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Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. Hi you guys,

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Speaker 1: So we just had a big holiday. It was Father's Day, yay.

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Speaker 2: But you know, I have a question about that. So

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Speaker 2: Daddy's everywhere.

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Speaker 1: We love you so much. But I gotta say I

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Speaker 1: kind of feel like, as a single mom of five

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Speaker 1: now in my household, I'm kind of the daddy now too,

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Speaker 1: So I feel like I should have been celebrated for

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Speaker 1: the father the daddy I am, but I wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: put that on my kids. They were quite happy celebrating

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Speaker 1: their father. But Father's Day is such a great day.

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Speaker 1: And and I know, like my little guy Bo who's eight,

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Speaker 1: is always like what's the next holiday? He literally he's

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Speaker 1: a time guy, totally not my son in that respect,

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Speaker 1: and he's like a planner, not my kid in that respect.

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Speaker 2: But creatively he's all me.

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Speaker 1: But he will always be like, you know, mom, I

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Speaker 1: need to know, like what is the next holiday coming

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Speaker 1: up in the year. And you know there's the massive holidays.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's Christmas and there's well, gosh, well, we

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Speaker 1: celebrate all holidays basically, so you know, in winter, we

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Speaker 1: celebrate Christmas, but we also celebrate Hanukkah because my side

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Speaker 1: of the family were Jewish, but growing up even we

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Speaker 1: always celebrated both holidays during you know, wintertime because my

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Speaker 1: parents believed it wasn't from a religious standpoint, it was

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Speaker 1: from a family celebrating getting together and being together and

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Speaker 1: learning about different holidays together.

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Speaker 2: I loved that, so I really took that to.

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Speaker 1: Heart when I was raising my kids. So we celebrate Easter,

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Speaker 1: we celebrate Passover, we sell you know, everything. So Bo

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Speaker 1: was very much like, he was like, so there's Mother's Day.

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Speaker 1: So in our house, here's the holiday timeline. It was

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Speaker 1: Mother's Day, then it was my birthday, then it was

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Speaker 1: Stella's birthday. And then he was like, what's the next holiday.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I should call it something else.

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Speaker 1: It's not like a holiday. Well, it can be a

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Speaker 1: holiday a to us birth our birthdays. But I was like,

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Speaker 1: it's Father's Day. So anyway we as a family celebrate

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Speaker 1: it with Dean because I don't know, it's Father's Day,

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Speaker 1: it's your day. But he and I in that respect.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's different for moms, like you know, on

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Speaker 1: Mother's Day, some moms are like, you know, I want

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Speaker 1: my partner to take the kids. I want the day off,

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Speaker 1: I want to go get a massage. I'm not that mom.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is all about them, which is so

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Speaker 1: very tory, like it's all about everyone else, not about me,

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Speaker 1: But it's the truth in my brain. So for Mother's Day,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's kind of like whatever the kids want

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Speaker 1: to do. And it was really cute, like the kids

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Speaker 1: wanted to grill. I'm a great cook. I'm a great

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Speaker 1: like I'm a d iy home chef. I call myself

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Speaker 1: great baker, not a grill master. And that was one

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Speaker 1: of the things that Dean is really great at grilling.

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Speaker 2: So when we did separate households.

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Speaker 1: And that was the one thing that kids would be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you know, we're used to, you know, grilling burgers and

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Speaker 1: grilling steaks and the grill and you know, hot dogs

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Speaker 1: I was just like, ooh, now I have to be gosh,

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Speaker 1: single mom. Now I'm becoming a daddy in my household,

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Speaker 1: and now I have to become a grill master. The

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Speaker 1: grill used to be the bane of my existence. But

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Speaker 1: knows that, like I was like, I can make anything,

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Speaker 1: but I had like an.

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Speaker 2: Aversion to the grill. I was always like.

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Speaker 1: Oh, no, no, no, I don't know anything about grilling.

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Speaker 1: Dean does that, Dad does that. But you know in

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Speaker 1: I've officially learned a grill. I am pretty good at it.

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Speaker 2: I learned really quickly, thank you too.

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Speaker 1: Of course, you know, I had to get like the

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Speaker 1: apron just because I'm not girl. Thank you Etsy. It

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Speaker 1: says grill me daddy instead of calling me daddy. Grilled

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Speaker 1: me daddy, and I wore that. It was really cute.

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Speaker 1: It also made me reflect on my dad because I

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Speaker 2: Which I feel like is a whole different meeting nowadays. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: growing up, I was like, my dad's my hero. I'm

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Speaker 1: And now you have to be careful when you say

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Speaker 1: something completely different if you know, you know. And it

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Speaker 1: was interesting because my son, who was in first grade,

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Speaker 1: the class and we're helping both make cupcakes and a

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I was a daddy's girl growing up. Like

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Speaker 1: it's so funny that now, like everybody like, oh, your daddy,

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Speaker 2: You know. It's just like it's a whole different.

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Speaker 1: Sexual connotation now, but interesting, But growing up, I was

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Speaker 2: My dad was my hero, still is my hero. And

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Speaker 2: I just remember.

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Speaker 1: Always Father's Day like we and he was like that too.

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Speaker 1: My mom and dad were the same, like on Mother's Day.

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Speaker 1: On Father's Day, they didn't say like, oh, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: go do my own thing and it's my day. They

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Speaker 1: who was such a workaholic, worked such crazy hours during

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Speaker 1: the week and on the weekends, he would always be like,

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Speaker 2: Want, I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm so him.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, yeah, so growing up and it's no longer there,

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Speaker 1: but it was like his I've talked about it before

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Speaker 1: on the podcast. A historical like restaurant landmark of like

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Speaker 1: Hollywood Royalty called Chasin's and it was like I don't

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Speaker 1: even know when it started, like in the twenties or something.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It was there forever.

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Speaker 1: And when they shut it down it's now a Bristol Farms.

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Speaker 1: There was like mega. People were like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: freaking out. But that was like our jam. Like I

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Speaker 1: And if I could go back in time and be

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Speaker 1: And Chasin's Chili. It was like a fancy, fancy restaurant

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Speaker 1: they had something called a Steak Diane and you can

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Speaker 2: Like altered it just a little bit for what he liked, so.

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Speaker 1: It was called a steak aaron, so it would I

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Speaker 1: would liken it too. How In and Out has a

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Speaker 1: my dad like coined that shit, like in the seventies,

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Speaker 1: of course he would tell all his stars like, oh,

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Speaker 2: So it became super famous.

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Speaker 1: I have to find the recipe. It's somewhere online, I bet.

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Speaker 1: a big thing. But I was a kid, so I

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Speaker 1: need steak aaron. But the chili. They were known for

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Speaker 1: their chili, which is so funny because you would have

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Speaker 2: In like black almost black tie service.

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Speaker 1: And they were serving like a comfort food chuli.

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Speaker 2: But it was the best chili over God. Anyway.

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Speaker 1: Father's Day for sure every year.

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Speaker 2: But we would also play this game because.

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Speaker 1: My dad and I very like creative, like visionaries, like

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Speaker 2: No. I've always been a foodie.

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Speaker 1: So my favorite thing to do, and we would do

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Speaker 1: going to play Chasins and my dad would pretend to

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Speaker 1: And I'd be like can I get you this? And

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, sir, I know you regular customer.

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Speaker 1: You want the off the menu steak erin And He's like,

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Speaker 1: why yes, please, And I'd be like great, to start with,

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Speaker 1: was just such a funny thing for like a five

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Speaker 1: and play Chasins for days. I'd have friends over and

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Speaker 1: So I would run to his briefcase and grab one

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Speaker 1: like already made scripts like that were like TV series, movies,

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Speaker 1: He always listened to me. That's what's crazy. Like I

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Speaker 2: Well, we had a movie theater at our house. Don't

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Speaker 1: But even when I went out to the movies, I

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Speaker 1: And like I'm saying, you know, mom's out there, you

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Speaker 1: in heaven but also somewhere deep down in my soul,

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Speaker 1: and a text chain with my best friend Jess, because.

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Speaker 2: If you ever saw our text.

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Speaker 1: Chain me and Jess, it makes you smile. Anyway, I

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Speaker 1: was very much like I should be celebrated today, and

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Speaker 1: like I can only tell her this except by telling

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Speaker 1: you guys this, but the days past, so it's okay,

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Speaker 1: and I tell you guys everything. But yeah, so you

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Speaker 1: know I was making jokes but I'll call me daddy.

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Speaker 1: You know all that, la la la la.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, it was my day too.

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Speaker 1: Pat on the back did well, grilled and yeah, Donna

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Speaker 1: Martin daddy ates take that one.