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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 2: Laura is on the phone today for to catch a Cheater,

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Speaker 2: and she thinks that her husband of five years named

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Speaker 2: Chris might be messing around, so we'll see if we

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Speaker 2: can catch him if he is. In a second, Laura, sorry,

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Speaker 2: you have to come on the show this way. What's

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Speaker 2: going on? Why do you think Chris is cheating?

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, so I mean, yeah, Chris and I have

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Speaker 3: been married for five years, but we've actually been together

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Speaker 3: for nine years total, so you know, it's a very

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Speaker 3: long term relationship. There have been some rocky moments, but

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Speaker 3: we've we've always been able to work through them in

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Speaker 3: the past. So I'm in a little bit of a

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Speaker 3: conundrum right now. I'm super in love with Chris. This

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Speaker 3: is what I would call a pretty happy marriage. But

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Speaker 3: last month I was on the couch, I was watching

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Speaker 3: TV and Chris was sitting next to me. He had

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Speaker 3: a phone by him, which is not unusual, and his

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Speaker 3: it because it distracted me. It wasn't like, you know,

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Speaker 3: it wasn't anything weird. I just like caught it out

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Speaker 3: of the corner of my eye, but it looked like

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Speaker 3: a Tinder notification. Oh yeah, I mean, I you know,

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Speaker 3: I've never used Tinder myself. Again, we've been together for

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Speaker 3: nine years, but like I have single girlfriends, I know

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Speaker 3: what Tinder looks like. So later that same night, we

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Speaker 3: were lying down in bed, we were like, you know,

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Speaker 3: and I saw it again, like I saw this notification

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Speaker 3: flash and he very quickly picked up his phone and

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Speaker 3: turned it off. And I was like, Okay, that's a

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Speaker 3: little bit weird, right, And again I didn't want to

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Speaker 3: jump to conclusions because I mean, it could be anything,

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Speaker 3: could be work, it could be whatever. But it was

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Speaker 3: still bothering me the next day, so I got a

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Speaker 3: brainwave and I don't know if it was a good idea,

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Speaker 3: and I went ahead and I downloaded Tinder onto my

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Speaker 3: own phone and I made fake profile, bake picture. I

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Speaker 3: said my name was Bailey, and I found Chris. He

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Speaker 3: was on tender. Yeah. I thought I matched with him,

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Speaker 3: as you know, Bailey. And at first I didn't do

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Speaker 3: anything about it. It was just sort of like you know,

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Speaker 3: on here and he matched with me. So finally though,

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Speaker 3: I mustered up the strength to message him, and he

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Speaker 3: was honestly just really nice. He wasn't weird, he wasn't aggressive,

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Speaker 3: he was just super kind. He didn't ask me for nudes,

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Speaker 3: he didn't like be like, you know, let's hook up

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Speaker 3: or anything. He did. It seemed like he just wanted

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Speaker 3: to talk. So as Bailey, we start talking together, and

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Speaker 3: I knew that I should be like super pissed about this,

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Speaker 3: as as Laura, as now my two personalities, like as myself,

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Speaker 3: I should have been pissed, and I kind of was,

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Speaker 3: So you know, I go into Bailey mode and started

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Speaker 3: talking back to him. And the truth is I kind

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Speaker 3: of got addicted to it, like that little adrenaline rush,

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Speaker 3: you know. And after a while of chatting over like

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Speaker 3: the period of a couple of weeks, I knew when

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Speaker 3: he'd leave the room to message her as me Bailey,

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Speaker 3: you know, and I you know, kind of wait for

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Speaker 3: the look on his face after he read whatever eye

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Speaker 3: Slash Daily had sent him, and it was, you know,

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Speaker 3: it was a little bit cute. It kind of felt

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Speaker 3: like that new relationship, like you know when you're excited

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Speaker 3: to talk to somebody, Like that's that's how he appeared

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Speaker 3: a little bit. That's kind of how I felt. But

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Speaker 3: you know, at the end of the day, it's still

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Speaker 3: it's cheating. He doesn't know that it's.

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Speaker 1: Me someone else though, I mean.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't exactly exactly, and so that's my dilemma. Like

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Speaker 3: I realized that I let it go too far, but

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Speaker 3: like it was just really nice to kind of see

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Speaker 3: my husband in a new light that wasn't and it wasn't,

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Speaker 3: like I said, it wasn't super gross or predatory. It

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Speaker 3: seems like he just really does like talking to Bailey,

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Speaker 3: but I don't know what he's doing with other people

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that sounds very, very accepting of it.

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Speaker 4: I think there's really one big takeaway here, honestly, is

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Speaker 4: that I think roleplay maybe something that is exciting for you.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm serious, it sounds like that's something that

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Speaker 4: may work for you guys, once you get to the

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Speaker 3: Well, I hope we get to the bottom of it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm it kind of depends on what else

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Speaker 4: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: You already told us what grocery store you guys are

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Speaker 2: rewards card members at. So we'll call him and pretend

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Speaker 2: to be from the grocery store and say that he's

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Speaker 2: this month's big winner of flowers from our Florida department

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Speaker 2: to be set to wherever he wants.

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Speaker 1: We'll see if he sends us to you or to

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Speaker 1: somebody else.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, place, don't come back get your

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Speaker 2: to Catch a Cheater next if you're just joining us

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Speaker 2: for today's to Catch a Cheater. Laura is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and she thinks that her husband of five years, Chris,

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Speaker 2: gonna call him and see if we can catch him

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Speaker 2: by pretending to be from the grocery store that they

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Speaker 2: are reward card members at and say that every single month,

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Speaker 2: we choose one Rewards Card member who gets free flowers

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Speaker 2: delivered from our Florida department. We'll see if he's to

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Speaker 2: his wife, Laura or to somebody else before we do that, Laura,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.

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Speaker 3: I think that my husband may be cheating on me

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Speaker 3: because I saw a Tinder notification on his phone, and

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Speaker 3: in order to find out, I made a fake profile.

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Speaker 3: I said my name was this girl Daily. She doesn't exist.

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Speaker 3: I made her up and he started chatting with her.

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Speaker 3: But it hasn't gone beyond just talking. So I don't

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Speaker 3: know what's going on. I just know that he's been

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Speaker 3: talking to me as this girl named Dailey, and I

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Speaker 1: All right? You ready for us to call on?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I guess, so here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi, my name is Gorbyn calling from SIRS. I was

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Speaker 2: looking for our rewards card member named Chris.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, speak Chris. Please don't hang up. This is

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Speaker 1: not a marking phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually calling to say congratulations, you're list onst big winner.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much for shopping with us.

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Speaker 3: All right, well what does that mean?

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Speaker 2: Every single month we choose one rewards card member who

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Speaker 2: gets free flowers delivered from our floral department.

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Speaker 1: It's our way of saying thank you for shopping.

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Speaker 2: You've won thirty six long sim red roses a box

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Speaker 2: of chocolate or candy and a card to be delivered

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Speaker 2: to anybody that you want with in the fifty United

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Speaker 1: It's absolutely free.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, okay, cool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So here's how it works.

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Speaker 2: If you know who you want to us in the

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Speaker 2: flowers to right now, I can take the information down

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Speaker 2: over the phone in no matter of minutes.

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Speaker 3: Well, we can knock it out right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I got you? All right? Great. So what's the

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Speaker 1: first and last name of the person you'd like to

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Speaker 5: It's the same last name. It's just my wife, Laura. Okay,

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Speaker 5: you have the address, but with the account.

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Speaker 1: Uh, yes, I too. Do you want to put anything

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Speaker 3: Well, just tell her I love you very much and

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Speaker 3: you're you're you're my one.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're my one? Does that make sense?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Got it.

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Speaker 2: How long you guys been married, by the way, five years?

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, that's a long time. Do you ever have

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: No, Chris, this is actually the Jubil Show. It's a

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Speaker 2: radio show. My name is Jubel.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Hi, Chris, I mean also on the show, Hi,

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Speaker 4: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment call to catch a Cheater and

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Speaker 2: your wife Laura is actually on the other line, and

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Speaker 2: she has some questions for you.

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Speaker 3: Hey, baby, Hi missed, took the right turn. What's happening.

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Speaker 3: I just want to know if you've been with other women,

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Speaker 3: or if you've thought about it, or if you're kind

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Speaker 3: of leaning in that direction. I'm like on the radio

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Speaker 5: Well, the answer, regardless of whether I'm on the radio

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Speaker 3: In our marriage. Do you want to be with somebody else?

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Speaker 3: Is there anybody else that you've been like thinking about

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Speaker 5: No, No, I haven't.

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Speaker 3: If I ask No, only name Bailey, what would she say?

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Speaker 3: Do you know who I'm talking about? Do you know

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Speaker 3: who Bailey is? No? Yeah, you do, because I'm Bailey.

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Speaker 3: I'm Bailey. I made that account and I've been messaging you.

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Speaker 3: I saw, I saw, I saw a tender on your phone.

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Speaker 3: I saw a notification come up. So I made the

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Speaker 3: Bailey profile. That's that's just a random photo of a

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Speaker 5: Okay, so we should probably like talk.

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Speaker 3: Yea, yeah, yeah, can we please talk right now? Because like,

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Speaker 3: as long as we've done this much on the radio,

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Speaker 3: I just like to wrap this up so I don't

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well you shouldn't be humiliated. I did something very stupid. This,

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Speaker 5: this character you created was the only person I've been

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Speaker 5: in contact with, which is you, which is probably my

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Speaker 5: mind was kind of blown right now. I mean, as

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Speaker 5: you can see, since you were very much in on this,

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Speaker 5: like I wasn't. I crossed the line by opening it,

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Speaker 5: but I wasn't like being inappropriate. I've talked to no

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Speaker 5: one else, no one sent anything inappropriate. I've not gotten

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Speaker 5: anything inappropriate from anybody. I was just chatting and I,

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Speaker 5: you know, i'd like to ironically this Dailey was and

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Speaker 5: I just wanted to talk. It kind of like felt

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Speaker 5: like we were just things were stale with us or something,

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Speaker 5: and I wasn't looking to cheat. Look, I'm I'm really sorry.

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Speaker 5: I that was extremely stupid. But I can promise you

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Speaker 5: that this wasn't wrong, but like I didn't I didn't

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Speaker 5: or even like well hopefully you can attest to like

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Speaker 5: wasn't even like inappropriately conversing with.

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Speaker 3: Anybody, you know, all right, Well, I mean clearly there

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Speaker 3: was something we both got from this, Like it was

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Speaker 3: thrilling for me in a certain way. It seems like

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Speaker 3: it was thrilling for you to be able to talk

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Speaker 3: to somebody else. But I feel like that's something we

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Speaker 3: can work on in our relationship. Like I'm still kind

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Speaker 3: and I hope we can work through it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm sorry. I'll show you all of it. You'll

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Speaker 5: at least be somewhat self assured by that, but I'm

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Speaker 5: really sorry.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: N Yeah, I mean it sounds like he wasn't cheating,

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Speaker 2: but at least if he was going to, it would

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Speaker 2: be with you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You guys obviously got some stuff to work out, so

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Speaker 1: good luck. Good luck is right.

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Speaker 3: Thanks guys, This was actually really helpful. I really appreciate

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Speaker 3: you helping me out with this.

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