WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Too Late To Apologize

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of date. The number one reason that

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<v Speaker 1>people email, call, or try and get in contact with

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<v Speaker 1>the show is obviously feet picks, and both Jose and

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis have given theirs out countless times. Oh yeah, people

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<v Speaker 1>want Jose's feet picks. I've seen you in foot I'm sorry, Love,

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<v Speaker 1>I just some people. It's like how some people enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>horror movies. You know. Deal, But the second most common

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<v Speaker 1>reason people reach out to us is to get another

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<v Speaker 1>date when someone's blowing you off. And Waller listener Nick

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<v Speaker 1>says he would like another date, there's something even more

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<v Speaker 1>important that he wants to do, and that's to say,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Oh so, Nick, welcome to the show. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry that you have to call us. So I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to apologize. First. You must be at a super low

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<v Speaker 1>point in your life if you're reaching out to this show.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. It's not good. Hey, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>a powerful phrase. I'm sorry. You know, people don't say

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<v Speaker 1>it enough. So already I feel like you're at a

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<v Speaker 1>good place. Yeah, so tell us about the woman that

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<v Speaker 1>you'd like to apologize to. What's her name? Her name's Alicia. Alicia. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm guessing you met her on a dating app,

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<v Speaker 1>just established it a good guess. Yeah, this is a

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<v Speaker 1>psychic Okay, Brook, What did they do for their date?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, probably dinner. Did you go to dinner?

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<v Speaker 1>There was dinner. We don't even need to talk to you, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I do always like to know, like what it was

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<v Speaker 1>about her that stood out to you. You know, what

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<v Speaker 1>did you like about Alicia? Yeah, she's definitely cute, fatigue brunette.

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<v Speaker 1>She got this beautiful smile and so yeah, we got

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<v Speaker 1>to chatting and that's where it really like kicked in

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<v Speaker 1>because we were talking for a little over a week

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<v Speaker 1>and we were just vibing. Right. Oh, so the chatting

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<v Speaker 1>actually made things better for you. I don't have that experience.

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<v Speaker 1>You just like go with the date, even though the

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and gets worse. And I'm just saying, as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as I start talking, that's where things start to go

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<v Speaker 1>down hill. But for Nick, apparently, what's the opposite way

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<v Speaker 1>good for you? Man? Maybe he should take your job.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the chatting that was great. When we got

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<v Speaker 1>to the talking was where I think I screwed it up. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking about in person. Yeah, so what happened on

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<v Speaker 1>the date. You know what. It didn't happen on the date.

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<v Speaker 1>It happened before the date. I got two parking tickets

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<v Speaker 1>that day, like back to back, and then we're going

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<v Speaker 1>out that night, and I'm just I was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>pissed off. Ye Trankie Nick was walking into the date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I don't know, I had this

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<v Speaker 1>rapport with her and I just felt maybe a little

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<v Speaker 1>too comfortable because I wasn't first date mode anymore. I

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<v Speaker 1>was just ready. I just had to like vank and

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<v Speaker 1>I did it. And I complained and yeah, did you

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<v Speaker 1>have to drive to the date and park again because

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<v Speaker 1>you're worried about his parking decision? Just happly second guessing

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<v Speaker 1>every time I leave that card out. So are you saying, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you guys are sitting down at dinner in

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<v Speaker 1>the entire time, that's all you're talking about. Or did

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<v Speaker 1>you launch in right from the beginning, like I did

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<v Speaker 1>launch in from the beginning, and I could tell it

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<v Speaker 1>was a mood killer, So I tried to pivot. I

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<v Speaker 1>tried to make some jokes. They didn't land. She was

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<v Speaker 1>like looking at her phone a lot, like got that.

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<v Speaker 1>When is this going to be over. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to go into a date and the first thing

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<v Speaker 1>you get is negative, Like you wouldn't need to ask

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<v Speaker 1>about you not hear about them complaining about their life.

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<v Speaker 1>So is that why you want to apologize to Alicia?

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<v Speaker 1>Because you complained? Wow? You something else? Yeah? What I

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<v Speaker 1>did something. I'm so embarrassed even telling you guys this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always going to regret this. I said, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what if this is going to be our last date

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm going to enjoy everything that I paid for?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what does that mean? I reached across the table,

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<v Speaker 1>I grabbed her margarita and I just chugged it in

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<v Speaker 1>front of her. Who why are we? He like, early

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<v Speaker 1>chugged her margarita. Well, it's because she was on her

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<v Speaker 1>phone not paying attention to you. Like, I knew that

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<v Speaker 1>I came in negative, but I felt like she was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of being a little bit of it. Can I

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<v Speaker 1>say anyway, I'm going to say, if you ever start

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<v Speaker 1>with can I say, just don't say it? Yeah? But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she said, like, what are you doing? And

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I can tell you're not interested. Let's just

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<v Speaker 1>call it what it is, Like, what are you gonna

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<v Speaker 1>eat the rest of my salad, and yeah, I just chewing,

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<v Speaker 1>just so much chewing on that salad. There's nothing so

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<v Speaker 1>sad as just like angry salad eating what you actually

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<v Speaker 1>you really did. Yeah, she got up and left, but

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<v Speaker 1>I used to sat there and age the damn shell.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I don't think we should call her. Some of

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<v Speaker 1>the girls are into guys that are jerks. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you need to chalk this up as a really

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<v Speaker 1>big lesson, Like that's crazy. He said that he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to say sorry. Now it's making a whole lot more sense. Why. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't expect a date here. He just wants to say, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry you caught me in a bad moment, even

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<v Speaker 1>if you would have done it without the line like

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<v Speaker 1>that I paid for. Oh yeah, that's not a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>you should have till after marriage, for sure. So have

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<v Speaker 1>you even tried Have you tried to apologize just by

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<v Speaker 1>yourself yet? Nick? Oh? Yeah, she blocked me right, and

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<v Speaker 1>I know I was terrible, and I really do just

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<v Speaker 1>I do just want to apologize, But also, like I've

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<v Speaker 1>been on three dates since then, and nothing even starts

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<v Speaker 1>to compare to what we kind of had when you

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<v Speaker 1>know before that night, Yeah, did you drink all those

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<v Speaker 1>dates alcoholic beverages as well? I listen. I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>fast learner, but some lessons are learned quickly, and that

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<v Speaker 1>one I will do it again. All about growth, It's

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<v Speaker 1>all about growth. I was just gonna say, you fell

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<v Speaker 1>on your sword. You admitted your wrong, So let's right,

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<v Speaker 1>you're wrong, and I'll be here for you. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I like when Jose does my job. We're gonna play,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I love it. I love it. It's good.

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<v Speaker 1>in the idea of love at first sight, love at

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<v Speaker 1>first kiss. Okay, yeah, on this show, we're hoping for

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<v Speaker 1>love at first apology and Nick blew it big time

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<v Speaker 1>on his first date. Where did he go the most strong?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it when he came in hot and vented about

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<v Speaker 1>the two parking tickets that he got earlier that day.

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<v Speaker 1>That wasn't the most Or was it when he reached

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<v Speaker 1>across the table, grabbed her margharita and gulped it down

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<v Speaker 1>in front of her in frustration, cringe eat her salad

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<v Speaker 1>as she got up and walked away. Oh yeah, take this,

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<v Speaker 1>So Nick knows he messed up. And badly wants to

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<v Speaker 1>apologize to see if there's any chance for him to

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<v Speaker 1>get another date and Brooke, are there any hurtful things

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<v Speaker 1>that you would like to say to him to make

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<v Speaker 1>him feel worse before we do this, because that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of been the trend lately. I know, Matt that you're

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<v Speaker 1>blaming it. His name is Nick. That's okay, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>even register I met Nicky. You could interchange a Matt

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<v Speaker 1>and Nick. I mean anyway, Wow, Okay, listen, Nick, I

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<v Speaker 1>do think that you need to be very careful full

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<v Speaker 1>in this phone call that you do not have any

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<v Speaker 1>big emotion because you have to show her if you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to apologize that you can actually control your emotions. True. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I totally agree with you. I mean, I'm in a

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<v Speaker 1>much calmer place today. I don't no barking tickets today,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing's going on well, I mean, the day is total

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<v Speaker 1>early Ben, I don't know how this is going to go.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Kyle, Okay, whatever, Tim, let's just do this. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're interchangeable. I'm just messing around me. We're gonna call

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<v Speaker 1>Alicia hopefully, let you do your apology and maybe get

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<v Speaker 1>you a second date. Yeah. If you guys should throw

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<v Speaker 1>off a Hail Mary at the end. There'd be amazing

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<v Speaker 1>you took a bargrating from a woman. I don't forget.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to do our best here. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a dialing number right now. Hello. Hey, is this Alicia?

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<v Speaker 1>This is her? She sounds so nice? Does I hope

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<v Speaker 1>we don't ruin your day with this? But we're calling

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<v Speaker 1>from a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Um okay, Hi, Alicia, Okay, day not ruined yet? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? I'm feeling really bad about what we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do here. We want to do something a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit awkward with you called a second date update. Um okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The idea is we help our listeners who've gone out

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<v Speaker 1>on a bad date recently try and redeem themselves and

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully get things back on track. And recently you went

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<v Speaker 1>out with one of our listeners named Nick. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Nick does not like how your first date went. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't like how he acted. I think, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what we're talking about. Yes, that was probably like

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<v Speaker 1>the most ridiculous date I've ever been on. Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And Nick actually agrees with you on that. He does.

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<v Speaker 1>That's surprising. He had a moment of self awareness after

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<v Speaker 1>everything was over, and he knows that he acted like

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<v Speaker 1>a total child about the whole thing. Yeah, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know what it was like from her perspective. Really good,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing. I mean, what were you thinking? We went

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<v Speaker 1>on this day and he was clearly having like a

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<v Speaker 1>bad day. He came in off the bat hot about

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<v Speaker 1>his parking tickets. Yeah, so we do know this part

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<v Speaker 1>of the story. Nick told us he was complaining about

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<v Speaker 1>parking tickets and he's regretful for he made some bad jokes,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, And the worst part was when he drank

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<v Speaker 1>your margharita in front of you, my margharita. Yeah, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, that was the statement piece of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>What god I would have been. I mean, obviously you

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<v Speaker 1>got up and left right because you were so angry. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I left when he started eating my taco salad. What

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<v Speaker 1>a monster. Honestly, what was what was your main feeling there?

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<v Speaker 1>Other than hunger and thirst? The main feeling was probably

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<v Speaker 1>just confusion, like oh yeah, well, so here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Nick reached out to us because he's seen the air

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<v Speaker 1>of his ways and I'm not asking you to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again right now. I'm not, but I

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<v Speaker 1>am asking if you would consider hearing Nick out here

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<v Speaker 1>in his apology as a favor to me, the guy

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<v Speaker 1>that you just met over the phone, a favorite to

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, as a favorite to you guys. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I could hear him out. You could tell

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<v Speaker 1>him to call me, but like, oh, not too bad,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to like unblock his number for Okay, Well

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<v Speaker 1>you don't even have to unblock his number because actually

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<v Speaker 1>we have good news or I guess news. Nick is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening right now and wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. So you're gonna call Nick now

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<v Speaker 1>or what? No, I'm not. I'm not gonna do anything

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<v Speaker 1>except step away and let Nick talk because he's already there. Yes, Nick, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>it's me. What exactly is happening? Lain, Yeah, I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I I just want to apologize to you for what happened, um,

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<v Speaker 1>because it was definitely rude. Um. Yeah, I mean, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, like I wouldn't have done it if

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<v Speaker 1>you had like laughed at one of my jokes stopped secure.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'll apologize it, or you're not. I am. I

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<v Speaker 1>am totally owning what I did was so wrong. I

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<v Speaker 1>am so sorry. I was rude, And the only thing

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying is that it is a two way street.

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<v Speaker 1>Like and you also did stuff that like, no, you

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<v Speaker 1>triggered me? Oh really, it's my fault that you drank

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<v Speaker 1>my margharita. But the hell, oh no, no, get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone for you to harass her again? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you say she triggered you? Like you you knew I

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<v Speaker 1>was in a bad place, Like that was obvious, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know I came in too hot, but

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<v Speaker 1>like I thought, we had a good rapport and you

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<v Speaker 1>understood me. And she didn't guide you to happiness. He

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<v Speaker 1>was a ticking time bomb when he came in, and

0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:38.800
<v Speaker 1>she should have diffused it rather than let it go off.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true, Niche. How she responsible for your emotions or

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<v Speaker 1>the way you react to things? Brook, You've triggered me

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<v Speaker 1>so many times on this show. You never said a

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<v Speaker 1>single bag. You're in charge of your own emotions. Nobody

0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:53.760
<v Speaker 1>else is. I am in charge of my emotions. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying, if somebody's down, you'll like kick them. When

0:14:55.920 --> 0:14:58.000
<v Speaker 1>they're down, you like to pick them up. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so nice. She didn't say, honestly, like I thought

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<v Speaker 1>she was going to go on a tirade about you

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<v Speaker 1>when we called her and she didn't know you were

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line. She didn't say anything actually mean

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<v Speaker 1>about you. Maybe, but that's the problem. She didn't say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>And sometimes when you say nothing actually speaks more than

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<v Speaker 1>when you say something. Yes, when you're being sarcastic and Nick,

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<v Speaker 1>is you going to understand it? And I understand the

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<v Speaker 1>pain of what it's like when you tell a joke

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<v Speaker 1>or you try and say something nice and get nothing back. Yeah, exactly, Nick.

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<v Speaker 1>It really honestly sounds like you're blaming her for not

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<v Speaker 1>laughing at your jokes, and that's why you reacted that way. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I am I am sorry. I definitely did something show wrong. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I judged. No end it. It's just a

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<v Speaker 1>two way street. I'm not the only person who at

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<v Speaker 1>that table street, Alicia, would you like to take the

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to apologize for so insecure? Jeff, thanks for he's joking, Alicia,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe not, Alicia. I'm sorry that I didn't also

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<v Speaker 1>to pay your parking ticket. Dan, do not say that

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<v Speaker 1>she's joking now, you're joking, right, Alicia? Of course, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>my heart, you don't feel bad that you made him

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<v Speaker 1>feel insecure. I'm not sure how I made him feel

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<v Speaker 1>in shad care. I think you show his true colors.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just glad that he's not in the same room

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<v Speaker 1>with her, because he'd be eating her breakfast right now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my coffee. I made for it. Actually, we would

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<v Speaker 1>like to give you that opportunity and send you out

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<v Speaker 1>on another date. I mean, Alicia, did his apology not

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<v Speaker 1>fill you with romantic feelings. I'm gonna say sorry at

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<v Speaker 1>least four or five times in Two Way Street. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have bad days in my life. You're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>bad days in my life. And I like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>just talking about this moment. I'm talking about how two

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<v Speaker 1>people can like help each other in life. Nick, we

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<v Speaker 1>want to send you onto one of his bad days

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll pay for it. What do you say, Alicia? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I say you can send Nick on a date and

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<v Speaker 1>he can order two entrees. Oh so it's a yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but not with her? Yeah, just by herself? Okay? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I count that as a win? Sure? Yeah? Nick? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Has everyone done taking shots? At this guy our fault

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<v Speaker 1>again he said shots and Alexis got excited. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought broke and Jeffrey in the morning. Well, text board

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<v Speaker 1>is not a big fan of Nick right now. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, clearly he made a couple pretty bad mistakes

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<v Speaker 1>on his first date. We didn't even talk about how

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<v Speaker 1>rude it was that she was on her phone in

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<v Speaker 1>front of him. Normally we'd say that's really rude. But

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<v Speaker 1>for him to trump that and be like, forget you

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<v Speaker 1>down her margarita, that's just savage. Yeah, it's like two

0:18:05.320 --> 0:18:09.359
<v Speaker 1>roods don't make a right. Yeah, how it goes? Is

0:18:09.400 --> 0:18:12.920
<v Speaker 1>that right? I don't know. Like his apology was worse though,

0:18:13.640 --> 0:18:16.200
<v Speaker 1>terrible apology. Can you imagine being in a relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>that guy, jeff Can you screen these people better before

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<v Speaker 1>you bring them on? And well, I'm sorry you feel

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<v Speaker 1>that way, Yeah exactly. I mean I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>the margarita thing. Would you guys ever do that as

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<v Speaker 1>a joke, even with your friends? Honest to god, if

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<v Speaker 1>someone touched my margarita, even if my friend, that's not funny. No,

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<v Speaker 1>unless unless they had two margarita is behind their back

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<v Speaker 1>that they're gonna get. That's gonna be kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 1>It was one of your children, Brook drinking my margarita.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we have bigger problems. Mom is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>proud of for five year olds. So yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even funny. Necessarily feel bad for Nick for

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<v Speaker 1>not getting another date there, and he's got a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of work to do. I feel bad that we wasted

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<v Speaker 1>her time like that. She was so nice, she gave

0:19:07.720 --> 0:19:10.560
<v Speaker 1>him an opening to apologize, and he couldn't even do

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<v Speaker 1>that right. As Brooke said many many times, Yeah maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it'll learn now. Yeah I doubt it, but there's always hope. Okay, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>stick to that. Yeah, we could maybe be your hope.

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<v Speaker 1>Email the show. We'll call the person who wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back.