Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect
Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady.
Speaker 1: I am Jazelle Ryan and what's up? What's up y'all?
Speaker 1: This is Robin Dixon. Thank you once again, Thank you
Speaker 1: once again. We are fact joying and Effects in Action
Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff. We're back, baby, And you
Speaker 1: don't know like this is season three are Reasonably Shady.
Speaker 1: It is is our third Yeah, this is technically our
Speaker 1: third season season Okay, yeah, because yeah, yeah, it's not
Speaker 1: like full years, but just based on you know how
Speaker 1: in the podcast world. Thanks God, Yes, we're our third season.
Speaker 1: So um who So for people who want to hate, yes,
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Speaker 1: and it's gonna be so much fun. And oh, Charleteagne's
Speaker 1: gonna host with Jess hilarious. She's hilarious. I'm actually excited
Speaker 1: to meet her. Yeah, and she from Baltimore. She's in Baltimore. Okay,
Speaker 1: have you got her before? No? I haven't, um, but
Speaker 1: I'm sure my people know her. People you know, yeah,
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Speaker 1: know what I mean? People are like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: do you have a ticket for me? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: probably have one extra ticket. But anyway, I want all
Speaker 1: of y'all to come through. Okay, So I do want
Speaker 1: to talk about um Keikee Palmer. Can we talking about reasonably?
Speaker 1: Oh no, I forgot girl. Listen, I have a reasonably
Speaker 1: shady mama up the way long you've been doing this
Speaker 1: third season? Right? Okay, let me tell you something I
Speaker 1: will never forget. I think I think it was like
Speaker 1: season four of like potoa yea, and I was supposed
Speaker 1: to like walk into like a restaurant or something, and um,
Speaker 1: I saw the cameras like ready for me to like
Speaker 1: walk into the restaurant. I walked in the wrong door,
Speaker 1: and it like threw everything off. I had to go
Speaker 1: do it again right because the door that I walked
Speaker 1: in there was no cameras there. So I was getting
Speaker 1: screamed at by the producers and they were like, say,
Speaker 1: said four yourself right together, like so funny. So if
Speaker 1: I was like whoop sees anyway, it was so funny.
Speaker 1: I think about season one, Yeah, like how many times
Speaker 1: we would like walk the wrong way or you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like we really weren't aware of like
Speaker 1: where the cameras were with respect to like how we
Speaker 1: should enter an exit around a scene or you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. And so now it's like and then
Speaker 1: I would get screamed at, stopped walking in front of
Speaker 1: the camera, just out okay, geez, calmed down. Um anyway,
Speaker 1: So my reasonably shady moment, which I'm this is going
Speaker 1: to be both of our moments good I didn't have one.
Speaker 1: Oh I guess I do sincere telling. Yes, Okay, So
Speaker 1: Rob and I and a couple other of our friends
Speaker 1: went out for dinner. Yeah, a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 1: So of course we were all supposed to meet at
Speaker 1: seven o'clock and Jess gets there at seven o'clock. The
Speaker 1: reservation was for seven o'clock that Robin Dixon made m okay, yep,
Speaker 1: I should have made it later, well, or you should
Speaker 1: have told yourself it was at six thirty. No. Like,
Speaker 1: when I was driving there, I was like, I should
Speaker 1: have made it later because you know traffic. It was
Speaker 1: a Friday, yes, okay, and it was raining and it
Speaker 1: was raining, yes, yes, I should have been just problematic.
Speaker 1: So at about like six fifty nine, Mia enters the
Speaker 1: chat and says, I'm not gonna be there until seven
Speaker 1: thirty guys, and Robin's like, oh great, me too. Sharese's
Speaker 1: like Adam, not no, Sarisa and responds and Ash She
Speaker 1: was like, oh me too. So okay, three of the
Speaker 1: five have said they're gonna get there thirty minutes after
Speaker 1: the time. Giselle's actually already there, okay. So I was like,
Speaker 1: I hate these bitches. I hate these bitches. Did you
Speaker 1: really think that was not going to happen? I thought
Speaker 1: you were gonna be late. I thought as she was
Speaker 1: gonna be on time. I thought Sharie was gonna be
Speaker 1: on time. Charesa's typically on time. Sharise. I text Shari
Speaker 1: separate from the group. Okay, I say, girl, where you at?
Speaker 1: She was like, oh, this is at seven twenty okay,
Speaker 1: because I did have things to do. I had to
Speaker 1: talk to check in with my kids all that. I
Speaker 1: had some things to do. So I'm sitting over on
Speaker 1: the side handling my business. This is actually not my
Speaker 1: shady part. Y'all are not my shady A moment of
Speaker 1: the week. Okay. I get to the front desk, me, Giselle,
Speaker 1: you're in the DC area, I mean, season seven, we're
Speaker 1: a little well known. Okay. However, I get to the
Speaker 1: desk of this restaurant which we're not going to say
Speaker 1: because we kind of didn't really get love out of
Speaker 1: this restaurant, and the lady looks at me, dead in
Speaker 1: my face, and she was like hi, And I said him,
Speaker 1: I'm here. There's a reservation under the name Robin Dixon.
Speaker 1: She's like, who what name? I'm like, Robbin Dick. You
Speaker 1: see who I am? And I say, Robbin Dixon, you
Speaker 1: shady bower. So she looks at me like she has
Speaker 1: no idea who I am? Like I just I don't know.
Speaker 1: It was three. It was three women. Yeah, y'all all
Speaker 1: know who I am. But if y'all didn't, at least
Speaker 1: one of y'all did, and you whisper to the other one. Okay,
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I ain't really gonna act like they
Speaker 1: don't know that Robin Dixon, the Robin Dickon has made
Speaker 1: a reservation. So she says, well, your party's not here,
Speaker 1: so I can't seat you. Now, I hate that in
Speaker 1: a restaurant, seat me, damn it. And I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: to the table. I'm gonna order a bunch of foods.
Speaker 1: So when y'all get there, the foods there, right, Okay,
Speaker 1: moving on the shady moment. I'm not done yet. So
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, Robin pops up before these other people,
Speaker 1: thank god. Then Ashley pops in and she's looking like
Speaker 1: she's going to the Oscars or something. She has this dress,
Speaker 1: she had just got new titties. Their titties are popping
Speaker 1: out of her dress. She's got fur hanging off of
Speaker 1: her dress with this long trench coat. She looks beautiful,
Speaker 1: absolutely hair done to the nie. She looks totally beautiful.
Speaker 1: And then Charice pops up, and then Mia was last, Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: so y'all are shady for coming forty five minutes late.
Speaker 1: I was thirty, So let me go back to the desk.
Speaker 1: And they're like, well, you know, we might have to
Speaker 1: give up your tab all because all of your people
Speaker 1: weren't here yet. I almost wanted to cuss this entire
Speaker 1: restaurant out. First of all, you wouldn't have had to
Speaker 1: have this conversation because I us here at seven. Just
Speaker 1: freaking seat me. What difference does it make? You're gonna
Speaker 1: get your money, right? Okay, So the entire restaurant was
Speaker 1: like coming up, not the entire restaurant, but like several
Speaker 1: people were coming up trying to take pictures whatever the restaurant.
Speaker 1: Everybody who worked at the restaurant was like, oh wow,
Speaker 1: who are these people? Because we don't know why would
Speaker 1: anybody want to come up and take a picture with
Speaker 1: these ladies. It was so freaking strange. And guess what,
Speaker 1: we're not going back, And if y'all know where we went,
Speaker 1: put it in the chat and tell the people we're
Speaker 1: not going back. And let's just talk about the food.
Speaker 1: The food was just okay, okay, moving on, So I
Speaker 1: don't know who's shady here, my friends or the food
Speaker 1: or the staff. I don't know everybody, or maybe you
Speaker 1: for complaining, like just relax. I'm like, I walk in
Speaker 1: and she's like, I mean they're all saying this, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, chill, No, I was not chilling. Are
Speaker 1: you in a rush? Yeah? We're good. Yeah, just gonna
Speaker 1: sit and eat it. I just like to I don't know,
Speaker 1: be treated us a little. Yes, yes, yes, it's the
Speaker 1: verg and of course the Arias. And you was like,
Speaker 1: oh it's fine. Yes, I'm like, it's all right, we'll survive.
Speaker 1: I mean, Robin's walking in like she had like four edibles,
Speaker 1: like oh, everything's fine. But it was fine. Everything was fine.
Speaker 1: We survived. We just survived. Okay. Anyway, moving on, I
Speaker 1: want to talk about Keki Palmer. Okay, what you do.
Speaker 1: Keiki Palmer recently had a baby boy. Congratulations Keith. Kei
Speaker 1: um with her boo. I don't know who a boo is. Um,
Speaker 1: And you know she's my fellow virgirl sister. We love Kiki.
Speaker 1: She you know, came up through these Hollywood streets. Um
Speaker 1: a child actress. Blah blah blah. Do you remember Aquila
Speaker 1: in the beach. Yes, of course, yes, she's a Kiki
Speaker 1: is so talented, talented, beyond talented. So she got on
Speaker 1: her Instagram and she because you know, she has a
Speaker 1: new born at her house, so we already know she tired.
Speaker 1: She got her Instagram did you see this? And she
Speaker 1: was like crying because she wanted to give a shout
Speaker 1: out to any woman who has had to do this
Speaker 1: by yourself, all my single ladies that have had to
Speaker 1: raise these children by yourself. Oh my god, y'all are amazing.
Speaker 1: She was like, and I have hard to help in
Speaker 1: the world. So I already know y'all. How do y'all
Speaker 1: do it? How do y'all do it? If you are
Speaker 1: a single parent? Pull out your cape a matter of fact,
Speaker 1: clip off your angel wings, because I don't know how
Speaker 1: did you did it? And I just want anybody out
Speaker 1: there that as a single parent that's been doing this,
Speaker 1: friends of mine, people that I don't know, family members
Speaker 1: of mine. I'm really in mine, in my heart, bring
Speaker 1: tears to my eyes. I am just truly profoundly impressed.
Speaker 1: I was like Kiki's going through I wanted to give
Speaker 1: her a hug. I wanted to come babies at the
Speaker 1: baby right for her so she could take a nap,
Speaker 1: right Listen. I know exactly how she was feeling, yes,
Speaker 1: because I'm it is crazy, like I can just remember,
Speaker 1: you know, when the babies were infant, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't know how there's so many humans in this world, right,
Speaker 1: like like who is this rough? Who chooses to do
Speaker 1: this like over and over over and over again? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's rough, and you have people who have, like, you know, three, four, five,
Speaker 1: six kids. I think I think infant to six months
Speaker 1: just war. Oh my gosh, it's straight war. And the
Speaker 1: war you're you're in a battle with a little baby. Yes,
Speaker 1: they can't talk. Their only form of communication is to cry.
Speaker 1: And then when they're not crying, they're sucking on your nipple.
Speaker 1: It's like, oh yeah, it is a it is a struggle, Kiki.
Speaker 1: When I saw that Instagram post you posted, I was
Speaker 1: right there with you. I feel for her, y U.
Speaker 1: And it was funny. It was it was she didn't
Speaker 1: think it was funny because she was like crying and
Speaker 1: everything through it. She's going throw it, But it is
Speaker 1: so funny. But you know, there is something to be
Speaker 1: said about women who do it do it by themselves. Um,
Speaker 1: because it's tough. It's not an easy road. And and
Speaker 1: even listen, even when you do have somebody helping you,
Speaker 1: they ain't helping you sometimes. So shout out to the
Speaker 1: dudes that are there really doing the work, because it
Speaker 1: is not a game raising these children. Goodness, And I
Speaker 1: will never forget. Somebody told me, like with the twins,
Speaker 1: at six months, I was gonna start to like see
Speaker 1: light at the end of the tunnel. And it was instant.
Speaker 1: Six months I started to see a little light. And
Speaker 1: then I got divorced, and that the light. Okay, that
Speaker 1: light black real quick. Oh my gosh. Okay, speaking of
Speaker 1: like these little not little, but these younger this younger
Speaker 1: generation has taken over Zendaya. Have we talked about her? No? Okay,
Speaker 1: so she's really apparently this is Holly Hollywood news. She's
Speaker 1: read doing her contract for you for you, Yes, and
Speaker 1: supposely she's going to be getting paid a million dollars yes,
Speaker 1: purpose per episode. Yes, it's And some people had an
Speaker 1: issue with that. I don't have no issue with that.
Speaker 1: Why would anyone have an issue with that? Like, why
Speaker 1: if that's what she deserves, then that's what she needs
Speaker 1: to get Yeah. Well, and then when they had an
Speaker 1: issue when the Friends cast got a million dollars, six
Speaker 1: of them got a million dollars. How was the sixth sell?
Speaker 1: Eight of them? Eight of them? I'll be there for
Speaker 1: you eight. Yeah, anyway, they got a million dollars an episode, right,
Speaker 1: seven of them so many years ago, right, like, and
Speaker 1: so I've never watched you for you, So I can't
Speaker 1: really speak to how valuable she is to the show,
Speaker 1: but clearly she knows her worth and I want her
Speaker 1: to get it. Yeah, should we renegotiate our contracts throughout
Speaker 1: a million dollars? Clearly Robin and I are nowhere. But um,
Speaker 1: it is work, it's hard work. And and she's young.
Speaker 1: She I mean, she's been in this game for a minute.
Speaker 1: She was like a Disney girl. I remember when she
Speaker 1: like first started because my kids were like totally in
Speaker 1: love with her. That could they you know, sing Zendaya
Speaker 1: on TV For them was like they were able to
Speaker 1: see someone who looks like them TV and it was
Speaker 1: like amazing to them. Um, yes, oh, and they are
Speaker 1: bigger for your girls. By the way, my kids, I've
Speaker 1: never never seen an episode gets your Money's day deserve it,
Speaker 1: and she is always looking beautiful on the red carpet, whenever,
Speaker 1: wherever she goes, she looks amazing. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: And it's like never like over there, it's never like
Speaker 1: too much no, or like not enough, like you need
Speaker 1: to put some more clothes on. No. No, I feel
Speaker 1: like she's always appropriately dressed. It's not like she's not
Speaker 1: trying too hard. She's very simply stated, like she's beautiful
Speaker 1: and from what I understand, and all the designers are
Speaker 1: like vying for her, like they're all trying to get
Speaker 1: she's like that. That slim. I assume she's tall. She
Speaker 1: looks tall. That's slim figure. Yes, they like Have you
Speaker 1: seen Abbott Elementary? Have we talked about above? I have
Speaker 1: watched a number of episodes. Yeah, I'm not though. I
Speaker 1: think it's hilarious. It's it's hilarious. Yeah, it is funny.
Speaker 1: I love it. Yes, Okay, So the star of it
Speaker 1: Quinta uh Bronson Brunson. Is that right? Am I saying
Speaker 1: it right? Quinta Quinta qui nta? I don't want to
Speaker 1: say maybe Quina Quinta Quinta. Hi, I'm Quinta Brunson. And
Speaker 1: these are my ten essentials. She's amazing because from what
Speaker 1: I understand she writes, she writes it all produce directs everything.
Speaker 1: I might be making that part out, but anyway, she
Speaker 1: says she's not good. All of her awards she's not
Speaker 1: gonna put in her house. Oh yeah, because she thinks
Speaker 1: that that's tacky, crass, cringe, cringey, yeah, over the top. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something. Give me an award. I'm
Speaker 1: putting it on my forehead. Okay, all right, I am
Speaker 1: carrying the award around, right. I don't know what she's
Speaker 1: talking about, right, what is she talking about? Maybe? Okay,
Speaker 1: does she mean like she's not gonna put all of
Speaker 1: them up? She'll just put like I don't know what
Speaker 1: she means, but I'm putting all of them up. I
Speaker 1: mean I wouldn't, Okay. I think they have won a
Speaker 1: lot actually over the past few years. Okay, right, they've
Speaker 1: won Emmy's Golden Globes. They've won a lot. Okay, And
Speaker 1: so maybe we need to read we need to find
Speaker 1: her actual statement. Maybe she meant she's not putting all
Speaker 1: of them up, because I didn't say that. She says
Speaker 1: she's not putting any up. She says, she's not I
Speaker 1: think I think I have it. I think I have
Speaker 1: her quote. She says she's not putting it up um
Speaker 1: because she thinks it's TACKI or something, or she thinks
Speaker 1: it's not necessary or listen, it doesn't even matter robing.
Speaker 1: If I get a golden globe, oscar Grammy anything with
Speaker 1: with the statue, yes, where is it going and on
Speaker 1: your forehead? Let's go that the going in my first okay,
Speaker 1: because I get carried around. I would sure everybody because
Speaker 1: and this is this was my my immediate thought. You
Speaker 1: worked for that, right, you know you're being celebrated for
Speaker 1: the work that you have done. Be proud of it,
Speaker 1: like show that shit. I mean I would, I would think, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, I wouldn't put it like in my family room, right,
Speaker 1: I would put it in my office. Okay. So she
Speaker 1: says she's very particular about where she plans to keep
Speaker 1: her trophies. Okay. She says she's gonna put them in
Speaker 1: her office at Warner Brothers. Is that is that a
Speaker 1: secret flex? I mean quiet flex. I'm gonna put them
Speaker 1: in my office at Warner Brothers. That's a quiet flex.
Speaker 1: I'm here I'm here for it. Um, she's just recently
Speaker 1: signed an overall deal there, so she has an office
Speaker 1: there and she's gonna feel with her trophies. Now she's single.
Speaker 1: I wonder if she's single? Um, that under Okay, So
Speaker 1: if she's single, like, because I'm thinking me, I'm a
Speaker 1: single woman, and like, let's say I bring a dude home. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I need I'm gonna put him like, No, she's actually married.
Speaker 1: Oh she's married. Okay, now, yes, this is even better.
Speaker 1: You're married. You want to show you want to show
Speaker 1: your husband, Yes, what you have accomplished. You need to
Speaker 1: like build a shelf right on top the bed and
Speaker 1: put him right there. Every time he goes to sleep. Okay,
Speaker 1: he sees him. When he wakes up, he sees them.
Speaker 1: When y'all doing the dude, he sees them, so he
Speaker 1: is clap. Okay, Okay, that might be a recipe for divorce.
Speaker 1: You know what, These men don't they can't handle it.
Speaker 1: They can handle all that. Okay, that's just my opinion. Okay,
Speaker 1: But again, like if you get celebrated, celebrate, but for sure. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I guess she's I guess now as we read
Speaker 1: more into it, she just wants to she wants to
Speaker 1: be a little more selective. But where she puts or
Speaker 1: do you think her husband said, Um, I don't know here,
Speaker 1: I don't need all of that in the house. Could
Speaker 1: be I mean, I'm sorry, Like Wan, you know when
Speaker 1: he was he has a bunch of trophies from his
Speaker 1: um college days. He's just you know, the player of
Speaker 1: the year here, there, everywhere. No that all your stuff
Speaker 1: will go in your man space, Like is that where
Speaker 1: it is? That's where it's been. Yeah, well right now
Speaker 1: we haven't. We haven't set his space up here. But
Speaker 1: like in our first home, yeah, we had just a
Speaker 1: room where they play video games, and it was it
Speaker 1: was like it wasn't even our it was it wasn't
Speaker 1: even in a main space, like all of his accolades
Speaker 1: and stuff were in like a room designated for like
Speaker 1: the guys. Okay, you know what I mean. So, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, I think women we should celebrate ourselves more
Speaker 1: because I feel like we have less of it. I
Speaker 1: don't get honored as much. Yes, yeah, yes, so put
Speaker 1: yours on your forehead too, rob Okay, Okay, So a
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, we talked about California and like
Speaker 1: five hundred thousand people moving out of California. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: one of our listeners, miss Amber, she demmed me and
Speaker 1: said that she lives in southern Oregon and that's for
Speaker 1: all these California people. Yes, because they're buying land and
Speaker 1: growing marijuana. Oh, she said she thought we would get
Speaker 1: a good laugh out of that. Yes, yeah, it hilarious.
Speaker 1: I don't think five hundred thousand people are going, but still, okay,
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Yes, But okay, Oregon must be what
Speaker 1: kind of like is is that like Montana? Um? Maybe?
Speaker 1: I mean so well played basketball for the Portland Trailblazers,
Speaker 1: which was in Oregon. Okay, okay, you lived out there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so so where Portland is that's a little more of
Speaker 1: a you know, city life, but it's still most of
Speaker 1: Oregon is you know, mountainous, and you know, the mountains
Speaker 1: on one side. You've got the the ocean or the
Speaker 1: coast on the other side. Oh nice. Yeah, so it's
Speaker 1: very pretty, very pretty. Okay. Oh yeah, it was like
Speaker 1: the earthiest place I'd ever been. I thought I was
Speaker 1: on another planet. What's earthy mean? Like? Um? I think
Speaker 1: I said this were like the homeless people were very
Speaker 1: clean what like, and they had bike land, Like I
Speaker 1: could literally have taken a bike lane from downtown Portland
Speaker 1: all the way out to the suburbs without having to
Speaker 1: like detour from the bike lane, do you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying? Like the bike yeah everywhere and all the
Speaker 1: But and this was like the first of this was
Speaker 1: like in two thousand and five, So this is like
Speaker 1: the first time I had actually seen like a bus
Speaker 1: that had a bike rack on it. Oh that's yes,
Speaker 1: but they do have some of those here, right, but
Speaker 1: they're like late with it here. So I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: like years ago, Portland was already like very earthy and
Speaker 1: oh first time Portland. First time I saw a dog
Speaker 1: allowed in a restaurant? That's gross. Yeah, like out there
Speaker 1: dog people don't come from me, but I just want
Speaker 1: to eat with humans. Yes, yes, that was the first
Speaker 1: time I saw that. Um, it was just so many
Speaker 1: things that like they were like the first time I
Speaker 1: had ever seen like a lot of stuff like And
Speaker 1: then but the weather is jacked up, right, It's it
Speaker 1: rains from like I would say, the fall, like the
Speaker 1: late fall, until like the like late spring, and then
Speaker 1: it's like beautiful, so it rains most of the year
Speaker 1: and the Yeah, it literally like rain. I remember it
Speaker 1: was like thirty days straight it rained. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: that's depression. Yeah, there's the suicide rate is pretty high
Speaker 1: out there, oh, like in Portland and um Oregon and
Speaker 1: Washington State. Okay, but right now as a whole lot
Speaker 1: of weed. So if you want to get, if you
Speaker 1: want to partake, that's where you should go out. Um okay.
Speaker 1: So Alex, one of our nice listeners, asked us robbing,
Speaker 1: and I'm asking you, okay, because this is your department,
Speaker 1: not just else. Okay, when are you guys restocking? She's
Speaker 1: from another country. Restock your jumpers. Jumpers I had to
Speaker 1: find out was another word for like sweatshirts, sweatshirts, hoodies, whatever. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: we are low on stock. You know what. Oh, I
Speaker 1: gotta put the blue ones up. I haven't put those
Speaker 1: up yet. Yes, the blue ones are really cute. So guys,
Speaker 1: y'all don't know it because we've been low in stock.
Speaker 1: But we have merch ladies and gentlemen. We have merch
Speaker 1: right reasonably shady dot com. We have well typically we
Speaker 1: have sweatshirts, T shirts, we have paddles, souvenir paddles. We
Speaker 1: have mugs. Drink your coffee, Sip your tea, yes, which
Speaker 1: your reasonably shady chocolate hats visit the site. But I
Speaker 1: will be gosh, I feel like I'll be honest, y'all.
Speaker 1: I'm the one that does all the Yes, she does
Speaker 1: all the orders and stuff. Sometimes I'd just be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't feel like doing that, terrible Carly. I mean
Speaker 1: it's in my house. I'd rather just get it done. Okay.
Speaker 1: So yes, So if I restocked all the hoodies and stuff,
Speaker 1: that means I gotta ship them out. Yes, Robbin, Yes,
Speaker 1: so it is how we yes in the world. Robin's
Speaker 1: getting fired from this department, but I don't know who's
Speaker 1: going to replace them because it ain't me. But anyway,
Speaker 1: we're working on it, y'all. Just let y'all know the
Speaker 1: jumpers will be available soon. Yes, yes, um. Okay, So
Speaker 1: somebody asked, because we did ask y'all to ask us anything, um,
Speaker 1: and this was from Lisa l y SSA Is that
Speaker 1: Lisa L? That sounds like Lisa Listen anyway, Thank you
Speaker 1: for you know deeming us. You said you both have
Speaker 1: incredible flawless skin. What does your skincare. What skincare do
Speaker 1: you use? Yes? And do you have regular facials? I
Speaker 1: definitely have regular facials. I know Robin does too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what do you use? Because we haven't talked about this
Speaker 1: in a while, so you know it. It's funny. I'm
Speaker 1: the type that like, I will use a line, um
Speaker 1: like the whole system in whatever line because I believe
Speaker 1: in law you like a system. Yeah, okay, I hate
Speaker 1: systems really, and then I will um. I feel like
Speaker 1: your skin needs something new every now and then. So
Speaker 1: I actually so so. I was just using jam Marini
Speaker 1: products Jan Marini. Kay, They're really amazing. I was just
Speaker 1: using them. I like them, but I think at some
Speaker 1: point your skin like gets used to it. Huh you
Speaker 1: switch it up, Yeah, you gotta switch it up. So
Speaker 1: now I'm using Maya chia m A y m A
Speaker 1: y aia c hia um products. I'm using Align you
Speaker 1: know their products, which I'm almost embarrassed to say this.
Speaker 1: I learned about this line because somehow, and I don't
Speaker 1: even have a TikTok account, but I guess you can,
Speaker 1: like you learned if I'm TikTok. I think you can, like,
Speaker 1: look at TikTok or whatever. Somehow I got on. I
Speaker 1: went down the rabbit hole of Bethany Frankel's TikTok oh wow,
Speaker 1: because she would do she she critiques stuff. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: so she critiqued so much of makeup and clothes and perfumes,
Speaker 1: skincare so whatever, this food, food, yeah, everything, so the
Speaker 1: skincare so I don't know. She she raved about this
Speaker 1: skincare line, like raved about it. So that's how it
Speaker 1: ended up trying ying this new product line. I actually
Speaker 1: just literally started using it yesterday, so I can't speak
Speaker 1: to it. Um. I mean, so you just use it
Speaker 1: so far. But I just think in general, it's very
Speaker 1: important for you to have um, like a vitamin C serum.
Speaker 1: You know, it's it's it's it's important for you to
Speaker 1: use whatever line you're going to use. You need certain things.
Speaker 1: Vitamin C is important, retin all is important, you know,
Speaker 1: hydration and moist moisturizing your your skin is important. It's
Speaker 1: also important to like use stuff, yes, drink water, you
Speaker 1: stuff that's appropriate for your skin type. Yeah, whether you
Speaker 1: have oily skin or dry skin or whatever. But definitely
Speaker 1: as you age, retinal vitamin C um and there's like
Speaker 1: other stuff as well. Yeah, so I use skin Better. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've been using skin Better for a while. There's no
Speaker 1: bells and whistles with it, yeah, meaning like it doesn't
Speaker 1: have a great smell, it doesn't feel like uber great
Speaker 1: on your face, but it does work and I'm happy
Speaker 1: with it. And any like dermatological office that I go into,
Speaker 1: they're all using skin Um. So I do love that.
Speaker 1: And one of my girlfriends I was talking to, she's
Speaker 1: a flight attendant. This might be a hack, okay, or
Speaker 1: something that she does. So she said that there is
Speaker 1: way more radiation in the air than if we were
Speaker 1: just to get an X ray like in the on
Speaker 1: the planes. In the air, just like just walking around
Speaker 1: daily life. No, in the air, like when you're up
Speaker 1: in the sky. Oh okay, there's radiation up there. Oh okay,
Speaker 1: I guess because you know all of the satellites and
Speaker 1: satellites and planes and blah blah blah. Okay. So she
Speaker 1: wears SPF, like a high grade SPF on her face too,
Speaker 1: so that her face will be protected from all this
Speaker 1: radiation while she's flying. Yeah. So she's like, it's important
Speaker 1: to wear SPFI while you're flying. Yeah, but like the
Speaker 1: SPF that have that has all those like you know,
Speaker 1: broad spectrum right UVA, all the auv all types. I
Speaker 1: never thought I never correlated to. Now she could have
Speaker 1: made all of this shit up. It might be like
Speaker 1: a theory. She just this is like her theory, but
Speaker 1: she slathers it one. You know. She's a fight attendant,
Speaker 1: so she's always up in the sky. Okay, that's interesting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I would think you're on the air. I
Speaker 1: don't know. That's interesting. That's an interesting thought. If anybody
Speaker 1: has any makes insights on that, please let us know.
Speaker 1: Um I might talk about Debily a little bit. Can
Speaker 1: we talk about so I've actually met Debily. Debile used
Speaker 1: to be the CEO of b et y Network. She
Speaker 1: was there I think twenty some years. It's very well
Speaker 1: known that her and Bob Johnson. Bob Johnson is the founder,
Speaker 1: creator or whatever of b ET a billionaire. He likes
Speaker 1: to let everybody know he's a billionaire. UM and and
Speaker 1: her had an affair. They were both married to separate people.
Speaker 1: They started dating. She somehow worked herself up the ranks
Speaker 1: of BET. She is saying now that that relationship kind
Speaker 1: of held her in like a chokehold, so to speak,
Speaker 1: because she would like say, like I want to break
Speaker 1: up with you, and he's like, well, if you break up,
Speaker 1: you gotta leave, right, And she's like, well, hell no,
Speaker 1: I didn't worked hard to be where I am, right,
Speaker 1: So is this me too, because this is this is
Speaker 1: clearly no because it sounds like she chose to be
Speaker 1: in that relationship. Oh she said, yeah, they were both
Speaker 1: having an affair right right, okay with each other, and
Speaker 1: she chose to be in that relationship. But but I
Speaker 1: think that's you know, maybe she didn't know for sure.
Speaker 1: I don't know that he verbally said, well that's what
Speaker 1: she said. He's said she said he's at that or
Speaker 1: is that just like was that like a fear that
Speaker 1: she had, like she said he didn't break here, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: out of here at home? Okay, he didn't say that
Speaker 1: the whole part. I'm throwing that in right, um. But
Speaker 1: but let's be clear, I think you know, she was
Speaker 1: in her position for a very long time, so she
Speaker 1: was obviously doing a good job, right, So I don't
Speaker 1: want to take away from her work ethic and just
Speaker 1: like her as person. So it's like she didn't want
Speaker 1: to be in the relationship anymore. But I guess he'd
Speaker 1: done it too, right. Yeah, It's like I would think,
Speaker 1: you know, at some point, it's like if if the
Speaker 1: two of them decide, okay, well this isn't working out.
Speaker 1: I don't see why the working relationship can't continue unless
Speaker 1: it's like the working relationship was so tight because you know,
Speaker 1: she was pretty much second in command, right I think so,
Speaker 1: or you know, up under him somehow, Like then maybe
Speaker 1: it just would be awkward and hard to work together, right,
Speaker 1: So I don't know. But then he leaves the company, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I guess he retires or whatever. And that's actually
Speaker 1: when she became CEO, and she was able to live
Speaker 1: her dreams, right, live her best life. So I wonder, Okay,
Speaker 1: so timing, So when he sold the company or left
Speaker 1: the company, were they still dating and then they ended
Speaker 1: their relationship? And that's a good question. I don't know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Probably I don't know, Or maybe he
Speaker 1: moved on. Yeah, maybe he eventually moved up broke it off.
Speaker 1: She probably just felt like she could not younger people.
Speaker 1: She probably felt like in the relationship on him married too.
Speaker 1: Now she could be forty years younger than oh really yes,
Speaker 1: Oh wow the girl before that same thing. Oh, the
Speaker 1: girlfriend before that same thing. But I mean you know
Speaker 1: that's fine. They're all of age. Yeah, yeah, that's It
Speaker 1: reminds me of what Chris Rock. Chris Rock was talking
Speaker 1: about dating younger women. Huh, I don't know. You still
Speaker 1: haven't watched it, so I'll let you watch it. No,
Speaker 1: but just tell me. And it was funny. It was
Speaker 1: like the difference between dating a younger woman and an
Speaker 1: older woman is like a younger woman is like simple,
Speaker 1: she knows she's twenty something. She's like, oh, can you
Speaker 1: buy me these shoes? I'll send you to link. I's like, yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: that's easy. An older woman is like, UM, I need
Speaker 1: to fix my roof. Can you pay? Can you? Yes?
Speaker 1: Can you pay for my roof? I need to roof? Yes?
Speaker 1: So I died about that. That's funny because it is
Speaker 1: funny because as you get older, your priorities change. Yes,
Speaker 1: things that you have to take care of change, right.
Speaker 1: And I used to like, um, I don't want to
Speaker 1: say this, but yeah in my mind, and you could
Speaker 1: you could probably understand this. Like dating you, I don't
Speaker 1: know how you and want to like buy each other
Speaker 1: gifts or whatever, but like I would have to return
Speaker 1: so many gifts because I don't want this. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna wear this. This looks like crap. Or I want
Speaker 1: a different size, I want a different trailer. Just give
Speaker 1: me the money. Just give me a damn money. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know, put me through too many changes because then
Speaker 1: and then they get upset when you don't like it.
Speaker 1: Do they really? Yeah, they take a little personal like
Speaker 1: wait a minute, like you it's like I give up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well no, why she never get no no, But it's
Speaker 1: I mean, it's part of the conversation. Yes, but if
Speaker 1: you have to like go through all of the jumps
Speaker 1: in the hoops to return and all that, it's just like, well,
Speaker 1: how much Sisters costs two thousands? Just give me the money.
Speaker 1: Cash at me right. Chris Rock was like, She's like,
Speaker 1: I have here's my vemo. Yes, Venmo, yes, Ben Mom. Yes,
Speaker 1: we want a new roof. What else do we want? Um?
Speaker 1: We want a new water heat up right, exactly exactly?
Speaker 1: We want like new landscaping something. Yes, speaking of landscaping,
Speaker 1: these dear keep knocking over my lights. I see them,
Speaker 1: I see you, I see you, dear, would you get
Speaker 1: a rifle and shoot it. No, okay, I don't believe
Speaker 1: in that. Okay. So we have a new segment, just kidding,
Speaker 1: it's not new, it's our same segment. Is it reasonable
Speaker 1: or is it shady? Shady? Oh my gosh. Okay, So
Speaker 1: we got a lot of submissions. Um, all right, so
Speaker 1: we're gonna hear some quick hitters. All right, Okay, this
Speaker 1: is from our girl, Shamarian um Hmarion said. She said,
Speaker 1: is it reasonable or shady to read a person's DM
Speaker 1: when they ask you a question but never reply? So
Speaker 1: you know how people can see that you've seen their message?
Speaker 1: Oh really, I didn't know that. You didn't know that.
Speaker 1: So if someone DMS you, well, okay, if you there's
Speaker 1: like you know, in your Instagram, there's a messages that
Speaker 1: you accept and then there's the messages that you haven't accepted.
Speaker 1: So the ones that you haven't accepted, they don't know
Speaker 1: that you've read them, okay, But the ones that are
Speaker 1: like already you know you've accepted or whatever. For whatever reason,
Speaker 1: if someone DMS you, it will say that it was seen.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, So is it reasonable or shady to read
Speaker 1: the message and not reply? No, that's that's a Tuesday.
Speaker 1: That's what we do. That's right. We look at it
Speaker 1: and keep it pushing. And it actually depends on a
Speaker 1: how many messages you receive on a regular um. If
Speaker 1: you like this person, um, is this a DM? Because
Speaker 1: you trying to holler? It's like what kind of DM?
Speaker 1: Is this? Right? Right? It? Yeah, it definitely depends on
Speaker 1: their messages. I feel like it depends on For me,
Speaker 1: it's and it goes the same thing with like text messages.
Speaker 1: It's like it depends on what I'm doing at the moment. Yeah,
Speaker 1: do you know what I'm saying. So it's like you
Speaker 1: might I might not be in a mood or a
Speaker 1: place to reply to a message, so you almost it's
Speaker 1: like I almost don't want to read a message until
Speaker 1: I know I can sit down and reply. Oh okay,
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Yeah? But you know,
Speaker 1: But so you just will read a message and just
Speaker 1: on Instagram yeh, keep it pushing, Okay, Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: if I are you looking for an answer? If someone
Speaker 1: sends a very if they if they send a message
Speaker 1: and I know that they see that I've read it,
Speaker 1: I will reply and be like okay, thanks or something.
Speaker 1: Do you know this person. No, I mean, it just depends.
Speaker 1: It's just a random It depends, It depends. Okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this goes back to Robin always like starts an email
Speaker 1: with Hi, how are you? Yes? How is your day? Yes?
Speaker 1: I hope everything is lovely in your world? Yes? Yes,
Speaker 1: I delete? Really yes, okay, no, see I'm I'm I
Speaker 1: am a little nicer, Yeah, you're cterally yes, sad, yes, literally, shady?
Speaker 1: I'm reasonable? Um, is it reasonable or shady to send
Speaker 1: your daughter's grandmother an invitation to the baby's party? But say, ps,
Speaker 1: don't tell your son? Now, that's amazing. Okay, that's not reasonable, shady,
Speaker 1: that is amazing. And how she even imprefaced it. Your
Speaker 1: daughter's grandmother, right, so that's not so we understand, not
Speaker 1: your mother in law, not your mother in law, and
Speaker 1: not your mother, right right? Okay, so hell yeah, don't
Speaker 1: tell us that. It's very reasonable. Yeah, he's gonna come
Speaker 1: in smelling like weed because he is the door dash
Speaker 1: driver the last episode and he's messed up all the
Speaker 1: Robin's groceries and he don't know how to ask exactly. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: I think that is very reasonable if the situation is
Speaker 1: not good, if it's toxic if they're not getting along whatever.
Speaker 1: It's very reasonable. Now, now is the grandma gonna tell him? Right?
Speaker 1: Then that's the shady party. So then so it's so okay.
Speaker 1: So the shady part is you're putting the grandma in
Speaker 1: a position where she has to like keep something from
Speaker 1: her son. So say she keeps it from her son
Speaker 1: and she goes to the party, and then the sun
Speaker 1: finds out and he finds out the MoMA, his mama
Speaker 1: was there, and then he's like, oh my gosh, I
Speaker 1: can't believe you didn't tell me. You went to my
Speaker 1: child's birthday party and didn't tell me. But she runs
Speaker 1: the if the grandma tells If I'm grandma, yeah, I
Speaker 1: would just be like, oh, I just thought you knew
Speaker 1: that you would say that. But if I'm grandma and
Speaker 1: the father ends up there, you run the risk with
Speaker 1: the mother. I'm not ever being invited to another birthday
Speaker 1: party again, right? Very true? Yes, Yeah, So if I'm grandma,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep my mouth shut. I'm gonna go because
Speaker 1: I love my little granddaughter. Yeah, but I'm and if
Speaker 1: my son finds out that I was there, I'm going
Speaker 1: to play dumb and be like, I thought you knew.
Speaker 1: Why would I you know? Right? Why what I knew
Speaker 1: that you weren't invited? So this is shady, but this
Speaker 1: is really good shade. Yeah, hilarious shade. Yeah, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: do not invite him, yes, all right. And he ain't
Speaker 1: even contribute to the party. Clearly he's not right if
Speaker 1: we don't even know about it, So you can't even
Speaker 1: be invited. Yeah, no, no, he's out of there, all right.
Speaker 1: It's a reason for a shady to cut your friends
Speaker 1: off for not telling you happy birthday. Um, I think
Speaker 1: it depends on the level of friendship. Okay, So okay,
Speaker 1: I have a girlfriend, and yes, a depends on level
Speaker 1: of friendship. It's not it can be shady. So I
Speaker 1: have a girlfriend and it was her birthday. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I forgot. Now there's a reason why I forgot because
Speaker 1: A I'm not good with that. B. I was moving.
Speaker 1: I've moved either the day before or the day of
Speaker 1: her birthday, and um, I just forgot. Yeah I'm human.
Speaker 1: So she like like a week later, she's mad at
Speaker 1: me for like a week. She tells cow she hits
Speaker 1: me up, and she says, I was like, oh lord,
Speaker 1: and I told her. I was like, I'm sorry, whatever
Speaker 1: I think I cow told me like, you missed her birthday.
Speaker 1: She says to me like, I never missed your birthday.
Speaker 1: I bought you blah blah blah on your birthday. Okay,
Speaker 1: So if anyone ever says something like that to me,
Speaker 1: I will box up the shit you bought me and
Speaker 1: send it straight back to you, which is what I did.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, because I'm petty Paul. I'm petty patty,
Speaker 1: petty Paul, petty Priscilla, those petty people. So I boxed
Speaker 1: it up. She gave me a ball main shirt. I
Speaker 1: boxed it up. I said a back tour, and I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, obviously you didn't give me this
Speaker 1: gift and with good intentions, because you're throwing it back
Speaker 1: in my face, so you can have it. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: M We have since made up. I'm gonna saying, are
Speaker 1: your friends anymore? Yes, we made up and everything's fine.
Speaker 1: But it was just like understand that, like, yo, I'm
Speaker 1: human and I was moving that way right yes, sorry
Speaker 1: not sorry, yeah, okay, sorry, Yeah, It's funny because I like,
Speaker 1: I have a friend that is very um kind of
Speaker 1: like that, like, oh my God, you didn't say that,
Speaker 1: you didn't do this, you didn't do this. But then
Speaker 1: I'm like, actually, she's not like that, because then I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I've ever heard from you on
Speaker 1: my birthday, but you worried about right, yeah? And I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: so I know. It's it's the question, is a reasonal
Speaker 1: shady to cut your friends off for not telling you
Speaker 1: happy birthday? Yes? Yes, it's shady. Yes, it's very shady.
Speaker 1: It's very shady. Um. Some friends are like really into
Speaker 1: birthdays and that's really important, and other people maybe aren't,
Speaker 1: you know, And it's like if they forget your birthday,
Speaker 1: it's not like you can't take it personal. You just
Speaker 1: gotta say, okay, that person was probably busy. Now if
Speaker 1: it's like if that friend okay. And this is why
Speaker 1: I for the most part don't really like post like
Speaker 1: happy birthday post to my friends. And you know, you know,
Speaker 1: for a lot of people, because I'm like, I don't
Speaker 1: want to unintentionally leaves like forget to post somebody and
Speaker 1: then they think they take it personal, right, do you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying? Right, But it depends on who, Like,
Speaker 1: if one forget your birthday, that's a problem if well,
Speaker 1: I don't forget your birthday because I just I'm more
Speaker 1: excited about your birthday than you are. But like, if
Speaker 1: people forget my birth people have lives, exactly. People are
Speaker 1: living their lives and doing god knows what and whatever.
Speaker 1: And I would never be mad because somebody forgot my birthday,
Speaker 1: right like you forgot who cares exactly? Yeah, unless you're
Speaker 1: the type that's like, it's my birthdays coming, my birthdays coming,
Speaker 1: My birthdays come. If you have done that, if you
Speaker 1: let your friends know that you're on birthday is like
Speaker 1: super important to you, then it's like all right, but still, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not. I mean, I try to hide under a
Speaker 1: rock called my birthday. We know, Okay, what's next? Is
Speaker 1: it reason by or shady to invite your friends to
Speaker 1: lunch and they and they all show up late? Um again,
Speaker 1: revert back to my shady moment of this episode. Yes,
Speaker 1: it is very shady to come late. It is very
Speaker 1: shady to know before you even start your day that
Speaker 1: you're gonna come late, all y'all, that y'all were gonna
Speaker 1: come thirty to forty minutes later. So we did it.
Speaker 1: I'm telling Okay, I don't know what Ashley's excuse was.
Speaker 1: How is it that I can get this is the
Speaker 1: same traffic that I'm driving my traffic. Okay, it's not you,
Speaker 1: that's true, but me and Charie had the same traffic. Well,
Speaker 1: actually Charie's right around a corner, right around a corner,
Speaker 1: so like she has absolutely no excuse. Y'all are just rude. Okay,
Speaker 1: moving on, what's the next reasonable? Um? Okay, this is
Speaker 1: from our good friend Asia. Asia says it's a reasonable
Speaker 1: or shady to expect a girlfriend to split the check
Speaker 1: evenly amongst friends if they didn't order alcohol at dinner.
Speaker 1: It is so the question, you know, when you when
Speaker 1: you're with a group of friends and you have one
Speaker 1: friend that's not drinking, and then you have and then
Speaker 1: the rest of the friends are ordering, you're splitting that
Speaker 1: check booth. Yeah, yeah, you're splitting it with everybody else.
Speaker 1: That happened recently. Like I was out and like I'm
Speaker 1: not the the the order or the drink police, right,
Speaker 1: I don't even realize you're not drinking, right, Like if
Speaker 1: we're all out and we're just ordering and eating and
Speaker 1: all that, Like I'm not realizing what you're ordering. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: so don't come when the bill comes. Don't be like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I just water right, Like absolutely not.
Speaker 1: You are here. You are you have decided to be
Speaker 1: amongst the group, right, and when you're with the group,
Speaker 1: you're gonna do as the group does. You're here for
Speaker 1: the experience. You're here. It's not about like, oh I
Speaker 1: ordered this or I didn't order that, because it's like,
Speaker 1: are you so when someone hosts a party at their house,
Speaker 1: are you gonna be like, you know, I mean, should
Speaker 1: that host be like okay, well Marvin, you had one
Speaker 1: of each, so you owe me twenty but like Mary,
Speaker 1: you only had two things ten like you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, no, it's just but I do feel though,
Speaker 1: if if there is a gathering or you know, if
Speaker 1: you're out to dinner or whatever, and one person is
Speaker 1: like coming from somewhere else and they're not eating periods, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's different, right, yeah, then like they don't have to
Speaker 1: split the check, right, And if you're really good friends,
Speaker 1: because if this happens with me all the time, you
Speaker 1: know people's financial situations, right, and so I'll not always
Speaker 1: not always, but you know, you have a clue. I'll
Speaker 1: take care of some people that I know, like I
Speaker 1: can take care of because you know that one hundred
Speaker 1: fifty dollars should stay and there are cats, So I'll
Speaker 1: do that right now. Sometimes you might go the group
Speaker 1: of friends might go to like a restaurant that's like
Speaker 1: really expensive. Yeah right, And so it's like I feel
Speaker 1: like someone if they're not willing to like split the
Speaker 1: check evenly and they know that they're they're not going
Speaker 1: to be ordering as much because maybe they're on a
Speaker 1: tighter budget, Like maybe they should sit that one out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know you can't go yeah yeah, And I hate
Speaker 1: to say it, but yeah, no, like if you if
Speaker 1: you agree to the invitation, you know what it is, right, yes,
Speaker 1: the end. So I don't I don't know how to
Speaker 1: answer that. But everybody needs to hold their weight. And
Speaker 1: this is the thing. Everyone at the table has heard
Speaker 1: my jokes and they are worth money. So y'all have
Speaker 1: all laughed at my jokes. So y'all all have to
Speaker 1: pay the same amount of money when the bill cops
Speaker 1: the end because my jokes off money. So they're paying
Speaker 1: you for your friendship. Yeah, well they're paying me for
Speaker 1: my um I have been very personable and they I've
Speaker 1: made everyone laugh. I have spilled some tea. You all
Speaker 1: you always know I got some tea. You got honey,
Speaker 1: you put it in the tea, you stirred it up,
Speaker 1: and like come on now you have to pay. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh. Okay, okay, so we have Let's do one more,
Speaker 1: another quick one. This is from Myisha, Myisha Price. She
Speaker 1: says we are her favorite housewives despite the haters. Thank you, yes,
Speaker 1: hi hatus. Yes. Anyway, is it reasonable or shady if
Speaker 1: someone I don't really care for or like when I
Speaker 1: see them, if I ignore their existence and don't say
Speaker 1: anything too, that is very reasonable And I'm not mad
Speaker 1: at you for that, missy okay, because this is the
Speaker 1: thing we all can't get along. And so if it's
Speaker 1: actually you can be cordials. You can say, Hi, I
Speaker 1: would give them a head nod. You get them a
Speaker 1: head nod. Yeah, okay, you know like the yeah, I
Speaker 1: would give them a nothing really, yes, what depends on
Speaker 1: the on the level of hate, I know, like if
Speaker 1: you okay, you don't care for them, don't care? Okay,
Speaker 1: if I don't care for somebody, and then in my space,
Speaker 1: I think you can still give them a it just
Speaker 1: ifbody depends on the level, and it depends on if
Speaker 1: it's a working relationship. So if it's a working relationship,
Speaker 1: like we're in an office and I see you, I'll
Speaker 1: say good morning, right, Hi, okay, But if if we
Speaker 1: just out and about, if we club in, I'm speaking
Speaker 1: to you. Yeah, No. But but don't you find it weird?
Speaker 1: Like when you are out and about if you do
Speaker 1: see someone that you know, whether you are friends with
Speaker 1: them or not, you would you like them or not,
Speaker 1: and you like intentionally don't speak to them or don't
Speaker 1: acknowledge that, don't acknowledge that you see them. Yeah, don't
Speaker 1: acknowledge their presence. Yeah. Yeah, So that's why I feel
Speaker 1: like in that case, like like an extremely recently like
Speaker 1: a little head head nod okay, right? Or no eye
Speaker 1: contact no or maybe or just like a hey, like
Speaker 1: a hey, hey, why am I even looking at you?
Speaker 1: I don't like you? Because it's very hard to because
Speaker 1: if you see them, if y'all make eye contact, Okay,
Speaker 1: if you make eye contact with someone, yeah that you
Speaker 1: know and you don't like, how do you just like
Speaker 1: not acknowledge that you see them? I don't cock ahead
Speaker 1: to the side, like, I mean, that has happened to me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: more times than I would like. I would care to
Speaker 1: lie through, and I just keep it pushing, right. I'm
Speaker 1: not speaking to you like I feel like me speaking
Speaker 1: when you know I don't like you. I know I
Speaker 1: don't like you. It's just too fake for me. I
Speaker 1: can't do it right. It's one of those that just
Speaker 1: depends on the level. Yeah, but some people they don't
Speaker 1: like confrontation, so they'll just go ahead and speak right right,
Speaker 1: so that there's no confrontation, but just be a bad
Speaker 1: bitch and don't speak right. I probably would, I would
Speaker 1: do something to acknowledge that I see you. But I'm
Speaker 1: not going to smile at you. Okay, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. So head nod, but no smile, head nod
Speaker 1: and grimace, not a poker face, A like head no
Speaker 1: poker face. How about just poker face. I'll let you
Speaker 1: know what I happened. It's gonna happen to me very soon,
Speaker 1: so next week baby. Yeah. Well, I mean I feel
Speaker 1: like just living your truth, whatever your truth is. And
Speaker 1: I don't want people speaking to me that don't like me.
Speaker 1: If you don't like me, and you see me. Don't
Speaker 1: speak to me, right, Yeah, I don't want the phoney
Speaker 1: like hey, hey girl, how are you right? Hi? Like no,
Speaker 1: like we ain't cool? No, I don't want that. Yes,
Speaker 1: but what's up? Sup? Suet a a sub a? Sup
Speaker 1: is actually kind of nice? No, stop, it's like nice? No, No,
Speaker 1: SUP with the head knot up? Sup? In the same
Speaker 1: same motions. Yeah, so I think that's weird. Your head
Speaker 1: is knots up? Who says Sup? Smile? That's what's up?
Speaker 1: I know what. I know that, that's what I know.
Speaker 1: What that is? Who does that? People who don't like people? Sup?
Speaker 1: You keep moving? Okay? I think SUP ended in twenty twenty,
Speaker 1: Like twenty twenty was ok Sup? How about this thumbs up?
Speaker 1: He'll no? Okay? How about peace? No? Okay, so no
Speaker 1: no hand gesture, no hand gestures? No, how about up yours? Okay,
Speaker 1: we're going off the rails. We are out of here.
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