Speaker 1: The second date of date. The number one reason that
Speaker 1: people email, call, or try and get in contact with
Speaker 1: the show is obviously feet picks, and both Jose and
Speaker 1: Alexis have given theirs out countless times. Oh yeah, people
Speaker 1: want Jose's feet picks. I've seen you in foot I'm sorry, Love,
Speaker 1: I just some people. It's like how some people enjoy
Speaker 1: horror movies. You know. Deal, But the second most common
Speaker 1: reason people reach out to us is to get another
Speaker 1: date when someone's blowing you off. And Waller listener Nick
Speaker 1: says he would like another date, there's something even more
Speaker 1: important that he wants to do, and that's to say,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Oh so, Nick, welcome to the show. I'm
Speaker 1: sorry that you have to call us. So I'd like
Speaker 1: to apologize. First. You must be at a super low
Speaker 1: point in your life if you're reaching out to this show.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. It's not good. Hey, but that's
Speaker 1: a powerful phrase. I'm sorry. You know, people don't say
Speaker 1: it enough. So already I feel like you're at a
Speaker 1: good place. Yeah, so tell us about the woman that
Speaker 1: you'd like to apologize to. What's her name? Her name's Alicia. Alicia. Okay,
Speaker 1: and I'm guessing you met her on a dating app,
Speaker 1: just established it a good guess. Yeah, this is a
Speaker 1: psychic Okay, Brook, What did they do for their date?
Speaker 1: I don't know, probably dinner. Did you go to dinner?
Speaker 1: There was dinner. We don't even need to talk to you, No,
Speaker 1: I do always like to know, like what it was
Speaker 1: about her that stood out to you. You know, what
Speaker 1: did you like about Alicia? Yeah, she's definitely cute, fatigue brunette.
Speaker 1: She got this beautiful smile and so yeah, we got
Speaker 1: to chatting and that's where it really like kicked in
Speaker 1: because we were talking for a little over a week
Speaker 1: and we were just vibing. Right. Oh, so the chatting
Speaker 1: actually made things better for you. I don't have that experience.
Speaker 1: You just like go with the date, even though the
Speaker 1: conversation and gets worse. And I'm just saying, as soon
Speaker 1: as I start talking, that's where things start to go
Speaker 1: down hill. But for Nick, apparently, what's the opposite way
Speaker 1: good for you? Man? Maybe he should take your job.
Speaker 1: It was the chatting that was great. When we got
Speaker 1: to the talking was where I think I screwed it up. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're talking about in person. Yeah, so what happened on
Speaker 1: the date. You know what. It didn't happen on the date.
Speaker 1: It happened before the date. I got two parking tickets
Speaker 1: that day, like back to back, and then we're going
Speaker 1: out that night, and I'm just I was kind of
Speaker 1: pissed off. Ye Trankie Nick was walking into the date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't know, I had this
Speaker 1: rapport with her and I just felt maybe a little
Speaker 1: too comfortable because I wasn't first date mode anymore. I
Speaker 1: was just ready. I just had to like vank and
Speaker 1: I did it. And I complained and yeah, did you
Speaker 1: have to drive to the date and park again because
Speaker 1: you're worried about his parking decision? Just happly second guessing
Speaker 1: every time I leave that card out. So are you saying, like,
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys are sitting down at dinner in
Speaker 1: the entire time, that's all you're talking about. Or did
Speaker 1: you launch in right from the beginning, like I did
Speaker 1: launch in from the beginning, and I could tell it
Speaker 1: was a mood killer, So I tried to pivot. I
Speaker 1: tried to make some jokes. They didn't land. She was
Speaker 1: like looking at her phone a lot, like got that.
Speaker 1: When is this going to be over. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: hard to go into a date and the first thing
Speaker 1: you get is negative, Like you wouldn't need to ask
Speaker 1: about you not hear about them complaining about their life.
Speaker 1: So is that why you want to apologize to Alicia?
Speaker 1: Because you complained? Wow? You something else? Yeah? What I
Speaker 1: did something. I'm so embarrassed even telling you guys this.
Speaker 1: I'm always going to regret this. I said, you know
Speaker 1: what if this is going to be our last date
Speaker 1: and I'm going to enjoy everything that I paid for?
Speaker 1: Oh what does that mean? I reached across the table,
Speaker 1: I grabbed her margarita and I just chugged it in
Speaker 1: front of her. Who why are we? He like, early
Speaker 1: chugged her margarita. Well, it's because she was on her
Speaker 1: phone not paying attention to you. Like, I knew that
Speaker 1: I came in negative, but I felt like she was
Speaker 1: kind of being a little bit of it. Can I
Speaker 1: say anyway, I'm going to say, if you ever start
Speaker 1: with can I say, just don't say it? Yeah? But
Speaker 1: you know, she said, like, what are you doing? And
Speaker 1: I said, I can tell you're not interested. Let's just
Speaker 1: call it what it is, Like, what are you gonna
Speaker 1: eat the rest of my salad, and yeah, I just chewing,
Speaker 1: just so much chewing on that salad. There's nothing so
Speaker 1: sad as just like angry salad eating what you actually
Speaker 1: you really did. Yeah, she got up and left, but
Speaker 1: I used to sat there and age the damn shell.
Speaker 1: Oh I don't think we should call her. Some of
Speaker 1: the girls are into guys that are jerks. No, I
Speaker 1: think you need to chalk this up as a really
Speaker 1: big lesson, Like that's crazy. He said that he wanted
Speaker 1: to say sorry. Now it's making a whole lot more sense. Why. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he doesn't expect a date here. He just wants to say, Look,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you caught me in a bad moment, even
Speaker 1: if you would have done it without the line like
Speaker 1: that I paid for. Oh yeah, that's not a conversation
Speaker 1: you should have till after marriage, for sure. So have
Speaker 1: you even tried Have you tried to apologize just by
Speaker 1: yourself yet? Nick? Oh? Yeah, she blocked me right, and
Speaker 1: I know I was terrible, and I really do just
Speaker 1: I do just want to apologize, But also, like I've
Speaker 1: been on three dates since then, and nothing even starts
Speaker 1: to compare to what we kind of had when you
Speaker 1: know before that night, Yeah, did you drink all those
Speaker 1: dates alcoholic beverages as well? I listen. I'm not a
Speaker 1: fast learner, but some lessons are learned quickly, and that
Speaker 1: one I will do it again. All about growth, It's
Speaker 1: all about growth. I was just gonna say, you fell
Speaker 1: on your sword. You admitted your wrong, So let's right,
Speaker 1: you're wrong, and I'll be here for you. Thank you.
Speaker 1: I like when Jose does my job. We're gonna play,
Speaker 1: you know, I love it. I love it. It's good.
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Speaker 1: in the idea of love at first sight, love at
Speaker 1: first kiss. Okay, yeah, on this show, we're hoping for
Speaker 1: love at first apology and Nick blew it big time
Speaker 1: on his first date. Where did he go the most strong?
Speaker 1: Was it when he came in hot and vented about
Speaker 1: the two parking tickets that he got earlier that day.
Speaker 1: That wasn't the most Or was it when he reached
Speaker 1: across the table, grabbed her margharita and gulped it down
Speaker 1: in front of her in frustration, cringe eat her salad
Speaker 1: as she got up and walked away. Oh yeah, take this,
Speaker 1: So Nick knows he messed up. And badly wants to
Speaker 1: apologize to see if there's any chance for him to
Speaker 1: get another date and Brooke, are there any hurtful things
Speaker 1: that you would like to say to him to make
Speaker 1: him feel worse before we do this, because that's kind
Speaker 1: of been the trend lately. I know, Matt that you're
Speaker 1: blaming it. His name is Nick. That's okay, you don't
Speaker 1: even register I met Nicky. You could interchange a Matt
Speaker 1: and Nick. I mean anyway, Wow, Okay, listen, Nick, I
Speaker 1: do think that you need to be very careful full
Speaker 1: in this phone call that you do not have any
Speaker 1: big emotion because you have to show her if you're
Speaker 1: going to apologize that you can actually control your emotions. True. No,
Speaker 1: I totally agree with you. I mean, I'm in a
Speaker 1: much calmer place today. I don't no barking tickets today,
Speaker 1: nothing's going on well, I mean, the day is total
Speaker 1: early Ben, I don't know how this is going to go.
Speaker 1: All right, Kyle, Okay, whatever, Tim, let's just do this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're interchangeable. I'm just messing around me. We're gonna call
Speaker 1: Alicia hopefully, let you do your apology and maybe get
Speaker 1: you a second date. Yeah. If you guys should throw
Speaker 1: off a Hail Mary at the end. There'd be amazing
Speaker 1: you took a bargrating from a woman. I don't forget.
Speaker 1: We're going to do our best here. Here we go.
Speaker 1: I'm a dialing number right now. Hello. Hey, is this Alicia?
Speaker 1: This is her? She sounds so nice? Does I hope
Speaker 1: we don't ruin your day with this? But we're calling
Speaker 1: from a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Um okay, Hi, Alicia, Okay, day not ruined yet? Hi?
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm feeling really bad about what we're
Speaker 1: gonna do here. We want to do something a little
Speaker 1: bit awkward with you called a second date update. Um okay, okay.
Speaker 1: The idea is we help our listeners who've gone out
Speaker 1: on a bad date recently try and redeem themselves and
Speaker 1: hopefully get things back on track. And recently you went
Speaker 1: out with one of our listeners named Nick. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Nick does not like how your first date went. No,
Speaker 1: he doesn't like how he acted. I think, yeah, you
Speaker 1: know what we're talking about. Yes, that was probably like
Speaker 1: the most ridiculous date I've ever been on. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: And Nick actually agrees with you on that. He does.
Speaker 1: That's surprising. He had a moment of self awareness after
Speaker 1: everything was over, and he knows that he acted like
Speaker 1: a total child about the whole thing. Yeah, I want
Speaker 1: to know what it was like from her perspective. Really good,
Speaker 1: I'm guessing. I mean, what were you thinking? We went
Speaker 1: on this day and he was clearly having like a
Speaker 1: bad day. He came in off the bat hot about
Speaker 1: his parking tickets. Yeah, so we do know this part
Speaker 1: of the story. Nick told us he was complaining about
Speaker 1: parking tickets and he's regretful for he made some bad jokes,
Speaker 1: he said, And the worst part was when he drank
Speaker 1: your margharita in front of you, my margharita. Yeah, oh
Speaker 1: my god, that was the statement piece of the night.
Speaker 1: What god I would have been. I mean, obviously you
Speaker 1: got up and left right because you were so angry. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I left when he started eating my taco salad. What
Speaker 1: a monster. Honestly, what was what was your main feeling there?
Speaker 1: Other than hunger and thirst? The main feeling was probably
Speaker 1: just confusion, like oh yeah, well, so here's the thing.
Speaker 1: Nick reached out to us because he's seen the air
Speaker 1: of his ways and I'm not asking you to go
Speaker 1: out with him again right now. I'm not, but I
Speaker 1: am asking if you would consider hearing Nick out here
Speaker 1: in his apology as a favor to me, the guy
Speaker 1: that you just met over the phone, a favorite to
Speaker 1: you guys, as a favorite to you guys. I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess I could hear him out. You could tell
Speaker 1: him to call me, but like, oh, not too bad,
Speaker 1: I have to like unblock his number for Okay, Well
Speaker 1: you don't even have to unblock his number because actually
Speaker 1: we have good news or I guess news. Nick is
Speaker 1: actually on the other line listening right now and wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you. So you're gonna call Nick now
Speaker 1: or what? No, I'm not. I'm not gonna do anything
Speaker 1: except step away and let Nick talk because he's already there. Yes, Nick, Hi,
Speaker 1: it's me. What exactly is happening? Lain, Yeah, I do.
Speaker 1: I I just want to apologize to you for what happened, um,
Speaker 1: because it was definitely rude. Um. Yeah, I mean, but
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like I wouldn't have done it if
Speaker 1: you had like laughed at one of my jokes stopped secure.
Speaker 1: So I'll apologize it, or you're not. I am. I
Speaker 1: am totally owning what I did was so wrong. I
Speaker 1: am so sorry. I was rude, And the only thing
Speaker 1: I'm just saying is that it is a two way street.
Speaker 1: Like and you also did stuff that like, no, you
Speaker 1: triggered me? Oh really, it's my fault that you drank
Speaker 1: my margharita. But the hell, oh no, no, get her
Speaker 1: on the phone for you to harass her again? Did
Speaker 1: you say she triggered you? Like you you knew I
Speaker 1: was in a bad place, Like that was obvious, right,
Speaker 1: I mean, I know I came in too hot, but
Speaker 1: like I thought, we had a good rapport and you
Speaker 1: understood me. And she didn't guide you to happiness. He
Speaker 1: was a ticking time bomb when he came in, and
Speaker 1: she should have diffused it rather than let it go off.
Speaker 1: That's true, Niche. How she responsible for your emotions or
Speaker 1: the way you react to things? Brook, You've triggered me
Speaker 1: so many times on this show. You never said a
Speaker 1: single bag. You're in charge of your own emotions. Nobody
Speaker 1: else is. I am in charge of my emotions. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, if somebody's down, you'll like kick them. When
Speaker 1: they're down, you like to pick them up. You know.
Speaker 1: It's so nice. She didn't say, honestly, like I thought
Speaker 1: she was going to go on a tirade about you
Speaker 1: when we called her and she didn't know you were
Speaker 1: on the other line. She didn't say anything actually mean
Speaker 1: about you. Maybe, but that's the problem. She didn't say anything.
Speaker 1: And sometimes when you say nothing actually speaks more than
Speaker 1: when you say something. Yes, when you're being sarcastic and Nick,
Speaker 1: is you going to understand it? And I understand the
Speaker 1: pain of what it's like when you tell a joke
Speaker 1: or you try and say something nice and get nothing back. Yeah, exactly, Nick.
Speaker 1: It really honestly sounds like you're blaming her for not
Speaker 1: laughing at your jokes, and that's why you reacted that way. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I am I am sorry. I definitely did something show wrong. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just I judged. No end it. It's just a
Speaker 1: two way street. I'm not the only person who at
Speaker 1: that table street, Alicia, would you like to take the
Speaker 1: opportunity to apologize for so insecure? Jeff, thanks for he's joking, Alicia,
Speaker 1: or maybe not, Alicia. I'm sorry that I didn't also
Speaker 1: to pay your parking ticket. Dan, do not say that
Speaker 1: she's joking now, you're joking, right, Alicia? Of course, Okay,
Speaker 1: my heart, you don't feel bad that you made him
Speaker 1: feel insecure. I'm not sure how I made him feel
Speaker 1: in shad care. I think you show his true colors.
Speaker 1: I'm just glad that he's not in the same room
Speaker 1: with her, because he'd be eating her breakfast right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's my coffee. I made for it. Actually, we would
Speaker 1: like to give you that opportunity and send you out
Speaker 1: on another date. I mean, Alicia, did his apology not
Speaker 1: fill you with romantic feelings. I'm gonna say sorry at
Speaker 1: least four or five times in Two Way Street. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna have bad days in my life. You're gonna have
Speaker 1: bad days in my life. And I like, I'm not
Speaker 1: just talking about this moment. I'm talking about how two
Speaker 1: people can like help each other in life. Nick, we
Speaker 1: want to send you onto one of his bad days
Speaker 1: and we'll pay for it. What do you say, Alicia? Um,
Speaker 1: I say you can send Nick on a date and
Speaker 1: he can order two entrees. Oh so it's a yes,
Speaker 1: but not with her? Yeah, just by herself? Okay? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Can I count that as a win? Sure? Yeah? Nick? Okay?
Speaker 1: Has everyone done taking shots? At this guy our fault
Speaker 1: again he said shots and Alexis got excited. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: thought broke and Jeffrey in the morning. Well, text board
Speaker 1: is not a big fan of Nick right now. Yes,
Speaker 1: I mean, clearly he made a couple pretty bad mistakes
Speaker 1: on his first date. We didn't even talk about how
Speaker 1: rude it was that she was on her phone in
Speaker 1: front of him. Normally we'd say that's really rude. But
Speaker 1: for him to trump that and be like, forget you
Speaker 1: down her margarita, that's just savage. Yeah, it's like two
Speaker 1: roods don't make a right. Yeah, how it goes? Is
Speaker 1: that right? I don't know. Like his apology was worse though,
Speaker 1: terrible apology. Can you imagine being in a relationship with
Speaker 1: that guy, jeff Can you screen these people better before
Speaker 1: you bring them on? And well, I'm sorry you feel
Speaker 1: that way, Yeah exactly. I mean I don't know what
Speaker 1: the margarita thing. Would you guys ever do that as
Speaker 1: a joke, even with your friends? Honest to god, if
Speaker 1: someone touched my margarita, even if my friend, that's not funny. No,
Speaker 1: unless unless they had two margarita is behind their back
Speaker 1: that they're gonna get. That's gonna be kind of funny.
Speaker 1: It was one of your children, Brook drinking my margarita.
Speaker 1: Then we have bigger problems. Mom is going to be
Speaker 1: proud of for five year olds. So yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't even funny. Necessarily feel bad for Nick for
Speaker 1: not getting another date there, and he's got a lot
Speaker 1: of work to do. I feel bad that we wasted
Speaker 1: her time like that. She was so nice, she gave
Speaker 1: him an opening to apologize, and he couldn't even do
Speaker 1: that right. As Brooke said many many times, Yeah maybe
Speaker 1: it'll learn now. Yeah I doubt it, but there's always hope. Okay, sure,
Speaker 1: stick to that. Yeah, we could maybe be your hope.
Speaker 1: Email the show. We'll call the person who wasn't calling
Speaker 1: you back.