Speaker 1: What's up his lip service. I'm Angela Ye, I'm g. G. Maguire,
Speaker 1: I'm Laura Maura, and I'm Jadakay Jada Dada's first time
Speaker 1: on lid service. And first of all, I love seeing
Speaker 1: you with my guys. I earn your leisure and so
Speaker 1: that was you're seeing all about your business because we
Speaker 1: did see you on the Impact Atlanta and see you.
Speaker 1: I love seeing you like in the warehouse working with everybody.
Speaker 1: I think that's important as a person who is has
Speaker 1: a business for people to see you there too, like
Speaker 1: on the ground right, like really putting the work in.
Speaker 1: That's what it's about. That's the main reason I got
Speaker 1: on the show because I was like, I want to
Speaker 1: showcase myself as a businesswoman and not just like this
Speaker 1: cute girl that take pictures like it's more to me,
Speaker 1: you know. All right, Well, before we get into all that,
Speaker 1: you know, this is lip service, So we are going
Speaker 1: to start with our tip of the day, So everybody
Speaker 1: has to give a tip, all right. So the question
Speaker 1: of the day was this one woman was asking me, listen,
Speaker 1: I'm dating this guy. It's pretty new, but every time
Speaker 1: I gave him oral sex, he never comes from it.
Speaker 1: So she asked for some advice on what she can
Speaker 1: do to actually finish the job. And she's wondering, why
Speaker 1: is it not working? Oh, he wanted, I don't come
Speaker 1: from head man. Yeah, my tip for this young woman
Speaker 1: would be to just simply ask him what is it
Speaker 1: that he needs? You know, like the best way to
Speaker 1: get the real answer is to ask the question, what
Speaker 1: can I do? Differently instruct me on what you like
Speaker 1: and what you enjoy so that we can get to
Speaker 1: the end of this. Because as much as I love
Speaker 1: giving head, we ain't about to keep going through all
Speaker 1: of this. I want I want the reward to from
Speaker 1: all my good works, my jaw lock up period. Okay,
Speaker 1: but if that's you, Jada, don't look around already. Um
Speaker 1: So I would just say, of course acts because that's
Speaker 1: like the main thing, Like you got to see what
Speaker 1: your partner wants and what they like. And honestly, it's
Speaker 1: no such thing as like bad head. You just gonna
Speaker 1: make sure you make a real, real what it probably
Speaker 1: isn't a thing. Well okay, but the water the better.
Speaker 1: Not on that, but make sure he comes. But okay, yeah, right,
Speaker 1: like dah she died giving head. I've had that same
Speaker 1: issue too, And that's why I say when they asked you,
Speaker 1: I don't like generate to give head because they take
Speaker 1: so long and like you said, to pay you back
Speaker 1: off what you guys say, wet for sure. I've learned
Speaker 1: over the years that wet. And also you know, playing
Speaker 1: with it with both hands and doing different things and
Speaker 1: touching under the balls. What is the call but the
Speaker 1: good you wet, you touch it and you just look
Speaker 1: at him and just make sure you know you can
Speaker 1: feel pretty much. But it's really hard to make them
Speaker 1: calm sometimes, so we know answer that. I'm not about
Speaker 1: to answer this for this question, but I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: you what I tell her. Okay, Well, before you do that,
Speaker 1: I just want to go and give a bonus, right,
Speaker 1: enjoy it? Yeah, you are always that matters that you enjoying.
Speaker 1: You gotta you're gonna love it. And if he feels
Speaker 1: like you're enjoying, pleasuring him to help get him there too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I told her too, right, So don't say
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna answer it. So the first thing I
Speaker 1: said was anticipation matters, So you gotta do a lot
Speaker 1: of four plays so that like you ain't got to
Speaker 1: do it right away. You gotta just act like you're
Speaker 1: about to go down there and come back up, go
Speaker 1: down there and come back up. Then don't necessarily do
Speaker 1: it right away because then they're like, damn, putting your
Speaker 1: mouth already, and by that time they already like, you know,
Speaker 1: building it up. I said, you gotta make your noise
Speaker 1: like you gotta like moan a little like you're really
Speaker 1: enjoying it. And y, that's a lot of spit, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And then I just think you
Speaker 1: gotta talk a little bit too in between you're doing it.
Speaker 1: You gotta say but if you know your man and
Speaker 1: you know he liked his nipples played with, then we
Speaker 1: gotta chick daddy. Daddy, you don't wear the nipples. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: I will, but not while doing that. I gotta focus.
Speaker 1: So like I'm already trying to, like because I figured
Speaker 1: out my thing, like getting more into it to please
Speaker 1: my partner is like pleasing myself too, So like I
Speaker 1: have a Twitter and I'm like doing it at the
Speaker 1: same time, so like I'm also trying to, you know,
Speaker 1: get myself there as well as pleasing you, and that
Speaker 1: makes everybody's happy. As that's a good tip. Play with
Speaker 1: yourself like yeah, and you know what you talking about?
Speaker 1: Tip too. That's another thing. A lot of times women
Speaker 1: think you have to yeah, deep thrown into everything. But
Speaker 1: when you play with the tip, used the hand and
Speaker 1: then just that's that's how I have made men come
Speaker 1: right with the tip. And you know that part times
Speaker 1: to the tips of it. But I have enjoyed it
Speaker 1: over there. The more I do it, like I said,
Speaker 1: and the more I pick up those tips, I actually
Speaker 1: do and joy everybody. But you know, you gotta be confident,
Speaker 1: never might swallow. Can you call me and tell you
Speaker 1: about the first one. I'm gonna please. Yeah, you get
Speaker 1: your superhero strength. After that time, you're gonna go from
Speaker 1: little little lord a big lord like Mario graduated. Stop,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh. Now you know how the day season
Speaker 1: is also kind of like a break up time for
Speaker 1: some people. Now do you officially need to break up
Speaker 1: with somebody or does it just kind of fade out,
Speaker 1: like do you have to be like, okay, let's have
Speaker 1: a conversation we are broken up or is it kind
Speaker 1: of understood when something happens. I feel like it's understood.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a conversation that's needed because everybody
Speaker 1: not mentally there yet to have a conversation when they
Speaker 1: feel like they did something wrong. So like me, I'm
Speaker 1: ready to talk about my problems, but like the nigga
Speaker 1: might not be on that because he's not mentally there yet.
Speaker 1: Like they run away from their problem, they're not ready
Speaker 1: to face them. So me, I'll be wanting to talk,
Speaker 1: but I don't get that. He's like when I talk
Speaker 1: about I just let it fade away. You know, it's
Speaker 1: never like we're broken up. That's not it no more
Speaker 1: because guys be like, once you have that, like, yo,
Speaker 1: we need to talk about this. They don't never want
Speaker 1: they're gonna have you ever dated a guy they wanted
Speaker 1: to talk? So I'm actually crashed off of a breakup.
Speaker 1: That the most craziest breakup, right. Yeah. So we were
Speaker 1: together for like a year and a half, and without
Speaker 1: getting into too much detail, I just felt like there
Speaker 1: was a point when I just realized that the relationship
Speaker 1: wasn't working for me. So you know, we had went
Speaker 1: days and days without speaking and um, you know, I
Speaker 1: had a tragedy come through my life and wrecked things,
Speaker 1: and I just felt like he wasn't there for me
Speaker 1: at that time. So at that point, I'm just like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm done trying, and we kind of just faded apart.
Speaker 1: But there was a time when I literally said to
Speaker 1: him like, hey, we need to talk. And we never
Speaker 1: had to talk, but I was really feeling like I
Speaker 1: just wanted to ended because I just wasn't getting what
Speaker 1: I needed. But we just never had the chance to
Speaker 1: do so, so it faded and it's over and I'm single. Y'all.
Speaker 1: Would you have wanted to talk? Yes, I feel like
Speaker 1: most women do. Um. I mean, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: just really was at the point where I didn't feel
Speaker 1: like myself in the relationship was a priority in his life.
Speaker 1: Like I feel like once he got me to a
Speaker 1: point where I was in a safe space, like I
Speaker 1: was in the savings account versus being in the checking
Speaker 1: then I felt like he's like, all right, she good,
Speaker 1: I don't got worried about her. I got her tucked off,
Speaker 1: I can go do this, this, this that, and that
Speaker 1: it wasn't out things outside the relationship, but focusing on
Speaker 1: his businesses and his health and his family and personal things.
Speaker 1: And I just feel like me knowing what I need
Speaker 1: in a relationship and knowing what you know, I want
Speaker 1: to expect time is something that's very important to me,
Speaker 1: and that was what was lost, and I just didn't
Speaker 1: feel prioritized. So I wanted to tell him these things,
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted to be were we were very
Speaker 1: open with each other, so I wanted to be completely
Speaker 1: honest with him and let him know that this is
Speaker 1: not working for these reasons. But we it just faded away,
Speaker 1: and I guess that's just it. So I remember somebody
Speaker 1: posted I remember who it was, but they were like,
Speaker 1: for a man who's successful, you'll never be a priority.
Speaker 1: They were talking about meeting because he's very successful, and
Speaker 1: I just I mean, there was a point in time,
Speaker 1: in the very beginning, of course, where I did feel
Speaker 1: like things were a priority for using. I want us
Speaker 1: to be a party, not say meeting us, our relationship,
Speaker 1: what we have, so like, yeah, like you that's true,
Speaker 1: you would never yourself be but our relationship. We even
Speaker 1: started working on a business that a business venture that
Speaker 1: we were going to go and sit together, and that
Speaker 1: just like got pushed to the back burning for you know,
Speaker 1: whatever reason. And I was just like I just needed
Speaker 1: him to kind of like stand by his word and
Speaker 1: then do the things that we spoke about and really
Speaker 1: make things happen instead of it always being this what
Speaker 1: we're gonna do. This what we're gonna do. And I
Speaker 1: just got like, all right, I got to move on.
Speaker 1: So now jaded watching you on the Impact Atlanta, Right,
Speaker 1: you said that you are single. I know you're used
Speaker 1: to being in relationships. So being single, did you have
Speaker 1: like a breakup talk or did you, like you said,
Speaker 1: just fade away. Um, it just got bad to the
Speaker 1: point it was like it was all over the internet.
Speaker 1: It was like we was going back and forth to
Speaker 1: the point I just had to take a step back.
Speaker 1: So it wasn't really like a this we're breaking up.
Speaker 1: It was like we didn't have no choice but to
Speaker 1: break up. It was so bad, like we both we
Speaker 1: can't keep doing this. So you think the internet because clearly,
Speaker 1: like and we know that, you know, from starting off young,
Speaker 1: you've always you've always had a big following. You think
Speaker 1: without the Internet things could have been better, you know,
Speaker 1: because I think sometimes relationships are public and people go
Speaker 1: through whatever issues, but as long as the world doesn't
Speaker 1: know about it, Yeah, the internet knowing in everybody's seeing
Speaker 1: and telling you what you should do. Not that I
Speaker 1: care about what people say, but it's like I have
Speaker 1: to have respect for myself to like I can't keep
Speaker 1: letting you play with me and I'm just sitting here
Speaker 1: all smiles, because that should hurt, you know, like my
Speaker 1: feelings hurt. So eventually I had to like take action,
Speaker 1: like Okay, I gotta step back because it's ain't it.
Speaker 1: And that's what I did. And so you think it's
Speaker 1: permanent now or you feel like there's a chance that
Speaker 1: like things could if you know, all I'm still young too,
Speaker 1: so it's always a potential that like, all right, I'm young,
Speaker 1: you're young. We both lit, we pop in, but maybe
Speaker 1: later on down the line. The love is still there.
Speaker 1: I mean, the love is always gonna be there. But
Speaker 1: as far as like a relationship, that's just not something
Speaker 1: that I'm focused on because I feel like I'm healing
Speaker 1: and I need him to heal too, because like we
Speaker 1: could even hang around each other now and it's still
Speaker 1: stuff like I'm like looking at like he doing this
Speaker 1: because of that, or like I'm looking at your flaws.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to dig into you, like why do you
Speaker 1: do the things you do. Why do you speak on
Speaker 1: the things that you speak on? And it's like I'm
Speaker 1: a little bit to heal, so it's like I need
Speaker 1: him to get on that same catch up a little
Speaker 1: bit so we could kind of like balance and you know,
Speaker 1: meet in the middle rather than it's like Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: here and you here. You know what I'm saying. And
Speaker 1: you think there's also pressure from what people have expectations
Speaker 1: of what you're supposed to be like as an artist too,
Speaker 1: you know, because I know back in the day used
Speaker 1: to be like, oh, if he's gonna be an artists,
Speaker 1: you can't publicly have a girlfriend. I feel like you
Speaker 1: being his girlfriend was still lit for him though, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But I think at a certain point,
Speaker 1: like it is a lot of pressure for guys, a
Speaker 1: lot a lot of pressure, and you gotta think, like
Speaker 1: you get way more cool points having five holes than
Speaker 1: having one. I mean, it's messed up, but generation now,
Speaker 1: like that's really like people goes like, oh damn, he
Speaker 1: was with her, he was with her, Like that's what
Speaker 1: goes viral for guys now, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So like, I don't know, it's just society, Like, what
Speaker 1: are you looking for now, Like, I know businesses first,
Speaker 1: but if you can say, because everything is a learning experience,
Speaker 1: so I feel like, no matter what we go through,
Speaker 1: even if things didn't work out, you know obviously have
Speaker 1: a beautiful son, and it is a learning experience. So
Speaker 1: what would you say in the future. You're like, this
Speaker 1: is what I want, and this is what I won't tolerate. Um,
Speaker 1: I'm not tolerating an insecure man. I'm not tolerating hosts
Speaker 1: like a guy having, a guy having or just feeling
Speaker 1: like he could do whatever you want to do. I'm
Speaker 1: not tolerting like a lot of the stuff I used
Speaker 1: to like just let slide. I'm not tolerating it. I
Speaker 1: want to secure man. I want a man that bounces
Speaker 1: off me, like somebody I could get life from. I'm
Speaker 1: not just like pouring it to you. I need somebody
Speaker 1: to pour back into me. And we're just helping each
Speaker 1: other win. Like that's what a relationship is about. It's
Speaker 1: an agreement that we got to be with each other.
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to control you. I don't want you
Speaker 1: to control me, but we are here to benefit each
Speaker 1: other in some type of way. And that's all I want.
Speaker 1: I just want to secure man that could just like
Speaker 1: we went together, like live life at our fullest. Now,
Speaker 1: somebody had told me about dating a guy with kids,
Speaker 1: like be careful because he always still gonna suck with
Speaker 1: his baby mom. What do you think about that? Oh,
Speaker 1: because y'all did have like some Okay, No, I definitely
Speaker 1: that baby mama, Like I'm not even gonna stay here
Speaker 1: and lie, I'm definitely like that baby mama. That it
Speaker 1: hit a little different, Like he gonna always you know,
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk on the phone, We're gonna be cool,
Speaker 1: like even if we're not physically intimate or like we
Speaker 1: on that level, we're gonna always chop it up. He's
Speaker 1: gonna randomly face time me. I'm a randomly face on him.
Speaker 1: I'm always answer no matter what I'm doing, whom around,
Speaker 1: who I'm around, just because like we were always friends first.
Speaker 1: But if I had a guy who I was dealing
Speaker 1: with and he was like that with his baby mama,
Speaker 1: I would be like, oh, like, you ain't the one
Speaker 1: for me. I can't even like I'm not about the
Speaker 1: vibe with you. On the flip side of that point,
Speaker 1: if you are to move on to a new relationship,
Speaker 1: and you have this relationship with your son's father, How
Speaker 1: do you think a guy is going to feel about
Speaker 1: that or come to you and be like, I don't
Speaker 1: really like the way you and him rock, you know,
Speaker 1: would you kind of not breaking? Would you kind of
Speaker 1: like that? Would you be like, no matter what we
Speaker 1: what we are right now this is the potentially forever
Speaker 1: because y'all have a son together. We have a son together.
Speaker 1: But if I really meet a guy who makes me
Speaker 1: want to do that, because you know, I'm an in
Speaker 1: dealt with other people besides my child's father. I just
Speaker 1: haven't met the person that's really like I'm a lock
Speaker 1: in with him or like it's serious, if it's worth it.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like out of here, like I'll talk to
Speaker 1: you and we need to talk about my son. But
Speaker 1: like right now, I'm just really out of space where
Speaker 1: I'm just like living life doing me like I don't
Speaker 1: got no rules, there's no rules, I don't gotta answer
Speaker 1: to nobody, nobody is controlling me. I'm just living the wonderful.
Speaker 1: It's oh my god, like so happy in real life.
Speaker 1: What if he finds someone that and he set boundaries
Speaker 1: on you but you're not. How would you handle that?
Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm so comfortable in myself. I'm ready. Right.
Speaker 1: Of course it's gonna hurt because the love is still
Speaker 1: there for him, But like I would respect it. I
Speaker 1: would definitely respect it all the way. And I'm not
Speaker 1: like I'll say this, we're all genuine iss in me.
Speaker 1: I really would respect it and just be like shit,
Speaker 1: that's what it is. But I hope she a good
Speaker 1: girl because she's gonna be around my son. I gotta
Speaker 1: respect it. But a time, listen, But I must say,
Speaker 1: I always think like this. We always think is our plan,
Speaker 1: and we have plans, and we make these plans thinking
Speaker 1: this is the person and this is right now, and
Speaker 1: it's on God's time and God's plans. So maybe right
Speaker 1: now is not the time for both of you, guys,
Speaker 1: And both of you are super successful, like you got
Speaker 1: a lot going on as well, just as much as
Speaker 1: he do. So you never know, like you, and it
Speaker 1: is the son of your child, so he's never gonna
Speaker 1: leave it never again. Sorry. Yeah, so you get what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So maybe you get what I'm saying later
Speaker 1: on in life when you guys, because sometimes that happened
Speaker 1: I've seen relationships were like eight years later. You know,
Speaker 1: you guys been through whatever you've been through, and at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, that love remains that love
Speaker 1: and you and you'll never know. And let me ask
Speaker 1: you this. Javonte Davis, right, we were watching um before
Speaker 1: the fight. We saw that his his child's mother shifted
Speaker 1: on his tooth first. I know, I'm sure you saw
Speaker 1: that on social media. He posted it, what's the craziest
Speaker 1: thing you've done when you've been mad? I'm not crazy,
Speaker 1: Like you've never done nothing, not for real. I don't
Speaker 1: ever allow myself to get out of character like that.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna cut you Out'm gonna be mad. But like
Speaker 1: as far as like breaking your stuff trying to like
Speaker 1: I've never been that in love to where I got
Speaker 1: to come out of character like trying to like ruin
Speaker 1: your car or oh okay, So I would say the
Speaker 1: craziest thing I've done, I'm not gonna like fuck your
Speaker 1: property up or like do nothing like that, but I
Speaker 1: have like took all his jewelry, and I like, Hiddy,
Speaker 1: that's because you're you're going to have to talk to
Speaker 1: You're going outside that right, I would say, that's the
Speaker 1: most craziest thing I've ever done. But I'm not like that.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna pop up on convenience where you put
Speaker 1: my watch at? I made sure to take because I
Speaker 1: left everything. I took the most expensive I took the
Speaker 1: most expensive watch, and I just took it with me
Speaker 1: because I always would keep my own place when we
Speaker 1: lived together. I will always have my own place. I
Speaker 1: just took it left and then um, I guess he
Speaker 1: was ready to go out one night and he was like,
Speaker 1: where my watch that? And I was like, I'd like
Speaker 1: ignore him. He started up, he started blowing my phone up.
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, that's all I wanted to get
Speaker 1: your watch, Come get it? Yeah, Come, that's funny that
Speaker 1: you know that would bother him. Yeah. So, as far
Speaker 1: that would be the craziest thing I've done, But as
Speaker 1: far as like crazy crazy, I'm not there. Like I
Speaker 1: would never do no ship, I'm not crazy like that either,
Speaker 1: but I was saying I was telling them earlier. The
Speaker 1: craziest thing I did was UM, when my ex boyfriend
Speaker 1: was cheating on me. I the girl. I found her
Speaker 1: on Facebook and she was engaged, and so I hit
Speaker 1: up her fiancee and sending him like the emails of
Speaker 1: the trip they took together with the receipts and the
Speaker 1: pictures and everything. See, I'm not that bold. I did
Speaker 1: something a little similar. Yeah I did that. Well, I
Speaker 1: didn't do that, but that's like a classy, like a classy.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I don't even want to
Speaker 1: cross paths with the other motion. I I gotta just
Speaker 1: leave you alone. I can't. I don't want to even
Speaker 1: have a conversation with the next party. Because see that's
Speaker 1: what I did. He told me, like my ex c
Speaker 1: the new girlfriend. Yeah, I him to her and was like,
Speaker 1: hey girl, I just want you know that your man
Speaker 1: said this, this, this, this, this and that, and he
Speaker 1: lied about this, this and that. And I saw a
Speaker 1: proof when I went through his phone. And I'm only
Speaker 1: telling you because I wish somebody would have the proof.
Speaker 1: I didn't send her to proof. But but but the
Speaker 1: things that I said, she knew that clearly. I was, yeah, no, no,
Speaker 1: but don't know she saw it? Oh please? Would you
Speaker 1: you know? People say like I would want to know?
Speaker 1: Would you want to know? Oh no. The only reason
Speaker 1: the things I did find out in my past relationship
Speaker 1: was because it hit the blogs, like I don't go
Speaker 1: looking for nothing. I really like to stay on my
Speaker 1: own bubble. I always go off of what you don't know.
Speaker 1: I won't kill you as long as I'm happy until
Speaker 1: you I'm gonna go until you find out. And then
Speaker 1: that's when my life is shot. And when you go
Speaker 1: looking for it. And I never went like, I don't
Speaker 1: go through phone and I'm not I'm not searching for
Speaker 1: If it just following my lap, then I'm gonna start investigating.
Speaker 1: But like, I'm not going looking for nothing. I know
Speaker 1: his hurt job to the floor every time he hit
Speaker 1: the blog, say have you ever been together when something
Speaker 1: hit the blogs? And yeah, and you got that first,
Speaker 1: you got that first real reaction. But you know, you
Speaker 1: know what's so crazy and it's had no time to prepare.
Speaker 1: But looking at the blogs and seeing things like that,
Speaker 1: like you're beautiful, like I said, you have everything going
Speaker 1: for yourself. And it's like as a woman, like you know,
Speaker 1: women who are not in the entertainment or anything like that,
Speaker 1: women look like look at her, she got everything. It's
Speaker 1: dummy still doing this and kind of it's like what
Speaker 1: as a woman, what is going to satis? But it's
Speaker 1: not your fault. But I'm saying women looking at it
Speaker 1: because some people think that you know, oh my god,
Speaker 1: they make the perfect She's perfect. I would like, even Beyonce,
Speaker 1: it's not. That's the answer that you can't. Yeah. Never.
Speaker 1: But at one point I did used to be like,
Speaker 1: is it me like to pick this? Do I need
Speaker 1: to fix that? And then I started getting so confident
Speaker 1: in myself and really learning like it ain't me, it's him.
Speaker 1: He's broken. I'm good. I'm not the one, you know,
Speaker 1: giving my body to all these for men. Like I'm
Speaker 1: really good with who I am. I don't got to
Speaker 1: do that. I don't need to go and funk off
Speaker 1: if I feel like I just lost gambling or I
Speaker 1: lost the game, or I'm upset, like you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I don't. I don't have outlets. My outlet
Speaker 1: is I'm gonna sitting in the house deal with it.
Speaker 1: My problems. To meditate before you go stick your dick
Speaker 1: in the random. Honey. Okay, you know you think men
Speaker 1: and they right, Men and women are different for the
Speaker 1: reasons that they do what they do. Absolutely, especially when
Speaker 1: it comes to sex. Like you know, we were having
Speaker 1: it because some guys like they could be okay having
Speaker 1: sex with somebody, they're not. They're not even really that
Speaker 1: at traffic too, right, It's hard to have sex with
Speaker 1: somebody that you're not like feeling, you know, as I
Speaker 1: think I don't know how to. I mean, I know
Speaker 1: guys have been like, yeah, I just did it. It
Speaker 1: was nothing. But I know for me, like it's hard
Speaker 1: to be like I don't really like him. I didn't really,
Speaker 1: it was no such thing. It's me just like fucking
Speaker 1: and it's like, okay whatever. It's like, no, if I
Speaker 1: allow you in that space like I like you, I
Speaker 1: want to pursue you. You know. So now let's talk
Speaker 1: about the impact. Are you doing the season two? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing season two? Oh for real? So you're out?
Speaker 1: How come? Um? I feel like it was just an
Speaker 1: experience and it just wasn't really for me as far,
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna even say it wasn't for me.
Speaker 1: That show specifically wasn't for me only because like a
Speaker 1: lot of the scenes that we did film didn't make
Speaker 1: the show. A lot of things behind the scenes that
Speaker 1: were going on I didn't know about. And it's just
Speaker 1: like after seeing it air, they would like send us
Speaker 1: the edits, and then once it go on TV, I'm
Speaker 1: just as surprised that the people watch and I'm like, what,
Speaker 1: that's not what I That's not what I watched, or
Speaker 1: that's not what they sent me, and um, it's just
Speaker 1: not for me. I feel like that show, but I
Speaker 1: really like towards it and started enjoying doing reality TV.
Speaker 1: It was something like it became fun. So you would
Speaker 1: do something that you have more creative control, yes, for sure.
Speaker 1: Or if I just like if everybody on the cast
Speaker 1: is on the same accord, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: of course, a little drama here and there. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean that's necessary. We spoke earlier about there's always a villain,
Speaker 1: there's always a fight, there's always some type of drama
Speaker 1: when it comes to reality TV. So that's something that
Speaker 1: should kind of be expected when getting and we've all
Speaker 1: done shows and been shot in actually crazy and like
Speaker 1: you said, there were so many scenes that we film
Speaker 1: that just didn't even make the cut. Yeah, like so many,
Speaker 1: so many scenarios that people remember, the switching up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you're right, you don't get to see really what
Speaker 1: they put together. You know what you feel when your
Speaker 1: situation that's really fucked up that you would never in
Speaker 1: real life. You're like, man, I would never have been
Speaker 1: at this event with these people, and now here I
Speaker 1: am and now this personal out crazy Yeah, in the
Speaker 1: middle of some ship I would never even in real life.
Speaker 1: But I'm not even gonna say, like, I love the experience.
Speaker 1: I love how it went. I up that even though
Speaker 1: it was like a bad light that ship, really like
Speaker 1: I had my business booming. Regardless of that I was
Speaker 1: made to be the villain on the show or whatever
Speaker 1: people want to say. I still like, at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, I was handling my business. They did
Speaker 1: showcase that enough for people to say, Okay, I want
Speaker 1: to support her business, like let me see what she's selling,
Speaker 1: let me check out her website. And it really did
Speaker 1: like do what they had to do as far as
Speaker 1: that Wait a minute, So that's why I'm like, honestly, like,
Speaker 1: that was so cute, so cute, right, and it was
Speaker 1: a lot of it paid off. It showed your mom,
Speaker 1: like a side of you. That's what I was thinking,
Speaker 1: you know what we was watching. It was like it
Speaker 1: showed a side of you that people don't see. As
Speaker 1: far as also your relationship, you know, with your mother,
Speaker 1: with your sister, and how involved your mother is in
Speaker 1: your business and you keep your family closed, so that
Speaker 1: it did show outside of Yeah, I started I feel
Speaker 1: like that and people were too focused on the bullshit
Speaker 1: that they have, because I also can appreciate, like as
Speaker 1: a business owner when things don't go right, and how
Speaker 1: devastating I could feel to you, like when you got
Speaker 1: the clothes and you were supposed to have a drop
Speaker 1: and then like ship, now I gotta push it back
Speaker 1: and everybody's expecting this and this came out messed up,
Speaker 1: and this logo is not where it's supposed to be,
Speaker 1: and that should be out of your control sometimes and
Speaker 1: you don't know what to do. You're just still You're
Speaker 1: still always the one that's gonna catch the blame because
Speaker 1: it's you're responsibility. You're a line, you're the boss. So
Speaker 1: no matter what's going on behind the scenes that people
Speaker 1: don't really know, they're still gonna look at you like, oh,
Speaker 1: she cap Cauline supposed to drop in and drop she
Speaker 1: keeps pushing it back. Sure, people don't know that ins
Speaker 1: and out, it's always yeah. So I'm glad that that
Speaker 1: part of it was Showcase because that's what that's what
Speaker 1: I was there all the other ships. Like I hear
Speaker 1: y'all bo, so what's next with your clothing line? So
Speaker 1: I have my upcoming drop, which is gonna be the
Speaker 1: end of this month or March. I don't say exact
Speaker 1: days no more. I don't exact days in production production
Speaker 1: for sure. And um I dropped like a little um
Speaker 1: sneak peek maybe like the week after Christmas and it
Speaker 1: went crazy. So the girls will, yeah a little teasers. Now,
Speaker 1: how are you in Ari now? Um? Honestly, ever since
Speaker 1: the show, like we just don't talk like at all,
Speaker 1: but we never really talked on a regular basis, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's like she in her world,
Speaker 1: I'm in my world. I want her to win. I
Speaker 1: think they still got another season coming up. They did
Speaker 1: the re union and everything, like they're actually on what
Speaker 1: you guys, because it's still the same season, y'all are
Speaker 1: actually on hich one that I just found that out
Speaker 1: the other day night. Yeah, I saw the commercial for
Speaker 1: it last night. I didn't even know that. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: worked out, but yeah, that's that's viewership in the wider audience.
Speaker 1: UM I enjoyed the show. I was kind of surprised
Speaker 1: to see that they kind of had you guys as
Speaker 1: enemies and then it was kind of separated, like I
Speaker 1: was expecting more of all together unity. Yeah, for sure,
Speaker 1: I felt like Lakia was kind of doing her own
Speaker 1: thing off to the side. I love you and that
Speaker 1: this relationship you could tell you'all really like j friends,
Speaker 1: Like you can see the real like love that you
Speaker 1: have for each other in the support that y'all have
Speaker 1: for each other, and the same thing I feel like
Speaker 1: well Ari and T. But I just felt like I
Speaker 1: expected it to be a little more cohesiveness, but with
Speaker 1: everybody they were trying to be cohesive. But every now
Speaker 1: cohesive and messy. But like in the beginning, we all
Speaker 1: like weren't on a friend basis to where we texting
Speaker 1: and talking to each other. So once it started becoming
Speaker 1: time in the film, which was six months after we
Speaker 1: had that original meeting, everybody, y'all coom by, y'all like, hell, yeah,
Speaker 1: we're about to have this show. Let's go six months
Speaker 1: we stopped talking. Now it's time to film again. So everybody,
Speaker 1: it's all weird. It's all weird. So it's like damn, Like,
Speaker 1: how the hell are we even supposed to say at
Speaker 1: this table with the same energy when we haven't talked
Speaker 1: in this months, you know what I'm saying, Like we
Speaker 1: all follow each other on Instagram, but it's like how
Speaker 1: we all supposed to come together? Really and everybody in Atlanta?
Speaker 1: Yeah right right, all right there? Yeah, so this happens
Speaker 1: like just like like just like, are you planning your
Speaker 1: own show now? Oh? No, I'm really just getting my
Speaker 1: acting bag. I got another movie coming out um this year,
Speaker 1: and what's the movie. It's called Only Child. It's a
Speaker 1: really really good movie and I had a bigger role
Speaker 1: than the last movie I did, So it's really I
Speaker 1: feel like it's going to open a door career path. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so acting is something I really want to tap into.
Speaker 1: Reality TV cool and I'm not against it. But have
Speaker 1: you always went into act or is it something that
Speaker 1: kind of like came after everything else with the fashion
Speaker 1: and Um, I never really wanted to be an actor.
Speaker 1: It just kind of flow or came about after UM
Speaker 1: like TikTok And I guess this lady who filmed that
Speaker 1: last movie Been for Love, I was and she was
Speaker 1: like she could do TikTok's I feel like she could act.
Speaker 1: I want her to be in my and that's how things,
Speaker 1: you know. Ye, no audition, no nothing, And I did
Speaker 1: the movie and did a good job, so it worked
Speaker 1: out for me. But acting wasn't something I was like,
Speaker 1: I want to be actorss No. Now, Gig, I want
Speaker 1: to talk about your social media. So we saw you
Speaker 1: got another surgery done so and I tell you responding
Speaker 1: to people so today, so talk about it. So what
Speaker 1: you've got do you know? We I freely talk about
Speaker 1: surgery anytime it comes up as a topic here on
Speaker 1: the service or in any conversation. Um, you know. But
Speaker 1: so recently I did like both three sixty Um, I
Speaker 1: did a flex scope procedure with UM goal shout out
Speaker 1: to ghostlex surgery. No, I can talk about it freely now.
Speaker 1: It was a promo thing, right, so clearly required to
Speaker 1: post and to go live. So I'm freely sharing my
Speaker 1: whole process, you know, from even before I laid on
Speaker 1: the table. I you know, did the surgery live on
Speaker 1: Instagram everything, so um in these posts the comments, of course,
Speaker 1: people going to have their things to say, oh you'll
Speaker 1: need that, or with a waste of money. Oh, love yourself?
Speaker 1: Oh that right, So that's all fine, right. Everybody is
Speaker 1: entitled to their own opinion. Opinions are like assholes. Sometime
Speaker 1: I'm sayre shitty. You know, sometimes they think right, but
Speaker 1: sometimes you fix them and sometimes you know, you get
Speaker 1: it right. So I made a post that kind of
Speaker 1: cleared up a lot of the misconceptions about surgery and
Speaker 1: procedures and so forth. People took it the wrong way, like, oh,
Speaker 1: how are you gonna sell You don't care about people opinion,
Speaker 1: but you write this long book and make multiple posts
Speaker 1: about it. It's not that that wasn't the thing. I
Speaker 1: just want people to be informed, right, I want you
Speaker 1: to really have facts when you think you know what
Speaker 1: you're talking about. Like, for instance, and I'm sure if
Speaker 1: you've gotten this on social media, every time somebody see
Speaker 1: this shape, they automatically say BBL. No, every time you
Speaker 1: see this, that does not equate BBL. Every woman did
Speaker 1: not have a BBL. Some women like me are actually
Speaker 1: too small for a b b L. Like some women
Speaker 1: like me, I already had fact butt shots in this
Speaker 1: butt for ten fifteen years now, and I you know,
Speaker 1: I ain't no doctor gonna put nothing in there and
Speaker 1: guess what, I don't need no more. Right, So, just
Speaker 1: to give a little clarity again, I have been doing
Speaker 1: surgeries since two thousand five. Right, I'm on my second
Speaker 1: pairer M plants. I'm on my second round of light bo.
Speaker 1: I've had butt shots for a very long time and
Speaker 1: thankfully I had okay experience. I have very minor uh
Speaker 1: side effects from it now. Um, but there are women
Speaker 1: who almost died from getting bus shots. There are women
Speaker 1: who have had lots of complications. I know women that
Speaker 1: went to the same lady I went to that had
Speaker 1: to get there is removed because their body rejected it.
Speaker 1: You know, everybody has a different experience experience. Also, everybody
Speaker 1: is a canvas, right. You cannot go to a doctor
Speaker 1: and say I want to look like this if you're
Speaker 1: not giving that doctor that to work with to begin with.
Speaker 1: And that's another misconception that people have by surgery. Oh
Speaker 1: you need to fix this, or you need to fix that,
Speaker 1: or you botch this, you botch that, you should look
Speaker 1: like this, or you should look like that. And it's
Speaker 1: always the ones loud and wrong that don't know what
Speaker 1: they're talking about. Stop working on your body. You got
Speaker 1: Preston plance. What did your doctor tell you when you
Speaker 1: have to get and redone? How long? Two years? Or
Speaker 1: five and ten years? Five and ten years? Most prest
Speaker 1: and plants have a five to ten years shelf life.
Speaker 1: So after I personally didn't like my first pier, so
Speaker 1: after five years I got them done over. But I'm
Speaker 1: going on thirteen years with this second set, and at
Speaker 1: ten years I got them checked and you know what,
Speaker 1: the surgeon told me, they are perfect. I wouldn't touch them.
Speaker 1: If they start to give your problem, revisit it, but
Speaker 1: as of now, you're good. Keep them right. So it's
Speaker 1: not that old I have body dys morphia, or I
Speaker 1: don't love myself or not even just me in general,
Speaker 1: but women who get surgery right, because this is all
Speaker 1: the things that they shout at you. You don't love yourself,
Speaker 1: love the body God gave you, you know, work on
Speaker 1: your self esteem. This the third and that is not
Speaker 1: the case of getting surgery. And when you don't get
Speaker 1: done and then right then we do them. We don't um.
Speaker 1: I know, I'm going a little bit of rant, and
Speaker 1: I'm into with this. To each their own right. We
Speaker 1: choose to do what we want to do to make
Speaker 1: us happy. But it's not always about a man. It's
Speaker 1: not always about society. It's about you. You choose to
Speaker 1: do your hair the way you want to do your hair.
Speaker 1: You choose to get your nails the way you want
Speaker 1: to get your nails. I choose to snatch my waist
Speaker 1: because I want to statch my waist. Yes, I love
Speaker 1: my body, but I also love my strip of body
Speaker 1: from two thirteen. And guess what, I got that thing
Speaker 1: right back? You can get Oh, you could have just
Speaker 1: worked out and went to the You could have just
Speaker 1: ate clean and went to the jump for thirty days
Speaker 1: and you didn't even need all that. I eat very
Speaker 1: clean business like if I wanted to lay on the
Speaker 1: table and get it sucked out and be and you
Speaker 1: feel and you feel good. Yeah, so I am very pleased.
Speaker 1: That's why you gotta just know what you're doing and
Speaker 1: be happy within and be so that ship don't even
Speaker 1: bother you, you know. But sometimes it is like, okay, no,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna shut you all up. But like I've noticed lately,
Speaker 1: they still don't think what they want to think. So
Speaker 1: it's like I don't even give it the more. I
Speaker 1: really just stepped back and like, Okay, y'all are fucking
Speaker 1: losers and I can't Like, I'm not even about the superhoo.
Speaker 1: A lot of it come from people that could do
Speaker 1: it if they could, would do if they could be
Speaker 1: people be so crazy. Posted a picture on vacation, like,
Speaker 1: you know, I went to St. Martyin for the holidays,
Speaker 1: and like, I don't even post a lot of stuff
Speaker 1: like that, right, but I was this beautiful villa and
Speaker 1: of course I want to post them to promote where
Speaker 1: I stayed. And you know, I was just chilling and
Speaker 1: my friend took like a little video of me, and
Speaker 1: then I was like, Oh, that's cute. I'm gonna post it.
Speaker 1: People was like, oh, so I hate when people post
Speaker 1: video themselves on it. I'm like, I've been see so
Speaker 1: they're gonna find something wrong with you. Yeah. And then
Speaker 1: and then they were like, oh, we don't need to
Speaker 1: see this, so we're still doing this, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: you guys, I got a brand new show about to start,
Speaker 1: you know, and I heard the only black my mother
Speaker 1: syndicated show on I heard excited about that. It's also
Speaker 1: it's just my birthday. It was New Year's and I
Speaker 1: don't even barely post nothing like that because they couldn't
Speaker 1: be there with you if you are, Because think about it, like,
Speaker 1: damn if you're happy that like okay, if I like
Speaker 1: my outfit right now, I love my outfit. If I
Speaker 1: posted and I know I'm posting it on Instagram, I
Speaker 1: know they're about to be talking. They're gonna find something
Speaker 1: to say. But I like my outfit, that's all that matters.
Speaker 1: So you posted that video you on vacation because you
Speaker 1: wanted to post it was peaceful, yeah, but I was like, amazing.
Speaker 1: Social media is meant to tear you down. That's what
Speaker 1: you gotta be strong minded when it's not for everybody.
Speaker 1: I was like, well, damn, you know, congrats to me, right.
Speaker 1: I've come to realize that when have negative things to
Speaker 1: say about you, especially when they don't know you, especially
Speaker 1: when you're someone right, it's because they they see something
Speaker 1: in themselves that they're upset with, so they want to
Speaker 1: project project right, Like, I've really come to that you're
Speaker 1: miserable with yourself. You don't like yourself, so now you're
Speaker 1: gonna tell me you don't like my hair doing damn, well,
Speaker 1: my hair is cute, Like I said, they're losing, Like
Speaker 1: for real, that's like loser, You're fucking loser. When I'm
Speaker 1: reading my comments, I'm like d and they're not going
Speaker 1: to page. They'd be so like, girl, you're too cute
Speaker 1: to even be hating, like this, what's wrong? You need healing?
Speaker 1: The same they're saying, if you don't have nothing nice
Speaker 1: to say, don't say nothing at all. That's saying about
Speaker 1: that whole school, because I live about that. I'm not
Speaker 1: even I didn't even do that, Like I neverly sucked
Speaker 1: up comments me either, never either ever, Like I've never
Speaker 1: been that girl. But you even have the people like
Speaker 1: I could go under a comment, like I made a
Speaker 1: comment under the shave room. It was something that they posted.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, but I mean, I think it's fine.
Speaker 1: Everybody should speak their mind. I got so many hate comments,
Speaker 1: just like saying I couldn't say nothing. Okay, you know
Speaker 1: what I went. They went on my page, left messages.
Speaker 1: You know those people are saying even in the comment
Speaker 1: in for this show. And she had to tell me, like,
Speaker 1: Laura don't know, I'm reading the contents up about her
Speaker 1: about the response, like what do you talk about comments?
Speaker 1: And it don't make your life so much more. I'm comments,
Speaker 1: you know, the only time time because if it's on
Speaker 1: my page, and I know I'd be having like advertising
Speaker 1: and stuff like that, So I clean up my page.
Speaker 1: But on the other pages, I can't control that, and
Speaker 1: I go back and I'm not gonna be mad about
Speaker 1: it because I'm like, why do I want to disturb
Speaker 1: what I have going on? Like, clearly I don't need
Speaker 1: to let the energy. Yeah, I don't put me. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Like I read them and I'd just be like, wow,
Speaker 1: lose their one to him? You will losing to lose it.
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna read. I don't know. It's just something
Speaker 1: in me. I'm not gonna stop reading. Yeah, life would
Speaker 1: be way more peaceful than I your life. It's peaceful.
Speaker 1: And because you know you'd be so mad, you'd be
Speaker 1: starting to respond and then you'd be like, let me
Speaker 1: know on my I'll be buying the back of my
Speaker 1: month twitterte what you're saying on my page. I'm glad
Speaker 1: that now I find it first because I have to
Speaker 1: go delete it before my son seet. Yeah, you got
Speaker 1: to think about my son's going back and forth with someone,
Speaker 1: and I had some something like yo, let it go like,
Speaker 1: it's that they don't know you, they don't know me.
Speaker 1: They're gonna and this is gonna keep was like mom like,
Speaker 1: it's like and now he's like, I'm ready, I'm ready
Speaker 1: to pull up on the model call. I'm like, boy,
Speaker 1: shut up. Yeah, you know. So that's why no, like
Speaker 1: I make sure I just delete it or you know,
Speaker 1: before he could see it. But sometimes it goes by
Speaker 1: and by the time I look he's responding to having
Speaker 1: a whole conversation with him. I'm like, William, just let
Speaker 1: it go after them surgery posts, and the people was
Speaker 1: coming at me were like, guess what I started doing
Speaker 1: restrict restrict restrict restricts better because I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, my friend, you see it, Yes, listen,
Speaker 1: you block them and create another page. You're talking, you're
Speaker 1: talking to yourself. Don't get consumed in the negative side
Speaker 1: of things, like you know, I agree with that. And
Speaker 1: then I also saw in the pack you said, yeah,
Speaker 1: d MS was lit okay, so and that's a that's
Speaker 1: a good part of social media. So have you ever
Speaker 1: responded to somebody in the d M s and been
Speaker 1: like receptive to you know, maybe potentially going out Oh,
Speaker 1: the niggas a d in me. It's like, I don't
Speaker 1: want nothing to do with you. Nobody. I mean no,
Speaker 1: they'd be good. Okay, I don't want to know. You know.
Speaker 1: It's like it's not nobody. I met a guy, but
Speaker 1: it was in person. Okay, Yeah, Like, because are you
Speaker 1: gonna screenshot me? Are you trying to set me up?
Speaker 1: Who sent you? That's what I'm thinking? What sent you?
Speaker 1: Trying to be? So? So, what made this guy who
Speaker 1: you met in person stand out to you at all? Like?
Speaker 1: What what about him? Because I'm sure guys approach you
Speaker 1: all the time? What about him was like a little
Speaker 1: bit special? He was cute, he was like different, it
Speaker 1: was something different from like what I was used to.
Speaker 1: I'm I wanted to tap into something else, and yeah,
Speaker 1: it was. It was cute in the entertainment business. Or
Speaker 1: is he like a different type of Yeah, he's we
Speaker 1: ain't about to do that. So I want to ask
Speaker 1: you about the backlash you was getting on social media
Speaker 1: for saying things like what type of guy you are?
Speaker 1: Like I need a good nigga? Like why do people
Speaker 1: care so much for one? Yeah? But when Beyonce said it,
Speaker 1: it wasn't a part, but when your saying hood and
Speaker 1: I ain't checking for you, my god. But I did
Speaker 1: have to go back and like kind of I did
Speaker 1: a um interview recently with the Shade Room, and I
Speaker 1: basically was saying I probably was just like, you know,
Speaker 1: just being fly on TikTok, because not thinking it's gonna
Speaker 1: hit the blogs, you know, just being funny myself, my
Speaker 1: true self. And what I really meant by that is
Speaker 1: I just want to protect her, like somebody that's gone
Speaker 1: just as much. Yeah, robbing me just because like I'm
Speaker 1: pointing license to carry, I keep my going with me,
Speaker 1: Atlanta is the world is crazy and I don't leave
Speaker 1: nowhere without it. How would it look if I got
Speaker 1: my gun and my pat the guy in the passator
Speaker 1: and driving see heat, I'm shooting for us. You know, say,
Speaker 1: if you're from New York is different, right, So you
Speaker 1: said a guy from New York where you can't really
Speaker 1: have a gun, like okay, so it is everybody got yeah, okay.
Speaker 1: So that's why I went back and sing the protector.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like I need somebody to
Speaker 1: be like, all right, it's time to leave this restaurant.
Speaker 1: Like but you know what right there and he we
Speaker 1: all want somebody that has some type of like street smart. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's it. I was saying, like I need somebody on
Speaker 1: point just as much as I am, because I'll be
Speaker 1: on point. Like you don't want nobody instigating a situation,
Speaker 1: but you want to know if something happens, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be okay. Yeah, you want to love her to person
Speaker 1: who knows there's a time and a place, you know
Speaker 1: how to prevent and know how to talk with you
Speaker 1: somebody I feel comfortable with, you know, like I could
Speaker 1: turn up get drunk because I know on our way
Speaker 1: home you're gonna be making sure that's nobody following us, right,
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, somebody that's aware. It's just crazy how
Speaker 1: our lives get put so much, and not mine as
Speaker 1: much as you it's clearly, but our lives get put
Speaker 1: so much under a microscope. Like once you reach a
Speaker 1: certain level of popularity, it's that you can't even sneeze
Speaker 1: the wrong way with, but it's it gets in a
Speaker 1: curse because I think, like for Jada, you can mop
Speaker 1: off of social media. That's the reason why you're in
Speaker 1: the position that you're in, is the support that you've
Speaker 1: gotten so then it's kind of like you could complain
Speaker 1: about it. But at the same time, yeah, yeah, not
Speaker 1: that you do, but I'm saying a person could complain.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, it's like, well it is
Speaker 1: you know, it's what pays me, right, It's like what
Speaker 1: you choose to do with that platform, what you choose
Speaker 1: to do, and you know what your plane is. You
Speaker 1: made another comment that went real crazy about like sleeping
Speaker 1: with somebody. You know, you sleep with your man, that
Speaker 1: you slept with him on the first and we were
Speaker 1: talking about that sex on the first day. I waited,
Speaker 1: and I'm mad that I wait, Like Laura just had
Speaker 1: an experience. Yeah, it was like, I don't care about
Speaker 1: you sleep with a person up her. I believe that
Speaker 1: it is what it is. If I'm feeling you and
Speaker 1: you're feeling me and the vibe is right, and you know,
Speaker 1: like things happen, it happens, you know. But then I
Speaker 1: started saying, Okay, I need to try something that always
Speaker 1: that happened, but it has happened. But I've been trying
Speaker 1: to go into you know what, let me give it
Speaker 1: three weeks a month and a half, you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And I went through the whole three weeks
Speaker 1: of being courted, going out on dinners, going on you know,
Speaker 1: to me dating, You understand what I'm saying. Slept with him,
Speaker 1: sex was amazing. You know, we four months of all
Speaker 1: of that and the whole time to him that wasn't dated. Right,
Speaker 1: So that's the second part. We need to know what
Speaker 1: is what is the definition of dating? But as far
Speaker 1: as like having sex off the rip, you got a
Speaker 1: lot of backlash for it. I don't see nothing wrong
Speaker 1: with it either, right, what do you guys think? I mean,
Speaker 1: g would tell you she has for eleven years, so
Speaker 1: that never determines like anything. And I've also made a
Speaker 1: man wait because I felt like that's what I needed
Speaker 1: to do and it was not worth my time. What's
Speaker 1: going to happen? Do listen? Might work out, it might
Speaker 1: not work out, But like I just go off an energy,
Speaker 1: like I'm really been on energy. So like my baby's father,
Speaker 1: my child's father, he um first night and it's been years,
Speaker 1: tell me, tell me how it. Tell me like the
Speaker 1: vibe was like for y'all, like the whole process. You
Speaker 1: want to know it's crazy, are you sure? Yes? You
Speaker 1: want to know, I love to know. So one night, UM,
Speaker 1: like I've just moved to Atlanta, had a cute condom.
Speaker 1: So I was like, I've never had a guy over.
Speaker 1: I can't wait. So he was like, what you're doing tonight?
Speaker 1: And I was like, before that we met? We never met.
Speaker 1: Before that my first time meeting him, Like I just
Speaker 1: heard of him. When I moved to Atlanta. Everybody was like,
Speaker 1: you need to talk to the little baby. You need
Speaker 1: to talk a little baby, even my sister, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: who is this person that y'all keep asked me about?
Speaker 1: And we had followed each other on Instagram and I
Speaker 1: posted his mixtape. He had dm me prior, like when
Speaker 1: he was still in prison, and I just never paid
Speaker 1: it no attention. But when I moved to Atlanta, I
Speaker 1: just kept hearing about little babies, so I'm like, let
Speaker 1: me follow him. So we started following each other and
Speaker 1: we eventually linked up and one night I was home
Speaker 1: and he was like what you're doing. He was like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come over and I was like, okay, cool,
Speaker 1: like you could pull up. I couldn't wait because my
Speaker 1: condo was little, but I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna say I want him over.
Speaker 1: I was just like you could put up on me.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come outside and talk to you like we're
Speaker 1: gonna chop it up. So he pulls up. I'm outside
Speaker 1: talking to him maybe for like an hour, and um,
Speaker 1: he like I got to use the bathroom. I'm like,
Speaker 1: it's like when I still I still trying to like
Speaker 1: play hard to get. I'm like, it's wanted a lobby
Speaker 1: like Consierga. Let you you know. I was like, you
Speaker 1: know what, you could just come up, sire because y'all
Speaker 1: both wanted him to cry. So he came up there
Speaker 1: and we sat and talked for like maybe like four hours,
Speaker 1: and then um, it just happened. Like eventually he was
Speaker 1: like all right, I'm going in for the kids. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it just happened. So it was like I literally went
Speaker 1: off energy. I didn't have no intentions like I'm out
Speaker 1: to him, like hell no, me talking to him and
Speaker 1: really getting to know him more. I'm like, okay, let's go.
Speaker 1: It like started getting hot talking to somebody for five
Speaker 1: hours just like five days. Yeah, that was good. It
Speaker 1: probably was longer than that, but it was like hours.
Speaker 1: It was like sunrise and if I was smoking to
Speaker 1: like you know when you smoke, you we weren't. Well
Speaker 1: he was smoking, but I wasn't even smoking. I don't smoke.
Speaker 1: But it was just like good energy and was the
Speaker 1: first time was it like amazing? Because you know, sometimes
Speaker 1: it's a little awkward when y'all don't know each other,
Speaker 1: like with the other person. Like, so the first time
Speaker 1: it was kind of crazy because I really wasn't on that,
Speaker 1: so I didn't have no intention. I really didn't even
Speaker 1: get the grass. Yeah, like I really didn't get into
Speaker 1: the cut me off guard, okay, but like I was like,
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, it was okay, I gotta I
Speaker 1: gotta see it again because I don't really know. I
Speaker 1: was so in the moment, like just what it wasn't
Speaker 1: playing it was God's plans. But I would say the
Speaker 1: reason why I said that in that comment because that
Speaker 1: was somebody I met and you know, did it with
Speaker 1: the first night. So I was like, okay, it worked
Speaker 1: out with me. So I probably shouldn't even said that
Speaker 1: because I don't just a whole bunch of guys on
Speaker 1: the first night put in my hands how many guys
Speaker 1: I've slept with in my whole life. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I don't even think that matter, can't matter,
Speaker 1: but it didn't even matter. Like it's that you say
Speaker 1: that because there's this stereotype that like as far as
Speaker 1: like you said, you're a woman or I sucked him
Speaker 1: on the first night. But if a man do that,
Speaker 1: like they're not looked as you know, like that. I
Speaker 1: just feel like, yeah, and you're gonna the first just
Speaker 1: do it to wait three months and should be terrible. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can't get back, but imagine you waited that long
Speaker 1: and the dick ain't. But yeah, it's just fun if
Speaker 1: you want to fuck y'all ran it back and then
Speaker 1: he the next fire the next day came with a
Speaker 1: damn spending night bag. Yeah, it was crazy, came with
Speaker 1: it was like the WiFi jumping in this we got
Speaker 1: Netflix and crazy you know, cooking and yeah, because you know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, a lot of guys, from what
Speaker 1: I've experienced, don't be really used to girls having nation Listen,
Speaker 1: you know what, it's a special thing for sure. Over
Speaker 1: the years learned there are certain women who just really
Speaker 1: don't have their ship together. And it's like some of
Speaker 1: the things that most women men don't experience. Some most women,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, ain't you like that comes second nature?
Speaker 1: And no, I've learned from talking to men and from
Speaker 1: men's you know, telling me like damn I didn't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just hadn't had these type of experiences with women,
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, well, who are you dating? What
Speaker 1: type of females are you dealing with that you're not
Speaker 1: getting this. What I think is the bare necessities are
Speaker 1: just like you know, common regular things. So yeah, I
Speaker 1: would say it come with like maturity and just going
Speaker 1: through life and learning. Yeah. I think it's also shows
Speaker 1: that how you was raised, how he was raised, because
Speaker 1: I know grown women that can't do are well, that's yeah,
Speaker 1: that that's not okay when it comes like mors and stuff.
Speaker 1: I was taught that. But like as I'm getting older,
Speaker 1: I'm realizing, like I'm learning, like it's okay to run
Speaker 1: a bath for a guy, Like it's okay to be
Speaker 1: submissive before I was so so after just having different
Speaker 1: experiences with different people, it's like, okay, like you do
Speaker 1: have to be domestic when you're dealing with the guy.
Speaker 1: And at first, you know, I could honestly say like
Speaker 1: it was kind of given like a little girl, you know,
Speaker 1: like because I didn't know. I'm I'm gonna make sure
Speaker 1: the house clean, I'm gonna take care of the house.
Speaker 1: I'm you know, but I'm not knowing that. Okay, when
Speaker 1: it's time to eat, I should fix your plate. Like
Speaker 1: I'm just learning that over the past three years. And
Speaker 1: I could see here with confidence to say like I
Speaker 1: didn't know that this whole time, and I was living
Speaker 1: with a guy for years and was still like not
Speaker 1: there mentally yet, you know, So it just come on
Speaker 1: maturity that it's definitely grows. And I think if a
Speaker 1: guy can make you feel like comfortable and secure like
Speaker 1: you you want to do those things. And I'm learning
Speaker 1: that and it doesn't have to be like afford that
Speaker 1: traditional roles and being forced to do something. You do
Speaker 1: it because you like, because I want to take care
Speaker 1: of you. It's just like right here, you want to
Speaker 1: take care of you too. Yeah, I'm learning that though.
Speaker 1: Oh that's yea. I was like tapping into my affectionate side,
Speaker 1: being more affectionate and stuff like that, because before I'm
Speaker 1: really not an affectionate person. Now that was I say that,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not learned what I learned about your
Speaker 1: son Capricorn. You have Capricorn, Yeah, you have a being
Speaker 1: affectionate is that sometimes if you just aren't genuinely an
Speaker 1: affectionate person, it'll get pulled out of you from the
Speaker 1: energy that you receiver from your mate. And you're a
Speaker 1: liber right, Okay, My mom, my brother and my best
Speaker 1: friend all libras real sensitive. Yeah so sensitive. That little
Speaker 1: baby like she you're the same age, but she'd be
Speaker 1: like that little girl fill to this day. Girl, You
Speaker 1: are right. They actually it's funny. We just talked about
Speaker 1: saying creative. I was talking about before you guy here,
Speaker 1: So they did this whole thing. The zodiac sign most
Speaker 1: likely to live a secret life according to astrologers, right,
Speaker 1: so number seven on the list, and these are people
Speaker 1: who they could plot a murder and you would never know.
Speaker 1: Number seven was Virgos, extreme, number six was aquarious, number
Speaker 1: five is Leo's, number four is Gemini. Number three is Scorpios,
Speaker 1: who are known for being mysterious. Number two was Cancer,
Speaker 1: and number one was Capricorn. Yeah yeah, as capri Corns
Speaker 1: are known to be quiet and tight lit, but they
Speaker 1: also have a much darker side. When it comes to
Speaker 1: the secrets, and can be quite malicious in nature. Due
Speaker 1: to their high drive for success combined with an obsessive
Speaker 1: and strategic authoritative nature, A Capricorn could easily be a
Speaker 1: secret murderer. But we're also very fiercely loyal, So Capricorns
Speaker 1: are masters at hiding their two feelings and but secretly
Speaker 1: kill in the name of love, loyalty, and protecting family. Girl,
Speaker 1: that's a lot. I was just like the worst your
Speaker 1: best friend. Yeah, I'm seeing should real crazy to you,
Speaker 1: but I don't see you as a but either. I
Speaker 1: think you always pretty much straightforward and level headed and like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, honest and you know that whole thing. Like
Speaker 1: I don't really Yeah, I'm very practical, but I could
Speaker 1: be like really emotionless about things. But a lot of times,
Speaker 1: like your signs still like that's what you're sign, That's
Speaker 1: what the character characteristics is of your sign. But like,
Speaker 1: I'm a Pisces and there's a lot of things that
Speaker 1: I've learned growing up over like Okay, when I read it,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, that's how I was. But
Speaker 1: now I know how to I know that I'm like that,
Speaker 1: so I work on those things, and I make sure
Speaker 1: so when I'm start feeling, I'm like, yep, here I
Speaker 1: go loving others more than I love myself. Let me
Speaker 1: work on that. Here I go wear my heart on
Speaker 1: my sleeve. Let me stop extremely sensitive. So I'm in
Speaker 1: therapy dealing with my emotions and my sensitivity. So those
Speaker 1: are the things, like going to there that was part
Speaker 1: of it, because like every time I read Pisces and
Speaker 1: I read those things, I'm like, oh my god, that's me.
Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of great things about us,
Speaker 1: but there's a lot of things that will cause a
Speaker 1: lot of hurt and a lot of insecurity and a
Speaker 1: lot of things within myself. So when I'm you know,
Speaker 1: dealing with my therapist, I deal with these things because
Speaker 1: I don't want to be like that. But those signs
Speaker 1: that that that's you. Just gotta work on those things
Speaker 1: that you don't like about. Everybody is who they are, Like, well,
Speaker 1: do you think you have any libra characteristics that are
Speaker 1: supposed to be kind men for you? Yeah, I have something,
Speaker 1: but I just feel like that just comes from my childhood,
Speaker 1: like trauma and just bad energy that I had from
Speaker 1: different situations, and you know, I don't. Really, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna say I don't believe it SIDS because I always
Speaker 1: asked everybody i'll meet, like, what's your side? But it's
Speaker 1: like there's a reaction to every action in life, whether
Speaker 1: it happened when we were seven years old or seventy
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So we just experience in
Speaker 1: life at different rates and you just got to deal
Speaker 1: with it and face the problems. What are some things
Speaker 1: like you talk about childhood trauma, Like how do you
Speaker 1: see that play out now? Like me not being affectionate
Speaker 1: for instance, Like my mom wasn't really the type to
Speaker 1: just hug me and tell me she loved me. So
Speaker 1: now when we get off the phone, we always say
Speaker 1: we love each other, but it's still like I love
Speaker 1: you too, you know what I'm saying, But only because
Speaker 1: coming up, like she didn't just always like give me
Speaker 1: hugs and stuff. My mama was my best friend, but
Speaker 1: as far as like affection, she didn't give that to me.
Speaker 1: So now I'm like, just you know, even talking with guys,
Speaker 1: I'm like, dang, you're right. I I'm like, stand off
Speaker 1: is I don't cuddle you? But that's just because I
Speaker 1: wasn't taught that, you know. But with my son, I
Speaker 1: make sure like I cuddle my sign, I kissed him
Speaker 1: every morning, I tell him I love him so many
Speaker 1: times throughout the day. Were super affectionate with each other.
Speaker 1: And I don't want him to grow up and not
Speaker 1: be affectionate because I grew up not being affectionate. So
Speaker 1: I just like, you gotta really go back, sit with
Speaker 1: yourself and analyze all those things coming up, break that
Speaker 1: ship down, and really break that curse, because every reaction
Speaker 1: we're receiving right now came from something that happened a
Speaker 1: long time ago, or ship a couple of days minutes ago.
Speaker 1: What about your dad, Oh, my dad not affectionate. I
Speaker 1: didn't have a relationship with my dad. I still don't
Speaker 1: have a relationship with him, so have like but you
Speaker 1: know him. Oh yeah, I know my dad. And then
Speaker 1: my mom um, she actually got married and her boyfriend
Speaker 1: adopted me and my sister and really helped you with
Speaker 1: your sense of like wanting to have a business own
Speaker 1: and that this is like that who's who I called
Speaker 1: my dad and considered dad because I was through year
Speaker 1: sold and that's who really took me on my wing.
Speaker 1: Told me about boys. Got me like, what did he
Speaker 1: tell you about boys? I mean, you know, like he
Speaker 1: will always telling me, don't be no Honda and that
Speaker 1: basically everybody can have a Honda. Like when I went,
Speaker 1: he was like, see, don't be no Honda. He will
Speaker 1: always do that. It's liable. Yeah please, I'm just like everybody.
Speaker 1: But when I when literally I came home with my
Speaker 1: first car after selling I sold out my hair and
Speaker 1: I came home, he was like, see, don't be that,
Speaker 1: because like that's your parlem, Like, bro, you have for me, Like,
Speaker 1: but that's what you got, the first car you got, Like,
Speaker 1: don't be that. So he will always tell me that,
Speaker 1: and like he just really gave me that hustle. He
Speaker 1: went to China for me, help me find a vendor
Speaker 1: for my hair. Like so that's my dad. That's that's
Speaker 1: the person who you know had gave me that manhood.
Speaker 1: Did your biological father every time to reach out to
Speaker 1: you now seeing you being successful, he's just not open
Speaker 1: to it. Um he reached out recently, and I mean
Speaker 1: I told him I love him, you know, but I
Speaker 1: just feel like you don't know me no more. I
Speaker 1: don't even know you, you know, like I could love
Speaker 1: you from a distance, but as far as like having
Speaker 1: a relationship, I don't want to mend a relationship because
Speaker 1: I'm just not there. I feel like I'm past that.
Speaker 1: Do you feel like that comes from your success? Do
Speaker 1: you feel like like, don't come on be around me
Speaker 1: now and when you didn't want to happen? Yeah, because
Speaker 1: I feel like then I've been I'm twenty five, Like
Speaker 1: why are you just not reaching out? Damn like I
Speaker 1: would expect if you reached out when I was five,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, ship thirteen, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, It don't matter. But reaching out now,
Speaker 1: it's like I'm growing his head, like come on? What?
Speaker 1: But And I think I think probably also that you
Speaker 1: had another somebody else there as a father figure out
Speaker 1: because like I just read, connected with my father, I
Speaker 1: hadn't seen him since I was eleven, And I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I needed it, Like I definitely needed that
Speaker 1: my kids met for the first time. My oldest is
Speaker 1: twenty one, my youngest is eleven, And what that did
Speaker 1: for them and what that did for me is amazing.
Speaker 1: But then again, I didn't have anybody else to be
Speaker 1: a father figure. So like in my case, I'm super
Speaker 1: thrilled and happy because for the first time I felt
Speaker 1: the father love. Whether it was for five minutes, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying still, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like it was something that I needed going into the
Speaker 1: new year. Yeah, she went to Dominican Republic. That was
Speaker 1: Chris Like what it did for him and even not
Speaker 1: just for me, what it did for him made me
Speaker 1: feel good because I don't know what the reason is
Speaker 1: behind him not being in my life where you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened with my mom, Like I
Speaker 1: don't know, and I'm learning so much that it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm glad that I kept a open mind,
Speaker 1: you know, because I could have been because it's like
Speaker 1: we're you know, it sounds hard open heart too, because
Speaker 1: it was kind of like, damn, where are you? Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know nothing about man right now. You know,
Speaker 1: I have brothers, but at one point day wearing ships.
Speaker 1: So it was like that that that but you think God,
Speaker 1: and it was blessed to have someone there to show
Speaker 1: you now all that is necessary because I like, then
Speaker 1: I will really sit down when I'm sitting with myself
Speaker 1: really trying to figure out life. It's like, it's that
Speaker 1: why I accepted so much from a man, you know,
Speaker 1: because I just wanted a man, you know, because I
Speaker 1: didn't have that growing up for real. Or I saw
Speaker 1: my mom you know, going in and out of relationships
Speaker 1: or dealing with different guys. So everything comes from somewhere.
Speaker 1: So it's glad that you taped back into that to know,
Speaker 1: like I needed this. Do you know why your father
Speaker 1: was just not there? Did he um in and out
Speaker 1: of jail? And then I guess my mom just eventually
Speaker 1: got tired of his ship. And then she met my stepdad,
Speaker 1: which moved when they had you she was young. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: me and my three sisters, three sisters, and it's five
Speaker 1: of us. My mama got twin twin boys, and when
Speaker 1: I got older, two older sisters. That's nice to have
Speaker 1: a whole Like, yes, and y'all seem to be pretty
Speaker 1: close and well here, yeah, we're close. I try hard,
Speaker 1: me and my sister. We sometimes we're seeing out of
Speaker 1: but like at the end of the day, that is
Speaker 1: my sister and family is everything, and you just gotta
Speaker 1: learn how to love people from a distance. Like as
Speaker 1: I'm getting older, I'm learning like that is what everything
Speaker 1: is about, even my biological father, Like I'm gonna still
Speaker 1: tell you I love you, but from yeah, like ain't
Speaker 1: no bad book. Well, I thank you so much for
Speaker 1: coming out here and being so open and honest you
Speaker 1: know with us. I've been watching a lot of your
Speaker 1: conversations and moves that you're making. So this is our
Speaker 1: first time having to sit down with Jada. I'm coming back.
Speaker 1: I love this and now listen, you have to and
Speaker 1: I can't wait because I feel like some big things
Speaker 1: are about to happen that you're gonna have to come
Speaker 1: back for. Speaking of big things, I got a little
Speaker 1: interruption for big that's I was like, wait, what's happening.
Speaker 1: I was like, wait, that's in September. Yeah, I got heat.
Speaker 1: A birthday came or whatever. That's so cute. Well, thank you.
Speaker 1: What kind of cake is that? It looks fancy moves?
Speaker 1: Did you make them? Cut? Yeah? Thank you guys. Happy birthday,
Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Happy birthday, Happy birthday to you, Happy birthday,
Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Dear Angela. Heapy birthday to you. Let me
Speaker 1: make my way, yes man, that's really specifically Yeah, Yeah, birthday,
Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Happy birth, new Year, new show, new chapters, everything, Yes,
Speaker 1: the way up for Angela. Ye, I feel like we
Speaker 1: got the way thing in common. You know you would
Speaker 1: do something. Yes, I'm excited. That's something GOODE is the
Speaker 1: year so much. I appreciate it and jard you with
Speaker 1: the first person to come on in the New Year,
Speaker 1: so we appreciate you to kick it all. Right, well
Speaker 1: it is lip service. Is there anything you want to
Speaker 1: make sure that you get out there that we didn't
Speaker 1: talk about? No, no, no, we got any upcoming from Yeah?
Speaker 1: Anything new that were not like everything, like y'all let
Speaker 1: me go listen to a New Man and New Love.
Speaker 1: No see that? You go, Okay, we're seeing a different film.
Speaker 1: We're gonna find out soon because you know she's not.
Speaker 1: She's feeling very strategically. Yeah, okay, yeah, I'm good on that.
Speaker 1: Lift service B