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Speaker 1: Steve to the mother for ste Barby, I don't join Jo.

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Speaker 1: You gotta use that turn. You gotta turn to turn

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Speaker 1: the water the water, y'all, come come on your bad

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Speaker 1: uh I show will good morning everybody. You'll listening to

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show one more time partner,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man. How amazing is that?

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Speaker 1: How good has God been to me? How good has

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Speaker 1: he been to you? Just check yourself sometimes, just sit up,

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Speaker 1: Just let's run a survey. Just look at your life,

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Speaker 1: where it's at. It might not be where you want

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Speaker 1: it to be, but that's probably some decisions you made.

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Speaker 1: But really, though, in spite of all the crazy mistakes

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's and and and to exist the

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Speaker 1: that is. That's what my mama praying for me when

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Speaker 1: I can truly tell you I have made enough mistakes man,

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Speaker 1: you've done. Marvin Sapp has a song out that says

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Speaker 1: he saw the best in me when everyone else around

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Speaker 1: that that's an important song man, especially you know. I

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Speaker 1: want to talk to men today because man, being a

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Speaker 1: my quest ever since I was a little boy. My

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Speaker 1: When I get through raising you, you will be a man.

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Speaker 1: That's all I want you to be. And he never

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Speaker 1: Manhood is difficult. Now, ladies, just listening to this, I'm

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Speaker 1: not saying womanhood ain't. I don't know what it takes

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Speaker 1: he trying to make it look like womanhood. Ain't. No,

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Speaker 1: That's not what I'm doing. I'm just talking to men

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Speaker 1: today to explain to them that daigned by the self

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Speaker 1: I've said it a thousand times. I'll say it again.

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Speaker 1: When I Talkie talking comforting with our great nurturists. But

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Speaker 1: And we and we protect that because that's in our DNA.

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Speaker 1: I own no blame to no one else but myself.

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Speaker 1: Please know. I know that. And that's how you really

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Speaker 1: here I be. You are listening to Steve Harvey is moaning.

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Speaker 1: Who hell yeah. Charlie Starberry calling from Real Junior Kills Page.

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Speaker 1: that's talent. You know how you did that was talent

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Speaker 1: So when is a good time, because I need to

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Speaker 1: Ain't what you do? You know now, I'm not a

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Speaker 1: with it, I must stop you because, see, someone, I

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Speaker 1: am not the Church. The Church says come as you all,

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Speaker 1: and God loves you just the way you are. Clearly

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Speaker 1: I don't do that. I don't love you just the

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Speaker 1: I stand off. I say, hey, made you do something

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Speaker 1: pack with cologne on it, old spice deoder it. You know,

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Speaker 1: I don't just tell y'all will give you a way

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Speaker 1: to coming up at the thirty two minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: my job. We're gonna start the show off with Tommy's

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Speaker 1: run that prank back right after this you're listening string

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Speaker 1: show coming up at the top of the hour, Miss

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Speaker 1: Anne will be here with today's national news and headlines.

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Speaker 1: But right now it's time for the nephew to run

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Speaker 1: that prank back. Well, we will all have one one day,

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Speaker 1: hopefully no time soon. But this title is tomb Stone

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Speaker 1: this man. I know he don't drawne nowhere no line

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Speaker 1: Let's go cat down home, Miss kend Hey, man, I

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Speaker 1: gotta we gotta problem with the steer home one. Let

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Speaker 1: Researchers have discovered that Americans are having less sex than

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Speaker 1: they were twenty years ago. Oh no, I'm no, I

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Speaker 1: You should have seen well. To be exact, they say

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Speaker 1: that that had no meaning. No, what is it a performance? Though?

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Speaker 1: Jack rabbit. Fun Oh Jack rabbit. Back rabbit came in

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Speaker 1: That's what they're saying. People are spending more time looking

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Speaker 1: Say little man, what is you in that talking out

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Speaker 1: where I live because I couldn't tell me I was home. O. Man,

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Speaker 1: every time my car. You ain't never that. I can't

422
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Speaker 1: even leave you know mentions. I know you're thinking about me.

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Speaker 1: All right? And on that note, the story Jack Rabbit

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Speaker 1: Sunshin you didn't lived, Jack Rabbit Sunshine you thank God

425
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Speaker 1: for the place, jr Rabbit keep your Jack. Ain't your

426
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Speaker 1: rabbit forever with the sun shining on it. Love live

427
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Speaker 1: Jack Rabbit, Jackson and the sun that shined on it.

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Speaker 1: All right, We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning

429
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Speaker 1: Show coming up right after this. You're listening to Stow

430
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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving Us coming up and I just want to remind

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Speaker 1: you all to be conscious of the people that's in

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Speaker 1: your house. These are just a few different types of

433
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 1: people that you might have, and they're usually relatives. Now, oh,

434
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Speaker 1: here's the first one. You might have a relative, Dad

435
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: that's been done some hard times. Oh yeah, that's well,

436
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 1: so I'm familiar. Here's another one. You might have a

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Speaker 1: relative dad. This's got don't work clothes, but don't have

438
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: a job ahead uniform. He got on the mill of

439
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 1: high life. Come and got a damn post office uniform

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00:29:56,400 --> 00:30:01,959
Speaker 1: on your hand. Start working on post office. Here's another

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Speaker 1: relative that you might have at Thanksgiving. Gather one of

442
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: them that have stole from their mama. So now you

443
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: gotta watch every damn move they mate. Oh yeah, let

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Speaker 1: him go in that back room. You'll not let him

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Speaker 1: go in that. Here's another relative that you might have

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Speaker 1: over on Thanksgiving. Mister black power one hundred percent, but

447
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 1: he's marrid to a white girl to the people. Here's

448
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 1: another relative that you might have over at the Thanksgiving dinner.

449
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: You got one in relatives, got a brand new car.

450
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: But what don't nobody know is he's sleeping in the

451
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Speaker 1: car because he ain't got place to live. Here is

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00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: the relative we all got, all of us got this

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Speaker 1: one ain't gonna bring a damn thing. We're gonna pack

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Speaker 1: six to go plates. Yes, I can't stand there, and

455
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 1: that man, I can't stand you go the other one.

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00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: You one of your relatives gonna bring some kids to

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving that need their ass will, but you can't do

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00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: nothing about it because they ain't chills. Yeah, better to

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00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 1: be a whole trip. That's all of us in that,

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00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: just going punch on each other, just dipping into punch,

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Speaker 1: both owing it on each other. Black ass with you

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Speaker 1: table table is dangerous. Black cass can't read? Yeah, wait

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Speaker 1: what stand? You know the kids? We'll do all that

464
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Speaker 1: working but can't read. Yeah, damn show can't read cursing.

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00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: The show came through. Yeah, and you ever had the

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00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: relatives come over to your house? That ain't nobody invite,

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00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: but somehow they found out where everybody was? Yes, wonder

468
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Speaker 1: where y'all? Oh wow, crazy, you got the relative here?

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Speaker 1: The relatives come over, swamp them down. They don't eat park,

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Speaker 1: but just turn up the greens that got park in them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, killing them that would be a hogmall

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Speaker 1: part of that right, last one. This the relative I

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Speaker 1: had on one year. I mean sure his ass don't

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Speaker 1: come back no more. Found his ass in the guess room,

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Speaker 1: fast asleep, not on top of the bed, but under

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Speaker 1: the clover. When you wake your front house, I bet

477
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Speaker 1: you are Oh yeah, dog, oh dog, I would I'm saying,

478
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Speaker 1: is in the guest rule. He was independing Lenny. All right, Steve,

479
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Speaker 1: let's get to the news. Ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne Tripp,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much, everybody sand Trip with the news.

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Speaker 1: Let's get to go. Closing arguments have begun in the

482
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Speaker 1: Ahmed Aarbury case in Georgia, where the three white manacues

483
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Speaker 1: of chasing, corralling, and shooting an innocent, unarmed black jagger

484
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Speaker 1: to death are on trial. Some critics are as worried

485
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Speaker 1: about this judge as they were about the judge who

486
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 1: resided over the Kyle Rittenhouse case. In the Kenosha killer's case,

487
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 1: the judge refused to even let the prosecutors refer to

488
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Speaker 1: the men Kyle Rittenhouse shot as victims, and the judge

489
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: in this case the Aubrey murdered child is refusing to

490
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Speaker 1: let the jury hear about the shooter. Travis McMichael calling

491
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Speaker 1: mister Aubrey the F and N word as he lay dying,

492
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Speaker 1: or about McMichael's many racist comments on social media. Prosecutors

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00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 1: say that racism was the reason they assumed Aarbury was

494
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: a criminal, why they felt to get away with killing him.

495
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 1: They almost did get away, by the way, until there

496
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: was a human cry in the nation. There were no

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Speaker 1: charges filed against these guys. The defense claimed that they

498
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Speaker 1: were merely trying to make a citizen's arrest. By the way,

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00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: mister Aubrey hadn't stolen anything. He'd stopped by the building

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Speaker 1: under construction and sipson water out of the sink and

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Speaker 1: continue his run. He'd stopped by there often. It was

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Speaker 1: at least four other times that he had stopped by there.

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Speaker 1: The owner of the property confirmed that said that Aubury

504
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 1: was not the only person who'd stopped by, although there

505
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 1: were other black people a couple of white couple with

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00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: a bag also on his unfinished property. In Texas, two

507
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,800
Speaker 1: Astro World security guards suing saying that they were injured

508
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: during a crowd surge. It took place at the recent

509
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: Traviscott concert Jackson Samuel Bush say they were hurt while

510
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Speaker 1: working the event. They're suing several of the parties involved,

511
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Speaker 1: including the firm that hired them for the job. Their

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Speaker 1: suit says, in part that quote defendants failed to provide

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Speaker 1: a safe working place or basic training. Police and Walkershaw,

514
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,320
Speaker 1: Wisconsin holding a man in connection with the five people

515
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: killed and over forty others injured two days ago when

516
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Speaker 1: a car plowed into that town's Christmas parade. Police Chief

517
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: Dan Thompson says thirty nine year O'Dowd Brooks was involved

518
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Speaker 1: in another situation just before the carnage occurred. We have

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Speaker 1: information that the suspect prior to Insla was involved into

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00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:20,800
Speaker 1: domestic disturbance which was just minaced prior, and the suspect

521
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 1: left that scene just prior to our arrival to the

522
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 1: domestic disturbance. CO say he tried to run his girlfriend

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Speaker 1: over with that same car. Sad and shocking news authorities

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Speaker 1: say that Malikashire Baz, one of Malcolm X's daughters, was

525
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 1: found dead yesterday evening in her Brooklyn, New York City apartment.

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Speaker 1: Malika was fifty six. Her death is not considered suspicious,

527
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Speaker 1: although a cause of death has not been determined. She

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00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,560
Speaker 1: was discovered by her daughter Malika's death comes only two

529
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,280
Speaker 1: days after two of the men who served two decades

530
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: behind bars for assassinating her father were exonerated, one posthumously.

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Speaker 1: All of us here at WBLS send our heartfelt condoless

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Speaker 1: and all of us on the Steve Harvey Morning Show

533
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 1: to the Shabbas family. Now back to the Steve Harvey

534
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Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening show. Getting together with family for

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving can definitely be stressful, really a stressful time for

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Speaker 1: some people, some families. All those extended relatives in one

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00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 1: place with different opinions, you know, they're bound to set

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00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: off a few fights. So most people just tend to

539
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: be careful of what they say. They tend to be,

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00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 1: you know, a little leary of what's not going to

541
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: be in my house. That's what I was gonna ask you. So,

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Speaker 1: are there some subjects that you're told that are totally

543
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: off limits that you don't bring up or you just

544
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Speaker 1: do whatever? Because now this is my house. I say

545
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 1: what I want to say, but I did what. I

546
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 1: don't allow it in my house. Anybody to just pray, yeah,

547
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,359
Speaker 1: like over the food? You mean, yeah, I pigs who

548
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 1: pray like pop bridges, like Marjorie daddy, he could pray

549
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Speaker 1: all the food. I don't like other people coming to

550
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,320
Speaker 1: the house. That happened one time, Marjorie, whole family with that.

551
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 1: Do you ever pray? Yeah? I pray it'd be so

552
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:07,760
Speaker 1: short we eat everybody. My Thanksgiving prayer same as my grace.

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00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,239
Speaker 1: You know what's but Steve, how do you handle that?

554
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 1: Because if somebody's there and say, well, can I bless

555
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: the food? Steve say no, No, I say no, Pop

556
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Speaker 1: Bridge is bless it? Go head pop? And he jumped

557
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 1: right in. It's pretty simple that ain't Now We had

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00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: this lady. She told me, I want my husband and

559
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 1: bless your food. He does a good Thanksgiving prayer not

560
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Speaker 1: over here. Was he a pastor? I don't know what

561
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: it was, but he ain't him to do it up

562
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:34,439
Speaker 1: in him. I don't know what it is those people

563
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 1: that are not pastors that they ministers and they don't

564
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: get the rid of see right there ministers all that.

565
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: He got a really good Thanksgiving prayer? What does mean

566
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Speaker 1: it ain't better than this damn turkey? Yeah, he was

567
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 1: an elder at our church. He prayed too long? So long? Yes,

568
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: so I mean so long? And you couldn't. Every time

569
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 1: you thought he was stop, he kept going. All he

570
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: was throwing was taking a breath. You know what bothers me?

571
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: That hole taking food out the house at the end,

572
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 1: just wrapping up tubs and tubs and foods. People getting

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00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: their little to gold plate? How am I gonna eat

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00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 1: on Friday? Tommy? You need to cook some at How

575
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 1: am I gonna do? That's right, Tommy? How is she

576
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: gonna eat? Cook? Also? You mean people that are invited

577
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:29,240
Speaker 1: to dinner, Tommy, and they get it to gold plate?

578
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 1: You know, you know, one plate? Okay, cool? But when

579
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: I see you loading up three folk plates a fall

580
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 1: and it still come on, man, really y'all starving over there?

581
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 1: They may be pretty much well, but this high work

582
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 1: at our house because you know, usually Marjorie know what

583
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: I like, She'll put that in the other refrigerator and

584
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:55,800
Speaker 1: the other refrigerator. Oh okay, I'm now in an argument

585
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: for me to get to that. Huh man, Now, how

586
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 1: many refrigerators at your house? The one in the kitchen,

587
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:15,480
Speaker 1: in the kitchen, you know, a bunch of fridgerator car man.

588
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 1: Can't wait to be that all right? Coming up next,

589
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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this,

590
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steven Show. Okay, nephew, all right, now,

591
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 1: Carlo says you're pretty good at frying turkeys. He's excellent.

592
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 1: She's always talking about your delicious frying turkeys. So can

593
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 1: you break it down as to what you do? I mean,

594
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 1: you know, and how you do it and everything. Let

595
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 1: me know, because maybe I'll try one this year. You

596
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:49,400
Speaker 1: don't try to Tommy, I'll tell Tommy's gonna tell me.

597
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:54,720
Speaker 1: Let's let's let's let's deal with with just being uh say, first,

598
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 1: make sure your turkey is completely completely thought out before

599
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 1: you decide to right turkey, all right, because there's a

600
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: lot of people that And make sure that it is

601
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 1: room temperature. Okay, so a lot of people. I personally,

602
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:10,880
Speaker 1: I'll season my turkey. I'll season my turkey on Monday.

603
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna shoot it up because that's where it's so

604
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 1: delicious the season. So can you reveal, Nephew, some of this?

605
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Speaker 1: I will. I will never tell you what I'm shooting

606
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Speaker 1: in the turkey, Okay, right, I mean, man, okay, you

607
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 1: know what? They don't say nothing else this second? What

608
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 1: is the big deal you gotta put some special seasons. Sure,

609
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 1: you put your season all together. You put it in

610
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 1: a processor and it's very liquidy, and you shoot it up.

611
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,320
Speaker 1: They have a big huge syringe that you shoot the

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00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,399
Speaker 1: turkey up with and you shoot it all over the turkey. Okay,

613
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 1: you got that part. Okay, got it. Yes, I'm at

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Speaker 1: Let me talk to call. So after that call, after

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00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 1: that caller, you put your your turt in the fridge.

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Speaker 1: It's Monday, Okay, it's Monday. Now let it sit for

617
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 1: twenty four hours. That's until at least Tuesday. Right now.

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00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 1: I normally put it back in the freezer because I

619
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 1: don't like to let it sit that long, all right,

620
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 1: So I'll let it. I'll let it freeze back up.

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Speaker 1: Now Wednesday night, take it out, thought out. We are

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Speaker 1: not we are not gonna drop it into the grease

623
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Speaker 1: until Thursday, an hour before dinner is when we're gonna

624
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 1: drop it in. And you're telling people how you fried turkeys.

625
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:35,359
Speaker 1: This is how I do it. Now, what I want

626
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Speaker 1: you to do, though, I want you to make sure

627
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 1: that the turkeys room temperature. So take it out, let

628
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Speaker 1: it sit out, and until it's time to drop it in.

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Speaker 1: Because if you if I promise you. If it's a

630
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Speaker 1: little bit of freeze still in there, this iced up, now,

631
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Speaker 1: you're gonna have some problems. And you know, there's been

632
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Speaker 1: turkeys that's been shot straight through the route. Turkeys burnt

633
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Speaker 1: down some garages, so you got to know what you're

634
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: doing with these turkeys. Yeah, a lot of firefighters are

635
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 1: shaking their heads up and down listening. Yeah. Here come Thanksgiving.

636
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Speaker 1: We're gonna be on call, right right. Okay, I got

637
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 1: it so far. Okay, when you get to that Okay, Okay, Shirley,

638
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: what I said, do what I say. Do shit. You

639
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,320
Speaker 1: take it out, you thought out, then you put it

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00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 1: back in the freezer, then you put you shoot it

641
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Speaker 1: up with a syringe with some stuff in it, and

642
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 1: then you freeze it again, and then you take it

643
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Speaker 1: back out. Okay, I'm with you. Go ahead, no more.

644
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:34,440
Speaker 1: But see the street down right there. You burnt your

645
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Speaker 1: whole street down. Okay, go on, go on, I'm listening.

646
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 1: You are three pounds, you're gonna you're gonna fry three

647
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Speaker 1: pounds every for every other let's start it off. For

648
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:51,760
Speaker 1: every pound is three minutes, okay, for every pound your turkey, ways,

649
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 1: it's three minutes. Okay, okay, So you got a ten

650
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 1: pound turkey thirty minutes, it's thirty minutes. Then you might

651
00:42:58,360 --> 00:42:59,839
Speaker 1: want to let it cook a minute or two over

652
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: just to make sure completely that it's done all the

653
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Speaker 1: way through. But trust me, three pounds per three minutes

654
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: per pound, you are on point. Take it out, let

655
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Speaker 1: it sit, and I promise you you got a pipe

656
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 1: in hot turkey. Now for me, I'm gonna take it out,

657
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna wrap it in fall, I'm gonna put it

658
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 1: in the bag, and then I got to go cross

659
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 1: town and take it to call a house because call

660
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: of order turkey every Thanksgiving and they have delicious. I'm

661
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:25,240
Speaker 1: going to call nutst right now. We got a turkey.

662
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: I'm making fried turkey for Thanksgiving. This okay, quick question, Tommy,

663
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 1: what kind of oil do you use peanut on? You

664
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 1: gotta have peanut ois. I'm sorry I missed that call.

665
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: You gotta have peanut on all right. This is not

666
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 1: something you put crisco or olive oil. It is a

667
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 1: pan nut oil. So if you have some people that

668
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 1: are coming to dinner that have issues with peanuts, you

669
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: want to make sure you let everybody know this. It's

670
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: been Friday and peanut oi. Okay, okay, okay, so this

671
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 1: is good when you're gonna tell us how to make

672
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: the dressing in mac and cheese next, right, because I

673
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 1: gotta have a whole dinner. I just can't have fried

674
00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: turkey now my mac and cheese. I can't get out

675
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 1: of way too. And I do not know how to

676
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 1: make driss. I do not know how to make dress fair.

677
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 1: The people that cook have secrets, okay, but you don't

678
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 1: know that. Well, at least we'll have turkey for Thankgiving,

679
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: all right, thank you, nephew. Coming up your bring phone

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Speaker 1: four minutes after It's my Strawberry letter for today's subject,

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Speaker 1: will my man choose me for the holidays. Right now.

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Speaker 1: We'll get into that, but right now it's the nephew,

692
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Speaker 1: and it's prank phone call. As you're not. Last year

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Speaker 1: Church bought me this glove so that I may have

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Speaker 1: healing power. I just had to say that. My tribute

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Speaker 1: to Richard Pryor. Right up, all right? The title is

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Speaker 1: go Big Yeah gold begs. Y'all don't even know where

697
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Speaker 1: I'm going with it? Do we need to be concerned? Well?

698
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Speaker 1: Your kids is yeah? Yeah, yeah, I'm glad you asked me.

699
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Speaker 1: Kids is in the car? If your kids is in

700
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Speaker 1: the car, tell them the Holy Head out the window.

701
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Speaker 1: I don't want you to miss the prank hold head

702
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 1: out to win for five minutes you can hit it. Hello, Hello,

703
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Darnell. Darnell see this, Darnell. How

704
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 1: you doing this? Is Scott soon with Bigger, Bigger and better,

705
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: where we make you larger in charge? How you doing today? Scott? Who?

706
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: I'm a Scott? So I'm with Bigger and better where

707
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 1: we make you larger in charge. I'm good Scott. Look

708
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: what's up? We were actually, uh given a phone call

709
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 1: by your wife? Your wife is? Is that correct? Yeah? Okay, well, um,

710
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 1: you know your wife's Um, your wife's birthday is coming

711
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 1: up pretty soon, is that right? Yeah? Yeah, so a

712
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 1: couple of weeks. Yeah, it's coming up. Okay, have you

713
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 1: have you decided on getting or anything or have you

714
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 1: purchased anything yet? No? No, I got a couple of

715
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 1: days in mind. Um. Well, actually, uh, we got a

716
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 1: call from from I think we've got something that's gonna

717
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 1: that's gonna really help you guys. And and something I

718
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 1: think that she wanted to recommend, something that you probably

719
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't wouldn't think about getting on is okay and racking

720
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: my brain? So is actually gave us the call. She's

721
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,839
Speaker 1: actually had an idea, you know, what she would really

722
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 1: really like for her birthday present? So what's her name?

723
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 1: You're coming Bigger and Better. Um, like I said, she

724
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 1: called you. I'm sorry she called you to give me

725
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,240
Speaker 1: idea on what I should get her for her birthday.

726
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, well this is this is something that's a

727
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 1: little a little different, and it's something that you probably

728
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 1: would never in a million years think of. But here

729
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 1: at Bigger and Better, where we make you large and

730
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 1: in charge, we actually do some things that we definitely

731
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 1: know you wouldn't have thought of. So I definitely understand

732
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:49,240
Speaker 1: her giving what's your name against Sam Scott Scott Scott,

733
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: get to the point what you're selling actually let us

734
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:56,320
Speaker 1: know that there's some things that are really really lacking

735
00:47:56,440 --> 00:48:00,320
Speaker 1: between you guys, and she would very much like for

736
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 1: her birthday where you can be a lot more well endowed.

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00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 1: So you know, that's what we do here at Bigger

738
00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: and Better. We actually hello, what I could be more wet,

739
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 1: more well endowed. Sure, so I think really what's going

740
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 1: on is Beyonca is really not satisfied right now. She

741
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 1: called you to tell you that I'm not when you

742
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Speaker 1: meet willing doubt my junk. So you're you're, you're, you're

743
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 1: you're you're inadequate. You know what I mean? You're you're

744
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? What's what's the name of this

745
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 1: comping in Bigger and Better where we make you larger

746
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 1: in charge? And right now you know you're not You're

747
00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 1: not larger in charge and we want to get you

748
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 1: that way you're able to come in for a consultation,

749
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:42,360
Speaker 1: your consultation. I'll tell you what. I'm gonna call her

750
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,439
Speaker 1: right now because it usually right now. Okay, I'm gonna

751
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 1: call her. We're trying, we're trying to do. Do you

752
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:51,880
Speaker 1: not do you not think you need to come in?

753
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:54,400
Speaker 1: I don't even think I need be talking to you,

754
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 1: mister Scott, about whatever's going on in my bed room.

755
00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm king so I'm not even I'm not even I

756
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: don't even know what going on. This is the first

757
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: sign of denial, right, I don't have no no, I

758
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,320
Speaker 1: don't have no problems in the bed room. Well, you know,

759
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 1: I don't even why am I even still on the

760
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 1: phone with you? Okay, but sir, I mean you and

761
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: now you don't have to wear about here from her.

762
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 1: She's gotta something to kind of account with you. Then

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00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:19,600
Speaker 1: you ain't got go ahead? And cold was that out?

764
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Speaker 1: Because mister done? Let me say this. You have a

765
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,440
Speaker 1: you have a very big ego, sir, you know, but

766
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 1: you're not You're not as big as your ego. I

767
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 1: want to get you to that point. This is some

768
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 1: crazy I've heard some crazy things people staying online. But

769
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Speaker 1: you're gonna call me talk about my wife called you

770
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: saying that I'm in adequate in the bedroom, sir, you

771
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 1: know what? And and and once again, I'm trying. I

772
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,799
Speaker 1: know you you're just doing your job, Scott, but I'm

773
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 1: gonna have to call her right now. Okay. When you

774
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Speaker 1: don't work my number, you're in denial. I'm in denial,

775
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 1: you hellove, Sir. I really want to help you as

776
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 1: much as I can. Listen, man, listen, I'm trying to

777
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 1: get my wife on the phone right now. Okay. I

778
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 1: know you you got a job to do, but what

779
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 1: I need you to do right now is stop calling me.

780
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 1: All right. I'm trying. I'm trying to be nice to

781
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 1: you because I'm sure whatever it is she she called you,

782
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 1: and you're just doing your job. But I'm trying to

783
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 1: get you in here to get a consultation so we

784
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 1: can get you further along on where you are. Consultation.

785
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 1: I don't even know consultation. I don't even know as

786
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 1: sisters from you, sir? You call me no more? Man, Hey,

787
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:27,760
Speaker 1: you're small and I don't want to make you bigger.

788
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:31,440
Speaker 1: What's what? What is this any like? Begause? Huh? What

789
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 1: kind of job is that? How do you even get

790
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 1: a job like that? You apply for this job, adiot,

791
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: when you're in high school? Jop out. I'm trying to

792
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 1: stop calling me man, mister Darnell, I'm still trying to

793
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 1: help you get through the situation. Okay, are you willing

794
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: to come in for a consultation. At least we're coming

795
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 1: in for a consultation. We can get you where you are.

796
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Speaker 1: Are you listening to me? The only consultation we're gonna

797
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 1: have is my sister in your place. As you call

798
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: me again to tell you what. I will come in

799
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Speaker 1: for a consultation. Give me give me your address and

800
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 1: everything like that, all your information, and I will come

801
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: down for a consultation. You're gonna be there. I'm here,

802
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:09,319
Speaker 1: I'm here, I'm here the first eight hours of the day, sir.

803
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 1: What I want to do is get you lined up

804
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: with get your work. Let me call my wife. I

805
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 1: don't need no damn procedures. Give me your info, and

806
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 1: you got to work out here from us. No more. Okay,

807
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:21,359
Speaker 1: right now, I know sure to get up. I don't

808
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 1: want to hang up on you. And I understand you're

809
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 1: trying to do your job. You're small, you're small, and

810
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: I'm trying to make you bigger. You. Hey, sir, you

811
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Speaker 1: know what I'm trying to help the person that's a

812
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:35,840
Speaker 1: little small guy. I'm trying to help you with your problem. Now,

813
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 1: if you're not gonna be appreciative of it, then I

814
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 1: don't even understand why your wife knows you're having your address.

815
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 1: Why then we can have this conversation face to face.

816
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:46,439
Speaker 1: You don't know what why your wife here. It doesn't matter.

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00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 1: If I can get on the line, I can figure

818
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:53,359
Speaker 1: out why she calls you because you're coming adequate man, Sir, sir,

819
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 1: here's the problem. You're tiny and you don't want to

820
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: admit it. I ain't even getting you know me, man,

821
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Speaker 1: You never see me. You don't know any think about me.

822
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:03,279
Speaker 1: I can't even believe my wife's even called you. But

823
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Speaker 1: just this is just how you do business. Call me

824
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,399
Speaker 1: and call me. I'm tiny, sir, So I'm playing something

825
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 1: to you. I'm not only the president, but I'm also

826
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Speaker 1: a client, Sir. I don't give up what you are, Okay, okay?

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Speaker 1: Then there are some other things that let us know

828
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Speaker 1: as well. What the would that mean? She also wanted

829
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Speaker 1: me to tell you that this is nephew Tommy from

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your wife just praying for calls

831
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Speaker 1: you bad man, funny man. I'm on here over here

832
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Speaker 1: looking at up in the mirror kind of. I thought

833
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Speaker 1: I was good, but I got a little nervous. I

834
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Speaker 1: was like, man, what's the baddest radio show in the land.

835
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Speaker 1: Come on now, you know it's a Steve Harvey radio show. Man,

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Speaker 1: I'm one to me. No, y'all, just give me my

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Speaker 1: next Strawberry letter subject, will my man choose me for

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Speaker 1: you here. It is just strawberry letter thanks Na. Subject,

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00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 1: will my man choose me for the holidays? Dear Stephen Shirley.

855
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,359
Speaker 1: I am a thirty year old, beautiful and successful woman

856
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 1: and I'm in love with a forty four year old,

857
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 1: well educated hunk that swept me off my feet. When

858
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:15,959
Speaker 1: I met him. He told me that he was seeing

859
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: someone in a long distance relationship, but I still started

860
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 1: dating this man despite the news. After six months of dating,

861
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 1: I did some research and found out that he proposed

862
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 1: to this woman and she has set a wedding date.

863
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 1: I never confronted him about it, but it tore me

864
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: apart emotionally. I figured if I started an argument about it,

865
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 1: I would push him away and his fiance would win.

866
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:42,920
Speaker 1: So I have kept the news to myself. I'm trying

867
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:44,920
Speaker 1: my best to make him fall in love with me

868
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:47,840
Speaker 1: and leave her. I know the old saying if he

869
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,920
Speaker 1: cheats on her, he'll cheat on you. But I believe

870
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 1: in love and I know we have something special. The

871
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 1: loving is so good, and he takes me on some

872
00:54:57,600 --> 00:55:01,800
Speaker 1: amazing trips all across the world. We are always together

873
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 1: when he's not out of town. Visiting the other woman.

874
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 1: I am overly jealous, so I just need to know

875
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 1: how I can win him over before his fiance orders

876
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 1: the wedding invitations. The holidays are coming up and I

877
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: don't want to spend them without him, so time is

878
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:20,759
Speaker 1: of the essence. How do I tell this man that

879
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 1: I am in love with him and will take any

880
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 1: and every risk when it comes to getting him to myself.

881
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 1: It's totally possible to be in love with two people

882
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 1: at the same time, so he's probably struggling internally with

883
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:38,840
Speaker 1: who he should be with. Maybe if I tell his

884
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 1: fiance about our relationship, she will just break up with

885
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 1: him and go away. It may make him mad, but

886
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 1: in the end he will still have me, and I

887
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 1: know we can be happy together. I'm head over heels

888
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 1: for this man, and I'm planning to invite him to

889
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:58,719
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner so my family can meet him. How shall

890
00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 1: I handle How should I handle this love triangle? Do

891
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 1: you hear yourself? Do you hear yourself? Because listen closely.

892
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 1: This is this is the sound of desperation, all right,

893
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 1: this is the sound of delusion in this letter. So

894
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 1: I want you to hear yourself. You are so short

895
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 1: changing yourself in this relationship. You are number two. That's it,

896
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:27,280
Speaker 1: that's all. You are the side piece, and you're okay

897
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 1: with that. I think you're really okay with it because

898
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 1: he told you his status when you, guys, you know,

899
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 1: first got together. He told you he was in a

900
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 1: long distance relationship. You even researched it, you did your

901
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 1: research and your words. You still dated him despite the news.

902
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:48,239
Speaker 1: You started dating him, and that's the problem. I mean, really,

903
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 1: what is his incentive to leave his fiance and get

904
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:54,280
Speaker 1: with you number two? What is it He's getting everything

905
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:57,520
Speaker 1: from you without having to change a thing he's doing.

906
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:01,359
Speaker 1: I mean the question then become, when are you going

907
00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 1: to wake up and realize that if he was going

908
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:05,759
Speaker 1: to leave her for you, don't you think he would

909
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 1: have waited to propose to her. I mean, you know,

910
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 1: you did all the research. You know, maybe he would

911
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:14,920
Speaker 1: kind of see where the relationship could go with you

912
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: and him, or maybe that you would have won him

913
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: over by now you think it's a competition between the

914
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 1: fiance and you because you're you're willing to take any

915
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 1: and every risk to get him. You know, I gotta

916
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 1: tell you, please, don't bother inviting him to dinner, because

917
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 1: you know where he's gonna be. He's gonna be with

918
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: his fiance and her family kicking it over there for

919
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving because they're planning a wedding, they're getting married. You

920
00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:44,000
Speaker 1: are the side piece, all right, Steve, Well, I don't

921
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: know what Shirley's done a really excellent job with this.

922
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 1: All you can do is just get it worded in

923
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,960
Speaker 1: a different way. So here we go. Well, my man

924
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:57,080
Speaker 1: choose me for the holiday. The answer to that question

925
00:57:57,360 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 1: is no. And the answer to that question no. It's

926
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 1: simply because number twos don't get holidays. You don't get Christmas,

927
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 1: you don't get Thanksgiving, you don't get Fourth of July barbecues.

928
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:15,080
Speaker 1: Those are the holidays. You don't get the whole Valentine's dating.

929
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 1: You can't get them days right there. You don't get anniversaries.

930
00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: You don't get none of that because you will never

931
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:25,240
Speaker 1: have an anniversary. Number two don't get anniversary dates. Number

932
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 1: ones get anniversary dates. You don't even have to be

933
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 1: married to your number one have an anniversity just the

934
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:32,000
Speaker 1: third year we've been knowing each other. You don't do

935
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 1: that to the number twos. You don't go we've been

936
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 1: seeing each other for three years. Now, let's go out

937
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 1: and celebrate. No, there's no celebration. You don't celebrate number twos.

938
00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 1: When I met him, he told me he was seeing

939
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:48,400
Speaker 1: someone in a long distance relationship. Then you know what

940
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 1: you're saying right after that? But I still dated this

941
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 1: man despite the news. Okay, so you stupid all you

942
00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 1: just did what you wanted to do. You dated Demand

943
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 1: anywhere Demand and told you I got somebody. It's a

944
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 1: long dis relationship. I got somebody. You started dating the

945
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 1: man anyway. Then after some six months of dating, you

946
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: did some research and found out that he proposed in

947
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 1: this woman as she has set a waiting date. What's

948
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 1: the surprise. I never confronted him about it, but it

949
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: told me a party. Mostly. I figured if I started

950
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:26,360
Speaker 1: an argument about it, I pushed him away and this

951
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 1: fiance will win. The fiance is already went in. She

952
00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 1: the fiance. Six months in, you found out they set

953
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 1: a date for a wed. He asked her, she just

954
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:43,440
Speaker 1: put this date on Facebook. He asked the woman to

955
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 1: marry him. Has he asked you? Has he mentioned marriage

956
00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 1: to you? He said nothing? By no, damn family with

957
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 1: you stupid letter. Make me sick and to tell the

958
00:59:56,480 --> 01:00:02,479
Speaker 1: rest of him. Right after this shut up listening show,

959
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letters. Subject well, my

960
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 1: man choose me for the holidays? This woman to met

961
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 1: she thirty, She met just for the year old, well

962
01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: for the for year old, well educated hunks swept you

963
01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:16,080
Speaker 1: off your feet when you met him. He told me

964
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:19,439
Speaker 1: he was seeing somebody. You still dated the man. Bam.

965
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 1: Six months later you did some research, that's social media,

966
01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 1: found out that he proposed to this woman. She even

967
01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:28,160
Speaker 1: set a wedding day. You ain't never said nothing to

968
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:30,520
Speaker 1: him about the man. Figure if you started argument and

969
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 1: push him away. Now you want to know in the

970
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 1: letter where my man choose me for the holidays? I'm

971
01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:39,680
Speaker 1: telling you know because number twos don't get holidays. Holidays

972
01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:43,440
Speaker 1: a reserved for number one. You can't be number two

973
01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 1: and get a holiday. You can get some Fridays, get

974
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 1: a Sundy here and there. Wait, what is that? What

975
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 1: do they get? Steve? You can get some Fridays and

976
01:00:56,440 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 1: occasional Saturday. But I said, usually it's the same day

977
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 1: of the week. That he then told his wife on

978
01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 1: number one that he does a certain thing on a

979
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 1: certain night, and that turns that night into YO night.

980
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 1: I played poking with the boys on Tuesday nights, and

981
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:18,360
Speaker 1: I'd be home late. Then that night is YO night.

982
01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:22,959
Speaker 1: You don't get in the night you want. Now, here's

983
01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 1: a delusional part, like Shirley say, I'm trying my best

984
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:30,000
Speaker 1: to make him fall in love with me and leave her.

985
01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 1: What Let me ask something, how do you do that?

986
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 1: How as the number two do you make the man

987
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: fall in love with you and leave the number one?

988
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 1: I know the old thing. If he cheats on her

989
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 1: here cheat on you? That ain't got nothing to do

990
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: with this. No, he's cheating on her with you. You

991
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 1: you tell my head cheat on you? No, you to you?

992
01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:11,760
Speaker 1: But I believe in love. Stop it. You just say

993
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:15,040
Speaker 1: you believe in love. He's marrying a woman, and I

994
01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:18,000
Speaker 1: know we have something special. You all this is in

995
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 1: your mind. You have nothing special. Your number two two's

996
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:26,160
Speaker 1: ain't special? Ain't you a? And all this here it

997
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:32,320
Speaker 1: ain't no two A two plus? This ain't a seat

998
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 1: an economy, that's ain't it economy super with extry leg room.

999
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:42,840
Speaker 1: You're still in the back. Economy plus you're still in

1000
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 1: the back. But it's my room. Is still good, but

1001
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 1: you're in the back door. You're not the first class seat,

1002
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 1: and you can't come up here with the economy plus ticket.

1003
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:54,480
Speaker 1: I can sit on the exit row and get you

1004
01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 1: a little bit of extra if that's what you want.

1005
01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 1: But look at that as a lot of people on

1006
01:02:57,640 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 1: the exit row. The loving is good, and he takes

1007
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 1: me on amazing trips all across the world. You haven't

1008
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:10,040
Speaker 1: been to the Bahamas? Who ain't been there? She's making

1009
01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 1: this sound bigger than it is. Yours across the world

1010
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:22,400
Speaker 1: stopped San Diego. Ain't all across the world. Then here's

1011
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:26,040
Speaker 1: another line. We are always together when he's not out

1012
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:30,920
Speaker 1: of town. Hello, do you understand this? You're always together

1013
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 1: when he's not out of town. You just said he

1014
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 1: take you all around the world. Girl, when you're out

1015
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 1: of town, he would hull. You ain't been nowhere, fly

1016
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:46,480
Speaker 1: to Atlanta. Ain't across the world when he's not out

1017
01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:49,440
Speaker 1: of town visiting the other woman. I'm overly jealous. So

1018
01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:51,560
Speaker 1: I just need to know how can I win him

1019
01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:54,760
Speaker 1: over before his fiance orders to wear an invitation? Way

1020
01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:56,920
Speaker 1: too late for that. They just set the date. They

1021
01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 1: aren't putting money down on places. She Brent dressed shot.

1022
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 1: I've been damned these invitations. The holidays are coming up,

1023
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 1: and I don't want to spend them without health. You are,

1024
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:08,960
Speaker 1: this is your friend's holiday. It's only been six months.

1025
01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:12,640
Speaker 1: You've never been to the holidays before. You're spending those

1026
01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 1: holidays alone? You're number two. It's only been six months. Hell,

1027
01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:22,080
Speaker 1: it's November, so you met him prior to the summer.

1028
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 1: You're not. They don't get holidays, sweetie. I'm sorry, and

1029
01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:29,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to spend them without him. So time

1030
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:40,320
Speaker 1: is of the essence, girl, Thanksgiving, down Giving. It's after tomorrow. Yeah,

1031
01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:45,480
Speaker 1: but they said nothing to you about Thanksgiving. Yeah, because

1032
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:49,080
Speaker 1: he ain't gonna be hel he he cast to go

1033
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 1: out of town. We're gonna tell his fiance I ain't

1034
01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:54,560
Speaker 1: coming to wonder what is your fen to do? Then?

1035
01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:58,080
Speaker 1: How do I tell this man that I'm in love

1036
01:04:58,160 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: with him and will take every risk to cans of

1037
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 1: getting him to myself. You've already taken the risk. The

1038
01:05:03,920 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 1: man told you was in a relationship, and you dated

1039
01:05:06,120 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 1: him anyway. You took the risk. You've taken all the risks. Now,

1040
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:14,960
Speaker 1: then you go right here, it's possible to be in

1041
01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:17,040
Speaker 1: love with two people at the same time. So I

1042
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 1: know he's probably struggling internally with who he should be

1043
01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 1: with little girl. The struggle isn't with who she should

1044
01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:27,480
Speaker 1: be with. The struggle is how to tell you he's

1045
01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:32,160
Speaker 1: with her and Finn to getting married. Remember that he

1046
01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 1: has not told you this for a reason, because the

1047
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Speaker 1: only struggle is when and how to tell you this

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01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:41,920
Speaker 1: is over. Because I'm Finn to move this woman in

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Speaker 1: my house. That's the struggle to struggle aim. But you love, sister,

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01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:48,280
Speaker 1: pack your bags of he ain't coming over for Thankgiving,

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Speaker 1: and do not call that woman because you could get shot.

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Speaker 1: All those of my closing remarks today, y'all have a

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01:05:57,800 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 1: great weekend. All right. You can post your comments on

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook,

1055
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:09,400
Speaker 1: and please don't forget to check out the Strawberry Letter

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01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:12,720
Speaker 1: podcast on demand now coming up at forty six after

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01:06:12,800 --> 01:06:14,760
Speaker 1: the hour. I think Steve had more to add to

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Speaker 1: this Strawberry Letter, write Steve, We're gonna do a little

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01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 1: bit more. Let's let this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:27,000
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, you said you had some more to

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01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 1: add to the strawberry letter, subject, why my will my

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01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 1: man choose me for the holidays? For thold of you

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01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 1: that don't know, this girl is thirty years old dating

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01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:37,040
Speaker 1: this forty four year old man swept off his feet.

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01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 1: He told her on day one he's in seeing someone

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01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 1: in a long relationship. But you dated this man anyway

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01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:48,760
Speaker 1: despite the news. Six months of dating. Did some research

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01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:50,960
Speaker 1: found out the woman has setting wedding date with He

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01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 1: proposed to this woman. Now, this girl who wrote the

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01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:56,200
Speaker 1: letter hasn't said anything to him about it, but she's

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01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 1: torn up. She's scared to start argument because it'll push

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01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:03,160
Speaker 1: him away and his fiance will win. So she's kept

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01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:06,360
Speaker 1: the news to the same to kept it all to himself.

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01:07:06,760 --> 01:07:08,560
Speaker 1: She's trying to figure out the best way to make

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Speaker 1: this man fall in love with her and leave her.

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01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:14,040
Speaker 1: I know the old saying, if he cheats on her,

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01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:17,160
Speaker 1: here cheat on you. But I believe in love. Now

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01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:19,480
Speaker 1: she's talking about the man take on some amazing trips

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01:07:19,560 --> 01:07:21,560
Speaker 1: all across the world. The girl had been in San Diego,

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01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 1: and now she came all around the world. San Diego

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01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:28,440
Speaker 1: it's just close to Mexico. You did, you saw the sign,

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01:07:29,680 --> 01:07:32,400
Speaker 1: but you didn't actually go to to your wan. He

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01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:35,800
Speaker 1: don't want to go. No, damn way. Coach's crazy. Now anyway,

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01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:39,200
Speaker 1: how do I wear him over before the fiance orders

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01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:42,240
Speaker 1: to wed an invitation? Holidays is coming up. I don't

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01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 1: want to spend him with him, so times of the elsenes.

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01:07:45,120 --> 01:07:46,680
Speaker 1: How do I tell this man I'm in love with

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01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:49,640
Speaker 1: him and would take every risk into getting him to myself.

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01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:52,960
Speaker 1: Totally possible. Well, now he's probably struggling with who he

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01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:55,640
Speaker 1: should be with. Then here was the line the girl said,

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01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 1: maybe if I tell his fiance about our relationship, she

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01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 1: would just break up with him and go away. It

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01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 1: may make him mad, but in the end he will

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01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 1: still have me and I know we can be happy together.

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01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:11,640
Speaker 1: Pump your brakes, little girl. You've obviously never gone to

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01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 1: a woman to tell her that you are the other woman.

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01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 1: H They do get mad and it dud mess the

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01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:21,920
Speaker 1: dude up with his girl for a while, but they

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01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:25,560
Speaker 1: usually recover. Now he is going to hate you for

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01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:28,600
Speaker 1: the rest of your life and you will have no

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01:08:28,760 --> 01:08:35,080
Speaker 1: relationship with him, none whatsoever. And it is due. So

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Speaker 1: long as you know that, good luck. I'm planning on

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01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:44,679
Speaker 1: inviting him to Thanksgiving. Don't do that. That man, don't

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01:08:44,720 --> 01:08:51,800
Speaker 1: do that. When Turkey over there by yourself, they're gonna

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Speaker 1: have a place setting with somebody. Ass ain't gonna be there.

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Speaker 1: And baby, and when thanks Giving up Thanksgiving, Dave to

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Speaker 1: the moment Thanksgiving, say nothing to you about Thanksgiving? I

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01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:16,800
Speaker 1: like not Thanksgiving on Thanksgiving? Thank you? No, no hold

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Speaker 1: on a second coming up more of the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. You're listening to the Steve

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01:09:29,400 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 1: Morning Show, so listen. If you want to end a relationship,

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01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:38,680
Speaker 1: here's the question. Do you wait until after the holidays

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01:09:38,880 --> 01:09:41,439
Speaker 1: or do you get out before having to hang out

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01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:45,599
Speaker 1: with your family? So Thanksgiving might be more high stakes

1115
01:09:45,640 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 1: at the time of COVID, but it's probably the safest

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01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:53,240
Speaker 1: holiday to break up close to. So here is the question.

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01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:58,439
Speaker 1: Between Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's is there and is

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01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:01,720
Speaker 1: there any good time to split up? Why am I

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01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:05,559
Speaker 1: looking at you, Tommy? You know why? Well, you're supposed

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Speaker 1: to start breaking up around Halloween. But we're in the

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Speaker 1: week of right now though, Thanksgiving, so now well, then

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01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:15,840
Speaker 1: then you might want to break up to day this

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01:10:16,080 --> 01:10:19,840
Speaker 1: morning to day? If why would you I break up

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01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 1: to date and ride that all the way to like

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Speaker 1: mid January. But this is the day to do it, yesterday,

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01:10:27,520 --> 01:10:30,439
Speaker 1: And you can just come up with a cold argument.

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01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:35,600
Speaker 1: Just just just started anything. It don't matter what it is.

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Speaker 1: Who the hell put water in the tarlet? How do

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01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:40,280
Speaker 1: how do how do water get it my tarlet? I

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01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:46,519
Speaker 1: just want you know what I'm saying, Just who, who

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01:10:46,640 --> 01:10:49,280
Speaker 1: the hell who water and the tarlet? That's all I

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01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:54,240
Speaker 1: want to know. That's an argument. Fine argument, fine one.

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01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:00,479
Speaker 1: Why why do you say that? Because you ain't got

1134
01:11:00,560 --> 01:11:03,439
Speaker 1: to see the person, You could just zoom mass. They

1135
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:05,559
Speaker 1: ain't got to be in the same room to break up.

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01:11:06,439 --> 01:11:08,320
Speaker 1: You know, you ain't got the moment, you ain't got

1137
01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:11,880
Speaker 1: to worry about, no altercations and then going crazy getting

1138
01:11:11,920 --> 01:11:14,760
Speaker 1: you and stuff you sting you, and then when it

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01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:16,920
Speaker 1: get and then when it gets the way you don't

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01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:22,719
Speaker 1: want to, you just zoom out. You lead meeting who's

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01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:25,760
Speaker 1: gonna stay there? And you know, and just take all

1142
01:11:25,800 --> 01:11:32,400
Speaker 1: of that. Yeah, I'm zooming. I'm I'm a proponent of

1143
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:35,599
Speaker 1: breaking up around Thanksgiving. I think that's the ideal time

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01:11:35,680 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 1: because normally if you don't like her, Yeah, Thanksgiving this

1145
01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 1: best time break up Because you don't like her, she

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01:11:41,640 --> 01:11:44,559
Speaker 1: probably just like her family so you know, yeah, I'm

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01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:46,439
Speaker 1: pretty sure you don't need to sit around all these

1148
01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:55,800
Speaker 1: other people house eating. You know, people usually have badass food. Yeah. Yeah.

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01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:59,240
Speaker 1: Can I say why wait to Thanksgiving? Because if you

1150
01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 1: wait to thank you you're giving people hopeween No one,

1151
01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:09,160
Speaker 1: you don't need to give them hope that long. Yeah,

1152
01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:14,519
Speaker 1: but see, sometimes it don't happen that way. And I'm

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01:12:14,600 --> 01:12:17,519
Speaker 1: just saying, as each holiday approaches, you got to have

1154
01:12:17,600 --> 01:12:20,680
Speaker 1: a plan because maybe nothing was wrong Halloween. You know,

1155
01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:24,680
Speaker 1: maybe maybe she busted you November ten. You know you

1156
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:27,680
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be able to fix that about Thanksgiving if

1157
01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:30,080
Speaker 1: she busted you on November ten, Now she bust you

1158
01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:33,479
Speaker 1: like December. Phil, You got to get out now for

1159
01:12:33,680 --> 01:12:36,040
Speaker 1: you must start going shopping. Be all up in there

1160
01:12:36,040 --> 01:12:38,599
Speaker 1: at that table at Macy, looking at all that stuff

1161
01:12:38,640 --> 01:12:41,000
Speaker 1: on that middle eye with two for one and all

1162
01:12:41,080 --> 01:12:43,760
Speaker 1: this hell, you ain't got to go through that that.

1163
01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:46,800
Speaker 1: You definitely got to break up New Year's Eve, get here,

1164
01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:49,680
Speaker 1: because you can't go into the New year with her

1165
01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 1: ass or his ass or his ass. And can you

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01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:02,360
Speaker 1: start an argument may be over politics, No, no, no,

1167
01:13:03,040 --> 01:13:05,160
Speaker 1: you know start in the argument. You don't even start

1168
01:13:05,280 --> 01:13:07,800
Speaker 1: no argument. You can do that too, though, call you

1169
01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:10,720
Speaker 1: can you know you're asking, just like Trump, And that's

1170
01:13:10,760 --> 01:13:22,040
Speaker 1: why I came from denial. Denial, Yeah, just accuser of

1171
01:13:22,120 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 1: voting for Trump, did me? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, there you go.

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01:13:26,600 --> 01:13:29,880
Speaker 1: No matter what she does, no matter what he or

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01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:33,040
Speaker 1: she does, you go. That's it. That's it right there,

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01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:36,880
Speaker 1: It's over with, and keep them guessing about what it

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01:13:37,040 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 1: is they did. Yeah to hear you mean that's it.

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01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:45,599
Speaker 1: Can you pass me the remote? I'd like to change

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01:13:45,640 --> 01:13:47,960
Speaker 1: the chance. No, you ain't going to turn it to

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01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:57,679
Speaker 1: Atlanta House wid that's what you Wow, I'm out. I'm

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01:13:57,840 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 1: out for Tommy. You're known for breaking up before the

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01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:06,040
Speaker 1: holidays though, oh yeah, yeah, oh yeah, all right, more

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01:14:06,240 --> 01:14:09,920
Speaker 1: of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right

1182
01:14:09,960 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. So what

1183
01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 1: are some of the strange things You're strange habits and Thanksgiving?

1184
01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:22,800
Speaker 1: I have a relative that's what supposedly, um is it?

1185
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:25,040
Speaker 1: Which one? Is it? Jehovah's Witness or Seven Day adventutes on?

1186
01:14:25,200 --> 01:14:28,120
Speaker 1: You know, they don't eat meat. But this particularly is

1187
01:14:28,240 --> 01:14:30,320
Speaker 1: that there was meeting the Greens and she she had

1188
01:14:30,360 --> 01:14:33,439
Speaker 1: already been like half played in you know, yes, yes,

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01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:38,960
Speaker 1: And my mom said, Annie, you know there's meeting in greens.

1190
01:14:39,040 --> 01:14:47,639
Speaker 1: She went, huh, and keep eating lives, all lives because

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01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:53,160
Speaker 1: these greens were good. Right good. Let me tell y'all

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01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:56,040
Speaker 1: something I gotta relative. I got a cousin that would

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01:14:56,200 --> 01:15:00,560
Speaker 1: eat everything in one bowl. Food touch I don't like.

1194
01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:02,920
Speaker 1: But but j Jay the twist to it all. He

1195
01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:06,479
Speaker 1: may have a dressing, a cranbar sauce, got some turkey

1196
01:15:06,560 --> 01:15:09,720
Speaker 1: laid across it. Everybody understand it. That makes sense, right yeah?

1197
01:15:10,360 --> 01:15:13,000
Speaker 1: Right next to it is a scoop of vanilla ice cream,

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01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:19,200
Speaker 1: right yeah. But I'm looking at him like you please

1199
01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:21,679
Speaker 1: tell me you're not gonna use my badfroom while you here. Please.

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01:15:24,120 --> 01:15:26,000
Speaker 1: Then you got that relative time and that you know

1201
01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:29,120
Speaker 1: they're complaining because my food is touching I don't want

1202
01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:32,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I know people like that. Yeah, people,

1203
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 1: And you know what to j A lot of kids

1204
01:15:35,000 --> 01:15:37,720
Speaker 1: when you're making their plates, they don't want them to touch.

1205
01:15:37,960 --> 01:15:39,840
Speaker 1: That's that's why you gotta have them paper places called

1206
01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:43,600
Speaker 1: with them dividers in it for the kids. But the

1207
01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:48,439
Speaker 1: kids take yes, kids, tell me you you're talking big

1208
01:15:48,520 --> 01:15:50,880
Speaker 1: money paper places. I'm talking to take place with they

1209
01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:56,360
Speaker 1: Gotta Weight with wiming on it coming out more of

1210
01:15:56,439 --> 01:16:01,720
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this You're listening show.

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01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:06,200
Speaker 1: Getting together with family for Thanksgiving can definitely be stressful,

1212
01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:09,800
Speaker 1: really a stressful time for some people. Some families. All

1213
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:13,560
Speaker 1: those extended relatives in one place with different opinions, you know,

1214
01:16:13,680 --> 01:16:16,240
Speaker 1: they're bound to set off a few fights. So most

1215
01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:18,760
Speaker 1: people just tend to be careful of what they say.

1216
01:16:18,920 --> 01:16:20,960
Speaker 1: They tend to be, you know, a little leery of

1217
01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:26,160
Speaker 1: what's I'm not going to be in my house. That's

1218
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:28,080
Speaker 1: what I was gonna ask you. So are there's some

1219
01:16:28,240 --> 01:16:30,640
Speaker 1: subjects that you're to that are totally off limits, that

1220
01:16:30,720 --> 01:16:32,599
Speaker 1: you don't bring up, or you just do whatever because

1221
01:16:32,720 --> 01:16:34,360
Speaker 1: now this is my house. I say what I want

1222
01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:36,439
Speaker 1: to say, but I did what I don't allow in

1223
01:16:36,600 --> 01:16:42,639
Speaker 1: my house anybody to just pray, Yeah, like over the food.

1224
01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:46,400
Speaker 1: You mean? Yeah, our pigs who pray like pop bridges,

1225
01:16:46,720 --> 01:16:49,040
Speaker 1: Like Marjorie Daddy, he could pray all the food. I

1226
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:51,559
Speaker 1: don't like other people coming to the house. That happened

1227
01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:55,599
Speaker 1: one time Marjorie whole family was that. Do you ever pray? Yeah,

1228
01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:59,880
Speaker 1: I'll pray. It'd be so short. We eat. Everybody got

1229
01:16:59,920 --> 01:17:03,240
Speaker 1: there my Thanksgiving prayer, same as my grace. You know

1230
01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:06,000
Speaker 1: what's but Steve, how do you handle that? Because if

1231
01:17:06,280 --> 01:17:08,960
Speaker 1: somebody's there and say well can I bless the food?

1232
01:17:09,040 --> 01:17:12,360
Speaker 1: Steve say no, No, I say no, Pop Bridge is

1233
01:17:12,520 --> 01:17:15,840
Speaker 1: gonna bless it? Go head pop And he jumped right in. Yeah,

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01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:19,120
Speaker 1: it's pretty simple, that ain't Now We had this lady.

1235
01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:21,439
Speaker 1: She told me, I want my husband and bless your food.

1236
01:17:22,120 --> 01:17:25,200
Speaker 1: He does a good Thanksgiving prayer? Not over here? Was

1237
01:17:25,240 --> 01:17:27,040
Speaker 1: he a pastor? I don't know what it was, but

1238
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:28,720
Speaker 1: he ain't him to do it up in him? I

1239
01:17:28,960 --> 01:17:30,919
Speaker 1: know what it is those people that have not pastors

1240
01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:33,000
Speaker 1: that but they ministers and they don't get the rid

1241
01:17:33,040 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 1: of see right there ministers all that he got a

1242
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:39,880
Speaker 1: really good Thanksgiving prayer? What does mean my cousin? Wasn't

1243
01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:44,240
Speaker 1: it ain't better than this damn turkey? Yeah? He was

1244
01:17:44,280 --> 01:17:48,519
Speaker 1: an elder at our church and he praised too long?

1245
01:17:48,920 --> 01:17:54,479
Speaker 1: So long, Yes, I mean so long, and you couldn't.

1246
01:17:54,520 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 1: Every time you thought he was gonna stop, he kept going.

1247
01:17:57,439 --> 01:18:00,960
Speaker 1: All he was doing was taking a breath. You know

1248
01:18:01,000 --> 01:18:05,639
Speaker 1: what bothers me? That hole taking food out the house

1249
01:18:05,720 --> 01:18:08,679
Speaker 1: at the end just wrapping up tubs and tubs of food.

1250
01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:10,920
Speaker 1: People getting their little to gold plates. How am I

1251
01:18:10,960 --> 01:18:13,800
Speaker 1: gonna eat on Friday? Tommy? You need to cook some much?

1252
01:18:16,439 --> 01:18:18,160
Speaker 1: How am I gonna do? That's right, Tommy? How is

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Speaker 1: she gonna eat? Cook? Also? You mean people that are

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Speaker 1: invited to dinner, Tommy, and they get it to gold plate?

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Speaker 1: You know, you know, one plate? Okay, cool? But when

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Speaker 1: I see you loading up three or four plates of

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Speaker 1: fall and it's just come on, man, really y'all starving

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Speaker 1: over that? They may be pretty much okay, well, but

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Speaker 1: this high work at our house because you know, usually

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Speaker 1: Marjorie know what I like, She'll put that in the

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Speaker 1: other refrigerator and the other refrigerator. Oh okay, I'm now

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Speaker 1: in an argument for me to get to that. Huh man,

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Speaker 1: how many refrigerators at your house? The one in the

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Speaker 1: kitchen to chen? You know? How much to write an? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Wait to be there all right when we come back,

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Speaker 1: last break of the day and Steve's closing remarks, you

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Speaker 1: don't want to miss him. We'll be back at forty nine.

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Speaker 1: are last break of the day on this Tuesday. UM

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Speaker 1: leave us with some parting words, some closing remark. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I kind of I kind of want to talk about

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Speaker 1: something that's um that's on me right now. I want

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Speaker 1: to talk a little bit about expectations and I want

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Speaker 1: to talk about patience. But I'm going to throw one

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Speaker 1: more thing in there. I'm gonna put need in there. Need,

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Speaker 1: expectations and patience. Uh. It's something that I've been praying about,

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Speaker 1: you know, and I've been asking God for it for

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Speaker 1: quite some time and it hasn't gotten here. And He

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Speaker 1: knows exactly what I need. So as I'm saying this

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Speaker 1: to you, I want you all to imagine yourself and

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Speaker 1: plug in your need. So I'm talking to God, right

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Speaker 1: and I'm asking God for something that I need and

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Speaker 1: I know I need it because it would it would

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Speaker 1: make some things go so much better, so much smooth,

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Speaker 1: so much easier, just overall, it would just help in

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Speaker 1: so many areas. So I've been praying about it and

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Speaker 1: it hasn't gotten here yet. And so my oldest sister

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Speaker 1: text me the other day and I didn't get back

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Speaker 1: to her, and so just last night she text me

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Speaker 1: again and just said, hey, could you answer my text?

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Speaker 1: I hope things are well with you, Love Mona. And

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Speaker 1: so I text her back and I told, everything is fine.

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Speaker 1: I've just been working so much. I said, sometimes I

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Speaker 1: don't get to answer your text when you send it

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Speaker 1: to me right away because I'll be on the set

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Speaker 1: or something. I'll be doing something. I said, But I

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Speaker 1: get him and I appreciate them. And then I told

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Speaker 1: my oldest sister. I asked her to please pray for me.

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Speaker 1: I said, I pray for a breakthrough from me, something

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Speaker 1: I've been asking God for so I can just you know, take,

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Speaker 1: you know, relax a little bit about this situation. And

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Speaker 1: I went on to tell my sister that's hard being

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Speaker 1: successful and stuff like that, and I said, but we're good.

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Speaker 1: I'm just working real hard. I told, I love you,

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Speaker 1: and then I said, let me know if you need something,

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Speaker 1: She text me back the simplest thing. Now, Remember now,

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Speaker 1: I've told you that I was asking God for something

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Speaker 1: that I needed and I had been waiting for it,

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Speaker 1: and I and I'm almost out of patience, to be

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Speaker 1: honest with you. I just thinking it's taken a while, right,

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Speaker 1: And I'm pretty sure you could feel that way too.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you ask God for something and you you're living

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Speaker 1: in the expectation and you got man, let's take it

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Speaker 1: so long, and you're getting a little impatient. I think

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Speaker 1: everything that's happened to every person. My sens simply sent

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Speaker 1: this text backs to me. She said, just take one

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Speaker 1: day at a time. The Lord knows what he's doing.

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Speaker 1: I'm praying for you. That was her message. Now, my

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Speaker 1: sister is eighty two years old. She told her brother,

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Speaker 1: who is like, you know, the family guy that they

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Speaker 1: can all come to when they need something. But she

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Speaker 1: simplified it for me so easy. She said, just take

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Speaker 1: one a day at a time. The Lord knows what

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Speaker 1: he's doing. And do you know how much better that

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Speaker 1: made me feel? I simply back and said I texted back.

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Speaker 1: I said, okay, I will, because you know this thing

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Speaker 1: that I've been asking God for that I so desperately

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Speaker 1: feel like I need and I keep expecting it to happen,

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Speaker 1: but I'm starting to lose patience about it. My sister

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Speaker 1: says something so simple, if you just take one day

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Speaker 1: at a time, the Lord knows what he's doing, and

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Speaker 1: if I look at it. In her simple way of

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Speaker 1: talking to her brother, she knows me very well. Her

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Speaker 1: simple way of talking to me was letting me know

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Speaker 1: that if you just keep waking up and keep doing

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Speaker 1: what you're doing, God got all this under control. He

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Speaker 1: know what he doing, and you know what he always has.

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Speaker 1: He's always known what he's doing. Always, he ain't never

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Speaker 1: not known what he was doing. Even when I thought

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Speaker 1: I wanted it to go another way, and he worked

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Speaker 1: it out a different way. It was for the best,

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Speaker 1: and so I just had to grab myself and go, okay,

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Speaker 1: I will. And it made me feel better because I said, okay, man,

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Speaker 1: I'm actually okay. I do actually keep waking up. I

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Speaker 1: do keep somehow surviving it all. I'm not just surviving,

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Speaker 1: I'm actually thriving. I'm going through it, but I'm getting

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Speaker 1: through it. It's taking a while, but it's in the process.

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Speaker 1: And God does know what he's doing. So that settled

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Speaker 1: it for me. So I'm saying to you, if that's

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Speaker 1: something you've been praying about, something that you need, and

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Speaker 1: you're living your life in the expectation because you know

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Speaker 1: he's gonna deliver it for you, but you haven't got

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Speaker 1: a little bit impatient with it like I have, just

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Speaker 1: taking a day at a time. God knows exactly what

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Speaker 1: he's doing. He's working on something on your behalf that

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Speaker 1: you don't even know about, and when He give it

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Speaker 1: to you, it's gonna fix it all, probably better than

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Speaker 1: you could have ever imagined. Those are my closing remarks.

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Speaker 1: Just something to think about it. Yeah, wow respectively. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm stop playing in the day. M hmm. Well tell

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