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Speaker 2: Penis Elvista Wren in the Morning show?

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Speaker 1: Just an interesting text?

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Speaker 3: Come over?

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Speaker 1: This is uh the person who texted over before you?

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Speaker 1: Can you use your name or do you want to

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Speaker 1: It's okay Melissa. From there, you said it, all right, Melissa,

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Speaker 1: thank you for listening. By the way I can tell

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Speaker 1: by your laugh you're a lot of fun.

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Speaker 5: Oh, thank you.

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Speaker 6: I listen to you guys every morning. You guys make

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Speaker 1: Thank you, and you make our day. Thank Someone listens

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Speaker 1: to this anyway. So Melissa's question was, what's the etiquette

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Speaker 1: on exposing a cheater if you don't personally know him

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Speaker 1: All right, So you met this guy on a dating app.

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming this is what you're saying. Yep, and you

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Speaker 1: found out that he is with someone and he's obviously

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Speaker 6: Right, yes, And it's weird how I actually found out

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Speaker 6: Yeah, oh totally, I'll steal everything. So basically, oh, I

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Speaker 6: I said in a relationship with someone. So I'm like, oh, okay, interesting.

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Speaker 6: I called him out on it last night. But now

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Speaker 7: I say no because if you don't know him, you

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Speaker 7: you don't know what their relationship is, like, what if

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Speaker 7: involve yourself in that. It's just added drama. I would say, no, what.

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Speaker 1: App and she appreciated it absolutely. All right, Well, let

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Speaker 1: me turn to Danielle, because I know if I know

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Speaker 1: Danielle well enough, she's on the You're on the fence

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Speaker 9: Let me tell you if it was me, i'd appreciate it.

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Speaker 11: Doors for drama from people that you don't know.

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Speaker 9: Give me his name, I'll look into it, Okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: So another way to look at stuff like this is

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Speaker 7: But like, I think that this kind of stuff and

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Speaker 7: If you don't know those people, it doesn't have any

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Speaker 9: I told you that's what happened with Jessica Simpson and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, Melissa, thank you. This has been a lot

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Speaker 1: of fun to talk about. And look, you're gonna make

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Speaker 6: Oh who you guys are amazing.

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Speaker 1: I love you all so much.

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Speaker 1: Then here's ladies need to stick together. That I was

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Speaker 7: Have the facts, stick together. If you don't know, don't start.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely. One of my girlfriends is dating guy and one

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Speaker 13: Wet together, daniel We.

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Speaker 4: I love you, Karen.

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Speaker 1: Your day's at.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about a couple of books.

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Speaker 21: Are you in?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay. There is a book called How to Stop

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Speaker 1: Stuttering and Love Speaking. Danny wanted us to talk about it.

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Speaker 1: He's online nineteen. Let's go talk to Danny about that. Danny,

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Speaker 1: thank you for listening to our show. Tell me about

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Speaker 1: how to Stop Stuttering and Love Speaking and how this

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Speaker 22: Wow.

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Speaker 23: First and foremost, I'm just so thrilled to be on

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Speaker 1: Oh stop it now that you've buttered my biscuit, Danny.

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Speaker 1: The author's name is Lee G. Lovett. And obviously you

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Speaker 1: You were stuttering a lot, right, Danny?

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Speaker 23: Yes, surprisingly, I started a age eighteen, and I started

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Speaker 23: But by the grace of God, I found a book

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Speaker 23: honestly say after two to three months, after diligently immersing

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what causes stuttering? Danny? And I'm asking for

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Speaker 23: Well, the main thing I took from the book is

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Speaker 23: WSSA program, The World Stops Stuttering Association. And if you

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Speaker 23: diligently immerse yourself in this program, you will see vast results.

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Speaker 23: You will not only improve your speech, but your overall

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Speaker 1: You see what we're doing here, and you know you're

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Speaker 1: Let's just check them out. And you're speaking eloquently, beautifully.

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Speaker 1: I know the reason I stutter is because my brain

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't know what life would be like

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Speaker 23: Right, absolutely, I know. For in my case, I basically

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Speaker 1: Wow, look how this whole thing, this whole experience changed

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Speaker 1: your life. Well, Danny, excellent. The book is called How

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Speaker 1: to Stop Stuttering and Love Speaking. The author's name is

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Speaker 1: Lee G. Love It.

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Speaker 10: Are you?

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Speaker 1: Are you friends with the Lee? Have you talked to

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Speaker 24: Oh?

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Speaker 23: Absolutely, I skype with him every Saturday because we have

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Speaker 1: All right, perfect, Well tell him that you were on

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Speaker 1: much for your time, Janet. Danny, thank you very very much.

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Speaker 23: Thank you, Elvis. I greatly appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, And there you go. You know what book has

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Speaker 1: we actually talked about, The Divided Mind by doctor John Sarno,

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Speaker 1: and it's about pain, back pain specifically. And I first

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Speaker 1: learned about this book from Howard Stern because he talked

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Speaker 1: about doctor John Sarno and how pain sometimes is, for

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Speaker 1: lack of a better phrase, in your head, right, So

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Speaker 1: you've got to just convince yourself there's there's nothing there

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Speaker 1: that's causing it. There's just there's no pain. And by

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Speaker 1: doing that consistently, the pain, believe it or not, went

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Speaker 1: away from me. And it was it was an incredible read. So,

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Speaker 1: you know, I actually read that book and got something

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Speaker 1: out of it. I was so happy. Wow, Well what

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Speaker 1: about you, Gandhi ever read something that really kind of

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Speaker 1: profoundly changed your outlook on life or changed the way

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Speaker 1: you did something?

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Speaker 11: Absolutely?

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Speaker 7: I mean there are so many things, but a book

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Speaker 7: that you actually recommended to me called Unlearned by Humble

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Speaker 7: the Poet, where yeah, absolutely, it really talks about you know,

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Speaker 7: we have all of these thoughts and just kind of

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Speaker 7: cages in our mind based on the way we grew

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Speaker 7: up and the things that we were taught are acceptable

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Speaker 7: and unacceptable, and this is how society works.

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Speaker 11: And you have to.

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Speaker 7: Really unlearn a lot of thoughts to then unlearned behavior

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Speaker 7: and change your life.

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Speaker 11: It's really good.

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Speaker 1: And that's the thing.

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Speaker 21: You know.

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Speaker 1: You're born with a clean slate. You have no preconceived

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Speaker 1: idea about anything when you're born. But every day there

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Speaker 1: are these subtle little triggers and things that you observe

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Speaker 1: and you learn that hold you back. Eventually you live

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Speaker 1: a life of being told what you can't do, for instance,

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Speaker 1: Then all of a sudden you're living a life where

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Speaker 1: you're not doing anything. Yeah, because you were convinced you

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Speaker 1: you can't do it. So you go to unlearn things right.

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Speaker 7: Sort of goes along with the other book, which is

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Speaker 7: the subtle art of not giving up.

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Speaker 11: Very important.

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Speaker 1: Also, people are texting in they love my favorite book

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Speaker 1: When Friends Influence People from Dale Carnegie. We talk about

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Speaker 1: that all the time. It is the simplest, most effective

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Speaker 1: read you'll ever ever enter into your book history. It's

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Speaker 1: a Dale Carnegie how to win friends and influence people. Yes, Gary,

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Speaker 1: what for me? It was a book called who moved

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Speaker 1: my cheese. Remember that.

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Speaker 19: Yeah, And it's a funny title, but it actually it's

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Speaker 19: about change and change is inevitable and how to deal

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Speaker 19: with change. So it was really cool. It was a

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Speaker 19: great book. It was an easy read too. Everyone should

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Speaker 19: read this one ten Percent Happier by Dan Harris. We

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Speaker 19: had him on our show talking about that the art

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Speaker 19: and love of meditation and how you should look at

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Speaker 19: it as something that's a daily practice and not something

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Speaker 19: that only you know, dope smoke and tree hugging people

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Speaker 19: are doing. Also, this is one I just sent to

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Speaker 19: a Gandhi. I just got it. How to accept an

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Speaker 19: embraced the uncomfort truths in our lives. It's called the

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Speaker 19: Ish no one wants to hear. Look, it's a book

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Speaker 19: of truths that you need to know. You may not

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Speaker 19: want to hear them, and I know I've got a

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Speaker 19: lot of them. I'm hoping this book opens me up.

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Speaker 11: I'm going to need a review on that when you

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Speaker 11: start reading it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I wish I could say the ISH word. I

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Speaker 12: I would say it would be a bad idea. You

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Speaker 1: bad idea. Yeah, okay, exactly. Yeah, we can say anything

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Speaker 1: There is an article a Plainview Middle school teacher has

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Speaker 1: been pulled from the classroom after handing out an assignment

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Speaker 1: to fifth graders asking them who they would allow into

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Speaker 1: a fallout shelter an event of a nuclear attack. It's

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Speaker 1: almost like do marry or kill, But you know, in

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Speaker 1: a fallout shelter with kids, can.

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Speaker 11: You then just kill?

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Speaker 9: As an assignment?

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Speaker 1: Underneath the questions were a potential answer yes, were potential

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Speaker 1: answers that included, okay, here it is, so, here's their assignment.

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Speaker 1: I have a copy of it. Oh my god, it's

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Speaker 1: called fall out shelter. An unknown enemy has launched a

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Speaker 1: nuclear strike on Long Island because of advanced warning technology.

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Speaker 1: You are aware that you have twenty minutes to get

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Speaker 1: yourself into a fallout shelter located in your neighborhood. Ten

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Speaker 1: other people wanting to get in will greet you. The

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Speaker 1: shelter has enough supplies for you and six other people

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Speaker 1: to survive the three months you must remain inside. Before

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Speaker 1: you come out safely, your group must decide unanimously who

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Speaker 1: will be brought in and who will be left out.

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Speaker 1: And then they give you the list of people to

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Speaker 1: choose from. Stop it. Will you allow the following people

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Speaker 1: or not allow the following people into your fallout shelter

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Speaker 1: for three months? Number one, a sixteen year old pregnant

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Speaker 1: girl discuss I dare you no?

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Speaker 11: Are you serious?

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Speaker 1: Right now? Let me just give you the list.

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Speaker 11: Wait are we giving you yes or nose for each one?

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna How can we're not gonna let a

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Speaker 1: sixteen year old pregnant girl in?

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Speaker 7: Well, because that's a lot of liability with a baby.

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Speaker 7: If you're in a fallout shelter, you don't know what's

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Speaker 7: gonna go on. You don't know if you're gonna have

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Speaker 7: to have a quick escape at some point, and a

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Speaker 7: baby's just gonna drive.

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Speaker 9: How you're gonna feed the baby like you gotta make

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Speaker 9: sure you have the supplies ahead of time.

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Speaker 1: Well, there's no baby. If you leave route this, she'll

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Speaker 1: be incinerated.

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Speaker 11: We don't know that for sure.

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Speaker 1: Okay, keep in mind these are these are all thrown

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Speaker 1: out to fifth graders. Okay, would you let into the

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Speaker 1: shelter a police officer with multiple charges of brutality pending

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Speaker 1: against him? Or would you let in a thirty eight

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Speaker 1: year old retired prostitute? Or would you let in a

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Speaker 1: seventy five year old priest? It's a priest, but he's

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Speaker 1: seventy five, right, No, would you let in a thirty

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Speaker 1: five year old sterile female doctor?

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Speaker 4: Hell?

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Speaker 11: Yes?

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Speaker 1: How about a husband and wife? They refuse to be separated?

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Speaker 1: He's a lawyers, he's an alcoholic.

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Speaker 11: Nope, annoying? Why they're annoying?

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Speaker 1: Would you let in a thirty one year old homosexual architect?

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Speaker 18: Hell?

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Speaker 1: Yeah for us in the would you let in a

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Speaker 1: fifty year old musician previously addicted to cocaine?

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Speaker 11: Is there cocaine in the shelter.

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Speaker 1: He's previously previously?

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Speaker 9: Then he's Okay, he's going to entertain us if he

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Speaker 9: brings this to.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, and finally, the list of ten people you

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Speaker 1: have to think about letting in a twenty eight year

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Speaker 1: old drifter with no skills whatsoever.

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Speaker 11: No, that's just food.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 9: I have a question though, were there is this a

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Speaker 9: quiz where they're wrong and right answers like did you

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Speaker 9: get graded on it?

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out the logic. I think she

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Speaker 1: wanted them to talk it out. Yeah, to understand that

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Speaker 1: it's a priest. But he's seventy five? What grade is

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Speaker 1: this for? Fifth grade? Do I know what a prostitute is? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she is?

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Speaker 9: She still teaching?

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Speaker 1: Well, she has been. I do believe she's been suspended.

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Speaker 1: Students in the teacher's health class were given an assignment

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Speaker 1: other choices from here. Your group must decide unanimously who

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Speaker 1: will you brought in who will be left out? And

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Speaker 1: then you have to like discuss the teacher, who has

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Speaker 1: not publicly is not identified, will remain out of the

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Speaker 1: classroom until an investigation is concluded. So there you go. Interesting.

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Speaker 11: I don't think the teacher should have gotten suspended.

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Speaker 7: I know I'm the only person who doesn't think that,

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Speaker 7: but I think it's interesting. It's one of those assignments

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Speaker 7: those kids are gonna remember forever, and it makes you

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Speaker 7: really think and discuss why why would you pick these people?

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Speaker 7: Why would you not? I don't see the huge deal

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Speaker 7: with it. I know some of the subject matter is

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Speaker 7: a little stetchy, right, but come on, fifth graders they

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Speaker 7: know all this stuff anyway.

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Speaker 1: I know they're sure how old are fifth grader's eleven twelve?

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Speaker 11: They are like ten eleven? They have the Internet, they.

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Speaker 14: Know what prostitutes are, they do maybe the teacher could

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Speaker 14: have rolle hoybe the town bump whole ass Okay, all right,

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Speaker 14: should I just call the pizza?

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Speaker 1: So here we are having the discussion. So let me

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Speaker 1: put this out to you. Now, there's scary Gandhi Danielle

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Speaker 1: Nate me Scotty, Bee and Diamond. I'm just looking at

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Speaker 1: the people who are right here with us. Seven people. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but there's only room for five of us. We have

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Speaker 1: to eliminate two people and not let them into our

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Speaker 1: fallout shelter. Okay, Oh damn, hmmm, you'll get to vote, right.

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Speaker 1: I don't know my name's on the T shirt. I

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Speaker 1: already got eliminated, yeah, froggy. Okay. So we have there's

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Speaker 1: seven of us, right, one, two, three, four, five, six,

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Speaker 1: eight of us. Okay, now there's eight, but we can

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Speaker 1: only let five people in. We have to eliminate three.

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Speaker 11: We have to eliminate three. I have my three.

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Speaker 9: You already have it.

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Speaker 1: You didn't think about it.

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Speaker 11: About it for a minute.

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Speaker 1: Are going to eliminate and why?

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Speaker 11: Okay? No brainer? Scary and Scotty out.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Scotty, you're out.

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Speaker 7: Because Scotty gets hurt so easily all the time. He

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Speaker 7: gets a paper cut and he's like, I'm dying.

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Speaker 11: I have an infection. It's gonna be I can't.

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Speaker 1: Deal with that and that would be fatiguing.

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Speaker 11: I guess I love him and he's hilarious.

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Speaker 9: Scotty has two kids, so I feel like he needs

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Speaker 9: I feel bad.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, you need to go be a dad too.

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Speaker 1: To my kids aren't coming. I'm saying if he does.

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Speaker 9: If he gets all, that's right now, I forget that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so scary you're eliminating.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, come on, dude, I.

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Speaker 19: Never get sick. I'm an asset.

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Speaker 11: You would eat all the food, all the resources would be.

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Speaker 1: You would eat every can of corn.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, but if something happened, you could eat his calves.

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Speaker 1: You do have big meaty calves. But who's the third I.

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Speaker 7: Hate to do this, and I'm only doing it because

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Speaker 7: I went off the grid with her, and she is

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Speaker 7: not a survivalist.

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Speaker 1: Diamond has to go, Diamond or Diamond, Diamond. She's not

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Speaker 1: letting you come down into the shelter. Well, let's turn

665
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 1: the karaoke machine on. A bother of the karaoke machine

666
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 1: not allowed in the shelter.

667
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 7: I'd like to say, for the record, Diamond really hurts

668
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 7: my soul. It would be a very, very difficult decision,

669
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 7: But I just know that if you know there was

670
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 7: the smallest inconvenience, she's gonna burn the whole thing till

671
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 7: the ground.

672
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:30,479
Speaker 8: Damn.

673
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 1: Okay, back to the story. I totally see how this

674
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 1: could perpetuate all an interesting conversation as long as the

675
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 1: kids are smart enough to do it.

676
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 9: I think there's other ways to get smart conversations going.

677
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 1: Than that a parent speaking. By the way, here's.

678
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 9: Why this is scary, and we know that unfortunately we're

679
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 9: having these kinds of drills in school because unfortunately this

680
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 9: is the world we live in. So to put that

681
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 9: in front of these kids as a reality, and then's

682
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 9: a here, choose who's coming in your shelter?

683
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: Like, that's me?

684
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 9: Especially at that age. Maybe in college they can figure

685
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 9: it out and around and it's better, but not that age,

686
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 9: And that's I think it's nuts.

687
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 1: It's so Sophie's choice, all right, So you had to

688
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 1: choose from an emotional fifty year old preman apostle woman's

689
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: who's me? Is suffering empty nest syndrome? Do we want

690
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: that in our shelter? I don't know. How about a

691
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: pre alcoholic fifty nine year old homosexual disc chalk? Do

692
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: you want me in your shelter? How about a forty

693
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: three year old man that might be a murderer.

694
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 11: This is turning out terribly these descriptions.

695
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: How about, oh, should we let this woman in a

696
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: thirty something year old menace that's prone to kidney infections.

697
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 11: I just got one.

698
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: You're prone. I don't want you in my fallout shelter.

699
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 1: How about a forty something year old man child that

700
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 1: loves to eat scary.

701
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 11: You can't have heavy eaters.

702
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 9: And it's a lot of situations to be people that

703
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 9: you can ration.

704
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: He's not gonna ration shelter. Do we want a horny

705
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 1: Tampa Bay Bucks fan that loves gadgets.

706
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 11: Winning?

707
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: You're in frog?

708
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 25: Good morning, come on, wake up, wakest in the morning.

709
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 1: So okay, let's let's talk about let's sweat bartenders, and

710
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 1: let's talk about waiters, waitresses, whatever, serve. What a lot

711
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 1: of restaurants and bars they have a rule there so

712
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: you cannot date the customers. Oh really, you know a

713
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 1: lot of them do they prefer you not? It could

714
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: get messy, you know whatever. I'm not saying they all do,

715
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: but a lot of the high end places, especially in hotels.

716
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 1: And this happened to us. I'll tell you that story

717
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 1: in a minute. I wonder if anyone listening who was

718
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 1: working behind the bar or waiting on tables was asked

719
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 1: out by a customer and they had a like, oh god,

720
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 1: you're a hot Yeah, as long as no one finds

721
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 1: out about it, let's go and maybe they got caught whatever.

722
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: We were at a resort with a friend who was

723
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 1: sleeping with one of the people who worked at the resort.

724
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: Nice the guy who was serving us drinks and things

725
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 1: in our in our house. We didn't know till the

726
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 1: end of the trip. We wait, didn't until a year later.

727
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: He finally confessed this. This guy was sneaking into his

728
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: room every single night. I know this is why. But

729
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: had had his bosses found out, they would have caned

730
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: him immediately. Yeah, because it could lead to you know,

731
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 1: a well, a messy situation or a law suit. I

732
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: don't know. So I don't know. I'm wondering how many

733
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: people listening are in this in this type of business. Who, Yeah,

734
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 1: you're going behind everyone's backs and you're having some fun

735
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: with someone they don't want you to have fun with.

736
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm sure it happens a lot more than we

737
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 9: even know.

738
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 1: Why do you have a crap eating grill on your face?

739
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 19: Nate?

740
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 1: I'm just thinking, because you know, is this where you're

741
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 1: gonna tell us a story about how when you used

742
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: to be a waiter used to get picked up. This

743
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: is the outback steak houst very different. All right, this

744
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 1: is did you mess around with some girls? Blue and

745
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: onion South gross the blue an onion from outback because

746
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: they go ahead. This is juicy. I love stuff like this.

747
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 1: This is great.

748
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 7: I think it probably happens at vacations and anything that

749
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 7: has to do with vacations. Like definitely cruise ships. They

750
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 7: tell you that they're not supposed to, but you know

751
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 7: some of.

752
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: The well, so you know, we we have connections in

753
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 1: the cruise ship industry. We're on a lot of cruise ships.

754
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: We've ever been so many times like wow, that'd be cool.

755
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: Well A, I'm married, so I guess it's not gonna

756
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: have him be. I don't know, but I always think that.

757
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 9: I always think, like, you know, like the activities director

758
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 9: or whatever, the cruise director usually they're like a hot

759
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 9: guy from England or a hot lady from England, and

760
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 9: then you have all these young, good looking people on

761
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 9: the cups that get wasted, Like you wonder like, come on.

762
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 1: There's got to be like a percentage of lives that cross.

763
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: Yeah for sure, right, I need to believe that. Yeah, yeah,

764
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 1: sure in my way doctor's offices.

765
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 7: I wonder if that's a thing to never date a patient,

766
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 7: like maybe you're seeing this patient naked, not in a

767
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 7: great way, but you're seeing them and then.

768
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:39,439
Speaker 1: Or how about dating a professor? Oh yeah, that's not good,

769
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 1: is it. I'm reading a book about that right now,

770
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: you are.

771
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 9: It's about he Well, they were dating first and she

772
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 9: didn't know that he was a teacher, and he didn't

773
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:51,919
Speaker 9: know that she was still in school and they bump

774
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 9: into each other in the hallway and they're like, oh, now,

775
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:55,919
Speaker 9: what are we gonna do? And they had to figure

776
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 9: it out. It's by Colleen Hoover. Thank you, Okay, I

777
00:34:58,840 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 9: love Colleen Hoover.

778
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 1: Oh Froggy ever dated someone who drives the van at

779
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: the station? Asking? Just wondering? Yeah, Cross, that.

780
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 9: Was before my time here.

781
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Scotty, b Oh my god, Scotty. Several listeners

782
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 1: and scary diad several listeners.

783
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:24,720
Speaker 19: My entire twenties and thirties.

784
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:26,240
Speaker 1: They did it in the bathroom, the ben'sroom.

785
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 19: Danny a listener.

786
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:31,720
Speaker 9: Currently, Oh wow, okay, I'm married to a listener.

787
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 1: I am too. He listened Alex listened to me. How

788
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 1: many years before I even met it. Yeah, really, that's

789
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: kind of scandalous, Scotty. It's okay. We don't want you

790
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:43,560
Speaker 1: to dragg him down there. Who is this is?

791
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 26: Oh?

792
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 1: Hi Corey? How are you?

793
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 10: Corey? Hi?

794
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: Good morning, well, good morning, so well hello, tell us

795
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: your story. What happened?

796
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 10: So?

797
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 26: I worked at a small town bar. I met a guy.

798
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 26: He asked me out. It was a little bit secret.

799
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 26: He asked me out while I was working. We went

800
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 26: on a d but we kept it a little bit,

801
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 26: you know, under wraps, just in key.

802
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:10,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't wanted to get out. You didn't want

803
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: to flowing around the gossip scene.

804
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 26: Right exactly, and ten years later we're married.

805
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 9: Did we have a baby?

806
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: Now? Had you admitted that you guys were dating each other,

807
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 1: would it have caused possibly a problem with management or

808
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 1: the co workers? Maybe?

809
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 26: Maybe maybe with management because they don't really like uh,

810
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 26: you know, they don't want the guys coming in and

811
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 26: then kind of watching the bartender who she talking to

812
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 26: because that can look bad with other customers. Maybe, but

813
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 26: they weren't after they found out they really liked him.

814
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 26: So everything worked out in our favor.

815
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 1: I liked his text. It just Corey, this text came through.

816
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 1: I work at a resort. It was hosting a wedding,

817
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 1: two girls getting married, but one girl hooked up with

818
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 1: a male bartender the night for the wedding, and the

819
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 1: wedding was called called offa corectly str story turned out

820
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 1: really cool. Congratulations to you, thank you so much, thank

821
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 1: you having have a great day.

822
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 9: Okay, do you go?

823
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: Oh man, the story is are pouring it now, sh

824
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 1: see do you see all the texts?

825
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 7: Yes, Sam, Yeah, celebrities.

826
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: I called room service number times for more sugar. Sugar

827
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 1: in air quotes, yes, Froggy.

828
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 12: And what about when you live in an apartment community

829
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 12: and you start hanging out with the manager you married

830
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 12: or had a kid with her.

831
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 1: You know, there's communities are assess pool for that kind

832
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 1: of stuff, of course, because the bedroom's right there. Each

833
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 1: The student thing is rampant.

834
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 19: My buddy, who shall remain name was I was a

835
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 19: professor in Arizona and he ended up dating and then.

836
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 1: Marrying a student. Okay, And he.

837
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 19: Says that the grades were always kept on, honest and clean,

838
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 19: and there was always a sense.

839
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, of course we believe that. Hello, Maureen,

840
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: what's going on?

841
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 10: Hi?

842
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: How are you doing well? Hold on, you married your

843
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 1: college voice professor, right, I sure did. How did this

844
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 1: start out, by the way, I mean, were you still

845
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: taking his class? Or did this happened after this happened

846
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 1: after you'd already graduated that class?

847
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 27: No, I was still very much a student of his.

848
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 4: Uh.

849
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 27: And he resisted and I still tease him about it

850
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 27: to this day. He resisted because he was like, I'm

851
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 27: not cracking that boundary, and you know, wanted nothing to

852
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 27: do with it. And what can I say, he's gonnat

853
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:36,840
Speaker 27: resist me.

854
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 9: How did you guys git around like not getting caught? Like,

855
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 9: how do you do it?

856
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 4: Well?

857
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 27: We would do a lot of like we hung out

858
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,239
Speaker 27: like as soriends. I mean, you know, it's college, so

859
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 27: everyone's an adults. It's not like we're dealing with miners

860
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 27: or anything.

861
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:52,800
Speaker 6: And you know, like a group of us will go out.

862
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 27: Sometimes to dinner, and then it started getting you know,

863
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 27: just the two of us will go out. And even

864
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 27: still he was denying that he had feelings for me,

865
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 27: even though it was incredibly out theous. And then I

866
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 27: just I don't know. I said to my best friend

867
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 27: who also had him, I said, I'm going to marry him.

868
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 27: Someday she thought I was totally insane, and I got it.

869
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 27: I understood why, but I was like, I'm not giving

870
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 27: up one as I know, he's the one supposed to

871
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 27: marry and.

872
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 4: Have three kids.

873
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 1: Well that's the thing, you know, it's why you're doing it.

874
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 1: That's when it's you know, maybe a j eggshells a

875
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,839
Speaker 1: little bit you're walking on. But you know, people meet

876
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 1: people in different ways, and sometimes it's in a way

877
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 1: where it it's forbidden fruit. Anyway, Well, thank you very much, Maureene.

878
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 1: I appreciate Wait, do you role play now? Go back

879
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:39,879
Speaker 1: to those days? Call her back? Hello, Mike, how you doing.

880
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 18: I'm good.

881
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 1: How you guys doing doing well? So you actually were

882
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 1: hooking up with a rich older women with your career? Correct?

883
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 22: Correct? Yes, I used to work on Park Avenue and

884
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Speaker 22: a lot of older rich women in the building. They

885
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Speaker 22: kind of took a liking to me, and before you

886
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Speaker 22: knew it, I was all of them building.

887
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Speaker 1: So you go up in the in the elevator. I mean,

888
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Speaker 1: did anyone ever see you doing that?

889
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Speaker 18: No?

890
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Speaker 22: So they had a service elevator where all.

891
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Speaker 1: That's why they call it that.

892
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 22: Now that that was my post and I got to

893
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Speaker 22: a guy very friendly with a lot of the building.

894
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Speaker 1: Gosh, that is just a porno in the making. Well,

895
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Speaker 1: so you never got caught, never got in trouble.

896
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Speaker 22: No, never almost got caught several times, but luckily never

897
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 22: did never got in trouble.

898
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Speaker 1: That's the exciting part, almost getting caught. All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much, Mike. Finally let's go talk to Rachel. Hello, Rachel,

900
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Speaker 1: you actually got let go from your residency because you

901
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Speaker 1: were sleeping with someone or someone you were working with.

902
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Speaker 28: Yeah, so I was a resident and it was very

903
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:53,760
Speaker 28: much a writ in that situation. There was a resident

904
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Speaker 28: one of the attendings actually that I developed a little crush.

905
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Speaker 28: Time turned out it was mutual, and yeah, we started

906
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 28: seeing each other kind of and the craziest saying, my

907
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 28: best friend was my co resident and she actually turned

908
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Speaker 28: us in and we yeah, it didn't go over well,

909
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 28: she luckily did not get fired, but I did. And

910
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 28: but it's cool. We're married now, so I feel like,

911
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 28: you know, we still came out on top.

912
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Speaker 1: Well, that's how it happens sometimes. Well, yeah, but your

913
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 1: friend turned you in.

914
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Speaker 9: Are you still friends?

915
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Speaker 29: Oh?

916
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 4: No.

917
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,720
Speaker 5: So there were a lot of theories about why that happened.

918
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:34,879
Speaker 5: But the number one theory kind of was that people

919
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 5: think she may have had feelings for me actually as well,

920
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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it's all very grave that to me.

921
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Speaker 1: Well, let's not rule that out. Absolutely, Yeah, let's put

922
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: all offers on the table here, all right, Rachel, thank

923
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 1: you very much. I'm glad you're all happy. Now, this

924
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: is great, this is good news. So think about who

925
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 1: you're who's waiting on you today for lunch. Maybe now

926
00:41:56,480 --> 00:42:00,879
Speaker 1: it's time to say something in a non creepy invasive way.

927
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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm gonna have to tune out and go through

928
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 7: all these text messages because these are juicy.

929
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Speaker 1: What do you have that you love? Oh?

930
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Speaker 7: Man, the ceo of a company, I'm dating, my best

931
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 7: friend's dad, celebrities coming through.

932
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Speaker 11: I married my patient.

933
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Speaker 1: Oh, by the way, on cruise ships, a lot of

934
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 1: cruise ship texts are curry. Really yeah, apparently it's more

935
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: banging than we know.

936
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Speaker 2: The Mercedes Benz interview lounge.

937
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Speaker 1: My favorites were always when a big old dolly drag

938
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Speaker 1: queen will come out, a lot of them love meeting.

939
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Speaker 4: Well.

940
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 9: I get a kick out of those drag queens.

941
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Speaker 1: People always say, oh good, believe you I've talked about

942
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 1: the drag queens.

943
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 4: I said, look, I don't care what the dragon longs.

944
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 1: A dragon to Marshall. Looking for an exceptional driving experience,

945
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Speaker 1: find it behind the wheel of a Mercedes Benz Suv.

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Speaker 1: Experience the power, precision and intelligence of an iconic Mercedes

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Speaker 1: Benz Suv at your local Mercedes Benz dealer Today, Elvis ter.

948
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Speaker 2: Iran in the Morning Elstrannon in the Morning Show.

949
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Speaker 1: So, Danielle, our girlfriend Gandhi is going through something that

950
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:08,359
Speaker 1: we've all been through from time to time. Oh, yes, look,

951
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:09,240
Speaker 1: you have a good friend.

952
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 19: Yep.

953
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 1: You want you want them to be happy, you want

954
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 1: them to be out there dating someone that's cool for them.

955
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,839
Speaker 1: It just so happens you hate the person they're dating.

956
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: This ever happen, you don't have plenty of times. So

957
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 1: it's okay to talk about this.

958
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 11: Yes, we can talk about it.

959
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 7: I really dislike my friend's boyfriend, and it's really tricky

960
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 7: because I know my friend is just so in love.

961
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 11: So I don't know what to do.

962
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 7: And at first I thought, Okay, maybe it's a me

963
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 7: thing and I'm being a brat, I'm being possessive. I

964
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,240
Speaker 7: need to be a more open minded to the person.

965
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,800
Speaker 7: Every one of our friends who has met this boyfriend

966
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 7: hates them too.

967
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:43,879
Speaker 11: So what to do Do I tell my friend, Hey,

968
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 11: your boyfriend really sucks? Or do you just let it go?

969
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 11: Because I know I'm going to lose this battle.

970
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,240
Speaker 1: So you know, So what's so weird here is Gandhi

971
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: You never ever hold back, And I think it's so

972
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 1: weird that your best friend you have not told this

973
00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,760
Speaker 1: best friend how you feel about the boyfriend.

974
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 11: Because I know how much my friend is in love

975
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Speaker 11: with this person.

976
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 1: That's a tough one.

977
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 11: It's a tough one.

978
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 9: She said she'll probably lose her friend if that she doesn't.

979
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 7: I think I will, Like, I just know how the

980
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 7: relationship is. I know how smitten my friend is. I

981
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 7: think they're gonna get married, and I'm like, oh God,

982
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Speaker 7: she's gonna be part of my life forever.

983
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Speaker 9: I guess she doesn't know how to be treated. Then

984
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:23,840
Speaker 9: she must never have been in a relationship where she

985
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 9: knows that.

986
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, nic, it's tricky, and like the boyfriend's not even

987
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 7: nice to the family, which to me is the biggest run.

988
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 1: At So it's not you, it's not a problem you have,

989
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 1: it's this person's a bad person. Yeah right, Hey, Rachel,

990
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 1: are you there? Yeah, I'm yeah. So you're going through

991
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: the same thing Gandhi's going through. You hate your best

992
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: friend's boyfriend. You argue with him all the time, so

993
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: they know it's no secret. They know how you feel about.

994
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 17: Him, right, Yeah. No, and me and him, we do

995
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 17: argue all the time. He always thinks he's right. It's

996
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 17: very annoying. So she pulled me aside the other day

997
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:58,399
Speaker 17: and she goes, why don't you like him? And I

998
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 17: was like, I know, you just got out of a relationship.

999
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 17: He is a rebound. He is not here forever. And

1000
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 17: she was like okay, and she goes, well, can you

1001
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:08,719
Speaker 17: tell me what you don't like about him. I look

1002
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:10,839
Speaker 17: at her and I go, he crashed your brand new

1003
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 17: car and he did not pay you back. Let's just

1004
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 17: start with that.

1005
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 1: Oh no, okay, Oh my god, he crashed cars. But

1006
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: overall he's just a not a bad guy. He's not

1007
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:23,320
Speaker 1: a good guy.

1008
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 17: No, he's not a good guy. And the reason he

1009
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:27,439
Speaker 17: was driving her cars because he doesn't have enough money

1010
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 17: to put his car on the road. But I mean,

1011
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 17: like whatever, I can still look past that. But the

1012
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 17: other day we all went out, well, not the other day.

1013
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 17: It was in December. We went out for Christmas dinner,

1014
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 17: me and to my girlfriends. We all bring our significant others,

1015
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,799
Speaker 17: you know. She brought him and at the table, he

1016
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 17: randomly started unbuttoning his shirt and we're like, what are

1017
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 17: you doing? And he's like, Mortimer needs to join the party,

1018
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 17: and we're like, who is he? He has a skull

1019
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:54,280
Speaker 17: on his chest, it's a tattoo, and he like randomly

1020
00:45:54,320 --> 00:46:00,120
Speaker 17: unbuttons it and says that he needs to join the party.

1021
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:00,760
Speaker 9: Telling her to run the other director.

1022
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1023
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to like this guy. He and his friend Mortimer.

1024
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 1: All right, so okay, okay, a question. Does he treat

1025
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: your friend well? I mean, is he good to her?

1026
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 17: Sometimes? But not always. He's let me start off also

1027
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 17: by saying he's still married. He hasn't got a separation

1028
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 17: from this white.

1029
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:23,800
Speaker 1: Are they living together he and his wife?

1030
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 17: No, they're not living together, but they He says he

1031
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 17: doesn't have enough money to separate from her. I don't

1032
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 17: know if that's true or not, but yeah, he's still,

1033
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 17: like I said, technically with his ex wife. He does

1034
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 17: live on his own, but he also has like anger

1035
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,799
Speaker 17: issues too, And she's said that to me before, and

1036
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 17: I'm like, well, what are you still doing?

1037
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 5: Then?

1038
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 10: She?

1039
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 30: I love her, I do.

1040
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 17: I just she does not have the best choice when

1041
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 17: it comes to boyfriend.

1042
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 1: Well you know, here's the thing, well one of the

1043
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 1: many things. Uh you know, it's your friend, and you

1044
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 1: know she has decided through through all the bad points

1045
00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: this guy carries, she likes him, she's she's there's something

1046
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:02,399
Speaker 1: there and even though you feel like he is bad

1047
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:07,399
Speaker 1: for her, he's bad for everyone, including his skull Mortimer.

1048
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,319
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You had you have to, like,

1049
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:11,920
Speaker 1: you have to back her up, and she's got to.

1050
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 1: She has to learn her own lessons, you know. I mean,

1051
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 1: I know you want to be a good friend. I

1052
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 1: don't know, I'm I wrong. Maybe I'm wrong.

1053
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 11: No, it's but it's just so you don't want to

1054
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 11: lose a friend.

1055
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 1: You don't want to lose your friends, right.

1056
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 17: And that's the thing too. I feel like since they

1057
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 17: started dating, me and her if hung out not a

1058
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:30,479
Speaker 17: lot anymore. And I don't know, it's just heartbreaking because

1059
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 17: I feel like I am this in one of my

1060
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 17: best friends and it's I just, you know, I don't

1061
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 17: feel like hanging out with him.

1062
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 23: That's really what it's.

1063
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 1: Well, here's here's another way of looking at it. What

1064
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 1: if this guy was a great guy and you really

1065
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: did approve, but you still saw your friend less. I mean,

1066
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 1: you would still be upset.

1067
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,839
Speaker 17: You've come Oh my gosh, that would be totally fine.

1068
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 17: I wouldn't understand that. I just want her to be

1069
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 17: happy in the end, and I want her to be

1070
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:53,240
Speaker 17: treated correctly to be happy. But if she's not treated correctly,

1071
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 17: that's kind of the issue.

1072
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 9: I think a lot of time. Just to be careful too,

1073
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 9: because they'll say, you're just jealous. You're just jealous, you

1074
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 9: know your no, yeah.

1075
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 17: Yeah, it's I don't know, it's it's me, it's our

1076
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,320
Speaker 17: other friends. It's her family too, Like her family doesn't

1077
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 17: like me either.

1078
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 27: It's just it's hard.

1079
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, here's my here's my thought, Rachel. As

1080
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 1: you know, you heard Gandhi say the same thing you said.

1081
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 1: The difference is is her best friend doesn't know how

1082
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: she feels about the boyfriend. She keeps it quiet. She's

1083
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 1: afraid of where that could go. She could lose her friend,

1084
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 1: her best friend. So what advice, Rachel, do you have

1085
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:25,720
Speaker 1: for Gandhi.

1086
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 17: Okay, Well for me, she well, I mean, she flat

1087
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 17: out asked me why I didn't like him, and you know,

1088
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 17: I didn't say because I didn't say like he's discussing,

1089
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 17: he's annoying. I didn't say anything like that. I just,

1090
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:41,719
Speaker 17: you know, flat out said a lot of us don't

1091
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 17: like him. And that's when I told her, I feel

1092
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 17: like he's your rebound and he's not your forever. Like

1093
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,719
Speaker 17: I put it in nicer terms, I guess than what

1094
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:50,879
Speaker 17: I could have, Like, I didn't want to. I don't

1095
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:53,240
Speaker 17: want to, like, you know, unload all this negative stuff

1096
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 17: onto her. I was like I was said what I thought,

1097
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 17: but in a nicer way. You have the sugar quote

1098
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 17: a little bit like, be very careful with the words

1099
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 17: that you choose to tell her.

1100
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:08,800
Speaker 1: So so you're telling Gandhi Gandhi, maybe you could sort

1101
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:11,520
Speaker 1: of drive down that road a little bit, but proceed

1102
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 1: with cautions.

1103
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:15,279
Speaker 9: Maybe do a poop sandwich, like a positive about him,

1104
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 9: and and then make something up okay, and then a

1105
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:20,400
Speaker 9: positive at the end.

1106
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: Right, Well, say hey, Rachel, best of luck with you

1107
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 1: and your friend, and we're gonna we're gonna make a

1108
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: poop sandwich for gandhi, thank you, thank you. Yeah, it's rough,

1109
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 1: but she's she's not holding back.

1110
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 7: No, I was kind of thinking maybe I put it

1111
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,759
Speaker 7: on me and say, you know, so and so makes

1112
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 7: me uncomfortable. I'm not really sure how to explain it,

1113
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 7: but I feel weird around this person.

1114
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 11: Do you think that that would work?

1115
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 1: I don't know versus he sucks.

1116
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:42,719
Speaker 11: I don't like him.

1117
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 9: My Fay's your problem?

1118
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 1: Yea, Hey Katie, Hi, So you hate your brother's fiance

1119
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: the worst, and in the words of Katie, you call

1120
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 1: her a joyless wench.

1121
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 9: Oh god, I can't even imagine with the you've got

1122
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:02,319
Speaker 9: no show. You know he's marrying her, so you have

1123
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 9: no choice.

1124
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, this isn't this isn't even a dating situation. So

1125
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 1: they're getting married. So how do you feel about that? Katie?

1126
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 1: What are you doing? And have you told your brother?

1127
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 27: I feel sick over it.

1128
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 10: I feel absolutely sick, and I feel terrible for my

1129
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 10: brother because I feel like it's just similar to Rachel.

1130
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 10: It's a rebound gone wrong. Oh, it just went awry.

1131
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:26,840
Speaker 10: And my brother is a great guy, but he's terribly

1132
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:30,399
Speaker 10: lazy and he just doesn't want to I think move on.

1133
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 10: So I oh, and I have told him how I felt, our.

1134
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 3: Entire family, you know.

1135
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 1: You know, look, if you told your brother how you

1136
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: feel about his fancy, if your family's told him, there's

1137
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:43,320
Speaker 1: nothing else you can do, because at some point you

1138
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 1: got to let them live their lives. And if they're

1139
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 1: making a mistake, they have to make their mistake. You know,

1140
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 1: you got to stop chasing that car. You know, There's

1141
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 1: only so much you can do. Yeah, it really is.

1142
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 1: And after a while it turns into your problem. You know.

1143
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 9: It's like, like, could there be something that maybe you

1144
00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 9: don't see about her that he sees?

1145
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 10: You know what? That's interesting And that's what I was

1146
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 10: going to ask Gandhi, what does she think her friend

1147
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 10: sees in this guy that makes her happy? She's so

1148
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:09,319
Speaker 10: in love with him?

1149
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 18: Well?

1150
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:11,759
Speaker 10: Why why is she so in love with him? And

1151
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 10: that's what I want to say to my brother, like,

1152
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 10: why what is it about her that you think is

1153
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 10: so wonderful that we're not seeing?

1154
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 1: A fair question?

1155
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:22,399
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think with my friend, what this person sees

1156
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:25,719
Speaker 7: in the boyfriend is just a completely different version of

1157
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:28,439
Speaker 7: a human than they've ever been in contact with. It's

1158
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 7: you know, this person is a different race and just

1159
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 7: comes from a completely different background and is introducing my

1160
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:35,839
Speaker 7: friend to all of these new things, which I appreciate

1161
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 7: that stuff, and I get it.

1162
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:38,480
Speaker 9: Yeah, this guy just sucks.

1163
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:41,799
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, the guy just sucks.

1164
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 1: I will Katie best of luck with your family. But

1165
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 1: like I said, you know, you can only beat your

1166
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 1: head against the wall so much. Did you gotta find

1167
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 1: a way to let it go.

1168
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:50,240
Speaker 11: I'm trying.

1169
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 7: I'm really trying to let it go because we I've

1170
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:54,800
Speaker 7: had conference calls with my friends who are on the

1171
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:56,360
Speaker 7: same page about this, like what do we do?

1172
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 11: Yeah, and everyone has come to the same conclusion. We

1173
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:00,400
Speaker 11: do nothing. We just have to be there for the

1174
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 11: fallout when it happened.

1175
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all you can do. Hey, Chris, hi, Hi,

1176
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 1: You've lost three friends because of this. You did not

1177
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 1: approve of you. They were dating and you obviously you

1178
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 1: said something and that's why you lost your friends.

1179
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 9: Not quiet.

1180
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So would you do it again? If a

1181
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:18,720
Speaker 1: friend number four comes up with a with a crappy boyfriend,

1182
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 1: are you going to say something or have you kind

1183
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 1: of learned your lesson to sit back or maneuver differently?

1184
00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 30: I would still probably say something like honestly, I think

1185
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 30: it was worth it because they, like in all of

1186
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:33,920
Speaker 30: those situations, they were putting their partner before their friends.

1187
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,400
Speaker 30: And I was like, hey, this isn't a good situation.

1188
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 30: You know, you're taking everything that they're saying and they're

1189
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 30: doing over top of what we're trying to help you,

1190
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 30: you know, and they, you know, they decided to cut

1191
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 30: me out instead, is how I see it ultimately, So well, how.

1192
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 1: Much more could you have done? What else can you

1193
00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: do other than say what's on your mind? I mean

1194
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 1: you can't, Yeah, exactly, you know what I'm saying. There's

1195
00:52:57,239 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 1: only so much you can do. I always thought, and

1196
00:52:59,840 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 1: it this is, this is maybe Pollyanna ish of me.

1197
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 1: If you have a problem with something I'm doing or

1198
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 1: the way I'm doing it, give me the give me

1199
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 1: the evidence, tell me what it is. That's all you

1200
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 1: can do. Is I have to at that point figure

1201
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 1: it out on my own, right otherwise it's gonna drive

1202
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 1: you crazy, to drive everyone crazy. I don't want you

1203
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 1: to lose friends.

1204
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:21,759
Speaker 30: Because the second, the second friend that I lost, I

1205
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 30: went about it completely the wrong way, Like I was

1206
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 30: pretty much sting to both of them behind each other's backs.

1207
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 30: Trying to break them up, and then it worked for

1208
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:31,560
Speaker 30: a second and then they got back together and then yeah,

1209
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:32,720
Speaker 30: that was a really bad shity.

1210
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:34,759
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait, how did you try to break them up?

1211
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 1: I'm curious, like, like, what did you do?

1212
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:37,879
Speaker 4: Well?

1213
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:39,799
Speaker 30: They like they had an age of difference, and they

1214
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 30: had religious differences, which wouldn't have been a big deal

1215
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 30: if he wasn't constantly trying to like convert her. And

1216
00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:49,880
Speaker 30: I yeah, so I was trying to tell him, like,

1217
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:52,719
Speaker 30: if you can't wake up every day next to this

1218
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:56,439
Speaker 30: person that you believe could be going to hell, then

1219
00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 30: like that's a problem. And he was like, well, we'll

1220
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:01,520
Speaker 30: cross that bridge when we get to it. And I'm like,

1221
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 30: but it's been like a year and a half, so

1222
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 30: you can.

1223
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:06,400
Speaker 1: Probably we'll cross that bridge to hell when we get

1224
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 1: to it. All right. So what Chris is saying, she's

1225
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:12,839
Speaker 1: lost three friends over this, and she's willing to lose

1226
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 1: another one if she has to. But all right, you

1227
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 1: know you can. It's the old lead the horse to

1228
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 1: water thing. You know, there's only so much you can do. Chris,

1229
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:21,320
Speaker 1: thanks for listening to us. I appreciate you listening to

1230
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: your viewpoint.

1231
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:23,320
Speaker 30: Yeah, thank you.

1232
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:24,400
Speaker 1: There you go.

1233
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:27,319
Speaker 2: If you love the morning show, it's a good idea

1234
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 2: to follow our socials.

1235
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 1: Pro do you know what's good for me. That's my.

1236
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 2: Elvis Duran show. Follow them Helvis Duran in the morning.

1237
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:46,320
Speaker 2: Don't answer the phone, Elvis Duran. The Elvis Duran phones happened?

1238
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 1: All right, Danielle, all right, what's it all about?

1239
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 9: So Allison takes the four year old she babysits named

1240
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:54,879
Speaker 9: Nathan to the pool on the weekend. So Allison thought, well,

1241
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:57,399
Speaker 9: maybe it'd be funny. We'll phone tap Nathan's mom, Laura.

1242
00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:00,880
Speaker 9: We'll say there's a little pool poop problem.

1243
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: Okay, so no one likes poop in the pool now,

1244
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:07,799
Speaker 1: I love it? All right, here we go. Let's listen

1245
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:08,360
Speaker 1: to Daniel's.

1246
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 9: Oh, this is Renee. I'm calling you from pool maintenance

1247
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 9: at that beach club.

1248
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 8: Is everything okay?

1249
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 9: You have a four year old son named Nathan?

1250
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 28: Yes?

1251
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 8: Is he all right?

1252
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 10: Yeah?

1253
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 9: He's fine, But the pool's not fine. Why is it

1254
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 9: that we have poop in the pool?

1255
00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:29,840
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, what why are you laughing?

1256
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:31,320
Speaker 9: It's not my joke. It's not funny.

1257
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:34,760
Speaker 8: I don't know did someone poop in the pool.

1258
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 9: I don't understand your son, Nathan's poop is in the

1259
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:40,760
Speaker 9: deep end of the pool, and I'm I'm.

1260
00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 8: Sorry you guys. I'm just gonna step off. I'm at work.

1261
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 9: I don't care for a work. This is my work,

1262
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 9: and there's poop in my pool.

1263
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 8: First of all, Nathan's four, and he's not that teen.

1264
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:55,320
Speaker 8: I'm going to the deep end of the pool, so

1265
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 8: I find it hard to believe that he that he is.

1266
00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:59,800
Speaker 9: Okay, maybe it floated there. I don't know how it

1267
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:01,920
Speaker 9: go there, but it's there. It's sitting there right now,

1268
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 9: and you need to come and clean it.

1269
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 8: What.

1270
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:07,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to come and clean the poop in

1271
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:07,760
Speaker 1: the pool.

1272
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 15: Oh?

1273
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 8: I am sorry, But isn't that your job.

1274
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:15,279
Speaker 11: No, that's not my job.

1275
00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 9: If your child cannot go to the potty the proper way,

1276
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:19,520
Speaker 9: he should not be in the pool.

1277
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 8: No, he does know how to go potty the proper way, obviously, not.

1278
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 1: If he's pooping in the deep end. And why.

1279
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,319
Speaker 9: The first of all, this is not the first time

1280
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 9: that it's happened. I think you should have you should

1281
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 9: have a talk with your babysitter because obviously she's.

1282
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 1: Not teaching you properly.

1283
00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:40,359
Speaker 8: Listen, can you hold on one second? And I will

1284
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 8: absolutely call the babysitter, find and find out what the

1285
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:44,240
Speaker 8: hell happened.

1286
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 9: That's fine, but listen to me. You what time can

1287
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:47,400
Speaker 9: you be here to clean the poop up?

1288
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:47,960
Speaker 1: Because I had a.

1289
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 8: Clothes I cannot leave work.

1290
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:54,440
Speaker 9: I am working on I had There's a floater in

1291
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:56,400
Speaker 9: the pool and you need to do something about it.

1292
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 1: This is crazy.

1293
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:01,320
Speaker 9: I have neat your children at home. Do you just

1294
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:02,120
Speaker 9: teach your children that.

1295
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 8: They can go where you listen? I don't have time

1296
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 8: to listen to me. I don't know time for this

1297
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:09,280
Speaker 8: poop go around.

1298
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:10,440
Speaker 9: That's what's in the pool.

1299
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:12,000
Speaker 11: That's what's in the pool.

1300
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:15,120
Speaker 8: Let me call the babysitter and just relax and do

1301
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:15,719
Speaker 8: your job.

1302
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:16,919
Speaker 1: Okay, here's the thing.

1303
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:21,800
Speaker 8: I like rocket science. Okay, it's just just what does Please?

1304
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 8: Could you just hold ornament? I am at work and

1305
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 8: I cannot discuss this.

1306
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 1: Listen to me. Do not you when you are talking

1307
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 1: to me?

1308
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:31,680
Speaker 8: Do you run this place?

1309
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:32,360
Speaker 4: Who are you?

1310
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 9: I'm in charge of the maintenance department. And maybe he

1311
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 9: needs those rubber pants or whatever that they put on kids. Now, adoors,

1312
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 9: you don't even know.

1313
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:40,360
Speaker 8: What you're talking about.

1314
00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:42,240
Speaker 1: What the hell are you feeding this kid?

1315
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Speaker 8: Oh my god, don't, Oh.

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Speaker 1: My god, me get it done.

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Speaker 8: You are the person running this place. This is so inappropriate.

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Speaker 9: Isn't it appropriate for your kids to take a dump

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Speaker 9: in my pool.

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Speaker 8: I'm not coming down there and cleaning up poof that

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00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 8: is ridiculous. And when you're gonnall over yourself.

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Speaker 9: So he's okay, fine, I'll let it go if you

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Speaker 9: let me put you on the radio. This is Danielle

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Speaker 9: Narrow from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. And you

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Speaker 9: just got phone tapped. Allison's playing a joke on you.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, he didn't pope in the pool.

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Speaker 8: Okay, Now I'm gonna go home and kill you.

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00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 2: Elvis Duran's phone tap.

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Speaker 1: This phone table was pre recorded with permission granted by

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Speaker 1: Altar the.

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Speaker 2: Elvis Duran phone tap only on Elvis Duran in the

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Speaker 2: Morning Show. I want to hear something slightly more unhinged

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00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 2: in the Morning Show. Elvis Duran's after Party, a podcast

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00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 2: we record daily when the Morning Show is finished.

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Speaker 11: He is literally history.

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Speaker 2: Elster Ran after Party. Listen on the iHeart Radio app

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00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 2: or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Elvister Rand to your god, what's this woman doing? Man?

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Speaker 2: The Morning show.

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Speaker 1: We love going around the room. It's good to see

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00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 1: what's on your mind. Because I sit here and go

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00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:20,840
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah all day long. No one

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00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: wants to hear what I have to say anymore. So

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Speaker 1: we'll start with you, Danielle. What's on your mind?

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Speaker 11: All right?

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Speaker 9: So if you went into your freezer or your refrigerator,

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Speaker 9: what do you think is the like oldest date that's

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Speaker 9: in there on something? I got stuff in there because

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Speaker 9: I just found a chicken from two thousand and seven.

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Speaker 1: I'm hoping that was I'm hoping that was frozen.

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Speaker 18: It was.

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Speaker 9: It was in the deep freezer. So my husband comes up,

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Speaker 9: Sheldon comes upstairs. He's like, I just want to show

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Speaker 9: you something. And he's like, what a waste is this?

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Speaker 1: And I'm like two thousand and seven.

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Speaker 10: He's like yeah.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh damn.

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Speaker 18: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So we didn't cook that. We got rid of that.

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Speaker 1: But I was like, that's that's pretty bad. What would

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Speaker 1: happen if you tried to cook it?

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Speaker 9: I mean they say if it's deep frozen. If if

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Speaker 9: it's frozen, how long does it last?

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Speaker 1: Well gave the questions from two thousand and seven. I

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Speaker 1: wonder what it would be like to because since consistency

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Speaker 1: would be a little off. Maybe, I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: don't know.

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Speaker 11: You didn't even try to cook it?

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Speaker 9: No, you crazy?

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Speaker 1: Have you eaten something that has been in for a

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Speaker 1: long time in the freezer? Not that long? And you

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Speaker 1: can just taste it. You can taste that freezer. That

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Speaker 1: freezer tastes all right, two thousand and seven, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: go ahead to say you win that you won that one. Thanks, Hey, scary,

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Speaker 1: what's up with you today?

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Speaker 19: I was gonna answer Danielle's question first, I was thinking

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Speaker 19: about that bottle of Yega that I have in my

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Speaker 19: freezer from the year fer in your freezer, Yeah, from

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Speaker 19: nineteen ninety nine. I've had this bottle and it's still

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Speaker 19: in my freezer, unopened.

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Speaker 1: I think liquor lasts a lot. Okay, all right, But.

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Speaker 19: My round the room was more about a friend in need,

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Speaker 19: and I don't know the kind of advice that I

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Speaker 19: need to give this person.

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Speaker 1: But he just got the job of a.

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Speaker 19: Lifetime, and what he signed up for all of a

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01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:02,640
Speaker 19: sudden turns into doing two people's jobs, because as soon

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Speaker 19: as he got the job, a week later, they fired

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Speaker 19: somebody else in an adjacent position and took all of

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Speaker 19: that person's roles and their job and moved it over

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Speaker 19: to my friend temporarily. And so he wants to know

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Speaker 19: how long he has to put up with this before

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Speaker 19: he says, when you guys going to hire a replacement

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Speaker 19: for that guy you fired?

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Speaker 1: Why didn't he ask his supervisor or his manager that question,

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Speaker 1: because that's who has the answer the answer.

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Speaker 19: He didn't do that because he's only been at the

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Speaker 19: company for about a month and he doesn't want to

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Speaker 19: step on toes or ask questions.

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Speaker 1: What I would do, I would say, hey, thank you

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01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 1: for trusting me to take care of these accounts temporarily,

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01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:42,840
Speaker 1: but just to get ready to ramp up to someone

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01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:45,000
Speaker 1: else taking them over. Let me know when that is

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01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 1: so we can start working on that, because I don't

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01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 1: want to be just hit over the head, you know,

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01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:52,360
Speaker 1: overnight with this. It's something we should prepare fort put

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01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:55,360
Speaker 1: that into the manager's position. Then they have to give

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Speaker 1: you an answer.

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Speaker 19: Yeah, he's just he's trying to figure out his role,

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Speaker 19: his new role alone having to pick up someone else's slack.

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Speaker 1: It's like I'm drinking through a out of a fire hose. Well,

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Speaker 1: I know you don't want to admit that, do you,

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Speaker 1: I mean anyone?

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Speaker 7: No, not so early in Yeah, what if that was

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Speaker 7: the intention all along? And maybe he just misunderstood the assignment.

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Speaker 1: Well then they need to tell him that.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, he should just ask. I think when you have questions,

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Speaker 11: the best way to get an answer is to ask it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you also have to catch their ass a

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Speaker 1: little bit. Say hey, this is for your protection. We

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01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:25,400
Speaker 1: need to ramp up to prepare to move these accounts

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Speaker 1: to someone new when you think it's appropriate. So let

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Speaker 1: me know when you think that's going to be. And

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Speaker 1: if they look at you, you go, well, what if

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01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:34,400
Speaker 1: we just kept them with you? Ooh that he now

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01:02:34,520 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 1: knows it was the old bait and switch the whole time.

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Speaker 1: Could be that's how corporations work, okay, saying for a friend, yeah, wow, wow, wow,

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Speaker 1: gandhi's with you today.

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Speaker 7: I just want to remind everybody. We talk about this

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Speaker 7: all the time, but read the fine print. We skip

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01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 7: it so often, and there's stuff that we are just

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Speaker 7: signing away without thinking and knowing what's right in front

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Speaker 7: of us because we're too lazy to read it. I

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Speaker 7: just got my lease renewal and we had agreed to

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Speaker 7: a certain amount, and when I got the renewal, I

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Speaker 7: was going to go through and just sign off on everything.

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Speaker 7: And I looked at it and it was off only

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Speaker 7: by twenty dollars, but it was off, and I was like,

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Speaker 7: I don't think so.

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Speaker 11: We're going to argue about this. So I wrote back

1441
01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:13,840
Speaker 11: and was like, Hey, what happened? What's going on here?

1442
01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:16,280
Speaker 11: And the guy said, oh, I guess our math is

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01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:17,040
Speaker 11: a little off, and.

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Speaker 7: They fixed it, which is great, But I would have

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01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:21,000
Speaker 7: just signed that thinking everything was on the up and

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01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:23,640
Speaker 7: up and actually reading it. Read everything. Guys, you have

1447
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 7: to We've signed our lives away to a million different things.

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Speaker 1: Thank god it was only twenty dollars. Yeah, and you

1449
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 1: caught it.

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01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:31,600
Speaker 7: Yes, it was only twenty dollars. I felt like kind

1451
01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 7: of an idiot making a big deal out of it.

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01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 7: But at the same time, and now I'm not to nate,

1453
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 7: what's up with you?

1454
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 1: And I was reading online Freddy Mercury, what are your favorites?

1455
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 1: Elvis M Queen? Do you know did you ever notice

1456
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 1: anything about his smile? His teeth? Do you know why

1457
01:03:47,040 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 1: you recognize his teeth as being odd? Because they're very large.

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01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 1: He has four extra teeth. He really, Yeah, he was

1459
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:56,560
Speaker 1: born with four extra teeth and that's why he's got

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01:03:56,600 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 1: that weird overbite thing. Not only a great mustag, but

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Speaker 1: a weird overbite. But he never had them fixed because

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Speaker 1: he thought it made him unique and it did.

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: See look at that.

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Speaker 11: I was born with six extra teeth really taken out? Yeah,

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Speaker 11: the last day back here, they were all molars.

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Speaker 7: So I had the regular wisdom teeth that you have,

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01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 7: but I had six extras and they told me they

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Speaker 7: would never grow in. I like, last year, I got

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Speaker 7: the last couple taken out. Don't know if you guys

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Speaker 7: remember I couldn't eat anything for like a couple of

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Speaker 7: weeks because they were so impacted.

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Speaker 11: They said these will never grow in. You're fine, and

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01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:27,640
Speaker 11: then they started to grow in.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, if only had a mustache, you would look

1476
01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:33,440
Speaker 1: like Freddie Mercury. I do so cool. Yeah, producer saying,

1477
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 1: what's up with you today?

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01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 20: I want to encourage people to learn how to apologize.

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01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:39,440
Speaker 20: I feel like it's something that is so hard for

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Speaker 20: so many people. And there's someone I'm really close with

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01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 20: in my life. I've had a long, long relationship with them,

1482
01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:47,840
Speaker 20: and they can't apologize, thankfully. It's something I'm okay at,

1483
01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:50,800
Speaker 20: I'm getting better at. So it's maintaining this relationship that's

1484
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:53,280
Speaker 20: really important to me. But I realized if I was

1485
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:56,200
Speaker 20: just like that person, we would just have so much

1486
01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:59,400
Speaker 20: built up resentment because there would be no apologies back

1487
01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 20: and forth. So I know it's really difficult learn to apologize.

1488
01:05:03,240 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 20: It is an actual skill. It's not just I'm sorry.

1489
01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:07,760
Speaker 20: Learning to apologize is a very real thing.

1490
01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:08,520
Speaker 11: That's a tough one.

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01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:16,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry you feel that way. Guy slight. Uh finally,

1492
01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:18,160
Speaker 1: Scotty B, what's going on with you?

1493
01:05:18,520 --> 01:05:18,640
Speaker 4: Hey?

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01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 31: You know, I think our pets listen to us like Siri.

1495
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 31: Because my dog the other day, I went outside, so

1496
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:27,480
Speaker 31: let's go say hi to our friend Boomer because my

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01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:29,240
Speaker 31: dog that passed. It was his birthday and he's in

1498
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 31: the backyard, and Sawyer went outside and went right over

1499
01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:34,880
Speaker 31: to the stone that's there and lay down on it.

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Speaker 31: I didn't tell him where to go, I tell him anything.

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01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:39,920
Speaker 31: I think that they understand a lot more than we

1502
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:42,680
Speaker 31: think that they do. So you should probably be careful

1503
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 31: when you talk around your dogs. I think one day

1504
01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:46,040
Speaker 31: they're going to give us up.

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01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 23: Oh that.

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01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:55,680
Speaker 31: Yes, yes, exactly. They're gonna sit there and they're gonna say, hey,

1507
01:05:55,720 --> 01:05:57,960
Speaker 31: you know what Scotch I said, and we're gonna be

1508
01:05:58,000 --> 01:05:59,440
Speaker 31: in trouble, So be careful what you say around you.

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01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:01,160
Speaker 31: I mean, they are a sweet I think they have

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01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 31: a very good intuition. But also just watch it because

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01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:06,320
Speaker 31: they're listening.

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01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:10,360
Speaker 1: They also watch repetition. For instance, if you do the

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01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 1: same thing every day, they see it. And so when

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01:06:14,040 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 1: you do that thing you do, they always know what

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01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 1: you usually do after that thing you do, and they

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01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 1: anticipate that. So let's say you flush the toilet and

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01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:23,360
Speaker 1: then you run outside real quick to rub your ass

1518
01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:26,000
Speaker 1: on the grass. Well, the dog if they when they

1519
01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:28,280
Speaker 1: hear the toilet flush, they know you're about to go outside,

1520
01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:30,640
Speaker 1: so they'll run outside to meet you, you see. And

1521
01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 1: so we always think, oh god, they've got intuition. Sometimes

1522
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 1: we were teaching the teaching them with every step of

1523
01:06:36,040 --> 01:06:36,240
Speaker 1: the way.

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01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:37,920
Speaker 31: Well it's true, like I have Life three sixty on

1525
01:06:38,000 --> 01:06:40,600
Speaker 31: my phone, you know, the tracking app, and for my kids,

1526
01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:43,320
Speaker 31: and every time they come home it goes and when

1527
01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:45,680
Speaker 31: he hears that, he tears ass to the window and

1528
01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:48,160
Speaker 31: shakes his little nub, waiting for somebody to come home.

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01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 1: Another thing about dogs. For instance, when Alex comes home

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Speaker 1: on Saturday afternoon, he comes at the same time, the

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Speaker 1: dogs are already at the door waiting and barking in

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Speaker 1: their head. That the timers in their head, they know

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01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:05,440
Speaker 1: it's Saturday at six pm. They do. And also when

1534
01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:07,640
Speaker 1: you leave and you leave your dog at home alone,

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01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 1: the longer you're gone, the more your scent dissipates, so

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01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:15,760
Speaker 1: they know sometimes when you're scent goes down to a

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01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:18,520
Speaker 1: certain degree, it's time for you to come home. They'll

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Speaker 1: be waiting at the door. Is that wild? They're brilliant.

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01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:25,680
Speaker 1: They are tried. Anyway, thanks for being here. As we

1540
01:07:25,720 --> 01:07:28,520
Speaker 1: go around the room, let's do it again sometimes, shall we? Okay,

1541
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 1: waking up? All of you are so glorious. Can I

1542
01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:39,480
Speaker 1: start my day with you?

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01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:48,920
Speaker 2: Mister Ran in the Morning Show, Elvis Duran in the

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Speaker 2: Morning Show.

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01:07:51,520 --> 01:07:55,800
Speaker 1: Hey, so last night, Nate, you were just flipping around

1546
01:07:55,880 --> 01:07:59,000
Speaker 1: couldn't sleep late night tea? Yeah, so I was flipping

1547
01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:00,760
Speaker 1: through it. I don't know which headed on, but they

1548
01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 1: played The Family Guy over and over and over.

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01:08:03,040 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:05,280
Speaker 1: I used to watch it, but you know, I haven't

1551
01:08:05,320 --> 01:08:06,920
Speaker 1: been watching it lately, so I thought I was catching

1552
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 1: up and they had this bit. You know, there's little

1553
01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:12,480
Speaker 1: cutaway gags they do all the time. Yes, and they

1554
01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:15,800
Speaker 1: were I think it was Peter was quizzing quagmire on,

1555
01:08:16,600 --> 01:08:18,400
Speaker 1: you know, was it whether it was a Yankee Candle

1556
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:21,639
Speaker 1: Company scent or a female porn star? And I thought

1557
01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 1: it was hilarious. So I just wrote a couple of

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Speaker 1: these down and I figured you could play them today.

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01:08:26,200 --> 01:08:28,000
Speaker 1: Oh well, let's let's play. Let's just play here in

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01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:36,920
Speaker 1: the room. Give me some with the pornhub sound? Is

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01:08:36,920 --> 01:08:42,960
Speaker 1: this a little porn music in the background? Seventy? Who

1562
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:44,679
Speaker 1: would want to have sex to this music?

1563
01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:47,760
Speaker 11: What is that instrument called that little woe?

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01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:54,599
Speaker 1: That's a it's a guitar pedal, Okay, something like that. Anyway,

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01:08:54,640 --> 01:09:00,840
Speaker 1: Welcome to female porn star or Yankee Candle Scent. Let's

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Speaker 1: just play here in the room, all right, no needs

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01:09:02,720 --> 01:09:05,400
Speaker 1: drag any wheels, hit all this. We'll start with you, Froggy,

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Speaker 1: female porn star or Yankee candlesent. Brooke Bliss, female pornstar,

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Speaker 1: that's correct. Yeah, she started in Sis loves Me three.

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Speaker 11: Ye, Froggy's gonna ace this.

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Speaker 1: Danielle, Yeah, female porn star or Yankee candlecent meadow showers.

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Speaker 9: I'm gonna say Yankee candles.

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Speaker 1: That's correct. Uh, Gandhi. Female porn star or Yankee candlecent.

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01:09:34,080 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 1: Holly Kiss. Oh, that's a tough one.

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Speaker 11: I'm gonna go with the Yankee candle scent.

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01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 1: No, even though I'm sure it would smell nice. Holly

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01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 1: Kiss was a porn star and she started in office

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Speaker 1: nymphs three.

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Speaker 9: Great candle hold.

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Speaker 1: What about you? Uh producer, Sam hit Me. Female porn

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Speaker 1: star or Yankee candle scent Autumn Falls.

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Speaker 20: I'm gonna go with Yankee candle scent non.

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Speaker 1: Autumn Falls was a four porn star. She starred in

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Speaker 1: Brabusters nine I gotta watch more porn.

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Speaker 23: Nine.

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Speaker 1: We think it's an episode ten. She was just a

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Speaker 1: number nine scary.

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Speaker 24: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: A female porn star or Yankee candlecent Lilac blossoms, Lilac blossom.

1590
01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:26,840
Speaker 1: That's gotta be a Yankee candle absolutely nice. All right,

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01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:32,760
Speaker 1: let's see froggy. Yeah, female porn star or Yankee candle scent.

1592
01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 1: Honey Clementine, Honey, Clementine. I'm going with Yankee candle. It

1593
01:10:39,040 --> 01:10:43,280
Speaker 1: is Yankee candle. I've never seen missus Clementine in the film.

1594
01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 1: So Scotty be gonna play because no one knows porn

1595
01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:51,920
Speaker 1: like Scotty. Yeah, I'm in all right. Uh, female porn

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Speaker 1: star or Yankee candle Sent Scotty Bee. Don't you have Vita?

1597
01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:59,240
Speaker 1: Oh that's a porn star. Absolutely yeah, he knows right away.

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01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:03,040
Speaker 1: Your favorite film rear Ending My Girl.

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Speaker 10: Too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, female porn star or Yankee Candlecent Secret Bloom.

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01:11:14,320 --> 01:11:17,120
Speaker 9: That's gonna be a Yankee Candlecent absolutely yeah.

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01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:23,599
Speaker 1: Uh Gandhi Yankee candle Sent or female porn star Dahlia Sky.

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01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:25,840
Speaker 1: That's Dahlia Sky.

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Speaker 11: I'm gonna go with porn star on that one.

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01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:28,599
Speaker 1: Absolutely.

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01:11:28,840 --> 01:11:29,040
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:31,599
Speaker 1: She was in hog tiede honks.

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01:11:33,160 --> 01:11:36,200
Speaker 11: I'm sure she was list of things to watch when.

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01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 1: I go home Froggy.

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01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:38,880
Speaker 23: Yeah.

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01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:46,439
Speaker 1: Finally, female porn star or Yankee Candlecent. April Showers, Now

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01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 1: that is a porn star. Well, it's both a porn

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01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:54,240
Speaker 1: star and it might be, but I've definitely seen her

1614
01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:57,720
Speaker 1: in a film or two. Yeah, April Showers start in

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01:11:57,840 --> 01:12:01,400
Speaker 1: t NA housewise, but I can't tell you what she

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01:12:01,439 --> 01:12:05,000
Speaker 1: smells like at the Yankee candle Store. There you go,

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Speaker 1: Thank you for playing female porn store or Yankee Candle sin. Yeah,

1618
01:12:09,640 --> 01:12:13,240
Speaker 1: so if you found out that your friend is being

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01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 1: cheated on, uh, do you tell them?

1620
01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:18,640
Speaker 7: So I love this topic because it actually happened in

1621
01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:22,160
Speaker 7: my life, and I did not tell her because it

1622
01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:24,880
Speaker 7: was so rampant and everybody knew about it and everybody

1623
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:27,240
Speaker 7: was talking about it that I just assumed she knew too,

1624
01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:28,639
Speaker 7: and she didn't want.

1625
01:12:28,479 --> 01:12:30,200
Speaker 11: To ever address it. So I never said anything. And

1626
01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:31,040
Speaker 11: she was my best friend.

1627
01:12:31,479 --> 01:12:33,800
Speaker 7: And I woke up one day on our couch in

1628
01:12:33,880 --> 01:12:37,200
Speaker 7: our apartment to her jumping a glass of water on me, and.

1629
01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:39,679
Speaker 11: I was like, what happened? She was like, you knew.

1630
01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:42,160
Speaker 11: I can't believe you knew. She was so angry.

1631
01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:42,559
Speaker 8: Wow.

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01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:45,559
Speaker 7: So from that point I will always tell someone. I'm like, wait,

1633
01:12:45,680 --> 01:12:47,880
Speaker 7: you didn't know what is going on. She's like, you're

1634
01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:49,800
Speaker 7: my best friend. I can't believe you wouldn't tell me this.

1635
01:12:49,880 --> 01:12:51,960
Speaker 7: I think you should tell know that you're going to

1636
01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:53,920
Speaker 7: lose the friend, but you still gotta tell Yeah.

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01:12:54,040 --> 01:12:55,680
Speaker 1: See that's the key there. There is a good chance

1638
01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:57,280
Speaker 1: you're going to lose a friend, yes, because there is

1639
01:12:57,320 --> 01:12:59,680
Speaker 1: a good chance even though someone cheated on someone else,

1640
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:00,599
Speaker 1: they could get back together.

1641
01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:02,680
Speaker 7: And now you're the enemy, right, because of course we

1642
01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:04,280
Speaker 7: all do that thing where we're like, well, I never

1643
01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:06,120
Speaker 7: liked him anyway, he was a jerk and blah blah,

1644
01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:08,120
Speaker 7: and when they get back together, then you're the bad guy.

1645
01:13:08,479 --> 01:13:10,799
Speaker 24: But you have a clear conscience, So I know Danielle

1646
01:13:10,840 --> 01:13:14,960
Speaker 24: would definitely you know you're gonna find out because I

1647
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:18,120
Speaker 24: feel like the person deserves the right to decide whether

1648
01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:20,160
Speaker 24: or not they should continue with that person, yes, and

1649
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:21,439
Speaker 24: not to live a life a lot.

1650
01:13:21,520 --> 01:13:25,880
Speaker 1: So you you made that your decision, yes, about their.

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01:13:26,120 --> 01:13:28,680
Speaker 9: Relationship because I think that because if it was me,

1652
01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:32,360
Speaker 9: I would want you to tell me because I would

1653
01:13:32,439 --> 01:13:34,200
Speaker 9: want to know, and I would want to be able

1654
01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:36,280
Speaker 9: to make that decision. So going from what I would

1655
01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:38,760
Speaker 9: want in my own life, I feel like it's only

1656
01:13:38,840 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 9: fair that other people should get that choice as well.

1657
01:13:42,120 --> 01:13:44,560
Speaker 1: So if you guys found out I was being cheated on,

1658
01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:49,519
Speaker 1: what if you approached Alex and said, hey, we know

1659
01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:54,320
Speaker 1: what you're doing, cut it out, or we'll have to

1660
01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:58,920
Speaker 1: tell Elvis. I that's a better play right there. I

1661
01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:02,679
Speaker 1: don't know correct his actions and you don't affect anything.

1662
01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:05,400
Speaker 12: But then yeah, he's already done it. You're not gonna

1663
01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:07,400
Speaker 12: you're you're not gonna let Elvis know. You tell him

1664
01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:11,320
Speaker 12: or we're going to tell him. Way, this isn't really happening,

1665
01:14:11,400 --> 01:14:13,559
Speaker 12: is it not? Can you say something?

1666
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:13,840
Speaker 29: I don't know?

1667
01:14:15,080 --> 01:14:17,920
Speaker 1: I think I think we're okay, Hi, Lily, thank you

1668
01:14:18,040 --> 01:14:19,000
Speaker 1: for holding. How you doing.

1669
01:14:20,080 --> 01:14:21,680
Speaker 4: I'm good, Just getting ready to go into work.

1670
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:23,640
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, we all had to do it. But

1671
01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:25,439
Speaker 1: once you get in there, it won't be so bad. Hey,

1672
01:14:25,479 --> 01:14:27,240
Speaker 1: so we were talking about this article I read in

1673
01:14:27,240 --> 01:14:31,120
Speaker 1: the New York Times. Would you tell your friend if

1674
01:14:31,160 --> 01:14:32,560
Speaker 1: you knew they were being cheated on?

1675
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:34,800
Speaker 4: And so I would and I have.

1676
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:39,160
Speaker 1: Okay, let's let's go from there. But yeah, but the.

1677
01:14:39,200 --> 01:14:43,719
Speaker 4: Reason let me just like, like I'm gonna tell because

1678
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:46,519
Speaker 4: I would want to be told, but I'm going to

1679
01:14:46,600 --> 01:14:49,200
Speaker 4: give that person a chance to tell. Like, say, I

1680
01:14:49,360 --> 01:14:53,560
Speaker 4: found out yesterday that somebody was cheating. I'm one of

1681
01:14:53,600 --> 01:14:56,920
Speaker 4: my good friends. If I found out yesterday, I'm gonna

1682
01:14:56,920 --> 01:14:58,639
Speaker 4: talk to you today. Hey, you got to tell about

1683
01:14:58,640 --> 01:15:01,479
Speaker 4: Wednesday to tell her or I'm gonna tell her.

1684
01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:03,120
Speaker 1: All right, so you have so as soon as you

1685
01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:05,959
Speaker 1: find out there's a timer ticking, yeah right, yeah.

1686
01:15:05,920 --> 01:15:07,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I'm gonna be like if I know the person,

1687
01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:08,599
Speaker 4: like if we've been.

1688
01:15:08,520 --> 01:15:10,799
Speaker 29: Really good friends for years, and I know the husband,

1689
01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:14,479
Speaker 29: and you know, like everything's really been cool, and then

1690
01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:16,840
Speaker 29: I found this crap out. It's like, okay, dude, look

1691
01:15:17,320 --> 01:15:20,800
Speaker 29: like I love you and I love her, but you

1692
01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:23,240
Speaker 29: know you got to say something. I and and but

1693
01:15:23,479 --> 01:15:26,120
Speaker 29: it's kind of like I feel like it's a double

1694
01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 29: edged sword because I told a friend of mine that

1695
01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:31,960
Speaker 29: his girlfriend was cheating and he was talking to me

1696
01:15:32,040 --> 01:15:32,559
Speaker 29: for too much.

1697
01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:34,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is a double edged short.

1698
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:37,200
Speaker 4: And then he called me back and he was like,

1699
01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:39,320
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, and I was like, you're sorry for what.

1700
01:15:39,439 --> 01:15:41,160
Speaker 4: He was like, she was cheating and I said.

1701
01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:45,240
Speaker 1: Will but Gandhi said her. You said yourself, you are

1702
01:15:45,400 --> 01:15:46,800
Speaker 1: taking a chance at losing a friend.

1703
01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:51,000
Speaker 7: I think you're always taking a chance because there's the

1704
01:15:51,120 --> 01:15:54,000
Speaker 7: embarrassment factor, and then there's your friend being mad at

1705
01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:56,320
Speaker 7: you for telling you for telling them, being mad at

1706
01:15:56,320 --> 01:15:57,479
Speaker 7: you for not telling them sooner.

1707
01:15:57,600 --> 01:15:59,920
Speaker 11: I mean, there's a lot that goes to you exactly.

1708
01:16:00,160 --> 01:16:02,360
Speaker 1: What if you found out that all of your friends

1709
01:16:02,439 --> 01:16:04,400
Speaker 1: knew you were being cheated on and none of them

1710
01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:06,760
Speaker 1: told you, you would feel like you were I would

1711
01:16:06,800 --> 01:16:07,120
Speaker 1: feel like a.

1712
01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:11,040
Speaker 4: Frie wouldn't have any friends. We would know, like I can't.

1713
01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:13,200
Speaker 1: I couldn't do that because.

1714
01:16:12,920 --> 01:16:15,679
Speaker 4: I told a friend of mine what I had overheard.

1715
01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:20,599
Speaker 21: I accidentally overheard someone talking about, like we play Xbox

1716
01:16:20,680 --> 01:16:23,519
Speaker 21: and stuff with a few friends and a friend of mine.

1717
01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:25,519
Speaker 21: She didn't need her MIC, so I heard her and

1718
01:16:25,600 --> 01:16:28,480
Speaker 21: her husband have a conversation about another.

1719
01:16:28,240 --> 01:16:32,000
Speaker 4: Set of friends. Well, I told her, hey, I was overheard,

1720
01:16:32,680 --> 01:16:34,880
Speaker 4: you know your husband's been cheating. Well, she ends up

1721
01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:39,160
Speaker 4: finding a secret cell phone and everything he had been

1722
01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:42,680
Speaker 4: screwing around like three or four different women. Like it like,

1723
01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 4: it was worse than what I even thought. I mean,

1724
01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:48,479
Speaker 4: she lost a couple of friends, and she actually thanked me,

1725
01:16:48,640 --> 01:16:52,040
Speaker 4: and he even thanked me for telling her because he

1726
01:16:52,080 --> 01:16:52,920
Speaker 4: didn't know how to stop.

1727
01:16:53,000 --> 01:16:53,320
Speaker 18: Like it was.

1728
01:16:53,520 --> 01:16:55,599
Speaker 4: It was a crazy situation, but it ended up working

1729
01:16:55,640 --> 01:16:57,720
Speaker 4: out for him in the end. They're still together, thank god,

1730
01:16:57,880 --> 01:16:59,799
Speaker 4: you know, expecting the kid and everything.

1731
01:17:00,240 --> 01:17:01,720
Speaker 22: They're doing good.

1732
01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:03,360
Speaker 4: But I was like, you're better than me because out

1733
01:17:03,360 --> 01:17:04,679
Speaker 4: of probably throw them out a window.

1734
01:17:04,840 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, Lily, thank you for your time, taste.

1735
01:17:08,120 --> 01:17:10,760
Speaker 4: I didn't tell you about three or four. Yeah, you better,

1736
01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:12,240
Speaker 4: somebody better come pick you up.

1737
01:17:12,439 --> 01:17:15,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, listen, thank you for holding so long. I'm sure

1738
01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:17,599
Speaker 1: to appreciate your insight and have a great day. Lily,

1739
01:17:17,680 --> 01:17:18,519
Speaker 1: thanks for listening to us.

1740
01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:19,120
Speaker 14: Well, thank you.

1741
01:17:19,280 --> 01:17:19,840
Speaker 18: I love y'all.

1742
01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:20,880
Speaker 9: I'll listen every morning.

1743
01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:23,760
Speaker 27: My daughter he was listening to y'all, So I love y'all.

1744
01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:27,040
Speaker 1: Thank you, Lily, Thank you so much. Lovely Lovely Lily.

1745
01:17:27,160 --> 01:17:30,120
Speaker 1: Hello Alison, Good morning guys.

1746
01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 18: Sorry, I'm totally geeking out.

1747
01:17:31,360 --> 01:17:33,559
Speaker 1: Talking to you all, well as we are geeking out

1748
01:17:33,680 --> 01:17:37,080
Speaker 1: knowing that you're there. So you told your best friend

1749
01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:40,960
Speaker 1: her husband cheated on her. Now what led up to that?

1750
01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:45,920
Speaker 18: Did? Well? Her husband was good friends with my boyfriend

1751
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:48,120
Speaker 18: at the time, and I was living with my boyfriend

1752
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:50,439
Speaker 18: and obviously she was living with her husband and they

1753
01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:53,320
Speaker 18: didn't come home the night before, so she was worried

1754
01:17:53,400 --> 01:17:55,600
Speaker 18: and she was calling and asking me, you know, do

1755
01:17:55,640 --> 01:17:58,040
Speaker 18: you know where Allan is? Did so and so tell you?

1756
01:17:59,120 --> 01:18:02,640
Speaker 18: And my boyfriend texted me, Hey, we stayed out and

1757
01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:06,120
Speaker 18: you know, the husband cheated on my best friend. And

1758
01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:09,600
Speaker 18: without even a heartbeat, I went over to her and

1759
01:18:09,640 --> 01:18:11,680
Speaker 18: I was like, Hey, I just heard from my boyfriend and.

1760
01:18:11,920 --> 01:18:13,080
Speaker 23: Your husband cheated on you.

1761
01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:15,240
Speaker 1: Wow, how did that go down?

1762
01:18:17,360 --> 01:18:17,559
Speaker 8: Well?

1763
01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:19,519
Speaker 18: She was upset, She wasn't upset at me. She was

1764
01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:22,280
Speaker 18: upset at the situation, and she left work, went home,

1765
01:18:22,479 --> 01:18:25,280
Speaker 18: changed the locks, and within a month I moved out

1766
01:18:25,320 --> 01:18:27,080
Speaker 18: with my boyfriend and moved in with her, and he

1767
01:18:27,280 --> 01:18:28,519
Speaker 18: moved in with the husband.

1768
01:18:30,000 --> 01:18:30,200
Speaker 1: Wow.

1769
01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:32,360
Speaker 18: And then I found out my boyfriend was Then I

1770
01:18:32,400 --> 01:18:34,240
Speaker 18: found out my boyfriend was cheating on me as well,

1771
01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:37,160
Speaker 18: thanks to Facebook and the girl posting on his Facebook page.

1772
01:18:37,240 --> 01:18:41,559
Speaker 1: Oh all right, well, so so zero regrets and telling

1773
01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:45,719
Speaker 1: your friend at the very beginning when you found out, correct,

1774
01:18:45,880 --> 01:18:46,479
Speaker 1: I didn't.

1775
01:18:46,240 --> 01:18:47,920
Speaker 18: Even blink and eye. I walked right over as soon

1776
01:18:47,920 --> 01:18:49,160
Speaker 18: as I got to text, and I was like, hey,

1777
01:18:49,360 --> 01:18:51,360
Speaker 18: just to let you know. You know, my boyfriend just

1778
01:18:51,400 --> 01:18:53,360
Speaker 18: texted me and this is what they did last night.

1779
01:18:53,600 --> 01:18:54,640
Speaker 1: So all right.

1780
01:18:54,880 --> 01:18:56,680
Speaker 9: Nowadays it's a lot harder to hide it.

1781
01:18:56,920 --> 01:19:00,439
Speaker 1: No, you're good, you know, yeah, exactly. I think that's awesome. Alison,

1782
01:19:00,520 --> 01:19:02,320
Speaker 1: thank you very much, Thank you, thanks for listening to us.

1783
01:19:02,439 --> 01:19:05,160
Speaker 1: Yeah it is. Jack asked you should get caught. There's

1784
01:19:05,160 --> 01:19:06,840
Speaker 1: a million new ways to catch him. There's also a

1785
01:19:06,880 --> 01:19:07,880
Speaker 1: million new ways too cheap.

1786
01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:11,040
Speaker 9: Yeah, which is terrible. Those stupid but that stupid thing

1787
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:13,240
Speaker 9: that we thank Madison, dumbasses.

1788
01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:17,599
Speaker 1: Hey, so I have our friend Carolina on the phone. Hey, Hi, Carolina,

1789
01:19:17,680 --> 01:19:18,320
Speaker 1: how are you doing?

1790
01:19:18,720 --> 01:19:19,240
Speaker 10: Hey, babe?

1791
01:19:19,400 --> 01:19:22,360
Speaker 1: Doing great? All right, So tell us what happened?

1792
01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:26,280
Speaker 16: Oh my god. So yeah, I got one of my friends.

1793
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:28,519
Speaker 16: We weren't actually close friends. She was one of my

1794
01:19:28,600 --> 01:19:31,400
Speaker 16: friend's friends, and she spotted them at the same gym

1795
01:19:31,439 --> 01:19:34,560
Speaker 16: that we were all going together. She told me that

1796
01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:36,519
Speaker 16: it was like an every week thing, and he just

1797
01:19:36,560 --> 01:19:38,639
Speaker 16: thought that I was like one of his trainers or whatnot.

1798
01:19:39,160 --> 01:19:39,799
Speaker 1: Just so happens.

1799
01:19:39,840 --> 01:19:42,120
Speaker 16: He was lying to me telling me that, you know,

1800
01:19:42,240 --> 01:19:44,200
Speaker 16: he was working too late, that he couldn't meet up

1801
01:19:44,240 --> 01:19:46,200
Speaker 16: with me. All along, he was going to the gym

1802
01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:50,080
Speaker 16: every Tuesday with this girl. So my friend was like,

1803
01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:52,280
Speaker 16: you know what, just come with me. Let's bust them.

1804
01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:54,320
Speaker 16: Since he keeps lying to you, come with me, let's

1805
01:19:54,360 --> 01:19:54,760
Speaker 16: bust them.

1806
01:19:55,479 --> 01:19:58,000
Speaker 1: So wait, wait, so you guys were gonna she was

1807
01:19:58,040 --> 01:19:59,680
Speaker 1: going to take you to the gym and show you

1808
01:20:00,080 --> 01:20:00,600
Speaker 1: what he was.

1809
01:20:00,600 --> 01:20:05,200
Speaker 16: Doing exactly, because apparently he was super flirty hands on.

1810
01:20:05,479 --> 01:20:08,439
Speaker 16: They were kissing the whole nine yards the gym, at

1811
01:20:08,479 --> 01:20:12,479
Speaker 16: the gym, at the gym, So I went with her,

1812
01:20:12,800 --> 01:20:15,720
Speaker 16: and yeah, sure enough, they were there, all up on

1813
01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:18,040
Speaker 16: each other. I went up to him and I was like,

1814
01:20:18,160 --> 01:20:22,240
Speaker 16: oh sure, looks like you're working hard. And he did

1815
01:20:22,479 --> 01:20:25,760
Speaker 16: not know what to do with himself, Like he was like, oh.

1816
01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:26,760
Speaker 1: I don't know who she is.

1817
01:20:27,360 --> 01:20:28,360
Speaker 9: He's nothing to me.

1818
01:20:28,800 --> 01:20:29,360
Speaker 1: Exactly.

1819
01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:31,960
Speaker 16: That's how the girl reacted. She was like, what you

1820
01:20:32,080 --> 01:20:34,680
Speaker 16: told me that you were done with her? It was

1821
01:20:34,800 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 16: a whole like a scenario. I ended up just walking out.

1822
01:20:38,400 --> 01:20:40,479
Speaker 16: The girl walked out as well. She was like, he

1823
01:20:40,600 --> 01:20:43,519
Speaker 16: told me he was over with you, and I was like, no, no,

1824
01:20:44,080 --> 01:20:48,559
Speaker 16: he told you wrong, sweetie. We actually became Instagram friends.

1825
01:20:48,640 --> 01:20:54,080
Speaker 16: She dumped him, I dumped him, and yeah, but that's

1826
01:20:54,080 --> 01:20:55,519
Speaker 16: to me, we became best friends.

1827
01:20:57,479 --> 01:21:00,439
Speaker 1: Happened, you know what? And I just want to say, so, look,

1828
01:21:00,479 --> 01:21:03,439
Speaker 1: you know, I know, I know. It feels great to

1829
01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:06,680
Speaker 1: get attention from someone. It gives you those butterflies in

1830
01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:08,640
Speaker 1: the stomach, maybe the same butterflies you felt when you

1831
01:21:08,720 --> 01:21:13,160
Speaker 1: first met the person that you're actually with. Okay, Okay,

1832
01:21:13,240 --> 01:21:15,599
Speaker 1: I understand that sometimes it's hard to like turn off

1833
01:21:15,640 --> 01:21:18,439
Speaker 1: that woo they're interested in me, saying, even if you

1834
01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:20,920
Speaker 1: are knee deep or neck deep in a relationship, but

1835
01:21:21,960 --> 01:21:26,120
Speaker 1: consider the hurt that you can cause by acting on it.

1836
01:21:27,240 --> 01:21:32,000
Speaker 1: Consider what you could lose. What's at stake? Here and

1837
01:21:32,160 --> 01:21:34,640
Speaker 1: just let those butterflies just fly right out. Let them go,

1838
01:21:35,360 --> 01:21:39,439
Speaker 1: Let them fly, fly butterflies. It's true. We love you,

1839
01:21:43,520 --> 01:21:45,840
Speaker 1: and there you have it. It does, It does feel good.

1840
01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:47,479
Speaker 1: It feels good. I'll be the first. It meant. It

1841
01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:49,240
Speaker 1: feels good to get attention. It does.

1842
01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:51,960
Speaker 12: But you got to remember the person that you're cheating on.

1843
01:21:52,080 --> 01:21:54,000
Speaker 12: There was a time that that was the person you

1844
01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:56,680
Speaker 12: wanted more than anything. Absolutely, now you're cheating on them,

1845
01:21:56,760 --> 01:21:58,600
Speaker 12: and now you want somebody else. Yeah, you got to

1846
01:21:58,640 --> 01:22:00,800
Speaker 12: remember there was a time what you have that you

1847
01:22:00,920 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 12: wanted more than anything. Put your attention there.

1848
01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:05,080
Speaker 1: The reason I bring up those feelings that you do

1849
01:22:05,240 --> 01:22:08,599
Speaker 1: get when you're tempted. It's good to acknowledge those. Go okay,

1850
01:22:09,439 --> 01:22:15,160
Speaker 1: got it, gotta move on. It's true. It's whack a

1851
01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:19,599
Speaker 1: doodle time. It is whack a doodle time. Are so hard?

1852
01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:24,519
Speaker 2: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show, Elvis Duran in the

1853
01:22:24,600 --> 01:22:25,160
Speaker 2: Morning Show.

1854
01:22:26,800 --> 01:22:32,400
Speaker 1: Hey, so where's Danielle and where's Gandhi? Hey Hello, Danielle.

1855
01:22:32,520 --> 01:22:35,479
Speaker 25: Gandy's scary go round?

1856
01:22:35,680 --> 01:22:37,040
Speaker 1: Go round them up. I think they went to go

1857
01:22:37,120 --> 01:22:39,920
Speaker 1: record with something with Sam. I believe what about the

1858
01:22:39,960 --> 01:22:42,960
Speaker 1: show show? I'm not I'm not saying it's okay, I'm

1859
01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:44,760
Speaker 1: just telling where they went. Oh, okay, yes, what I

1860
01:22:44,800 --> 01:22:46,960
Speaker 1: have a pretty good internal, don't you have a pretty

1861
01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:52,360
Speaker 1: good Yeah? Hello, get in here. Hello, don't make me,

1862
01:22:52,520 --> 01:22:55,360
Speaker 1: don't make me stop this car. I'll stop this car.

1863
01:22:55,680 --> 01:22:56,519
Speaker 11: I was loading a game.

1864
01:22:57,040 --> 01:23:00,639
Speaker 1: I was loading a game. Okay, well that's that's the show. Okay,

1865
01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:02,160
Speaker 1: where's Danielle?

1866
01:23:03,320 --> 01:23:03,640
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1867
01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:06,720
Speaker 7: She might be in the bathroom, maybe because I heard

1868
01:23:06,760 --> 01:23:09,479
Speaker 7: scary screaming. And if she didn't, she had to be

1869
01:23:09,720 --> 01:23:10,519
Speaker 7: farther away than me.

1870
01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:13,680
Speaker 1: Diamond, Diamond, can you go find Danielle? Yeah, sure, tell her,

1871
01:23:14,200 --> 01:23:15,960
Speaker 1: tell her she's got a job in here on the show.

1872
01:23:17,240 --> 01:23:21,040
Speaker 1: What would happen if we were like doing a Broadway musical, Yeah,

1873
01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:24,640
Speaker 1: let's let's do Oklahoma. And what if Curly doesn't come

1874
01:23:24,680 --> 01:23:26,120
Speaker 1: out to saying, oh what a beautiful morning.

1875
01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:29,320
Speaker 11: We're not primed for Broadway Danielle and.

1876
01:23:29,360 --> 01:23:32,640
Speaker 12: I why God, he's like the person though where you

1877
01:23:32,800 --> 01:23:34,439
Speaker 12: tell her like, oh, yeah, I got I got so

1878
01:23:34,520 --> 01:23:35,400
Speaker 12: much going on over here.

1879
01:23:35,520 --> 01:23:37,479
Speaker 1: I got no time for my dog. Done. God, It's like, yeah,

1880
01:23:37,880 --> 01:23:40,200
Speaker 1: my dog just died. And then you feel terrible. You're like, no,

1881
01:23:40,400 --> 01:23:42,320
Speaker 1: where have you been? Well? I was doing something for

1882
01:23:42,400 --> 01:23:44,280
Speaker 1: the show. I was now where were you?

1883
01:23:44,680 --> 01:23:48,040
Speaker 9: So I think the soundproof studios might be a little

1884
01:23:48,080 --> 01:23:51,439
Speaker 9: soundproof because I was in the studio with Sam chatting

1885
01:23:51,479 --> 01:23:54,280
Speaker 9: about something and doing some production, chatting, well, there was

1886
01:23:54,320 --> 01:23:56,479
Speaker 9: a production piece that needed to be done because it's

1887
01:23:56,520 --> 01:23:58,600
Speaker 9: airing during our show, so I need to go in

1888
01:23:58,680 --> 01:24:00,760
Speaker 9: and do it. And someone's like, oh, didn't you hear

1889
01:24:00,880 --> 01:24:03,800
Speaker 9: Scary yelling for you? And I'm like, wow, maybe it

1890
01:24:03,920 --> 01:24:05,639
Speaker 9: is sound proof because I did not hear him.

1891
01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:08,639
Speaker 1: My question was if you go sit in your seat

1892
01:24:09,200 --> 01:24:13,439
Speaker 1: to watch Oklahoma the Musical and Curly doesn't come out

1893
01:24:13,520 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 1: to sing, oh what a beautiful morning, because he was chatting, Oh,

1894
01:24:21,080 --> 01:24:24,000
Speaker 1: look there's Curly. I mean, Danielle and Gandhia on here.

1895
01:24:24,080 --> 01:24:28,000
Speaker 1: Let Curly do the show. Well, welcome to the show.

1896
01:24:28,080 --> 01:24:29,679
Speaker 9: Thank you did Were you not here either?

1897
01:24:30,040 --> 01:24:30,080
Speaker 29: No?

1898
01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:32,439
Speaker 4: Okay?

1899
01:24:32,640 --> 01:24:34,600
Speaker 1: So I had things I had planned for the to

1900
01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:37,680
Speaker 1: talk about, but they involved Gandhi and Danielle. But now

1901
01:24:37,720 --> 01:24:40,680
Speaker 1: they're here now, Gandhy, yes, Now you know how it

1902
01:24:40,840 --> 01:24:44,479
Speaker 1: is when you, for some reason, you get bombarded with

1903
01:24:44,680 --> 01:24:49,920
Speaker 1: ads when you're online and you're whatever. She keeps getting Daniell,

1904
01:24:50,200 --> 01:24:55,320
Speaker 1: Gandhi keeps getting ads from companies that help you bleach

1905
01:24:55,720 --> 01:24:59,800
Speaker 1: your anal hair. What it is or zapp?

1906
01:25:00,400 --> 01:25:02,120
Speaker 7: I send it to Elvis because I thought people didn't

1907
01:25:02,120 --> 01:25:03,799
Speaker 7: believe me about what was happening.

1908
01:25:04,120 --> 01:25:06,240
Speaker 1: I remember it used to be bleaching. Now it's zapping.

1909
01:25:06,960 --> 01:25:09,320
Speaker 1: It's anal hair self zapping.

1910
01:25:09,800 --> 01:25:13,479
Speaker 9: You look ye like, maybe no you sure?

1911
01:25:13,680 --> 01:25:14,400
Speaker 11: I sure have not?

1912
01:25:14,800 --> 01:25:16,439
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're you talking about it?

1913
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:18,640
Speaker 7: I get maybe at some point, I don't know what

1914
01:25:18,720 --> 01:25:20,519
Speaker 7: goes on in this room that my phone hears. Maybe

1915
01:25:20,560 --> 01:25:23,120
Speaker 7: that's what it is because we were having a conversation

1916
01:25:23,200 --> 01:25:25,800
Speaker 7: about something along those lines not too long ago.

1917
01:25:26,080 --> 01:25:28,200
Speaker 1: I guess next time you're not in the room when

1918
01:25:28,240 --> 01:25:29,880
Speaker 1: we need you, we'll just pick up your phone and

1919
01:25:29,920 --> 01:25:33,000
Speaker 1: start seeing things like that my anal hair, it's already

1920
01:25:33,040 --> 01:25:34,760
Speaker 1: in there, yeah, but now it's going to be in

1921
01:25:34,880 --> 01:25:36,200
Speaker 1: all our phones. What are you doing?

1922
01:25:36,800 --> 01:25:37,280
Speaker 18: So what is it?

1923
01:25:38,000 --> 01:25:41,559
Speaker 1: It's a little a laser thing for your anal.

1924
01:25:41,400 --> 01:25:44,920
Speaker 7: Hand Yeah, it's a handhold. It's a HANDHELDLD No, it's

1925
01:25:44,920 --> 01:25:47,400
Speaker 7: a handheld laser laser thing.

1926
01:25:47,560 --> 01:25:50,599
Speaker 1: But the graphics for it? Do you imungine on your

1927
01:25:50,600 --> 01:25:51,160
Speaker 1: shower wall?

1928
01:25:51,360 --> 01:25:52,800
Speaker 11: I think you could try all of these things. I

1929
01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:54,560
Speaker 11: don't think you are prevented from sitting on it.

1930
01:25:54,640 --> 01:25:56,639
Speaker 1: No, here it is like a suction cup on it home.

1931
01:25:57,760 --> 01:25:58,280
Speaker 1: How does that work?

1932
01:25:58,520 --> 01:25:58,880
Speaker 11: I don't know.

1933
01:25:58,960 --> 01:26:00,760
Speaker 7: I haven't gotten it. I just say because I was like,

1934
01:26:00,800 --> 01:26:02,960
Speaker 7: what in the hell have I been searching? Because it

1935
01:26:03,080 --> 01:26:05,840
Speaker 7: is harassing me? Targeted ads for removing your booty hair.

1936
01:26:05,880 --> 01:26:09,000
Speaker 1: I won if it hurts well know when Gandhi tries it,

1937
01:26:09,400 --> 01:26:13,880
Speaker 1: I want to bolt it to the headboard. Did you

1938
01:26:13,920 --> 01:26:14,719
Speaker 1: put it with the bidet?

1939
01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:15,800
Speaker 9: And like, do two things?

1940
01:26:15,880 --> 01:26:22,720
Speaker 11: There's water and electricity and who's on them?

1941
01:26:22,760 --> 01:26:23,400
Speaker 1: Who's doing it?

1942
01:26:24,040 --> 01:26:26,479
Speaker 11: Gandhi is she's got all taken care of.

1943
01:26:27,680 --> 01:26:28,599
Speaker 1: You don't have any hair?

1944
01:26:28,640 --> 01:26:31,240
Speaker 11: I don't think so, hopefully not if people did their job.

1945
01:26:35,680 --> 01:26:37,360
Speaker 9: My girlfriend went the other day to get like the

1946
01:26:37,439 --> 01:26:40,680
Speaker 9: Brazilian wax and she found a mole because we've been

1947
01:26:40,680 --> 01:26:43,439
Speaker 9: talking a lot about moles lately, in a place that

1948
01:26:43,760 --> 01:26:46,200
Speaker 9: normally you wouldn't find one. So she's going to get

1949
01:26:46,240 --> 01:26:48,639
Speaker 9: it checked. And if she hadn't gotten a Brazilian wax,

1950
01:26:48,800 --> 01:26:49,720
Speaker 9: she said, you would never have.

1951
01:26:49,720 --> 01:26:51,880
Speaker 1: Found that mole. First of all, I think moles can

1952
01:26:51,920 --> 01:26:56,200
Speaker 1: grow anywhere. Yeah yeah, yeah, so you should expect them

1953
01:26:56,240 --> 01:27:01,439
Speaker 1: in the least expected place, So you should look black

1954
01:27:01,560 --> 01:27:03,439
Speaker 1: cats are now considered good luck.

1955
01:27:03,720 --> 01:27:03,960
Speaker 4: Why.

1956
01:27:05,800 --> 01:27:07,280
Speaker 1: You know, the old days they said if a black

1957
01:27:07,560 --> 01:27:13,880
Speaker 1: cat crosses your path, yeah, change your course. Now cat

1958
01:27:13,920 --> 01:27:16,479
Speaker 1: owners are thinking that they're cats. Their black cats are

1959
01:27:16,520 --> 01:27:20,439
Speaker 1: good luck. They did a big pole. I think we're

1960
01:27:20,520 --> 01:27:24,120
Speaker 1: letting loose of those old superstitions. Now, if you saw

1961
01:27:24,200 --> 01:27:25,880
Speaker 1: a ladder, would you walk up?

1962
01:27:26,000 --> 01:27:26,040
Speaker 21: No?

1963
01:27:26,439 --> 01:27:28,320
Speaker 11: No, no, I still don't do that.

1964
01:27:28,560 --> 01:27:28,600
Speaker 18: No.

1965
01:27:28,960 --> 01:27:30,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you step on cracks?

1966
01:27:31,280 --> 01:27:31,479
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1967
01:27:31,680 --> 01:27:32,280
Speaker 1: Not on purpose.

1968
01:27:32,280 --> 01:27:32,320
Speaker 18: No.

1969
01:27:32,400 --> 01:27:34,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to break my grandma's back. It was

1970
01:27:34,439 --> 01:27:37,000
Speaker 1: your mother's back. Well, your grandma's so much to mom.

1971
01:27:37,080 --> 01:27:37,760
Speaker 11: Yeah, that is true.

1972
01:27:38,840 --> 01:27:41,760
Speaker 9: I've always thought black cats were good luck. My mom

1973
01:27:41,840 --> 01:27:43,479
Speaker 9: had a black cat for the longest time and it

1974
01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:46,880
Speaker 9: crossed our path all the time. Like I'm like, okay, do.

1975
01:27:46,880 --> 01:27:48,640
Speaker 1: You ever stoping all the bad things in life that

1976
01:27:48,680 --> 01:27:50,960
Speaker 1: have happened to me? Now I know why I think it.

1977
01:27:50,920 --> 01:27:53,200
Speaker 11: Should be the hairless cat. If the hairless cat crosses

1978
01:27:53,240 --> 01:27:53,599
Speaker 11: your path.

1979
01:27:54,240 --> 01:27:56,200
Speaker 1: You know there are people who love those hairless cats,

1980
01:27:56,280 --> 01:27:59,240
Speaker 1: and you are really producer Sam is one of them

1981
01:28:00,000 --> 01:28:04,360
Speaker 1: so badly. But anyway, so, uh superstitions, Yeah, what are

1982
01:28:04,479 --> 01:28:04,920
Speaker 1: other ones?

1983
01:28:05,000 --> 01:28:05,120
Speaker 4: Oh?

1984
01:28:05,280 --> 01:28:07,280
Speaker 9: The penny I will not pick the penny up or

1985
01:28:07,360 --> 01:28:09,760
Speaker 9: any kind of a coin. If it is heads down.

1986
01:28:10,160 --> 01:28:12,120
Speaker 9: If it's heads up, I'll pick it up. It's heads down,

1987
01:28:12,160 --> 01:28:13,439
Speaker 9: I do not don't go near me. I don't want

1988
01:28:13,479 --> 01:28:13,720
Speaker 9: touch it.

1989
01:28:13,760 --> 01:28:15,360
Speaker 1: But I don't know. Maybe it's in the construction of

1990
01:28:15,400 --> 01:28:17,920
Speaker 1: the penny. But I've rarely ever seen a heads up penny.

1991
01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:19,000
Speaker 1: I saw one the other day.

1992
01:28:19,840 --> 01:28:20,519
Speaker 9: Did you pick it up?

1993
01:28:20,600 --> 01:28:20,760
Speaker 26: Yeah?

1994
01:28:20,760 --> 01:28:21,000
Speaker 1: I did.

1995
01:28:21,640 --> 01:28:23,200
Speaker 7: I always thought it was bad luck to look at

1996
01:28:23,240 --> 01:28:25,040
Speaker 7: the clock or to look at any number when it

1997
01:28:25,080 --> 01:28:27,320
Speaker 7: said nine to one one, And for the last six

1998
01:28:27,600 --> 01:28:30,439
Speaker 7: plus months it is all I see anywhere all the time.

1999
01:28:30,680 --> 01:28:31,920
Speaker 11: So I've been freaking out about it.

2000
01:28:32,320 --> 01:28:34,360
Speaker 7: And then a friend of ours, who does you know,

2001
01:28:34,439 --> 01:28:36,400
Speaker 7: like mediumship stuff, she said, look up what it means

2002
01:28:36,400 --> 01:28:38,720
Speaker 7: as an angel number, and it's actually very good luck.

2003
01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:43,400
Speaker 1: Okay, so we've been misinformed. Well here's open. So opening

2004
01:28:43,400 --> 01:28:45,439
Speaker 1: an umbrella in the house now, that is.

2005
01:28:45,520 --> 01:28:48,200
Speaker 9: One of the biggest things I'm against. Oh my gosh.

2006
01:28:48,960 --> 01:28:51,479
Speaker 9: You know the other thing is that's big. Don't count

2007
01:28:51,520 --> 01:28:53,760
Speaker 9: how many cars are in a funeral procession if you

2008
01:28:53,880 --> 01:28:56,240
Speaker 9: pass it, because apparently they say that's how many years

2009
01:28:56,280 --> 01:28:56,920
Speaker 9: you have left.

2010
01:28:56,800 --> 01:28:58,240
Speaker 1: In your car. I've never heard that one.

2011
01:28:58,400 --> 01:29:00,559
Speaker 9: Yeah, So when I see a funeral pass me by.

2012
01:29:00,600 --> 01:29:02,200
Speaker 9: I closed my eyes quickly and I'm.

2013
01:29:02,080 --> 01:29:07,519
Speaker 1: Like, drive off the room. Also, you know what the

2014
01:29:07,640 --> 01:29:08,360
Speaker 1: number thirteen?

2015
01:29:08,960 --> 01:29:09,840
Speaker 11: No, that's good luck?

2016
01:29:10,040 --> 01:29:14,599
Speaker 1: Is it good luck? But different cultures have different different numbers.

2017
01:29:14,800 --> 01:29:18,040
Speaker 1: In Italy, the number seventeen is considered unlucky.

2018
01:29:18,479 --> 01:29:23,120
Speaker 9: Don't Some buildings not have a thirteenth floor, technically doesn't,

2019
01:29:23,200 --> 01:29:25,519
Speaker 9: but it's still the thirteenth floor.

2020
01:29:26,320 --> 01:29:32,080
Speaker 1: Say thirteen, right, one of my floor is not the

2021
01:29:32,160 --> 01:29:34,320
Speaker 1: thirteenth floor. They named it. They named it something else.

2022
01:29:35,680 --> 01:29:38,320
Speaker 1: So yeah, is that just a New York thing? Is

2023
01:29:38,360 --> 01:29:39,120
Speaker 1: it an everywhere thing?

2024
01:29:39,280 --> 01:29:39,600
Speaker 9: I don't know.

2025
01:29:39,680 --> 01:29:42,280
Speaker 1: I've seen that another place other places too. Yeah, well,

2026
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:44,640
Speaker 1: the fourteenth floor is actually the thirteenth floor. Let's be real, right,

2027
01:29:45,960 --> 01:29:48,920
Speaker 1: uh placing? Oh no, I've heard of this one. If

2028
01:29:48,960 --> 01:29:51,400
Speaker 1: you get a bowl of rice and you're eating Asian

2029
01:29:51,439 --> 01:29:56,120
Speaker 1: food whatever, it never ever take your chopsticks and put

2030
01:29:56,200 --> 01:29:58,400
Speaker 1: them down in the rice where they're sticking up there,

2031
01:29:58,400 --> 01:30:02,000
Speaker 1: sing that's you're gonna die. Yeah, it's reminiscent of food

2032
01:30:02,040 --> 01:30:03,080
Speaker 1: offerings left for the dead.

2033
01:30:03,520 --> 01:30:04,519
Speaker 11: Oh oh, I know that?

2034
01:30:05,040 --> 01:30:05,200
Speaker 10: Is it?

2035
01:30:05,280 --> 01:30:07,479
Speaker 7: Three stocks of bamboo is supposed to be bad. You

2036
01:30:08,040 --> 01:30:09,479
Speaker 7: get a plant that has three really?

2037
01:30:09,640 --> 01:30:10,720
Speaker 1: Yes, I heard that too.

2038
01:30:11,040 --> 01:30:12,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, because I wanted to buy Andrew one, and then

2039
01:30:12,680 --> 01:30:14,120
Speaker 7: we looked it up because they all have different meanings,

2040
01:30:14,120 --> 01:30:15,280
Speaker 7: and it was like, never purchase three.

2041
01:30:15,520 --> 01:30:18,320
Speaker 1: Also heard never kill a ladybug. Oh yeah, I want

2042
01:30:18,479 --> 01:30:21,320
Speaker 1: to do that. Never put your hat on the bed.

2043
01:30:22,479 --> 01:30:25,080
Speaker 1: That's an old cowboy thing. I learned that from Yellowstone

2044
01:30:25,240 --> 01:30:25,840
Speaker 1: or your shoes.

2045
01:30:25,960 --> 01:30:26,960
Speaker 9: I thought your shoes too.

2046
01:30:28,560 --> 01:30:30,000
Speaker 1: They got fecal all over them.

2047
01:30:30,760 --> 01:30:33,600
Speaker 20: Yes, Sam, I learned after I got engaged. I'm not

2048
01:30:33,720 --> 01:30:36,160
Speaker 20: allowed to hand someone my ring. If they want to

2049
01:30:36,160 --> 01:30:37,439
Speaker 20: look at it and put it on, I have to

2050
01:30:37,479 --> 01:30:39,960
Speaker 20: put it on a table or else it's bad luck

2051
01:30:40,000 --> 01:30:41,759
Speaker 20: to the marriage for all wedding rings.

2052
01:30:41,960 --> 01:30:42,080
Speaker 4: Right.

2053
01:30:42,439 --> 01:30:42,600
Speaker 23: You know.

2054
01:30:42,720 --> 01:30:46,680
Speaker 1: I have some friends who have really, really superstitious grandmother's

2055
01:30:46,720 --> 01:30:50,720
Speaker 1: Italian grandmothers, and they, I mean they put everything they

2056
01:30:51,240 --> 01:30:53,960
Speaker 1: spit on things, and you should hear the stories. Salt

2057
01:30:54,000 --> 01:30:55,840
Speaker 1: over the shoulders, Oh beyond that, the.

2058
01:30:55,880 --> 01:30:56,719
Speaker 11: Salt over the shoulder.

2059
01:30:57,360 --> 01:30:59,160
Speaker 1: Look at look it up. This means good. Look I thought,

2060
01:30:59,200 --> 01:31:00,840
Speaker 1: I think if you spill salt, you're supposed to throw

2061
01:31:00,840 --> 01:31:03,360
Speaker 1: it over your shoulder. Okay, I've heard, yes, Gary, speaking.

2062
01:31:03,120 --> 01:31:05,240
Speaker 19: Of Italian grandmother's, I never heard of this one from

2063
01:31:05,320 --> 01:31:09,000
Speaker 19: this texture. What never put Italian bread upside down on

2064
01:31:09,120 --> 01:31:09,599
Speaker 19: the table.

2065
01:31:10,720 --> 01:31:12,240
Speaker 1: Oh, I've never heard of that, ever heard of that?

2066
01:31:12,600 --> 01:31:14,840
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm sure there are many, many many

2067
01:31:14,920 --> 01:31:18,639
Speaker 1: superstitions in many many different cultures and many many different families.

2068
01:31:18,760 --> 01:31:20,880
Speaker 7: Well, with Indian people, we don't ever give money in

2069
01:31:21,120 --> 01:31:23,599
Speaker 7: zero amounts at the end. So if it's one hundred dollars,

2070
01:31:23,640 --> 01:31:25,240
Speaker 7: we won't give a hundred, We'll give one hundred and one.

2071
01:31:25,520 --> 01:31:30,639
Speaker 1: There you go, haha, laugh, Bunny.

2072
01:31:30,960 --> 01:31:40,479
Speaker 2: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. Elvis Duran in the

2073
01:31:40,600 --> 01:31:41,200
Speaker 2: Morning Show.

2074
01:31:42,920 --> 01:31:56,360
Speaker 1: Hey, uh, you know what spits sisters are? Right, Danielle,

2075
01:31:56,360 --> 01:31:57,880
Speaker 1: You're I'm just going to say something. What do you

2076
01:31:57,920 --> 01:31:58,960
Speaker 1: think spitz sisters are?

2077
01:31:59,120 --> 01:32:02,360
Speaker 9: It's not when you no, that's blood brothers. I'm thinking

2078
01:32:02,439 --> 01:32:02,960
Speaker 9: something else.

2079
01:32:03,040 --> 01:32:04,479
Speaker 1: Sorry, well you could be closed.

2080
01:32:04,600 --> 01:32:06,280
Speaker 9: I mean blood brothers I know is when you like

2081
01:32:06,640 --> 01:32:08,320
Speaker 9: cut your finger and they cut their finger and then

2082
01:32:08,360 --> 01:32:10,639
Speaker 9: you squish it together and your blood brothers or blood

2083
01:32:10,640 --> 01:32:11,439
Speaker 9: sisters for life?

2084
01:32:11,880 --> 01:32:12,639
Speaker 11: Is it the same thing?

2085
01:32:13,200 --> 01:32:16,760
Speaker 1: Okay, there's a mouth. Well, no, there's an article. I

2086
01:32:16,800 --> 01:32:19,599
Speaker 1: manager I'm just gonna read word for word. Last week

2087
01:32:19,680 --> 01:32:22,400
Speaker 1: I was out to drinks with two Newish girlfriends for

2088
01:32:22,479 --> 01:32:28,000
Speaker 1: a little cocktail bonding session. Halfway through our drinks, my

2089
01:32:28,160 --> 01:32:30,080
Speaker 1: ex texted me out of the blue, so of course

2090
01:32:30,160 --> 01:32:32,519
Speaker 1: it came up in conversation. As I read out his name,

2091
01:32:32,640 --> 01:32:35,400
Speaker 1: both of them laughed. Turns out all of us have

2092
01:32:35,520 --> 01:32:39,360
Speaker 1: had relationships with this man. Oh okay, one of my

2093
01:32:39,479 --> 01:32:42,000
Speaker 1: friends shouted out, Oh my god, we're spet sisters.

2094
01:32:44,160 --> 01:32:45,400
Speaker 9: That's nasty.

2095
01:32:46,000 --> 01:32:50,720
Speaker 1: There used to be another word for that, where brothers. Yeah. Yeah,

2096
01:32:51,280 --> 01:32:56,000
Speaker 1: So Nate and Scary both were with this one woman. Yes,

2097
01:32:56,400 --> 01:32:58,920
Speaker 1: and so therefore they are now eskimo brothers, which is

2098
01:32:59,080 --> 01:33:01,800
Speaker 1: far less descriptive than spitz sisters. So we discovered it

2099
01:33:01,960 --> 01:33:02,439
Speaker 1: years later.

2100
01:33:02,800 --> 01:33:05,320
Speaker 19: He was with her several years ago, like eighteen seventeen

2101
01:33:05,400 --> 01:33:06,800
Speaker 19: years ago, and then Hi was with the her like

2102
01:33:07,040 --> 01:33:08,240
Speaker 19: me sixteen fifteen years ago.

2103
01:33:08,240 --> 01:33:10,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, what's up with that? Well, Jana goes on

2104
01:33:10,280 --> 01:33:13,280
Speaker 1: to say, first of all, ew, whatever that is. It

2105
01:33:13,360 --> 01:33:15,320
Speaker 1: sounds a little gnarly, And second of all, what the

2106
01:33:15,360 --> 01:33:17,640
Speaker 1: heck is this spitch sister? Well, dear reader. According to

2107
01:33:17,680 --> 01:33:20,719
Speaker 1: the Urban Dictionary, a spitz sister is usually a friend

2108
01:33:20,840 --> 01:33:23,600
Speaker 1: or another friend, both female, that have hooked up with

2109
01:33:23,680 --> 01:33:26,439
Speaker 1: the same guy, but at different times. And yes, it

2110
01:33:26,439 --> 01:33:29,160
Speaker 1: would appear that all three of us were indeed Spitz sisters.

2111
01:33:29,600 --> 01:33:31,960
Speaker 1: They're not only the ones I share a mutual spit with.

2112
01:33:33,880 --> 01:33:36,439
Speaker 1: I figured out I've got a few in my life.

2113
01:33:37,160 --> 01:33:39,360
Speaker 1: Take for example, God, who I met on an app.

2114
01:33:39,479 --> 01:33:41,439
Speaker 1: He was halfway through telling a story about a recent

2115
01:33:41,479 --> 01:33:44,519
Speaker 1: overseas birthday trip when I quickly connected the dots. I said, wait,

2116
01:33:45,240 --> 01:33:48,920
Speaker 1: do you know in insert female friends here? He said yeah,

2117
01:33:49,120 --> 01:33:51,519
Speaker 1: and instantly felt a pang of doom. He was the

2118
01:33:51,680 --> 01:33:54,360
Speaker 1: guy she had been complaining about a month ago when

2119
01:33:54,400 --> 01:33:56,080
Speaker 1: out of the blue he suddenly went cold on her

2120
01:33:56,640 --> 01:34:00,160
Speaker 1: post overseas trip. Anyway, Spitz sisters, do you have his

2121
01:34:00,240 --> 01:34:00,639
Speaker 1: bitch sister?

2122
01:34:00,920 --> 01:34:01,240
Speaker 22: Gandhi?

2123
01:34:01,880 --> 01:34:03,479
Speaker 7: I mean, I'm sure somewhere in the world I do

2124
01:34:03,680 --> 01:34:06,680
Speaker 7: nobody that I actually know about the brothers here.

2125
01:34:07,439 --> 01:34:10,720
Speaker 9: Didn't Stoddy and Greg, Tea and Scary all make out

2126
01:34:10,760 --> 01:34:12,120
Speaker 9: with the same ball at some point?

2127
01:34:12,640 --> 01:34:14,640
Speaker 1: That's yes, there you go.

2128
01:34:15,360 --> 01:34:15,519
Speaker 4: I know.

2129
01:34:16,160 --> 01:34:20,680
Speaker 1: But what about when Scottie b and Nate peel a

2130
01:34:20,720 --> 01:34:23,000
Speaker 1: banana and they share it together, you know, like you know,

2131
01:34:23,120 --> 01:34:25,880
Speaker 1: lady in the tramp style, like the spaghetti and they

2132
01:34:25,920 --> 01:34:29,640
Speaker 1: end up in the middle. Not the same I just

2133
01:34:29,720 --> 01:34:35,080
Speaker 1: like bringing up that story. But they're banana brothers. Thank you? Garrett.

2134
01:34:35,439 --> 01:34:36,800
Speaker 1: You know what, it's really funny. Friend of mine call

2135
01:34:36,880 --> 01:34:38,160
Speaker 1: you say, I said, what are you doing? He said, well,

2136
01:34:38,160 --> 01:34:40,639
Speaker 1: we have to drive out to Lake Rung kong Koma

2137
01:34:40,720 --> 01:34:44,639
Speaker 1: this weekend. It's out of Long Island, right, how great

2138
01:34:45,400 --> 01:34:48,519
Speaker 1: Lake Rung kong Koma. And I said, I started saying

2139
01:34:48,560 --> 01:34:53,479
Speaker 1: it to myself, lake Rung kong Koma. It sounds cool, right, Yeah,

2140
01:34:53,680 --> 01:34:54,599
Speaker 1: where'd you go this weekend?

2141
01:34:54,760 --> 01:34:54,880
Speaker 31: Oh?

2142
01:34:55,000 --> 01:34:58,599
Speaker 1: Well, we went to Lake Roung kong Koma. I started thinking.

2143
01:34:58,600 --> 01:35:00,760
Speaker 1: There were so many towns in areas I love just

2144
01:35:01,640 --> 01:35:02,080
Speaker 1: to say.

2145
01:35:02,360 --> 01:35:02,559
Speaker 23: Yeah.

2146
01:35:03,400 --> 01:35:07,559
Speaker 1: I mean, they mayn't even match the brilliance and wonderful

2147
01:35:07,680 --> 01:35:12,360
Speaker 1: sound that they are when you say them, the majesty

2148
01:35:12,680 --> 01:35:18,360
Speaker 1: of Lake Ronkonkoma. And then over in New Jersey Christmas time,

2149
01:35:18,680 --> 01:35:21,280
Speaker 1: I love to go to a ho Hokus. New Jersey

2150
01:35:23,120 --> 01:35:26,160
Speaker 1: got a ho ho in it. Are there any towns

2151
01:35:26,200 --> 01:35:27,160
Speaker 1: you love to just to say?

2152
01:35:28,040 --> 01:35:32,280
Speaker 9: I like Coxsacki, New York. I mean that's where Kokshacky

2153
01:35:32,400 --> 01:35:34,960
Speaker 9: virus came from. But it's and actually I went through

2154
01:35:35,000 --> 01:35:36,720
Speaker 9: there once and I was like, wow, this is the

2155
01:35:36,840 --> 01:35:41,080
Speaker 9: Koksaky New York. I did kissing Me Florida because my

2156
01:35:41,200 --> 01:35:42,400
Speaker 9: dad used to say kissing you.

2157
01:35:42,720 --> 01:35:47,040
Speaker 1: I don't even know your Come on, don't you have

2158
01:35:47,080 --> 01:35:49,560
Speaker 1: any favorite towns? Maybe you've never been there. We like

2159
01:35:49,640 --> 01:35:51,720
Speaker 1: saying them, yeah, just to say it.

2160
01:35:52,000 --> 01:35:55,000
Speaker 7: So in India they renamed a lot of the cities

2161
01:35:55,040 --> 01:35:57,439
Speaker 7: after they made the more native names. So instead of Bombay,

2162
01:35:57,520 --> 01:36:00,000
Speaker 7: now it's Mumbai, Travandrum is now.

2163
01:36:03,840 --> 01:36:05,360
Speaker 1: Can you slow it down for it? Can we do

2164
01:36:05,439 --> 01:36:06,080
Speaker 1: slow mo on that?

2165
01:36:06,240 --> 01:36:15,080
Speaker 11: Yes? Through the unknown, the say it. You used to

2166
01:36:15,120 --> 01:36:16,160
Speaker 11: be Tramander no longer?

2167
01:36:16,320 --> 01:36:19,200
Speaker 1: What about you frog? Yeah? Dicksville, Indiana? There we go.

2168
01:36:19,640 --> 01:36:21,880
Speaker 1: I've never been there. I'd like to go there, Dicksville.

2169
01:36:23,760 --> 01:36:24,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry?

2170
01:36:24,160 --> 01:36:25,240
Speaker 11: What Uranus, Missouri?

2171
01:36:26,400 --> 01:36:27,559
Speaker 1: How far from Dicksville is that.

2172
01:36:29,520 --> 01:36:29,880
Speaker 4: You visit?

2173
01:36:29,960 --> 01:36:34,760
Speaker 1: You go to Cocksacky? What is that one out out

2174
01:36:34,880 --> 01:36:38,560
Speaker 1: in the eastern Long Island Shinnacock? Yes, because when I

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Speaker 1: first saw it it looked like the sign looks like

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Speaker 1: shiny Cock. Oh where'd you go? Well, I can't get

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Speaker 1: up one of my sunglasses. We're going to shiny Cock? Yes, scary.

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Speaker 19: I like Piscataway because then you get to say Piscataway is.

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Speaker 1: Away right anyway? Mount Baldy where's that? That's in southern

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Speaker 1: California on the way to Las Vegas, you will pass

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Speaker 1: Mount Baldy and also zizix zysics.

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Speaker 11: That sounds fun.

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Speaker 19: Shout out to Concha Hawking.

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Speaker 1: Hey Cox Corner, New Jersey, Sprayed Eagle, Wisconsin. Of course

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Speaker 1: out on Long Island, Dix Hills, it's Di I X.

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Speaker 1: By the way, Oh that's hilarious. Busville, Pennsylvania. Walks a Hatchie, Texas.

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Speaker 1: I know where that is. Place called blue Ball, Pennsylvania.

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Speaker 1: I've been through blue Ball. Oh, me too, but not

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Speaker 1: in Pennsylvania.

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Speaker 2: Elvis Duran here he is in the Morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're done, we're out of time. We'll see

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Speaker 1: you next time, so make sure you're here with us

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Speaker 1: until then. Say peace out of heybody.