1 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod which Teddy Mellencamp and camera Judge. 2 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of The twat Seat 3 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 2: with myself, Teddy Mellencamp. 4 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 1: And Tamra Judge. 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 3: And we have a very special guest on today. Who 6 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 3: do we have? 7 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:26,080 Speaker 1: Resa? We have Rezza, the original Resa. 8 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. 9 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 2: Well, he also has a new book, Memoirs of a 10 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 2: Gay Shot. It's available now for pre orders. To make 11 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:38,279 Speaker 2: sure that you get that. 12 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, we have a lot to ask him. I know, 13 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: we do creators and his book and his news show. 14 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: That's a lot busy man, so. 15 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 3: Let's bring him in. 16 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 4: Hi, ladies, Hi right back. 17 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: Good morning, so early in the morning. 18 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 4: I'm so excited to finally be on the hit pod 19 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 4: to TV. Oh my god. 20 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 1: Well, we're happy to have you, that's for sure. Excited, 21 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: that is for sure. So how are you. 22 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 4: I'm doing really well. How are you, guys? 23 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: Good? You and you're booked and busy. 24 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 4: I'm so blessed. I'm trying to be like you, guys. 25 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: Isn't it crazy how this world is? 26 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 4: Yes, resurrected from the grave. 27 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: You were resurrected. I love that. 28 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 2: I love literally did you think that you'd be on 29 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 2: another show after Shaw's was canceled. 30 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 4: I did only because I was running all over town 31 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 4: meeting with whatever executive I could get a meeting with, 32 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 4: pitching a version of The Valley. I was like, what 33 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 4: if we take me Gulanessa and MJ and then we 34 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 4: go with Persian Armenians and we do like I was 35 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 4: literally like running around doing the damn thing, trying to 36 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 4: make it happen. 37 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. Now did this happen because of you? Or was 38 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: this something that Alex Baskin came to you, guys? 39 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 4: And great question. I was actually in London shooting Worst 40 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 4: Cooks in America and Alex Baskin called me while I 41 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 4: was there and said, Hey, what do you think about 42 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 4: doing a show kind of like a reboot? You know? 43 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 4: And I was like, with you any day, Because obviously 44 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 4: we were with a different production company, and I had 45 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 4: heard so many amazing things about Alex. The thought of 46 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:40,839 Speaker 4: coming back to Bravo with Alex was so appealing that 47 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 4: I couldn't resist. 48 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 49 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 1: I liked how you were so open, and I think 50 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: it was maybe the first or second episode of the 51 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 1: Valley where you talked about like when you got fired. 52 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: It's like devastating. It's like, where's my identity? What happened? 53 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 1: I mean, that's something me and Teddy bonded over. We 54 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: got I think we were fired the same year, and 55 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: between her and Vicki, we were just like trauma bonding. 56 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: And it felt like it took a long time for 57 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 1: life to feel normal again. 58 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 4: One percent. It was very difficult for me. I was 59 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 4: very honest about it with my family and friends, who 60 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 4: were super supportive, because I was just trying to fit 61 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 4: back into a new way society. Yeah, like we literally, 62 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 4: Cara I would call it like I was institutionalized. I 63 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 4: got out of j you know, like, yes, how someone 64 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 4: who's in prison is like free now and like you 65 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 4: reapplimate to civilian life. It was crazy. 66 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, it took me like a good year to like 67 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: really feel normal again. It was twelve solid years of 68 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: my life and then all of a sudden, everything's upside down, 69 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: you know, as you know, it's like the crew that 70 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: you saw all the time in your house is now gone. 71 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: Nobody it's crickets too, nobody can cause you. 72 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 4: Crazy. The silence was definiting. I still had the film 73 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 4: on my recess lights right now from a production and 74 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 4: there was no production to be had, So it was 75 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 4: just like, oh my god, I need to shed all 76 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 4: the like things that reminded me of it. I needed 77 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 4: to stop watching Bravo like it was painful for me, 78 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 4: and that slowly, you know, I and I think about 79 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 4: Teddy with like the coaching business and everything. I was like, 80 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 4: someone needs to come up with a business where we 81 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 4: like do therapy sessions or group therapy for people in 82 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 4: Reality TV who. 83 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 1: No longer have rehabilitation. Me and Teddy actually talked about that, said. 84 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 4: Like we do one on one sessions where we like 85 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 4: just like an alan On meeting for people that were 86 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 4: fired from Reality T. 87 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like Andy fired me. That's that's the name 88 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: of it. 89 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 3: Come and I survived. 90 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: Yes, that's like a bumper sticker. 91 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 2: I did any of the og cast from the Valley 92 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 2: reach out to you? 93 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 3: Once this was announced? 94 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 4: So many people from the original Valley hit me up, 95 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 4: especially Kristin Dotie, who is my client I founder the 96 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 4: house that she's in. They've been incredibly supportive, which is 97 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 4: so lovely, as are most people on Bravo. I don't 98 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:26,159 Speaker 4: have to tell you, guys, I feel and have always 99 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 4: felt because I've known Tamra since we used to shoot 100 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:33,799 Speaker 4: those Summer by Bravo commercial like back in the eighteenth century. 101 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 4: It's like a family and being back and being embraced 102 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 4: by people that you know came after I was fired 103 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,039 Speaker 4: is a really good feeling. Like it feels like I 104 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 4: came back. I've got like step brothers and sisters that 105 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 4: the new family. It's been really nice, Teddy, thank you 106 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 4: for asking. 107 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: Eddie still jokes to this day like if anybody ever 108 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 1: asked me, do you ever get starstruck? Like you meet 109 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: a lot of interest people? And He's like, only once, 110 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: and it was Resa. It was when we were in 111 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 1: New York. I don't remember what we were doing. Was 112 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: the very first time, I like dropped everything in the 113 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 1: lobby of the hotel and I'm likes, I was so 114 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: excited to meet you. 115 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 4: I love like and I watch all the shows, so 116 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 4: I feel the same affinity towards you, like I've loved 117 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 4: you from the gate. 118 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: Well, I know that some people that you don't like, I. 119 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 4: Mean, they're definitely are. 120 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that was all over the world wide web. 121 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 2: So who's your favorite housewife? Then let's switch it. 122 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 4: I have so many I mean Dolores is definitely in 123 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 4: the top three. Chanelle Ion I love Tamra, I love 124 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:52,119 Speaker 4: people like I give So, I love Angie, I love 125 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 4: Lisa all the Lisa's. I mean, I did Worst Cooks 126 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 4: in London with Lisa Barlow, so I got to work 127 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 4: with her as a castmate and not on like a house, 128 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 4: you know, not on a problem show with her, and 129 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 4: she's totally different. You know. Then you know how it 130 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 4: is when you are colleagues with one another and your friends, 131 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 4: but you're on a show. It's such a complex. 132 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 3: Was she glamed every day for that? 133 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 4: Oh my god? The outfits that deluge every day, drip 134 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 4: drip drip, like I felt like a peasant. Oh yeah, 135 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 4: she was dripping every day, looking gorgeous and snatched. 136 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: I relate to Adam a lot because you had said 137 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: and you're a lot like Eddie, where he's not as 138 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: affectionate as you are, and it's you know, it's like, 139 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: and I love that scene where you guys sat down 140 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 1: and you like held hands across from each other, and 141 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: this is what I need from you. I think more 142 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: marriages need to do that, because I come from a 143 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: family that was like, hey, your ass doesn't look that 144 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 1: big today. Like there was no touching, no effection, no hugging, 145 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: no nothing. And Eddie is Mexican and that's all they 146 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 1: do is hugging, kiss same. 147 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 4: Mexican culture is very similar to Persian culture. I grew 148 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 4: up with a mom who would pick me up from 149 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 4: school and wouldn't let me in the car until I 150 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 4: gave her a hug and a kiss. And I was 151 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 4: embarrassed to do it in front of my friends. But 152 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 4: now looking back on it, it was so special to me. 153 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 4: Like literally, when I call her, you would think I 154 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 4: just got back from war. This bitch is like I 155 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 4: love himself, bitch, I talked to you yesterday. Right. When 156 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 4: my husband talks to his mom literally on speaker, he'll 157 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 4: be like hey and she's like hey, and then I'm 158 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 4: like what is that? But he comes from a military household, 159 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 4: you know, his father is a retired Air Force colonel, 160 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 4: and it was very different and he some I just 161 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 4: I need more, and we luckily we went to counseling 162 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 4: together and she told us to do these check ins, 163 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 4: which we do religiously and they're very helpful. I feel 164 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 4: like if we didn't do them, we wouldn't be in 165 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 4: a good place with one another because we get to 166 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 4: get out those little things that might be like bestering, 167 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 4: that could turn into a big thing. 168 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 1: Well, it made me kind of open my eyes when 169 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,559 Speaker 1: I saw that scene, because like, we will literally get 170 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: out of bed and then I'll walk around and Eddie 171 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: just comes up like what are you looking at? I 172 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: just got out of bed. I am like, Adam, Yeah, 173 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 1: we don't need a hug. We just got out of bed. 174 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,199 Speaker 4: No, I want to hug, Like I don't hug, kiss me, 175 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 4: hold me if I'm at the sink in the kitchen, 176 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 4: come up behind me and like give me a little kiss. 177 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: Like do you need Eddie? Yes, that is so funny. 178 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. So you guys have been together for 179 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 2: having how many years? Now? 180 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:22,439 Speaker 3: Eleven years, ten years. 181 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 4: We've been married for ten together for fifteen and in 182 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 4: gay years, that's like thirty. 183 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 3: That's a long time, a long time. And how often 184 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 3: do you do these check ins? 185 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 4: Every night? 186 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 3: Every night? 187 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 4: Every night? It's really quick though, Teddy, It's like how 188 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,199 Speaker 4: are you, how are you feeling? What can I do 189 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 4: for you tomorrow? What do you need from me? 190 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I think I'm going to incorporate this 191 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 1: into our life. 192 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 4: It's really she said, like, don't like make it just 193 00:10:54,880 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 4: like never complicated, oh tracked thing, bullet points like tan 194 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 4: you're on watch what happens Live? Like snappy answers, like 195 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 4: really fast, like the show's moving. 196 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 1: Has it ever created a fight between you? 197 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 4: That? Not at all? It Actually it alleviates fights. It's 198 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 4: like a pressure relief valve. I always feel better afterwards, 199 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 4: and I'm always receptive to anything like this is the 200 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 4: man I love, Like we're married and if he's telling 201 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 4: me something in a moment where we're having a check 202 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 4: in with one another, I'm all ears, like I want 203 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 4: to be president for it. 204 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 1: Do you ever look at and hold his head and 205 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:33,320 Speaker 1: go you make too much? Tabully? 206 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 4: No, because every because people are obsessed with his tabuli, 207 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 4: and it's so to see him embrace Middle Eastern things, 208 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 4: our music, our culture, our food. It's literally my mom 209 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 4: fell in love with him because he has just found 210 00:11:55,800 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 4: a place in our family, and everyone literally him because 211 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 4: he's such a match. 212 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:08,559 Speaker 1: Can you clear it up? Is to bully Middle easternly. 213 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 4: Is one hundred percent Middle Eastern. It's also Mediterranean, but 214 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 4: it's not specifically Persian. 215 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 1: Because somebody said something like bomb Squad. 216 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 4: But those two that husband and wife, bless their hearts, 217 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 4: they're very negative. They tend to they tend to always 218 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 4: have something to say, but what you hear out of 219 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,359 Speaker 4: them isn't the most positive. 220 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 1: Right, And now he's married to Sky, right, yes, yes, right, oh, yes, 221 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:46,199 Speaker 1: she's real positive. She's good TV because I wanted to 222 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 1: jump in my TV last week when she kept going 223 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 1: on and on about him not getting a bartender. It's 224 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 1: not that important. You guys are in a you're in 225 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: a backyard, it is. And how many. 226 00:12:57,360 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 3: People were there, because it for sure wasn't forty. 227 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: There's like eight people. 228 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 4: Maybe twelve people total, and if you count like production, 229 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:13,439 Speaker 4: maybe twenty literally, and there was champagne and white wine. 230 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:15,439 Speaker 4: What was the bartender? 231 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 1: Going for it? Yourself? 232 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 4: Literally? But she wants to present a certain image and 233 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:26,439 Speaker 4: she wanted the bartender there, and that's what was really 234 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 4: bothering her about the bartender situation. It was the outward 235 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:36,119 Speaker 4: presentation for us, and we were all like, this backyard 236 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 4: is literally the size of a shoe box. One more 237 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:42,199 Speaker 4: body would have made it feel even more claustrophobic than 238 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 4: it already did. 239 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 2: What did you think about Gigi when she just lit 240 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:48,439 Speaker 2: up a joint without asking. 241 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:54,440 Speaker 4: Well, we were outside, the kids were nowhere in sight. 242 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:58,439 Speaker 4: And the funny thing was Sky took a couple hits 243 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 4: of that joint. So what the fact that now you're 244 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 4: going to reprimand someone you know, it's like, come on girl. 245 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Can we talk about the Porsche that 246 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:14,479 Speaker 1: was delivered? 247 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 4: Yes? 248 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:16,439 Speaker 1: Did they keep it? 249 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:17,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 250 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: Of course, Okay, I just I didn't know if that 251 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: was like sometimes on these shows, like on our show, 252 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: we had somebody get a Rolls Royce. Now they lived 253 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 1: in a condo, but he delivered a Rolls Royce to 254 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 1: the hotel. I think you know who I'm talking about, 255 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: and it was return the next day. 256 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 4: No, they drive it, they have it. They actually have 257 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 4: multi They have a GT three, they have multiple Porschas, 258 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 4: a range Rover and afod Bronco. They do very well, 259 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 4: both of them. They're very successful. 260 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 3: Because they make it out that only she does well. 261 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 4: No, he's he. The funny thing is we have Sky 262 00:14:56,080 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 4: and Bomb Squad who talk and show vote to a 263 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 4: level that is not real, and Greg downplays it like 264 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 4: their home is very expensive. Greg is not only a 265 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 4: mortgage broker, he's a very successful developer and has a 266 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 4: multimillion dollar project new construction, the home that he's building 267 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 4: from the ground up, So a lot of his cash 268 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 4: is invested in this property that he's developing, So he 269 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 4: may not be cash flush. And he's not trying to 270 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 4: impress anyone because everyone already knows who he is, what 271 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 4: he's done. 272 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: And what he has, so that makes sense. 273 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 4: He's not out here trying to talk about like we 274 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 4: are moving to the bell I hate the valley girl? 275 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 4: Where are you still live in? Did you you've been 276 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:48,040 Speaker 4: talking about bel Air for a minute now. We shot 277 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 4: that show a while agit Are you a bel Air yet? 278 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: That's funny? 279 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on half your cast not sleeping 280 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 2: in the same bed together? 281 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 4: Well, with Tanny and and Greg, I totally understand it. 282 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 4: But with Bomb Squad and Scott, she hates him. He's 283 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 4: literally once you could tell she hates that man. He's 284 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 4: so afraid it's his third wife. She is wife's number three, 285 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 4: so for him, he literally he takes whatever she dishes 286 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 4: out because he's so afraid of having another divorce under 287 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 4: his bell. He has no spine. She runs that house. 288 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: You know how reality shows go if they're on long enough, 289 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 1: they will end up divorced. 290 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 4: Oh, they She one hundred percent. She does not like 291 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 4: this man. 292 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: Do you think they'll be the first ones to split up? 293 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 1: Not that we want anybody to split up, but it 294 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 1: just seems like they She does not like him. 295 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. Unfortunately MJ and her marriage ended up disas Yeah, first, 296 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 4: but I definitely think Sky and Bomb Squad are next, 297 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 4: because he is not going to be able to tolerate 298 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 4: her much longer. He's already in another bedroom. She really 299 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 4: talks down to him. 300 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 1: Oh that sad. 301 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:11,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, Speaking of MJ and her split up, was it 302 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 2: hard for you to watch back some of those scenes, 303 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 2: like when they went on the date or just even 304 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:21,439 Speaker 2: when they're trying to have conversation, You can see how 305 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 2: much they're struggling and how kind of uninterested he is 306 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 2: in hearing what she has to say. 307 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 4: It was very hard for me, Teddy, because MJ is 308 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:35,160 Speaker 4: such an angel that the whole time she was talking 309 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 4: to me in a way where I thought she was 310 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:43,480 Speaker 4: very happy in her marriage, she was. She literally painted 311 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:45,439 Speaker 4: a picture for me and made him out to be 312 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 4: something that I did not see on the screen. So 313 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:54,680 Speaker 4: I'm thinking she's happy, she's satiated in this marriage, she's 314 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,719 Speaker 4: loved and taken care of it. And then I watched 315 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 4: the show and I felt really bad from my friend, 316 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 4: and then when she opened up to me about what 317 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 4: was really going on, I felt really sad that she 318 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 4: was hoping the tide would turn and she didn't want 319 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 4: any of us to think negatively about him, so she 320 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,359 Speaker 4: was trying to paint a rosier picture than was. 321 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:18,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can tell even when they filmed together that 322 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: she tries to protect him because some of the things 323 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 1: he says to her, I would have like just chopped 324 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 1: him in the Adams apple right there, unseene, and she's 325 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 1: like okay, like very passive, you know, and that's not 326 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 1: really her personality, not at all. 327 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 4: But for her son and for her family, she really 328 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:37,479 Speaker 4: really tried. 329 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:38,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. 330 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so sad. 331 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:40,119 Speaker 4: Yeah. 332 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 1: GG had said in a scene that you know that 333 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:47,119 Speaker 1: MJ was kind of insecure and didn't think she can 334 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: get a man other than Tommy, and that's kind of 335 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 1: why I would assume she would stay with him. But 336 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 1: do you believe that's true? 337 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 4: Which is crazy to me because MJ is like vabavoom, 338 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 4: like yeah, men, when I've known MJ. Since I've been 339 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:08,439 Speaker 4: a teenager, MJ has never had a problem getting a man. Now, 340 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:12,160 Speaker 4: some of the men she was getting I wouldn't think 341 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:17,400 Speaker 4: they were marriage material, but men love MJ. She's voluptuous, 342 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 4: she's funny, she's successful, she's got everything going for her. 343 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 4: I completely disagree with Goallessa's assessment. 344 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I thought that was kind of a weird 345 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 1: assessment too. But I think that MJ might go after 346 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 1: men like her mom, and her mom's been very hard 347 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 1: on her and we've seen it on camera. So she 348 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 1: needs to break that cycle. 349 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 4: That's for sure, one hundred percent. That listening to that 350 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 4: is not helpful. You know, you can tune it out 351 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 4: a certain degree, but the rest of it, it penetrates. 352 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 4: And if you have someone around you constantly telling you 353 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 4: that you don't measure up, you're not enough, you don't 354 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 4: look right successful, it's like it's. 355 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 3: Toxic, especially when you have two people doing that. 356 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 357 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:11,399 Speaker 4: Yes, And then you're watching your child pick up little 358 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:14,679 Speaker 4: habits and there are sponges at that age, and you 359 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 4: want to make sure that that's not how they see 360 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 4: you and that's not how they talk to you. 361 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, what did you think about Gigi reconnecting with Dennis. 362 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 4: It was very hard for me to get on board 363 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 4: with Dennis only because I was there like comforting her, 364 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 4: because he literally was engaged to a friend that she 365 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 4: took to her wedding. They eloped in Vegas. She had 366 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 4: two girlfriends with her and he ended it up like 367 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 4: within days of their annulment, or maybe there was an overlap. 368 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 4: I don't know, I'm just speculating. 369 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 1: I mean it was a whole week, yes, but. 370 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 4: Like cut to their together and this is the grossest part. 371 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 4: Goldnessa and Dennis got tattoos of the place they were 372 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 4: married at. The address was like five five five, and 373 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 4: they each got five to five to five tattooed on 374 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 4: their body. When he ended up with the new girl, 375 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 4: they also got a three digit tax. 376 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,880 Speaker 1: No, he should have just changed his to six. Six's six. 377 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:22,159 Speaker 4: I'm like, bro, can you not get another tattoo? Like 378 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 4: a word? Like why another three? Like it's so corny? 379 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 1: That is corny. 380 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,679 Speaker 2: But this is the part that confused me because he 381 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 2: was sitting there saying that. Well, first she says, you know, 382 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:36,200 Speaker 2: the only reason she was with him was to get back. 383 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 3: At her ex, and then. 384 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 2: It kind of made it seem like they weren't really 385 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:42,639 Speaker 2: together when they got married. 386 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 4: Honestly, she was with another guy that she was in 387 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,880 Speaker 4: love with and I had never seen her that sprung, 388 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 4: and whatever was going on in that relationship, it wasn't 389 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:59,360 Speaker 4: working out. And then cut too. She goes to Vegas 390 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 4: and Mary's Dennis, and I was thinking, Oh, this is 391 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 4: not going to end well, and it didn't. 392 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 2: Do you think it's kind of convenient that Dennis just 393 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 2: comes right back on now that you guys are back 394 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 2: on a show. 395 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:17,679 Speaker 4: I mean, Dennis, I'm going to say something. I'm going 396 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 4: to for sure get in trouble for it. So we 397 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 4: did not have a premiere party. We had a I 398 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 4: need one hundred dollars from you to come to Dennis's 399 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:33,199 Speaker 4: house for this premiere party party. So we all had 400 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,919 Speaker 4: to pay one hundred dollars to go to Dennis's house 401 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 4: to have a premiere party. While we're at Dennis's house 402 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 4: and Dennis is rich, we're like in a five million 403 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 4: dollar house. While we're at Dennis's house, there's a cake 404 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 4: there and it's got a picture of the cast on it. 405 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 4: Dennis's daughter sees the cake and says to Dennis, hey, daddy. 406 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 4: How come you're not on the cake And I'm thinking, 407 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:02,359 Speaker 4: because your daddy ain't on the show. Yeah, like, oh my, 408 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:06,760 Speaker 4: thanks to almost friend. But Dennis loves the camera. 409 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,439 Speaker 1: Why was he charging one hundred dollars? What are you 410 00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:10,159 Speaker 1: in high school? 411 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:14,479 Speaker 4: I don't know that he specifically charged one hundred. I 412 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,880 Speaker 4: feel like the people that put the party on color. 413 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 1: Oh okay, I thought maybe it was at his house 414 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 1: or something. 415 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 4: It was at his house, like it was very off putting, 416 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:27,040 Speaker 4: Like I was talking a lot of smack afterwards about 417 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:27,959 Speaker 4: the party. 418 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 3: I would have one hundred dollars entrance fee. 419 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I did not like that. 420 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:40,400 Speaker 1: Little Steve good Lord. I didn't know he was rich. Yes, Well, 421 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: your memoir comes out April seventh, which is pretty amazing. 422 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 1: There it is, Can you tell us give us a 423 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 1: little tidbit about it? 424 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 4: Totally? It's basically my story of how we ended up 425 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 4: in America. It's very time sensitive because of what's going 426 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 4: on in he on right now. We basically came to 427 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 4: America on a vacation and then a revolution happened in 428 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 4: our home country, and it's just the story of finding 429 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:15,120 Speaker 4: my way and when I was little Tamaran, my mom 430 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 4: would say, what do you want to be when you 431 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 4: grow up? And I would say, I want to be 432 00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:21,640 Speaker 4: the Shaw, which means I want to be the King 433 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,159 Speaker 4: of Iran, because the king of Iran is called the Shaw. 434 00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 4: And I wanted to I literally, like you know how 435 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 4: you asked a little American kid what do you want 436 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 4: to be and they say, I want to be the president. 437 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 4: I wanted to be the King of Iran. I grew 438 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 4: up in this country. The monarchy was abolished, and I 439 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:40,320 Speaker 4: manifested a freaking reality show. 440 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 1: What did you name the show? 441 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 4: I didn't name it. They wanted to call it Sultan's 442 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:48,920 Speaker 4: of Sunset and I said, you guys, we're Persian. We 443 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 4: don't have sultans. We have Shaws. And they made it 444 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 4: Shaws of Sunset. 445 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:54,199 Speaker 1: So you had to say so. 446 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 4: We had to say so. But it wasn't like me, 447 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,879 Speaker 4: you know, all of us as a group, but like I, 448 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 4: I literally manifested it. And it's just a book about 449 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 4: where I came from and like how I got to 450 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,120 Speaker 4: where I'm at, and just stories about how my dad 451 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 4: picked up and had to start all over and was 452 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 4: able to provide a beautiful life for us in Beverly Hills, 453 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:20,679 Speaker 4: and it's just all about things I've never talked about 454 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 4: on shouts of Sunset. It's my relationship stuff is in there. 455 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,399 Speaker 4: When I went to go do the audible version, I 456 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:31,959 Speaker 4: literally was cringing because I had forgotten how vulnerable and 457 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 4: raw I was with everything like it was. It's exciting 458 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:40,280 Speaker 4: but very scary to have so many personal details that 459 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,399 Speaker 4: no one's ever known in writing that are going to 460 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 4: you know, people out there process too. 461 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 1: How long did it take you to write it? 462 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 4: It took me a very long time. I had one 463 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,960 Speaker 4: ghostwriter I was working with. We had to get rid 464 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 4: of her. We hired another ghostwriter. Then the show got canceled. 465 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 4: It just was like it was a let's put it 466 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 4: this way. I referred how their gate to my book agent. 467 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 4: She published two books before and before her. 468 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:14,159 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's crazy. Are you going on a 469 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 1: book tour? 470 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 4: Hopefully going on a book tour after it comes out? Yes? 471 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,719 Speaker 1: Good, that's amazing. 472 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:20,919 Speaker 4: Thank you. 473 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 2: Getting back to the show a little bit more, there's 474 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:35,199 Speaker 2: a lot of discussion about Gigi and her wanting to 475 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 2: move but needing to downsize and trying to find. 476 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:43,160 Speaker 3: A place, and they showed one clip. 477 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,359 Speaker 2: Of where she lives now, Yes, And it looked like 478 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,200 Speaker 2: there was like three bedrooms full of clothes, and then 479 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:50,360 Speaker 2: the rest is where they live. 480 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,359 Speaker 3: Yes, does she still live there? 481 00:26:53,280 --> 00:27:00,720 Speaker 4: Yes, she lives in a massive house and she so 482 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 4: many clothes. I think she has like five or six 483 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:08,640 Speaker 4: bedrooms and it's just her and her son. Right, it's 484 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 4: a huge house. And I was raised by a Persian 485 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:18,480 Speaker 4: Jew who literally like instilled in me that like, you 486 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:22,040 Speaker 4: never rent, you always buy. You don't charge things on 487 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 4: your credit card. If you can't afford to pay for something, 488 00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 4: you don't charge it and pay interest because you end 489 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 4: up paying double for something. 490 00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:31,000 Speaker 1: That's why I was raised. 491 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 4: When you charge it. So when I talk to my friends, 492 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:37,159 Speaker 4: I'm realizing I'm at the age of that. My dad 493 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,679 Speaker 4: was like instilling all of these things in me. And 494 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,919 Speaker 4: I care about my friends and the thought of my 495 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,920 Speaker 4: friends spending ten thousand dollars a month on rent when 496 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 4: she could downsize save the money because we're on a 497 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,360 Speaker 4: show together. Bitch, I know how much money you make. 498 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:54,400 Speaker 1: Is she paying? Is her dad pain? 499 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:56,880 Speaker 4: No? Girls, she gotta pay. 500 00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 1: Oh, she's got a pay now, daddy's not paying anymore. 501 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, you got to pay, you know. And I think 502 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 4: to myself, like, there's no chance I would want to 503 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:11,880 Speaker 4: use that much of my checks as rent. I own 504 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,720 Speaker 4: two houses. One of my houses pays me so much 505 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,920 Speaker 4: rent that the rent pays for me to live in 506 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 4: my other house for free. He's smart in my house. 507 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 4: So the thought of my friend wasting money gets under 508 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 4: my skin. So sometimes I give advice that people don't appreciate, 509 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 4: but it comes from love. 510 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 1: Like we have people on our house that pay fit, 511 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: don't own a house. They pay fifteen thousand dollars a 512 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 1: month on rent. 513 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 4: I tell Shannon, like, girl, I was literally on the 514 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 4: phone with her yesterday Tamra, and I was like, girl, 515 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 4: you need to buy some income property because when this 516 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,880 Speaker 4: show is over, you need some tenants paying you rent. 517 00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 1: Because it's absolutely because we're immigrants. 518 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 4: None of our relatives had four on one k's or 519 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,000 Speaker 4: pensions or anything like that, but they all had real 520 00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 4: estate that by the time they were old, they owned 521 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 4: ten to fifteen houses, twenty apartment buildings, and they were rich, 522 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 4: not working, collecting boat loads of. 523 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,040 Speaker 1: That's my plan, Yeah, that's my plan. I'm over here 524 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 1: saving all my money and buying houses, paying off houses 525 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 1: for all this stuff. 526 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what's up. 527 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just wanted about path of income. 528 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 1: I want to be comfortable when I'm old older, I 529 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 1: should say I'm already old. 530 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 2: How long did you know the other cast members before 531 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:34,479 Speaker 2: they came on? 532 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 3: The ones that you weren't close with prior? 533 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 4: So I've known Greg and Tanning for years, like maybe 534 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 4: a decade. I've known Greg and Tanny. I've known Resi 535 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 4: Resid Jacks for years. And Mire and Natasha I knew 536 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 4: from the periphery because Goldessa was friends with them and 537 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 4: they are Their kids went to school together. MJ's son 538 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 4: and Elijah, and Natasha and Amir's kids go to school together, 539 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 4: so I would hear about them all the time, But 540 00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 4: I didn't have a big relationship with them. I do now. 541 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 4: I freaking adore Natasha and Amir. I adore them. They're amazing. 542 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 4: I love Greg and Tanning as well. Sky and Bomb 543 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 4: Squad I did not know at all. I knew that 544 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 4: Sky was Tannan's best friend, but I had like she 545 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 4: just is not my cup of tea, So I wasn't 546 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,600 Speaker 4: really trying to be like homies her with them. 547 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, why does it seem like Tannin is just not 548 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 2: into her husband at all? Is that because for me, 549 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 2: like I saw that the scene from her accident, and 550 00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:52,080 Speaker 2: I immediately felt like I had PTSD from all my 551 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 2: brain surgeries and seeing that scar and all those things. 552 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:02,160 Speaker 2: So I can only imagine how she felt and he was. 553 00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 3: There for her. 554 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 2: But like then we see them kind of talking and 555 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,480 Speaker 2: it seems like she's kind of checked out. 556 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 3: Is that how they are in person? 557 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:17,360 Speaker 4: So what a wonderful, great observation, Teddy he has, I think, 558 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 4: And obviously I'm not a doctor or an expert, but 559 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,800 Speaker 4: from what Tanian tells me and from hanging around Greg, 560 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 4: he has like severe ADHD, Like if she's trying to 561 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:33,240 Speaker 4: have a conversation about something that's important to her, like 562 00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 4: her gun, shopping and trying to talk to him about 563 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:41,480 Speaker 4: her day. He has a very short attention span. He 564 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 4: like literally can't focus in and the same way I 565 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:49,640 Speaker 4: tell Adam, like I need more affection, she needs more connection, 566 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 4: And he is wonderful in a lot of ways, but 567 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 4: comes up short in a lot of others. So they 568 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 4: are literally they try, they try, and they love each other, 569 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 4: but they have their issues, and I'm grateful that they're 570 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 4: very open about them as opposed to trying to present 571 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:14,840 Speaker 4: this outward image that we're perfect, we're rich, we're attractive 572 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 4: and all as well. 573 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 2: What would you do if your husband was texting with 574 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:21,320 Speaker 2: somebody at two in the morning. 575 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 4: I would be really upset. But my husband would be 576 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 4: the type because he's like goofy and sweet that like 577 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 4: he could get himself mixed up into a situation that 578 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 4: would be very upsetting for me. But I would know that, 579 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 4: like he's just he's so sweet and goofy and not 580 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:45,040 Speaker 4: thinking properly. And he was trying to be helpful, gave 581 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,560 Speaker 4: his number to someone and was like, Oh, we're tourists 582 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 4: in this town. You know you live here. Can you 583 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:54,080 Speaker 4: tell us where to go? And end up getting DMed 584 00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 4: or hit up? And I would be very upset with him, 585 00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 4: and I would let him know and he would catch 586 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:01,400 Speaker 4: on and not do it again, but it would be 587 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 4: very upsetting to me. 588 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I know you have to go because you 589 00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 3: have such a busy day. 590 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 4: This was so much fun. I'm so upset that you 591 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:10,600 Speaker 4: have not had me on sooner, and I want to 592 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:11,160 Speaker 4: come back. 593 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 2: You can come back anytime you want, a time you want, anytime, 594 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,400 Speaker 2: any teasers you want to give us for what we 595 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:17,360 Speaker 2: have to look forward to. 596 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 4: Okay, not Thursday's episode, which is very good, but next 597 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 4: Thursday's episode. Get your popcorn, call your girlfriend? Really about 598 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 4: to go down? Yeah, it's about to go down. 599 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:42,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, who's in the middle of that drama? Oh? 600 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,400 Speaker 4: I might be, I might be. I don't want to 601 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 4: give anything away, but literally the. 602 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:51,160 Speaker 1: Next of course, you are are so good and I 603 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 1: am like stirring. 604 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, gosh, well, thank you so much for coming on. 605 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 4: You guys are amazing. I have no wonder this pod 606 00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 4: is so successful. 607 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you. By I have a great day. 608 00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 4: You too.