1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: The second date of date. The number one reason that 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: people email, call, or try and get in contact with 3 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: the show is obviously feet picks, and both Jose and 4 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 1: Alexis have given theirs out countless times. Oh yeah, people 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:22,959 Speaker 1: want Jose's feet picks. I've seen you in foot I'm sorry, Love, 6 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: I just some people. It's like how some people enjoy 7 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: horror movies. You know. Deal, But the second most common 8 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: reason people reach out to us is to get another 9 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: date when someone's blowing you off. And Waller listener Nick 10 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: says he would like another date, there's something even more 11 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 1: important that he wants to do, and that's to say, 12 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Oh so, Nick, welcome to the show. I'm 13 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: sorry that you have to call us. So I'd like 14 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: to apologize. First. You must be at a super low 15 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 1: point in your life if you're reaching out to this show. 16 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. It's not good. Hey, but that's 17 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: a powerful phrase. I'm sorry. You know, people don't say 18 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: it enough. So already I feel like you're at a 19 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: good place. Yeah, so tell us about the woman that 20 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: you'd like to apologize to. What's her name? Her name's Alicia. Alicia. Okay, 21 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: and I'm guessing you met her on a dating app, 22 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: just established it a good guess. Yeah, this is a 23 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: psychic Okay, Brook, What did they do for their date? 24 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, probably dinner. Did you go to dinner? 25 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: There was dinner. We don't even need to talk to you, No, 26 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 1: I do always like to know, like what it was 27 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 1: about her that stood out to you. You know, what 28 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: did you like about Alicia? Yeah, she's definitely cute, fatigue brunette. 29 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: She got this beautiful smile and so yeah, we got 30 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:46,119 Speaker 1: to chatting and that's where it really like kicked in 31 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 1: because we were talking for a little over a week 32 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 1: and we were just vibing. Right. Oh, so the chatting 33 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:56,919 Speaker 1: actually made things better for you. I don't have that experience. 34 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: You just like go with the date, even though the 35 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: conversation and gets worse. And I'm just saying, as soon 36 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: as I start talking, that's where things start to go 37 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: down hill. But for Nick, apparently, what's the opposite way 38 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: good for you? Man? Maybe he should take your job. 39 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: It was the chatting that was great. When we got 40 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: to the talking was where I think I screwed it up. Okay, 41 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: you're talking about in person. Yeah, so what happened on 42 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,399 Speaker 1: the date. You know what. It didn't happen on the date. 43 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: It happened before the date. I got two parking tickets 44 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,839 Speaker 1: that day, like back to back, and then we're going 45 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: out that night, and I'm just I was kind of 46 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 1: pissed off. Ye Trankie Nick was walking into the date. Yeah, 47 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't know, I had this 48 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 1: rapport with her and I just felt maybe a little 49 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: too comfortable because I wasn't first date mode anymore. I 50 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: was just ready. I just had to like vank and 51 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: I did it. And I complained and yeah, did you 52 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: have to drive to the date and park again because 53 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: you're worried about his parking decision? Just happly second guessing 54 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 1: every time I leave that card out. So are you saying, like, 55 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: I mean, you guys are sitting down at dinner in 56 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: the entire time, that's all you're talking about. Or did 57 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: you launch in right from the beginning, like I did 58 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 1: launch in from the beginning, and I could tell it 59 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 1: was a mood killer, So I tried to pivot. I 60 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 1: tried to make some jokes. They didn't land. She was 61 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 1: like looking at her phone a lot, like got that. 62 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: When is this going to be over. I mean, it's 63 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 1: hard to go into a date and the first thing 64 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: you get is negative, Like you wouldn't need to ask 65 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: about you not hear about them complaining about their life. 66 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: So is that why you want to apologize to Alicia? 67 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: Because you complained? Wow? You something else? Yeah? What I 68 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: did something. I'm so embarrassed even telling you guys this. 69 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: I'm always going to regret this. I said, you know 70 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: what if this is going to be our last date 71 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: and I'm going to enjoy everything that I paid for? 72 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: Oh what does that mean? I reached across the table, 73 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: I grabbed her margarita and I just chugged it in 74 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: front of her. Who why are we? He like, early 75 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: chugged her margarita. Well, it's because she was on her 76 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: phone not paying attention to you. Like, I knew that 77 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: I came in negative, but I felt like she was 78 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 1: kind of being a little bit of it. Can I 79 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: say anyway, I'm going to say, if you ever start 80 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 1: with can I say, just don't say it? Yeah? But 81 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: you know, she said, like, what are you doing? And 82 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: I said, I can tell you're not interested. Let's just 83 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: call it what it is, Like, what are you gonna 84 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 1: eat the rest of my salad, and yeah, I just chewing, 85 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:57,359 Speaker 1: just so much chewing on that salad. There's nothing so 86 00:04:57,360 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: sad as just like angry salad eating what you actually 87 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: you really did. Yeah, she got up and left, but 88 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: I used to sat there and age the damn shell. 89 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: Oh I don't think we should call her. Some of 90 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 1: the girls are into guys that are jerks. No, I 91 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 1: think you need to chalk this up as a really 92 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 1: big lesson, Like that's crazy. He said that he wanted 93 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:22,159 Speaker 1: to say sorry. Now it's making a whole lot more sense. Why. Yeah, 94 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 1: he doesn't expect a date here. He just wants to say, Look, 95 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 1: I'm sorry you caught me in a bad moment, even 96 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 1: if you would have done it without the line like 97 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 1: that I paid for. Oh yeah, that's not a conversation 98 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: you should have till after marriage, for sure. So have 99 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: you even tried Have you tried to apologize just by 100 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: yourself yet? Nick? Oh? Yeah, she blocked me right, and 101 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 1: I know I was terrible, and I really do just 102 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 1: I do just want to apologize, But also, like I've 103 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 1: been on three dates since then, and nothing even starts 104 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: to compare to what we kind of had when you 105 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 1: know before that night, Yeah, did you drink all those 106 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: dates alcoholic beverages as well? I listen. I'm not a 107 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: fast learner, but some lessons are learned quickly, and that 108 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: one I will do it again. All about growth, It's 109 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: all about growth. I was just gonna say, you fell 110 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: on your sword. You admitted your wrong, So let's right, 111 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 1: you're wrong, and I'll be here for you. Thank you. 112 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: I like when Jose does my job. We're gonna play, 113 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 1: you know, I love it. I love it. It's good. 114 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: We're gonna do a second day at update next because 115 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: of everything Jose said. Yeah, to be your best every day, 116 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 1: you need proven quality sleep every night. Science proves your 117 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: best sleep is vital to your mental, emotional, and physical health. 118 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: And that's where the sleep number BED comes in. 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Where did he go the most strong? 140 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: Was it when he came in hot and vented about 141 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: the two parking tickets that he got earlier that day. 142 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 1: That wasn't the most Or was it when he reached 143 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: across the table, grabbed her margharita and gulped it down 144 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: in front of her in frustration, cringe eat her salad 145 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: as she got up and walked away. Oh yeah, take this, 146 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: So Nick knows he messed up. And badly wants to 147 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: apologize to see if there's any chance for him to 148 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 1: get another date and Brooke, are there any hurtful things 149 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 1: that you would like to say to him to make 150 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: him feel worse before we do this, because that's kind 151 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: of been the trend lately. I know, Matt that you're 152 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: blaming it. His name is Nick. That's okay, you don't 153 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:52,319 Speaker 1: even register I met Nicky. You could interchange a Matt 154 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: and Nick. I mean anyway, Wow, Okay, listen, Nick, I 155 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: do think that you need to be very careful full 156 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 1: in this phone call that you do not have any 157 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 1: big emotion because you have to show her if you're 158 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 1: going to apologize that you can actually control your emotions. True. No, 159 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: I totally agree with you. I mean, I'm in a 160 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 1: much calmer place today. I don't no barking tickets today, 161 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,439 Speaker 1: nothing's going on well, I mean, the day is total 162 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 1: early Ben, I don't know how this is going to go. 163 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 1: All right, Kyle, Okay, whatever, Tim, let's just do this. Yeah, 164 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:34,079 Speaker 1: they're interchangeable. I'm just messing around me. We're gonna call 165 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 1: Alicia hopefully, let you do your apology and maybe get 166 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: you a second date. Yeah. If you guys should throw 167 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 1: off a Hail Mary at the end. There'd be amazing 168 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: you took a bargrating from a woman. I don't forget. 169 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: We're going to do our best here. Here we go. 170 00:09:51,080 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: I'm a dialing number right now. Hello. Hey, is this Alicia? 171 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 1: This is her? She sounds so nice? Does I hope 172 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: we don't ruin your day with this? But we're calling 173 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 1: from a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 174 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: Um okay, Hi, Alicia, Okay, day not ruined yet? Hi? 175 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:23,079 Speaker 1: How are you? I'm feeling really bad about what we're 176 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 1: gonna do here. We want to do something a little 177 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:30,560 Speaker 1: bit awkward with you called a second date update. Um okay, okay. 178 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 1: The idea is we help our listeners who've gone out 179 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: on a bad date recently try and redeem themselves and 180 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 1: hopefully get things back on track. And recently you went 181 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:48,839 Speaker 1: out with one of our listeners named Nick. Yeah. Yeah, 182 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 1: Nick does not like how your first date went. No, 183 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 1: he doesn't like how he acted. I think, yeah, you 184 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: know what we're talking about. Yes, that was probably like 185 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 1: the most ridiculous date I've ever been on. Yeah yeah, 186 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 1: And Nick actually agrees with you on that. He does. 187 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 1: That's surprising. He had a moment of self awareness after 188 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 1: everything was over, and he knows that he acted like 189 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 1: a total child about the whole thing. Yeah, I want 190 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 1: to know what it was like from her perspective. Really good, 191 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 1: I'm guessing. I mean, what were you thinking? We went 192 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 1: on this day and he was clearly having like a 193 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 1: bad day. He came in off the bat hot about 194 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: his parking tickets. Yeah, so we do know this part 195 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: of the story. Nick told us he was complaining about 196 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 1: parking tickets and he's regretful for he made some bad jokes, 197 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 1: he said, And the worst part was when he drank 198 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: your margharita in front of you, my margharita. Yeah, oh 199 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:55,439 Speaker 1: my god, that was the statement piece of the night. 200 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 1: What god I would have been. I mean, obviously you 201 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:01,199 Speaker 1: got up and left right because you were so angry. Yeah, 202 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 1: I left when he started eating my taco salad. What 203 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: a monster. Honestly, what was what was your main feeling there? 204 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: Other than hunger and thirst? The main feeling was probably 205 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 1: just confusion, like oh yeah, well, so here's the thing. 206 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:25,079 Speaker 1: Nick reached out to us because he's seen the air 207 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 1: of his ways and I'm not asking you to go 208 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 1: out with him again right now. I'm not, but I 209 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 1: am asking if you would consider hearing Nick out here 210 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 1: in his apology as a favor to me, the guy 211 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 1: that you just met over the phone, a favorite to 212 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 1: you guys, as a favorite to you guys. I mean, 213 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 1: I guess I could hear him out. You could tell 214 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 1: him to call me, but like, oh, not too bad, 215 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: I have to like unblock his number for Okay, Well 216 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: you don't even have to unblock his number because actually 217 00:12:57,160 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: we have good news or I guess news. Nick is 218 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: actually on the other line listening right now and wants 219 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 1: to talk to you. So you're gonna call Nick now 220 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 1: or what? No, I'm not. I'm not gonna do anything 221 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: except step away and let Nick talk because he's already there. Yes, Nick, Hi, 222 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 1: it's me. What exactly is happening? Lain, Yeah, I do. 223 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 1: I I just want to apologize to you for what happened, um, 224 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 1: because it was definitely rude. Um. Yeah, I mean, but 225 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:40,840 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like I wouldn't have done it if 226 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: you had like laughed at one of my jokes stopped secure. 227 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: So I'll apologize it, or you're not. I am. I 228 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 1: am totally owning what I did was so wrong. I 229 00:13:57,120 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 1: am so sorry. I was rude, And the only thing 230 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 1: I'm just saying is that it is a two way street. 231 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: Like and you also did stuff that like, no, you 232 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: triggered me? Oh really, it's my fault that you drank 233 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:15,320 Speaker 1: my margharita. But the hell, oh no, no, get her 234 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: on the phone for you to harass her again? Did 235 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: you say she triggered you? Like you you knew I 236 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 1: was in a bad place, Like that was obvious, right, 237 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I know I came in too hot, but 238 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: like I thought, we had a good rapport and you 239 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 1: understood me. And she didn't guide you to happiness. He 240 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 1: was a ticking time bomb when he came in, and 241 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 1: she should have diffused it rather than let it go off. 242 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 1: That's true, Niche. How she responsible for your emotions or 243 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 1: the way you react to things? Brook, You've triggered me 244 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 1: so many times on this show. You never said a 245 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: single bag. You're in charge of your own emotions. Nobody 246 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 1: else is. I am in charge of my emotions. I'm 247 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: just saying, if somebody's down, you'll like kick them. When 248 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 1: they're down, you like to pick them up. You know. 249 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 1: It's so nice. She didn't say, honestly, like I thought 250 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 1: she was going to go on a tirade about you 251 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: when we called her and she didn't know you were 252 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 1: on the other line. She didn't say anything actually mean 253 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 1: about you. Maybe, but that's the problem. She didn't say anything. 254 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: And sometimes when you say nothing actually speaks more than 255 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: when you say something. Yes, when you're being sarcastic and Nick, 256 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 1: is you going to understand it? And I understand the 257 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 1: pain of what it's like when you tell a joke 258 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 1: or you try and say something nice and get nothing back. Yeah, exactly, Nick. 259 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: It really honestly sounds like you're blaming her for not 260 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: laughing at your jokes, and that's why you reacted that way. No, no, no, no, 261 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 1: I am I am sorry. I definitely did something show wrong. Yeah, 262 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 1: I just I judged. No end it. It's just a 263 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: two way street. I'm not the only person who at 264 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: that table street, Alicia, would you like to take the 265 00:15:54,400 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 1: opportunity to apologize for so insecure? Jeff, thanks for he's joking, Alicia, 266 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: or maybe not, Alicia. I'm sorry that I didn't also 267 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 1: to pay your parking ticket. Dan, do not say that 268 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 1: she's joking now, you're joking, right, Alicia? Of course, Okay, 269 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 1: my heart, you don't feel bad that you made him 270 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: feel insecure. I'm not sure how I made him feel 271 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: in shad care. I think you show his true colors. 272 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: I'm just glad that he's not in the same room 273 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 1: with her, because he'd be eating her breakfast right now. Yeah, 274 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 1: that's my coffee. I made for it. Actually, we would 275 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 1: like to give you that opportunity and send you out 276 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: on another date. I mean, Alicia, did his apology not 277 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 1: fill you with romantic feelings. I'm gonna say sorry at 278 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 1: least four or five times in Two Way Street. I'm 279 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: gonna have bad days in my life. You're gonna have 280 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: bad days in my life. And I like, I'm not 281 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 1: just talking about this moment. I'm talking about how two 282 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 1: people can like help each other in life. Nick, we 283 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 1: want to send you onto one of his bad days 284 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 1: and we'll pay for it. What do you say, Alicia? Um, 285 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 1: I say you can send Nick on a date and 286 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 1: he can order two entrees. Oh so it's a yes, 287 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 1: but not with her? Yeah, just by herself? Okay? Yeah? 288 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 1: Can I count that as a win? Sure? Yeah? Nick? Okay? 289 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:32,640 Speaker 1: Has everyone done taking shots? At this guy our fault 290 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 1: again he said shots and Alexis got excited. Yeah, I 291 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 1: thought broke and Jeffrey in the morning. Well, text board 292 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:43,959 Speaker 1: is not a big fan of Nick right now. Yes, 293 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 1: I mean, clearly he made a couple pretty bad mistakes 294 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:50,719 Speaker 1: on his first date. We didn't even talk about how 295 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: rude it was that she was on her phone in 296 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 1: front of him. Normally we'd say that's really rude. But 297 00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: for him to trump that and be like, forget you 298 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 1: down her margarita, that's just savage. Yeah, it's like two 299 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:09,359 Speaker 1: roods don't make a right. Yeah, how it goes? Is 300 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 1: that right? I don't know. Like his apology was worse though, 301 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:16,200 Speaker 1: terrible apology. Can you imagine being in a relationship with 302 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 1: that guy, jeff Can you screen these people better before 303 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 1: you bring them on? And well, I'm sorry you feel 304 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 1: that way, Yeah exactly. I mean I don't know what 305 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 1: the margarita thing. Would you guys ever do that as 306 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 1: a joke, even with your friends? Honest to god, if 307 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: someone touched my margarita, even if my friend, that's not funny. No, 308 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:40,719 Speaker 1: unless unless they had two margarita is behind their back 309 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 1: that they're gonna get. That's gonna be kind of funny. 310 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 1: It was one of your children, Brook drinking my margarita. 311 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:50,200 Speaker 1: Then we have bigger problems. Mom is going to be 312 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 1: proud of for five year olds. So yeah, I mean, 313 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:59,680 Speaker 1: I don't even funny. Necessarily feel bad for Nick for 314 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:01,880 Speaker 1: not getting another date there, and he's got a lot 315 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:04,119 Speaker 1: of work to do. I feel bad that we wasted 316 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 1: her time like that. She was so nice, she gave 317 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: him an opening to apologize, and he couldn't even do 318 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 1: that right. As Brooke said many many times, Yeah maybe 319 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 1: it'll learn now. Yeah I doubt it, but there's always hope. Okay, sure, 320 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 1: stick to that. Yeah, we could maybe be your hope. 321 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 1: Email the show. We'll call the person who wasn't calling 322 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: you back.