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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Dalen,

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Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program. Good morning, how are

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Speaker 1: you very well? And we're here to help of course

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Speaker 1: in waiting by the phone. That's what this really is

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Speaker 1: is a it's a public service. Quite frankly, I think

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Speaker 1: we should probably get like p s a credit from

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Speaker 1: the from the FCC for this. We're trying to you know,

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Speaker 1: we're trying to put people back together, you know. And

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Speaker 1: I want to know what's going on with this woman?

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Speaker 2: Eva?

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Speaker 3: Was it?

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Speaker 2: He went out with Eva?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, how did you meet? Tell us abo any dates

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Speaker 1: that you've been on? And and then what's going on now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, so we met on hinge and uh, I'm

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Speaker 5: going to be like, straight up, I thought she was smoking.

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Speaker 4: Hot, you know, like a thin Okay, yeah, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean I'm quickly jumping on, you know, messaging and getting

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Speaker 5: her number, because you know how these vap's work, everything

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Speaker 5: moves that fast.

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Speaker 2: No, you do, you really have to.

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Speaker 1: You got to get it going, Like if you're really

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Speaker 1: trying to be competitive on the app that you and

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Speaker 1: somebody captures your eye, you got to assume there's like

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Speaker 1: fifty other people to feel the same way, and so

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Speaker 1: it feels aggressive. But it's like boom, boom boom, what's

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Speaker 1: going on, give me your number, Let's go on a date,

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Speaker 1: let's do this one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, just you.

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Speaker 5: Gotta jump on it, or if somebody else is going

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Speaker 5: to jump on it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So I was able to secure a date with her,

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Speaker 5: and I was so calmed, like super super excited, and

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Speaker 5: we ended up going to dinner and it was great,

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Speaker 5: and then afterward we hit a fun bar and you know,

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Speaker 5: had some more drinks there and everything, and she ended

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Speaker 5: up sleeping over, and you know, we fooled around and

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Speaker 5: I'm trying to do it all again, but yeah, do

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Speaker 5: that end. So I'm not sure what happened. I don't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, i'd be bummed too.

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Speaker 1: You meet a ten and she's a ten in person

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Speaker 1: and everything goes well enough that you have a sleepover

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Speaker 1: and you hook up and all of that, and you

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Speaker 1: can't get a hold of the person. That would be disappointing.

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Speaker 1: So let's see if we can get Eva on the phone.

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Speaker 1: We'll ask her some questions for you and someone You're

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Speaker 1: welcome to jump in on the call, and hopefully we

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Speaker 1: get straighten things out. You guys can go on a

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Speaker 1: second date as successful as the verse. We'll pay for it. Okay, cool,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play one song. We'll come back and do it.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, all right, let's see what's up in part

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Speaker 1: two of waiting by the phone after a hose year.

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Speaker 1: In two minutes, we're back on a friend show. Don't move, Hosier,

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Speaker 1: It's the French Show. Thanks for having us on the radio.

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Speaker 1: On the iHeart app now live anytime. Search for the

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Speaker 1: freend Show on demand, Dylan. Yeah, all right, welcome back.

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Speaker 1: Let's call Eva. You met on on a dating app. Right,

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Speaker 1: you met on hands the dating app, which is like

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Speaker 1: bumble and tender and the rest of them really same premise.

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Speaker 1: And you thought she was smoking hot that those were

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Speaker 1: your words. You met her in person, she lived up

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Speaker 1: to that. The date went great. You wind up going

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Speaker 1: You want to poke it up.

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Speaker 4: We went yeah, we went back to my place.

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Speaker 1: Okay, perfect, and this goes great, except now she's not

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Speaker 1: responding to anything, and you want to know what happened.

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Speaker 1: Let's call her now, good luck, Dylan.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi? Is this Eva?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Speaking Eva?

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Speaker 1: Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the

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Speaker 1: Fred's Show started bother. I do have to tell you, though,

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Speaker 1: permission to continue with this call. Can we chat for

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's a little weird, but no, no.

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Speaker 1: It definitely is. But thank you for your time. We're

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Speaker 1: calling on behalf of a guy who reached out to us.

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Speaker 1: His name is Dylan. Says he met you on Hinge,

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Speaker 1: the dating app, and that you guys, you went on

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Speaker 2: Do you remember this guy?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I remember him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so he described, you know, he was very attracted

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Speaker 1: Talked about how the date went, well, I guess it

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Speaker 1: Now he's trying to figure out why you won't call

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Speaker 1: him back. I tell you he's a major douche, because

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Speaker 1: that's he did not volunteer that he was a major douche.

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Speaker 2: Why what did he do? What happened?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean what she said, it is all true,

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Speaker 3: Like we went out and hooked up and you know,

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 3: It was actually quite lovely, Otherwise I wouldn't have But

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Speaker 3: then the next morning it was awful. Why well, so

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Speaker 3: I wake up right and I look over and I

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Speaker 3: see that Dylan was already awake and he's on his

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Speaker 3: is how I organized my dating life.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, with a spreadsheet. Yeah wow.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, because you couldn't have to do that,

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Speaker 1: like you can't update the spreadsheet a little bit later on. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you got to get right to it. I guess you

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Speaker 3: But it was so weird because it was like this

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Speaker 2: Well, and again he started.

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Speaker 3: Laughing and told me that I didn't want to know,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, no, I want to know because I

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Speaker 3: see that my name is highlighted red. And come to

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Speaker 2: Very useful to remember. You know, you got to you

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Speaker 1: I mean sometimes, you know, if you have an extensive

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Speaker 1: you can't remember these kind of details.

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Speaker 1: Ah, wow, Dylan, let's got to mention that, Dylan this year.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Dylan, let's talk about it.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 2: We had to. We had to get right to the spreadsheet.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, it's true I have a spreadsheet. But

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Speaker 5: I like, I feel like I'm kind of being judged

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Speaker 5: a little bit because at the end of the day, dating,

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Speaker 4: It's just hard.

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Speaker 1: You got to stay organized, to stay organized, King, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I want to be organized exactly.

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Speaker 1: I mean, but if you do this, look, people meet

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Speaker 1: people before it. We all have a pass. We've all

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Speaker 1: dated and done other things. But you don't that's like private.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to other people don't have to see

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Speaker 1: in some way, you know what I mean? Like that's

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Speaker 1: that's awkward, Like why couldn't you have wait until she left?

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Speaker 5: I didn't want to be shady because you know, she

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Speaker 1: Would you have any problem with somebody finding this? Like

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Speaker 1: really want, you know, written documentation of evaluations of everybody

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Speaker 1: didn't do and all that. I mean, is that really

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Speaker 5: I would like to think that if I was dating

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Speaker 5: Keep myself organized to make sure that I'm staying safe

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Speaker 5: and you remembering and.

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Speaker 1: Interesting, how much how much red is in this spreadsheet?

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Speaker 2: That's a good question. How many collets?

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Speaker 3: Congratulations. It makes me feel like you're a serial killer

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Speaker 3: or something like who does that?

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Speaker 1: I mean, have you ever had to reference the spreadsheet

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Speaker 1: put photograph in this thing? I mean, how how detail

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Speaker 4: There's no photographs?

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Speaker 5: But you know I have not had to references just yet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's just a pro tip. I mean

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Speaker 1: think about photographs too. Just you know, I don't know

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Speaker 1: at a column or whatever. Okay, I don't really blame you, Eva. Again,

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Speaker 1: It's like some things are better left unsaid, Like we

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Speaker 1: don't have to We don't have to see it. We

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Speaker 1: don't have to see the inventory.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 1: And I can feel like I can I can see

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Speaker 1: how you might feel like like a commodity or a

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Speaker 2: Something, you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I definitely just felt like it, I

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Speaker 3: don't know, almost like it was gamified, like he was

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Speaker 3: trying to see how many. I understand, like sure, being organized,

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Speaker 3: it's tough out there, whatever, but like I think he

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Speaker 3: you know, his car. I'm good, all right.

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Speaker 1: I don't really either. No second date, Dylan. I'd recommend

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Speaker 1: if you're going to keep these kind of you know,

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Speaker 1: detailed records, that maybe you do that in your private

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Speaker 1: time and not when the people are still present in

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess now, I hope for next time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, put that on your spreadsheet, bro, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: write that one down to all right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, good lucks at both of you. Thank you for

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