Speaker 1: Wat's up and welcome back to another episode of No
Speaker 1: Salis Podcast with your hosts Now fuck that with your
Speaker 1: low glasses Malone. Now, what made you want to talk
Speaker 1: about this topic again?
Speaker 2: Well, I was out with the you know, Malcolm and
Speaker 2: a few of his celebrit friends. They had all their
Speaker 2: you know, model type chicks and whatever with them, and
Speaker 2: I get irritated all the time, whatever with the just
Speaker 2: the self indulgent entitlement that women seem to always have.
Speaker 2: But we're in Miami, so I'm just looking around and
Speaker 2: I'm seeing everybody else and they're doing all how the
Speaker 2: hell they're living and shit, And I go, you know what,
Speaker 2: I'm not so sure I can ignore any longer being
Speaker 2: mad at all these dudes who's inexplicable desperation for attention
Speaker 2: from these women's fucking up their own perception of how life,
Speaker 2: the marketplace, their value, all of it is supposed to
Speaker 2: fucking work.
Speaker 1: And why can't you blame the guys? And so first off,
Speaker 1: shout out to Michael Mags. That's a little bro. Michael
Speaker 1: Mage is a lot of films, my little bro out
Speaker 1: the Jungles, you know what I mean. He had a
Speaker 1: deal like like they was like he was such a prodigy.
Speaker 1: He had a deal on the Sony lot when he
Speaker 1: was like fifteen. You know what I'm saying. He was writing, producing,
Speaker 1: and directing his own film. And you know, this is
Speaker 1: a little brother from South Central, his family from Watch
Speaker 1: related to Tikie. Just a really smart, sharp dude man.
Speaker 1: Unbelievable talent as a musician. Y'all've seen him in What's
Speaker 1: the fifty cent TV show?
Speaker 2: He is the character Lou and Raising Kanan.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's in Raising Kanaan. I know he was Kevin
Speaker 1: and Snowfall.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So we ran into Malcolm in Atlanta and then he
Speaker 1: went and fuck with Pete in Miami. He's working on
Speaker 1: finishing the script. So when he says michaelm me specifically
Speaker 1: talking about a really family, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, So now let's get back to this
Speaker 1: because it's obviously him, because Malcolm is a hardcore player
Speaker 1: going out like that. Yeah, but I'm saying, why are
Speaker 1: you know that was not our.
Speaker 2: Table that we were sitting at, because there was a
Speaker 2: few gentlemen at our table that were men of status
Speaker 2: and ship like that, So they have hangers on.
Speaker 1: So why aren't you mad at the guys for the
Speaker 1: effort or contributing to that desperation from women in these predicaments?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Why are you not upset
Speaker 1: at them anymore?
Speaker 2: No? I am mad at them. I I What I
Speaker 2: was saying is I can no longer ignore their role
Speaker 2: in this as as complicit to the what it's like
Speaker 2: the word what it said, complicit to the corruption of
Speaker 2: a miner or something like that, Like if you like
Speaker 2: buy alcohol for someone.
Speaker 1: Under age like that, you're complicit and complicit you're sisting,
Speaker 1: Yeah they are. Why are they assisting in women's desire? Oh,
Speaker 1: you're saying for the inflation?
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, it's like they have. And I don't really know.
Speaker 2: I kind of wanted to look at this from a
Speaker 2: from a number standpoint. That was like I kind of
Speaker 2: almost want to look at it from the psychological standpoint.
Speaker 2: I mean, we're in this somebody's spots and these are
Speaker 2: you know, big money spots, and you look around and
Speaker 2: you see there's bad bitches everywhere, and it's dudes everywhere
Speaker 2: just throwing gobs and gobs and money out into the
Speaker 2: ethos to attract them or to appeal them in whatever
Speaker 2: the fuck way. And I'm just like, so, you know,
Speaker 2: a lot of them, got it, There's a lot of them, don't.
Speaker 2: It's a weekend in Miami. The's a lot of people
Speaker 2: out here fucking off there, you know, burning down credit
Speaker 2: and sh like that.
Speaker 1: There's a lot you think people burning down they credit
Speaker 1: these situations.
Speaker 2: No, I know for a fact, Yeah, for sure. I mean,
Speaker 2: and it depends on where you go, but yeah, there's
Speaker 2: certain spots you go to and it's like, yeah, there's
Speaker 2: just a lot of money here. And there's other spots
Speaker 2: you go and it's like there's a lot of spending
Speaker 2: happening here. I'm not sure there's a lot of money here.
Speaker 2: And I'm just like, what in the fuck is it
Speaker 2: that compels these dudes to like make life mistakes over
Speaker 2: trying to like solicit the attention to some girls, Like
Speaker 2: what are you doing? What are we doing? What's happening
Speaker 2: with that?
Speaker 1: Hmmm? So why do peacocks flash their feathers to attract
Speaker 1: female peacocks? Is what you're asking me.
Speaker 2: I'm asking that all, yes, partly, And I'm also saying
Speaker 2: why do peacocks If peacocks knew it was hunting season,
Speaker 2: they do it then, so you.
Speaker 1: Think it's guy's fault while women are screwed up and
Speaker 1: have this, well, obviously it's God's fault. They have this
Speaker 1: sense of entitlement.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's let's let's let's let's break down right, let's
Speaker 1: break down further. Let's let's let's get to the genesis.
Speaker 1: How argue about me and paying for a vagina?
Speaker 2: At that point, it depends on I am not bothered
Speaker 2: by it if it is efficient.
Speaker 1: So let's say if a guy goes to like a
Speaker 1: bar like they used to in the old Western times,
Speaker 1: or burlesque house, and they said, I like this girl here,
Speaker 1: I got thirty dollars, and they take this girl into
Speaker 1: a room and they do their business and then they leave.
Speaker 2: That does not bother me one bit.
Speaker 1: So you cool it. So it's not the thing that.
Speaker 2: That's a transparent market. You're trading time for pussy over
Speaker 2: a currency that is monetary. I get that, there's no opaqueness.
Speaker 2: How much do you cost? How long? One hour, five hundred?
Speaker 2: I get that that is fine. What I do not
Speaker 2: get if the price goes up, it goes up, goes down,
Speaker 2: goes down. What bothers.
Speaker 1: Me is.
Speaker 2: Throwing money out there in an attempt to get a
Speaker 2: woman who may or may not sleep with you, or
Speaker 2: not knowing her price and overshooting it by a mile,
Speaker 2: and then she thinks that's her price.
Speaker 1: So you think these guys are creating a false sense
Speaker 1: of they're giving false appraisals in the market.
Speaker 2: One hundred. It would be like going to an auction
Speaker 2: with a blindfold and ear plugs on and just yelling
Speaker 2: numbers and then someone thinks, well, thirty three thousand dollars
Speaker 2: for a cheeseburger.
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, So guys throw money up in the
Speaker 1: club right now? I would imagine because I was signing
Speaker 1: cash money records, I spent a lot of time in Florida.
Speaker 1: Shout out to the g homie E class. You know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Who broke Rick Ross? Really brilliant executive,
Speaker 1: don't get a ton of credit, but a really good
Speaker 1: dude shot It took me to tutsis. So I think
Speaker 1: the idea is to throw money right in the air
Speaker 1: to attract a prostitute or forgive me, because I don't
Speaker 1: think women who work at the strip club want to
Speaker 1: be called prostitutes.
Speaker 2: And even in that case, if it's a prostitute, you
Speaker 2: don't need to throw money to attract them. They're working.
Speaker 1: But the point is it's so many gentlemen suitors that
Speaker 1: they're trying. Okay, it is an oxygen. Excuse me, it
Speaker 1: is an auction to some point. Right, it is an auction. Right.
Speaker 1: So there's hundreds of male suitors, right, and the strip
Speaker 1: club is is kind of the most when it comes
Speaker 1: to just finding women to sleep with, right, or women
Speaker 1: that people feel are desirable. Right, these are the most
Speaker 1: curvious women in town. That's the theme of it. And
Speaker 1: if the goal is just to sleep with them, right,
Speaker 1: you're in a you're in an environment where there's an action,
Speaker 1: there's an auction going on because there's so many male suitors.
Speaker 1: So the goal is like a peacock, to flash your
Speaker 1: feathers as big as possible to possibly pay a woman
Speaker 1: to sleep with them. I would like, I think that's
Speaker 1: what's happening.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that that's a lot of what's happening.
Speaker 2: But that is.
Speaker 1: But I don't think it's necessarily just for the sake
Speaker 1: of paying for vagina. No, siilings gl Man, Peter, we're
Speaker 1: cooking you feel me, So allow us to get into
Speaker 1: the the economic kind of relations when it comes to
Speaker 1: how men flass and trick when it comes to women.
Speaker 1: It's a little weird, but let's let's let's try to
Speaker 1: pill it back, right. So it's not just the sake of, Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna throw money up to attract one of these
Speaker 1: girls to pay them for sex, right, It's also to
Speaker 1: show the next guy in the community, right, who's at
Speaker 1: the same place. Hey, I'm earning money and I'm somebody
Speaker 1: you should know, or I'm somebody that has a ton
Speaker 1: of value. Because just like a rapper, right, A lot
Speaker 1: of rappers or sometimes hip hop artists believe that, you know,
Speaker 1: when people see money, Donald Trump, right, you market wealth
Speaker 1: to attract more wealth. That's the belief. So if you
Speaker 1: have money, people will spend money with you. Because I
Speaker 1: don't quite know why they feel that way. Maybe I
Speaker 1: don't really have an answer. I would have to y'all
Speaker 1: tell me in the comments, you know, in the comments.
Speaker 2: I would imagine that if you're out throwing a lot
Speaker 2: of money around, other people want to go make more money.
Speaker 2: So if you're black, I must be making a bunch
Speaker 2: of money's throwing around a bunch of money. So yeah,
Speaker 2: they want to deal with you in some capacity, and
Speaker 2: it validates anything that you're doing that you bring them
Speaker 2: into because they see that you're all throwing a bunch
Speaker 2: of money around.
Speaker 1: So I think at that point, right, it's it's also
Speaker 1: a reputation piece, right where it's like you want all
Speaker 1: the women and all the guys to leave this specific
Speaker 1: let's say club or strip club telling everybody, yo, glasses
Speaker 1: is it I watched him throw you know, a million
Speaker 1: dollar up last night? Sure?
Speaker 2: Sure so and that's at the strip club, though.
Speaker 1: I'm saying even at a club club, right, it's like
Speaker 1: when you it's the reason that they have sparklers with
Speaker 1: the bottles, now, yeah, they're leading everybody's eyes to the
Speaker 1: person spending coin inside the spot. It should be used
Speaker 1: as a marketing tool for some kind of business that
Speaker 1: other people in this environment can buy into. Now, is
Speaker 1: it's being misused? I'm sure some people in there who
Speaker 1: don't who don't work at the kind of places that
Speaker 1: can really benefit from that type of marketing.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And like you know, like during COVID and like
Speaker 2: people it is would come out to l Al they
Speaker 2: realized it was closed, but like down here, every weekend.
Speaker 2: It's not even always all you know, proverbial billboard, so
Speaker 2: to speak. You just see lots of people out here
Speaker 2: tricking off weekend trips, trying to you know, get some
Speaker 2: chick from back home or whatever the hell, or you know,
Speaker 2: if you're at whatever restaurant or the bar, at the
Speaker 2: hotel or all this shit. It's just it never stops.
Speaker 2: And you know, I got you know, SLS on the beach.
Speaker 2: Pause this, This dude spent five thousand dollars to just
Speaker 2: take me out for the weekend art your mediocre. I
Speaker 2: don't know why the guy did it.
Speaker 1: So what type of woman is worth the five thousand
Speaker 1: dollars at the n CLS.
Speaker 2: On the beach, the one that doesn't want it?
Speaker 1: Why is she more worth it than the other woman
Speaker 1: who wants it?
Speaker 2: Well, it's all relative. It's all relative to what you
Speaker 2: got the one who wants it. Whatever the hell I
Speaker 2: think the guy thinks he's getting out of this situation
Speaker 2: because you can tell, you know, the difference the one
Speaker 2: who wants it. Bro, you might as well have just
Speaker 2: set the chick down there on her own. You know,
Speaker 2: there's no reason for either of you to have even
Speaker 2: been there together. When it doesn't want it. You know
Speaker 2: she's there because you're there.
Speaker 1: What if he's doing it to make her dreams come true?
Speaker 2: Why would he do that?
Speaker 1: Maybe it gives him a sense of power. I'm the
Speaker 1: exact opposite Prime Glasses Malone bro I was gonna take
Speaker 1: a Grammy winner and somebody from bel Air to Tams, Right.
Speaker 1: That was my thing, like I always would offer when
Speaker 1: I was in the prime of my heyday as a player.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I still keep it clear
Speaker 1: to this but when I was in my heyday as
Speaker 1: a player, I was gonna take a girl that wanted
Speaker 1: Grammy or an Oscar, or that lived in bel Air
Speaker 1: or Brentwood. I'm gonna take her to Tams. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: pick her up in a lowrider. I'm gonna take her
Speaker 1: to Tams. I'm gonna take a hood girl right to
Speaker 1: Stink and Rolls or to you know, some more upscale
Speaker 1: spot that's near Beverly Hills or in Beverly Hills, Right,
Speaker 1: Because you really just why did I used to do that?
Speaker 1: You really just trying to to broaden up somebody experience,
Speaker 1: to give them like a version of yourself. That a
Speaker 1: version of yourself that maybe they're not according to because
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, I think a lot of that
Speaker 1: they're not you know, used to like that they're not
Speaker 1: fucking with. So I mean most hood girls right at
Speaker 1: this point, girls from where I'm from, you know, they
Speaker 1: taking signs in front of you know, they're taking pictures
Speaker 1: in front of the signs that really four and five
Speaker 1: star steakhousing ordering well done steaks, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But I think the point of it is that means
Speaker 1: something to them clearly, right Versus it was a girl
Speaker 1: I was dating who won a couple of Grammys. She
Speaker 1: didn't care about you know, the stinking Rolls, or she
Speaker 1: didn't care about Laurie's, or she didn't care about Katanas,
Speaker 1: or she didn't care about mister Childs. That that was
Speaker 1: like normal for her, Like I would take her to
Speaker 1: towns on Long Beach Boulevard and we'll eat out right
Speaker 1: there in Compton, right outside.
Speaker 2: And was that also so that you could compare her
Speaker 2: to the open Marketplace just on the other side of
Speaker 2: the window.
Speaker 1: The open marketplace on all you mean on the bulletvard. No, No, really,
Speaker 1: I just knew that she never had been there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got you.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I knew that nobody most
Speaker 1: likely brought her to the culture, you know, came brought
Speaker 1: her to the life, you know what I mean. And
Speaker 1: I know when certain girls look at me, what they see.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, I know what girls
Speaker 1: look at like. I can see it in the girl's eye,
Speaker 1: what they see in me. You know what I'm saying. Like,
Speaker 1: if it's a girl from the hood, she see, Oh,
Speaker 1: this nigga getting some coin. You know what I mean,
Speaker 1: He's playing with some money. So I'm gonna take her
Speaker 1: somewhere where she thinks costs some money. And the girl
Speaker 1: that's that's us some money, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take her to the culture because she looking
Speaker 1: at me and she see the streets. You really just
Speaker 1: trying to give, you know, a woman a memorable experience.
Speaker 1: That's what I believe, Like, that's what I try to do. Now.
Speaker 1: So your complain is that the one that men are
Speaker 1: creating a false sense of value for women?
Speaker 2: Yes, because because women are now demanding this the right,
Speaker 2: demanding it the coolest thing that I could do with
Speaker 2: like thirty minutes of my time. It's hysterical and it's
Speaker 2: a great like for me as a comedy writer. It's
Speaker 2: just easy pen work. Go on like dating apps and
Speaker 2: just start running through the profiles of what women say
Speaker 2: in their own words, and there's girls, come down to
Speaker 2: Miami here for a weekend, take me on your boat,
Speaker 2: plan or plan something. I want to go to a
Speaker 2: dinner at Da da dad. You know. They don't might
Speaker 2: say specifically this restaurant at this address, but I want
Speaker 2: to go to one of the places here, or it's
Speaker 2: just like an instantaneous if you want to interact with
Speaker 2: me at all, I demand blank. And that's just for that.
Speaker 2: It's just if you want to interact with me at all.
Speaker 2: And I know that how that happened. It happened because
Speaker 2: they got inundated with this escalating kind of ratcheting up
Speaker 2: of inbox offers on their normal like social media platforms,
Speaker 2: you know, and you see the evolution over time, plan
Speaker 2: a date, take me out entertainment. Now it's like buy
Speaker 2: me something Da da da da. Now it's don't bother
Speaker 2: me with like a dinner date. Let's let's travel somewhere.
Speaker 2: In other words, if you want to fuck with me,
Speaker 2: you better put me on a goddamn go somewhere, you know,
Speaker 2: and just continues to just up and up and up
Speaker 2: and up and up and up, and guys just acquousquisquaquis
Speaker 2: And it's like a vicious feedback loop or whatever the hell?
Speaker 2: And I don't know not understand why dudes put up
Speaker 2: with the ship, Like what is what? What is it
Speaker 2: in the mind that warrants making a bad decision in
Speaker 2: pursuit of of of what? Like you need this fulfillment
Speaker 2: this badly? Like what are we talking about?
Speaker 1: Do you think do you think most guys are fulfilling that?
Speaker 1: Do you think that that's what that is? Do you
Speaker 1: think most guys are well, you know what, she's so desirable.
Speaker 1: I desire her so bad I will play by her rules.
Speaker 1: Do you think most guys feel.
Speaker 2: Like that, most guys in general, or most guys fucking
Speaker 2: with that particular chick.
Speaker 1: Well, let's say that particular chick. Like, let's say we're
Speaker 1: talking about a chick who her thing is surprised me
Speaker 1: on the date I want to sleep with a guy
Speaker 1: on in a balcony on a foreign country, like oh,
Speaker 1: you know how they say, like I want to you
Speaker 1: know whatever, on the balcony on the in a foreign country. Right,
Speaker 1: let's say that trip costs five thousand dollars. You're saying
Speaker 1: you don't know why guys are willing to do do
Speaker 1: that just to sleep with this woman, yeah.
Speaker 2: Or worse still, to continue to try to always do that,
Speaker 2: to like actually get one or keep one. I've known
Speaker 2: a lot of girls that like, oh yeah, well I
Speaker 2: was with this one guy and he made blank and
Speaker 2: he just did whatever for like a couple of years.
Speaker 2: But I just didn't like him. I had to leave.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, the guy, guy knows you don't like him,
Speaker 2: why is he dragging this on for a year and
Speaker 2: a half, two and a half, three years? You know.
Speaker 2: And you can go around the city. You can see it.
Speaker 2: It's not a mystery. You can see those those pairs
Speaker 2: around all over the place all the time. And I've
Speaker 2: known plenty of girls who that all of a sudden,
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm twenty eight and I was single because
Speaker 2: from when I was twenty three when I was twenty six,
Speaker 2: and I was with a dude who just paid all
Speaker 2: my shit and da da da, and you know, I
Speaker 2: just don't like that lifestyle anymore.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've heard I've heard all of those things. I've
Speaker 1: heard all of those stories of these mystery guys that are,
Speaker 1: you know, pretty much tricking the world on women, and
Speaker 1: that's their favorite, that's their claim to fame, right. They
Speaker 1: always remembered how they felt value or valuable because somebody
Speaker 1: was giving them money. But somehow it always ends in
Speaker 1: the same tragic you know, in completion of this is
Speaker 1: the person that you're married to, he's gonna do that forever.
Speaker 1: Somewhere along the line, somebody, and it's usually them saying, oh,
Speaker 1: I decided that I didn't want to do this anymore
Speaker 1: and I want to go back into the regular marketplace
Speaker 1: and meet somebody who's not going to do these things
Speaker 1: for me. So well, and that.
Speaker 2: Goes back to like, my shit, I said a month
Speaker 2: ago to this girl I know for a long time
Speaker 2: was cool as fuck. I was just making a joke.
Speaker 2: I was like, all relationships aren't modern day legalized extortion
Speaker 2: rackets for women who just yeah, the whole paradigm is
Speaker 2: give me exactly what I want. Because that guy over
Speaker 2: there has a dick of a credit card.
Speaker 1: It works too, Yeah, I mean well.
Speaker 2: And she liked that enough to post it on her
Speaker 2: social media.
Speaker 1: It's a hell of an extortion racket. But okay, are
Speaker 1: women worth it at this point?
Speaker 2: Now?
Speaker 1: Then why are some guys paying it? Is it a
Speaker 1: wealthy guy that hasn't excess so he got a roster
Speaker 1: of bral so he not tripping off making different girls
Speaker 1: dreams come true to make it, you know, to feed
Speaker 1: his sense of ego that he's special, even though he's
Speaker 1: pretty much buying his way into her heart. I mean
Speaker 1: it works for some women. A lot of women allow
Speaker 1: men to buy their way into their heart and they
Speaker 1: really think they're in love because this person is spending
Speaker 1: all their money.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I think that that that is absolutely true
Speaker 2: and that absolutely happens. It is mathematically impossible for that
Speaker 2: small of a group of men to have impacted that
Speaker 2: large of a marketplace of women directly.
Speaker 1: You discounting how much pussy some niggas with some money
Speaker 1: is getting.
Speaker 2: No, I'm not. It would have to be a thousand
Speaker 2: a day because there's like fucking fifty million women out there.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, I am really coming to
Speaker 1: the realization that women are probably worse than guys when
Speaker 1: it comes to like every all these niggas ain't getting pussy.
Speaker 1: All these men ain't getting no vagina, and nobody's putting out.
Speaker 1: And if you look at most situations. A buddy of mine's,
Speaker 1: mammy's sonny was telling me, he was like glasses. If
Speaker 1: you really think about it, most of the girls, you know,
Speaker 1: with kids that come from our communities, right, they usually
Speaker 1: have kids with somebody who has multiple baby mamas. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so these dudes is fucking and women are putting out
Speaker 1: based off of that monetary thing. Now, I think that's
Speaker 1: an innate thing, right You. A woman is looking you know,
Speaker 1: most men are. Women are looking for somebody to take
Speaker 1: care of them. That's kind of their innate thing, right.
Speaker 1: As much as they're looking to nurture, they're looking to
Speaker 1: be cared for. Yeah, so they're going to look at
Speaker 1: a guy that's earning revenue, like, okay, he checks off
Speaker 1: one of the most important boxes, right, he can care
Speaker 1: for me. Right, it's a couple important boxes, protect and care.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: They're looking for somebody to protect them and care for them,
Speaker 1: even if the protection might cost them an ass whipping,
Speaker 1: they might get their ass whooped. I'm saying they want
Speaker 1: somebody to protect and to take care of them. Those
Speaker 1: are just natural things, right, women look for look to
Speaker 1: men for So I get why, you know, a guy
Speaker 1: flashing money, you know, even in the most ignorant sense, right,
Speaker 1: flashing money as a means to take care of somebody.
Speaker 1: I get why they're attracted to that guy. Now I won't,
Speaker 1: I will not. Well, besides the fact that some woman
Speaker 1: looks you know, pro creational, like she looks like she's
Speaker 1: you know, worthy of procreating with, right, that's what guy's seeing. Right,
Speaker 1: So they're both at their most primitive places, you know,
Speaker 1: all of the money, Oh he could take care of me,
Speaker 1: you know, for a woman. For a man, it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: she got child bearing hips, the most primitive things at
Speaker 1: those places. And I think that's why, you know, obviously
Speaker 1: we have all of these issues in society because everybody's oh,
Speaker 1: it's a lot of drugs. Most of these places we
Speaker 1: talk about, even where you and Michael was at, a
Speaker 1: lot of alcohol, drugs, We a million things, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean not to mention that the natural mental front.
Speaker 1: Everybody's putting up inside of this location to look like
Speaker 1: something they're not during the rest of the week. So
Speaker 1: it's a lot of things going on that takes the
Speaker 1: mind into its most primitive places to make the most
Speaker 1: primitive choices. Absolutely, so, maybe what you're blaming men for
Speaker 1: is their most primitive, innate kind of pursuit.
Speaker 2: I'm blaming them for the lack of discipline, is what
Speaker 2: it is. It's a lack of discipline, and it's pervasive
Speaker 2: and there's trickle down to it. I've been on the
Speaker 2: record on this show before saying I blame the two
Speaker 2: thousand and eight housing crash on men trying to buy
Speaker 2: vicious houses they couldn't afford it.
Speaker 1: But isn't that what they're trying they're supposed to be
Speaker 1: trying to do. Isn't that what they're supposed to be
Speaker 1: isn't that the goal to take care of your old lady?
Speaker 2: No, the goal is to be sustainably responsible with your money.
Speaker 2: That's the first goal. Goal, isn't The goal isn't to
Speaker 2: solicit a chick based off of the perception of an
Speaker 2: amount of money that you don't have while you burn
Speaker 2: yourself into the ground. That is not the goal.
Speaker 1: So you don't believe in happy wife, happy life.
Speaker 2: I believe happy with the wife, happy life only works
Speaker 2: until it doesn't, and when you ain't got no money, left.
Speaker 2: The party's over. So you better plan in such a
Speaker 2: way as to if you know you can only keep
Speaker 2: happy wife, happy, happy wife, happy life at two hundred
Speaker 2: dollars a day, you better find a two hundred dollar day, bitch.
Speaker 2: And you can't allow two hundred dollars day bitches to
Speaker 2: think there a thousand dollars day bitches. And you can't
Speaker 2: go run up on one for a thousand dollars a
Speaker 2: day until you burn it out in two years and
Speaker 2: it's over for you. Like it's over for you. That's
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I've had this conversation with friends. How do men stop like?
Speaker 1: How do they like? Why is it most men don't
Speaker 1: know how to tell a woman no?
Speaker 2: That is the root here. Yeah, Historically, I don't know
Speaker 2: what it is about the internal I don't know if
Speaker 2: it's an internal insecurity of a sense of self that
Speaker 2: suggests that, well, if this girl walks out the door
Speaker 2: on me and goes and fucks the neighbor, I can't
Speaker 2: look myself in the mirror, or what it is, or
Speaker 2: if it's an emotional attachment to the person, or if
Speaker 2: it's an emotional attachment to the idea of winning or
Speaker 2: an emotional attachment to what But it's very, very very
Speaker 2: emotionally driven and it is compulsive.
Speaker 1: H Yeah, I've had this conversation enough to say like,
Speaker 1: women will push you because if their insatiable nature, they
Speaker 1: will push you into a place to where you can't afford.
Speaker 1: I had a conversation with one of my buddies who
Speaker 1: got married, and he was saying, he was like, man, glasses,
Speaker 1: I really want to take care of my girl. And
Speaker 1: he told me. I said, how much money do you
Speaker 1: make a year? You know, how much money do you
Speaker 1: make a month? He said, after taxes, I make about
Speaker 1: five thousand dollars a month. I was like, that's pretty good.
Speaker 1: That's sixty thousand dollars after taxes. That's not bad at all.
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, but all the nice places out here,
Speaker 1: you know, they are thirty five hundred dollars a month
Speaker 1: or four thousand dollars a month. And I'm like, well,
Speaker 1: get you know, you know you guys don't have kids, right, No,
Speaker 1: we don't have kids. You only have a daughter. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I say, well, get a two bedroom and don't pay
Speaker 1: no more than two thousand dollars a month. He's like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, man, that might not be in the
Speaker 1: best neighborhood. I'm like, y'all are both adults, Like y'all
Speaker 1: not what you mean the best neighborhoods. It ain't like
Speaker 1: you're going to move to the ghetto. You're not moving
Speaker 1: to the projects, you know what I mean. You're moving
Speaker 1: into a community. Maybe it's an apartment, but you know,
Speaker 1: you get your shit together. You know, you set your
Speaker 1: actual you know your goal, so you can make a
Speaker 1: change in about five or six months. But you know,
Speaker 1: if you can find somewhere between seventeen and nineteen hundred
Speaker 1: for a two bedroom, right, you'll have a place for
Speaker 1: your daughter to come. You know what I'm saying. You
Speaker 1: have a place for your daughter to come. And also
Speaker 1: you have a really good situation where you taking care
Speaker 1: of this lady and paying the bill. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's where you have to really match the
Speaker 2: expectations of the lady you got, or you want to
Speaker 2: the reality of what you can't produce. Men are producers,
Speaker 2: women are consumers. Said that sense episode one. So I
Speaker 2: think part of that and I said, I don't know
Speaker 2: this guy from a hole in the wall. I'm not
Speaker 2: second necessarily saying this is about him. I'm just saying
Speaker 2: in general, I think people get into that. They find
Speaker 2: themselves in that corner where it's like, yeah, this is
Speaker 2: what I can do and this is what I know
Speaker 2: I should do. But she's like, go for that, and
Speaker 2: what happens then?
Speaker 1: I don't believe no woman is not gonna go for that.
Speaker 2: Oh I'm not saying there's no woman that's gonna not
Speaker 2: go for that. Of course, there is a woman that's
Speaker 2: gonna go for that.
Speaker 1: Nine point nine percent of women will go for it.
Speaker 1: If you say, hey, I can afford this two bedroom,
Speaker 1: we don't have kids here, it is, this is what
Speaker 1: I'm getting. They may talk some shit, but if they're
Speaker 1: not paying no bills, they gonna come into a space
Speaker 1: to where they're okay with it. They're gonna be like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I can make this work. You know
Speaker 1: what I mean? They trust me. Like there is a
Speaker 1: confusion that women will complain when they don't have to
Speaker 1: spend money. They won't.
Speaker 2: They won't complain when they don't have to spend money.
Speaker 2: They will complain when they don't get what they want
Speaker 2: with your money.
Speaker 1: That's gonna happen no matter what you do they're gonna complain.
Speaker 1: You can put them in this same friend has a house, right,
Speaker 1: that's oh, the girl is paying some of the money
Speaker 1: on she's complaining still, of course, So the difference is
Speaker 1: they could think when you find that place that fits
Speaker 1: to where they don't spend any money. Like if he
Speaker 1: would have got the place I'm saying he found a
Speaker 1: place that was eighteen fifty four, a two bedroom, right,
Speaker 1: hit him in paying all of the rent, hit him
Speaker 1: in paying all of the bills, you know, and probably
Speaker 1: having roughly you know, fourteen hundred dollars left over versus
Speaker 1: now where he's spending roughly twenty three hundred a month
Speaker 1: plus paying half of the bill. So he's paying the
Speaker 1: same amount of money roughly somewhere right around four thousand
Speaker 1: dollars a month. But it's also like a level of
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, a woman is gonna go playing
Speaker 1: no matter what. But the one thing you want a
Speaker 1: woman to be able to say is what, at least
Speaker 1: this nigga put the roof over my head. Yeah, that's true,
Speaker 1: because women to us is all about what have you
Speaker 1: done for me lately? Or to their friends, it's all
Speaker 1: about you know, you know, he's not doing this or
Speaker 1: he's not doing that to you, that's how it is.
Speaker 1: But to themselves they are very rational and grateful. So
Speaker 1: if you're putting the roof over their head, you can
Speaker 1: pass a lot of shit off with the fact that
Speaker 1: you just paying a motherfucking least on the spot. Lord
Speaker 1: knows if you're paying the electric bill, the gas, the
Speaker 1: water bill, and the cable bill. You know what I mean,
Speaker 1: it's a lot less shit to complain about. Don't get
Speaker 1: me wrong. A woman is gonna fucking complain. That's just
Speaker 1: what they do. They're insatiable. Their nature is insatiable. You know.
Speaker 1: They don't like their own fucking eyelashes. Who the fuck
Speaker 1: notices their own eyelashes? You know how fucking sociopathic you
Speaker 1: have to be to notice your eyelashes? Like nobody, You
Speaker 1: only notice when you don't have them, or when you
Speaker 1: do have them. You don't even notice when you do
Speaker 1: have them. You notice when you don't have them, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, Okay, maybe your eyebrows is obvious,
Speaker 1: maybe your hair. They're fucking eyelashes, so it ain't like
Speaker 1: they're like this yo. Species of people who really, you know,
Speaker 1: are just grateful to be alive as much as they're
Speaker 1: in the constant pursuit of this ever evolving concept of beauty,
Speaker 1: standards and perfection, which really is crazy. But they also
Speaker 1: not fucking stupid. So that's the one thing them. Motherfuckers
Speaker 1: might be crazy, but women ain't stupid. They could be
Speaker 1: a lot of shit that could be emotional, they could
Speaker 1: be ignorant at times, but very rarely when you find
Speaker 1: a woman that is stupid.
Speaker 2: That's fair. They are skilled in getting what they want typically.
Speaker 2: So the suggestion is then, in this inherent game of
Speaker 2: chicken of her complaining about what you can't afford and
Speaker 2: your desire to have affordability, you have to just not
Speaker 2: turn the tractor like in that movie, remember that old
Speaker 2: school movie Footnote, where they're driving the tractors at each other,
Speaker 2: So you just can't turn your attractor with No matter
Speaker 2: what happens, that bitch will jump off the tractor. She's
Speaker 2: gonna be the whole time, but she will jump off
Speaker 2: the tractor.
Speaker 1: I ain't never met a woman who got mad because
Speaker 1: she didn't get the house she was wanted if somebody
Speaker 1: else was paying for it. Oh, I've never in my life.
Speaker 1: I never saw woman leave a man. You know what,
Speaker 1: this is not the house I wanted. I'm never fucking
Speaker 1: with you again. I've never heard that in my life. Ah.
Speaker 2: I know friends of mine whose moms got divorces in
Speaker 2: their forties over that shit.
Speaker 1: So again, to white women, it might be different. But again,
Speaker 1: if you gotta be you gotta find your nuts. Man.
Speaker 1: You cannot let women mistreat you and put you in
Speaker 1: predicaments that you won't be able to afford. And shit,
Speaker 1: if she divorced you shit better off without her.
Speaker 2: That's that's thousand percent true. I think a lot of
Speaker 2: people just they can't take the yet like they they
Speaker 2: can't deal with the risk of the unknown outcome in
Speaker 2: a lot of ways, or the known outcome that they
Speaker 2: don't want with it, know really how it's gonna or
Speaker 2: what happens. Then what do I do after that? You know?
Speaker 2: And I think certain people put themselves a vision in
Speaker 2: the world. It's like I'm gonna try to hold onto
Speaker 2: this as long as I can, but when it stops,
Speaker 2: it's like, dude, you might as well leave now while
Speaker 2: you still got some money in your pocket, then burn
Speaker 2: it all down trying to keep this girl. Because when
Speaker 2: there's no money in your pocket, she's going to leave then.
Speaker 2: If she's gonna leave now and you're gonna have really nothing, whoa.
Speaker 1: I think if there are middle age women right in
Speaker 1: their forties leaving their husband because they didn't get the
Speaker 1: house they wanted, they should have broke up with that
Speaker 1: motherfucker a long time ago because they did something that
Speaker 1: was hell of some bullshit a long time ago. That's
Speaker 1: not something that a man just wakes up to. Oh,
Speaker 1: you didn't give me the house I wanted, I'm divorcing you.
Speaker 1: That is sure that you missed. You must have missed
Speaker 1: so many red flags at that point.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I wanted her, I liked her. I want
Speaker 2: that one. And that's in tunnel vision to the max.
Speaker 1: My belief is if you really want to be so,
Speaker 1: my belief is you really just get what you can afford,
Speaker 1: and then you say, hey, you don't have to pay nothing.
Speaker 1: If that don't make her happy, you know, if that
Speaker 1: don't make her content, she's still gonna complain. But if
Speaker 1: that don't make her content, it's the wrong woman.
Speaker 2: Sure.
Speaker 1: Now, if you want to be a gentleman about it,
Speaker 1: you could present her with three options of nineteen hundred
Speaker 1: dollars houses or apartments and say, hey, you have a
Speaker 1: choice of these three options, and anytime she bumps you
Speaker 1: to twenty six, no, these are your three options. These
Speaker 1: are your three options. Like, you can't get caught up
Speaker 1: in a space to where like I agree with you,
Speaker 1: where now you're in this stressful place because you're trying
Speaker 1: to make somebody happy with something they're not going to
Speaker 1: be happy with for a long time. Anyway, if you
Speaker 1: get a woman two thousand square foot house and she
Speaker 1: wants a twenty nine hundred square foot house, it don't
Speaker 1: stop one you get at that tune nonage grad foot
Speaker 1: house because whatever it costs to put furniture in that
Speaker 1: two thousand guird foot house, you got an extra thousand.
Speaker 1: You gotta feel now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that girls want to keep up with the joneses.
Speaker 2: No girl wants to be the chicken her social circle
Speaker 2: with the smallest house or with whatever, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean?
Speaker 3: Like that's true in a lot of cases. Hm, So so.
Speaker 1: Do I blame guys for caving in to feminine demands? Yeah,
Speaker 1: some whole ass niggas. Yeah, I mean I've caved in
Speaker 1: once or twice, but not nothing substantial.
Speaker 2: Sure, sure, most of the stuff like that fool, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like I want something, like I really don't play bro
Speaker 1: Like I get offended when somebody asked me what I
Speaker 1: want to eat, and then I answer it and a
Speaker 1: woman makes an alternative choice, like I would throw my food,
Speaker 1: Like if I asked you if you wanted something to
Speaker 1: eat and you said no, and I kept asking you
Speaker 1: do you want something? And then when I got my food,
Speaker 1: you ate my food. I throw my food out the
Speaker 1: window because I know you were only doing it to
Speaker 1: just figure out a way to eat my shit. And
Speaker 1: it ain't the food as much as just the mind,
Speaker 1: the sociopathic mind of like y'all just really want to
Speaker 1: eat his shit. Sure, yeah, I just want to eat
Speaker 1: his shit. Well, I only order enough food when I'm hungry.
Speaker 1: I don't if I'm hungry, I'm not getting two double cheeseburgers.
Speaker 1: Now See, the smart thing would be to just get
Speaker 1: her some food anyway. See that's what I've mastered the
Speaker 1: art of at this point in my life. I ain't
Speaker 1: that hungry. You lying, I don't get you're lying. I
Speaker 1: don't care if it's my nieces, any fucking body with
Speaker 1: a fucking vagina. Oh you hungry? Now, ain't that hungry?
Speaker 1: Where you going Wendy's. I'm gonna go to Wendy's. Yeah, nah,
Speaker 1: I want nothing. I'm gonna get you something anyway. So
Speaker 1: if you try to ask people for my ship, I
Speaker 1: got your biggie bag here it is.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's wisdom for facts. I just can't help
Speaker 2: but feel compelled to say, well, I mean, you're not hungry,
Speaker 2: are you? That's what I thought? Because what because? Because
Speaker 2: then you're opening the door to a cyclical recurrence of
Speaker 2: just buying hamburgers to just go in the trash can.
Speaker 1: Actually pretty much never the Hamburger's going to trash can.
Speaker 2: I'm saying, illustratively speaking, you expanded out of that.
Speaker 1: You know, well, I'll just I'll just I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, like.
Speaker 2: The Ron White joke, No.
Speaker 1: It cost you more money. It cost you more to
Speaker 1: be hungry and to only have half of your food
Speaker 1: than it does to actually buy an extra biggie bag
Speaker 1: for her to eat when she finally realizes she's hungry,
Speaker 1: or when she starts to ask you for your shit?
Speaker 1: Oh what you get? I got a day's double? Oh man,
Speaker 1: I'm getting Can I have something? I got you? A
Speaker 1: biggie bag junior chicken cheesebagger delves boom with the spicy
Speaker 1: nuggets I was thinking about, you.
Speaker 2: See.
Speaker 1: And then like the play is so cold because they
Speaker 1: know what I'm doing, but they gotta respect that shit.
Speaker 2: I'll just be so tempted. I just eat whatever the
Speaker 2: hell I got, finished it in the car on the
Speaker 2: way home. Like, are you hungry? Now? That's what that sucks?
Speaker 1: Nah? Nah, you can't really do that.
Speaker 2: I know that's what I but that's what I want
Speaker 2: to do.
Speaker 1: So on a perfect situation, how would it go for
Speaker 1: you if your old lady said I'm not hungry and
Speaker 1: then she, uh just decides I'm hungry, Like you have
Speaker 1: a smarter strategy than mine.
Speaker 2: No, but that's also why I live by myself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, people, but I don't believe you want to be
Speaker 1: alone forever. I mean, I'm sure you'll be okay. It
Speaker 1: ain't the end of the world.
Speaker 2: That's a tough one. That's a tough one. I'm fifteen
Speaker 2: six I'm sixteen strong. Now I'm sixteen strong. You know
Speaker 2: that's that's all. Bet A billion people have lived and
Speaker 2: died during the duration of my singularity. That's pretty significant
Speaker 2: globally speaking. But yeah, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, sure it's smart, or to call while
Speaker 2: you're still out you sure you don't want to? Sure?
Speaker 1: And never ask a woman what she wants.
Speaker 2: That's also probably very good. That's a students.
Speaker 1: Never ask a woman what she wants, decide for her.
Speaker 1: If she don't tell you what she wants. Now she
Speaker 1: tells me what she wants. If she tells me what
Speaker 1: she wants, I'll just get what she wants. But if
Speaker 1: I start asking what she wants and then she doesn't
Speaker 1: actually know what she wants, I'm going to just pick.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to keep asking. I'm not going to
Speaker 1: keep shuffling through thoughts hoping she explains to me what
Speaker 1: she wants. I'm going to pick what the fuck I
Speaker 1: want her to have.
Speaker 2: That's a very interesting observation, and I've noticed, like, why
Speaker 2: do women never know what the fuck they want? You
Speaker 2: know what? The worst thing in the world to me
Speaker 2: is it's being at a restaurant in the line that
Speaker 2: has been somewhat long, that has the menu, you know,
Speaker 2: up over the cashier where you can see it and
Speaker 2: I'm behind a woman who's been there in this line
Speaker 2: for like eight minutes, right in front of me, who
Speaker 2: came to this restaurant obviously on her own. She didn't
Speaker 2: like crash in the parking lot and happen to just
Speaker 2: walk inside looking for food. She came there on her
Speaker 2: own and then gets to the front and cannot decide
Speaker 2: what the fuck you want to order? And it happens
Speaker 2: almost like clockwork. How is that possible?
Speaker 1: You know? If that's a podcast we need to do
Speaker 1: with brit and Red. Yeah, why don't women ever know
Speaker 1: what they want? And the worst party is anything? The
Speaker 1: worst party is bro. They're going to deny that they
Speaker 1: don't even though we all know, even though we all
Speaker 1: know that they don't know what they want, They're going
Speaker 1: to deny that they don't never know what they want.
Speaker 2: Of course, my favorite denial ever was on the last
Speaker 2: podcast we did with them. I can't remember what the
Speaker 2: heck it was. It was like, oh, I always got.
Speaker 1: Their hand up.
Speaker 2: I've turned down lots of things, Well did you take
Speaker 2: a lot of other stuff?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was one of my favorite exchanges.
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