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Speaker 1: Welcome to This Country Life. I'm your host, Brent Rieves

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Speaker 1: from coon hunting to trot lining and just general country living.

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Speaker 1: I want you to stay a while as I share

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Speaker 1: my stories and the country skills that will help you

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Speaker 1: beat the system. This Country Life is proudly presented as

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Speaker 1: part of Meat Eaters Podcast Network, bringing you the best

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Speaker 1: outdoor podcast the airways have to offer. All right, friends,

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Speaker 1: pull you up a chair or drop that tail gate.

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Speaker 1: I think I got a thing or two. The Teaching

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Speaker 1: Old School Part two Old School Part two Old School,

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Speaker 1: also Old School. Here we go again, whatever you want

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Speaker 1: to call it, that's what we're talking about this week.

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Speaker 1: A continued conversation on things I found value in that

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Speaker 1: the world has generally passed on by I like innovation

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Speaker 1: and progress, but not just for the sake of change.

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Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of tradition and legacy and paying

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Speaker 1: respect to the folks that got us here by keeping

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Speaker 1: their customs and practices alive. Round two of Old School

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Speaker 1: is up next, But first I'm going to tell you

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Speaker 1: a story. In nineteen seventy five, I was nine years

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Speaker 1: old and had narrowed down the path my life would

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Speaker 1: take to either being a policeman, a cowboy, or a stuntman. Now,

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Speaker 1: looking back forty eight years later, I have to say

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Speaker 1: I pretty well called that career from the get go.

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Speaker 1: What little TV I watched that time was Adam twelve Gun,

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Speaker 1: Smoke Bonanza, A six Million Dollar Man, and Swat. Now

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Speaker 1: a lot of you probably never heard of those shows,

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Speaker 1: but I'm sure some will recall them anyway. We also

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Speaker 1: had a barn and a hay loft. Dad kept everything

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Speaker 1: that you associate with that barn in there, and it

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Speaker 1: was also a playground for us kids. Now, y all

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Speaker 1: hang on, because I'm going somewhere with all this. The

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Speaker 1: hay in the loft was used to build hideouts and

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Speaker 1: for playing hide and seek, and it was the headquarters

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Speaker 1: for a lot of the adventures we'd conjured up. It

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Speaker 1: was an army base, a frontier for it, placed to

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Speaker 1: hide chew in the back of cigarettes. It was anything

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Speaker 1: we needed it to be, and it was full of

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Speaker 1: tools hatchets, axes, hammers, anything a group of well intended

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Speaker 1: but poorly supervised kids could think of to use for

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Speaker 1: any activity other than their intended purpose. A hatchet turned

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Speaker 1: into a tomahawk, and trying to master the art of

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Speaker 1: chunk of one to stick in a tree. A claw

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Speaker 1: hammer made for a good pistol, and the many gunfights

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Speaker 1: said break out at a moment's notice. And there were

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Speaker 1: ropes cold and hung around, but they were big and rough,

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Speaker 1: except for the ones that hung with the plow harness

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Speaker 1: that belonged to my great grandfather. He passed away before

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Speaker 1: I was born, but he was my dad and my

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Speaker 1: uncle's father figure growing up because their father, my grandfather,

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Speaker 1: was killed in an industrial accident in a Navy shipyard

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Speaker 1: in San Francisco, California. He'd taking a job there during

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Speaker 1: World War Two. Like a lot of men with families

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Speaker 1: from our area, work was where you found it, and

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Speaker 1: regardless of how far you had to travel to do it.

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Speaker 1: I'd seen Dad use those harness and our horse buck

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Speaker 1: many times to plow a garden or to skid logs

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Speaker 1: out of the woods that we'd cut for firewood. He'd

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Speaker 1: also used it to pull a ground slide that he'd

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Speaker 1: built out of rough cut lumber. Ground slide is a

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Speaker 1: decked platform of two to twelve is about ten feet

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Speaker 1: without going plumb off the rails. Here, a single tree

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Speaker 1: and on each end would be rings that would be

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Speaker 1: and bit was it plow lines or reins, and that

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Speaker 1: lines were tightly woven cotton ropes. There were strong but

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Speaker 1: soft on the hands and easy to grip. Now where's

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Speaker 1: Brent going with this story? Well, I had to explain

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Speaker 1: all of that to explain this. That whole harness was

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Speaker 1: precious to my dad. My great grandfather had used its

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Speaker 1: had been an integral part of my father's very existence,

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Speaker 1: growing up in a tangible item that he could reach

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Speaker 1: us to our past. My great grandfather and grandfather had

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Speaker 1: told and sweated holding those plow lines to survive, and

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Speaker 1: had for those two men. And that's about as old

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Speaker 1: school as he gets. So what does that have to

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Speaker 1: the career path I chose at the tender age of nine. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you. In the opening credits of the SWAT

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Speaker 1: repelled down the side of a three story building, and

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Speaker 1: making the world safer. But it was going to be

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Speaker 1: a long long time before I could be old enough

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Speaker 1: either electric or barbed wire, and I wasn't built to

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Speaker 1: safely jump over either. According to my maternal grandfather, my

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Speaker 1: But I did have a two story barn. All I

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Speaker 1: But that's what I was gonna do. I just had

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Speaker 1: it scratched the fire out of my neck. That was

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Speaker 1: be what that swat man on TV was using. Maybe

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Speaker 1: his daddy had a harness in his barn. I unhooked

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Speaker 1: each end from the bit, I threw it over my

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Speaker 1: it applied to me? Trial and injury. Back up to

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Speaker 1: his rope. I measured out what I thought would be

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