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Speaker 1: The Jewil Show on demand. I've always been an anticipator.

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Speaker 1: What is that? That's the Jewil Show. I'm sure I've

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Speaker 1: missed out on some fun times because of it, actually,

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Speaker 1: but I think I'd rather be an anticipator than make

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Speaker 1: the mistake of not anticipating. You know what I mean. No,

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Speaker 1: that is a new dating term that has come out.

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Speaker 1: A list of a bunch of new popular dating terms

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Speaker 1: has made its rounds again on the internets. It always happens,

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Speaker 1: and people learn new words to describe their weird relationships

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Speaker 1: and hand anticipation is one of them. Will tell you

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Speaker 1: what that means in just a second, and if you're

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Speaker 1: an anticipator or not, But we'll go over some of

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Speaker 1: the other ones. Communicating and you guesses on that might

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Speaker 1: be communicating That means like you're like dating multiple people. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: seeing everyone in the community. Well, I hope old homeyopper

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Speaker 1: now communicating? I don't know. It says using dating apps

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Speaker 1: not just for dating and intimate relationships, but you also

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Speaker 1: make friends and connections. That's communicating dating, Yeah, they do.

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Speaker 1: That's not dating. No, it's not deja vooing? Yeah, what

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Speaker 1: is that? Act? Or dating someone that acts like someone

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Speaker 1: in their past. Oh yeah, kind of kind of uh.

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Speaker 1: Deja vooing is a new dating term that means doing

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Speaker 1: the same things with a new partner that you did

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Speaker 1: with your acts, not learning from the past. Right. It's

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Speaker 1: really funny when I just like, when I became single

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Speaker 1: and would start dating, there would be times I'm like, oh, crap,

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Speaker 1: did I do that with him? Or him? Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: true when you're when you're just dating and you're dating

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Speaker 1: like people, right, and you'll be like talking, You'll talk

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Speaker 1: about a story and you're like, oh no, yeah, um,

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Speaker 1: I hope that was with her, and you're like, I

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Speaker 1: don't remember doing I'm like, ah, yeah, I don't know. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Hesitating another you're hesitating to somebody out. Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 1: you would think, but it is. I mean, it's pretty

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Speaker 1: obvious that you're being hesitant about something. It's as being

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Speaker 1: unsure if you want to date seriously or casually, because

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Speaker 1: life is so weird and uncertain right now, so you're like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I want to do, so I'm hesitating,

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Speaker 1: very obvious, Like every go ever that I tried today

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Speaker 1: in the past had given me that as an excuse.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I want, I don't know, resigning, resigning,

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Speaker 1: going back to your x, um, resign, resigning, resigning, resign

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Speaker 1: breaking up with somebody, yeah, which would be breaking up right, resigning.

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Speaker 1: Signing would be funny because I was resigning with an X.

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Speaker 1: I hate the word sign like that sign yeah, because

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Speaker 1: sometimes in my head sometimes it looks like sing oh

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Speaker 1: and then I'm like singing no sign resigning or resinging

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Speaker 1: that whole product. The whole thing just went on and

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't think I said that right. Resigning, Okay, resigning, Um,

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Speaker 1: I'm resigning from this relationship. I means ending a serious

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Speaker 1: relationship due to perspective and clarity gained through the pandemic.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why it has to be through the pandemic,

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Speaker 1: but I think that's a much nicer word than breaking up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm just to resign. I'm just gonna have to resign

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Speaker 1: from this. Sorry. And if you want to break up

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Speaker 1: with someone because of them and you're gonna put it

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Speaker 1: on them, you're being terminated. Write like a job. Another

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Speaker 1: popular dating term that has just come out that you

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Speaker 1: can use if you're dating darwinning. What is that? Darwin?

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Speaker 1: What a Darwin was Darwin discovered evolution, right, yeah, they

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Speaker 1: want babies, They want babies. No, it's actually really interesting.

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Speaker 1: Darwinning is a new dating term to describe refusing to

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Speaker 1: date somebody who doesn't believe in science. Oh what yeah,

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Speaker 1: wow what. It says a third of single people say

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Speaker 1: that they know somebody who doesn't believe in science and

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Speaker 1: won't date them. Be clean. I don't think I would

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Speaker 1: date someone if they didn't believe in science. Honestly, I mean,

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Speaker 1: what would you talk about. I think I would darwin

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Speaker 1: somebody if I met someone and they're just like, sorry,

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Speaker 1: I just don't believe in science. Think science exists. Show

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Speaker 1: me a study on science existing. Yeah, I'd be like, um,

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Speaker 1: show me the science on that can get the check

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Speaker 1: place you need help. Yeah. There is a list of

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Speaker 1: new dating words, and I started off talking about anticipation.

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Speaker 1: I think I do this a lot, and I've been

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Speaker 1: waiting for this. Yes, I'd be sorry I got to

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Speaker 1: it as the last one. Anticipation, Yeah, it means that

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Speaker 1: you are just you are anxious to get your hands

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Speaker 1: on somebody. Anticipation is being unsure about the physical boundaries

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Speaker 1: that are acceptable, like whether to hug, shake hands, fist

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Speaker 1: bump or do other things with your dates, so you anticipate,

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Speaker 1: you're that you're not also a thought of mine because

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Speaker 1: people are scared to do anything where I get like

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Speaker 1: going for a kiss or anything. Yeah, but generally you

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Speaker 1: need the confidence to go in for one of those

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Speaker 1: in order for it to be reciprocated. Right. But that's

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Speaker 1: why I said, I've always been an anticipator, right, And

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Speaker 1: I know sometimes it's been it comes off as like

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do anything. I'm just respectful that way, right. Also,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to make a move sometimes even if

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Speaker 1: I know I'm confident like I used to when I

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Speaker 1: was dating, right, because I'm like, I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: can't tell if they unless I can actually tell. Then

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Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, I'm not anticipating at all. Right,

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Speaker 1: I have moved very slowly with that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad I did. Also, anticipation can be a bad

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Speaker 1: thing because it can make you wait too long and

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Speaker 1: then're like this guy won't even kiss me or kept

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Speaker 1: my booty. Yeah, you know, I found some assertive Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The worst is when you both anticipate and like you

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Speaker 1: go in for a handshake, but they go in for

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Speaker 1: a hug and then you're like stuck in that weird

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Speaker 1: jingling of yeah, I don't know what to do. Or

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Speaker 1: if you're anticipating and you're going in for a kiss

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Speaker 1: and you're both are anticipating and then it's super awkward

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Speaker 1: and then the kiss is just really weird and like

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Speaker 1: what it's like on the other like half of the mouth.

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Speaker 1: It's like a first kiss. Yeah, first kisses are always

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Speaker 1: weird because of anticipation. Remember, you can follow the show

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