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Speaker 1: Happy Halloween.

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Speaker 2: The French show is on blogs in just a second,

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Speaker 2: our audio journals. Yeah, I got a recap Boys Weekend,

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Speaker 2: which I don't know how much of a recap there is,

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Speaker 2: but yeah, it was indeed a lot of a lot

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Speaker 2: of testosterone, a lot of dudes, just just a lot

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Speaker 2: of and no women. And I know you probably would

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Speaker 2: have loved that movie Chase Him, but I've seen that. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I've never done this before.

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Speaker 3: It's your first time, straight guy. My wife won't do that.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, or that before.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a two personal story I'm working through. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm married with kids. I'm straight. I totally don't.

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Speaker 2: But that's a pretty common story on Grinder, isn't it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: married with kids, Like I don't normally do this. Eight

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Speaker 2: three five?

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Speaker 1: Is it? Hit us up?

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Speaker 2: We could text the same number. Would you buy in

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Speaker 2: honor of Halloween? Would you buy a house that was

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Speaker 2: known or believed to be haunted? Meaning a murder took

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Speaker 2: place there, some form of crime. I don't know, the

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Speaker 2: spirits float around or something. If you knew that, for sure,

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Speaker 2: would you buy the house? I say for sure, because

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Speaker 2: obviously there are people who don't believe in this stuff.

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Speaker 2: But I don't think that if I loved a house

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Speaker 2: and found out somebody had been murdered there, I don't

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Speaker 2: think I could buy it, And I think it would

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Speaker 2: just be too It would throw me off, like bad energy.

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Speaker 1: Obviously.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I wouldn't live in it, but I think I

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Speaker 4: would like like cel tickets and give an experience or

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Speaker 4: something like you didn't sleep here for.

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Speaker 2: An hour, like the people who go to uh Rastace's house,

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Speaker 2: Rastachi's house in Miami or wherever that is, South Beach

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Speaker 2: and then there's a restaurant in there and they just

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Speaker 2: eat a restaurant.

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Speaker 3: The dude was killed on the steps, I knows weirder.

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Speaker 5: To take a photo on the steps and smile like

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Speaker 5: that creeps me out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 1: I felt so icky doing that.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to see it because, yeah, like iconic, but

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Speaker 4: a lot of people want to have my steak in

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Speaker 4: my scallops.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, this is weird, like his pool Piers murdered.

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Speaker 1: Scalum. Yeah, it's pretty boogie.

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Speaker 2: Sixty seven percent of people, according to Zillo, would purchase

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Speaker 2: a supposedly spooky residency if the home otherwise checked all

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Speaker 2: the boxes, like having a swimming pool or a big

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Speaker 2: backyard or perfect location, or was more affordable? So well,

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Speaker 2: but would you pay the same price would it have

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Speaker 2: to be discounted?

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Speaker 1: Do you care?

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Speaker 2: Like if this is your dream home but somebody got

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Speaker 2: stabbed in there, and it's the same price as it

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Speaker 2: would always be, it's.

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Speaker 1: Got to be a good deal. But you would live

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Speaker 1: in it? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I would live in it and have a what is

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Speaker 3: that thing, Caitlin that.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't tell Jason we need to do a seance? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I would want to do a say

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Speaker 2: I want to rid this? Yeah, bring them exactly. Hey,

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Speaker 2: you can like wherever you wherever you are now is

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Speaker 2: good for me.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Alyssa, Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 2: So would you buy a house that was thought to

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Speaker 2: be haunted because something took place there that was, you know, awful?

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Speaker 1: Would you live there? I would?

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Speaker 7: My whole thought process was I feel like that would

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Speaker 7: make a lot of buyers turn off, so I could

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Speaker 7: probably get the house for cheaper.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess, but it doesn't bother you like that.

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Speaker 2: You don't think anything floats around or I don't believe.

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Speaker 3: I don't believe in any of that.

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Speaker 8: I think that's all, Like, you make your own reality.

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Speaker 7: I think you manifested, so I don't believe in it,

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Speaker 7: so it would not bother it.

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Speaker 1: Poppycock. You say it's poppycock.

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Speaker 4: It's poppycock.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right, Well, I mean so she needs

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Speaker 2: a deal. Alyssa wants a deal, but she'll buy it.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: I will buy it. You guys have a good day too.

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Speaker 2: Have any of you lived in a house like this, Like,

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Speaker 2: because obviously when you're younger you don't have a choice,

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Speaker 2: you'd live where your parent you did.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, our house is haunted. It was built in the

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Speaker 5: nineteen twenties. And yes it is extremely haunted. And my

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Speaker 5: friends didn't sleep over, Like.

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Speaker 1: Cool, what kind of stuff you would you witness? It's

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Speaker 1: not cool?

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Speaker 5: Someone like stomping up the stairs, like when no one

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Speaker 5: else was home.

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Speaker 1: My stepdad claims that he saw the ghost.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: He said he's talked to them before. Like it's scary.

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Speaker 2: You think he said that to you, just a mess

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Speaker 2: with you though, No, he was so freaked out. Really yeah,

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Speaker 2: a lot of people texting it. Yes, I would live

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Speaker 2: in a haunted house. My grandparents lived in a former

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Speaker 2: nursing home. It was definitely haunted. You'd see shadow figures

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Speaker 2: in your footsteps. Oh yeah, it was a beautiful house.

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Speaker 1: Though.

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Speaker 2: You couldn't pay me enough to live in a haunted house.

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Speaker 2: Somebody texted, Yes, I would buy a house to haunt

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Speaker 2: it because I can make friends with the ghost or

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Speaker 2: the ghost of the criminal. Huh. I'm a trainer at

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Speaker 2: a gym. A medium came because we remodeled the basement

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Speaker 2: for spin class. We found unclaimed urns. The gym used

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Speaker 2: to be a mortuary. There are definitely spirits in.

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Speaker 1: There for sure. No, yeah, no, I'm all set. I know.

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Speaker 2: I just think, like, like, there's there's one house. What

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Speaker 2: was that documentary that we all want I think a

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Speaker 2: bunch of us watched about the woman who would I

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Speaker 2: want to say it was maybe like a New Orleans

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Speaker 2: or somewhere, and she would take in the retired homeless

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Speaker 2: people and then kill them, ye so, and then bury

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Speaker 2: them in the backyard. There's a whole documentary about this.

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Speaker 2: The problem is, well that she killed people, but the

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Speaker 2: other problem is that it's a historic property, so it

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Speaker 2: can't be torn down. So there are a family that

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Speaker 2: lives in that house. She would kill the people in

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Speaker 2: the house and I guess cover it with like a rug.

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Speaker 2: I mean there's stains in the wood and stuff. And

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Speaker 2: then she would bury everybody out and back and they

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Speaker 2: would just disappear. But because and then she would just

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Speaker 2: keep taking their retirement money or that will medicate or

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Speaker 2: medica whatever it is, the government funding. She would just

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Speaker 2: take it and they'd be dead out in the backyard.

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Speaker 2: Nobody would know because they were you know, they were homeless.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't know, that's a no for me.

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Speaker 2: Dog Sorry, Yeah, they talk better than they excited. These

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Speaker 2: are the radio blogs on the French shifts ever running

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Speaker 2: in our diaries, except we saying him a loud We

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Speaker 2: called him blogs Jason.

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Speaker 3: Yes you got one, I do.

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Speaker 1: I go.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, dear blog.

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Speaker 9: So I need your help on how to break some

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Speaker 9: news to mechanic mic because uh, your boy made a boobooo.

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Speaker 9: A couple of weeks ago, I hit the garage pillar,

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Speaker 9: like the pillar in the garage with the front of

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Speaker 9: my car. I've been parking in this same garage for

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Speaker 9: I don't even know how long twelve.

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Speaker 1: Years at this point, did twelve years ago?

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Speaker 3: Literally here?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you hit.

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Speaker 9: The pillar heyes, no, no, no, So I hit the

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Speaker 9: blue pillar down in so there's blue and white paint

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Speaker 9: on my car. But right when I did it, it

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Speaker 9: was like a Saturday morning. I don't even know why

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Speaker 9: I was here, but I was like, okay, I'm just

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Speaker 9: gonna like fest up to it, and it took a picture.

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Speaker 3: I sent it to him. I'm like, I'm an idiot.

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Speaker 9: I did this like whatever, and he was nice, and

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Speaker 9: the next time he had to do something, he'd do

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Speaker 9: an all change or whatever.

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Speaker 3: He took it in and he like buffed it out.

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Speaker 9: So we got it to like where it's okay now right,

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Speaker 9: But I got the lecture of you don't take care

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Speaker 9: of anything like this and is meticulous about his cars,

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Speaker 9: And I'm very much like, as long as it gets

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Speaker 9: me from place to place, I don't really care what

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Speaker 9: it looks like, right, so.

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Speaker 3: Yester or what Friday Friday?

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Speaker 9: I backed into the like low ceiling part of the garage,

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Speaker 9: so the whole stack roof the curve of my car

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Speaker 9: is all scraped up. And somehow I got through the

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Speaker 9: weekend without him noticing. But I'm like, at some point

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Speaker 9: where normally I could be like, oh, someone hit me, right, like,

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Speaker 9: no one hit me on the top of my car.

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Speaker 1: You went to a monster truck railing the top of

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Speaker 1: your car, just raised it.

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Speaker 9: So now the whole top is like scraped up and

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Speaker 9: the light is cracked and I'm like, crap, like and

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Speaker 9: he's not up yet.

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Speaker 1: So that's good. But like what am I What do

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Speaker 1: I say? I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 8: I don't think you like, get on Amazon route get

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Speaker 8: a light replacement and then and I should do that

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Speaker 8: everything I don't want to do that does I could

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Speaker 8: do it?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Oh you get back here doing an autobody in the car.

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Speaker 2: I don't want them to be homeless. You know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. I don't want to be living.

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Speaker 10: In the car.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's his car. He's gonna take that car wrong.

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Speaker 3: I know he's in this car.

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Speaker 1: You destroyed it.

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Speaker 2: You should give it him a crappy car back, not

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Speaker 2: a nice one. Yeah, the joke's on you.

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Speaker 1: More Thread Show. Next, the Fred Show is on. It's

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Speaker 1: Stay or Go. Vanessa is here. Good morning, Vanessa. How

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Speaker 1: are you hey?

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Speaker 7: How's it going?

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Speaker 2: I'm okay, okay, you're okay? So it's their go hit

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Speaker 2: us up. French radio dot Com frience or radio on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: You could deal then d m us there and hit

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Speaker 2: us up whatever follow Do we ever get to our

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Speaker 2: forty four that we wanted, Paulina.

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Speaker 4: We did for babies?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in the city of nine million people?

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Speaker 5: Yay?

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Speaker 1: Anyway, the baby fred Base. Okay, that's with you.

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Speaker 11: We got this.

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Speaker 2: If anything, it's my fault. So Vanessa, have been back

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Speaker 2: to you though, once, two three, back to you. What's

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Speaker 2: going on? Is this with your boyfriend?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? This is with my boyfriend that I'm currently dating

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Speaker 7: right now. We've started dating like seven months ago.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Tom? All good? First and basis, so

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Speaker 1: what is Tom? What did he do? What did that?

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Speaker 1: What did that bastard do? He must have done something,

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Speaker 1: that's right.

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Speaker 7: I'm feeling just like really in a pickle about this.

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Speaker 7: So I'm done for a while basically, like I thinks

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Speaker 7: are just going really really good with him. But the

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Speaker 7: other day my sister like shat me down and she

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Speaker 2: So she sits you down and was heads up, I

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Speaker 2: So like there was no need to have that conversation

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Speaker 7: Because I mean, like I've dated is like I'll date

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Speaker 8: Yeah, but that's the craziest secret that came from your

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Speaker 2: Time, that didn't significant, It doesn't matter they didn't even

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Speaker 8: Well, her sister's is just letting her know that, Like, hey,

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Speaker 8: I know you're serious with this guy. Now, I'm just

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Speaker 3: Why does that have to be serious? Like I would

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Speaker 4: Sister tell me even if we went on wonder and

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Speaker 1: Was like, oh, like.

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Speaker 2: Okay, But and I'm playing because I'm a I'm not

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Speaker 2: a I guess I'm a jealous person. I'm not a

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Speaker 2: and sadly, at my age, they've all been with someone else,

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Speaker 2: and so have I. By the way, So my point

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Speaker 2: But in this case, so I'm a hypocrite because I

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Speaker 2: my advice is this isn't that big of a deal.

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Speaker 2: But if Vanessa knew on day one then her sister

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Speaker 2: it and it all could have been prevented because of

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Speaker 2: something that happened one night ten years ago.

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Speaker 1: Why I don't know.

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Speaker 4: That's on her to decide if she wants to keep

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Speaker 4: told me from the get go. I don't like being

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Speaker 4: that's my first thought, you know? And I guess she

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Speaker 4: was trying to protect her. Maybe it wasn't like to

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Speaker 3: I don't think you were serious. That's no excuse though.

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Speaker 1: Eight one three five is he called the friend show?

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Speaker 1: Call Texas same number.

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Speaker 2: I've vaness I'm gonna take some phone calls on this

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Speaker 2: and have your radio on and let's see what happens.

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Speaker 1: But good luck.

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Speaker 2: What does your gut tell you to do? Stay with

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Speaker 7: I'm so like, I'm waiting here. I'm like what you

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Speaker 7: guys have to say? Like you guys just hearing you

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Speaker 7: with a lot of insight on it. But I'm still

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Speaker 7: What if they hook up again? Like I don't want

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Speaker 7: to on what if it happened again.

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Speaker 2: Putting that out there hooking up? They're not hooking up.

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Speaker 2: If they were hooking up, then the conversation never would

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Speaker 2: have taken place. Her sister never would have said it

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Speaker 2: in and told about right.

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Speaker 8: No, no, now you're just feeding net, don't My thing

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Speaker 8: is like the two of them, they obviously know they

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Speaker 8: hooked up with each other, but like while you guys

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Speaker 10: Like should we tell her? Should we not tell her?

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like there's secrets from.

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Speaker 3: You, some sneaky bits. I would definitely leave him and her.

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Speaker 2: Leave him and her sister. Yes, thank you, Vanessa, good luck,

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Speaker 2: have a good day.

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Speaker 3: Nobody can be trusted.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we are breaking up families over there. Look, it's

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Speaker 2: one thing to kick the boyfriend out, fine, even though

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Speaker 2: that's your most significant relationship, she says, But now we're

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Speaker 2: writing a sister.

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Speaker 12: Off seven months. Seven months, I think we're at a

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Speaker 12: sister A couple of holidays that we've spent together and

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Speaker 12: you as my sister sitting across from me at the

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Speaker 12: in the turkey, and you never thought.

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Speaker 1: To tell me the mashed potatoes in the You never

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Speaker 1: thought to.

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Speaker 3: Tell me that you saw what that looked like. You

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Speaker 3: did not thought that I needed to know that.

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Speaker 2: But what good is it? What is how is that

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Speaker 2: information useful?

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Speaker 3: Because I need to find another man.

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Speaker 1: We share a lot of them.

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Speaker 3: That's my sister. We don't need to share the same man.

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Speaker 12: It's a lot of other dudes out here that I

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Speaker 12: could be with, and you wait seven months to tell

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Speaker 12: me it's some shenanigans going on.

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Speaker 8: Yes, I don't know, been on the boyfriend's and like

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Speaker 8: he's like, you go to one, Oh that's your sister.

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Speaker 8: I hooked up with her ten years ago. Come on,

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Speaker 8: you know you gotta that you can't keep that a secret.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I realized it's not sister brother's stuff. But

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Speaker 8: I've been to weddings of people that I slept with,

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Speaker 8: and I'm certain that their husbands never knew. And there

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Speaker 8: are people at the wedding that knew. See, but why

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Speaker 8: have that conversation, Like why say to your soon to

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Speaker 8: be husband. Hey, I'm going to invite Fred. He's a

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Speaker 2: By the way, in high school we slept together, or

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Speaker 2: in college we slept together.

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Speaker 1: What's the point of that.

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Speaker 2: Why Now, I'm an idiot that would ask the question,

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Speaker 2: I'm a gdiot that's gonna look at the guest list

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Speaker 2: and go, who did you bang on this list?

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Speaker 1: So that I know because I'm an idiot.

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Speaker 3: No, because because because you need to know.

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Speaker 2: Because I have problems, rufio, Like I asked questions I

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Speaker 3: I need to know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I think like in this case, though, like with family,

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Speaker 5: you do need to know. I think because of how

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Speaker 6: Like how much does it matter? But I think siblings,

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Speaker 6: I don't know, like.

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Speaker 12: Even the wedding though, Like you send down in my

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Speaker 12: steak and lobster in this banquet hall and you just

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Speaker 12: stay with my man And I don't know, absolutely not I.

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Speaker 1: Need to know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but then you may not wind up giving

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Speaker 12: My person has not been with my sister. If you've

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Speaker 12: been with my sister, you are not my person.

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Speaker 1: You are her person. Oh my goodness, when they were wasting.

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Speaker 3: No ten years ago. Yeah why.

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Speaker 2: I meant to get to this last week too, But

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Speaker 2: this was a viral TikTok. A woman who I don't

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Speaker 2: know how old she gen z pretty young, first full

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Speaker 2: time job nine to five, not not enjoying what she

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Speaker 1: Listen to this.

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Speaker 13: I know I'm probably just being so dramatic and annoying,

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Speaker 13: but this is my first job, like my first nine

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Speaker 13: to five job after college, and I am in person,

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Speaker 13: and I'm commuting in the city, and it takes.

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Speaker 3: Me forever to get there.

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Speaker 13: There's no way I'm going to be able to afford

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Speaker 13: living in the city right now, so that's off the table.

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Speaker 3: Like duh. If I was able to walk to work and.

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Speaker 13: It'd be fine, but I'm not, so it literally takes me.

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Speaker 13: Like I leave here, like I get on the train

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Speaker 13: to do anything. I don't I want to shower, eat

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Speaker 13: or energy to cook by dinner either, Like I don't

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Speaker 13: so upset, Oh my god, nothing to do with my

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Speaker 13: I'm not home.

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Speaker 3: It takes me long to get.

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Speaker 13: Home, and like like people that drops to the office,

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Speaker 13: like it doesn't you don't get off at five. And

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Speaker 13: I know it could be worse. I know I could

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Speaker 13: working longer, but like I literally get off. It's pitch black,

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Speaker 13: Like I don't have energy.

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Speaker 3: How do you have friends? Like how do you have

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Speaker 3: time to Like I.

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Speaker 2: Mean me, these you're all valid points, except it's the

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Speaker 2: to work, almost everybody works eight hours a day. And no,

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Speaker 2: I don't think you are done at nine to five.

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Speaker 2: Does not mean nine to five anymore. I feel like

446
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Speaker 2: it means I don't know what to whenever they're done emails.

447
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Speaker 8: If you work from home, it's not nine to five anymore,

448
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Speaker 8: because yeah.

449
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Speaker 1: Everybody was more working for homes today work more. Yeah, man,

450
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Speaker 1: what was.

451
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Speaker 2: The worst part of what was the worst realization about

452
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Speaker 2: becoming a grown up? I think for me it was taxes?

453
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Speaker 2: Taxes can I just had no concept of it. And

454
00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:03,840
Speaker 2: then I had like retail jobs and part time jobs

455
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Speaker 2: or whatever, and I don't know, there wasn't enough money

456
00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:09,359
Speaker 2: to make a difference. And then you start working like

457
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Speaker 2: a real job and they take out real taxes, and

458
00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:13,720
Speaker 2: it's like, okay, remember the.

459
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Speaker 3: First time I discovered my paycheck taxes?

460
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Speaker 6: Right, who is that man that's taking on us?

461
00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:18,840
Speaker 10: All right?

462
00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:20,840
Speaker 3: Where is this man metal?

463
00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:24,400
Speaker 10: And who was so scary? And who is four one man?

464
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Speaker 1: Get this point?

465
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Because in your head it's like we're gonna pay

466
00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:29,719
Speaker 2: you this much, You're like, okay, cool, right, I can

467
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Speaker 2: live on that.

468
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Speaker 1: That sounds great.

469
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Speaker 7: Yeah.

470
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Speaker 2: Then it's you get your actual check. Like wait a minute,

471
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Speaker 2: So I think that was property tax. That means all

472
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Speaker 2: of them, they just it's like there's it's never ending.

473
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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I think you, like for sure, mine was

474
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Speaker 4: like filling up your own fridge, Like the very first

475
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Speaker 4: time you have to fill up your fridge, You're.

476
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Speaker 3: Like, food costs money.

477
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Speaker 4: You don't just open it and it's there, like you

478
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Speaker 4: have to go physically get it and bring the food back.

479
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Speaker 2: That's the most amazing thing about going home in my parents'

480
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Speaker 2: house is anytime I open the fridge, it's a full

481
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Speaker 2: of food. There's just food everywhere. Kiss, I know, it's says,

482
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, is that what I mean? My life

483
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Speaker 2: could be?

484
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Speaker 13: That?

485
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Speaker 1: Could it could be? I have that much food available

486
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Speaker 1: to me.

487
00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:05,920
Speaker 2: I eat that much food, which is why I don't

488
00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:10,160
Speaker 2: allow myself to that much food. Oh yeah, yeah, I think, Yeah,

489
00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:10,800
Speaker 2: what about you?

490
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Speaker 5: I messed up my insurance last year. I don't know

491
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Speaker 5: if you guys remember. It cost me so much damn money.

492
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Speaker 5: I will never do that again because I didn't want

493
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Speaker 5: to like switch all of my doctors, you know what

494
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Speaker 5: I mean, who had all my information? Because that's starting

495
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Speaker 5: with a new doctor is crazy. So I was paying

496
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Speaker 5: out of pocket for stuff.

497
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Speaker 1: Ye I'll never do. Well, you just didn't have insurance right.

498
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Speaker 5: Basically, I mean I paid for like some dusty, musty,

499
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Speaker 5: crusty insurance, like the cheapest one that I thought I

500
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Speaker 5: had the year before.

501
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Speaker 1: Don't skip on insurance, y'all. A show.

502
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Speaker 2: Emails are the worst part about being an adult for you.

503
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Speaker 2: I guess the email where it says sign up for

504
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Speaker 2: your in.

505
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Speaker 10: I signed up.

506
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Speaker 1: I just signed up for like a bad plan, basic basis.

507
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Speaker 4: To do it.

508
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Speaker 1: No, I did it, but I did it wrong.

509
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Speaker 3: I like balance the money that comes out? Is that

510
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Speaker 3: what it was?

511
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Speaker 1: I was like because I thought I did.

512
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Speaker 5: You know, it's a lot to be taken out as well. Also,

513
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,399
Speaker 5: I'll never not be tired. That was really hard to swallow.

514
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:09,720
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean, you know, she makes all the

515
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,600
Speaker 2: things she's complaining about are valid. It's just that's welcome

516
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Speaker 2: to being an adult.

517
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Speaker 5: I think it's just like it's giving that she is

518
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 5: expecting sympathy. I think that's like the part that's crazy,

519
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:21,399
Speaker 5: Like we all that's our inner monologue, but like no

520
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 5: one feels sorry.

521
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Speaker 1: If we're all doing that, you imagine then adding a

522
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Speaker 1: relationship and kids to that mess. Oh yeah.

523
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Speaker 12: Like I just had this whole mail down last night

524
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Speaker 12: about laundry. If I had kids, we'd all be dirty.

525
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Speaker 10: I'm not.

526
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Speaker 12: I don't have to be watching little socks and clothes

527
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Speaker 12: and like it's so.

528
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Speaker 2: Since they're small, they just don't get dirty. Like they're small,

529
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Speaker 2: how dirty can they be? They're dirty, They're always dirty.

530
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Speaker 3: Can you imagine though? Like you have to keep up

531
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Speaker 3: with all that I have to organize, have to put

532
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Speaker 3: it away. I don't want to think about it.

533
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:53,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, yeah, you might start thinking about it, cause yeah.

534
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Speaker 4: I mean I have I'm like, if this is my laundry,

535
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 4: and then I got hobbies and his chiney's and his laundry,

536
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Speaker 4: and then now the baby.

537
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Speaker 1: I'm like, how are we gonna do this?

538
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Speaker 10: Do you have these laundry too?

539
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Speaker 3: I don't.

540
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Speaker 1: He won't let me.

541
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Speaker 3: Actually, it's the one thing he doesn't let me do.

542
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Speaker 3: I'm not surprised.

543
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 10: Yeah, maybe trick.

544
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,159
Speaker 1: Him into doing your baby's laundry. You don't say, just.

545
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Speaker 3: Throw it in there?

546
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah?

547
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:11,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, double the load?

548
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Speaker 2: Why not?

549
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:13,360
Speaker 1: And your mind too?

550
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 3: You're at it too much.

551
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Speaker 1: There's a joke there. I'm just gonna push.

552
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Speaker 13: Next.

553
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Speaker 1: The Fread Show is on it. Yeah, Fread's Fun.

554
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Speaker 4: Fact, Fred's Fun.

555
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Speaker 1: Learn so much, guys.

556
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Speaker 2: A single sperm contains thirty seven point five megabits of

557
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Speaker 2: DNA information, which means that, hmmm, I don't want to

558
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Speaker 2: say that when you put it all together in the

559
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Speaker 2: end and there's more of it, you know, Yeah, I

560
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Speaker 2: mean like I could say, I think I can say

561
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Speaker 2: this word because it's scientific. It's me, but I'm not

562
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Speaker 2: going to be you know, like the end part where

563
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Speaker 2: there's a lot of it that represents, hopefully for you,

564
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Speaker 2: a data transfer of fifteen thousand, eight hundred and seventy

565
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Speaker 2: five gigabyte equivalent to the combined capacity of sixty two

566
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Speaker 2: MacBook Pro laptops.

567
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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, we Yeah, what'd you do on your stop?

568
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Speaker 7: Right?

569
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Speaker 3: You brought the computer in this.

570
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Speaker 6: It's not waterproof.

571
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Speaker 2: A single sperm contains thirty seven point five megabits of

572
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Speaker 2: DNA information. The whole thing, the whole thing at the

573
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Speaker 2: end represents a data transfer of fifteen thousand gigabytes equivalent

574
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Speaker 2: of the combined capacity of sixty two MacBook Pro laptops.

575
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Speaker 10: Has a big hard drive.

576
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Speaker 1: Okay, you don't need a big town, more fresh show. Next. Yeah,

577
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Speaker 1: they talk better than they say.

578
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Speaker 7: Tell me.

579
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Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the thread.

580
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Speaker 2: I like writing in our diaries, except we say them

581
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Speaker 2: a loud we call them blogs. I'll take this one,

582
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,120
Speaker 2: dear blug. It was it was Boy's Weekend that turned

583
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 2: into boys Weekend in multiple cities. Ohh and I'm too

584
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 2: old for it. I'm too old for it. Like I'm

585
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 2: too old to feel this hungover thirty six hours later.

586
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 3: Like you just feel it.

587
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you know you feel in a little dehydration,

588
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 5: you know, anxiety.

589
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, all the above. Oh yeah, you know, I'm just

590
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Speaker 1: too old for it.

591
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Speaker 2: And but we we started in West Palm Beach, where

592
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Speaker 2: a mentor of mine lives.

593
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Speaker 1: When this partner is that was that not so dope?

594
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Speaker 1: I was sick.

595
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Speaker 3: Awesome.

596
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Speaker 6: I mean he had like a rug out there Atiki Hut.

597
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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, awesome.

598
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Speaker 2: I'm like doing I'm I'm not doing it right apparently,

599
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 2: like walking these guy's house, I'm looking around. I'm like

600
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 2: I need a new agent or something like, I'm not anyway,

601
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,239
Speaker 2: it was great. So he and his partner hosted us.

602
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Speaker 2: He was our boss in North Carolina fifteen years ago,

603
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 2: and so three of us came into town and the

604
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 2: world doing different things now and hung out. It was

605
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 2: a lot of fun. No women allowed, which I was

606
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Speaker 2: you know, I could have used it like a conjugal

607
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 2: visit or something like. It would have been nice if

608
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 2: somebody could have just dropped in and I had my

609
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Speaker 2: own little like a little bungalow thing.

610
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Speaker 1: I had my own space. Even I was gonna ask because.

611
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Speaker 5: You get anxious, like stain, I feel like with people,

612
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:16,360
Speaker 5: or you don't like to do it, you like a.

613
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Speaker 1: I prefer to stay in a hotel.

614
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 2: I do. But with this guy, he would have been

615
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,719
Speaker 2: wildly offended. I think if I hadn't stayed there, it

616
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 2: was okay, it was all right. It gives me anxiety

617
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 2: to stay in people's homes, but more more so, like

618
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 2: if I'm right down the hall from you or something.

619
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 2: I felt like I was in my own little area

620
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 2: that it was fine nice. And then one of those

621
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Speaker 2: guys lived in Nashville, so I dropped him off on

622
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Speaker 2: the way home and want at the Titans game and

623
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 2: at someplace called the Tin Roof. Again, I just I

624
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 2: don't need it. I don't need it. I didn't need it.

625
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:49,680
Speaker 1: It wasn't fun. It was a blast.

626
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Speaker 2: It was a blast, but I'm just too old, and

627
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Speaker 2: I don't know why in the moment, and I'm not

628
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 2: that old guys, but I don't know why. In the moment,

629
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Speaker 2: I'm like, sure I could do thirty shots of course

630
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 2: I can with a bunch of people. No, No, I cannot.

631
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 2: Hey in the moment, though you think you do.

632
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: I thought I was Superman or something. I don't know

633
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 1: what I thought.

634
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 6: You love a shot when you were drunk, I know,

635
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:12,640
Speaker 6: And it's.

636
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 2: Just shots, you guys. It's always the shots. Like I

637
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 2: don't know. I mean I can drink and have alcohol

638
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:19,679
Speaker 2: to like get buzzed or whatever, but I don't know,

639
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 2: like I get bored of drinking full glasses of anything,

640
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

641
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 1: Like you just want to.

642
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 11: Throw it back, but then the shot, you know, you

643
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 11: don't you got that right throw? Are you throwing a

644
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 11: bit right in throwing it back?

645
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 7: Yeah?

646
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:38,159
Speaker 1: Yeah? Did you guys go to the beach? Like what

647
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 1: do we do? Eat? Drink?

648
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,479
Speaker 11: We didn't leave that house. We didn't leave that guld either.

649
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 11: They need to because dude.

650
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Speaker 2: Had a house and a pool and as Caitlin described,

651
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 2: you ad a tiki hut and he had I mean

652
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 2: it was like there's no reason to go anywhere. We

653
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 2: sat in the pool all day dream.

654
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Speaker 6: Right, And how how did the Titans game come into play?

655
00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 2: Because my buddy is like, you want to go to

656
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,119
Speaker 2: the game, Like, oh, you're you're dropping, You're dropping so

657
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 2: and so off in Nashville. Why I get an extra

658
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 2: ticket to the Titans game. So I went to the

659
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 2: Titans game, and I don't remember watching much of it.

660
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 2: I didn't really. I was like in the back by

661
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,120
Speaker 2: the food the whole time. I don't know, because it's

662
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 2: like a sweet so I don't know.

663
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 6: Oh my god, you're large, your more, your.

664
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 10: Boy, kick your butt this week, Gideon.

665
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 2: Well, Gideon and I will not be seeing each other

666
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 2: today and I are taking a day off the day.

667
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 2: There'll be no personal training today. Tuesdays and Thursdays are

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Speaker 2: my days. But you know what, there'll be no personal

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Speaker 2: training today. I h this is what happens when you

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Speaker 2: turn thirty plus. I think I think it was almost

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Speaker 2: exactly at thirty where the stuff that I could do

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Speaker 2: the day before at twenty nine I cannot do anymore.

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Speaker 2: But yet I don't stop doing it because apparently I'm

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Speaker 2: not a grown up. I don't know. I have no limits,

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Speaker 2: or maybe I have it. Maybe it's a number I

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Speaker 2: should call, Maybe I should. God have promise this and now.

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Speaker 10: Keep living your life, faddy boy, living their lives.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you live for all Almost I cannot live right

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Speaker 4: there with child.

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Speaker 1: I'm trusted.

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Speaker 2: I drank enough for you and your kid and your

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Speaker 2: hobby and future children too over the weekend. But it

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Speaker 2: was a lot of fun and so thanks to thanks

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Speaker 2: to Daddy Bruce for hosting a solid as palatial pad

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Speaker 2: in West Palm where I'm looking for jobs now.

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Speaker 1: Currently Fred Show is on