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Speaker 2: Papa Team six Welcome, Welcome to another episode A for

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Speaker 2: the Dads. You might be thinking to yourself, Willie boy,

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Speaker 2: why is you sound a little down right now? I'm

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Speaker 2: doing that to anchor the emotion for the severity of

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Speaker 2: a situation that we need to address. A few things

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Speaker 2: happened a few episodes ago that we need to handle

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Speaker 2: and before we do anything else and get into this episode,

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Speaker 2: I just urge you guys to listen to this message.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, my fellow Americans and PT sixers. A few

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Speaker 3: weeks ago, I was on this incredible podcast and I

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Speaker 3: confidently announced to the world that my next child would

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Speaker 3: be a boy. The ultrasound supported these claims, and like

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Speaker 3: many leaders before me, I spoke with great confidence, but

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Speaker 3: perhaps a bit too early. After further review, including a

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Speaker 3: blood sample in the official anatomy scan. New information has

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Speaker 3: come across my desk, and tonight I sit before you

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Speaker 3: to say we are in fact having a girl. Now listen,

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to lie to you. I was extremely

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Speaker 3: excited about having the possibility of a boy, but as

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Speaker 3: a father of girls, I also know there is nothing

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Speaker 3: better than raising strong, hilarious, sweet little girls who completely

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Speaker 3: run my household. So while the administration briefly believed it

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Speaker 3: was entering in its boy dad era, we are proudly

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Speaker 3: continuing the current policy of girl dad dominance. The science

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Speaker 3: is in, the decision is final, and I cannot be

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Speaker 3: more grateful to my beautiful daughters. When Rebel Lawan, my oldest,

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Speaker 3: I will say, your beauty is unmatched, your confidence is unreal.

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Speaker 3: You've never met a stranger in your entire life. You

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Speaker 3: keep us guessing with your profound thoughts, and I love

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Speaker 3: being your dad each and every single day. To my youngest,

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Speaker 3: Willow Rose Lawan, your bravery and knowing who you are

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Speaker 3: and what you want at all times keeps us on

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Speaker 3: our toes, and I have no doubt later in life

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Speaker 3: you will be one of the extremely successful women this

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Speaker 3: world has ever seen. I am so gratefully honored to

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Speaker 3: I want to say thank you. I want to say

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Speaker 3: God bless my wife, God bless these United States of America,

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Speaker 3: God bless these proud girl dads out there, and God

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Speaker 3: bless for the dads. This hat is now available on Wednesday.

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Speaker 3: Please enjoy this episode with Sherman Young and William Earl Compton.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. That's my time. Why chromosome we call upon

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Speaker 4: Why chromosome we ask THEE to lift that girl curse

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Speaker 4: that is upon this office that only allows us to

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Speaker 1: Fil callei, mo callei, mo.

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Speaker 1: Why chromosome? Fill us with tea Hi, Hi, te ts

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Dan Gable, all right, welcome to for the dads.

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Speaker 2: I hope the trash is taken out. I hope you

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Speaker 2: had a wonderful March fourteenth. Over the weekend, I know

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Speaker 2: And they come in, we do the greeting, we show

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Speaker 2: You see there's a pool back there. When I get

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be in it. Did you bring your swimming

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Speaker 2: But as we're all kind of winding down having some conversation,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, dude, who is going to be so hype's?

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Speaker 1: She was asking about sleep because it's ten o'clock. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I was like, I just know when we wake up

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Speaker 1: Why he can sleep in?

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Speaker 2: He might be a nine or ten guy at times

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but on weekends.

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Speaker 2: I know my boy, I know my little bro likes

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Speaker 2: Are you just opening the bag? And like he loves sweets.

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Speaker 2: like a half dozen they're six she she mama likes

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Speaker 2: You're in the cookout and we go around us making

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Speaker 1: Seeing some new fresh faces around. Yeah, what's your thorn?

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Speaker 2: My thorn is Opa eating my chocolate donut. Everybody starts laughing.

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Speaker 1: like I can tell, yeah, yeah, whill are you also? Man?

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking, yeah, yeah, Opa, eating my chocolate donut. I

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Speaker 2: It's one of those situations where the energy being exchanged

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he learned something that day. That's what men assume anyway.

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Speaker 2: You assume that if I just give off a certain

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Then if it comes back up, it's like, what

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Speaker 2: You shouldn't. You saw the look in my face. Everybody

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Speaker 2: I was looking at that extra little WinCE in your eyes.

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Speaker 2: I da you to do it again?

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Speaker 1: Ellie's Old Fashioned Donut?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Ellie's Ellie's Old Fashioned Donuts. Shout out pool, shout

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Speaker 1: God. It's good family fun over the weekend.

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Speaker 5: The one note I would give to Opah has just

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Speaker 1: When I came out to charl I was like, Charle,

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Speaker 2: She's like it should be in the bag, And I

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Speaker 1: That's apologizing because you got caught, not because you did it.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You slice on a little bit, Oprah.

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Speaker 1: My mom has come in town twice.

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Speaker 5: You know those little Valgue packs of the vanilla and

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Speaker 1: Cream hit the Bluebell. Yeah, she's completely gutted us twice

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Speaker 5: I'm not a sweet to so it doesn't affect me.

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Speaker 1: I bet her ass did eat it.

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Speaker 2: and over and over? Apologize profusely if he continued to

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Speaker 5: Maybe I've grown callous in numb to it at this

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Speaker 2: Mad per se, but I felt some type of way

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00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 2: about that particular situation.

435
00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:33,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, hey, I listen, I love you. I

436
00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:34,440
Speaker 1: know you got a sweet tooth.

437
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:40,359
Speaker 2: But we got to have some awareness and ask a

438
00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:41,160
Speaker 2: couple of questions.

439
00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:42,600
Speaker 1: Especially if you say you look in a.

440
00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:45,360
Speaker 2: Donut bag and say they're all glazed, or say they're

441
00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,080
Speaker 2: all the same kind, and you grab one or two,

442
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,760
Speaker 2: you know you're just grabbing part of the part of

443
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:55,359
Speaker 2: the flock. But you see one solo chocolate covered doughnut

444
00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 2: in there.

445
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:57,719
Speaker 5: Oh, that might be there for a reason. Somebody might

446
00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:59,200
Speaker 5: have speciactically ordered that.

447
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:02,119
Speaker 1: That's all I'm asking, Yeah, it's all I'm asking. And no,

448
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,919
Speaker 1: no for dads. I think a dad hack unlocked in

449
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:05,880
Speaker 1: that moment.

450
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:09,720
Speaker 5: Is just get a little paper towel action, go ahead

451
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 5: and snack that will and hide it. I know it's

452
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:14,479
Speaker 5: your house and you don't need to be hiding in

453
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 5: your house.

454
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, what are we talking? What are we talking about?

455
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:22,159
Speaker 1: But we're outnumbered. We're outnumbered. The girls are gonna be

456
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,200
Speaker 1: growing up, stuff's gonna be vanishing, and maybe you gotta

457
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:29,359
Speaker 1: fight for yourself a little bit. Yeah, I see what

458
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 1: you're saying there.

459
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,199
Speaker 2: To me, I would think of that dad hack of

460
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:36,440
Speaker 2: more of a with your kids, because they're not.

461
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:39,080
Speaker 1: They're not they're not growing kids. That was for kids.

462
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:40,399
Speaker 1: We're talking about mature adults.

463
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're talking about father in laws. Yeah, yeah, we're

464
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 5: talking about father in law. Were talking about We're not

465
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 5: even talking about a game. We're talking about practice with

466
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 5: father in laws. Great weekends, like a fantastic weekend. I

467
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 5: had an incredible weekend, incredible weekend. I had a lot

468
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 5: of fun stuff. I did have my APR that I thought.

469
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 1: We could go over APR, Dad brain, I forgot my APR. No,

470
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: you're fine, go ahead hit.

471
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:13,199
Speaker 5: Your and this is just our after pod report. I

472
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:17,600
Speaker 5: got some notes from wifey this weekend. Yeah, got some

473
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 5: notes from wifey.

474
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:24,320
Speaker 1: One. We're moving, Oh you're moving, We're moving. I thought

475
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: you were talking about Hey, you're talking about continuing to

476
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:27,879
Speaker 1: run or maybe you buy the house.

477
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we'll pour into it and no rehabilitate

478
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 2: the house.

479
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 1: Great news, we're moving. My wife broke the great news

480
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:40,120
Speaker 1: to me that we're done with this rent house.

481
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 5: We're looking for a new rent house. Our leases up

482
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 5: in June, so it's perfect timing here in March to

483
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 5: start looking for some new houses.

484
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 1: I'm very excited.

485
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 2: So your tone and your body language is telling me.

486
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 2: This is the vibe I'm getting. You're saying we're moving,

487
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 2: like you're all happy, Yeah, happy, go lucky. Yeah, my

488
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 2: wife said we're moving. I'm feeling that you just got

489
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 2: told that you're moving.

490
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,919
Speaker 1: I certainly got told by my wonderful, beautiful wife that

491
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:17,639
Speaker 1: were moving. That's your Yeah, you didn't miss anything. But

492
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 1: some of the audience might be thinking, all, was this

493
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 1: a team? Was this a team? Ever?

494
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 2: Like you guys are both wanting to move, or it's

495
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 2: just all of a sudden something happened. We're getting out

496
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 2: of this guy.

497
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 5: I don't think when it's a great idea like that,

498
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 5: I don't think there needs to be a whole lot

499
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 5: of like discussion.

500
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 1: I think she had a great idea and we're going

501
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: with it. Yeah, yeah, absolutely. How did it happen? How

502
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 1: did this come to be?

503
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 5: I got a text of some mouse poop on the

504
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 5: kitchen counter and uh, it followed up by a text

505
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,880
Speaker 5: of we're moving, which was phenomenal news.

506
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:56,160
Speaker 1: I was very excited. How did you respond to say? Oh, yeah,

507
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,879
Speaker 1: it's a great win, you know what.

508
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 5: Let me get on zillo And then she beat me

509
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 5: to it and started sending me Zillow stuff of the

510
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 5: new houses that we'll be moving into, which is great.

511
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,360
Speaker 1: Oh she already did the work. Yeah.

512
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:15,640
Speaker 5: And some of these houses are up to thirty five

513
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 5: forty five minutes away, so I'll have a lot of

514
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 5: time on the road self reflection.

515
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 2: Thirty five to forty five minutes away, Like right now,

516
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:23,880
Speaker 2: you're a couple of minutes away from the shop.

517
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, a little too close if you, if you ask me,

518
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 1: a little too close. You could walk each day here?

519
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:31,640
Speaker 1: I know, But why do that?

520
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:33,959
Speaker 5: Why run to work like Dan Gable when you can

521
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 5: drive thirty five to forty five minutes?

522
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: But I'm very excited for that, I can tell Yeah,

523
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: I could she segue too.

524
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 5: She's thinking a lot about child number two, maybe potentially

525
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,360
Speaker 5: trying for child number two, which I think is another

526
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 5: great idea from the WiFi, because we didn't have any

527
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 5: plans to like wait or anything like that, like any

528
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 5: type of agreed on.

529
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 1: Schedule or anything. So we'll drive for baby number two

530
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,119
Speaker 1: and then hopefully she what I'm aiming for is she's

531
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 1: pregnant during the move would be ideal. Third trimester.

532
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:13,719
Speaker 5: Damn, it may be nesting stage, maybe like late second trimester,

533
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 5: when the anxiety's like at its peak.

534
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll try and time it out.

535
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 2: But when their hormones have been completely hijacked, Yeah, that's

536
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:22,880
Speaker 2: the time to move.

537
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 1: That's the time to move. So I'm out. But hey,

538
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:29,160
Speaker 1: baby number two, new house, baby number two and new

539
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: house homeowner. Yep, sherman, what are you gonna do about

540
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 1: the mice? Don't worry. I caught it, and I did

541
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:35,679
Speaker 1: take a picture this morning.

542
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 5: But then I was like, that's a little it's a

543
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 5: little gruesome to show on the live. But long live

544
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 5: the king. I'm the king of my domicile. Yet again,

545
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 5: the mouse has been defeated. That's this morning. That's that's

546
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:49,360
Speaker 5: all off the press.

547
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,880
Speaker 1: Back to APR though, I got another great note from

548
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: my wife that I need to work on the three piece, Sherman,

549
00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: what are the three peas?

550
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 5: The three piece A pubes, poop and p And Jill

551
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 5: made a great she made a fantastic note that whenever's.

552
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,439
Speaker 2: Poop and pee, pubes poop and pee. And I'm thinking

553
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 2: this is scarlet. But then you say pubes so that

554
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 2: I'm like.

555
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 5: God, it's not our eight month old. So I'm like, oh,

556
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 5: that must yeah, that must be she's talking to me.

557
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 5: But whenever Jill goes to the bathroom, there's always one

558
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 5: of those three p's, like just a little hint of it.

559
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 1: Maybe sometimes there's a hint of two of them, and

560
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:34,679
Speaker 1: God forbid three. So, uh, I'm working on my she

561
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 1: calls it house hygiene. She said, I have great hygiene

562
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: body hygiene, but I need to work on my house hygiene.

563
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 1: And so we're working on getting the three p's taken

564
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:46,439
Speaker 1: care of.

565
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 2: Okay, I have questions. I don't know if you guys

566
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 2: have questions. Yeah, please go ahead poop, pee and pubes.

567
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

568
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, So you're telling me that wifey whenever she's going

569
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 2: to the baths that you guys use together.

570
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, or the guest room or the guest room bathroom.

571
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:09,679
Speaker 2: There's always one of those three little hint that is

572
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:14,399
Speaker 2: still around the toilet. Yes, sir, I can wrap my

573
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 2: head around pubes out of the three like a couple

574
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 2: of strays. You're trimming up, you're grooming. Yeah, you're trying

575
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 2: to make it nicy for wifey.

576
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 1: Yeah. Poop and pee.

577
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 5: Yeah, you get a streak here, you get a holding

578
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 5: scarlet while peeing there, and you chalk it up.

579
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: I need to tighten the screws. I need to tighten

580
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 1: the screws.

581
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 2: You don't sound like a cat like me. Whenever I

582
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 2: get done going to the bathroom, I'm always somebody who

583
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 2: just checks.

584
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 1: I check the rim yep. If I have a blowout,

585
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: God forbid, God forbid I have a blowout.

586
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:55,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, the back of the bowl up underneath the seat,

587
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 2: I always lift and kind of see what's going on.

588
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 1: Because I'm personally like i'd be side with Jill on

589
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: this one. Oh, certainly this.

590
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 5: You remember that note that you gave on my first

591
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 5: news of the moving and you're like, you look this way,

592
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 5: but you sound this way. Remind me look this way

593
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 5: but sound this When I when I was jokingly excited

594
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 5: about moving. Oh yeah, okay, just a few minutes ago,

595
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 5: just a few minutes. Ok, this one's actually a good note.

596
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 5: This one's actually a good note that I should work on.

597
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 1: Oh, on the APR. This is feedback you've gotten and

598
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: you're like, yeah.

599
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 5: You know what you're write And in the note I

600
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 5: told myself and maybe this could help a.

601
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 1: Dad out there.

602
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 5: Is when I'm at work or I am at someone's house,

603
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 5: someone else's house, and I go to the bathroom, I

604
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 5: do have like a very O C D nature about

605
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 5: myself of I do not want to be because I

606
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 5: also have the reputation around here of oh, Sherman blows

607
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 5: it up.

608
00:29:58,600 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 1: Sherman blows it up.

609
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 2: When Decat went yesterday and he had to go, all

610
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 2: he was trying to do is find the plunger. But

611
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 2: in that time of finding the plunger, somebody came in.

612
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 2: There was like, oh, who didn't flush the toilet?

613
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 1: The fuck? But everybody's immediate that reaction was who do

614
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: you think it was? I bet it was sureman. Oh,

615
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 1: And they would have yeah, like, yeah, there's no notes there.

616
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 1: Now Do I leave my stuff around, absolutely not. Do

617
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: I blow it up? For sure?

618
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 5: But now I need to get in the mental mind

619
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 5: space of hey, when I'm pooping and pen at my house,

620
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 5: I'm actually at somebody else's house.

621
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, because if there was poop peer pubes in the

622
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 2: guest bathroom and I knew you just used it.

623
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: You'd think I'm a psychopath. I would never get an invite. No, no, no,

624
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: you'd get invited back. But there'd be a nice we'd

625
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 1: have a nice laugh, maybe a tweet, yeah, yeah, maybe

626
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 1: a walk and talk and walking talking, laugh a little bit. Opah, Sherman,

627
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: Come here for sure you just use the toilet? Yeah,

628
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 1: I thought so. Hey, let's go take a walk. As

629
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: you're flipping the steaks from the ground. Hey, sure, did

630
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 1: you use the guests room forty five minutes ago? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

631
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: I thought so. Put your hand over this grill. Yeah

632
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 1: you like that? You felt hot? That is imagine your

633
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: face on it, Sherman.

634
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 5: Do you know how to test the uh internal temperature

635
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 5: of a steak without even touching it? Give me your hand,

636
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 5: put your pointer finger in your thumb together, feel that

637
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 5: squeeze that it's medium rare.

638
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: Nice dad, hack right there, nice grill hack. You get

639
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 1: all the way to the pinky.

640
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's well done. Tell the dads. Tell any new

641
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 2: young dads out there that might not be savvy on

642
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 2: the grill. What you're talking about.

643
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: Uh, I believe medium will work on. Yeah, I gotta

644
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: work through it too. I don't think it's rare medium, rare, medium,

645
00:31:58,280 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: well done.

646
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 7: Pointer finger rare, Yeah, this is this is rare. Second

647
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 7: finger middle medium, rare.

648
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 1: Medium, rare medium medium, well well, another good thing for

649
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 1: medium rare.

650
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 7: When the juices start to come out of this steak,

651
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 7: that's a good, very very good tailtale sign that you

652
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 7: have a medium rare steak.

653
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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, great, call the chef. His name is, his

654
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 2: nickname isn't chef for no reason.

655
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Speaker 1: It's a literally chef. But that right there, rare.

656
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Speaker 2: Yep index finger, middle finger medium rare medium, rare medium, medium,

657
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Speaker 2: pinky is well done. So you're grabbing and you feel

658
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 2: the toughness on on this little pad right here on

659
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Speaker 2: your thumb.

660
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Speaker 1: That's what you should be feeling if you grab the steak.

661
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Speaker 7: And then if it's a fl ay, you need to

662
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Speaker 7: be it's gonna be a little more tender. You need

663
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Speaker 7: to be a little more careful on using the touch.

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Speaker 7: I would give much more in a look for the

665
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Speaker 7: juices to rise. Yeah, just a small thing.

666
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Speaker 2: But if you don't have that foundational education, you shouldn't

667
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Speaker 2: be getting around to fill a You're going to full

668
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Speaker 2: a you know, a thing or two about some steaks.

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Speaker 1: And as you have me leaned over the grill, you

670
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Speaker 1: get to a well done you go, And that's what

671
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Speaker 1: you're gonna be. If my fucking guest bath ever has

672
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Speaker 1: another pew on it again, you put a little shit stain,

673
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Speaker 1: you're gonna be well done. Good APR good, A good,

674
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Speaker 1: good feedback from my wife.

675
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Speaker 2: I'm glad you communicated that with is communications key Will

676
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 2: So I had a couple APR dad brain moments last

677
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Speaker 2: week pretty much immediately within the hour of the episode releasing, oh,

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Speaker 2: not an hour, within the first two hours of the

679
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 2: episode releasing last week. Yeah, I got a I got

680
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 2: a phone call. It wasn't just feedback through a text.

681
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 2: It was a phone call.

682
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. And the first question was because.

683
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Speaker 2: What we do last week we celebrated Scottie turning six

684
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Speaker 2: months old. I forget if I said the day you're listening,

685
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Speaker 2: or if itels the day we're recording the tenth or eleventh.

686
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Speaker 1: It was six months, right, six months? Okay, I'm just

687
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Speaker 1: helping you. I thought it was not.

688
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 2: Wife calls me in first thing he said, I'm like, hey, sweetheart,

689
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 2: She goes, do you know your daughter's birthday?

690
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 1: Oh? And I was like, which daughter? But yeah, I

691
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,879
Speaker 1: was like, uh, oh shit, I got that wrong, didn't I.

692
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 1: She's like, how do you not know? You? Like, you

693
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Speaker 1: only have two kids and they're young. It's early.

694
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Speaker 2: It's not like they're grown up, and you kind of

695
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 2: forget when their birthday could be. How do you forget

696
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 2: when Scotty's birthday is? Oh, sweetheart, it ain't even like that,

697
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:33,400
Speaker 2: Like in my brain, it's like a waterfall system. Rue

698
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: is April third, twenty twenty two, so four three two,

699
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Speaker 2: And then with Scotty, I go eleven. I think it's

700
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Speaker 2: eleven ten, but I need to flip it. Rue is descending,

701
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Speaker 2: Scotty is uscending. So Scotty turned six months on November

702
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Speaker 2: twelve or March twelfth, great, not March tenth or I

703
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Speaker 2: forget it? Look, dad, brain, I forget what I even want?

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Speaker 1: Hold on hold on the twelfth. Okay, the twelfth day

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Speaker 1: Instagram November is her birthday is her day of birth.

706
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Speaker 1: March March twelfth is when she turned sixteen months old.

707
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Speaker 1: Sixteen months. I just confused everybody because I think I

708
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Speaker 1: said six, and I was like, she's just really good

709
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Speaker 1: at dinner for a six month old.

710
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 6: And I just was that's why I asked you six,

711
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 6: and you look back at me and said you get six.

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Speaker 1: Dad, brain, that brain, that birth six APR report.

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Speaker 5: I gotta be completely honest, after everything you just went over,

714
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Speaker 5: I do not know, after everything that you just said,

715
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Speaker 5: what your daughter's birthday is or how old she is.

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Speaker 2: Scottie is sixteen months old. She turned sixteen months old

717
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 2: on March twelfth, Okay, her birthday, her day of birth

718
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:46,400
Speaker 2: when she came into this world and dead and Mama

719
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 2: were smiling at her. That was on November twelfth. Okay,

720
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Speaker 2: So I gott the I got the day off. APR

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Speaker 2: number two. This is an interesting one because we open

722
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Speaker 2: up every episode. I hope your trash is taken out.

723
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,799
Speaker 2: Big trash day guy. We are in a new house,

724
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 2: so we're in a new area, We're in a new environment.

725
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: Oh, I forgot about this.

726
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 2: I missed trash a couple of week are a few

727
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 2: weeks ago listening now, and I know this mailman is

728
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 2: out there listening.

729
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: He's a pet sico.

730
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Speaker 2: But you know how a few weeks ago I stood

731
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Speaker 2: in solidarity with a gentleman who called in and said,

732
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Speaker 2: I forgot to take out the trash. Like, fuck me. Yeah,

733
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Speaker 2: So I stood in soolidating with him. Like the next

734
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Speaker 2: time I had to take out trash, I stood in solidary.

735
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Speaker 2: I forgot to take out the trash, but I stood

736
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Speaker 2: in solid area.

737
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:36,399
Speaker 5: Yeah, shortest voice failing before the that's history.

738
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. Yeah.

739
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 2: So the next week I take out the trash. Remember

740
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Speaker 2: I did a little walk and talk videos. I'm walking

741
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 2: down to the driveway. It was kind of night time

742
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 2: out walk, the trash bens out, trash is taken out. Yeah,

743
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 2: so that trash day happens. The next week, my wife

744
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 2: takes out the trash. This is we are now at

745
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 2: last week when I'm getting this APR report. Yeah, because

746
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 2: trash Day for us is on Wednesdays. Episode drops on Wednesdays.

747
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 2: Mailman comes on Wednesday. Mailman comes every day, but he comes.

748
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 2: He comes on Wednesdays. He comes up to the door.

749
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:20,399
Speaker 5: Yeah, because your mailbox isn't at your door, wells down

750
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Speaker 5: at the bottom of the driveway.

751
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 1: He comes up to the door.

752
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 2: And I could butcher the details here, but essentially knocks

753
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 2: charro answers and he delivers our mails, so he know

754
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 2: when he sees he sees old Willie one chelf on there. Yeah,

755
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,800
Speaker 2: he's a PT sixer, he's a PT sicko. And he goes,

756
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 2: I can tell your husband. I can tell your husband

757
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 2: is having trouble setting up the trash outside. And he goes, basically,

758
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 2: you know how I knew that.

759
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,399
Speaker 1: You did it today? Oh my god, because I didn't

760
00:37:56,400 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 1: do it last week either. My wife did it because

761
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: you texted me someth about the trash, something like that's

762
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Speaker 1: why we're a tea baby.

763
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 2: And he goes, because I knew it was your husband

764
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Speaker 2: because when he put out the trash bins, he had

765
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Speaker 2: them both right next to each other, touching, which is

766
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Speaker 2: a no note if you wanted him to be able

767
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Speaker 2: to lift the bins up and put him in the

768
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Speaker 2: trash note, Yep, it's a good note. Need to separate

769
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Speaker 2: him for you know, a few inches whatever it is.

770
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Speaker 2: And this is the mailman. This is not the trash

771
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 2: man giving game right, correct.

772
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 1: This is the mailman.

773
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 2: And he put the trash cans in front of the mailbox,

774
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 2: so technically he might not be allowed to put the

775
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:44,479
Speaker 2: mail into where he's got to come up to the door.

776
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 2: He's like, but just wanted to give that note. I

777
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,760
Speaker 2: knew it was you today because everything was placed perfectly

778
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 2: at the end of the driveway. So I have some

779
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 2: work to do. Shout out the mailman that runs through

780
00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:58,919
Speaker 2: our area. He's a pt sick.

781
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 1: Oh, yes he is. He's looking out for his boy.

782
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 1: Does he have a first name? Do we want to

783
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 1: shout out? I don't know his first name? Oh, okay,

784
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: well I don't know. I don't know if he gave

785
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 1: it to Jarrow, we'll get on that, ba.

786
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 2: If he gave it to jar and Shrot didn't tell

787
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Speaker 2: me his first name, maybe I need to keep an

788
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:11,319
Speaker 2: eye on the mail man at home.

789
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Speaker 1: My dream, when you initially told the very brief story

790
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: because you didn't want to spoil it for the pod,

791
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 1: my dream is that your mailman is a guest on

792
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 1: for the dads eventually one day, Buddy, I've been having

793
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: these thoughts on guests because I know people love when

794
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 1: we have guests. What we've only had Taylor on, but

795
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: I know people would love to hear from other guests.

796
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 1: We do want to do that.

797
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 2: We thought it was very We love the whole, the community,

798
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 2: the language, everything.

799
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Speaker 1: That we're doing on for the day.

800
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,240
Speaker 2: It's a lot of fun. We've also been in talks

801
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 2: for months now about having a guest list. Yeah, we

802
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 2: don't want it to go consecutive guests rolling out week

803
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 2: after week after week to where it becomes a guest

804
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 2: centric show. But when we do have guests on, like,

805
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 2: who are the guests going to be? We want uh

806
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 2: Chicago Ups, Anthony riz we want, we want Dan Gable.

807
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 2: We love with Greg Olsen, greg Olsen, sal for Sella.

808
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was the first friend there.

809
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 2: Matt Staff, Matt Staff for Luke Comb's like these are

810
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 2: Bob Odenkirk, Yeah, these are bigger, Yes, Bro, he would

811
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Speaker 2: be phenomenal. Would love that any dad that I've seen

812
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 2: doing podcasts to where it's like a dad clip for content.

813
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 2: I want the I love people who want to just

814
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 2: talk that life.

815
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

816
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 2: However, another part of me was like the male man,

817
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 2: there's a there's a there's a there's a PT sixer. Yeah,

818
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 2: that operates the this flower farm we went to over

819
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 2: the weekend, And you can pull up the Instagram so

820
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 2: that way the photo the screenshot can be on the

821
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 2: screen cover shot coming to mind farmer Sean.

822
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but just salt of the earth. Dad could not

823
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: agree more. I want I want some dads on here. Yeah,

824
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 1: some dads. I don't want this.

825
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 2: A dad show doesn't have to be some name of

826
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 2: some status. No, and a siko that's out there that

827
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 2: we sit there and communicate with all the time, that

828
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 2: writes in, that does all these things.

829
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Speaker 5: Like we'd love to have just dads, yes on the pod.

830
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:21,840
Speaker 5: No one you just named fits this category. I just

831
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 5: want to throw that out there. But like we're we

832
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:30,760
Speaker 5: don't want like pretty perfect picture of dad for every

833
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 5: single guess.

834
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 1: We want some dads. Yeah, I want a guy in

835
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 1: the trenches. It's got a little blood and a little

836
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: dirt on his face because he's he's got four under

837
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:41,760
Speaker 1: four at.

838
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 2: Home, and he's just got some good stories. Like, we're

839
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:48,280
Speaker 2: not out here chasing numbers. We do encourage everybody to subscribe.

840
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 2: If you have a subscribe, please make sure you subscribe

841
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:52,840
Speaker 2: following all of our audience channels. But it's not like

842
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 2: when we look at guests, we don't want to just

843
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 2: chase what numbers could be. Yeah, we just want some

844
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,360
Speaker 2: good old fashioned dad combos where Dad's can men have

845
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:01,720
Speaker 2: an ollipop with us?

846
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 1: Here? Man?

847
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 2: They're co hosting the show with us. They're not We're

848
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 2: not sitting here and they're sitting on the other side

849
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 2: and we're interviewing them. It's like Taylor Reiner where he

850
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 2: was a co host, a guest host for the Dads.

851
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,799
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that would be awesome.

852
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 5: I want some guys that they deep grunt when they

853
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 5: get up out of a chair. Yeah, any question you

854
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 5: asked them, no matter how easy to answer, there's always

855
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 5: a ball cap off and scratch ahead and go as shit.

856
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:30,239
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you know what, Let me call my

857
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,799
Speaker 1: wife and make sure this story's right. Yeah, let me, Hey,

858
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: what'd you do this weekend? Whatever? Like whatever, whatever my

859
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 1: wife told me to you, I just shut my mouth. Yeah,

860
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 1: I go where she wants to.

861
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 5: Also, I just I just unlocked a memory from yesterday

862
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 5: because I tried to block it out.

863
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 1: We're talking about APR.

864
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 5: Got a nice little phone call from my wife that

865
00:42:55,480 --> 00:43:00,839
Speaker 5: I love I love you Jilly Bean around five point

866
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 5: fifteen or no, no, it was five twenty six. It

867
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:08,479
Speaker 5: was five twenty six, and she said, are you still

868
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 5: at the office.

869
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,760
Speaker 1: I say, I sure am. We had a late recording.

870
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 5: She said, who's picking up Scarlet? I said, that is

871
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 5: a great note, honey, I'll go do that. I'll go

872
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 5: pick up our daughter. Great question. Great question, because oh yeah, Monday, Wednesday,

873
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,280
Speaker 5: Friday is my days. I go pick up our daughter.

874
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 5: And if I don't do it before six o'clock, we

875
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 5: get hit with the fee. That was a great note

876
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 5: by my wife forgot, forgot to go pick up Scarlett.

877
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 5: I did get there before six though, five p fifty eight.

878
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 5: If not, you get a fee.

879
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 2: Just you just tell them charge it to the four

880
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 2: of the day.

881
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,720
Speaker 1: On the dead. Put it on the dead.

882
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, and yes also future future note. I was

883
00:43:56,320 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 5: not being held at gunpoint here at the office was

884
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 5: more so we just had a late recording day and

885
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:06,280
Speaker 5: I like, literally for guy.

886
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 1: And that happens to me because we were doing George Kittle.

887
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: Yes it was George Kittle, and it's like, this is

888
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,399
Speaker 1: a huge pod. This is fine. It ran late because

889
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 1: of RAM late, Like it wasn't like right right when

890
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 1: Luke comes was on. I had to get that on.

891
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 2: I was like, hey, I hate to do this, I

892
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 2: have to leave. So I got to get home by

893
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 2: a certain time and I was running late and I'm

894
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 2: sitting there texting. That's when I was vin mowing my

895
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 2: name just Venmotor one hundred dollars. Yeah, I'm sorry.

896
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 5: But on the death Yeah, and uh yeah, that was

897
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,760
Speaker 5: a bone chilling phone call. Jill actually went very easy

898
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 5: on me. But at the hospital she cannot leave like that.

899
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:49,879
Speaker 5: There's actual like rules and parameters around that living during

900
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 5: a shift, so it's literally up to me.

901
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 1: And uh, that's how we wanted though, Papa team, That's

902
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: how we won it. Good.

903
00:44:57,160 --> 00:45:00,279
Speaker 5: Yes, but that phone call was so funny. Dude, just

904
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 5: who's picking up our daughter?

905
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 1: Good question? Crazy? I think it's been today? It is

906
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 1: you today? Good? I forgot and even better APR.

907
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 5: We had a fantastic episode last week where we talked

908
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 5: about steak and blow job Day multiple times. Found out

909
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 5: from our lovely women at daycare and shout out Miss

910
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 5: Angela and Miss Crystal because they're great. Miss Crystal found

911
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 5: our podcast last week when she was she was on Spotify.

912
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 2: About the first the first episode she consumed before the

913
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 2: Dads your Daycare. Yeah, Lena found for the Dads last

914
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 2: week when we were promoing Yeah March fourteenth.

915
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, nice, it's a great combo with her.

916
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 5: It's fantastic. I said, how did you I'm legitimately kind

917
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 5: of curious. How did you come across it on Spotify?

918
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 5: And she was like, it was on my suggestion and

919
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 5: there was a picture of you, And I was like,

920
00:45:57,560 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 5: what in the world And y'all think, I know that

921
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 5: y'all just released this episode?

922
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 1: What you think? Oh? When was it? When was that?

923
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 8: Oh?

924
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 1: On Thursday? Oh good?

925
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, so was the last week's episode or a different

926
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 2: one got suggested?

927
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:23,399
Speaker 1: Oh good? Yeah, y'all were like super excited about soth

928
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 1: y'all are y'all are like it seemed funny, like it

929
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: seemed cool. I was like, yeah, good is.

930
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, grab Scarlett as fast as I could and was

931
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 5: out of there.

932
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,879
Speaker 2: That's a tough spot to be in, Yeah, especially any

933
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 2: new listener that came in last week. Yeah, interesting one

934
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 2: to come fun. I hope you all laughed and had

935
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:47,919
Speaker 2: a great time.

936
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 5: How did do we want to recap? Really quick before

937
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 5: we get into all this stuff? Do you want to

938
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 5: touch on your March fourteenth? Because I saw the stakes

939
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 5: that you cooked. I'm saying plural. You cooked enough to

940
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 5: feed an army. You had an army at your house. Yeah,

941
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 5: so you came through with the steaks. How Sake Day

942
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 5: was a plus. Stake Day was a plus. Steak Day, Yeah, buddy,

943
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,720
Speaker 5: I'm not even gonna sit here and act and pretend

944
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 5: Steak Day was good for me too.

945
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:25,839
Speaker 1: Steak Day was good for me too. I thought it

946
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 1: was a joke. I mean, it is a joke, but

947
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 1: but I don't know.

948
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 5: I just cook up the steak and then, you know,

949
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 5: we're watching the movie, and then the movie ends, and

950
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 5: then the lights are off and I'm sitting there like, Okay.

951
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:46,800
Speaker 1: She's really milking it now, she's really Did you have

952
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 1: a great day today? Yeah?

953
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 9: I did.

954
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:55,240
Speaker 1: It feels incomplete. I did have a good days about

955
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: to get better. I don't know. We're about to go

956
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: to bed, Yeah we are. Let's just say fluff the

957
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 1: sheet just a little bit. Let's just say it ended, and.

958
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:21,880
Speaker 2: I had my mouth tape on and I was just

959
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 2: facing I was facing Waffle, Waffle the bulldog just in

960
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:27,720
Speaker 2: the corner.

961
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:37,800
Speaker 1: We tried. Hey, we had fun. We did our best

962
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:41,319
Speaker 1: and we had fun. You guys got people. That's what

963
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying today. I you know, I still think we

964
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:44,879
Speaker 1: impact it.

965
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 6: End a lot of people's lives that day that we

966
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 6: got emails and comments about good you did the lord's work.

967
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:51,800
Speaker 1: We impacted others.

968
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:54,399
Speaker 5: I'm being so serious because like this is a joke,

969
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 5: but that did. Thank you for that silver lining, because

970
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:00,280
Speaker 5: if anybody did get their pipe smoked.

971
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 1: Vi FTD, hell yeah, hell yeah. I wanted to do

972
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 1: like videos on it.

973
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 2: I was like prepping my steak and I want to

974
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 2: do a video of how to prep the meat.

975
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:20,799
Speaker 1: Poor joking joke. Your post barrinated, well did.

976
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 6: I don't know the name, and this is not a bit,

977
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,319
Speaker 6: but while going through the four the D's phone, your

978
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 6: post did get reposted and shared to the story of

979
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:32,759
Speaker 6: a female movie star of that category. Then champion it.

980
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 6: I'll see if I can find it. I did not

981
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 6: recognize the name off first gas, but there was a

982
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:41,840
Speaker 6: story attachment of your post into a a porn stars.

983
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 1: Instagram storl who was saying, well, I guess it is official.

984
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:50,000
Speaker 6: I was thinking, like, Hollywood movie star, that's a different

985
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:50,840
Speaker 6: part of Hollywood.

986
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 1: It's like a different angle. Yeah, they make shows. I'm

987
00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 1: legitimately just gonna be like, we gotta find out. Oh yeah,

988
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 1: maybe it's like anathany Armis or something.

989
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 10: Fausday's funneled. Boys, am I see you, Ego, Tobby.

990
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:22,280
Speaker 2: I did see that the post had way more shares

991
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 2: than it did likes. Just the secret work.

992
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:34,359
Speaker 1: Was being done. Some absolute goom Beret demon the goom

993
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 1: Berets and seeming Team six's were on net. They're like, finally,

994
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: these guys just sit there and grind. They're like, oh,

995
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 1: I love my gid, my gid, oh my god.

996
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 6: Just for reference, the post has uh, I mean, it

997
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 6: did well and has one hundred and sixty three k views, okay,

998
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 6: four thousand likes, thirty one comments, forty three reposts, twelve

999
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:54,720
Speaker 6: thousand cents.

1000
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 1: Oh good, oh good. We made an impact. So that's

1001
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:00,720
Speaker 1: how my March fourteenth.

1002
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:05,720
Speaker 5: We have daughters, we have wives, and we think women

1003
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 5: are absolutely incredible.

1004
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:10,839
Speaker 1: We do, and we celebrate them. We do celebrate them.

1005
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: And to the twelve twelve point twelve point six, I

1006
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: tell you this, we ain't running on April fourteenth. Yeah,

1007
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 1: we're holding the line, buddy. If you think PT six

1008
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:37,880
Speaker 1: is going to retreat on April April fourteenth.

1009
00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 2: If it did, if it didn't happen for you, April

1010
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 2: fourteenth is a time to show the example of what

1011
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 2: the celebration looks like.

1012
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, show them what March fourteenth is all about, and

1013
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 1: hopefully the you know, most of our house will be

1014
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 1: boxed up by then. That'll be perfect. Yeah.

1015
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 2: I hope you're no, no, no, no. I hope you

1016
00:51:57,480 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 2: extend your lease and Jill is pushing third trimester, and

1017
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 2: then that's when you decide to move. Okay, first, I

1018
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,399
Speaker 2: think that's optimal. Yeah, that's optimal moving when your wife

1019
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 2: is going on a third trimester.

1020
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So we'll just be celebrating the news

1021
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: of I hope.

1022
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 2: That you're closing date and do date are the exact

1023
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 2: same day? Oh, that would be good. Yeah, that would

1024
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 2: be good.

1025
00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. We gotta find a way to time that out.

1026
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: Go month to month? Should we shout out some comments?

1027
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 1: Got a lot of comments? We gotta get through. We

1028
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 1: have a lot we get to do. Not get through

1029
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 1: that we get to do. And fucking talking about do

1030
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 1: we want to hit our recap ones first recap comments?

1031
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,439
Speaker 1: We should have probably hit those at the top.

1032
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 2: Will's apr Scotty's birthday is not eleven eleven all right?

1033
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:51,840
Speaker 2: Josh Nelson on Spotify submitted steak and bjday. This is

1034
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 2: Josh Nelson on Spotify submitted Steak and BJDA to the

1035
00:52:55,840 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 2: joint calendar. Wife conducted a tactical edit to Peanut Noodles

1036
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 2: and Pa Noodles and pussy.

1037
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 1: There you go, not the mission we planned, but the

1038
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: mission we got. Kay, Hey, there we go. There we go.

1039
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 1: A little shock wave. Never hurt you never Uh.

1040
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:21,080
Speaker 5: I've Jonah Kerns, who's riding in uh from our wonderful

1041
00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 5: empty Siko and I forget her name, Caitlin a bear.

1042
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 1: See that's why we put it on the shelf. Let's go.

1043
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 1: Caitlin rode in and said, you want to have a boy?

1044
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:38,400
Speaker 1: No eye contact? Okay? Jonah? How to follow up on that?

1045
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 5: Jonah Kerns on Spotify said, I think when she says

1046
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:43,800
Speaker 5: don't look me in the eyes, she means a certain

1047
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 5: position named after a can nine. Yeah yeah from Jonah

1048
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 5: good note new dads, New dads.

1049
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 1: Go on here.

1050
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 2: From Lyle Styler on Spotify, what's up? Boy's wife He

1051
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,280
Speaker 2: has been in due for the past twenty four hours.

1052
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 2: Hopefully we meet our little girl soon to.

1053
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:04,240
Speaker 1: Pray for us.

1054
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:07,000
Speaker 2: Also, the pull out recliner bed has a bar in

1055
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 2: the middle of my back. Oh good glove, y'all boys, Lyle, congratulations.

1056
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 2: I hope everything went well. I hope mom and baby

1057
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:20,399
Speaker 2: are healthy. I love that you went through I love

1058
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 2: that you went through the suck with the recliner.

1059
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:23,839
Speaker 1: And I got to hear that first and last game

1060
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:28,360
Speaker 1: because it was superb. Lyle Styler Lyle. It's either Lyle

1061
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:33,360
Speaker 1: Styler or Lyle's Tyler. Oh, I see mess, there's no space.

1062
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:34,799
Speaker 1: Oh okay, you just taking a guest.

1063
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:35,319
Speaker 7: No.

1064
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 1: I just thought the last name Styler was so sick.

1065
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:40,360
Speaker 1: If it if it's maybe it's Tyler. So now it

1066
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 1: seems like he's gonna be fuck. What do you do? Also,

1067
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 1: dad pad? Did you see the dad pad? It's getting

1068
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:51,280
Speaker 1: kicked around the dad pad.

1069
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:58,080
Speaker 5: It's just like travel mattress built specifically to the measurement

1070
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 5: of a hospital pullout couch.

1071
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: No shit, Yeah dude, why didn't we think of that?

1072
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 1: I know, because we're idiots. Well here's the good we are.

1073
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: Here's this.

1074
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 5: Hey, we are dumb. We are dumb, but we're smart

1075
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 5: enough to see that product. And Jeremy Glump said, maybe

1076
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 5: a collab.

1077
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:23,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I have this room.

1078
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 5: Jordan Minkoff on Spotify This is New Dad's Boys been

1079
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 5: listening to for the dads since my wife and I

1080
00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 5: found out she was pregnant with our.

1081
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 1: Baby boy last July. Oh, let's go.

1082
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 5: Jordan's listening to the new episode in the hospital as

1083
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:45,480
Speaker 5: we just welcome in our little guy yesterday and have

1084
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 5: officially joined PT.

1085
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:47,760
Speaker 1: Six.

1086
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:51,600
Speaker 5: I also have an elite dad hack from our stay

1087
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 5: I ordered.

1088
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:57,080
Speaker 1: I ordered a product called the dad Pad. I really

1089
00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:58,000
Speaker 1: did not mean to do that.

1090
00:55:58,040 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 5: I only read the first portion of you in super

1091
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 5: I swear to God, I only read your transition that

1092
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:06,840
Speaker 5: was that's unreal, great transition like we like we said natural.

1093
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: We're idiots, so we're still before fall. For me, that's

1094
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:11,279
Speaker 1: fear luck.

1095
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:14,680
Speaker 5: The Dad Bad, which is a sleeping bad, got to

1096
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 5: fit hospital couches two nights in and my new dad

1097
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 5: back is feeling good, excited to take everything I've learned

1098
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 5: from this pod into dad life.

1099
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 1: Let's go, Jordan.

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00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 2: Jordan, congratulations. Rue is turning four next month and I

1101
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:33,759
Speaker 2: said it on the recent episodes. I'm gonna say it

1102
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 2: every week until she turns four, and I'm say it.

1103
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 1: It makes me sad do it. But here's what I

1104
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 1: want to tell Jordan. The new Dad's Lyle or Lyle's

1105
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: enjoy every moment. Yeah, dude, it's going to be hard,

1106
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:51,400
Speaker 1: it's going.

1107
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:55,400
Speaker 2: To suck a lot, yep, but it is the greatest

1108
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:59,680
Speaker 2: responsibility you can ever have in your life. And enjoy

1109
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:02,680
Speaker 2: every moment. And I'll break more of this down when

1110
00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:05,279
Speaker 2: Rude does turn four, because I just I like to

1111
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:07,720
Speaker 2: reflect on I like to reflect on all that stuff.

1112
00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but they're here for us in this early phase, man,

1113
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 1: They're here for us to enjoy, to lay a foundation

1114
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: to five through eight, then nine through fifteen, and so

1115
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:21,919
Speaker 1: on and so on.

1116
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:25,280
Speaker 2: And there's a new iteration. We read that little lesson

1117
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 2: last week, there's a new iteration of your child when

1118
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 2: it's that young every day. Then it's week to week.

1119
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 2: It's a new kid a month to month. Don't think

1120
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 2: of it in terms of years, especially before in those

1121
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 2: first two years. Man, every month there's a different version

1122
00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 2: of your kid. Every month. You have four weekends. Four

1123
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 2: weekends to make the most of in the first two years,

1124
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 2: two summers, two falls, two winters, two of each holiday. Dude,

1125
00:57:55,600 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 2: enjoy everything that you can as much as you can.

1126
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 1: Man. Take a lot of photos and videos, yes, because

1127
00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:09,480
Speaker 1: time flies. Lyles styles a little spoiler for any non

1128
00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: parents out there. Spoiler spoiler at the.

1129
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 5: Eight month mark, dude, I went back and looked at

1130
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 5: like first week videos and all that stuff, and I cried,

1131
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:19,160
Speaker 5: you're just gonna get your lyles.

1132
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: You're gonna do it. You're gonna cry.

1133
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 2: Scotty when she didn't have hair for those photos pop

1134
00:58:23,160 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 2: up on her little digital frame. Always a great gift

1135
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:27,960
Speaker 2: to have a great product to have around the house.

1136
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 2: It's one of those digital frames that kind of runs

1137
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:32,480
Speaker 2: through your album and you just look at it and

1138
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 2: I just see little Scotty Joe. She's sixteen months. She

1139
00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 2: still our little She's still our little baby. She's our

1140
00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 2: youngest baby right now. And you just see those old photos, bro,

1141
00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 2: and it's just it's such a reminder that everything is

1142
00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:47,919
Speaker 2: so fleeting. Yeah, Like we're having full conversations with Rue,

1143
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 2: Like her curiosity is off the charts. The thing she

1144
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:53,120
Speaker 2: wants to do, she wants to operate more and more

1145
00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 2: independently every.

1146
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:57,120
Speaker 1: Day she is. She's a little girl. Yeah, she's a

1147
00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 1: little girl now for sure.

1148
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's getting heavier as I'm holding her, like the

1149
00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:07,720
Speaker 2: mortality of she's not gonna want me to hold her soon.

1150
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:09,040
Speaker 1: I don't know when that.

1151
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 2: Happens, like I was gonna google it, but I'm sure

1152
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:13,640
Speaker 2: parents out there probably have their own stories, and when

1153
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 2: they're maybe their last time that they remember or what age,

1154
00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 2: it kind of stops happening. But I can just tell, like,

1155
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:20,720
Speaker 2: as I pick her up, she's getting heavier. One day

1156
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 2: she's gonna not want me to hold her. And that

1157
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:26,160
Speaker 2: day now is so much sooner than what I thought.

1158
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:28,920
Speaker 2: And when I'm in the suck and you're thinking, fuck,

1159
00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:31,080
Speaker 2: she can't walk, I have to pick her up or

1160
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:34,040
Speaker 2: she can't you know, she can't stand up, she's only crawling,

1161
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:35,560
Speaker 2: or she can walk a little bit. I kind of

1162
00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:36,880
Speaker 2: gotta be around her all the time. Let me just

1163
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 2: pick her up here. And it feels in those moments

1164
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 2: that it's like a nuisance that you're picking them up.

1165
00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:45,920
Speaker 2: Those those moments are gonna happen. But just dude, enjoyed

1166
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 2: as much as you can. And like our buddy said

1167
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 2: when he called in when Taylor was on, like fuck

1168
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 2: the people that say wait until they wait, hey, just wait,

1169
00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:59,680
Speaker 2: just wait, dude, no be there now, and fucking love it.

1170
00:59:59,720 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 1: Bro.

1171
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:02,200
Speaker 5: Can I show you a picture really quick that kind

1172
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 5: of ties into this. Yeah, I won't go into like

1173
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 5: a full fledged story. But we had our first big

1174
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 5: thunderstorm over was it Monday night or no Sunday night, Yeah,

1175
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:16,960
Speaker 5: a couple of nights ago, and dude, Scarlett was scared

1176
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 5: and she was crying and it was so cute, dude.

1177
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,960
Speaker 5: The lightning would strike, like you would see the lightning

1178
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:28,160
Speaker 5: flash and then you would just hear on the monitor. Yeah,

1179
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 5: and Jill was like, go get her, go get her,

1180
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 5: or maybe she got her. I can't remember, but I

1181
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:36,480
Speaker 5: took a chef I sent it to you. I took

1182
01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:38,920
Speaker 5: that picture in the morning of what I woke up

1183
01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:40,040
Speaker 5: to you, dude, and I was just.

1184
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:44,000
Speaker 1: Like, God, I love this man, because that's the best.

1185
01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 2: Like, even when the storm has happened, part of me

1186
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 2: the other night I was wondering if Scottie or R

1187
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 2: was gonna wake up and we'd have to get him,

1188
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 2: get him to the bed, because part of me is

1189
01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:54,480
Speaker 2: kind of like loves it.

1190
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:56,640
Speaker 1: Oh the gold I'm sleeping in the bed with us

1191
01:00:56,720 --> 01:00:58,720
Speaker 1: because we don't do the bed a hold lot at

1192
01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:00,760
Speaker 1: this age. Yeah, yeah, we don't either.

1193
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't either, And just like sleeping independent, like

1194
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:06,120
Speaker 2: that's the route we chose to go. Yeah, And so

1195
01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 2: when we do sleepovers and everything else. Like I'm just

1196
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 2: obsessed when I got thinking when I got Ru in

1197
01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 2: the bed, because they're obviously young, Like even with Scotty

1198
01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:16,479
Speaker 2: now we haven't done a sleepover anything with Scotty because

1199
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 2: she's still operating, Like moving around you get a little

1200
01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 2: nervous obviously, the safe sleeping same yeah, yeah, but I'm

1201
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 2: always excited, Like when Ru was coming up, I'm just like, hey,

1202
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 2: when when can we start to where she's like sleeps

1203
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 2: in her bed, Like I.

1204
01:01:29,680 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 1: Just want to cuddle them, dude.

1205
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:34,600
Speaker 5: The little there was one point in the night to

1206
01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 5: that she had right hand hooked around mom's pinky and

1207
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 5: left hand hooked around dad's thumb, just just both of

1208
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 5: them up like this and and just passed out, dude,

1209
01:01:46,600 --> 01:01:51,919
Speaker 5: and the little Binkie's going, it's the cutest way possible, dude,

1210
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 5: And you just want to squish him and you want

1211
01:01:54,560 --> 01:01:58,840
Speaker 5: to suffocate them, you want to subthing, like yeah, the

1212
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 5: love that urges inside your body is almost like it's

1213
01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 5: crazy primal where you're like I could kill you.

1214
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 1: I love you so badly.

1215
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:10,240
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, And dude, she's starting to giggle too

1216
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:13,040
Speaker 5: on the neck. Kisses I don't even do neck kisses. Really,

1217
01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 5: I just with my tongue just got like on her

1218
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 5: neck and just that little Oh, dude, play it on repeat. Yeah,

1219
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 5: I just need a playlist. Make sure you get some.

1220
01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 1: Recordings of that, oh, whether it's voice recordings or video.

1221
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 1: Buddy Bud Jill's on that game. Jills on that game.

1222
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 1: God dude being the dad one, I know.

1223
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, I as far as we kind of touched on

1224
01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:47,440
Speaker 5: our dad losses already, do we want to go into

1225
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 5: our favorite segment, crack a cold one?

1226
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:51,480
Speaker 2: I do before we get off the dead losses. I

1227
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 2: do have a dead loss here, Oh from autism Miller.

1228
01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 2: This is an email of a dad loss. Thank y'all

1229
01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 2: so much. I finally got my PT six shirts second

1230
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 2: from the left. We do have a photo of the

1231
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:08,440
Speaker 2: dad's PT six ers repping the Papa Team six shirts

1232
01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:12,960
Speaker 2: again BWTV dot com. I have an amazing village now

1233
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 2: that I'm the last of our group to have a

1234
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,120
Speaker 2: little one. I have a baby boy on the way

1235
01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:18,960
Speaker 2: and all the way on the left. Him and his

1236
01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 2: wife are having twin boys shortly after me and my wife.

1237
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 1: I am blessed with my PT six shirt.

1238
01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:29,440
Speaker 2: I had my paper party on March fourteenth, Oo and

1239
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 2: my friend group came through with plenty of diapers and gifts,

1240
01:03:33,320 --> 01:03:36,640
Speaker 2: and I'm super grateful. This podcast has been a blessing

1241
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 2: for all four of us and we were just having

1242
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 2: a great time supporting each other.

1243
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:41,120
Speaker 1: Brothers for life.

1244
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:43,680
Speaker 2: Tommy is a girl dad with twin boys on the way,

1245
01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:46,920
Speaker 2: Austin boy on the way. That's me, Darren, two girl dads,

1246
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 2: JP girl dad love you guys, keep up the great work.

1247
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 1: This was under the dad lost one.

1248
01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 6: So his dad loss and dad wins. You should have

1249
01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:55,960
Speaker 6: said dead win. And also it should just be Austin Miller.

1250
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:58,880
Speaker 6: That is a typo. I apologize, Sure, what does your

1251
01:03:58,960 --> 01:03:59,920
Speaker 6: say dad lost or dad win?

1252
01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:03,200
Speaker 5: Dad dad waynet covered by dad loss. I have a

1253
01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 5: dad loss here to that.

1254
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:07,920
Speaker 6: I apologize, That's okay, it is it is Austin Miller.

1255
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 1: That is the type.

1256
01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:11,920
Speaker 6: I want to put out an apology because well, you

1257
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:12,920
Speaker 6: are Rod Burgundy.

1258
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:14,320
Speaker 1: You read the note about Scarscar.

1259
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 6: After talking about the story of Scarscar, you read autism

1260
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 6: Miller instead of instead of Austin.

1261
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to you, Will. I just confidently I saw it,

1262
01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:31,200
Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, if that's his name, if it

1263
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:35,320
Speaker 1: makes you feel any better. I truly like, but it's

1264
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:43,440
Speaker 1: not like one letter. It does say autism Miller. It does.

1265
01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 1: And I thought I was reading the Dad loss. We

1266
01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 1: got a dad loss here? Read the Dallas. This sounds

1267
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 1: like a pretty good story. He's got the boys together,

1268
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:58,600
Speaker 1: they're all having kids. That's a crack of cold one.

1269
01:04:58,680 --> 01:05:05,760
Speaker 1: That's a I okay, really quick note for Darren Derek.

1270
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:07,360
Speaker 1: Come ahead and just hey, I'm sorry.

1271
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 5: I just put to put a nice piece of bread

1272
01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 5: on the ship sandwich that his aunt is a Miller.

1273
01:05:16,760 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 5: Every time when I get in drop box there and

1274
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:21,960
Speaker 5: I go to the voice smails every single time. In

1275
01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 5: my head, I'm like, I know they're gonna be there,

1276
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:29,360
Speaker 5: there's no question, and they're all gonna rip. And I

1277
01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 5: just never questioned that. So I just wanted you to

1278
01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 5: hear that I have that thought this morning.

1279
01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:35,080
Speaker 1: Oh I'm sorry.

1280
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:38,200
Speaker 5: No, you rip, you rip? I have a dad lost here. Well,

1281
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 5: it's a it's an air an email.

1282
01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 1: Willy Burgundy, Willie old Willie Burgundy. You put all the

1283
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 1: prompter read literally Wait, oh, Scotty's birthday was wrong? Okay, yeah,

1284
01:05:54,400 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 1: passed that one up. Who wrote that one? There's no

1285
01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:03,440
Speaker 1: name on it. I think that's just a reminder. Takes

1286
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 1: sip a lollipop.

1287
01:06:11,120 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 5: Fellas, for the first time in my adult life, I

1288
01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 5: forgot to take out the trash. Oh, this is Aaron's

1289
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:19,240
Speaker 5: first time, so first time offender.

1290
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:19,880
Speaker 1: Let's see.

1291
01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 5: Let's see what he says to make matters worse. It

1292
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 5: was also a recycling week. Ours only comes and picks

1293
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:30,640
Speaker 5: up every other week. Bro, that's two weeks or what

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Speaker 5: four weeks of recycling month?

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01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:37,440
Speaker 1: Miss one? Yeah, recycling is every other week.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he said, biggest dad fail for me in recent memory.

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Speaker 1: But guess what he said at the end? Good? Good,

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01:06:44,840 --> 01:06:48,760
Speaker 1: So Aaron style, you fuck up good, you get the

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Speaker 1: food back, and you try to get better. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Pt sickos, empty sickos, and goom berets alike.

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Speaker 5: been a minute since I've had the Shirley Temple. I've

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Speaker 5: sell them, go get one of these hats, because I

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01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:44,720
Speaker 5: honestly love it, and Ollipop Thank you so much for

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01:08:44,720 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 5: sending these hats. These are really dope and they came

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01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:49,800
Speaker 5: at the perfect time because it is Saint Patrick's today

1330
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:53,000
Speaker 5: and we got a little green going on back to

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01:08:53,040 --> 01:09:00,960
Speaker 5: the episode. Also, we mentioned it before and I'm wearing

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01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:02,920
Speaker 5: a hat currently right now, you are.

1333
01:09:02,960 --> 01:09:03,800
Speaker 1: I love that hat.

1334
01:09:03,840 --> 01:09:07,240
Speaker 5: Ollipop was kind enough to send our office some hatch

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01:09:07,320 --> 01:09:10,639
Speaker 5: chef ass one as well, and uh crack a cold

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Speaker 5: one as always brought to us by Allipop. We got

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Speaker 5: some tasty treats here, some tasty snacks, absolutely prebiotic and

1338
01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:23,400
Speaker 5: just listen to it, dude, And this is one of

1339
01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 5: my favorites, orange cream. Willie, do you want to kick

1340
01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:28,400
Speaker 5: us off for Kracker cold one?

1341
01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:30,400
Speaker 2: My Cracker cold one? I was alluding to it. It

1342
01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:32,800
Speaker 2: was basically my rowse of the weekend send out at dinner.

1343
01:09:32,800 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 2: It was my brother coming to town. Joy bro Joy

1344
01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 2: was in my heart the whole time.

1345
01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:41,800
Speaker 5: Can you can you break down? Uh, just really quick.

1346
01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:45,280
Speaker 5: It's Wyatt more of your personality. It's just a little

1347
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:49,360
Speaker 5: different from you. What what is that? Brotherly or Chip?

1348
01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:53,120
Speaker 5: We're different? Why it is just so.

1349
01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:56,600
Speaker 1: Easy to hang out with? Yeah?

1350
01:09:56,800 --> 01:10:00,439
Speaker 2: Not that like my dad and Cody, aren't they are

1351
01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:04,759
Speaker 2: as well, but Wyat him just being the youngest, I guess,

1352
01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:05,880
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1353
01:10:06,320 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 1: I feel like he uh, he's got that air about

1354
01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:09,240
Speaker 1: him that interview.

1355
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:12,080
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, like we both we always have like

1356
01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:15,240
Speaker 2: good conversations. I'm never nervous to ask him any question

1357
01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:18,320
Speaker 2: about like what's going on. I always feel like I'm

1358
01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:20,360
Speaker 2: trying to give him advice, but I'm also trying to

1359
01:10:20,439 --> 01:10:22,439
Speaker 2: keep myself from giving too much advice, you know what

1360
01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:27,479
Speaker 2: I mean, because I care about him and he's just

1361
01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:28,360
Speaker 2: easy to be around.

1362
01:10:28,439 --> 01:10:28,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1363
01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like everybody in my family would say

1364
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:33,760
Speaker 2: that about Wyatt, like he's just he's easy to go

1365
01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:37,920
Speaker 2: with the flow. Yeah, he loves anything like that he's

1366
01:10:37,960 --> 01:10:39,000
Speaker 2: involved with and he's doing.

1367
01:10:39,040 --> 01:10:40,360
Speaker 1: He like loves what he does.

1368
01:10:40,960 --> 01:10:43,080
Speaker 2: Now that he's the head football coach of North County,

1369
01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 2: I can tell he takes a lot of great pride

1370
01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 2: in being the head coach of North Like he's very

1371
01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:50,880
Speaker 2: excited and me like, I'm like, you know, trying to

1372
01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:52,679
Speaker 2: get in the weeds of like what are you thinking,

1373
01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:53,639
Speaker 2: Like do you have a plan?

1374
01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:57,080
Speaker 1: What's the vision? Like you're still big brother.

1375
01:10:57,280 --> 01:10:59,639
Speaker 2: I'm still like big bro, and I'll feel myself when

1376
01:10:59,640 --> 01:11:03,880
Speaker 2: I'm being too much of big bro. And then just

1377
01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:06,320
Speaker 2: like watching them around my girl, like around my daughters,

1378
01:11:06,640 --> 01:11:08,400
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like operating with the family

1379
01:11:10,000 --> 01:11:12,920
Speaker 2: conversations that me Troy, him and Morgan will sit there

1380
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:14,760
Speaker 2: late at night, like we were playing games one night

1381
01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:17,800
Speaker 2: where we were playing clue and code names. We're having

1382
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:21,040
Speaker 2: conversations because they're both teachers. We're asking about like the

1383
01:11:21,080 --> 01:11:23,320
Speaker 2: school system and how it is now, like what are

1384
01:11:23,320 --> 01:11:25,240
Speaker 2: the kids like all the drama that goes on in

1385
01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:30,960
Speaker 2: their world in school and teaching. Just easy to be

1386
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 2: around man. And again I don't see them often. Yeah,

1387
01:11:34,560 --> 01:11:38,000
Speaker 2: Like it always feels like I'm We're all connected because

1388
01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:39,760
Speaker 2: I know White, like White watches this show.

1389
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 1: Shout out White, who is listening to this show right now?

1390
01:11:42,439 --> 01:11:43,080
Speaker 1: Come on, Wyatt?

1391
01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:45,000
Speaker 2: And he's even said like this has become like his

1392
01:11:45,080 --> 01:11:48,640
Speaker 2: favorite show to listen to in the Busting Verse, and

1393
01:11:48,680 --> 01:11:50,400
Speaker 2: even all of the other pods that he listens to,

1394
01:11:50,439 --> 01:11:52,599
Speaker 2: he loves watching this one or listening to this one.

1395
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:55,640
Speaker 1: Can I speak to Wyatt really quickly, speak to him?

1396
01:11:55,880 --> 01:11:57,760
Speaker 1: Whytt I do want to apologize?

1397
01:11:57,920 --> 01:12:01,360
Speaker 5: When Jill and I put Scarlett down for her morning nap,

1398
01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 5: we also we call it rerack, like you put yourself

1399
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 5: back in the oven. We got back in bed and

1400
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:09,479
Speaker 5: took a morning nap as well. And I missed Will's

1401
01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:13,559
Speaker 5: invite to join y'all at the farmer's market.

1402
01:12:14,240 --> 01:12:17,760
Speaker 2: I think yours was the Santos breakfast. Bro, I just

1403
01:12:17,800 --> 01:12:19,280
Speaker 2: know what I'm going over in that neck of the woods.

1404
01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:20,080
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking like.

1405
01:12:20,160 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 1: He would have been there though, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah

1406
01:12:22,280 --> 01:12:23,560
Speaker 1: he was. I apologize.

1407
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:27,559
Speaker 5: I very much would have loved to meet you and

1408
01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:29,439
Speaker 5: give him hell this first season.

1409
01:12:29,520 --> 01:12:31,800
Speaker 1: Why it's a stud, bro, He's going to good soul.

1410
01:12:33,479 --> 01:12:33,960
Speaker 1: Just love him.

1411
01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:36,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, the more confidence I meet, the better. Yeah, and

1412
01:12:36,960 --> 01:12:41,559
Speaker 5: like your childhood friends and stuff like Nick Rips Rips.

1413
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:44,280
Speaker 1: You know Nick's listening right now. He's a sick go

1414
01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:45,040
Speaker 1: he is.

1415
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:49,559
Speaker 2: But yeah, because I shot him all a message, my

1416
01:12:49,640 --> 01:12:51,200
Speaker 2: dad and my brother's in a group check. Because I

1417
01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:52,479
Speaker 2: want to get him out to the house. I want

1418
01:12:52,479 --> 01:12:53,960
Speaker 2: to get him out to see the new spot. We

1419
01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:56,519
Speaker 2: haven't seen each other, Like we didn't do Christmas, because

1420
01:12:56,560 --> 01:12:59,760
Speaker 2: if you've listened to this show throughout since the incubation

1421
01:12:59,840 --> 01:13:02,360
Speaker 2: of it, yep, we had to cancel Christmas with him

1422
01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:05,720
Speaker 2: because everybody basically got the flu mega sick. Yeah, Mega six.

1423
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:09,800
Speaker 2: So we did Christmas presents. But it was fun to

1424
01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:11,200
Speaker 2: see him because I just I feel like I don't

1425
01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:11,960
Speaker 2: get to see him often.

1426
01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 1: And what I was saying is.

1427
01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 2: It feels like we're all tied to each other all

1428
01:13:15,320 --> 01:13:17,880
Speaker 2: the time because they might consume they consume what I

1429
01:13:17,920 --> 01:13:20,559
Speaker 2: do on social media. They consume the podcast and everything else.

1430
01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:23,479
Speaker 2: But as far as like getting on the phone, checking in,

1431
01:13:23,640 --> 01:13:26,240
Speaker 2: having like deeper conversations.

1432
01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:27,240
Speaker 1: We don't get to do that often.

1433
01:13:27,800 --> 01:13:31,880
Speaker 2: And knowing how fragile life is and knowing how quick

1434
01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:36,000
Speaker 2: time moves. It's just like when he's there, the perspective

1435
01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:39,080
Speaker 2: I'm starting to have watching him engage with the family

1436
01:13:39,280 --> 01:13:42,040
Speaker 2: and be at the house and all of that is

1437
01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:43,719
Speaker 2: like it's like a special moment.

1438
01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:46,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, dude, and you're building a family. Yeah, he is

1439
01:13:46,880 --> 01:13:50,160
Speaker 5: the uncle to your kids. Yeah, and he operates like

1440
01:13:50,200 --> 01:13:52,760
Speaker 5: a great uncle. Like when he's he's going around the

1441
01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:55,240
Speaker 5: flower farm with Rue, is him Morgan and Ru going

1442
01:13:55,240 --> 01:13:57,040
Speaker 5: around the flower farm And I'm kind of watching him

1443
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:59,439
Speaker 5: stapping photos and everything else. But I'm with Mom and

1444
01:13:59,439 --> 01:14:02,639
Speaker 5: Scottie because we had our own bucket and just seeing

1445
01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:05,519
Speaker 5: whyatt help her and teach her how to use the

1446
01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:07,639
Speaker 5: like the cutters, like the scissors to cut the stems

1447
01:14:07,640 --> 01:14:10,480
Speaker 5: at the bottom, and then at the end, Rue's operating

1448
01:14:10,680 --> 01:14:11,040
Speaker 5: all of it.

1449
01:14:11,120 --> 01:14:13,960
Speaker 2: She's cutting all the stems. It's just a wide mixture

1450
01:14:14,120 --> 01:14:18,040
Speaker 2: range of flowers in this bucket. And why he's like

1451
01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:19,800
Speaker 2: a craftsman, Like he can build things. He can do

1452
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:21,400
Speaker 2: a lot of stuff working on the house. He can

1453
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:22,880
Speaker 2: do a lot of that stuff. And in my brain

1454
01:14:22,920 --> 01:14:25,439
Speaker 2: I start thinking, I didn't tell why at this, but

1455
01:14:25,520 --> 01:14:28,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, wouldn't it be cool if every year there's

1456
01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:30,519
Speaker 2: a like almost an annual thing that happens to where

1457
01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:33,600
Speaker 2: he helps Rue build something that like Whyett brainstorms off

1458
01:14:33,680 --> 01:14:36,479
Speaker 2: thinks up. Yeah, like the way my grandpa would do

1459
01:14:36,520 --> 01:14:38,280
Speaker 2: with us, like when he's building us a dog house

1460
01:14:38,360 --> 01:14:41,280
Speaker 2: or that rifle that was a wooden rifle or something

1461
01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:43,720
Speaker 2: something new to tinker with to where we're out in

1462
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:46,599
Speaker 2: the garage around him. I'm envisioning, like why it would

1463
01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:49,000
Speaker 2: be that uncle to where Rude know's and why it

1464
01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 2: comes like they're going to do something in the crafts world.

1465
01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:56,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm very close with my mom's sister, my aunt

1466
01:14:56,840 --> 01:14:58,519
Speaker 5: Arden or Auntie Arlieu.

1467
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:00,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, and yeah, dude.

1468
01:15:00,520 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 5: Every single year Thanksgiving is always with Auntie Arlou every

1469
01:15:05,920 --> 01:15:10,880
Speaker 5: single year, and that, yeah, it just cemented that relationship.

1470
01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:14,879
Speaker 1: And she calls us her fuse for her nephews.

1471
01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:19,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, and she always secretly tells Jordan and myself but

1472
01:15:19,520 --> 01:15:22,240
Speaker 5: behind each other's back, that were her favorite fee of course,

1473
01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:22,799
Speaker 5: of course.

1474
01:15:24,320 --> 01:15:26,840
Speaker 1: But dude, I love that, and I love the dynamic

1475
01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:28,120
Speaker 1: of the siblings.

1476
01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:30,800
Speaker 5: And like Ruth's probably looking at Wyatt and going, he

1477
01:15:30,920 --> 01:15:33,880
Speaker 5: kind of looks like my dad. Yeah, he kind of

1478
01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:36,240
Speaker 5: acts like my dad, Like I really like this guy.

1479
01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:41,719
Speaker 5: And Scarlet when she was much younger, when Jordan and

1480
01:15:42,080 --> 01:15:44,639
Speaker 5: my dad came out to see us, and I don't

1481
01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:46,639
Speaker 5: know how many weeks old she was, but she was young.

1482
01:15:47,640 --> 01:15:50,160
Speaker 5: She would really only kind of react to Jilla and

1483
01:15:50,160 --> 01:15:53,439
Speaker 5: I's faces, and then Jordan because he had a beard

1484
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:56,040
Speaker 5: and a hat on when he held her at that

1485
01:15:56,120 --> 01:16:01,040
Speaker 5: pumpkin patch that we love was like tree farms. Yeah,

1486
01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:04,080
Speaker 5: shout out, no, free shout out. Gave the biggest smile

1487
01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:07,760
Speaker 5: to my brother, and she probably totally thought, oh, i'm

1488
01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:08,599
Speaker 5: a that's dad.

1489
01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:12,599
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, were there something familiar or something this safe?

1490
01:16:12,680 --> 01:16:14,160
Speaker 1: Yeah this feels safe. Dude.

1491
01:16:14,200 --> 01:16:17,000
Speaker 2: It's so funny because Rue was when we were down

1492
01:16:17,040 --> 01:16:19,640
Speaker 2: in the living room one of the days, she was

1493
01:16:19,760 --> 01:16:23,080
Speaker 2: on the us looking similar, and I'm like, yeah, that's

1494
01:16:23,120 --> 01:16:25,880
Speaker 2: my brother, that's my brother, Wyatt. So you're trying to

1495
01:16:25,880 --> 01:16:28,800
Speaker 2: break down your little toddler because you know, as parents

1496
01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 2: when you remember it now when you're coming up, but

1497
01:16:31,960 --> 01:16:33,880
Speaker 2: when they're getting on you about something, they're like, I

1498
01:16:34,080 --> 01:16:36,120
Speaker 2: was your age once, but you can never just picture

1499
01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:37,559
Speaker 2: because they are your parents.

1500
01:16:37,680 --> 01:16:38,840
Speaker 1: Yes, so you never put.

1501
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:40,519
Speaker 2: Them in the world like, okay, I doubt you. You're

1502
01:16:40,520 --> 01:16:44,000
Speaker 2: going through what I went through. Yeah, And so I'm

1503
01:16:44,040 --> 01:16:44,799
Speaker 2: trying to break.

1504
01:16:44,560 --> 01:16:45,000
Speaker 1: Down the room.

1505
01:16:45,040 --> 01:16:48,160
Speaker 2: I'm like Wyatt and dad, Dad, like we were brothers,

1506
01:16:48,200 --> 01:16:50,280
Speaker 2: Like we were small, just like you. So when you

1507
01:16:50,520 --> 01:16:52,960
Speaker 2: when you were gonna be six, that's when Whyatt was born.

1508
01:16:53,080 --> 01:16:55,600
Speaker 2: So like the way you and Scotti are are sisters,

1509
01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:59,080
Speaker 2: Like Whyatt was my baby brother, the same way that

1510
01:16:59,120 --> 01:17:01,760
Speaker 2: Scotty's your baby sister. And we were little just like

1511
01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:04,960
Speaker 2: you guys growing up and everything else. So him being

1512
01:17:05,000 --> 01:17:07,320
Speaker 2: my brother, that is why he is your uncle Wyatt.

1513
01:17:07,400 --> 01:17:11,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. And she'll be like can you hey, daddd, let

1514
01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:13,559
Speaker 1: me tell you something. I'm like, okay, tell me and

1515
01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 1: she's like can you can you look at way and say.

1516
01:17:16,720 --> 01:17:20,439
Speaker 2: Hi, brother Wyatt, and I'm like sure, I'm like hi,

1517
01:17:20,560 --> 01:17:25,439
Speaker 2: brother Wyatt. And he's like hello, Hello, and I look

1518
01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:26,280
Speaker 2: at room and I'm like.

1519
01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:29,160
Speaker 1: Did that do it? Yeah? I did that? Far you up.

1520
01:17:30,120 --> 01:17:35,400
Speaker 7: She's like yeah, Will on the On the Man the

1521
01:17:35,439 --> 01:17:38,479
Speaker 7: Pod yesterday when you were talking about him taking the

1522
01:17:38,520 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 7: head football coaching job. Yeah, and you were kind of

1523
01:17:41,240 --> 01:17:43,320
Speaker 7: giving your whole speech and telling him like you got

1524
01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:45,360
Speaker 7: to get into it. And Taylor asks you and goes,

1525
01:17:45,400 --> 01:17:47,960
Speaker 7: what was his response, and you said he just went.

1526
01:17:47,960 --> 01:17:50,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I hope we win. Yeah, it'd be awesome.

1527
01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:52,400
Speaker 7: That made me laugh so hard, and that was one

1528
01:17:52,400 --> 01:17:55,280
Speaker 7: of the most relatable. I just immediately went, yeah, if

1529
01:17:55,320 --> 01:17:59,479
Speaker 7: I was same combo with my brother, exact same what exactly?

1530
01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:02,599
Speaker 1: Wait, yeah, and I hope. So I'm like, are you excited? Yeah?

1531
01:18:03,120 --> 01:18:06,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, it's like that dynamic is there no matter what,

1532
01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:09,400
Speaker 2: Like he's not gonna show like he's it's like he's

1533
01:18:09,400 --> 01:18:11,280
Speaker 2: gonna walk through all of his cards, Like there's just

1534
01:18:11,360 --> 01:18:14,320
Speaker 2: the brother dynamic that's happening in real time.

1535
01:18:14,720 --> 01:18:17,559
Speaker 1: So yeah, it'd be awesome. I'm like, yeah, are you pumped?

1536
01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:21,479
Speaker 1: You like, are you excited? Yeah? Yeah, I just.

1537
01:18:21,439 --> 01:18:25,720
Speaker 5: Know what a coach will is even this morning with

1538
01:18:26,240 --> 01:18:30,759
Speaker 5: chef of you being like chef, hey, pick pick Jared's brain.

1539
01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:34,000
Speaker 5: You can you can learn a lot from from Jared.

1540
01:18:34,120 --> 01:18:37,679
Speaker 5: And there was a moment that I thought, laughing super

1541
01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:39,960
Speaker 5: hard when you asked me because you have these like

1542
01:18:40,439 --> 01:18:44,680
Speaker 5: coachesms that literally remind me of my middle school and.

1543
01:18:44,720 --> 01:18:45,639
Speaker 1: High school coaches.

1544
01:18:47,160 --> 01:18:49,160
Speaker 5: When I was at your house and you broke something

1545
01:18:49,200 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 5: down for me that was like lengthy. It wasn't like

1546
01:18:52,479 --> 01:18:54,519
Speaker 5: a monologue, but it was lengthy. And at the end

1547
01:18:54,560 --> 01:18:56,759
Speaker 5: of it, you looked at me and you were cutting

1548
01:18:56,800 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 5: tangerines for Scotty and you go, so tell me what

1549
01:18:59,920 --> 01:19:09,640
Speaker 5: you heard. And I said, like summarize it or verbatim,

1550
01:19:09,960 --> 01:19:12,920
Speaker 5: and you go, just what you heard? Go okay.

1551
01:19:14,320 --> 01:19:16,160
Speaker 1: In my head, I'm like, dude, I am in my

1552
01:19:16,320 --> 01:19:19,479
Speaker 1: eighth grade locker room right now, and Coach Scott's like

1553
01:19:19,560 --> 01:19:23,080
Speaker 1: going over for them because when you give them something

1554
01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:27,479
Speaker 1: what you need, if you're whether you're teaching somebody or

1555
01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:30,360
Speaker 1: anything else, you want them to be able to regurgitate

1556
01:19:30,400 --> 01:19:31,960
Speaker 1: it back to you because you want to know too.

1557
01:19:32,000 --> 01:19:34,880
Speaker 1: Am I being clear? Like I could be like I can.

1558
01:19:34,760 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 2: Be long win, but I can go all over the mat,

1559
01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:40,040
Speaker 2: which I know I'll be as a parent, But it's like,

1560
01:19:40,040 --> 01:19:41,600
Speaker 2: you want them to recite it back to you.

1561
01:19:41,720 --> 01:19:42,160
Speaker 1: Number one.

1562
01:19:42,160 --> 01:19:43,920
Speaker 2: You want to know if they're listening to paying attention,

1563
01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:46,599
Speaker 2: but also trying to get feedback on Did I explain

1564
01:19:46,640 --> 01:19:47,719
Speaker 2: that clearly in the.

1565
01:19:47,600 --> 01:19:50,080
Speaker 5: Future, Should I give this advice to Sherman is even

1566
01:19:50,120 --> 01:19:52,960
Speaker 5: receptive to this when I get advised in Yeah, no,

1567
01:19:53,080 --> 01:19:55,680
Speaker 5: I there was no like I loved it.

1568
01:19:56,200 --> 01:19:59,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that world of I just.

1569
01:19:59,680 --> 01:20:02,920
Speaker 5: Envision head coach Wyatt now it is that yeah to

1570
01:20:03,000 --> 01:20:03,719
Speaker 5: a lot of kids.

1571
01:20:04,080 --> 01:20:10,920
Speaker 1: And now older brother Will It just makes me giggle.

1572
01:20:10,880 --> 01:20:13,040
Speaker 2: Because he'll tell me how he's got great trust. He's

1573
01:20:13,360 --> 01:20:16,560
Speaker 2: because he's a younger coach. Yeah, he's got great relationships

1574
01:20:16,560 --> 01:20:18,880
Speaker 2: with guys. And I'm sitting there and I'm not and

1575
01:20:19,000 --> 01:20:21,040
Speaker 2: I'm thinking in my head, you don't want that to

1576
01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:23,200
Speaker 2: be a point to where they can take advantage because

1577
01:20:23,240 --> 01:20:25,880
Speaker 2: you're so close with them. And I'm my response to friends,

1578
01:20:26,040 --> 01:20:28,240
Speaker 2: and I'm yeah, yeah, I don't like. You gotta be

1579
01:20:28,320 --> 01:20:30,640
Speaker 2: hard on them. Yeah, I'm telling you right now, you

1580
01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:32,640
Speaker 2: gotta be tough on them. It's good that you have

1581
01:20:32,720 --> 01:20:36,879
Speaker 2: trust and great relationships with your team and they love you,

1582
01:20:36,920 --> 01:20:38,760
Speaker 2: probably because you're fun and all these things, but you

1583
01:20:38,800 --> 01:20:42,280
Speaker 2: gotta be fucking you gotta be able to crack the whip.

1584
01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:45,599
Speaker 1: Why I want them showing the little guty snapchats at

1585
01:20:45,600 --> 01:20:48,640
Speaker 1: this ending to each other with the TikTok dancersre you

1586
01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:51,000
Speaker 1: shouldn't be laughing with them if they're showing you something

1587
01:20:51,040 --> 01:20:54,080
Speaker 1: on their phone, unless it's an unappropriate time and place.

1588
01:20:54,800 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 1: They talk about Dojah Cat, you ask who's that? I

1589
01:20:57,200 --> 01:20:59,519
Speaker 1: don't care if you even know who Thoja Cat you said,

1590
01:20:59,720 --> 01:21:00,560
Speaker 1: who the hell is that?

1591
01:21:00,880 --> 01:21:04,120
Speaker 2: You just think of all the coaches and the mentors

1592
01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:07,520
Speaker 2: and leaders who have been hard on you in the past,

1593
01:21:07,880 --> 01:21:10,680
Speaker 2: and you look back now, like Bo Polini comes in

1594
01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:13,960
Speaker 2: my mind. Yeah, and you look back now, or my dad,

1595
01:21:14,479 --> 01:21:19,320
Speaker 2: you look back now and you appreciate them being hard

1596
01:21:19,360 --> 01:21:21,320
Speaker 2: on you. You feel like some things could have been

1597
01:21:21,360 --> 01:21:23,680
Speaker 2: explained in a better way to where you get on

1598
01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:25,840
Speaker 2: the same page. Like Bo made a comment when we

1599
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:28,000
Speaker 2: were on Busting, He's like, I knew I could be

1600
01:21:28,080 --> 01:21:30,960
Speaker 2: hard on you because you'd be receptive and you would

1601
01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:33,400
Speaker 2: help me. If I'm hard on you, then it's shown

1602
01:21:33,439 --> 01:21:35,120
Speaker 2: that I can be hard on the others. And I'm

1603
01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:37,880
Speaker 2: thinking man, if I would have known that, if you

1604
01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:40,360
Speaker 2: would have told me kind of like, hey, I'm gonna

1605
01:21:40,360 --> 01:21:42,640
Speaker 2: fucking rip your ass. But here's how we're kind of

1606
01:21:42,640 --> 01:21:45,360
Speaker 2: solving both things. Number One, I think you're very receptive

1607
01:21:45,360 --> 01:21:48,840
Speaker 2: to it. You respond well, and it helps me get

1608
01:21:48,880 --> 01:21:51,559
Speaker 2: on others ass. That is seeing if you're an example.

1609
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:54,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm thinking, dude, I like lived in my

1610
01:21:54,600 --> 01:21:56,880
Speaker 1: head like, yeah, I might have been receptive, like I'm

1611
01:21:56,880 --> 01:21:59,360
Speaker 1: always like I want to please, I want to make

1612
01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:01,080
Speaker 1: you guys, like I want to be as good as

1613
01:22:01,080 --> 01:22:04,559
Speaker 1: I can. And when you're ripping into my ass some

1614
01:22:04,800 --> 01:22:07,160
Speaker 1: like in my head like there'd be nice ll, I'm

1615
01:22:07,200 --> 01:22:09,519
Speaker 1: thinking I'm failing you. But if I knew that you're

1616
01:22:09,560 --> 01:22:13,640
Speaker 1: also trying to solve another problem with the team at large,

1617
01:22:13,920 --> 01:22:15,240
Speaker 1: then I would have known. We would have been on

1618
01:22:15,280 --> 01:22:16,400
Speaker 1: a much different wavelength.

1619
01:22:16,479 --> 01:22:18,040
Speaker 2: But I still look back on all that stuff and

1620
01:22:18,040 --> 01:22:21,439
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, you just appreciate those people who were

1621
01:22:21,439 --> 01:22:24,160
Speaker 2: hard on you, that could see farther down the road

1622
01:22:24,160 --> 01:22:26,240
Speaker 2: that you could see, because we're very short sighted as

1623
01:22:27,320 --> 01:22:31,720
Speaker 2: younger kids, younger athletes, whatever it is, to where you

1624
01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:34,439
Speaker 2: now have perspective being older, And I just think the

1625
01:22:34,439 --> 01:22:36,600
Speaker 2: same thing like with Wyatt, like I was staying it

1626
01:22:36,600 --> 01:22:39,920
Speaker 2: on bust and I'm like, you are growing men like

1627
01:22:39,960 --> 01:22:42,559
Speaker 2: they're in high school, but you want them to feel

1628
01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:44,360
Speaker 2: that you were hard on them. And then one day

1629
01:22:44,400 --> 01:22:46,479
Speaker 2: they respect you enough because you were hard on them,

1630
01:22:46,520 --> 01:22:48,240
Speaker 2: because they're going to go out into the world and

1631
01:22:48,280 --> 01:22:50,439
Speaker 2: they might see a loosey goosey structure of everything else

1632
01:22:50,439 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 2: and then they think that, oh, this is why my

1633
01:22:53,160 --> 01:22:54,439
Speaker 2: coach was like this on me.

1634
01:22:54,520 --> 01:22:56,840
Speaker 1: Back in the day. Coach Comptent would be pissed if

1635
01:22:56,840 --> 01:22:59,800
Speaker 1: he saw this operation like this, and you're thinking, these

1636
01:22:59,800 --> 01:23:02,960
Speaker 1: guys don't get it. Yeah, they don't get it. Coach

1637
01:23:03,040 --> 01:23:04,479
Speaker 1: Compton be chewing their ass.

1638
01:23:04,560 --> 01:23:07,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, and it does make the out of boys that

1639
01:23:07,240 --> 01:23:10,280
Speaker 5: much better when you do have that kid. Yeah, that

1640
01:23:10,720 --> 01:23:14,880
Speaker 5: never not never gives out of boys. But you know,

1641
01:23:15,400 --> 01:23:18,280
Speaker 5: in eighth grade we had that like drill Sergeant Coach

1642
01:23:18,720 --> 01:23:22,479
Speaker 5: Alito is like a hardcore program. And I mean that

1643
01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:26,320
Speaker 5: dude was a snake And I only got one helmet hit.

1644
01:23:26,760 --> 01:23:28,880
Speaker 1: After a touchdown. That was it.

1645
01:23:29,280 --> 01:23:31,720
Speaker 5: But that meant Dude, when he hit the side of

1646
01:23:31,760 --> 01:23:33,960
Speaker 5: my helmet as I was coming to the sideline, Yeah,

1647
01:23:34,040 --> 01:23:36,960
Speaker 5: I was like yeah.

1648
01:23:36,479 --> 01:23:39,800
Speaker 1: Like he liked Yeah, it's like parenthood as well.

1649
01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:41,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you want to be on a level

1650
01:23:41,560 --> 01:23:43,240
Speaker 2: with him where they trust you enough that they can

1651
01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:45,839
Speaker 2: talk to you about anything. But there's also that dynamic

1652
01:23:45,920 --> 01:23:48,200
Speaker 2: of the you're not their friend. Yeah, there's also the

1653
01:23:48,320 --> 01:23:52,600
Speaker 2: dynamic of respect that it's a respect, it's maybe like

1654
01:23:52,640 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 2: a healthy fear, but that respect of I trust the

1655
01:23:57,000 --> 01:24:00,360
Speaker 2: direction he's going to guide me, yeah, versus like I'm

1656
01:24:00,400 --> 01:24:02,879
Speaker 2: scared to approach him because he is so hard.

1657
01:24:02,680 --> 01:24:07,240
Speaker 5: On Yes, dude, finding the balance of hey, I don't

1658
01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:09,920
Speaker 5: want to do the wrong thing because I know that

1659
01:24:10,040 --> 01:24:12,720
Speaker 5: he wants the best for me and wants the right thing,

1660
01:24:13,320 --> 01:24:17,440
Speaker 5: not because I like, oh here comes the assche and yeah,

1661
01:24:17,479 --> 01:24:19,320
Speaker 5: that's what I've been trying to avoid for the last

1662
01:24:19,320 --> 01:24:20,000
Speaker 5: couple of months.

1663
01:24:20,240 --> 01:24:22,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be a fear I would have with

1664
01:24:22,280 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 2: my dad at times growing up, because he was very

1665
01:24:23,920 --> 01:24:26,280
Speaker 2: hard on us. He was like a tough love. Like now,

1666
01:24:26,280 --> 01:24:30,880
Speaker 2: our relationship is incredible because we look back and I

1667
01:24:30,920 --> 01:24:33,360
Speaker 2: do feel so comfortable talking to him about a lot

1668
01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:38,200
Speaker 2: of these things, yeah, or a lot of like shortcomings

1669
01:24:38,600 --> 01:24:41,760
Speaker 2: we can call them. But our relationship now is much

1670
01:24:41,760 --> 01:24:43,840
Speaker 2: different from when I was growing up because he was

1671
01:24:43,960 --> 01:24:47,920
Speaker 2: more like a not like Dan Gables this way, but

1672
01:24:48,040 --> 01:24:49,599
Speaker 2: he was like a he.

1673
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:53,080
Speaker 1: Was hard on us, Yes, sick of mindset. Yeah, like

1674
01:24:53,120 --> 01:24:53,920
Speaker 1: don't don't.

1675
01:24:53,720 --> 01:24:56,599
Speaker 2: Be tiptoe around the house, or don't don't be heavy

1676
01:24:56,600 --> 01:24:59,040
Speaker 2: foot around the house. You're not on your toes, You're

1677
01:24:59,080 --> 01:25:02,320
Speaker 2: not being that's not like you know, fast or whatever. Yeah,

1678
01:25:02,360 --> 01:25:05,479
Speaker 2: it seems like you're lazy. We had type of it

1679
01:25:05,479 --> 01:25:08,040
Speaker 2: would be kind of like it'd be like Friday night lights. Yes,

1680
01:25:08,080 --> 01:25:10,960
Speaker 2: you drop the lamp. Yeah, can't hold on a lamp,

1681
01:25:11,000 --> 01:25:13,240
Speaker 2: can't hold on the football. At times, this wasn't all

1682
01:25:13,280 --> 01:25:15,040
Speaker 2: the time. I didn't abuse the shit.

1683
01:25:15,439 --> 01:25:16,840
Speaker 1: That's a great scene by the way.

1684
01:25:17,160 --> 01:25:21,559
Speaker 5: Yeah, we also just did another idiot segue, a perfect

1685
01:25:21,600 --> 01:25:25,280
Speaker 5: idiot segue, because my crack a cold one is being

1686
01:25:25,320 --> 01:25:26,120
Speaker 5: a coach at.

1687
01:25:25,960 --> 01:25:29,559
Speaker 1: The First Tea Fall forward, man.

1688
01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:32,840
Speaker 5: I know which Actually this is a great conversation as

1689
01:25:32,840 --> 01:25:36,080
Speaker 5: far as my crack a cold one. This week, I'm

1690
01:25:36,160 --> 01:25:41,000
Speaker 5: volunteering at First Tea, which is a nonprofit golf thing.

1691
01:25:41,280 --> 01:25:45,360
Speaker 5: You basically give free golf lessons to kids in a

1692
01:25:45,880 --> 01:25:47,480
Speaker 5: in and around a community.

1693
01:25:47,680 --> 01:25:49,120
Speaker 1: So I'm doing it here in Nashville.

1694
01:25:49,800 --> 01:25:52,080
Speaker 5: I just wanted something to get my mind off of work,

1695
01:25:52,120 --> 01:25:55,040
Speaker 5: get my mind off of the house, a little something

1696
01:25:55,080 --> 01:25:58,080
Speaker 5: for me. But that's also kind of giving back and I'm.

1697
01:25:58,000 --> 01:25:59,040
Speaker 1: Very excited for it.

1698
01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:02,200
Speaker 5: But I have like the ten to twelve year olds,

1699
01:26:02,439 --> 01:26:05,840
Speaker 5: So these kids are actual, like they can golf and

1700
01:26:05,880 --> 01:26:07,320
Speaker 5: they're like little dudes.

1701
01:26:07,040 --> 01:26:08,320
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. And you're going in to

1702
01:26:08,479 --> 01:26:12,560
Speaker 1: just like volunteer. Yeah, volunteering as like a coach. But

1703
01:26:13,520 --> 01:26:14,479
Speaker 1: I'm so excited.

1704
01:26:14,680 --> 01:26:16,720
Speaker 5: I don't have like, dude, I'm like a twenty two

1705
01:26:16,760 --> 01:26:17,960
Speaker 5: to twenty four handicap.

1706
01:26:18,120 --> 01:26:20,120
Speaker 1: Like I'm not some stud golfer.

1707
01:26:20,600 --> 01:26:23,840
Speaker 5: There's some little things I could, little nuggets here and there,

1708
01:26:23,880 --> 01:26:27,960
Speaker 5: but I am excited to see where that like mentor

1709
01:26:28,479 --> 01:26:31,000
Speaker 5: ship or you know whatever, because that's part of the

1710
01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:34,080
Speaker 5: program too, is they have all these pillars of like

1711
01:26:34,439 --> 01:26:37,400
Speaker 5: life lessons the kids are being taught as well.

1712
01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:41,919
Speaker 1: I you know, I love that. Yeah, and I'm excited

1713
01:26:41,960 --> 01:26:42,200
Speaker 1: for it.

1714
01:26:42,240 --> 01:26:44,200
Speaker 5: But it's a good reminder too of like you can't

1715
01:26:44,240 --> 01:26:47,200
Speaker 5: be too you know, too much of friends with them

1716
01:26:47,640 --> 01:26:50,040
Speaker 5: from the standpoint, but also being able to be this

1717
01:26:50,200 --> 01:26:54,519
Speaker 5: guide and this friendly like you know whatever in their life.

1718
01:26:55,040 --> 01:26:57,200
Speaker 1: It'll be fun. Dude. I haven't done something like this

1719
01:26:57,280 --> 01:27:00,639
Speaker 1: in a long time, so I'm I'm actually like really excited.

1720
01:27:00,680 --> 01:27:02,160
Speaker 2: I think you're gonna get a lot of value out

1721
01:27:02,160 --> 01:27:06,000
Speaker 2: of it. Yeah, dude, there's this cool philosophy on no

1722
01:27:06,000 --> 01:27:09,280
Speaker 2: matter what stage you're in, like having a mentor somebody

1723
01:27:09,280 --> 01:27:12,840
Speaker 2: that is like you know, third party, they're disconnected from

1724
01:27:12,920 --> 01:27:15,560
Speaker 2: your day to day operating.

1725
01:27:15,080 --> 01:27:17,280
Speaker 1: Inside of your circle. Yes, but you have a mentor

1726
01:27:17,479 --> 01:27:18,679
Speaker 1: that you lean on. Yep.

1727
01:27:18,840 --> 01:27:21,360
Speaker 2: You have somebody that you're doing it with. So it

1728
01:27:21,400 --> 01:27:23,640
Speaker 2: would be in our case anybody at work that you

1729
01:27:23,680 --> 01:27:26,800
Speaker 2: were say, say you have a workout buddyut accountabil a buddy. Yeah,

1730
01:27:26,880 --> 01:27:29,640
Speaker 2: somebody that you're doing things with. And also somebody that

1731
01:27:29,680 --> 01:27:32,519
Speaker 2: you are you are mentoring or giving back to that

1732
01:27:32,640 --> 01:27:34,479
Speaker 2: is a quote unquote below you.

1733
01:27:34,680 --> 01:27:35,960
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, to like.

1734
01:27:35,960 --> 01:27:38,720
Speaker 2: Kind of feed your soul like those are like that

1735
01:27:38,880 --> 01:27:42,560
Speaker 2: was like a like a philosophy. I was reading it

1736
01:27:42,560 --> 01:27:46,200
Speaker 2: about and like uh at Nebraska and then I saw

1737
01:27:46,320 --> 01:27:49,439
Speaker 2: Rex Burkhead as like my equals somebody that I looked

1738
01:27:49,520 --> 01:27:52,080
Speaker 2: up to, but that you almost don't know that you're

1739
01:27:52,120 --> 01:27:54,000
Speaker 2: looking up to. So and so, like if I'm looking

1740
01:27:54,080 --> 01:27:55,760
Speaker 2: up to you or looking up to Derek or looking

1741
01:27:55,840 --> 01:27:58,360
Speaker 2: up to Chef, like you guys don't know that I'm

1742
01:27:58,400 --> 01:28:01,160
Speaker 2: getting stuff that you got are adding value to my

1743
01:28:01,200 --> 01:28:02,880
Speaker 2: life and we're kind of doing this thing together.

1744
01:28:03,080 --> 01:28:04,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, then I can have a guy.

1745
01:28:04,320 --> 01:28:06,519
Speaker 2: Who I'll like lean on for any you know, you

1746
01:28:06,520 --> 01:28:13,080
Speaker 2: have like different mentors, whether it's parenthood, business, work, relationships, spiritual,

1747
01:28:14,160 --> 01:28:17,200
Speaker 2: financial anything, right, yes, yes, and then you have the

1748
01:28:17,240 --> 01:28:19,960
Speaker 2: one where you're giving back. So I love, dude. I

1749
01:28:20,000 --> 01:28:20,960
Speaker 2: love that you're doing that.

1750
01:28:21,080 --> 01:28:24,760
Speaker 5: I've desperately needed it and it'll be a lot of

1751
01:28:24,800 --> 01:28:26,920
Speaker 5: fun and just to get to be outside, dude.

1752
01:28:26,960 --> 01:28:29,800
Speaker 1: Golf such a fun sport. I just love the game

1753
01:28:29,840 --> 01:28:30,280
Speaker 1: of golf.

1754
01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:34,479
Speaker 5: I'd love if there's any sport where you can get

1755
01:28:34,520 --> 01:28:37,880
Speaker 5: away with it, it's golf of cheating.

1756
01:28:38,520 --> 01:28:41,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like just the we were talking about that

1757
01:28:41,720 --> 01:28:44,559
Speaker 1: at the zoo. Oh really remember we were walking in

1758
01:28:44,640 --> 01:28:45,439
Speaker 1: talking about golf.

1759
01:28:45,920 --> 01:28:47,880
Speaker 2: But like committing to golf and then you and your

1760
01:28:47,920 --> 01:28:49,960
Speaker 2: boys go and do aight and holes, but it takes out,

1761
01:28:50,400 --> 01:28:53,320
Speaker 2: it carves out, like all these hours on a weekday.

1762
01:28:53,000 --> 01:28:55,200
Speaker 1: Or weekend, six hours honey. Yeah, so we know you

1763
01:28:55,240 --> 01:29:00,519
Speaker 1: got kids. Yeah, yeah, yeah, how is golf on it good?

1764
01:29:00,800 --> 01:29:02,880
Speaker 2: You're getting drunk with the boys of the golf course.

1765
01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:05,280
Speaker 2: You're going for like how long would do eighteen holes.

1766
01:29:05,080 --> 01:29:08,680
Speaker 1: Last four, five, six, Yeah, I mean yeah, really he

1767
01:29:08,760 --> 01:29:11,120
Speaker 1: can last that long? Like that is crazy. If it's

1768
01:29:11,120 --> 01:29:12,200
Speaker 1: a packed day.

1769
01:29:12,000 --> 01:29:14,880
Speaker 5: And everybody's in foursomes, yeah, it could be that long.

1770
01:29:16,520 --> 01:29:19,600
Speaker 5: It's it's nuts, but uh yeah, to get to like

1771
01:29:19,960 --> 01:29:23,360
Speaker 5: teach those kids accountability and like why you don't tell

1772
01:29:23,400 --> 01:29:25,280
Speaker 5: your friend that you got a birdie when you part it,

1773
01:29:25,840 --> 01:29:29,080
Speaker 5: you know, and like what that what that deeper meaning is,

1774
01:29:29,400 --> 01:29:33,360
Speaker 5: and how that's applied to life of like doing the

1775
01:29:33,439 --> 01:29:36,519
Speaker 5: right thing when nobody's looking. And so I just think

1776
01:29:36,680 --> 01:29:39,880
Speaker 5: golf has Every sport has lessons in it, but golf

1777
01:29:39,920 --> 01:29:42,800
Speaker 5: has some particularly fun ones with like what are you

1778
01:29:42,840 --> 01:29:44,160
Speaker 5: doing when nobody's watching you?

1779
01:29:44,439 --> 01:29:44,679
Speaker 8: Yeah?

1780
01:29:44,760 --> 01:29:47,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, and uh kind of any solo sport like

1781
01:29:47,960 --> 01:29:54,679
Speaker 5: tennis track kind of that self accountability, self coaching, self talk,

1782
01:29:54,760 --> 01:29:58,360
Speaker 5: self speak of hey, don't lose your cool because you

1783
01:29:58,600 --> 01:30:03,080
Speaker 5: missed a putt. You know, guess what, Look up, there's

1784
01:30:03,080 --> 01:30:05,240
Speaker 5: a tea box right there. There's another hole where you

1785
01:30:05,280 --> 01:30:08,960
Speaker 5: can go make that putt next time. We learned our

1786
01:30:09,000 --> 01:30:11,960
Speaker 5: mistake here, let's go apply to this next one. We're

1787
01:30:11,960 --> 01:30:15,599
Speaker 5: moving we're moving on, we're failing forward. We're gonna grow

1788
01:30:15,640 --> 01:30:15,920
Speaker 5: from this.

1789
01:30:16,320 --> 01:30:18,760
Speaker 2: I love that dynamic too, because then in time, you

1790
01:30:18,760 --> 01:30:21,920
Speaker 2: you're gonna you're gonna build trust with these kids that

1791
01:30:21,960 --> 01:30:24,640
Speaker 2: you're messing with it to where you'll start getting to

1792
01:30:24,640 --> 01:30:27,439
Speaker 2: connect with the money. But like, hey, what's going on, Like.

1793
01:30:27,439 --> 01:30:29,559
Speaker 1: What's going on you? Oh, dude, for sure, what's going

1794
01:30:29,560 --> 01:30:33,719
Speaker 1: on in your life? For sure? Look like little moments

1795
01:30:33,760 --> 01:30:36,439
Speaker 1: of opportunities like that seem cool and.

1796
01:30:36,880 --> 01:30:44,000
Speaker 5: It it means way more now because Scarlett is so young,

1797
01:30:44,720 --> 01:30:48,360
Speaker 5: and I know that like these times are quote unquote

1798
01:30:48,439 --> 01:30:51,720
Speaker 5: easier to be a dad in those ways, and I

1799
01:30:51,800 --> 01:30:55,600
Speaker 5: really want to hone in those skills of the preteen

1800
01:30:56,640 --> 01:30:59,800
Speaker 5: like and so I'm really excited for that because I

1801
01:30:59,840 --> 01:31:02,200
Speaker 5: know that that's like an age where some of that

1802
01:31:02,240 --> 01:31:05,519
Speaker 5: can be difficult, there can be some disconnect in the

1803
01:31:05,560 --> 01:31:11,080
Speaker 5: preteen ages and the teenager ages. And like, I'm just

1804
01:31:11,160 --> 01:31:13,800
Speaker 5: excited for those reps. It feels like practice reps for

1805
01:31:13,880 --> 01:31:19,679
Speaker 5: my own daughter of communication, et cetera. I like that, man,

1806
01:31:19,840 --> 01:31:23,240
Speaker 5: It'll be fine, love that for you.

1807
01:31:22,840 --> 01:31:24,759
Speaker 1: We've just been riffing.

1808
01:31:24,920 --> 01:31:28,920
Speaker 5: We've been riffing, and how are we on time? Should

1809
01:31:28,960 --> 01:31:33,840
Speaker 5: we jump into some Yeah? Yeah, okay, we're not too bad.

1810
01:31:34,160 --> 01:31:37,320
Speaker 2: I am staring at a pt Oh yeah, Yeah, we

1811
01:31:37,360 --> 01:31:41,880
Speaker 2: have pt fit updates. We have pt fit updates Lily

1812
01:31:42,120 --> 01:31:46,439
Speaker 2: cut Cuddy Lily Cutty on Spotify. I'm thinking we do

1813
01:31:46,479 --> 01:31:49,280
Speaker 2: a fundraiser for pt fit where Charlie leaves a bar

1814
01:31:49,320 --> 01:31:52,040
Speaker 2: three class in Nashville. Question Mark, question Mark. Oh, that's

1815
01:31:52,040 --> 01:31:54,879
Speaker 2: a phenomenal idea. I did some bar three last Friday.

1816
01:31:55,280 --> 01:31:59,280
Speaker 2: Charros ten am class. Yeah, over off of the one,

1817
01:32:00,960 --> 01:32:04,560
Speaker 2: the one in Paddock of a white Bridge. Yeah, teaches

1818
01:32:04,600 --> 01:32:07,360
Speaker 2: a ten am class on Fridays that I might start

1819
01:32:07,400 --> 01:32:11,719
Speaker 2: frequenting more. I do feel like my body responds really

1820
01:32:11,760 --> 01:32:14,599
Speaker 2: well to it, to where I'm like feeling good. Yeah,

1821
01:32:14,960 --> 01:32:17,200
Speaker 2: because you know, I've had a lot of low back issues,

1822
01:32:17,280 --> 01:32:19,320
Speaker 2: just a lot of wear and tear from playing football.

1823
01:32:19,400 --> 01:32:23,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's okay ten minute, I would tell you,

1824
01:32:24,400 --> 01:32:26,960
Speaker 1: Charles hearing this for the first time, but kind of nice.

1825
01:32:27,080 --> 01:32:30,439
Speaker 1: It's a kind of nice vibe because I'm taking many

1826
01:32:30,479 --> 01:32:32,600
Speaker 1: a water breaks like these women. There's a there's a

1827
01:32:32,880 --> 01:32:34,559
Speaker 1: there's a guy that walked in and she was like

1828
01:32:34,600 --> 01:32:38,320
Speaker 1: thirty something weeks pregnant and she's you know, there's always

1829
01:32:38,360 --> 01:32:40,760
Speaker 1: these modifications for all the movements that you're doing.

1830
01:32:40,880 --> 01:32:44,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she's in there ripping and so young, old

1831
01:32:44,200 --> 01:32:47,200
Speaker 2: doesn't matter. All body types like they're in there and

1832
01:32:47,240 --> 01:32:51,519
Speaker 2: they're dominating. Yeah, And I'm like, my legs, bro, you'll

1833
01:32:51,520 --> 01:32:53,160
Speaker 2: get up on like your toes and some movies where

1834
01:32:53,160 --> 01:32:54,720
Speaker 2: you're doing like these wall shits and you pick up

1835
01:32:54,760 --> 01:32:57,280
Speaker 2: your toes. You're doing these pulsing squads and you're trying

1836
01:32:57,280 --> 01:33:00,400
Speaker 2: to hold these fucking poses and I'm shaking. One of

1837
01:33:00,400 --> 01:33:02,679
Speaker 2: my dad's favorite lines, I'm shaking like a dog shitting

1838
01:33:02,720 --> 01:33:06,559
Speaker 2: peach seeds, and you like, I'm taking many of breaks right,

1839
01:33:06,800 --> 01:33:09,360
Speaker 2: So in my head, I'm like, I tell you. She

1840
01:33:09,400 --> 01:33:10,759
Speaker 2: was like, hey, how do you feel from the class?

1841
01:33:11,040 --> 01:33:11,120
Speaker 1: Like?

1842
01:33:11,200 --> 01:33:14,600
Speaker 2: I feel like it was a phenomenal like rehab, a

1843
01:33:14,720 --> 01:33:17,800
Speaker 2: very intense rehab session for myself because my body feels great.

1844
01:33:17,840 --> 01:33:20,120
Speaker 2: I feel like my body respondable real well like glose Er,

1845
01:33:20,160 --> 01:33:23,080
Speaker 2: everything's activated core, Like I don't feel my low back

1846
01:33:23,120 --> 01:33:25,000
Speaker 2: pain that much. So I'm like, man, I need to

1847
01:33:25,040 --> 01:33:27,200
Speaker 2: kind of put I need to frequent. I need to

1848
01:33:27,240 --> 01:33:30,200
Speaker 2: have this in my toolbox because it does make me

1849
01:33:30,240 --> 01:33:32,439
Speaker 2: feel really good. But I also feel like I failed

1850
01:33:32,439 --> 01:33:33,799
Speaker 2: because I had to take so many breaks.

1851
01:33:33,960 --> 01:33:36,720
Speaker 1: You didn't fail, you did great.

1852
01:33:36,920 --> 01:33:41,040
Speaker 2: And the environment vibe is like you're around a bunch

1853
01:33:41,080 --> 01:33:42,400
Speaker 2: of dudes and you fail a lot.

1854
01:33:42,840 --> 01:33:45,320
Speaker 1: You're getting poured on. Yeah, yeah, you.

1855
01:33:45,280 --> 01:33:47,680
Speaker 2: Did kind of push out you did this? Did they'd

1856
01:33:47,800 --> 01:33:49,679
Speaker 2: pat me on the ass. You're doing a great job.

1857
01:33:50,240 --> 01:33:52,880
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I stepped away.

1858
01:33:53,240 --> 01:33:56,400
Speaker 2: Yeah no, you crushed it, and you're just like, oh,

1859
01:33:56,520 --> 01:33:57,559
Speaker 2: I can be around this.

1860
01:33:57,960 --> 01:34:00,400
Speaker 5: I would hate to turn one of her classes into

1861
01:34:00,439 --> 01:34:02,760
Speaker 5: a circus, but I think that that would be a

1862
01:34:02,760 --> 01:34:05,160
Speaker 5: really fun vlog opportunity us.

1863
01:34:05,200 --> 01:34:07,679
Speaker 2: Just going and doing the Bar three classes that too,

1864
01:34:07,880 --> 01:34:10,439
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. And maybe the Milk Team sixers

1865
01:34:10,439 --> 01:34:12,479
Speaker 2: that out there that might be familiar with Bar three,

1866
01:34:12,479 --> 01:34:14,320
Speaker 2: are they taking a Bar three class? Like what an

1867
01:34:14,320 --> 01:34:18,960
Speaker 2: opportunity to do, like a for the Dad's collab or it's.

1868
01:34:18,960 --> 01:34:21,519
Speaker 1: You're bringing in your husband because we're gonna do it.

1869
01:34:21,640 --> 01:34:25,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, and do you give a shout out? No, free

1870
01:34:25,720 --> 01:34:28,760
Speaker 5: shout out because it's from an unbiased third party. One

1871
01:34:28,800 --> 01:34:32,679
Speaker 5: of Jill's very good friends, Grace here in Nashville, takes

1872
01:34:32,960 --> 01:34:38,519
Speaker 5: uh one of charros led Bar three classes and raves

1873
01:34:38,560 --> 01:34:39,000
Speaker 5: about it.

1874
01:34:39,080 --> 01:34:43,360
Speaker 1: Dude, she loves it. They they vibe with char that's

1875
01:34:43,479 --> 01:34:46,640
Speaker 1: your white shout out at rubber band, Like, yeah, she

1876
01:34:46,800 --> 01:34:50,640
Speaker 1: just does hey, come on, man, come hey, man, you

1877
01:34:50,720 --> 01:34:53,439
Speaker 1: talk about my wife. Yes, she kind of got it.

1878
01:34:53,960 --> 01:34:58,600
Speaker 2: I popped one of the balls. No, I was like

1879
01:34:58,640 --> 01:35:00,400
Speaker 2: hitting the wall sitter. I was leaning on and all

1880
01:35:00,400 --> 01:35:01,080
Speaker 2: of a sudden the air is.

1881
01:35:01,080 --> 01:35:04,040
Speaker 1: Coming out, and I look back and I kind of

1882
01:35:04,080 --> 01:35:05,800
Speaker 1: like put it down and I just grab another ball.

1883
01:35:06,200 --> 01:35:10,320
Speaker 1: Charles just at the front of the glass. Okay, this happens, right.

1884
01:35:10,320 --> 01:35:12,960
Speaker 1: I don't see anybody else's ball popped like they're good.

1885
01:35:13,280 --> 01:35:13,479
Speaker 11: Yeah.

1886
01:35:13,520 --> 01:35:16,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, Margaret's ball popped too. I just want to put

1887
01:35:16,479 --> 01:35:19,720
Speaker 1: that out there, Margaret, I saw that sneak the ball

1888
01:35:19,760 --> 01:35:20,639
Speaker 1: behind an old lady.

1889
01:35:21,160 --> 01:35:30,120
Speaker 10: Hey, what she just popped the ball. Hey, Betty's ball

1890
01:35:30,360 --> 01:35:30,839
Speaker 10: just popped.

1891
01:35:31,439 --> 01:35:32,400
Speaker 1: Although it was.

1892
01:35:32,520 --> 01:35:32,960
Speaker 10: All that.

1893
01:35:34,479 --> 01:35:37,600
Speaker 1: Put it on. Put it behind the pregnant lady. He

1894
01:35:37,640 --> 01:35:41,640
Speaker 1: put it behind the pregnant lady. Jesus, I think I

1895
01:35:42,080 --> 01:35:46,040
Speaker 1: think of water broke. Oh, whoa, whoa. I'm I'm not

1896
01:35:46,200 --> 01:35:48,960
Speaker 1: trying to make a big deal about this. We're anty

1897
01:35:49,000 --> 01:35:51,639
Speaker 1: in my water bottle arounder his spot, and we got

1898
01:35:51,640 --> 01:35:52,400
Speaker 1: to get her out of here.

1899
01:35:52,720 --> 01:35:55,280
Speaker 5: Hey, this is such a wild note. By the way,

1900
01:35:55,439 --> 01:35:59,880
Speaker 5: a fun empty six fact. The latest natural birth in

1901
01:36:00,040 --> 01:36:02,200
Speaker 5: the United States was a fifty year old fifty eight

1902
01:36:02,280 --> 01:36:02,920
Speaker 5: year old woman.

1903
01:36:04,200 --> 01:36:06,479
Speaker 1: She did a pilates class of the day she delivered

1904
01:36:07,479 --> 01:36:09,320
Speaker 1: some of them there them women, Bro.

1905
01:36:09,320 --> 01:36:12,240
Speaker 2: Sick goes out there, Dude, keep the fitness and exercise

1906
01:36:12,360 --> 01:36:13,439
Speaker 2: going all the way up.

1907
01:36:13,439 --> 01:36:17,439
Speaker 1: Until some sick goes out there. Some Dan gablesit, guy.

1908
01:36:17,640 --> 01:36:22,599
Speaker 5: Yes, I have vents on Spotify. This is pet Fit Boys.

1909
01:36:22,640 --> 01:36:26,280
Speaker 5: Seventy five hard is perfect for dads. It will change

1910
01:36:26,280 --> 01:36:29,559
Speaker 5: you both physically and mentally. I've become such a better

1911
01:36:29,640 --> 01:36:32,920
Speaker 5: dad since I've started the program. I structure my day

1912
01:36:33,080 --> 01:36:36,320
Speaker 5: around not missing time with the kids and wife. I

1913
01:36:36,400 --> 01:36:38,960
Speaker 5: quickly realized that there was so much waste of time

1914
01:36:38,960 --> 01:36:41,559
Speaker 5: in a day. Would love to be a part of

1915
01:36:41,600 --> 01:36:46,960
Speaker 5: a seventy five hard pt fit group, which PET seventy.

1916
01:36:46,640 --> 01:36:51,360
Speaker 2: Five hard Hard. I'm not against it. No, no, no,

1917
01:36:53,080 --> 01:36:56,400
Speaker 2: that's true. Discipline that is seventy five hard is true.

1918
01:36:56,600 --> 01:36:59,160
Speaker 2: It's almost like I look where I'm at now, because again,

1919
01:36:59,280 --> 01:37:01,559
Speaker 2: the whole game is structuring right. Like I was writing,

1920
01:37:02,280 --> 01:37:04,360
Speaker 2: I was writing down some of my updates to share

1921
01:37:05,439 --> 01:37:09,320
Speaker 2: talk about my pet fit journey so far, and a

1922
01:37:09,320 --> 01:37:11,640
Speaker 2: lot of this urgency has come up. Number One, I

1923
01:37:11,680 --> 01:37:14,400
Speaker 2: was very disappointed myself over the last several months It's

1924
01:37:14,439 --> 01:37:17,800
Speaker 2: kind of my worst stretch post career of football, of

1925
01:37:17,920 --> 01:37:22,360
Speaker 2: not being in the weight room, not exercising, eating okay,

1926
01:37:22,439 --> 01:37:26,200
Speaker 2: but not like holiday season destroys me. I'm very much

1927
01:37:26,240 --> 01:37:30,000
Speaker 2: I indulge in holiday season and you go and get

1928
01:37:30,040 --> 01:37:35,000
Speaker 2: blood work. I go to this like health three Health

1929
01:37:35,000 --> 01:37:39,559
Speaker 2: three point oh spot called Paradigm awesome spot, basically like

1930
01:37:39,560 --> 01:37:43,320
Speaker 2: a concierge service of everything. Think of it as like

1931
01:37:43,360 --> 01:37:46,679
Speaker 2: you have somebody who's going through a true financial advisor

1932
01:37:46,720 --> 01:37:49,040
Speaker 2: who goes through everything, walks with you everything else. They

1933
01:37:49,080 --> 01:37:51,880
Speaker 2: do this like for your body through blood work Texas

1934
01:37:51,920 --> 01:37:54,880
Speaker 2: scans your body movement. They tag an age to it,

1935
01:37:55,000 --> 01:37:58,840
Speaker 2: like how are you moving everything? Stuff that's going on

1936
01:37:59,040 --> 01:38:02,200
Speaker 2: old MRIs take everything all encompassing and work with you

1937
01:38:02,280 --> 01:38:06,360
Speaker 2: because they think longevity. They think fifty years down the road,

1938
01:38:06,479 --> 01:38:07,840
Speaker 2: not us wanting to get jacked.

1939
01:38:07,880 --> 01:38:08,800
Speaker 1: In twenty twenty.

1940
01:38:08,560 --> 01:38:13,960
Speaker 2: Six, yep, and my blood work in June or July,

1941
01:38:14,080 --> 01:38:16,120
Speaker 2: I think it was June. And then my blood work

1942
01:38:16,200 --> 01:38:18,000
Speaker 2: at the end of the year or seven months later,

1943
01:38:18,479 --> 01:38:21,880
Speaker 2: my blood work has gotten worse. My DEXA scan has

1944
01:38:21,920 --> 01:38:24,240
Speaker 2: gotten worse, which I knew was going to happen. I

1945
01:38:24,360 --> 01:38:26,960
Speaker 2: joke about and you know, talk about the body fat.

1946
01:38:27,040 --> 01:38:29,759
Speaker 2: It was like twenty seven percent the visceral grams of fat.

1947
01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:33,400
Speaker 2: How much Charro was buying into it and got so

1948
01:38:33,640 --> 01:38:36,280
Speaker 2: much better, Like Charles almost like in a superior range

1949
01:38:36,920 --> 01:38:39,080
Speaker 2: of working with the group and like diving into her

1950
01:38:39,120 --> 01:38:39,880
Speaker 2: fitness and everything.

1951
01:38:39,880 --> 01:38:43,120
Speaker 5: Her numbers sounded like Olympic athlete type number.

1952
01:38:44,000 --> 01:38:45,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean crazy.

1953
01:38:46,040 --> 01:38:48,680
Speaker 2: So just my wife and seeing her feedback and everything else,

1954
01:38:48,720 --> 01:38:50,920
Speaker 2: it's almost just like a I am sick and tired

1955
01:38:50,920 --> 01:38:52,599
Speaker 2: of being sick and tired about it, and it's almost

1956
01:38:52,640 --> 01:38:54,160
Speaker 2: like a not like a wake up call. I'm not

1957
01:38:54,200 --> 01:38:57,519
Speaker 2: in like an emergency situation. But my cholesterol has been high,

1958
01:38:57,640 --> 01:39:00,280
Speaker 2: it's even higher. My vitamin levels are not that good.

1959
01:39:00,680 --> 01:39:02,920
Speaker 2: My blood pressure has been high every time I've went in.

1960
01:39:03,520 --> 01:39:06,160
Speaker 2: Some things could be stress inducing, some things could be genetic.

1961
01:39:06,200 --> 01:39:08,000
Speaker 2: You kind of look at the entire picture of the

1962
01:39:08,120 --> 01:39:11,840
Speaker 2: entire scope, and my man's been We've been working with

1963
01:39:11,880 --> 01:39:14,360
Speaker 2: each other almost weekly now because he's like, dude, just

1964
01:39:14,479 --> 01:39:17,880
Speaker 2: start right now until your sore. Next weight room gets

1965
01:39:17,880 --> 01:39:20,160
Speaker 2: put in the garage. Because some of it was the excuse,

1966
01:39:20,280 --> 01:39:22,200
Speaker 2: this is an excuse coming out of my mouth. More

1967
01:39:22,200 --> 01:39:24,280
Speaker 2: I'm going to say some of it was moving. I

1968
01:39:24,360 --> 01:39:26,439
Speaker 2: was moving garages and set up. So it's just an

1969
01:39:26,439 --> 01:39:29,000
Speaker 2: excuse that I'm giving myself because there's a fucking weight

1970
01:39:29,080 --> 01:39:35,040
Speaker 2: room that we have on our shop. But it truly

1971
01:39:35,200 --> 01:39:38,320
Speaker 2: is structuring. It's like we've joked about our late goon

1972
01:39:38,400 --> 01:39:40,479
Speaker 2: nights and everything else, but staying up late does hurt

1973
01:39:40,720 --> 01:39:42,800
Speaker 2: if you're wanting to be somebody who dominates your morning,

1974
01:39:42,960 --> 01:39:45,439
Speaker 2: because our mornings is waking up. Being up at seven

1975
01:39:46,280 --> 01:39:49,160
Speaker 2: from seven to eight fifteen is all kid related or

1976
01:39:49,200 --> 01:39:51,519
Speaker 2: seven thirty to eight thirties all kid related. Before we

1977
01:39:51,520 --> 01:39:54,360
Speaker 2: get rue out of the house to school car line,

1978
01:39:54,360 --> 01:39:56,840
Speaker 2: I'm making our lunch, I'm making breakfast, trial getting ready.

1979
01:39:58,360 --> 01:40:00,879
Speaker 2: But we have like I have been waking up earlier.

1980
01:40:00,920 --> 01:40:02,760
Speaker 2: In between the six and six thirty mark, I've been

1981
01:40:02,800 --> 01:40:05,880
Speaker 2: doing So two. He's like, just start Zone two, get

1982
01:40:05,880 --> 01:40:08,839
Speaker 2: on your assault bike. You have you have your garment

1983
01:40:09,280 --> 01:40:12,200
Speaker 2: Zone two five sessions of thirty minutes. You need to

1984
01:40:12,240 --> 01:40:14,400
Speaker 2: get one hundred and fifty minutes of Zone two cardio.

1985
01:40:14,760 --> 01:40:17,200
Speaker 2: So things I've been doing is the Zone two cardio,

1986
01:40:17,880 --> 01:40:21,280
Speaker 2: the atge or knees over TOAs guy. I love their Instagram.

1987
01:40:21,320 --> 01:40:24,160
Speaker 2: I've bought into their program. I've had their program for years,

1988
01:40:24,439 --> 01:40:28,479
Speaker 2: but they have They have workout structures for people who

1989
01:40:28,560 --> 01:40:30,639
Speaker 2: want to be shredded, for people, this all the way

1990
01:40:30,640 --> 01:40:33,960
Speaker 2: down to old people. They have body weight stuff everything. Yeah,

1991
01:40:34,080 --> 01:40:36,320
Speaker 2: but I hit that stuff. Sauna and cold water. I

1992
01:40:36,360 --> 01:40:39,200
Speaker 2: do twelve minutes of cold water every week, four days

1993
01:40:39,200 --> 01:40:43,120
Speaker 2: of three minutes each, sauna eighty minutes, four sessions of

1994
01:40:43,160 --> 01:40:46,840
Speaker 2: twenty minutes each. I'm giving this information to anybody that

1995
01:40:47,000 --> 01:40:49,880
Speaker 2: anyone listen that wants any direction and more of like

1996
01:40:49,960 --> 01:40:51,719
Speaker 2: I want to say it out louds because it gives

1997
01:40:51,720 --> 01:40:54,400
Speaker 2: me like an accountability factor. I've hat seal for Sell

1998
01:40:54,479 --> 01:40:57,800
Speaker 2: in my ear because seventy five hard comes from first

1999
01:40:57,840 --> 01:41:00,800
Speaker 2: form eighty for Sell, the Forcella Brothers y. Yeah, and

2000
01:41:01,120 --> 01:41:03,000
Speaker 2: he challenged me to do like a half marathon. I

2001
01:41:03,000 --> 01:41:05,479
Speaker 2: haven't responded to him on April eleventh because I'm like,

2002
01:41:05,520 --> 01:41:08,960
Speaker 2: you ain't getting my ass out there running that far

2003
01:41:09,160 --> 01:41:12,200
Speaker 2: that quickly. All that stuff. The seventy five hard is awesome.

2004
01:41:12,280 --> 01:41:14,120
Speaker 2: This say they have a seventy five soft. They have

2005
01:41:14,320 --> 01:41:17,760
Speaker 2: all of these different regiments, but I am from what

2006
01:41:17,800 --> 01:41:20,679
Speaker 2: our boy's saying, that's seventy five hard rips. We should

2007
01:41:20,720 --> 01:41:23,240
Speaker 2: do a seventy five hard pet fit. I am on

2008
01:41:23,320 --> 01:41:26,760
Speaker 2: board with that, but part of it myself is stacking

2009
01:41:26,840 --> 01:41:29,680
Speaker 2: some of these small wins to build momentum. Because I do.

2010
01:41:29,760 --> 01:41:31,840
Speaker 2: It's like my goals for the end of the year.

2011
01:41:31,840 --> 01:41:33,960
Speaker 2: I'm writing them down. I want to get under a bar.

2012
01:41:34,080 --> 01:41:35,920
Speaker 2: I haven't been under a bar because of my low

2013
01:41:36,000 --> 01:41:39,040
Speaker 2: back in years. This states back to like twenty twenty

2014
01:41:39,120 --> 01:41:41,519
Speaker 2: or twenty twenty one, while I was still playing football

2015
01:41:41,560 --> 01:41:43,120
Speaker 2: because I was having back issues.

2016
01:41:43,360 --> 01:41:48,160
Speaker 1: And that's for upper and lower body workouts like squat

2017
01:41:48,240 --> 01:41:48,960
Speaker 1: And when.

2018
01:41:48,800 --> 01:41:50,479
Speaker 2: I'm talking about getting under a bar, I'm talking about

2019
01:41:50,479 --> 01:41:53,600
Speaker 2: back squatting. I have a back squatted in years. I

2020
01:41:53,600 --> 01:41:56,000
Speaker 2: would love to because it like loads your spine and

2021
01:41:56,000 --> 01:41:59,600
Speaker 2: everything else. But there are healthy there are progressions to

2022
01:41:59,680 --> 01:42:02,240
Speaker 2: where I can have a healthy enough back to load

2023
01:42:02,360 --> 01:42:03,040
Speaker 2: my back again.

2024
01:42:03,200 --> 01:42:05,800
Speaker 1: I would love to do that. That is a goal

2025
01:42:05,840 --> 01:42:06,439
Speaker 1: for myself.

2026
01:42:06,760 --> 01:42:09,640
Speaker 2: I'm somebody who again within my first couple hours of

2027
01:42:09,680 --> 01:42:12,559
Speaker 2: waking up, fifty grams of protein, and my breakfast thirty

2028
01:42:12,600 --> 01:42:15,160
Speaker 2: grams of protein at every meal, a massive glass of

2029
01:42:15,240 --> 01:42:17,680
Speaker 2: water when I wake up, with lemon and salt to

2030
01:42:17,720 --> 01:42:18,640
Speaker 2: get electrolytes.

2031
01:42:18,880 --> 01:42:20,639
Speaker 1: All of that fun stuff you can look up all

2032
01:42:20,680 --> 01:42:21,160
Speaker 1: this stuff.

2033
01:42:21,320 --> 01:42:23,680
Speaker 2: This is like my own walk, my own journey communicating

2034
01:42:23,760 --> 01:42:27,000
Speaker 2: to PT six PT fit. As we're going on this,

2035
01:42:27,320 --> 01:42:28,960
Speaker 2: a part of me does one is like flip the

2036
01:42:29,000 --> 01:42:30,880
Speaker 2: switch when the sore next gym gets put in.

2037
01:42:31,000 --> 01:42:32,280
Speaker 1: I do want to flip the switch.

2038
01:42:33,040 --> 01:42:35,280
Speaker 2: I would love to fucking challenge myself to a seventy

2039
01:42:35,320 --> 01:42:38,160
Speaker 2: five hard because that shit does seem awesome and seems

2040
01:42:38,439 --> 01:42:41,000
Speaker 2: very very good for you. Because a lot of the rules,

2041
01:42:41,000 --> 01:42:42,680
Speaker 2: I think we went over them last week. But it's

2042
01:42:42,720 --> 01:42:46,080
Speaker 2: like a five step, five boxes checked in the day

2043
01:42:46,280 --> 01:42:47,920
Speaker 2: where you're getting a couple of workouts in one of

2044
01:42:47,960 --> 01:42:51,160
Speaker 2: them's outdoors, you're getting a gallon of water, You're reading

2045
01:42:51,160 --> 01:42:53,400
Speaker 2: ten minutes of a personal development book I would love

2046
01:42:53,400 --> 01:42:56,519
Speaker 2: in the PT fit universe. Maybe it's a book in

2047
01:42:56,600 --> 01:43:00,639
Speaker 2: the personal development phase, but also more Taylor to Parenthood,

2048
01:43:01,040 --> 01:43:06,320
Speaker 2: a parenting book. What else I aim for my body

2049
01:43:06,320 --> 01:43:11,000
Speaker 2: weight in grams of protein, but blood work, decks of scans.

2050
01:43:11,080 --> 01:43:13,639
Speaker 2: I have bar three last Friday, shouting out Bar three

2051
01:43:14,040 --> 01:43:16,720
Speaker 2: and giving my wife's love because I did enjoy doing

2052
01:43:16,760 --> 01:43:19,479
Speaker 2: the class. I do think the bar three for the

2053
01:43:19,560 --> 01:43:23,320
Speaker 2: dad's clap would be fun. But I'm very much invested

2054
01:43:23,840 --> 01:43:27,360
Speaker 2: in this pet fit idea. And I do feel like

2055
01:43:27,400 --> 01:43:30,880
Speaker 2: step one is being vulnerable talking about my shortcomings where

2056
01:43:30,920 --> 01:43:31,280
Speaker 2: I'm at.

2057
01:43:31,360 --> 01:43:31,840
Speaker 1: I need to.

2058
01:43:31,800 --> 01:43:34,120
Speaker 2: Fucking take a photo myself, because it's like I'll look

2059
01:43:34,160 --> 01:43:35,520
Speaker 2: in the mirror and I'm like, dude.

2060
01:43:35,240 --> 01:43:37,120
Speaker 1: You were I'll look at old photos.

2061
01:43:38,160 --> 01:43:41,360
Speaker 5: My man, you were looking at that one the other

2062
01:43:41,439 --> 01:43:43,280
Speaker 5: day with George at Taylor's wedding.

2063
01:43:43,439 --> 01:43:44,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and he was talking.

2064
01:43:44,160 --> 01:43:46,360
Speaker 2: About my neck and like, well used to look. I'm like,

2065
01:43:46,400 --> 01:43:48,679
Speaker 2: I know, and I'm laughing. But it's also like, dude,

2066
01:43:49,640 --> 01:43:52,960
Speaker 2: we give ourselves. I'll speak for myself. I give myself

2067
01:43:52,960 --> 01:43:55,760
Speaker 2: the reasoning of I'm thirty six, I'm still young.

2068
01:43:55,880 --> 01:43:56,519
Speaker 1: I have time.

2069
01:43:56,640 --> 01:43:59,439
Speaker 2: You got a lot going on, Yeah, you have family dynamic,

2070
01:43:59,439 --> 01:44:01,759
Speaker 2: you have work, you have a lot of moving parts,

2071
01:44:02,360 --> 01:44:04,639
Speaker 2: and so I give myself those outs, right, Or I'll

2072
01:44:04,640 --> 01:44:07,200
Speaker 2: stay up late and play video games, like it's my

2073
01:44:07,360 --> 01:44:09,439
Speaker 2: time to be social, it's my time to have fun.

2074
01:44:09,800 --> 01:44:11,240
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say up a little later because I can

2075
01:44:11,280 --> 01:44:16,840
Speaker 2: sleep till seven instead of like, Bro, Willie Boy, you know, man,

2076
01:44:17,800 --> 01:44:21,760
Speaker 2: you want to get up earlier. You have to nix

2077
01:44:21,840 --> 01:44:24,120
Speaker 2: this off the fucking docket. Or if you do want

2078
01:44:24,160 --> 01:44:26,559
Speaker 2: to play video games, bro structure it out from like

2079
01:44:26,560 --> 01:44:29,200
Speaker 2: eight thirty to ten. Yeah, if you're dying to play

2080
01:44:29,439 --> 01:44:31,840
Speaker 2: video games or you're dying to watch TV shows. Yeah,

2081
01:44:32,479 --> 01:44:38,080
Speaker 2: these are like the conversations I'm having with myself. All

2082
01:44:38,080 --> 01:44:42,000
Speaker 2: to say, beat fit, I'm fucking on board. I don't

2083
01:44:42,040 --> 01:44:43,840
Speaker 2: even know what I'm trying to say. I'm more just

2084
01:44:44,920 --> 01:44:48,560
Speaker 2: you're in word vomiting. I am feeling inspired.

2085
01:44:48,840 --> 01:44:54,720
Speaker 5: Jill and I also inspired with the ptfit movement just

2086
01:44:54,840 --> 01:44:59,559
Speaker 5: from I don't want to speak too much on Jill's stuff.

2087
01:44:59,560 --> 01:45:01,479
Speaker 1: I feel like I could share it with Jill stuff.

2088
01:45:01,479 --> 01:45:05,599
Speaker 5: She's basically wanting to get fit to try and avoid

2089
01:45:05,920 --> 01:45:12,599
Speaker 5: some of those just stational diabetes, some of the high

2090
01:45:12,640 --> 01:45:16,280
Speaker 5: blood pressure stuff with our next pregnancy. So she has

2091
01:45:16,320 --> 01:45:22,160
Speaker 5: a weight goal that I basically matched thirty pounds by

2092
01:45:22,200 --> 01:45:25,000
Speaker 5: the end of this year as just our goal of

2093
01:45:25,040 --> 01:45:29,160
Speaker 5: what we're going to work towards for kid number two,

2094
01:45:29,360 --> 01:45:32,599
Speaker 5: if we are to try and move towards kid number two.

2095
01:45:32,880 --> 01:45:35,759
Speaker 5: She wants to get into a healthy arrange. I obviously

2096
01:45:35,840 --> 01:45:38,840
Speaker 5: want to get into a healthy arrange because you know,

2097
01:45:39,080 --> 01:45:42,680
Speaker 5: we joked about me being at the doctor or we

2098
01:45:42,720 --> 01:45:45,960
Speaker 5: both went to the doctor and they took our blood pressure. Yeah,

2099
01:45:46,000 --> 01:45:48,840
Speaker 5: more than twice yep, and you're sitting there like, oh,

2100
01:45:48,840 --> 01:45:51,320
Speaker 5: it might be the wrong coff and my different coughs

2101
01:45:51,320 --> 01:45:55,080
Speaker 5: this and that. Yeah, and do you have coffee this morning?

2102
01:45:55,160 --> 01:45:56,920
Speaker 5: Did not have coffee this morning?

2103
01:45:57,200 --> 01:45:57,639
Speaker 1: Oh?

2104
01:45:58,160 --> 01:46:00,680
Speaker 5: And like seeing her face to the answer of no,

2105
01:46:00,800 --> 01:46:07,000
Speaker 5: I didn't have any caffeine but yeah, and having the

2106
01:46:07,080 --> 01:46:12,040
Speaker 5: goal of running a four hundred meter in under sixty seconds,

2107
01:46:12,160 --> 01:46:15,479
Speaker 5: A lot needs to happen for that, A regiment needs

2108
01:46:15,479 --> 01:46:20,360
Speaker 5: to happen for that. So I haven't implemented anything like

2109
01:46:20,720 --> 01:46:23,519
Speaker 5: you're talking about, but I'm excited for it.

2110
01:46:23,880 --> 01:46:24,040
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2111
01:46:24,120 --> 01:46:27,400
Speaker 2: There's like because now my wife is on me about

2112
01:46:27,439 --> 01:46:30,000
Speaker 2: stuff and she's been an awesome like accountability like we were.

2113
01:46:30,640 --> 01:46:32,320
Speaker 2: We got up this morning and went through like a

2114
01:46:32,360 --> 01:46:35,960
Speaker 2: flow session that bar three offers online, like yoga, stretching

2115
01:46:36,000 --> 01:46:39,719
Speaker 2: out against getting some mobility and the joints and everything else.

2116
01:46:39,760 --> 01:46:40,519
Speaker 1: And it's awesome.

2117
01:46:41,080 --> 01:46:45,640
Speaker 2: But it's like my dog hit me up like on

2118
01:46:45,720 --> 01:46:48,240
Speaker 2: a Sunday night, or maybe it was wait, what's what's

2119
01:46:48,240 --> 01:46:48,479
Speaker 2: the day?

2120
01:46:48,520 --> 01:46:49,360
Speaker 1: Tuesday? Tuesday?

2121
01:46:49,479 --> 01:46:51,439
Speaker 2: So Sunday night, hit me up at like eight thirty

2122
01:46:51,479 --> 01:46:54,280
Speaker 2: pm in an email. It's like, Hey, going through your

2123
01:46:54,280 --> 01:46:57,960
Speaker 2: blood work that I most recently took. Nothing is an emergency,

2124
01:46:58,160 --> 01:46:59,840
Speaker 2: but would love to get on the phone this weekend.

2125
01:47:00,000 --> 01:47:03,880
Speaker 2: I keep through some things because you're cholesterol over things

2126
01:47:03,960 --> 01:47:08,640
Speaker 2: involving your cholesterol and your vitamin levels, and so I

2127
01:47:08,760 --> 01:47:11,360
Speaker 2: tell that to charro hers go up because it's like,

2128
01:47:11,560 --> 01:47:12,960
Speaker 2: you know, you think about the kids, you think about

2129
01:47:12,960 --> 01:47:16,320
Speaker 2: the family, like, hey, there's nothing that is pressing, but

2130
01:47:17,640 --> 01:47:19,879
Speaker 2: you can just tell by the tone and the intention

2131
01:47:20,040 --> 01:47:22,240
Speaker 2: and him following up and everything else, because I've worked

2132
01:47:22,240 --> 01:47:24,400
Speaker 2: with him now for I'll be coming up on a

2133
01:47:24,439 --> 01:47:28,320
Speaker 2: year here in a few months, but you want to

2134
01:47:28,320 --> 01:47:31,920
Speaker 2: start sacking some progress after seven months. You don't want

2135
01:47:31,920 --> 01:47:34,320
Speaker 2: to see the meter go the other way, which I

2136
01:47:34,360 --> 01:47:35,719
Speaker 2: knew was going to happen.

2137
01:47:36,280 --> 01:47:37,360
Speaker 1: And I was telling him.

2138
01:47:37,400 --> 01:47:39,880
Speaker 2: I was being frank with him because he's like, tell me, like,

2139
01:47:39,920 --> 01:47:44,200
Speaker 2: what's on your mind? And I word vomited in a

2140
01:47:44,240 --> 01:47:46,799
Speaker 2: lot of stuff and kind of recapped our year, our season,

2141
01:47:46,880 --> 01:47:48,920
Speaker 2: all the things we did, all the things with family,

2142
01:47:49,280 --> 01:47:54,400
Speaker 2: all that kind of stuff, and him just wanting to

2143
01:47:55,479 --> 01:47:57,120
Speaker 2: kind of walk with me more on. He's like, how

2144
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Speaker 2: do we get some structure in place to where some

2145
01:47:59,560 --> 01:48:01,120
Speaker 2: of the things maybe you might be working, but you

2146
01:48:01,120 --> 01:48:04,519
Speaker 2: can accomplish some of these things at work. Yeah, and

2147
01:48:04,560 --> 01:48:07,200
Speaker 2: I ultimately tell him I'm like, part of me coming

2148
01:48:07,240 --> 01:48:11,280
Speaker 2: in is almost ashamed of coming in because you feel

2149
01:48:11,320 --> 01:48:20,080
Speaker 2: like you disappoint the you disappoint the authority. The authority

2150
01:48:20,080 --> 01:48:23,400
Speaker 2: in my brain is you. I feel like a lot

2151
01:48:23,439 --> 01:48:25,800
Speaker 2: of that has to do with being in a performance

2152
01:48:25,840 --> 01:48:28,200
Speaker 2: based world with football and everything else, because you never

2153
01:48:28,200 --> 01:48:30,320
Speaker 2: want to let your coach down, You never want to

2154
01:48:30,400 --> 01:48:32,400
Speaker 2: let your family down, you never want to let yourself done.

2155
01:48:32,439 --> 01:48:35,280
Speaker 1: And when I know I'm doing that, part.

2156
01:48:35,040 --> 01:48:39,679
Speaker 2: Of me punts the meetings and calling back and text

2157
01:48:39,760 --> 01:48:43,200
Speaker 2: because I know I'm not putting in the work that

2158
01:48:43,280 --> 01:48:47,280
Speaker 2: I'm proud of. So if that's happening with me, it's

2159
01:48:47,320 --> 01:48:50,400
Speaker 2: not anything against them. It's like I'm just being vulnerable

2160
01:48:50,400 --> 01:48:52,840
Speaker 2: and just saying, like part of me gets ashamed to

2161
01:48:52,920 --> 01:48:54,400
Speaker 2: come in and talk about all this stuff.

2162
01:48:54,600 --> 01:48:59,559
Speaker 5: Yeah, you have a humongous external force of being an

2163
01:48:59,680 --> 01:49:04,120
Speaker 5: ex NFL football player on yours, whereas like somebody sees

2164
01:49:04,160 --> 01:49:06,519
Speaker 5: a picture of me and they're not gonna be like, oh,

2165
01:49:06,560 --> 01:49:10,280
Speaker 5: Sherman kind of let himself go, if that makes sense. Yeah,

2166
01:49:10,360 --> 01:49:17,040
Speaker 5: Like because I wasn't that like level of peak athleticism,

2167
01:49:17,120 --> 01:49:20,680
Speaker 5: So like that external pressure isn't there as much for me,

2168
01:49:20,840 --> 01:49:24,960
Speaker 5: but the internal pressure is very much there for me

2169
01:49:25,240 --> 01:49:28,800
Speaker 5: of like, yeah, even as it means to happen. Yeah,

2170
01:49:29,080 --> 01:49:29,799
Speaker 5: and I get.

2171
01:49:29,640 --> 01:49:32,720
Speaker 2: That that stuff can be quote unquote real, but some

2172
01:49:32,800 --> 01:49:35,000
Speaker 2: of the external stuff that we're talking about is truly

2173
01:49:35,160 --> 01:49:36,760
Speaker 2: just assumptive.

2174
01:49:37,000 --> 01:49:39,280
Speaker 1: It's just what we're telling ourselves.

2175
01:49:40,600 --> 01:49:42,880
Speaker 7: A quote I just saw online that I really love

2176
01:49:43,040 --> 01:49:47,120
Speaker 7: dealing with that kind of stuff is being healthy and

2177
01:49:47,200 --> 01:49:49,240
Speaker 7: getting in shape is not an obstacle.

2178
01:49:49,240 --> 01:49:50,360
Speaker 1: It's actually the solution.

2179
01:49:51,000 --> 01:49:52,920
Speaker 7: So I've been telling myself that would just like with

2180
01:49:53,280 --> 01:49:56,320
Speaker 7: external stresses and whatever may come up, is like, hey,

2181
01:49:56,320 --> 01:49:58,040
Speaker 7: when you go work out or when you're eating, well,

2182
01:49:58,040 --> 01:49:59,640
Speaker 7: you make a good decision, Like that is not an

2183
01:49:59,680 --> 01:50:02,920
Speaker 7: obstac well, you're actually you're working towards the solution. And

2184
01:50:02,960 --> 01:50:05,280
Speaker 7: that's one that I've been kind of the last two

2185
01:50:05,360 --> 01:50:07,160
Speaker 7: weeks been going at. It's been really nice.

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01:50:07,439 --> 01:50:08,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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01:50:08,240 --> 01:50:10,240
Speaker 2: It reminds you of the Book of Atomic Habits. I

2188
01:50:10,280 --> 01:50:12,799
Speaker 2: know that's like a massive bestseller, but it's like strioping

2189
01:50:12,840 --> 01:50:17,400
Speaker 2: yourself of the idea of an outcome, and it really

2190
01:50:17,439 --> 01:50:19,720
Speaker 2: just comes down to what your daily habits are. You

2191
01:50:19,800 --> 01:50:21,719
Speaker 2: change your daily habits, you change everything.

2192
01:50:22,200 --> 01:50:27,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, but share with you, guys, Share with the audience.

2193
01:50:27,479 --> 01:50:28,000
Speaker 1: I love that.

2194
01:50:28,080 --> 01:50:30,720
Speaker 5: I know I need to get a full breakdown of

2195
01:50:31,280 --> 01:50:35,840
Speaker 5: daily regimen and daily routine that I'll apply for myself.

2196
01:50:36,200 --> 01:50:40,280
Speaker 5: One starter is just non negotiable and one that I've

2197
01:50:40,320 --> 01:50:43,559
Speaker 5: been kicking myself is walking the dogs every morning, every night,

2198
01:50:44,080 --> 01:50:48,080
Speaker 5: because that needs to happen, and I'll just do the

2199
01:50:48,160 --> 01:50:52,479
Speaker 5: lazy freight yard. Hey, go get them. Yeah, but it's

2200
01:50:52,520 --> 01:50:55,960
Speaker 5: easy that like when you're talking about like eating the elephant,

2201
01:50:55,960 --> 01:50:59,240
Speaker 5: one by day at a time, stacking wins the easiest

2202
01:50:59,240 --> 01:51:01,880
Speaker 5: win to stat because I need to be doing it.

2203
01:51:02,560 --> 01:51:04,559
Speaker 5: And then on the weekends too, of Jill and I

2204
01:51:04,600 --> 01:51:09,200
Speaker 5: prioritizing doing walks with Scarlet, getting outside, not just sitting

2205
01:51:09,240 --> 01:51:09,680
Speaker 5: around the.

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01:51:09,640 --> 01:51:16,360
Speaker 1: House watching movies. But yeah, I'm excited. Yeah, yeah, it

2207
01:51:16,360 --> 01:51:17,120
Speaker 1: all correlates too.

2208
01:51:17,160 --> 01:51:19,439
Speaker 2: We're obviously talking about fitness, but this is to me

2209
01:51:19,760 --> 01:51:23,280
Speaker 2: in every area that you have, every bucket that you

2210
01:51:23,360 --> 01:51:32,880
Speaker 2: have with fitness, self, of work, marriage, parenthood, we all

2211
01:51:32,880 --> 01:51:35,559
Speaker 2: have the idea. We all know you know what I mean, Like,

2212
01:51:36,080 --> 01:51:39,439
Speaker 2: we know the answers. We just we get scared to

2213
01:51:39,680 --> 01:51:44,439
Speaker 2: look that close in the mirror. Yeah, because we get

2214
01:51:44,439 --> 01:51:45,640
Speaker 2: disappointed in ourselves.

2215
01:51:45,760 --> 01:51:50,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, and there's always the excuse of tomorrow is like

2216
01:51:50,320 --> 01:51:56,519
Speaker 5: the big excuse for me of like couple therapy. Like

2217
01:51:56,600 --> 01:51:59,599
Speaker 5: I'm a huge believer in couples therapy. It's like, why

2218
01:51:59,640 --> 01:52:03,960
Speaker 5: hasn't been established? Jill's a huge believer in that. Yeah,

2219
01:52:05,280 --> 01:52:09,040
Speaker 5: sitting down and having like a full Excel spreadsheet breakdown

2220
01:52:09,080 --> 01:52:12,600
Speaker 5: of finances, Jill and I getting a joint account, a

2221
01:52:12,680 --> 01:52:17,519
Speaker 5: joint savings account, like all those little things where it's like, well,

2222
01:52:17,560 --> 01:52:20,240
Speaker 5: it's been a really it's been a really busy month

2223
01:52:20,760 --> 01:52:22,479
Speaker 5: and we've been there's a lot going on.

2224
01:52:23,280 --> 01:52:25,360
Speaker 1: We'll get to it. It's gonna get done.

2225
01:52:25,479 --> 01:52:27,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's wrap boop on the thing, Like I'll go

2226
01:52:27,800 --> 01:52:31,160
Speaker 5: get traps tomorrow at home depot and I'll set the

2227
01:52:31,200 --> 01:52:36,040
Speaker 5: traps out. Like everything starts stacking on each other. But

2228
01:52:36,160 --> 01:52:40,599
Speaker 5: it's everybody says like make your bed is like because

2229
01:52:40,640 --> 01:52:43,160
Speaker 5: that's the very first thing you do when it's you know,

2230
01:52:43,320 --> 01:52:44,240
Speaker 5: catch a small dove.

2231
01:52:44,280 --> 01:52:47,000
Speaker 1: Catch a small dove. I told you when I was.

2232
01:52:48,560 --> 01:52:52,920
Speaker 5: In bed for like a month depressed and we touched

2233
01:52:52,960 --> 01:52:54,680
Speaker 5: on this like at the very I think this was

2234
01:52:54,720 --> 01:52:58,520
Speaker 5: like pre Derek, like one of our very first episodes.

2235
01:52:59,360 --> 01:53:01,200
Speaker 5: That was what my thrapists told me when I was

2236
01:53:01,240 --> 01:53:04,320
Speaker 5: just like literally trapped in my own head and laying

2237
01:53:04,360 --> 01:53:07,840
Speaker 5: in bed not getting out of bed for a full month.

2238
01:53:08,600 --> 01:53:11,880
Speaker 5: He's like, get up, make your bed, shower, and put

2239
01:53:11,960 --> 01:53:15,280
Speaker 5: a nice outfit on that that somebody's gonna see you in,

2240
01:53:16,240 --> 01:53:18,880
Speaker 5: because then you might as well just leave the house

2241
01:53:19,280 --> 01:53:22,600
Speaker 5: if you look nice, you might as well, you know,

2242
01:53:22,760 --> 01:53:25,280
Speaker 5: go apply for that job that you've been wanting to

2243
01:53:25,320 --> 01:53:25,800
Speaker 5: apply for.

2244
01:53:25,920 --> 01:53:32,000
Speaker 1: You might as well like all the big goals. Yeah,

2245
01:53:32,080 --> 01:53:36,559
Speaker 1: it's not a dan Gable but an Apollo Creed. There

2246
01:53:36,600 --> 01:53:45,400
Speaker 1: is no tomorrow. There is no tomorrow. There is no tomorrow. Tomorrow, tomorrow. No,

2247
01:53:45,560 --> 01:53:50,880
Speaker 1: that's what you're wrong, man, Fuck you get the pist

2248
01:53:51,320 --> 01:53:54,080
Speaker 1: just follow the echo of the little basement gym that

2249
01:53:54,120 --> 01:53:58,000
Speaker 1: they're yeah tomorrow. And he's hitting the walls and he

2250
01:53:58,080 --> 01:54:02,720
Speaker 1: looks up in the mirror. Hmhm uh Do we want

2251
01:54:02,720 --> 01:54:03,760
Speaker 1: to right?

2252
01:54:05,800 --> 01:54:05,840
Speaker 7: Do?

2253
01:54:06,000 --> 01:54:10,839
Speaker 1: We don't want to lose what I got? Yes? Yeah,

2254
01:54:11,000 --> 01:54:13,320
Speaker 1: let's hit the voice. We're still under an hour. We're

2255
01:54:13,360 --> 01:54:14,160
Speaker 1: still under an hour.

2256
01:54:14,560 --> 01:54:16,640
Speaker 5: Six on one of the dads for a reminder, and

2257
01:54:16,640 --> 01:54:18,479
Speaker 5: then you can write in six on one of the

2258
01:54:18,600 --> 01:54:20,920
Speaker 5: dads at gmail dot com.

2259
01:54:21,320 --> 01:54:24,879
Speaker 1: This is our first one. It is dating advice for

2260
01:54:24,880 --> 01:54:30,920
Speaker 1: for PT. Six what's going on?

2261
01:54:31,040 --> 01:54:35,400
Speaker 8: Boys love the show. Just got a quick question. My

2262
01:54:35,600 --> 01:54:40,160
Speaker 8: son just finished with his rugby season and it's co ed.

2263
01:54:40,280 --> 01:54:42,640
Speaker 8: One of the girls came up to him and asked

2264
01:54:42,680 --> 01:54:43,680
Speaker 8: him for his number.

2265
01:54:44,520 --> 01:54:45,879
Speaker 9: Mind you, he's only eleven.

2266
01:54:46,960 --> 01:54:47,480
Speaker 1: What do I do?

2267
01:54:49,000 --> 01:54:49,960
Speaker 8: That advice would help?

2268
01:54:51,360 --> 01:54:54,480
Speaker 1: All right, guys, have a blessed day. He wrapped up

2269
01:54:54,480 --> 01:54:58,400
Speaker 1: what he just finished the He said, it's the rugby season.

2270
01:54:58,520 --> 01:55:01,720
Speaker 1: The rugby season. Okay. Co ed team.

2271
01:55:02,160 --> 01:55:04,600
Speaker 5: Teammate comes up to him, says, hey, you mind if

2272
01:55:04,640 --> 01:55:06,520
Speaker 5: I get those ten digits?

2273
01:55:10,320 --> 01:55:13,920
Speaker 1: Kids got game? Sons got game, kids got game. No,

2274
01:55:14,000 --> 01:55:15,320
Speaker 1: we're talking about an eleven year old.

2275
01:55:15,360 --> 01:55:19,440
Speaker 5: We are talking about someone's sweet little eleven year old

2276
01:55:19,480 --> 01:55:27,880
Speaker 5: little boy. First off, huge w that a girl is

2277
01:55:29,200 --> 01:55:32,600
Speaker 5: approaching your son to ask him for his number.

2278
01:55:32,760 --> 01:55:36,480
Speaker 1: What confidence? I think that's a huge w for both

2279
01:55:36,520 --> 01:55:37,520
Speaker 1: of those parents.

2280
01:55:38,480 --> 01:55:41,040
Speaker 2: What advice would you go? Okay, eleven years old, that's

2281
01:55:41,120 --> 01:55:43,080
Speaker 2: what fifth grade?

2282
01:55:43,600 --> 01:55:48,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, fifth I will ish I doing at eleven, because.

2283
01:55:48,840 --> 01:55:51,120
Speaker 2: Dude, it's like the phone game is kind of out

2284
01:55:51,120 --> 01:55:54,720
Speaker 2: of my wheelhouse right now because I'm not going through it, obviously,

2285
01:55:54,760 --> 01:55:57,840
Speaker 2: I'm doing whatever I can to kind of prepare for it.

2286
01:55:57,880 --> 01:56:00,240
Speaker 2: I come across a lot of stuff with technology and

2287
01:56:00,360 --> 01:56:01,360
Speaker 2: when should they have a phone?

2288
01:56:01,360 --> 01:56:04,000
Speaker 1: When they should not? All of these there's there's there's

2289
01:56:04,040 --> 01:56:07,240
Speaker 1: a massive there's a lot of opinions on it. Yeah,

2290
01:56:07,360 --> 01:56:10,240
Speaker 1: so I want to be careful there.

2291
01:56:10,280 --> 01:56:15,720
Speaker 5: Also, I know that there's like the romantic side of this,

2292
01:56:16,280 --> 01:56:19,480
Speaker 5: but like she did, just ask for his number, could

2293
01:56:19,520 --> 01:56:23,040
Speaker 5: mean nothing exactly because again, there were they're young, I

2294
01:56:23,080 --> 01:56:23,680
Speaker 5: mean there were you.

2295
01:56:23,800 --> 01:56:28,440
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, but if I had a crush Tricia

2296
01:56:28,520 --> 01:56:32,280
Speaker 2: Hartrup was her name, was fifth or sixth grade, I

2297
01:56:32,360 --> 01:56:34,720
Speaker 2: might have been a fifth grader. She was a sixth grader,

2298
01:56:35,760 --> 01:56:38,160
Speaker 2: and you know, you want to have a boyfriend or

2299
01:56:38,160 --> 01:56:42,560
Speaker 2: a girlfriend at that age. What my parents would do

2300
01:56:42,840 --> 01:56:47,640
Speaker 2: because that was landline back then. Yeah, but if we

2301
01:56:47,760 --> 01:56:50,520
Speaker 2: wanted to like hang out or anything, it would be

2302
01:56:50,560 --> 01:56:52,200
Speaker 2: at the movies with a parent.

2303
01:56:52,760 --> 01:56:55,720
Speaker 1: Yeah you know what I mean, Like, okay, at the

2304
01:56:55,800 --> 01:56:57,960
Speaker 1: mall with a parent. Yeah.

2305
01:56:58,080 --> 01:57:00,480
Speaker 2: Yes, if they want to hang out outside of school

2306
01:57:00,560 --> 01:57:05,960
Speaker 2: or rugby parental supervision. Yeah, dude, the girl wants his number.

2307
01:57:06,080 --> 01:57:09,000
Speaker 2: I don't know what the intention is, like, wants his number.

2308
01:57:08,720 --> 01:57:11,760
Speaker 1: To hang out? Uh huh? Are they the same age?

2309
01:57:11,800 --> 01:57:13,920
Speaker 1: Is she a year older? She's a couple of years older.

2310
01:57:14,120 --> 01:57:18,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, But it's like both of the parents of the

2311
01:57:18,320 --> 01:57:21,960
Speaker 2: two kids being on the same page to a do

2312
01:57:21,960 --> 01:57:24,360
Speaker 2: they want to go see a movie? Yeah, which one

2313
01:57:24,400 --> 01:57:27,760
Speaker 2: of us wants to go chaperon them, pick them up,

2314
01:57:27,880 --> 01:57:29,680
Speaker 2: drive them, go to the movie, sit in the movie

2315
01:57:29,680 --> 01:57:30,280
Speaker 2: with them.

2316
01:57:31,400 --> 01:57:34,480
Speaker 1: And just if you're allowing that to even happen.

2317
01:57:34,680 --> 01:57:38,520
Speaker 2: So like I had friends were you know, friends that

2318
01:57:38,600 --> 01:57:41,200
Speaker 2: were girls and their parents wouldn't let them date or

2319
01:57:41,240 --> 01:57:42,800
Speaker 2: anything until they were like a certain age.

2320
01:57:42,880 --> 01:57:43,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2321
01:57:43,120 --> 01:57:45,240
Speaker 2: So again, this is a this is a topic that

2322
01:57:45,360 --> 01:57:49,640
Speaker 2: has a lot of different opinions. My own experience when

2323
01:57:49,680 --> 01:57:51,360
Speaker 2: I was a fifth birder and it had a crush

2324
01:57:51,400 --> 01:57:53,280
Speaker 2: and wanted a girlfriend. If we were going to hang

2325
01:57:53,320 --> 01:57:56,160
Speaker 2: out outside of exchanging notes in the hallway at school,

2326
01:57:56,880 --> 01:57:59,360
Speaker 2: it would be one of our parents picking us up

2327
01:57:59,360 --> 01:58:01,000
Speaker 2: to go sit at the movie with us.

2328
01:58:01,080 --> 01:58:01,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2329
01:58:01,280 --> 01:58:07,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, So I my addition to your like how to.

2330
01:58:07,480 --> 01:58:09,520
Speaker 1: Do it, it would be.

2331
01:58:09,760 --> 01:58:13,800
Speaker 5: The awesome opportunity that this boy dad has of that

2332
01:58:14,040 --> 01:58:21,360
Speaker 5: pregame talk and some other conversations with son about respecting women. Yeah,

2333
01:58:21,360 --> 01:58:25,040
Speaker 5: making you say, making it a fun environment. Things we

2334
01:58:25,120 --> 01:58:28,240
Speaker 5: don't say, things we do say, things that we do

2335
01:58:28,320 --> 01:58:30,840
Speaker 5: when we're hanging out with girls. How we treat girls,

2336
01:58:30,960 --> 01:58:35,840
Speaker 5: how we court them, how we court them. Because as crazy.

2337
01:58:35,440 --> 01:58:40,040
Speaker 1: As this sounds, Jill, my now wife, who's thirty, I

2338
01:58:40,080 --> 01:58:44,080
Speaker 1: know from her talking about this guy that her little

2339
01:58:44,080 --> 01:58:48,240
Speaker 1: fifth and sixth grade boyfriend crush was the quote unquote

2340
01:58:48,320 --> 01:58:49,480
Speaker 1: sweetest guy ever.

2341
01:58:49,520 --> 01:58:52,440
Speaker 5: Sherman, you would have loved him. And that guy was

2342
01:58:52,520 --> 01:58:54,960
Speaker 5: just the little fifth and sixth grade boyfriend. But look

2343
01:58:55,000 --> 01:58:57,440
Speaker 5: at the impact that that had on Jill of a

2344
01:58:57,520 --> 01:59:00,480
Speaker 5: picture of that's a good that's a bottle of a

2345
01:59:00,520 --> 01:59:03,680
Speaker 5: good man. How I should be treated. Was my fifth

2346
01:59:03,680 --> 01:59:07,760
Speaker 5: and sixth grade boyfriend that never tried anything, never inappropriate,

2347
01:59:07,840 --> 01:59:11,400
Speaker 5: always sweet. And I now you know she thinks highly

2348
01:59:11,400 --> 01:59:13,840
Speaker 5: of me because I'm her husband, but she equates me

2349
01:59:13,920 --> 01:59:16,840
Speaker 5: to him. Is like, y'all would be besties. Like y'all

2350
01:59:17,440 --> 01:59:20,520
Speaker 5: Like he's such a great guy. Da da da, And

2351
01:59:20,680 --> 01:59:23,800
Speaker 5: that's really cool. The little opportunity that, as small as

2352
01:59:23,840 --> 01:59:24,800
Speaker 5: it seems.

2353
01:59:25,040 --> 01:59:27,920
Speaker 2: That is a great point, honestly, because again, we don't

2354
01:59:27,960 --> 01:59:29,960
Speaker 2: know the full Yeah, number one, we don't know the

2355
01:59:30,000 --> 01:59:32,920
Speaker 2: full context of this situation. Yeah, they're just trying to

2356
01:59:32,920 --> 01:59:35,800
Speaker 2: play video games, Like is it exactly friend? Do they

2357
01:59:36,000 --> 01:59:38,320
Speaker 2: like each other? Do they have a crush? If they

2358
01:59:38,320 --> 01:59:40,400
Speaker 2: do and you're cool with them going to do the

2359
01:59:40,520 --> 01:59:43,760
Speaker 2: movie example, or any of the examples, but to your level,

2360
01:59:43,800 --> 01:59:48,640
Speaker 2: which I think is phenomenal. The opportunity of teaching your

2361
01:59:48,800 --> 01:59:53,360
Speaker 2: son the manners, the courtship, the game of how we

2362
01:59:53,400 --> 01:59:54,280
Speaker 2: respect women.

2363
01:59:54,520 --> 01:59:56,880
Speaker 5: Howat yeah, how you treat your friends there are women,

2364
01:59:57,040 --> 02:00:00,720
Speaker 5: so that when you know that she's all fit college,

2365
02:00:01,360 --> 02:00:02,840
Speaker 5: she can't think back and go.

2366
02:00:03,200 --> 02:00:06,880
Speaker 1: My friend Brandon would never do that. Yeah, never say yeah,

2367
02:00:06,960 --> 02:00:08,480
Speaker 1: good shit, bro, let's go.

2368
02:00:09,800 --> 02:00:14,400
Speaker 5: Oh speaking of uh, steak and BJ Buddy is our

2369
02:00:14,480 --> 02:00:15,120
Speaker 5: second voice.

2370
02:00:15,160 --> 02:00:18,640
Speaker 1: There we go talk about all that. Let's get back

2371
02:00:18,680 --> 02:00:26,760
Speaker 1: to the old job. What up?

2372
02:00:26,760 --> 02:00:30,560
Speaker 11: Fellas Caleb from Montana here not a dad, but a

2373
02:00:30,560 --> 02:00:33,680
Speaker 11: twenty two year old listener, loved the show last night.

2374
02:00:33,920 --> 02:00:36,000
Speaker 11: As I'm sitting here getting ready for church, I'm realizing

2375
02:00:36,040 --> 02:00:40,839
Speaker 11: it's uh the fifteenth. If you guys know, yesterday, hopefully

2376
02:00:40,840 --> 02:00:43,560
Speaker 11: you guys cashed in on steak and blowjob day.

2377
02:00:44,160 --> 02:00:44,360
Speaker 8: Well.

2378
02:00:44,520 --> 02:00:47,040
Speaker 11: As a single fella, I didn't really have any expectations

2379
02:00:47,040 --> 02:00:49,320
Speaker 11: for this day, but then last night I got a

2380
02:00:49,360 --> 02:00:51,360
Speaker 11: random text from one of my best friends saying, Hey,

2381
02:00:52,120 --> 02:00:55,360
Speaker 11: you want to come over for sam Antelope Steaks? Of course?

2382
02:00:55,520 --> 02:00:58,920
Speaker 11: Any good guy friend. Yeah, I'm there for some steaks.

2383
02:00:59,360 --> 02:01:02,440
Speaker 11: Luckily the old job done, so I didn't come with

2384
02:01:02,480 --> 02:01:05,360
Speaker 11: it because it was just me and him. There mistakes

2385
02:01:05,520 --> 02:01:07,840
Speaker 11: that would have been a little weird. But I'm not

2386
02:01:07,880 --> 02:01:09,520
Speaker 11: sure if he's hitting at anything. I don't know if

2387
02:01:09,520 --> 02:01:12,080
Speaker 11: he's a listener of the pod. So I just thought

2388
02:01:12,120 --> 02:01:14,160
Speaker 11: it was pretty funny this morning, going shit, I just

2389
02:01:14,160 --> 02:01:16,880
Speaker 11: went over to my best friend's house. That's a guy,

2390
02:01:17,160 --> 02:01:19,840
Speaker 11: just us two for steak and blow job day. Hopefull

2391
02:01:19,880 --> 02:01:22,680
Speaker 11: The neighbors didn't think anything of it, see you boys.

2392
02:01:23,040 --> 02:01:25,680
Speaker 5: And it's all you know, it's all about optics in

2393
02:01:25,720 --> 02:01:29,360
Speaker 5: a situation like that, it's all about optics.

2394
02:01:29,560 --> 02:01:32,839
Speaker 2: I love that this st six are called in Yeah, dude,

2395
02:01:33,160 --> 02:01:35,680
Speaker 2: and the assumption, like hope, the neighbors didn't think anything.

2396
02:01:35,800 --> 02:01:37,960
Speaker 1: Like the neighbors are also big fans of the pod.

2397
02:01:38,440 --> 02:01:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're looking at the wind. Oh but you see

2398
02:01:41,360 --> 02:01:44,520
Speaker 2: Tim going over to John's house. I see him grilling

2399
02:01:44,560 --> 02:01:50,839
Speaker 2: steaks in the backyard. You think, no, Tim, There's no way.

2400
02:01:50,960 --> 02:01:55,840
Speaker 1: I see Tim wearing a BT six shirt. No, not Tim.

2401
02:01:56,000 --> 02:02:03,240
Speaker 1: Not in Montana was the most Montana thing in the

2402
02:02:03,360 --> 02:02:08,080
Speaker 1: entire world. And hey, if you we ain't against anything,

2403
02:02:08,120 --> 02:02:10,840
Speaker 1: we ain't. No, no, no, no, no, we aint John No.

2404
02:02:11,400 --> 02:02:14,400
Speaker 1: If they did, you know, a happy steak day? Yeah,

2405
02:02:14,480 --> 02:02:16,480
Speaker 1: if they had been a happy Steak and BJ day,

2406
02:02:16,480 --> 02:02:20,440
Speaker 1: Happy steak and b J. Look look, buddy, listen on

2407
02:02:20,480 --> 02:02:22,640
Speaker 1: this side of the mountain. You know I hear you

2408
02:02:23,320 --> 02:02:28,040
Speaker 1: in Montana. Yeah, broke back, broke back mountain. I love

2409
02:02:28,120 --> 02:02:30,560
Speaker 1: that our brain. Thank you. That was a.

2410
02:02:30,480 --> 02:02:32,240
Speaker 6: Beautiful night that he thought of this on the way

2411
02:02:32,280 --> 02:02:34,200
Speaker 6: to church. That was my favorite party.

2412
02:02:35,560 --> 02:02:37,960
Speaker 2: Excuse me, father, can I get a confession? Can I

2413
02:02:37,960 --> 02:02:39,840
Speaker 2: get you in the confession room?

2414
02:02:40,160 --> 02:02:43,040
Speaker 1: Yes? My son going do nothing, but just the sin

2415
02:02:43,200 --> 02:02:47,960
Speaker 1: was weighing on me. How many ounces was the antelope steak?

2416
02:02:48,040 --> 02:02:51,120
Speaker 1: My son, I don't know. It was like a tenderloin.

2417
02:02:51,160 --> 02:02:55,200
Speaker 1: It was probably like eight ounces. Daniel Mary's.

2418
02:03:00,760 --> 02:03:05,400
Speaker 5: Thank you father. That's incredible. I get to take a

2419
02:03:05,480 --> 02:03:09,160
Speaker 5: road trip is our third and last voice.

2420
02:03:09,200 --> 02:03:15,440
Speaker 9: Now, Hey, what's up boys? Joe Philadelphia? First time, long time.

2421
02:03:16,800 --> 02:03:18,840
Speaker 9: I'm calling on a road trip to get my road

2422
02:03:18,840 --> 02:03:22,360
Speaker 9: trip badge. Today taking my daughter three months old and

2423
02:03:22,440 --> 02:03:26,680
Speaker 9: my dog, my Puffy Bo two years old, from Philadelphia

2424
02:03:26,720 --> 02:03:30,720
Speaker 9: to New Hampshire. I get to stop every two hours

2425
02:03:30,760 --> 02:03:34,360
Speaker 9: to feed her with a bottle. I get to turn

2426
02:03:34,400 --> 02:03:37,040
Speaker 9: a five hour drive into a seven hour drive. I

2427
02:03:37,040 --> 02:03:39,120
Speaker 9: get to do all of this just so that way

2428
02:03:39,240 --> 02:03:42,880
Speaker 9: my wife she has to she has to take some sacrifices.

2429
02:03:42,920 --> 02:03:44,200
Speaker 9: She has to go into the office.

2430
02:03:44,960 --> 02:03:46,360
Speaker 1: So today she's.

2431
02:03:46,160 --> 02:03:48,240
Speaker 9: Probably gonna have to go to brunch with the girls.

2432
02:03:48,560 --> 02:03:53,240
Speaker 9: She's probably gonna have to eat ice cream tonight without

2433
02:03:53,240 --> 02:03:56,040
Speaker 9: me on the couch before bed.

2434
02:03:56,280 --> 02:03:58,560
Speaker 1: She's gonna have to do those things. She's gonna have

2435
02:03:58,600 --> 02:03:59,840
Speaker 1: to make those sacrifices.

2436
02:04:00,120 --> 02:04:03,000
Speaker 9: Yeah, but I get to go on a road trip

2437
02:04:03,080 --> 02:04:06,160
Speaker 9: with my three month old daughter. Stop every two hours

2438
02:04:06,360 --> 02:04:08,040
Speaker 9: on a drive that I normally can just do straight

2439
02:04:08,080 --> 02:04:12,240
Speaker 9: through without stopping for gas. But I get to peter

2440
02:04:12,440 --> 02:04:15,560
Speaker 9: that bottle every two hours. I give you guys an updates.

2441
02:04:15,560 --> 02:04:18,280
Speaker 9: A fie managed to stay this positive for the rest

2442
02:04:18,280 --> 02:04:25,000
Speaker 9: of the ride, Thank you, and stays m Stay hard, man.

2443
02:04:24,960 --> 02:04:26,040
Speaker 1: Stay hard.

2444
02:04:25,680 --> 02:04:28,840
Speaker 5: He gets to clean the poop that seeps out of

2445
02:04:28,880 --> 02:04:30,680
Speaker 5: the diaper because you forgot to change it at the

2446
02:04:30,720 --> 02:04:31,560
Speaker 5: last bottle feed.

2447
02:04:31,720 --> 02:04:34,680
Speaker 2: You get to listen on the same song on repeat

2448
02:04:34,760 --> 02:04:38,040
Speaker 2: if you have a lullaby go to and you need

2449
02:04:38,080 --> 02:04:39,240
Speaker 2: the little one to fall.

2450
02:04:39,080 --> 02:04:42,880
Speaker 5: Asleep, yeah, or the shusher will. Have you ever had

2451
02:04:42,920 --> 02:04:45,800
Speaker 5: the pleasure of a road trip with the shusher.

2452
02:04:46,320 --> 02:04:51,760
Speaker 1: Tell me more s oh with the white non, Oh,

2453
02:04:52,080 --> 02:04:54,560
Speaker 1: it's actually going or you're the susher.

2454
02:04:55,240 --> 02:04:57,560
Speaker 5: No, it's a nice little it's on repeat. It's a

2455
02:04:57,640 --> 02:05:00,200
Speaker 5: nice little ten hour shusher.

2456
02:05:00,400 --> 02:05:03,520
Speaker 1: That is. It's great for any road traveling. You get

2457
02:05:03,560 --> 02:05:05,920
Speaker 1: to listen to that. If the kiddo's in the back,

2458
02:05:09,600 --> 02:05:13,320
Speaker 1: good news, who knows. I hope everything went well. Yeah yeah,

2459
02:05:13,320 --> 02:05:16,000
Speaker 1: but getting to with the three month old compared to

2460
02:05:16,040 --> 02:05:19,280
Speaker 1: one a little bit older when it gets harder to travel, yeah,

2461
02:05:19,400 --> 02:05:22,080
Speaker 1: you do. There there's some silver lining there. I was

2462
02:05:22,120 --> 02:05:23,880
Speaker 1: about to say, if he because I've been on some

2463
02:05:24,000 --> 02:05:28,120
Speaker 1: sicko road trips and I'm looking at you, Scotty. If

2464
02:05:28,160 --> 02:05:32,840
Speaker 1: you can time it with sleep, that's we've talked about this,

2465
02:05:32,960 --> 02:05:37,600
Speaker 1: Dad hack. You're right, you are one thousand percent. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

2466
02:05:37,640 --> 02:05:41,520
Speaker 1: but sometimes ship hits the ship hits the fan and

2467
02:05:41,560 --> 02:05:44,760
Speaker 1: it doesn't go according to plan. Yeah yeah, yeah, and

2468
02:05:44,800 --> 02:05:50,240
Speaker 1: Scotty's one of them. Scotty's got her dad in her.

2469
02:05:51,080 --> 02:05:52,760
Speaker 1: He got that competent, but you got that a get

2470
02:05:52,840 --> 02:05:54,600
Speaker 1: mentality when she's strapped in that car seat.

2471
02:05:55,320 --> 02:05:55,480
Speaker 7: Bro.

2472
02:05:56,160 --> 02:05:58,680
Speaker 2: Matter of fact, you just fucking it wasn't five hours

2473
02:05:58,760 --> 02:06:02,480
Speaker 2: or seven hours. It was thirty minutes. We went to

2474
02:06:03,280 --> 02:06:08,800
Speaker 2: Parenne down in Franklin last Thursday, I believe, maybe it

2475
02:06:08,840 --> 02:06:11,560
Speaker 2: was a Thursday, maybe.

2476
02:06:11,280 --> 02:06:11,959
Speaker 1: It was a Wednesday.

2477
02:06:13,160 --> 02:06:17,360
Speaker 2: And had a wonderful dinner, had a wonderful meal, Parenne

2478
02:06:17,480 --> 02:06:21,040
Speaker 2: great food. Went there for dinner, Yeah, got me some

2479
02:06:21,320 --> 02:06:26,160
Speaker 2: steak and fries, and on the way home, I had

2480
02:06:26,200 --> 02:06:30,760
Speaker 2: the obviously drove ruined Scotti there to me mom. Mama

2481
02:06:30,840 --> 02:06:35,240
Speaker 2: was doing her her I think paradigm check in, so

2482
02:06:35,320 --> 02:06:40,280
Speaker 2: her health check in, and met her at the restaurant.

2483
02:06:40,640 --> 02:06:43,360
Speaker 2: Restaurant was great. On the way home, we were gonna

2484
02:06:43,360 --> 02:06:47,680
Speaker 2: split both kiddos. We were wonder to have Mama. I'll take Scotty.

2485
02:06:48,360 --> 02:06:50,800
Speaker 2: Scotti is such a mama's girl right now. She is

2486
02:06:50,920 --> 02:06:54,320
Speaker 2: such a mama's girl. Loves Mama, dude. She loves her

2487
02:06:54,400 --> 02:06:57,080
Speaker 2: dad too, But it's I'm talking glued to him. Mama

2488
02:06:57,120 --> 02:06:59,560
Speaker 2: is the answer. Mam is the safe space. Mam is

2489
02:06:59,600 --> 02:07:05,240
Speaker 2: the salution. She missed Mom the entire thirty minutes. I'm

2490
02:07:05,280 --> 02:07:10,280
Speaker 2: talking screaming bloody murder in the truck, dude, and I'm

2491
02:07:10,320 --> 02:07:13,120
Speaker 2: throwing all seven different kinds of smoke yeah to her.

2492
02:07:13,200 --> 02:07:15,000
Speaker 2: Eventually I lost my shit.

2493
02:07:16,560 --> 02:07:22,480
Speaker 1: Scotty, you gotta shut up. Might not have been shut up,

2494
02:07:22,520 --> 02:07:26,560
Speaker 1: but it's like, you gotta stop crying. Come on, man,

2495
02:07:26,640 --> 02:07:27,240
Speaker 1: work with me.

2496
02:07:30,320 --> 02:07:34,480
Speaker 2: Ah, dude, I couldn't take it, of course, pulling my

2497
02:07:34,520 --> 02:07:36,560
Speaker 2: phone text a wife, Scotty's losing it.

2498
02:07:36,680 --> 02:07:36,880
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2499
02:07:38,840 --> 02:07:44,520
Speaker 2: I hold the entire way home. Then I get out, park,

2500
02:07:45,280 --> 02:07:47,640
Speaker 2: truck goes off. She stops crying when the truck goes

2501
02:07:47,680 --> 02:07:49,600
Speaker 2: off another car. I look back at her. She's got,

2502
02:07:49,600 --> 02:07:52,040
Speaker 2: you know, the tears, her welted eyes, the saddest thing

2503
02:07:52,040 --> 02:07:55,920
Speaker 2: in the world. Pull her out, kind of like a

2504
02:07:56,000 --> 02:07:57,760
Speaker 2: jerk motion to get her out, and like just set

2505
02:07:57,800 --> 02:07:59,440
Speaker 2: her on the ground while I get the backpack and

2506
02:07:59,480 --> 02:07:59,960
Speaker 2: everything else.

2507
02:08:00,200 --> 02:08:02,480
Speaker 1: I'm pissed. Yeah, yeah, because I'm like, dude, what the

2508
02:08:02,520 --> 02:08:06,960
Speaker 1: fuck are we doing? Man? Like I'm dropped delivery apparently. Yeah, dude,

2509
02:08:07,000 --> 02:08:09,400
Speaker 1: we're gonna get home. You're gonna see mom again. Yeah,

2510
02:08:09,560 --> 02:08:11,360
Speaker 1: pick her up, going, set her on the kitchen counter.

2511
02:08:12,080 --> 02:08:14,360
Speaker 1: I sit on the kitchen counter. It's silent in the house.

2512
02:08:14,840 --> 02:08:17,120
Speaker 1: Feel waffle down on my feet, and I'm just looking

2513
02:08:17,120 --> 02:08:20,240
Speaker 1: at Scotty. I'm like, dude, what was that? What are

2514
02:08:20,240 --> 02:08:21,400
Speaker 1: you doing? We're home?

2515
02:08:21,560 --> 02:08:25,640
Speaker 2: I told you we're coming home. Yeah, like, dude, we're

2516
02:08:25,680 --> 02:08:28,120
Speaker 2: beefing right now. Yeah, told her straight up. I'm like,

2517
02:08:28,120 --> 02:08:30,960
Speaker 2: when mom gets home, I'm telling this to Scotti. When

2518
02:08:30,960 --> 02:08:32,840
Speaker 2: Mom gets home, I'm giving her the bottle, and I'm like,

2519
02:08:33,040 --> 02:08:37,920
Speaker 2: you got Scotti because I'm done with you. Yeah, I

2520
02:08:37,960 --> 02:08:41,080
Speaker 2: can't talk to you right now. I don't negotiate with Terry. Yeah,

2521
02:08:41,320 --> 02:08:42,640
Speaker 2: guess what you're being right now.

2522
02:08:44,280 --> 02:08:47,120
Speaker 5: Also, I don't I don't say this to pick on you.

2523
02:08:47,280 --> 02:08:49,720
Speaker 5: I say this because it was really fun to get

2524
02:08:49,760 --> 02:08:53,840
Speaker 5: to see it. I've never seen you lose yourself ever,

2525
02:08:54,240 --> 02:08:57,960
Speaker 5: like upset wise, and I saw a hint of it

2526
02:08:58,040 --> 02:09:01,920
Speaker 5: at the zoo when you were trying to hand Rude

2527
02:09:01,920 --> 02:09:03,760
Speaker 5: the beef jerky stick the beefstick.

2528
02:09:04,200 --> 02:09:06,400
Speaker 1: Do you remember that? Were we about to get on

2529
02:09:06,400 --> 02:09:07,440
Speaker 1: the train? You know?

2530
02:09:07,600 --> 02:09:10,880
Speaker 5: Wait, it was actually right after the train and you

2531
02:09:11,000 --> 02:09:16,360
Speaker 5: had said like four times in a row, rue beefstick, beastick,

2532
02:09:16,440 --> 02:09:19,440
Speaker 5: rue beefstick. And I think she may have been talking

2533
02:09:19,480 --> 02:09:19,680
Speaker 5: to me.

2534
02:09:20,040 --> 02:09:21,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she's probably telling you the story she

2535
02:09:22,320 --> 02:09:27,520
Speaker 1: told me a story. You just go after the fourth one,

2536
02:09:27,520 --> 02:09:34,240
Speaker 1: you go for the love of God, and she finally

2537
02:09:34,280 --> 02:09:38,600
Speaker 1: took it from me, and you go and just hearing

2538
02:09:38,600 --> 02:09:41,600
Speaker 1: that tone in your voice made giggle. Dude, it was

2539
02:09:41,760 --> 02:09:43,720
Speaker 1: so funny. I lost in the trunk.

2540
02:09:43,880 --> 02:09:45,600
Speaker 2: It was like a sling. It was like a five

2541
02:09:45,680 --> 02:09:50,240
Speaker 2: second moment. You do the thing, you turn up the music.

2542
02:09:50,440 --> 02:09:52,160
Speaker 2: You'll want to try and beat you with this music.

2543
02:09:52,320 --> 02:09:54,240
Speaker 2: I can't do it. I'm just like Scottie. I'm like

2544
02:09:54,280 --> 02:09:57,600
Speaker 2: reaching back, trying to like rock right to stop, Like sweetheart,

2545
02:09:57,680 --> 02:10:01,720
Speaker 2: you got lama, you need wa for the love of God,

2546
02:10:01,840 --> 02:10:02,360
Speaker 2: talk to me.

2547
02:10:03,280 --> 02:10:06,680
Speaker 1: Let's going. We're going to be home in twenty minutes.

2548
02:10:09,080 --> 02:10:12,240
Speaker 5: The closest I come is just that beat, the drum

2549
02:10:12,600 --> 02:10:16,440
Speaker 5: story that I told you of. Oh my god, the

2550
02:10:16,480 --> 02:10:19,520
Speaker 5: grip that I had on the steering wheel, and I

2551
02:10:19,560 --> 02:10:20,880
Speaker 5: was in some sour mood.

2552
02:10:20,920 --> 02:10:24,680
Speaker 1: Would to get back there and shake me? I did?

2553
02:10:24,840 --> 02:10:29,960
Speaker 1: I grab her seat a scarlet. Let's quit hitting that

2554
02:10:30,040 --> 02:10:34,920
Speaker 1: fucking button. What are we doing? You've hit it thirty times.

2555
02:10:35,680 --> 02:10:37,400
Speaker 5: Not to change the mead too much, but I do

2556
02:10:37,560 --> 02:10:41,480
Speaker 5: have it says on here, sad, sad sad warning. Oh

2557
02:10:44,320 --> 02:10:47,800
Speaker 5: are you okay with that? I'm good with a sad warning. Okay,

2558
02:10:49,040 --> 02:10:55,000
Speaker 5: I'll walk in here, fellas. I'm writing to you too,

2559
02:10:55,160 --> 02:10:58,440
Speaker 5: as fellow dads, and to all the other dads out there.

2560
02:10:58,440 --> 02:10:58,879
Speaker 1: Listening.

2561
02:10:59,120 --> 02:11:01,840
Speaker 5: Some of you may know what I'm going through and

2562
02:11:01,880 --> 02:11:07,960
Speaker 5: some may not. From those who have been through this before,

2563
02:11:08,000 --> 02:11:10,960
Speaker 5: I asked for sympathy. For those who haven't, I simply

2564
02:11:11,000 --> 02:11:13,800
Speaker 5: asked for prayers. There's no easy way to put this,

2565
02:11:13,960 --> 02:11:17,160
Speaker 5: but my wife is leaving me. It certainly is a

2566
02:11:17,200 --> 02:11:20,920
Speaker 5: shock to see the sentence written out, but I can't

2567
02:11:20,960 --> 02:11:23,480
Speaker 5: say I didn't know that this was coming. It's something

2568
02:11:23,520 --> 02:11:27,839
Speaker 5: I've dreaded, but my wife and I have been talking

2569
02:11:27,880 --> 02:11:30,160
Speaker 5: about it for months, and the day has finally come.

2570
02:11:30,680 --> 02:11:33,160
Speaker 5: The worst part about all of this is she's taking

2571
02:11:33,160 --> 02:11:37,520
Speaker 5: my eighteen month old daughter and my unborn daughter in parentheses.

2572
02:11:37,680 --> 02:11:41,440
Speaker 5: My wife is pregnant with our second She's taking them

2573
02:11:41,640 --> 02:11:44,560
Speaker 5: with her. I pleaded and begged with my wife that

2574
02:11:44,680 --> 02:11:47,080
Speaker 5: my daughter could stay with me, but it was a

2575
02:11:47,080 --> 02:11:50,400
Speaker 5: fight I was never going to win. And now flights

2576
02:11:50,440 --> 02:11:53,120
Speaker 5: are booked, bags are packed, and I'm watching the three

2577
02:11:53,120 --> 02:11:56,480
Speaker 5: biggest loves of my life leave out my door while

2578
02:11:56,520 --> 02:11:59,680
Speaker 5: tears stream down my face. I'm not sure what to

2579
02:11:59,720 --> 02:12:02,640
Speaker 5: do with myself. I'm not sure how I'll survive. These

2580
02:12:02,680 --> 02:12:05,600
Speaker 5: four days are going to be the hardest of my life.

2581
02:12:06,600 --> 02:12:09,160
Speaker 5: I should probably give more context. My wife is flying

2582
02:12:09,200 --> 02:12:12,400
Speaker 5: with my daughters to go see her best friend's baby

2583
02:12:12,400 --> 02:12:13,280
Speaker 5: shower out of town.

2584
02:12:14,880 --> 02:12:16,160
Speaker 1: I begged her to let.

2585
02:12:15,960 --> 02:12:18,080
Speaker 5: Me come along, but she kept telling me things like

2586
02:12:18,160 --> 02:12:21,400
Speaker 5: it's only four days and it's an all girls shower,

2587
02:12:21,480 --> 02:12:24,280
Speaker 5: and stop lying. There's a zero percent chance you actually

2588
02:12:24,320 --> 02:12:27,440
Speaker 5: want to come. Maybe the first part of my email

2589
02:12:27,480 --> 02:12:30,240
Speaker 5: was a bit dramatic, but I'm obviously still stressed about

2590
02:12:30,280 --> 02:12:32,560
Speaker 5: what I'm going to do this coming weekend. She's a

2591
02:12:32,600 --> 02:12:35,120
Speaker 5: great cook, so I'll be missing out on her cooking,

2592
02:12:35,600 --> 02:12:37,640
Speaker 5: so I'll probably have to order a pizza and wings

2593
02:12:37,760 --> 02:12:38,440
Speaker 5: just to survive.

2594
02:12:39,000 --> 02:12:41,360
Speaker 1: And I'll probably be lonely, so.

2595
02:12:41,520 --> 02:12:43,520
Speaker 5: I'll probably have to go out to the bar and

2596
02:12:43,560 --> 02:12:48,280
Speaker 5: watch college basketball with boys just to distract myself. And

2597
02:12:48,320 --> 02:12:50,720
Speaker 5: the house is probably going to be really, really peaceful

2598
02:12:50,760 --> 02:12:53,960
Speaker 5: and quiet, and that's probably going to be devastating. Anyways,

2599
02:12:54,080 --> 02:12:58,400
Speaker 5: this coming weekend is going to be absolutely brutal on

2600
02:12:58,480 --> 02:13:02,440
Speaker 5: me this weekend, So any and all prayers you can send.

2601
02:13:02,240 --> 02:13:06,200
Speaker 1: My way love the pod. It makes it so.

2602
02:13:06,360 --> 02:13:09,200
Speaker 5: Comforting knowing that there's other dads out there going through

2603
02:13:09,240 --> 02:13:12,520
Speaker 5: the same little struggles and that we're not alone. Wishing

2604
02:13:12,560 --> 02:13:15,280
Speaker 5: you guys the best from a very lonely and depressing

2605
02:13:15,640 --> 02:13:23,880
Speaker 5: and not at all awesome home this weekend, dom.

2606
02:13:21,080 --> 02:13:38,400
Speaker 1: Can I say something? Yeah, fuck you, bro, that's an

2607
02:13:38,400 --> 02:13:40,720
Speaker 1: April First, that's an April First show.

2608
02:13:43,120 --> 02:13:47,680
Speaker 2: No, I didn't start to transition until you said beats

2609
02:13:47,680 --> 02:13:54,400
Speaker 2: and wings. Yeah, it took me along. Dudes, like I'm

2610
02:13:54,440 --> 02:13:58,160
Speaker 2: trying to put some stuff together, Like I'm thinking.

2611
02:13:58,080 --> 02:14:01,360
Speaker 1: Wheels going in your head. I was sad for him.

2612
02:14:01,400 --> 02:14:05,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, we you know this, dude wrote in Yeah,

2613
02:14:05,280 --> 02:14:09,520
Speaker 2: he's talking about his wife leaving him. Yeah, like I'm

2614
02:14:09,520 --> 02:14:13,000
Speaker 2: thinking divorce, like leaving a lot of us did. And

2615
02:14:13,080 --> 02:14:15,160
Speaker 2: the four day thing. I started to get confused. I'm like,

2616
02:14:15,200 --> 02:14:17,600
Speaker 2: so wait a minute, like im think getting divorced. And

2617
02:14:17,640 --> 02:14:19,280
Speaker 2: he's wanted to go on this baby shower. It's an

2618
02:14:19,280 --> 02:14:22,080
Speaker 2: all girls one. It's an all girls one stop one.

2619
02:14:22,120 --> 02:14:24,640
Speaker 2: You don't even want to come. And I'm thinking, is

2620
02:14:24,680 --> 02:14:28,320
Speaker 2: she cheating on him? Wish not letting him come? If

2621
02:14:28,360 --> 02:14:30,560
Speaker 2: this is his last hurrah with seeing the kids, Like,

2622
02:14:30,680 --> 02:14:31,839
Speaker 2: let me come to the dude.

2623
02:14:31,920 --> 02:14:35,160
Speaker 5: Maybe even worse than cheating you, bro, She's taking the

2624
02:14:35,240 --> 02:14:36,960
Speaker 5: kids to a baby shower out of town.

2625
02:14:37,240 --> 02:14:39,080
Speaker 6: The worst part about it all was Sureon was talking

2626
02:14:39,120 --> 02:14:41,240
Speaker 6: earlier about how like I don't even look at the voicemails,

2627
02:14:41,280 --> 02:14:43,400
Speaker 6: I trust you. He got halfway through that and he's like,

2628
02:14:43,440 --> 02:14:45,320
Speaker 6: should we add this to the show, Like this is

2629
02:14:45,360 --> 02:14:46,040
Speaker 6: fucking sad?

2630
02:14:46,160 --> 02:14:48,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't listen to the voicemails, but I read.

2631
02:14:48,760 --> 02:14:52,840
Speaker 5: I read the emails, and that one had me for

2632
02:14:52,960 --> 02:14:54,920
Speaker 5: like the first half, and then once he got to

2633
02:14:55,000 --> 02:14:58,200
Speaker 5: the the four days part, I'm like, wait, hold.

2634
02:14:57,960 --> 02:15:00,240
Speaker 2: On, Yeah, I started to get confused. I'm like, is

2635
02:15:01,400 --> 02:15:05,840
Speaker 2: it's just like there, she's leaving him. Excuse me, She's

2636
02:15:05,880 --> 02:15:08,240
Speaker 2: just going on the weekend baby shower. But is she

2637
02:15:08,360 --> 02:15:11,160
Speaker 2: coming back? I'm only gonna be going four days And

2638
02:15:11,160 --> 02:15:14,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, so what's that. That's kind of a

2639
02:15:14,120 --> 02:15:17,160
Speaker 2: weird way to separate. And then maybe he just wanted

2640
02:15:17,200 --> 02:15:20,000
Speaker 2: to last, like just be around the family one last time,

2641
02:15:21,120 --> 02:15:23,240
Speaker 2: and then she doesn't want him to come. I'm like, okay,

2642
02:15:23,280 --> 02:15:26,680
Speaker 2: maybe she's she's got some other motive. And then when

2643
02:15:26,720 --> 02:15:28,320
Speaker 2: you hit the pizza and wings, I'm thinking, oh, that's

2644
02:15:28,400 --> 02:15:30,880
Speaker 2: kind of a maybe he's just trying to jive with

2645
02:15:30,920 --> 02:15:34,240
Speaker 2: the brand while he's telling us something really deep and serious,

2646
02:15:34,280 --> 02:15:36,840
Speaker 2: and I'm sitting here thinking like, man, I don't have

2647
02:15:36,920 --> 02:15:39,840
Speaker 2: words for him other than just a beck I'm really

2648
02:15:39,880 --> 02:15:40,640
Speaker 2: sorry you're going through that.

2649
02:15:41,800 --> 02:15:44,400
Speaker 1: We'll sit with you in this. I probably still don't

2650
02:15:44,400 --> 02:15:46,160
Speaker 1: have words for him now that I have the full picture.

2651
02:15:46,280 --> 02:15:50,320
Speaker 1: But but the whole turn or it's just he's sad

2652
02:15:50,480 --> 02:15:54,480
Speaker 1: because he's living for a weekend that we will. Is

2653
02:15:54,520 --> 02:15:57,680
Speaker 1: that not a big deal? Yeah, I'm sorry, a huge deal.

2654
02:15:57,800 --> 02:16:00,440
Speaker 1: But the sad alerts we cry every week, we all

2655
02:16:00,440 --> 02:16:03,080
Speaker 1: these this dude's be a vulnerable comeou, his wife's leaving

2656
02:16:03,120 --> 02:16:05,800
Speaker 1: him for this on board Chok, Well now it's for now.

2657
02:16:05,880 --> 02:16:08,760
Speaker 1: It's a joke. Now it's it's a joke.

2658
02:16:09,480 --> 02:16:15,080
Speaker 2: What No, anybody that's been listening to pod for this

2659
02:16:15,200 --> 02:16:18,760
Speaker 2: long and got to that moment. The sad alert, everything

2660
02:16:18,760 --> 02:16:21,720
Speaker 2: that goes on with us each week, the tears. A

2661
02:16:21,840 --> 02:16:23,720
Speaker 2: main cream was sad alert written on the sheet.

2662
02:16:23,880 --> 02:16:25,440
Speaker 1: There wasn't actually saddlert written.

2663
02:16:26,280 --> 02:16:28,640
Speaker 6: Just for the record, I added that that's a Sherman

2664
02:16:28,680 --> 02:16:29,360
Speaker 6: Young original.

2665
02:16:29,720 --> 02:16:31,880
Speaker 1: I did it great, that was great. Thank you. He

2666
02:16:31,960 --> 02:16:34,280
Speaker 1: had me. You had me the whole way until I'm

2667
02:16:34,320 --> 02:16:37,360
Speaker 1: like these motherfuckers, bro, he has to get the whole

2668
02:16:37,680 --> 02:16:39,480
Speaker 1: you know, if if you've gone through this, I asked

2669
02:16:39,480 --> 02:16:41,800
Speaker 1: for some sympathy if you haven't pray for me, and

2670
02:16:41,840 --> 02:16:45,920
Speaker 1: then leading with the my she's leaving me. Yeah, for

2671
02:16:45,959 --> 02:16:50,960
Speaker 1: four days during March. This is March, this is this

2672
02:16:51,000 --> 02:16:52,199
Speaker 1: is Mars March.

2673
02:16:52,920 --> 02:16:57,960
Speaker 5: There goes my bracket. Bracket busted. Who wrote that in

2674
02:17:00,520 --> 02:17:02,760
Speaker 5: Dominic Rosa dominic Rosa?

2675
02:17:03,480 --> 02:17:07,359
Speaker 2: Well gratitud yes great, yeah, because you also was fluffing

2676
02:17:07,440 --> 02:17:07,960
Speaker 2: it as well.

2677
02:17:08,680 --> 02:17:11,680
Speaker 1: I'm thinking I'm about to tear up. I'm supposed to

2678
02:17:11,720 --> 02:17:12,120
Speaker 1: tear it up.

2679
02:17:12,160 --> 02:17:13,959
Speaker 2: I'm thinking, how do I sit in this moment with

2680
02:17:14,000 --> 02:17:16,440
Speaker 2: him versus just like giving him. I hope he's not

2681
02:17:16,480 --> 02:17:19,080
Speaker 2: like wanting us to give advice because I'm thinking, dude,

2682
02:17:19,080 --> 02:17:19,640
Speaker 2: I don't know.

2683
02:17:19,959 --> 02:17:24,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's brutal. It's still very serious. That's still it's

2684
02:17:24,440 --> 02:17:29,520
Speaker 1: still joke. That run that is it's not very serious,

2685
02:17:29,920 --> 02:17:32,720
Speaker 1: well crafted, well written. Siran was on board, I.

2686
02:17:32,840 --> 02:17:35,400
Speaker 5: Was well on air. I do want to say I

2687
02:17:35,440 --> 02:17:37,039
Speaker 5: am sorry if if that.

2688
02:17:37,480 --> 02:17:41,840
Speaker 1: If that did gut you. I thought we we thought

2689
02:17:41,840 --> 02:17:44,680
Speaker 1: she was leaving him. Then I thought she's cheating on him.

2690
02:17:45,120 --> 02:17:47,400
Speaker 1: We often he's just writing to us like he's like,

2691
02:17:47,680 --> 02:17:51,600
Speaker 1: I'm going to write into the boys. Yeah.

2692
02:17:51,760 --> 02:17:54,760
Speaker 5: When we do have sad stuff on here, we we

2693
02:17:54,840 --> 02:18:00,439
Speaker 5: try to celebrate like somebody in their sadness for anybody

2694
02:18:00,480 --> 02:18:03,600
Speaker 5: that does write actual sad things into the podcast, because

2695
02:18:04,000 --> 02:18:07,480
Speaker 5: we do often read that, and we do love coming

2696
02:18:07,560 --> 02:18:09,440
Speaker 5: around our brothers, So for.

2697
02:18:09,360 --> 02:18:11,120
Speaker 1: Sure, we love putting arms around our guys.

2698
02:18:11,160 --> 02:18:13,200
Speaker 5: We love putting our arms around our guys, so we

2699
02:18:13,240 --> 02:18:17,080
Speaker 5: will put that out there. But I could, I could

2700
02:18:17,080 --> 02:18:20,680
Speaker 5: see why you'd be a little sad boy on that,

2701
02:18:20,720 --> 02:18:23,039
Speaker 5: and I apologize if that hit.

2702
02:18:23,040 --> 02:18:27,680
Speaker 1: Too those great you got me good, domb got us?

2703
02:18:28,240 --> 02:18:35,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, and like obviously best wishes to Dom yeah best, yeah, yeah,

2704
02:18:35,480 --> 02:18:37,040
Speaker 5: did you have something else?

2705
02:18:38,240 --> 02:18:41,039
Speaker 1: My comments are kind of everywhere. I think they're right

2706
02:18:41,080 --> 02:18:44,480
Speaker 1: here next to our Dan Gable. Oh, bobble Head, it's

2707
02:18:44,560 --> 02:19:01,440
Speaker 1: hide and mind the the rabbit. Okay, I got a couple,

2708
02:19:02,160 --> 02:19:09,880
Speaker 1: I'll rip these. Where are we at two fifteen? Should

2709
02:19:09,879 --> 02:19:10,920
Speaker 1: we just rip these? In rock?

2710
02:19:11,840 --> 02:19:14,560
Speaker 5: I have a lesson of the week. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yes,

2711
02:19:14,959 --> 02:19:15,400
Speaker 5: one of those.

2712
02:19:15,440 --> 02:19:15,959
Speaker 1: And then.

2713
02:19:17,520 --> 02:19:21,720
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. What's up boys? Cube here Evan

2714
02:19:21,840 --> 02:19:26,200
Speaker 2: Coop tier one with the boys. Coob, you gotta give

2715
02:19:26,240 --> 02:19:30,199
Speaker 2: our boy Cooper comstock graphic credit.

2716
02:19:31,440 --> 02:19:32,440
Speaker 1: When you use this graphic.

2717
02:19:32,640 --> 02:19:37,520
Speaker 2: Yes, love Coob absolutely certified Tier one sicco pt sicco

2718
02:19:37,680 --> 02:19:38,440
Speaker 2: as t Siko.

2719
02:19:38,840 --> 02:19:40,880
Speaker 1: I think he's went through butts training because you're a

2720
02:19:41,040 --> 02:19:43,640
Speaker 1: very big clips page for four Yes.

2721
02:19:43,440 --> 02:19:47,400
Speaker 2: Yes, check it out. Just wanted to share some big news.

2722
02:19:47,480 --> 02:19:49,359
Speaker 2: I'm becoming a dad this October.

2723
02:19:51,320 --> 02:19:53,560
Speaker 1: Come on, come on.

2724
02:19:54,879 --> 02:19:56,760
Speaker 2: Been rocked with for the dads and busting for a

2725
02:19:56,800 --> 02:20:00,240
Speaker 2: long time. Now he has He's again this This is

2726
02:20:00,240 --> 02:20:02,480
Speaker 2: a certified SICCO for the boys. And I've learned a

2727
02:20:02,480 --> 02:20:04,880
Speaker 2: ton from watching you guys build what you've built. It's

2728
02:20:04,879 --> 02:20:07,600
Speaker 2: honestly helped shape how I think about fatherhood, work ethic

2729
02:20:07,640 --> 02:20:10,160
Speaker 2: and showing up every day. One thing I'm excited to

2730
02:20:10,200 --> 02:20:12,840
Speaker 2: teach my son or daughter is to always bring value,

2731
02:20:13,000 --> 02:20:14,199
Speaker 2: but also know your worth.

2732
02:20:14,520 --> 02:20:16,199
Speaker 1: Work hard, be loyal, bet.

2733
02:20:16,000 --> 02:20:18,240
Speaker 2: On yourself, and when the time comes, don't be afraid

2734
02:20:18,280 --> 02:20:20,640
Speaker 2: to build your own table if a seat never opens up.

2735
02:20:21,240 --> 02:20:21,840
Speaker 1: I love that.

2736
02:20:22,840 --> 02:20:25,280
Speaker 2: Grateful for the inspiration you guys have given me over

2737
02:20:25,320 --> 02:20:29,279
Speaker 2: the years. Fatherhood's the biggest contract I'll ever sign. Appreciate

2738
02:20:29,320 --> 02:20:32,280
Speaker 2: you boys, Thank you for writing in man. This is

2739
02:20:32,320 --> 02:20:35,960
Speaker 2: awesome and congratulations to you and why he congratulations Bud's

2740
02:20:36,000 --> 02:20:36,880
Speaker 2: training complete.

2741
02:20:37,480 --> 02:20:40,360
Speaker 1: It's become a Ptsiko. I hope you had a good

2742
02:20:40,360 --> 02:20:44,280
Speaker 1: March fourteen. I hope you had a good march forward.

2743
02:20:44,240 --> 02:20:47,320
Speaker 1: You come on, come on, come on, I do have one.

2744
02:20:47,320 --> 02:20:48,920
Speaker 2: I want to hear it here because I saw something

2745
02:20:48,920 --> 02:20:51,800
Speaker 2: in here that I'm curious to read.

2746
02:20:52,120 --> 02:20:55,879
Speaker 1: Is from Timothy Callahan, Pt. Sixers. I wanted to tell you.

2747
02:20:55,920 --> 02:20:57,560
Speaker 2: The incredible story of what I like to think has

2748
02:20:57,640 --> 02:20:59,960
Speaker 2: led me to believe that everything does happen for a reason.

2749
02:21:00,640 --> 02:21:02,760
Speaker 2: For the last ten years, I've been a high functioning

2750
02:21:02,760 --> 02:21:05,920
Speaker 2: alcoholic from being the life of the party in college,

2751
02:21:05,959 --> 02:21:08,120
Speaker 2: so realizing as I prepared to leave my twenties that

2752
02:21:08,160 --> 02:21:11,720
Speaker 2: the party never stopped. I was the only one still

2753
02:21:11,720 --> 02:21:15,400
Speaker 2: partying this year. On my thirtieth birthday in September, something

2754
02:21:15,480 --> 02:21:18,800
Speaker 2: higher than me, something higher than me, told me that

2755
02:21:18,840 --> 02:21:21,520
Speaker 2: I'm done partying. I've tried to cut back on drinking

2756
02:21:21,520 --> 02:21:23,920
Speaker 2: in the past, but under my own power, I never succeeded.

2757
02:21:23,959 --> 02:21:26,520
Speaker 1: That this was different. It felt like a call. It

2758
02:21:26,520 --> 02:21:27,360
Speaker 1: felt like a calling.

2759
02:21:28,360 --> 02:21:30,720
Speaker 2: As months went by, staying dry and hitting the weights,

2760
02:21:30,800 --> 02:21:33,120
Speaker 2: my wife we got married in June last year, decided

2761
02:21:33,160 --> 02:21:35,760
Speaker 2: it was time to start trying. Was this because I

2762
02:21:35,800 --> 02:21:38,120
Speaker 2: was finally stepping up and being the man she always

2763
02:21:38,160 --> 02:21:41,320
Speaker 2: knew I could be? Was it my newfound motivation and

2764
02:21:41,360 --> 02:21:45,080
Speaker 2: success at work. Was it that I was in the

2765
02:21:45,120 --> 02:21:48,039
Speaker 2: best shape that I've been in since college? I'm still

2766
02:21:48,080 --> 02:21:52,520
Speaker 2: not sure, but nonetheless, nonetheless budge training was sick. Come on,

2767
02:21:53,640 --> 02:21:59,320
Speaker 2: I stress. I stress was eight weeks ago. I stress

2768
02:21:59,560 --> 02:22:04,440
Speaker 2: was eight weeks ago. I wonder, what do you mean.

2769
02:22:04,360 --> 02:22:06,880
Speaker 1: To go with? I stressed because eight weeks ago we okay,

2770
02:22:07,600 --> 02:22:08,440
Speaker 1: I was stressed.

2771
02:22:08,440 --> 02:22:11,400
Speaker 2: There we go that was probably I was stressed because

2772
02:22:11,440 --> 02:22:13,879
Speaker 2: eight weeks ago we found out that we're expecting. Eight

2773
02:22:13,920 --> 02:22:16,039
Speaker 2: weeks ago is also the week that my friend Austin

2774
02:22:16,520 --> 02:22:20,199
Speaker 2: introduced me to the pod, just days before learning the news.

2775
02:22:20,560 --> 02:22:24,560
Speaker 2: As as I near my six months sobriety milestone, listening

2776
02:22:24,640 --> 02:22:27,560
Speaker 2: and learning weekly, I've learned that it's a boy. The

2777
02:22:27,640 --> 02:22:31,400
Speaker 2: due date September twelfth, my thirty first birthday, and what

2778
02:22:31,480 --> 02:22:34,279
Speaker 2: will be exactly one year from making the best decision

2779
02:22:34,320 --> 02:22:37,560
Speaker 2: of my life, taking my life back. My wife Sarah

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Speaker 2: has supported me through everything. She was there when I

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Speaker 2: was struggling and celebrates all my successes.

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Speaker 1: Even the small ones.

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02:22:43,640 --> 02:22:45,440
Speaker 2: Listening to the pod makes me feel ready to be

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02:22:45,480 --> 02:22:48,000
Speaker 2: there for her for what I'm sure will be our hardest,

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02:22:48,040 --> 02:22:52,560
Speaker 2: most rewarding journey yet. Garbages are out dishes are done,

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Speaker 2: the dog is walked, steaks are dry. Aging for steak

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Speaker 2: and blowjob Day this Saturday, March fourteenth. Can't wait to

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Speaker 2: crack a celebratory ollipop this September, Tim, Tim, thank you

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Speaker 2: for writing in.

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Speaker 5: My friend tim very humbling email. Yeah, that canna keep

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Speaker 5: a humbling category, dude.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And thank you for sharing the high functioning alcoholic

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Speaker 2: all of that, dude.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing that story. Thank you for sharing

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Speaker 1: why you felt like.

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02:23:24,360 --> 02:23:26,879
Speaker 2: Those are the reasons that you turned everything around and

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Speaker 2: now you're about to be a dad. Yeah, which you're

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Speaker 2: right is the best thing in the world, the hardest

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Speaker 2: thing in the world. So congratulations man. That is awesome.

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Speaker 5: It makes this this podcast is really fun and cool

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Speaker 5: because we are currently wearing robes from a seance that

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02:23:43,040 --> 02:23:49,879
Speaker 5: we conducted earlier to you know ward Off the girl Dad.

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02:23:49,840 --> 02:23:52,240
Speaker 1: Or the curl Man, the girl on the Curse, rid

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02:23:52,280 --> 02:23:59,320
Speaker 1: ourselves of the curse. Also a pt Siko that introduced himself.

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02:23:59,320 --> 02:24:03,959
Speaker 5: I went to that Pokemon ripping packs thing with Taylor

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02:24:04,160 --> 02:24:07,280
Speaker 5: the expo and there was a pet Sico talking to

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02:24:07,360 --> 02:24:10,280
Speaker 5: him and he actually said he listened before the dads

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02:24:10,680 --> 02:24:12,760
Speaker 5: and he was trying to explain to me why he

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02:24:12,959 --> 02:24:13,280
Speaker 5: liked it.

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Speaker 1: He was like, you know, I like the genuine, like the.

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Speaker 5: Really genuine moments and how you like.

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Speaker 1: You you guys, I go the shipheadedness.

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Speaker 5: He goes, yeah, it's the coupled with the shipheadedness, and

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02:24:27,480 --> 02:24:30,039
Speaker 5: I think that's what makes the show so great. And

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Speaker 5: I was like, well, dude, thank you, Like that's that's

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02:24:32,959 --> 02:24:36,480
Speaker 5: a very like I love hearing that review. But that

2817
02:24:36,680 --> 02:24:38,600
Speaker 5: is what I love about this show is you can

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02:24:38,760 --> 02:24:43,440
Speaker 5: have emails like that that. It's like, man, I just

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02:24:43,560 --> 02:24:50,560
Speaker 5: I love that you are loving life, finding purpose, joy, joy,

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02:24:51,120 --> 02:24:54,880
Speaker 5: all perspective and that listen to our podcast is a

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02:24:54,920 --> 02:24:56,440
Speaker 5: part of that.

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Speaker 1: Your journey, Yeah, your journey that's in your I was

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Speaker 1: short wiring there for a second. Yeah that you know,

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Speaker 1: with the ship headedness. Yeah, yeah, this is it. This

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Speaker 1: is March. Yeah. Well that that was how he was.

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Speaker 5: He was trying to get the word ship aheadedness, and

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02:25:13,760 --> 02:25:16,320
Speaker 5: I had to I had to jump in there feed

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Speaker 5: the word because he he.

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Speaker 1: Didn't want to be insulting. I was like, you're not. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the vibe.

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Speaker 5: We just talked about steaking blood jobs for a long time.

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Speaker 5: Speaking of I have our like a nice little lesson on.

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Speaker 1: This great lesson followed the stake of blow Day.

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Speaker 5: And before I go into it, I do uh. We

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Speaker 5: got some comments that maybe the Dan Gable quotes were

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Speaker 5: too much, that we were doing too many of them.

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Speaker 1: Really yeah, And I don't want to like yeah, no

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Speaker 1: we didn't. Yeah. I didn't want to make a big

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Speaker 1: deal about it.

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Speaker 5: But there were a couple like, hey, Dan Gable quote

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Speaker 5: every week, like is this really what we're gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's ogs we get the actually, and so I

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02:25:57,760 --> 02:25:59,320
Speaker 1: switched it up. I switched it up.

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Speaker 5: This one comes from them, uh Gandable. Success is earned

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Speaker 5: in the hours nobody sees. And that's from coach Gandable.

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Speaker 1: Just to switch it up right now. Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 5: My topic quote lesson of the week is intentional time

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Speaker 5: with the wifey uh, Jill and I have been putting

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Speaker 5: our phones down slash, turning off the TV, and setting

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02:26:31,720 --> 02:26:36,039
Speaker 5: and setting down her kindle for a mandatory ten minute

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Speaker 5: cuddle session every night.

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Speaker 1: I know that doesn't sound very long, and it's like, wait,

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Speaker 1: that's mandatory, like total cuddle, like snuggle ord.

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Speaker 5: Snuggle, snuggle, no shockwave where okay, yeah yeah, yeah, we're

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Speaker 5: just we're literally talking ten minutes of cuddling in bed,

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Speaker 5: no shockwab, no pun uh, every night, and it's been unreal.

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Speaker 5: The pillow talk that we've been having during these times

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Speaker 5: is something that's been lacking in our relationship for months.

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02:27:07,680 --> 02:27:11,279
Speaker 5: It's been awesome from a connection standpoint, but also extremely

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02:27:11,320 --> 02:27:14,680
Speaker 5: calming and relaxing. It's been helping us fall asleep faster.

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Speaker 5: That's when you know it's a good convo when you

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02:27:17,720 --> 02:27:21,320
Speaker 5: fall asleep mid conversation, which is something that we hadn't

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02:27:21,360 --> 02:27:25,520
Speaker 5: had in months, which is honestly kind of sad that

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02:27:25,600 --> 02:27:28,560
Speaker 5: like the screens had done that to us. In general,

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02:27:28,640 --> 02:27:31,720
Speaker 5: I've been trying to emphasize dating my WiFi, flirting with her,

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02:27:32,280 --> 02:27:36,720
Speaker 5: joking with WiFi, asking wify her opinion on things, kissing her,

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02:27:36,800 --> 02:27:40,800
Speaker 5: hugging her respectfully, grabbing cheek while she's on the stepstool,

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02:27:41,120 --> 02:27:43,120
Speaker 5: reaching for the nice bulls that we keep in the

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Speaker 5: higher kitchen cabinets, and hitting her with a little eh.

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Speaker 5: In parentheses, I wrote, she loves that, but yes, ten

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02:27:53,240 --> 02:27:58,560
Speaker 5: minute of mandatory cuddle sash, it's fire and it's very

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Speaker 5: easy to implement. I love that, and I know that

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Speaker 5: that sounds like a bit like oh man, that's kind

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02:28:04,120 --> 02:28:07,600
Speaker 5: of sad, Gruman like ten minutes a cuttlep bit just

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Speaker 5: with everything with the baby and stuff, like you kind

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02:28:10,160 --> 02:28:13,000
Speaker 5: of lose you a little bit and you got to

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02:28:13,040 --> 02:28:18,720
Speaker 5: get back into that, like, hey, we're we're lovey dovey, like.

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02:28:18,640 --> 02:28:19,600
Speaker 1: Back into the courtship.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we're lovey dove boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wifey, Like that's

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Speaker 5: my girl. It's been really great. That's Bee, that's Bee.

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Speaker 5: You on a date or in all good lesson? Thank

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02:28:33,640 --> 02:28:39,160
Speaker 5: you did, great sod, great sod. You want to sign

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02:28:39,240 --> 02:28:39,600
Speaker 5: us off?

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02:28:40,280 --> 02:28:42,800
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever done a sign off before.

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Speaker 5: Guys, this has been another episode of for the Dads.

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02:28:48,240 --> 02:28:51,119
Speaker 5: We hope you enjoyed it. We hope that your balls

2887
02:28:51,160 --> 02:28:53,640
Speaker 5: are empty and that your mouth are full of lollipop.

2888
02:28:54,480 --> 02:28:58,119
Speaker 5: Make sure to separate those trash bins. Don't have them touching.

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02:28:57,840 --> 02:28:59,080
Speaker 1: Don't have them from the mailbox.

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02:28:59,160 --> 02:29:02,080
Speaker 5: God for bid, get them out from in front of

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Speaker 5: the mailbox. Take your trash out. Have a great week.