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Speaker 1: Tell them touch Yeah, they talk better than they These

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Speaker 1: are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like for

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Speaker 1: writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 2: Yes, take it away.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much, dear blog.

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Speaker 4: I just want to say thank you so much to

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Speaker 4: my Fred Show family here, the Loyal thirteen and family

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Speaker 4: everybody in between for celebrating my daughter's first birthday with

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Speaker 4: me this weekend. So she turned to last well, I

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Speaker 4: guess last week right on on Wednesday, which is crazy.

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Speaker 3: She turned one years old. I'm sorry she's.

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Speaker 2: Turned before I knew about it.

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Speaker 3: Can you tell my brain? It's just like, but it's like,

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Speaker 3: when does she get to God?

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Speaker 4: She feels too sometimes like she is, you know, a

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Speaker 4: little missaty lady. She's walking, she's running, she's everywhere. But

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Speaker 4: she Yeah, she turned one. So that means it's my

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Speaker 4: first year of like motherhood, which has been phenomenal.

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Speaker 3: It's the best year of my life.

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Speaker 4: And you know, through everything, and you know, I was

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Speaker 4: gonna say again, thank you guys all to everyone always

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Speaker 4: checks in on Gigi and my family here, who made

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Speaker 4: out really well. Shout out to the village, because it

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Speaker 4: can't do it without the village. And that is you know, Grandma,

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Speaker 4: and that is Bopcha, who is my mother. We call

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Speaker 4: her Bapcha and Auntie Ariel and everybody truly like, you

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Speaker 4: can't do this alone.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna just say it again, you cannot do this alone.

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Speaker 3: So thank you.

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Speaker 4: So this weekend we celebrated at the infamous Danny's Pizza.

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Speaker 1: I was still mad that I didn't get to meet

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Speaker 1: the owner, Jimmy, I know, I was. He's very upsetting.

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Speaker 1: I walked out, like where I need to meet this

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Speaker 3: I wasn't there.

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Speaker 2: He wasn't there.

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Speaker 4: Now I know, I saw you storm out.

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Speaker 3: We had to bring it back in.

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Speaker 1: But then I saw Gigi and I said hi, and

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Speaker 1: then she she waved, but she waves it herself.

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Speaker 3: It's like facing her, so instead of waiting.

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Speaker 1: It's like, you know, she goes, you know, it looks

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Speaker 3: I know, for me make some noise. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 3: It was a lot of people, you know.

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Speaker 4: Shout out to Jimmy for letting us use the back room,

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Speaker 4: because oh my god, it was a lot of people.

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Speaker 3: He also scrubbed the Teddy tho. Yeah, yeah, very much.

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Speaker 2: So there's a lot of people who are Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It's a lot of people. I mean friends, family, and

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Speaker 4: I've got my mom friends, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 4: Who've got like babies who are close to my daughter's age,

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Speaker 4: I want you guys to like be a part of

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Speaker 4: our lives since our kids are like, you know, a

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Speaker 3: So that was really cute. They came by.

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Speaker 4: We missed t T Kaylin and t TK. You know,

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Speaker 4: it's okay. They had their parties and stuff, and I understand.

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Speaker 4: I appreciate you guys still, you know, giving gifts to her,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna shake my fist at you. I need to

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Speaker 4: see her in that dress. I got her the cutest dress,

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Speaker 3: Cutest flower crown. I know.

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Speaker 4: But I do have a question though, for people in

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Speaker 4: because I was wondering about this real quick. It's not bad,

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Speaker 4: I promise, it's just a question while I have you,

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Speaker 4: while I have you all here, no for real, because

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Speaker 4: I feel like I got a lot of text messages

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Speaker 3: But and it's not anything bad.

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Speaker 4: I just want to know why people ask this, because

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Speaker 4: asking because like you're just genduely like, hey, I want

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Speaker 4: know you, Paulina, you don't got your ish together, like

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Speaker 4: we gotta step in and help you make this happen.

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: What is the thing?

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Speaker 4: So I get asked every time I have any kind

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Speaker 3: Do you want me to run to the store for you?

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, how do you?

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Speaker 1: Guys? Make sure?

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Speaker 2: I think those are empty.

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Speaker 1: Those are empty promises that people always make. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think that's what people do, Hey can I do it?

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Speaker 1: They don't really want to do anything, okay, but they

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Speaker 1: want to be on record is offering and I love.

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Speaker 4: That, And please continue to be the great people.

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Speaker 2: That you are then it's also you. So yeah, that's

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Speaker 2: what I was thinking.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, is it because it's me? Jason didn't like it?

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Speaker 5: I would have actually did it because I knew that

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Speaker 5: you were working this job in the afternoon. Yes, like what,

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Speaker 5: I was not working and I was running around doing

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Speaker 5: errand so I said, I'm like, hey, I'm running errands.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to the storage. You need me to pick

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Speaker 3: up anything? You did say that?

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Speaker 2: Well, he was also your defect a wedding planner, and.

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Speaker 5: I'm used to working your events. You're my boss, so

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Speaker 5: I'm going to make sure it was on top of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for my wedding.

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Speaker 4: I know you like my kidney, dude, because like I

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Speaker 4: threw you in and you you threw throw thrive.

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Speaker 2: I mean he throws, which is the past past.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, you throw my wedding. Without you, we'd still

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Speaker 3: be all way.

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Speaker 1: Don't try and tell me that every time you say

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Speaker 1: I'll help you out if I if you need it.

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Speaker 1: Don't tell me every time you throw that out there

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Speaker 1: you want to do that. I'm not because I would

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Speaker 1: if you if I had texted you that, which I didn't,

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Speaker 1: but if I had and been like, you know, and

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Speaker 1: then you said to me, actually, yes, I need you

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Speaker 1: to go. I would do it, but I would resent

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Speaker 1: you don't ever say that. You don't say, let me

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Speaker 2: You don't really want to do is.

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Speaker 3: My love language. But to each their own.

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Speaker 5: There are things when I'll be like, Mike, Gene help

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Speaker 5: I don't want to come on it. I'm just being honest.

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Speaker 5: I'm being situational. But yes, I would.

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Speaker 1: Say eighty percent of the time when I offer my help,

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Speaker 1: I'm really hoping they say no. Now, if they said yes,

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Speaker 1: I would do it, but I'm not. I don't really

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Speaker 1: want to do it. And that is honest, and I

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Speaker 3: I love honesty.

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Speaker 2: Kiky, don't tell me that you haven't texted somebody. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna.

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Speaker 1: I'll be having to go get in. It's like, please

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Speaker 1: say no, please say no, please say no.

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, I don't even why why even text bro?

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because if I'm being even

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Speaker 1: more honest, then I get credit for offering to help.

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Speaker 1: But I didn't have to help. So that you know,

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Speaker 1: because well, you offered to help, but I did offer

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Speaker 2: I don't really want to.

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Speaker 3: I think it's nice because, like you said, you'll still

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Speaker 3: do it. You can resent me in private.

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Speaker 1: But if you were to say to me like, hey,

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Speaker 1: k okay, actually yes, can you go pick up the

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Speaker 1: cake or something, I'd be.

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Speaker 2: Like, jeez, but I would do it.

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Speaker 3: I would do it, and I would help.

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Speaker 2: You do it. But the whole time I would be like,

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Speaker 2: it's her breaking party.

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Speaker 4: Having mad the kicks in the back seat, right, yeah, hey, listen,

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Speaker 4: I'm not mad at that. I was just curious if

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Speaker 4: it's because it's me, And I'm like, is this everybody

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Speaker 4: reaching out?

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Speaker 3: Because I know that I don't have my stuff together today?

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Speaker 1: But you very much did though, For once in my

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Speaker 1: life easy, I saw that people had T shirts.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we all had matching shirts. Yeah, right, and married

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Speaker 3: into that kind of family.

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Speaker 1: I think it was very well done. It was already

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Speaker 1: it was. I showed up and it was there was.

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Speaker 1: Everything was done. You did a great show.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank you for once in my life I

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Speaker 4: felt good and ready. That never happens.

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Speaker 2: Well, and I'm sorry I didn't pick up the cake.

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Speaker 3: More Fred Show next