WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: In The Air Up There

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date.

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<v Speaker 2>Grand romantic gestures on a first date good or bad idea.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna go bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Romantic.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you're Maybe it does depend on the gesture.

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<v Speaker 2>Like carving your initials into a tree.

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<v Speaker 3>Sweet, no, terrible for the tree, just stop face.

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<v Speaker 1>Tree, just for the relationship, plant seats and.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe carving initials of all your former victims into the tree,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe that one's not so sweet?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are they victims of the tree?

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<v Speaker 3>Is also a victim at that point.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to remember them somehow.

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<v Speaker 2>But one of our listeners, Patrick, says he's worried that

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<v Speaker 2>his grand romantic gesture may have accidentally backfired on it.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll get to that in just a second, but first, Patrick,

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<v Speaker 2>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey guys, how are you doing.

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<v Speaker 3>It's always like kind of cringey waiting to hear what

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<v Speaker 3>you did? What I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just like outside of maybe even flowers, feels like

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<v Speaker 5>pushing it on the brook.

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<v Speaker 2>You're already hating on all romantic gestures in any form.

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<v Speaker 1>We haven't even heard what he did. Something really really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>A firm handshake and an eye contact. Hello, there, be

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<v Speaker 1>careful with the eye contact. I don't want to be roman.

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<v Speaker 3>What did you do? Actually, who did you go out with?

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<v Speaker 3>That's where we should start, right, Yeah, what's her name?

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<v Speaker 4>So her name's Ashley. We met up online. Man, I'll

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<v Speaker 4>tell you she's so beautiful, Like she had the most

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<v Speaker 4>insane smile.

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<v Speaker 2>That's sweet, an insane smile, like.

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<v Speaker 4>A kind of jokers smile. But then with the tattoos.

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<v Speaker 4>That really did it for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you being serious?

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<v Speaker 4>Totally kidding? Okay, I mean insane in that, Like you

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<v Speaker 4>don't see this smile every day?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's really nice. I look a great smile.

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<v Speaker 5>Can I just ask you on your dating profile did

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<v Speaker 5>she have any inkling that you were some sort of

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<v Speaker 5>romantic person?

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<v Speaker 3>Would you describe yourself that way? Can't people describe themselves

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<v Speaker 3>that way? They can, I just don't swipe to them.

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<v Speaker 3>But maybe she would like.

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<v Speaker 4>It, you know, No, I don't. I don't like describe

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<v Speaker 4>myself as a romantic or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so she didn't know it's coming either.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the key to a grand romantic gesture is

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<v Speaker 2>to be surprising someone with it, not telling people. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna surprise you with a grand romantic gesture.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 3>How many surprises on a first date have we heard

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<v Speaker 3>that ends?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Well, if they're.

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<v Speaker 2>Coming to us, there's got to be a good one, though,

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<v Speaker 2>tell us that you came up with a good one, Patrick, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I think so.

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<v Speaker 4>So basically, we talked for a few days. Right, we

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<v Speaker 4>go out to this like mom and pop pizza shop

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<v Speaker 4>because our chemistry seemed like it was really good. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>invite her out to this place, right, literally the best

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<v Speaker 4>pizza I've ever had.

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<v Speaker 5>Got nice, dude, So what was it like when you

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<v Speaker 5>first saw Well.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I said, her smile was insane. It made me

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<v Speaker 4>want to go crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a sweet comment to you.

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<v Speaker 5>It sounds a little psychotic because he keeps using the

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<v Speaker 5>word insane, but I know what he means, and I

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<v Speaker 5>just think it's nice, like a welcoming, beautiful smile.

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<v Speaker 1>Her beautiful eyes made me want to have a mental.

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<v Speaker 2>Breakdown, truly, that isgest Okay, what was the grand romantic gesture?

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<v Speaker 4>Though?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know.

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<v Speaker 4>So, as we're like walking into this pizza place, there's

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<v Speaker 4>this guy that's selling flowers on the corner, And like

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<v Speaker 4>I said, I'm not really one to be romantic, but

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<v Speaker 4>it felt right and when you're walking by, You're like,

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<v Speaker 4>that seems like a nice idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, get her some flowers.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah, So he's sewing these bouquets like twenty bucks.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 4>I only had fifteen bucks.

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<v Speaker 1>You, Oh no, whatould you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Ask you to spot your five bucks so she could

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<v Speaker 3>get her some flowers?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, buddy, why don't you take like sixteen petals off?

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<v Speaker 4>So she even offered to like give me the other

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<v Speaker 4>five bucks.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't help you openly said.

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<v Speaker 4>No, she offered, first of all. Second of all, I said, no, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>what is like? I will give you one red rose

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<v Speaker 4>for fifteen bucks, which feels like an even worse idea

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<v Speaker 4>on a first date. Red roses or like love. And

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not trying to be weird about it. I just

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<v Speaker 4>thought it was nice. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>So you did it. You spent the fifteen dollars in

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<v Speaker 3>one red rose.

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<v Speaker 2>Twenty minutes later intogling for some flowers looking us friendship.

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<v Speaker 5>I think we need to go back to the definition

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<v Speaker 5>of grand romantic because it doesn't it doesn't fall under it.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you end up doing?

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<v Speaker 4>So clearly this is going really really well so far,

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<v Speaker 4>so that you'll. We ended up doing was ten bucks

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<v Speaker 4>for this wilted bouquet, and the flowers did not look great.

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<v Speaker 4>I will.

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<v Speaker 1>Count.

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<v Speaker 3>Did she laugh? I mean, did you guys make it

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<v Speaker 3>a joke? How did she react?

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<v Speaker 4>I felt like she at least appreciated it. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 4>the pizza was really the biggest thing. So we still

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<v Speaker 4>go in have the best pizza that she says she's

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<v Speaker 4>ever had. I asked her to go back to mine

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<v Speaker 4>because things were going so well. I may have said goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>The next morning, flowers got a lot more wilted because

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<v Speaker 1>the room is so hot.

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody was a humid, sticky room.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Well it's been three days now. That long, but

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<v Speaker 4>long enough where I'm like, where what happened? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Long enough, that's a good way to put it.

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<v Speaker 3>And she hasn't texted you back at all, so I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, if the flower's gesture didn't seal the deal, then

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<v Speaker 2>maybe the gesture of getting a phone call from a

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<v Speaker 2>radio station, maybe that'll help push her over.

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<v Speaker 4>The that's pretty crossed my fingers, guys, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>If it's romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll find out.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to do your second date update, right, after

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<v Speaker 2>this second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Great pizza, twenty.

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<v Speaker 2>Dollars, stimulating conversation. Zero dollars and a bushel of badly

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<v Speaker 2>wilted flowers should be priceless, but they cost ten bucks. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and Patrick, our listener, paid it, and it actually worked

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<v Speaker 2>out for him because Ashley stayed the night over at

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<v Speaker 2>his place.

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<v Speaker 1>But after three days now she's not calling back. We're

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<v Speaker 1>calling so soon.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just so worried they were too eager.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no such thing as being too eager in love.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah there is.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, don't quote me on that actual, but we're

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<v Speaker 2>going to try and find out if there's a solid

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<v Speaker 2>reason for why Ashley has broke off communication.

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<v Speaker 1>Patrick, how are you feeling.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a little bit bummed out. I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm confused.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it may not be a loss yet weked about.

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<v Speaker 3>It's only three days. Maybe she's just busy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but zero nothing not high.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, and after ten dollars of wilted flowers, at

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<v Speaker 2>least something an explanation. At least, let's try and get

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<v Speaker 2>something out of her.

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<v Speaker 4>Here.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I am ready, And you know I see that

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<v Speaker 4>she's gotten my text message, so they've they've been delivered.

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<v Speaker 4>She hasn't blocked me. So, like you're saying, it's not completely.

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<v Speaker 3>Thought that crossed your mind, you can see or if

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<v Speaker 3>it's like seen.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe heys like that happened to you in the past.

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<v Speaker 3>Now somewhat concerned, like I know when.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been blowed.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, dating aps are weird, man, that's what's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>We can all agree on that. Let's see what she

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<v Speaker 1>has to say though.

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<v Speaker 4>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hey, is this Ashley?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, I don't hope we're not interrupting anything. I'm busy.

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<v Speaker 2>But we're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait a radio show, yeah, an English one.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't worry. We're called Brook and Jeffrey and we're doing

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<v Speaker 2>something called a second Date update. Okay, it's a second

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<v Speaker 2>that we do where we try and help some of

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners get in touch with someone after they've gone

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<v Speaker 2>on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's kind of fun.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we got a guy who's like super eager to

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<v Speaker 5>see you, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Not too eager. Yeah, he's like right in the middle,

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<v Speaker 1>just the medium perfect amount of I thought.

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<v Speaker 5>You said there wasn't such thing as being too eager.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, I think we agreed that there was no certain

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<v Speaker 1>amount of eagerness.

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<v Speaker 7>Right, I'm sorry, I'm a little freaked out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, it's okay. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>We're calling about a guy named Patrick that you went

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<v Speaker 2>to pizza with the other night.

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<v Speaker 7>All right, confused right now?

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<v Speaker 2>We heard he fed you the best pizza of your life,

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<v Speaker 2>so that's gotta get points.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, we went to this really cute little like kind

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<v Speaker 8>of I guess mom and pop like pizza.

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<v Speaker 7>Shappa was very good.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he told us.

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<v Speaker 2>All about your date, and so we we got an

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<v Speaker 2>idea that it was a pretty good time because you

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<v Speaker 2>ended up staying the night over at his place.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 7>Wow, she's very nosy.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't tell us anything any details beyond that.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's okay. I mean, you sound giggly and excited.

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<v Speaker 7>I well, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just a little freaked out right now.

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<v Speaker 7>I've just never been on a radio stasion before.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you plan on getting back to him to set

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<v Speaker 5>up you know something else?

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<v Speaker 8>You know, I just haven't like trying to figure it

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<v Speaker 8>out yet. There was just something that was like a

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<v Speaker 8>little bit kind of off. So I just haven't had

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<v Speaker 8>the time to like address it yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, do you mind if we asked what was off?

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<v Speaker 2>Because Patrick is really confused, he's not sure what happened.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, So I did spend the night over his house,

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<v Speaker 6>and then like I woke up the next morning and

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<v Speaker 6>I just felt like disgusting, like.

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<v Speaker 1>We all feel that, though I know, not like that.

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<v Speaker 6>It was more so like physically like I had really

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<v Speaker 6>oily skin and like really greasy, greasy, greasy hair.

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<v Speaker 5>And like like not change his sheets in a long time.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, but it was so weird because that

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<v Speaker 6>first that never has happened to me ever, even if

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<v Speaker 6>I haven't washed my hair in like three days, Like

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<v Speaker 6>I don't have greasy hair at all. My skin is

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<v Speaker 6>actually quite clear and they take really good care of it.

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<v Speaker 6>But like I came home just so freaked out and

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<v Speaker 6>couldn't wait to go home and just get in the shower.

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<v Speaker 5>Isn't that like the TikTok thing right now that people

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<v Speaker 5>are talking about, like the boys.

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<v Speaker 7>Hair exactly my broommates and then his boyfriend Aaron, I

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<v Speaker 7>never heard.

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<v Speaker 6>It's like it's just him. It's it's like something in

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<v Speaker 6>the I don't know how to explain it, like like you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Living in like a leftover pizza box essentially, that.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds kind of nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, boyfriend, like it's.

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<v Speaker 2>All of my call.

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<v Speaker 7>But then now it's like, okay, if they're cleaner, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, right, So it's just being around him.

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<v Speaker 5>You think you were to walk into apartment and it's

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<v Speaker 5>like there's maybe a poster tacked up on the wall

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<v Speaker 5>and like a black leather couch in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like Brooke was with Patrick too.

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<v Speaker 5>They're an upgrade if they're not sleeping on a futon

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<v Speaker 5>like that type of that type of dude.

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<v Speaker 1>So what is that?

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<v Speaker 3>What was going on?

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, you weren't that far off, but the futon

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<v Speaker 8>wasn't on the floor like he had a bet, so

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<v Speaker 8>you were kind of spot on with all the other things.

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<v Speaker 3>So were you just grossed out by him?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I was grossed not by him, but like the way

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<v Speaker 6>that I felt when I left.

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<v Speaker 1>As in him. It was his atmosphere. Let me ask

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<v Speaker 1>you this, how does the air feel to you right now? Really?

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<v Speaker 2>But there is Patrick who's on the line. Don't you

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<v Speaker 2>think the boyfriend air would have snuck in if it

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<v Speaker 2>was something to do with him?

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<v Speaker 3>And we're on the air through the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know how boyfriend air permeates.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I just heard of it.

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<v Speaker 1>So, but Patrick is the Patri's boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>Sounds like that just the most ridiculous thing that I've

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<v Speaker 4>ever heard. I can't believe that that's the reason that

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<v Speaker 4>you're not talking about about.

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<v Speaker 5>That.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not talking to you. I'm just like taking a

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<v Speaker 6>second to like process it because it was so weird

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<v Speaker 6>and I didn't know how to address it.

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<v Speaker 4>Second or three days, I don't know. You pull out

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<v Speaker 4>your phone every time you like look anything up, if

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<v Speaker 4>you go on maps, if you're navigating. I know that

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<v Speaker 4>you've looked past our messages a couple of times. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just confused.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, that's a little harsh.

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<v Speaker 8>I just needed a minute to like figure out how

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<v Speaker 8>it's going to say, because this is a really weird

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<v Speaker 8>conversation to have.

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<v Speaker 6>I've never been in this situation before. Sorry, I'm surprised

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<v Speaker 6>by your hostility because you were so sweet.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm just confused. I don't know. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 4>this is like the second time it's happened. Maybe maybe

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<v Speaker 4>it's just you. Maybe it's a you think, not me.

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<v Speaker 2>You think that she has bad girlfriend heir, and she's

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<v Speaker 2>spilling her air into your apartment.

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like it at this point.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, it sounds like Patrick, your place is just

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<v Speaker 5>like a stereotypical bachelor pad.

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<v Speaker 2>But you agreed.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, would you agree with that state? I've never

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<v Speaker 3>been there. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I know why would she said that assumption because that's

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<v Speaker 5>what she described to that.

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<v Speaker 1>She described it as boyfriend air. He didn't say his

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<v Speaker 1>apartment was a dumpgether?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, saying it is your apartment a dump? Like

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<v Speaker 3>what's in your fridge right now. It's a very good

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<v Speaker 3>judge of how someone was.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio bit from thirty years ago. What it is.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I don't just have condiments. And as far as

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<v Speaker 4>like in terms of my apartment, it's the nicest of

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<v Speaker 4>all of my friends. So that's good. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think we're getting too much into the

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<v Speaker 1>nitty gritty of this. The bottom of the line, money

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<v Speaker 1>was the problem?

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<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, okay, Well I'm just saying, actually, you said

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<v Speaker 2>that you felt like you had a really nice time,

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<v Speaker 2>that he had a nice personality and you vibe together.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that the most important part?

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<v Speaker 5>Sure?

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<v Speaker 6>But like the logistics, like I don't want to feel

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<v Speaker 6>like a grease ball every time I hang out with him,

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<v Speaker 6>every time I go to his apartment, Like that's what

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<v Speaker 6>I've been like considering, Like how do you say to someone, Hey,

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<v Speaker 6>your apartment had a greasy feel about it?

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<v Speaker 7>And heine like, can you do something?

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<v Speaker 4>What if you gonna do?

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<v Speaker 2>Move?

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<v Speaker 6>Like there's nothing right, Well.

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<v Speaker 1>There's an idea option. Maybe I didn't think about that, Patrick.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm certainly not going to move after the first date.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, what things were great, Ashley, But how about this,

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<v Speaker 4>What if we try your place and see if you

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<v Speaker 4>still have the greasy feeling? Because if that's the case,

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<v Speaker 4>then it's me not you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true.

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<v Speaker 5>Her place has her own toothbrush and some face washed.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe that's all she actually needs.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you just ask her for a free hook up

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<v Speaker 2>over at her place this time just to test the air.

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<v Speaker 4>I know you're jealous, and that's okay. You're welcome to

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<v Speaker 4>steal that if you want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Ashley, what do you think test out the grease and

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<v Speaker 2>report back to us for a free date.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just like the only person that this is going

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<v Speaker 7>to prove anything to him, Like I live in my apartment,

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<v Speaker 7>so obviously no, it's clean and not greasy. But I

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<v Speaker 7>don't say that like Nobo. We've ever done anything like

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<v Speaker 7>this with me before ever, and it's totally worthy of

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<v Speaker 7>the second date.

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<v Speaker 1>I could barely understand what you were saying through the laughter,

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<v Speaker 1>but she.

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<v Speaker 5>Said second date got a second day bottom line.

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<v Speaker 2>But I guess the rule is this time you can't

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<v Speaker 2>hook up because the intimacy could lead to extra greasiness.

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<v Speaker 1>I read that on Brooks bumper Stick.

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<v Speaker 5>It was a long one, brooking Chiffrey in the morning