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Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan, Part one

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Speaker 1: behind a scene with a member of the show. What's Up, everybody?

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Best Fits. I'm joined by Ray Moondo.

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Speaker 1: This weekends. We are recording this from the glassroom of

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Speaker 1: our new studios, and it feels weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a little dangerous because you always want to know.

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Speaker 2: Am I on the air? Are we We wouldn't be

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Speaker 2: on the air though, because it's the weekend. Stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, thank you for that, right, really insightful stuff.

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Speaker 1: We've never recorded from the classroom before, but this feels

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Speaker 1: appropriate because Ray likes to look at the board. Every

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Speaker 1: time I had him in the studio, he would get

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Speaker 1: anxious not being able to see the monitors in the board.

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Speaker 2: Where do I put my hands?

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Speaker 1: That kind of thing. Yeah, okay, well I need an

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Speaker 1: update on House Live, Country Live. Give me everything that's

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Speaker 1: going on over there.

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Speaker 2: Geez, you always want something big and bold. It's really pretty. Uh.

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Speaker 2: Country life is what it is. It doesn't change. That's

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Speaker 2: what I love about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but there has to be there been things that

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Speaker 1: are like coming up where you're like, ooh, I really

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Speaker 1: like this. No, I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: Uh. Our grass died. Oh no, that's not too embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: And also we were kind of like a faux grass

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Speaker 2: because it was green with all the neighbors and when

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Speaker 2: the frost hit, ours was the only lawn that died, right,

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Speaker 2: And so then we hit up our guy. We go, hey, man,

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Speaker 2: how much is it going to cost a little bit

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Speaker 2: out of the price range? And he goes, yeah, what

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Speaker 2: you guys had was crap grass. And I go, are

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Speaker 2: you meaning crab grass or are you literally calling my

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Speaker 2: lawn crap?

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Speaker 1: And which one was it?

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Speaker 2: And where am I going to come up with this money?

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Speaker 2: So yeah, for now, we're good with dead grass.

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Speaker 1: So it just got brown lawn living in the country

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Speaker 1: with some brown brown grass.

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Speaker 2: It was a cold snap, that's what did it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but we had it for like a day.

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Speaker 2: That's all it takes.

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Speaker 1: Apparently when you have crap grass, crap grass, I have

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Speaker 1: crab grass.

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Speaker 2: And then I sent the screenshot to my father in

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Speaker 2: law because Laura goes, hey, send it to me. I'll

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Speaker 2: send it to my dad and we'll just see what

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Speaker 2: we need to do. And we did it, AND's like,

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Speaker 2: what he's calling our lawn crap? I guess I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know how to do fertilizer and stuff.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, he nobody's put it in, right,

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Speaker 1: It just came from whatever was there before.

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Speaker 2: We put some minor stuff. Oh yeah, it's not We

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Speaker 2: didn't obviously we didn't put sowd. That would be impossible.

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Speaker 2: We probably didn't even really do two advanced. I mean

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Speaker 2: maybe a little iron, a little bit of pellets here,

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Speaker 2: a little bit of grass there. But maybe there's something

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Speaker 2: else we got to put on. I bet a good

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Speaker 2: TikTok video and me and beaz Aer on a Saturday

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Speaker 1: That's probably true. But listen, if there is one thing

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Speaker 1: that I have learned about being a homeowner is that

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Speaker 1: taking care of your yard is a lot of freaking work,

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Speaker 1: and you have to do it every season.

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Speaker 2: But you know what Susan is, what it's called season.

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Speaker 1: But Susan works too, thank.

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Speaker 2: You, and uh, it's a labor of love. But also,

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Speaker 2: do you not feel the best after you water your trees,

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Speaker 2: after you're in your yard? Think about it. It sucks.

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Speaker 2: Maybe for an hour you have to instead of watching

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Speaker 2: television or playing on TikTok, you have to go water.

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Speaker 2: But afterwards, that might be the best I feel out

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Speaker 1: I'm with you. I love taking care of my lawn

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Speaker 1: and stuff. But what I can tell you over the

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Speaker 1: and then the constant need to fertilize and reseed and

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Speaker 1: replant and all the time. It's all the time. It

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Speaker 1: never ends. So you think you're like, oh, I watered

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Speaker 1: my grass, I mowed everything. It looks beautiful. You could

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Speaker 1: be four weeks from them and be like, dang, it's

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Speaker 2: But also it does end. What if you get high

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Speaker 2: enough in your career where you can then pay someone

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Speaker 2: to mow your grass, pay someone, pay a watering system

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Speaker 1: That's true, but I don't know. I'm weird about I'm

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Speaker 2: Hmm. Yeah, that's saying. I'm a guy and I like

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Speaker 2: to lift things. Yeah, just just how we were built.

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Speaker 2: I will never pay a mover. Actually I did.

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Speaker 1: Media immedia that.

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Speaker 2: My point is this, there's those apps right task rab

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Speaker 2: It and stuff where you can hire somebody because Laura's

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Speaker 2: not strong enough to lift stuff, and there were TVs

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Speaker 2: and fridges. What else did I get that might have

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Speaker 2: been it? And no, it was The other stuff is

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Speaker 2: was another like a glass box. It was Jack Daniels

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Speaker 2: that I can put cool NFL helmets on that we

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Speaker 2: got from the old studio.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I lifted it all by myself. I probably should have

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Speaker 2: hired somebody or all your friends at this age you're working. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: they don't have free time in the middle of the

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Speaker 2: it might be I mean, I was sweating. It was insane.

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Speaker 2: Laura sees me in the bird cam. She goes, what

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Speaker 2: dead body. Well, probly our newa that's our new TV stand.

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Speaker 1: You know, I do agree with you, But that's how

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Speaker 1: I broke my TV one time. Ry is when I

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Speaker 2: There was one from the old studio and I talked

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Speaker 2: to Scoop about it. I go, dude, it wasn't even

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Speaker 2: ten years old. It's the one that had the blacked

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Speaker 2: you think you can lift it, but that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: It weighs you in different ways and yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it's really misconceiving where you're like standing there

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Speaker 1: and you're like, yeah, I got it, and then it's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: everybody's tells me over yep, exactly. Okay, well again I

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Speaker 1: but you know, accept help where you can't. Maybe in

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Speaker 1: those well, I did get a fulfill my dreams of

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Speaker 2: Ray, did I see this of you as Sabrina Carpenter? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I did, But you want to know why I actually

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Speaker 2: Up as her not really just kidding place that's rude.

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Speaker 1: That's rude. Halloween is me up? So I was dressed

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Speaker 1: I go on stage as Sabrina sing the song, everybody's

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Speaker 1: singing with me because I sang Espresso. Then I'm in

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Speaker 1: They're like, you're Sabrina, aren't you? And it was a

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Speaker 2: It's always a pat on the back when it is

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Speaker 2: an well understood costume. Yes, it's the worst. Are you

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Speaker 2: Mike Myers from the nineteen seventies Halloween? No, dude, I'm

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Speaker 2: just a guy cutting a tree down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like questioning everything. And so I also had candy

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Speaker 1: I'd give him a piece of candy. Here you go, kids,

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Speaker 1: taste him candy. It probably looked super sketchy, but it

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Speaker 1: at the end of the evening to get some mozzarell sticks,

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Speaker 1: you know, a little snack going home always, and she

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Speaker 1: ran into us. She's like, honest, that candy me my

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Speaker 2: What a small life.

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Speaker 1: Well, she was bartending that night, she was working.

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Speaker 2: My life sucks so much. If you give me a

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Speaker 2: Recea's bar, I will love everything.

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Speaker 1: Dang, you are sassy this week? Are you okay?

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Speaker 2: That's how I am?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no no. The ted lasso and then

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Speaker 1: the donuts and the muffin. I'm just a little checking

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Speaker 2: Hey? Is your mental health with it? This is how

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Speaker 2: I literally have been since birth. That's how I've talked.

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Speaker 1: You have a version of this, Yes, this is.

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Speaker 2: How you and me just talked on the couches. We

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Speaker 2: were making fun of each other, eating half donuts.

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Speaker 1: We were. But also, I'm just checking in because she

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Speaker 1: you bring me a piece of candy that make my day.

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Speaker 2: And also I needed that reminds me I need to

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Speaker 2: prepare for Halloween now that I'm a homeowner.

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Speaker 1: Do you think you'll have tricker traders? Uh?

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Speaker 2: Of course. Really, it's the most involved neighborhood ever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess that's true. But do they have to

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Speaker 2: They still will. Yeah, there's I mean there's food trucks

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Speaker 2: organized it is. Do you have an h A, Well,

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Speaker 2: I mean we're like not in the neighborhood, but they

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Speaker 2: treat us like we're in the neighborhood, so we don't

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Speaker 2: not follow any of their rules. Okay, well they have

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: We're just we're not in the hoa.

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Speaker 2: So there's a there's a housing development. We brought bought

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Speaker 2: property that's adjacent to the housing development. But our road

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Speaker 2: goes to their neighborhood, so we actually use their roads

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Speaker 2: and they just treat us like we're part of the neighborhood.

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Speaker 1: But you do you pay the h oo a.

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Speaker 2: No, we don't have an h o A.

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Speaker 1: Huh.

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Speaker 2: Not to get it is because they're all asking us, hey,

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Speaker 2: why is your house not brick And we're like, well,

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Speaker 2: we're not part of the h A. And they go, hey,

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Speaker 2: why don't you care about your trash cans? And we said,

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Speaker 2: we're not part of the h o A, but we do.

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Speaker 2: We always get them on Thursday.

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Speaker 1: You always get your trash on Thursdays.

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Speaker 2: You put it out on Wednesday, get it on Thursday.

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Speaker 1: Dang ours is on Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's country life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can move to the country. Everything changes, okay.

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Speaker 2: It was something about my age. It was something about college.

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Speaker 2: Well my parents, mate, they wanted us to go to

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Speaker 1: What was your college experience like at a Christian private school?

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Speaker 2: No drinking. Girls couldn't come into your dorm rooms, you

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Speaker 2: I walked everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Not really? But I made it one okay. So I

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Speaker 1: That's wild, I know. And so and you wanted to

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. And so then at the frat though, it

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Speaker 2: then in there He's like, hey man, get out of

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Speaker 2: the card. No. He took me to my apartment. That

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Speaker 1: That's funny. He was trying to get to you.

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Speaker 2: But they accepted us. What was it, Sigmund knew those

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Speaker 1: That's funny.

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00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:22,399
Speaker 2: My name's probably still sitting there, Sison.

439
00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:25,000
Speaker 1: I don't think it's still sitting there all these years later.

440
00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:30,040
Speaker 1: But and then you graduated from there, Yep, the show came.

441
00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:32,480
Speaker 2: Not right away. I did sales and then I had

442
00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:34,800
Speaker 2: an internship and then a couple years later met Bones

443
00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:37,239
Speaker 2: were in the same building. Okay, anything can happen when

444
00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:38,040
Speaker 2: you get in a building.

445
00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:39,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.

446
00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:41,639
Speaker 2: New building here, but yeah, it all started with that

447
00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,520
Speaker 2: initial boom. I gotta get out of here. So yeah,

448
00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:46,639
Speaker 2: going to college, I mean that was That's a.

449
00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:48,280
Speaker 1: Good one day and night. I just learned a lot

450
00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:50,159
Speaker 1: about you in this moment. You. I didn't know you

451
00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:51,920
Speaker 1: went to a private coach at all.

452
00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:54,959
Speaker 2: I've never would have, but my parents made it a

453
00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:58,720
Speaker 2: requirement because we went. We played baseball. Were we major

454
00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:01,680
Speaker 2: league baseball players? No? Were we terrible baseball players? No,

455
00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:03,879
Speaker 2: we're like middle But you played in college. Yeah, so

456
00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:06,239
Speaker 2: I got caught from the team. But so we went

457
00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:07,000
Speaker 2: to these colleges.

458
00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:08,480
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna make you say that.

459
00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:10,679
Speaker 2: We go to these colleges in Michigan. It's just a

460
00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:13,200
Speaker 2: straight party. I mean we're touring these things and kids

461
00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:16,440
Speaker 2: are drinking, coaches are swearing and stuff. And my parents

462
00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:20,200
Speaker 2: are they My parents are super religious, total Christians. I

463
00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:22,520
Speaker 2: mean I'm a Christian too, but maybe not that strict,

464
00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:26,000
Speaker 2: and so they were totally against that. And so right

465
00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:28,399
Speaker 2: away then it's oh, we're going to a Christian school.

466
00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:32,560
Speaker 2: So we went to one, checked out one and maybe Indiana.

467
00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,440
Speaker 2: There were other ones and then we saw the one

468
00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:36,480
Speaker 2: in Chicago, and they took us on a tour and

469
00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,639
Speaker 2: we went on buses, got into Chicago and all you

470
00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:41,320
Speaker 2: hear is horns, hawk and I go, and they showed

471
00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:43,159
Speaker 2: you there's a train that goes into Chicago. I go,

472
00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:44,119
Speaker 2: that's my school.

473
00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:49,720
Speaker 1: This is where. That's so funny, okay, right? The Christian

474
00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:53,880
Speaker 1: college graduate, well, half college Christian college graduate, yep, half year.

475
00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:55,480
Speaker 2: I just couldn't. I couldn't do it anymore.

476
00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:56,080
Speaker 1: That's fair.

477
00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:58,520
Speaker 2: Girls can only come over on Wednesday nights for one hour.

478
00:18:58,560 --> 00:18:59,960
Speaker 2: How are you supposed to meet your future?

479
00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:05,240
Speaker 1: You didn't even meet her in Texas though either true, Hey,

480
00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:07,320
Speaker 1: but at least you met her. Yeah, you did better

481
00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:08,399
Speaker 1: than I did, So it's okay.

482
00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:10,840
Speaker 2: I did jump around mine.

483
00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:14,280
Speaker 1: I think would be also similar moving to Nashville when

484
00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:16,920
Speaker 1: I finally like when I graduated college and was in

485
00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:18,879
Speaker 1: Witchtuff for a little bit and then I got the

486
00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:21,560
Speaker 1: job in Nashville and decided I don't know anybody, I

487
00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:23,360
Speaker 1: don't even know the city, but I'm going anyway.

488
00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:27,040
Speaker 2: That was a life change, Like both of our moments

489
00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:31,720
Speaker 2: had to do with getting in a car and saying.

490
00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,320
Speaker 1: I'm getting the hell out of here.

491
00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:38,880
Speaker 2: Like a country love story, like a country song.

492
00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:43,720
Speaker 1: We are walking country songs. That's true. If I wanted

493
00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:46,520
Speaker 1: to signify like one super cool moment though that's so

494
00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:48,960
Speaker 1: specific though, it'd be when we all were on stage

495
00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,600
Speaker 1: accepting our CMA award and we were all like there

496
00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,159
Speaker 1: together and that whole night. That was one of my

497
00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:55,280
Speaker 1: favorite moments.

498
00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:58,720
Speaker 2: You know, we can recreate that when we accept the

499
00:19:58,720 --> 00:19:59,800
Speaker 2: award in two weeks.

500
00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,680
Speaker 1: It's about to happen again, which I'm even more excited

501
00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,920
Speaker 1: about because now I'm gonna have two times that memory.

502
00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:07,119
Speaker 1: Was that not such a cool moment?

503
00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:09,520
Speaker 2: It's dope, But I'm pretty sure we had to wake

504
00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:12,400
Speaker 2: up the next morning in like six hours? Was it awesome? Yes?

505
00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:16,480
Speaker 2: But being part of this NonStop cycle, I mean I

506
00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:16,840
Speaker 2: think I can.

507
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's not put that on it.

508
00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,439
Speaker 2: I got like three hours of sleep, but yes, that

509
00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:21,640
Speaker 2: we were all dressed.

510
00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,840
Speaker 1: Up, Yeah, and we all like that was hi. It

511
00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:27,159
Speaker 1: was just a cool, oudest moment. Okay, those are our things. Also,

512
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:31,639
Speaker 1: what is something you haven't been good at lately? Just

513
00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:34,359
Speaker 1: not good? It could be the most mediocre thing, whatever,

514
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:36,480
Speaker 1: Just something you haven't been good at lately. Then maybe

515
00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:37,040
Speaker 1: you used to.

516
00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:43,119
Speaker 2: Be being patient with a like listening. I definitely have

517
00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:46,199
Speaker 2: to work on it because it's I've found where my

518
00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:48,679
Speaker 2: wife will want to, like she'll show me something on

519
00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:50,800
Speaker 2: her phone or she'll tell me a story. I need

520
00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:54,200
Speaker 2: to listen. You can't. I don't. I have So it's

521
00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,919
Speaker 2: like your phone's there and it's so easy to just

522
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,520
Speaker 2: send a text while they're talking, but you could miss

523
00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:02,680
Speaker 2: a part of that story that's super important and special

524
00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:05,280
Speaker 2: and exciting, and it also makes the person feel like

525
00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:07,920
Speaker 2: they're worthless. Probably, So yeah, I'll come in and I'm

526
00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:09,679
Speaker 2: on my phone. You know, I'm always posting. You know,

527
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,439
Speaker 2: I'm doing this for work, doing this, So I'm working

528
00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,920
Speaker 2: on it. I need to be in the moment hear

529
00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:18,360
Speaker 2: the story. Phones are great and stuff like that. But yeah,

530
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 2: you need to like listen to stories. You need to

531
00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:20,600
Speaker 2: be patient.

532
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,360
Speaker 1: Those are kind of a few different things that you're

533
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:26,040
Speaker 1: putting into one. But I see you, you did something

534
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 1: happen that caused you feel that way, or you just

535
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:29,440
Speaker 1: kind of recognize down here.

536
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:31,719
Speaker 2: No, just in my head, it just seems like sometimes

537
00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:33,840
Speaker 2: we're not actually how did your day go? Like are

538
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:35,879
Speaker 2: we listening to how did their day go? Can we

539
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:37,919
Speaker 2: repeat back to them what they just said. Most people

540
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 2: probably can't and I can't most of the time. So

541
00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 2: that's what I'm trying to work on. So I've been

542
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 2: just bad at it.

543
00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 1: That's very introspective of you, and it's very proud and.

544
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 2: It's like we're going to the new building and stuff.

545
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,199
Speaker 2: So it's kind of twice the workload. It not for

546
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 2: lunch for everybody else, so it is a lot more.

547
00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:54,520
Speaker 2: And I mean sometimes I'll just tell my wife. I'll

548
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 2: be like, hey, I'm seeing ghosts, which means like it's

549
00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:58,400
Speaker 2: a little crazy right now.

550
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 1: That's your frame for her that she knows what's going on.

551
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:04,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that I mean I'm like light headed, like I'm

552
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:08,440
Speaker 2: starting to see things, like I think I'm going crazy.

553
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, I've never been great at like totally being

554
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 2: all in on a conversation. So I'm working work in progress.

555
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,280
Speaker 1: That's really good, seriously, really introspective of you.

556
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,119
Speaker 2: I'm very proud like you and me, I'm all in

557
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 2: on this combo.

558
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're doing great. You haven't been on your phone once.

559
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:22,480
Speaker 2: I'm shaking though.

560
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:24,120
Speaker 1: I mean, you have looked at the board a few times,

561
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 1: but that's normal.

562
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:28,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you haven't liked the yeah, with a reaction.

563
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 2: I like to just do math on the board and

564
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,040
Speaker 2: see count out spot blocks.

565
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:37,960
Speaker 1: You do well. Mine was not as like uh deep

566
00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 1: deep deep, mind's more surface level. But I have not listen.

567
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 1: I'm a clean freak, right. You probably picked up on that,

568
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 1: like I keep everything super clean around me, and I

569
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 1: have not had won the desire or even the want

570
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 1: to like clean my house lately. And it's not even

571
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 1: a mess. It's just like my no, like genuinely like

572
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 1: vacuum all the time. You have to vacuum like every

573
00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 1: other day. You gotta wipe down counter all the time.

574
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,639
Speaker 2: What is your address? I'm sending over a Molli Maiden.

575
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:07,680
Speaker 1: Apparently, like I've just not been feeling it lately. It's

576
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 1: been hard to like keep up. And I think to

577
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 1: your point of like changing studios, there's a lot going

578
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 1: on and also trying to like make sure I'm out

579
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,679
Speaker 1: and doing stuff and being active in my life and

580
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 1: keeping up with also working out and also being dog

581
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,159
Speaker 1: mom and also trying to date and like live a

582
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:26,400
Speaker 1: life that the thing that has been on the back

583
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,200
Speaker 1: burner lately is keeping my house like spit spot clean.

584
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:33,760
Speaker 2: I will say this, the over drinking on a Saturday night,

585
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:38,000
Speaker 2: I am terrible at because and then the wasting of

586
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 2: a Sunday, that's what it's. Then next thing, you know,

587
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 2: your house isn't clean on Monday. I found that out

588
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:46,639
Speaker 2: and I'm so then on now on Saturday nights, I'm like, hey, Sonny,

589
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 2: you cut off this drink and right now you hear me.

590
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 1: Also, you can make sure you have a not wasteful Sunday,

591
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:53,879
Speaker 1: so then you go into the week better. It is

592
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 1: true though, Yes, yes, when you're hungover on a Sunday

593
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 1: it's the worst.

594
00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 2: Do not have that extra drink. And it especially with

595
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 2: the cleaning, because the last thing you want to drink

596
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 2: do hungover is clean.

597
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's so true.

598
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 2: So I found that one last drink. You know what,

599
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 2: sometimes if it's already open, just pour it in the

600
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 2: sink and you'll thank yourself the next day when the

601
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 2: house is spit spot clean. You like, yeah, yeah, I

602
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 2: was listening to you.

603
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 1: That's mine. I get also like going back to our

604
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 1: taking care of the yard. I don't I'm not going

605
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 1: to pay for a cleaning service because I can do it.

606
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 1: I'm very capable. I'm just like it's low on the

607
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: totem pole of my priorities lately.

608
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 2: They're affordable. I've heard our mother in law swears by it.

609
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,400
Speaker 2: Really they come by, do a deep clean, go into

610
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 2: her house. I rave about it every time.

611
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, where do you get that

612
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 1: time to clean this place?

613
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 2: She's like, I have a cleaning person. Shut up.

614
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: You know, maybe I'll get to that point in my life.

615
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 1: But for an how I feel like I'm very able

616
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 1: bodied and I have the time. I just got to

617
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 1: make it a priority kind.

618
00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 2: Of, and it is. Let's be real, Cleaning is kind

619
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 2: except for doing the dishes and cleaning a toilet, vacuuming

620
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,880
Speaker 2: and scrubbing counters is therapeutic in a way. It's kind.

621
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 1: But you are right. I hate cleaning a bathroom. I

622
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:13,120
Speaker 1: hate cleaning a bathroom. It's the worst. I don't know why.

623
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 1: It's not like they're super dirty. I just like don't

624
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 1: like cleaning them.

625
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 2: Just growing up, I think that was always the worst,

626
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 2: the doing the dishes. Whenever you it was me and

627
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 2: my brother and sister, so I think we had a

628
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 2: drawing or something like you would always just be assigned

629
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 2: to you. The worst was the bathrooms and the doing

630
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 2: of the dishes.

631
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: Trauma from Trump.

632
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it came back.

633
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna take a quick break, will be her back, okay, Raymondo.

634
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 1: This is where we're gonna admit something else to What

635
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 1: useless thing do you spend money on that you really

636
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 1: wish you didn't?

637
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 2: Oh well, I mean that's obvious.

638
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 1: But is yours gambling?

639
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 2: Yeah? I was gonna say, I hope we don't have

640
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 2: a sponsor thing running well, but also someone's run that

641
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,680
Speaker 2: say responsible gambling.

642
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,360
Speaker 1: Responsible, We'll choose another one because everybody knows about your

643
00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 1: gambling habit. Habits do you have?

644
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 2: And I can think real here? Yeah?

645
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, so mine is that anytime I order takeout for

646
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 1: like delivery, I get so mad at myself that I'm

647
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: paying ten extra dollars one for taking out food and

648
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 1: two for it being delivered to my house. Like I'm

649
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: so lazy, I can't go pick it up and in two.

650
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:17,360
Speaker 1: Like the charges on Uber eats or you know, door

651
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,880
Speaker 1: dash or whatever, they're so high. Every time I look

652
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 1: at it. Something that would originally be ten dollars, no,

653
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,479
Speaker 1: like twenty five, I'm like, why am I doing this

654
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 1: to myself? I get so angry every time, and yet

655
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: I still do it maybe once a week, but I

656
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 1: still hate that once a week moment, and I like,

657
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 1: look at myself and rejection. I need to reject myself.

658
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna say, were you done? Yeah, I'm done

659
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:41,360
Speaker 2: fast food. The reason we get it is because it's fast,

660
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 2: but there are so many other better options out there.

661
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 2: And it's typically because we had that extra drink on

662
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 2: a Saturday night, so we don't go get groceries on

663
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 2: a Sunday, and so then you hit a fast food

664
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 2: on a Monday. So for me, if I fast food's

665
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 2: great in the moment, but you're like, I could eat

666
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 2: in so much better at that meal. And was it amazing?

667
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 2: I mean, was it good? Yeah? Was it amazing though

668
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 2: probably not? Was it good though it was? Yeah? It

669
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 2: was good.

670
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 1: It is always good In that moment, you're like, I

671
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: really like my choice here, and like an hour later,

672
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,160
Speaker 1: you're like, I don't like my choices anymore.

673
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 2: And the reason is because your body doesn't burn on

674
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 2: that stuff very well and very efficiently. Can you can

675
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 2: tell if I eat a healthy meal bas or Boom

676
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 2: cooks up healthy lunch. Next thing you know, Boom, I'm

677
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 2: watering the grass, I'm going for a run doing It's

678
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 2: just the food. It's the fuel you get fast food. Up.

679
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 2: I'm done for the day. But what's on the TV

680
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 2: because I'm not moving for four hours.

681
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're feeding into all the badness that comes with that.

682
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 2: So that's fine.

683
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: No, those are both good.

684
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 2: And I just had a buff this morning, So put

685
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 2: that in the same category you did.

686
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 1: We were that was a muffin. I didn't include that,

687
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 1: like the story behind the muffin. When I was I

688
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: had posted a story of us talking about donut.

689
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 2: This is a different even food I'm talking about. I

690
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 2: had a side muffin. I cheated on the donut.

691
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 1: I know. But what's so funny is like, let me

692
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 1: give you this situation. So Ray and I yesterday some

693
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: PROD donuts to the studio. Ray and I sitting there

694
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,640
Speaker 1: in front of the donuts and he's like, we don't

695
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 1: really need this. I'm like, yeah, we're right, but like

696
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a half a one. He's like, Okay,

697
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 1: give me that other half. This is how it started.

698
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 1: So I give him the other half. We both eat

699
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: it and like it was really good. Read it comes

700
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: over maybe two minutes maybe and he's like, you want

701
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:18,879
Speaker 1: to split that other one. It's the same donut, Okay,

702
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 1: like we had. We did not try two different donuts.

703
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: They're both glazed. He comes over, he's like, you split it.

704
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, Ray, this defeated the purpose of us splitting

705
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: in the first place, exactly, so, but we split it again.

706
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 1: So we basically had one whole donut each.

707
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:35,199
Speaker 2: And originally though it was a good thought to say, hey,

708
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 2: let's just do a half.

709
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a great thought to start, and then

710
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: we just escalated from there. But then, okay, so we

711
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: have each of our individual donuts and then I come

712
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 1: out thirty minutes later and raise on like his third

713
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: or four donut, And I was like, Ray, you're the

714
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 1: one who told me earlier that we didn't need these,

715
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 1: so so what's happening here?

716
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 2: But I no, no, no, I explained it to you. I

717
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 2: was rage eating because I had a horrible morning. I

718
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 2: was doing a lot of stuff like trying to clean programming.

719
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 2: Why is this really born to talk about? But I

720
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 2: told you that I was I needed that I needed

721
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 2: a damn donut.

722
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, but you you ended up spiraling, like spiraling,

723
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 1: and this all came from Ray. I was never shaming Ray.

724
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 1: He could have what every hee's, He could eat whatever

725
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: he wants. It's actually entertaining to me to watch the

726
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: things that Rays throughout the day, very entertaining. But I

727
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 1: was like, Ray, you literally looked at me dead in

728
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,239
Speaker 1: the eyes at eight am this morning and said we

729
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: don't need this, and then you perceeded to spiral.

730
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 2: It totally went against what I originally had said.

731
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 1: So I wanted to share that was funny. It was

732
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 1: a really funny moment.

733
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 2: Yet so you're okay, so you're saying we each had

734
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 2: half a donut, then we each had another half a

735
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 2: donut S, which is a whole donut. So we should

736
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 2: have originally.

737
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: In our own donuts. Yes, but but so many people

738
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: were like, well, at least you gotta try to I'm like, no, no, no,

739
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: it was the same donut, like we didn't one wasn't chocolate,

740
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 1: one wasn't glades, Like they were both glazes the same doughnut. Yeah,

741
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: we dumb, We dumb. It's fine, we were. We were.

742
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,719
Speaker 1: It was a long day yesterday, So I guess, okay,

743
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 1: I want to talk to you about these There's a

744
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 1: girl on TikTok saying if a guy does one through

745
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: three of these red flags, it'll be bad news. Don't

746
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: date them, kay, And I'm curious guys perspective, Like, I

747
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 1: don't know that I agree with all these I just

748
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: found this on TikTok Okay, if he can't keep his

749
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: place decently clean.

750
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gonna be like that for life.

751
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

752
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 2: And oh, guys are so gross with the beer and

753
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 2: the pizza. That stuff can get smelly fast.

754
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 1: And y'all's beards in your hair.

755
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:32,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I gotta actually talk to my dad on that one.

756
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 2: My parents stayed for a weekend. Dad left his like

757
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 2: beard stuff in the stick pops. What does mom let

758
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 2: you get away with? We are a clean household around here, dude,

759
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 2: I'm like laying it down on them. It is funny, though,

760
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 2: parents staying at my house they ask it, Hey, is

761
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 2: it okay if I use his cup? I'm like, you're

762
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 2: my parents asking me if it's okay if you can

763
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 2: do something. That was an awesome reversal. That was great.

764
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 1: Were you like, yeah, like it's you know, make yourself

765
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:58,719
Speaker 1: at home or were you just like no, yeah, you

766
00:30:58,760 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: have to ask me every time?

767
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 2: Oh? They asked me about like a handful of things,

768
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 2: and every time it was equally awesome.

769
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 1: Really yeah, so now you're gonna make them keep asking you.

770
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys can take the car. Yeah, absolutely, Yeah,

771
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 2: you guys are good. Go to stay hot however long

772
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 2: you want, taking seven year old pair.

773
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: And a mom Oh, that's fun. Okay. If he starts

774
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 1: talking about your body right off the.

775
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 2: Bat, uh, if he compliments it, what's wrong with that?

776
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 2: I think I've been out of the game for a minute,

777
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 2: but I think that might have been my first go

778
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 2: to compliment.

779
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: You went up to Bay and we're like, nice.

780
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 2: Body, I love what your rockin.

781
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 1: Bayser, poor Bay. She's like, dang, what did I do?

782
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: What did I do?

783
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 2: I think she got really mad at me one time

784
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 2: because I complimented. We were at the bar and I

785
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 2: was I said, this isn't probably word for word what

786
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 2: I said, but it was not. I would never say

787
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 2: it now, guys, I have changed. I'm such a mature man.

788
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 2: I think I said I said it in a way funnier,

789
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 2: but I'm just telling you the gist of it, something

790
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 2: like I can't believe you didn't serve us better or

791
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 2: faster with my chick's big old chest.

792
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: No, you did.

793
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 2: I said it a little bit better than that, but

794
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 2: and she got so mad at me. But that was

795
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 2: really when we first met at Paradise Park and I

796
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 2: said that.

797
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 1: That's funny, and somehow you still manage.

798
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 2: But I'm glad she did that because then I realized,

799
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 2: you don't say stuff like that. That's not funny.

800
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 3: Okay, see, okay, don't comment body early on, we just

801
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 3: talked out of Ray's answer originally, and I would agree

802
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 3: with that.

803
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: Like, if a guy's coming out like you can comment

804
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 1: and be like you're really pretty, you're beautiful, like whatever.

805
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: But if you're constantly sitting there just like everything is about,

806
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna know that the one thing you're going after

807
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 1: is sex.

808
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I didn't know he said that word.

809
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:47,719
Speaker 1: Well, I didn't know how to you know, bleep whatever,

810
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: leave it in there. Okay. If he has one or

811
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 1: more girl best friends.

812
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I have no way. I mean, that makes

813
00:32:58,440 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 2: total sense.

814
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 1: Hey, I'm asking from a dude's perspective, but I'm.

815
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 2: Telling you now, I have tons of girl best friends.

816
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 2: But it's because we've met him through marriage and they're

817
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 2: friends of all.

818
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that makes sense. But I think this girl

819
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: is saying, like originally, if she he by himself has

820
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 1: multiple like girl best friends.

821
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, unless it's you're in the same town where

822
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 2: he grew up, then that would make sense. You're gonna

823
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 2: have some of those townies that you're best SI's with.

824
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 2: So there's exceptions to the rule. But I would say

825
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 2: then that means he hooks up a lot, He's got

826
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 2: a lot of hanger ons, maybe has some money, he's

827
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 2: got a hold.

828
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 1: Where did the money park come into that.

829
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 2: There's this guy I follow. I'm not saying his name,

830
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 2: but he has ten girls that are his best friend

831
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 2: and I mean he has to just be hooking up

832
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 2: all the time. I would never date the dude. I'm

833
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 2: not into dudes. I'm married. But I'm saying I look

834
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 2: at it, and if a girl saw him hanging out

835
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 2: with ten girls, he's never with a guy. Yeah. So,

836
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 2: and he's still friends with my wife and hey baby,

837
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 2: he's so friendly and nice.

838
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: Hey baby's like that kind of guy.

839
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 2: Yeah. So sometimes maybe the personality, but say, hey, maybe

840
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 2: another big event this Saturday night, will love for you

841
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 2: and your husband to come. But he has he's always

842
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 2: with ten hanger ons, and so I would say undateable.

843
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing I do. There are circumstances if

844
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 1: if they are involved, and maybe they just talk so often,

845
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: but they're not like hanging out all the time.

846
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 2: No, No, there's versions they're doing uh they're doing pool parties,

847
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 2: they do white parties, they do uh Gatsby parties all

848
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 2: the time.

849
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, there's there's exceptions, but I think few and

850
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: far between for sure. If they follow a bunch of

851
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,280
Speaker 1: naked some suit girls on Instagram.

852
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I learned early on, and that's not good. You

853
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 2: learned that lison No from Buddies, got it?

854
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 1: Okay? Yeah, not a good one. Definitely. Definitely a guy

855
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: who's like he's he's weighing all his options all the time,

856
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: is what he's doing. Yeah, And if that's the follow.

857
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 2: Up, I mean maybe you know, he looks at a

858
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 2: Bikuina photo and it puts his mind in a good

859
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 2: place when he's working on the tractor or something.

860
00:34:56,200 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 1: You know, that's a really weird perspective that I did need.

861
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 1: But sure, we'll roll with it. If you're not one

862
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 1: hundred percent clear on their intentions with you, they aren't

863
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 1: one hundred percent about you.

864
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 2: Uh, you got to state that your stance on life

865
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 2: the first time you meet them. That's a weird one.

866
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:15,839
Speaker 1: I doubinate this is within the first Like this could

867
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: all fall within the first week or so or a

868
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: couple of weeks of dating.

869
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:23,000
Speaker 2: I never intended to get married, got married. I never

870
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 2: intended to have kids. Maybe it's something to have kids.

871
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 2: So I don't think it needs to be specifically like

872
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 2: in a document. Hey, I'm gonna send you over a

873
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 2: DOCU sign These are my intentions.

874
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:34,959
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a song.

875
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:36,800
Speaker 2: These are my intentions.

876
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 1: Oh wait, that's not what's was to sing anymore?

877
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 2: Is it our kellyer?

878
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 1: Did think that one is? These? No, we're thinking of

879
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 1: these are my confessions. Usher are still clear. We're still

880
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,240
Speaker 1: clear with Usher. Dang, I can't keep up anymore. Okay,

881
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 1: if you have to com I think this is an

882
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 1: easy one. If you have to compromise your morals, boundaries,

883
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: values when you're around him or any of his people. Yes,

884
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 1: I think that's an obvious red flag.

885
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 2: If they don't don't talk about God, I mean that's

886
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:02,919
Speaker 2: probably not gonna work.

887
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,879
Speaker 1: If they drink or do drugs or party all the time.

888
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:09,320
Speaker 1: Basically they look forward to the weekend.

889
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 2: Looking forward to the weekend, There is nothing wrong with that.

890
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 2: We love a good Friday at the household. The drugs

891
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:19,800
Speaker 2: can't see that leading to a positive outcome. The drinking

892
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 2: one or two times is fine. You want somebody that

893
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 2: loves the weekends, though the weekends are words that we will.

894
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,479
Speaker 1: Shouldn't you be living for every day, not just living

895
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 1: for the weekends.

896
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 2: We work so damn hard. I want my weekends.

897
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: Well, you can have your weekends, I want them, But

898
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: shouldn't you also live during the days too? Are the

899
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 1: weekdays I do you get a little bit.

900
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 2: You're not gonna you don't get to do everything you

901
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 2: want to do on the weekdays, But on the weekends,

902
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:48,319
Speaker 2: damn if I don't do everything I want to do.

903
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 1: You're here the example of living for the weekend, But

904
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 1: that I think the look forward to the weekend part

905
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 1: is not great. But I do like if they are

906
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 1: drinking every single day or drugs are heavily involved, yet

907
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: that's a flag.

908
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:02,919
Speaker 2: Drinking daily Is that a thing?

909
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you'd be surprised. I mean people do often. I

910
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: think it's also different, like if you're going hard every

911
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 1: single day, that's also really intensity party all the time.

912
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:14,839
Speaker 1: Like if you're having a casual drink at dinner each

913
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 1: day or whatever, that's also different. Somebody began exceptions.

914
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 2: And maybe with their job they can pull off going

915
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 2: out on a Tuesday night. I respect that, we just

916
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 2: can't with ours.

917
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 1: I do. I'll cut on a Tuesday.

918
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 2: That's ballsy.

919
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: I mean I still have, but they're like it's like

920
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 1: dinners or I'm going on a date or going to

921
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: a concert. They're not like, I'm not going to go raged.

922
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 1: I mean literally last night I had friends that went

923
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: out as like absolutely not, I'm not doing this tonight.

924
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 2: And also say you go out on a Tuesday, what

925
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 2: it for yourself? What is your curfew?

926
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: I mean, ideally I'm home and in bed by eleven

927
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 1: at the latest.

928
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, when I was singles, I think I would always

929
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,240
Speaker 2: say ten was the absolute latest.

930
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,840
Speaker 1: But see things start getting started at like seven, eight o'clock.

931
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 2: I know That's why it was tough then.

932
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:57,839
Speaker 1: It'd only give you two hours. So I try at

933
00:37:57,920 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 1: least have a little bit of a threshold. If I'm

934
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: in bed eleven, I get at least a couple hours

935
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 1: of sleep, Yes, and I can run, but that might

936
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:09,439
Speaker 1: get earlier. As I get older, road hard, hung up. Well, yes,

937
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 1: if they blow up on you or ignore you when

938
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: you have a disagreement, uh.

939
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 2: It's gonna really help you. Guys get down to each

940
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 2: other's personalities and figure things out. I wouldn't say it

941
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 2: blow up. It's terrible, but is it healthy. No, But

942
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 2: if you really need somebody in that moment to just

943
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:28,799
Speaker 2: say no, that's not how you're gonna treat me, You're

944
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 2: gonna remember them telling you no in your face a

945
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 2: little bit of a blow up more than hey, I

946
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 2: really don't like how you talk to me like that.

947
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 2: Sometimes you need those You put that in.

948
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 1: A baby for it. Sorry, that wasn't a bait to say, like, hey,

949
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 1: I don't need you talk like you made that? Oh

950
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 1: my goodness, right, okay.

951
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 2: Honest say, there's nothing wrong with the blow up.

952
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 1: No, this is where we disagree because I think you

953
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 1: can communicate especially in the early phases of dating. You

954
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 1: can communicate super easily how you feel, what you feel

955
00:38:56,760 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 1: everything without yelling. If you don't have yet, like anger

956
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 1: management issues, yeah, I think it's different as the relationship

957
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 1: progresses and if like you get really passionate. But a

958
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 1: blow up is like you so angry and you throwing

959
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: things and like, oh no, no.

960
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 2: Sorry, I actually misunderstood that. So like when I would

961
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:16,399
Speaker 2: blow up, I would just leave.

962
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: You're like, okay, I got I need space.

963
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I would just then walk out. Sometimes I

964
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 2: come back to the radio studio. Sometimes I just go

965
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 2: for I just leave the bar be like okay, I'm

966
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,799
Speaker 2: I'm over this conversation. I just leave. So, to me,

967
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 2: that was a blow up. You're saying like throwing crap.

968
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,280
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, like a blow up is like yelling

969
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 1: and intense.

970
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I'm fine with the yelling, but yeah, the

971
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 2: throwing of things is probably never healthy. No, I don't.

972
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 2: Our neighbors upstairs used to throw stuff. It was so

973
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 2: annoying every time that, Like, guys, can you not have

974
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 2: a fight or a discussion where you don't throw a

975
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 2: glass that breaks every time and you hear it all?

976
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:50,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, see not good.

977
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 2: Don't hear that anymore in the country, of course, not.

978
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 1: Because you don't have any neighbors.

979
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 2: Yep.

980
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 1: Okay, Well there's some there's some red flags. I think

981
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,839
Speaker 1: she's right. I mean, I feel like most of these

982
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: are a yes for me. As far as red flags,

983
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: I don't listen. Dating just goes back to like, just

984
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 1: be a decent human being, communicate what you want, like

985
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 1: be open about who you are, and like you'll be fine.

986
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:14,720
Speaker 2: I always viewed as this, jobs tend to suck, ours

987
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:19,800
Speaker 2: were blest. Is fine. But the dating you're you're choosing

988
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,720
Speaker 2: to do that, it should be a blast. How easy

989
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 2: is it to laugh, hook up and have a couple

990
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 2: of drinks. It's the easiest thing in the world.

991
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 1: Okay, dating, yes is easy. We're relationships are hard.

992
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 2: Then that's one step up. Yes, then you're a little

993
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 2: bit more committed. It still should be super fun. If not,

994
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,800
Speaker 2: you can just walk away, walk out of it. I've

995
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 2: always been of the mind it needs to be a blast.

996
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you should be having fun. If at any point

997
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 1: in time you're like this isn't for me, yeah, you

998
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 1: should leave for sure. Yeah I'm with you. That was

999
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 1: a good one. Yeah, good call. We did it. Okay,

1000
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: we're ending this on best Bar. And now this came

1001
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,479
Speaker 1: from Libby and Tennessee. Instead putting it in the question,

1002
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:04,319
Speaker 1: we're putting it here.

1003
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 2: Well, I'm partial. I go Gars, but give me brew

1004
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,919
Speaker 2: House just because the TV situation. If you're a guy

1005
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:13,879
Speaker 2: and if you're a chick to like sports, or you're

1006
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 2: a check that your guy like sports. Brew House because

1007
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 2: it's not one of the named bars. It's on Broadway

1008
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 2: and the TV system is amazing. They'll put the sound on.

1009
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 2: They have any beer you could imagine. I'm just a

1010
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:29,399
Speaker 2: one beer guy, but they have it. All the bartenders.

1011
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:33,760
Speaker 2: There's a whole list of them. But we met everyone,

1012
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 2: friends with all of them. Now they've all gone on

1013
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 2: and now have families and stuff. Now, yeah, they're the

1014
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 2: best bartenders because it's not that they don't deal with

1015
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 2: the tourists.

1016
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:44,439
Speaker 1: That's true.

1017
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,959
Speaker 2: Yep, it's the big name bars. A lot of tourists there.

1018
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 2: And then Midtown. You and me love Mintown. You can

1019
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:50,799
Speaker 2: name one from here.

1020
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 1: I do love Midtown, but that's actually not where I

1021
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: was going. I was going East Nashville. One of my

1022
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: favorite bars. It's a newer bars called Ernie's and it

1023
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: is amazing. They have games. They have darts in pool

1024
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: in a toad game, and the drinks are relatively cheap

1025
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 1: and it's like a lodge but also a dive bar.

1026
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:08,400
Speaker 2: Love it.

1027
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 1: It's amazing.

1028
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 2: I love a good lodge.

1029
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:11,919
Speaker 1: I'm telling you would love this place.

1030
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 2: Right. Okay, yeah, I listened.

1031
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 1: I heard you say that, So there we go. If

1032
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: you stayed long enough, then you get the insider scoop.

1033
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:20,439
Speaker 1: I will say that one time, and one time only

1034
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:22,239
Speaker 1: because I don't want people to take it.

1035
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:24,719
Speaker 2: Over, because they will the will and then there'll be

1036
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 2: a line out the door and we'll say, why is

1037
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 2: it like this? Oh that's right cause on Best Bits

1038
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 2: we tell you guys the bars to go to. People

1039
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 2: go to it and the word spreads.

1040
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: It's so true. Okay, we're jumping out of here. Thanks

1041
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: for coming on.

1042
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:37,839
Speaker 2: That was a blast. I think we got deep. There

1043
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 2: was no this maybe.

1044
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 1: The deepest you've ever been on Best Bits.

1045
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 2: There was no what is it you always say that

1046
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 2: I do to you? Give you no roasting? Wow?

1047
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: You did ask me though yesterday if you could roast

1048
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 1: me and I said no.

1049
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 2: So we're growing up.

1050
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 1: We are growing up. Tell the people where they can

1051
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:53,879
Speaker 1: find you.

1052
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 2: Here Sison, ray Mundo, Instagram, x Twitter, and then also

1053
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 2: Sore Losers podcast or doing stuff on you YouTube and

1054
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 2: then wherever you listen to stuff, just search Sore Losers

1055
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 2: Me and Lunchbox. Lunch gets pretty deep. Speaking of deep,

1056
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 2: on there, it's a different side of him, guys, except

1057
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:11,840
Speaker 2: for when he starts talking sports and it drives me

1058
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:13,760
Speaker 2: crazy because he just like yells.

1059
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: But then I bring in a sports podcast.

1060
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 2: Right, But I control him. I get him to where

1061
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 2: I want him to be.

1062
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 1: You're controlling. Yeah, I'm like, hey, red flag, red flag. Okay,

1063
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 1: We'll go check out our loser.

1064
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 2: I have a blow up with him. I control him

1065
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 2: and I drink.

1066
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,879
Speaker 1: Unhealthy relationship. I need to get out of that one

1067
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 1: ray Okay, and you can go check out my podcast.

1068
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 1: Take this personally. I had Judah from Judah on the

1069
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 1: line on this weekend, a psychotherapist. We talked all about grief.

1070
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 1: So check those out and go bye everybody. Laida, that's

1071
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:50,760
Speaker 1: the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks for listening.

1072
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:53,240
Speaker 1: Be sure to check out the other two parts this weekend.

1073
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 1: Go follow the show on all social platforms. Followed web

1074
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Speaker 1: Girl Morgan to submit your listener questions for next week's episode.