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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 2: Ryan Air on Air On Air with a Ryan Seacrest, one.

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Speaker 1: Of two point seven Kiss FM. All right, Systney, TikTok

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Speaker 1: wants you to meditate. Now, this is something a lot

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Speaker 1: of people are hearing about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're introducing this new feature called meditation and Sleep

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Speaker 3: hours aim to help teens manage their screen time and

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Speaker 3: get better sleep.

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Speaker 4: So, if you're under the age.

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Speaker 3: Of eighteen and using TikTok after ten pm, the Apple

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Speaker 3: automatically pause your scrolling.

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Speaker 1: And there's not going to help people just figure outw

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Speaker 1: to bypass.

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Speaker 4: The well they want you.

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Speaker 3: They're going to want to lead you through a guided

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Speaker 3: meditation to help you wind down. If you keep on

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Speaker 3: scrolling after the meditation, it'll give you another gentle nudge

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Speaker 3: to take a break.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I guess that's probably the extent of it.

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Speaker 1: I still bypass right.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you can buypass it whatever, but at least maybe

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Speaker 3: like it does, like it jolts their system. They're scrolling, scrolling,

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Speaker 3: throwing ten pm hits and it's like, all right, time

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Speaker 3: to meditate, and.

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Speaker 2: Maybe they do it, maybe they don't.

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Speaker 3: But saying that this will hopefully help with teens' mental

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Speaker 3: health and all this, this.

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Speaker 1: Is, this is the impetus to this is all of

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Speaker 1: the I'm guessing are all the mental health issues kids

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Speaker 1: are having everything they're being sued too by.

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Speaker 3: Yes, in our state, TikTok is facing serious legal challenges.

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Speaker 3: A bunch of states, including California, are suing TikTok, saying

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Speaker 3: the app's been messing with kids' mental health and collecting

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Speaker 3: their info.

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Speaker 4: Also without asking.

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Speaker 3: Even the Justice Department and the FTC are jumping in

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Speaker 3: claiming TikTok's been breaking privacy rules and making the app

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Speaker 3: just way too addictive to teens specifically.

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Speaker 1: Well, they're addicted to all of us, but it's troubling

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Speaker 1: for early you know, when you're starting off in life exactly.

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Speaker 1: But didn't we watch the news or a documentary where

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying TikTok specifically, but like the early creators

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Speaker 1: of all of this stuff knew how addictive it was

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Speaker 1: that they didn't let their own kids.

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Speaker 3: Use the yapsure right, Yes, they were all interviewed and

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Speaker 3: it's like would you got your kids on it?

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Speaker 1: And the line no, no, it's bad for them. But

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Speaker 1: they created the app on the social dilemma. That was

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Speaker 1: the social that was the doc we watch. It's kiss

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Speaker 1: FM about to do a Ryan's Roses. Also, there's something

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Speaker 1: that's dividing people on the internet this morning. It's the

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Speaker 1: ex husband's ring. So tell me where you stand on this,

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Speaker 1: Sysney and Tanya. There's a thirty year old groom. Okay,

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Speaker 1: groom is thirty years old. He posted this on Ready.

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Speaker 1: He says he's got an issue with his fiance over

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Speaker 1: one detail of her wedding day outfit. She wants to

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Speaker 1: wear her deceased husband's wedding ring on a chain around

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Speaker 1: her neck and he doesn't love that anymok, what do

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Speaker 1: you think any more? Context? Yes, all right. So the

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Speaker 1: bride's name is Emily and she married this guy very

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Speaker 1: young and of courtuate. He died in a tragic accident.

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Speaker 1: Years later, she met her now fiance who's helped her

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Speaker 1: through her grief and get through anniversaries and things like that.

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Speaker 1: And Emily says she wouldn't be where she is now

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Speaker 1: now having gone through that loss, So carrying the ring

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Speaker 1: is part of who she is. But the fiance they

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Speaker 1: helped to get through all of that, doesn't love it.

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Speaker 1: Like where do you stand on him?

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Speaker 4: I think he's wrong.

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Speaker 3: If he's already been there helping her throughout the grief

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Speaker 3: and all that.

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Speaker 4: What is it to him if he wants she wants

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Speaker 1: I feel bad on both sides of this because I

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Speaker 1: feel bad. I'd always feel bad.

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Speaker 5: But maybe she can remember him in some other way,

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Speaker 5: because I just feel like a ring on a wedding

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Speaker 5: day should be your husband, the ring that you get

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Speaker 5: from your husband, not like.

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Speaker 3: Rings of But she didn't divorce this guy, I know,

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Speaker 3: but like he died, and if he wouldn't have died,

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Speaker 3: she wouldn't be marrying this new guy.

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Speaker 1: I think this is a very touchy one.

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Speaker 2: But why.

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Speaker 5: The ring?

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Speaker 1: What would let a candle or something?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Like maybe?

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Speaker 5: Or are you gonna have a chair set up like

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Speaker 5: I've seen people do, like people who have been so.

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Speaker 6: Like you put a chair in the memory of the city.

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Speaker 4: That's good for like grandma and grandpa or whatever.

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Speaker 1: You don't put a chair of your axe there.

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Speaker 6: Whatever, it's better than a ring on your wedding dage.

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Speaker 1: No, a chair stranger for me? If I almost looking

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Speaker 1: at the chair, yes, never what if somebody comes over

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Speaker 1: and they sit on your chair.

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Speaker 3: I think the ring is just it's more hidden, Like

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Speaker 3: some guests might not even know that she's.

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Speaker 4: Wearing round your wedding on your wedding dress. It's going

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Speaker 4: to be tucked into her dress. Who knows.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I can take a stand on this one,

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Speaker 1: because either way, I feel bad. Sometimes there is no

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Speaker 1: end to a story because FM okay, Ruby, So tell

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Speaker 1: us what's the drama at home?

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Speaker 7: So you know, me and David just recently moved in together,

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Speaker 7: well actually I guess it's been over a year now,

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Speaker 7: but we got our own place together. And so before that,

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Speaker 7: I never had a TV in my bedroom. I just

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Speaker 7: I don't know why. I just never wanted one. I

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Speaker 7: never cared for one. And then when we moved in together,

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Speaker 7: we initially didn't have a TV or any kind of

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Speaker 7: like projector. And then we just decided maybe we should

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Speaker 7: get a projector so we can still have like our walls.

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Speaker 7: You know, you could still put art up, you could

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Speaker 7: still have like blank walls, but you don't have you know,

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Speaker 1: But you put an image up there when there's nothing there, right.

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Speaker 7: Yes, And so we decided to get a projector.

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Speaker 2: But now I feel like it just kind of not

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Speaker 7: But when you go to sleep, it's the first thing

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Speaker 7: you uh talk about, right, You're like, what should we watch?

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Speaker 7: Versus actually like just talking to each other And I

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Speaker 1: I should do that, I do.

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Speaker 3: I don't ever talk in the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: Does this does the projector make a fan sound?

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Speaker 8: Like?

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Speaker 1: Is there a sound to the projector? Also, no, it's not.

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Speaker 2: It's not that loud. It's not loud, but I've heard

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that bothers me. I can't get past it.

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Speaker 3: It's like a projector from like when we were in school's.

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Speaker 6: Come a long way.

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Speaker 1: Really, So you're saying that because you have the projector,

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Speaker 1: it's all the anticipation about the priority of watching something.

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Speaker 7: Yes, versus like, oh, let's just talk about our day.

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Speaker 7: And again I don't need I don't need like an

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Speaker 7: hour chat. But I feel like before we would lay

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Speaker 7: you talk a little bit more, and now the focus

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Speaker 7: is on what should we watch versus that.

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Speaker 1: Will you'll think that'll burn off, like that'll go way

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Speaker 1: after the projector has been there for a while.

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Speaker 2: No, it never did before.

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Speaker 4: Don't you do that?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so if you didn't have the projector I'm a TV,

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Speaker 3: wouldn't you do this in the living room in front

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Speaker 3: you go to bed?

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Speaker 1: I don't think so, I just se does he want

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Speaker 1: to talk? I feel like he's probably thrilled with this

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Speaker 1: I'm just started to think about this whole concept. Like

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Speaker 1: when you do lay down to go to sleep, to

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Speaker 1: go to bed, I find that the time not to

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Speaker 1: bring stuff up, because then you can't fall asleep. I like,

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Speaker 1: if you know, if I'm in a relationship, I like

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Speaker 1: for us to lay there and look up at the

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Speaker 1: ceiling and do some breathing. We breathe, breathe, breathe. It's

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Speaker 1: like decompressed to sort of turn your brain off and

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Speaker 1: then to fall asleep. Yeah, I have to announce, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm flipping, and then I'm going. Then I'm not out.

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Speaker 1: I have flounce.

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Speaker 7: I read an article too that said that that is

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Speaker 7: like a relationship killer, is being on your phones or

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Speaker 7: watching TV.

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Speaker 6: Before that's all we do.

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Speaker 1: Oh I did see that as well. They actually say

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Speaker 1: the most annoying thing partners do right before bed that's

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Speaker 1: ruining relationships is using your phone. I read that book. Yeah, bedtime, So.

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Speaker 7: I think that's why I'm in my head now because

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Speaker 7: I'm like, oh my god, we do this.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you just got married a day ago.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna get through it.

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Speaker 4: We watch TV.

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Speaker 1: Sysney, She's worked through everything. Yeah, I'm the expert on

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Speaker 1: a water bottle, ased, Tanya, guess it is a sweater.

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Speaker 10: choppers choose products emotionally to cope with the cold, and

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Speaker 1: So I thought it was for the food.

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Speaker 4: It has to be for the food.

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Speaker 1: No, researchers found out that supermarkets they do it to

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Speaker 1: keep you cold so you make emotional decisions when buying.

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Speaker 1: But they don't want you to get out of there faster.

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Speaker 1: They want you to stay in linguage, just like bye

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Speaker 6: Go go go go.

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Speaker 1: Emotionally, that's what the research says. So pack a sweater

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Speaker 1: I'm great, So you don't want your sister's fiance to

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Speaker 11: It's my fiance, she's saying, don't ask him, because.

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Speaker 4: Ask me, like she doesn't think they're going to go

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Speaker 11: It' it's it's my fiance. She's like, she doesn't want

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Speaker 1: But if it's your fiance, then listen to your fiance.

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Speaker 6: Don't ask But it's his groomsmen, but he doesn't really care.

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Speaker 12: Sounds like yeah, but they're asking they're asking me to

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Speaker 1: At their wedding. Q.

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Speaker 3: That is going to cause a big stir. I think

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Speaker 1: But why, guys, do you can ask for for your

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Speaker 4: It does to Evan.

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Speaker 11: And my sister.

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Speaker 12: My sister is going to be a bride's maid in

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Speaker 4: I think it would be personally just include him?

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Speaker 1: I don't like it weddings get conscious, like they're two complicated.

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Speaker 4: It's not that give a deal to have him as

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Speaker 6: Should do what he wants to do.

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Speaker 4: He wants to have him as the groomsman.

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Speaker 13: I don't think.

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Speaker 11: I don't think you do.

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Speaker 1: Deep down, I would listen to fiance. Let's not create

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Speaker 4: Beance is creating the problems.

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Speaker 1: That's going to cause a whole bixter. Maybe it's because

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Speaker 1: I've only been to one wedding. I don't understand any

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Speaker 1: Any any guidance here? Do they give you any guidance?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 12: I mean I should try to talk her into I

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Speaker 1: To be more.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I cook her like a nice dinner and like

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Speaker 4: And then just tell her what's going to happen.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, good luck with this, Thank you. Why

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Speaker 1: do I not understand what's happening?

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Speaker 4: You did not understand what's happening, So it was coated.

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Speaker 1: Between there's a fiance, a sister in two weddings happening.

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Speaker 3: You have to do it in terms where like it's us.

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Speaker 3: So like if Tanya and Tubs are.

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Speaker 1: Getting married, I can't do that anymore.

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Speaker 4: And I'm Tub's sister, but Mark is my fiance.

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Speaker 1: I can't play this game.

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Speaker 3: Tanya doesn't want Mark to be in the wedding because

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Speaker 4: So she's telling Tubbs.

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Speaker 3: So she's telling Tubbs, don't put Mark as one of

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Speaker 3: the pictures. So the fiance is the one that's causing

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Speaker 1: Maybe he needs to break up.

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Speaker 5: It's fine, no, but like, honestly, it's like she's not

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Speaker 4: Your your ex is it groomsman?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 4: How is he all the picture?

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Speaker 5: Because there's in all the family photos we took, like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well I was in a picture of your

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Speaker 6: Wedding on your own I.

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Speaker 1: Did, yeah, you did? You lies? Kiss Let me get Jessica,

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Speaker 1: and this is interesting Jessica and Woodland Hills. So the question, Jessica,

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Speaker 1: as I understand it, is, is it a problem that

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Speaker 1: his Netflix?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that's the question. Like, you know, we've been dating

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Speaker 1: Still a bubble, a little circle with her name.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, like with her name and like the little picture

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Speaker 9: and it's not just Netflix, is also his HBO maximum.

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Speaker 8: No.

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Speaker 3: I thought she just had access to the past where

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Speaker 13: Yeah.

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Speaker 9: And if I wanted to like see what she's watching,

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Speaker 9: I can do that too, you know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that is not do you ever do that?

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Speaker 3: I like sabotaged like a bunch of baby Shark videos,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think having the bubbles too much. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I know use mine because I'm like I didn't want's that. Uh,

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Speaker 1: but the password thing is a little more complicated. I

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Speaker 6: That complicated all the passwords, just change it.

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Speaker 4: It's been a year year, I don't like the bubble.

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Speaker 1: I don't like the bubble. I think it's a problem.

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Speaker 1: What does your boyfriend say about it?

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Speaker 9: Like he says it's fine. You know, she can't afford it.

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Speaker 9: He doesn't mind sharing it, and like, you know, to me,

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Speaker 9: it's like a sign he can't let her go. Yeah, okay, cool.

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Speaker 9: So I'm like not overreacting, but like if I'm.

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Speaker 1: you have a bubble?

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Speaker 14: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: I do. So it's weird. So it's like his ount

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Speaker 9: her account because it's older than my account. You know,

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Speaker 9: I'm third on the tear.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, this has gotta stop.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you need delete the bubble. He needs to understanding.

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Speaker 4: Give me the password. I'll do it for you.

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Speaker 1: See you very upset about it, all right, thank you, Jess. No,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'd be pissed too.

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Speaker 1: Hey, I have just show you, guys, show me how

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Speaker 1: to get rid of the close captioning. I can never

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Speaker 4: You want to get rid of it? Why?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I don't need it on all the shows cause I

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Speaker 4: Oh I love caption.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes it comes up before what they say, and I

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Speaker 15: I'm good. How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm great? Thank you? So how can we help you?

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Speaker 1: You're not sure if you should end things with a

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Speaker 1: our wheelhouse. What's up? What's the story?

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Speaker 15: Okay? Basically is that I've been casually dating this guy

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Speaker 1: But when you're seeing other guys at the same time,

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Speaker 1: I want to know what's that? What that means means

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Speaker 15: It means that we're not like calling each other boyfriend

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Speaker 15: The issue is that he has kids, and I've always

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Speaker 1: Your age.

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Speaker 15: I have twenty seven.

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Speaker 1: And and is it because you want kids of your

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Speaker 15: Well, honestly, it's because he has spoken about his baby

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Speaker 3: If you're already having those feelings and you can't look

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Speaker 1: All right, you are living a version of this, and

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Speaker 1: potentially it wasn't twenty seven.

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Speaker 1: You've inherited kids in a way.

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Speaker 5: When I was dating, it was never it was never

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Speaker 5: just know that that's not for them, And I think

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Speaker 5: that's perfectly fine to know that.

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Speaker 1: So you should end it if you feel that way,

449
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Speaker 1: Because I think at one point thought I'm not so

450
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Speaker 1: sure I would want that. I'd like to start, you know, new,

451
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Speaker 1: fresh with everything, and then time goes by and I

452
00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:02,960
Speaker 1: don't like kids don't have kids?

453
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Speaker 4: Yeah, it doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Of your friends, an Tanya has kids and she's great.

455
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Speaker 1: You know, she has a lot of them, Tony, A

456
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Speaker 1: lot of my friends have a lot of kids.

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Speaker 6: Which friends are you telling me?

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Speaker 1: One of the single ones? Way A while back, I

459
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Speaker 1: was like, that is fine. I think I don't so

460
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Speaker 1: to me. But I'm not twenty seven, and so there

461
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Speaker 1: are a lot of things that I don't I don't

462
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Speaker 1: care about or matter to me anyway.

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Speaker 3: If I was twenty seven, I would think that's way

464
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Speaker 3: too much drama to Genesis. So I'm with you, right,

465
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Speaker 3: And if you're not feeling it, you're not feeling it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's yours. It's how you feel. Thank you

467
00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:35,879
Speaker 1: for that.

468
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Speaker 15: There's no way I could have thank you?

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Speaker 1: Okay, are you gonna end it?

470
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Speaker 15: I mean, I there is more to this story.

471
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Speaker 1: Well, what do we need to know, Jenesis? What's the

472
00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 1: genesis of this story?

473
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Speaker 4: Grab the popcorn?

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Speaker 15: Nice? I told him this, and then out of nowhere,

475
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Speaker 15: a couple of days ago, I got a DM from

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Speaker 15: his best friend trying to convince me to stay with

477
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Speaker 15: him and to keep seeing him. And now I just

478
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Speaker 15: don't know what to do.

479
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:07,919
Speaker 1: Why his best friend Pradon likes you guys together and

480
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Speaker 1: thinks he's happy it's trying to be a good friend.

481
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Speaker 15: Well should I should I give him another chance?

482
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Speaker 1: I can't tell you, like, I don't have a problem

483
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Speaker 1: with somebody having kids if I meet them, but you did, same?

484
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Speaker 15: Yeah, Okay, good point.

485
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Speaker 1: I think if we're here, you should end it, because

486
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Speaker 1: this is a you don't You don't take it to

487
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Speaker 1: the radio unless you have a strong feeling. So I

488
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Speaker 1: think you're probably better off for you ending it and

489
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Speaker 1: you'll find your right person. Thank you for thank you

490
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Speaker 1: for trusting us with the conversation, Genesis. I appreciate listening.

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Speaker 15: Okay, thank you, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Bye bye. Yeah. I think also as time goes by,

493
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Speaker 1: you start realizing I'm finding a lot of things. At

494
00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:52,520
Speaker 1: the beginning, you're like, I need all these things right

495
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 1: at the beginning one stage in your life, you're like, yes,

496
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Speaker 1: who cares, I got a boyfriend on this side? Fine,

497
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Speaker 1: matter so much?

498
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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, No, you just.

499
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Speaker 1: Need you seed a one box or two check not seven.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. In your twenties, the checklist for

501
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Speaker 3: the perfect perfect it was, Oh my gosh, it was endless.

502
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Speaker 3: But as you get older, you're just not that you compromise,

503
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Speaker 3: but you just like you. You accept things better because

504
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Speaker 3: you're wider.

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Speaker 1: You get to my chapter, you're like, totally fine, all

506
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Speaker 1: of it.

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Speaker 6: You like you like me, not a boyfriend on the side.

508
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Speaker 6: You deserve better than mine.

509
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Speaker 4: What about grandkids? Is that a deal breaker?

510
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Speaker 1: I've never asked that, but the team thinks that's hysterical.

511
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Speaker 4: I literally choking on my water.

512
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Speaker 1: Well so is somebody else back there? You're saying if

513
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Speaker 1: I met someone had grandkids, well.

514
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Speaker 4: Yeah, like there they've had kids.

515
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Speaker 1: I don't think I'm old enough for someone happening.

516
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Speaker 4: That's not truth.

517
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Speaker 3: Look at we were just talking about Manny on the streets.

518
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Speaker 3: He said grandpa now and you look at him and

519
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 3: you're like, that's guy's like my you're a little bit older.

520
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Speaker 3: But he had kids super young.

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Speaker 1: In our in our defense, like to answer question, I

522
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Speaker 1: don't find many my type, So no, it would not

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Speaker 1: work for me. There with Ryan Seacrest, one of two

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Speaker 1: point seven Kiss FM. All right, so sisnanty, you're saying

525
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 1: that if you're not meeting your soulmate, not you, it's

526
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Speaker 1: the dating app you might be using. Break it down,

527
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Speaker 1: it could.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I read this roundup of the best dating

529
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Speaker 3: apps Unmashable and it breaks down which app is best

530
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Speaker 3: for you, uh, for the person that you're looking for.

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Speaker 3: And I was actually very surprised that e Harmony came

532
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Speaker 3: out on top as one of the best apps if

533
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Speaker 3: you're serious about finding the one. I always knew it

534
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Speaker 3: was a serious back back in the day a website,

535
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Speaker 3: and so now an app. I know somebody one our boss, Biotto,

536
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Speaker 3: found her husband on e harmony and it's a very

537
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Speaker 3: more like detailed compatibility quick is that you put on

538
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Speaker 3: there and it really matches you with the right person.

539
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Speaker 3: And I truly feel like she did find the right

540
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Speaker 3: person through e Harmony. And then there's Hinge, and well,

541
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Speaker 3: as we know, is a big advocate for Hinge.

542
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Speaker 4: They say the.

543
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Speaker 3: Whole vibe is designed to be deleted, which means love

544
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Speaker 3: that it's great if you actually want the relationship. Plus

545
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Speaker 3: the prompts make it easier to kind of spark real conversations. Okay,

546
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Speaker 3: Tinder is on the list as well, which I was like,

547
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Speaker 3: I didn't I didn't know if you were still doing

548
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Speaker 3: the Tinder.

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Speaker 4: But Tinder is for casual dating.

550
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Speaker 3: That's kind of just like, that's the stigma that it's received,

551
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Speaker 3: and it's if you want to.

552
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Speaker 1: For a while.

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Speaker 4: It's if you want to meet a lot of people fast, right, Tubbs.

554
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Speaker 1: That's what I'm told you when we were hold on.

555
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Speaker 1: You did it when we were in brill in Brazil,

556
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Speaker 1: in Brazil broadcasters. Yeah, I understand that, but hold on,

557
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,679
Speaker 1: but hold on. We went to Rio to broadcast this

558
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Speaker 1: show for the Olympics for two weeks, and that's when

559
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Speaker 1: you decided to tinder tindering in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.

560
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Speaker 1: Not here, but there I met.

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Speaker 5: One of his tender days there go on e harmony

562
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Speaker 5: to meet the love of his life. And I don't.

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Speaker 1: Remember any of this. I'm just saying he took the

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Speaker 1: two weeks in Brazil to start.

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Speaker 4: It was four weeks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was also Tubbs's birthday during that vacation.

567
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Speaker 1: Slash work. Yes, so okay, don't ask how, I don't

568
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Speaker 1: ask how many matches he made something else.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Bumble is on the list. Ideal if you're making

570
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Speaker 3: the first move. You don't want to be flooded with

571
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Speaker 3: messages women message here first, So that is still a

572
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Speaker 3: fan favorite. Coffee meets Bagel is on there, Okay, so

573
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Speaker 3: they're saying that Coffee meets Bagel is good for if

574
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Speaker 3: your over decision fatigue, and it sends you curated matches daily,

575
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Speaker 3: so it's more intentional. And then, okay, Cupid is great

576
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Speaker 3: for deep thinkers. The profile is more detailed and questions

577
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Speaker 3: to help you match up with people who actually share

578
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Speaker 3: your values and interest And this one was actually kind

579
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 3: of funny to me, but I'm like, maybe it makes sense.

580
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Speaker 3: The app's called Thursday, and this one only works one

581
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 3: day of the week yep, Thursdays, and it creates this

582
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Speaker 3: sense of urgency and keeps you from getting burnt out

583
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 3: on the dating apps. So you kind of just commit

584
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Speaker 3: your Thursday to swipe look see if you match, and

585
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Speaker 3: then you don't think about it until the next week.

586
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Speaker 1: I'm overwhelmed with the streamers, the number of streamers there are,

587
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Speaker 1: the number of dating apps there are just overwhelmed with apps.

588
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Speaker 6: But think about it.

589
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Speaker 5: You could just go to any bar anywhere in any

590
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Speaker 5: city and meet someone, so it's like.

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't go to a bar to meet someone.

592
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:38,919
Speaker 6: Well maybe that's the problem.

593
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 1: Oh well, maybe it is the problem.

594
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Speaker 3: Could you imagine Ryan just walking into a bar by myself,

595
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 3: sitting under the cow by himself.

596
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Speaker 1: Hey, how are you doing?

597
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Speaker 4: I mean, I do it.

598
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Speaker 3: If I'm on vacation by myself or like a work

599
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 3: trip or something, I'll go down to the hotel bar,

600
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Speaker 3: venture out into the city.

601
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Speaker 1: Oh maybe that's your problem.

602
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 4: That's aggressive. Maybe he doesn't have a problem.

603
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe I just choose to moan about it to

604
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:21,239
Speaker 1: you guys, but truly, deep down, Yeah, please call us

605
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:25,120
Speaker 1: with any relationship drama. I'm in the mood today. Think

606
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 1: we're we're ready for it today, We're in the mood.

607
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 1: So Victoria is on the phone with a little bit

608
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Speaker 1: of this. Victoria, very interesting and I appreciate you wanting

609
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Speaker 1: to share this with us right now this morning. Tell

610
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Speaker 1: us why you are second guessing your significant other's attraction

611
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: to you.

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00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:49,360
Speaker 14: Yeah. So I'm dating someone new and he is divorced,

613
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 14: which is totally fine. He's been very upfront about that

614
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 14: since the beginning. That's not an issue. And we've been

615
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:59,160
Speaker 14: together for like two months now. But the other day

616
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Speaker 14: I was at his place and I was looking through

617
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Speaker 14: some of his pictures and I saw a picture of

618
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Speaker 14: his ex wife and we are like completely identical. We

619
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Speaker 14: look exactly the same. And I made a joke about

620
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Speaker 14: it in the moment, like Wow, you must really have

621
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Speaker 14: a type, and he acted like he maybe hadn't noticed

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Speaker 14: that we.

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Speaker 1: Look I don't know, And what are the features that

624
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Speaker 1: are so similar?

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Speaker 14: Like we both just have like the exact same dark hair.

626
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 14: We have, like it's like the same exact nose and mouth.

627
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 14: We even have like the same green eyes. It just

628
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 14: is like a pretty specific combination that is like would

629
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Speaker 14: be crazy not to notice.

630
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Speaker 1: You don't sound upset about it, So are you playfully

631
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: giving a hard time? Are you actually thinking that you

632
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: are filling the place of her?

633
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Speaker 14: Well, that's what I couldn't I think I was playfully wondering.

634
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 14: And then when he was like, oh, I have no idea,

635
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Speaker 14: Like when he was like, I've never noticed that before,

636
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 14: I was like, is this a big red flag? And

637
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 14: you're just like trying to slot me into the place

638
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 14: that your ex wife has? Like, is am I even

639
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 14: you know a factor here? Or you maybe it's.

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Speaker 4: Not an issue like, that's just he hands a type.

641
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:15,719
Speaker 1: But do people have types?

642
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 4: Certain people do? I think so?

643
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 1: Really?

644
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, look at an interesting question that Ryan provokes,

645
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 5: because we all say we have a type, right, we

646
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 5: all think we have a type, and then do you

647
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 5: end up with said type?

648
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 3: You did the man who always described Tanya looked exactly

649
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 3: like Robbie.

650
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: You think so, yeah, for sure, because you told us,

651
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 1: But not.

652
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 6: Really because not really, not really.

653
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: Nobody can see your yeah, and you cannot really because

654
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 1: not really you got it, not really, because I.

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Speaker 3: Think certain people have types, you know t tark El

656
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 3: Musa from Flip or Flop and his ex wife and

657
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 3: his new wife Heather from Selling Sunset Like they actually

658
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 3: made a joke video the other day and put it

659
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 3: on social about how much they look alive.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, Victoria. Do you watch those shows? Do you have

661
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 1: any idea what they're saying?

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Speaker 15: I haven't seen any of those shows.

663
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Speaker 1: But is he showing I mean, does he show you that,

664
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Speaker 1: like everything is everything else good in the relationship, he

665
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: shows you the kind of respect that you want to

666
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 1: That's a good question.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, I like I thought it was going super well.

668
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Speaker 14: It just kind of weirds me out, like how people

669
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Speaker 14: get the same dog and give it the same name

670
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Speaker 14: even after the first dog died.

671
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Speaker 1: I did not sorry, different show. I I mean, I

672
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Speaker 1: think if you think it's a type, but if it's

673
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Speaker 1: not bothering the relationship, then I guess he's sort of like.

674
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Speaker 4: Yeah, is he a good man? He treats you right,

675
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Speaker 4: that's all that matters.

676
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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Well, good luck, Victoria. A type? I mean,

677
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Speaker 1: Michael Calvin Harris spitting images practically twins.

678
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Speaker 4: You see what I mean?

679
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: You don't have a type.

680
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 4: I don't have a type. All my ex boyfriends look

681
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 4: completely different.

682
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Speaker 1: Rub you have a type.

683
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 4: By the way, Calvin your next boyfriend, because.

684
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 1: The magazines are going to set the record straight. I did.

685
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 2: I used to have a type, but now I mean,

686
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 2: my type is David. I don't know.

687
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Speaker 1: Good answer, Kayla, you're single type?

688
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 13: I thought I did, but I don't know if I

689
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 13: do anymore.

690
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: Well know, the type you had shouldn't be because it

691
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:31,239
Speaker 1: never works out, So get a new type. No, what

692
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: is your type?

693
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Speaker 7: I mean the looks wise, I feel like they're just

694
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 7: a little bit more like rocker like tattoos.

695
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 13: But I never actually end up with.

696
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 1: A guy like that, So change your type, type shift, but.

697
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Speaker 13: I still like that type and that it doesn't come

698
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 13: to me.

699
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 3: Don't don't give up on that type doesn't worked out

700
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 3: in the past.

701
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: Nobody has a type.

702
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 3: I think people have a type. I think you see

703
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 3: you think whatever your type is, that's your type at

704
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 3: the moment. But then all of a sudden you meet

705
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 3: somebody else and they may look completely different from that person,

706
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 3: but there's some common denominator that still connects them all

707
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 3: together because it's the type.

708
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 1: Honey, you told us every guy that you've ever dated

709
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: embodies Robbie's characteristics.

710
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 4: No, no, no, not every guy.

711
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 1: I know. I just made that, you know, I just

712
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: made really.

713
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 4: The actor that he was like, thought was so hot and.

714
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 6: Then the mixed between dev Patel and Zachary.

715
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 1: That's what I meant.

716
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 6: And then we meet Robbie.

717
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 4: I was like, literally could.

718
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Speaker 1: Be his cousin.

719
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Speaker 6: I will stand, I will die on this hill. That

720
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 6: nobody has a type. Everybody says they.

721
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 4: Have a type.

722
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 6: But you really don't.

723
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Speaker 4: Stop with the air quotes.

724
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Speaker 10: No one person who does that in your life because

725
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 10: you used to not air quote.

726
00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: Now all you do is.

727
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Speaker 6: Airport done it for the last thirty seconds because you've.

728
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Speaker 1: Got the last twenty minutes rights one O two point

729
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Speaker 1: seven kiss FM. Hey Nathan Wiskvina, how are you bro

730
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: how good? How are you solid? Thanks for asking? So

731
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: you say your girlfriend broke her arm? What's the question?

732
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Speaker 16: Yeah, So, first of all, thank you for taking my call.

733
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Speaker 16: I was just wondering if I coul get a group opinion, OK,

734
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 16: because all the west friends are all over the place

735
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 16: with their opinion. Anyways, next next week with my governor

736
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 16: and I are going up to Big Bear, just have

737
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 16: I can ask a low weekend with each other. And

738
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Speaker 16: initially I was planning on to propose to her, but

739
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 16: she unfortunately broke her arm and it's her left arm.

740
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Speaker 16: So I'm just wondering, like, should I still propose because

741
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 16: like you know, obviously left arm's you know, the ring arm,

742
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 16: the ring hand and all the photos that are going

743
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 16: to be taking. I just I don't think that she's

744
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 16: gonna love having that one time I do this have

745
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 16: the photos with the cast on.

746
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Speaker 15: So I don't know.

747
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 16: I just wonder what you guys think.

748
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 3: No, she's just gonna be so happy that you proposed.

749
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,320
Speaker 6: I don't think so you should.

750
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 4: What are you gonna wait another six months.

751
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, what's six months when you have rested her life lifetime?

752
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 4: Nobody ever looks at these pictures ever.

753
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:22,760
Speaker 3: Again, you do know you will not time out in

754
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 3: your best shape and form when this happens.

755
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 4: It doesn't matter. She's gonna be so happy she doesn't

756
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 4: ring on her finger. It doesn't matter if her whole

757
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 4: arms are broken.

758
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Speaker 1: Do it? I say, wait, this is so hard. Let's

759
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 1: get a backroom opinion on this, because sometimes we are

760
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:42,800
Speaker 1: not good.

761
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 7: I feel like, if she's been waiting for a while

762
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 7: and you are already like in the headspace that you

763
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 7: want to do it, go for it. She's gonna be

764
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 7: happy regardless. She's not gonna care about the cash. She's

765
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:54,800
Speaker 7: gonna be happy.

766
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 2: She got the ring.

767
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: Now, Nathan ask Rupy how long she waited?

768
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 2: Did you wait a lifetime?

769
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: Years?

770
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 8: Bro?

771
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 1: Years? Contracts for Newton contract renews? Oh man, you got

772
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:21,359
Speaker 1: your manicure fresh for a Yeah, it's coming gone.

773
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,439
Speaker 16: That's you guys. You guys are leaning I should still

774
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 16: do it.

775
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 4: I am leaning.

776
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 1: You're split.

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00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 6: Actually, I say no.

778
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,399
Speaker 13: I say, wait, oh, so we have is it two?

779
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:32,839
Speaker 16: No's one? Yes, I'm here.

780
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 3: I think it's going to be such a it's gonna

781
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 3: make such a great story.

782
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:41,240
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, let me take it from me, Yeah, the expert.

783
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 1: Then I would go with those who know what they're

784
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 1: talking about here when it comes engagements, good luck, brother,

785
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 1: and congratulations, good news in your life. This is kiss

786
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 1: f M l ast one a two point seven kiss FM. Uh.

787
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: So let's get into this in a relationship. It is important,

788
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 1: and we advocate that you take time to just be.

789
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: Don't even make a plan, just literally, I don't know

790
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 1: if you can. Maybe you do have to make a plan,

791
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 1: but just be, like put your phone down, put any

792
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: device that chirps away and down and like talk, yes,

793
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 1: ask questions, laugh, And people are doing this on something

794
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: called the bottle Night. Now.

795
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, so this couple went viral because they posted what

796
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 3: they do and they kind of they call it bottle night.

797
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 3: And I'm sure every couple has polished off a bottle

798
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 3: of wine or two in their day and sitting there

799
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 3: and talking and stuff like that. But I guarantee you

800
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Speaker 3: that you did not lock your phone away or didn't

801
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 3: have the TV on in the background or your Apple Watch.

802
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 4: Even so, this is.

803
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 3: Completely going off the grid, and it's almost like you're camping.

804
00:36:57,800 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 3: I don't know if you guys have ever been camping

805
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 3: where you don't have Wi Fi and you just don't

806
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:02,240
Speaker 3: have any sort of question in camping.

807
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 6: Well, I'm saying like recently, never been camping.

808
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 3: Because I just did it like two years ago and

809
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 3: it was such a trip because we were kind of

810
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,760
Speaker 3: like on two different campsites and I didn't have Michael

811
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, I'll just text it. My

812
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 3: brother looks at me, He's like, you can't text him,

813
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh my gosh, it's such a

814
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 3: weird adjustment. So, yes, going off the grid completely for

815
00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 3: bottle night means that the two of you lock your

816
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 3: phones away, the TV is off, and each of you

817
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:29,280
Speaker 3: grab a bottle of your favorite wine. So you polish

818
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 3: off two bottles by sitting there and just talking and

819
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 3: spending the taf You have your.

820
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 1: Own bottle back and forth like a couple. I guess

821
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 1: you can do whatever you want. You take a sip

822
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 1: by take a sip. You take it, and you're supposed

823
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 1: to drink it without a glass right out of Yes, yes,

824
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:47,320
Speaker 1: that's the catch.

825
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,320
Speaker 4: I think the bigger takeaway is that the devices are.

826
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Speaker 1: Out of the I'm not shocked you say that not

827
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,279
Speaker 1: the people will do that. I often will put my

828
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 1: device in a drawer just to put it out of

829
00:37:59,680 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 1: the way.

830
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 6: You're out of the yeah, out of the norm.

831
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: I put it in a drawer, And sometimes I forget

832
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: which draw I put it in, because you know, you

833
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: just sort of say I'm putting it somewhere. Then you

834
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:09,879
Speaker 1: put it away, and then you're like, what I put?

835
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 1: Where did I go? But I love to put my

836
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:15,280
Speaker 1: device away. Okay, So if we were to do bottle

837
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Speaker 1: night and put our phones away, what would you choose

838
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 1: to drink? Siciny?

839
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 3: I would definitely do a red maybe a Bordeaux.

840
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, he beats out in no time. That's

841
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 1: got a high percentage of alcohol. Well that's what I

842
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: would want if that would put me to sleep so fast. Okay,

843
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 1: what would you pick? Tanya?

844
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:42,720
Speaker 6: Probably an orange natural wine.

845
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Speaker 1: Do you like them? The color of them freaks me out?

846
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 6: Yeah, same, we do like them.

847
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:52,280
Speaker 1: Obs. What would you pick? I like a Sando VICI

848
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:57,359
Speaker 1: like a Barolo or that's what I was gonna choose,

849
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: a Sendovas. Yeah, that's good stuff, that's the and I

850
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 1: was gonna choose like an Italian wine for me, a Kianti.

851
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: I love I love a Kianti, So I would you

852
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,839
Speaker 1: we could have bottle night, bro, I'm down right. When

853
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 1: is the guy coming in from West Virginia? Though I

854
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 1: don't want to. I don't want to have a conflict

855
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 1: in your social schedule. Uh yeah, I like I like

856
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 1: to send you the grape as well. Let's make it

857
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 1: box night, everybody, come on, let's have some fun. Ruby.

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00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 1: What would your what would your bottle be?

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Speaker 2: I'd probably do like is it game or gamey.

860
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:29,839
Speaker 1: Heard of it?

861
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 7: Oh?

862
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 2: It's really good. It's a red or a pino?

863
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 1: Right? All right? Well thanks, No one's doing with Rose

864
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 1: michaela who you have?

865
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Speaker 4: That's like day drinking.

866
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Speaker 13: I probably have a pino as well.

867
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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, very very good. Answers were so sophisticated wine

868
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:57,919
Speaker 1: drinkers around here. Different guy. All right, let's come back

869
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Speaker 1: Bottle night here at two point seven kiuse all right,

870
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: every trying to save money to the grocery store. So

871
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 1: experts say, if you bring this, you'll spend less. And

872
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 1: that is not a water bottle, as Tanya guess it

873
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: is a sweater.

874
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 4: Sweater?

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00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:16,439
Speaker 10: Oh yes, smart supermarkets they keep it chilly because cold

876
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 10: choppers choose products emotionally to cope with the cold, and

877
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:20,439
Speaker 10: they spend more.

878
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: So I thought it was for the food.

879
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 4: It has to be for the food.

880
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:27,799
Speaker 1: No, researchers found out that supermarkets they do it to

881
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Speaker 1: keep you cold so you make emotional decisions when buying.

882
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:32,320
Speaker 5: I always thought they keep you cold so that you

883
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 5: want to get out of there faster, so you're like

884
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Speaker 5: moving quicker.

885
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 1: But they don't want you to get out of there faster.

886
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 1: They want you to stay in language just like bye

887
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: bye bye bye bye, go go go go emotionally. That's

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Speaker 1: what the research says, So pack a sweater to the store.

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Speaker 1: Today's quote. We do these every morning. You cannot see

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Speaker 1: your reflection in boiling water. Similarly, you cannot see the

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Speaker 1: truth in a state of anger when the water's calm

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Speaker 1: clarity comes. Just way to beat, Take a breath, don't reacts.

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