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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Jonas is Sam your og Okay Storytime

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Speaker 2: My efficient brought guests without asking, and one of them

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Speaker 2: cut my bouquet. Well, we should all celebrate, so long

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Speaker 2: story short, the original efficient we chose and loved had

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Speaker 2: to back out for personal reasons. We were disappointed, but

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Speaker 2: a replacement was assigned quickly. The original choice told us

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Speaker 2: the replacement was very professional and would perform the ceremony perfectly.

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Speaker 2: Okay Storytime subreed it. I'm Sophia, I'm Dakota, and we're

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Speaker 2: here to give good advice. Schoof Ley, but we don't

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Speaker 2: have all the answers. We only know what we'd do,

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Speaker 2: So let us know what you would do in the comments,

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Speaker 2: and Op says cut to the end of the ceremony.

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Speaker 2: We do the processional and I noticed two women I've

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Speaker 2: never seen in my life sitting in the back. One

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Speaker 2: was wearing a sparkly deep V neck club dress that

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Speaker 2: had her front airbags on full display. Thankfully, the other

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Speaker 2: guest and the Efficient were both dressed for the occasion.

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Speaker 2: I was not asked if the Efficient could bring guests.

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Speaker 2: I was asked if she could stay through the reception

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Speaker 2: and said yes, but never approved extra heads. We had

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Speaker 2: a pretty strict guest limit, so that was frustrating. Got

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Speaker 2: to the reception. It's time to do my bouquet toss.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited to see which of my friends or cousins

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Speaker 2: catches the bouquet. The toss happens, I turned around and

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Speaker 2: the complete stranger in the sparkly dress is holding my

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Speaker 2: bouquet while jumping around, screaming and laughing. Who are you?

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Speaker 1: Literally? Who are you? Give me back my book? I

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Speaker 1: was supposed to throw it to someone I know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I literally be like, hey, sorry, yeah, why that back? Now?

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Speaker 1: Is it? The bouquet thing is? Who catches it gets

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Speaker 1: married next?

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Speaker 2: Right? Yeah? No?

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Speaker 1: What's going on your wedding?

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Speaker 2: Because none of us know you, We don't know who

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Speaker 2: you are. Not one of my guests celebrated with her,

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Speaker 2: so she was just alone dancing around with my bouquet

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Speaker 2: while everyone else tried to just awkwardly move past it.

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Speaker 2: People were walking up to me all night, asking me

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Speaker 2: who she was, why she was there, why she thought

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Speaker 2: it was acceptable to insert herself in the crowd for

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Speaker 2: the toss. It's been three days and my coworkers are

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Speaker 2: still talking about it. Edit. I just went onto the

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Speaker 2: company's Instagram page and saw that the original efficient who

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Speaker 2: backed out due to having surgery for his knee scheduled

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Speaker 2: on the day before the wedding, performed a ceremony on

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Speaker 2: the same date and time as my wedding.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, whoa, whoa betrayal?

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Speaker 2: What the guy who was like, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I can't.

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Speaker 2: I gotta exit cause of personal reasons.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I personally don't want to be there.

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Speaker 2: Personally just don't like you guys. This part is a

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Speaker 2: lot harder to laugh off. I'm livid about this lie.

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Speaker 2: I mean, is this just a like, where did you

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Speaker 2: find this efficient? You know? Is this like a priest?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Did you find just a people.

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Speaker 1: Who were the visual got him on fiver.

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Speaker 2: The county call to let me know my marriage license

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Speaker 2: was received, so I have post did my reviews on

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Speaker 2: all sites I could find them and another edit Thanksgiving Day.

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Speaker 2: I hope I dream this, but I just got done

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Speaker 2: arguing the facts with the efficient who was not there

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Speaker 2: because he lied and performed another ceremony instead. I have

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Speaker 2: heard nothing from the placement who brought her inappropriately dressed friends.

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Speaker 2: What were you arguing it was? He like, no, no,

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Speaker 2: she wouldn't have done that. Must have been one of

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Speaker 2: your family members.

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Speaker 1: That didn't happen. I was there in spirit.

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Speaker 2: I was there, weren't you? And then nope. He's like,

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Speaker 2: weren't you like officiating another wedding. He's like no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: No, he says, no, I was officiating my knee surgery.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. But the people who

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Speaker 2: were getting married, they were also doing the surgery. They

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Speaker 2: were the surgeons, so I thought I do them a

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Speaker 1: You probably don't know this, but it's customary in the

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Speaker 1: surgeon world to be wed over a knee surgery. Yakay.

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Speaker 1: Everyone knows that you're being culturally insensitive to surgeons.

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Speaker 2: It's just disgusting of you. Commenter one says, I'm sorry

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Speaker 2: if this happened to you. Very unprofessional on the efficient part.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure if there's a place to report them,

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Speaker 2: but I definitely would look into that. For your coworkers

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Speaker 2: to keep bringing it up is very mean and rude.

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Speaker 2: You're obviously upset about it, understandably so, so for them

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Speaker 2: to keep bringing it up is not okay. Oh, he

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Speaker 2: says honestly, at this point, I'm laughing it off. A

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Speaker 2: good friend gave us the gift of being our videographer,

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Speaker 2: and he got that moment on film. My face is priceless.

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Speaker 2: He recorded the whole toss her catching it, my guests

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Speaker 2: being like, who the f is this woman? And then

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Speaker 2: he quickly pans over to my face, where I'm like,

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Speaker 2: and it's me with a dramatic zoom. It's actually hysterical.

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Speaker 2: One of my bridesmaids went up to the women's table

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Speaker 2: and stole the bouquet back, and we gave it to

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Speaker 2: our friend that should be getting engaged very soon.

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Speaker 1: That's cute.

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Speaker 2: There we go. We fixed it.

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Speaker 1: There's a cute solution to our problems.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever beat it?

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Speaker 1: Thank the Lord?

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Speaker 2: Are what?

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Speaker 1: Huh?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever caught a bouquet?

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Speaker 1: I have not.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever been to a wedding?

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Speaker 1: I have very seldom. Yeah, I have not been to

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Speaker 2: I've been to the last wedding I went to was

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Speaker 2: in college for my cousin.

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Speaker 1: I'll just go to your wedding, all right, I'll take

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Speaker 1: Probably that'll be the one wedding.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: I only go to that one.

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Speaker 2: I've gotta admit that. I gotta say there's probably gonna

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Speaker 2: be a lot more weddings before mine.

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Speaker 1: No, it doesn't matter, I won't go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone's like, hey, to go to They'd love to

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Speaker 2: invite you to my wedding. You're like, I'm so sorry,

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Speaker 2: it's not Sophia's wedding.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh sorry, wrong name. Can't go.

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Speaker 2: For personal reasons, I can't come. Comment or two, sorry

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Speaker 2: this happened The Efficient and the Sparkly Woman's actions revealed

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Speaker 2: a lot more about themselves than about you. Don't let

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Speaker 2: their choices ruin the fact that you got married. You

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Speaker 2: can mention the surprise guest if you ever leave a

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Speaker 2: review for The Efficient, Oh, he says, I will definitely

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Speaker 2: be leaving a detailed review and attaching the video of

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Speaker 2: this happening when I do my face when my friend

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Speaker 2: zooms in on me, says it all my flabbers were guested.

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Speaker 2: Comment three says, did you pay the Efficient? I'm glad

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Speaker 2: you can laugh about it and that no permanent harm

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Speaker 2: was done. But gosh dang, that was unprofessional and as such,

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Speaker 2: I think refund would be more than called for. OHP.

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Speaker 2: He says, three hundred and seventy five dollars total. You

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Speaker 2: should get a reefin. Wow, that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Three hundred and seventy five dollars to have the guy

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Speaker 1: just go off and do a different one is insane.

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Speaker 2: If it's that much, I feel like we should start

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Speaker 2: getting our friends. They go on to like that one

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Speaker 2: website where you can get you can get certified.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we get officiated.

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Speaker 2: Huh, let's go get officiated.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, get officiated.

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Speaker 2: I'd love to officiate some.

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Speaker 1: Of the bad he's getting officiated. It's twenty twenty six.

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Speaker 1: We're officiating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna have my dad officiate my wedding. He's

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Speaker 2: not currently officiated. But that's not that hard.

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Speaker 1: Sounds very efficient.

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Speaker 2: But he's probably gonna cry. Well he does it, he

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Speaker 2: gets t re eye. He's a sweetie.

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Speaker 1: He's a cry cry kind of guy. OHP.

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Speaker 2: He should not let that moment ruin her memory of

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Speaker 2: the wedding.

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Speaker 2: He says, it was definitely a great party. And I

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Speaker 2: I married my best friend on Saturday, surrounded by friends

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Speaker 2: and family, and that's what really matters. The most common

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Speaker 2: three says, why did you say yes? You literally chose

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Speaker 2: this and now you're mad about it? Opie says, we

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Speaker 2: open bar. That's a crazy comment. Why did you say

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Speaker 2: yes to the official person that you hired for a

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Speaker 1: Should you have thought about maybe not having the wedding

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Speaker 1: at all, and then you would have avoided all of this? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: have you ever thought about that?

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Speaker 2: That's on yours, that's your fault. That's like being surprised,

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Speaker 2: you know, like you go to a doctor's office and

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Speaker 1: Surgery done, knee surgery. Perhaps you' getting.

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Speaker 2: Knee surgery done, and then there's three other people who

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Speaker 2: are just like the surgeon's friends in there, and then

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Speaker 2: this commenter was like, well, why did you get surgery?

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Speaker 2: you know, I've been having like a tweak knee thing.

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Speaker 2: You think this would help? How does it feel for you?

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Speaker 2: I told her we'd be happy to have her stay

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Speaker 2: no extra guests were mentioned. At first, I thought that

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Speaker 2: on top of recording everything. It wasn't until about thirty

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Speaker 2: down with the efficient and looked to be very close friends.

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Speaker 2: By that time, I didn't actually have time to bring

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Speaker 2: for photos with guests, questions from my coordinator, father, daughter, dance,

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Speaker 2: flat out stunned and didn't react the way I should have.

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Speaker 2: It was my wedding and I could have said, hold

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Speaker 2: on a sec, let's figure this out first. When the

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Speaker 2: coordinator pulled me aside to ask if we were ready

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Speaker 2: to cut the cake and Op should have done a

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Speaker 2: redo with her bouquet tossed. Op says, that's what my

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Speaker 2: stepmom said, but by that point my bridesmaid had already

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Speaker 2: stolen it back and given it to our other friend.

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Speaker 1: Well, in a way, that kind of it takes care

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Speaker 1: of itself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did Op get a chance to speak with the

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Speaker 2: original efficient about those extra people? He says, I didn't

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Speaker 2: one hundred guests, and I was doing my best to

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Speaker 2: barely had time to eat. I do think that commentary

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Speaker 2: the original person who was supposed to be there but wasn't,

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Speaker 2: and we already know that, Opie.

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Speaker 1: Did I think we should just have like, instead of officiants,

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Speaker 1: Yes, for sure, I am aware of this.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Basically, towards the end of Odysseus's journey, he's, you know,

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Speaker 1: Yes, she says, no, my name is and the pim

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And she says basically, I've got to finish this

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Speaker 2: And finally they're like, you know what, you got to

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Speaker 1: Oh is this is this? The arrow and the axe heads?

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Speaker 2: And if you can get the axe through all or sorry,

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Speaker 2: if you can get the arrow through all twelve axe heads,

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Speaker 1: And who did it? Homer?

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Speaker 1: So he's like, yeah, man, I gotta tell this story

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Homer disappears in his own story and he's like,

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Speaker 2: No Odysseus shows up and he's like, but anyway, that's

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Speaker 1: You just have like two people you hire off craigslists

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Speaker 1: better luck next year. Yeah, you know, and then you

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Speaker 2: Why didn't the coordinator or anyone from Op's entourage step

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Speaker 2: over things quick. I just wanted to share the story

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Speaker 2: because everyone I've talked to that was there thought it

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Speaker 2: was completely insane. The bouquet was stolen back it went

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Speaker 2: In passing to Opie clarifies on paying the efficient and

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Speaker 2: getting a refund, Opie says, we had to pay for

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Speaker 2: before the ceremony was done. But like I've said in

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Speaker 2: I'm just waiting to find out that our marriage license

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Speaker 2: was received first, because I would hate for them to

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Speaker 2: become vindictive and throw it in the shredder or something.

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Speaker 2: That's that's fair. There is a clip of the bouquet toss.

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Speaker 1: No, we can't play it.

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Speaker 2: We can't play it. Maybe what if I click it?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: So she tosses over there.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of there. Look can you see? Look tessee

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Speaker 1: if you can get it? Yeah, okay, so she's dancing.

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Speaker 2: Everyone disperses immediately.

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Speaker 1: And is it? Has it been caught?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Literally, everyone's oh, and she's just shocked that. Okay,

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Speaker 2: you look beautiful.

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Speaker 1: I agree.

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Speaker 2: Update four days later, I am sadly not here to

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Speaker 1: No, no, unhappy up date. You should have stayed gone.

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Speaker 2: You shouldn't have come back. Why would you tell us

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Speaker 2: unhappiness the original efficient we'd chosen. The liar sent me

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Speaker 2: about my review on Thanksgiving Day. Firstly, he states that

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Speaker 2: shows this to be laughably false. I'm sorry his first

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Speaker 2: she caught it fair and square, finders, keepers, losersweepers.

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Speaker 1: She used her gifts to get that bouquet, and there

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Speaker 1: is nothing you can do to say it was It

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Speaker 2: Two guests in the video, including the ones she snatched

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Speaker 1: That's true, that's true. We saw it.

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Speaker 2: I saw the footage. Either way, it's a mood point.

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Speaker 2: She never should have been a part of that moment

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Speaker 2: in the first place. To argue that she was just

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Speaker 2: her as completely insane to me. Secondly, he is doubling

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Speaker 2: down on his surgery line. He told me he was

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Speaker 2: I'm looking at your page.

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Speaker 1: You posted this.

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Speaker 2: I also sent him screenshots of me straight up asking

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Speaker 2: mountains of evidence. He is literally in a photo with

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Speaker 2: as the twenty second. He's like, that's not me.

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Speaker 1: This is all a conspiracy, deep fake AI to get

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Speaker 1: me on the OFFICIENT blacklist.

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Speaker 2: As you can see in that picture, my eyes are

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Speaker 2: closed because I'm actually lying down and they photoshopped it

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Speaker 1: Yes, we had a hologram version of me flown in

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Speaker 2: And he like walks in with a limp, but it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: He's like, I had to meet you here, Op, And

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Speaker 2: he has a cane and he's like, as you can see,

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Speaker 2: I couldn't possibly have been at that wedding.

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Speaker 1: Can't to tell by my fancy cane.

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Speaker 2: I can't even begin to understand what he thinks he's

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Speaker 2: doing by repeatedly lying to me about this. I did

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Speaker 2: sixth platforms I posted them on. So far, there is

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Speaker 2: a little bit left to this story. Any final thoughts.

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Speaker 1: I think the real solution to this was to just

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Speaker 1: do it again immediately.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, but it seems like, you know, other bridesmaids

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Speaker 2: had already given it to someone else, so you couldn't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you could have because it was your wedding,

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Speaker 1: so you could have been like, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't know her. I'm sorry. I don't know you though,

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Speaker 1: so I don't want you to catch that. Let's do

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Speaker 1: this one more time. Let's do it again. Yeah, immediate

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Speaker 1: friends only, please, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I think I think if OP had acted quickly, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But if you, well, if she had the hunger in her,

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Speaker 1: she would have done a meeting. She would get it again.

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Speaker 1: Once you guys do it again.

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Speaker 2: She goes again, you will fight for that bouquet. You

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Speaker 1: It can't just be given. It must be taken.

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Speaker 2: You must fight, all right to win the bouquet. Thirdly,

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Speaker 2: he says that efficients never stay for the reception and

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Speaker 2: So now he's just denying that she was even.

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Speaker 1: There, and he and again this guy just was not there. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Apparently he was getting He says that the replacement only

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Speaker 2: stayed at our direct request. Well, but do you have

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Speaker 1: Do you have like ten proof if the efficient already

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Speaker 2: would be at the bar ordering tequila shots immediately after

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Speaker 2: the license was signed. Do you have any of this

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Then why did you say these things.

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Speaker 2: That should have been a red flag in hindsight, Because

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Speaker 2: We told the replacement that she could as well during

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Speaker 2: not approve extra guests coming with her, nor did she

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Speaker 1: That's it.

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Speaker 2: That's the update. And comment one says, please include his

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Speaker 2: to know what a loon this guy is. Oh, he says,

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Speaker 2: I did. My reviews are extremely detailed, and I included

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Speaker 2: problem and that he was being a professional. Were you

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Speaker 2: though you professionally were nowhere to be found on the

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Speaker 1: So yeah, this guy gets really grumpy about faked knee surgery.

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Speaker 2: He's like, you know, whenever I fake getting my knee done, ah,

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Speaker 2: it just push me in a terrible mood.

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Speaker 1: I hate faking knee surgery, and you're making me stressed out.

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Speaker 2: Also report him to the licensing department your county's clerk

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Speaker 2: of courts. Opie says, I can do that for something

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Speaker 2: like this. We'll have to do that today. The county's

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Speaker 2: free to post my reviews. I'm definitely going to call

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Speaker 2: the county and see if they take formal complaints like this.

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Speaker 2: I got a bit caught up at work and responding

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Speaker 2: to Reddit comments today, but I set a reminder for tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: And Ope responds to a comment about having a close

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Speaker 2: friend being ordained to do the wedding. Oh Pie says,

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Speaker 2: public speaking terrifies me. So you're basically a saint in

441
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Speaker 2: my eyes. Lol. I would have loved for a friend

442
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Speaker 2: to officiate, but we couldn't really figure out who to ask.

443
00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:12,959
Speaker 2: We're all neurodivergent and introverted. Well, yeah, I guess sometimes

444
00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,600
Speaker 2: you got outsource. Common three says this is such a

445
00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:19,920
Speaker 2: crazy story. His commitment to lies and excuses is wild.

446
00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:23,960
Speaker 2: Like the jig is up, my guy, Apologize, refund and

447
00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:27,679
Speaker 2: move on would be the professional response. Gas Lighting in

448
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Speaker 2: the face of so much video and photo evidence is

449
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Speaker 2: a sign of an unwell mind, in my opinion, Anope,

450
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Speaker 2: he says yes, and not only that, but in his

451
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Speaker 2: text to me, he says word for word, multiple individuals,

452
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Speaker 2: including vendors, reported something very different. I have spoken to

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Speaker 2: all of my vendors. I got married at an all

454
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Speaker 2: inclusive venue. I had exactly three vendors, efficient photographer, and venue.

455
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Speaker 2: The venue handled food, cake, linen's dishes, cutlery, champagne, flutes,

456
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Speaker 2: et cetera. On site. I used faux florals that were

457
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Speaker 2: bought online pre arranged. I myself spoke to my photographer

458
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Speaker 2: and the venue contact coordinator, who are both just as

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Speaker 2: appalled as I am. He also says, word for word

460
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Speaker 2: in closing, your wedding day should have been filled with joy,

461
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Speaker 2: and I'm genuinely sorry if anything during that day caused

462
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Speaker 2: you stress or disappointment. However, the statements in your review

463
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Speaker 2: misrepresent both the events and the professionalism of my team.

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Speaker 2: With all the verified facts, messages, and video evidence we

465
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Speaker 2: have on file, I kindly request that you remove the

466
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Speaker 2: inaccurate review from Yelp and any other platform where it

467
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Speaker 2: may have been posted. Should the review remain, I will

468
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Speaker 2: be required to publicly correct the record using the factual

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Speaker 2: information and documentation available. I sincerely wish you and your

470
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Speaker 2: husband the very best moving forward, and I hope this

471
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Speaker 2: clears up any misunderstandings reflected in your review. Dude, if

472
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Speaker 2: you can do that, go do that. Why are you

473
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Speaker 2: bothering OP about it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? What is the did you hire a private investigator

475
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Speaker 1: to also stake out the wedding? And you're like, no,

476
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Speaker 1: I know you're lying because of.

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Speaker 2: You weren't there.

478
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Speaker 1: Weren't freaking there, Dude, you weren't there. Where's your what

479
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,200
Speaker 1: evidence do you have? You were not there?

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Speaker 2: If you had just said, oh, I'm so sorry, I

481
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Speaker 2: can't believe she acted like that. Well, probably wouldn't even

482
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Speaker 2: have left of review.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and if it would have been at least like, oh,

484
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Speaker 1: well this was bad. But at least they were like

485
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Speaker 1: they were helpful. Yeah, they handle it, you know, reached

486
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Speaker 1: out with concerns.

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Speaker 2: He was not there. He has not spoken to any

488
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Speaker 2: of my vendors. I specifically asked them if he'd reached out.

489
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Speaker 2: They confirmed he has not. His only eyewitness account are

490
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Speaker 2: from the replacement and are two uninvited guests. I copied

491
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Speaker 2: and pasted both of those quotes directly from his text.

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Speaker 2: Comment or four says, why would he e efficient have

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Speaker 2: a team? Is he trying to imply that these random

494
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Speaker 2: people were part of his team? Oh? Pieces, Yes, he

495
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Speaker 2: runs an efficient company basically, Well, it's not very official

496
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Speaker 2: and it's not very efficient. You're efficient, I should say

497
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Speaker 2: he was.

498
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Speaker 1: Trying to be too efficient with his efficients, but instead

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Speaker 1: he created an omissient of his sufficient and he's deficient.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's the end of that story, and we've

501
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Speaker 2: got another one coming right up.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, do we my sister disrespected me at my

503
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Speaker 1: own wedding. Get out. I've explicitly told my sister twice

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Speaker 1: on two separate occasions. Which does that mean you told

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Speaker 1: her four times, one being the wedding rehearsal yesterday that

506
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Speaker 1: she cannot invite people to my wedding behind my back

507
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Speaker 1: and that her best friend is not coming. But she

508
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Speaker 1: wouldn't be my sister if she respected me and didn't

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Speaker 1: try to center everything around herself. By the way, this

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Speaker 1: comes from user worldly Might thirty one eighty three. And

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Speaker 1: if you want to submit your own stories, go to

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Speaker 1: the r slash Okay storytime, suppurate it and we are

513
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Speaker 1: here to give a good advice, goofily, but we don't

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Speaker 1: have all the answers. We only know what we would do,

515
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Speaker 1: So tell us what you would do down in the comments.

516
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Speaker 1: And Op says she knew about our wedding date before

517
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Speaker 1: her baby was even conceived. He is welcome to be

518
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Speaker 1: there or not the baby.

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Speaker 2: He is welcome to be here.

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Speaker 1: We can't be banning the baby.

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Speaker 2: The baby, I guess can come.

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Speaker 1: Baby kind of needs to come, probably maybe a little bit,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe come. Her drinking buddy is not coming.

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Speaker 1: It makes no sense to have a babysitter if the

525
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Speaker 1: baby being sat is going to be at the wedding,

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Speaker 1: because then my sister can take care of him.

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Speaker 3: WHOA, I kind of actually get the desire to bring

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Speaker 3: a babysitter because you want to enjoy the wedding, but

529
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Speaker 3: maybe you want to have the baby close by just

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Speaker 3: in case anything goes wrong.

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Speaker 1: I gotta get that, just someone to hand the baby to. Yeah,

532
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Speaker 1: you can be babyless for just a brief moment.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's fair.

534
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Speaker 1: It sounds like you just really don't like her friend.

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Speaker 2: Damn.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is just an excuse to have someone there.

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Speaker 1: She wants to drink with, and someone I have met

538
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Speaker 1: maybe twice in my life. We are having a small wedding,

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Speaker 1: and frankly, just the disrespect of first inviting someone and

540
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Speaker 1: then asking me if it's okay when I had already

541
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Speaker 1: heard from others she had is bad enough. But then

542
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Speaker 1: when I said no. Telling me yesterday at the wedding

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Speaker 1: rehearsal that her friend will need a seat at the

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Speaker 1: back of the chapel was a real are you effing serious? Moment? Honestly,

545
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Speaker 1: I bet she will try to ignore me again and

546
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Speaker 1: have her friend there. There isn't much I can do

547
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Speaker 1: except preempt a few people to boot her bestie out

548
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Speaker 1: on my behalf if it comes to it. This is

549
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Speaker 1: just so expected, typical, really unsurprising, and I really wish

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Speaker 1: it wasn't. I wish my sister would respect me on

551
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Speaker 1: my day and not put herself first. All she has

552
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Speaker 1: to do is be there with or without baby baby

553
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 1: being dropped off after the ceremony. Fine, easy dandy, but no,

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Speaker 1: I am not having someone who does not know my

555
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Speaker 1: family be there without being invited. I will update with

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Speaker 1: what happens. Either way, it will be my happy day.

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Speaker 1: Families be family ing, and there is an update, they're.

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Speaker 2: Sure is there? Sure is?

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Speaker 1: I think she shows up to the wedding and you

560
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Speaker 1: become best friends.

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Speaker 2: With a drinking buddy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think it'll all work out. I think you gotta.

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Speaker 2: You know what, if you really want to ban people,

565
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 2: let's ban a baby. If you banned baby, then everything

566
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Speaker 2: kind of falls into place.

567
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Speaker 1: You have a written statement that has to be read

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Speaker 1: before anyone is entered allowed to enter. And when the

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Speaker 1: baby does pull some stunt like.

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Speaker 2: Nowang, did you sign that written agreement? And the body's like,

571
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Speaker 2: we're all because it can't write, and you're like, oh,

572
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Speaker 2: you can't be in here because you didn't sign the

573
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Speaker 2: written agreement. Baby.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, baby, but it clearly says in your baby

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Speaker 1: email that I sent you. I don't know if you

576
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Speaker 1: got that. Yeah, you're out, baby, Yahoo, yaboo who And

577
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 1: then the baby just goes this is ridiculous, yeah, and

578
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Speaker 1: walks out, walks off smoking a big cigar cigar baby.

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Speaker 1: Cigar Baby's a classic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone knows that.

581
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Speaker 1: In fact, you should have a cigar baby at your wedding.

582
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Speaker 2: Everyone needs a cigar baby at their wedding.

583
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Speaker 1: You can say you can bring the baby. But it's

584
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Speaker 1: gotta be's gonna come.

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Speaker 2: Craze cigar baby.

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Speaker 1: It's got to be in the shape of a cigar baby.

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Speaker 2: It has to be in the shape of a cigar baby.

588
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like the silhouette.

589
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 2: So it's always in a shadow.

590
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, you don't want people to know you like

591
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:06,640
Speaker 1: the babies poke a cigar No, no, no, no. There's

592
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: a lot of layers to that, but let's just get

593
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Speaker 1: into the update. First of all, thank you for all

594
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:13,360
Speaker 1: the well wishes and congratulations. The wedding was perfect from

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Speaker 1: the moment Hubby. Yeah and I locked eyes from across

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Speaker 1: the ceremony. We were in tears and never stopped smiling.

597
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 1: Our little toddler wild Card brought so many laughs, and

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Speaker 1: the day was all about love and family. Everything was

599
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Speaker 1: stunning and went smoothly, and I wish every moment lasted

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Speaker 1: a lifetime.

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Speaker 4: And now the drama, yeah, maybe you just like maybe

602
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Speaker 4: they mean like they had to play Yeah they yes,

603
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Speaker 4: they did a Shakespeare production and they were like, oh

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Speaker 4: the drama.

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Speaker 2: It was great. Yeah, did a little did a little

606
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Speaker 2: much ado. Pretty nice that wedding scene. Not too good.

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00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: Much ado about cigar babies for those that wanted me

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Speaker 1: to remove my sister and her friend. Sorry, that didn't happen.

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00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 1: I owe a lot of people fifty bucks for those

610
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:11,120
Speaker 1: that wanted me to go lower. No contact, you got

611
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Speaker 1: your wish. Oh what she did was worse.

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Speaker 2: Oh No.

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00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: Near the end of the reception, where there was drinking,

614
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 1: dancing in good laughs, I joined in with my cousins

615
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 1: and they had a few tidbits to tell me about

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Speaker 1: having to keep my sister in check and away from

617
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,159
Speaker 1: non family. My new brother in law, a good bloke,

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00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 1: A good bloke, a nice, good bloke he is. He

619
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Speaker 1: came over and joined in on the laughing and asked

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Speaker 1: if this was about him and the other groomsman. He

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Speaker 1: whisked me away to let me know. In the light

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00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: of the next day, it is really sinking in that

623
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Speaker 1: my sister tried to woo married or coupled men at

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Speaker 1: my wedding by cornering them, feeling them up, and having

625
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: her front airbags out. Mmmmm, sister, sounds like she's got

626
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: a problem.

627
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, seems like she's going through something.

628
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: I am angry with myself for not thinking of booting

629
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Speaker 1: her her out then and there. I honestly didn't think

630
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: about that option, and everyone was downplaying it by making

631
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 1: her the butt of the joke and telling me they

632
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:08,120
Speaker 1: would keep her in line. And we have a little

633
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: bit left of this story.

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00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 2: So it seems like she doesn't have a partner in

635
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,880
Speaker 2: her or her child's life. So that's at least she's

636
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:19,159
Speaker 2: not cheating on anyone, but is trying to cheat with

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00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 2: people or make people cheat on their partners. Weird, weird behavior.

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00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 1: It feels like a very sloshy kind of behavior.

639
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems like she's probably drinking a lot.

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00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she might have been a little slooshed

641
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,719
Speaker 1: slooshed up. Man. At least it was, you know, funny

642
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 1: to them.

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00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, at least like it seems like your people at

644
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 2: the party had fun, So that's something.

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00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good they could all laugh about it.

646
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, every party needs a little bit of a drama

647
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 2: to just heighten the stakes, you know.

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00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 1: Just a sprinkle of spicy harassment from your sister. Yeah,

649
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 1: I have spicy harrassment.

650
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 2: It's like, you know, when you're a kid and you

651
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 2: go home with party favors and stuff. Adult party favors

652
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 2: are just like a big gossip, a little bit gossip. Yeah,

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00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 2: nothing else.

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Speaker 1: Suffice to say, I do not want to see her

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Speaker 1: anytime soon. I will not be spending Christmas, my kid's birthday,

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Speaker 1: or any other time with her. I have told my

657
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Speaker 1: now husband eh, and he says, if she plays dumb

658
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 1: or winds to the family, everyone will have my bag

659
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: and as simple so how many men saw your front

660
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 1: airbags at my wedding should shut her up. I do

661
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 1: feel so much disappointment. I knew she was a loose

662
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: cannon and main character syndrome have her, but I didn't

663
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: think she would be a wanna be home wrecker. It

664
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 1: is weird growing up with someone knowing them forever and

665
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: still not seeing how bad they are. We are polar opposites.

666
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to involve my mom with this. She'll

667
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: be heartbroken too. I think I'll leave it until Christmas

668
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 1: plans are discussed, and then I'll let that ball drop

669
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: and that is the end of that story.

670
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 2: There you go, Yeah, it seems like your wedding went well,

671
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 2: you got a kind of sticky relationship with your sister,

672
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 2: and then hope it all goes all right going forward.

673
00:29:57,960 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: She might not even be as bad as you think.

674
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: She might just be going through some sort of nonsense.

675
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 2: I mean, she seems to be a single mom, just

676
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 2: had her kid, might just be kind of figuring things out. Yeah,

677
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 2: it's not your responsibility though, but you know.

678
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: I do want to say, there was a startling lack

679
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 1: of cigar babies at your wedding.

680
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 2: Yes, startling whack.

681
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 1: I hope everything goes well.

682
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 2: But it can't go that well if you didn't have

683
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 2: a scar baby. Yeah.

684
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 1: Come on, but that's the end.

685
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 2: Of that story. And we've got another one coming right up.

686
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,560
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687
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Speaker 2: My friends are mortal enemies, and I refuse to attend

690
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 2: both their weddings.

691
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 1: So you're gonna go to one or you're gonna go

692
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Speaker 1: to none.

693
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 2: And this comes directly from the r slash Okay Storytime Separate.

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, I thirty one female have two friends who

695
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 2: are each other's mortal enemies. I didn't realize this until

696
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 2: I sent out a group birth the invite to a

697
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 2: group of friends after the VID. This was as soon

698
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 2: as the restrictions were lifted. Ironically, I got the VID

699
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 2: at this time However, I don't think I am either

700
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 2: of their friends anymore. By the way, this comes from No.

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Speaker 2: Map seventy six eighty eight. And if you want to

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Speaker 2: submit your own stories, go to the r slash Okay

703
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 2: storytime subburd it where this story comes from. And we're

704
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 2: here to give good advice, Scoofley. But we don't have

705
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 2: all the answers. We only know what we do, so

706
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 2: let us know what you can do in the comments,

707
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 2: and op says the reasoning for why they are mortal

708
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 2: enemies is that Astrid thirty slept with Olivia's twenty eight

709
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 2: boyfriend a decade ago.

710
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 1: Well, folks, that'll do it.

711
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 2: This guy is not the one either girl is marrying now.

712
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 2: They weren't friends prior the guy lied. Olivia stayed with

713
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 2: him for another year before meeting her husband to be.

714
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 2: Astred met her husband to be around the same time.

715
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 2: Now for the context, I went through two years of

716
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:45,239
Speaker 2: intense therapy recently. I've always been in therapy, but this

717
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 2: was therapy to get to who I am, what my

718
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 2: issues are, and why. Since the therapy ended, I have

719
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 2: aimed to be heavily self reflective and critically analyzed situations

720
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 2: I've spent all that time traveling every month to new places,

721
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 2: learning new cultures, and meeting people in different spaces. How

722
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 2: new people treat me versus how Olivia and Astrid treat

723
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 2: me is super different. For instance, new friends are always

724
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: telling me how amazing I am, I have a decent

725
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,479
Speaker 2: career path, et cetera. If I need anything, despite us

726
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 2: all living across the country, in other countries or nearby,

727
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 2: they answer the phone or follow up. There is a

728
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 2: constant flow of communication and it is super easy. Olivia

729
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 2: and Astrid treat me the same way as each other.

730
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 2: They are dispissive, nasty, and we have an expectation mismatch.

731
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 2: For instance, within three months, I had a car accident

732
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 2: and needed someone to watch my kids, thirteen and six.

733
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 2: My new friends lined up to offer support. They talked,

734
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 2: checked in, and evidenced concern. No new friends were in

735
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 2: a position to offer more than that because they couldn't drive,

736
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 2: or live far away, or we're traveling, et cetera. Astrod

737
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 2: and Olivia both ignored calls and texts. Then they acted

738
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 2: like I inconvenience them as there was no damage to

739
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 2: my car. After I finally got in touch, despite having

740
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 2: severe wayslash My mom had to travel from over an

741
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 2: hour away to help me, despite both of them either

742
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 2: living near the hospital or ten minutes away. They weren't working,

743
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 2: weren't busy. They just did not want to. However, when

744
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 2: Olivia fell out with Jasmine, she called me and I

745
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 2: popped over the same day. She cried, she vented, and

746
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 2: I sat with her every day for a couple of weeks.

747
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 2: That was the amount of time it took for them

748
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 2: to make up. When Astrad's partner had fallen asleep earlier

749
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,719
Speaker 2: on New Year's Eve, as everyone else was busy, I

750
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 2: stayed on the phone with her for two hours, listening

751
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 2: to her, inventing about her partner and reassuring her just

752
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 2: to give the whole frame of each friendship. On my birthday,

753
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 2: Astrad took us for lunch and a SPA day, but

754
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 2: she did not speak to me for the majority of

755
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 2: the day. Anytime I spoke about myself, she'd just go

756
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 2: get over at fair enough, or God, do you ever

757
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 2: shut up?

758
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Really? Oh why are we even wasting

759
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 1: our crowd?

760
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the end of that friendship. I appreciate it

761
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 2: is a spa day, and it is all about relaxation. No, no, no, no, no,

762
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 2: we're not excusing her going do you ever shut up?

763
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah? We're where there's nothing to appreciate it, uh uh

764
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 1: at all.

765
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 2: However, she mainly did her own thing. The minimum I

766
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 2: wanted was to get photos. She complained that we have

767
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 2: enough photos. She has more photos with her other friends.

768
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 2: Olivia posted photos of us from a hike around six

769
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 2: months prior. Olivia made a Facebook post wishing me the

770
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 2: best birthday, but she did not actually interact with me

771
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 2: beyond that. In contrast, in my other friendships, I was

772
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 2: bombarded with calls, texts and well wishes. I felt genuinely

773
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 2: seen and appreciated. I wasn't sent gifts or anything, but

774
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 2: they all interacted with her time, which I think is

775
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 2: the best gift. They took me for breakfasts and lunches,

776
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,720
Speaker 2: we went to concerts together, or we planned days together.

777
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 2: That's all I wanted, a day or a couple of

778
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 2: hours to interact with my friends and feel appreciated and

779
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 2: celebrate it. I did express this to all my friends

780
00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:00,120
Speaker 2: that even if I pop round for a coffee and

781
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 2: they said happy birthday, that's all I needed and wanted,

782
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 2: and that's what I got from them. On Olivia's birthday,

783
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 2: I rang her and said happy birthday. I did try

784
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 2: to arrange something with her, but she explained she was

785
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 2: busy with family. That's totally understandable. We discussed how our

786
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 2: day was, in what she got, et cetera. I asked

787
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 2: if she'd like to go for a girl's date and

788
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 2: I'd pay. She just ignored me. On Astrid's birthday, she

789
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 2: always has a weekend meal. I couldn't go due to

790
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 2: her having it on a school night late at night.

791
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 2: I offered a visit her on an alternative date, and

792
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 2: she refused. I sent her a massive box filled with

793
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 2: her favorite things, a book from her favorite author, a

794
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 2: bottle of her favorite wine, some snacks she likes, kirky earrings,

795
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 2: and a hamper set from her favorite body workshop. Anyways,

796
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 2: I noticed I would text and they would ignore it

797
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 2: until they needed to talk to their partner and they

798
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 2: were having a fight, or they'd fallen out with someone.

799
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,800
Speaker 2: I'd send memes, they'd leave me on red. The same

800
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 2: thing happens when I tried to arrange hangouts or meetups.

801
00:35:59,160 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 2: At this point, these are.

802
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:01,760
Speaker 1: Not yeah, it's it's very clear.

803
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 2: It's gout of the that's got it.

804
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: There's no friend energy at all, no zero percent friend

805
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 1: er gy zero.

806
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,759
Speaker 2: I even saw ideas for just doing adult dates like

807
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 2: food shopping together or doing DIY jobs around the house.

808
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 2: Again I'm left on red or told they're too busy. Nevertheless,

809
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 2: I could go on and on about all of this,

810
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 2: spanning over years, even when my mental health was low

811
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 2: and prior years, They've never shown up in any way,

812
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 2: just snapped at me to get over it or deal

813
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:30,879
Speaker 2: with it. And again, OK, we need to read those

814
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 2: signs when people over the course of years are just

815
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 2: not there for you when you need them and constantly

816
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 2: you know, declining your efforts, staying out or plan things.

817
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 2: Probably not your friends.

818
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 1: None of that reads as friend none.

819
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 2: Of it Yet if they have any minor inconvenience, I

820
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 2: need to be there. So I stopped calling, stop texting,

821
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 2: and stopped going over and beyond for them. I just

822
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 2: left it. I don't post on socials anymore. They've both

823
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,160
Speaker 2: been on girls trips with friends of theirs, but I'm

824
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 2: never invited unless it's a big group gathering. Even then

825
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 2: I'm the one who gets asked to watch all of

826
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 2: the children or just sort of an add on to

827
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 2: make up group numbers or split costs. So based on

828
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 2: all this, you can imagine my surprise when I received

829
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,880
Speaker 2: save the dates from both of them for the ceremony

830
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 2: and reception, just me, though not my kids. That's fair.

831
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:23,359
Speaker 2: I was told it's a child free wedding, yet their

832
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 2: other friends are bringing their kids, so are their family members.

833
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 2: I found this out as I chatted with their family

834
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 2: members and other friends. I only deem it polite to

835
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 2: speak to acquaintances, and I've only mentioned the wedding by saying, ah, man,

836
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 2: bet you can't wait for the wedding. Then they spill

837
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 2: the beans and I just nod along, smiling. I also

838
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 2: say I received an invite, so I'm looking forward to

839
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:48,320
Speaker 2: seeing them there. However, I feel weddings are for close

840
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:50,879
Speaker 2: friends and families. I don't think i'm either of those,

841
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 2: but I appreciate that's my own values and morals. I've

842
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 2: been friends with Astrid for fifteen years in Olivia for six,

843
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 2: but I don't think we're friends. It is a very

844
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 2: much one sided friendship and I'm at the short end.

845
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, that's interesting that the cheating fiasco happened

846
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 1: when you didn't know both of them because it happened

847
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 1: a decade ago, six years ago. It seems like, if

848
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 1: we're basing it off time, you do have a clear

849
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,439
Speaker 1: person who signed you would take yeah, that you've known

850
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: for more than twice years. However, it sounds like they

851
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 1: both kind of.

852
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, So we don't really need to take either of

853
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 2: their sides because they are nasty and I'm on the

854
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 2: short end. It's making me not want to go to

855
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 2: either wedding as a guest. So would I be the

856
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 2: ale for not going to my friend's wedding? It feels

857
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 2: more like who needs enemies with friends like these? There

858
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 2: is an edit to finish off this story. Any any

859
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:45,720
Speaker 2: final thoughts.

860
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 1: I wonder if you could have like done something really funny,

861
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 1: like somehow got them to book like the same venue

862
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 1: on the same dayah, and then they would have had

863
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,440
Speaker 1: to have like sort of like a you know, like

864
00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 1: a exhibition match to see who gets to keep the venue.

865
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:06,879
Speaker 2: Bring back the betting, the betting Craigslist game.

866
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 1: What was the game?

867
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 2: The Odysseus game if they don't win.

868
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:15,439
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, just a sumo match, yes, you know whatever.

869
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 2: Bring that back and whichever one of them wins gets

870
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 2: to have the wedding venue. Personally, personally, I agree with that,

871
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 2: but there is a little bit left to the story.

872
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 2: I just wanted to thank everyone for the kind responses.

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Speaker 2: I have decided that if I receive invitations after the

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Speaker 2: initial save the date, I will politely refuse, congratulate them

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Speaker 2: again on their marriages, and move on with my life.

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Speaker 2: I also forgot to mention the reason I mentioned them

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Speaker 2: being enemies. They will not go to the same spaces.

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Speaker 2: If I attempt to throw a party, they refuse in

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Speaker 2: case the other is there. I respect that, but obviously

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Speaker 2: it puts me in the middle, and they call each

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Speaker 2: other a bad friend.

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Speaker 1: It's just like, I hate that more than anything. It's

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Speaker 1: like girls, some exceptions sometimes it it's fair.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's like if there's like an abuse relationship or yeah,

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Speaker 2: I feel unsafe.

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Speaker 1: Sure, certain circumstances predicate that. But it's like now, when

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Speaker 1: you decide to take yourself out of an environment because

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Speaker 1: of someone else's presence, they are winning. They are the

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Speaker 1: ones with the control over the situation, because if they're somewhere,

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Speaker 1: you can't be there, and you're the one making that choice,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, you're taking away your own agency and

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Speaker 1: your own freedom by making that choice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just silly, and it seems like overall they're

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Speaker 2: not really your friends. Yeah, so let's focus on other

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Speaker 2: relationships that you know are like with people that actually

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Speaker 2: have shown off for you.

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Speaker 1: Let's focus on our relationship with the self. Let's focus

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Speaker 1: on my self relationship.

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Speaker 2: But that is the end of that story.

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Speaker 1: And we've got some comments, yes we do.

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Speaker 2: These comments come from the video my wife left me

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Speaker 2: for her gay best friend and this was posted July

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Speaker 2: twenty sixth, twenty twenty five. TLDR from story one says,

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Speaker 2: oh Pe takes a demanding job to build a better future,

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Speaker 2: but while he's gone, his wife grows extremely close to

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Speaker 2: her longtime best friend, who moves into their home. She

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Speaker 2: starts prioritizing the friend, forgets dates, and even calls him

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Speaker 2: her soulmate, leaving Ope heartbroken and questioning his marriage. After

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Speaker 2: a painful confrontation and time apart, the truth comes out.

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Speaker 2: Boundaries are set, the friend agrees to move out, and

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Speaker 2: op and his wife decide to fight for the marriage

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Speaker 2: before it's too late. If you're curious to know the

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Speaker 2: full story, you can go watch the full video.

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Speaker 1: Comment one from Tiffany Smith eight three four to three

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Speaker 1: for the first story. It may not be romantic or

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Speaker 1: physical cheating, but it's one hundred percent emotional cheating on

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Speaker 1: her own. I wonder if Chuck is taking advantage of

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Speaker 1: that because he doesn't want to be alone.

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Speaker 2: That's a good thought.

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Speaker 1: It's certainly the inner workings of the human mind and

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Speaker 1: heart are very ethereal. Comment from jp eh four ee

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Speaker 1: on story one. No, she sounds like Chuck was the

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Speaker 1: one who backed out, and now that he's gone, she's

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Speaker 1: trying to get Ope back. That's a classic, a classic move.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Comment from the cat one two three six four. She

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Speaker 1: could have told op that to begin with like that,

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Speaker 1: she was worried Chuck would hurt himself if she didn't.

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Speaker 1: And from Daddy Dynastic. A lot of people trying to

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Speaker 1: justify the soulmate comment when the context clearly illustrated that

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Speaker 1: that was the reason she was prioritizing Chuck over him.

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Speaker 1: Not to mention if the excuse for that comment was

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Speaker 1: lashing out, what was the excuse for the completely casual

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Speaker 1: third wheel comment or her reaction to forgetting about their date.

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Speaker 1: Whether it's subconscious or not, She loves Chuck more than

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Speaker 1: she loves him, and her instincts were to prioritize him

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Speaker 1: over her partner's feelings.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, at the end of the day, not a great relationship,

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Speaker 2: seemed pretty unhealthy from what I remember.

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Speaker 1: Got instincts for Chuck and for Op that suck.

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Speaker 2: But that's the end of those comments, the end of

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Speaker 2: this episode. So if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 2: We love you and see you tomorrow.