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Speaker 1: There's so much to talk about. Scrubbing in with Becca

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Speaker 1: Tilly and I heart radio podcast. Hello everybody, Hi Tanya,

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Speaker 1: Hi Becca? Are you ready to scrub in? I am

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Speaker 1: always ready to scrub in. You're ready to scrubbing because

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Speaker 1: you went to sleep at seven thirty pm last night?

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Speaker 1: Totally went to bed at seven thirty pm. It was

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Speaker 1: the craziest thing ever. Why. I honestly have no idea.

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Speaker 1: so you just felt I was watching. I actually restarted

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Speaker 1: Gray's Anatomy from season one episode Okay, this is I was.

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Speaker 1: I was going to bring this because no, because I

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Speaker 1: Well like I just needed a happy feeling. And I

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Speaker 1: just know that that specific episode makes me so happy.

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Speaker 1: The first one ever, the first one ever, the pilot,

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Speaker 1: here's what I want to know. But it made me

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Speaker 1: fall asleep and then I was gone. At seven thirty.

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Speaker 1: I looked at my phone. I had like thirty text messages.

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Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, wouldn't it be so sad if

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Speaker 1: that's happened to me because I probably standard for me.

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Speaker 1: Um no, how many times have you restarted Great? And

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Speaker 1: how many times have you restarted Grace? And then how

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Speaker 1: far do you get before you restart? Because respect this

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Speaker 1: happens a lot. Though. I enjoy the beginning season so

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Speaker 1: much that I just like, I get to season six

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Speaker 1: and then I kind of go back. I've done Walking

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Speaker 1: Dead three times. Yeah, but you did it with um

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Speaker 1: so that was I was in like five No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I usually get about there and then I go back. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so you don't go to season five. You go pretty

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Speaker 1: far and I guess so together start Younger again too.

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Speaker 1: I never finished. I never like could really invest myself

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Speaker 1: my life. What can I But I think we should

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Speaker 1: all start Sex in the City again over the holidays.

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Speaker 1: I think we should all go back to Sex in

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Speaker 1: the City episode one and really take it in. Take

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Speaker 1: it in, because that is life lessons coming at us.

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Speaker 1: It is different because when I first watched Sex in City.

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Speaker 1: watching it back, I'm like, wait, I'm actually like literally

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Speaker 1: butterfly hairclips. It's actually very nostalgic. Oh I love that. Yeah. Um,

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Speaker 1: I really only like the seasons or Pasty and Joey

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Speaker 1: never a huge Dawson fan. It should have been Pasty's

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Speaker 1: Creek in my opinion, doesn't have the same ring to

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Speaker 1: it though. Um, are there any updates in the I

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Speaker 1: just love something. Oh my god, a show that y'all

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Speaker 1: must watch. What the Fair? It's pacy? Oh and it is?

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Speaker 1: Have you watched it more? Oh? What is showtime? But

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Speaker 1: who some kind of paying you go. It is adult.

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Speaker 1: her perspective, his perspective. It's super fascinating because essentially it's

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Speaker 1: relationships are so complicated. Interesting's like that, you know that

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Speaker 1: movie Something Borrowed, Something Blue, Something. It's like it was

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Speaker 1: with um Kate Hudson and something just something borrow Something. No. No,

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Speaker 1: any boy updates we have. So you texted Dr Slava

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Speaker 1: last week around this time, I was feeling really empowered, liberated, liberated, free,

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Speaker 1: And he responded, it's totally okay, sounds great, love to

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Speaker 1: no no plan, no date, Give me it again. I

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Speaker 1: need to know exactly. Can I see your phone? Like,

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Speaker 1: Guy's perspective, and he said, it sounds like he's seeing someone. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't think where do you get that? Which is

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Speaker 1: why he asked you for your Facebook. He didn't ask

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Speaker 1: Don't you think the text? I don't read it word

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Speaker 1: Doctors Lava, I got your number. I hope that's okay.

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Speaker 1: I hope you had a nice Thanksgiving. I'd love to

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Speaker 1: And he said, it's totally okay, and yes, I'd love

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Speaker 1: and I said, sounds great. Let me know how far

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Speaker 1: Non say where he lives. He doesn't live an hour away? No, No, like, well,

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Speaker 1: he keeps popping up in my circle circle universe, universe

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Speaker 1: it jingle Ball? I did have fund a jingle ball?

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Speaker 1: Did you have funishing? I did? It was like different

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Speaker 1: Knocking on Ed Shearing's door. No, I didn't do that.

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Speaker 1: have sang like delicate and some other things. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: There was um any time where I would say too much.

422
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: It's like you'd never hear back from the too many words.

423
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 1: They probably got halfway through and then bailed because someone

424
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 1: else is like, let's meet up, and they straightaway got

425
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 1: to what they wanted. So no one really wants to

426
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:40,679
Speaker 1: hear what you have to say or learn about you.

427
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 1: They're just trying to know when you're free, because I

428
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: think a lot of it is chemistry, like personal person chemistry.

429
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 1: So it's like you would have a really good chat

430
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:49,679
Speaker 1: with someone to meet them and kind of be like

431
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 1: so it's like, why just cut out all the like

432
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 1: middleness and just get to the point. I'm like picturing

433
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,960
Speaker 1: you're writing this like long paragraph about where you're from,

434
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 1: and then it all started back. When they're like, how's

435
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 1: your day going, You're like, well, I woke up at

436
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: five them. I'm not gonna lie that I don't understand

437
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 1: why I'm single. Um wait, though, I feel like you've

438
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 1: had some like very good looking male partners and your

439
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 1: career of dancing at the start, I have. I've had

440
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 1: some incredible men that I got to dance with, all

441
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 1: really wonderful, but I haven't. I didn't really get that

442
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 1: Robert and Kim, you know, forever after fairy Tale, that

443
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 1: that was so so special, but you know, who knows

444
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 1: it might happen one day. But I mean, I feel

445
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,439
Speaker 1: like when you're dancing with someone that and the girls

446
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 1: dancing is like sexy. It's not you know, like a

447
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 1: and which can also be sexy if you have the

448
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 1: right moves not want to do it, but I mean

449
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 1: it would be hard if I guess it's both. I'm

450
00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: assuming if one of you is in a relationship, or

451
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 1: you're both in a relationship, it's very easy to keep

452
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: it all work related. But if you're a single girl

453
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: and there's your dancing doing it, spending all this time

454
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 1: with someone who's you're attracted to, and clearly on the

455
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 1: show you have chemistry. It would be hard to just

456
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 1: especially if you're interested in dating someone I guess um.

457
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 1: To be honest, I haven't really had that moment where

458
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:20,920
Speaker 1: I looked and was like, oh, damn, I really want

459
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 1: to I really want to date you, and I really

460
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,439
Speaker 1: want to try this. You do get to know people

461
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: very quickly and very personally, and you share this incredible journey.

462
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 1: But in all my years of Dancing with the Stars,

463
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 1: what I've learned is it's a bubble. There is no

464
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:37,439
Speaker 1: other place in this world like that bubble that you

465
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 1: will be in Dancing with the Stars. And what you

466
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 1: feel within that bubble you may not necessary feel when

467
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 1: that bubble bursts at the end of the season. But

468
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 1: what you can have is a beautiful friendship and connection

469
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,439
Speaker 1: that you can keep, and if that lasts is something

470
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:54,960
Speaker 1: after the season, then discover it that I find for me.

471
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 1: I also don't I don't know if I'm good enough

472
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 1: to separate personal and professional, to be the boss of

473
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 1: that guy and to to coach him every day and

474
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 1: then to leave and go to dinner and be romantic

475
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 1: with him. And still not be pissed at him, you

476
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like I might just I don't

477
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 1: know if I'm going to be able to separate the two,

478
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 1: and so I just don't. And it doesn't mean I

479
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,360
Speaker 1: haven't been attracted to some of my partners. They've been gorgeous,

480
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: of course. Yea. So here's my question. How tight are

481
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 1: you with producers? And could you potentially be like, Hey,

482
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,879
Speaker 1: there's this guy that I really want a day, could

483
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 1: you make him my partner? Well, I mean he would

484
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 1: have to be like a valid celebrity, like no, no,

485
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: of course, of course. But if there was somebody like

486
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: I don't know who you would have a celebrity crush

487
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: or something. I feel like you have a name that

488
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 1: you want to say there no, no no, no, I'm saying

489
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 1: for if it was for me, if I was on

490
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 1: Dancing Stars, I'd be like, is there any way we

491
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 1: could get Tim Tebow as my partner? Do you know

492
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 1: what I'm saying? Do you have somebody like that that

493
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: you could potentially put the seed in the producer's ear? Totally? Yeah,

494
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 1: I mean I think we we always have conversations with

495
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: them about who we think would be really great for

496
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 1: them to get ah and sometimes they're able to get

497
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: them and sometimes not. And there have been moments in

498
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,399
Speaker 1: the past where if my partner has been single, they

499
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 1: give me that little like, hey, maybe he's the one,

500
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: because everybody loves a good love story, right But as

501
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: of right now that that hasn't happened, there hasn't been

502
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: the one. But I think I am really tight with

503
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: the producers. We are all a really big family, and

504
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: so they want to see me with someone too. It's

505
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 1: like everyone's sorry to marry, you're thirty two, you should

506
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: probably hurting out, so everyone's on board. But I do

507
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 1: think it's funny because I I honestly, in every aspect

508
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:40,919
Speaker 1: of my life or anything I do, I feel like

509
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,360
Speaker 1: there's always a question of like, are you dating anyone?

510
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: Are you trying? Are you putting yourself out there? And

511
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 1: in my head, I'm like, I'm actually really content in

512
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: my life right now, and I don't feel like it's

513
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 1: something that I'm longing for. Like I do feel like Tanya,

514
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 1: you like want it and you want it now, and

515
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 1: so you actively trying is a nests serry step and

516
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: make that right. Like I can't sit there and be like, yeah,

517
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: I really want someone, but I'm just going to sit

518
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 1: on my cow. That's what I do. But I don't

519
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,239
Speaker 1: really I'm not like, oh, I really want someone. I'm

520
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: just gonna like, I'm very content being single right now.

521
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 1: I don't feel the pressure. But I start getting in

522
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: my head like I do want kids and I do

523
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 1: want a family. So at what point do I have

524
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,120
Speaker 1: to start really thinking about it seriously? Yeah, I mean

525
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,440
Speaker 1: you do sort of hit that age where you wake

526
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 1: up and you go, oh, oh, that that thing where

527
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 1: they said time runs out, that's happening. My mom told

528
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 1: me to freeze. Oh, don't even get me started on that.

529
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: I have a girlfriend that's going through the process right now,

530
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 1: and I that's something that like, I am constantly thinking about.

531
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: But you know, they actually say that your eggs are

532
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 1: still very good. Um, like, you don't really have to

533
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 1: retrieve them or freeze them until about thirty seven. True,

534
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: but I also know but they say the younger the eggs,

535
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 1: the better. I think for me, for now, I would

536
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: like I would freeze in them. The sense that I'm

537
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 1: just buying myself time. I kind of want to hold

538
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 1: onto the fairy tale idea for a second, right, I

539
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: want to believe that the fairytale is going to happen,

540
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: so I would. Yeah, but I think essentially I will

541
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: do it. I think next time I go back to Australia,

542
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 1: i'll do it because it's part of our healthcare system,

543
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: so it's not I don't have to pay for it.

544
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: I just have to pay for storage every month, whereas

545
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: here it's like what insane. We do have an amazing

546
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 1: healthcare system. Yeah, I feel like all like y'all are

547
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: all hot and you all have like just a good

548
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 1: thing going over. Yeah, well that's incredible. I've never heard

549
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: that before. Yeah, it's amazing. Um, So I'm definitely, I'm

550
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 1: probably well, I'm probably going to do it. Who knows

551
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: when I go back. Wait, saying, your mom at thirty

552
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: told you like, okay, so I you know, I turned

553
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 1: thirty and then I broke up from my long term relationship,

554
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: which was five years, and up to that point, I've

555
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: been a serial monogamist, and I was like, Mom, I

556
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 1: need to be single for a second. I've forgotten who

557
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 1: I am without being with another person. She's like, okay, well, sweetheart,

558
00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: I think you should freeze rank. Oh gosh, that was

559
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 1: a slap that I didn't think I was gonna get Okay, thanks,

560
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: Happy birthday, hap egsit dying? Wait we have to go back.

561
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if you want to discuss

562
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 1: your five year relationship, but that's something I've never experienced.

563
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 1: Tanya was in a long relationship almost four Yeah. Yeah,

564
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: so that ending was just brutal. Yeah right, I'm sure

565
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 1: you can relate. And even it dragged out for a

566
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: long time too, because you're so even both of us

567
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: knew it wasn't where we were supposed to be anymore,

568
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: but you're so comfortable with it and even though it's

569
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 1: not good, it's what you're used to and you just

570
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 1: stick around for a year longer than you should. Yeah.

571
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: I do feel like it gets that. I mean I

572
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:48,959
Speaker 1: even I was in a like way shorter relationship. Can

573
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 1: you get that to that point where you're like, I'm

574
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 1: I'm fine, Like we're good, but is this the one? Like?

575
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 1: Am I wasting his time? Am I wasting my time? Like?

576
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 1: Do I stick it out just to see if something changes?

577
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: I can't imagine being with someone for that long and

578
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: then trying to find like an ending place. Yeah, I

579
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 1: feel like when you're dating when you're younger, you're just

580
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: dating more like you're like like kind of like that

581
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 1: free falling, you know what I mean. Like you're just

582
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: like dating to just date. And there comes a point

583
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 1: in an age where you're like dating be married to somebody,

584
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: you know, to be with the one. And so it's like,

585
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 1: at what point when you realize that they're not like,

586
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 1: do you end it? You know? Right? It's like you

587
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 1: start to do your pros and cons list and try

588
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: and weigh out of it staying or leaving and what

589
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 1: is it that I'm going for? And um, And because

590
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: your lives are so blended and you know each other's

591
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 1: family and you have so many positive things in your life,

592
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: but maybe you don't quite make each other as happy

593
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: as you used to. And you think, and we as

594
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 1: women do this all the time, Well I can. I'm

595
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: fine with that. Right. We're so tough and so resilient

596
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: that we end up just putting up with things that

597
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: we shouldn't have to because we sacrifice it for something

598
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: else instead of saying, no, you know what, I want

599
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 1: all the things and this is not making me happy,

600
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: so I'm to choose to leave. Um. And it took

601
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: me probably eighteen months to come around to actually making

602
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 1: that decision because I loved him, but we just weren't

603
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: the ones for each other, and so eventually there is

604
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 1: no right time to end it. There is no end point.

605
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 1: It's just when you turn around and you finally say,

606
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 1: this is not what I want anymore. A lot of

607
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: it because I know a lot of my friends that

608
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: are like in relationships that they don't necessarily know are

609
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: there forever relationships, but they end up like marrying them

610
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: because it's that time. And you know, I think there's

611
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 1: a lot of fear. There's a lot more fear of

612
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 1: being alone than fear of being with the wrong person.

613
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 1: That's so interesting because my biggest fear is being with

614
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: the wrong person, which is why you're single. Yeah, but

615
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: you're uncommon. I feel like you're not You're not like

616
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 1: the norm, do you know what I mean? I feel

617
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: like for more the majority of people I think are

618
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: more scared of the fear of being alone trumps the

619
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: fear of being with. Some of them drives you crazy,

620
00:32:55,680 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: I agree with that. So oh um oh, I don't

621
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 1: know why I bothered to hold up a sign if

622
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: it's just going to stop everything. Yeah, it wasn't awkward

623
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 1: at all. It's pretty Sameles transition. Yeah, that was a

624
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: great transition on my part. Yeah, ask her about the

625
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: tour and then we'll do a fat fit fund. Oh.

626
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: Mark held up a sign and just said tour fat

627
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 1: fit fine because it kicks off December, which is just

628
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: around just around the corner, just around the corner it

629
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 1: is because now we're in December. Gosh it really, by

630
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 1: the way, how are we in December two thousand and seventeen?

631
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: When did that happen? Like quickly? I don't know. I

632
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: got a giant tree though, so it officially feels like

633
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 1: Christmas in my apartment. That's exciting. It's I it's an

634
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: eleven foot tree in my eleven and a half foot apartment,

635
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 1: literally skimming the top. Um, do you enjoy the tours

636
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: more than you do the show? Like is there? They

637
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 1: are completely different experiences? Um, like choosing between children? Yeah,

638
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 1: kind of innocence, like how can you choose? But um uh,

639
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:12,399
Speaker 1: it is so different about them? Is the show? The

640
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: the entire show is not about me. It's about the

641
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:16,280
Speaker 1: person in front of me, and I design a journey

642
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: for them, the dances created for them. They're not the

643
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,879
Speaker 1: steps that I in my heart desires to do. It's

644
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 1: what looks great for them and what feels great to

645
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,439
Speaker 1: tell their story. Whereas when we go on this tour,

646
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: we get to create these pieces for us. I get

647
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 1: to dance my butt off every day the way that

648
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 1: I have trained to do my entire life, and it's

649
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 1: it's like a creative indulgence for me to be able

650
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,319
Speaker 1: to do the tour and to just dance for me,

651
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 1: because that's not something that we get to do all

652
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: the time. And essentially I'm dancing with other professional dances

653
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: every time too. So we get to do so much

654
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: cool stuff that we don't necessarily get to do on

655
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 1: the show unless it's like a minute thirty opening number.

656
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: This is we get to have meetings with our creative

657
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,439
Speaker 1: direct do and I've I've had a couple of meetings

658
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 1: this time and said, I want to do something like this.

659
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 1: I want to tell this story, I want to play

660
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 1: this character, I want to use this song. This is

661
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 1: my vision and we make it all happen. So I

662
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:14,320
Speaker 1: love the creative process. I love the designing the dance

663
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: as much as I love dancing the dance. And so

664
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,399
Speaker 1: this is where I get to explore that for me

665
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,359
Speaker 1: and and sort of dive into that part of my

666
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 1: talent and my craft. So I do love it, appared

667
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 1: with the fact that I love being able to go

668
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 1: across the country and meet some of our fans and

669
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: all of our meet and greets and and really see

670
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 1: how this show has affected them and changed their lives.

671
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: I could never have imagined that a dance show would

672
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:42,879
Speaker 1: inspire and affect people in such a positive, incredible way.

673
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 1: And yet I hear stories every day from these men

674
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 1: and women that have gone through something tragic and this

675
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:53,919
Speaker 1: has been something to inspire them to smile every week

676
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: and to escape from that and or to bring a

677
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 1: family together every Monday night. It has so many positive,

678
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 1: beautiful things to it, and it woarns my heart to

679
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 1: hear that, because stuck in the studio at CBS lot

680
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: in Los Angeles, you forget that. Yeah, And it's just

681
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:11,799
Speaker 1: a huge perspective change, and um, it makes me feel

682
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: like I'm doing a little bit of good in the

683
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: world with with what I have. Yeah, I mean, I

684
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 1: I went to a live show this year, and I've

685
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,799
Speaker 1: been before. I've been before when Nile DeMarco was on, Yes,

686
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:29,799
Speaker 1: I love Nile. He's amazing and I um, I went

687
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 1: this year and I forgot. It's just so fun. I

688
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 1: mean the energy in that student people are so excited.

689
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 1: And then watching it on TV, I watched The Most

690
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: Memorable Year, I was full blown sobbing, like not even

691
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 1: just like tears like Jordan Fisher's story. I was like, Okay,

692
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 1: I can't handle I'm tearing up to think about it.

693
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 1: But it is true, Like what y'all do you know?

694
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 1: Being from the Bachelor, I don't have a lot of

695
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 1: those moments where I feel I'm inspiring what you're dating, Like,

696
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 1: you know, you're not, like I'm not changing lives. But

697
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 1: and when people tell me they watch it as a family,

698
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, so, I mean, I can't really relate to

699
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 1: that part, but I do think it's really cool that,

700
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 1: like even from someone who has been to the show

701
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 1: and watch and like knows people on the show, it's

702
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 1: still is I watch it and I'm like, wow, this

703
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: is amazing that y'all are the ones who choreographed every dance,

704
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 1: especially especially especially especially for the person you're working with.

705
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 1: You're telling you basically telling a story through dance the

706
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: whole season. That's my favorite thing to do. When I've

707
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: been really lucky to have some partners with incredible stories.

708
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: Noah Galloway was one of them. Even James Hinchcliffe and

709
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: his story been a lot of people who that have

710
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: come through something very tragic and life changing and to

711
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: be able to tell that story. My favorite thing about

712
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 1: dance and art is when there is truth to it

713
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 1: and you see it comes from a person's soul, and

714
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 1: someone like Noah Galloway that had lost his left arm

715
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 1: and his left leg whilst away in Iraq and coming

716
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,359
Speaker 1: back and knowing what he went through to be able

717
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 1: to accept the man that he is and coming up

718
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 1: with the idea of him seeing his reflection in a

719
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 1: mirror as a whole body, and then it pulling away

720
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 1: and him finally seeing himself as he is today and

721
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:35,359
Speaker 1: the way that I explained it to him, and then

722
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 1: seeing this grown man cry in front of me. That

723
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: fills me with so much joy because I love being

724
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 1: able to connect to people and give them the same

725
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,760
Speaker 1: journey that I had, and that is learning about myself

726
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 1: through dance and using it as it's a form of therapy.

727
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 1: It's so cathartic to get out there and express yourself

728
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 1: and move your body and share emotion. You release it

729
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 1: all into the world and you end up letting it,

730
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 1: letting it go forth. And Noah had that, certainly, James

731
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,280
Speaker 1: Cliffs had that. He said that I finished his story

732
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 1: for him from when he flatlined and didn't know what happened,

733
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 1: and it's just such a They're probably my greatest triumphs,

734
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: I would say throughout the whole City Lash ten seasons.

735
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 1: I've been doing it now. Um, those moments are like

736
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 1: my marrable. Yeah, I think like being able to. I

737
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:21,959
Speaker 1: think one of the things that connects people to music

738
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,360
Speaker 1: so much is like, you know, musicians are like singing

739
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 1: a universal truth that people can connect to. So it's

740
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 1: like making people feel not not alone. So people that

741
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 1: are watching that are going through those same life situations,

742
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: they don't feel us alone because they're like watching somebody

743
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: else not only overcome what they've gone through, but end

744
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: up on top. I think it's yeah beautiful. I think

745
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 1: that's what is so special about the show, and that's

746
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:47,320
Speaker 1: why it has lasted seasons. I think it's why it

747
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: could end up lasting more. There is no show like

748
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: it where you get to watch people truly bear their soul,

749
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,719
Speaker 1: share their experiences with so much truth, and watch them grow.

750
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,439
Speaker 1: They're no longer or a celebrity in your eyes when

751
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 1: you watch them, They're a human being that you can

752
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 1: relate to. And I think that is really what inspires

753
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 1: so many people. Yeah, I mean, it's it's it really

754
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 1: is amazing, and it's it's really cool that Dancing the

755
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: Stars has made it. Anyone from any walk of life

756
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: has been able to be on that show, and any

757
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: person I've talked to or heard about it said it's

758
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:25,879
Speaker 1: been the most memorable, life changing experience of their life.

759
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 1: And I think, I mean, I think that says a lot,

760
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: because your work really hard. It's not like an easy no, no,

761
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,839
Speaker 1: it's no one can ever prepare you for how hard

762
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: that job is. Even Derek Fisher last season was like

763
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 1: he spoke to a lot of his friends are the

764
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 1: sports guys that have done the show, and he said

765
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 1: nothing could have prepared him for what it takes to

766
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 1: do this, to physically do it, to mentally do it,

767
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 1: to emotionally do it. You can't prep your life. Everything

768
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: is consumed by Dancing with the Stars, and you don't

769
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 1: realize that until you're in the thick of it. Yeah,

770
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: it's pretty amazing. And just side note, when you're touring

771
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 1: the country, do you tour like a tour bus. Yes,

772
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 1: Oh that's everything. It's a lot of things, like really

773
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 1: embraces those things in life. People would be like, it

774
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 1: could be better. I know it's an ideal. Everyone's like,

775
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 1: I'd like love to fly everywhere, but I think the

776
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 1: tour of us life is so cool. Flying is way

777
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 1: much more sorry, way more difficult because you have to

778
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: get to the airport and then awful, you have to

779
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: worry about how much you legs by the way. Wow,

780
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:36,359
Speaker 1: I'll just have another tip of coffee. See how much

781
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: your luggage ways? Whereas with the tour bus you just

782
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: put that stuff on there and you keep it moving. Um.

783
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,840
Speaker 1: But I will never forget my first tour because we

784
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 1: only had two buses and so many people on the buses.

785
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 1: How many in each bus? Um? I believe it was

786
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 1: eight on each bus at that point because we had

787
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 1: a lot. It was a lot. But now it's only

788
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 1: five for this one. We have three different buses. But

789
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 1: you know, we're moving up in the world. But but

790
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: that first bus I got there and I was like,

791
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: this is going to be so amazing. I'm so excited,

792
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: And then I looked at my bunk and I nearly died.

793
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 1: It was like I had to tuck and roll to

794
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:15,839
Speaker 1: get into that thing, and it would I couldn't sit

795
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:18,839
Speaker 1: up in it. It was a coffee. And then for

796
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:22,720
Speaker 1: the first week week and have two weeks of the tour,

797
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: when I'm sleeping, I would have these nightmares I was

798
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 1: on a plane going down because the bumps in the

799
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,799
Speaker 1: road from turbulence, So I would have nightmares every night

800
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:32,399
Speaker 1: that I was going down the plane, and of course

801
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 1: i'd sit up in the middle of the night and

802
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 1: smash my head on the top of my bunk. There's

803
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:39,720
Speaker 1: so many little things that I feel like people don't like. Also,

804
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 1: how I don't know if you guys have a shower

805
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 1: on your bus, but there's usually one shower for like

806
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: eight people, so the majority of people like to shower

807
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 1: before they get on the bus, so that you're showering

808
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:50,640
Speaker 1: and like venues, and it's just like such an you

809
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 1: feel like such a I don't know how to explain it.

810
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: It's just like a gypsys. I have to pack a

811
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 1: day bag for my clothes, but oddly the time after

812
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 1: the show for all of the girls, our favorite time.

813
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:04,719
Speaker 1: It's like our chill time. We put on music or

814
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,360
Speaker 1: we put on ted Talks. We're all in our dressing

815
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 1: rooms doing our face masks and you know, like just

816
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 1: girl stuff, talking girl things, and we all shower in

817
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 1: there obviously because no one wants to wait in line

818
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 1: on that that stupid tour bust shower um and just

819
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 1: have a great time and get on the bus and

820
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 1: just feel so rejuvenated just by having great energy around

821
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 1: us and you know, doing a great show. But so honestly,

822
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 1: one of my favorite things about being on tour is

823
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 1: all the girl time that we get because we were

824
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 1: so busy, we just don't get to make time for

825
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: each other. Like it's really cool. Speaking of girl time.

826
00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 1: Do you know what a fab fit Fun boxes? I do?

827
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 1: That was a good transition that one I hadn't make

828
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 1: up for the first time, but I do. I love

829
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,880
Speaker 1: fab fit Fun. I'm actually a fab fit Fun partner

830
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 1: and I just have this is perfect. Then okay, well, like,

831
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:02,359
Speaker 1: did you get the Winter Box already? Yes? It's so good.

832
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 1: It's so amazing. I love it. Like I would talk

833
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 1: about this even if it wasn't like a sponsor, like,

834
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 1: it is so impressive. How good their boxes? Like each time,

835
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, this is it keeps getting better every

836
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 1: time I've gotten one. Yeah, they're incredible. I uh, it's

837
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:19,760
Speaker 1: amazing what they put in that box for the amount

838
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 1: of money that you spend. Honestly, every time I get it,

839
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, it keeps going. The jasmine

840
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:28,319
Speaker 1: spray for your bed, no, I haven't yet. That was

841
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 1: an eye roll right there. That's like she went to

842
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: bed at seven thirty last night. Probably I sprayed up

843
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 1: my bed every night. It's so it's great, I'm going

844
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 1: to have to try it. One of my favorite things

845
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 1: I've actually gotten from fab Fit Fun was from the

846
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 1: full Box. It was one of the scarves. Oh yeah,

847
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,359
Speaker 1: I wear that thing all the time. It's amazing. Well,

848
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 1: I got the box and we got here at the

849
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:57,399
Speaker 1: at the studio and Tanya took like four things out

850
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 1: of it, and it was maybe did you the whole

851
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 1: thing because the spy you took the spray and then

852
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: you had the cream and cream and she facetimes me

853
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 1: and has the eye patches on. I didn't know she

854
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 1: had taken emos Like, oh cool, So those were part

855
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 1: of it that I didn't get. But they're great. I

856
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: was calling, I was spacetimeing you to tell you that

857
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 1: they were really great good. But as you said, the

858
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:23,720
Speaker 1: amount you get is this winter box specifically is valued

859
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: over three and you only pay each season. UM, and

860
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 1: all the products are full size. Are you bringing out

861
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 1: something the hand cream? Oh, she has the hand cream

862
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 1: with her in her bag, so this is the this? Yeah,

863
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: this is the um? Is it a hava? Have we

864
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 1: figured out is aaba? I would think, yeah, it's the

865
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:51,760
Speaker 1: mineral hand cream Tanya literally do because it's very moisturizing. Normally,

866
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 1: like when you have other lotions, it's like water, but

867
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:57,840
Speaker 1: this one's like thick and just good love that smells

868
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 1: good too. And then they have gone and then they

869
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: have um, the point studio aloe and few socks which

870
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:07,880
Speaker 1: I feel like I've seen everyone wearing, like the cozy

871
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 1: socks and then the baby Dakota poncho. I've seen people

872
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: posting that on their travel days, which I think I

873
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: might wear when I'm going home to I'm going to

874
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 1: Georgia in a cabin for Christmas. Um, I leave the

875
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 1: twenty third. But that's not the point I'm just saying, like,

876
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 1: I don't really have a ton of winter clothes. You

877
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: should definitely take the scoff from the full. Yeah, I

878
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,400
Speaker 1: have two things, for sure, But this is another This

879
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 1: is another thing I get. I kind of have anxiety

880
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 1: when she leaves for a long time. Separation anxiety. One

881
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 1: of my dogs is like that, very much like a puppy.

882
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: Oh I just heard how that came out. I'm so sorry.

883
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I retract that statement. No, it's pretty accurate. No,

884
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: it's I just got I actually just got a new

885
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 1: puppy and she's ten weeks old, and she's a Pomeranian

886
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: and so she's really small. She's very much needy towards me,

887
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:05,720
Speaker 1: and Tanya resembles her a lot. If I can get

888
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 1: you any advice, put put that little thing in puppy

889
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: training and get her over that anxiety, because it is

890
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:14,480
Speaker 1: a nightmare. It's it's a night the separation anxiety. And

891
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 1: it's going to be like scheduling me for her. For

892
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 1: Phoebe my dollar, I'm not weird about Tanya. For a second,

893
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: he looked at me like, oh right, I'm taking her

894
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:36,800
Speaker 1: to pet Code right alright? Me em Phoebe could probably

895
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 1: use some therapy. Yeah, I'll should go together. I don't know,

896
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 1: that might be bad. Um. Anyways, back to fat fit Fine.

897
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: Promo code is Becca and all you have to do

898
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 1: is go to fab fit fine dot com and use Codebecca.

899
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 1: You'll get ten dollars off the winter box. Again, that's

900
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 1: fab fit fun dot com. And don't forget the promo code.

901
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,720
Speaker 1: I would like you to read the email from Rachel

902
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: because it's something I think that definitely Becca and Sharna

903
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 1: can weigh in. And it's about leaving home, going out

904
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: in the world, away from your comfort zone. She was

905
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 1: thinking about moving to California. Oh, I like this, I relate.

906
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 1: How how long have you lived here? When did you

907
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:22,959
Speaker 1: move here? I have been living Heath for nearly seven years,

908
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:26,360
Speaker 1: but I've left the country at eighteen. I moved to

909
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:30,720
Speaker 1: London when I was on my on my own at eighteen. Wow. Okay,

910
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna read from Rachel I back Antonia and she'd

911
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: probably say, Sharna, but she didn't know you're going to

912
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:39,399
Speaker 1: be here. I'm just not going to respond, she said.

913
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: My question is, if given the opportunity, should I move

914
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: to California. I was born and raised in Chicago, but

915
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 1: recently applied to grad school for occupational therapy. I've never

916
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:50,720
Speaker 1: lived on my own before, and I'm hesitant about moving

917
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: to a new state and not knowing anyone. As scary

918
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: and expensive as a move would be, I feel like

919
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:57,360
Speaker 1: this would be a great chance and not only pursue

920
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: my career goals, but also to really get to know

921
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 1: myself and enjoy a new adventure. You should also know

922
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:04,799
Speaker 1: that I may also have the option of staying home

923
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 1: for grad school, So I'm start between staying home and

924
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:11,520
Speaker 1: saving money or moving away and experiencing something different. Let

925
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: me know what you guys think. I'd appreciate the feedback

926
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:19,880
Speaker 1: for me. Just from the way that you wrote the message,

927
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: it sounds like you want to experience something new and

928
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,399
Speaker 1: go on an adventure. You're like, I can either stay

929
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: home and be safe, go to grad school save money,

930
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 1: or you can go and try something new. I feel like,

931
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 1: to be honest, you've already made your mind up or

932
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 1: your heart already knows what it wants. Um. I am

933
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 1: a huge advocate for chasing your dreams. I don't think

934
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 1: your dream is to just be safe and save money.

935
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:44,440
Speaker 1: So if you feel like there's something there for you

936
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 1: to chase after that you really really want, then I say,

937
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 1: muster up the courage and do it. Yeah, I mean

938
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:54,920
Speaker 1: I agree. I think if we all just stayed safe,

939
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 1: no one would go anywhere, right exactly because I think moving.

940
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I remember when I first moved out to

941
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 1: California from Louisiana. My I lived with my sister, my

942
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:05,919
Speaker 1: brother in law, and so there was that safety net

943
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:07,800
Speaker 1: of having them with me. And then when they moved

944
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,759
Speaker 1: home four years later, I either had the option of

945
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 1: going with them and doing whatever they did next, or

946
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 1: staying on my own and making it work. And I

947
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 1: chose to stay. And it was probably one of the

948
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 1: better decisions I made as far as me growing as

949
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 1: a person, because it would have been so safe and

950
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 1: it probably would have been fun. I would have been happy.

951
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:29,800
Speaker 1: But as far as growing and learning more about myself,

952
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would have done much of

953
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 1: that if I had just gone and with the safe option.

954
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:35,839
Speaker 1: I mean, the beauty is too if you you can

955
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: always move back home, you know, if you're really really

956
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 1: homesick and you're you know, you really don't feel like

957
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,799
Speaker 1: it's working, you can always And yes, of course it's

958
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 1: expensive and you probably have to eat the money to move,

959
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: but you can always move home. I never moved far

960
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: from home I lived. I'm from Orange County, so like

961
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:54,359
Speaker 1: two hours up the freeway. Yeah, but you still left

962
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 1: the safety of what you knew and like the safety

963
00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 1: net of having your parents right there. If they is

964
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 1: one thing that I can share with you, Rachel, it's

965
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 1: that I I did. I left Australia at eighteen. I

966
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 1: packed a suitcase and I moved to London on my

967
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 1: own to chase my dance dreams. And what followed was

968
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:13,839
Speaker 1: two of the hardest years of my life, working three

969
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:17,040
Speaker 1: jobs to be able to afford to dance, sometimes choosing

970
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:21,240
Speaker 1: between food and having a dance and going to dance class. Um.

971
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 1: There were many many times that I wanted to give up,

972
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:25,799
Speaker 1: but I knew what my dream was and I knew

973
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:27,759
Speaker 1: what I wanted to do when I kept chasing it.

974
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:34,280
Speaker 1: And because of you know, unrelenting passion and um striving

975
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,400
Speaker 1: for what I wanted, I refused to believe that I

976
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:40,359
Speaker 1: couldn't have it. Eventually, the universe provided. I could never

977
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 1: have imagined that I would have ended up on television,

978
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 1: that I would have ended up on dancing with the studs.

979
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 1: I had no idea this could even be a dream

980
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:50,200
Speaker 1: for me, But within that time, I knew I had

981
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:52,800
Speaker 1: to stick out something really hard so I could build

982
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 1: my character, so I could learn and I could grow

983
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 1: as a human being to be ready for all these

984
00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 1: things that life had to offer me. No one saying

985
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 1: that it will be easy. I think it will be tough.

986
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 1: Moving on your own is tough, and doing things on

987
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:07,879
Speaker 1: your own is tough. But they're also really valuable life

988
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 1: lessons that you need to go through if you want

989
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: to do something great. That's so true. Yeah, it's crazy

990
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,800
Speaker 1: because my parents did the same thing. My mom moved

991
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 1: to the United States there from Serbia when she was

992
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 1: eighteen and moved, you know, from her parents. And I'm like,

993
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,319
Speaker 1: they did it because they wanted their kids to have

994
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: a life that they didn't have. And I'm like that

995
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 1: is so like major props to you, because I could

996
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 1: not even imagine at eighteen, Like I moved away to

997
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,320
Speaker 1: Arizona when I was eighteen, and that was hard, and

998
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 1: that was just a state over for college. Like you're

999
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:40,800
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like you're putting yourself through

1000
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:46,719
Speaker 1: you're you know, rent and food and and chasing your dream.

1001
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 1: I think that that's just so like, I mean, I

1002
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 1: have just had so much respect for you. I haven't

1003
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:53,239
Speaker 1: tell my parents all the time. I'm like, I've saw

1004
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:55,800
Speaker 1: I can't even I don't even know how to even

1005
00:52:56,920 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 1: where to begin, so much respect. It's amazing way capable

1006
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:02,799
Speaker 1: of as human beings when you put your mind to it,

1007
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 1: and we can all do that, especially when I mean

1008
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 1: their passion was you guys, you know, and building in

1009
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 1: life for you, and you've got to find what that

1010
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: passion is that drives you and just chase it. You're

1011
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:18,439
Speaker 1: the perfect person to have to answer that question seriously though,

1012
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 1: Like it sounds like what her dream, her dream is

1013
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:24,279
Speaker 1: to do something on her own, but there's like the

1014
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:27,759
Speaker 1: fear of you know, it's not working and if it,

1015
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 1: you know, like like Tanya said, home is Chicago is

1016
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: not going anywhere, like that's gonna be there, and so

1017
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:37,319
Speaker 1: you have to take the chance because if you don't,

1018
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 1: then you'll you'll never know. Yeah. Um, this is from

1019
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 1: Meg Hi Becca. I'm such a huge fan of yours

1020
00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:46,280
Speaker 1: and I love you and Tanya together on the podcast.

1021
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:48,879
Speaker 1: I share the same hopes as you for myself about

1022
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:51,080
Speaker 1: waiting until marriage to sleep with someone. Do you have

1023
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 1: any advice on how you navigate these conversations with the

1024
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:56,959
Speaker 1: men you date? How do you handle situations where where

1025
00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:01,400
Speaker 1: the waiting feels tough? For reference, I'm twenty two. Um, okay,

1026
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 1: so this is what this is how I feel about

1027
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 1: this subject. If your desire and what you want is

1028
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: to wait for someone until marriage, then you you do it.

1029
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,440
Speaker 1: It's just like anything else. If you have the desire

1030
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 1: to do something, there's an obstacle that comes and it's hard.

1031
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,720
Speaker 1: Do you do you go back on what you believe

1032
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:24,799
Speaker 1: in the first place, or do you cave into it.

1033
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 1: It's just like anything in life. It's a decision you

1034
00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 1: make and if you want to stick to it, you

1035
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:32,360
Speaker 1: stick to it. And when it comes to having conversations.

1036
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 1: That's what I find for me being the trickiest thing

1037
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:39,600
Speaker 1: that I've Like, you know, I'm not I'm not a virgin,

1038
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 1: but I have recently decided to recommit to waiting to marriage,

1039
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: and so this is new territory for me. I've never

1040
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like it's I've never had

1041
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 1: to have that conversation with the guy before, and I'm

1042
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: now I'm kind of trying to prepare myself for when

1043
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 1: that conversation does happen, Like, at what point do you

1044
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:57,400
Speaker 1: tell them? At what? You know what I mean, like,

1045
00:54:57,400 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 1: at what point? And I'm sure it's going to scare

1046
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:04,280
Speaker 1: some guys away. I just think that it's it's something

1047
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,839
Speaker 1: that and I guess it's it could be a deal

1048
00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:09,920
Speaker 1: breaker for guys easily. I think for a lot of

1049
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 1: people it would be a deal breaker because I think

1050
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 1: that's very important in relationships. Although I do find that

1051
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: you can have and there are such blurred lines of

1052
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 1: what what is sex like? Is that whatever is beyond kissing? What?

1053
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,879
Speaker 1: Like you know, there's so many different Yeah, yeah, it's

1054
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:32,320
Speaker 1: like some people consider anything past like making out sex.

1055
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 1: But I guess that those are the blurred lines. But

1056
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 1: you can find that you have chemistry with someone without

1057
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:41,200
Speaker 1: having to do that. And I also think, you know,

1058
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 1: as times change and something's happen, maybe sex isn't the

1059
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 1: main focus of a relationship And what do you have

1060
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 1: that's deeper than that, that's beyond what the sexual chemistry is? Like,

1061
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 1: what's the emotional chemistry? What is the connection you have

1062
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:56,759
Speaker 1: with your minds and your heart? And so I don't know,

1063
00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 1: sometimes I've always wondered these these deal breakers. It's like, well,

1064
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:03,880
Speaker 1: did you not have anything beyond that? Right? Well, and

1065
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,240
Speaker 1: I'm looking because she says, for reference, I'm twenty two,

1066
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:09,359
Speaker 1: and when I was twenty two, I was just like

1067
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 1: doing it like nothing, you know what I mean, like

1068
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:15,200
Speaker 1: and then it sounds like so gross, but like I

1069
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:17,719
Speaker 1: was just it wasn't really special to me, you know

1070
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:21,239
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like it was um, And I'm I'm

1071
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 1: sad that I didn't value it as much as I

1072
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: do now. You know. It's like you're giving yourself to somebody.

1073
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 1: And I feel like, at twenty two, that's probably a

1074
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 1: lot harder to navigate a conversation with a twenty two

1075
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 1: year old guy who, you know what I mean, not

1076
00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:39,879
Speaker 1: really mature old man of basically six totally. So I'm

1077
00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 1: feeling like, for Meg, it's probably a really hard conversation

1078
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 1: to navigate because these young guys, that's all they are

1079
00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 1: really wanting, you know, So how do you explain to

1080
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 1: them the um the importance of like delayed gratification and

1081
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 1: you know, wanting it for something bigger, you know, waiting

1082
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 1: for something bigger than yourself. You know, I think that's

1083
00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 1: probably a really hard conversation to have at twenty two.

1084
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 1: I think maybe, Maggie, you just stop considering how they

1085
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:05,319
Speaker 1: hear it and how they feel about it, and just

1086
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 1: honor what you want and what you feel, because at

1087
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 1: the end of the day, some people are going to

1088
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:12,319
Speaker 1: accept it and some people aren't. It doesn't matter how

1089
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 1: you deliver it. They're either on board or they're not.

1090
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 1: But as someone that hasn't waited for marriage and I

1091
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:23,160
Speaker 1: have been, I have had sex with my boyfriends, what

1092
00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 1: I can tell you is that it makes it very complicated,

1093
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:28,400
Speaker 1: and it can you can get caught up in lust

1094
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 1: and things get fuzzy and you don't really get to

1095
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:33,160
Speaker 1: know each other in the first place, and then all

1096
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 1: the excitement of the sex goes away, and then you're

1097
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 1: left with this personality that you don't even really know,

1098
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:40,640
Speaker 1: and then you start back from square one, but the

1099
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: chemistry is going. It can mess a lot of things up.

1100
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 1: I think it's beautiful that you want to wait. I

1101
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 1: think you should honor that for you and the right

1102
00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 1: person will honor your feelings and share the same the

1103
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 1: same ideals as you. Don't worry about how other people

1104
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:57,280
Speaker 1: hear it. Girl, this is something that you want and

1105
00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: you hold onto that. Yeah, it's so true. It is. Um.

1106
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: Somebody to kind of explained it to me. UM a

1107
00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 1: while ago when UM they were dating with they had

1108
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 1: two kids, and they were saying, it's really hard to

1109
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 1: date with two kids as a single mom because you know,

1110
00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 1: the guys kind of and I was like, you know,

1111
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 1: there's how do you It's how you approach it. You know.

1112
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:19,440
Speaker 1: It's like, Um, I have the you know, instead of

1113
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: being like, I have two kids, like don't apologize for it.

1114
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 1: It's like saying, I have the two most amazing kids

1115
00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: and he has dimples just like you. They're so cute,

1116
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:30,760
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like, it's all about how

1117
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:32,280
Speaker 1: you approach it. And I think a lot of times

1118
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 1: people kind of where being a virgin as like a

1119
00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 1: burden or like a something like you know, like oh,

1120
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 1: I'm waiting until marriage. But it's like you should something

1121
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 1: that you should be proud of and something that you know.

1122
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 1: I think it's the way that you deliver it. Also,

1123
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 1: you know, like it's not well and I think it's something.

1124
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,560
Speaker 1: I mean, the way I have always explained it. When

1125
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 1: I had the conversation, it's like I feel like in

1126
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:58,160
Speaker 1: a lot of relationships I've given. It's just people i've dated.

1127
00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 1: I've given to a certain extent, given myself to them.

1128
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:05,800
Speaker 1: And I wanted that one part to be for my husband,

1129
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: you know, like so that when when it happens, it's

1130
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 1: like I waited for you for this moment. And I

1131
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 1: think that that's like a very powerful thing to hold onto.

1132
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 1: And I don't think it's something that should be I

1133
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 1: don't know why it's like this embarrassing thing that's looked

1134
00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 1: down upon because we live in such a sexualized world

1135
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 1: and that's so important apparently to everybody, and I do

1136
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 1: think I do think it's important. I know it's a

1137
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 1: part of relationships, but I don't think if you make

1138
00:59:31,840 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 1: that decision, I think it should be something that's owned

1139
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 1: and not something that's that you feel like you have

1140
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 1: to cower down to or be embarrassed about. I agree

1141
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 1: with you both so much, and I think Tanya made

1142
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 1: such an important point that I've never thought about before.

1143
00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:48,600
Speaker 1: I don't drink. I've never had any alcohol, and once

1144
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 1: in a blue moon, I get a little nervous about

1145
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:52,640
Speaker 1: telling someone new because I think they'll think I'm not

1146
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 1: fun or I'm like a stick in the mud. But

1147
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 1: for the most part, I just it is what it is.

1148
00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 1: So I almost think embracing whatever it is as it

1149
01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 1: is what it is. It's not a bad thing, it's

1150
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 1: not the thing. It's Yeah, I have blue eyes and

1151
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:14,200
Speaker 1: I'm waiting till marriage. See, like right, totally, totally exactly.

1152
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 1: There you go. That's how that. There you go, Maggie,

1153
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:22,520
Speaker 1: eye color and let him know, or brown eyes by

1154
01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 1: whatever color eyes you have, Maggie. Okay, So I started

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01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:31,040
Speaker 1: my Christmas shopping and as I've said before, the hardest

1156
01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 1: people for me to shop for are the guys in

1157
01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 1: my life, like my dad, my brother, my brother in law.

1158
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 1: That about some something guys my same Is there one

1159
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:47,440
Speaker 1: more that I'm missing? No, that's it UM. And I

1160
01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 1: realized I feel like it's something that's universal. I feel

1161
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:52,400
Speaker 1: like it's a thing for a lot of girls that

1162
01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 1: it's difficult to shop for guys. UM. And so that's

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Speaker 1: where man crates dot Com comes in, and it's the

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01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: surest way to give a guy a gift that he'll

1165
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Speaker 1: actually love UM because they're personalized. Have you seen this. No,

1166
01:01:06,240 --> 01:01:08,760
Speaker 1: I've heard of man crates, but I haven't seen them.

1167
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Speaker 1: They are so amazing. They sent me one, so it's

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Speaker 1: not just for guys, it's it's for girls too. But

1169
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Speaker 1: it's really great guest for guys that you don't think of.

1170
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Speaker 1: But they sent me a personalized man crate woman crate,

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01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: and it had personalized beer glasses in it with like

1172
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 1: beer snacks and coasters that were like personalized with my

1173
01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:29,160
Speaker 1: name on him. I think about like the guy you

1174
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 1: know I have that's obsessed with like golf or beer

1175
01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 1: or like just grilling or grilling, and then they get

1176
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:38,440
Speaker 1: a literally giant box with like those things with their

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Speaker 1: name on it. It is pretty cool with the crowbar

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Speaker 1: that they have to break into, so it's not like

1179
01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 1: you just get the scissors and cut the tape open,

1180
01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 1: like it's a wooden box and the guy has to

1181
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 1: like bust into it. Though I thought you meant there

1182
01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 1: was a crow bar in it. I was like, that's interesting.

1183
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,400
Speaker 1: You know, the crowbar is for you to get in

1184
01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 1: get it. Guys like to do like just break stuff,

1185
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 1: like breaking Rubbert. No, it'll entertain them for hours, I

1186
01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 1: mean just minutes, but for our guys last week hours.

1187
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 1: But um, but we actually got an email from Shannon

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01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 1: in Virginia and she said, just wanted to let you

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01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:15,600
Speaker 1: know that I use Man Crates as a wedding present

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Speaker 1: for my husband earlier this year and it was awesome.

1191
01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 1: I totally knocked it out of the park with it,

1192
01:02:20,320 --> 01:02:22,840
Speaker 1: and he loved it. That's awesome, I know. So I'm

1193
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Speaker 1: telling you, and I had a few tweets saying that

1194
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Speaker 1: people ordered Man Creates. So I feel like it's I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to get the word out there for real because

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Speaker 1: it's such a brilliant idea. I wish I had come

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Speaker 1: up with it, but I didn't. Unfortunately, I'm literally getting

1198
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Speaker 1: the beer one from my brother in law. Well does

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Speaker 1: he listen to this? Okay, he's not a subscriber. My

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01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 1: mom subscribes enough of my family. Just you know, my

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01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:53,080
Speaker 1: brother in law likes like beer and like football, not

1202
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Speaker 1: girl talk. Not girl talk. Um okay, So Man craw Okay.

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Speaker 1: So like, you can only get someone that likes beer

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Speaker 1: so much, you know, I mean without like I wis

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Speaker 1: gonna get six packs of beer all the time. Like, no,

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Speaker 1: one more time Man Creates dot com slash All Right, So,

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Speaker 1: last week on the podcast Tony Kept, we're trying to say,

1227
01:04:14,240 --> 01:04:17,600
Speaker 1: like the girl make the first move right, put yourself

1228
01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:20,560
Speaker 1: out there and make the first move. And Tony kept

1229
01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:23,919
Speaker 1: trying to use this reference of putting a handkerchief down

1230
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 1: and the guy picking up. Basically what you're doing as

1231
01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:30,400
Speaker 1: you're just dropping the handkerchief so that the guy can

1232
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 1: pick it up if he wants. You know, this is

1233
01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:38,120
Speaker 1: this is not a literal handkerchief exact. Yeah, so it's

1234
01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:41,040
Speaker 1: like he knows you're interested. Yes, yeah, it was. It was,

1235
01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:43,080
Speaker 1: but it was a thing in the olden days that

1236
01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 1: they actually did. That's why it's a metaphor, right. I

1237
01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:53,360
Speaker 1: knew that. Yeah, so I just did that. I was like,

1238
01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:55,160
Speaker 1: you know what, just let the guy know you're interested,

1239
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,440
Speaker 1: drop the handkerchief, and if he picks it up, great,

1240
01:04:57,520 --> 01:04:59,840
Speaker 1: If he leaves it on the floor, it's fine. How

1241
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 1: it's the best of us, Okay. And that's what happened.

1242
01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:05,360
Speaker 1: That's what happens. That's how did it go. He didn't

1243
01:05:05,400 --> 01:05:15,320
Speaker 1: get he enjoyed this rising ring one of these times. Hello, Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: how are you good? How are you good? This is

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Speaker 1: Becca Antonia. Did you know that? Yes? And guess who

1246
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Speaker 1: else we have in here? Oh my god? Who we

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Speaker 1: have Sharna from Dancing with the Stars, Oh my god, Hi,

1248
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Speaker 1: sweet Hi, Hi, Um, so we really enjoyed your tweet

1249
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:38,600
Speaker 1: about dropping your handkerchief. Yeah, and we want to hear

1250
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:41,440
Speaker 1: your success story because mine didn't turn out so successful.

1251
01:05:42,040 --> 01:05:46,360
Speaker 1: Um well, I work at an animal hospital, and um

1252
01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:48,160
Speaker 1: I liked one of the guys here, so I was like, oh,

1253
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:50,600
Speaker 1: you know, what's the perfect way, you know, asked him

1254
01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:52,680
Speaker 1: out on a date kind of thing. So I said, hey,

1255
01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:54,840
Speaker 1: maybe one day after work we could go and walk

1256
01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:59,160
Speaker 1: our dogs together. And then the next day he was like, oh,

1257
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:01,439
Speaker 1: bring your dog in him, let's go for a walk.

1258
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:05,080
Speaker 1: So that's what we did. Wow, you had a real

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Speaker 1: an instant success. She's droppingly thing. I realized though. It

1260
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:12,919
Speaker 1: is like we worked together, so you know, you talked

1261
01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 1: about work a lot, but any other than that, you know, wait,

1262
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Speaker 1: did he know what? Did he know it was a date? Um?

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01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:23,720
Speaker 1: I think so, I mean, I hope so. I mean

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01:06:23,800 --> 01:06:25,440
Speaker 1: sometimes we got to paint it for him, you know

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01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:27,480
Speaker 1: what I mean. Sometimes we've got real obvious about that

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01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:30,760
Speaker 1: handkerchief that we're dropping. Yeah. Well, I never been on

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01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 1: a date before, so I was like, you know, I'm

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01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:37,440
Speaker 1: newer to the dating scene. So oh, so you so

1269
01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 1: this was like your first time to really put yourself

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01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 1: out there and you had a pretty good I would

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01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:46,440
Speaker 1: say that's right, right, yeah, because I have a problem

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01:06:46,480 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 1: because I'm so nice to people and they're like to

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01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:50,960
Speaker 1: take advantage of it. So I always get like, oh

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01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:55,120
Speaker 1: in the front zone all the time. Yeah, you know

1275
01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:58,840
Speaker 1: sometimes because you're going to meet the one guy who's

1276
01:06:58,880 --> 01:07:01,320
Speaker 1: the right one in all these friend zones will be

1277
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:04,200
Speaker 1: worth it. You just have a bunch of good guy friends.

1278
01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:09,320
Speaker 1: But look how much game you got there. Well, I

1279
01:07:09,360 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 1: listened to You Guys podcast all the time, and I'm like,

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01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 1: oh my god, like because I always like, because I

1281
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:15,600
Speaker 1: never dated before, I never had a boyfriend, and I'm

1282
01:07:15,600 --> 01:07:17,840
Speaker 1: always like complaining, like, oh maybe time I look. But

1283
01:07:17,880 --> 01:07:20,000
Speaker 1: then I listen to You Guys podcast, I'm like, back

1284
01:07:20,040 --> 01:07:22,160
Speaker 1: in Tanya are the most beautiful girls in the world,

1285
01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:24,480
Speaker 1: and they don't even you know, they have a hard time.

1286
01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 1: So it's not me, you know, it's not you, and

1287
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 1: it's not anything about that. It's just how we approach situations.

1288
01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:35,880
Speaker 1: And it also just has to do with the right person,

1289
01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:39,080
Speaker 1: like the right person at the right time. Yeah, well

1290
01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:41,600
Speaker 1: look at you keep going girl, Yeah we're going to

1291
01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:44,800
Speaker 1: them again. Um I hope. So I mean I seem

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01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:47,120
Speaker 1: around network all the time, so hopefully, I mean we

1293
01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:52,919
Speaker 1: um fun with our dogs. So okay, so see someone

1294
01:07:52,960 --> 01:07:55,720
Speaker 1: that you see on Do you train dogs by any chance?

1295
01:07:57,200 --> 01:08:04,880
Speaker 1: And I have a CD? Yes, Whenever you have questions,

1296
01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 1: just let me know. I'll take you up on this. Um,

1297
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:13,000
Speaker 1: can I ask you guys a question? Yeah? So I

1298
01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:16,240
Speaker 1: noticed because UM, I like meet these celebrities all the

1299
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:19,120
Speaker 1: time and I try to find a guy like that.

1300
01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:23,600
Speaker 1: Is that normal? Like recently I met Ben Higgins and

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01:08:23,760 --> 01:08:25,080
Speaker 1: he was like the sweet this guy over and I

1302
01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:27,439
Speaker 1: like how he acted, and I'm like, I'm looking for

1303
01:08:27,479 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 1: a guy like that, like you know that goes to

1304
01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:34,120
Speaker 1: church and like, yeah, a gentleman. If you're looking for

1305
01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:37,200
Speaker 1: someone like Ben Higgins, that's definitely Like if that's what

1306
01:08:37,320 --> 01:08:39,759
Speaker 1: you're into, then I say that that would be very normal.

1307
01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:44,200
Speaker 1: But if you're looking for someone like, um, who's someone

1308
01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:47,639
Speaker 1: you don't want to mimic for a relationship for a boyfriend,

1309
01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:50,840
Speaker 1: I can't think of anyone. I don't want to call

1310
01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:58,840
Speaker 1: anyone out. You know what I do is, um, I

1311
01:08:58,920 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 1: make vision boards. So you like yourself of Ben Higgins,

1312
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:02,880
Speaker 1: I'd say, fine, A little picture of him in a

1313
01:09:02,920 --> 01:09:04,720
Speaker 1: magazine cut it up and put it on your vision board.

1314
01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:07,639
Speaker 1: That is so true, Tanya has who's on your vision

1315
01:09:07,680 --> 01:09:11,280
Speaker 1: board right now? Tim Tebow and Patrick Dempsey? Oh Patrick

1316
01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:16,439
Speaker 1: scrubbing in is the Grays and Nasty Dream? Could you

1317
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:19,679
Speaker 1: mention them because of you? Guys? Are you started watching

1318
01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:23,320
Speaker 1: because of us? Yeah? I sweet you guys all the time, Tanya.

1319
01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:26,639
Speaker 1: I actually tweeted me about Christian music, which I love.

1320
01:09:26,920 --> 01:09:30,280
Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, you're asking for some recommendations. Yes, you

1321
01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:33,560
Speaker 1: guys are awesome. So well, we're so glad we called you.

1322
01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:37,679
Speaker 1: I'm glad. I'm so excited. I always talked to people

1323
01:09:37,720 --> 01:09:39,680
Speaker 1: at my work about my podcast and they'll be like,

1324
01:09:39,960 --> 01:09:44,040
Speaker 1: what did that's good in Tanya say? Today? What great

1325
01:09:44,080 --> 01:09:49,439
Speaker 1: advice are they throwing out there? Always too like, the

1326
01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:53,599
Speaker 1: guys love it. Thank you all so much for listening.

1327
01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:56,920
Speaker 1: We love it. Those who can't date you talk about it.

1328
01:10:02,160 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 1: Thanks Jessica, and you guys look gorgeous at the this weekend,

1329
01:10:10,080 --> 01:10:13,040
Speaker 1: we're going to call you every day. Just hear something right,

1330
01:10:14,200 --> 01:10:18,040
Speaker 1: put her on our favorites. Alright, Well, I'm a good one.

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01:10:18,160 --> 01:10:20,320
Speaker 1: We can't wait to hear. We're gonna we're gonna get

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01:10:20,360 --> 01:10:24,480
Speaker 1: some updates on this uh, do keep ting dropping those handkerchiefs?

1333
01:10:25,240 --> 01:10:33,479
Speaker 1: Will Oh that was so nice. Yeah, that was so nice.

1334
01:10:33,560 --> 01:10:38,160
Speaker 1: She was really sweet. Yeah, I wanted the date more.

1335
01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:41,160
Speaker 1: I know, I know we should just like make sure

1336
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:43,320
Speaker 1: she's going on a date every every week check in. Yeah,

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01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:45,920
Speaker 1: I kind of wanted to drop her handkerchiefs outside of

1338
01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 1: the workplace, but I'm gonna like let that slige. Maybe

1339
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:50,120
Speaker 1: she should be like, hey, let's walk the dogs, but

1340
01:10:50,320 --> 01:10:54,360
Speaker 1: have a picnic. Yeah, like the Antie next time, or

1341
01:10:54,600 --> 01:10:58,439
Speaker 1: let's go see a dog movie like the movie Why

1342
01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:00,759
Speaker 1: don't you come over and we watched I Love Dogs.

1343
01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:11,160
Speaker 1: I'll make us some dinner. I have some candle. I

1344
01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:13,479
Speaker 1: have to say, though, I'm proud for someone who has

1345
01:11:13,520 --> 01:11:15,519
Speaker 1: never been on a date that she made the move

1346
01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:19,479
Speaker 1: like that. Like, I'm proud of her. Like as she

1347
01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:22,599
Speaker 1: works her confidence up, she'll get out of the workplace too.

1348
01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:24,960
Speaker 1: I got to keep it there now, proud parents. How

1349
01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:27,439
Speaker 1: old was she? We don't know. We'll figure that out

1350
01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:29,840
Speaker 1: next week. Um wait, did you just let us know

1351
01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:33,360
Speaker 1: that you love Gray's Anatomy? It is my guilty pleasure.

1352
01:11:33,400 --> 01:11:36,680
Speaker 1: I am. The fact that we didn't start with this

1353
01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:41,120
Speaker 1: is like mine. I'm devastated that it's on hiatus right now, Like,

1354
01:11:44,560 --> 01:11:46,960
Speaker 1: did you enjoy it? Okay, first of all, do you

1355
01:11:47,040 --> 01:11:50,080
Speaker 1: feel like this season's lost a little bit of luster

1356
01:11:50,280 --> 01:11:53,240
Speaker 1: that it once had? I do a little bit. I

1357
01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 1: I mean I love it. I still tune into it.

1358
01:11:55,840 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 1: I still am anxious to get to that episode every week.

1359
01:11:58,640 --> 01:12:01,920
Speaker 1: But something at it doesn't like pull it my heart

1360
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 1: strings as much as it has in past seasons. Like

1361
01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:08,840
Speaker 1: there's past seasons, most episodes of Grey's Anatomy, I'll shed

1362
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:10,839
Speaker 1: a little tier at the end of it, exactly, whereas

1363
01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:13,880
Speaker 1: for some reason this season I don't seem to have

1364
01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:17,120
Speaker 1: that as much exactly. Well, we have talked there's not

1365
01:12:17,200 --> 01:12:20,760
Speaker 1: a lot of romances to be invested in. The love

1366
01:12:20,840 --> 01:12:22,560
Speaker 1: stories not there. It's they've tried to make it a

1367
01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:26,479
Speaker 1: little more like heavy on the comedy side, which isn't

1368
01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:28,960
Speaker 1: really a grave thing, and we're like not like invested

1369
01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:33,479
Speaker 1: in any of them, Like oh and the Amelia. I

1370
01:12:33,560 --> 01:12:36,120
Speaker 1: could be invested in Meredith and Briggs getting together, but

1371
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:45,000
Speaker 1: they're like, he's spoiler anyone who's people are still catching

1372
01:12:45,120 --> 01:12:49,080
Speaker 1: up these days. Um ma'am. We could have really talked

1373
01:12:49,120 --> 01:12:50,360
Speaker 1: about that for a long time, you know, but you

1374
01:12:50,400 --> 01:12:52,519
Speaker 1: know what, we could give her the honors at the

1375
01:12:52,680 --> 01:12:58,960
Speaker 1: end of the showy Um, okay, you've earned excellent what

1376
01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:03,360
Speaker 1: if I earned, you'll know? Okay, don't get too excited

1377
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 1: very soon. Um okay, so tell us that last minute.

1378
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:09,920
Speaker 1: When does the tour star? If people want to watch you,

1379
01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:13,160
Speaker 1: where can they buy tickets? Where can they go? So

1380
01:13:13,479 --> 01:13:15,439
Speaker 1: the very first show of the tour is going to

1381
01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:19,320
Speaker 1: bet of December, right before New Year's Eve. It is

1382
01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:22,360
Speaker 1: going to be amazing. We have both Frankie Munez and

1383
01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:24,960
Speaker 1: Jordan Fisher on tour with us. It is the first

1384
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 1: time we'll really have two celebrities with us for the

1385
01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:30,559
Speaker 1: whole tool and they're so so freaking awesome, Like I mean,

1386
01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:32,720
Speaker 1: they were just so good the whole season, So they're

1387
01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:34,840
Speaker 1: going to be great. We have an awesome cast with

1388
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:37,960
Speaker 1: us too. Uh. And you know what, every tour that

1389
01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:40,880
Speaker 1: we've done gets better and better. The set gets better,

1390
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:43,800
Speaker 1: the music gets better, the creativity, I mean, everything is

1391
01:13:43,840 --> 01:13:45,599
Speaker 1: just going to be epic and from what I hear,

1392
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:49,439
Speaker 1: it's gonna be again better than the rest. Everybody can

1393
01:13:49,479 --> 01:13:53,439
Speaker 1: buy tickets at DWTS tour dot com. Um. They can

1394
01:13:53,479 --> 01:13:55,760
Speaker 1: also go to my website Shanna Burgers dot com, and

1395
01:13:55,840 --> 01:13:57,920
Speaker 1: I have links to all the cities and stuff there.

1396
01:13:58,080 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 1: I will be at every show whe I'm not eduled

1397
01:14:00,439 --> 01:14:02,360
Speaker 1: to miss any of them. I know a lot of

1398
01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:05,360
Speaker 1: people have been asking, so I'm really excited. Uh, there's

1399
01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:07,439
Speaker 1: meet and great tickets as well, which is a really

1400
01:14:07,479 --> 01:14:09,639
Speaker 1: cool way to get to meet some of us. Yeah,

1401
01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:12,320
Speaker 1: and you guys want to meet her because she's awesome,

1402
01:14:15,320 --> 01:14:17,280
Speaker 1: but yeah, do it. Buy your tickets and come out

1403
01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:19,880
Speaker 1: and see us, and come hang and get in out

1404
01:14:19,920 --> 01:14:21,840
Speaker 1: of that cold over winter and have a good time

1405
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:24,840
Speaker 1: for a couple of hours. Yeah, so fine, fun. I

1406
01:14:24,880 --> 01:14:27,200
Speaker 1: didn't realize that you were starting so soon. Soon, like

1407
01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:29,920
Speaker 1: I start rehearsals in a week. Wow, we should go

1408
01:14:29,960 --> 01:14:32,280
Speaker 1: to the l A Show? Is that the l A

1409
01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:34,960
Speaker 1: Show is our very last show? And I believe it

1410
01:14:35,080 --> 01:14:38,439
Speaker 1: is at the end of March. Okay, we're going to

1411
01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 1: mark Um next week. We're gonna go. We're going to

1412
01:14:43,280 --> 01:14:45,960
Speaker 1: do some more ask a guy I questions because we

1413
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:48,280
Speaker 1: didn't do that today. And I don't know if you remember,

1414
01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:50,360
Speaker 1: but we had a wager last week and you lost

1415
01:14:50,400 --> 01:14:52,400
Speaker 1: the bet and we didn't get around to that today.

1416
01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:55,479
Speaker 1: So we're gonna have to put that off another week.

1417
01:14:55,720 --> 01:14:58,080
Speaker 1: It's fine. I got some really good recommendations. Fine, you

1418
01:14:58,160 --> 01:15:00,720
Speaker 1: have another week to get somewhere. I need to know

1419
01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:02,920
Speaker 1: what this is about. I'm gonna have to tune in

1420
01:15:03,040 --> 01:15:06,840
Speaker 1: next week. I'll just knock on the door and be

1421
01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:10,920
Speaker 1: like him, back, are we doing any game? I need

1422
01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:14,000
Speaker 1: to know the thing. Tell me the thing. You'll know

1423
01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:17,080
Speaker 1: the thing. It'll be something we talk about. If you

1424
01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:21,880
Speaker 1: have any questions, suggestions, comments, or ideas, you can email

1425
01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:26,000
Speaker 1: us at scrubbing in at I heart media dot com. Yes,

1426
01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:28,800
Speaker 1: we get some really good emails, by the way, really

1427
01:15:28,880 --> 01:15:31,880
Speaker 1: great emails. Okay, well, so we should just set it

1428
01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:34,320
Speaker 1: up for Sharna at the end of every episode. The

1429
01:15:34,439 --> 01:15:39,360
Speaker 1: end of every episode. Yeah, episode of our podcast we

1430
01:15:39,479 --> 01:15:42,360
Speaker 1: call time of Death. I'll out Grayson, so like whenever

1431
01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:45,400
Speaker 1: we finish, like the end of the podcast, do you

1432
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:46,960
Speaker 1: have to do anything leading up? We'll just say time

1433
01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:49,479
Speaker 1: of death is death. But there's a little there's something

1434
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:53,320
Speaker 1: we're gonna intro you do we have that time of death?

1435
01:15:53,640 --> 01:16:06,120
Speaker 1: Time of Death on PM. Isn't that so good? That

1436
01:16:06,320 --> 01:16:09,439
Speaker 1: was so fun? Thank you guys,