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Speaker 1: What do we think about this? Because it's been viral.

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Speaker 1: I see both sides of it. But the story is

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Speaker 1: a groom his ex wife read an emotional letter to

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Speaker 1: his new wife. Okay, so this woman's ex husband got married.

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Speaker 1: She shows up to the wedding and reads a letter.

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Speaker 1: She was invited, right, I assume.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So these people got married.

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Speaker 1: I guess it was last weekend at a courthouse wedding ceremony.

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Speaker 1: And then during the reception, this guy's ex wife stood

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Speaker 1: up in front of the crowd to deliver a speech

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Speaker 1: not only congratulating the happy couple, but also honoring her

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Speaker 1: daughter's new stepmother. I won't read you the whole speech,

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Speaker 1: but basically she goes it's very sweet, and she goes

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Speaker 1: on about how essentially it's nice that he's and I'm

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Speaker 1: not doing this any justice, but it's nice that he

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Speaker 1: married somebody who cares about their kid and cares about

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Speaker 1: co parenting, and you know, sort of I guess again paraphrasing,

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Speaker 1: but like providing a health the life for everybody, and

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Speaker 1: I think that's nice. I think that would have been nice,

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Speaker 1: you know, for many of us in the room, Caitlin

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Speaker 1: and I notably, it would have been nice if you

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Speaker 1: know our parents had shared that sentiment.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know that. My trust me.

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Speaker 1: My father was not invited to that's a long story,

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Speaker 1: but you know, he was certainly not invited to my parents' wedding,

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Speaker 1: you know, my mom and my adopted dad, and if

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Speaker 1: he had been there, he would have been escorted out

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Speaker 1: by the police.

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Speaker 2: So I don't think and he and he.

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Speaker 1: Definitely didn't share the co parenting sentiment, you know about

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Speaker 1: let's all get along because we're growing ups and we

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Speaker 1: made this bad situation for our kids, so why don't

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Speaker 1: we all get along and make it easier?

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Speaker 2: New that didn't happen.

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Speaker 1: But in the comments, people, because this is a viral

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Speaker 1: video now people are saying like it's kind of awkward,

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Speaker 1: like why does she have to speak at the wedding?

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Speaker 2: You know, why don't I don't know if they asked

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Speaker 2: her to, or they would have she would have to

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Speaker 2: get permission to this.

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Speaker 1: Well, I would have imagined she maybe she asked, though,

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Speaker 1: maybe she was like, can I give a speech?

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. But it's different.

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Speaker 1: It would be different though if they asked her, if

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Speaker 1: she asked, But you gotta understand, like if they if

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Speaker 1: they say, would you like to make a speech at

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Speaker 1: our wedding, versus her saying I'd like to make.

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Speaker 2: A speech anyway.

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Speaker 1: It's a nice thing, and I understand what she's saying,

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Speaker 1: and I've seen this done before and and and you know,

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Speaker 1: it's it's personal to me, so it always makes me

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Speaker 1: sort of if I could, you know, get emotional, I would.

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Speaker 1: But at the same time, people are like that I

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Speaker 1: was awkward to watch, like he he was once married

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Speaker 1: to her and now her and like why like why

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Speaker 1: do we all need to hear this? Like why are

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Speaker 1: we all hearing this speech? Like why why don't why

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Speaker 1: don't why don't you just do it?

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Speaker 2: That's what I mean.

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Speaker 1: I'm paraphrasing some of the comments though, like I don't

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Speaker 1: know I would, It would be a little weird. I

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Speaker 1: think if I were at a wedding and that I

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Speaker 1: can honestly tell you if I ever get married twice,

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Speaker 1: and I don't think I'll get married once, but I

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Speaker 1: can honestly tell you I'm pretty damn sure that the

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Speaker 1: woman I'm married the first time will not be at

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Speaker 2: That I can agree with for you, but I.

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Speaker 3: Just you know, why do we have to make positive

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Speaker 2: Like I'm just so tired.

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Speaker 3: Like it's a beautiful thing.

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Speaker 2: They obviously knew she was going to speak.

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Speaker 3: And the fact that they have that relationship is nice,

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Speaker 3: and that's what they wanted at their own wedding. So

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Speaker 3: if it makes you uncomfortable, don't watch it or get

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Speaker 3: out of the wedding.

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Speaker 1: But it also, I don't know, it's kind of weird,

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Speaker 1: Like this is what she's one of the things she said,

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Speaker 1: I've told you this before and I'll tell you this again.

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Speaker 1: I could not have hand picked someone better to step

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Speaker 1: into this role. You're an incredible human being inside and out,

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Speaker 1: and I look forward to co parenting together. That's what

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Speaker 1: she said about the woman. But like, that's kind of

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Speaker 3: No, like if you're picking someone for your ex, you know,

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Speaker 3: if it has to be anyone and to co parent

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Speaker 3: or parent your kids, I mean, god, but you don't

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Speaker 3: get to pick you were never involved in better.

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Speaker 2: Or as what I would pick. I think that's beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, trust me, trust me, it's a nice thing, especially

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe I'm speaking from right.

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Speaker 1: No, trust me, I tend to gravitate towards this is

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Speaker 1: a sweet Yeah. But I also I understand that people

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Speaker 1: just live that truth? You know, Like I don't know,

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Speaker 1: like why are we speaking? I don't own sender takes

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I just would it would be weird.

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Speaker 1: I think if I were at a wedding and the

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Speaker 1: be weird to go to a wedding and the ex

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Speaker 1: I mean, do you have the kind of relationship with

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Speaker 1: your exit that your ex attended your next wedding? Like

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Speaker 2: I guess at my wedding. Oh yeah, yeah, we really

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Speaker 3: I'm really proud of us how we navigated a really

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Speaker 2: Like he would go to your wedding. I don't know

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Speaker 2: if you would go.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I would have to ask him, but I

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Speaker 3: think like we're getting towards a place where he would

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Speaker 3: probably be there. I mean, as long as it was

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Speaker 3: okay with my husband, would would.

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Speaker 2: You allow them to give a speech?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we had a great like yeah, of course.

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Speaker 1: I mean, but it's it's not raising a kid.

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Speaker 2: Though, so I don't need to speak, don't well.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think I'm handing even if it's healthy.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I'm handing a mic to my ex

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Speaker 2: Damn, what are you doing? Your No, And I'm not

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Speaker 2: just saying I'll be honest with you. I have some

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Speaker 2: healthy relationships. I joke.

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Speaker 1: I mean a lot of my exes don't like me

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Speaker 2: But like they're not they don't all hate me.

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Speaker 1: But I got to tell you, like, there are some

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Speaker 1: people who it just it hasn't worked out. But I'm

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Speaker 1: not going to their wedding, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like I'm not exactly happy to see them move on.

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Speaker 1: If I'm being really transparent, like there are a few

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Speaker 1: will be kind of sad because it will acknowledge it

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Speaker 1: because it will, it will, it will say to me

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Speaker 1: it really is never gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: And I already knew that.

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Speaker 1: But there's just something about and it doesn't make sense.

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Speaker 2: I trust me. I talked to my therapist about this

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Speaker 1: It's like, why do I If I had an opportunity

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Speaker 1: they move on and they have a happy life, why

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Speaker 1: does that? Why does that momentarily make me sad? Because

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Speaker 1: I knew it wasn't gonna work, it didn't work, we

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Speaker 1: So none of these things really upset me. And I'm

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Speaker 1: not a hater. I'm happy. I'm very happy when other

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Speaker 1: people are happy, So like, why does that? And I

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Speaker 1: guess it because for a split second, you think about

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Speaker 1: want what you can't have, or you I don't know,

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Speaker 1: like I think you start to second guess yourself and

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Speaker 1: say like, well maybe if i'd been if I had

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Speaker 3: For And then there's some I'm like, he's your pup, right.

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Speaker 2: Right, I see that. Just sometimes I'll be out and

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Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh yeah, good luck with that one.

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Speaker 1: But here's another question along the same lines. If you

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Speaker 1: you know you did that. But like sometimes people who

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Speaker 1: I'm ninety nine point nine percent sure that the groom.

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Speaker 2: Didn't know that I dabbled. Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: And that's what I wonder about, Like, would can you

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Speaker 1: And you say you have a small repertoire. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: will someone be at your wedding who you dabbled with?

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Speaker 2: No? Absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: And if they were and it was just a fun

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Speaker 2: No, but they would not be there.

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Speaker 5: And if he had someone there and I didn't know,

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Speaker 5: that would be a problem.

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Speaker 1: But is it a problem if aren't you kind of

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Speaker 1: none the wiser? Sometimes like, it's okay the weddings that

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Speaker 1: I have intended with the people that who am I dabbled?

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Speaker 1: Are there grooms at a disadvantage because they don't know?

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Speaker 1: Or are they just living blissfully thinking nothing of it,

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Speaker 1: because well, I don't know. That's just sell And so

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Speaker 1: I would much I think I would much rather just

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Speaker 5: So but you're sitting there eating my plate and my

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Speaker 5: reception with my steak and chicken, and you're sitting there

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Speaker 5: thinking about the last time you smashed my wife.

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Speaker 2: Well, we gonna have steak and I can choose both.

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Speaker 5: If I ever get a ring, I'm giving y'all everything

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Speaker 5: everything because it.

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Speaker 2: Will probably never happened.

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Speaker 3: I was excited.

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Speaker 5: Just think about that, though you're sitting at their wedding

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Speaker 5: is smacking on that plate thinking about I smashed her

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Speaker 5: and he doesn't know. He's just over there talking about

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Speaker 5: I do's a.

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Speaker 2: Problem about I think.

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Speaker 6: I mean, there's also going to be like a bigger

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Speaker 6: live than it, Like like if you guys are going

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Speaker 6: through the if they're going through the guest list, like

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Speaker 6: I want to invite Fred, how do you know? I like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: it's no longer invited. Nor could he bring a plus one?

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Speaker 6: Or actually he can bring it, Please bring it plus one.

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Speaker 1: But the only way that I want it if I'm

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Speaker 2: It wouldn't have done them any good.

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Speaker 1: It was like I hooked up with them in high

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Speaker 2: Hey, Jen, Hi, good morning. Oh I'm oh I like

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Speaker 2: that you want us to leave?

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Speaker 1: Jen?

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Speaker 2: Did we did we do something? Do I know you

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Speaker 4: I just love you guys. I love listening to every morning.

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Speaker 2: Well I love you too, But what uh? What's the deal?

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about someone who you were once

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Speaker 4: God, things were good. We now go to everybody's birthday parties, grandkids.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, trust me, it is such a I can't imagine

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Speaker 2: Why? Like why do I need you to side off

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Speaker 1: Of course I took something beautiful and I want to

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Speaker 1: make it more salacious, like who did you stick it to?

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Speaker 1: And then no one need to know. I have a

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Speaker 1: good day. Thanks for calling you, guys. Someone texted eight

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Speaker 1: My ex husband, ex fiance and current husband were all

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Speaker 2: Whoa, okay, but that was about her, right right? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Support it, Like even if all these people hated each other,

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Speaker 3: I mean I would have a hard time deciding who

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Speaker 2: I feel I feel like you got to do both.

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Speaker 1: They're eating the chicken in the steak and the strim

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