Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, a production of our Heart Radio
Speaker 1: and The Black Effect. And just like that, we're back
Speaker 1: on an air. Welcome back to you had another Carefully
Speaker 1: Reckless with your girl Jess. Hilarious. We're gonna jump right
Speaker 1: into just fix my mess. We do not have any
Speaker 1: voice memos, so I'm just gonna be reading all right.
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hey Jus, I'm a big fan. I
Speaker 1: go and see you every time you come to town.
Speaker 1: I've been doing so good for myself. I'm a newly
Speaker 1: licensed cosmetologist. I graduated in December within associates in cosmetology
Speaker 1: and business in two years. I currently have a full
Speaker 1: scholarship to a private university to complete my bachelor in
Speaker 1: computer science this fall. I'm currently in the Army National
Speaker 1: Guard for North Carolina. I've been in for eight years
Speaker 1: and for the most part, I'm financially stable. Since January,
Speaker 1: I've picked up two part time jobs, study job, and
Speaker 1: I volunteer my time for funeral services when i'm free. Okay.
Speaker 1: I was deployed in twenty nineteen and was overseas during COVID.
Speaker 1: I've really accomplished a lot in a little time. I
Speaker 1: even ran across country with my school for two years
Speaker 1: and one two championships. But lately I've been really sad,
Speaker 1: like really sad. It's been almost three months since I
Speaker 1: stopped running heavily, and honestly, I thought that was my issue,
Speaker 1: so I started working out and running again. I still
Speaker 1: feel sad. I love to paint, and even painting doesn't
Speaker 1: help me feel better. My love life sucks, and you
Speaker 1: put four says on that shit. It sucks. I have
Speaker 1: no boyfriend. I'm not even talking or messaging anyone on
Speaker 1: the regular. I'm really alone. I have friends, but they're
Speaker 1: all in relationships, some married, all with kids. Though I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm so different from everyone around me. I've
Speaker 1: tried talking to people, but that does mean no good.
Speaker 1: The men around here are some bitches. I'm lonely. I've
Speaker 1: seen help, which saved my life after my deployment. I
Speaker 1: just feel like I'm missing something and I'm hurting. I'm
Speaker 1: happy with myself and I have peace within myself, but
Speaker 1: I'm just lonely. My sister have a mental illness, which
Speaker 1: played the biggest part in my life. I created a monster,
Speaker 1: my alter ego because of the emotional weight it had
Speaker 1: on my life. It really got bad. I've dug myself
Speaker 1: out of the hurt and anger that came with it.
Speaker 1: Now that I'm accomplishing all of these things and doing
Speaker 1: good for myself, I feel more and more lonely. I
Speaker 1: don't want a relationship, but I need someone there for me.
Speaker 1: I haven't had intercourse in months, and I just want
Speaker 1: to hug. I'm not getting any of my emotional needs
Speaker 1: met from anybody in my life. I love myself more
Speaker 1: than anything. I have plans to take over the world,
Speaker 1: but I'm missing something. I know you're a successful black woman,
Speaker 1: and I listen to you all the time. You give
Speaker 1: such great advice, and you have such a huge platform.
Speaker 1: Any advice on getting out of this loneliness on the
Speaker 1: journey of being successful. I'm so stuck. I'm twenty seven,
Speaker 1: by the way, what twenty seven? I'm young enough to
Speaker 1: take my time. But then again, I'm stepping into a
Speaker 1: whole different part of womanhood. I really need to get
Speaker 1: over this emotional hump, all right, So I just want
Speaker 1: to apologize for the background noise. I'm actually in my home.
Speaker 1: I'm getting it cleaned right now, and I have to
Speaker 1: find any Indian every time I can to deliver y'all
Speaker 1: these episodes, So pardon me in parting my cleaners, but listen,
Speaker 1: first and foremost, I can sympathize with you because I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna say I'm going through the same thing, but
Speaker 1: I'm kind of in the same place in my life.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't consider it going through something. And the only
Speaker 1: reason why I say that is it's just not your time. Here.
Speaker 1: I am thirty one, and I thought that there was
Speaker 1: a time clock on my love life. I thought that
Speaker 1: there was like a deadline that I had to reach
Speaker 1: in order for me to get married, or a deadline
Speaker 1: to have kids, a deadline to be in love. It
Speaker 1: literally is none of that. It's just not your time,
Speaker 1: just like it's not my time. Now. You're twenty seven,
Speaker 1: you're still in your twenties. I think what you are
Speaker 1: probably feeling is that you're so busy because you talk
Speaker 1: about how independent you are, how you got all this
Speaker 1: going on, all your accolades, or you know, you've been
Speaker 1: in school doing this, you got this degree, you're working
Speaker 1: on this degree, you love yourself and all this. I
Speaker 1: think you don't even make room enough for somebody else
Speaker 1: to tell you any of that, because you're that's all
Speaker 1: you gave me up front. I don't know if you
Speaker 1: ever saw the movie Think Like a Man. Taraji p
Speaker 1: Henson's character on There was a very strong independent woman
Speaker 1: who felt like she didn't need a man for anything.
Speaker 1: She just wanted that feeling. She just wanted to be hugged,
Speaker 1: she wanted to be kissed, but she still felt as if, Oh,
Speaker 1: I don't need a man for anything. I don't need love.
Speaker 1: I don't need I just want it. I feel that's
Speaker 1: how you are. You're just a bit younger. We get
Speaker 1: so caught up in what we can do for ourselves
Speaker 1: that we never really give grace to our companion or
Speaker 1: whoever the companion may be in the future or whatever,
Speaker 1: to do the same. Now you said that you are
Speaker 1: stepping into a whole different part of womanhood. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that you have to have everything that
Speaker 1: you think you should have just because you're stepping into
Speaker 1: a whole point of womanhood. Now you said you're the
Speaker 1: loneliest one in your whole friend circle. Everybody else's in
Speaker 1: relationships or they're married, they have different paths. We often
Speaker 1: get caught up in what other people are doing that
Speaker 1: we can't really focus on ourselves. You feel like you're
Speaker 1: deserving of love because you accomplished everything else. No, you
Speaker 1: may have to wait longer for love than anything else
Speaker 1: because you already have everything. And then it may just
Speaker 1: not be your season to love. Maybe you're supposed to
Speaker 1: be so focused that you'll be distracted by love if
Speaker 1: it came to you right now. You have to think
Speaker 1: positive in all aspects of your life. That's the only
Speaker 1: negative in your mind. And it's not even a negative.
Speaker 1: It's just not your time. That is the only advice
Speaker 1: I have for you. Your time, because it's not time.
Speaker 1: It's not your time for love. Take your time doing
Speaker 1: everything else. Continue to stay focused, continue to work very
Speaker 1: very hard, and it'll all pay off. I don't know
Speaker 1: if you are a spiritual I don't know if you're religious,
Speaker 1: but the God that I pray to is a very
Speaker 1: very loyal god, and he's not ever going to let
Speaker 1: us be lonely. You're not lonely, You're just alone. And
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you how to feel. I'm just telling
Speaker 1: you I know the feeling all too well. I thought
Speaker 1: it was a season of loneliness for me. No, it's not.
Speaker 1: It was just that I was alone, and you have
Speaker 1: to learn how to be by yourself. If you love yourself,
Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna do, you know, first, because you
Speaker 1: need to turn that definition of loneliness into just being alone.
Speaker 1: You just don't like being alone, but you have to
Speaker 1: learn how to do that and love on yourself, so
Speaker 1: when someone finally does come to love on you, you'll
Speaker 1: know how to accept it. You know, you have to
Speaker 1: make certain decisions about yourself and what you'll take and
Speaker 1: what you won't take, and just learn yourself. You need
Speaker 1: to be taking this time to learn yourself. You still
Speaker 1: ain't your twenties. You don't even really get to know
Speaker 1: who you are until you step into that thirty mark.
Speaker 1: I thought I had it all figured out too when
Speaker 1: I was twenty three and twenty five and twenty six.
Speaker 1: It's just because my parents raised a very mature young lady.
Speaker 1: So I'm well before my time, but I still didn't
Speaker 1: know everything. You're well before your time. You still don't
Speaker 1: know everything. You don't know who you are going to
Speaker 1: be as a woman in love. You just don't know.
Speaker 1: So you can't just make that decision and just say
Speaker 1: I'm tired of being lonely nobody's gonna you know, I'm
Speaker 1: I don't talk to anybody right now. Do you get out?
Speaker 1: It seems like you work so much that you wouldn't
Speaker 1: even be able to mix and mingle. It seems like
Speaker 1: you don't really get out for like just drinks. You don't.
Speaker 1: And then have you ever gotten any advice from your
Speaker 1: married friends and from your friends and relationships and from
Speaker 1: the outside looking in? Are they all great and in
Speaker 1: love and happy? Is every single person happy? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Sometimes you could be saving yourself. Sometimes
Speaker 1: it is better to hold fast and wait. It's not
Speaker 1: show time, baby, it ain't even my time. I used
Speaker 1: to wake up every day like I need to have
Speaker 1: kids by thirty I need to be married by thirty two.
Speaker 1: Why do we put deadlines on ourselves? I come to
Speaker 1: tell you right now, I'm thirty one, and I see
Speaker 1: what my thirties are gonna be Like now, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be in movies. I'm gonna barely have time to sit down,
Speaker 1: get married and have a baby. That doesn't mean it's
Speaker 1: not gonna happen. But now I noticed I'm not saying
Speaker 1: the same thing that I was saying at twenty eight
Speaker 1: and twenty seven that I'm saying at thirty one my
Speaker 1: deadline was pushed out. Why because it's not supposed to
Speaker 1: be a deadline put on your life for anything. The
Speaker 1: only deadline you have is death, and we don't know
Speaker 1: what that is. Fortunately, we don't know when that is,
Speaker 1: So check back in with me. I'll let you know
Speaker 1: when I get a man. You let me know when
Speaker 1: you get a man. All right, all right, I love you,
Speaker 1: you young black successful woman. If you love me, you'll
Speaker 1: listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back
Speaker 1: moving on. Hey, Jess, I just want to say I
Speaker 1: love your show and hopefully you can fix my mess.
Speaker 1: We're going to call this a fall from grace. Oh lord, girl,
Speaker 1: you've been watching too much solid parade. Let me take
Speaker 1: you back to the summer of twenty twenty, before COVID hit.
Speaker 1: I was living my best life, Jess, traveling, partying on
Speaker 1: the lodge with it. It's a Detroit thing, hot girls,
Speaker 1: some of vibes all around. For the first time in
Speaker 1: a long time, I finally felt like I found myself.
Speaker 1: I was drama free, genuinely happy and abandoned. Hi, you
Speaker 1: must have met unabandoned. I felt free. I was going
Speaker 1: through a little breakup and my feelings were hurt, but
Speaker 1: I was healing but still enjoying my life. Fast forward
Speaker 1: to twenty twenty one and COVID was on a rampage,
Speaker 1: and to be honest, I worked so much that I
Speaker 1: didn't even know what was going on until I went
Speaker 1: to the grocery store and it was completely empty, and
Speaker 1: I was like, Damn, this's real. I was still happy
Speaker 1: and doing me, but I was just in the house
Speaker 1: with it until one day I was approached by this guy.
Speaker 1: We're gonna call him gossip boy. Damn, oh, Lloyd, can't
Speaker 1: nothing be good about a nigga you calling gossip boy.
Speaker 1: Gossip Boy came up to me and started a conversation
Speaker 1: with me, and he seemed to be a cool guy,
Speaker 1: so I gave him my number. We hit it off
Speaker 1: pretty quickly and we started spending time together. What I
Speaker 1: like most about him is that he made me laugh
Speaker 1: and we had a pretty good vibe. He was staying
Speaker 1: with his sister at the time, so the first time
Speaker 1: we hung out was at my apartment. Justice Man gave
Speaker 1: me big dick vibes, oh wow, and I was really
Speaker 1: feeling him. One thing led to another and clothes started
Speaker 1: coming off, and bitch, I'm excited, yeah, because I just
Speaker 1: knew that he had to King Kong Man. When the
Speaker 1: nigga took off his pants, my face went from translation.
Speaker 1: But he had a mini bear can. But I still
Speaker 1: went through with it because our genuinely liked him. After
Speaker 1: that happened, he would be at my place all the
Speaker 1: time and basically was moved in all shit. The first
Speaker 1: red flag, I was about to say a girl. All right.
Speaker 1: We worked at a factory and I pretty much stayed
Speaker 1: to myself. Nobody knew me until I started talking to him,
Speaker 1: and people somehow knew all of our business. I would
Speaker 1: ask him, why are you running your mouth gossiping like
Speaker 1: a bitch. Every time I would ask him, he would
Speaker 1: deny telling anybody anything. Red Flag number two. Every time
Speaker 1: we had sex, he would apologize for how small his
Speaker 1: dick is in the middle of us having sex, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, nigga, I'm trying to concentrate on busting shut up.
Speaker 1: Red Flag number three. He always said I was going
Speaker 1: to have his baby. I tried to get rid of him,
Speaker 1: but he always suckered me into staying with him. By July.
Speaker 1: I was really over it, and as soon as I
Speaker 1: was about to kick his ass to the curb, guess
Speaker 1: who popped up pregnant ding ding Daniel ass, Damn, Damn,
Speaker 1: Damn and my Florida Evans voice. So I found out
Speaker 1: that I was eight weeks pregnant and shit still ain't improving.
Speaker 1: So one day I left work early. He stayed, so
Speaker 1: I politely put his stuff on the other side of
Speaker 1: the door. Wait. I told him we should just focus
Speaker 1: on cool parents and see what happens. He agreed, and
Speaker 1: things started to get better okay, until my friend told
Speaker 1: me he was messed around with another girl at our job.
Speaker 1: I didn't know because my job put me on maternity
Speaker 1: to leave early. When I confronted him about it, he
Speaker 1: said he was just pimping her out and he didn't
Speaker 1: care about her. We argued for weeks. I asked him
Speaker 1: to just please leave her alone and focus on our family.
Speaker 1: That bitch told me he ain't given up on this
Speaker 1: opportunity for nobody. So once he said that, I blocked
Speaker 1: him and just focused on me and my pregnancy. I
Speaker 1: was hurt. But anyways, when I was five months pregnant,
Speaker 1: I decided to move out of the state to have
Speaker 1: more support from my family. I told him about it.
Speaker 1: He didn't like it, but I had to do what
Speaker 1: was best for my daughter. So one day I call
Speaker 1: him because I missed him, and that's when I found
Speaker 1: out that the girl he was pimping out was pregnant
Speaker 1: with his child too, and he was happy. He told
Speaker 1: me he finally got what he wanted and this is
Speaker 1: going to be end all be all. When I tell you,
Speaker 1: that broke me, Jess, like, how could you do that
Speaker 1: to me? Like I have never been betrayed like that
Speaker 1: in my life. Yes, we technically weren't together, but I
Speaker 1: was pregnant with your child. I wasn't out here fucking nobody.
Speaker 1: I was alone and pregnant for months. I would ask
Speaker 1: him to help me get some things for our daughter
Speaker 1: and he would tell me his girl and his son
Speaker 1: needs it more. He treated my daughter like a second option.
Speaker 1: He would verbally abuse me and yeah, I popped my
Speaker 1: shit too. Yeah you from Detroit, I know. But it's
Speaker 1: different when a nigga is constantly gaslighting me. Somehow he
Speaker 1: finds a way to be a victim. Oh, that manipulating shit. Girl,
Speaker 1: can't stand it. It's really beyond me. Yes, I had
Speaker 1: my petty moments and said fucked up things to him,
Speaker 1: but he is the common denominator for everything. He blames
Speaker 1: me for having another baby. I had my daughter in
Speaker 1: March of twenty twenty two, and a few days later
Speaker 1: I got a real bad case of COVID and pneumonia,
Speaker 1: to the point where I was incubated for three weeks
Speaker 1: and I almost died. So dealing with that trauma, being
Speaker 1: a new mom and the bullshit from him had did
Speaker 1: a lot of damage to my mental health. I became
Speaker 1: a depressed, alcoholic, an overall and unpleasant person to be
Speaker 1: all around. I finally made the decision to cut him
Speaker 1: off and focus on myself and my daughter. But even
Speaker 1: with that, it didn't help. Every time I get drunk
Speaker 1: and I'm talking about blacked out drink, I'm crying and
Speaker 1: talking about my baby. Daddy hurt me. Oh God, I
Speaker 1: just want to heal. I just want to be happy again. Jess,
Speaker 1: can you please help me and give me some advice?
Speaker 1: Thank you, and I'm sorry for the long written message. PS.
Speaker 1: I forgot to mention that the girl he was messing
Speaker 1: with knew about me the whole time, and she be
Speaker 1: on fuck shit with his ass. But it's okay because
Speaker 1: when I see her or them, I'm beating the ass.
Speaker 1: I love you, Jess. Also, I'm a real person, but
Speaker 1: I deleted all my social media accounts, so I created
Speaker 1: this one to contact you. Okay, I totally get a girl.
Speaker 1: It don't matter. I didn't even need that last part.
Speaker 1: I could tell you a real person because this shit
Speaker 1: is too fucking specific for you not to be a
Speaker 1: fucking real person. Hold up, hold up, I know the
Speaker 1: ship getting good, but listen to just a couple seconds
Speaker 1: of a commerc If you love me, you'll listen, all right,
Speaker 1: First and foremost, a start from where you caught my attention.
Speaker 1: All right, So you wanted it to be over, you
Speaker 1: did you? You really did want it to be over
Speaker 1: with him. You put a shit on the other side
Speaker 1: of ther door. You was ready. You were fed up
Speaker 1: with it. You didn't quite tell me exactly why you
Speaker 1: were fed up with it, because I know the little
Speaker 1: penis cannot be the only thing, because you still hung
Speaker 1: in there. You hung in there enough to get the
Speaker 1: button of and he got you pregnant. That that little
Speaker 1: bit can had some little soldiers marching through it, all
Speaker 1: right because he got your ass pregnant, big dick or not?
Speaker 1: All right? But you didn't quite tell me why you
Speaker 1: want it to be done. That's all you mentioned was
Speaker 1: just his small penis, all right, But you had this
Speaker 1: stuff outside the dough. You find out you pregnant, you
Speaker 1: still wanted them gone. It wasn't until you found out
Speaker 1: that he was dealing with somebody else at the job
Speaker 1: then you were hurt. Now, listen, were you hurt because
Speaker 1: you didn't want him to deal with nobody else? Was
Speaker 1: it just the fact that it was somebody at the job.
Speaker 1: Did you think that he may have been fucking with
Speaker 1: somebody else before y'all broke up or what? Because if
Speaker 1: you wanted them gone that bad, why did it matter
Speaker 1: to you so much to find out that he was
Speaker 1: dealing with somebody like y'all weren't together, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. You had already put him out by then,
Speaker 1: So I'm just curious to know. Now it could have
Speaker 1: been a hormonal situation because you said you were pregnant.
Speaker 1: You could have been having different feelings that would change.
Speaker 1: You could have been in and out with it like
Speaker 1: I want him. But then I don't want him, And
Speaker 1: these could have all been blamed on your hormonal changes
Speaker 1: or whatever with you being pregnant, but it seemed that
Speaker 1: you were very concreting your answer because you wanted this
Speaker 1: nigger gone before you even found out that you were pregnant.
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm trying to get to. But you're
Speaker 1: not here to talk to me in real time about it,
Speaker 1: so I want you to check back with me. Moving
Speaker 1: on to a later part of the story, you said,
Speaker 1: let's co parents. He was fine with that. But then, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm backpedaling because that's what I'm saying. You were fine
Speaker 1: with everything until you found out about the damn girl.
Speaker 1: That's why I said, were you really over him? Because
Speaker 1: sometimes we may think that we don't want a person
Speaker 1: until they're gone. In other words, basically, you don't know
Speaker 1: what you got until it's gone. Now, I'm not saying
Speaker 1: he was the best thing that ever happened to you,
Speaker 1: and or nor vice versa. I'm not saying you're the
Speaker 1: best thing to happen to him, but obviously you felt
Speaker 1: the way and you wanted him back after you found
Speaker 1: out that he was with somebody else. You said, the
Speaker 1: girl knew about you the whole time. Fuck her, she
Speaker 1: ain't got no loyalty to you. You You ain't gonna be
Speaker 1: high ass because you got a daughter to take care of.
Speaker 1: Fuck that, fuck them, Fuck that, all right, You ain't
Speaker 1: gonna be high ass because, to be honest with you,
Speaker 1: her daughter or her child and your child of siblings,
Speaker 1: whether you like it or not. So don't beat our ass.
Speaker 1: Don't beat their ass. I made that mistake. One of
Speaker 1: my baby father's other baby mothers, I beat high ass.
Speaker 1: We're cordial now, but I still regret doing that because
Speaker 1: I wasn't thinking about my child or her child, who
Speaker 1: I also look at as another child of mine. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, and how it could potentially hurt
Speaker 1: them later, Or my son could say to his sister
Speaker 1: one day, they argument, that's my mother. Beat your mother ass.
Speaker 1: You know, did she look at me a certain way?
Speaker 1: Or you know, vice versa. You just don't want to
Speaker 1: do that. You're playing a dangerous game when it comes
Speaker 1: to your children and their parent, the other parent. They're
Speaker 1: not worth it anyway, all right. You moved out of town.
Speaker 1: He ain't doing shit for your baby. He could be
Speaker 1: better that. You didn't want a relationship with him. He
Speaker 1: could be better. I'm not justified, but he just seems
Speaker 1: like he's bitter to you. You can't make a man
Speaker 1: step up and do shit, So you need to go
Speaker 1: through the courts. Because obviously y'all don't even live in
Speaker 1: the same place. You need help with their baby, So
Speaker 1: this is a good time to put them on child support. Yep,
Speaker 1: this is a good time because this would be a
Speaker 1: case where the mom actually needed. You know, women put
Speaker 1: men on child support for many different reasons, but the
Speaker 1: right reason is for the child and because you can't
Speaker 1: do everything on your own, and you did not make
Speaker 1: that baby girl on your own. So this is what
Speaker 1: I would call a great opportunity to seek assistance through
Speaker 1: the courts. Put them on child support, some type of
Speaker 1: government assistance. You would need to help take care of
Speaker 1: your baby. All right, I understand that you're better, but
Speaker 1: you also need to heal. Like you said, you need
Speaker 1: to fucking heal. He ain't coming back, and even if
Speaker 1: the fuck he would come back, would you take him exactly?
Speaker 1: We have to ask ourselves that what could he give
Speaker 1: you right now to make you happy? Another baby, love,
Speaker 1: a relationship, a cheating one back and forth, what could
Speaker 1: he do right now to make you happy? Nothing, take
Speaker 1: care of your daughter, But it ain't even that for you.
Speaker 1: It's the fact that you're still bitter about what he
Speaker 1: did to you with another woman. It ain't even all
Speaker 1: about your daughter. Yes, you're damn show upset that he
Speaker 1: won't help you take care of your baby, but you're
Speaker 1: upset with matters of the heart too, you know, more
Speaker 1: so what he did to you in the relationship and
Speaker 1: what he didn't do after the relationship, or you know,
Speaker 1: or you felt like he cheated or whatever, or just
Speaker 1: sometimes we don't want to see the person that we
Speaker 1: love with someone else. We're not ready to move on,
Speaker 1: But you need to do so, and it starts with
Speaker 1: you just reflecting on who you are and you having
Speaker 1: to do everything by yourself and asking yourself that real question,
Speaker 1: that very real question, What could this nigga do for
Speaker 1: me right now that's gonna make me happy in my heart?
Speaker 1: Not the baby me. What can he do drop everything
Speaker 1: and come live here? Then he got another baby, Then
Speaker 1: he still got other kids with that other girl somewhere else.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, just just just wake
Speaker 1: up and think about that, because you deserve much better,
Speaker 1: and you're gonna get much better because you're still young.
Speaker 1: You've got a lot more life to live. And so
Speaker 1: does your baby girl. Get back to me, because if
Speaker 1: you feel like nobody love you, I'm telling you I
Speaker 1: love you, and that little girl loves you too. So no,
Speaker 1: ain't nobody worth your peace and your sanity because you
Speaker 1: need that to take care of your child, and you
Speaker 1: need that to get past all your trauma. And that's
Speaker 1: just what it is, is past trauma. I'm not asking
Speaker 1: you to forget it in a sense, but in a
Speaker 1: sense I am move on and forget it. Bury that
Speaker 1: shit because remembering ain't gonna do nothing for you but
Speaker 1: hold you back. And just like that, we've come to
Speaker 1: the end of another Carefully Reckless episode with your girl.
Speaker 1: Just hilarious. Make sure you tune into co Parents and
Speaker 1: Therapy every other Wednesday. Listen, y'all. My trip in Aruba
Speaker 1: threw me off. Y'all. I didn't deliver an episode for
Speaker 1: Carefully Reckless. I didn't deliver co Parenting on YouTube. I
Speaker 1: didn't deliver any promotions for my Messy Vision products, my glasses,
Speaker 1: and we got new new glasses coming soon. I also
Speaker 1: we'll be doing breakfast Club with DJ Envy and motherfucking
Speaker 1: Charlemagne and guard y'all listen, I'll be doing that all
Speaker 1: this week. If you ain't already heard, make sure you
Speaker 1: tune into Carefully Reckless each and every Wednesday and then
Speaker 1: my deepest pan voys. Bitch Can'tfully Reckless is a production
Speaker 1: of I heart Radio and The Black Effect. For more
Speaker 1: podcasts from I heart Radio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.