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Speaker 1: talks backstop y'all. Thank you for tuning in for a

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Speaker 1: new episode. Though we talk back. I show dedicated to

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Speaker 1: It's your co host a j Holiday. What's up to you?

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Speaker 1: Hey girl? Hey, y'all. Look, we're in the flash and

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Speaker 1: I'm with us. I'm so excited. It's our hundred episode, y'all,

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Speaker 1: and we decided that we need to feel them so

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Speaker 1: y'all can see us how you feel. I'm good. We

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Speaker 1: did our show ninety nine episodes in a fucking row

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Speaker 1: and no break, and we have people messaging us like

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Speaker 1: why y'all have recording this week, Like bitch, we need

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Speaker 1: time off like everybody else were having like breaks in

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Speaker 1: between seasons. We didn't get that. So now here we

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Speaker 1: are and hopefully we'll do video for you guys going forward.

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Speaker 1: How was your weekend? Good? Christmas? Just past? Uh? I

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Speaker 1: didn't do ship on Christmas but sleep and didn't feel

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Speaker 1: like Christmas for real? Did you get everybody said that

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Speaker 1: this Christmas wasn't Christmas thing. It wasn't. This is the

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Speaker 1: least most Christmas feeling I think I've ever had. But

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Speaker 1: all it is, you know what my Christmas wasn't. I

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Speaker 1: didn't anticipate it being very Christmas Eve because my family

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Speaker 1: was all scared about, but my mom surprised me. Drove

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Speaker 1: It was so cool when she told me she was

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Speaker 1: pulling up like I literally cried in the bathroom level.

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Speaker 1: I shared a thug to my nigger cry. And then we, um,

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Speaker 1: we just watched. We watched Best Man. Y'all. If y'all

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Speaker 1: haven't seen it, y'all need to go watch The Best

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Speaker 1: Man on Peacock. Yeah, Peacock watch Best Man. It was

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Speaker 1: really good. It's a little cheesy couple of Tyler Perry moments,

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Speaker 1: but for the most of our on the Tyler Perry Producer,

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Speaker 1: you know how, not necessarily bad weeks, but very super lighthearted,

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Speaker 1: like probably not realistic moments. But for the most part,

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Speaker 1: it was really good. And it's a good story about

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Speaker 1: friendship and relationships and things like that. So we watched that,

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Speaker 1: and then um, I took her out to look at

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Speaker 1: like I found online, like a couple of houses in

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Speaker 1: So you go to the radio station and the light

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Speaker 1: show happened. So that was fun. And her road around

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Speaker 1: and did that, listen to music and just talk. That

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Speaker 1: was cool. Girl. Wedn't even had traditional Christmas dinner. We

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Speaker 1: had fishing, shrunk fry fish. But you know what nobody wants.

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Speaker 1: If you have traditional Thanksgiving, you don't want traditional kursmals.

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Speaker 1: We didn't sea food for Thanksgiving this year as well. Okay,

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Speaker 1: y'all didn't have no I made a macaroni. That's about it.

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Speaker 1: But I'm sicker than nigga food. Sorry, Yeah, what's the nick?

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Speaker 1: What's the nigga food? You know, knack bones, pigtails, just

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Speaker 1: all the crazy ass. You don't have no pigtails. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you have this whole stupid I don't know if you'll

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Speaker 1: have like neck bones, pigtails, oxtail, all of that in

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Speaker 1: one pot. I can't do it. I haven't had porking

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Speaker 1: nigga food. I said that, But other than that, I

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Speaker 1: don't do much This weekend for real, man, I relaxed

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Speaker 1: hud episode, how you feel, I don't know. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: We got a lot a lot more episodes ahead of us,

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Speaker 1: But I'm excited. I'm happy to me too. That's a

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Speaker 1: most new podcasts get like, you know, five hundred downloads

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Speaker 1: an episode. I'm saying we had a little help. So

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Speaker 1: stupid internet news. Uh, Tory Lanes case and trial. Have

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Speaker 1: you even fallen at all? You know? I watched a

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Speaker 1: trying to say, Okay, well, her friend possibly shot her.

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Speaker 1: But on top of that, the the eyewitness said that

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Speaker 1: But imagine having this amount of people discussing your life

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Speaker 1: five minutes after the shooting, Kelsey sent a text message

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Speaker 1: to um Megan Stallion's um bodyguard and said, Harry Tory

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Speaker 1: Room that Brittany Renter said that she was she didn't

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Speaker 1: you know I could. I could identify with some of that. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: there's people for my past. Yeah, I'm sorry to this man.

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Speaker 1: I do not know this man, girl, I got fuck

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Speaker 1: tell people that this is for entertainment purposes only until

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Speaker 1: funk up. They don't have a case, but they can

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Speaker 1: talk too much, you know how to go all right? Next?

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Speaker 1: Yeah you never heard it, did it? Bitch? I be

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Speaker 1: We are never safe. Just let's just let's be clear.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have to deal duy, you're not all right.

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Speaker 1: um because I land your stitches like the biggest. My

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Speaker 1: I hate that ship. It is not flattering to me.

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Speaker 1: Don't it's cute? But when it looked like two little

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Speaker 1: baby birds said, don't your motherfucker face? I cannot seeing that.

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Speaker 1: this was a long time ago because and we were

422
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 1: in college. It was Tina from the shout out to

423
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 1: Tina New York Tina, and I was like just laughing

424
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 1: so hard at her for putting lashes on her face.

425
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 1: I was like, what are you doing? A bit? You

426
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,119
Speaker 1: were boy with lashes? Why are you putting that on

427
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 1: your face. We laid for the club like this is

428
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 1: going on something, and I just thought it was the

429
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 1: dumbest ship ever. Nah, I just you know, a little

430
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 1: young country girl, and I just thought it was just

431
00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 1: outrageous to add lashes and the like. Maybe I didn't

432
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,360
Speaker 1: start putting all lashes till two thousand sixty, really, which

433
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:09,199
Speaker 1: I came to school with long blonde weaves. Remember in

434
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:14,120
Speaker 1: two thousand and two, everybody, me and my home girl

435
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 1: who came to school together, and my roommate at school,

436
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,400
Speaker 1: she was like, if you were in New York, people

437
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: would laugh at you walking down the shoot that long

438
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 1: ass bitch. By the second semester she had a chance

439
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: Chinese bang, and damn, they're thirty inches down her back.

440
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 1: This is litch. I don't know what you're talking about. Now.

441
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 1: I probably never go back to wearing blonde hair like that,

442
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 1: but you know, once I started wearing black, it's more

443
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 1: regal and nice looking, you know. Yeah, I just don't

444
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,360
Speaker 1: think those lashes will catch for me. And not shaming

445
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 1: anybody that does like that, that's y'all, but I hate

446
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: it and I don't want you to do it next year.

447
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 1: Stop that ship get somebody else to do it. Zeus Network.

448
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: I would like to leave Zeus Network along with their

449
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 1: whole sweet and that's including Crazy and Love, Christian Rock

450
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: and U Blue Face, Batty's Southeast West North whichever one,

451
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 1: and the Bobby I Love you put her per Yes.

452
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 1: I want them to like you feel like it's TV.

453
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 1: It's trash TV. I'm sorry. I know we talked on

454
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,360
Speaker 1: this podcast, but not that type of ship. I don't.

455
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 1: I think we represent for women, just regular women pretty well.

456
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:35,160
Speaker 1: That damn Showman, all of shows. It's just just trash. Yeah,

457
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 1: a lot of y'all being paid to make us look

458
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 1: like that this is representation. But you know what, that's

459
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,360
Speaker 1: a part of real culture, right, that's part of our

460
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 1: that's that's a small facet of our culture. You know,

461
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: there's like it's multi faceting. There's all different types of

462
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 1: black people and that's a part of it. But do

463
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 1: you think the positive parts get the same amount of publicity?

464
00:26:54,520 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 1: Not always? Not always low key like then it's kind

465
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 1: of like when I watched like I like it until

466
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 1: I'm done and they're like, turn it off, grandmama watching.

467
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, zoos networks give people like these black people

468
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,199
Speaker 1: get an opportunity, they wouldn't be making money, you know,

469
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: and it's for all this month. You don't have to

470
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: tune in. Where's integrity? Though? Is that you don't like

471
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 1: the word integrity. I don't mind the commitment. I don't

472
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 1: mind the word integrity. I understand. I try to operate

473
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 1: with integrity, but I just don't feel like they don't

474
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:41,199
Speaker 1: have integrity because they participate on these shows. If you

475
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,120
Speaker 1: have to, as a woman, you gotta get up and

476
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: fistfight another woman to get onto a show. Well, they

477
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: didn't have to fist fight to get on the show.

478
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 1: They were fighting on the girl. They were fistfighting at

479
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:57,679
Speaker 1: the goddamn interviews for the show. Really, yes, Tommy, Tommy

480
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 1: was one of the judges, Like you know, when they're

481
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 1: doing like the interviews to see who they're gonna bring on.

482
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:05,200
Speaker 1: She was fighting bitches like it's like ding ding ding.

483
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:09,399
Speaker 1: No man, a lot of these women got children, Like

484
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 1: this is what y'all want? Like the Internet is fucking ink.

485
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 1: It's not a pencil. You can't delete none of this ship. Yeah,

486
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: I know I'm not. I think I'll never be a

487
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: state senator because of that blue booty video that girl. Whatever?

488
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: What was the girl? I forgot what state she's from.

489
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,120
Speaker 1: But remember there was a politician working on the beach.

490
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:34,479
Speaker 1: A hand may not be over for me. All right,

491
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 1: what do I want to get rid of? Grand Rising?

492
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 1: Don't text me grand Ride? You love that? What is

493
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 1: saying Grand Rising? I say, rich White Rising girl, grand

494
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 1: Ridge Rising? What is that? It's some hoteps ship. So

495
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:52,959
Speaker 1: Grand Rising is more like, you know, wake up and

496
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: conquer today, or like rising shine. Some may say that

497
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: same good morning is like a curse. It's in the Bible.

498
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: Why because they said it says something like, um, if

499
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: you say good morning or you yell good morning to

500
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: your neighbor, they may take offense to it because they

501
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: may feel like it's a curse. I don't know, I

502
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: don't know. It says that in the Bible. Believe aboty

503
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,719
Speaker 1: good morning, and they feel like it's a curse. A

504
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: lot of people don't even like mornings. You know what

505
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's mean it's morning, like they say, you

506
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 1: gotta be happy your motherfucking days woke up today, Grant

507
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 1: actually Grand Rising? Um. It's also more more associated with

508
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: the penis, like waking up with a woody in the morning,

509
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 1: swear to God up not y'all when I say some ship,

510
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: just go look at that before you Yes, So why

511
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: they send it to me? I ain't got noding. So

512
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: you remember when we had a dick doc on TikTok

513
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: on a matter of fact, No, we had a urologist

514
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: on um doctor Millhouse, and she said one of the

515
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: earlier early songs lines of e d is like a

516
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: man waking up without the morning. Would you know if

517
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 1: it's happening you know too many times, you might have

518
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:11,960
Speaker 1: a long time. They did be hard every morning when

519
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: they were it's supposed to be like that's normal. So

520
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: if you're waking up in the morning with a lot

521
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: of softies like, that's like one of the easiest early

522
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: signs for erectile dysfunction. So when somebody says grand rising, uh,

523
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: it's also associated with Yes, it's associated with the male foul.

524
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: Everybody ain't having a grand rising. But I still I

525
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 1: would leave the the term in the hard dicks can

526
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 1: go to two period. The first thing from here and

527
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 1: beyond humbling black women. Why it just feels like everybody

528
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 1: just wants us to be like just getting your place.

529
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to be humble anymore. I want to

530
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 1: act like I'm the ship, because you know I'm the ship,

531
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 1: and that's why you feel like I need to be humbled.

532
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: I'm here for that one. So I would like to

533
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 1: leave humbling black women and Papio ship period. Yeah, whatever

534
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:15,719
Speaker 1: it is, celebrate it, celebrate yourself in whatever it is.

535
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: I'm here for that one. Um. Okay, So people are

536
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:25,479
Speaker 1: gonna be mad at me poorly done bbls. If you're

537
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 1: gonna get a BBL, go to someone good, save the

538
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 1: money and get a good one. I'm not saying don't

539
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: do your BBL because if you want to do something

540
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: to your body, by all means, I'm here for it.

541
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: But don't pay two thousand dollars and go into some

542
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 1: foreign country and only paying two thousand dollars. I don't

543
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 1: know how much it, but you know, paying a small

544
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 1: amount and then you come back looking like a fucking

545
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 1: ant and then doctors here don't want to touch it.

546
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: The same thing with the teeth, Yeah, bitch, that's on

547
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: my list. Teeth it ain't on my list, but I'm

548
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 1: putting on my list, Like, why not take care of

549
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 1: your natural teeth? No, some people need their mother. But

550
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 1: I've got to get the right side. You can't be

551
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: getting the extra bug right. And they go out the

552
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: country to get the veneers and they can't get anybody

553
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 1: to fix them here if they you know, back them

554
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 1: or whatever. So yeah, with the bb that cheap version

555
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 1: stopped doing that. This is your body, and yeah, buds

556
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 1: that matched your body like how somebody some buds ain't

557
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: meant to be Like somebody's ain't meant to him like

558
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: a big super fatty, you know, because your thighs be

559
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: so small. You know, it just looks unproportional. It looks bad.

560
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 1: Maybe they should go to women doctors because maybe a

561
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: woman can understand like how the body is supposed to

562
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 1: look naturally, as opposed to going to a man and

563
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 1: you just throw a dunk on everybody. I seem like

564
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: there's always a man man doing the work. I feel

565
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: like a lot of them doctors need to go to jail,

566
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 1: locked up. Why do you tell them no? Right, just

567
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 1: like money, you can't tell everybody. Yeah, every that ass

568
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: does not belong. If the ass was for that person's body,

569
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: they would have been born with it. A lot of

570
00:32:55,640 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 1: people walk around here looking like SpongeBob SquarePants. Okay, they'll

571
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: be trying to be too damn nice. That's what it is,

572
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: because you can get like a nice little frame on you.

573
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: It's called like a skinny bbla bl Yeah, that's would

574
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: look nice. And I just wanted to look like, you know,

575
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: yeah is it hers? Is not? It looked good? You know? Yeah? Yeah.

576
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: I think some people just throw that ass and it's

577
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 1: just sitting in between the leg and the back and

578
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 1: it just looks crazy. All right, Uh, this is for

579
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: my maybe for me a little bit high fruit toast

580
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 1: corn served, you know what. I want to leave that

581
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: ship two for all black people because we literally died

582
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: in sweets in these streets. Okay, facts more people dying

583
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: from sugar than any fucking or killing each other. Sugar

584
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 1: sugar killing more people. You're right about that. I want

585
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: to leave that because now the one thing I would say,

586
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 1: one take away from the bomb administration is that he

587
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 1: made it to where they had to put certain things

588
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: on food labels, one being um, you know, make ingredients

589
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: in there, and then like the bioengineered have you have

590
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 1: you been seen that on your packages? They're just a

591
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 1: lot of ship I stopped eating like I don't buy

592
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:19,760
Speaker 1: no Callogg's, uh serial because all of us says bioengineered

593
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: ingredients on it. You know what I really do, now

594
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 1: that I think about it, it's not very much food

595
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 1: that I eat that doesn't come already prepared from restaurants.

596
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:34,320
Speaker 1: Shame a restaurant or from the grocery store a restaurant.

597
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 1: I don't really it's so bad, like I need stock

598
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:43,919
Speaker 1: in door dash bitch, because that's another thing I'm leaving. Yeah,

599
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start actually cooking again. I used to cook

600
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:51,919
Speaker 1: so much when I was with any, but then it's

601
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 1: like after I got single, I just stopped. You know, No,

602
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 1: I rather cook because I know what happened to it.

603
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: Like you don't know what the people be doing in

604
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 1: these restaurants, even they know that's what you gotta pray

605
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: over your food. What the hell prayer gonna do? I mean,

606
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 1: you don't know what happened to that food before I

607
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 1: got in the package. I don't eat well. I mean,

608
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: aside from like seafood, I don't eat like meats and stuff.

609
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 1: I don't even like like package things. I don't like

610
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 1: like juice packets. But I mean I can't see the bread.

611
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,240
Speaker 1: You don't know what happened to them grains before somebody

612
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 1: could before you just got prayers and so that's okay,

613
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 1: h what next one for me? Thinking the zodiac is absolute, absolute, period,

614
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 1: I'm a cancer, but it's not. Yes, it's not absolute,

615
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:51,479
Speaker 1: it's not absolutely. Nobody is because we have the same side.

616
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 1: We're exactly alike, not exactly like. But you also have

617
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:58,879
Speaker 1: to know the person's rising and moon signed to get

618
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 1: a pretty good calculate birth date, to get a pretty

619
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: good calculation of what type of person you are. You

620
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 1: a fucking cancer, bitch. I'm a cancer, but I know

621
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 1: I'm not an absolute cancer. And I know the next

622
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 1: kidcer is not absolutely I don't know. That's what I'm saying.

623
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: They're not nobody's. You can't line us all up that

624
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 1: are born in the same month and be like, these

625
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 1: people are exactly the same. I know for a fact.

626
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: It's fuck you, Aquarious and it's period. Okay, Now you

627
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 1: might you might be blocking your blessing. It might be

628
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: an Aquarius that's gonna love the funk out of ut

629
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 1: his his zodiac and he's like, yes, that's really had

630
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: to produise the ship to me, girl, because I have

631
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:49,720
Speaker 1: been terrorized by goddamn Aquarius. Okay, that was one person, Okay,

632
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: and I feel like that's that's what they are. Ye period,

633
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 1: Let's leave that in. Let's leave that because everybody's different.

634
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:02,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I feel like knowing

635
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:07,879
Speaker 1: someone Zodiac it's a okay, you can't hold them to that,

636
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: but it gives you a nice little starting point, it does. Okay,

637
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: that's fair. But I just said absolutely. I didn't say, like,

638
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,800
Speaker 1: you know, like nothing is true because I know I'm

639
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 1: a cry baby, I'm sensitive and I'm loving all those

640
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: things that are cancer. I do align with that, but

641
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: I'm not absolutely because I also can be a bitch

642
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: and I can be like not so loving time at times,

643
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 1: but that's cancer. Okay. Uh, let me see. Can we

644
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 1: leave these petty asks conversations and who pays for what?

645
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:56,919
Speaker 1: Can we can we leave that? Is that a possibility?

646
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: I mean every podcast clip you pretty much see online

647
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: when it's like men and women, that's what they're talking

648
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 1: about Black men and women. That's like the topic of discussion.

649
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out why whatever works for you

650
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: and your relationship. That's how I feel like whatever works

651
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: for y'all is dynamic of what the world says how

652
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 1: it should be, right. I just don't know why people

653
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 1: like I guess I don't know. Men just feel like

654
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: they've been kicking out when the average didn't feel abused

655
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 1: by women. I feel like men are feeling like bitter

656
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 1: about relationships with women these days, and they feel like

657
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 1: they're doing more than they should, which is crazy because

658
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 1: I feel like men should feel like they want to

659
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 1: be provided, but I don't feel like they feel that

660
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 1: way anymore. I might be wrong. I think um ego,

661
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: a healthy ego for a man would probably be one

662
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 1: that's fed, he had taken care of the people he loves.

663
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 1: That's how he feels like a man, right. But there's

664
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 1: a lot of men again, they may feel some type

665
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 1: of way. Maybe they had been taken advantage of by

666
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: bad women in the past, and now it's like, funk

667
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 1: all your wholes. And we know a lot of these

668
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 1: stories come from high school. Ain't even nothing valid that

669
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:14,879
Speaker 1: happened to them. Y'all are running through women, y'all whole

670
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: fucking life, you know what I'm saying. But yeah, I

671
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 1: feel like I feel like men like, why why don't you.

672
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:22,920
Speaker 1: Why would you not want to take care of the

673
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 1: woman you say you love? Why would you not want

674
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 1: to aspire to one day completely take care of your family.

675
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,800
Speaker 1: Nobody's asking you to have all the ship together today,

676
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 1: but that should be your goal. You're in goal, I

677
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 1: would think, right, I would, I would agree there. But

678
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: what if you're with a woman who makes considerably more

679
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: than you, because I mean, we do scream the quality

680
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 1: a lot. We we make oftentimes more money than in

681
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:50,439
Speaker 1: some instances. Should it be a situation where he's taking

682
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 1: care of everything even though you make more money. I

683
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: don't think. Um, in order for a man to provide provisions,

684
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 1: he has to make all the money, but you have

685
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,920
Speaker 1: to contribute. I feel like these niggas want to be

686
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 1: bad bitches. Sorry if you feel some type of way

687
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: about me saying that, but they want to be taken

688
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 1: care of. They want to be taken care of. And

689
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 1: at what point, Like most little boys they grow up,

690
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 1: most little black boys, because men and women, a lot

691
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 1: of us grow up in single parent homes. It is

692
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: usually just Mama there, right, So a lot of little

693
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 1: boys they grow up like can't wait to get to

694
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 1: the bags so they can take care of their mama

695
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 1: because they never saw daddy do it. So now you

696
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: have a woman, you have children, you have these women,

697
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: you've created baby mama's out of Do you want your

698
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: son now to get old enough to take care of her? Like?

699
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? You will take care of

700
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 1: your mom, but you won't take care of me. That's

701
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:54,359
Speaker 1: a problem. It is. So I don't know. I wish

702
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 1: we could leave those conversations. Is some fucking poor shit.

703
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:02,359
Speaker 1: Just cut it out, alright, you know, then say that.

704
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 1: I think it's more so about just reflecting and then

705
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 1: trying to do better, not putting women down for just

706
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 1: having to do because y'all talk to you about us

707
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 1: in the projects and now you talk to it about

708
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 1: us in the boardroom. Which one you want? Fun your degree?

709
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:20,759
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want other ethnicities like Africans like

710
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:23,320
Speaker 1: they give a funk about your degree. Their mom and

711
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,720
Speaker 1: the daddy, your husband, they give a funk about that degree.

712
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 1: But in America and men don't. That's weird. I don't know.

713
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: We need a man. I don't want to talk about

714
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:35,439
Speaker 1: that alright. So one thing I definitely want to leave

715
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 1: in two, But I don't know if we can leave

716
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 1: it fitting all overdose m sitting all overdoses rampant in

717
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: our communion. It's taking so many good people out last

718
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 1: year and I just excuse me, last last month, not

719
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: last year, last month, like I keep narcan with me

720
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 1: just because And I don't even like participate any drugs

721
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 1: that would need it. I ain't really. Yeah, but they

722
00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:08,240
Speaker 1: sprinkling the ship on the weed, That's what I'm hearing.

723
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:11,399
Speaker 1: But why would they put it on the weed? Where

724
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 1: is the weed coming from? Let's think, let's talk about that.

725
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 1: Where is the weed coming from a lot of the times,

726
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 1: where does it come from? Before Cali? I don't know,

727
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 1: Mexico a lot of times, Mexico, Yes, a lot of

728
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: coming a lot of a lot of drugs coming through

729
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 1: Mexico through you know, coming from Yeah, okay, and if

730
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: we know that, and calling me a conspiracy theorist, whatever

731
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: it is, Okay. They want to control the population, what

732
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 1: better way, and to take the recreational thing in mind,

733
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 1: you this didn't start happening until they started legalizing weed

734
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: every place. Now, so you you don't know if they're

735
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:49,439
Speaker 1: picking it up in the in the cocaine of people

736
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 1: stiff in cold or it definitely is now on a marijuana.

737
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 1: So if you don't know where your supply is coming

738
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: from exactly, like if we have where you come from,

739
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: but how you don't know where they get it from.

740
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:09,879
Speaker 1: I do, I hear that grower. I know exactly where

741
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 1: it's something from. But um, I haven't seen anybody die

742
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 1: from that. But in that case, I do have narcin

743
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 1: in my purse just in case. But I just feel like,

744
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, these parties and people are like,

745
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 1: you know, doing whatever they're doing, and I just want

746
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 1: to be able to help an event that that happened.

747
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,320
Speaker 1: You know, did you see it was a post online?

748
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 1: But it was a police officer. She actually just touched Yeah,

749
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 1: I don't even gotta use it. You could just touch

750
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 1: it somewhere and really die. I don't understand crazy. I

751
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: don't understand, like, why would y'all create something like that.

752
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 1: That's how you know NIGGAS is not handling fit now.

753
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 1: NIGGAS is not out here messing with ship that you're

754
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 1: just touching. You can die. That's not our thing. So

755
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 1: who's putting it out here like that? I watched that?

756
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:03,320
Speaker 1: You think remember the series? Uh oz art m h

757
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:06,319
Speaker 1: M it ain't us, that's not our thing, that's not

758
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: our dermo. I don't know what y'all. You gotta be

759
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 1: a motherfucker chemist, you know, to try to even mix

760
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 1: with that ship and it has met suit ship like

761
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 1: that matter Ni is just banging up and you know,

762
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 1: shoop it out there. I don't know. I don't know.

763
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:27,319
Speaker 1: Let's leave that in yep uh, that's my truth. I

764
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 1: want to leave my truth. You wanna lie? N I

765
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:33,839
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of times people be lying when

766
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 1: they'd be like, that's my that's my truth. Like just

767
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,760
Speaker 1: because that's your truth, that doesn't mean it's the truth.

768
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 1: Do you see what I'm saying, So that's that's my truth?

769
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 1: I hate that. But what would person tell outside of

770
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: their truth? A lie? Bitch? No, I'm just saying, yeah, okay,

771
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 1: a lie. There's the truth and there's a lie. You know,

772
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:57,719
Speaker 1: so what is the truth? What you believe? Only know?

773
00:44:57,880 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 1: The truth is what actually happened. Have you ever had

774
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 1: conversation with somebody and they're saying this is what happened,

775
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:08,280
Speaker 1: but you know that's not what happened because that okay,

776
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: So then just because that's your perspective, that still doesn't

777
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 1: make it the truth? Do you see what I'm saying?

778
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 1: There's such things absolute truth, which is what actually transpired,

779
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 1: and truth has evidence. So now if you can just

780
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 1: say some ship with no evidence, is that the truth?

781
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 1: It's it's a slippery thought when it comes to things

782
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 1: like that, because I can see, I can see something,

783
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 1: we can see the same thing happen and our story

784
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 1: be different and it's still be true because of our perspective.

785
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 1: Do you see what I'm saying? That's scary to me.

786
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:42,759
Speaker 1: It is scary because how did where did that come from?

787
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 1: Though that that's my truth? Where is that? Where did

788
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 1: that come from? I feel like it's like a new

789
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: generation thing, no bitch, because when I was living in Europe,

790
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 1: I watched the news. I watched the news on a

791
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 1: f N, which was a military network that, uh you know,

792
00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 1: this way the news from Americans active. And then I

793
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: would watch the British news and it would tell the

794
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 1: same story, but it would be totally fucking different, and

795
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: it was about perspective. So which did you believe which

796
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 1: made more sense to you than which gave more proof

797
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 1: and more evidence? Because that's what you get what. Okay,

798
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 1: I know America be fucking lying with my home team.

799
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:31,319
Speaker 1: I had that. Okay, that's my shoe. Yeah, we can

800
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 1: leave that ship in tween two. Um So the last

801
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 1: thing that I want to leave in two is if

802
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: you've seen somebody a fucking text message and you say

803
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 1: I love you and then they say love you back

804
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 1: without the eye on the front, that's the problem for me.

805
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:50,759
Speaker 1: Let's leave that. If you don't put that eye on

806
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:53,319
Speaker 1: the front, you don't vote with me for real. That's

807
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 1: how I feel what y'all think. If I texting Nick

808
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: I love you, and he'd be like, love you too,

809
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 1: lu vel Ven, here's me. That's a problem now, luv

810
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:05,800
Speaker 1: he trying to play with you, and I feel like

811
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: men definitely know the difference when it's intentional. It's intentional.

812
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: It's intentional. If you don't that, that might be the truth. Yeah,

813
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 1: I love you, No, just love you, know I because

814
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: because everybody loves you, I want to talk about me.

815
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 1: You don't know I on the front. That's the problem.

816
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, don't send me that. If I said if

817
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 1: I text you I love you and you text me

818
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 1: back love you, period, you don't love me, right, That's

819
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:37,839
Speaker 1: how I feel about it. Okay, we're on the same

820
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 1: page with that. Yeah, tripping, alright, that's not crazy, right,

821
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 1: it's probably man problems, Like what the fun I love you?

822
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 1: I love you. I would say your daughter or your

823
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:51,440
Speaker 1: child or somebody you actually love you would say I

824
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 1: love you. To make sure they don't know it's real, now, y'all,

825
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:59,280
Speaker 1: nick is know what y'all? Bell Uh, let me see winter?

826
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 1: How you wait? You said July had one more. I

827
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: feel like I got a couple more winter, but just

828
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 1: call this funk outside. And it hasn't been this cold

829
00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:14,319
Speaker 1: since Hurricane you go, we need winter though? For what Mosquitoes?

830
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,799
Speaker 1: I think the natural like if it's summer all the time,

831
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:22,359
Speaker 1: the islands do pretty good. Oh yeah, yes, they had

832
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:25,440
Speaker 1: a lot of the I like winter. I definitely like.

833
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 1: I feel like my soul belongs and Barbados. I want

834
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 1: a fucking beach house with a little black ass, little

835
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:39,280
Speaker 1: boy with blonde here. That's my goal. And then you yes, okay,

836
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,400
Speaker 1: you no. You know like a lot of people who

837
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 1: you know, grow up by the ocean, a lot of diving,

838
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:53,919
Speaker 1: like the water changes the color they hear. So, yeah,

839
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 1: that's what I want. What's okay, That's what I want?

840
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: That's I want to get rid of winter, man, because

841
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:04,839
Speaker 1: I'm just not. I saw a post that said, uh,

842
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 1: if you had like yeah, but um, I like wintertime.

843
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 1: I like having all the season. I just feel like

844
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: they're important. Is all the changes that we go through

845
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 1: are similar to the season of the year. Well, you know,

846
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 1: winter is definitely a bad bitch sport because these bitches

847
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:26,799
Speaker 1: who used to be nicker don't know what the fund

848
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 1: to put it on in the winter time, they still

849
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 1: be naked. Here's the thing. I remember being in college

850
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: and we're like back in the day and having on

851
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 1: this net he any hose with some pump freezing with

852
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:46,319
Speaker 1: some shorts like it's stupid, and going in the club

853
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:48,879
Speaker 1: yeah it's outside. No, you can't tell me. I want

854
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: to find his fook like but I was. But I

855
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 1: don't know how I did that. I could never do

856
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: that now. I could never get away with that now. Yeah,

857
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 1: because we gotta pay for all healthcare now. But I

858
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 1: just didn't even I used to be standing Ama Terris

859
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 1: who ever got to pay for that day of Doctorville.

860
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 1: Now you can't afford to get sick anymore. Yeah, not

861
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 1: even that. I just would never. My comfort is a different.

862
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: Is that a different? I laugh at young girls when

863
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:19,840
Speaker 1: I see him walk around where he was on, like

864
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 1: in the mall and ship. Bitch, I know you're uncomfortable.

865
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 1: Just where's your sneakers? I used to be that girl

866
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 1: all me too, bitch. You used to walk around campus

867
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,319
Speaker 1: where he was on, Like are you going at? Where

868
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 1: are you going? Looking stupid? All young girls, now save

869
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 1: your feet, trust me. I feel like my art's about

870
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 1: to break right now, bitch because of what I did

871
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:40,560
Speaker 1: when I was y'all age, don't do it. They can't

872
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 1: help it. Yeah, it's just I guess it's a write

873
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 1: of passage. This is my last thing. And this is

874
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 1: like for like the podcast and the clips and stuff

875
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 1: I see on social media. Um, can we leave men

876
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: talking about generational wealth in two when they don't see

877
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 1: the value and having a wife or a family, like

878
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:03,879
Speaker 1: how are you gonna have generational wealth without generation coming

879
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:06,800
Speaker 1: back to you? Like why are you trying to do

880
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 1: that by yourself? You know you have to have like

881
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:10,960
Speaker 1: why do you not? And we still got to do

882
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 1: that episode where we have a married man on so

883
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 1: they can try and help some of some of our

884
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 1: male listeners like what's the benefits of having a wife

885
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:23,960
Speaker 1: like women literally keeping alive the right wife. Okay, make

886
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 1: sure you as go to the doctor. You'll be out

887
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 1: here sick, running around with all types of diseases for

888
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,319
Speaker 1: you to have a stroke don't even know it. Women

889
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 1: are supposed to be responsible for the nutrition of the

890
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 1: family as far as I'm concerned, Yes, you can outsource

891
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 1: those things, but I would like to feed my family. Um.

892
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, you can't have generational wealth and a black

893
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 1: community if the majority of our people don't see the

894
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 1: value in marriage. That's just where it comes from. You

895
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 1: cannot have generational welcome. You have yourself spread so thin

896
00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:58,439
Speaker 1: in between multiple households, like how somebody gonna be lacking?

897
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 1: You don't take care of somebody because wealth isn't just money.

898
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,399
Speaker 1: So when you try to talk about general rational will,

899
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:08,120
Speaker 1: you got to consider all the other what you're teaching

900
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,760
Speaker 1: your kids, like are you there to even teach them anything?

901
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 1: So I don't know, Um, did he just had a

902
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:16,920
Speaker 1: last shold? I mean, he definitely has the money. And

903
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:19,359
Speaker 1: we can look at some just looking at celebrities, right,

904
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: which is not the average man. Um? Nick Cannon his

905
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 1: last well, I think he has another baby when we

906
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 1: folth but the eleventh child. Um, she took to the

907
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 1: internet last week and was I forgot her name. It's

908
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:40,720
Speaker 1: so many of them, Um, the black one, she was saying,

909
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:42,759
Speaker 1: you know how she you know, she's rid of a

910
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:46,879
Speaker 1: toxic relationship. You literally signed up for that, Like how

911
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 1: how did you think this thing is supposed to go?

912
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 1: And then why is the black one who won't come

913
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:56,399
Speaker 1: to help? Spilled beans? Now everybody else speping, all that's

914
00:52:56,400 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 1: a bullshit. She started troubling for that man. Everybody think

915
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: he just right had taking care all these kids. Now

916
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: it's impossible financially maybe yes, But you know what do

917
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 1: these women do? These women all came from nowhere? Who

918
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 1: are these people? What you mean coming from? Like? Who

919
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 1: are they? Like? I don't like how did he find them?

920
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 1: Like you select them off Instagram? Instagram? Like where all

921
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:21,360
Speaker 1: the rest of the biggest it was the decks not

922
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 1: calling his baby mama's hose. But you just did my baby, y'all.

923
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,839
Speaker 1: But yeah, like, where did you pick up all these

924
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 1: different women to sign up to have the twelve Lost

925
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 1: tribes of Judah Abraham? Like were I guess I mean

926
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 1: to Eastern own When it comes to that if you

927
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 1: you don't want to have a baby with this man,

928
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 1: all means do you. You know it's kind of like

929
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: a poligamy thing going on because they're all like okay

930
00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: with the last one. She ain't okay with it now,

931
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 1: she posting her bestie that she met at an art

932
00:53:56,800 --> 00:54:00,320
Speaker 1: gallery at some point. But I don't know. Then you

933
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:05,439
Speaker 1: cannot have generational wealth without an actual family start there. Yeah,

934
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:09,359
Speaker 1: I agree. So that wraps up our list of things

935
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 1: we want to leave in anything else you wanna add,

936
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 1: I want to leave all the niggas that played over me.

937
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: You can't come back these years, and that's it, all right, y'all.

938
00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 1: So we're gonna take a quick break, and when we

939
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:29,799
Speaker 1: come back, we're gonna get into a dumb bitch story

940
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 1: from one of our listeners. Dumb bitch stories because we've

941
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:40,319
Speaker 1: all been a dumb bitch at least once or twice. So, y'all,

942
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 1: This dumb bitch story is from one of our Instagram

943
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:47,839
Speaker 1: followers that wants to remain anonymous, but her story goes as, Hey, y'all,

944
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 1: my favorites, I'm coming in for some advice this time around.

945
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,880
Speaker 1: I'm just I don't just jump right in hav an

946
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 1: older sister. She's thirty two, I'm twenty five. Share the

947
00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:59,680
Speaker 1: same mom, but my father raised all of us. I'm

948
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 1: the who has always done everything for all of my siblings.

949
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 1: I'm number three or four. They come to me for

950
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:08,239
Speaker 1: assistance before they even go to our parents. My sister

951
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:11,399
Speaker 1: had an ex who was stalking her, damaging her car

952
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:14,439
Speaker 1: in her home. Me being the person I am, she'd

953
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:16,759
Speaker 1: always called me to protect her and her kids when

954
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,399
Speaker 1: he'd come around. I had a few trips with my man,

955
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 1: which happens to be the stalker's brother. Yeam lined up

956
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 1: so we wouldn't be in town. So I gave her

957
00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:30,240
Speaker 1: a gun to protect herself if he did come around

958
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 1: while I was gone. Why And it's a lot of

959
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 1: why wise on the end, Why did she allow my

960
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: gun to get stolen and didn't tell me about it

961
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:42,399
Speaker 1: until I asked her for my gun back a whole

962
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: two months later. I'm upset because one, I don't trust

963
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 1: that it just went missing. I can see her selling

964
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:51,320
Speaker 1: it or allowing him or her kids father to borrow it,

965
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:54,279
Speaker 1: And she waited so long to tell me, putting me

966
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 1: in jeopardy, and I feel like she's lying about where

967
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:59,840
Speaker 1: the gun went. I haven't spoken to her in three months,

968
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:02,239
Speaker 1: but I love my sister. I just don't know how

969
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: to tell her that I'm upset, and I don't even

970
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: know if I want to speak to her again. I

971
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 1: need your help. Your advice always helps me out. Sincerely,

972
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 1: a mad ass scorpio ready to show scorpios um. First,

973
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 1: don't ever give your weapons to anything unless you're selling

974
00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 1: it to them. Yeah, she never give your weapons. You should, like, uh,

975
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: take her to go get her own, like you know this. Uh.

976
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 1: She goes on to say that I asked her how

977
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 1: many guns did she have? And she has eleven. She

978
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:40,239
Speaker 1: wasn't missing it. That's why I was like, what took you?

979
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 1: You know, what took you so long to ask for

980
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 1: your gun back? And it's because she has so many.

981
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:49,839
Speaker 1: So she's a proud gun toting American. But but never

982
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 1: give anybody your weapon. You want to take people, If

983
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:54,399
Speaker 1: you want to help people be armed and protected, take

984
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 1: them to get their own weapon, you know, so they

985
00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:58,839
Speaker 1: can learn how to Probably they can't buy a gun,

986
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:03,040
Speaker 1: and probably the boyfriend can't get one, even he's taking

987
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 1: somebody's pistol. I hope she reported it stolen. Yeah, that's

988
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: what's gonna be my next advice. To report it stolen,

989
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 1: you know, because you don't want to have no bodies on,

990
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: no guns that you're exactly um this is. You know,

991
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 1: I always recommend people, you know, pass things up with

992
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 1: their sisters, you know, their family. You know, the family

993
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:25,960
Speaker 1: is all you got, you know, at the end of

994
00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 1: the day, you want to pass things over your I'm

995
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:34,320
Speaker 1: a very you know, forgiven person. You know, I always

996
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 1: want like just because i know I'm flawed and i

997
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 1: know I make mistakes and I'm not gonna be the

998
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:41,040
Speaker 1: perfect I'm not going to be the perfect friend. You know.

999
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:43,640
Speaker 1: I'm i'ma s trying to be the perfect friend and

1000
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: sister and everything. But I'm going to fall short. I

1001
00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:48,880
Speaker 1: know that about myself. So I want people to grant

1002
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 1: me the same grace that I'm willing to give often times.

1003
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: So you know, find out why didn't she tell her

1004
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 1: that her gun is missing. It took for me to

1005
00:57:58,160 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 1: ask you about my pistol for you to tell me

1006
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 1: we got stolen. Yeah, that's that's shady, shady. I wouldn't

1007
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 1: I mean that to me. That's grounds for termination of

1008
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 1: your sister. That's her daddy jowl. That's her mama. They

1009
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 1: got the same mama at you, that's my daddy kid.

1010
00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:21,600
Speaker 1: They like, No, that's her. They came out the same.

1011
00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 1: Oh that's not enough to leave your sister alone. It's not.

1012
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:30,919
Speaker 1: I probably would never discard my sisters. I can't figure

1013
00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 1: nothing my sister could never do to me for me

1014
00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 1: that either, but nothing. I would definitely fight you. Yeah

1015
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 1: we might tho, but I'm still loving afterwards. You're gonna

1016
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 1: catch this face, especially depending on what your responses when

1017
00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:47,440
Speaker 1: I say what my pistol at? Now? Have you like

1018
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 1: some people when you like back them in the corner

1019
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 1: you asked asking them some ship, They don't want to face.

1020
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 1: They're getting nasty. So it just depends on your response

1021
00:58:56,880 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 1: how I'm going to respond. But I wouldn't discard my

1022
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 1: sister because of that. But I would definitely file for

1023
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 1: you know, file a police report and they're stolen gun

1024
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 1: and I don't know accounted as a fucking loss. She

1025
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:10,400
Speaker 1: might still have. You probably just don't want to give

1026
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:13,200
Speaker 1: it back. Maybe try her to get her own working

1027
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 1: for sure, though, if she got somebody trying to harm her,

1028
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 1: what I some therapy to lead us nigger alone. She's

1029
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 1: still working with the person, and she said she might

1030
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:22,600
Speaker 1: have give it to him. That's what I'm saying, Like,

1031
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:24,959
Speaker 1: I would not give somebody a gun who's not ready

1032
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 1: to leave this person. If this person is like really

1033
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 1: really stalking you, doing shipped to you, like you can't

1034
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 1: be fucking with them in the interim when they're being regular,

1035
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:34,440
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna give you a gun just in

1036
00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 1: case when he do get stupid. No, you need to

1037
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:39,920
Speaker 1: be leaving him completely alone and then I'll help. Other

1038
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 1: than that, I don't get involved in people domestic ship

1039
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 1: sister or not, because I've been in situations where you

1040
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 1: you know, you try to help somebody and you're fucked

1041
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 1: around and get hurt. Yes, So I don't play with

1042
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 1: people when it comes to things, especially with women and

1043
00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:58,760
Speaker 1: relationships with women. I'll give you advice a little bit,

1044
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:02,040
Speaker 1: but I'm not I'm not stepping in that way. Yeah,

1045
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:04,960
Speaker 1: I don't typically would step in in that way. I've

1046
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 1: had friends who have been in like some violent relationships

1047
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: and I told them, like, you know, you need to

1048
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Speaker 1: leave this relationship or I'm gonna have to stop being

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Speaker 1: friend because it was just got to a place where

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Speaker 1: it was just so bad and I can't stand by.

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Speaker 1: I can't I can't help you, but I can't stand

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Speaker 1: by and watching them are exactly So what are you

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Speaker 1: gonna I mean, when you start being a dumb bitch,

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Speaker 1: that's just where it is. Well, you know what matters

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Speaker 1: of the heart is hard when people when they're dealing with,

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Speaker 1: you know, being insecure and relationships and they don't know

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Speaker 1: how to handle their emotions and love make you do

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Speaker 1: stupid ship. I'd be a mess. But like, I hope

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Speaker 1: your sister is okay. I hope um that y'all in

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Speaker 1: your relationship. And she needed to get her own gun

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Speaker 1: gets who's gonna training if that's possible. She might have felonies.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how that works. She don't learn how

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Speaker 1: to use a weapon. I feel like felons can buy

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Speaker 1: guns at gun shows. No, I don't know nothing about how.

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Speaker 1: I feel like people get away but aint guns when

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Speaker 1: they have felonies when they go to those gun shows.

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Speaker 1: Because you ain't gonna tell me, like white people don't

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Speaker 1: be having felonies too, And it seems like they always

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Speaker 1: seem to get their hands on guns. I feel like

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Speaker 1: everybody'll be getting their hands legally maybe having Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: have to google that, bitch because I don't know how

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Speaker 1: that works. Maybe I'm lying, Yeah, I don't know. All right,

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Speaker 1: y'all listen. We hope you guys have a very great

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Speaker 1: Leave all the fucking bullshit heartache some of these niggas

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Speaker 1: some family member excuse me. Yeah two, I'm skipping, bitch.

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Speaker 1: I live in the future. Okay, leave it behind, man,

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Speaker 1: go in with a clean slate. Um. Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 1: I'm doing. I'm gonna try my best. You know, every year.

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Speaker 1: That's how you can do. There's things that I wore

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Speaker 1: resolutions for two that I'm carrying over into this year.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm working progress. Progress. God, ain't n they

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Speaker 1: didn't fucking begins. Get somebody else to do it. All right,

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Speaker 1: y'all listen. If you enjoyed this episode, please tune in

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Speaker 1: every Thursday on the I Heart Radio app or wherever

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Speaker 1: the funk you get your podcasts at. Uh. This is

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Speaker 1: your co host aj Holiday. Y'all follow me on Instagram. Also,

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Speaker 1: we got we talked back uh e n T dot com.

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Speaker 1: Y'all hit us up. We got consultations. All this good

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Speaker 1: ship and listen, one thing we are not leaving in

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Speaker 1: two is sucking. Merchandise is coming. We promised. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: have some merge coming out, y'all. Um, send us, you're

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Speaker 1: dumbing stories. Send us. You're asked a black friend. We

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Speaker 1: want to do we keep white people. Don't fight with

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Speaker 1: us that one white Vicky, Vicky, stop Vicky. If you

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Speaker 1: muys have asked the black room questions, I'm saying you guys.

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Speaker 1: Um y'all, it's tam bam. I love y'all real, thank

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Speaker 1: you all for tuning. We did our first video. That's

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Speaker 1: hard like I love y'all man, I love I love y'all.

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Speaker 1: I love you, I love you d episode man. I'm

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Speaker 1: so proud of us, and thank you all for tuning in.

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Speaker 1: We'll see y'all next time. And remember to speak now

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Speaker 1: and never hold your mother pizza