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Speaker 1: Julie bo levitating on one oh two point seven Kiss FM.

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Speaker 1: All right, so that's a fascinating Conceptsney just said, you

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Speaker 1: may be cheating but might not know it. Yeah, think

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Speaker 1: about it. And it's a trend called micro cheating.

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Speaker 2: Right, So how far do you have to go before

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Speaker 2: it's considered cheating? We all know the concept of emotional

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Speaker 2: cheating and do you consider that cheating? Et cetera, et cetera.

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Speaker 3: Right. I actually thought about this the other day, how so,

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Speaker 3: because this man came up to me. I was by

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Speaker 3: myself at the dog park, and he was chatting with

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Speaker 3: me for a long.

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Speaker 1: Time, and it was like, that's kind of flirty.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't. I mean, I was not flirting, but I

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Speaker 3: was like am I yeah?

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Speaker 1: No one.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I should insert the fact that, like

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Speaker 3: this is my dog with my boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: Well that's interesting because like, if you're trying to be

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Speaker 1: nice or charming, is that right? You don't want to

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Speaker 1: confuse that to be confused with flirting.

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Speaker 3: And I talked to everybody at the dog park.

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Speaker 2: I don't think something like that would be considered micro

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Speaker 2: cheating because this is more.

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Speaker 1: But it closed her mind. I think if you continued it.

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Speaker 2: If it was like every week, every Monday you saw him,

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Speaker 2: then it would probably be considered.

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Speaker 1: My solution also is what you just said, Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: what a beautiful day. I always love to come to

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Speaker 1: this dog park with my buck, friend's dog and my dog.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I just brought it up in conversation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you just do stuff like that.

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Speaker 2: So micro cheating is the act of cultivating, in small ways,

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Speaker 2: inappropriate intimate connections outside of your relationship.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what that means. It's trending all

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Speaker 1: over TikTok right now.

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Speaker 2: It's basically having these little, tiny, small conversations or confiding

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Speaker 2: in your ex, for example, about your current relationship issues,

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Speaker 2: or secretly messaging somebody, secretly messaging somebody.

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Speaker 1: Somebody that would be what like somebody that maybe like.

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Speaker 2: Little dms here and there, not noticing like sometimes like

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Speaker 2: small flirting having relationships on social media.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like that's obvious. Are people doing it

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Speaker 1: and thinking it's fine?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're micro cheating if you're if you're having small

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Speaker 2: conversations and not realizing and it's crossing some sort of

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Speaker 2: line or maybe even like neglecting not to tell somebody

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Speaker 2: about your current relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, on that's interesting. Yeah, So intentionally leaving it out

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Speaker 1: because you're enjoying a charismatic connection with someone else. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that could be I mean not a friend, could be

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Speaker 1: something else.

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Speaker 2: Or a new person that you met. And let's say

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Speaker 2: you're in like a two year relationship.

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Speaker 1: Right, leave it out of your context.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you just met somebody new kind of

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Speaker 2: but you haven't told them yet that you've been in

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Speaker 2: this to your relationship.

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Speaker 1: Right, thoughtful? Right right, it's like not thoughtful.

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Speaker 2: This one was interesting. Having inside jokes with someone who

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Speaker 2: is not your partner.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I do that. I like, I have a

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Speaker 1: lot of inside jokes.

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Speaker 2: And then not inviting your partner to events that is

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Speaker 2: a major micro cheating red flos. So what if you

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Speaker 2: get to that point where you get invited to parties

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Speaker 2: or things and you're just like, I don't want even

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Speaker 2: want my partner to come to that.

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Speaker 1: But what if you are the partner and you don't

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Speaker 1: want to come to that? Different? That is different. That's

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Speaker 1: because you have to be invited to that. Social anxiety

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Speaker 1: doesn't have it. Okay, that's food for thought. Huh. I

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Speaker 1: just think that, like, if you think someone might have

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Speaker 1: a question about it, or if you think someone might

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Speaker 1: feel bad about it, then you don't do it. It's

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Speaker 1: in a relationship like if you have a thought like Toney,

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Speaker 1: you had the thought to mention your boyfriend by not

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Speaker 1: doing it, it wouldn't have been great. By doing it,

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Speaker 1: you covered. Yeah right. It's like you know, you know

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Speaker 1: what you're doing, you know you have feeling, you do

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