WEBVTT - Missing From The Party - 7.30.26

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, ne f you subject missing from the party,

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<v Speaker 1>Dear Stephen Shirley. My boyfriend and I went to a

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<v Speaker 1>house party and all of our same friends were there

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<v Speaker 1>and some new people that I met for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>James brought three females with him and he called them

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<v Speaker 1>his cousins. I made sure to get to know them,

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<v Speaker 1>and I found out they are not really related to James.

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<v Speaker 1>My boyfriend made sure he got to know them too,

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<v Speaker 1>and I couldn't believe that he was almost flirting with

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<v Speaker 1>one of them in my face. I wasn't overly concerned

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<v Speaker 1>because he pointed to me and told them I'm his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Around midnight, I was smoking hookah with my girls and

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<v Speaker 1>realized that I hadn't seen my boyfriend in a while,

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<v Speaker 1>so I sent him a text. He didn't answer. I

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<v Speaker 1>went inside and I didn't see him. The house was

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<v Speaker 1>packed and it was hard to move around. I went

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<v Speaker 1>to both bathrooms and he wasn't there. I even looked

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<v Speaker 1>in the garage and he wasn't out there. I texted

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<v Speaker 1>him a few more times and he didn't answer. A

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<v Speaker 1>light bulb went off in my head and I started

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<v Speaker 1>looking for the girls that came with James.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't see them anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Then my boyfriend ran up to me and asked if

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<v Speaker 1>everything was okay because I had texted him back to back.

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<v Speaker 1>He told me that I needed to focus on enjoying

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<v Speaker 1>myself instead of worrying about where he was. He said

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<v Speaker 1>he was in the front yard with James smoking weed,

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<v Speaker 1>and yes, Jamee's female quote unquote cousins were there too,

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<v Speaker 1>of wanting one of the girls, and he said, I

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<v Speaker 1>sound crazy. If I'm crazy, then why didn't he come

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<v Speaker 1>out and say I got it all wrong? He refuses

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about that night, so he looks guilty. If

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<v Speaker 1>it's nothing, then why can't he discuss it. If it's nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>then why can't he discuss it? Because you already know

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<v Speaker 1>you don't just leave your girl at the party and

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<v Speaker 1>go about your business without telling her. He could have

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<v Speaker 1>told you where they were, answered your phone, or how

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<v Speaker 1>about just coming to check on you. You both at

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<v Speaker 1>the same party. If he leaves you alone, come and

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<v Speaker 1>at least check on her. That was bad, really bad

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend behavior. And then he told you that you sounded crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't sound crazy, You sound perfectly fine. Don't let

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<v Speaker 1>him do that to you. He's the one who's got

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<v Speaker 1>a whole lot of explaining to do, but now he

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<v Speaker 1>won't talk to you about it. That's not helping his

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<v Speaker 1>situation at all. I mean, what is the harmon telling

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<v Speaker 1>you where he was if he wasn't doing something crazy? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Why the silent treatment? You guys have to talk at

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<v Speaker 1>some point, and you need to decide if he or

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<v Speaker 1>this relationship, this is a really thing, is worth taking

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<v Speaker 1>this type of treatment for him, for him going off

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<v Speaker 1>leaving you. And here's my last question. Who is James?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay? Who is James? Tommy, find that out? Who is Jane?

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<v Speaker 3>I want to party with Jane. That's all I want

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<v Speaker 3>to do. I want to hang out with Jane. James

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<v Speaker 3>got it going on? They got who could, They got

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<v Speaker 3>some weed, they got some drinks. They party and his

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<v Speaker 3>party is packed. That's my thing is can I kick

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<v Speaker 3>it with me some James? Because James, how Jane got

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<v Speaker 3>play cousins? Ain't nothing like a play cousin. Jane got

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<v Speaker 3>play cousin. He hanging out and you feel a little.

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<v Speaker 4>Left out.

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<v Speaker 2>You feel left out?

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<v Speaker 3>Well you know what, but you they left you out

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<v Speaker 3>because you really you kind of like a little party pooper.

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<v Speaker 3>You really are right. You're running all over the house

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<v Speaker 3>looking for James, looking for when I James? You running

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<v Speaker 3>all over out looking for your boyfriend. And he in

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<v Speaker 3>the front He in the front yard with James and

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<v Speaker 3>the girl and everybody hanging out and everybody having a

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<v Speaker 3>good time.

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<v Speaker 2>Then nobody want to be around you. You over here?

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<v Speaker 3>You you counting bathrooms? They got two bathrooms that you're

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<v Speaker 3>doing stuff like that. You should have been kicking it

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<v Speaker 3>and having a good time. Now you won't let your

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<v Speaker 3>man kick it and hang out with James like he

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<v Speaker 3>want to. He really should have left you at home,

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<v Speaker 3>that's what he should have done. But you fuit in

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<v Speaker 3>disrespective because you're calling in, you're texting him. He ain't

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<v Speaker 3>picking up he ain't responding.

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<v Speaker 2>What, dude, you won? What is it? We had a party?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you want?

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<v Speaker 5>What?

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<v Speaker 2>What? What is it? Once? Once you get to your man,

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<v Speaker 2>what is it that you need? What is it?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 2>What you need to say? Baby? What you're doing? I'm

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<v Speaker 2>partying with James. Everybody hangs with James. This is James. Baby.

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<v Speaker 3>He the ones with the play cousins, and they are beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>I told them who you was when we first got here.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I tell you that. Then I tell this my

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<v Speaker 3>girlfriend right here, it's kishi. Okayam fine, they know you

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<v Speaker 3>my girlfriend. Now go go go goo goo go go.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I'm finna hang with James. I want to just

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<v Speaker 3>you know, sometimes when you get to a party, you

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<v Speaker 3>your your your your, your partner can just kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like now we're just sitting up against wild holding each

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<v Speaker 3>other hand.

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<v Speaker 2>What we doing? We ain't doing that?

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<v Speaker 3>That's it gets it gets it gets boring just sitting

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<v Speaker 3>there holding your head.

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<v Speaker 2>You need anything? You want to send a drinks, you

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<v Speaker 2>want to want me get you a plate?

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<v Speaker 3>Take care of her. Okay, let me get you a plate.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me get you something to drink. And now mix

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<v Speaker 3>and mingle and have a good time. It's a party.

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<v Speaker 3>It's packed. Okay, look at me, Well, look at me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna tell you that right now. I'm finna go

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<v Speaker 3>hang out with James. Okay, that's what I'm about to do.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm finna hang out with James. If you text me

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't pick up, I'm with James. If I

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<v Speaker 3>don't fun, I'm with James. I'll find you in a

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<v Speaker 3>couple hours. Have a good time, all right, I'm with James.

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<v Speaker 2>Jesus, ain't nobody to do nothing?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh James.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know who James is, but I want to

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<v Speaker 3>party with James.

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<v Speaker 2>James the man.

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<v Speaker 4>Play cousins?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and James got play cubs? Do you not much

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<v Speaker 3>fun you have with play cubs? And see I ain't

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<v Speaker 3>never done this before. Ain't nothing like a play cubs?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Not when we were young?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Kids, Yes, you are a party pooper. I would have

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<v Speaker 3>dropped you off at home and came back and did

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<v Speaker 3>what kicked.

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<v Speaker 2>It with James.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, hang on, hang on, we'll have part two of

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<v Speaker 1>our responses today Strawberry letters. Subject is missing from the party.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get into it right after this.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet he partied like Nick James Hoople.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, guys, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject

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<v Speaker 1>is missing from the Party. A young woman wrote in.

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<v Speaker 1>She said her boyfriend, she and her boyfriend went to

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<v Speaker 1>a house party and all of their same friends were there.

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<v Speaker 1>They met some new people too for the first time,

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<v Speaker 1>and out of nowhere, she just brings up the name James.

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<v Speaker 1>James brought three females with him and he called them

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<v Speaker 1>his cousin. She made sure to get to know them,

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<v Speaker 1>and she found out they were not really related to James.

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<v Speaker 1>She said her boyfriend made sure he got to know

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<v Speaker 1>the three so called cousins too, and he told them.

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<v Speaker 1>He told the three cousins that she was his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>But then he kind of you know, went off with

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<v Speaker 1>James and left her to himself and left her to herself,

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<v Speaker 1>and she went all over the house looking for James.

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<v Speaker 1>She texted James, she texted her boyfriend. No boyfriend, no nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>no play cousins, nothing. She went to the two bathrooms

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<v Speaker 1>to look for him. She couldn't find them. Finally, her

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend comes running to her, what's the wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you okay? Are you okay? And she just said,

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't.

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<v Speaker 1>Seen you, And she said, I've been out there kicking

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<v Speaker 1>it with James. Evidently James is the man around here

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<v Speaker 1>these parts. So they've been out there smoking weed and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>with James's cousins. So she wants to know what is

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<v Speaker 1>going on and if nothing's going on, because her boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>refuses to talk to her about what he and James

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<v Speaker 1>and the cousins were doing. So why can't he discuss

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<v Speaker 1>it if nothing was going on? So we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to a real play cousin. Uh yeah, right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is Junior. Junior, what you got?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>This gives these people some names. So we know James,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, James, three cousins. Okay, let's just call her Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 6>This seems like a Stephanie to me, and it's called Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 6>Boyfriend Tie Tirr just tying Tyrone, you know, short tie

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<v Speaker 6>and so tying James out in the front yard. Now

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<v Speaker 6>here's the problem we got right now, Stephanie, this is

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<v Speaker 6>your last house party because you don't know house party rules.

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<v Speaker 6>You don't know how to Stephanie is your last one?

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<v Speaker 6>You don't even know how to do house parties. Well,

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<v Speaker 6>it's a lot of things happening. First of all, you

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<v Speaker 6>over there smoking hookah.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't even know the hookah rules. When the hookah

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<v Speaker 2>is burning.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't get up.

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<v Speaker 6>You keep your filthy in your hand and wait for

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<v Speaker 6>it to come back to you. You're supposed to sit there.

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<v Speaker 6>Why did you up in these people house? Opening doors?

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<v Speaker 6>You don't even know who live here. You open the door.

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<v Speaker 4>It's on office.

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<v Speaker 2>TI over the bathroom though, TI.

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<v Speaker 1>Going in the garage, Sit down and smoke the hookah.

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<v Speaker 4>She's too much. You doing way too much.

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<v Speaker 6>You the step there, the person we talked about the

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<v Speaker 6>party to say, when you get up and start moving,

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<v Speaker 6>you making it hot in here.

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<v Speaker 2>It's huh, you making it hot?

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<v Speaker 4>Sit down.

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<v Speaker 6>Won't need you going around. We don't care what tie

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<v Speaker 6>at now you come to find out. You then met

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<v Speaker 6>the girls and then you see your your man missing,

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<v Speaker 6>so tying James out there they smoking. We you don't

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<v Speaker 6>even know the rules for we's smoking. He can't answer

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<v Speaker 6>for he go miss this turn the rotation.

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<v Speaker 2>He ain't got tired of he answering faults. You ain't

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be doing this.

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<v Speaker 6>But he out there and you ain't even understand the

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<v Speaker 6>conversations they have it in that serpent.

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<v Speaker 2>In the front yard.

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<v Speaker 6>You know how much conversation happening in the front yard.

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<v Speaker 6>It ain't just them out there, it's a group of

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<v Speaker 6>people that standing in the front yard. This place is packed.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, so they have to smoke weed somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>Then we're right here, We're right here. Back up, back up.

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<v Speaker 6>It's that people passed.

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<v Speaker 2>Up the party.

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<v Speaker 4>But she's in the party by herself.

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<v Speaker 2>She ain't by herself.

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<v Speaker 4>She's smoking hookah.

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<v Speaker 2>Cooka is not an individual smoking sport.

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<v Speaker 4>You have to have a group of five five people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's not. She ain't nothing by herself.

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<v Speaker 6>It's a it's a weed is not an individual smoking sport.

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<v Speaker 6>It's seven of them in a circle. It's the three girls,

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<v Speaker 6>this time dame by three other people.

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<v Speaker 4>They ain't even met.

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<v Speaker 6>They all in the circle talking. Then you got peoples

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<v Speaker 6>leaning on cars. You want to open the car doors?

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<v Speaker 6>Tie he not nobody call he not even asking time.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't.

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<v Speaker 6>You cannot go back to nobody's house party because you

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<v Speaker 6>don't even understand the rules.

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<v Speaker 4>You just all in the kitchen.

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<v Speaker 6>It's anybody saying time.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't nobody even know time?

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<v Speaker 4>Allay has to potato saying have you seen time? Who's time?

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<v Speaker 5>You're in the way.

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<v Speaker 6>You didn't even know the rules to even house parties.

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<v Speaker 6>Tommy had some of the greatest house parties. I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 6>I used to love timing up you Tommy's Christmas party.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you something I been. I never went

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<v Speaker 2>in the house.

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<v Speaker 6>All the people that were looking for us, everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Wife and the husband, they were looking for it. We

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<v Speaker 2>was in the garage.

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<v Speaker 6>We stayed in the garage.

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<v Speaker 4>What was in the garage?

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<v Speaker 6>Everything? We were talking so much trash.

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<v Speaker 4>We was in the.

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<v Speaker 6>Everything and the story. We would tell hey, Ben, hold on,

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<v Speaker 6>let me tell you this. We ain't nobody to answer

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<v Speaker 6>no phone. We didn't even get out that much. This

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<v Speaker 6>is about the first time we stay out till three o'clock.

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<v Speaker 4>This is it, Tommy hard They don't get.

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<v Speaker 6>To stay out late with you because you want to

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<v Speaker 6>go out because you don't know rules. Now you holding

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<v Speaker 6>you holding the hookah too long?

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<v Speaker 4>Time about have you seen time?

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<v Speaker 5>No? Ho?

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<v Speaker 4>What get you concerned?

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<v Speaker 5>Now?

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<v Speaker 6>You want to know why he don't talk about It

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<v Speaker 6>ain't nothing to talk about, you know he was, I say,

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<v Speaker 6>with James smoking weed, that's it.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, why didn't he just go and check on what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>He knew shows in there. Maybe you would have been

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<v Speaker 4>rotation all night, James.

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<v Speaker 6>So when you finally found time, he had nothing to say.

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<v Speaker 2>M Hey, looked, did you like he didn't even know you? Wow?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, all right, they're rules to these house parties.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, right back to a level.

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