left (Feat. Dreezy) 0:00:02.000 --> 0:00:04.280 What's up? What's up? Is lip service? I mean Angela yee, 0:00:04.280 --> 0:00:07.840 I'm g g McGuire, I'm love'a DRez Drezy Big Dreams. 0:00:08.520 --> 0:00:11.799 What's up? It's her first appearance. So we were just talking. 0:00:11.840 --> 0:00:13.160 She was like, what do you think happened to me? 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:15.360 Because I was talking about how I first met dree 0:00:15.400 --> 0:00:17.560 Z when she first was coming out and they had 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:21.400 a fancy asstander for her at Mr. Child's and then 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:24.239 you know, she was popping, putting out singles. They was 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:26.479 doing well, and then I was like, things got a 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:29.280 little quiet for a second, and now you're back. So 0:00:29.320 --> 0:00:34.160 what happened with Big Drees here? Just some complications, contract complications, 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:37.360 you know, I had to handle some business behind the scenes. 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:41.440 But it's all good now everything worked out. Everybody's still breathing, Yeah, 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:45.959 still alive. Yeah. So I'm ready to hit twenty nice 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:50.479 scene with a bag. You missed living in Chicago no 0:00:53.080 --> 0:00:58.120 where I live in l ah So especially that this 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:00.600 is always I gotta go home, like at least like 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:02.840 once a month or once every two months. You know, 0:01:02.960 --> 0:01:05.640 I gotta always go back. But after being m for 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:09.520 a minute's like I gotta go. It's cold it's cold. 0:01:09.880 --> 0:01:12.000 And when I was in Chicago, I never had my 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:14.880 own place in Chicago. When I went to l A, 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:17.560 I got my first crib, and you know, so it's 0:01:17.640 --> 0:01:21.479 kind of like I feel independent after when I go home, 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:24.840 I'm sleeping on my mama couch, asking can I see 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:26.959 your car? Like it's just a lot of you know, 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:31.039 so it's humbling. Yeah, like I need to go home 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:33.040 back to my own place. Yeah, I get my car 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:35.240 in l A and everything. Did you think when you 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:37.280 got your own place for your first time that you 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:39.960 would be wilding? Because I remember when I first got 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:42.080 my own place, I thought I was gonna be wild 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:44.280 and I didn't really do ship. I ain't got a 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:45.720 lot of the first thing I did and I got 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:50.080 my crib was flamed up with blunt. I only smoked 0:01:50.080 --> 0:01:52.520 while I laid my head at without somebody yelling in 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:54.920 my ear. But I don't gotta wash dishes when you 0:01:54.960 --> 0:01:57.560 tell me to wash dishes. I ain't gotta take out 0:01:57.600 --> 0:02:00.080 the trash when you tell me, like it's just I 0:02:00.120 --> 0:02:05.040 want when it's got bad, dirty dishes. And that's the difference. 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:08.720 I got a dishwasher. MoMA got one too, but she 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:10.880 never used to let us use the dishwaher. That's my 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:15.639 mother too, why to me so because older people feel 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:19.720 like dishwashers don't work. Yeah, to the dryer at the 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:24.320 house clothes and hang them nothing cheap. That's why though, 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:32.120 my god, drying these clothes. Hang them. I like when 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:34.760 I watched some of my clothes I had kids. Yeah, 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:39.919 stuff that you don't like anywhere, jeans, so they won't 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:48.360 shrink or not. That's why hang everything outside that in 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:50.239 the basement, and so we gotta hang stuff up. I 0:02:50.280 --> 0:02:51.560 used to hate that. I'd be like, why we kid 0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:55.080 to dry? You know, I think I would have, like 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:56.840 in the beginning, I thought I would have like people 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:58.720 coming over and stuff like that that I was gonna 0:02:58.760 --> 0:03:01.240 hold out. I don't have, like I don't like people 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:03.200 that come out of my house. I thought that when 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:06.200 I first when I moved to Jersey last year, you know, 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:10.080 when I went to Yeah, I thought that I was 0:03:10.160 --> 0:03:12.519 just gonna be like the hostess with the mostest. I 0:03:12.639 --> 0:03:18.280 had a game night and I made I was able 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:20.239 to make my apartment look exactly that I wanted in 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:22.280 by all the French sure I needed and everything, and 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:23.840 and I just sat there and stead of the walls. 0:03:26.360 --> 0:03:28.480 Like it was just like, okay, we got all of 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:29.840 this and now and what you'd be like, I'm gonna 0:03:29.840 --> 0:03:34.040 have a housewoman party something I had a six months 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:37.040 after I never had one, and I had one cooking 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:40.480 Yeah that's lookout and it was I've been living in 0:03:40.560 --> 0:03:43.200 my house. I bought my house like almost five years ago. 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:45.640 I had one cookout and that was I never did 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:49.160 it was it was out your hundred the same time 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:51.280 they moved into the house. So it was a heat 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:53.440 wave that day. It was like a hundred and five 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:57.360 degrees and set up of Hennessy of all drinks. Well 0:03:57.400 --> 0:04:00.360 you should know that in the backyard at we are 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:02.880 looking at food, people don't find that they're gonna smell it. 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:06.119 People be so ungrateful too, because like it was going 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:08.440 on for like six hours, right, I had free food, 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:10.400 free drinks, the whole bar set up, not even just 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:14.880 regular VS. It was VS OPD. Everybody was having a 0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:16.479 good time. And then when it was time for it 0:04:16.520 --> 0:04:18.359 to be over, they acted like they was mad, like 0:04:18.360 --> 0:04:21.000 there's no more drinks and some more liquor, no more food, 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:24.120 Like I look three for six hours, I gotta go 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:27.520 find me when I got leave, so I can't even 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:34.080 talk that even food in the window cell we felt 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:37.240 like the hot dog in the window or like Hamburger 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:40.240 like in the window. I'm like, these people are disrespectful 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:42.880 as fuck, like if I was when I thought parties 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:46.960 is somewhere else. When I'm at home, I ain't gonna 0:04:47.000 --> 0:04:49.279 that I do be having like certain people come up. 0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:52.559 But I really I'm cool with being about myself, like 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:56.040 because for one, I'm barely even home. That's the big thing. 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:58.560 Like I got this place and I got my car, 0:04:58.600 --> 0:05:00.280 and I'm like yes, and then I gotta go out 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:01.880 of town for a week, like I'm gonna be here 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:04.000 for a week. So when I go home, it just 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:08.960 feel good to lay in my bed. And just now 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:12.120 Valentine's Day is coming up, though, what's the big tree doing? 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:18.960 Who knows? Girls? The way these nigga acting, right, So 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:22.719 is there anybody that you're expecting something from. I'm expecting 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:26.400 something from a couple of people, but who knows this's 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:31.840 gonna happen? Yes, man, your best Valentine's Day the best 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:34.120 gift you ever got. I don't feel like I really 0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:37.080 had a good Valentine's Day just yet. But I have 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:41.080 gotten like little gifts, like I got a big huge 0:05:41.120 --> 0:05:44.320 Teddy Bear once. Okay that you gotta like drag in 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:48.720 the hallway. That's cute. You want. My mam wall usually 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:54.000 be my Valentine every year. She always give me like 0:05:54.080 --> 0:05:56.760 chocolates and flowers and Teddy Bears, and parents to do 0:05:56.839 --> 0:05:59.120 that too. Yeah. When I was going, my dad would 0:05:59.120 --> 0:06:01.240 give it. This is gonna be him sound terrible. Yeah, 0:06:01.320 --> 0:06:05.040 you're making him sound cheap, and it's cheap Valentine's Day 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:08.560 stuff the day after because it was half oh my god, no, 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:11.839 so other day after I was getting mad kindy, but 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:15.560 it would be like at least he bought and my 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:18.800 dad ain't never boyed me him off. I got a 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:21.919 Valentine from my dad either, But always give my daughter 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:27.360 baskets of candy and cards and stuff Valentine's yeah in Easter, Yeah, 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:33.480 I mean by men Valentine's Day president Yeah, maybe the 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:38.800 sweetest day like cologne or like nothing of Valentine's. I 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:42.320 feel like, Okay, maybe if I was in a relationship, yeah, 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:44.800 then maybe it could go both ways. But I feel 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.240 like it's really supposed to be about for women. Yeah. 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:49.120 I feel like Valentine's Day's with a woman. I got 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:52.560 this change. I got this change for Valentine's Day, and 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:57.479 that was my little gotta get somebody something. If they're 0:06:57.480 --> 0:07:00.040 getting you domondant, you don't feel bad like he of 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:05.640 you stuff and you just didn't get you. Thank you 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:09.960 saying let me they've been putting us. I got that yesterday, 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:14.360 but us come over here. You know it's just coming 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:17.440 to hand right here. You can miss today. It's fine. 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:19.440 So when do we we only get guys gifts like 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:22.360 on sweetest Birthday? Swe can say? Is that something we 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:26.120 celebrate here? A Midwestern don't know? No, I never heard 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:31.720 of that. Explain explain it toimes for boys. I didn't 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:33.280 know it's for boys. I thought it was for everybody. 0:07:33.360 --> 0:07:35.440 So it's for boys. What day is that? Right? What day? 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:41.000 What day is there? But you gotta look it up. 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:45.720 But it's definitely the menting behind that. We never heard 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:48.280 of that. I didn't know about that because they celebrated 0:07:48.480 --> 0:07:51.640 heard it. But October nineteen, if I really like you, 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:54.600 I'm buy you something fast. It's in the Midwest and yeah, 0:07:54.840 --> 0:07:58.240 and also in Florida. It's the third Saturday of October. 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:00.680 I don't know, it's just that West probat. Everybody know 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:08.560 about Sweetest Day a spec that's like Halloween got masks, 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:11.920 and it's not the same day every year. It's this 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:15.160 it's the date that there is the same actually date, 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:18.240 it is the day. Yeah, like Thanksgiving. I think if 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:21.040 somebody's constantly gifting you, and there's your boyfriend and you 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:23.800 really like him or care for him, it's okay to 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:26.960 buy him a log. What's easy. What's the longest relationship 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:32.319 you've been in m Probably my last relationship. We was 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:36.920 together for like three folk years. That's a long time. Yeah. 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:40.600 What happened, um just me going into fact, getting into 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:43.160 fame and stuff. I don't think he could handle it. 0:08:43.559 --> 0:08:47.560 He was insecure. He was insecure. I don't want to 0:08:47.880 --> 0:08:50.880 like talk about him bad, but he he didn't really 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:53.840 have a lot of money. So when I got my 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:57.080 first deal, he was expecting like a lot from me, 0:08:57.280 --> 0:09:02.720 like the Sweetest Day baby. When we was in Chicago, 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.560 we both was broke. But when I moved to l A, 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:07.760 it was like I got my first check and everything, 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:09.240 and it's like I want to see you. I want 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:11.760 he I can't afford no ticket right now. So then 0:09:11.800 --> 0:09:13.760 it was like, Okay, I'm gonna buy your first ticket. 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:16.319 Then it turned to the second ticket. Then it's like okay, 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:20.320 I'm not you know what I'm saying. So it just 0:09:20.360 --> 0:09:24.000 didn't work out, like yeah, but so he wasn't really 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:26.520 like trying to step it up, and I mean what 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:30.160 could he really do though, like what get get a job? 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:33.360 And then it's like he still couldn't floss, like how 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:38.720 you floss? It just wanted it was scale you blow 0:09:38.760 --> 0:09:45.960 it up and left watch this interview like exactly, no, 0:09:46.200 --> 0:09:48.439 I really Indians. On top of that, I put up 0:09:48.600 --> 0:09:51.720 with so much of his ship the years before. It 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:54.400 was just like it was I feel like it was 0:09:54.440 --> 0:09:57.640 time for me to move on, like I and that's 0:09:57.679 --> 0:10:01.520 fine when you put up. Was he cheating? Oh did 0:10:01.559 --> 0:10:04.480 he cheat? Yeah? He cheated a couple of times. So 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:07.640 you're like, well, yeah, it was just noting. It wasn't 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:10.360 really nothing to hold on to. He wasn't really like 0:10:10.880 --> 0:10:15.040 doing anything like exemplary. He wasn't. He had to figure 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:16.920 it out like I was figuring it out, and he 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:21.840 he was getting locked up. Damn. He started trying to 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:26.560 buy trying to buy his own I haven't trying to 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:32.880 at least trying to get that money somebody to fly 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:39.280 out here on spirit that a jail? Did you know 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:45.280 how the first class? Now you're and it's crazy because 0:10:45.600 --> 0:10:48.880 I haven't been in a relationship since then, So I'm 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:51.679 just kind of I'm cool. Then I'm okay, though I 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:53.600 know they'd be at your d M s though, yes, 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:58.559 I know that. I've seen the pool pictures and everything. 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:05.760 Anybody good. It's a cup of people. I see. My 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:09.920 whole role Twinny nineteen is we're friends z on the niggas. 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:13.240 You know what I'm saying. I'm not getting curious with nobody. 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:16.840 I'm not really you know, until a guy goes above 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:19.720 and beyond to prove that to me, then maybe. But 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:22.080 I'm just I don't really want to deal with a 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:24.160 lot of people. I want to deal with a certain 0:11:24.200 --> 0:11:26.839 amount of people and just have a friendship because just 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:29.560 like my last relationship, you get to a point where 0:11:30.240 --> 0:11:32.520 it's like we're not even cool no more, you know, 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:35.400 because it was so like personal and you know, so 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:36.960 I just feel like, I just want to be friends 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:39.720 with guys. Now, let's get to know each other. If 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:42.000 it work out cool, If it don't work out cool, 0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:45.240 We're still friends. It's hard feelings, like you know, and 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:47.679 that way you're not going around bragg with d I 0:11:47.760 --> 0:11:54.200 do just know we're friends, you know. That's that's what 0:11:54.280 --> 0:11:56.679 I'm on right now. It's not a guy and he's 0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:59.880 like moving too fasts, but you like him. They all 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:04.480 old fast, straight to they go straight to the they 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:06.520 want to get straight to the point. But that's why 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:09.840 I'm just like, nah, you know, do you let anybody 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:19.680 leave that stuff at your house? Oh wife? Being little 0:12:19.800 --> 0:12:23.160 boxes and stock too fresh. I really feel like they'd 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:27.000 be doing that on purpose, of course, you know fresh 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:29.120 and the minute I'm gonna just make a little box 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:35.719 a little lost boxes at the point you gotta put 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:37.560 about the door. I have to like do that to 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:42.960 me when look we cannot. No. I had somebody do 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:44.760 that to me once, Like I had my little book 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:47.840 come over and I had these boxes on. It was 0:12:47.880 --> 0:12:50.160 like some recent it was like blew or whatever. I like, 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:52.720 he coming up, I'm gonna put his So he gets 0:12:52.720 --> 0:12:56.120 over there and I'm like, you like my boxes. He 0:12:56.200 --> 0:13:00.679 was like I was wondering, who's who's going like this 0:13:00.840 --> 0:13:03.480 is yours? He was still like those is not mines. 0:13:03.600 --> 0:13:05.800 I'm like, this is your fucking box. I was wishing 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:07.599 when you bought him, like nig we had to go 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:10.400 like it was a whole little argument and then he 0:13:10.480 --> 0:13:13.400 was like, oh yeah, like I was so mad, like 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:20.880 just let me take this ship off because yeah, that's 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:23.559 he didn't know his own boxes right, because we had 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:25.800 once to he came out there, he ended up staying 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:28.600 longer than he needs to, so we ended up buying something. 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:32.880 I don't think he remembered. My second he was like, 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:37.520 I want to I'm salty. I was just like then 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:39.480 I went in the bathroom. Then I came back like 0:13:39.559 --> 0:13:49.319 hold On was like right, like really his box? Dan? 0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:53.079 That sucks. Now do you think that you ever lead 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:54.840 a guy on? Like have you ever led somebody on 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:56.439 where they thought maybe it was going to be more 0:13:56.440 --> 0:13:58.400 than what it was and you felt bad about it. 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:02.920 I wouldn't say I lead guys on, but sometimes it's 0:14:02.960 --> 0:14:04.960 hard for like one of the guys like a real 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:08.240 sweetheart and he just won't give up on trying to 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:12.040 like talk to you. I just you know, smell and 0:14:12.200 --> 0:14:14.680 like you know, I say, looks stuff. I won't completely 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:18.040 turn him down all the time. I know, I guess 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:20.240 you do. You have to let them know like this 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:22.800 ain't and she got that nice smile too, and she 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:27.040 looked like she just love you. Like so, I try 0:14:27.120 --> 0:14:32.120 not to leave guys on themselves. They do because they're 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:35.040 so entitled. They feel like just because they want you, 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:37.040 they're going to get you when they're supposed to get you, 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:39.040 just because they want you, not because they work for it, 0:14:39.080 --> 0:14:41.240 not because they do anything to earn you. Just feel 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:43.200 like I want that, it's supposed to be mine. I'm him, 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:45.800 And then they get mad when when you don't, yeah exactly. 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:47.720 Have you ever had somebody be nasty to you because 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:51.600 you didn't like them? Especially in Chicago, that's crazy to me. 0:14:51.840 --> 0:14:53.520 The niggas are trying to talk to you all the time, 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:55.640 baby baby, let me get you another now. Fuck you 0:14:55.640 --> 0:15:04.800 didn't beat You're here too. I think everywhere you know 0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:08.720 you ain't all that. It definitely let people on before. 0:15:09.040 --> 0:15:10.720 I used to do that a lot, especially when I 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:14.280 was younger, because it wasn't on purpose though. I would 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:16.080 be like I would be talking to them and I'll 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:18.600 start to really like them, and then they get real 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:21.760 serious and I'm like, wait a minute, I'll start backing 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:23.600 away a little bit. But I still tell them like 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:25.880 what they want to hear. Yeah, I'll tell them what 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:27.320 they want to hear. I'll keep it, guess I love 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:29.480 you until it gets too far and I just won't 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:30.920 answer their phone call and them more. I'm like this, 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:36.400 Nike is crazy like you, Yeah, but you moving. I 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:38.120 didn't think it was gonna happen like that. I thought 0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:42.520 we were just I thought we were playing. I said 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:44.480 it was like fun, you know what I mean, and 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:46.640 it just wouldn't beyond all right. Let me give you 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:49.120 a scenario. Okay, let's say you're dating a guy, right, 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:52.320 You're about to go on vacation together. You've been playing this, 0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:54.840 You're going away for a week. Jeruy don't get no 0:15:54.920 --> 0:15:57.640 vacation time. So she's excited. It looks like it's gonna 0:15:57.680 --> 0:16:00.440 be great, beautiful villa. Let you find it out. He's 0:16:00.440 --> 0:16:02.920 talking to another check the day before y'all supposed to go, 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:07.760 would you still go? Hell, yeah, we're gonna go. I'm 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:10.080 gonna curse your ass out when we get there. I'm 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:11.840 gonna get to the bottom of it and then, or 0:16:11.880 --> 0:16:14.440 at least I might have my own little vacation while 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:17.200 I'm there. You know what I'm saying. Now it appends 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:20.400 to is it a relationship or just a guy? I'm 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:23.200 talking to him, it's like, not your boyfriend yet, but 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:25.680 it's serious, and he's like, it's just saying you if 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:29.200 you ain't my boyfriend, it ain't that serious because it 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:33.000 can't be cheating and pass. But he's saying that he's 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:35.440 not messing with nobody. And then you like that. I 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:37.440 feel like, even if you're not in a relationship, just 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:39.920 keep it a hunting because and that's why I want 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:42.720 to I'm so like serious about this friendship thing because 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:44.280 it's like we should be open and we should be 0:16:44.360 --> 0:16:46.240 able to talk to each other. It's no point of lying, 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:49.000 you know what I'm saying. And you can't tell the 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:50.840 neggor to be open with you. And then when he'll 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:53.360 be open with you, you get like extra mad about it, 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:57.640 you know, and it's something different than what you told me. 0:16:57.680 --> 0:17:00.280 Then Yeah, it's like, say, guys only out of you 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:04.320 if they love you, little shit, they don't love you. 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:09.240 If if they love you, they wouldn't have to lie 0:17:09.240 --> 0:17:12.480 to you about that. I'm not gonna lie. I gotta 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:16.320 like serious little situation, not serious, but like I got 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:18.560 real close to this guy that I'm talking to now. 0:17:19.080 --> 0:17:20.919 And that's one of the things I found out. He 0:17:20.960 --> 0:17:22.880 was laughing at me. And it's like I wasn't even 0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:26.200 mad about the situation, but the fact that he laed 0:17:26.640 --> 0:17:28.640 and that's what you have to lie. Yeah, and that's 0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:30.720 what he said. I really didn't want to hurt your 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:33.760 feelings and want to hurt my feelings, Like, who do 0:17:33.800 --> 0:17:36.000 you think? You know what I'm saying. Tell the truth. 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:38.720 I don't care about all that hurt hurting my feelings 0:17:38.720 --> 0:17:41.360 because it's gonna hurt me more than I trusted you. 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:43.639 And you know what I'm saying. If a guy tells 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:46.680 you like I am talking to other checks, you still 0:17:46.680 --> 0:17:51.440 will talk to him. Um, if we're not in a relationship, yeah, 0:17:51.520 --> 0:17:54.280 why not. I'm probably talking to other girls. But if 0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:59.480 he has a baby on the way, See, they get you, 0:18:00.960 --> 0:18:04.320 get tricky with get tricky. But I got a baby 0:18:04.359 --> 0:18:06.600 on the way. You know. It was like a situation. 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:09.280 We wasn't even like that. She got pregnant. She want 0:18:09.320 --> 0:18:11.560 to keep the baby. Always a story, ain't it. And 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:15.520 they'd be married, it'd be the fourth kid. But it 0:18:15.680 --> 0:18:19.040 was honest. He tells you, Look, I have a baby. 0:18:19.080 --> 0:18:21.040 I don't know for sure if it's mineuntil the baby's born. 0:18:21.600 --> 0:18:25.840 But I have a baby potentially on the way. You know, 0:18:25.920 --> 0:18:33.440 we can still be friends key word friends nineteen. I'm 0:18:33.480 --> 0:18:35.840 not gonna take it personal, but that might change the 0:18:35.880 --> 0:18:38.520 way I fun with you, Like I might not be 0:18:38.560 --> 0:18:41.440 as serious with you. You know what I'm saying. Everything 0:18:41.840 --> 0:18:45.000 I can't It ain't really your fault if it happened 0:18:45.040 --> 0:18:47.280 before I was in a picture, you know what I'm saying. 0:18:47.359 --> 0:18:49.560 But it just depends on how much I like you. 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:51.399 Like if I like you for real, for real and 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:54.959 we've been messing around, it's like, I don't know, Maybe 0:18:55.240 --> 0:18:57.840 I don't know. I would have to see. Have you 0:18:57.840 --> 0:18:59.480 ever had a girl call you up and be like, 0:18:59.520 --> 0:19:01.800 you know that dude you're talking to? You know, I 0:19:01.840 --> 0:19:04.679 work with him the woman a woman. I had a 0:19:04.760 --> 0:19:07.760 girl sladding my d m s before. It was so 0:19:07.880 --> 0:19:13.280 crazy because all the tea is coming out out there 0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:17.400 and watch it. But anyway, um, like one of my exes, 0:19:18.000 --> 0:19:19.960 he just he was just an ex that I was 0:19:20.000 --> 0:19:22.160 with for a couple of years. And you know, ever 0:19:22.200 --> 0:19:24.760 since I got like a little fame or whatever, like 0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:26.439 you know, they still want to be cool with me 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:28.800 and I'm not like they want to be the I 0:19:28.840 --> 0:19:32.400 P yeah, I'm not. I'm not mean like y'all could 0:19:32.440 --> 0:19:34.400 come to the shows. Y'all get you know what I'm saying. 0:19:34.400 --> 0:19:37.160 It's cool, we're cool. We were not. It's no hard feelings. 0:19:37.600 --> 0:19:39.960 But um so I had ran it to him in 0:19:40.080 --> 0:19:42.359 l A. He ended up coming to my house afterwards 0:19:42.960 --> 0:19:45.160 and he was just like chilling for a little bit, 0:19:45.200 --> 0:19:47.600 and I told him like, you gotta go, you know. 0:19:48.040 --> 0:19:51.359 But when he left, his girlfriend slid in my d 0:19:51.600 --> 0:19:53.720 M s like the next day, like, can I ask 0:19:53.800 --> 0:19:56.679 you a question? Did my boyfriend come over your house? 0:19:57.119 --> 0:19:58.880 Then he told me that he did, and he told 0:19:58.880 --> 0:20:00.800 me he's not talking to you and is then the 0:20:00.840 --> 0:20:04.919 third And I was just like just lack girl. I 0:20:04.960 --> 0:20:10.960 didn't even tell her. I was just I was just like, 0:20:11.440 --> 0:20:14.320 y'all need to talk about what y'all got going on. 0:20:14.359 --> 0:20:16.480 And I just told him like, you need to stop 0:20:16.520 --> 0:20:18.840 buying your girlfriend or you don't need to be over 0:20:18.880 --> 0:20:20.760 here if you got a situation going on, you know 0:20:20.800 --> 0:20:23.000 what I'm saying. So it was one of those times. 0:20:23.040 --> 0:20:25.520 Why did he tell her so much information? What guys 0:20:25.600 --> 0:20:27.399 need to what they felt to realize is they need 0:20:27.400 --> 0:20:28.720 to keep you one hunting from the gate. If you 0:20:28.760 --> 0:20:30.600 keep you one hunting from the gate with everybody around you, 0:20:30.640 --> 0:20:32.560 then you won't have these problems because you're gonna choose 0:20:32.600 --> 0:20:34.119 to deal with. You want what you want to deal with. 0:20:34.359 --> 0:20:35.960 But guys so quick to want to put us in 0:20:36.040 --> 0:20:38.120 situations that they want us to be in because they 0:20:38.200 --> 0:20:41.800 want to be in. That's when she gets side. But 0:20:42.080 --> 0:20:43.920 he can't even keep it a hunter with us because 0:20:43.960 --> 0:20:46.359 if he did, knowing if I was the girlfriend, I 0:20:46.359 --> 0:20:47.920 would have broke up with him, Like you have your 0:20:47.960 --> 0:20:51.400 ex house and his drezy Nex, like, yeah, no, it's 0:20:51.480 --> 0:20:54.160 over with. But she can't compete with that. Yeah, So 0:20:54.720 --> 0:20:57.400 I don't know. He just didn't need to be over there. 0:20:57.520 --> 0:21:00.480 He should have never been over here. Send What about 0:21:00.480 --> 0:21:02.520 you leaving stuff at the man's house? He said, you 0:21:02.640 --> 0:21:05.840 got something that semi serious. I'm collecting all my belongings, 0:21:06.040 --> 0:21:08.960 but you have stuff here. What you're saying, what like 0:21:09.000 --> 0:21:12.359 do you leave stuff? Like like you some shoes? Maybe 0:21:12.359 --> 0:21:15.440 I don't leave nothing, girl, don't because next thing, you know, 0:21:15.600 --> 0:21:21.520 the next bitch that came there. Sorry'll talk to everything. Sure, 0:21:21.560 --> 0:21:26.200 I don't leave nothing or learn your ship or bleach 0:21:26.240 --> 0:21:32.480 your ship, leach burn Rent, how told you tear? Why 0:21:32.640 --> 0:21:34.480