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Speaker 1: Hello, Gorgeous. It is Lala.

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Speaker 2: I can't welcome back to the give Them Lalla podcast.

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Speaker 2: Me saying hello gorgeous has a whole new meaning today

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Speaker 2: because I have Gigi Gorgeous on the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Hello, hey, hey, oh my god, I'm so excited to

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Speaker 3: be here. What a level up. We were just saying

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Speaker 3: before we started recording, like you kill it, like this

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Speaker 3: looks so great.

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Speaker 2: So JIEJZ.

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Speaker 1: The last time I had you, where were.

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Speaker 3: We We were in what I said was a kitchen.

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Speaker 3: I thought we were in a kitchen. You had just

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Speaker 3: had ocean yep, recently, right, Yes, never met the child,

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Speaker 3: but I knew that it was in the other room.

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Speaker 3: I heard the crying.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I heard it.

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, should I ask her

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Speaker 3: like is this appropriate? But no, we were in a

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Speaker 3: kitchen and it was like very like just stuff everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, we're doing the damn thing.

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Speaker 2: I was like, we're like here, we record right here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I said, okay, so didn't need to clam no

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Speaker 3: cameras necessary. Got it, and now look at us. Light's

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Speaker 3: camera action is are Howard Stern kent.

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Speaker 2: Usually I'll have people come in and sit on the

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Speaker 2: couch as my guess, and they're like, oh, it's like

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Speaker 2: a casting couch, and I'm like, a legitimate one, A

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Speaker 2: legitimate one.

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Speaker 3: Hello. So anybody that's watching at home or whatever, this

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Speaker 3: is giving very much. What's watch what happens live? See

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Speaker 3: how it's so little? Yeah, it gives that, Like if

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Speaker 3: people were on the floor and the couch was filled,

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Speaker 3: it would give that.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, do we have a live audience every

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Speaker 2: time we record?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Andy.

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Speaker 2: Cohen, you better watch your bag. I'm coming for your job.

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Speaker 2: We are moving from New York City to Culver.

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Speaker 3: City, Culver CC, baby.

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Speaker 1: So before we get it, pop in.

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Speaker 2: I have these pillows that I was obsessed with when

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Speaker 2: I first moved into my new home. Right they're dad

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Speaker 2: and they started getting like knotted up, like the feathers

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Speaker 2: would come together and just become like giant balls the feathers.

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Speaker 2: So I went to Bloomingdale's and shout out to Bloomingdales

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Speaker 2: right now at Century City Mall because they first asked,

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Speaker 2: were you affected by the fire, and I obviously said, no,

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Speaker 2: are these pillows for someone affected by the fire. I

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Speaker 2: think they were giving out whatever they could discounts or

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Speaker 2: anything for anybody who was affected by the fires in La.

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Speaker 2: So I really loved that, but it got me to thinking,

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Speaker 2: because I'm going to my bed is my sanctuary. So

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Speaker 2: I like Fritta sheets, and I didn't know that Frette

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Speaker 2: makes pillows, and I knew you were going to be

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Speaker 2: on the pod, and you look well rested at all times.

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Speaker 1: I have to know.

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Speaker 2: Do you have a favorite sheet brand or pillow brand?

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Speaker 3: I wish I did because that's very bougie. Okay, but

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Speaker 3: I do not. I can sleep anywhere, oh really, yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: I could sleep on a couch my head. I'm a

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Speaker 3: two pillow girl sleeper. Okay, I need it like elevated.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, you don't have neck issues?

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Speaker 3: No, I think I would have them if I was

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Speaker 3: on a one pillow like. I need it elevated so

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Speaker 3: my spine is aligned. You love it? And I like

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Speaker 3: the pillow in between my knees. Yes, so then the

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Speaker 3: bones don't touch.

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Speaker 1: Then I don't like my bones touching either me neither.

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Speaker 3: So I need it like a like basically a pregnancy pillow.

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Speaker 4: How many pillows do you need altogether?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Ideally? Okay, so two for my head and my neck,

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Speaker 3: then maybe one for the back.

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Speaker 2: And are you.

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Speaker 1: A sexy sleeper?

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Speaker 2: Are you in like sweatpants, tasteful of oil?

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Speaker 3: Naked? Naked? Naked naked? Glazed doughnut? Always I run so hot, okay,

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Speaker 3: and especially if I have like hair extensions in It's

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Speaker 3: like get them off me. I like radiate heat.

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Speaker 2: Okay. Is NAT's responsible for buying the bedding, then I'm

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Speaker 2: so shocked. You don't know what type of sheets.

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Speaker 3: I really sleep on. I don't care, No, I just

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm in I'm in charge with the thermostat.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what do you sleep at? Sixty eight?

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Speaker 3: Sixty seven?

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Speaker 4: Sixty six?

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Speaker 3: Sixty six is great, it's like it's seventy three. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: we can't, so we just can't.

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Speaker 2: That I would be sweating.

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Speaker 3: Do you run hot?

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Speaker 1: I'm a solid sixty nine er sixty.

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Speaker 3: Nine Okay, that's that's that's doable. That's doable. But it's

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Speaker 3: a little hot. Wow, yea with a duvet and you, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I could even go sixty four sixty five.

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Speaker 2: I don't we I would call it my pod because

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Speaker 2: of course you.

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Speaker 4: Know no one.

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Speaker 2: So this is my brother gig.

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Speaker 4: Yes, Oh it's fine.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, Oh no, it's great.

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Speaker 2: It's great. I love that you.

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Speaker 3: Everyone was laughing. By the way, for everyone listening, I

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Speaker 2: When she walked in, she was like, what's your name?

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Speaker 2: Easton said Easton. She was like, oh, like the fires.

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Speaker 2: He was like, no, it's eaten. And then she immediately

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Speaker 2: looks still confused. We're like, how do we break this down?

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Speaker 2: Where does the s go?

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Speaker 3: We are making headway.

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Speaker 4: We're making friends. That's what we're doing.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I have a house full of just family, my mother,

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Speaker 4: Then another roommate, my friend.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but I know that on your social media you

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Speaker 2: always have a jam packed house too.

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Speaker 3: I do so. Yeah, Nats and I went through a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, evolution of life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we have space. That's why I feel like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're still in the same area that you

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Speaker 3: It's me and the hubs and our trainer and our

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Speaker 2: But that's a lot. That's a lot to take on

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Speaker 2: a lot. Yeah, but at least, say, like shit in

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Speaker 2: No, And you can also cats are the types of

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Speaker 2: Someone can stop by, like no one needs a walk exactly.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I was just gonna say the walk

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Speaker 3: thing that is so drama. Because I had a dog

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Speaker 2: I totally get it. It is a lot of work. And

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Speaker 3: Now? Oh god, I'm so bud of a time because

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Speaker 4: So work clear. No, I love that after three years,

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Speaker 3: The Yeah, I'm like, get my photo. I'm April twentieth

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: I don't smoke weed.

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Speaker 2: I love I wish I did, I wish I did?

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Speaker 2: I don't know how you would be as a high person.

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Speaker 3: I used to smoke a lot in high school.

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Speaker 2: And what were you like? Chill?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I love it, So did Easton. I read that

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Speaker 3: Well I guess technically we're still on it. Yeah, but

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Speaker 3: all of that. But you know, I was on hormones

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Speaker 3: for like ten years.

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Speaker 3: I gave a sample, so they were like, oh, there's

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Speaker 3: And you always hear like women should freeze their eggs

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Speaker 3: but before you start transitioning, because the hormones will destroy

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Speaker 3: that whole thing. It was a journey for both of us.

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Speaker 3: But now we have we're sitting on six embryos.

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Speaker 2: That's a lot, and those are all that's a great amount.

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Speaker 3: Oh really, let's see. I mean I don't Oh you're fine, yeah,

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Speaker 3: No, it was literally was gushing down. But you're so numb,

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00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,159
Speaker 3: you don't know. And then I watched because I had

442
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 3: a videographer there, which you'll see in the thing. Uh,

443
00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:47,479
Speaker 3: And I was like, I was gushing blood, but I

444
00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:48,840
Speaker 3: just thought it was like a little bit of like

445
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:53,360
Speaker 3: serum or water washing my hair too. Yeah, and I'm

446
00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:55,480
Speaker 3: blonde too, So when I flipped back over and I

447
00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:57,920
Speaker 3: looked in the mirror, all my hair is blood red.

448
00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,119
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't think I can do it.

449
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 3: G You're so out of it though. It's actually kind

450
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,960
Speaker 3: of relaxing. I'll be real, I swear to god. What

451
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:07,920
Speaker 3: is what is the Uh?

452
00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 4: How do you do you have to wear like a

453
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:12,680
Speaker 4: like a d or something you.

454
00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:15,760
Speaker 3: Can't put you can't make it sweat, you can't get

455
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 3: it hot, so you just have to let it chill.

456
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:20,439
Speaker 2: So what did you do? Just stay home in your

457
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,200
Speaker 2: your non brand sheets?

458
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:27,439
Speaker 3: I yes, but I also got you know, Lady Gaga

459
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,879
Speaker 3: Joanne yes album. I got those hats made from her

460
00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:34,880
Speaker 3: person so it would just touch here, like on my forehead. Yeah,

461
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:36,879
Speaker 3: leave this.

462
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 4: At so you can wear hats.

463
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:38,520
Speaker 3: So we were yeah, because they still had to work.

464
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:40,800
Speaker 3: So I would put like a wig, attach it here

465
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:44,159
Speaker 3: and then put the huge cowboy hat on. That's so

466
00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 3: I still have like a little bit of length, and

467
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,040
Speaker 3: then the second I was done, I would rip it

468
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 3: all off because I was like, I'm scared that it's

469
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:50,520
Speaker 3: getting too hot.

470
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,640
Speaker 5: Oh the same I would have had to take work

471
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 5: because I'm a I run hot too, and I'm a sweater.

472
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh I am too.

473
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 2: Wait, so is this your Is this the hair?

474
00:21:58,280 --> 00:21:59,080
Speaker 3: No? This is a wig?

475
00:21:59,200 --> 00:21:59,920
Speaker 1: Oh that's a wig?

476
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:00,560
Speaker 3: Yeah?

477
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,680
Speaker 1: Do you prefer wigs over like extensions for.

478
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:04,560
Speaker 3: Days like today?

479
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:06,479
Speaker 1: Why can you tell me easy?

480
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 3: Easier?

481
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 5: Do you?

482
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,679
Speaker 3: This is like already done and you have someone come

483
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:12,400
Speaker 3: over and do it. No, I do it myself.

484
00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:14,080
Speaker 1: You put your own wig on?

485
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I style it and everything.

486
00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:17,800
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm very impressed.

487
00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 3: I'm a nerd like that. I love like beauty, and

488
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 3: I like I will sit and listen to a podcasts

489
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 3: okay for like an hour and just like curl my

490
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:27,959
Speaker 3: hair and style it and set it and put it

491
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:29,959
Speaker 3: by my bath and like spray it with stuff.

492
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:30,360
Speaker 4: Gee.

493
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:33,440
Speaker 2: Do you do you have like a full video tutorial

494
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 2: on how you put your wig on?

495
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:39,840
Speaker 3: No? This is glueless. This I just like put this on.

496
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 3: I'm I can show you.

497
00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 4: Wow, I had no.

498
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 2: Idea how how long is your You know Kim K

499
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:47,880
Speaker 2: prefers wigs.

500
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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I mean because I don't know if she

501
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 3: knows how to put one on.

502
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:53,680
Speaker 2: Okay, well no, I'm sure someone's putting them on for her.

503
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:56,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, well they probably install it. I prefer it because

504
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 3: they last longer if you don't put glue or adhesive

505
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:02,239
Speaker 3: or anything on them. It's like a hat, okay, like

506
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 3: you secure it to you and then like the part

507
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,480
Speaker 3: you pluck, like it's all artistry. When people are like, oh,

508
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 3: can you do my wig for me, I'm like, well,

509
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:15,240
Speaker 3: nobody ever asked me that. But like when people ask

510
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 3: wig people or hairstylists can you make a wig for me,

511
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 3: It's like no, no, no, we have to see it on you.

512
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 3: We have to like you can't buy a wig, no,

513
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,679
Speaker 3: or else you look like crazy during Pride in my

514
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 3: green wig, and it's like, oh, but it's Pride though,

515
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 3: so you have a you have a safe bear because

516
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 3: no one looks crazy during Pride.

517
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 2: I mean I felt really really good at Pride. I

518
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 2: was like you know what, and I I think I

519
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 2: had just gotten sober, so I had like the fresh

520
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 2: like I haven't had a drink glow.

521
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 3: Okay, you know, love that glow. I can imagine.

522
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I hadn't had kids yet, so my tits

523
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 2: were up to my chin.

524
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Speaker 1: Sorry, Austin, can I can I ask you?

525
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:53,239
Speaker 3: So?

526
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,199
Speaker 2: Do you watch Real House? I was a Potomac?

527
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 3: Is that the one which is l Yes, I've seen it,

528
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 3: but I don't follow up. Do Salt Lake City, Orange County,

529
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 3: Beverly Hills.

530
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 2: Oh my god, we'll get into it. So there's a

531
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:10,440
Speaker 2: girl named Ashley on Potomac, short hair, short hair. She

532
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 2: is so cute and she this last episode, it was

533
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 2: so amazing, you guys. She did she was a drag

534
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:22,120
Speaker 2: king and her her mom and her uncle and her

535
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 2: brother come to watch, and she like does this sexy

536
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 2: like masculine dance.

537
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 1: Right, she looks fucking hot.

538
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 2: Rips her suit code open and she's got suspenders but

539
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 2: just pasties on. And I'm like, okay, so hot, but like,

540
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,159
Speaker 2: I could never do that in front of like my

541
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,440
Speaker 2: uncle and my brother.

542
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 1: With just pasties on my nipples.

543
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 3: Well, you're glued right, like nothing.

544
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:50,040
Speaker 2: She was totally glued. Yeah, and like sall right, they're

545
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 2: like a petite but fake. They look very good, like natural,

546
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 2: very natural. But she was so in character right. So

547
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 2: there's that's the first time that I had heard of

548
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 2: drag king.

549
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

550
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,919
Speaker 2: I learned from a drag queen because I said I

551
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,920
Speaker 2: wanted to go I wanted to do a drag show,

552
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 2: and they said, bio drag Is that correct?

553
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean, honestly, I'm so like during

554
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 3: bio is biological? Yes, So bio drag is you just

555
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,639
Speaker 3: wearing a ship ton of makeup, a ship ton of hair.

556
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 1: And my drag glam.

557
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 3: You're like a biological drag queen.

558
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 2: That's what I gathered from it, so that during the

559
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 2: green wig moment, I was channeling my bio drag moments.

560
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:36,160
Speaker 3: I need.

561
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 1: Hair is a trigger alert?

562
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:44,640
Speaker 2: Okay, but my drag queen name is La La cunt Oh.

563
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 3: That's so cute. That's cute, right, very cute.

564
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 2: Don't stop listening to the podcast because I used the

565
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 2: C word.

566
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 3: You can. It's it's acceptable in the UK.

567
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 4: It's all chocolate and beautiful. Wait, what is cunt oh love?

568
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 1: Are you talking about a clip?

569
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 3: No?

570
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 4: The word how it comes off?

571
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 3: So it's just milky and just I don't I A

572
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:13,639
Speaker 3: cunt is like a knife. It sounds like the knife emoji.

573
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 3: How I feel about it cut it's like it cuts deep,

574
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 3: or if it's like, oh my god, you look so cunt.

575
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 2: That is the dancing girl.

576
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:21,440
Speaker 3: That's cute.

577
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:23,679
Speaker 4: What's it called? Yeah, yeah, buddy. I got into the

578
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 4: car and he told me I was serving cunt. Was

579
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:26,160
Speaker 4: that good?

580
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 1: That's yes, that's great.

581
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

582
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 3: I don't know if you want to serve Yeah, yeah.

583
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,879
Speaker 5: I don't know it we all don't it, my friend,

584
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 5: he said, I get home, you feel pretty fucking good.

585
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 3: Yeah. It should. It should unless someone's like literally calling

586
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 3: you a hunt. But other I mean, sometimes it can

587
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 3: be good.

588
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:43,719
Speaker 4: All right, I'm gonna have a word with this gentleman.

589
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 2: By the way, I think it would make a great housewife.

590
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:49,479
Speaker 3: Oh my god, thank you.

591
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 2: How do we petition this?

592
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 3: I have been put up for it, I think one

593
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 3: or two times, and I was told that I was

594
00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 3: too young. That would make it makes sense too well.

595
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 3: I looked up the youngest housewife. I forget who it was,

596
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 3: but there were like a couple that were my age,

597
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 3: and I feel like one younger different cities, though different

598
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 3: cities not Beverly Hills.

599
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 2: That would make sense because back in the OC days

600
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:16,640
Speaker 2: there was Megan King, but she black hair, she had

601
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 2: dark hair, and then she was married to the baseball

602
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 2: player who was like twenty years older. She was only

603
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 2: on for a few seasons, but she did make a splash.

604
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 2: But she was thirty when she entered housewife.

605
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,880
Speaker 3: Right, and now they're like, you need kids, you need

606
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 3: to have a divorce already, second marriage, you know, you

607
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 3: need to be like like thirty, Like you need more baggage.

608
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, you need a lot of baggage, but experience, but

609
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 2: it's a little bit more experience exactly.

610
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, quote unquote yeah, eye roll attached to that.

611
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 3: I feel like, also a lot of them now aren't

612
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,360
Speaker 3: even married or with anyone.

613
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 2: Right, A lot of them are like I've been divorced

614
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 2: for twelve years.

615
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 1: I don't I don't have kids.

616
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 3: Or not even dating. Probably right, It's like they're just

617
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 3: single girls. You're a housewife, how right?

618
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 4: How many the game has changed?

619
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 2: The girls in New York, I want to say, are

620
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 2: mid to late thirties and into forties, and I think

621
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 2: Jenna Lliance might be fifties.

622
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:12,640
Speaker 4: And yeah, how many of them are married? I don't

623
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 4: think any of them are.

624
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:17,160
Speaker 2: All of them are either married or in a relationship,

625
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 2: but most of them are divorced, but I feel like

626
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 2: you have all of you have kids.

627
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 1: They're for kids, but kids are kids?

628
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 3: Three kids? Yeah, well six on ice, six on ice,

629
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:33,360
Speaker 3: I get cast I have a kid. I'm like, here, bravo, you're.

630
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 2: Married with kids. That's the criteria you have to meet. Yeah,

631
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 2: which one is your favorite of all of the Housewives franchises?

632
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 3: Ooh, good question. I mean currently, I love Beverly Hills.

633
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 3: I've always loved Beverly Hills.

634
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 2: I think if you could go in and raid anyone's closet,

635
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 2: who's would it be? On BH?

636
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 3: On BH? Yeah, maybe Sutton. She's like the most.

637
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 1: Rich, totally not what I was expecting.

638
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 3: You expected Eric Dane.

639
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 2: I was thinking maybe Deret and then and then as

640
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 2: I watched her, I was like, maybe Erica Jane.

641
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: But I feel like that's a little bit too predictable

642
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: for jeez.

643
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 2: Shutton, I think is just like unlimited. Oh yeah, like anything. Well,

644
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 2: same with Jennifer Tilly. Now that bitch has Simpson money.

645
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 3: Oh she's so cute. I don't think that we would

646
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 3: vibe though.

647
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 2: Her personality or your closet both.

648
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 3: I don't even know what she wears.

649
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 2: Well, she had that thirty six thousand dollars Louis Vuitton.

650
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 3: Boat Oh I love her closet. I'm obsessed.

651
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 2: He right, so good? Wait, why do you think you

652
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 2: wouldn't vibe?

653
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 3: I don't know. I've just never really seen a scene

654
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 3: of her where I'm like, I love her.

655
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 2: You want to know what's great about being Jennifer Tilly, though, Yeah?

656
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 2: Is that you're so fucking rich that you can just

657
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 2: be a friend of You're like, I don't really give

658
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 2: a fuck, don't pay attention to me. Just invite me

659
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 2: to all the cool parties. I'll be like the comedic

660
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 2: relief while Kathy Hilton's like in France. Right, and then

661
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 2: when she comes back, I'll go back to like playing

662
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 2: poker and wearing my thirty six thousand dollars boat bag

663
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 2: that doesn't even fit anything in it.

664
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 3: Okay, wait, two questions. First of all, what's a boat bag?

665
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:06,959
Speaker 3: What does it look like?

666
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 2: It's literally just like the classic Louis Vuitton print.

667
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 3: Is it like a never? It looks like a boat,

668
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 3: but like a never full? What is that? No?

669
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no no no, I'm going to google

670
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 2: the boat bag.

671
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 3: Okay, it's literally a shaped like a boat or exactly

672
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 3: like a boat like there's like like windows and shit

673
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 3: on it.

674
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 1: LV boat bag LV boat bags.

675
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 3: It's so expensive because.

676
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 1: It's like an art piece. I guess you could fit

677
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: shit in it.

678
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 3: Did she wear it out out? Like was like wearing

679
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 3: it like yeah, getting it on his table and stuff.

680
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 2: She had that and a normal.

681
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 3: Oh it's so small. It's like a submarine, isn't it.

682
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 2: How do you feel about the bags that are kind

683
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 2: of more like art pieces.

684
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 3: I hate it, Like the Judath levers that oh my god,

685
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 3: literally stole the words right out of my mouth. Oh

686
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 3: my god. Okay, so my mom has passed and I

687
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 3: see her in like ladybugs, right, okay, so NAT's got

688
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 3: me a lady bug. I think it was like a

689
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 3: one of one Judith liber bag and it is I'm

690
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 3: not kidding you like this like maybe make a fist

691
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 3: like double that size. Ye. I'm like I've worn it out,

692
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 3: but I've given it away when I'm like on the carpet,

693
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 3: I'm like, I can't wear this. My phone doesn't fit.

694
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 2: Nothing fit no, and there's no give. It's literally like

695
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 2: sororofski crystal. Yours was probably diamonds because you know your

696
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 2: hubs got that getty mind.

697
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 3: It was just regular, but it was so small. I

698
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 3: was like, this is beautiful. I'm never gonna wear it.

699
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 1: Though, like, yeah, I have one Judith liber bag.

700
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 3: But also like I mean with all the wildfires and stuff,

701
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 3: it's like, take that because that is expensive. Those bags

702
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 3: are expensive.

703
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 2: They are expens went on the website.

704
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 3: I was like, how much this will do cost? And

705
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 3: it was like a.

706
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 2: Lot, but you still have it. Yes, you just handed

707
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 2: it to people on the red carpet.

708
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, like once I thought you meant that you gave

709
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 3: it away to give it away to the photographers.

710
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 2: I was like, that's a nice little tip.

711
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 3: I would never ever. No, it's so special. I love

712
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 3: it and like the Ladybug's like smiling. It's like really cute, but.

713
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 1: That does sound cute.

714
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 3: It just I can't fit shit in it. I don't

715
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 3: want to. Who wants to carry around a gorgeous bag

716
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 3: with their phone behind it holding it?

717
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 2: It's a lot, so lovely and it's very breakable that bag,

718
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 2: is it? Well, yeah, I think about it. One wrong

719
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 2: move you lose a crystal, you break off some little part,

720
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 2: like one wrong move and it breaks the corner of

721
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 2: the Yeah, exactly what kind of gifts do you prefer

722
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 2: from nats? Like, when you guys are celebrating, like your

723
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 2: birthday or a monumental moment, what do you.

724
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 3: Prefer will He always has insisted that he buys all

725
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 3: of like my jewelry, okay, which I think is fun

726
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 3: because I've never I love costume jewelry, Like I literally

727
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 3: could give a fuck, like take me to Forever twenty one,

728
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 3: I'll get earrings whatever. And my my skin's also not

729
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 3: sensitive to like turning green or like I don't get

730
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 3: you know, So I'm like, yeah, it's fine, whear whatever, Yeah,

731
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 3: weear whatever. But he's like very much like I want

732
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 3: to buy you this. I want to buy you that.

733
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 2: So I was like, okay, And do you like the

734
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 2: surprise or does he usually have you pick it out?

735
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 3: No? Always surprise.

736
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 2: Oh I love that.

737
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 3: Always surprised. Yeah, I never know it's coming. Yeah.

738
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 2: I feel like jewelry is one of those things that

739
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 2: you don't go and buy yourself.

740
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 3: I can see why people would though, because it's on

741
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 3: you. You're looking at It's like on you, what about you?

742
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 2: I mean I used to be obsessed with like bags,

743
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 2: and now I'm really into buying myself jewelry, and I

744
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 2: always love spending money on shoes, Like I can go

745
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 2: like you said to Forever twenty one or a Zara

746
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 2: H and M and get an outfit.

747
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it takes a lot.

748
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 2: It has to be like a really cooler special piece

749
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 2: for me to walk in and drop mad money on

750
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 2: a piece of you know, fabric.

751
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 3: Because you only wear stuff a couple times.

752
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 1: That's how I feel it.

753
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 2: I'm usually if I don't get dressed up and glammed

754
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 2: unless I'm going out out and there's a camera. Otherwise

755
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 2: I'm just in sweatpants. But my shoes and the bag

756
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 2: and the jewelry now I've found are what elevate the

757
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 2: outfit that I either got on Amazon or H and M.

758
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

759
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 3: Yes, one billion percent. You can be in like a

760
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 3: five dollars little like bodysuit jumpsuit dress from Amazon, like black,

761
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 3: with jewels and shoes and everything, and like obviously we're

762
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:26,280
Speaker 3: very gregarious, so like it just sells the garment totally.

763
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,280
Speaker 3: The personality. Yes, favorite shoe brand.

764
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 2: Favorite shoe brand. I want to say Jean Vito Rossi

765
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 2: because I don't even know her. Okay, they I think

766
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 2: it's a guy.

767
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 3: Yea Jean Vito Jean Vito Rossi.

768
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 2: Yes, he makes or they make the most comfortable shoe

769
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 2: for a woman, okay, like Christian Lubiton. Yeah, gorgeous shoes,

770
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 2: but when I wear them, I'm like, he hates women.

771
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 3: You know what? I love Giuseppes and naughty. Uh.

772
00:34:58,800 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 1: Giuseppes are good.

773
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 3: It's a little bit painful, A little bit. I have

774
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 3: more of Like I'm a size ten okay, so like

775
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 3: a forty one okay. My foot is a little bit wider,

776
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 3: like I sometimes can't fit in like the you know,

777
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 3: the tea strap. Yes, I'm sure you have a very

778
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 3: narrow foot. You're tiny.

779
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 2: I have a narrow foot, but jee, after having kids,

780
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 2: I have to wear compression socks before I put up

781
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,800
Speaker 2: fuck you, hello, I have to wear compression socks before

782
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 2: I wear a Jiuseppi because that ankle strap be real tight.

783
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:29,919
Speaker 3: Yes, isn't it insane? I mean it's like you fit

784
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,439
Speaker 3: in it or it just doesn't fit.

785
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, like Cinderella's shoe.

786
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 3: Yeah. I honestly, I don't really care about shoes, just

787
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 3: as long as there's a height because I need.

788
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 2: You like it? Yes, I mean, how tall is your

789
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 2: shoe right now?

790
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:41,840
Speaker 1: Six inches? It's a minimum.

791
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 3: It's a daffodil Christian Lubaton daffodil, like six and a half.

792
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:48,399
Speaker 3: I feel comfortable that way though.

793
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 2: Well, the way you walked in here, I thought you

794
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 2: were in fucking new balances.

795
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 3: This is this is basically a sneaker to me, it

796
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 3: really is.

797
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 2: That's your signature shoe. I feel.

798
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 3: I think so too. I I need the height, I

799
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 3: need the chunk. I need it just like sets off

800
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 3: the proportions. It just makes me feel good.

801
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it also is very feminine.

802
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 3: Yeah it is. It is. I mean maybe not the

803
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:14,479
Speaker 3: height factor, but I also feel but the sleekness this way, yes, yes,

804
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 3: it like extends everything. Yeah.

805
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 2: And you see the top of the foot, yeah, Larry sexy.

806
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:21,760
Speaker 3: Yeah. What about your favorite brand?

807
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 4: My favorite brand? I love a good secondary piece.

808
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 2: From oh, like a like a vintage storey.

809
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 4: Like Buffalo Exchange. I really like going into vintage stores.

810
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 4: But if I had to pick like a new.

811
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 5: Brand, I really don't even know, just because there's just

812
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 5: so many, and like you said, I just don't wear

813
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:42,760
Speaker 5: them a lot.

814
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 3: Like hmm.

815
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 5: I just love a certain feel like I do love

816
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 5: Nike the way they fit. I do love Jordan Nike.

817
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 3: Yeah.

818
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 4: But other than that, like all of my hoodies I

819
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:52,359
Speaker 4: get from like just.

820
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 3: Secondary like a heighte beast. If you have like a

821
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 3: million dollars right now, what would you buy clothing wise?

822
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 4: Like shoes, clothing, mags, shoes.

823
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:09,280
Speaker 5: I would probably go and buy a pair of Christian

824
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,280
Speaker 5: Lubetin's just like basic.

825
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, all black love it.

826
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 5: I really am into like the new balances, like the

827
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 5: new like the f seventies or seven.

828
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,400
Speaker 2: They like a thicker sole, show the thicker sole, like

829
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 2: the bad shoes, right yeah.

830
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 4: Like I'm just into that. Or other than that, I

831
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 4: just wear like vans and just crocs. Just I'm just basic.

832
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 4: Like I just like wearing sweatpants.

833
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 5: Like if there's an expensive pair of sweatpants out about that,

834
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 5: I don't know about.

835
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,840
Speaker 2: Oh, I love like a good logo like Gucci sweats.

836
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 3: Honestly, I know you didn't, Yes you did.

837
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 4: I think Polo would be like if I had to

838
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:46,720
Speaker 4: go and do one.

839
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 3: Thing, it would be yeah, okay, wow, I don't know what.

840
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I really love their shirts the way they but

841
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:55,959
Speaker 5: this is the thing, it's the way they just fit.

842
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:56,840
Speaker 4: Yeah.

843
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I haven't found another shirt that like the

844
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 5: haller fits that way with the arms and like, I'm

845
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 5: very ging are skinny.

846
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 2: He's not as skinny as he thinks he is.

847
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 4: No, so I'm skinny. So I try to find things

848
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 4: that just match my body because right my legs, I

849
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 4: got these long dancer legs. Lucky, I got.

850
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 2: To wear these shoes to get Does Nat still have

851
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 2: striking oil?

852
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, strike oil, his cur strike oil.

853
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:25,359
Speaker 4: Yeah.

854
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 3: You know what's funny. I was actually just talking to

855
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 3: him about this earlier today. He so, in the clothing business,

856
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 3: you have to put out, you have to put in

857
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 3: sorry designs and uh, your collection for the next year,

858
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,960
Speaker 3: a year and a half in advance. So he was

859
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 3: showing me stuff like the look book.

860
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 2: So you have to know what people may like a

861
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 2: year and a half from now.

862
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:47,240
Speaker 3: I think it's so unfair.

863
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 4: It's almost like, go on.

864
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 5: I was gonna say that the fashion industry like the

865
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 5: people who are creating fashion because they're a year in advance,

866
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 5: they're kind of the ones that are pushing fashion.

867
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,319
Speaker 3: Right, It's not fast fashion, like you know how like

868
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 3: you know, like Kim Kardashian will wear something and then.

869
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 2: Like Fashionova will have it, but it's.

870
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 3: Like they have all of that. It's like fast fashion,

871
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 3: whereas like an independent designer, clothing label whatever, will have

872
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 3: to put in the designs a year and a half

873
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 3: in advance. So he was showing me the look book

874
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 3: and I was like, I can't wait to wear this.

875
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:19,319
Speaker 3: I can't wait to wear this.

876
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, this look book, and he was like, out in.

877
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 3: Winter twenty twenty six. I was like, oh, I'm gonna

878
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 3: forget about it, but like love.

879
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 1: Then who knows if I'm moving gonna like it?

880
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 4: I myself so I can wear it tomorrow literally.

881
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 2: But I love his brand and it was you wore

882
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 2: it on the shores. You guys sent me a piece

883
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 2: and I love it. And he dressed MGK for one

884
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 2: of his like award shows.

885
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 3: Did he? MGK has worn him a lot of times, actually,

886
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 3: he wore him. My favorite look that MGK wore of

887
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 3: Strike Oil was he was at What's Muscle Beach Venice Beach. Yes, Yeah,

888
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 3: he performed on a rooftop with Yes. Meghan was there.

889
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:04,720
Speaker 1: I totally remember.

890
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 3: It was in like a blue and white matching de yes.

891
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 2: It was chop and bottom. This is what I'm thinking of.

892
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 3: Yes, So When we saw that, we gagged because it

893
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 3: was like a surprise performance or whatever. But I was like,

894
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 3: oh my god, that's literally Strike Oil, So.

895
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 2: You had no idea. You guys didn't dress him.

896
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:20,879
Speaker 3: No, I don't. I think his stylist is a fan.

897
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:24,760
Speaker 3: And then pulled, which is crazy, but like, he literally

898
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 3: will wear it and we've seen him out at like

899
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 3: many events and he's like, oh love Strike Oil, like

900
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:32,439
Speaker 3: we're like friendly, which is great, so sweet. I haven't

901
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 3: seen him since his new tattoo, like the Blackout.

902
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm into it, are you? I? Well, I mean,

903
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 4: at what point if you're gonna tat he was so

904
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:42,240
Speaker 4: covered restart.

905
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 3: Yeah. I've never seen him without a shirt off in

906
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 3: real life, so I can't tell. But it's a luck.

907
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 4: It's a luck, and a painful one at that.

908
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh my god.

909
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 2: Imagine speaking of Meghan Fogs and MGK though I think

910
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 2: they're done.

911
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 3: Though, Yeah, what's the latest?

912
00:40:58,280 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: The latest is.

913
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 2: He wrote some crypto thing on Instagram?

914
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 3: What was it?

915
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:02,279
Speaker 1: It was?

916
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 2: How can sources say when the sources haven't said anything?

917
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:10,799
Speaker 2: And I think he's meaning like sources are saying you

918
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,240
Speaker 2: know this, that and the other about he and Megan Fox.

919
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 2: But they're technically the sources and they haven't said anything.

920
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:20,280
Speaker 2: But sources on her side have said she wants nothing

921
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 2: to do with him, and her side is very excited

922
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 2: about that cash fire. Did you go past cheating?

923
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 3: I don't know the new baby on the word.

924
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:29,800
Speaker 1: Depends on the situation.

925
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 3: Depends on the situation. I guess, yeah, I don't know.

926
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 3: It really does, it really does. So the vibe was

927
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:40,760
Speaker 3: the last that I heard. This is like old news, right.

928
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:44,360
Speaker 2: Them breaking up, But then it was recent that that

929
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 2: he made this post. I guess by the time this heres,

930
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:47,879
Speaker 2: who knows what?

931
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 3: I don't know.

932
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:49,919
Speaker 2: Did you see them out?

933
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:55,399
Speaker 3: No? No, I forgot about them. Literally, I just thought

934
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 3: that they were like broken up.

935
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, I mean, I don't know the

936
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 2: new sente is yes with his baby and did she

937
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:04,760
Speaker 2: have it yet? No, she's preparing to give birth.

938
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 5: But that's why I feel like if her team is

939
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 5: saying she's not wanting to be back with him, I

940
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,719
Speaker 5: feel like it is because there is now a child involved.

941
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 4: You guys, she was like shit forth with him, but

942
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 4: now with the child, I think she's done.

943
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 1: So I want to circle back.

944
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 2: Since we're talking about kids, when do you think that

945
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 2: you would want because thirty two is young.

946
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So when we did the the IVY app,

947
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, I need it like now,

948
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 3: like I want a kid now. And then all of

949
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 3: a sudden, when we had our embryos, and I know

950
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,839
Speaker 3: a lot of mom's future moms and yeah, you know,

951
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 3: moms that want to be moms have talked about, oh

952
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 3: that's just said give La La a hug for me.

953
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 3: That's so weird now, like.

954
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 1: Just now, No, I love him.

955
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 3: I know you do. I know he loves you too,

956
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 3: but very weird timing. But uh yeah, I thought I

957
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 3: need kids now, like we got to start now. And

958
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:57,399
Speaker 3: then when we got our embryos, and I know, I've

959
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 3: talked to a lot of other women and they're like,

960
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 3: oh my god, like and couples, they're like, we have

961
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:04,360
Speaker 3: so much time, Like this has just locked in the

962
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 3: time for us, right so we can live our lives.

963
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 3: And now whenever I get up or I don't have

964
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 3: work and I sleep in, I'm like, my life will

965
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 3: be so much different when I have kids. So I'm

966
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 3: kind of just holding on right now. I don't know when,

967
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 3: I mean a year, two years.

968
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 2: What's the age difference? But you will know when, like it'll.

969
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:25,879
Speaker 4: Just you'll just know it's the right time.

970
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:27,879
Speaker 3: Right, That's what I think too, And I'm like, it's

971
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 3: not right now.

972
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it. How's the age difference between you

973
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 2: and nts? We're the same age, same age. You have

974
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 2: nothing but fucking time.

975
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 3: That's why I always hear that, And people are like chill,

976
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:43,760
Speaker 3: like just chill, and like we have them on ice.

977
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 3: They're fine, they're safe, they're healthy. It's like it's gonna

978
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,959
Speaker 3: be whatever. But yeah, I can't really imagine my life

979
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 3: like shifting that much because now I just worry about me, him,

980
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 3: my job to other people, and then it's all gonna

981
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:59,280
Speaker 3: be like to the new baby.

982
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,720
Speaker 2: Do you have a group of friends who are parents

983
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:02,399
Speaker 2: at all?

984
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 3: I have a few, I have. Yeah, Like I could

985
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 3: count on one hand.

986
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 1: How many people.

987
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, how many people have kids?

988
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 2: And the people that don't, who you're close with, did

989
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 2: they want children or are they more in a situation

990
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 2: of like I'm good, I just want to like live

991
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 2: my life and be by myself.

992
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 3: It's like fifty to fifty to be completely honest.

993
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 2: Okay, so you wouldn't be completely isolated not when you

994
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 2: have children.

995
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 3: Oh no, I would have like play dates beyond, yeah, beyond.

996
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 3: And that's tough in LA because I feel like a

997
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 3: lot of people are just here for a good time

998
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 3: or their career. It's very rare that I feel like

999
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:42,400
Speaker 3: people like Settle Down have children, right, especially like I

1000
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:44,240
Speaker 3: don't know my friend group. It kind of just happened

1001
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 3: all at once. I don't know, maybe we grew up.

1002
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:49,839
Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm very lucky that if I were to have,

1003
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 3: you know, tomorrow, have a baby, I would know who

1004
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 3: to call. I love that for play dates and advice

1005
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 3: and all of that stuff.

1006
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, thirty two, Oh my god. When I look

1007
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 2: back at having Ocean at thirty, yeah, I thought like, oh,

1008
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 2: this is the perfect time, and it was.

1009
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 1: It was a great time because had I waited, she

1010
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 1: wouldn't be who she is, right.

1011
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.

1012
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:12,799
Speaker 2: But when I hear about someone who's thirty now and

1013
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,319
Speaker 2: they're like, yeah, we're thinking about having kids, I'm like, wait,

1014
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:19,799
Speaker 2: you are so young, so I think you're doing it

1015
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:20,839
Speaker 2: the complete right way.

1016
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,240
Speaker 3: No, it's good advice. That's very good advice.

1017
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:24,760
Speaker 2: I'm giving you on solicited advice.

1018
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 3: No, I love it. Give it to me. Literally pile

1019
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 3: it on because I love it.

1020
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 2: Even if you have like these moms who have a

1021
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 2: lot of help, because it takes a lot of help.

1022
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 1: They always want like their parents.

1023
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 2: Yeah right, yeah, And even when you're not with them mentally,

1024
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 2: you're with them, like when I go and work. Even

1025
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 2: right now, I'm fixated on Like Okay, I hope, so

1026
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 2: says you know, you're just you're taken away from from

1027
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 2: where you are because you're constantly worried about what they're

1028
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 2: doing if.

1029
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 3: They're okay, I completely understand.

1030
00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:02,240
Speaker 2: I think you're making an adult dec So what would

1031
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 2: you say before we sign off? People who have children,

1032
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 2: what would be the best way to educate them about LGBTQ.

1033
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 1: I A plus?

1034
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah did I.

1035
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 1: I don't want to leave any letter out.

1036
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 3: Are you a part of our community?

1037
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 2: Yes, like you're bye. I've eaten a few cookie?

1038
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 3: But could you phone? Or are you pan?

1039
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 1: What is PAN?

1040
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:29,359
Speaker 2: Like?

1041
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 3: You can fall in love with anybody.

1042
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 2: I don't think I could fall in love with anybody.

1043
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 2: I could hook up with anybody, but as far as

1044
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:43,439
Speaker 2: a relationship for your sex addict, we were diagnosed ice

1045
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:46,840
Speaker 2: and diagnose this the New Name podcast.

1046
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 3: I love it well, so you wouldn't say that you're by.

1047
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't really, I don't really I would

1048
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:52,440
Speaker 3: care for labels really anymore.

1049
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 2: But I wouldn't say that I'm by, Okay, I would

1050
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 2: say that I would make out with a chick down.

1051
00:46:57,800 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: I'm just down for the cause.

1052
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,880
Speaker 2: Now, if I look at my partner, if I'm gonna

1053
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:04,839
Speaker 2: be with somebody, yeah, I see that person as a man.

1054
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,720
Speaker 3: Right. Have you ever hooked up with a girl since

1055
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:09,720
Speaker 3: being sober? I don't know how long you've been sober?

1056
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,240
Speaker 2: Well, no, but you also have to take into account

1057
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 2: I really haven't hooked up with many dudes, okay, and

1058
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 2: being sober and single okay either, So right now and

1059
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 2: now and then, just so, you're an ally, I'm fucking

1060
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 2: ask So you're an ally?

1061
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 3: Ok I love it?

1062
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 4: No, you are?

1063
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 3: Okay, you have me here. You're an ally.

1064
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:32,840
Speaker 2: I I feel like I'm a fucking ally and I

1065
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 2: wear that with pride.

1066
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 3: You're a fierce ally.

1067
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:38,399
Speaker 2: Actually, well, thank you. I appreciate you saying that. I'm

1068
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 2: wondering how I pass that down to my child in

1069
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 2: a productive and informative and educated way.

1070
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 3: You know. I feel like now there's so much conversation

1071
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 3: around people transitioning at a young age, and you know,

1072
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 3: parents raising their children as the gender that they identify with,

1073
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 3: not the one that they were born as or assigned to.

1074
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 3: And I just feel like consistency is key, Like that

1075
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 3: is my main advice. I don't have children. I've never

1076
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 3: raised a transgender child. I've never raised anybody ever except

1077
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 3: a cat, so I don't really know how that works,

1078
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 3: but I know, personally speaking, all I wanted to do

1079
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 3: was be heard, and I just wanted people to listen

1080
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 3: to me. Because if I'm saying it once and then

1081
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 3: in a few months I'm saying it again, and then

1082
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 3: in a few more months, I'm saying the same thing,

1083
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 3: listen to me, you know. And you know, whether the

1084
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 3: hormones are involved, or the name change and the gender

1085
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 3: identifiers is changed, that's a whole different story. But listen

1086
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,839
Speaker 3: to the person that you're raising, because if you love

1087
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 3: them unconditionally, you will listen to them. And I think

1088
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 3: trust is a huge thing for a parent and a

1089
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:57,720
Speaker 3: child or any relationship regardless. So it's about just listening.

1090
00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 3: And I think you know there are it can be

1091
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 3: argued that you know you're going through a phase or

1092
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 3: whatever that's something that I heard when I was growing up.

1093
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 3: But if it's consistent and if it's authentic and genuine

1094
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 3: and they're feeling confident and gregarious in they're in what

1095
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 3: they're saying to you, then it's like, okay, so I

1096
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:22,360
Speaker 3: have to take what you say to me and realize.

1097
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:23,840
Speaker 1: That that's the okay.

1098
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, so open arms, you know, no judgment.

1099
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 2: Okay.

1100
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 3: Speaking of actually real quick Housewives of Salt Lake City, Yeah,

1101
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 3: Mary had that talk with her son. Did you see

1102
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 3: that scene?

1103
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 2: Heartbreaking?

1104
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 3: The first time I watched it, I was like, this bitch,

1105
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 3: speak up. Second time I watched it, I was like,

1106
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:45,840
Speaker 3: she is such a great parent.

1107
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 2: Wouldn't you tell me why you had a change of

1108
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 2: heart the second time you watched it?

1109
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 3: I don't know. The first time I was just like,

1110
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 3: this kid is obviously going through it, like this is heartbreaking.

1111
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 3: And then the second time when I watched it, I

1112
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:59,319
Speaker 3: think I watched it with a different lens because she

1113
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 3: was listening okay, and she wasn't judging, and she was

1114
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 3: having him and she wasn't she wasn't bullying him, she

1115
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:13,839
Speaker 3: wasn't preaching to him, she wasn't being mama bear to him.

1116
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 3: She was being a friend, and I think it helped

1117
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:19,840
Speaker 3: him open up a lot more. Yeah, and it was

1118
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 3: helpful because he literally opened the fuck up, and she

1119
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 3: was like, do you see this as a problem, like

1120
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 3: I want you like not saying like this is huge

1121
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 3: like whatever, Like she didn't.

1122
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 2: Feel like him right, and she wasn't. She wasn't like

1123
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 2: guiding him in one direction or the other. She sat

1124
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 2: there and basically let him know, I'm all ears, you

1125
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 2: tell me whatever you want to tell me, and then

1126
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 2: if you want me to together, we will take the

1127
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 2: lead on getting you whatever it is that you need.

1128
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,280
Speaker 3: Yes, she wasn't, she wasn't putting words in his mouth.

1129
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:54,400
Speaker 1: Correct, totally right like that.

1130
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god. The second time around,

1131
00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 3: I was like wow, like this is crazy, and also like,

1132
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:02,760
Speaker 3: I mean, we know how it is lights camera action

1133
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 3: when you're in your bedroom. He probably was not feeling

1134
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 3: the best, but for I was like so raw right

1135
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 3: and like they're like two feet away from you, so

1136
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 3: like you're gonna feel it. But him like doing that

1137
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 3: is like crazy, And the way that she handled it

1138
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 3: was so amazing.

1139
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 1: So I love her this season.

1140
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 3: I do too.

1141
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:21,399
Speaker 2: It's just so crazy how quickly you can like go

1142
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 2: from oh my gosh, I don't like this person to

1143
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 2: a single moment you're like, oh my god, I write

1144
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:29,399
Speaker 2: so hard for this person. Ye shows how, but thank

1145
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 2: everybody is he is right? Yes, one moment can change

1146
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 2: it all.

1147
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 5: That's why I like watching because I'm like, I don't

1148
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:37,800
Speaker 5: like you, and then the next I hate the person

1149
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:39,440
Speaker 5: I like, and then I like the person I hate it.

1150
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 4: I'm like this world win of a show.

1151
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and going back. So I love what you

1152
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 2: just said. I also want to know, let's just say

1153
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 2: Ocean grows up and she is a straight female, how

1154
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 2: do I, as a parent who was also a straight female,

1155
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 2: allow my child to see what the world is and

1156
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 2: different sexualities and have her have a view that I

1157
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 2: have Because my mom didn't do anything specific.

1158
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 1: We're from Utah.

1159
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 2: We just kind of it was like nothing was a

1160
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 2: big deal, right, But because social media exists on such

1161
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:25,799
Speaker 2: a high level and I can't control Again, she's only four.

1162
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 2: I can control what goes on in my household, but

1163
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 2: we got these you know, eighth graders talking about politics, right,

1164
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:36,919
Speaker 2: I can't control what she experiences in school. Is there

1165
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 2: any advice that you could give to me or any

1166
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:44,760
Speaker 2: parent on how to navigate dealing with.

1167
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:48,919
Speaker 1: What this world? Do you get what I'm laying down.

1168
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:51,359
Speaker 2: I want her. I don't want her to walk into

1169
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:55,280
Speaker 2: the world, and I want her to be educated. That's basically.

1170
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,600
Speaker 2: I want her to be educated and have a loving heart.

1171
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 2: For example, I have a friend and his name's Jared.

1172
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:04,839
Speaker 2: I think you guys have crosspads. At one point in time.

1173
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:08,480
Speaker 2: She's only seen Jared with no makeup on right. He's

1174
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 2: a gay man. He came over in full glam. We

1175
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 2: were going to the Paris Hilton suite, so he was

1176
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 2: looking fabulous.

1177
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 3: Oh fine, it was so much fun.

1178
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 2: And Ocean came up to me and she said, Mom,

1179
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 2: Jared's wearing makeup. She's never seen that before. She's four

1180
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 2: lives she's four, so she'll be four in March. So

1181
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 2: we had that conversation that boys can wear makeup, girls

1182
00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 2: can wear makeup. We had the same type of conversation

1183
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 2: last night. She said, Mom, I want you to have

1184
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 2: a little boy, because Sosa and your little boy could

1185
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 2: fall in love and get married. And I said, siblings

1186
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 2: don't marry each other. And she goes, but boys and

1187
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 2: girls fall in love and they kiss, and I said,

1188
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:46,919
Speaker 2: and sometimes boys and boys fall in love and kiss,

1189
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 2: and sometimes girls and girls fall in love and they kiss.

1190
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 1: She just sat there and said.

1191
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, right, so there's things that are happening, yeah

1192
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 2: that I want to make sure that I'm on my game.

1193
00:53:56,960 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 3: Four Yeah, okay. Obsessed with her action. Okay, I think

1194
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 3: that's so fun. I love like the childlike lens. You know,

1195
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 3: they just see ship for what it is and it's like,

1196
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 3: why is that wrong? Though, Like there's no boundaries, Like

1197
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 3: they're unapologetic. It's one of my favorite things about kids.

1198
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 3: But also the scary thing about kids, because they will

1199
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 3: read you. They'll be like you're fat, you know, like

1200
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:21,879
Speaker 3: they'll say shit and it'll hurt you. Yeah, they will hurt.

1201
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:22,879
Speaker 2: It does hurt.

1202
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:28,280
Speaker 3: Hippolote the about literally, No. I think the best advice

1203
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 3: that I have to I mean, I feel even weird

1204
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 3: giving you advice as a mom. I'm not a mom,

1205
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 3: but I've been around enough children. I think the best

1206
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:43,359
Speaker 3: way to navigate them accepting people who are different than

1207
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 3: them is just instilling that it's not the difference. It's

1208
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 3: if you're a good person, Okay, you know, like it's

1209
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:51,400
Speaker 3: not about like oh he likes him, or he's dating him,

1210
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:53,720
Speaker 3: or he has makeup on It's like is he nice

1211
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 3: to you? Does he make yeah? Like does he make

1212
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:01,359
Speaker 3: you laugh? Is your friend? Then you have to stick

1213
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 3: by your friend, Like if anyone saying anything else about

1214
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 3: him being with his boyfriend, then but do you like him,

1215
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 3: so you have to have his back, Like that's your friend,

1216
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:14,240
Speaker 3: he's nice to you. I love such a sweet mommy,

1217
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 3: you really will.

1218
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 2: I love that it was so simple and like, yeah,

1219
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 2: you have said it perfect.

1220
00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 3: But I feel like kids are like sponges. Like even

1221
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:24,319
Speaker 3: I've been around like tons of kids who have been

1222
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:27,759
Speaker 3: like why do you sound like that? Or what is it?

1223
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 3: What is that? Like just years and years of just

1224
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,439
Speaker 3: weird shit, But when you break it down to them,

1225
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 3: it's like they just get it and they're on your

1226
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 3: side if you say it nice or whatever, unless they're

1227
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:40,799
Speaker 3: like little shits, which a bunch of things are, But

1228
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 3: like a lot of the time, they just get it.

1229
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 3: They suck it up, and then like they absorb it.

1230
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:46,880
Speaker 3: I mean they don't suck it up, they absorb the

1231
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 3: information and then from then on, like you are that

1232
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:53,319
Speaker 3: person to them because you've told them in a very

1233
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 3: direct way in their eyes.

1234
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 4: They've sucked that information up and they've moved on.

1235
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:59,479
Speaker 3: They person maybe really quick, and they'll have your back

1236
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 3: if you're eat to them.

1237
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:01,399
Speaker 1: That's very true.

1238
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:03,839
Speaker 3: But if you ignore them or weird, then they're going

1239
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 3: to turn on you.

1240
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 2: I had You're fucking so fun.

1241
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:09,279
Speaker 3: Oh my god, love you guys. Oh my god, was

1242
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 3: that an hour?

1243
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then we're gonna do the bonus. Yes, love

1244
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:15,160
Speaker 2: perfect do you guys? Gigi, thank you for coming.

1245
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:16,080
Speaker 3: On to Give Them episod.

1246
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 1: Wow, that was like a really great episode.

1247
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:22,080
Speaker 3: Right.

1248
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:25,239
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm so happy you're here. We need to hang out,

1249
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 1: like outside of the podcast. I need friends.

1250
00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys, thank you for listening to another episode

1251
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:32,760
Speaker 2: of To Give Them La La Podcast.

1252
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,719
Speaker 1: We will catch you next week. Bye.