1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:01,920 Speaker 1: Just heads up, y'all and adults. 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 2: We use all kinds of language all the time, but 3 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 2: in this episode, the in word is used, and we 4 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 2: know that some listeners may find that upsetting and offensive, 5 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 2: so we wanted to give you, uh, you know, the 6 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 2: heads up. 7 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 3: Now let's get funny. 8 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 4: Ow. 9 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 5: Hey everybody, I'm a Shove Hotel. 10 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 6: And I'm Jordan Carlos and welcome to Adulting from w 11 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 6: NYC Studios, the podcast where we learn how to be 12 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 6: grown ass adults together. 13 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 7: I am getting over a little cold from flying, and 14 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 7: so I asked. I asked the producers for a tissue, 15 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 7: and they gave me this little toilet paper. It's like, 16 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 7: I know it's public radio, but you got free tampas. 17 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 8: In the back. Yeah, we gotta use this public radio up. 18 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,519 Speaker 6: You know, I love the capital campaigns when they're like, 19 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 6: we need three thousand dollars in the next two minutes. 20 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 8: Your Grandma's never gonna hear beat over again. 21 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 5: Come on, we need something number five to ten. Let's go. 22 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 8: We can shut the ship down. 23 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 6: This episode, we had Danielle Brooks from Oranges, the New Black. 24 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 8: Chris red and. 25 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:15,119 Speaker 6: Unders nailed it, brought it home, landed the plane. 26 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 8: Plus you share some great news in this episode. 27 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 5: I do. I don't know what it is. I've already forgotten. 28 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:24,400 Speaker 6: No spoils on that anyway, Sit back, listen, enjoy. You're 29 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,039 Speaker 6: probably in your commute or in a cubicle, so try 30 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 6: to hold it in. 31 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:35,040 Speaker 5: Yes, like your part. 32 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 7: Welcome, I'm your hospital show can tell U. Jordan Carlos, 33 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 7: please give it up for our DJ. 34 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 8: Don't will give me. 35 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 6: I'm just so proud that everybody came on time. Give 36 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 6: yourselves around applause. 37 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 8: Don't you talk in? 38 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 6: Don't the people that did come on time, don't take 39 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 6: credit if you came late. They're like, oh I made 40 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 6: it in no fuck? If you came on time, please 41 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 6: give yourselves around the plase did you who. 42 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 8: Made it on time? That's right, you adult? She made 43 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:05,279 Speaker 8: it in a fucking What happened to you? Were you playing? 44 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 5: Did you go to a city MD or a real hospital? 45 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 8: What happened to your leg? What happened to your leg? 46 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 9: I want to know what happened? 47 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 8: What's the story? Rock climbing rock? 48 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 7: Get the microphone back out. 49 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna say you deserve to get her into 50 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 5: a mountain and she's surprised you heard. Are you like? 51 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 7: What'd you have a body like mine? That ship is 52 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 7: rock climbing every fucking day. I can't see my feet. 53 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 7: Everything feels like, you know, you're just walking on a 54 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 7: type rope in an Indiana Jones movie. With his body, 55 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 7: I feel like a trying not to catch myself on 56 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 7: fire with her fucking. 57 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 5: Foot rock climbing. Now, get the prose and jerk off 58 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 5: to a nice candle, bitch? Why are you rock climbing? Anyways? 59 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 5: How are you? We should tell you what the show 60 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 5: is about. Make some noise. 61 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 3: Have you've been here before? 62 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 9: The Oh my god, Oh my god, this woman? 63 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 7: Thank you for exposing him to new things. 64 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:19,679 Speaker 6: It's a journey. Yeah, yes, it is a journey, and 65 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 6: that's what adulting is. Adulting is a journey. It's a 66 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 6: metamorphis yes, please please please let me, let me, let 67 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 6: me do church. Basically, what it is is where we 68 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 6: come together every month or so. 69 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 4: Do it? 70 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 9: You got any andree crouching there or anything? 71 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 8: Okay? 72 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 5: Uh? 73 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, we come together to basically help ourselves through this 74 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 6: this rite of passage that we call adulting, this metamorphosis, 75 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 6: if you will. 76 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 8: Where we go into damn it. 77 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 9: I was on a roll. 78 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 6: All right, So we're talking about bills, We're talking about rent, 79 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 6: we're talking about mortgage, relationships, the whole nine. 80 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 9: How we're getting through it. 81 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 5: How do we do it together? I love because it 82 00:03:58,640 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 5: is cheaper. 83 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 9: You know what insurance? You have insurance? It seems like 84 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 9: you do. You don't haven't insurance? 85 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 5: The notebook, need to take. 86 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: Notes on adulting? 87 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 8: Like I got this? 88 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 5: Oh my god, I can't. Anyways, how have you been? 89 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 9: Things have been good. 90 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 6: I am on a little pilot on Hulu, so we'll 91 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:32,719 Speaker 6: see what happens. 92 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 5: Yes, black Man. 93 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 8: It's Bobby moynihan. 94 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:38,160 Speaker 9: He's a really funny dude from S n L. 95 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 5: We talked about you. 96 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: Okay, you're right. 97 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 8: Absolutely, this is what my therapist says. 98 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:49,279 Speaker 10: Yes, it's starring alright, stop, stop for it. 99 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 8: No, I'm really excited about. 100 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 5: Oh I love it. It's like arcle wants an. 101 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 3: Got a job? 102 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 6: All right, Okay, we're having some fun at my expense whatever. 103 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:04,239 Speaker 5: It's like ravens Amon went to Rainbow. We got a jacket. 104 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:09,119 Speaker 8: That's what you lately. 105 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:14,239 Speaker 7: Yeah, I've been very busy because we just welcome Twins 106 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 7: via surrogate. 107 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:25,600 Speaker 8: Get on your. 108 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 11: Make. 109 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 7: You know what's funny, Gloria Estephone was in a terrible 110 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 7: car accident. It was a truck accident, but she was 111 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 7: in this terrible accident and she like needed a poll 112 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 7: in her back. That's how bad like her accident was 113 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 7: with her band, right, and then like months later she 114 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 7: recovered and sang that song at the Grammys. 115 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 8: So you were talking about. 116 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 5: I just think it's amazing you can overcome anything. And 117 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 5: that's and honestly, I'm taking you black, Okay. 118 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 7: So we have been trying to have a baby for 119 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 7: five years now, and so getting back to the glory 120 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 7: that Stephon story, it's just like, you know, she is 121 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 7: gonna hold you down, but don't let it hold you 122 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 7: down forever, you know what I mean. And I remember 123 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 7: your wife talking me through some hard times and she's 124 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 7: just like, Michelle. 125 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 5: You gotta have kids because you're crazy, bitch. She did, 126 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 5: although she's white, so she's like, oh my god, Michelle, 127 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 5: I'm I'm just kidding, I'm just kidding. 128 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 8: Wait, So how old are that? 129 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,799 Speaker 5: They turned three weeks yesterday? 130 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's insane. I've always wanted to be a mom 131 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 7: before I can even remember. I never thought about getting married, 132 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 7: but I was like I'm gonna be a mom and 133 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 7: now in my forties, I'm just like, fuck everybody, get 134 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 7: the fuck out of my way. I'm gonna take care 135 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 7: of these kids and it's fucking wonderful. I also, you know, 136 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 7: I just started using CBD oil. 137 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:51,919 Speaker 5: That's great. 138 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 8: Wait, so have you been sleeping or what sleep? 139 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 7: I'd love to meet that motherfucker know, bitch, know, bitch, 140 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 7: I don't sleep money. 141 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 8: Did you know that? That's called mom brain. Mom brain 142 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 8: is like you forget you can like like hold this, but. 143 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 5: You know what? 144 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 8: You know what. 145 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 7: Guys, this is a very special show for a lot 146 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 7: of different reasons. It's like one of my first shows 147 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 7: in Brooklyn after hiring a babysitter and being a mom. 148 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 7: It's also very special because one of my friends, my 149 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 7: favorite pair of brown titties just out there in the 150 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 7: world doing stuff, has showed up tonight and I would 151 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 7: love to have her on the show. I mean, you 152 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 7: know her from all types of stuff, mainly Orange is 153 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 7: New Black. 154 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 5: Please give it up for. 155 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: That is great. 156 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 8: That is great. 157 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 3: That was impressive. That wore me out. Okay, I got 158 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 3: work to do. 159 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 7: Ask your question, did you always have this inner light 160 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 7: or did you have to nurture it because you you know, 161 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 7: when people say you light up a room, you do 162 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 7: that ship, that's love. 163 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 3: I think it's inside me. Yeah, for sure, I've always 164 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 3: kept that joy. Yeah, it's been important for me to 165 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 3: keep it, you know. But I mean, like people be 166 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 3: trying to steal that light. Yes, something is part of 167 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 3: adult ting. Don't let nobody steal your light. 168 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 8: You guess that is real? 169 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 6: You know what's your So what is your what's your 170 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 6: technique for keeping it? 171 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: What's your technique? 172 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:40,319 Speaker 8: Oh? 173 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 3: Man, I try to surround myself with good people. 174 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 5: My family is here in Memphis ten. 175 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, like just making sure I keep my people close 176 00:08:58,440 --> 00:08:58,719 Speaker 3: to me. 177 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 5: Around me, keep me you know. Yes, how do you 178 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 5: speaking of the joy that's was it tall or did 179 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 5: you have to find it yourself? Do you think you 180 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 5: can go through like a lot of bad ship and 181 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 5: still be a happy person. 182 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 3: Oh that's a good question. I think so. I think 183 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 3: you can go through a lot of ship. I mean 184 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 3: I still go through a lot of ship. 185 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:20,719 Speaker 8: I mean every day. 186 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 3: Ain't like roses and flowers and sex every day. But 187 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 3: but I think it's just remembering, counting your blessings. I 188 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 3: think that's what it's about if you know, like, you 189 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 3: know what, I have breath in my body today, I 190 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 3: got all my limbs, I was able to pay for 191 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 3: my subway ride, all that stuff. If you think about that, 192 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 3: I think you're gonna be all right. Right, it's not 193 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 3: a New York perspective. That's why I like it. I 194 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:51,839 Speaker 3: think New York did make me a little hard a 195 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 3: little bit. Yeah, yeah, just like I had to get 196 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 3: some thick skin because I was walking around being like hi, ma'am. 197 00:09:58,520 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 8: Sorry. 198 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 3: They was like I had like. 199 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 12: You know, yeah, I gotta learn that myself, like get 200 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 12: out of the way. You you know, you know what, 201 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 12: you know what you said? 202 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 8: You know you know what I'm saying, Like really you 203 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 8: gotta hit them? 204 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:25,319 Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, both of both of you guys are from 205 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 7: the South. 206 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 5: I got it. 207 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 3: Okay, what part of the South? 208 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 2: You know? 209 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:30,199 Speaker 9: What the part of the South am I from? So 210 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:31,959 Speaker 9: can I say something? 211 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 4: Now? 212 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 6: I am from the South, But people always New Yorkers 213 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 6: will always correct me. 214 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 9: They like to correct me. 215 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 6: They say that I'm not from the South, never from Texas, 216 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:43,199 Speaker 6: so the New York but New York will be that's 217 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 6: not the South because the New Yorkers, I mean, I 218 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 6: know everything. 219 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 3: All right, you know Florida, Yeah, Texas, you said, thank 220 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 3: you very much. 221 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 6: So this is I mean you you've come to the 222 00:10:57,640 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 6: end of one of one, you know, project, and I 223 00:10:59,880 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 6: was wondering, like. 224 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 8: What how does it feel? 225 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 1: How does it feel to. 226 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:04,559 Speaker 6: Like go into the next thing only being twenty nine 227 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,559 Speaker 6: years old, and like, that's that's amazing achievement? 228 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 9: Why achievement? 229 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:08,559 Speaker 8: For real? 230 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 9: Real, that's amazing. 231 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 8: They won't clap, but I. 232 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 3: Could do that, y'all watch going just a new black dya. 233 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 8: Come on? I got halfway? Come on. 234 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 3: I mean some people you know, tap out, but I'm 235 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 3: glad y'all they're still there. It's it's been a morning 236 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 3: process though, for real, like just crying all the time. 237 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 3: I mean, this last season, y'all gonna be over is crying, 238 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 3: all the girls crying. You'm like, stop crying because we're 239 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 3: just so overwhelmed with like what this show has done 240 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 3: for us, Like it changed our lives, you know. 241 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 5: What I mean, and other people's lives too. Oh yeah, 242 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 5: and those stories are so important. 243 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 7: When people say diversity matters, you know, it really fucking does. 244 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:54,719 Speaker 7: And you could tell what the show now and it's 245 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:56,960 Speaker 7: been easier for like a lot like other brown titties 246 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 7: to go out and audition, because. 247 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 5: Now we've got to proven concepts. So you know what 248 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 5: I mean, I have a question for you. Are you 249 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 5: boot up right now? 250 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 3: Aha a Buddha, Yes I am, and I'm clearly happy. 251 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 5: That's good. I love love. Let me ask you a question. Then, 252 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 5: what is something that your man. 253 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 1: Could do for you? 254 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 4: Oh? 255 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:28,439 Speaker 7: Good, adulting wise, adulting wise, that he would not have 256 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 7: to check in with you for like he could just 257 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 7: make the decision himself. 258 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 8: Wait, okay, so like. 259 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 6: Okay, there's something he can do without without your knowledge. 260 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, Like, for instance, what I 261 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 6: like to do for my wife, I like to get 262 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 6: like like spot passes and things like that without like 263 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:57,559 Speaker 6: playing something. 264 00:12:57,280 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 9: Without you knowing it or playing yea all that. 265 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 6: Okay, Yeah, I mean I mean it could be more Monday, 266 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:05,959 Speaker 6: It could be more mundane than that. 267 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 9: Could he paint a room? 268 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 11: Yeah? 269 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 3: You pick a color with the house? Oh no, no, no. 270 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 3: The most important thing about relationships is communication. Make sure 271 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 3: you tell me what's going on. He can make sure 272 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 3: that the house is safe, you know in there the 273 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:38,319 Speaker 3: game on that man, Okay, The house was to answer 274 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 3: some questions excuse me, Daniel Books is going to be 275 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 3: answering your questions. Oh Jesus, okay, first question, where do 276 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:53,080 Speaker 3: I find a good sugar daddy. 277 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 8: At the stove? 278 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 3: You still get sugar. 279 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 1: Daddies at the stone? 280 00:13:55,679 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 8: Now? No, right, I. 281 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 5: Understand rent is high in New York. I get it. 282 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 7: You know what, There's a whole website called like sugar 283 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 7: daddy dot com. There's websites for everything you can just 284 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,200 Speaker 7: go to. It's like fresh Direct. You just put some 285 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 7: ship in the cart and see what happened. 286 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 9: Somebody's like Bookmark. 287 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 3: I would never do this. How do you turn a 288 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 3: fuck boy into your boyfriend's slash husband? 289 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: Oh? 290 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 8: Why why do you want? 291 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 11: You? 292 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 5: Why? You just want to know why? 293 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 8: I don't even have the words like. 294 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 3: Why would you want a fuck boy? 295 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 1: I don't know? 296 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 5: You know why? 297 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 7: I will say this and this is something I learned 298 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:51,360 Speaker 7: from my twenties. You cannot fuck with potential forever? 299 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean? You can't date potential. 300 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 7: Somebody gotta show up to the fucking interview and be like, 301 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 7: this is what I got, this is what I can offer. 302 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 5: I'm just saying, do you know what dal eugually said? 303 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 5: Something really really interesting to me. 304 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 7: One time he was on my podcast Late Night whatever whatever, 305 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 7: check it out, and he somebody asked me my question 306 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 7: about dating, and he was like, you already know the answer, 307 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 7: so just you know what I mean, just do yourself 308 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 7: a favor and rip the band aid off. And I 309 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 7: think it's so interesting because every time someone's like, you know, 310 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 7: heaven a hall and should I shouldn't I? And I'm like, 311 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 7: oh shit, we really do know the answer. 312 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 3: I think we always know the answer, right. I think 313 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 3: in your head when you're dating, I think you know 314 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 3: that person's a two year person or a two month 315 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 3: person or a two week person. You know what I'm saying, Like, 316 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 3: I feel like right now I have found my forever 317 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 3: person because I wouldn't be wasting my time wrong. So 318 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 3: sick in closing, Yes, ma'am. 319 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 5: What's the most adult thing you want to do this 320 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 5: year for yourself? 321 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 3: You know what I really wish I could do not 322 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 3: give a fuck, like like the eighty year old women though, 323 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:14,400 Speaker 3: the ones that just really don't give it, or you 324 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 3: say whatever you want to say and you just do 325 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 3: whatever you want to do. Yeah, I ain't gonna go 326 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 3: insulting people like eighty year old women. 327 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 4: You know how. 328 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna do that, but that's what I would 329 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 3: love to do. Like I think for so long, I've 330 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 3: just been like politically correct and just trying to make 331 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:36,080 Speaker 3: sure that I'm like perfect in a way. You have manners, Yeah, 332 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 3: I got manners, but I think it's okay to like 333 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 3: I just want to lose. 334 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 7: It's gonna happen because you already, like gott in the door, 335 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 7: You're polite, you're super talented. Everyone loves you, trust you, 336 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 7: wants to work with you. And now you're just gonna 337 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 7: be taking over the world. You're gonna make Sean Dea 338 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 7: Rahms look like. 339 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 8: What you got that bait. 340 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 7: It's gonna be amazing. I can't wait to watch everything 341 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 7: that happens for you. 342 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 3: Thank you and congress to you. 343 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:06,679 Speaker 8: Yes, I'm also shaking my an. 344 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 3: Thank you. 345 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:19,720 Speaker 13: Yes, welcome back to what telts me everybody? 346 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 11: Yeah, who next guest? 347 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 5: Our next guest is Oh my god, what a chicken nugget. 348 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 5: I want to dip them in sauces. He's on Saturdaynight Live. 349 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:44,479 Speaker 5: He's so fucking funny. He was also on the on 350 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 5: Netflix is Disjointed? Please give it up for Christmas. 351 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 3: You look good, Chris, I will that will want to 352 00:17:58,080 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 3: know Chris Red? What is. 353 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 8: There? 354 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 5: You go when you look red? 355 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 3: Carpet ready? 356 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 1: So it's funny story. 357 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:10,880 Speaker 14: I didn't go home last night because after after the show, yeah, 358 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 14: we're out all night. So I had them over my 359 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:16,439 Speaker 14: dressing room and I just picked clothes that were in 360 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 14: there and here I. 361 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:27,399 Speaker 7: Am like, it's golden, golden, make it happen, thank you 362 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 7: for coming. 363 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 5: They go, They go long long. 364 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 14: There's two of them too, and the first one doesn't 365 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 14: start till two am. Yeah, and then the after after 366 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 14: it doesn't start till like three thirty or four, yes. 367 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 7: And then both One time I was like, is this 368 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 7: fucking is this coach that? 369 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 14: Yeah, it's like a it's like it's like a sad Coachello, 370 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,359 Speaker 14: you know what I mean, because because we're all drunk. 371 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 14: But then some people remember, oh man, work is coming, 372 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 14: you know. But it's like the one time we get 373 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 14: you on wine and yeah, but you have to you have. 374 00:18:57,960 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 5: To do because every correct me. 375 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:02,400 Speaker 7: If I'm I feel like once a show, a satur 376 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 7: night live show is over, it feels like you just 377 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:05,640 Speaker 7: graduated college. 378 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, every fucking week to like if you do real good. 379 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 14: You're like, yeah, yeah, I killed it, and then they 380 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,199 Speaker 14: come in Monday like, yeah, no one cares about that. 381 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 1: Last week. There's no show dog, so figure it out, 382 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 1: you know. But it's good like that keeps you, It 383 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 1: keeps you grinding, which is a good thing. 384 00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 5: I mean, has been a good education. Did you learn? 385 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:27,879 Speaker 5: Have you learned more doing S n L than your 386 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:28,480 Speaker 5: whole career? 387 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:30,440 Speaker 14: I mean I sharpened a lot of I'm sharpening a 388 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 14: lot of things. I mean I'm still in the process 389 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:33,480 Speaker 14: of it. But yeah, learning how to just write for 390 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:36,639 Speaker 14: TV and it's in a specific scope has really helped 391 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 14: a lot and helps. 392 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: You deal with with white people. 393 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 10: We have right here. Probably can we sit further back? 394 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:57,719 Speaker 7: I feel like that's always been a struggle on now 395 00:19:57,720 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 7: we can finally talk about it. Because this is why 396 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:01,680 Speaker 7: a straight I stayed away from writing jobs because I 397 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 7: don't know how to write for a white dude. Oh, 398 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 7: because every packet I turned in for Conan or Jimmy 399 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 7: Fallon my man just is like this is great, but 400 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 7: I hear like a hey at the end of each thing, 401 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:16,440 Speaker 7: you know what I mean, And it's just like writing 402 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 7: for my voice, right, Yeah, So what's. 403 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 5: Your process do you have to write? 404 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:25,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm also I like really silly shit. 405 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:29,159 Speaker 14: So I'm a black man first, but I also do 406 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 14: like silly stuff and their their voices like Pete, I know, 407 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 14: I to write for you know what I'm saying Mikey, 408 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 14: you know, and just kind of learned by hanging out 409 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 14: with him and finding something about them. You're like, oh, okay, okay, yeah, 410 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 14: I can figure out your voice. But it's really about 411 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:46,439 Speaker 14: just like writing for yourself and pitching yourself in different 412 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 14: scenarios so other people can see how to write for 413 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 14: you too. 414 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 1: Otherwise it would just be the black guy and everything. 415 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:51,120 Speaker 1: You know. 416 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,719 Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean you're going to be the black regardless. 417 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:57,479 Speaker 14: But like, yes, you know what I mean. 418 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 7: Were you comfortable in class high school, in college speaking 419 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:02,840 Speaker 7: up in front of the class. 420 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 14: And like and I wasn't even a comedian and I 421 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 14: was just like mad introverted and I got nervous speaking 422 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:10,680 Speaker 14: in front of people soon. 423 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:12,480 Speaker 1: Unless yeah, so unless it. 424 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:15,119 Speaker 5: Was like my man is falling in love with you 425 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 5: right now. 426 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 9: You were in you sat next to the class clown 427 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 9: or like what happened? 428 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 1: Like no, I mean like yeah sometimes, but also. 429 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 14: It was just like oh ship this dude, is fucking elevis. 430 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 8: Not get some self esteem. I'm gonna be a beast. 431 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:41,960 Speaker 1: I would. I mean yeah, there would always be. 432 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 14: Somebody like like louder and funnier in the class, and 433 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:47,719 Speaker 14: I just would be sitting there. But every now and 434 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 14: then I get my I get my little joke off, 435 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,359 Speaker 14: and I was like, oh, Ship, if I was brave enough, I. 436 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:53,240 Speaker 1: Do that more, you know. 437 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 14: And then I and then once I started battling, I 438 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:59,200 Speaker 14: started doing rap battles in schools, and Ship, what really, 439 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:01,160 Speaker 14: that's that's what like build my confidence. 440 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,400 Speaker 1: This is why am I telling y'all, No, this is good. 441 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 5: This is what sharing stories. 442 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,719 Speaker 8: It's very do y'all want to hear him? 443 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:11,880 Speaker 1: Man? 444 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:13,959 Speaker 8: I mean you said you brought it up. 445 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:19,360 Speaker 14: Ain't gotta be I don't. I don't twenty twenty. I've been, 446 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,120 Speaker 14: I've been up, I've been up, been I've been, I've 447 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:22,360 Speaker 14: been up. I've been, I've been up. 448 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 1: And get better than this. I don't know what I'm 449 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 1: gonna say. 450 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 14: Michelle got me, y'all on a fucking Sunday wearing some 451 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 14: different clothes for many different outfits. Had to take a 452 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 14: sip for the liquor jacket coke, I get quicker. 453 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:38,640 Speaker 1: I'm that real type. 454 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:40,919 Speaker 14: But nigga, it's no e R for the white people 455 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:45,480 Speaker 14: in the front that it's said it's my day, Yeah, 456 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:47,919 Speaker 14: the only day off, but that takes those days office. 457 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 14: The dream on living dogs for what y'all gonna do? 458 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 14: I'm moving fast like a remember in the log downhill. 459 00:22:59,680 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 3: Bread. 460 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:02,879 Speaker 1: I'm very exhausted that. 461 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,359 Speaker 7: I feel like people have an idea of what it 462 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 7: is to be an adult and what it is to 463 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 7: be a woman. And it's like, did you ever have 464 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:13,879 Speaker 7: an idea in your head what it is to be 465 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 7: a man? 466 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 5: Like? What defines being a man to you? And is 467 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 5: it society's definition? 468 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:20,920 Speaker 14: When I was younger, I thought, you know, being a 469 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 14: man was having a lot of money and things that 470 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,000 Speaker 14: you wanted, you know, and my dad, you know, I 471 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 14: had a good I had a good father. So like 472 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,159 Speaker 14: I thought, being a man was just having you know, 473 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 14: what he has, which is a family, you know, doing 474 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 14: something he loves and and having somebody loves in his life, 475 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 14: having a job and working hard, and uh, that's pretty 476 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,359 Speaker 14: much kind of it's always been that it shifted, Like 477 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 14: I thought I wanted to be a gangster for so 478 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 14: long and uh, and then I and then I grew 479 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 14: out of that. 480 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 5: And did you fight? 481 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:51,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought a lot. 482 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:52,199 Speaker 5: I thought a lot too. 483 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was well, I was. I was small too, 484 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 1: so I had. 485 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:58,160 Speaker 7: To proved myself a lot, like I was never Yeah 486 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 7: I was never small, but I was light, So how 487 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 7: to prove myself? 488 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 4: Yeah? 489 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:03,679 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah I'm still light not was. 490 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:04,159 Speaker 1: You get it? 491 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 15: Yeah? 492 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 9: I was like what I also? I also flirted with 493 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 9: being a gangster, but more white. 494 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 8: White collar crime. Okay, my collar. 495 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like, where did my goddamn texktok. 496 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,159 Speaker 8: It's like, I'm gonna inflate the price of these stocks. 497 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 8: It's gonna be hurt. Take left right here. I'm lying, 498 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 8: you're a. 499 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:38,880 Speaker 15: Loss, my nile command, I'm gonna the housing market. I'll 500 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 15: be your party. Click, No, I won't. 501 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 8: I want to see that from ye amazing. 502 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:54,000 Speaker 5: My cheeks hurt? Oh my god, Chris is gonna answer 503 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,440 Speaker 5: the question from the audio? What's the question? 504 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:56,880 Speaker 1: Wait? 505 00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:57,239 Speaker 11: Oh? 506 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 1: How should I quit my job? 507 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:01,360 Speaker 11: Oh? 508 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:05,159 Speaker 1: Oh man, there's so many options. 509 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 8: Have you ever quit a job? 510 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 1: Quit a job? 511 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:07,160 Speaker 8: Hell? 512 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 14: Yeah, I've had fifty jobs, a lot of repeats because 513 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 14: I worked a lot of them at the same time too. 514 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: At the most. I had like three three jobs at 515 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 1: the time. Yeah. 516 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 8: Yeah, the unemployment rate is so low, you're doing I was. 517 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 1: I was proud that day. 518 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,160 Speaker 14: No, I've quit my job in a few different ways. 519 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 14: The most extreme I was working. I was I was 520 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 14: a cook at Hooters. 521 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:35,640 Speaker 1: And in Chicago. 522 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, ship, I'm never getting at Hooters. 523 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 1: Yeah I'm a good cook. But there's nothing you can 524 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 1: do to say that. But I remember I wanted to 525 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 1: get a raise. 526 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,239 Speaker 14: I was working extra hours, absolutely, and so I went 527 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 14: into the boss and I asked him for weeks and 528 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:53,920 Speaker 14: then he just was. He just kept evading me. So 529 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,200 Speaker 14: one morning when I finished prep, when I came in 530 00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,640 Speaker 14: and was like, hey man, you've been avoiding this question. 531 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,879 Speaker 14: Not or can I not have a raise? Because if not, 532 00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:04,679 Speaker 14: I need to go somewhere else. And he was like, uh, 533 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 14: he's like your black ass never getting a raise? 534 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, here's was he also black? 535 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 6: No? 536 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 1: Okay, he's he's a white guy. 537 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 8: Was it him? No, so that happened, you quit that job, 538 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:22,360 Speaker 8: You're like, get the fuck out. 539 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,720 Speaker 1: Oh I tore that office up right right? Yeah? 540 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 6: I was. 541 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 14: This was when I was younger, so I was about nineteen. 542 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 14: I was a high head and I fought like every day. 543 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:32,920 Speaker 14: So when he said that ship, it was a wrap. 544 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,680 Speaker 1: Yo. I broke his computer screen, his computer. I broke 545 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 1: everything in that office. 546 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 4: Bro I was. 547 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,639 Speaker 1: I turned all the grease was on. I was throwing 548 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 1: ship into grease, my. 549 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 8: Blacks, rolling in your food, my black ass. There's the 550 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 8: dishes on the floor with my black Yeah. 551 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 1: I said it too much. 552 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 8: Sure, but I stomped off. 553 00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 14: And I remember how cold it was that day because 554 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,560 Speaker 14: I walked home and and I was walking in like 555 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 14: a mile lin. I was like, you could have called anybody. 556 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:10,959 Speaker 14: I could have, like, you know, I could have got 557 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 14: them in trouble. I could have went through the proper channels. 558 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 4: But I was young, you know. 559 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:15,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's okay, you think. 560 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 5: Man, Look, adulting is also coming into your power, do 561 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:20,239 Speaker 5: you know what I mean? 562 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 1: Sure? 563 00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:24,879 Speaker 5: Yeah, so I get it. God, our time is up. 564 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:26,120 Speaker 5: But I love you so damn much. 565 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 1: I love you too. 566 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 8: This sos fun as fun, go back to adulting. 567 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 5: I'm so excited to bring our last guest to the show. 568 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:10,920 Speaker 7: I've been trying to get her to do the show 569 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 7: for a hot fucking minute. I think she's so funny. 570 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:13,639 Speaker 3: She's got a. 571 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,680 Speaker 5: Special on Netflix. She's got a special on Comedy Central. 572 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,960 Speaker 8: She's got so many specials because she's so special. 573 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,520 Speaker 5: Please tell me welcome to the stage, because. 574 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,959 Speaker 8: It's up. What's up? What's up? 575 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:33,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 576 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:34,879 Speaker 5: Is this a stool? 577 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:38,760 Speaker 8: Wake the fuck up? I'm forty years old. 578 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,480 Speaker 5: Don't ask again, and I know this bitch was gonna ask. 579 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 8: My period is over. 580 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 1: I'm good. 581 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 11: Nice. 582 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 3: I don't like being on a stool because I don't know, 583 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 3: like you knew, I was a fan bitch. 584 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 5: When I can't it right. So I don't even know 585 00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 5: why this who thought. 586 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 8: The stool was gonna work. We all struggle with the stool. 587 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 5: You ain't struggling with shit. 588 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 3: I'm over here, like, what the fuck do I I'm 589 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 3: like a fucking trampas act and ship trying to teack 590 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:06,800 Speaker 3: you out tight. 591 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 8: Roping and ship on a fucking stool. 592 00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 1: I will get you. 593 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 3: I mean no, I mean no, no, that'll make it 594 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 3: even fatter if you bring your chair out like the 595 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:17,239 Speaker 3: bitch gave up. 596 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:22,160 Speaker 5: I'm just going to this shout. I'm gonna make it. 597 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 8: I don't think there's any right answer right now. I'm 598 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 8: so glad I got a migraine. This is me at 599 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 8: a level two. 600 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,720 Speaker 3: Yes, oh, ship happened. 601 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 8: You want some water, you want something? 602 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 1: You want some water. 603 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 8: No, I feel like your grandmother was very involved in 604 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 8: your life. You offered me a chair water and ship 605 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 8: was like a blanket. If I'm anemick, no, I'm good. 606 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 4: I got enough. 607 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 8: I'm on today. 608 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 1: I am. 609 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 8: I'm a real piece of ship. 610 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,120 Speaker 3: Know you're amazing. I'm just saying you're taking a lot 611 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,520 Speaker 3: of more kid than this bitch. Let me out right 612 00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 3: next to her, she offered ship. 613 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:09,960 Speaker 8: Oh my god, oh my god, did you always. 614 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 3: No? 615 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 7: No, no, okay, what y'all got lots of stuff? Lots 616 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 7: of stuff friendship? How do you break up with a 617 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 7: with a friend and do you? Yeah, I get rid 618 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 7: of the bitches left and right. 619 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 5: You had bitch by. 620 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 16: I did a thing where like I was with befriend 621 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:42,080 Speaker 16: always gossip. Everything about these ship is gossip. Gossip, gossip. 622 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 16: You ain't getting nowhere, you ain't talking about nothing. To 623 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,240 Speaker 16: keep talking about the same person over and fucking over again, 624 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 16: I fucking hate it. Yeah, so I had that kind 625 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 16: of bitch in my life. I had a bitch that 626 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 16: kept saying she was trying to lose weight. She wasn't 627 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 16: doing the ship. You know what I'm saying like I mean, 628 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,000 Speaker 16: not like I stepped my game up, but you know, 629 00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:00,320 Speaker 16: I also wasn't talking about it. So it was like 630 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 16: that I had a bitch in my life that was like, 631 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 16: you know, I hate my career and she was just 632 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,240 Speaker 16: like I had a lot of stagnant bitches. So I 633 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 16: took them each to a dinner. Oh shit, yeah, well 634 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 16: what no what? I took to the Brooklyn Bridge not 635 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 16: to throw off, but that was a fat bitch. 636 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 8: I said, listen, we're gonna start this and see how 637 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,680 Speaker 8: this is gonna go. Just get you on the get 638 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:22,480 Speaker 8: you on the thing. 639 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 3: So I took me to a location and I said, listen, 640 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 3: no for real, that's not I said, listen, here's the thing. 641 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,960 Speaker 16: We're gonna start this conversation. At the end of this, 642 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 16: we may not be friends. That's what I said to them, okay, 643 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 16: right right right. 644 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 8: And not because of anything that I was doing. It 645 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 8: was no, no, no, it just had nothing to do 646 00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 8: with me. This was all about how they were going 647 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 8: through in their journey. And I said to the gossip bitch, 648 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 8: I don't want. 649 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 16: To be on the phone all the time talking about 650 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 16: people like what are you doing in your life? 651 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 8: This is slowing me down. We waste the time. 652 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 5: So I told her, I said, what's up? Can you 653 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 5: change this? 654 00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 3: Is this your you know, makeup? And she was like yes, 655 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:03,960 Speaker 3: So she her and not stayed together. Yeah, still friends. Okay, 656 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,360 Speaker 3: she took the truth. Now the fat bitch. And it's 657 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,960 Speaker 3: always the fat pitches because you can't tell them anything. 658 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:13,840 Speaker 8: I know, the fat bitch. 659 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 16: They don't want to hear nothing. They don't hear nothing. 660 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,239 Speaker 16: So I took that bitch brooklyn Bridge. I said, you're 661 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 16: gonna walk us, walk this. I said, look at all 662 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 16: this and blah blah blah blah, get out in my air, 663 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:23,560 Speaker 16: Look at the sun. 664 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 5: Look at the stars, look at the way. Come here right, 665 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 5: look at you. You can be out here doing all 666 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 5: this ship. 667 00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:30,680 Speaker 8: Are you gonna lose weight or what? 668 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 16: Yeah, because you keep talking about it, so I can't 669 00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 16: I can. I said, well, you know, girl, then I'm 670 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:42,560 Speaker 16: gonna have to leave you here. Oh no, physically spot Yes, 671 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 16: I'm having problems too. 672 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,600 Speaker 5: We can't be too fat bitches trying to fight. 673 00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 8: Over Brad like I had to keep moving. What was 674 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 8: I gonna do? We're not gonna be fat with her. 675 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 5: She's still fat, by the. 676 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:54,160 Speaker 8: Way, I love the bounce. 677 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:57,200 Speaker 2: So that was that. 678 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,560 Speaker 5: And then the third girl that this was a little 679 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,880 Speaker 5: tricky because we shared dick. 680 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:05,240 Speaker 8: By half a stance. 681 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:11,680 Speaker 5: Find out I was fucking this dude. She watched me 682 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 5: fuck this motherfucker too, not watch me. 683 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 3: But she thought, Joey, that was happening at night like 684 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 3: dark one dunk and ship. Where do you think we 685 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 3: was gonna play? 686 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 5: Paddy kake you? 687 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 8: It was fucking so. 688 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:28,360 Speaker 5: Oh my god. You know, I just want to tell 689 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 5: you know, I used to thuck him this, this, and that. 690 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 3: I said, okay, girl, well like I can stop fucking 691 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 3: him because you know, our friendship is poor. 692 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 8: And I didn't even know you was with to do 693 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 8: like that. 694 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:37,840 Speaker 3: She was like yeah, you know, but whatever. And then 695 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 3: she said, but as long as you don't fuck this 696 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:42,480 Speaker 3: other dude. And I had already fucked this dude. 697 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 5: And I was like, do I tell her? 698 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 8: So I didn't know what to do. 699 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 3: I was like, well, I don't wan because she was like, 700 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 3: this is the love of my life, and I was like, well, 701 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 3: damn if I tell her. 702 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 8: So I had to be like, girl, you know, I 703 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:56,200 Speaker 8: just don't think we gonna. 704 00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:57,120 Speaker 3: Make it, you know what I'm saying? 705 00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 16: Because I like to be honest with people, and I 706 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 16: felt IM gonna constantly be over my head, and I 707 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 16: was gonna tell her. 708 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 8: I didn't want to break her spirit. 709 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 4: So her and I done. 710 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 8: Yeah. I pray for every day though, so I do. 711 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,080 Speaker 8: I keep her prayers. You were more or less protecting 712 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 8: her feelings. You were protecting her feelings. 713 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,319 Speaker 16: Because I kept And I called another girlfriend of mine. 714 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,080 Speaker 8: I said, I have to tell her. She says, no, no, no, 715 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:21,920 Speaker 8: this is gonna break her spirit. Do not tell her. 716 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:25,280 Speaker 8: I said, I can't not tell her my friend. 717 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 16: So it was like, I'm gonna have to let her 718 00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,320 Speaker 16: go because you know, I mean, hopefully she ain't in 719 00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:31,720 Speaker 16: the crowd. 720 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 4: What are the. 721 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,200 Speaker 7: Parallels you think needs to happen in a relationship and 722 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:40,799 Speaker 7: also with your work life? 723 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:42,279 Speaker 4: Oh? 724 00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:51,800 Speaker 8: Who are you folkrah? I see you've been trying to 725 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 8: get another gig. 726 00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 4: So what do you think? 727 00:34:59,440 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 1: You know? 728 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,400 Speaker 8: I just God or something? Okay, I did it. 729 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 5: It was a job, or Dick, it was a job. 730 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 8: A job, you know. Oh, Dad, bring enough learning to 731 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:19,920 Speaker 8: the crowd. We've that together. Yeah, I got you know 732 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:20,360 Speaker 8: what it is. 733 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,399 Speaker 16: I don't have time for relationships. When I do get 734 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 16: into a relationship, it's gotta be quick. It's got to 735 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,839 Speaker 16: be like we gotta get the whole thing gotta happen now, 736 00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,840 Speaker 16: because I gotta know if you. 737 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:33,799 Speaker 8: Can stay in this because eventually I'm gonna leave. 738 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 5: So wait, they gotta know. You gotta know if they 739 00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:39,719 Speaker 5: can stay because you gotta go. 740 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 11: Yes. 741 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:45,360 Speaker 8: The thing is like, I give you two. 742 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:49,440 Speaker 16: Solid weeks of my undivided attention and I'm there. I'm 743 00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,360 Speaker 16: like checking in with you and all this other stuff. 744 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,239 Speaker 16: If we are together and we can make it, then 745 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,000 Speaker 16: I disappear because I'm disappearing. 746 00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,880 Speaker 8: Okay, I got ship to do. I'm like, you don't know, 747 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 8: We've got a busy career. There's no judgment. 748 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,360 Speaker 5: Well, well let's cancel her route there because it's a 749 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:07,640 Speaker 5: lot of. 750 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:16,759 Speaker 8: Bot three weeks. I know, I think, I think I 751 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:17,640 Speaker 8: understand what you're saying. 752 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 6: So basically, like you want to have that the gooey 753 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 6: center of a relationship right away, basically to know if 754 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,800 Speaker 6: it's worth it or maybe like hanging out and like 755 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 6: you know, kicking or whatever, so like, but on a 756 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,279 Speaker 6: long enough timeline so it would be over in what 757 00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 6: three months or like I'm kind. 758 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 7: Of with that because I made my husband tell me 759 00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,920 Speaker 7: he loved me before, like the first time. I want 760 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 7: to go visit him Amsterdam and I spent a week 761 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:40,520 Speaker 7: with him after I one night stand. It was like 762 00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 7: three months later and I was like, Okay, we had 763 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,920 Speaker 7: a great week together. We had some drunk fighting, we 764 00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 7: made up. He like melted cheese on bread. I was like, 765 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:52,360 Speaker 7: I'm gonna suck your dick. Yeah, But I said, do 766 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:55,399 Speaker 7: you do you think you love me? Do you think 767 00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:56,960 Speaker 7: you could love me? He's like, I have feelings of 768 00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:00,560 Speaker 7: love towards you. And I was like that's not good enough. Yeah, 769 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:02,759 Speaker 7: like could you love me? And that just made him 770 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:04,959 Speaker 7: tell me. So I understand what you're saying. 771 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:06,920 Speaker 8: You made him tell you. Did you believe it? Do 772 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 8: you feel like he was being forced? 773 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:15,840 Speaker 7: Both believed Yeah, No, I feel like he knew it. 774 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,120 Speaker 7: But I feel like sometimes guys take too long to 775 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:19,759 Speaker 7: make it. They're like, oh, I gotta sit on it 776 00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 7: and figure it out, and I'm like, no, nobody's. 777 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:22,160 Speaker 8: Got that time. 778 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:24,920 Speaker 6: You know what I got that time I told my 779 00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:28,360 Speaker 6: wife and girlfriend that I love her and she she 780 00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:32,440 Speaker 6: dumped me. So you never know how it's You never 781 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,239 Speaker 6: know what you're gonna get in a relationship. 782 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:39,920 Speaker 7: Okay, so outside of the relationship stuff, right as a 783 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,160 Speaker 7: black woman in Trump's America. 784 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:48,080 Speaker 5: Yes is his America. Y'ah keeps saying that ship this 785 00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:54,439 Speaker 5: ain't his motherfucking America. I'm doing just fine. 786 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,160 Speaker 8: I'm still buying my wigs, getting my nails done. I mean, 787 00:37:58,000 --> 00:37:59,480 Speaker 8: where is this America? 788 00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,400 Speaker 5: Do you travel to the middle of America or the 789 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:04,320 Speaker 5: South to perform? 790 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:11,160 Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm fucking white guys and ship too. What y'all 791 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 13: have like the ship's roots and we about to go 792 00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:14,360 Speaker 13: back to chicket doors. 793 00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:18,359 Speaker 5: He can't take us back then. You know you ain't 794 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:19,000 Speaker 5: not seen. 795 00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:20,879 Speaker 3: Him walk in the Harlem because you know what time 796 00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:22,880 Speaker 3: it is sucking giving him on his fucking power. 797 00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:26,040 Speaker 5: Here's America, like he's fucking told and ship not with 798 00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 5: my hands. 799 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 3: Sectors walked up and down here and made this motherfucker fast, 800 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:30,160 Speaker 3: and it's like with. 801 00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:31,879 Speaker 5: Goddamn, I kill suck him. 802 00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:39,720 Speaker 7: I'm sorry, No, don't you do apologize? You better speak 803 00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:47,640 Speaker 7: on it, honey, I mean I'm blacked out. I know 804 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:54,160 Speaker 7: it does feel like church of this Sunday. You set 805 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:57,399 Speaker 7: a lot of goals for yourself, yes, and so when 806 00:38:57,480 --> 00:38:58,960 Speaker 7: you walked in, I was like, you want a drink ticket. 807 00:38:59,000 --> 00:38:59,880 Speaker 5: You're like, I'm not drinking this. 808 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:01,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, I was gonna ask you, what's the most adult 809 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:03,360 Speaker 7: thing you want to do for yourself this year? But 810 00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:05,959 Speaker 7: there's always a diet, there's always a dance class, there's 811 00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:08,120 Speaker 7: always like a no sex all secks. 812 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:10,440 Speaker 16: There's always like something going. You have a lot of 813 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 16: you give yourself a lot of things to do. Yeah, 814 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,960 Speaker 16: because I want to make sure that I have lived 815 00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:17,960 Speaker 16: my life. You know, I did the know Dick because 816 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:21,040 Speaker 16: Dick was getting in the way. It was you know, 817 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:22,800 Speaker 16: a lot of people have to focus about that, and 818 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,279 Speaker 16: men too. You gotta focus, like you know a lot 819 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:26,960 Speaker 16: of people and you know, we're in this age now 820 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,359 Speaker 16: where people are like, oh, I'm thirty, I'm not living 821 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:31,680 Speaker 16: my life a floridam time, you know, And it's like 822 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:32,920 Speaker 16: a lot of those things. 823 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,239 Speaker 8: Is don't be blaming like life and this shit. 824 00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,560 Speaker 16: Look at yourself and figure out who the fuck you 825 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,080 Speaker 16: got to move out of the way, what's the distraction? 826 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:42,680 Speaker 16: Write down what your goals are, and then try to 827 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,440 Speaker 16: get to them. Because life is long, but life is. 828 00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:45,600 Speaker 8: Short and short and long. 829 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:47,360 Speaker 3: You don't know if you're on the short end of 830 00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,120 Speaker 3: the long end or if it's a long short end 831 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:49,719 Speaker 3: of the short end. 832 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:51,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, so you gotta fucking way. 833 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:59,560 Speaker 5: I was like a brisket yet, yes, they got brisket in. 834 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,080 Speaker 5: I'm like, we canna stop this show. 835 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:05,600 Speaker 8: I need a brisket. 836 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:05,880 Speaker 4: All right. 837 00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 7: We got a couple of questions from the audience, and 838 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,759 Speaker 7: so we're gonna all take turns to fucking answer him. 839 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:12,279 Speaker 5: It looked like three. 840 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:15,320 Speaker 3: It's three questions. 841 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:20,560 Speaker 8: That's how you know. I'm forty am I supposed to 842 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:21,480 Speaker 8: go now? I'm going down? 843 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:21,719 Speaker 12: Yeah? 844 00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:22,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, what's it? 845 00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,280 Speaker 8: How late? It is too late to pay my taxes? 846 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:31,719 Speaker 8: That's true, that's true. 847 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:36,239 Speaker 5: I mean the latest I ever was on taxes. 848 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 3: Was like maybe maybe five six years, like no, no, now, now, now, 849 00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:44,480 Speaker 3: now now now. 850 00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:47,120 Speaker 5: I was tipping for a lot of years. 851 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 16: I was a temp and I was like, well, maybe 852 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 16: the taxes don't apply when you temporarily work in places, 853 00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 16: so I didn't pay them. 854 00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,120 Speaker 5: And then I got an account and who fixed all 855 00:40:59,160 --> 00:40:59,439 Speaker 5: that ship? 856 00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:01,239 Speaker 16: So I really can't answer your question now because I 857 00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 16: pay somebody to take care of his answer. 858 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,480 Speaker 5: For me, right, you know what I want to say? 859 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:08,719 Speaker 7: Mine was two years and I started like I got 860 00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:10,320 Speaker 7: something from the I R S. I was like, this 861 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:10,960 Speaker 7: isn't real? 862 00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 8: Oh for real? 863 00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,000 Speaker 16: Yeah, they'll sing you a letter now with all your 864 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,120 Speaker 16: information and say you know this, they just started taking. 865 00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:18,640 Speaker 8: It out your check. 866 00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:24,480 Speaker 6: Yesnising wages, Yes, okay, that's what I'm here for. 867 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:31,200 Speaker 1: They are, well, I'll usually pay mine on time. 868 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:36,880 Speaker 5: So he looked like, you single, what's going on with you? 869 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:40,799 Speaker 8: I'm like scrunching them records. You can scratch some other 870 00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:45,799 Speaker 8: ship in the crowd. I just got to get to work. 871 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:54,040 Speaker 8: That was a sexual reference. Oh my god, how do you? 872 00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:00,319 Speaker 8: How do you deal with grown ass siblings who will 873 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:01,760 Speaker 8: not take your advice? 874 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:02,840 Speaker 15: Ship? 875 00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,120 Speaker 5: I'm the only child, so y'all take this ship. I 876 00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:07,960 Speaker 5: am too, I have I don't have, but I guess 877 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:08,719 Speaker 5: it's a bunch of them. 878 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:09,560 Speaker 8: It's a bunch of half. 879 00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 16: There's a lot of fractions going on in my daddy's life. 880 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:20,640 Speaker 16: So I'm the I'm the oldest of three girl of 881 00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 16: well four in total of all of us. And then 882 00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:24,960 Speaker 16: when I'm away, then the other one is the oldest 883 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:30,840 Speaker 16: of that. But whatever I car barns out. If somebody's 884 00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,680 Speaker 16: asking if people don't want to take your advice, I say, 885 00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:35,320 Speaker 16: don't give them their advice. 886 00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:35,719 Speaker 6: You know what? 887 00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:37,319 Speaker 16: It is because a lot of times people just want 888 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:39,200 Speaker 16: to hear themselves talk and they think, oh, my thing 889 00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:42,000 Speaker 16: is my thing, my thing. You gotta let motherfuckers fail 890 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:43,960 Speaker 16: on their own. It's the only way they gonna get it. 891 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:47,479 Speaker 16: Like people constantly like I was just watching this Lifetime movie. 892 00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:49,839 Speaker 16: Don't judge me. My mother was in town for two 893 00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 16: weeks and this is all she wh webs with. But 894 00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:55,600 Speaker 16: I was watching this Lifetime movie and this woman she 895 00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 16: was her friend, was murdering everybody up and down, like 896 00:42:59,280 --> 00:42:59,799 Speaker 16: up and down. 897 00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 5: Every time you turn around. 898 00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,200 Speaker 8: The bitch she's somewhere. The girl got murdered. 899 00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,600 Speaker 3: Oh she would have say, Stephanie, Stephanie, what she would 900 00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:06,320 Speaker 3: have happened to Stephanie? 901 00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,480 Speaker 5: Stephanie would Cassandra died? Well Stephanie was there? 902 00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:13,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, well if Stephanie is everywhere people dying, bitch, just 903 00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:17,719 Speaker 3: get away from Stephanie. Stephanie is killing motherfuckers I don't like. 904 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,440 Speaker 3: And then her husband's like, you gotta get away from Stephanie. 905 00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,440 Speaker 3: She's like, no, no, no, I love Stephanie. I was like, no, no, no, 906 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:27,440 Speaker 3: let Stephanie kill her. She'll see she'll see, Jess what 907 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,360 Speaker 3: it was Stephanie, Right, that's why you. 908 00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 8: Did the more you know, that's right? Oh do you 909 00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,520 Speaker 8: have if we oh? Me No, I mean I can 910 00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:50,359 Speaker 8: answer your question, but answer that question first. Sure. 911 00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 6: My siblings, My siblings don't listen to me, Stephanie, their 912 00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,880 Speaker 6: name Joseph and mar John and they don't listen to me, 913 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:03,400 Speaker 6: and uh it's okay. I let them fail on their 914 00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:07,560 Speaker 6: own and then they borrow money from me. So the 915 00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:14,920 Speaker 6: next question, do you still ghost parentheses? Because that is 916 00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:16,360 Speaker 6: so immature. 917 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:21,120 Speaker 7: There was that many o's three that was very immature 918 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:21,960 Speaker 7: to have this many o's. 919 00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:22,359 Speaker 1: Yeah. 920 00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:30,960 Speaker 5: Do you ghost? Do you ghost people? Youst no, because 921 00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:31,439 Speaker 5: I'm too. 922 00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:34,200 Speaker 8: Direct to ghosts. I'm saying it like I just get 923 00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:39,799 Speaker 8: rid of you. Now to a bridge, walk them off 924 00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:40,280 Speaker 8: a bridge. 925 00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,200 Speaker 5: You asked me to go to a bridge. I'm gonna 926 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:43,719 Speaker 5: fucking know. 927 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:46,600 Speaker 3: No, I've ghosted. 928 00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:49,520 Speaker 5: I've ghosted. It doesn't work. They keep coming back. It's like, 929 00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:50,920 Speaker 5: can you just go? 930 00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:51,520 Speaker 8: Yeah? 931 00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,960 Speaker 7: I mean there's the ghosting is also zombie, where you 932 00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,520 Speaker 7: think somebody is dead and they pop in your life 933 00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:56,799 Speaker 7: two years later, Happy New Year. 934 00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:57,840 Speaker 3: You're like, what the fuck is this? 935 00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:00,439 Speaker 5: So there's that too. I learned so much from twenty 936 00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:01,359 Speaker 5: two year olds just kidding. 937 00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,279 Speaker 7: I learned nothing, but I ghost. I ghost, and it 938 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,000 Speaker 7: doesn't work. I wish I could be more fresh direct, 939 00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:12,919 Speaker 7: but you know, I just got to select a different 940 00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:13,680 Speaker 7: delivery time. 941 00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:19,880 Speaker 3: Ghosting is bullshit because it's like, first of all, I 942 00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:24,840 Speaker 3: see you, like if you found somebody on tender, they 943 00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:25,919 Speaker 3: still on tender right. 944 00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:28,560 Speaker 8: On social media, like where you go, I see like 945 00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:29,520 Speaker 8: we ghosts. 946 00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to see an obituary on your social media. 947 00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,200 Speaker 3: Pay like you not ghost to me. I know where 948 00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:36,719 Speaker 3: you live, I know all your shit. 949 00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:37,239 Speaker 8: Yeah. 950 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:41,600 Speaker 16: Yeah, it's just irresponsible to like, you know, and this 951 00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:45,560 Speaker 16: is about adult thing. Okay, it's like be responsible and 952 00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:47,799 Speaker 16: say this is why it's not working out. 953 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,760 Speaker 5: This is and I wish you well, there's a metal 954 00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:51,560 Speaker 5: place for you. 955 00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:53,880 Speaker 8: Just no but closure. 956 00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:56,080 Speaker 16: You know, it's a lot of broken people walking around 957 00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:58,880 Speaker 16: still thinking about like why did so and so and 958 00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,400 Speaker 16: so and so, And you could just give somebody clothes 959 00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,839 Speaker 16: and say, listen, your dick was small. 960 00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:11,240 Speaker 3: That that's not a reason why I've ever left anybody. 961 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:14,040 Speaker 3: I have sucked a lot of small dicks to the 962 00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:14,719 Speaker 3: point where I've. 963 00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:18,239 Speaker 8: Gotten brave freeze a good heart. 964 00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:20,680 Speaker 3: So you got a small ticke in the building and 965 00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:25,160 Speaker 3: you think I'm attracted, don't not come to me. We 966 00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:27,960 Speaker 3: will work together to figure out what kind of package you. 967 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:28,800 Speaker 8: Can get from me. 968 00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, amazing, thank you, Oh my god, dam Nizza, you 969 00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:43,520 Speaker 7: guys have been amazing. 970 00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:45,920 Speaker 5: Fucking were comments get that TV Tuesdays. 971 00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:53,560 Speaker 6: This was such a fun show. We had Daniel Brooks, 972 00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,680 Speaker 6: Chris Red and Yaminica Saunders. 973 00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,400 Speaker 7: I mean, Yamnika on a stool in Brooklyn is my 974 00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:01,960 Speaker 7: most favorite thing. And I had no idea, And you know, 975 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:04,560 Speaker 7: I'm just so happy I got to share my news 976 00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,680 Speaker 7: about becoming a mother. Yeah, these amazing twins, Like I 977 00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:08,960 Speaker 7: finally got to meet these souls. 978 00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:12,440 Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, I mean they have beautiful faces, beautiful eyes. 979 00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:15,920 Speaker 8: Congratulations, Thank you so much. 980 00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:16,840 Speaker 1: I appreciate that. 981 00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,720 Speaker 5: We produce some really great stuff. Speaking of producing, mm hmmm. 982 00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,640 Speaker 6: Adulting was produced by Blakeney Schick and Odelia Rubin. The 983 00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:26,840 Speaker 6: Adulting team includes Juanna Slatarov, Paula Schumann, Joe Floord ed Haber, 984 00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:27,920 Speaker 6: and I Rang true Out. 985 00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,600 Speaker 7: The live show is produced by Christian Banda and our 986 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:34,800 Speaker 7: theme music is by Isaac Jones with additional music by DJO. 987 00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:38,680 Speaker 1: Did you like this episode? 988 00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:40,680 Speaker 8: Did you please rate us? 989 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, write a review. We love reading your review, so 990 00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:45,640 Speaker 5: please leave one and commit to something. 991 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,560 Speaker 6: Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts so you don't miss 992 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:49,520 Speaker 6: our next episode. 993 00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:51,480 Speaker 8: I get mine at. 994 00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,160 Speaker 5: Nobody asked you. Okay, thank you so much. 995 00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:54,799 Speaker 4: Boy. 996 00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:06,360 Speaker 7: Everyone wanted me to take this call because my phone 997 00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:09,440 Speaker 7: was the ringer was all, oh, how do you say 998 00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:10,080 Speaker 7: your last name? 999 00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:13,120 Speaker 5: Sounder Saunders? 1000 00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:13,480 Speaker 8: Okay? 1001 00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:16,440 Speaker 5: I was was I saying Saunders? Y'all was seeing Sanders? 1002 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:19,680 Speaker 2: No? 1003 00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:24,080 Speaker 5: I thought it was Saunders. Were good that I was right. 1004 00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:31,239 Speaker 3: I've never had anybody ask me out of pronounce my 1005 00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:31,839 Speaker 3: last name. 1006 00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:33,120 Speaker 8: I mean, I've gone. 1007 00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:35,359 Speaker 5: This is white people, public radio. They like to get 1008 00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:38,120 Speaker 5: shipped right. The Devil's and the details. 1009 00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:40,320 Speaker 8: That beautiful. 1010 00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 5: It's great. 1011 00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 8: I mean, it was all. It all came together. 1012 00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:47,880 Speaker 16: I'm cleaning my house and I'm trying to make a 1013 00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:52,400 Speaker 16: waketomeal my ringer is, I'm going to the kitchen. 1014 00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:55,839 Speaker 5: I see your name, and it worked out. 1015 00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:57,680 Speaker 13: It worked out. 1016 00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:00,319 Speaker 3: It all came together with that. 1017 00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:01,680 Speaker 5: In God is good. 1018 00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:04,279 Speaker 7: All the time. 1019 00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,520 Speaker 8: Won't he do it? Won't he do it? 1020 00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:12,960 Speaker 3: Yes he will, Yes, sir, yes, Jesus take the wheel, 1021 00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:17,279 Speaker 3: Take the wheel, Jess, make a left at the stop son, Jesus, you. 1022 00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:18,040 Speaker 1: Better get. 1023 00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:27,000 Speaker 5: This is our exit, Jesus. Jesus, leave your head on 1024 00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,800 Speaker 5: the wheel. Now it's the white cop Jesus, leave your head. 1025 00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:30,160 Speaker 8: On the wheel. 1026 00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:39,720 Speaker 4: The rest Jesus were the cable. 1027 00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:43,480 Speaker 13: We're the cable. We're the cables to drop the cones. 1028 00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:48,960 Speaker 11: Gotta go. 1029 00:49:49,200 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 4: I love you so much, Oh my God, oh Goad. 1030 00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:03,720 Speaker 1: We've lest control.