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Speaker 1: The friend's show is on.

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Speaker 2: Do you have one of those friends that, like we

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Speaker 2: were just talking about this two seconds ago and his

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Speaker 2: or her style? You have a friends? Do you have

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Speaker 2: many friends? You have a friend? Sometimes I aside from

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Speaker 2: you guys, I realize I don't really invest in too

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Speaker 2: many people, and I probably should. I don't need any

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Speaker 2: more than you guys. You guys are enough, That's right.

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Speaker 2: But see, I don't differentiate. I don't I don't classify

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Speaker 2: the way that you do levels. I don't do work

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Speaker 2: friends and friends.

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Speaker 1: Friends.

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Speaker 2: You're either my friend or you're not. Well, you're either

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Speaker 2: my friend or my acquaintance. The acquaintances has no has

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Speaker 2: very few of the same elements as friends.

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Speaker 3: I agree with that, but I think you had a twist.

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Speaker 4: So with friends, there's different groups of friends.

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Speaker 3: Like where did I meet you? Where it come from?

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Speaker 1: Why do they have to be classified?

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Speaker 4: Like I've mess in my brain how I like categorize people?

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Speaker 5: But why?

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Speaker 1: But don't tell them that? Though?

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Speaker 2: Okay, but like for me to go, you're my work friend,

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Speaker 2: but then I got my friend from high school, so

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Speaker 2: then somehow we're not the same friends level of friends.

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Speaker 4: You got the hood friends and you got the friends

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Speaker 4: who are like in corporate friends, like you got.

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Speaker 6: All your friends are right in there with my other friends.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, is like I've met people from

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Speaker 2: all walks of life and they're just a friend. I

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Speaker 2: don't classify them. I think it's racist. Whoa, I think

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Speaker 2: it's classes Yeah, I think you're I think you're you're

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Speaker 2: qualifying people when they just you're just my friend. Look, okay,

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Speaker 2: so Rufio is my criminal friend. No he's not. He's

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Speaker 2: my friend, he's my brother, he's my friend.

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Speaker 4: I love my friends all the same. It's just how

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Speaker 4: I know you. It's just how I know you. I

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Speaker 4: want to know you're you know them because in my

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Speaker 4: head that's how like I differentiate the group.

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Speaker 3: But why do you need to?

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: It's just in my head. But it's not in your

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Speaker 2: head because you say it to people. You'll say you're

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Speaker 2: my work friend, you're my never friend. But when you

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Speaker 2: say that.

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Speaker 1: Can your friends ever switched categories?

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Speaker 2: Say you have a friend before, like through high school, right,

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Speaker 2: and then you end up working together.

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Speaker 1: Is that your work friend or is that your.

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Speaker 3: Friend from high schoolers? And that I was a work friend.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, all of a sudden, I know them

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Speaker 3: from work now.

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Speaker 1: But where I was.

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Speaker 2: Going with this is I have a friend. His name

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Speaker 2: is Mojo. He lives in Detroit.

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Speaker 6: Uh.

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Speaker 2: And I was supposed to go last weekend because his

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Speaker 2: wife invited me and I had to go to Yehaw,

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Speaker 2: Memphis to do the Yeehaw Country and Western Concert. Yes,

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Speaker 2: and so I couldn't go. And now his wife is

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Speaker 2: leaving town for two weeks, and then he invites me

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Speaker 2: to go this weekend because he has nothing to do

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Speaker 2: and he's going to be bored. Now his wife is

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Speaker 2: going to kill me when she finds out that I

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Speaker 2: go the week later after she's already gone. Why are

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Speaker 2: you sitting on my couch? I invited you last weekend

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Speaker 2: when I was here because last weekend he had to

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Speaker 2: go to Taylor Swift and she had nothing to do

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Speaker 2: and she wanted to hang out with me.

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Speaker 1: So it was not on purpose. Why is this? See,

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Speaker 1: Ruvio got a weird look on the faces.

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Speaker 7: Weird, Well, you said you you would be with this

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Speaker 7: woman if Mojo No no, no, wait, he says that.

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Speaker 2: He says that if if he dies. He said this before,

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Speaker 2: but before he had open heart surgery. And he said

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Speaker 2: if I die, Fred can have my wife. And I said,

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Speaker 2: I can't afford her.

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Speaker 5: Right, that's true.

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Speaker 1: I can't afford her. I can't. He makes more money

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Speaker 1: than me, and I can't afford her. That's wow. That

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Speaker 1: she wants to hang out with you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: That's a weird. Why he's a cool guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're friends with the husband and you're friends

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Speaker 1: with Mojo. I'll tell you what the problem is.

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Speaker 2: The problem is over the last I don't know decade,

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Speaker 2: I've become friends with each of them individually. I consider

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Speaker 2: them both the same level of friends.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, Well because.

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Speaker 2: We both got you got because you can have done

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Speaker 2: different stuff like all crazy. It doesn't it doesn't have

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Speaker 2: to be sexual.

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Speaker 6: Oh no, I was saying, Pauline is going to get

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Speaker 6: stressed out because yeah, I see what you're saying.

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Speaker 3: Now, how am I going to do that with my brain?

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Speaker 3: These things around?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 1: I mean I would sleep with her, but it's not

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Speaker 1: I'm kidding. Well, I mean she's beautiful.

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Speaker 2: If she weren't married to my best friend, then yes,

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Speaker 2: i'd sleep with her. But she married my friend. But

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Speaker 2: my point is, you don't have anyone like that. You

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Speaker 2: don't have anybody you go right over there. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: So wait, you don't know why, let me, but let

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Speaker 2: me ask you an honest question to people in this room.

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Speaker 2: If if, honestly, if you could separate You've got a

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Speaker 2: lot of female friends who are married, Caitlyn, if you

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Speaker 2: could separate their husbands from them completely, as if there

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Speaker 2: were never any ties, could you see yourself with any

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Speaker 2: of those men? Like, Oh, I like him, he's a

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Speaker 2: cool guy. Actually maybe no, didn't. But didn't one of

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Speaker 2: your friends, Mary, I gotta.

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Speaker 6: Think you slept with Yeah, but I dated him like prior,

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Speaker 6: so like, it's not me picturing now that he's her husband.

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Speaker 5: He's in now I move categories like he is.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm saying what happened because this is never gonna happen.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, I don't know. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: If for some reason I met her and she had

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Speaker 2: zero association with my best friend, I could see myself.

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Speaker 1: She's from Arizona.

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Speaker 2: We have a similar backstory because that's the thing she

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Speaker 2: and I connect on on family stuff. She's a strange,

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Speaker 2: she was a strange from her dad, I'm a strange whatever,

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Speaker 2: So there's you know, I don't know. We connected on

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I feel grateful that I have like

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Speaker 6: a very different type than all my other friends, like

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Speaker 6: what I'm into. But I do have individual relationships with

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Speaker 6: my friend's husbands for sure, Like I consider them just

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Speaker 6: as much a friend sometimes.

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Speaker 2: And they don't cross like if it ever got to

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Speaker 2: a point where somehow one was talking about the other,

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Speaker 2: oh yeah, no, I always and if that has ever happened, hypothetically,

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Speaker 2: I advocate for the two of them. I advocate for

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Speaker 2: advocate for the scenario where they make up.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I always try to friends like I'm.

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Speaker 1: Not, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: And for some reason, and I've said this before in

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Speaker 2: the past, like with people I've dated who are like

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Speaker 2: or slept with, and like, can we still be friends?

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Speaker 2: If I don't feel like I could advocate without influence,

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Speaker 2: without in my mind being like, I'd like to hit

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Speaker 2: it again, I can't be your friend like I have

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Speaker 2: to be completely detached in order to truly be your friend,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like it's to be over

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Speaker 2: over over, overdone, buried. Otherwise I wouldn't be a very

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Speaker 2: good friend because it's like you know, or like if

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Speaker 2: you get friend zoned by somebody, I don't really I

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Speaker 2: never wanted to be your friend. Only I wanted a

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Speaker 2: romantic connection with you. And if so, now, if you're

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Speaker 2: saying let's just be friends, I don't think I could

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Speaker 2: be a very good friend to you because you'll call

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Speaker 2: me and talk to me about your new boyfriend and

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Speaker 2: I don't want to hear it.

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Speaker 5: Oh that's sad for the person that's doing the friend

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Speaker 5: zoning though.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you've done it to people. I've done it

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Speaker 2: to people. It happens, and I think it's fair.

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Speaker 5: It's sad when they treat me different after well, but.

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Speaker 2: It's fair for someone to say. In fact, I think

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Speaker 2: it's better for someone to say, you know, I would

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Speaker 2: have I would be biased. I couldn't be your unbiased

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Speaker 2: friend because if you feel like you're friends with somebody

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Speaker 2: and they're influenced by their own motives because they have

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Speaker 2: a they feel a certain kind of way for you, Well,

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Speaker 2: then that's not a very good friend because you're not

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Speaker 2: getting you're not getting unbiased. I expect my friends to

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Speaker 2: be I mean, of course they favored me, but they're not.

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Speaker 1: They're not.

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Speaker 2: There's no angle, you know, Like my female friends aren't

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Speaker 2: telling me to break up with my girlfriend because they

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Speaker 2: good friends at all. And they're not people I should

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Speaker 6: You don't have friends for different stuff, like a party friend,

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Speaker 6: a friend that like will hold your secret, a friend

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Speaker 6: that will be cool with.

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Speaker 5: You of your crime.

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Speaker 2: I don't have enough friends anymore to have that, No,

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Speaker 2: I really don't. I used to have a lot of friends,

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Speaker 2: and I feel like that it's boiled down over the

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Speaker 2: years to like just And I don't want to say

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Speaker 2: that other people don't matter, but like, you figure out

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Speaker 2: who's like, and you're you're finding this as you get older.

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Speaker 2: You figure out who's who's there for the long horn,

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Speaker 2: who's not right? And it's there's nothing wrong with these people.

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Speaker 2: They didn't do anything wrong. But it's like people's lives change,

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Speaker 2: your life changes, and at the end, some of the

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Speaker 2: same people will still be standing. I've had most of

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Speaker 2: the people I'm close friends with that I truly consider

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Speaker 2: friends I've been friends with for over twenty years. Me too, Yes,

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Speaker 2: that's the common denominator. A lot of people are texting

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Speaker 2: they need categories in their lives.

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Speaker 4: To their categories things not a bad thing to me,

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Speaker 4: it's just in my brain, like, because there's a lot

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Speaker 4: going on up here. So it's like, Okay, where do

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Speaker 4: I know you from? Okay, you're a work friend. I

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Speaker 4: love you just as much as the hood friends, but

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Speaker 4: I just know you from different times.

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Speaker 2: I feel like eras the category is the part of

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Speaker 2: it that you just keep in your head because when

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Speaker 2: when you say people to me like, well, you're my

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Speaker 2: work friend.

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Speaker 3: I didn't mean it though in a bad way, I promise,

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Speaker 3: but yes, I.

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Speaker 2: Get that somehow means I'm lesser of a friend. So

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Speaker 2: just say in your mind, you you you think work, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm just a friend. Okay, we're friends, Yeah, which are

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Speaker 2: just friends.

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Speaker 2: And i'd never met her, that you're gonna work with Angie? Okay, great,

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Speaker 1: To be bored.

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much, dear blog students, know that I

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Speaker 1: I didn't, but now I do.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think there are some things though, when it

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Speaker 1: Excuse me, that's a hard word to say, but really was.

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Speaker 3: Right now, I'm really struggling over here.

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Speaker 1: No, it's okay.

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Speaker 2: Participation is hard for me, and particularly if I if

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's tough. No, you're good.

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Speaker 4: So my thing is, you know, ladies, we some of

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Speaker 5: So.

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Speaker 4: I you know, when I go see my my boatox, lady,

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Speaker 3: And a lot of men are like this too. We're

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Speaker 4: She enjoys looking a little more icy, more stands so good.

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Speaker 3: It's the best a couple of days in, you know

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Speaker 4: And I don't shame people who do that because like

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Speaker 3: And anative thank you, because it really is.

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Speaker 2: It is.

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Speaker 4: You can't walk in at like fifty five years old

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Speaker 3: But I'm curious, like do you guys like lie or

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Speaker 4: It holds weight. But Hobby doesn't have to live in

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Speaker 3: Like I'm gonna be real, you know what I mean, Like,

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Speaker 2: My boobs are on the floor, and I wish no

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Speaker 2: is there any incentive to lie? Of course there's incentive

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Speaker 6: Well, bozox is just preserving the way she looks already,

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Speaker 3: No, not just that.

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Speaker 2: Some people you look great, but some people take it

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Speaker 4: It gets addicting you like how you look, things are

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Speaker 4: Way for some people, I don't do that because my

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Speaker 3: I don't need it. But what I'm trying to say

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Speaker 5: You just want to avoid the conversation.

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Speaker 3: I avoid stuff like the plague. I just avoid it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, ultimately, you got to do what makes

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Speaker 2: Because he's telling you that you're great just the way

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Speaker 3: Yeah no.

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Speaker 2: But so it's like I'm never going to tell you

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Speaker 2: that you need it, but I but I will tell

443
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Speaker 2: you when you don't if that makes sense, and that

444
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Speaker 2: you should take that. I feel like that has value.

445
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Speaker 2: But if you ask me, if you ask me, should

446
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Speaker 2: I lose weight? Do I look fat in this? There's

447
00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:29,359
Speaker 2: really no incentive for me to tell you that you do,

448
00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:31,840
Speaker 2: because it's not even if you tell me.

449
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Speaker 1: You want the truth, you don't. I don't.

450
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Speaker 2: I don't think that. That's what I'm willing. I'm willing

451
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Speaker 2: to die on that cross. I love you, I'm with you.

452
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Speaker 2: You are who you are. Don't ask me if you

453
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Speaker 2: look fat in something, because you really don't want me

454
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Speaker 2: to say yes. And if you say you do, you're

455
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Speaker 2: and you believe that, then you're rare. Yeah, in my opinion,

456
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Speaker 2: why you wouldn't you agree? I mean, rufio, if just

457
00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:56,240
Speaker 2: came to you and said do I look good in this?

458
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Speaker 2: Or do I look fatness? Would you ever tell her yes?

459
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Speaker 3: No?

460
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Speaker 1: Yeah, never, even if you thought it right, because it's not.

461
00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:08,120
Speaker 1: It's not. That's not gonna work. It's people doesn't end well.

462
00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,439
Speaker 1: Oftentimes people tell you they want the truth.

463
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Speaker 2: They'll tell you that until you tell them the truth,

464
00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:14,359
Speaker 2: and then you see their reaction, and then you know,

465
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Speaker 2: never to tell the.

466
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Speaker 1: Truth again about that.

467
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Speaker 6: But if somebody said that's not exactly flattering, maybe you

468
00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:21,040
Speaker 6: could try the red dress or something.

469
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Speaker 5: I would like that. I would appreciate that.

470
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Speaker 1: How it works with Jess and I I say, oh,

471
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Speaker 1: I like that. Then she goes with the opposite option.

472
00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:26,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's right.

473
00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:35,119
Speaker 2: That's too much thinking for me in that relationship. You'd

474
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Speaker 2: ask me the question. I would have to okay, wait

475
00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:39,639
Speaker 2: a minute home. But if I say no, it's the difference.

476
00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:42,240
Speaker 2: So I say yes, no, I don't like that, and

477
00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:45,240
Speaker 2: then she'll keep it on. Everybody wins the debut of

478
00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:48,200
Speaker 2: Kiki Karaoke next, So well, let's work out the rules.

479
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Speaker 1: Next, ye three songs.

480
00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:55,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna start a song, I'm gonna stop

481
00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,480
Speaker 2: the song, and then you have to do the next

482
00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:01,560
Speaker 2: two lines of the of the song. And if you

483
00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:05,520
Speaker 2: get the lyrics correct and the person said you would right,

484
00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:06,760
Speaker 2: then they win.

485
00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:09,320
Speaker 5: Okay, there's she knows it right.

486
00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:13,200
Speaker 2: Yes, the contestant will know the song before you play it,

487
00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,919
Speaker 2: like what, No, why would they What am I going

488
00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:19,600
Speaker 2: to tell? They don't what you tell them, so.

489
00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:20,720
Speaker 5: They know whether or not she'll know it.

490
00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:22,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Oh no, they just got

491
00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,600
Speaker 1: to test all I'll say, I'll say.

492
00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:26,920
Speaker 2: The name of the song I had it before I play.

493
00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:29,720
Speaker 2: That's fine, Yeah, that's fine. So one person best out

494
00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,200
Speaker 2: of three. Let's see how that this this is evolving,

495
00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:34,000
Speaker 2: this game a little bit. But really there's nothing that

496
00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:37,160
Speaker 2: Kiki goes really upset to anybody. So let's play next.

497
00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:39,840
Speaker 2: All right, A ready, and no, no, I'm actually not

498
00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:44,640
Speaker 2: eight three five. Just let's to see how this goes next.

499
00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:46,879
Speaker 2: After Miguel, Miguel, it's on the Fred Show. Thank you

500
00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:48,919
Speaker 2: for having us on the radio live each morning, the

501
00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:50,960
Speaker 2: iHeart Radio app. You can listen live there too, and

502
00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:53,520
Speaker 2: anytime throughout the day search for the Fred Show iHeartRadio

503
00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:55,520
Speaker 2: app or wherever you listen to podcasts. All right, guys,

504
00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,040
Speaker 2: you got to pull up these songs as I do

505
00:19:57,080 --> 00:19:59,600
Speaker 2: them so we can actually see how close she got

506
00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:01,480
Speaker 2: to the real lyrics. I can't do it all right, Okay,

507
00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:03,800
Speaker 2: I can't do it all but ladies and gentlemen, it's.

508
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Speaker 1: Time to flow. Take care of day. All right, It's welcome.

509
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Speaker 2: Today's uh let him know player, I guess hey, Britney,

510
00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:22,000
Speaker 2: Britney work in progress here. You know, we're just gonna

511
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Speaker 2: see how this goes. We don't really know what we're doing,

512
00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:26,320
Speaker 2: but we never have, so that's good.

513
00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:26,880
Speaker 1: That's good.

514
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 2: Right. That's the thing is, you know sometimes people like

515
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,600
Speaker 2: critique us and they're like, well, this is a technical

516
00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,359
Speaker 2: way to do I know more than but we've never

517
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:36,240
Speaker 2: been professional, so like, I don't know why anybody would

518
00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:38,520
Speaker 2: ever expect it. I think if we were professional, people

519
00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,840
Speaker 2: would like be breaked out, what the hell are we doing?

520
00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:45,480
Speaker 1: Yeah that was the other day, but last week when

521
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Speaker 1: phone kept cutting out when I was trying to play

522
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Speaker 1: against Sally. Oh see, we only we truly only have

523
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Speaker 1: thirteen listeners. Welcome back. I'm glad your works, like we

524
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Speaker 1: truly only have.

525
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Speaker 6: My boyfriend actually just called earlier and won the Pride

526
00:20:58,560 --> 00:20:59,960
Speaker 6: in the Park tickets from you guys.

527
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,919
Speaker 2: Right once again, we apparently only have thirteen listeners.

528
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:05,280
Speaker 1: But tell your friends.

529
00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:08,239
Speaker 2: But yeah, could you please, if you're listening right now,

530
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 2: would you do us a favor and just tell one

531
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 2: person that we don't suck. Lie to them and tell

532
00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 2: we don't suck. You got to hear this show, they

533
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,679
Speaker 2: don't suck, and that's a lie. But you know, not

534
00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 2: your boyfriend. Yeah, honestly, someone who doesn't already listen and

535
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:25,640
Speaker 2: call and win every one of our prizes. I mean,

536
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,760
Speaker 2: my god, the millions. I don't anyway, I love you

537
00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,800
Speaker 2: so much. So let's play the game. I'm going to

538
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 2: start a song I got. I got three, just random songs.

539
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Speaker 2: The first one I'm gonna play in Kiki karaoke is

540
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Speaker 2: Journey don't stop believing. Do you think that when I

541
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,480
Speaker 2: stop the song she will get the next two lines

542
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 2: right or wrong?

543
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 5: Oh?

544
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 1: I hope, so I think she will. I don't you

545
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 1: think you think she will waste a live version?

546
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Speaker 5: I don't want to lie.

547
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know what the fake applause, like the fate,

548
00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:00,560
Speaker 2: the fake afflaws in the backgrounds about like that was weird.

549
00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,960
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Let's see. Let's I could stop

550
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 1: this at that time? You ready?

551
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 2: Yes?

552
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:11,200
Speaker 4: Yeah?

553
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 2: I think you've had this T shirt from targets you

554
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 2: definitely No. Just a small town you guys have a lyric.

555
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:22,400
Speaker 1: Yes, I know.

556
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:35,160
Speaker 3: He took the non train. Just a small town boy,

557
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Speaker 3: walk into the corner, stock.

558
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:46,160
Speaker 6: Down the street, weed bread, too bad, some mags to chips.

559
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 3: If it was the first part, I would have known.

560
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 2: Okay, but that's let's see what it really was.

561
00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 3: Yes, you can't know that I am.

562
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 2: I'm not mentioned in this song somehow. No, hold on,

563
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:06,160
Speaker 2: we'll see what it really was, though we have to wait.

564
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:08,760
Speaker 2: What is it really?

565
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 6: Caitlyn just a city boy born and raised in South Detroit.

566
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:13,160
Speaker 3: He took the midnight Tam.

567
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:15,240
Speaker 5: You're playing in different.

568
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,679
Speaker 1: Parts, but I'm playing the part she was supposed to sing. No,

569
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 1: you're not You're not okay anyway, she didn't get away.

570
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 6: She was supposed to sing just a city boy born

571
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 6: and raised in South I didn't get it right.

572
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:29,199
Speaker 3: I was don't worry, I have all the lepers trade Michigan.

573
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:31,080
Speaker 1: Well then you would have won.

574
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 2: I guess what to Georgia. Okay again, work in progress,

575
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,680
Speaker 2: your guys at little patience. My god, I'm scared. Okay,

576
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:38,640
Speaker 2: you're ready for the next one?

577
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:39,719
Speaker 5: Go ahead?

578
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 2: Okay, the next song in Kiki Kara Okay, t LC waterfalls.

579
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Speaker 2: Oh come on, Brittany, do you think she will get

580
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 2: this right or wrong? When I stopped the song better right? Yeah,

581
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 2: you're saying you're staying right. It's a very long intro.

582
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,679
Speaker 2: I'm gonna fast forward. Use I don't we don't need

583
00:23:58,680 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 2: to hear the.

584
00:23:59,160 --> 00:23:59,919
Speaker 1: Damn on.

585
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 2: That.

586
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 5: She just gets it.

587
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

588
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 3: Then she looked in the mirror.

589
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 4: Tell the mother goodbye, It said, baby boy, I love

590
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:20,679
Speaker 4: you so much.

591
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,880
Speaker 1: What I don't know?

592
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 3: That was wrong? Yeah, it's good to me. I'm trying

593
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Speaker 3: to give it.

594
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 2: And then finally I'm going to give you a current.

595
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Speaker 2: I'm going to give you a current boiler ray players. Yes,

596
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Speaker 2: will Kiky get this right or wrong? When I stopped

597
00:24:55,359 --> 00:25:01,439
Speaker 2: the song, I want to say I might just say no,

598
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 2: but okay, yes, you're saying yes, okay.

599
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 5: Because girls just play us too, I'm scared. Yeah, yeah,

600
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:15,160
Speaker 5: because girls is players to keep a play of Brandon, because.

601
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Speaker 3: Girls is play us to spend money all around the world.

602
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 4: Because girls is prayers to what you know about living

603
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 4: on the top, cooking down on op took it to

604
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Speaker 4: a test drive.

605
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 3: Now you want to pop my time is money sorts?

606
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Speaker 3: Putting on a you.

607
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Speaker 7: Know, okay, would put a white?

608
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:46,360
Speaker 1: Are you ineligible to win a prize? After?

609
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Speaker 2: I mean, you want everything else to have given away.

610
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if you are all. Well, you got one,

611
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 2: she believes in me. You got one? All right?

612
00:25:55,640 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 1: Hell, Brittany, Hey tell five people who you don't know.

613
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 1: Just listen to us.

614
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 6: To listen anybody, Thank you, thank you.

615
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 3: I think I think we see what. I don't know,

616
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Speaker 3: but I did it.

617
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you got what one? Bring a price? Do

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Speaker 1: we have you barely one? I don't know. Do we

619
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 1: have a game there? I think we have we have

620
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: the game?

621
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we did. Let me pick the song.

622
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 1: Pick the song.

623
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, new game unlocked.

624
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 1: You've got to wait.

625
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 3: Fred's show is on the hottest morning show.

626
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 2: What's the name of his PR company in Chicago, Webber

627
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Speaker 2: Weber sar Go.

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Speaker 1: Look, I want to make sure they get credited. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you.

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Speaker 2: This is why because Weber sh Shandwick Weber Shandwick.

631
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Speaker 4: Ye.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here here's why this is. This is everyone your today.

633
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 1: Listen to this. Someone is very very smart. So today.

634
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: Oh and she carried the whole damn boxing.

635
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 5: Leave him in here, girl, that's all right, don't worry.

636
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:13,400
Speaker 1: So there's a box out there.

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00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 2: Maris brought it right and put it on the porch

638
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 2: with a kar desk outside the studio here because we

639
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 2: don't have a desk because we're not allowed. And it

640
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 2: said perishable on it, and of course Rufio was circling

641
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,680
Speaker 2: it and pouting, because if you've been listening for a while,

642
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 2: then you know the rule now. Because here was the

643
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 2: problem is that Rufio was opening anything that said Fred

644
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 2: Show and then taking what he wanted and oftentimes not

645
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 2: even telling me that he did it for us or right.

646
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 2: But the problem was then the person who was responsible

647
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 2: for it would email me and say, hey, did you

648
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 2: get the package I sent, like basically saying, hey, you

649
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 2: ungrateful prick. I sent you something. Why can't you acknowledge it?

650
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 2: And then we find out it was because we did

651
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 2: get it and Rufie over here didn't tell me.

652
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 1: So then I open candy and I ate it.

653
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 5: That's taking years, but I gotta.

654
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,440
Speaker 2: Know when stuff gets sent to the Fred Show because

655
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 2: they wind up following up with me and if they

656
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 2: and God for god knows what they have sent that

657
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 2: I didn't follow because I'll always send a note when

658
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 2: they provide that information saying thank you for whatever. So

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00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 2: there's a big box out there, so I go out

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Speaker 2: there and open it. It's a box of avocados, fresh avocados,

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Speaker 2: huge box of the case, and I'm like, what is this.

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Speaker 2: There's a little note inside and it says, to our

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Speaker 2: friends at the Fred Show, we heard your interview with TJ. Newman,

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Speaker 2: the author, last week, and we know it can be

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Speaker 2: tough to splurge on the avocado because and it was

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Speaker 2: a great quote from her, we said, We asked her.

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Speaker 2: Now you went from basically, you know whatever, hourly worker,

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Speaker 2: kind of whatever, not making a ton of money as

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Speaker 2: a flight attendant. So now you're a multimillionaire because of

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Speaker 2: this book that you wrote, these two books that you wrote.

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Speaker 2: And I said, what are you doing with the money.

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Speaker 2: She said, well, now I sportge on the avocado. She said,

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Speaker 2: like you, we know, avocados from Mexico make everything better.

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Speaker 2: So here are some fresh avocados straight from the groves

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Speaker 2: in Mexico. Enjoy the goodness in the enclosed crate. Hashtag

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Speaker 2: always good avocados from Mexico.

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Speaker 5: Brilliant avocados from Mexico. The Jinglers brilliant.

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Speaker 2: Somebody gets a raise at this place. Yes, they were listening,

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Speaker 2: and yeah, you want to come work here? They were listening.

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Speaker 2: They got I know how I can make my client

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Speaker 2: look great. Boom, brilliant. You are brilliant. You are brilliant

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Speaker 2: avocados to Mexico. You are brilliant.

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Speaker 6: Then I'm gonna post when I'm cooking with my avocado.

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Speaker 5: And we love you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah whatever the name of that place, Well, what is

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Speaker 2: it again, weber Shandwick.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well they're brilliant too, so bo thank you. They

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Speaker 1: talk better than they say you. Good job.

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Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show. Come

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Speaker 2: more for us, whoever you are, And if you're the

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Speaker 2: boss of the this person and this was their idea,

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Speaker 2: you better acknowledge the hell out of them and tell

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Speaker 2: him I did a good job, because that doesn't happen

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Speaker 2: around here either.

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Speaker 1: Keep sending good stuff. Thank you all right?

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Speaker 2: Audio in journals like for writing in our diaries. We

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Speaker 2: call them blogs. If you would kal and take it away.

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Speaker 5: Yes, your blog.

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Speaker 6: So do you guys remember when you first started learning

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Speaker 6: about how to handle money, like specifically like your own money.

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Speaker 6: Like I don't know if you guys got money for chores?

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Speaker 6: Did you guys all get allowance or how did for

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Speaker 6: a little while a little while for chores? And then

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Speaker 6: you had your own ye and you had I know,

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Speaker 6: you had your website business, you did one website, you

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Speaker 6: sold a go cart.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I had all kinds of little hustles

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Speaker 2: I had. My dad was an entrepreneur and so he

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Speaker 2: was a sales guy at heart. So like that's what

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Speaker 2: he taught me. He's smart, smart for this, and you

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Speaker 2: gave me the ideas and that I just did them great.

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Speaker 2: Uh and yeah. But then, yeah, it taught me a

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Speaker 2: lot about money and saving and choices and all that stuff.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so smart.

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Speaker 6: So it's very funny to see because my sister, we

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Speaker 6: talked about her earlier.

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Speaker 5: Isabella is eighteen.

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Speaker 6: She's in college at Michigan State right now, she's back

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Speaker 6: home for the summer. But she I'm watching her start

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Speaker 6: to learn about money. Like so for the first time

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Speaker 6: I saw the red flag.

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Speaker 5: Was my parents.

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Speaker 6: You know, they're they're doing well enough that they can

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Speaker 6: give her, you know, a debit card, but she has

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Speaker 6: a limit. And she learned her first lesson by buying

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Speaker 6: all the homies food and stuff.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 6: She was treating the homies like my sister, you know,

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Speaker 6: and then she ran out of money. That was our

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Speaker 6: first lesson. Okay, now our second lesson is so funny.

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Speaker 6: So she I am taking her to Drake. I'm like

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Speaker 6: making her life.

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Speaker 5: So thank you. Jason for making that possible.

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Speaker 6: And she is coming here to Chicago and I'm driving her,

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Speaker 6: but she's got to take the train home.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 6: So she, you know, is working at a swim club,

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Speaker 6: making her own little money and she's paying for her

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Speaker 6: own train ride home. This girl she has days off

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Speaker 6: to stay with her sister, but.

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Speaker 5: She's leaving Hella early to say, fifty.

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Speaker 6: Bucks on a damn train ride because it's fifty dollars

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Speaker 6: more than next day.

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Speaker 5: And first that's what I would have paid for her,

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Speaker 5: but she didn't tell me. So she's stressing that. She's like,

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Speaker 5: you know what, no, I'm not taking that train and

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Speaker 5: you gotta drop me off at this well.

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Speaker 2: Good for her, because honestly, like that's how that's how

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Speaker 2: grown up life is. You know, you want to go

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Speaker 2: on vacation on this day, but it's way more expensive,

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Speaker 2: so you got to figure out way to go on

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Speaker 2: that day or you can't.

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Speaker 1: Go at all totally.

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Speaker 6: And she has, you know, a beautiful life. She has

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Speaker 6: you know, her food paid for and stuff. But yeah,

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Speaker 6: she is starting to spend her own money on clothes

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Speaker 6: that she's making, you know, while she's doing her life

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Speaker 6: guarding and swim lessons, and so it's just funny for

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Speaker 6: me to see. I'm like, damn, I could have you know,

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Speaker 6: had you here for one more day. And note we

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Speaker 6: got to take the early train. We're leaving early because

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Speaker 6: we got to save fifty bucks the

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Speaker 2: Midnight train going anywhere unless it's fifty bucks more