WEBVTT - Keep That in 2022

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<v Speaker 1>We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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<v Speaker 1>talks backstop y'all. Thank you for tuning in for a

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<v Speaker 1>new episode. Though we talk back. I show dedicated to

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<v Speaker 1>you niggas and these home and everybody else in between.

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<v Speaker 1>It's your co host a j Holiday. What's up to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey girl? Hey, y'all. Look, we're in the flash and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with us. I'm so excited. It's our hundred episode, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>and we decided that we need to feel them so

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<v Speaker 1>y'all can see us how you feel. I'm good. We

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<v Speaker 1>did our show ninety nine episodes in a fucking row

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<v Speaker 1>and no break, and we have people messaging us like

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<v Speaker 1>why y'all have recording this week, Like bitch, we need

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<v Speaker 1>time off like everybody else were having like breaks in

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<v Speaker 1>between seasons. We didn't get that. So now here we

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<v Speaker 1>are and hopefully we'll do video for you guys going forward.

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<v Speaker 1>How was your weekend? Good? Christmas? Just past? Uh? I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do ship on Christmas but sleep and didn't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like Christmas for real? Did you get everybody said that

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<v Speaker 1>this Christmas wasn't Christmas thing. It wasn't. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>least most Christmas feeling I think I've ever had. But

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<v Speaker 1>all it is, you know what my Christmas wasn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't anticipate it being very Christmas Eve because my family

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<v Speaker 1>was all scared about, but my mom surprised me. Drove

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<v Speaker 1>up to Charlotte, and me and my mom hung out.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so cool when she told me she was

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<v Speaker 1>pulling up like I literally cried in the bathroom level.

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<v Speaker 1>I shared a thug to my nigger cry. And then we, um,

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<v Speaker 1>we just watched. We watched Best Man. Y'all. If y'all

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<v Speaker 1>haven't seen it, y'all need to go watch The Best

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<v Speaker 1>Man on Peacock. Yeah, Peacock watch Best Man. It was

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<v Speaker 1>really good. It's a little cheesy couple of Tyler Perry moments,

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<v Speaker 1>but for the most of our on the Tyler Perry Producer,

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<v Speaker 1>you know how, not necessarily bad weeks, but very super lighthearted,

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<v Speaker 1>like probably not realistic moments. But for the most part,

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<v Speaker 1>it was really good. And it's a good story about

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<v Speaker 1>friendship and relationships and things like that. So we watched that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then um, I took her out to look at

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<v Speaker 1>like I found online, like a couple of houses in

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<v Speaker 1>Charlotte that you could go the lights and one of

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<v Speaker 1>them had like the light set to a radio station,

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<v Speaker 1>So you go to the radio station and the light

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<v Speaker 1>show happened. So that was fun. And her road around

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<v Speaker 1>and did that, listen to music and just talk. That

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<v Speaker 1>was cool. Girl. Wedn't even had traditional Christmas dinner. We

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<v Speaker 1>had fishing, shrunk fry fish. But you know what nobody wants.

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<v Speaker 1>If you have traditional Thanksgiving, you don't want traditional kursmals.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't sea food for Thanksgiving this year as well. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all didn't have no I made a macaroni. That's about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm sicker than nigga food. Sorry, Yeah, what's the nick?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the nigga food? You know, knack bones, pigtails, just

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<v Speaker 1>all the crazy ass. You don't have no pigtails. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you have this whole stupid I don't know if you'll

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<v Speaker 1>know what that is. That's the country ship where you

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<v Speaker 1>have like neck bones, pigtails, oxtail, all of that in

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<v Speaker 1>one pot. I can't do it. I haven't had porking

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<v Speaker 1>nigga food. I said that, But other than that, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't do much This weekend for real, man, I relaxed

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. That's good. Getting ready for today relaxed. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hud episode, how you feel, I don't know. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>We got a lot a lot more episodes ahead of us,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm excited. I'm happy to me too. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>big accomplishment because most podcasts, from what I read the

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<v Speaker 1>statistics is they don't make it past seven episodes, and

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<v Speaker 1>most new podcasts get like, you know, five hundred downloads

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<v Speaker 1>an episode. I'm saying we had a little help. So

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<v Speaker 1>what bit we had they can't get mad at the

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<v Speaker 1>cheat code, and we also had a little contract we

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<v Speaker 1>had to bring ask the work. But let's get into

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<v Speaker 1>stupid internet news. Uh, Tory Lanes case and trial. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you even fallen at all? You know? I watched a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, but like I said in our last episode,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm over it. You know, I was kind of over

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<v Speaker 1>it by the time they were going to court. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>all of it was sad to me. You know, Mike

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<v Speaker 1>says something like I saw on like shave Room or

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<v Speaker 1>something where Meg was like she wished she would have

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<v Speaker 1>just died, and that was sad to see that she

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling, like because she was getting a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>tacks from the public just because she came out and

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<v Speaker 1>spoke against him. So initially, Mega Stallion, she wasn't trying

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<v Speaker 1>to come out and say anything, but Tory Lanes and

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<v Speaker 1>his publicists like they were feeding the blogs on information,

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<v Speaker 1>so that made her have to come out and say

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<v Speaker 1>what actually happened. And she said he shot her. And

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<v Speaker 1>people are mad because, you know, in their minds, she

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<v Speaker 1>lied because just because she lied about sucking him, whose

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<v Speaker 1>business is that? Right? Why does she have to tell

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<v Speaker 1>Gail the truth? Is that Gail's business to even as

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't. But I feel like she should have just

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<v Speaker 1>been very honest about the whole situation from the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why because about having sex, about everything involved. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna go on an interview with Gail Gail Key like,

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<v Speaker 1>you had to know that something the truth was going

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<v Speaker 1>to come out in this situation. But I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>people have um conflated to two. So, yes, she did

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<v Speaker 1>lie about having any type of sexual relation when I

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<v Speaker 1>have sex with the she lied about it, right, But

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<v Speaker 1>how does that like, uh like negate the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>he actually shot at her? She said, if I don't

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<v Speaker 1>come and don't count, period, because that's the rule, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the rule. But she said, you know she lied because

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<v Speaker 1>she knew her friend liked them. She knew Kelsey Kelsey Harris,

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<v Speaker 1>which was her best friend. She knew that he had

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<v Speaker 1>she had a crush on Tory Lanes. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>whether not they were intimate, and I don't believe that

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<v Speaker 1>I ever came out. But the narrative the defense attorney

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<v Speaker 1>was sticking with is that this is a man who

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<v Speaker 1>was working with two home girls and she got ugly

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<v Speaker 1>when they found out. Right, But um Mega Stallion really

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<v Speaker 1>didn't change her story about him saying Dan's bitch and

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<v Speaker 1>shooting at her feet. I witnessed accounts said that, um

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<v Speaker 1>he saw some flash come from a woman. He did

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<v Speaker 1>say that, right, So that's another thing the defense is

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<v Speaker 1>trying to say, Okay, well, her friend possibly shot her.

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<v Speaker 1>But on top of that, the the eyewitness said that

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<v Speaker 1>he saw the little man his exact words, start shooting erratically.

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<v Speaker 1>Now the blogs took the ship to the internet and said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he was shooting in the air, but the actual witness

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<v Speaker 1>said he was shooting erratically and then the woman fell

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<v Speaker 1>to the ground. I'm over it. I'm really over the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing. I mean, he's about to do something, He's

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<v Speaker 1>in jail now right at Yeah, he went to jail.

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<v Speaker 1>I wondered how long he's gonna sit there. So he's

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<v Speaker 1>facing up the twenty two years and nine months. They say, Dawn,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, like I hate any violence against a

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<v Speaker 1>black woman any time, obviously, or any black man too.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel bad for everybody. I feel bad for

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<v Speaker 1>him because he's also talented individual. Whole life is about

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<v Speaker 1>to be change changed completely. And then I feel bad

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<v Speaker 1>for her because she had a very traumatic like she

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<v Speaker 1>lost her now she's ultimately lost her best friend. That

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<v Speaker 1>girl was her best friend. And listen, y'all, I did

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast called Tequila Talk and I said some things

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<v Speaker 1>about bees and experience I had is in college and

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<v Speaker 1>let me tell y'all. It went the world star and

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<v Speaker 1>they drugged my ass over the coals on World. Sorry, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>they drugged my ass about my life. This is my

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<v Speaker 1>experience where y'all so mad if you said something bad

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<v Speaker 1>about me. Starship, there were somebody talking about I don't

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<v Speaker 1>love myself. Yeah, because I kept talking to the person

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<v Speaker 1>and that was calling me dude. That was a joke.

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<v Speaker 1>We were friends, like it was a joke between us.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like the whole campus. I told the world, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so get over it. So I just imagined that was

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<v Speaker 1>just a little small group of people who was breaking

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<v Speaker 1>me over the colds. And I was like, like, for

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<v Speaker 1>like two minutes, I was like feeling some type of thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't read. But then but then I got over it.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember I was a bad bitch and fuck them, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But imagine having this amount of people discussing your life

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<v Speaker 1>and having opinion about you and her full opinions about

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<v Speaker 1>you without knowing the full truth everything. Because as far

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<v Speaker 1>as I'm concern, all of them kind of recanted what

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<v Speaker 1>they initially told detectives and what initially was being reported.

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<v Speaker 1>All of them had a whole different story, especially Kelsey,

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<v Speaker 1>and one of the things she told of the textis

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<v Speaker 1>detectives is that Tory Lane is like right after offered

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<v Speaker 1>both of them a million dollars to not talk. And

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes after the shooting, Kelsey sent a text message

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<v Speaker 1>to um Megan Stallion's um bodyguard and said, Harry Tory

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<v Speaker 1>just stopped shot Meg nine on one and then she told,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, in front of the court, she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why I sent that girl exactly now.

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<v Speaker 1>Even though she had immunity right so she could tell whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you know, happened in court, she still didn't say

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<v Speaker 1>that she shot him. She could have said that and

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<v Speaker 1>he could have probably walked, but she still, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>stood with the fact that she didn't shoot her. Meg

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<v Speaker 1>didn't shoot her self. She's the only person who's seen

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<v Speaker 1>who didn't have access to a weapon who then shot her.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm confused as to why people in the public

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<v Speaker 1>are dragging her, and it just feels like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna wrap this up in a second, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just want people to to this could be your mom,

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<v Speaker 1>your sister, your daughter. Just because you don't know Mega

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<v Speaker 1>Stallion directly and she's not related to you, that doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean like your family, the women you love or exempt

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<v Speaker 1>from this type of ship. Everybody's you know, everybody can

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<v Speaker 1>be pimped out and nobody is exempted from this pimping.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know, and that's why, Yeah, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>my heart goes out to her, and I hope I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad that gentleman party is standing by her side, and

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that is very little for her. They even

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<v Speaker 1>try to drag party for coming out and say, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if something happened to black women, he's glad, like people

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<v Speaker 1>can come out and speak to you. Dad. They tried

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<v Speaker 1>to say he was abusing cash Doll. Cash Doll even

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<v Speaker 1>came and said, like, why y'all keep saying that that's

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<v Speaker 1>a lie. So this is the way the internet creates narratives.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we leave like some in the Internet. In a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, we're gonna get into that, into that these

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<v Speaker 1>random as trolls. Um So, I saw on the Shade

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<v Speaker 1>Room that Brittany Renter said that she was she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of us have regretted. I saw that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know I could. I could identify with some of that. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>there's people for my past. Yeah, I'm sorry to this man.

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<v Speaker 1>I do not know this man, girl, I got fuck

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<v Speaker 1>you money for anybody like we really like should get

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<v Speaker 1>real stupid. I might just have to get rid of

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<v Speaker 1>a few people, Okaytening she j I'm not people come

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<v Speaker 1>up missing every day, be and I mean that. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know you're implicating yourself right now, So just don't

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<v Speaker 1>tell people that this is for entertainment purposes only until

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<v Speaker 1>somebody then you and jail in the sal you're gonna tell,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't telling. I don't know if everybody shut the

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<v Speaker 1>funk up. They don't have a case, but they can

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<v Speaker 1>talk too much, you know how to go all right? Next?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it's like I don't want no, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Gunna said he did not snitch you. Okay, right right?

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<v Speaker 1>You right? Anybody back to Britney. Yeah. I remember getting

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<v Speaker 1>dragged a little bit on one of the first podcast

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<v Speaker 1>outside I show that we did together. I won't call

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<v Speaker 1>any names, but I would think they're supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>like our sister on the same network. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>coming for me because I said at home and doesn't heal?

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't. So when you going through bullshit and you're

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<v Speaker 1>using sex as an outlet, you're gonna feel even more

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<v Speaker 1>shitty because you probably want a little bit more intimacy

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<v Speaker 1>from a man as opposed to just getting smashed and dash.

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<v Speaker 1>So now she's older, she has a child now, and

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<v Speaker 1>now she's reconsidering some of her earlier activity, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was somebody online like with the attitude. I don't get

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<v Speaker 1>like sex just whatever, but it's definitely an exchange of

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<v Speaker 1>some real fucking energy and that just shows her broth

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<v Speaker 1>as a woman. You know, there's a lot of women

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<v Speaker 1>that cannot dotified with that. And that doesn't mean that

0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:20.280
<v Speaker 1>they had sex with a ton of people. It could

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<v Speaker 1>be two people that you know. So I get it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean, but she also doing like side

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<v Speaker 1>chick chicken sandwich commercials Get your bag though, oh for Crystals,

0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:38.120
<v Speaker 1>Charlot man ship get the bag. I'm not man. That

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<v Speaker 1>might as well make it work for you, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>you do not have Britney ray not seeing that it's

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<v Speaker 1>the side chicken sandwich for Crystal. But I know about

0:13:47.840 --> 0:13:50.040
<v Speaker 1>the side chick chicken sandwich, but I didn't know if

0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:55.520
<v Speaker 1>she was like endorsing it. She's in the commercial. She looks. Yeah.

0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:58.559
<v Speaker 1>I like Brittany Rayner as far as I'm concerned. Her

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<v Speaker 1>and Maria carry are the same peop who play who.

0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:04.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't get it. They look alike, do they not?

0:14:05.600 --> 0:14:08.840
<v Speaker 1>We're cars fifty years old and her and Brittany Rayner

0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:10.960
<v Speaker 1>look alike. All right, So shout out to Britney Wrinter,

0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:14.360
<v Speaker 1>get the chicken sandwich. They come to South Carolina. All right.

0:14:14.440 --> 0:14:17.760
<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about suki Ana. Did you see um? Suki

0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:22.920
<v Speaker 1>Ana said that she makes dinner she cooks for women's

0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:27.280
<v Speaker 1>husbands on Sundays. Yes, I don't know what. Maybe she

0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:30.320
<v Speaker 1>can't have to be funny. I think she really want

0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:34.960
<v Speaker 1>to cook that nig chicken sandwich. Yeah, vegan cauliflowers. Oh yeah,

0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:39.720
<v Speaker 1>a real quick like. Yeah, I do vegan chicken like

0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:42.520
<v Speaker 1>you give your one real meat. I got some cauliflower

0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:45.800
<v Speaker 1>chicken for you. Sukihana is funny as hell. Man, I

0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:48.120
<v Speaker 1>ain't cooking for the other body, nobody else, wife, That's

0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:50.800
<v Speaker 1>not my job. Excuse me. I'm not cooking for somebody

0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:52.520
<v Speaker 1>else in us, and that's not my job. But why

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<v Speaker 1>just the husband? Can I get a meal, Suki? Because

0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:58.880
<v Speaker 1>you want to side a bit to cook for you?

0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:01.480
<v Speaker 1>Why not? If you I'm not even from the side page.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know what she's trying to put in your

0:15:02.880 --> 0:15:07.120
<v Speaker 1>damn you're just the side bag you're gonna eat from.

0:15:07.160 --> 0:15:09.840
<v Speaker 1>Why she ain't trying to be my sidevage? She tried,

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<v Speaker 1>She just cooking. I'm just trying to see if I

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<v Speaker 1>can get a plate. I'm definitely not even from the

0:15:17.200 --> 0:15:21.720
<v Speaker 1>side baitch, And technically, to me, it's not the sidebitch's

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<v Speaker 1>job to be cooking. This is how should get sucked up?

0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Why are you cooking for somebody else husband? She technically

0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:30.080
<v Speaker 1>didn't say she was interested to be inside. She said

0:15:30.120 --> 0:15:33.800
<v Speaker 1>that was just her for her husband. She did say

0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:35.840
<v Speaker 1>she don't get it. I need to see the full

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<v Speaker 1>episode to understand what the conversation was even about. I

0:15:39.280 --> 0:15:43.120
<v Speaker 1>don't get it. She looked like she could cook now still, na, dude,

0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:45.480
<v Speaker 1>be fucking cooking. You haven't seen some of her video. Yeah,

0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:50.920
<v Speaker 1>she definitely be cooking. She got kids, just kids, chicken fingures,

0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:56.840
<v Speaker 1>mystery beat McDonald's mystery Meat. No, I like to be hunter,

0:15:57.920 --> 0:16:00.760
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I feel like you know bitches or the

0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:02.680
<v Speaker 1>other woman. We had a whole episode on mrs what's

0:16:02.720 --> 0:16:05.600
<v Speaker 1>the mistress? What's the side? Bitch? Like everybody got a job,

0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:07.800
<v Speaker 1>Like that's your wife's job to cook for you? Like

0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:11.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm fun, okay, come hang side, but just don't cook meals,

0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:16.440
<v Speaker 1>not for somebody else's husband. They just go to eat, Yes,

0:16:16.560 --> 0:16:18.880
<v Speaker 1>stick me out to dinner. What the funk? I look

0:16:18.920 --> 0:16:21.880
<v Speaker 1>like cooking for you man? That's what your wife for? No,

0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:25.240
<v Speaker 1>I get it, I get what you're saying. I'm just

0:16:25.280 --> 0:16:31.920
<v Speaker 1>trying to get a free shame. But okay, So now

0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:35.080
<v Speaker 1>Christmas is up. Now we're going into the new year,

0:16:35.960 --> 0:16:41.280
<v Speaker 1>all right, So I want to get into uh, some

0:16:41.320 --> 0:16:44.080
<v Speaker 1>things we want to leave in two Like, what's some

0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:47.000
<v Speaker 1>things you want to leave in I can list a

0:16:47.000 --> 0:16:49.760
<v Speaker 1>few things, okay, So we'll talk about that when we

0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:56.520
<v Speaker 1>get right back from miss break. So I made a

0:16:56.640 --> 0:17:02.520
<v Speaker 1>list the things that I want to get rid of leaving, right, Yeah,

0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:05.639
<v Speaker 1>just leave that ship and never look back. Like the

0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:08.200
<v Speaker 1>girl walking up the steps with a little bag. I'm

0:17:08.240 --> 0:17:11.119
<v Speaker 1>sick as ship. We were walking up to the steps

0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:17.840
<v Speaker 1>since two thousand four, yeah, because you know what got resolving,

0:17:18.520 --> 0:17:20.800
<v Speaker 1>all right. So one of the things that I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>want to get rid of or leaving is text messages

0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:31.040
<v Speaker 1>from businesses and phone calls from businesses fashion over she

0:17:31.200 --> 0:17:34.399
<v Speaker 1>and texting me in the middle of night, be flying

0:17:34.520 --> 0:17:36.320
<v Speaker 1>like even though I love these, you know, some of

0:17:36.320 --> 0:17:38.800
<v Speaker 1>these companies and I don't really shop at she and

0:17:38.840 --> 0:17:40.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm fashing over no more. I used to run it

0:17:40.640 --> 0:17:43.240
<v Speaker 1>up with them, but not the halls used to get

0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:45.560
<v Speaker 1>like the I used to run the bag up and

0:17:45.600 --> 0:17:49.000
<v Speaker 1>fashion over back and like two thousand third, about three

0:17:49.080 --> 0:17:51.520
<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars worth of ship, only a hundred dollars worth

0:17:51.520 --> 0:17:54.240
<v Speaker 1>of that ship. And said half back or just give

0:17:54.240 --> 0:17:57.040
<v Speaker 1>it away. I would always end up giving you too

0:17:57.119 --> 0:17:59.159
<v Speaker 1>much to send the bad But I hate that they

0:17:59.200 --> 0:18:00.719
<v Speaker 1>text me all the time. I might be thinking, it's

0:18:00.720 --> 0:18:04.119
<v Speaker 1>a nigga and it's Fashion Over, right, I get Mommy,

0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:05.720
<v Speaker 1>I ain't got no nigga. You know what I'm saying.

0:18:07.280 --> 0:18:09.200
<v Speaker 1>You got them? Why is Fashion over with text me

0:18:09.280 --> 0:18:11.200
<v Speaker 1>at two in the morning. I don't know. They gotta

0:18:11.240 --> 0:18:12.880
<v Speaker 1>make sure you know about the deals and see I'll

0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:14.840
<v Speaker 1>be wanting to unsubscribe to a lot of them things,

0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:16.520
<v Speaker 1>and then I just don't because I'm like, I don't

0:18:16.560 --> 0:18:18.800
<v Speaker 1>want to miss a deal. I don't subscribe to Fashion over,

0:18:19.480 --> 0:18:22.760
<v Speaker 1>but it's a couple other companies like yummy here, like

0:18:22.920 --> 0:18:25.120
<v Speaker 1>when Black Friday, bitch, let me see what they got

0:18:25.160 --> 0:18:27.840
<v Speaker 1>going on? Just go look at it, right, You know,

0:18:27.880 --> 0:18:30.880
<v Speaker 1>I really opt out. I always intend to opt out

0:18:30.880 --> 0:18:32.199
<v Speaker 1>a lot of ship but then I just feel like

0:18:32.200 --> 0:18:34.959
<v Speaker 1>they keep coming back. I don't know, I even did

0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:37.760
<v Speaker 1>I put my phone number like on the website, you know,

0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:41.520
<v Speaker 1>so you can opt out of telemarketing telemarketers. And I

0:18:41.520 --> 0:18:44.440
<v Speaker 1>feel like ever since then, I get more random ass

0:18:44.440 --> 0:18:49.080
<v Speaker 1>text messages about weight law said like who the fun

0:18:51.000 --> 0:18:52.840
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you don't even know what they're calling about because

0:18:52.840 --> 0:18:54.800
<v Speaker 1>I hang up on them or I start talking to them.

0:18:55.119 --> 0:18:57.600
<v Speaker 1>I started ascelling them for money, Like can I send

0:18:57.600 --> 0:18:59.680
<v Speaker 1>you all my phone bill? Because obviously that's y'all ship,

0:19:00.400 --> 0:19:02.159
<v Speaker 1>this ain't my phone no more? Do I want to

0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:08.800
<v Speaker 1>donate to Charlotte Mecklenburg Police Department? Fun the police? Thank you?

0:19:09.440 --> 0:19:11.360
<v Speaker 1>All right? So one thing on my list I want

0:19:11.400 --> 0:19:22.520
<v Speaker 1>to leave in the Kardashians, all of them. Uh maybe

0:19:22.680 --> 0:19:25.880
<v Speaker 1>not like uh black China little girl, but the rest

0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:29.840
<v Speaker 1>of them, the rest of them just gonna stay. In

0:19:29.840 --> 0:19:32.240
<v Speaker 1>twenty two, I was so sick of him. I unfollowed

0:19:32.280 --> 0:19:35.720
<v Speaker 1>Kim Kardashian like last year. I never followed any of

0:19:35.840 --> 0:19:40.240
<v Speaker 1>the other ones. But I don't know. Kim Kardashian has

0:19:40.280 --> 0:19:43.359
<v Speaker 1>done a lot of different things as far as legal

0:19:43.800 --> 0:19:48.879
<v Speaker 1>in legal terms for black people. Okay, So it wasn't

0:19:49.040 --> 0:19:51.960
<v Speaker 1>last year that unfollowed Kim Kardashian. It was actually this

0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:55.960
<v Speaker 1>year when she did that UM Make America Great photo shoot?

0:19:56.240 --> 0:19:59.040
<v Speaker 1>Did you see that she had like the blonde blonde

0:19:59.119 --> 0:20:01.320
<v Speaker 1>here And we actually talked about it on one of

0:20:01.400 --> 0:20:05.440
<v Speaker 1>the previous episodes. UM what they call it? The Cheeto girl?

0:20:05.520 --> 0:20:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Thing where the little white girls are going back to

0:20:07.560 --> 0:20:10.040
<v Speaker 1>being white and they don't want to act black anymore.

0:20:10.440 --> 0:20:14.720
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like the Kardashian family really infiltrated black

0:20:14.800 --> 0:20:17.960
<v Speaker 1>black America period. You know what I'm saying. I'm you know,

0:20:17.960 --> 0:20:22.760
<v Speaker 1>white people assisted as well, but uh, I'm sick of

0:20:22.840 --> 0:20:27.359
<v Speaker 1>him at this point. And now you whitewashed. You're basically

0:20:27.440 --> 0:20:30.520
<v Speaker 1>telling us you're going back. You have had gone here

0:20:30.520 --> 0:20:32.639
<v Speaker 1>for the whole year. So that's a statement as far

0:20:32.640 --> 0:20:35.320
<v Speaker 1>as unclecerned. So we can leave that ass You know it,

0:20:35.359 --> 0:20:40.360
<v Speaker 1>don't make me no difference. They can they wherever they are. One.

0:20:40.400 --> 0:20:43.760
<v Speaker 1>Another thing I want to leave in is the vibes.

0:20:44.119 --> 0:20:47.359
<v Speaker 1>Everything is not a vibe. Oh it's a vibe. Your vibe.

0:20:47.440 --> 0:20:50.639
<v Speaker 1>She's a vibe he's got. This is low vibrational. This

0:20:50.680 --> 0:20:53.320
<v Speaker 1>is high vibrational. Let's leave the vibes. We can lead

0:20:53.359 --> 0:20:56.960
<v Speaker 1>them a low vibrational plates though nam wasn't that wrong

0:20:56.960 --> 0:21:01.359
<v Speaker 1>with that girl plated to burgers on one plate? Wasn't

0:21:01.359 --> 0:21:04.159
<v Speaker 1>Maybe she didn't eat, maybe she wasn't gonna maybe she

0:21:04.240 --> 0:21:06.199
<v Speaker 1>was saving one for later. We don't know what she

0:21:06.280 --> 0:21:08.960
<v Speaker 1>was doing with her plate. Mind your plate business. You

0:21:08.960 --> 0:21:13.639
<v Speaker 1>need to focus on your plate. Leave those vibrations. What

0:21:13.800 --> 0:21:16.639
<v Speaker 1>was low vibrational was how she attacked her about what

0:21:16.760 --> 0:21:20.359
<v Speaker 1>she was eating. That was low. Situations were low vibrational.

0:21:20.480 --> 0:21:23.359
<v Speaker 1>I see where she was trying to go with him. Yeah,

0:21:23.800 --> 0:21:28.040
<v Speaker 1>but let people eat what they want. I trying to

0:21:28.280 --> 0:21:33.359
<v Speaker 1>nick nickpick nick nickpick with people's plates. But I do

0:21:33.520 --> 0:21:37.640
<v Speaker 1>be watching. I do. I can't help it. I mind

0:21:37.680 --> 0:21:43.560
<v Speaker 1>my plate, my my plate business. But just the vibes,

0:21:43.640 --> 0:21:46.000
<v Speaker 1>because everything is not a vibe, and everything is not

0:21:47.040 --> 0:21:49.679
<v Speaker 1>everybody is not a vibe. I get tired of hear

0:21:49.720 --> 0:21:54.520
<v Speaker 1>and say, I agree, um, COVID nineteen. I would like

0:21:54.600 --> 0:22:01.040
<v Speaker 1>to leave COVID nineteen. It's probably not going anywhere. Uh uh.

0:22:01.240 --> 0:22:04.679
<v Speaker 1>But I feel like this winter is kind of ramped up.

0:22:06.800 --> 0:22:09.560
<v Speaker 1>See okay, it seems like I saw somebody posts that

0:22:09.600 --> 0:22:11.800
<v Speaker 1>they had the flu and it was way worse than

0:22:12.160 --> 0:22:14.240
<v Speaker 1>COVID could ever be. Could it be that a lot

0:22:14.280 --> 0:22:18.199
<v Speaker 1>of people had the food before, like because I was

0:22:18.240 --> 0:22:21.880
<v Speaker 1>told on season because I read that the PCR testing

0:22:22.680 --> 0:22:27.119
<v Speaker 1>um couldn't differentiate between the flu and COVID nineteen. So

0:22:27.160 --> 0:22:29.159
<v Speaker 1>who's to say a lot of people Because annually a

0:22:29.160 --> 0:22:31.960
<v Speaker 1>lot of people do die from the flu. So I

0:22:32.000 --> 0:22:33.840
<v Speaker 1>don't know what we were dealing with, but I would

0:22:33.880 --> 0:22:38.000
<v Speaker 1>like to leave COVID nineteen. I'm scared of that ship.

0:22:38.560 --> 0:22:43.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah you never heard it, did it? Bitch? I be

0:22:43.000 --> 0:22:46.640
<v Speaker 1>beefed up on all these damn vitamins, beefing up vinamins?

0:22:48.640 --> 0:22:50.600
<v Speaker 1>Would you want coming outside like that? I was in

0:22:50.640 --> 0:22:53.680
<v Speaker 1>the streets, I'd be all side now, I'd be real careful.

0:22:54.640 --> 0:22:58.600
<v Speaker 1>How do you careful from breathing? I drank tease, you know.

0:22:59.240 --> 0:23:03.040
<v Speaker 1>I drink a lot of teased with garlic and honey,

0:23:03.680 --> 0:23:06.200
<v Speaker 1>just stuff to keep mucus down in your body. And

0:23:06.520 --> 0:23:11.440
<v Speaker 1>I started taking um. It's like a it's like a

0:23:11.520 --> 0:23:16.640
<v Speaker 1>herbal laxative kind of but it's natural, and it keeps

0:23:16.640 --> 0:23:19.920
<v Speaker 1>your gut clean. That's where most diseases start at. So

0:23:19.920 --> 0:23:23.720
<v Speaker 1>as long as you, you know, keep your your stomach good,

0:23:24.280 --> 0:23:26.080
<v Speaker 1>you'll be able to talk about I don't want to

0:23:26.080 --> 0:23:29.880
<v Speaker 1>talk about y'all give me so much. I don't even

0:23:29.920 --> 0:23:32.040
<v Speaker 1>want to hear it. I tell you to go tell

0:23:32.080 --> 0:23:35.000
<v Speaker 1>like goddamn story. I thought I was in a safe place.

0:23:35.520 --> 0:23:37.760
<v Speaker 1>We are never safe. Just let's just let's be clear.

0:23:39.560 --> 0:23:43.120
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna have to deal duy, you're not all right.

0:23:43.320 --> 0:23:45.080
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you another thing. I want to leave

0:23:45.560 --> 0:23:52.119
<v Speaker 1>um because I land your stitches like the biggest. My

0:23:52.200 --> 0:23:55.840
<v Speaker 1>niece came to the house this Christmas with so snuff lufficus.

0:23:57.000 --> 0:23:59.760
<v Speaker 1>I hate that ship. It is not flattering to me.

0:24:00.080 --> 0:24:02.600
<v Speaker 1>Some people do the bottom roll too, Yeah, I hate it.

0:24:03.359 --> 0:24:05.640
<v Speaker 1>I like, don't get me wrong, I like a false lash.

0:24:05.720 --> 0:24:08.800
<v Speaker 1>Don't it's cute? But when it looked like two little

0:24:08.840 --> 0:24:12.440
<v Speaker 1>baby birds said, don't your motherfucker face? I cannot seeing that.

0:24:12.840 --> 0:24:15.680
<v Speaker 1>When the wind blowing into bitch face about the fall backwards, Yeah,

0:24:15.760 --> 0:24:19.440
<v Speaker 1>I can't do that. I hate that. Who made that cute?

0:24:19.440 --> 0:24:21.119
<v Speaker 1>I've been wearing lashes for a long time and I

0:24:21.119 --> 0:24:22.560
<v Speaker 1>asked my home girl out of that, I said, who

0:24:22.560 --> 0:24:24.600
<v Speaker 1>was the first person you know who was wearing lashes?

0:24:25.160 --> 0:24:27.800
<v Speaker 1>I came to college wearing lashes. Let me tell you

0:24:27.800 --> 0:24:31.320
<v Speaker 1>who was the first person I saw wearing lashes. And

0:24:31.320 --> 0:24:34.000
<v Speaker 1>this was a long time ago because and we were

0:24:34.040 --> 0:24:36.960
<v Speaker 1>in college. It was Tina from the shout out to

0:24:37.000 --> 0:24:41.320
<v Speaker 1>Tina New York Tina, and I was like just laughing

0:24:41.359 --> 0:24:43.560
<v Speaker 1>so hard at her for putting lashes on her face.

0:24:43.920 --> 0:24:46.240
<v Speaker 1>I was like, what are you doing? A bit? You

0:24:46.280 --> 0:24:48.119
<v Speaker 1>were boy with lashes? Why are you putting that on

0:24:48.160 --> 0:24:50.000
<v Speaker 1>your face. We laid for the club like this is

0:24:50.000 --> 0:24:52.040
<v Speaker 1>going on something, and I just thought it was the

0:24:52.080 --> 0:24:54.960
<v Speaker 1>dumbest ship ever. Nah, I just you know, a little

0:24:55.000 --> 0:24:56.800
<v Speaker 1>young country girl, and I just thought it was just

0:24:57.040 --> 0:25:00.880
<v Speaker 1>outrageous to add lashes and the like. Maybe I didn't

0:25:00.880 --> 0:25:04.360
<v Speaker 1>start putting all lashes till two thousand sixty, really, which

0:25:04.480 --> 0:25:09.199
<v Speaker 1>I came to school with long blonde weaves. Remember in

0:25:09.240 --> 0:25:14.120
<v Speaker 1>two thousand and two, everybody, me and my home girl

0:25:14.160 --> 0:25:16.920
<v Speaker 1>who came to school together, and my roommate at school,

0:25:17.440 --> 0:25:19.400
<v Speaker 1>she was like, if you were in New York, people

0:25:19.400 --> 0:25:21.320
<v Speaker 1>would laugh at you walking down the shoot that long

0:25:21.359 --> 0:25:24.160
<v Speaker 1>ass bitch. By the second semester she had a chance

0:25:24.240 --> 0:25:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Chinese bang, and damn, they're thirty inches down her back.

0:25:29.200 --> 0:25:31.520
<v Speaker 1>This is litch. I don't know what you're talking about. Now.

0:25:31.560 --> 0:25:34.000
<v Speaker 1>I probably never go back to wearing blonde hair like that,

0:25:34.040 --> 0:25:36.919
<v Speaker 1>but you know, once I started wearing black, it's more

0:25:36.920 --> 0:25:39.440
<v Speaker 1>regal and nice looking, you know. Yeah, I just don't

0:25:39.480 --> 0:25:42.360
<v Speaker 1>think those lashes will catch for me. And not shaming

0:25:42.400 --> 0:25:46.359
<v Speaker 1>anybody that does like that, that's y'all, but I hate

0:25:46.400 --> 0:25:48.000
<v Speaker 1>it and I don't want you to do it next year.

0:25:49.760 --> 0:25:55.720
<v Speaker 1>Stop that ship get somebody else to do it. Zeus Network.

0:25:56.440 --> 0:25:59.560
<v Speaker 1>I would like to leave Zeus Network along with their

0:25:59.640 --> 0:26:05.480
<v Speaker 1>whole sweet and that's including Crazy and Love, Christian Rock

0:26:05.760 --> 0:26:11.000
<v Speaker 1>and U Blue Face, Batty's Southeast West North whichever one,

0:26:11.760 --> 0:26:16.920
<v Speaker 1>and the Bobby I Love you put her per Yes.

0:26:17.080 --> 0:26:19.240
<v Speaker 1>I want them to like you feel like it's TV.

0:26:19.600 --> 0:26:22.200
<v Speaker 1>It's trash TV. I'm sorry. I know we talked on

0:26:22.240 --> 0:26:25.360
<v Speaker 1>this podcast, but not that type of ship. I don't.

0:26:25.400 --> 0:26:29.440
<v Speaker 1>I think we represent for women, just regular women pretty well.

0:26:29.960 --> 0:26:35.160
<v Speaker 1>That damn Showman, all of shows. It's just just trash. Yeah,

0:26:35.240 --> 0:26:37.320
<v Speaker 1>a lot of y'all being paid to make us look

0:26:37.359 --> 0:26:40.240
<v Speaker 1>like that this is representation. But you know what, that's

0:26:40.240 --> 0:26:42.360
<v Speaker 1>a part of real culture, right, that's part of our

0:26:42.560 --> 0:26:45.480
<v Speaker 1>that's that's a small facet of our culture. You know,

0:26:45.520 --> 0:26:48.280
<v Speaker 1>there's like it's multi faceting. There's all different types of

0:26:48.280 --> 0:26:50.679
<v Speaker 1>black people and that's a part of it. But do

0:26:50.720 --> 0:26:54.040
<v Speaker 1>you think the positive parts get the same amount of publicity?

0:26:54.520 --> 0:27:00.800
<v Speaker 1>Not always? Not always low key like then it's kind

0:27:00.800 --> 0:27:02.800
<v Speaker 1>of like when I watched like I like it until

0:27:02.800 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm done and they're like, turn it off, grandmama watching.

0:27:11.640 --> 0:27:16.080
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, zoos networks give people like these black people

0:27:16.080 --> 0:27:18.199
<v Speaker 1>get an opportunity, they wouldn't be making money, you know,

0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:20.800
<v Speaker 1>and it's for all this month. You don't have to

0:27:20.800 --> 0:27:26.879
<v Speaker 1>tune in. Where's integrity? Though? Is that you don't like

0:27:26.960 --> 0:27:30.760
<v Speaker 1>the word integrity. I don't mind the commitment. I don't

0:27:30.760 --> 0:27:33.680
<v Speaker 1>mind the word integrity. I understand. I try to operate

0:27:33.720 --> 0:27:36.560
<v Speaker 1>with integrity, but I just don't feel like they don't

0:27:36.600 --> 0:27:41.199
<v Speaker 1>have integrity because they participate on these shows. If you

0:27:41.280 --> 0:27:43.120
<v Speaker 1>have to, as a woman, you gotta get up and

0:27:43.200 --> 0:27:46.840
<v Speaker 1>fistfight another woman to get onto a show. Well, they

0:27:46.840 --> 0:27:48.440
<v Speaker 1>didn't have to fist fight to get on the show.

0:27:48.480 --> 0:27:52.720
<v Speaker 1>They were fighting on the girl. They were fistfighting at

0:27:52.720 --> 0:27:57.679
<v Speaker 1>the goddamn interviews for the show. Really, yes, Tommy, Tommy

0:27:57.800 --> 0:27:59.600
<v Speaker 1>was one of the judges, Like you know, when they're

0:27:59.600 --> 0:28:01.639
<v Speaker 1>doing like the interviews to see who they're gonna bring on.

0:28:02.119 --> 0:28:05.200
<v Speaker 1>She was fighting bitches like it's like ding ding ding.

0:28:05.840 --> 0:28:09.399
<v Speaker 1>No man, a lot of these women got children, Like

0:28:09.480 --> 0:28:11.720
<v Speaker 1>this is what y'all want? Like the Internet is fucking ink.

0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:14.240
<v Speaker 1>It's not a pencil. You can't delete none of this ship. Yeah,

0:28:14.240 --> 0:28:16.040
<v Speaker 1>I know I'm not. I think I'll never be a

0:28:16.040 --> 0:28:23.000
<v Speaker 1>state senator because of that blue booty video that girl. Whatever?

0:28:23.440 --> 0:28:25.560
<v Speaker 1>What was the girl? I forgot what state she's from.

0:28:25.600 --> 0:28:28.120
<v Speaker 1>But remember there was a politician working on the beach.

0:28:28.760 --> 0:28:34.479
<v Speaker 1>A hand may not be over for me. All right,

0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:36.880
<v Speaker 1>what do I want to get rid of? Grand Rising?

0:28:37.800 --> 0:28:40.280
<v Speaker 1>Don't text me grand Ride? You love that? What is

0:28:40.800 --> 0:28:45.920
<v Speaker 1>saying Grand Rising? I say, rich White Rising girl, grand

0:28:46.080 --> 0:28:50.360
<v Speaker 1>Ridge Rising? What is that? It's some hoteps ship. So

0:28:50.480 --> 0:28:52.959
<v Speaker 1>Grand Rising is more like, you know, wake up and

0:28:53.000 --> 0:28:57.400
<v Speaker 1>conquer today, or like rising shine. Some may say that

0:28:57.560 --> 0:28:59.680
<v Speaker 1>same good morning is like a curse. It's in the Bible.

0:29:00.120 --> 0:29:04.400
<v Speaker 1>Why because they said it says something like, um, if

0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:07.600
<v Speaker 1>you say good morning or you yell good morning to

0:29:07.680 --> 0:29:11.640
<v Speaker 1>your neighbor, they may take offense to it because they

0:29:11.640 --> 0:29:13.560
<v Speaker 1>may feel like it's a curse. I don't know, I

0:29:13.560 --> 0:29:17.000
<v Speaker 1>don't know. It says that in the Bible. Believe aboty

0:29:17.080 --> 0:29:20.719
<v Speaker 1>good morning, and they feel like it's a curse. A

0:29:20.720 --> 0:29:22.880
<v Speaker 1>lot of people don't even like mornings. You know what

0:29:22.920 --> 0:29:26.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. That's mean it's morning, like they say, you

0:29:26.600 --> 0:29:29.320
<v Speaker 1>gotta be happy your motherfucking days woke up today, Grant

0:29:29.560 --> 0:29:33.400
<v Speaker 1>actually Grand Rising? Um. It's also more more associated with

0:29:34.600 --> 0:29:39.720
<v Speaker 1>the penis, like waking up with a woody in the morning,

0:29:40.200 --> 0:29:42.920
<v Speaker 1>swear to God up not y'all when I say some ship,

0:29:43.040 --> 0:29:46.800
<v Speaker 1>just go look at that before you Yes, So why

0:29:46.840 --> 0:29:48.560
<v Speaker 1>they send it to me? I ain't got noding. So

0:29:48.800 --> 0:29:50.800
<v Speaker 1>you remember when we had a dick doc on TikTok

0:29:50.840 --> 0:29:53.520
<v Speaker 1>on a matter of fact, No, we had a urologist

0:29:53.560 --> 0:29:58.920
<v Speaker 1>on um doctor Millhouse, and she said one of the

0:29:58.960 --> 0:30:02.480
<v Speaker 1>earlier early songs lines of e d is like a

0:30:02.560 --> 0:30:05.320
<v Speaker 1>man waking up without the morning. Would you know if

0:30:05.360 --> 0:30:08.360
<v Speaker 1>it's happening you know too many times, you might have

0:30:10.280 --> 0:30:11.960
<v Speaker 1>a long time. They did be hard every morning when

0:30:11.960 --> 0:30:14.560
<v Speaker 1>they were it's supposed to be like that's normal. So

0:30:14.680 --> 0:30:16.400
<v Speaker 1>if you're waking up in the morning with a lot

0:30:16.480 --> 0:30:19.120
<v Speaker 1>of softies like, that's like one of the easiest early

0:30:19.160 --> 0:30:23.800
<v Speaker 1>signs for erectile dysfunction. So when somebody says grand rising, uh,

0:30:23.880 --> 0:30:28.000
<v Speaker 1>it's also associated with Yes, it's associated with the male foul.

0:30:30.880 --> 0:30:35.120
<v Speaker 1>Everybody ain't having a grand rising. But I still I

0:30:35.120 --> 0:30:38.760
<v Speaker 1>would leave the the term in the hard dicks can

0:30:38.800 --> 0:30:42.160
<v Speaker 1>go to two period. The first thing from here and

0:30:42.160 --> 0:30:49.120
<v Speaker 1>beyond humbling black women. Why it just feels like everybody

0:30:49.160 --> 0:30:52.760
<v Speaker 1>just wants us to be like just getting your place.

0:30:53.920 --> 0:30:56.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be humble anymore. I want to

0:30:56.600 --> 0:30:58.720
<v Speaker 1>act like I'm the ship, because you know I'm the ship,

0:30:58.800 --> 0:31:00.480
<v Speaker 1>and that's why you feel like I need to be humbled.

0:31:01.320 --> 0:31:03.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm here for that one. So I would like to

0:31:03.240 --> 0:31:12.240
<v Speaker 1>leave humbling black women and Papio ship period. Yeah, whatever

0:31:12.280 --> 0:31:15.719
<v Speaker 1>it is, celebrate it, celebrate yourself in whatever it is.

0:31:16.240 --> 0:31:19.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm here for that one. Um. Okay, So people are

0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:25.479
<v Speaker 1>gonna be mad at me poorly done bbls. If you're

0:31:25.480 --> 0:31:28.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna get a BBL, go to someone good, save the

0:31:28.600 --> 0:31:31.760
<v Speaker 1>money and get a good one. I'm not saying don't

0:31:31.800 --> 0:31:33.600
<v Speaker 1>do your BBL because if you want to do something

0:31:33.600 --> 0:31:36.160
<v Speaker 1>to your body, by all means, I'm here for it.

0:31:36.840 --> 0:31:39.520
<v Speaker 1>But don't pay two thousand dollars and go into some

0:31:39.600 --> 0:31:43.400
<v Speaker 1>foreign country and only paying two thousand dollars. I don't

0:31:43.440 --> 0:31:45.440
<v Speaker 1>know how much it, but you know, paying a small

0:31:45.440 --> 0:31:48.240
<v Speaker 1>amount and then you come back looking like a fucking

0:31:48.240 --> 0:31:50.480
<v Speaker 1>ant and then doctors here don't want to touch it.

0:31:50.560 --> 0:31:54.000
<v Speaker 1>The same thing with the teeth, Yeah, bitch, that's on

0:31:54.040 --> 0:31:56.280
<v Speaker 1>my list. Teeth it ain't on my list, but I'm

0:31:56.280 --> 0:31:58.760
<v Speaker 1>putting on my list, Like, why not take care of

0:31:58.800 --> 0:32:02.160
<v Speaker 1>your natural teeth? No, some people need their mother. But

0:32:02.320 --> 0:32:03.840
<v Speaker 1>I've got to get the right side. You can't be

0:32:03.880 --> 0:32:05.600
<v Speaker 1>getting the extra bug right. And they go out the

0:32:05.600 --> 0:32:08.360
<v Speaker 1>country to get the veneers and they can't get anybody

0:32:08.360 --> 0:32:10.200
<v Speaker 1>to fix them here if they you know, back them

0:32:10.240 --> 0:32:14.080
<v Speaker 1>or whatever. So yeah, with the bb that cheap version

0:32:14.160 --> 0:32:16.920
<v Speaker 1>stopped doing that. This is your body, and yeah, buds

0:32:17.040 --> 0:32:21.360
<v Speaker 1>that matched your body like how somebody some buds ain't

0:32:21.400 --> 0:32:23.520
<v Speaker 1>meant to be Like somebody's ain't meant to him like

0:32:23.680 --> 0:32:26.400
<v Speaker 1>a big super fatty, you know, because your thighs be

0:32:26.440 --> 0:32:30.200
<v Speaker 1>so small. You know, it just looks unproportional. It looks bad.

0:32:31.040 --> 0:32:33.040
<v Speaker 1>Maybe they should go to women doctors because maybe a

0:32:33.080 --> 0:32:35.440
<v Speaker 1>woman can understand like how the body is supposed to

0:32:35.440 --> 0:32:37.880
<v Speaker 1>look naturally, as opposed to going to a man and

0:32:37.920 --> 0:32:39.480
<v Speaker 1>you just throw a dunk on everybody. I seem like

0:32:39.600 --> 0:32:41.560
<v Speaker 1>there's always a man man doing the work. I feel

0:32:41.600 --> 0:32:43.080
<v Speaker 1>like a lot of them doctors need to go to jail,

0:32:44.160 --> 0:32:47.200
<v Speaker 1>locked up. Why do you tell them no? Right, just

0:32:47.280 --> 0:32:50.200
<v Speaker 1>like money, you can't tell everybody. Yeah, every that ass

0:32:50.280 --> 0:32:52.840
<v Speaker 1>does not belong. If the ass was for that person's body,

0:32:52.880 --> 0:32:55.600
<v Speaker 1>they would have been born with it. A lot of

0:32:55.640 --> 0:33:01.880
<v Speaker 1>people walk around here looking like SpongeBob SquarePants. Okay, they'll

0:33:01.920 --> 0:33:03.880
<v Speaker 1>be trying to be too damn nice. That's what it is,

0:33:04.320 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 1>because you can get like a nice little frame on you.

0:33:06.840 --> 0:33:10.880
<v Speaker 1>It's called like a skinny bbla bl Yeah, that's would

0:33:10.880 --> 0:33:14.360
<v Speaker 1>look nice. And I just wanted to look like, you know,

0:33:15.520 --> 0:33:19.920
<v Speaker 1>yeah is it hers? Is not? It looked good? You know? Yeah? Yeah.

0:33:19.960 --> 0:33:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I think some people just throw that ass and it's

0:33:21.920 --> 0:33:23.800
<v Speaker 1>just sitting in between the leg and the back and

0:33:23.800 --> 0:33:29.840
<v Speaker 1>it just looks crazy. All right, Uh, this is for

0:33:30.000 --> 0:33:32.680
<v Speaker 1>my maybe for me a little bit high fruit toast

0:33:32.680 --> 0:33:37.360
<v Speaker 1>corn served, you know what. I want to leave that

0:33:37.360 --> 0:33:41.480
<v Speaker 1>ship two for all black people because we literally died

0:33:41.520 --> 0:33:45.320
<v Speaker 1>in sweets in these streets. Okay, facts more people dying

0:33:45.320 --> 0:33:52.080
<v Speaker 1>from sugar than any fucking or killing each other. Sugar

0:33:52.320 --> 0:33:55.320
<v Speaker 1>sugar killing more people. You're right about that. I want

0:33:55.320 --> 0:33:58.320
<v Speaker 1>to leave that because now the one thing I would say,

0:33:58.640 --> 0:34:01.320
<v Speaker 1>one take away from the bomb administration is that he

0:34:01.360 --> 0:34:03.600
<v Speaker 1>made it to where they had to put certain things

0:34:03.640 --> 0:34:07.560
<v Speaker 1>on food labels, one being um, you know, make ingredients

0:34:07.600 --> 0:34:10.960
<v Speaker 1>in there, and then like the bioengineered have you have

0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:13.719
<v Speaker 1>you been seen that on your packages? They're just a

0:34:13.719 --> 0:34:15.480
<v Speaker 1>lot of ship I stopped eating like I don't buy

0:34:15.480 --> 0:34:19.760
<v Speaker 1>no Callogg's, uh serial because all of us says bioengineered

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:22.600
<v Speaker 1>ingredients on it. You know what I really do, now

0:34:22.600 --> 0:34:24.600
<v Speaker 1>that I think about it, it's not very much food

0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:30.360
<v Speaker 1>that I eat that doesn't come already prepared from restaurants.

0:34:30.520 --> 0:34:34.320
<v Speaker 1>Shame a restaurant or from the grocery store a restaurant.

0:34:34.400 --> 0:34:38.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't really it's so bad, like I need stock

0:34:38.280 --> 0:34:43.919
<v Speaker 1>in door dash bitch, because that's another thing I'm leaving. Yeah,

0:34:43.960 --> 0:34:46.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna start actually cooking again. I used to cook

0:34:46.440 --> 0:34:51.919
<v Speaker 1>so much when I was with any, but then it's

0:34:51.920 --> 0:34:54.440
<v Speaker 1>like after I got single, I just stopped. You know, No,

0:34:54.600 --> 0:34:56.920
<v Speaker 1>I rather cook because I know what happened to it.

0:34:56.960 --> 0:34:58.520
<v Speaker 1>Like you don't know what the people be doing in

0:34:58.560 --> 0:35:02.120
<v Speaker 1>these restaurants, even they know that's what you gotta pray

0:35:02.160 --> 0:35:05.640
<v Speaker 1>over your food. What the hell prayer gonna do? I mean,

0:35:05.960 --> 0:35:07.480
<v Speaker 1>you don't know what happened to that food before I

0:35:07.480 --> 0:35:11.160
<v Speaker 1>got in the package. I don't eat well. I mean,

0:35:11.200 --> 0:35:13.920
<v Speaker 1>aside from like seafood, I don't eat like meats and stuff.

0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:16.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't even like like package things. I don't like

0:35:16.280 --> 0:35:18.799
<v Speaker 1>like juice packets. But I mean I can't see the bread.

0:35:19.360 --> 0:35:21.240
<v Speaker 1>You don't know what happened to them grains before somebody

0:35:21.239 --> 0:35:30.120
<v Speaker 1>could before you just got prayers and so that's okay,

0:35:31.280 --> 0:35:43.560
<v Speaker 1>h what next one for me? Thinking the zodiac is absolute, absolute, period,

0:35:43.640 --> 0:35:47.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm a cancer, but it's not. Yes, it's not absolute,

0:35:47.920 --> 0:35:51.479
<v Speaker 1>it's not absolutely. Nobody is because we have the same side.

0:35:51.520 --> 0:35:54.600
<v Speaker 1>We're exactly alike, not exactly like. But you also have

0:35:54.680 --> 0:35:58.879
<v Speaker 1>to know the person's rising and moon signed to get

0:35:58.920 --> 0:36:03.880
<v Speaker 1>a pretty good calculate birth date, to get a pretty

0:36:03.920 --> 0:36:07.000
<v Speaker 1>good calculation of what type of person you are. You

0:36:07.080 --> 0:36:09.920
<v Speaker 1>a fucking cancer, bitch. I'm a cancer, but I know

0:36:10.000 --> 0:36:12.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm not an absolute cancer. And I know the next

0:36:12.719 --> 0:36:15.839
<v Speaker 1>kidcer is not absolutely I don't know. That's what I'm saying.

0:36:15.880 --> 0:36:18.920
<v Speaker 1>They're not nobody's. You can't line us all up that

0:36:18.960 --> 0:36:20.719
<v Speaker 1>are born in the same month and be like, these

0:36:20.760 --> 0:36:24.160
<v Speaker 1>people are exactly the same. I know for a fact.

0:36:24.880 --> 0:36:31.560
<v Speaker 1>It's fuck you, Aquarious and it's period. Okay, Now you

0:36:31.680 --> 0:36:34.920
<v Speaker 1>might you might be blocking your blessing. It might be

0:36:34.960 --> 0:36:38.160
<v Speaker 1>an Aquarius that's gonna love the funk out of ut

0:36:38.239 --> 0:36:42.719
<v Speaker 1>his his zodiac and he's like, yes, that's really had

0:36:42.760 --> 0:36:44.360
<v Speaker 1>to produise the ship to me, girl, because I have

0:36:44.520 --> 0:36:49.720
<v Speaker 1>been terrorized by goddamn Aquarius. Okay, that was one person, Okay,

0:36:49.800 --> 0:36:54.640
<v Speaker 1>and I feel like that's that's what they are. Ye period,

0:36:54.760 --> 0:36:58.840
<v Speaker 1>Let's leave that in. Let's leave that because everybody's different.

0:36:59.120 --> 0:37:02.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know. I feel like knowing

0:37:02.920 --> 0:37:07.879
<v Speaker 1>someone Zodiac it's a okay, you can't hold them to that,

0:37:08.520 --> 0:37:14.160
<v Speaker 1>but it gives you a nice little starting point, it does. Okay,

0:37:14.160 --> 0:37:16.960
<v Speaker 1>that's fair. But I just said absolutely. I didn't say, like,

0:37:17.760 --> 0:37:19.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, like nothing is true because I know I'm

0:37:19.800 --> 0:37:23.480
<v Speaker 1>a cry baby, I'm sensitive and I'm loving all those

0:37:23.520 --> 0:37:26.520
<v Speaker 1>things that are cancer. I do align with that, but

0:37:27.280 --> 0:37:29.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm not absolutely because I also can be a bitch

0:37:29.640 --> 0:37:32.120
<v Speaker 1>and I can be like not so loving time at times,

0:37:32.160 --> 0:37:46.480
<v Speaker 1>but that's cancer. Okay. Uh, let me see. Can we

0:37:46.840 --> 0:37:52.239
<v Speaker 1>leave these petty asks conversations and who pays for what?

0:37:53.680 --> 0:37:56.919
<v Speaker 1>Can we can we leave that? Is that a possibility?

0:37:57.440 --> 0:38:00.759
<v Speaker 1>I mean every podcast clip you pretty much see online

0:38:01.560 --> 0:38:04.000
<v Speaker 1>when it's like men and women, that's what they're talking

0:38:04.000 --> 0:38:08.480
<v Speaker 1>about Black men and women. That's like the topic of discussion.

0:38:08.520 --> 0:38:10.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to figure out why whatever works for you

0:38:11.040 --> 0:38:13.160
<v Speaker 1>and your relationship. That's how I feel like whatever works

0:38:13.160 --> 0:38:18.239
<v Speaker 1>for y'all is dynamic of what the world says how

0:38:18.280 --> 0:38:20.400
<v Speaker 1>it should be, right. I just don't know why people

0:38:20.440 --> 0:38:22.000
<v Speaker 1>like I guess I don't know. Men just feel like

0:38:22.040 --> 0:38:26.080
<v Speaker 1>they've been kicking out when the average didn't feel abused

0:38:26.080 --> 0:38:29.400
<v Speaker 1>by women. I feel like men are feeling like bitter

0:38:29.840 --> 0:38:32.719
<v Speaker 1>about relationships with women these days, and they feel like

0:38:32.800 --> 0:38:35.839
<v Speaker 1>they're doing more than they should, which is crazy because

0:38:35.880 --> 0:38:38.239
<v Speaker 1>I feel like men should feel like they want to

0:38:38.280 --> 0:38:41.239
<v Speaker 1>be provided, but I don't feel like they feel that

0:38:41.280 --> 0:38:46.960
<v Speaker 1>way anymore. I might be wrong. I think um ego,

0:38:48.200 --> 0:38:52.520
<v Speaker 1>a healthy ego for a man would probably be one

0:38:52.600 --> 0:38:55.320
<v Speaker 1>that's fed, he had taken care of the people he loves.

0:38:56.160 --> 0:38:59.680
<v Speaker 1>That's how he feels like a man, right. But there's

0:38:59.680 --> 0:39:02.359
<v Speaker 1>a lot of men again, they may feel some type

0:39:02.360 --> 0:39:04.279
<v Speaker 1>of way. Maybe they had been taken advantage of by

0:39:04.280 --> 0:39:06.520
<v Speaker 1>bad women in the past, and now it's like, funk

0:39:06.560 --> 0:39:07.759
<v Speaker 1>all your wholes. And we know a lot of these

0:39:07.800 --> 0:39:11.200
<v Speaker 1>stories come from high school. Ain't even nothing valid that

0:39:11.320 --> 0:39:14.879
<v Speaker 1>happened to them. Y'all are running through women, y'all whole

0:39:14.920 --> 0:39:17.719
<v Speaker 1>fucking life, you know what I'm saying. But yeah, I

0:39:17.719 --> 0:39:21.200
<v Speaker 1>feel like I feel like men like, why why don't you.

0:39:21.440 --> 0:39:22.920
<v Speaker 1>Why would you not want to take care of the

0:39:22.920 --> 0:39:25.239
<v Speaker 1>woman you say you love? Why would you not want

0:39:25.280 --> 0:39:28.080
<v Speaker 1>to aspire to one day completely take care of your family.

0:39:28.120 --> 0:39:30.800
<v Speaker 1>Nobody's asking you to have all the ship together today,

0:39:30.840 --> 0:39:33.200
<v Speaker 1>but that should be your goal. You're in goal, I

0:39:33.239 --> 0:39:35.319
<v Speaker 1>would think, right, I would, I would agree there. But

0:39:36.080 --> 0:39:39.120
<v Speaker 1>what if you're with a woman who makes considerably more

0:39:39.160 --> 0:39:41.600
<v Speaker 1>than you, because I mean, we do scream the quality

0:39:41.600 --> 0:39:46.640
<v Speaker 1>a lot. We we make oftentimes more money than in

0:39:46.760 --> 0:39:50.439
<v Speaker 1>some instances. Should it be a situation where he's taking

0:39:50.480 --> 0:39:53.400
<v Speaker 1>care of everything even though you make more money. I

0:39:53.440 --> 0:39:57.960
<v Speaker 1>don't think. Um, in order for a man to provide provisions,

0:39:58.360 --> 0:40:00.279
<v Speaker 1>he has to make all the money, but you have

0:40:00.400 --> 0:40:03.920
<v Speaker 1>to contribute. I feel like these niggas want to be

0:40:03.920 --> 0:40:07.000
<v Speaker 1>bad bitches. Sorry if you feel some type of way

0:40:07.040 --> 0:40:09.560
<v Speaker 1>about me saying that, but they want to be taken

0:40:09.600 --> 0:40:17.160
<v Speaker 1>care of. They want to be taken care of. And

0:40:17.280 --> 0:40:20.880
<v Speaker 1>at what point, Like most little boys they grow up,

0:40:21.080 --> 0:40:24.279
<v Speaker 1>most little black boys, because men and women, a lot

0:40:24.320 --> 0:40:26.120
<v Speaker 1>of us grow up in single parent homes. It is

0:40:26.160 --> 0:40:28.719
<v Speaker 1>usually just Mama there, right, So a lot of little

0:40:28.760 --> 0:40:30.960
<v Speaker 1>boys they grow up like can't wait to get to

0:40:31.000 --> 0:40:32.800
<v Speaker 1>the bags so they can take care of their mama

0:40:33.280 --> 0:40:36.480
<v Speaker 1>because they never saw daddy do it. So now you

0:40:36.560 --> 0:40:39.040
<v Speaker 1>have a woman, you have children, you have these women,

0:40:39.040 --> 0:40:41.560
<v Speaker 1>you've created baby mama's out of Do you want your

0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:44.719
<v Speaker 1>son now to get old enough to take care of her? Like?

0:40:44.800 --> 0:40:47.160
<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? You will take care of

0:40:47.160 --> 0:40:50.640
<v Speaker 1>your mom, but you won't take care of me. That's

0:40:50.640 --> 0:40:54.359
<v Speaker 1>a problem. It is. So I don't know. I wish

0:40:54.400 --> 0:40:57.319
<v Speaker 1>we could leave those conversations. Is some fucking poor shit.

0:40:58.000 --> 0:41:02.359
<v Speaker 1>Just cut it out, alright, you know, then say that.

0:41:02.480 --> 0:41:05.319
<v Speaker 1>I think it's more so about just reflecting and then

0:41:05.360 --> 0:41:08.560
<v Speaker 1>trying to do better, not putting women down for just

0:41:08.640 --> 0:41:10.759
<v Speaker 1>having to do because y'all talk to you about us

0:41:10.760 --> 0:41:12.680
<v Speaker 1>in the projects and now you talk to it about

0:41:12.760 --> 0:41:15.920
<v Speaker 1>us in the boardroom. Which one you want? Fun your degree?

0:41:16.160 --> 0:41:20.759
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't want other ethnicities like Africans like

0:41:20.800 --> 0:41:23.320
<v Speaker 1>they give a funk about your degree. Their mom and

0:41:23.360 --> 0:41:25.720
<v Speaker 1>the daddy, your husband, they give a funk about that degree.

0:41:25.719 --> 0:41:30.120
<v Speaker 1>But in America and men don't. That's weird. I don't know.

0:41:30.160 --> 0:41:31.560
<v Speaker 1>We need a man. I don't want to talk about

0:41:31.600 --> 0:41:35.439
<v Speaker 1>that alright. So one thing I definitely want to leave

0:41:35.480 --> 0:41:39.120
<v Speaker 1>in two, But I don't know if we can leave

0:41:39.160 --> 0:41:44.279
<v Speaker 1>it fitting all overdose m sitting all overdoses rampant in

0:41:44.280 --> 0:41:49.120
<v Speaker 1>our communion. It's taking so many good people out last

0:41:49.200 --> 0:41:52.080
<v Speaker 1>year and I just excuse me, last last month, not

0:41:52.200 --> 0:41:57.200
<v Speaker 1>last year, last month, like I keep narcan with me

0:41:57.680 --> 0:42:01.440
<v Speaker 1>just because And I don't even like participate any drugs

0:42:01.480 --> 0:42:05.600
<v Speaker 1>that would need it. I ain't really. Yeah, but they

0:42:05.680 --> 0:42:08.240
<v Speaker 1>sprinkling the ship on the weed, That's what I'm hearing.

0:42:08.280 --> 0:42:11.399
<v Speaker 1>But why would they put it on the weed? Where

0:42:11.440 --> 0:42:13.560
<v Speaker 1>is the weed coming from? Let's think, let's talk about that.

0:42:13.600 --> 0:42:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Where is the weed coming from a lot of the times,

0:42:17.600 --> 0:42:20.360
<v Speaker 1>where does it come from? Before Cali? I don't know,

0:42:20.640 --> 0:42:23.360
<v Speaker 1>Mexico a lot of times, Mexico, Yes, a lot of

0:42:23.640 --> 0:42:26.080
<v Speaker 1>coming a lot of a lot of drugs coming through

0:42:26.120 --> 0:42:31.680
<v Speaker 1>Mexico through you know, coming from Yeah, okay, and if

0:42:31.920 --> 0:42:35.600
<v Speaker 1>we know that, and calling me a conspiracy theorist, whatever

0:42:35.600 --> 0:42:39.279
<v Speaker 1>it is, Okay. They want to control the population, what

0:42:39.480 --> 0:42:42.359
<v Speaker 1>better way, and to take the recreational thing in mind,

0:42:42.360 --> 0:42:45.080
<v Speaker 1>you this didn't start happening until they started legalizing weed

0:42:45.160 --> 0:42:47.680
<v Speaker 1>every place. Now, so you you don't know if they're

0:42:47.680 --> 0:42:49.439
<v Speaker 1>picking it up in the in the cocaine of people

0:42:49.480 --> 0:42:54.400
<v Speaker 1>stiff in cold or it definitely is now on a marijuana.

0:42:54.560 --> 0:42:56.160
<v Speaker 1>So if you don't know where your supply is coming

0:42:56.200 --> 0:42:59.680
<v Speaker 1>from exactly, like if we have where you come from,

0:42:59.719 --> 0:43:02.600
<v Speaker 1>but how you don't know where they get it from.

0:43:03.200 --> 0:43:09.879
<v Speaker 1>I do, I hear that grower. I know exactly where

0:43:09.880 --> 0:43:15.680
<v Speaker 1>it's something from. But um, I haven't seen anybody die

0:43:15.719 --> 0:43:18.080
<v Speaker 1>from that. But in that case, I do have narcin

0:43:18.320 --> 0:43:21.200
<v Speaker 1>in my purse just in case. But I just feel like,

0:43:21.280 --> 0:43:23.600
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, these parties and people are like,

0:43:24.280 --> 0:43:27.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, doing whatever they're doing, and I just want

0:43:27.239 --> 0:43:30.160
<v Speaker 1>to be able to help an event that that happened.

0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:32.320
<v Speaker 1>You know, did you see it was a post online?

0:43:32.320 --> 0:43:35.400
<v Speaker 1>But it was a police officer. She actually just touched Yeah,

0:43:35.880 --> 0:43:38.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't even gotta use it. You could just touch

0:43:38.040 --> 0:43:41.840
<v Speaker 1>it somewhere and really die. I don't understand crazy. I

0:43:41.840 --> 0:43:44.960
<v Speaker 1>don't understand, like, why would y'all create something like that.

0:43:44.960 --> 0:43:47.319
<v Speaker 1>That's how you know NIGGAS is not handling fit now.

0:43:48.080 --> 0:43:50.960
<v Speaker 1>NIGGAS is not out here messing with ship that you're

0:43:50.960 --> 0:43:54.200
<v Speaker 1>just touching. You can die. That's not our thing. So

0:43:54.239 --> 0:43:57.480
<v Speaker 1>who's putting it out here like that? I watched that?

0:43:58.000 --> 0:44:03.320
<v Speaker 1>You think remember the series? Uh oz art m h

0:44:01.880 --> 0:44:06.319
<v Speaker 1>M it ain't us, that's not our thing, that's not

0:44:06.360 --> 0:44:09.160
<v Speaker 1>our dermo. I don't know what y'all. You gotta be

0:44:09.200 --> 0:44:12.719
<v Speaker 1>a motherfucker chemist, you know, to try to even mix

0:44:12.760 --> 0:44:15.319
<v Speaker 1>with that ship and it has met suit ship like

0:44:15.360 --> 0:44:20.000
<v Speaker 1>that matter Ni is just banging up and you know,

0:44:20.080 --> 0:44:22.160
<v Speaker 1>shoop it out there. I don't know. I don't know.

0:44:22.440 --> 0:44:27.319
<v Speaker 1>Let's leave that in yep uh, that's my truth. I

0:44:27.360 --> 0:44:31.920
<v Speaker 1>want to leave my truth. You wanna lie? N I

0:44:31.960 --> 0:44:33.839
<v Speaker 1>feel like a lot of times people be lying when

0:44:33.840 --> 0:44:36.319
<v Speaker 1>they'd be like, that's my that's my truth. Like just

0:44:36.400 --> 0:44:39.760
<v Speaker 1>because that's your truth, that doesn't mean it's the truth.

0:44:40.120 --> 0:44:43.080
<v Speaker 1>Do you see what I'm saying, So that's that's my truth?

0:44:43.280 --> 0:44:47.239
<v Speaker 1>I hate that. But what would person tell outside of

0:44:47.280 --> 0:44:51.680
<v Speaker 1>their truth? A lie? Bitch? No, I'm just saying, yeah, okay,

0:44:51.840 --> 0:44:55.160
<v Speaker 1>a lie. There's the truth and there's a lie. You know,

0:44:55.280 --> 0:44:57.719
<v Speaker 1>so what is the truth? What you believe? Only know?

0:44:57.880 --> 0:44:59.960
<v Speaker 1>The truth is what actually happened. Have you ever had

0:45:00.080 --> 0:45:03.120
<v Speaker 1>conversation with somebody and they're saying this is what happened,

0:45:03.120 --> 0:45:08.280
<v Speaker 1>but you know that's not what happened because that okay,

0:45:08.320 --> 0:45:12.160
<v Speaker 1>So then just because that's your perspective, that still doesn't

0:45:12.200 --> 0:45:14.719
<v Speaker 1>make it the truth? Do you see what I'm saying?

0:45:14.719 --> 0:45:18.239
<v Speaker 1>There's such things absolute truth, which is what actually transpired,

0:45:18.320 --> 0:45:21.640
<v Speaker 1>and truth has evidence. So now if you can just

0:45:21.680 --> 0:45:24.440
<v Speaker 1>say some ship with no evidence, is that the truth?

0:45:27.200 --> 0:45:29.080
<v Speaker 1>It's it's a slippery thought when it comes to things

0:45:29.120 --> 0:45:32.200
<v Speaker 1>like that, because I can see, I can see something,

0:45:32.320 --> 0:45:34.759
<v Speaker 1>we can see the same thing happen and our story

0:45:34.920 --> 0:45:38.160
<v Speaker 1>be different and it's still be true because of our perspective.

0:45:38.440 --> 0:45:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Do you see what I'm saying? That's scary to me.

0:45:40.520 --> 0:45:42.759
<v Speaker 1>It is scary because how did where did that come from?

0:45:42.800 --> 0:45:44.880
<v Speaker 1>Though that that's my truth? Where is that? Where did

0:45:44.920 --> 0:45:46.480
<v Speaker 1>that come from? I feel like it's like a new

0:45:46.520 --> 0:45:50.160
<v Speaker 1>generation thing, no bitch, because when I was living in Europe,

0:45:50.600 --> 0:45:53.160
<v Speaker 1>I watched the news. I watched the news on a

0:45:53.360 --> 0:45:57.080
<v Speaker 1>f N, which was a military network that, uh you know,

0:45:57.600 --> 0:46:01.520
<v Speaker 1>this way the news from Americans active. And then I

0:46:01.600 --> 0:46:04.120
<v Speaker 1>would watch the British news and it would tell the

0:46:04.200 --> 0:46:08.360
<v Speaker 1>same story, but it would be totally fucking different, and

0:46:08.400 --> 0:46:12.640
<v Speaker 1>it was about perspective. So which did you believe which

0:46:12.680 --> 0:46:15.040
<v Speaker 1>made more sense to you than which gave more proof

0:46:15.040 --> 0:46:20.360
<v Speaker 1>and more evidence? Because that's what you get what. Okay,

0:46:20.800 --> 0:46:27.200
<v Speaker 1>I know America be fucking lying with my home team.

0:46:27.440 --> 0:46:31.319
<v Speaker 1>I had that. Okay, that's my shoe. Yeah, we can

0:46:31.360 --> 0:46:35.200
<v Speaker 1>leave that ship in tween two. Um So the last

0:46:35.200 --> 0:46:38.880
<v Speaker 1>thing that I want to leave in two is if

0:46:38.880 --> 0:46:41.120
<v Speaker 1>you've seen somebody a fucking text message and you say

0:46:41.360 --> 0:46:44.040
<v Speaker 1>I love you and then they say love you back

0:46:44.560 --> 0:46:47.080
<v Speaker 1>without the eye on the front, that's the problem for me.

0:46:47.440 --> 0:46:50.759
<v Speaker 1>Let's leave that. If you don't put that eye on

0:46:50.800 --> 0:46:53.319
<v Speaker 1>the front, you don't vote with me for real. That's

0:46:53.320 --> 0:46:56.480
<v Speaker 1>how I feel what y'all think. If I texting Nick

0:46:56.560 --> 0:46:58.000
<v Speaker 1>I love you, and he'd be like, love you too,

0:46:58.600 --> 0:47:03.520
<v Speaker 1>lu vel Ven, here's me. That's a problem now, luv

0:47:03.680 --> 0:47:05.800
<v Speaker 1>he trying to play with you, and I feel like

0:47:06.000 --> 0:47:10.480
<v Speaker 1>men definitely know the difference when it's intentional. It's intentional.

0:47:10.920 --> 0:47:14.160
<v Speaker 1>It's intentional. If you don't that, that might be the truth. Yeah,

0:47:15.000 --> 0:47:19.360
<v Speaker 1>I love you, No, just love you, know I because

0:47:20.000 --> 0:47:22.160
<v Speaker 1>because everybody loves you, I want to talk about me.

0:47:22.880 --> 0:47:24.800
<v Speaker 1>You don't know I on the front. That's the problem.

0:47:25.440 --> 0:47:29.040
<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, don't send me that. If I said if

0:47:29.080 --> 0:47:32.440
<v Speaker 1>I text you I love you and you text me

0:47:32.560 --> 0:47:35.680
<v Speaker 1>back love you, period, you don't love me, right, That's

0:47:35.680 --> 0:47:37.839
<v Speaker 1>how I feel about it. Okay, we're on the same

0:47:37.840 --> 0:47:41.040
<v Speaker 1>page with that. Yeah, tripping, alright, that's not crazy, right,

0:47:41.920 --> 0:47:45.279
<v Speaker 1>it's probably man problems, Like what the fun I love you?

0:47:45.719 --> 0:47:49.120
<v Speaker 1>I love you. I would say your daughter or your

0:47:49.200 --> 0:47:51.440
<v Speaker 1>child or somebody you actually love you would say I

0:47:51.680 --> 0:47:54.719
<v Speaker 1>love you. To make sure they don't know it's real, now, y'all,

0:47:54.760 --> 0:47:59.280
<v Speaker 1>nick is know what y'all? Bell Uh, let me see winter?

0:48:00.760 --> 0:48:02.640
<v Speaker 1>How you wait? You said July had one more. I

0:48:02.719 --> 0:48:06.080
<v Speaker 1>feel like I got a couple more winter, but just

0:48:06.160 --> 0:48:08.440
<v Speaker 1>call this funk outside. And it hasn't been this cold

0:48:09.480 --> 0:48:14.319
<v Speaker 1>since Hurricane you go, we need winter though? For what Mosquitoes?

0:48:15.200 --> 0:48:17.799
<v Speaker 1>I think the natural like if it's summer all the time,

0:48:18.480 --> 0:48:22.359
<v Speaker 1>the islands do pretty good. Oh yeah, yes, they had

0:48:22.360 --> 0:48:25.440
<v Speaker 1>a lot of the I like winter. I definitely like.

0:48:25.560 --> 0:48:29.960
<v Speaker 1>I feel like my soul belongs and Barbados. I want

0:48:30.239 --> 0:48:33.000
<v Speaker 1>a fucking beach house with a little black ass, little

0:48:33.040 --> 0:48:39.280
<v Speaker 1>boy with blonde here. That's my goal. And then you yes, okay,

0:48:45.120 --> 0:48:48.400
<v Speaker 1>you no. You know like a lot of people who

0:48:48.960 --> 0:48:51.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, grow up by the ocean, a lot of diving,

0:48:51.080 --> 0:48:53.919
<v Speaker 1>like the water changes the color they hear. So, yeah,

0:48:54.320 --> 0:48:59.359
<v Speaker 1>that's what I want. What's okay, That's what I want?

0:48:59.680 --> 0:49:02.000
<v Speaker 1>That's I want to get rid of winter, man, because

0:49:02.120 --> 0:49:04.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm just not. I saw a post that said, uh,

0:49:05.040 --> 0:49:14.120
<v Speaker 1>if you had like yeah, but um, I like wintertime.

0:49:14.560 --> 0:49:16.759
<v Speaker 1>I like having all the season. I just feel like

0:49:16.760 --> 0:49:19.759
<v Speaker 1>they're important. Is all the changes that we go through

0:49:19.840 --> 0:49:22.520
<v Speaker 1>are similar to the season of the year. Well, you know,

0:49:22.600 --> 0:49:25.200
<v Speaker 1>winter is definitely a bad bitch sport because these bitches

0:49:25.200 --> 0:49:26.799
<v Speaker 1>who used to be nicker don't know what the fund

0:49:26.840 --> 0:49:28.560
<v Speaker 1>to put it on in the winter time, they still

0:49:28.560 --> 0:49:32.240
<v Speaker 1>be naked. Here's the thing. I remember being in college

0:49:32.800 --> 0:49:38.200
<v Speaker 1>and we're like back in the day and having on

0:49:39.200 --> 0:49:42.920
<v Speaker 1>this net he any hose with some pump freezing with

0:49:43.080 --> 0:49:46.319
<v Speaker 1>some shorts like it's stupid, and going in the club

0:49:46.560 --> 0:49:48.879
<v Speaker 1>yeah it's outside. No, you can't tell me. I want

0:49:48.880 --> 0:49:53.560
<v Speaker 1>to find his fook like but I was. But I

0:49:53.600 --> 0:49:55.600
<v Speaker 1>don't know how I did that. I could never do

0:49:55.760 --> 0:49:57.839
<v Speaker 1>that now. I could never get away with that now. Yeah,

0:49:57.880 --> 0:50:01.080
<v Speaker 1>because we gotta pay for all healthcare now. But I

0:50:01.200 --> 0:50:05.680
<v Speaker 1>just didn't even I used to be standing Ama Terris

0:50:05.800 --> 0:50:07.759
<v Speaker 1>who ever got to pay for that day of Doctorville.

0:50:07.800 --> 0:50:11.880
<v Speaker 1>Now you can't afford to get sick anymore. Yeah, not

0:50:12.000 --> 0:50:15.360
<v Speaker 1>even that. I just would never. My comfort is a different.

0:50:15.600 --> 0:50:18.239
<v Speaker 1>Is that a different? I laugh at young girls when

0:50:18.280 --> 0:50:19.840
<v Speaker 1>I see him walk around where he was on, like

0:50:19.920 --> 0:50:21.880
<v Speaker 1>in the mall and ship. Bitch, I know you're uncomfortable.

0:50:22.239 --> 0:50:24.239
<v Speaker 1>Just where's your sneakers? I used to be that girl

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:26.560
<v Speaker 1>all me too, bitch. You used to walk around campus

0:50:26.600 --> 0:50:28.319
<v Speaker 1>where he was on, Like are you going at? Where

0:50:28.320 --> 0:50:31.719
<v Speaker 1>are you going? Looking stupid? All young girls, now save

0:50:31.760 --> 0:50:35.200
<v Speaker 1>your feet, trust me. I feel like my art's about

0:50:35.239 --> 0:50:37.279
<v Speaker 1>to break right now, bitch because of what I did

0:50:37.320 --> 0:50:40.560
<v Speaker 1>when I was y'all age, don't do it. They can't

0:50:40.600 --> 0:50:43.040
<v Speaker 1>help it. Yeah, it's just I guess it's a write

0:50:43.040 --> 0:50:45.279
<v Speaker 1>of passage. This is my last thing. And this is

0:50:45.360 --> 0:50:48.080
<v Speaker 1>like for like the podcast and the clips and stuff

0:50:48.160 --> 0:50:52.239
<v Speaker 1>I see on social media. Um, can we leave men

0:50:52.480 --> 0:50:57.120
<v Speaker 1>talking about generational wealth in two when they don't see

0:50:57.120 --> 0:51:00.480
<v Speaker 1>the value and having a wife or a family, like

0:51:00.560 --> 0:51:03.879
<v Speaker 1>how are you gonna have generational wealth without generation coming

0:51:03.920 --> 0:51:06.800
<v Speaker 1>back to you? Like why are you trying to do

0:51:06.880 --> 0:51:09.080
<v Speaker 1>that by yourself? You know you have to have like

0:51:09.400 --> 0:51:10.960
<v Speaker 1>why do you not? And we still got to do

0:51:11.040 --> 0:51:13.480
<v Speaker 1>that episode where we have a married man on so

0:51:13.560 --> 0:51:15.960
<v Speaker 1>they can try and help some of some of our

0:51:16.040 --> 0:51:18.560
<v Speaker 1>male listeners like what's the benefits of having a wife

0:51:18.640 --> 0:51:23.960
<v Speaker 1>like women literally keeping alive the right wife. Okay, make

0:51:23.960 --> 0:51:25.920
<v Speaker 1>sure you as go to the doctor. You'll be out

0:51:25.920 --> 0:51:27.719
<v Speaker 1>here sick, running around with all types of diseases for

0:51:27.800 --> 0:51:30.319
<v Speaker 1>you to have a stroke don't even know it. Women

0:51:30.360 --> 0:51:32.279
<v Speaker 1>are supposed to be responsible for the nutrition of the

0:51:32.320 --> 0:51:35.200
<v Speaker 1>family as far as I'm concerned, Yes, you can outsource

0:51:35.280 --> 0:51:38.279
<v Speaker 1>those things, but I would like to feed my family. Um.

0:51:38.640 --> 0:51:41.560
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, you can't have generational wealth and a black

0:51:41.600 --> 0:51:45.440
<v Speaker 1>community if the majority of our people don't see the

0:51:45.600 --> 0:51:50.279
<v Speaker 1>value in marriage. That's just where it comes from. You

0:51:50.560 --> 0:51:54.200
<v Speaker 1>cannot have generational welcome. You have yourself spread so thin

0:51:54.760 --> 0:51:58.439
<v Speaker 1>in between multiple households, like how somebody gonna be lacking?

0:51:58.600 --> 0:52:01.600
<v Speaker 1>You don't take care of somebody because wealth isn't just money.

0:52:03.239 --> 0:52:05.399
<v Speaker 1>So when you try to talk about general rational will,

0:52:05.840 --> 0:52:08.120
<v Speaker 1>you got to consider all the other what you're teaching

0:52:08.320 --> 0:52:10.760
<v Speaker 1>your kids, like are you there to even teach them anything?

0:52:11.880 --> 0:52:14.759
<v Speaker 1>So I don't know, Um, did he just had a

0:52:14.880 --> 0:52:16.920
<v Speaker 1>last shold? I mean, he definitely has the money. And

0:52:17.000 --> 0:52:19.359
<v Speaker 1>we can look at some just looking at celebrities, right,

0:52:19.440 --> 0:52:24.000
<v Speaker 1>which is not the average man. Um? Nick Cannon his

0:52:24.200 --> 0:52:27.480
<v Speaker 1>last well, I think he has another baby when we

0:52:27.760 --> 0:52:32.680
<v Speaker 1>folth but the eleventh child. Um, she took to the

0:52:32.719 --> 0:52:36.279
<v Speaker 1>internet last week and was I forgot her name. It's

0:52:36.320 --> 0:52:40.720
<v Speaker 1>so many of them, Um, the black one, she was saying,

0:52:40.880 --> 0:52:42.759
<v Speaker 1>you know how she you know, she's rid of a

0:52:42.800 --> 0:52:46.879
<v Speaker 1>toxic relationship. You literally signed up for that, Like how

0:52:48.040 --> 0:52:49.759
<v Speaker 1>how did you think this thing is supposed to go?

0:52:50.719 --> 0:52:52.480
<v Speaker 1>And then why is the black one who won't come

0:52:52.520 --> 0:52:56.399
<v Speaker 1>to help? Spilled beans? Now everybody else speping, all that's

0:52:56.400 --> 0:53:00.680
<v Speaker 1>a bullshit. She started troubling for that man. Everybody think

0:53:00.719 --> 0:53:02.480
<v Speaker 1>he just right had taking care all these kids. Now

0:53:02.760 --> 0:53:06.640
<v Speaker 1>it's impossible financially maybe yes, But you know what do

0:53:06.760 --> 0:53:09.400
<v Speaker 1>these women do? These women all came from nowhere? Who

0:53:09.480 --> 0:53:11.920
<v Speaker 1>are these people? What you mean coming from? Like? Who

0:53:12.000 --> 0:53:14.520
<v Speaker 1>are they? Like? I don't like how did he find them?

0:53:14.600 --> 0:53:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Like you select them off Instagram? Instagram? Like where all

0:53:18.000 --> 0:53:21.360
<v Speaker 1>the rest of the biggest it was the decks not

0:53:21.520 --> 0:53:25.799
<v Speaker 1>calling his baby mama's hose. But you just did my baby, y'all.

0:53:25.840 --> 0:53:28.839
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, like, where did you pick up all these

0:53:28.880 --> 0:53:32.160
<v Speaker 1>different women to sign up to have the twelve Lost

0:53:32.239 --> 0:53:39.239
<v Speaker 1>tribes of Judah Abraham? Like were I guess I mean

0:53:39.320 --> 0:53:41.000
<v Speaker 1>to Eastern own When it comes to that if you

0:53:41.200 --> 0:53:44.279
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to have a baby with this man,

0:53:45.560 --> 0:53:48.200
<v Speaker 1>all means do you. You know it's kind of like

0:53:48.280 --> 0:53:51.000
<v Speaker 1>a poligamy thing going on because they're all like okay

0:53:51.040 --> 0:53:54.200
<v Speaker 1>with the last one. She ain't okay with it now,

0:53:54.320 --> 0:53:56.759
<v Speaker 1>she posting her bestie that she met at an art

0:53:56.800 --> 0:54:00.320
<v Speaker 1>gallery at some point. But I don't know. Then you

0:54:00.400 --> 0:54:05.439
<v Speaker 1>cannot have generational wealth without an actual family start there. Yeah,

0:54:05.680 --> 0:54:09.359
<v Speaker 1>I agree. So that wraps up our list of things

0:54:09.440 --> 0:54:12.680
<v Speaker 1>we want to leave in anything else you wanna add,

0:54:14.000 --> 0:54:16.000
<v Speaker 1>I want to leave all the niggas that played over me.

0:54:18.600 --> 0:54:24.600
<v Speaker 1>You can't come back these years, and that's it, all right, y'all.

0:54:24.640 --> 0:54:26.560
<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna take a quick break, and when we

0:54:26.680 --> 0:54:29.799
<v Speaker 1>come back, we're gonna get into a dumb bitch story

0:54:29.840 --> 0:54:35.759
<v Speaker 1>from one of our listeners. Dumb bitch stories because we've

0:54:35.800 --> 0:54:40.319
<v Speaker 1>all been a dumb bitch at least once or twice. So, y'all,

0:54:40.680 --> 0:54:43.080
<v Speaker 1>This dumb bitch story is from one of our Instagram

0:54:43.160 --> 0:54:47.839
<v Speaker 1>followers that wants to remain anonymous, but her story goes as, Hey, y'all,

0:54:47.920 --> 0:54:51.040
<v Speaker 1>my favorites, I'm coming in for some advice this time around.

0:54:51.320 --> 0:54:53.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm just I don't just jump right in hav an

0:54:53.920 --> 0:54:57.000
<v Speaker 1>older sister. She's thirty two, I'm twenty five. Share the

0:54:57.040 --> 0:54:59.680
<v Speaker 1>same mom, but my father raised all of us. I'm

0:54:59.719 --> 0:55:02.440
<v Speaker 1>the who has always done everything for all of my siblings.

0:55:02.560 --> 0:55:05.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm number three or four. They come to me for

0:55:05.080 --> 0:55:08.239
<v Speaker 1>assistance before they even go to our parents. My sister

0:55:08.360 --> 0:55:11.399
<v Speaker 1>had an ex who was stalking her, damaging her car

0:55:11.480 --> 0:55:14.439
<v Speaker 1>in her home. Me being the person I am, she'd

0:55:14.440 --> 0:55:16.759
<v Speaker 1>always called me to protect her and her kids when

0:55:16.800 --> 0:55:19.399
<v Speaker 1>he'd come around. I had a few trips with my man,

0:55:19.960 --> 0:55:24.960
<v Speaker 1>which happens to be the stalker's brother. Yeam lined up

0:55:25.200 --> 0:55:27.480
<v Speaker 1>so we wouldn't be in town. So I gave her

0:55:27.600 --> 0:55:30.240
<v Speaker 1>a gun to protect herself if he did come around

0:55:30.320 --> 0:55:33.239
<v Speaker 1>while I was gone. Why And it's a lot of

0:55:33.280 --> 0:55:36.120
<v Speaker 1>why wise on the end, Why did she allow my

0:55:36.239 --> 0:55:40.160
<v Speaker 1>gun to get stolen and didn't tell me about it

0:55:40.280 --> 0:55:42.399
<v Speaker 1>until I asked her for my gun back a whole

0:55:42.480 --> 0:55:46.080
<v Speaker 1>two months later. I'm upset because one, I don't trust

0:55:46.160 --> 0:55:48.680
<v Speaker 1>that it just went missing. I can see her selling

0:55:48.760 --> 0:55:51.320
<v Speaker 1>it or allowing him or her kids father to borrow it,

0:55:51.920 --> 0:55:54.279
<v Speaker 1>And she waited so long to tell me, putting me

0:55:54.360 --> 0:55:56.520
<v Speaker 1>in jeopardy, and I feel like she's lying about where

0:55:56.520 --> 0:55:59.840
<v Speaker 1>the gun went. I haven't spoken to her in three months,

0:56:00.000 --> 0:56:02.239
<v Speaker 1>but I love my sister. I just don't know how

0:56:02.320 --> 0:56:04.520
<v Speaker 1>to tell her that I'm upset, and I don't even

0:56:04.560 --> 0:56:06.440
<v Speaker 1>know if I want to speak to her again. I

0:56:06.520 --> 0:56:09.560
<v Speaker 1>need your help. Your advice always helps me out. Sincerely,

0:56:09.880 --> 0:56:19.600
<v Speaker 1>a mad ass scorpio ready to show scorpios um. First,

0:56:20.160 --> 0:56:23.480
<v Speaker 1>don't ever give your weapons to anything unless you're selling

0:56:23.520 --> 0:56:27.640
<v Speaker 1>it to them. Yeah, she never give your weapons. You should, like, uh,

0:56:28.200 --> 0:56:31.560
<v Speaker 1>take her to go get her own, like you know this. Uh.

0:56:31.840 --> 0:56:34.680
<v Speaker 1>She goes on to say that I asked her how

0:56:34.719 --> 0:56:37.920
<v Speaker 1>many guns did she have? And she has eleven. She

0:56:38.320 --> 0:56:40.239
<v Speaker 1>wasn't missing it. That's why I was like, what took you?

0:56:40.360 --> 0:56:42.719
<v Speaker 1>You know, what took you so long to ask for

0:56:42.800 --> 0:56:44.600
<v Speaker 1>your gun back? And it's because she has so many.

0:56:45.120 --> 0:56:49.839
<v Speaker 1>So she's a proud gun toting American. But but never

0:56:49.920 --> 0:56:52.080
<v Speaker 1>give anybody your weapon. You want to take people, If

0:56:52.120 --> 0:56:54.399
<v Speaker 1>you want to help people be armed and protected, take

0:56:54.440 --> 0:56:56.520
<v Speaker 1>them to get their own weapon, you know, so they

0:56:56.560 --> 0:56:58.839
<v Speaker 1>can learn how to Probably they can't buy a gun,

0:57:00.640 --> 0:57:03.040
<v Speaker 1>and probably the boyfriend can't get one, even he's taking

0:57:03.080 --> 0:57:06.520
<v Speaker 1>somebody's pistol. I hope she reported it stolen. Yeah, that's

0:57:06.520 --> 0:57:08.640
<v Speaker 1>what's gonna be my next advice. To report it stolen,

0:57:09.440 --> 0:57:12.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, because you don't want to have no bodies on,

0:57:12.160 --> 0:57:17.640
<v Speaker 1>no guns that you're exactly um this is. You know,

0:57:17.800 --> 0:57:20.400
<v Speaker 1>I always recommend people, you know, pass things up with

0:57:20.440 --> 0:57:24.200
<v Speaker 1>their sisters, you know, their family. You know, the family

0:57:24.440 --> 0:57:25.960
<v Speaker 1>is all you got, you know, at the end of

0:57:26.000 --> 0:57:28.720
<v Speaker 1>the day, you want to pass things over your I'm

0:57:28.760 --> 0:57:34.320
<v Speaker 1>a very you know, forgiven person. You know, I always

0:57:34.440 --> 0:57:37.000
<v Speaker 1>want like just because i know I'm flawed and i

0:57:37.080 --> 0:57:38.840
<v Speaker 1>know I make mistakes and I'm not gonna be the

0:57:38.920 --> 0:57:41.040
<v Speaker 1>perfect I'm not going to be the perfect friend. You know.

0:57:41.520 --> 0:57:43.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm i'ma s trying to be the perfect friend and

0:57:43.920 --> 0:57:46.400
<v Speaker 1>sister and everything. But I'm going to fall short. I

0:57:46.440 --> 0:57:48.880
<v Speaker 1>know that about myself. So I want people to grant

0:57:48.920 --> 0:57:52.440
<v Speaker 1>me the same grace that I'm willing to give often times.

0:57:53.520 --> 0:57:56.000
<v Speaker 1>So you know, find out why didn't she tell her

0:57:56.120 --> 0:57:58.080
<v Speaker 1>that her gun is missing. It took for me to

0:57:58.160 --> 0:57:59.800
<v Speaker 1>ask you about my pistol for you to tell me

0:58:00.080 --> 0:58:06.960
<v Speaker 1>we got stolen. Yeah, that's that's shady, shady. I wouldn't

0:58:06.960 --> 0:58:10.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean that to me. That's grounds for termination of

0:58:10.360 --> 0:58:14.360
<v Speaker 1>your sister. That's her daddy jowl. That's her mama. They

0:58:14.440 --> 0:58:18.480
<v Speaker 1>got the same mama at you, that's my daddy kid.

0:58:18.600 --> 0:58:21.600
<v Speaker 1>They like, No, that's her. They came out the same.

0:58:22.280 --> 0:58:26.960
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's not enough to leave your sister alone. It's not.

0:58:28.440 --> 0:58:30.919
<v Speaker 1>I probably would never discard my sisters. I can't figure

0:58:30.960 --> 0:58:32.600
<v Speaker 1>nothing my sister could never do to me for me

0:58:32.760 --> 0:58:37.200
<v Speaker 1>that either, but nothing. I would definitely fight you. Yeah

0:58:37.240 --> 0:58:41.720
<v Speaker 1>we might tho, but I'm still loving afterwards. You're gonna

0:58:41.720 --> 0:58:44.720
<v Speaker 1>catch this face, especially depending on what your responses when

0:58:44.760 --> 0:58:47.440
<v Speaker 1>I say what my pistol at? Now? Have you like

0:58:48.040 --> 0:58:50.080
<v Speaker 1>some people when you like back them in the corner

0:58:50.160 --> 0:58:52.880
<v Speaker 1>you asked asking them some ship, They don't want to face.

0:58:53.480 --> 0:58:56.320
<v Speaker 1>They're getting nasty. So it just depends on your response

0:58:56.880 --> 0:58:59.640
<v Speaker 1>how I'm going to respond. But I wouldn't discard my

0:58:59.720 --> 0:59:02.400
<v Speaker 1>sister because of that. But I would definitely file for

0:59:02.680 --> 0:59:04.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, file a police report and they're stolen gun

0:59:06.320 --> 0:59:08.600
<v Speaker 1>and I don't know accounted as a fucking loss. She

0:59:08.720 --> 0:59:10.400
<v Speaker 1>might still have. You probably just don't want to give

0:59:10.400 --> 0:59:13.200
<v Speaker 1>it back. Maybe try her to get her own working

0:59:13.240 --> 0:59:15.360
<v Speaker 1>for sure, though, if she got somebody trying to harm her,

0:59:15.560 --> 0:59:18.640
<v Speaker 1>what I some therapy to lead us nigger alone. She's

0:59:18.680 --> 0:59:20.440
<v Speaker 1>still working with the person, and she said she might

0:59:20.480 --> 0:59:22.600
<v Speaker 1>have give it to him. That's what I'm saying, Like,

0:59:22.680 --> 0:59:24.959
<v Speaker 1>I would not give somebody a gun who's not ready

0:59:25.000 --> 0:59:26.880
<v Speaker 1>to leave this person. If this person is like really

0:59:27.000 --> 0:59:30.400
<v Speaker 1>really stalking you, doing shipped to you, like you can't

0:59:30.440 --> 0:59:33.080
<v Speaker 1>be fucking with them in the interim when they're being regular,

0:59:33.120 --> 0:59:34.440
<v Speaker 1>and then I'm gonna give you a gun just in

0:59:34.480 --> 0:59:36.080
<v Speaker 1>case when he do get stupid. No, you need to

0:59:36.080 --> 0:59:39.920
<v Speaker 1>be leaving him completely alone and then I'll help. Other

0:59:40.000 --> 0:59:41.960
<v Speaker 1>than that, I don't get involved in people domestic ship

0:59:42.080 --> 0:59:45.080
<v Speaker 1>sister or not, because I've been in situations where you

0:59:45.240 --> 0:59:48.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, you try to help somebody and you're fucked

0:59:48.400 --> 0:59:51.520
<v Speaker 1>around and get hurt. Yes, So I don't play with

0:59:51.640 --> 0:59:54.960
<v Speaker 1>people when it comes to things, especially with women and

0:59:55.120 --> 0:59:58.760
<v Speaker 1>relationships with women. I'll give you advice a little bit,

0:59:58.880 --> 1:00:02.040
<v Speaker 1>but I'm not I'm not stepping in that way. Yeah,

1:00:02.080 --> 1:00:04.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't typically would step in in that way. I've

1:00:05.000 --> 1:00:07.800
<v Speaker 1>had friends who have been in like some violent relationships

1:00:07.880 --> 1:00:10.160
<v Speaker 1>and I told them, like, you know, you need to

1:00:10.240 --> 1:00:12.440
<v Speaker 1>leave this relationship or I'm gonna have to stop being

1:00:12.640 --> 1:00:15.600
<v Speaker 1>friend because it was just got to a place where

1:00:15.640 --> 1:00:18.400
<v Speaker 1>it was just so bad and I can't stand by.

1:00:18.720 --> 1:00:21.560
<v Speaker 1>I can't I can't help you, but I can't stand

1:00:21.600 --> 1:00:23.560
<v Speaker 1>by and watching them are exactly So what are you

1:00:23.560 --> 1:00:25.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna I mean, when you start being a dumb bitch,

1:00:26.320 --> 1:00:28.360
<v Speaker 1>that's just where it is. Well, you know what matters

1:00:28.400 --> 1:00:30.320
<v Speaker 1>of the heart is hard when people when they're dealing with,

1:00:30.480 --> 1:00:34.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, being insecure and relationships and they don't know

1:00:34.760 --> 1:00:36.880
<v Speaker 1>how to handle their emotions and love make you do

1:00:37.000 --> 1:00:41.640
<v Speaker 1>stupid ship. I'd be a mess. But like, I hope

1:00:41.640 --> 1:00:44.840
<v Speaker 1>your sister is okay. I hope um that y'all in

1:00:44.920 --> 1:00:47.400
<v Speaker 1>your relationship. And she needed to get her own gun

1:00:47.480 --> 1:00:50.160
<v Speaker 1>gets who's gonna training if that's possible. She might have felonies.

1:00:50.160 --> 1:00:53.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how that works. She don't learn how

1:00:53.680 --> 1:00:55.360
<v Speaker 1>to use a weapon. I feel like felons can buy

1:00:55.440 --> 1:00:58.640
<v Speaker 1>guns at gun shows. No, I don't know nothing about how.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like people get away but aint guns when

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<v Speaker 1>they have felonies when they go to those gun shows.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you ain't gonna tell me, like white people don't

1:01:04.520 --> 1:01:06.320
<v Speaker 1>be having felonies too, And it seems like they always

1:01:06.320 --> 1:01:08.880
<v Speaker 1>seem to get their hands on guns. I feel like

1:01:08.960 --> 1:01:15.800
<v Speaker 1>everybody'll be getting their hands legally maybe having Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to google that, bitch because I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>that works. Maybe I'm lying, Yeah, I don't know. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all listen. We hope you guys have a very great

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<v Speaker 1>Leave all the fucking bullshit heartache some of these niggas

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<v Speaker 1>some family member excuse me. Yeah two, I'm skipping, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I live in the future. Okay, leave it behind, man,

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<v Speaker 1>go in with a clean slate. Um. Yeah, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing. I'm gonna try my best. You know, every year.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how you can do. There's things that I wore

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<v Speaker 1>resolutions for two that I'm carrying over into this year.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm working progress. Progress. God, ain't n they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't fucking begins. Get somebody else to do it. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>ship and listen, one thing we are not leaving in

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<v Speaker 1>two is sucking. Merchandise is coming. We promised. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have some merge coming out, y'all. Um, send us, you're

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<v Speaker 1>dumbing stories. Send us. You're asked a black friend. We

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<v Speaker 1>want to do we keep white people. Don't fight with

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<v Speaker 1>us that one white Vicky, Vicky, stop Vicky. If you

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<v Speaker 1>muys have asked the black room questions, I'm saying you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Um y'all, it's tam bam. I love y'all real, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you all for tuning. We did our first video. That's

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<v Speaker 1>hard like I love y'all man, I love I love y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>so proud of us, and thank you all for tuning in.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see y'all next time. And remember to speak now

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<v Speaker 1>and never hold your mother pizza