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Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan.

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Speaker 2: Part one. Behind a scene with a member of the show,

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Speaker 2: What's up, everybody? Happy weekend? I'm excited to be joined

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Speaker 2: by Mike D. Mike, how you feeling.

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was good.

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Speaker 1: You are feeling warming up? My voice good?

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Speaker 2: The test the do rey me thing. When that happened

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Speaker 2: on the show, I was like, oh, I have not

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Speaker 2: warmed up my voice enough to be doing a singing competition. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we have lots of happening on the show this week.

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Speaker 2: Rascal Flats stop by. It was their first time together

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Speaker 2: in five years. In our studio, Eddie had a personal

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Speaker 2: tell me something good. Lunchbox geeked out over snooky. Yes

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Speaker 2: that's snooky from Jersey Shore. A stranger yelled at Eddie's sun.

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Speaker 2: We had Luke Bryan in studio. Lunchbox saw something disturbing

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Speaker 2: in his neighborhood, and we all admitted the things that

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Speaker 2: make us think less of other people. So that's all

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Speaker 2: on part two if you want to catch up on

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Speaker 2: the Bobby Bone Show. But the reason you're here is

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Speaker 2: to hear some updates on life and everything in between.

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Speaker 2: Mike D, tell me what's going on with you, what's

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Speaker 2: new in your life right now?

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm at a point where there's not a

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Speaker 1: whole lot of new. It's a lot of just trying

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Speaker 1: to maintain myself and maintain my sanity. I think that's

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Speaker 1: where I'm at.

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Speaker 2: That feels like adulthood.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I've been in the process now of like

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Speaker 1: trying to make friends and I just haven't been able to.

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Speaker 1: But also I haven't really tried. But I think that's

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Speaker 1: where I'm at right now in life, thinking that looking

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Speaker 1: but it's also like that when I go home, that's

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Speaker 1: the other day of like she thinks that I need

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Speaker 1: like I guess I'm startling kind of with like an

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Speaker 1: identity outside of this job. Oh, because it's like here,

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Speaker 1: this is everything, go home, still working, but I and

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Speaker 1: then now on the weekends, I kind of like disconnect

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Speaker 1: myself from everything. I'll watch movies, I'll read comics, I'll disconnect.

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Speaker 1: But I don't think that's good for me. Because I'm

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Speaker 1: just like separating myself from the world in order to

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Speaker 1: kind of decompress. But I'm not doing anything for me

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So I know everybody moved fun of me

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Speaker 2: because I had a friendship coach on my podcast, but

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Speaker 2: she did give some really good advice and maybe this

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Speaker 2: can help you. The way to make new friends is

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Speaker 2: to go to a setting one that like you really enjoy,

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Speaker 2: but you go back to it multiple times to see

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Speaker 2: if you can start interacting with familiar faces. So for you,

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Speaker 2: what are some places that you really enjoy going?

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Speaker 1: Well, the first thing I was thinking of doing was

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Speaker 1: like a run club because I love running. Yes, and

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm gonna go to that. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: Just because it's that step for me to go try

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair though, I mean that obviously making friends

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Speaker 2: I don't think you missed the boat on friends, and

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Speaker 2: I do think you should absolutely have some because I

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Speaker 2: But I think you can do a run club because

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Speaker 1: I've had casual encounters at comic book clubs, but I

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Speaker 2: People want to feel connected and they want to like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, good point, But this.

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Speaker 2: Way, I guarantee you if you can do it. One

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Speaker 1: Taking the standard out of it of like, yeah, it

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Because also, these things are stuff that you already

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I've never really thought about it that way.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I'm telling you this friendship coaches, right, Yeah, this

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Speaker 2: you can do this, Mike, and I think you deserve this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that way sounds a lot easier and

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Speaker 2: Also friendships are like that, right. You know what's funny

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Speaker 2: it's so common, Mike, Like that is so common. Nothing

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Speaker 2: I know it feels weird, but it's so common, and

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Speaker 1: I'm married, but we want to hang out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this, this would be really good for you. And

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Speaker 2: it sounds like it's a space that like you really

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that that's the way easier route for

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Speaker 2: Oh peak, We've hit peak most peak. Okay, this is

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Speaker 1: So I think that's why I'm looking for that friendship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think for now that I think about it,

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Speaker 2: No, it's for sure an age thing. There's that association

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Speaker 2: It's always an option. It doesn't matter how old you are.

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Speaker 1: It's also hard because you've probably experienced this too, and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, that makes sense, And so now you

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Speaker 1: Like that sounds fun to me. Of like, oh, they

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's an option, and you will have a friend

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Speaker 1: Adult friends too hard. Let's create a.

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Speaker 2: Human On that note, We're gonna take a little break here.

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Speaker 2: We'll be right back. Speaking of little kids, Mike, I

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Speaker 2: dressed up. I have never been to a concert that

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00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:36,960
Speaker 2: had a more electric crowd. Like you know when you

436
00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:38,600
Speaker 2: go to a concert and everybody's all about the artist

437
00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:42,680
Speaker 2: or whatever. This crowd was all about like everybody being

438
00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:45,920
Speaker 2: together and they everybody was so nice to each other

439
00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:49,240
Speaker 2: and comb I have just never seen so much kind

440
00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:52,840
Speaker 2: human interaction in one setting with that many people. And

441
00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:55,239
Speaker 2: then when she came out on stage, it was it

442
00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:57,960
Speaker 2: was like everybody was one. Everybody just became like one

443
00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:01,440
Speaker 2: giant fan of Chapel Rode. It was such a cool

444
00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:02,760
Speaker 2: experience to be in that crowd.

445
00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:05,800
Speaker 1: That's also like the prime time to see her like

446
00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:07,920
Speaker 1: in her career right now of like where she is

447
00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,959
Speaker 1: the biggest and there is just like that energy. Like

448
00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:15,000
Speaker 1: I'm not a huge fan of hers, but I always

449
00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:19,840
Speaker 1: get just completely intrigued by somebody who has that passionate

450
00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:23,080
Speaker 1: of a fan base like grows that quickly and just

451
00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:26,719
Speaker 1: like dominates at everything. Like I'm so fascinated with just

452
00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:28,920
Speaker 1: like that rise to fame and having like that much

453
00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:31,399
Speaker 1: power to where like they play a show, it's like

454
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:34,400
Speaker 1: thousands of people. They put out a song, it gets

455
00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:37,879
Speaker 1: millions of streams in like seconds, Like I'm just fascinated

456
00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:39,760
Speaker 1: with those types of people, and she does.

457
00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,600
Speaker 2: And that's it, and that's the community she's created, like

458
00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:45,119
Speaker 2: speaking on that, like she I'm not kidding. When I

459
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:48,080
Speaker 2: walked in here, I just felt something so different. And

460
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,080
Speaker 2: we go to concerts all the time, not just for

461
00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:52,639
Speaker 2: our job, but just in we are music people. We

462
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:56,840
Speaker 2: like to go. I've been to so many that for

463
00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:58,359
Speaker 2: me to sit here and say this is one of

464
00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:01,080
Speaker 2: the most electric crowds I've ever been part of for

465
00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,640
Speaker 2: somebody that's at that point in their career is wild.

466
00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:07,000
Speaker 2: She was so good And now not only did I

467
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,440
Speaker 2: like enjoy the crowd and the experience that I had there,

468
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 2: but I only listened or knew like five songs before

469
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,320
Speaker 2: I went, And ever since I left there, I've been

470
00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,720
Speaker 2: like down her whole deesography. I'm like, let's see what

471
00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:19,359
Speaker 2: else do you got like I had so much fun.

472
00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 2: So that's how you also know it was a good time,

473
00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:23,959
Speaker 2: right because you want to dive into them further, versus

474
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,399
Speaker 2: it being like, okay, I'm good, Like I'll just know

475
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 2: my five songs. So it was really good. Definitely suggesting

476
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:32,120
Speaker 2: her even if you're not a huge fan, I think

477
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 2: you'd become a massive fan.

478
00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 1: How are like on stage? Is like like the production

479
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 1: is there like a lot of things going on, a

480
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:43,320
Speaker 1: lot of dancers, is like a big set. Really she had.

481
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:46,280
Speaker 2: An all female band, which was awesome. It was two guitar,

482
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:48,440
Speaker 2: like a guitar, bass and drums and her.

483
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I kind of imagined her having like sculptures

484
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 1: on stage like big sets.

485
00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 2: It's really her that's that big, like really big character.

486
00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 2: I mean she had an outfit, she ripped off a

487
00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:01,880
Speaker 2: skirt at one point, her makeup was all done up,

488
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:05,400
Speaker 2: and there was lots of graphics on the screens and stuff.

489
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:09,320
Speaker 2: But beyond that, I mean pretty bare bones as far

490
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 2: as like the way that you would imagine it to

491
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 2: be so shocking to me too, but she took up

492
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,439
Speaker 2: that whole stage. I mean she had that much energy

493
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,679
Speaker 2: and that much character that she really like owned that

494
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 2: entire stage, and maybe that's why they don't have any

495
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:24,440
Speaker 2: of that up there.

496
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be like maybe next tour is like

497
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 1: that because she's also like at this like the still

498
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:33,520
Speaker 1: like the rise of her fame in this tour, maybe

499
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,400
Speaker 1: didn't know that it was going to be as big

500
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:37,320
Speaker 1: as it is, or like no, or like even like

501
00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,400
Speaker 1: having the money to create a stage, like because that's

502
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,440
Speaker 1: what I would picture for her, is like a huge thing.

503
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 2: And maybe it's just as they keep rising right like

504
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 2: that that has to be the next level versus this

505
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 2: level right here. Yeah, I don't know. And to your point,

506
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 2: they just might. She might a skyrocket so fast they

507
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 2: weren't ready for it, you know, they didn't sit there

508
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 2: and prepare for two years. And because I do, I

509
00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:01,440
Speaker 2: do imagine like a Lady Gaga esque type yeah vibe.

510
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,479
Speaker 2: But no, it was very I mean her whole Midwest

511
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 2: princess thing. It was very that she was wearing camo.

512
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 2: She had like a camo outfit on and a camo dress.

513
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 2: So it was really good though. I highly suggest going

514
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 2: to one of her shows. And then I also went

515
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 2: to a Dan and Shay thing that was really fun

516
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:22,160
Speaker 2: and I there's one song on this new stuff they're

517
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 2: working on that changed my life, Mike. Hell, it made

518
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:30,879
Speaker 2: me incredibly emotional, but also just that we already know

519
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 2: that Shane Mooney is incredibly talented, right, Like, we know

520
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,879
Speaker 2: that he's a great vocalist, but this just like shot

521
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 2: him just over a freakin grand canyon.

522
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 1: Is it his singing in the song or is it

523
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 1: what the song is about?

524
00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 2: His singing?

525
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: Interesting?

526
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:48,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, where I'm just like, oh in it. If I

527
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,639
Speaker 2: could elaborate on it more and make more sense, I

528
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 2: don't know what I'll like. Cannon can't say at this moment,

529
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:55,719
Speaker 2: but all I know that when it comes out like

530
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 2: it just made me like stop in my tracks and

531
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 2: see something differently that I've seen before. Does that make sense?

532
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:04,400
Speaker 1: Yeah?

533
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 2: I'm explaining that very well without being able to say anything.

534
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 2: So there was that too. So I had two life

535
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 2: changing moments this week.

536
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:15,159
Speaker 1: Do you like music just because somebody is a good singer? Like?

537
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,880
Speaker 1: Do you just look for good singers and automatic things

538
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna like their music?

539
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 3: No, I normally listen to lyrics, Yeah, because I don't

540
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 3: like if I look at all my favorite bands throughout

541
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 3: my entire life, I don't know that I would consider

542
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,920
Speaker 3: them any of them to be like great singers.

543
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:34,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's but that's true though you don't you're not

544
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 2: attaching to somebody. That's I think that's why this was

545
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 2: so life changing because it made me literally stop.

546
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:41,479
Speaker 1: I mean cause stand and shaken out. Both they can

547
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 1: sing well and they can write really good songs. Yeah,

548
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: but I think that's probably a very select case. I

549
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 1: just think over like any music, like the most popular

550
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: people probably aren't the best singers. It's like their lyrics

551
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 1: and their connection more. Because I just always find it

552
00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 1: interesting whenever you say, discover somebody like in random place

553
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 1: you can sing really well, or you discover like somebody

554
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 1: you know it can like just really sing and you

555
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: think you should be famous. I've never really seen that

556
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 1: as like, well, I think anybody could sing really well,

557
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: Like that's a little bit more common. It's more rare

558
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 1: to have somebody who can write really good songs and

559
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: put it to music that connects with people. That's a

560
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,639
Speaker 1: harder thing to do, like singing, Like, yeah, you could

561
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:27,160
Speaker 1: take lessons, you could be classically trained, but you can't

562
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 1: really teach something like how to be a dynamic songwriter.

563
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 2: That's so true. You kind of are you aren't? Yeah,

564
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 2: like you have Like I look at, I don't know

565
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 2: if you've ever there's thoughts that come to mind, like, oh,

566
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 2: that could be a really good song, but I have

567
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,880
Speaker 2: no idea how that would actually transpire. That's are really

568
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 2: good words, and that's a really good thought process that

569
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: like putting that to a song and a melody and

570
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 2: all of that. Oh heck no, yeah, you know what

571
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:51,120
Speaker 2: I mean. I don't know if you've ever had that

572
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:55,360
Speaker 2: thought process, but it's so true now that you say that.

573
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 2: And I look at like all my favorite people, I

574
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 2: most of the time love them for their life lyrics

575
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 2: and the way that the songs connect to me versus

576
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 2: like I'm truly listening. It's only it'll be like a shock.

577
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh wow, oh she can sing. He

578
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 2: can sing? Well, didn't didn't know that was coming. It's

579
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 2: kind of like tea pain.

580
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:13,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

581
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 2: When I listened to his stuff, we had a connection.

582
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 2: There was a nostalgia factor because we listened to it

583
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,120
Speaker 2: in childhood and then he did mass singer. I was like, oh,

584
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 2: oh he can sing, you know what I mean? So

585
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 2: I think you're right. I just never thought of it

586
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 2: that way.

587
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, because there's some artists that are like really great singers,

588
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 1: like elite, but they're songs that, to me don't really

589
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 1: say anything. Some people like love them, and I'm like,

590
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 1: I just can't get into it. Yeah, I need more

591
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: than just like they're an amazing singer.

592
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 2: That's fair. Well, just know that this particular one is

593
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:48,639
Speaker 2: because he's insanely good at singing that it stops me

594
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 2: in my tracks.

595
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,879
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, Shane Mooney vocals is like an entirely

596
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,639
Speaker 1: different level. Like it's just interesting to listen to his

597
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 1: like isolated vocal tracks. So like just how he sings,

598
00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 1: how Dan like puts all the airing on it. It's like

599
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: an instrument.

600
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 2: This is a version of that. And I think that's

601
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 2: why it was so impactful, like a true isolated Oh insane.

602
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 2: I wish I could elaborate on it further. Again, I'm

603
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,719
Speaker 2: not sure what I'm allowed or not to say. All

604
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 2: I know is that when people are here, they're gonna

605
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 2: be like, what the crap?

606
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 1: All right? I want to hear it now.

607
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 2: So that and maybe I have to it up too much. Dang, now,

608
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:24,400
Speaker 2: never mind, I take it back.

609
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,679
Speaker 1: It It was horrible. You know, actually they're not releasing

610
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 1: the song not that good.

611
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 2: It's really bad. Okay, we're gonna take another quick break

612
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 2: and we'll be right back, all right, Mike, what is okay?

613
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,880
Speaker 2: This is? I realized this is something that I do

614
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 2: and maybe this is really good. Weird adult Morgan. But

615
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 2: I like to when I really like something, whenever sale happens,

616
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 2: I'll buy multiples of it and I'll keep stocks of

617
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 2: it instead of like going throughout the year and trying

618
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,479
Speaker 2: to buy it for normal price. I have like stocks

619
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,479
Speaker 2: of multiple things in my house because I've bought them

620
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,160
Speaker 2: on sales. Do you do this or is this weird? Morgan? Oh?

621
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 1: This is my wife one hundred percent really yeah.

622
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 2: So she'll go, like she finds something she likes and

623
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 2: then she'll wait for sale, buy it all and she'll

624
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 2: just have it and it'll be like on stock.

625
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, whenever something is on sale, she's stocking up on it.

626
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: And whenever she finds something she likes and is on sale,

627
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: she'll get it in every color. Like that's kind of

628
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 1: her her thing, Like I like it, I'm gonna get

629
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 1: it in every color.

630
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 2: See what it's so listen, I love this Adult version

631
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,479
Speaker 2: of us because it's so smart. If you think about it.

632
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,120
Speaker 2: Most of the time, the things you end up really

633
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 2: liking are a little bit more expensive, and then you're like, dang,

634
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 2: I really don't want to pay full price for that.

635
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 2: But then you realize, like at Christmas time it'll be

636
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 2: like fifty percent off or something like I'm getting ten

637
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 2: of them.

638
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 1: I have entered the light the part of my life

639
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 1: where I don't buy anything that's not on sale, like

640
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 1: like a major thing, anything at all, anything at all.

641
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 1: I'm always like, I feel like, in the last few months,

642
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 1: I've kind of made this decision. If it's not on sale,

643
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: I'm not getting it yet, because I've just noticed like

644
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: if you wait at least three maybe four months, it's

645
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 1: gonna go on sale, that is true. And always find

646
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: it on sale or a promo code or something. Because

647
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 1: there have been times where I've bought something full price

648
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: and then a couple months later it's on sale at

649
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 1: like a drastic amount, I'm like, if I just waited.

650
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 1: And also it proves to me, like I'm very much

651
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 1: when I buy something, I probably think about it way

652
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: too much and think of like, Okay, do I really

653
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: need this? Do I still want it now or am

654
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: I acting on impulse? So also giving myself that time

655
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: to wait until it's on sale makes me decide do

656
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: I still want it? Because if I want it now

657
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: in the moment where it's full price, maybe I'm just

658
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: playing off some emotion. I shouldn't get it yet. But

659
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: if I still want it in those two three months,

660
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: I know it's the right purchase to make.

661
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 2: That's really healthy of you. Honestly, that's actually really smart.

662
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: It's taking me a lot to get there, just because

663
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: like in the like probably in my twenties, I would

664
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 1: just buy things randomly, like why do I have this?

665
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: I don't need this, I don't want this.

666
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 2: Does this pretend to also close and stuff too? Is

667
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 2: this everything? Or is it just really bigger purchases?

668
00:29:58,080 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: I would say, like I've gotten to the point now

669
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: where it's even close to interesting seeing shoes. I'm like,

670
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: it's gonna go on sale at some point.

671
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 2: See, but if you leave it in your car, you

672
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 2: put in your car, then you will get a coat

673
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 2: for you.

674
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. The only thing I will still act on if

675
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: it's something that I know is going to sell out,

676
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 1: like a collab or something that's coming out, and I

677
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 1: know it's not going to be around long that it's

678
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 1: not even this the case that could go on sale eventually.

679
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 1: That's the only thing that I'd be like, all right,

680
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: I've been wanting this for a while. It's finally coming out.

681
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it.

682
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 2: Like limited edition stuff.

683
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, anything limited edition or something that's just like Okay,

684
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: they're probably not going to make any more of this,

685
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 1: or in the past it is sold out before and

686
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: I wasn't able to get it, So now like, oh

687
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 1: it's back in stock and I still want it. I

688
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 1: got to pay the full price.

689
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 2: Okay, that's fair. That's actually I really need to adapt that. Honestly.

690
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 2: I need to start like waiting til picts are on

691
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 2: sale because I did. The reason thiss got brought up,

692
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 2: not even just because of my My girlfriends will go

693
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,239
Speaker 2: in my bathroom cabinets and there's just like stocks of

694
00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: beauty products and they're like why, I'm like, I bought

695
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 2: it all on sey Oh okay, this is really smart.

696
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 2: I do it with soaps, Like if I get soaps,

697
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 2: that's also a thing that I buy multiples of. It's

698
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 2: been a whole thing and this has got passed down

699
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 2: from my mom. So this is where this comes from.

700
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 2: But the reason got brought up is because I've bought

701
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 2: now three pairs of these sweatpants that I have. I'm

702
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 2: so obsessed with them that I can't stop buying helpers

703
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 2: of them. Not that I need five pairs of sweatpants,

704
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 2: but I really love them, and now I own multiples.

705
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,239
Speaker 2: And to your point, I did not wait for them

706
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 2: to go on sale. I just really loved them. So

707
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 2: now before I buy my six pair, I will wait

708
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 2: and hopefully they go on sale. So appreciate that life

709
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 2: lesson Mike. Also, I wanted to talk about to speaking

710
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 2: of shopping, have you been to a store where you've

711
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 2: had to put like your card in and stuff. I

712
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 2: know a lot of people shop online and stuff now,

713
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 2: but have you been somewhere like it can even be

714
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 2: a Target or whatever where you put your card in

715
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 2: at the register? Did you get multiple ads?

716
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 1: I have not that get no?

717
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: Okay, So your girl went to best Buy. I needed

718
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 2: an SD car like stat So I go to bed

719
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 2: bye and I'm standing at this thing and I hit

720
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 2: my card right, Mike, I kid you not. There were

721
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 2: five advertisements that popped up first. I would you like

722
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 2: to join our club. Next was it would you like

723
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:20,239
Speaker 2: to donate? Those are the two that I'm used to, right,

724
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 2: And then the fall was like, oh we have this

725
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 2: other new club also there here's an ad and I

726
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 2: was like, that's not even best buy. And after that ad,

727
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 2: then another one popped up to join a sister version

728
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:34,959
Speaker 2: of something, and I was like, what is happening? Just

729
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 2: hit yes, no, I just I need to pay for

730
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 2: the thing. Five advertisements on this teeny tiny register and

731
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 2: that hasn't happened to you yet.

732
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: Well that's happened. Like that reminds me like going to

733
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 1: get gas at the gas station where it's like do

734
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 1: you want to save five cents? Do you want to

735
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: get a car? Wiche? Do you want to join our

736
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: rewards plan?

737
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 2: Like?

738
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: What are your biggest fears? Dude, I'm just trying to

739
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: pay for gas.

740
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 2: There's so many you know. What it reminds me of

741
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 2: is Ready Player one when he's about to sell the

742
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 2: ad space. I'm like, no, no, no, I'm not ready for this.

743
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, listen, I get it. It's on our phones.

744
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 2: You're listening to me all the time, but had a

745
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 2: freaking register. Man, I'm just trying to pay for it.

746
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 1: I just want to tap and get there, right, and.

747
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:16,959
Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to do, and they keep your

748
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 2: cart like some of them don't have the tap, so

749
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 2: my card's in it, so I just have to keep

750
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 2: waiting for it to like pass through to get my

751
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 2: card back. I was so mad. I got so frustrated,

752
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 2: and I kind of looked at the girl and she

753
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 2: was just totally oblivious to what was happening. I was like,

754
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 2: for real, so that I just had to voice some

755
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 2: that experience and now it's probably gonna happen to you. Yeah.

756
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: I think we're going to get into a space in

757
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 1: the next four to five years where their ads like

758
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: in places that we've never had as before. Like I

759
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 1: think it's going to get to a point where we're

760
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: like seeing stuff in this sky floating. I mean, there's

761
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: like the little pop, but there's going to be like

762
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: stuff where it's like on the road signs, here's the exit,

763
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: but also here's an ad.

764
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 2: I do think it is. I'm not kidding well. I

765
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 2: think that's why I love Ruddy Player one so much.

766
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 2: So I look up like, honestly, probably our life this

767
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:09,320
Speaker 2: is gonna happen in some former fashion and that ad space.

768
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 2: How he's like, oh, we can sell up to ninety

769
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 2: five percent of the view field without ruining their whatever. Yeah,

770
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 2: And I was like, this is gonna that, that's gonna happen.

771
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,839
Speaker 2: They're gonna straight up put it everywhere, and I think

772
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 2: you're right.

773
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean I was even watching football like it's

774
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 1: on Amazon on Thursdays now and during their commercial breaks

775
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 1: it's obviously Amazon based commercials, and it's like, here's this

776
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: product here scanned this QR code and by this it's

777
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 1: just and they.

778
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 2: All have QR codes, so like they get you that

779
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 2: way because they're like, here's your use it for your phone.

780
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,439
Speaker 1: Stupid. The Amazon thing is weird to me, like watching

781
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 1: things on Prime and how they haven't really done it

782
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 1: so much yet, but how much they're integrating, like buying

783
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 1: things from Prime while you're watching things on Prime. I

784
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 1: feel like we got so used to like this big

785
00:34:57,120 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: corporation also being in like media like so easily, Like no,

786
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 1: this is where we get like toilet paper and like

787
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:05,439
Speaker 1: random house things.

788
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 2: The lines have gotten very blurred.

789
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 1: And now they're making really great TV shows and showing

790
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,359
Speaker 1: life sports. They're gonna start selling us the stuff we're

791
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 1: getting to our house.

792
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 2: Yup. Oh it's so true though. Okay, that was my

793
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 2: only rant for the day. I had to voice that.

794
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 2: Thank you for a lot. Although now I really need

795
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,280
Speaker 2: to adapt your shopping strategy because of what's about to happen,

796
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 2: because I really will be like I'll just feel bad.

797
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, I'll buy it. Just get it out

798
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 2: of my face, you know, like I panic. It's kind

799
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 2: of like when somebody goes to to they hand you

800
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 2: and they're holding the credit card reader and it has

801
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: the tip on it and I panic and I'm just like, nah,

802
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 2: that one. Just don't look at it. I don't know,

803
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:44,760
Speaker 2: just press the big button.

804
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 1: That one always makes me feel bad.

805
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 2: It does when they're straight up holding it and you

806
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 2: can tell that they see it and you're like, uh, okay.

807
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 2: This happened to me at a plant store, Mike. I

808
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 2: tipped a plant lady. She didn't do anything. There was

809
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 2: a zero help that I received, And I said, this

810
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 2: plant lady twenty percent because I panicked. It was so bad.

811
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel that at some places where I go to,

812
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 1: where like a smoothie place where yeah, you can have

813
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,400
Speaker 1: your smoothie made maybe tip on that. But you also

814
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:15,439
Speaker 1: can grab things that you just grab them like that's

815
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 1: already ready and pay for it, but they still have

816
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 1: the tip line on there, like I wouldn't grab it.

817
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 1: It's just like a bottle of water, Like it feels weird.

818
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 1: It feels weird to say no, but you did nothing.

819
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:25,879
Speaker 1: You just scanned it.

820
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:29,279
Speaker 2: I know when they're watching you, it's like their eyes

821
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:30,760
Speaker 2: are on you, like they know what's happening.

822
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 1: The last one that happened to me is I went

823
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: to a like a drive through car wash and they

824
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 1: have somebody who like comes around and like does a

825
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 1: pre scrub before you go through an automatic car wash,

826
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: and they're like, do you want to tip the scrubber today?

827
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 3: Well, they now asked you to tip the scrub and

828
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 3: I was like, You've been doing that forever for free.

829
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 1: I've never really thought of like tipping that person, but

830
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 1: now there's a pressure to tip that person. And if

831
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 1: I don't tip that person, because I'm looking at it

832
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 1: right now and they're gonna scrub my car, I feel

833
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 1: like a jerk. So I still tipped them a dollar,

834
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: but it's like, oh, that's that seems like an added

835
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,399
Speaker 1: service to entice me to come to your place because

836
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 1: you add this little thing to it is.

837
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 2: And it's crazy when you think about because you're like,

838
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 2: now a ten dollars car wash has now turned into

839
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 2: a twenty dollars car rush because of all the different

840
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 2: tips that you have to do. Yeah, that's what it

841
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 2: gets to the point of, right, it just keeps like

842
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 2: piling on. That stresses me out. It makes me not

843
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 2: want to come.

844
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:23,880
Speaker 1: Out of my house exactly.

845
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 2: And this is why everybody buys uff online now because

846
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 2: nobody wants to go to the store and have those interactions. Okay, well,

847
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 2: you know, just watch out for the ads on the

848
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 2: registers when you go to places. Okay, we're gonna wrap

849
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:39,800
Speaker 2: this up. Mike, Thanks for joining things, for being vulnerable

850
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 2: talking about friendships.

851
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 1: There's a lot of different areas of conversation in this day.

852
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 2: I like to go lots of different ways, and I

853
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 2: really appreciate you just coming with me on them, but

854
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 2: being vulnerable talking about what's going on in your life

855
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 2: and also voicing our frustrations with ads.

856
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, we had the whole range of emotions today. We did.

857
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 2: We were inside out basically all of them came to play.

858
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 2: They were pressing buttons. All right, tell the people where

859
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 2: they can find to hear you all that good stuff.

860
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 1: You can find my podcast movie Mike's Movie Podcast wherever

861
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 1: you listen to podcasts. Coming up this week, I have

862
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:09,359
Speaker 1: Freddy Krueger on, which is cool.

863
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,240
Speaker 2: The guy who played him, did he wear his mask?

864
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: He did not. But it's the fortieth anniversary of the

865
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 1: first Nightmare on Elm Street movie, So I had Robert

866
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 1: England on to talk about like the whole making and

867
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:21,520
Speaker 1: behind the scenes of that movie, which is really cool

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Speaker 1: for me because that was obviously one of my favorite

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Speaker 1: top three of all time, and like to have somebody

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Speaker 1: who is so iconic and also like the face of

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Speaker 1: a horror franchise which you don't really have, Like Michael

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Speaker 1: Myers has a mask, Jason has a mask, Chucky as

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Speaker 1: a doll.

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Speaker 2: Oh, Freddy Kruger doesn't have a mask.

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Speaker 1: He's like has makeup on. But like when you actually

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Speaker 1: see him, you're seeing the character Freddy Krueger. All those

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Speaker 1: other characters is just completely different people. Okay, So it's

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Speaker 1: like a whole different level of fame that he dealt

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Speaker 1: with that.

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Speaker 2: We talked about that's so cool. That's a huge git, like,

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Speaker 2: that's a great interview, I imagine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was awesome, and it was hard to do because,

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Speaker 1: as I imagine it, like forty years everybody has asked

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Speaker 1: him everything possible, so I had to kind of find

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Speaker 1: a way to ask him things in a different way

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Speaker 1: so it'd be like, oh, that was interesting. And he

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Speaker 1: gave me like a cool compliment at the end of it,

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Speaker 1: so you got to listen to check it out.

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Speaker 2: You better, you better kept that compliment in Oh yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: I was posting that teaser, like check out what he said.

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Speaker 1: I'm good I did that.

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Speaker 2: That's so fun. Okay, go follow Mike d listen to

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Speaker 2: movie Mike's Movie podcast and you can follow me out

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Speaker 2: web girl. Morgan and I have a podcast out. We

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Speaker 2: kind of talked about the friendship Coach, but I had

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Speaker 2: Morgan number one on recently. We talked it's a hilarious

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Speaker 2: conversation between two friends about dating, life, relationships, all that stuff,

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Speaker 2: and lots of funny clips came on the point, all right,

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Speaker 2: we're getting out of here.

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Speaker 1: Bye, everybody, bye. That's the best bits of the week

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Speaker 1: with Morgan. Thanks for listening. Be sure to check out

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Speaker 1: the other two parts this weekend.

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