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Speaker 1: It's your co host a j Holiday. What's up to you?
Speaker 1: Hey girl? Hey, y'all. Look, we're in the flash and
Speaker 1: I'm with us. I'm so excited. It's our hundred episode, y'all,
Speaker 1: and we decided that we need to feel them so
Speaker 1: y'all can see us how you feel. I'm good. We
Speaker 1: did our show ninety nine episodes in a fucking row
Speaker 1: and no break, and we have people messaging us like
Speaker 1: why y'all have recording this week, Like bitch, we need
Speaker 1: time off like everybody else were having like breaks in
Speaker 1: between seasons. We didn't get that. So now here we
Speaker 1: are and hopefully we'll do video for you guys going forward.
Speaker 1: How was your weekend? Good? Christmas? Just past? Uh? I
Speaker 1: didn't do ship on Christmas but sleep and didn't feel
Speaker 1: like Christmas for real? Did you get everybody said that
Speaker 1: this Christmas wasn't Christmas thing. It wasn't. This is the
Speaker 1: least most Christmas feeling I think I've ever had. But
Speaker 1: all it is, you know what my Christmas wasn't. I
Speaker 1: didn't anticipate it being very Christmas Eve because my family
Speaker 1: was all scared about, but my mom surprised me. Drove
Speaker 1: up to Charlotte, and me and my mom hung out.
Speaker 1: It was so cool when she told me she was
Speaker 1: pulling up like I literally cried in the bathroom level.
Speaker 1: I shared a thug to my nigger cry. And then we, um,
Speaker 1: we just watched. We watched Best Man. Y'all. If y'all
Speaker 1: haven't seen it, y'all need to go watch The Best
Speaker 1: Man on Peacock. Yeah, Peacock watch Best Man. It was
Speaker 1: really good. It's a little cheesy couple of Tyler Perry moments,
Speaker 1: but for the most of our on the Tyler Perry Producer,
Speaker 1: you know how, not necessarily bad weeks, but very super lighthearted,
Speaker 1: like probably not realistic moments. But for the most part,
Speaker 1: it was really good. And it's a good story about
Speaker 1: friendship and relationships and things like that. So we watched that,
Speaker 1: and then um, I took her out to look at
Speaker 1: like I found online, like a couple of houses in
Speaker 1: Charlotte that you could go the lights and one of
Speaker 1: them had like the light set to a radio station,
Speaker 1: So you go to the radio station and the light
Speaker 1: show happened. So that was fun. And her road around
Speaker 1: and did that, listen to music and just talk. That
Speaker 1: was cool. Girl. Wedn't even had traditional Christmas dinner. We
Speaker 1: had fishing, shrunk fry fish. But you know what nobody wants.
Speaker 1: If you have traditional Thanksgiving, you don't want traditional kursmals.
Speaker 1: We didn't sea food for Thanksgiving this year as well. Okay,
Speaker 1: y'all didn't have no I made a macaroni. That's about it.
Speaker 1: But I'm sicker than nigga food. Sorry, Yeah, what's the nick?
Speaker 1: What's the nigga food? You know, knack bones, pigtails, just
Speaker 1: all the crazy ass. You don't have no pigtails. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have this whole stupid I don't know if you'll
Speaker 1: know what that is. That's the country ship where you
Speaker 1: have like neck bones, pigtails, oxtail, all of that in
Speaker 1: one pot. I can't do it. I haven't had porking
Speaker 1: nigga food. I said that, But other than that, I
Speaker 1: don't do much This weekend for real, man, I relaxed
Speaker 1: a lot. That's good. Getting ready for today relaxed. Yeah,
Speaker 1: hud episode, how you feel, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1: We got a lot a lot more episodes ahead of us,
Speaker 1: But I'm excited. I'm happy to me too. That's a
Speaker 1: big accomplishment because most podcasts, from what I read the
Speaker 1: statistics is they don't make it past seven episodes, and
Speaker 1: most new podcasts get like, you know, five hundred downloads
Speaker 1: an episode. I'm saying we had a little help. So
Speaker 1: what bit we had they can't get mad at the
Speaker 1: cheat code, and we also had a little contract we
Speaker 1: had to bring ask the work. But let's get into
Speaker 1: stupid internet news. Uh, Tory Lanes case and trial. Have
Speaker 1: you even fallen at all? You know? I watched a
Speaker 1: little bit, but like I said in our last episode,
Speaker 1: I'm over it. You know, I was kind of over
Speaker 1: it by the time they were going to court. You know,
Speaker 1: all of it was sad to me. You know, Mike
Speaker 1: says something like I saw on like shave Room or
Speaker 1: something where Meg was like she wished she would have
Speaker 1: just died, and that was sad to see that she
Speaker 1: was feeling, like because she was getting a lot of
Speaker 1: tacks from the public just because she came out and
Speaker 1: spoke against him. So initially, Mega Stallion, she wasn't trying
Speaker 1: to come out and say anything, but Tory Lanes and
Speaker 1: his publicists like they were feeding the blogs on information,
Speaker 1: so that made her have to come out and say
Speaker 1: what actually happened. And she said he shot her. And
Speaker 1: people are mad because, you know, in their minds, she
Speaker 1: lied because just because she lied about sucking him, whose
Speaker 1: business is that? Right? Why does she have to tell
Speaker 1: Gail the truth? Is that Gail's business to even as
Speaker 1: it wasn't. But I feel like she should have just
Speaker 1: been very honest about the whole situation from the beginning.
Speaker 1: Why why because about having sex, about everything involved. If
Speaker 1: you're gonna go on an interview with Gail Gail Key like,
Speaker 1: you had to know that something the truth was going
Speaker 1: to come out in this situation. But I feel like
Speaker 1: people have um conflated to two. So, yes, she did
Speaker 1: lie about having any type of sexual relation when I
Speaker 1: have sex with the she lied about it, right, But
Speaker 1: how does that like, uh like negate the fact that
Speaker 1: he actually shot at her? She said, if I don't
Speaker 1: come and don't count, period, because that's the rule, that's
Speaker 1: the rule. But she said, you know she lied because
Speaker 1: she knew her friend liked them. She knew Kelsey Kelsey Harris,
Speaker 1: which was her best friend. She knew that he had
Speaker 1: she had a crush on Tory Lanes. I don't know
Speaker 1: whether not they were intimate, and I don't believe that
Speaker 1: I ever came out. But the narrative the defense attorney
Speaker 1: was sticking with is that this is a man who
Speaker 1: was working with two home girls and she got ugly
Speaker 1: when they found out. Right, But um Mega Stallion really
Speaker 1: didn't change her story about him saying Dan's bitch and
Speaker 1: shooting at her feet. I witnessed accounts said that, um
Speaker 1: he saw some flash come from a woman. He did
Speaker 1: say that, right, So that's another thing the defense is
Speaker 1: trying to say, Okay, well, her friend possibly shot her.
Speaker 1: But on top of that, the the eyewitness said that
Speaker 1: he saw the little man his exact words, start shooting erratically.
Speaker 1: Now the blogs took the ship to the internet and said, oh,
Speaker 1: he was shooting in the air, but the actual witness
Speaker 1: said he was shooting erratically and then the woman fell
Speaker 1: to the ground. I'm over it. I'm really over the
Speaker 1: whole thing. I mean, he's about to do something, He's
Speaker 1: in jail now right at Yeah, he went to jail.
Speaker 1: I wondered how long he's gonna sit there. So he's
Speaker 1: facing up the twenty two years and nine months. They say, Dawn,
Speaker 1: you know what, like I hate any violence against a
Speaker 1: black woman any time, obviously, or any black man too.
Speaker 1: I just feel bad for everybody. I feel bad for
Speaker 1: him because he's also talented individual. Whole life is about
Speaker 1: to be change changed completely. And then I feel bad
Speaker 1: for her because she had a very traumatic like she
Speaker 1: lost her now she's ultimately lost her best friend. That
Speaker 1: girl was her best friend. And listen, y'all, I did
Speaker 1: a podcast called Tequila Talk and I said some things
Speaker 1: about bees and experience I had is in college and
Speaker 1: let me tell y'all. It went the world star and
Speaker 1: they drugged my ass over the coals on World. Sorry, y'all,
Speaker 1: they drugged my ass about my life. This is my
Speaker 1: experience where y'all so mad if you said something bad
Speaker 1: about me. Starship, there were somebody talking about I don't
Speaker 1: love myself. Yeah, because I kept talking to the person
Speaker 1: and that was calling me dude. That was a joke.
Speaker 1: We were friends, like it was a joke between us.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like the whole campus. I told the world, Okay,
Speaker 1: so get over it. So I just imagined that was
Speaker 1: just a little small group of people who was breaking
Speaker 1: me over the colds. And I was like, like, for
Speaker 1: like two minutes, I was like feeling some type of thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can't read. But then but then I got over it.
Speaker 1: I remember I was a bad bitch and fuck them, right,
Speaker 1: But imagine having this amount of people discussing your life
Speaker 1: and having opinion about you and her full opinions about
Speaker 1: you without knowing the full truth everything. Because as far
Speaker 1: as I'm concern, all of them kind of recanted what
Speaker 1: they initially told detectives and what initially was being reported.
Speaker 1: All of them had a whole different story, especially Kelsey,
Speaker 1: and one of the things she told of the textis
Speaker 1: detectives is that Tory Lane is like right after offered
Speaker 1: both of them a million dollars to not talk. And
Speaker 1: five minutes after the shooting, Kelsey sent a text message
Speaker 1: to um Megan Stallion's um bodyguard and said, Harry Tory
Speaker 1: just stopped shot Meg nine on one and then she told,
Speaker 1: you know, in front of the court, she was like,
Speaker 1: I don't know why I sent that girl exactly now.
Speaker 1: Even though she had immunity right so she could tell whatever,
Speaker 1: whatever you know, happened in court, she still didn't say
Speaker 1: that she shot him. She could have said that and
Speaker 1: he could have probably walked, but she still, you know,
Speaker 1: stood with the fact that she didn't shoot her. Meg
Speaker 1: didn't shoot her self. She's the only person who's seen
Speaker 1: who didn't have access to a weapon who then shot her.
Speaker 1: So I'm confused as to why people in the public
Speaker 1: are dragging her, and it just feels like, you know,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna wrap this up in a second, but
Speaker 1: I just want people to to this could be your mom,
Speaker 1: your sister, your daughter. Just because you don't know Mega
Speaker 1: Stallion directly and she's not related to you, that doesn't
Speaker 1: mean like your family, the women you love or exempt
Speaker 1: from this type of ship. Everybody's you know, everybody can
Speaker 1: be pimped out and nobody is exempted from this pimping.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, and that's why, Yeah, I feel
Speaker 1: my heart goes out to her, and I hope I'm
Speaker 1: glad that gentleman party is standing by her side, and
Speaker 1: I hope that is very little for her. They even
Speaker 1: try to drag party for coming out and say, you know,
Speaker 1: if something happened to black women, he's glad, like people
Speaker 1: can come out and speak to you. Dad. They tried
Speaker 1: to say he was abusing cash Doll. Cash Doll even
Speaker 1: came and said, like, why y'all keep saying that that's
Speaker 1: a lie. So this is the way the internet creates narratives.
Speaker 1: Can we leave like some in the Internet. In a
Speaker 1: little bit, we're gonna get into that, into that these
Speaker 1: random as trolls. Um So, I saw on the Shade
Speaker 1: Room that Brittany Renter said that she was she didn't
Speaker 1: A lot of us have regretted. I saw that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know I could. I could identify with some of that. Honestly,
Speaker 1: there's people for my past. Yeah, I'm sorry to this man.
Speaker 1: I do not know this man, girl, I got fuck
Speaker 1: you money for anybody like we really like should get
Speaker 1: real stupid. I might just have to get rid of
Speaker 1: a few people, Okaytening she j I'm not people come
Speaker 1: up missing every day, be and I mean that. But
Speaker 1: you know you're implicating yourself right now, So just don't
Speaker 1: tell people that this is for entertainment purposes only until
Speaker 1: somebody then you and jail in the sal you're gonna tell,
Speaker 1: I ain't telling. I don't know if everybody shut the
Speaker 1: funk up. They don't have a case, but they can
Speaker 1: talk too much, you know how to go all right? Next?
Speaker 1: Oh it's like I don't want no, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Gunna said he did not snitch you. Okay, right right?
Speaker 1: You right? Anybody back to Britney. Yeah. I remember getting
Speaker 1: dragged a little bit on one of the first podcast
Speaker 1: outside I show that we did together. I won't call
Speaker 1: any names, but I would think they're supposed to be
Speaker 1: like our sister on the same network. But it was
Speaker 1: coming for me because I said at home and doesn't heal?
Speaker 1: It doesn't. So when you going through bullshit and you're
Speaker 1: using sex as an outlet, you're gonna feel even more
Speaker 1: shitty because you probably want a little bit more intimacy
Speaker 1: from a man as opposed to just getting smashed and dash.
Speaker 1: So now she's older, she has a child now, and
Speaker 1: now she's reconsidering some of her earlier activity, and she
Speaker 1: was somebody online like with the attitude. I don't get
Speaker 1: like sex just whatever, but it's definitely an exchange of
Speaker 1: some real fucking energy and that just shows her broth
Speaker 1: as a woman. You know, there's a lot of women
Speaker 1: that cannot dotified with that. And that doesn't mean that
Speaker 1: they had sex with a ton of people. It could
Speaker 1: be two people that you know. So I get it,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, but she also doing like side
Speaker 1: chick chicken sandwich commercials Get your bag though, oh for Crystals,
Speaker 1: Charlot man ship get the bag. I'm not man. That
Speaker 1: might as well make it work for you, right, No,
Speaker 1: you do not have Britney ray not seeing that it's
Speaker 1: the side chicken sandwich for Crystal. But I know about
Speaker 1: the side chick chicken sandwich, but I didn't know if
Speaker 1: she was like endorsing it. She's in the commercial. She looks. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I like Brittany Rayner as far as I'm concerned. Her
Speaker 1: and Maria carry are the same peop who play who.
Speaker 1: I don't get it. They look alike, do they not?
Speaker 1: We're cars fifty years old and her and Brittany Rayner
Speaker 1: look alike. All right, So shout out to Britney Wrinter,
Speaker 1: get the chicken sandwich. They come to South Carolina. All right.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about suki Ana. Did you see um? Suki
Speaker 1: Ana said that she makes dinner she cooks for women's
Speaker 1: husbands on Sundays. Yes, I don't know what. Maybe she
Speaker 1: can't have to be funny. I think she really want
Speaker 1: to cook that nig chicken sandwich. Yeah, vegan cauliflowers. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: a real quick like. Yeah, I do vegan chicken like
Speaker 1: you give your one real meat. I got some cauliflower
Speaker 1: chicken for you. Sukihana is funny as hell. Man, I
Speaker 1: ain't cooking for the other body, nobody else, wife, That's
Speaker 1: not my job. Excuse me. I'm not cooking for somebody
Speaker 1: else in us, and that's not my job. But why
Speaker 1: just the husband? Can I get a meal, Suki? Because
Speaker 1: you want to side a bit to cook for you?
Speaker 1: Why not? If you I'm not even from the side page.
Speaker 1: You don't know what she's trying to put in your
Speaker 1: damn you're just the side bag you're gonna eat from.
Speaker 1: Why she ain't trying to be my sidevage? She tried,
Speaker 1: She just cooking. I'm just trying to see if I
Speaker 1: can get a plate. I'm definitely not even from the
Speaker 1: side baitch, And technically, to me, it's not the sidebitch's
Speaker 1: job to be cooking. This is how should get sucked up?
Speaker 1: Why are you cooking for somebody else husband? She technically
Speaker 1: didn't say she was interested to be inside. She said
Speaker 1: that was just her for her husband. She did say
Speaker 1: she don't get it. I need to see the full
Speaker 1: episode to understand what the conversation was even about. I
Speaker 1: don't get it. She looked like she could cook now still, na, dude,
Speaker 1: be fucking cooking. You haven't seen some of her video. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she definitely be cooking. She got kids, just kids, chicken fingures,
Speaker 1: mystery beat McDonald's mystery Meat. No, I like to be hunter,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I feel like you know bitches or the
Speaker 1: other woman. We had a whole episode on mrs what's
Speaker 1: the mistress? What's the side? Bitch? Like everybody got a job,
Speaker 1: Like that's your wife's job to cook for you? Like
Speaker 1: I'm fun, okay, come hang side, but just don't cook meals,
Speaker 1: not for somebody else's husband. They just go to eat, Yes,
Speaker 1: stick me out to dinner. What the funk? I look
Speaker 1: like cooking for you man? That's what your wife for? No,
Speaker 1: I get it, I get what you're saying. I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to get a free shame. But okay, So now
Speaker 1: Christmas is up. Now we're going into the new year,
Speaker 1: all right, So I want to get into uh, some
Speaker 1: things we want to leave in two Like, what's some
Speaker 1: things you want to leave in I can list a
Speaker 1: few things, okay, So we'll talk about that when we
Speaker 1: get right back from miss break. So I made a
Speaker 1: list the things that I want to get rid of leaving, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: just leave that ship and never look back. Like the
Speaker 1: girl walking up the steps with a little bag. I'm
Speaker 1: sick as ship. We were walking up to the steps
Speaker 1: since two thousand four, yeah, because you know what got resolving,
Speaker 1: all right. So one of the things that I definitely
Speaker 1: want to get rid of or leaving is text messages
Speaker 1: from businesses and phone calls from businesses fashion over she
Speaker 1: and texting me in the middle of night, be flying
Speaker 1: like even though I love these, you know, some of
Speaker 1: these companies and I don't really shop at she and
Speaker 1: I'm fashing over no more. I used to run it
Speaker 1: up with them, but not the halls used to get
Speaker 1: like the I used to run the bag up and
Speaker 1: fashion over back and like two thousand third, about three
Speaker 1: hundred dollars worth of ship, only a hundred dollars worth
Speaker 1: of that ship. And said half back or just give
Speaker 1: it away. I would always end up giving you too
Speaker 1: much to send the bad But I hate that they
Speaker 1: text me all the time. I might be thinking, it's
Speaker 1: a nigga and it's Fashion Over, right, I get Mommy,
Speaker 1: I ain't got no nigga. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You got them? Why is Fashion over with text me
Speaker 1: at two in the morning. I don't know. They gotta
Speaker 1: make sure you know about the deals and see I'll
Speaker 1: be wanting to unsubscribe to a lot of them things,
Speaker 1: and then I just don't because I'm like, I don't
Speaker 1: want to miss a deal. I don't subscribe to Fashion over,
Speaker 1: but it's a couple other companies like yummy here, like
Speaker 1: when Black Friday, bitch, let me see what they got
Speaker 1: going on? Just go look at it, right, You know,
Speaker 1: I really opt out. I always intend to opt out
Speaker 1: a lot of ship but then I just feel like
Speaker 1: they keep coming back. I don't know, I even did
Speaker 1: I put my phone number like on the website, you know,
Speaker 1: so you can opt out of telemarketing telemarketers. And I
Speaker 1: feel like ever since then, I get more random ass
Speaker 1: text messages about weight law said like who the fun
Speaker 1: Sometimes you don't even know what they're calling about because
Speaker 1: I hang up on them or I start talking to them.
Speaker 1: I started ascelling them for money, Like can I send
Speaker 1: you all my phone bill? Because obviously that's y'all ship,
Speaker 1: this ain't my phone no more? Do I want to
Speaker 1: donate to Charlotte Mecklenburg Police Department? Fun the police? Thank you?
Speaker 1: All right? So one thing on my list I want
Speaker 1: to leave in the Kardashians, all of them. Uh maybe
Speaker 1: not like uh black China little girl, but the rest
Speaker 1: of them, the rest of them just gonna stay. In
Speaker 1: twenty two, I was so sick of him. I unfollowed
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian like last year. I never followed any of
Speaker 1: the other ones. But I don't know. Kim Kardashian has
Speaker 1: done a lot of different things as far as legal
Speaker 1: in legal terms for black people. Okay, So it wasn't
Speaker 1: last year that unfollowed Kim Kardashian. It was actually this
Speaker 1: year when she did that UM Make America Great photo shoot?
Speaker 1: Did you see that she had like the blonde blonde
Speaker 1: here And we actually talked about it on one of
Speaker 1: the previous episodes. UM what they call it? The Cheeto girl?
Speaker 1: Thing where the little white girls are going back to
Speaker 1: being white and they don't want to act black anymore.
Speaker 1: And I feel like the Kardashian family really infiltrated black
Speaker 1: black America period. You know what I'm saying. I'm you know,
Speaker 1: white people assisted as well, but uh, I'm sick of
Speaker 1: him at this point. And now you whitewashed. You're basically
Speaker 1: telling us you're going back. You have had gone here
Speaker 1: for the whole year. So that's a statement as far
Speaker 1: as unclecerned. So we can leave that ass You know it,
Speaker 1: don't make me no difference. They can they wherever they are. One.
Speaker 1: Another thing I want to leave in is the vibes.
Speaker 1: Everything is not a vibe. Oh it's a vibe. Your vibe.
Speaker 1: She's a vibe he's got. This is low vibrational. This
Speaker 1: is high vibrational. Let's leave the vibes. We can lead
Speaker 1: them a low vibrational plates though nam wasn't that wrong
Speaker 1: with that girl plated to burgers on one plate? Wasn't
Speaker 1: Maybe she didn't eat, maybe she wasn't gonna maybe she
Speaker 1: was saving one for later. We don't know what she
Speaker 1: was doing with her plate. Mind your plate business. You
Speaker 1: need to focus on your plate. Leave those vibrations. What
Speaker 1: was low vibrational was how she attacked her about what
Speaker 1: she was eating. That was low. Situations were low vibrational.
Speaker 1: I see where she was trying to go with him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but let people eat what they want. I trying to
Speaker 1: nick nickpick nick nickpick with people's plates. But I do
Speaker 1: be watching. I do. I can't help it. I mind
Speaker 1: my plate, my my plate business. But just the vibes,
Speaker 1: because everything is not a vibe, and everything is not
Speaker 1: everybody is not a vibe. I get tired of hear
Speaker 1: and say, I agree, um, COVID nineteen. I would like
Speaker 1: to leave COVID nineteen. It's probably not going anywhere. Uh uh.
Speaker 1: But I feel like this winter is kind of ramped up.
Speaker 1: See okay, it seems like I saw somebody posts that
Speaker 1: they had the flu and it was way worse than
Speaker 1: COVID could ever be. Could it be that a lot
Speaker 1: of people had the food before, like because I was
Speaker 1: told on season because I read that the PCR testing
Speaker 1: um couldn't differentiate between the flu and COVID nineteen. So
Speaker 1: who's to say a lot of people Because annually a
Speaker 1: lot of people do die from the flu. So I
Speaker 1: don't know what we were dealing with, but I would
Speaker 1: like to leave COVID nineteen. I'm scared of that ship.
Speaker 1: Yeah you never heard it, did it? Bitch? I be
Speaker 1: beefed up on all these damn vitamins, beefing up vinamins?
Speaker 1: Would you want coming outside like that? I was in
Speaker 1: the streets, I'd be all side now, I'd be real careful.
Speaker 1: How do you careful from breathing? I drank tease, you know.
Speaker 1: I drink a lot of teased with garlic and honey,
Speaker 1: just stuff to keep mucus down in your body. And
Speaker 1: I started taking um. It's like a it's like a
Speaker 1: herbal laxative kind of but it's natural, and it keeps
Speaker 1: your gut clean. That's where most diseases start at. So
Speaker 1: as long as you, you know, keep your your stomach good,
Speaker 1: you'll be able to talk about I don't want to
Speaker 1: talk about y'all give me so much. I don't even
Speaker 1: want to hear it. I tell you to go tell
Speaker 1: like goddamn story. I thought I was in a safe place.
Speaker 1: We are never safe. Just let's just let's be clear.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to deal duy, you're not all right.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you another thing. I want to leave
Speaker 1: um because I land your stitches like the biggest. My
Speaker 1: niece came to the house this Christmas with so snuff lufficus.
Speaker 1: I hate that ship. It is not flattering to me.
Speaker 1: Some people do the bottom roll too, Yeah, I hate it.
Speaker 1: I like, don't get me wrong, I like a false lash.
Speaker 1: Don't it's cute? But when it looked like two little
Speaker 1: baby birds said, don't your motherfucker face? I cannot seeing that.
Speaker 1: When the wind blowing into bitch face about the fall backwards, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can't do that. I hate that. Who made that cute?
Speaker 1: I've been wearing lashes for a long time and I
Speaker 1: asked my home girl out of that, I said, who
Speaker 1: was the first person you know who was wearing lashes?
Speaker 1: I came to college wearing lashes. Let me tell you
Speaker 1: who was the first person I saw wearing lashes. And
Speaker 1: this was a long time ago because and we were
Speaker 1: in college. It was Tina from the shout out to
Speaker 1: Tina New York Tina, and I was like just laughing
Speaker 1: so hard at her for putting lashes on her face.
Speaker 1: I was like, what are you doing? A bit? You
Speaker 1: were boy with lashes? Why are you putting that on
Speaker 1: your face. We laid for the club like this is
Speaker 1: going on something, and I just thought it was the
Speaker 1: dumbest ship ever. Nah, I just you know, a little
Speaker 1: young country girl, and I just thought it was just
Speaker 1: outrageous to add lashes and the like. Maybe I didn't
Speaker 1: start putting all lashes till two thousand sixty, really, which
Speaker 1: I came to school with long blonde weaves. Remember in
Speaker 1: two thousand and two, everybody, me and my home girl
Speaker 1: who came to school together, and my roommate at school,
Speaker 1: she was like, if you were in New York, people
Speaker 1: would laugh at you walking down the shoot that long
Speaker 1: ass bitch. By the second semester she had a chance
Speaker 1: Chinese bang, and damn, they're thirty inches down her back.
Speaker 1: This is litch. I don't know what you're talking about. Now.
Speaker 1: I probably never go back to wearing blonde hair like that,
Speaker 1: but you know, once I started wearing black, it's more
Speaker 1: regal and nice looking, you know. Yeah, I just don't
Speaker 1: think those lashes will catch for me. And not shaming
Speaker 1: anybody that does like that, that's y'all, but I hate
Speaker 1: it and I don't want you to do it next year.
Speaker 1: Stop that ship get somebody else to do it. Zeus Network.
Speaker 1: I would like to leave Zeus Network along with their
Speaker 1: whole sweet and that's including Crazy and Love, Christian Rock
Speaker 1: and U Blue Face, Batty's Southeast West North whichever one,
Speaker 1: and the Bobby I Love you put her per Yes.
Speaker 1: I want them to like you feel like it's TV.
Speaker 1: It's trash TV. I'm sorry. I know we talked on
Speaker 1: this podcast, but not that type of ship. I don't.
Speaker 1: I think we represent for women, just regular women pretty well.
Speaker 1: That damn Showman, all of shows. It's just just trash. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a lot of y'all being paid to make us look
Speaker 1: like that this is representation. But you know what, that's
Speaker 1: a part of real culture, right, that's part of our
Speaker 1: that's that's a small facet of our culture. You know,
Speaker 1: there's like it's multi faceting. There's all different types of
Speaker 1: black people and that's a part of it. But do
Speaker 1: you think the positive parts get the same amount of publicity?
Speaker 1: Not always? Not always low key like then it's kind
Speaker 1: of like when I watched like I like it until
Speaker 1: I'm done and they're like, turn it off, grandmama watching.
Speaker 1: So yeah, zoos networks give people like these black people
Speaker 1: get an opportunity, they wouldn't be making money, you know,
Speaker 1: and it's for all this month. You don't have to
Speaker 1: tune in. Where's integrity? Though? Is that you don't like
Speaker 1: the word integrity. I don't mind the commitment. I don't
Speaker 1: mind the word integrity. I understand. I try to operate
Speaker 1: with integrity, but I just don't feel like they don't
Speaker 1: have integrity because they participate on these shows. If you
Speaker 1: have to, as a woman, you gotta get up and
Speaker 1: fistfight another woman to get onto a show. Well, they
Speaker 1: didn't have to fist fight to get on the show.
Speaker 1: They were fighting on the girl. They were fistfighting at
Speaker 1: the goddamn interviews for the show. Really, yes, Tommy, Tommy
Speaker 1: was one of the judges, Like you know, when they're
Speaker 1: doing like the interviews to see who they're gonna bring on.
Speaker 1: She was fighting bitches like it's like ding ding ding.
Speaker 1: No man, a lot of these women got children, Like
Speaker 1: this is what y'all want? Like the Internet is fucking ink.
Speaker 1: It's not a pencil. You can't delete none of this ship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know I'm not. I think I'll never be a
Speaker 1: state senator because of that blue booty video that girl. Whatever?
Speaker 1: What was the girl? I forgot what state she's from.
Speaker 1: But remember there was a politician working on the beach.
Speaker 1: A hand may not be over for me. All right,
Speaker 1: what do I want to get rid of? Grand Rising?
Speaker 1: Don't text me grand Ride? You love that? What is
Speaker 1: saying Grand Rising? I say, rich White Rising girl, grand
Speaker 1: Ridge Rising? What is that? It's some hoteps ship. So
Speaker 1: Grand Rising is more like, you know, wake up and
Speaker 1: conquer today, or like rising shine. Some may say that
Speaker 1: same good morning is like a curse. It's in the Bible.
Speaker 1: Why because they said it says something like, um, if
Speaker 1: you say good morning or you yell good morning to
Speaker 1: your neighbor, they may take offense to it because they
Speaker 1: may feel like it's a curse. I don't know, I
Speaker 1: don't know. It says that in the Bible. Believe aboty
Speaker 1: good morning, and they feel like it's a curse. A
Speaker 1: lot of people don't even like mornings. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's mean it's morning, like they say, you
Speaker 1: gotta be happy your motherfucking days woke up today, Grant
Speaker 1: actually Grand Rising? Um. It's also more more associated with
Speaker 1: the penis, like waking up with a woody in the morning,
Speaker 1: swear to God up not y'all when I say some ship,
Speaker 1: just go look at that before you Yes, So why
Speaker 1: they send it to me? I ain't got noding. So
Speaker 1: you remember when we had a dick doc on TikTok
Speaker 1: on a matter of fact, No, we had a urologist
Speaker 1: on um doctor Millhouse, and she said one of the
Speaker 1: earlier early songs lines of e d is like a
Speaker 1: man waking up without the morning. Would you know if
Speaker 1: it's happening you know too many times, you might have
Speaker 1: a long time. They did be hard every morning when
Speaker 1: they were it's supposed to be like that's normal. So
Speaker 1: if you're waking up in the morning with a lot
Speaker 1: of softies like, that's like one of the easiest early
Speaker 1: signs for erectile dysfunction. So when somebody says grand rising, uh,
Speaker 1: it's also associated with Yes, it's associated with the male foul.
Speaker 1: Everybody ain't having a grand rising. But I still I
Speaker 1: would leave the the term in the hard dicks can
Speaker 1: go to two period. The first thing from here and
Speaker 1: beyond humbling black women. Why it just feels like everybody
Speaker 1: just wants us to be like just getting your place.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be humble anymore. I want to
Speaker 1: act like I'm the ship, because you know I'm the ship,
Speaker 1: and that's why you feel like I need to be humbled.
Speaker 1: I'm here for that one. So I would like to
Speaker 1: leave humbling black women and Papio ship period. Yeah, whatever
Speaker 1: it is, celebrate it, celebrate yourself in whatever it is.
Speaker 1: I'm here for that one. Um. Okay, So people are
Speaker 1: gonna be mad at me poorly done bbls. If you're
Speaker 1: gonna get a BBL, go to someone good, save the
Speaker 1: money and get a good one. I'm not saying don't
Speaker 1: do your BBL because if you want to do something
Speaker 1: to your body, by all means, I'm here for it.
Speaker 1: But don't pay two thousand dollars and go into some
Speaker 1: foreign country and only paying two thousand dollars. I don't
Speaker 1: know how much it, but you know, paying a small
Speaker 1: amount and then you come back looking like a fucking
Speaker 1: ant and then doctors here don't want to touch it.
Speaker 1: The same thing with the teeth, Yeah, bitch, that's on
Speaker 1: my list. Teeth it ain't on my list, but I'm
Speaker 1: putting on my list, Like, why not take care of
Speaker 1: your natural teeth? No, some people need their mother. But
Speaker 1: I've got to get the right side. You can't be
Speaker 1: getting the extra bug right. And they go out the
Speaker 1: country to get the veneers and they can't get anybody
Speaker 1: to fix them here if they you know, back them
Speaker 1: or whatever. So yeah, with the bb that cheap version
Speaker 1: stopped doing that. This is your body, and yeah, buds
Speaker 1: that matched your body like how somebody some buds ain't
Speaker 1: meant to be Like somebody's ain't meant to him like
Speaker 1: a big super fatty, you know, because your thighs be
Speaker 1: so small. You know, it just looks unproportional. It looks bad.
Speaker 1: Maybe they should go to women doctors because maybe a
Speaker 1: woman can understand like how the body is supposed to
Speaker 1: look naturally, as opposed to going to a man and
Speaker 1: you just throw a dunk on everybody. I seem like
Speaker 1: there's always a man man doing the work. I feel
Speaker 1: like a lot of them doctors need to go to jail,
Speaker 1: locked up. Why do you tell them no? Right, just
Speaker 1: like money, you can't tell everybody. Yeah, every that ass
Speaker 1: does not belong. If the ass was for that person's body,
Speaker 1: they would have been born with it. A lot of
Speaker 1: people walk around here looking like SpongeBob SquarePants. Okay, they'll
Speaker 1: be trying to be too damn nice. That's what it is,
Speaker 1: because you can get like a nice little frame on you.
Speaker 1: It's called like a skinny bbla bl Yeah, that's would
Speaker 1: look nice. And I just wanted to look like, you know,
Speaker 1: yeah is it hers? Is not? It looked good? You know? Yeah? Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think some people just throw that ass and it's
Speaker 1: just sitting in between the leg and the back and
Speaker 1: it just looks crazy. All right, Uh, this is for
Speaker 1: my maybe for me a little bit high fruit toast
Speaker 1: corn served, you know what. I want to leave that
Speaker 1: ship two for all black people because we literally died
Speaker 1: in sweets in these streets. Okay, facts more people dying
Speaker 1: from sugar than any fucking or killing each other. Sugar
Speaker 1: sugar killing more people. You're right about that. I want
Speaker 1: to leave that because now the one thing I would say,
Speaker 1: one take away from the bomb administration is that he
Speaker 1: made it to where they had to put certain things
Speaker 1: on food labels, one being um, you know, make ingredients
Speaker 1: in there, and then like the bioengineered have you have
Speaker 1: you been seen that on your packages? They're just a
Speaker 1: lot of ship I stopped eating like I don't buy
Speaker 1: no Callogg's, uh serial because all of us says bioengineered
Speaker 1: ingredients on it. You know what I really do, now
Speaker 1: that I think about it, it's not very much food
Speaker 1: that I eat that doesn't come already prepared from restaurants.
Speaker 1: Shame a restaurant or from the grocery store a restaurant.
Speaker 1: I don't really it's so bad, like I need stock
Speaker 1: in door dash bitch, because that's another thing I'm leaving. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start actually cooking again. I used to cook
Speaker 1: so much when I was with any, but then it's
Speaker 1: like after I got single, I just stopped. You know, No,
Speaker 1: I rather cook because I know what happened to it.
Speaker 1: Like you don't know what the people be doing in
Speaker 1: these restaurants, even they know that's what you gotta pray
Speaker 1: over your food. What the hell prayer gonna do? I mean,
Speaker 1: you don't know what happened to that food before I
Speaker 1: got in the package. I don't eat well. I mean,
Speaker 1: aside from like seafood, I don't eat like meats and stuff.
Speaker 1: I don't even like like package things. I don't like
Speaker 1: like juice packets. But I mean I can't see the bread.
Speaker 1: You don't know what happened to them grains before somebody
Speaker 1: could before you just got prayers and so that's okay,
Speaker 1: h what next one for me? Thinking the zodiac is absolute, absolute, period,
Speaker 1: I'm a cancer, but it's not. Yes, it's not absolute,
Speaker 1: it's not absolutely. Nobody is because we have the same side.
Speaker 1: We're exactly alike, not exactly like. But you also have
Speaker 1: to know the person's rising and moon signed to get
Speaker 1: a pretty good calculate birth date, to get a pretty
Speaker 1: good calculation of what type of person you are. You
Speaker 1: a fucking cancer, bitch. I'm a cancer, but I know
Speaker 1: I'm not an absolute cancer. And I know the next
Speaker 1: kidcer is not absolutely I don't know. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: They're not nobody's. You can't line us all up that
Speaker 1: are born in the same month and be like, these
Speaker 1: people are exactly the same. I know for a fact.
Speaker 1: It's fuck you, Aquarious and it's period. Okay, Now you
Speaker 1: might you might be blocking your blessing. It might be
Speaker 1: an Aquarius that's gonna love the funk out of ut
Speaker 1: his his zodiac and he's like, yes, that's really had
Speaker 1: to produise the ship to me, girl, because I have
Speaker 1: been terrorized by goddamn Aquarius. Okay, that was one person, Okay,
Speaker 1: and I feel like that's that's what they are. Ye period,
Speaker 1: Let's leave that in. Let's leave that because everybody's different.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I feel like knowing
Speaker 1: someone Zodiac it's a okay, you can't hold them to that,
Speaker 1: but it gives you a nice little starting point, it does. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's fair. But I just said absolutely. I didn't say, like,
Speaker 1: you know, like nothing is true because I know I'm
Speaker 1: a cry baby, I'm sensitive and I'm loving all those
Speaker 1: things that are cancer. I do align with that, but
Speaker 1: I'm not absolutely because I also can be a bitch
Speaker 1: and I can be like not so loving time at times,
Speaker 1: but that's cancer. Okay. Uh, let me see. Can we
Speaker 1: leave these petty asks conversations and who pays for what?
Speaker 1: Can we can we leave that? Is that a possibility?
Speaker 1: I mean every podcast clip you pretty much see online
Speaker 1: when it's like men and women, that's what they're talking
Speaker 1: about Black men and women. That's like the topic of discussion.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out why whatever works for you
Speaker 1: and your relationship. That's how I feel like whatever works
Speaker 1: for y'all is dynamic of what the world says how
Speaker 1: it should be, right. I just don't know why people
Speaker 1: like I guess I don't know. Men just feel like
Speaker 1: they've been kicking out when the average didn't feel abused
Speaker 1: by women. I feel like men are feeling like bitter
Speaker 1: about relationships with women these days, and they feel like
Speaker 1: they're doing more than they should, which is crazy because
Speaker 1: I feel like men should feel like they want to
Speaker 1: be provided, but I don't feel like they feel that
Speaker 1: way anymore. I might be wrong. I think um ego,
Speaker 1: a healthy ego for a man would probably be one
Speaker 1: that's fed, he had taken care of the people he loves.
Speaker 1: That's how he feels like a man, right. But there's
Speaker 1: a lot of men again, they may feel some type
Speaker 1: of way. Maybe they had been taken advantage of by
Speaker 1: bad women in the past, and now it's like, funk
Speaker 1: all your wholes. And we know a lot of these
Speaker 1: stories come from high school. Ain't even nothing valid that
Speaker 1: happened to them. Y'all are running through women, y'all whole
Speaker 1: fucking life, you know what I'm saying. But yeah, I
Speaker 1: feel like I feel like men like, why why don't you.
Speaker 1: Why would you not want to take care of the
Speaker 1: woman you say you love? Why would you not want
Speaker 1: to aspire to one day completely take care of your family.
Speaker 1: Nobody's asking you to have all the ship together today,
Speaker 1: but that should be your goal. You're in goal, I
Speaker 1: would think, right, I would, I would agree there. But
Speaker 1: what if you're with a woman who makes considerably more
Speaker 1: than you, because I mean, we do scream the quality
Speaker 1: a lot. We we make oftentimes more money than in
Speaker 1: some instances. Should it be a situation where he's taking
Speaker 1: care of everything even though you make more money. I
Speaker 1: don't think. Um, in order for a man to provide provisions,
Speaker 1: he has to make all the money, but you have
Speaker 1: to contribute. I feel like these niggas want to be
Speaker 1: bad bitches. Sorry if you feel some type of way
Speaker 1: about me saying that, but they want to be taken
Speaker 1: care of. They want to be taken care of. And
Speaker 1: at what point, Like most little boys they grow up,
Speaker 1: most little black boys, because men and women, a lot
Speaker 1: of us grow up in single parent homes. It is
Speaker 1: usually just Mama there, right, So a lot of little
Speaker 1: boys they grow up like can't wait to get to
Speaker 1: the bags so they can take care of their mama
Speaker 1: because they never saw daddy do it. So now you
Speaker 1: have a woman, you have children, you have these women,
Speaker 1: you've created baby mama's out of Do you want your
Speaker 1: son now to get old enough to take care of her? Like?
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? You will take care of
Speaker 1: your mom, but you won't take care of me. That's
Speaker 1: a problem. It is. So I don't know. I wish
Speaker 1: we could leave those conversations. Is some fucking poor shit.
Speaker 1: Just cut it out, alright, you know, then say that.
Speaker 1: I think it's more so about just reflecting and then
Speaker 1: trying to do better, not putting women down for just
Speaker 1: having to do because y'all talk to you about us
Speaker 1: in the projects and now you talk to it about
Speaker 1: us in the boardroom. Which one you want? Fun your degree?
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want other ethnicities like Africans like
Speaker 1: they give a funk about your degree. Their mom and
Speaker 1: the daddy, your husband, they give a funk about that degree.
Speaker 1: But in America and men don't. That's weird. I don't know.
Speaker 1: We need a man. I don't want to talk about
Speaker 1: that alright. So one thing I definitely want to leave
Speaker 1: in two, But I don't know if we can leave
Speaker 1: it fitting all overdose m sitting all overdoses rampant in
Speaker 1: our communion. It's taking so many good people out last
Speaker 1: year and I just excuse me, last last month, not
Speaker 1: last year, last month, like I keep narcan with me
Speaker 1: just because And I don't even like participate any drugs
Speaker 1: that would need it. I ain't really. Yeah, but they
Speaker 1: sprinkling the ship on the weed, That's what I'm hearing.
Speaker 1: But why would they put it on the weed? Where
Speaker 1: is the weed coming from? Let's think, let's talk about that.
Speaker 1: Where is the weed coming from a lot of the times,
Speaker 1: where does it come from? Before Cali? I don't know,
Speaker 1: Mexico a lot of times, Mexico, Yes, a lot of
Speaker 1: coming a lot of a lot of drugs coming through
Speaker 1: Mexico through you know, coming from Yeah, okay, and if
Speaker 1: we know that, and calling me a conspiracy theorist, whatever
Speaker 1: it is, Okay. They want to control the population, what
Speaker 1: better way, and to take the recreational thing in mind,
Speaker 1: you this didn't start happening until they started legalizing weed
Speaker 1: every place. Now, so you you don't know if they're
Speaker 1: picking it up in the in the cocaine of people
Speaker 1: stiff in cold or it definitely is now on a marijuana.
Speaker 1: So if you don't know where your supply is coming
Speaker 1: from exactly, like if we have where you come from,
Speaker 1: but how you don't know where they get it from.
Speaker 1: I do, I hear that grower. I know exactly where
Speaker 1: it's something from. But um, I haven't seen anybody die
Speaker 1: from that. But in that case, I do have narcin
Speaker 1: in my purse just in case. But I just feel like,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, these parties and people are like,
Speaker 1: you know, doing whatever they're doing, and I just want
Speaker 1: to be able to help an event that that happened.
Speaker 1: You know, did you see it was a post online?
Speaker 1: But it was a police officer. She actually just touched Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't even gotta use it. You could just touch
Speaker 1: it somewhere and really die. I don't understand crazy. I
Speaker 1: don't understand, like, why would y'all create something like that.
Speaker 1: That's how you know NIGGAS is not handling fit now.
Speaker 1: NIGGAS is not out here messing with ship that you're
Speaker 1: just touching. You can die. That's not our thing. So
Speaker 1: who's putting it out here like that? I watched that?
Speaker 1: You think remember the series? Uh oz art m h
Speaker 1: M it ain't us, that's not our thing, that's not
Speaker 1: our dermo. I don't know what y'all. You gotta be
Speaker 1: a motherfucker chemist, you know, to try to even mix
Speaker 1: with that ship and it has met suit ship like
Speaker 1: that matter Ni is just banging up and you know,
Speaker 1: shoop it out there. I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Let's leave that in yep uh, that's my truth. I
Speaker 1: want to leave my truth. You wanna lie? N I
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of times people be lying when
Speaker 1: they'd be like, that's my that's my truth. Like just
Speaker 1: because that's your truth, that doesn't mean it's the truth.
Speaker 1: Do you see what I'm saying, So that's that's my truth?
Speaker 1: I hate that. But what would person tell outside of
Speaker 1: their truth? A lie? Bitch? No, I'm just saying, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: a lie. There's the truth and there's a lie. You know,
Speaker 1: so what is the truth? What you believe? Only know?
Speaker 1: The truth is what actually happened. Have you ever had
Speaker 1: conversation with somebody and they're saying this is what happened,
Speaker 1: but you know that's not what happened because that okay,
Speaker 1: So then just because that's your perspective, that still doesn't
Speaker 1: make it the truth? Do you see what I'm saying?
Speaker 1: There's such things absolute truth, which is what actually transpired,
Speaker 1: and truth has evidence. So now if you can just
Speaker 1: say some ship with no evidence, is that the truth?
Speaker 1: It's it's a slippery thought when it comes to things
Speaker 1: like that, because I can see, I can see something,
Speaker 1: we can see the same thing happen and our story
Speaker 1: be different and it's still be true because of our perspective.
Speaker 1: Do you see what I'm saying? That's scary to me.
Speaker 1: It is scary because how did where did that come from?
Speaker 1: Though that that's my truth? Where is that? Where did
Speaker 1: that come from? I feel like it's like a new
Speaker 1: generation thing, no bitch, because when I was living in Europe,
Speaker 1: I watched the news. I watched the news on a
Speaker 1: f N, which was a military network that, uh you know,
Speaker 1: this way the news from Americans active. And then I
Speaker 1: would watch the British news and it would tell the
Speaker 1: same story, but it would be totally fucking different, and
Speaker 1: it was about perspective. So which did you believe which
Speaker 1: made more sense to you than which gave more proof
Speaker 1: and more evidence? Because that's what you get what. Okay,
Speaker 1: I know America be fucking lying with my home team.
Speaker 1: I had that. Okay, that's my shoe. Yeah, we can
Speaker 1: leave that ship in tween two. Um So the last
Speaker 1: thing that I want to leave in two is if
Speaker 1: you've seen somebody a fucking text message and you say
Speaker 1: I love you and then they say love you back
Speaker 1: without the eye on the front, that's the problem for me.
Speaker 1: Let's leave that. If you don't put that eye on
Speaker 1: the front, you don't vote with me for real. That's
Speaker 1: how I feel what y'all think. If I texting Nick
Speaker 1: I love you, and he'd be like, love you too,
Speaker 1: lu vel Ven, here's me. That's a problem now, luv
Speaker 1: he trying to play with you, and I feel like
Speaker 1: men definitely know the difference when it's intentional. It's intentional.
Speaker 1: It's intentional. If you don't that, that might be the truth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I love you, No, just love you, know I because
Speaker 1: because everybody loves you, I want to talk about me.
Speaker 1: You don't know I on the front. That's the problem.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, don't send me that. If I said if
Speaker 1: I text you I love you and you text me
Speaker 1: back love you, period, you don't love me, right, That's
Speaker 1: how I feel about it. Okay, we're on the same
Speaker 1: page with that. Yeah, tripping, alright, that's not crazy, right,
Speaker 1: it's probably man problems, Like what the fun I love you?
Speaker 1: I love you. I would say your daughter or your
Speaker 1: child or somebody you actually love you would say I
Speaker 1: love you. To make sure they don't know it's real, now, y'all,
Speaker 1: nick is know what y'all? Bell Uh, let me see winter?
Speaker 1: How you wait? You said July had one more. I
Speaker 1: feel like I got a couple more winter, but just
Speaker 1: call this funk outside. And it hasn't been this cold
Speaker 1: since Hurricane you go, we need winter though? For what Mosquitoes?
Speaker 1: I think the natural like if it's summer all the time,
Speaker 1: the islands do pretty good. Oh yeah, yes, they had
Speaker 1: a lot of the I like winter. I definitely like.
Speaker 1: I feel like my soul belongs and Barbados. I want
Speaker 1: a fucking beach house with a little black ass, little
Speaker 1: boy with blonde here. That's my goal. And then you yes, okay,
Speaker 1: you no. You know like a lot of people who
Speaker 1: you know, grow up by the ocean, a lot of diving,
Speaker 1: like the water changes the color they hear. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I want. What's okay, That's what I want?
Speaker 1: That's I want to get rid of winter, man, because
Speaker 1: I'm just not. I saw a post that said, uh,
Speaker 1: if you had like yeah, but um, I like wintertime.
Speaker 1: I like having all the season. I just feel like
Speaker 1: they're important. Is all the changes that we go through
Speaker 1: are similar to the season of the year. Well, you know,
Speaker 1: winter is definitely a bad bitch sport because these bitches
Speaker 1: who used to be nicker don't know what the fund
Speaker 1: to put it on in the winter time, they still
Speaker 1: be naked. Here's the thing. I remember being in college
Speaker 1: and we're like back in the day and having on
Speaker 1: this net he any hose with some pump freezing with
Speaker 1: some shorts like it's stupid, and going in the club
Speaker 1: yeah it's outside. No, you can't tell me. I want
Speaker 1: to find his fook like but I was. But I
Speaker 1: don't know how I did that. I could never do
Speaker 1: that now. I could never get away with that now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because we gotta pay for all healthcare now. But I
Speaker 1: just didn't even I used to be standing Ama Terris
Speaker 1: who ever got to pay for that day of Doctorville.
Speaker 1: Now you can't afford to get sick anymore. Yeah, not
Speaker 1: even that. I just would never. My comfort is a different.
Speaker 1: Is that a different? I laugh at young girls when
Speaker 1: I see him walk around where he was on, like
Speaker 1: in the mall and ship. Bitch, I know you're uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: Just where's your sneakers? I used to be that girl
Speaker 1: all me too, bitch. You used to walk around campus
Speaker 1: where he was on, Like are you going at? Where
Speaker 1: are you going? Looking stupid? All young girls, now save
Speaker 1: your feet, trust me. I feel like my art's about
Speaker 1: to break right now, bitch because of what I did
Speaker 1: when I was y'all age, don't do it. They can't
Speaker 1: help it. Yeah, it's just I guess it's a write
Speaker 1: of passage. This is my last thing. And this is
Speaker 1: like for like the podcast and the clips and stuff
Speaker 1: I see on social media. Um, can we leave men
Speaker 1: talking about generational wealth in two when they don't see
Speaker 1: the value and having a wife or a family, like
Speaker 1: how are you gonna have generational wealth without generation coming
Speaker 1: back to you? Like why are you trying to do
Speaker 1: that by yourself? You know you have to have like
Speaker 1: why do you not? And we still got to do
Speaker 1: that episode where we have a married man on so
Speaker 1: they can try and help some of some of our
Speaker 1: male listeners like what's the benefits of having a wife
Speaker 1: like women literally keeping alive the right wife. Okay, make
Speaker 1: sure you as go to the doctor. You'll be out
Speaker 1: here sick, running around with all types of diseases for
Speaker 1: you to have a stroke don't even know it. Women
Speaker 1: are supposed to be responsible for the nutrition of the
Speaker 1: family as far as I'm concerned, Yes, you can outsource
Speaker 1: those things, but I would like to feed my family. Um.
Speaker 1: But yeah, you can't have generational wealth and a black
Speaker 1: community if the majority of our people don't see the
Speaker 1: value in marriage. That's just where it comes from. You
Speaker 1: cannot have generational welcome. You have yourself spread so thin
Speaker 1: in between multiple households, like how somebody gonna be lacking?
Speaker 1: You don't take care of somebody because wealth isn't just money.
Speaker 1: So when you try to talk about general rational will,
Speaker 1: you got to consider all the other what you're teaching
Speaker 1: your kids, like are you there to even teach them anything?
Speaker 1: So I don't know, Um, did he just had a
Speaker 1: last shold? I mean, he definitely has the money. And
Speaker 1: we can look at some just looking at celebrities, right,
Speaker 1: which is not the average man. Um? Nick Cannon his
Speaker 1: last well, I think he has another baby when we
Speaker 1: folth but the eleventh child. Um, she took to the
Speaker 1: internet last week and was I forgot her name. It's
Speaker 1: so many of them, Um, the black one, she was saying,
Speaker 1: you know how she you know, she's rid of a
Speaker 1: toxic relationship. You literally signed up for that, Like how
Speaker 1: how did you think this thing is supposed to go?
Speaker 1: And then why is the black one who won't come
Speaker 1: to help? Spilled beans? Now everybody else speping, all that's
Speaker 1: a bullshit. She started troubling for that man. Everybody think
Speaker 1: he just right had taking care all these kids. Now
Speaker 1: it's impossible financially maybe yes, But you know what do
Speaker 1: these women do? These women all came from nowhere? Who
Speaker 1: are these people? What you mean coming from? Like? Who
Speaker 1: are they? Like? I don't like how did he find them?
Speaker 1: Like you select them off Instagram? Instagram? Like where all
Speaker 1: the rest of the biggest it was the decks not
Speaker 1: calling his baby mama's hose. But you just did my baby, y'all.
Speaker 1: But yeah, like, where did you pick up all these
Speaker 1: different women to sign up to have the twelve Lost
Speaker 1: tribes of Judah Abraham? Like were I guess I mean
Speaker 1: to Eastern own When it comes to that if you
Speaker 1: you don't want to have a baby with this man,
Speaker 1: all means do you. You know it's kind of like
Speaker 1: a poligamy thing going on because they're all like okay
Speaker 1: with the last one. She ain't okay with it now,
Speaker 1: she posting her bestie that she met at an art
Speaker 1: gallery at some point. But I don't know. Then you
Speaker 1: cannot have generational wealth without an actual family start there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree. So that wraps up our list of things
Speaker 1: we want to leave in anything else you wanna add,
Speaker 1: I want to leave all the niggas that played over me.
Speaker 1: You can't come back these years, and that's it, all right, y'all.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna take a quick break, and when we
Speaker 1: come back, we're gonna get into a dumb bitch story
Speaker 1: from one of our listeners. Dumb bitch stories because we've
Speaker 1: all been a dumb bitch at least once or twice. So, y'all,
Speaker 1: This dumb bitch story is from one of our Instagram
Speaker 1: followers that wants to remain anonymous, but her story goes as, Hey, y'all,
Speaker 1: my favorites, I'm coming in for some advice this time around.
Speaker 1: I'm just I don't just jump right in hav an
Speaker 1: older sister. She's thirty two, I'm twenty five. Share the
Speaker 1: same mom, but my father raised all of us. I'm
Speaker 1: the who has always done everything for all of my siblings.
Speaker 1: I'm number three or four. They come to me for
Speaker 1: assistance before they even go to our parents. My sister
Speaker 1: had an ex who was stalking her, damaging her car
Speaker 1: in her home. Me being the person I am, she'd
Speaker 1: always called me to protect her and her kids when
Speaker 1: he'd come around. I had a few trips with my man,
Speaker 1: which happens to be the stalker's brother. Yeam lined up
Speaker 1: so we wouldn't be in town. So I gave her
Speaker 1: a gun to protect herself if he did come around
Speaker 1: while I was gone. Why And it's a lot of
Speaker 1: why wise on the end, Why did she allow my
Speaker 1: gun to get stolen and didn't tell me about it
Speaker 1: until I asked her for my gun back a whole
Speaker 1: two months later. I'm upset because one, I don't trust
Speaker 1: that it just went missing. I can see her selling
Speaker 1: it or allowing him or her kids father to borrow it,
Speaker 1: And she waited so long to tell me, putting me
Speaker 1: in jeopardy, and I feel like she's lying about where
Speaker 1: the gun went. I haven't spoken to her in three months,
Speaker 1: but I love my sister. I just don't know how
Speaker 1: to tell her that I'm upset, and I don't even
Speaker 1: know if I want to speak to her again. I
Speaker 1: need your help. Your advice always helps me out. Sincerely,
Speaker 1: a mad ass scorpio ready to show scorpios um. First,
Speaker 1: don't ever give your weapons to anything unless you're selling
Speaker 1: it to them. Yeah, she never give your weapons. You should, like, uh,
Speaker 1: take her to go get her own, like you know this. Uh.
Speaker 1: She goes on to say that I asked her how
Speaker 1: many guns did she have? And she has eleven. She
Speaker 1: wasn't missing it. That's why I was like, what took you?
Speaker 1: You know, what took you so long to ask for
Speaker 1: your gun back? And it's because she has so many.
Speaker 1: So she's a proud gun toting American. But but never
Speaker 1: give anybody your weapon. You want to take people, If
Speaker 1: you want to help people be armed and protected, take
Speaker 1: them to get their own weapon, you know, so they
Speaker 1: can learn how to Probably they can't buy a gun,
Speaker 1: and probably the boyfriend can't get one, even he's taking
Speaker 1: somebody's pistol. I hope she reported it stolen. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: what's gonna be my next advice. To report it stolen,
Speaker 1: you know, because you don't want to have no bodies on,
Speaker 1: no guns that you're exactly um this is. You know,
Speaker 1: I always recommend people, you know, pass things up with
Speaker 1: their sisters, you know, their family. You know, the family
Speaker 1: is all you got, you know, at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, you want to pass things over your I'm
Speaker 1: a very you know, forgiven person. You know, I always
Speaker 1: want like just because i know I'm flawed and i
Speaker 1: know I make mistakes and I'm not gonna be the
Speaker 1: perfect I'm not going to be the perfect friend. You know.
Speaker 1: I'm i'ma s trying to be the perfect friend and
Speaker 1: sister and everything. But I'm going to fall short. I
Speaker 1: know that about myself. So I want people to grant
Speaker 1: me the same grace that I'm willing to give often times.
Speaker 1: So you know, find out why didn't she tell her
Speaker 1: that her gun is missing. It took for me to
Speaker 1: ask you about my pistol for you to tell me
Speaker 1: we got stolen. Yeah, that's that's shady, shady. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: I mean that to me. That's grounds for termination of
Speaker 1: your sister. That's her daddy jowl. That's her mama. They
Speaker 1: got the same mama at you, that's my daddy kid.
Speaker 1: They like, No, that's her. They came out the same.
Speaker 1: Oh that's not enough to leave your sister alone. It's not.
Speaker 1: I probably would never discard my sisters. I can't figure
Speaker 1: nothing my sister could never do to me for me
Speaker 1: that either, but nothing. I would definitely fight you. Yeah
Speaker 1: we might tho, but I'm still loving afterwards. You're gonna
Speaker 1: catch this face, especially depending on what your responses when
Speaker 1: I say what my pistol at? Now? Have you like
Speaker 1: some people when you like back them in the corner
Speaker 1: you asked asking them some ship, They don't want to face.
Speaker 1: They're getting nasty. So it just depends on your response
Speaker 1: how I'm going to respond. But I wouldn't discard my
Speaker 1: sister because of that. But I would definitely file for
Speaker 1: you know, file a police report and they're stolen gun
Speaker 1: and I don't know accounted as a fucking loss. She
Speaker 1: might still have. You probably just don't want to give
Speaker 1: it back. Maybe try her to get her own working
Speaker 1: for sure, though, if she got somebody trying to harm her,
Speaker 1: what I some therapy to lead us nigger alone. She's
Speaker 1: still working with the person, and she said she might
Speaker 1: have give it to him. That's what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: I would not give somebody a gun who's not ready
Speaker 1: to leave this person. If this person is like really
Speaker 1: really stalking you, doing shipped to you, like you can't
Speaker 1: be fucking with them in the interim when they're being regular,
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna give you a gun just in
Speaker 1: case when he do get stupid. No, you need to
Speaker 1: be leaving him completely alone and then I'll help. Other
Speaker 1: than that, I don't get involved in people domestic ship
Speaker 1: sister or not, because I've been in situations where you
Speaker 1: you know, you try to help somebody and you're fucked
Speaker 1: around and get hurt. Yes, So I don't play with
Speaker 1: people when it comes to things, especially with women and
Speaker 1: relationships with women. I'll give you advice a little bit,
Speaker 1: but I'm not I'm not stepping in that way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't typically would step in in that way. I've
Speaker 1: had friends who have been in like some violent relationships
Speaker 1: and I told them, like, you know, you need to
Speaker 1: leave this relationship or I'm gonna have to stop being
Speaker 1: friend because it was just got to a place where
Speaker 1: it was just so bad and I can't stand by.
Speaker 1: I can't I can't help you, but I can't stand
Speaker 1: by and watching them are exactly So what are you
Speaker 1: gonna I mean, when you start being a dumb bitch,
Speaker 1: that's just where it is. Well, you know what matters
Speaker 1: of the heart is hard when people when they're dealing with,
Speaker 1: you know, being insecure and relationships and they don't know
Speaker 1: how to handle their emotions and love make you do
Speaker 1: stupid ship. I'd be a mess. But like, I hope
Speaker 1: your sister is okay. I hope um that y'all in
Speaker 1: your relationship. And she needed to get her own gun
Speaker 1: gets who's gonna training if that's possible. She might have felonies.
Speaker 1: I don't know how that works. She don't learn how
Speaker 1: to use a weapon. I feel like felons can buy
Speaker 1: guns at gun shows. No, I don't know nothing about how.
Speaker 1: I feel like people get away but aint guns when
Speaker 1: they have felonies when they go to those gun shows.
Speaker 1: Because you ain't gonna tell me, like white people don't
Speaker 1: be having felonies too, And it seems like they always
Speaker 1: seem to get their hands on guns. I feel like
Speaker 1: everybody'll be getting their hands legally maybe having Yeah, I
Speaker 1: have to google that, bitch because I don't know how
Speaker 1: that works. Maybe I'm lying, Yeah, I don't know. All right,
Speaker 1: y'all listen. We hope you guys have a very great
Speaker 1: Leave all the fucking bullshit heartache some of these niggas
Speaker 1: some family member excuse me. Yeah two, I'm skipping, bitch.
Speaker 1: I live in the future. Okay, leave it behind, man,
Speaker 1: go in with a clean slate. Um. Yeah, that's what
Speaker 1: I'm doing. I'm gonna try my best. You know, every year.
Speaker 1: That's how you can do. There's things that I wore
Speaker 1: resolutions for two that I'm carrying over into this year.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm working progress. Progress. God, ain't n they
Speaker 1: didn't fucking begins. Get somebody else to do it. All right,
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