1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: We have your chance to win a trip for two 2 00:00:01,760 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: to see Kelly Clarkson's return to Las Vegas for her 3 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 1: brand new residency studio Sessions Live at the Coliseum at 4 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: Caesar's Palace on August first. Text Kelly to three seven 5 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 1: three three seven now for a chance to win two 6 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: tickets to the August first show, two night's hotels day 7 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: July thirty first to August second at the Flamingo, Las Vegas, 8 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 1: and round trip bearfare. A confirmation text that we sent. 9 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: Standard message and data rates apply. All thanks to the 10 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: Live Nation jib Blong. I did go to Toronto over 11 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: the weekend. I did share with you on Friday that 12 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 1: I have neighbors. They're a couple. They're a lovely couple. 13 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: They're very nice people. He's a pilot as well, and 14 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 1: so we're like, let's go to Toronto. We're talking about 15 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 1: flying up there. So we did you know me though, 16 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:47,319 Speaker 1: I'm just me, It's just Josh Fred. You know, I'm 17 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 1: not seeing anybody and whatever. So I was the third 18 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,520 Speaker 1: wheel on this trip. And you guys speculated many things. Yes, 19 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: you speculated this with some kind of a swinger thing. 20 00:00:57,720 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: You suggested that I might be some kind of observer 21 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 1: or maybe he wants to be or she wants to 22 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 1: be up to I don't know. You you guys had 23 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: all kinds of theories. And he told me to pack 24 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 1: my sexy underwear, which I did just in case. And 25 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:11,479 Speaker 1: he told me to watch from head to tell, which 26 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: I did just in case I was wanted or you know, 27 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: called into the game, you know, just in case I 28 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:19,839 Speaker 1: came out of off the bench, you know, from the dugous. 29 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 2: They were like, hey, you're up right, you got to 30 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 2: be ready. 31 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 1: I just want you to know that none of that happened. 32 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 1: Nothing like that happened. Everything was on the up and 33 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: up my neighbors and we're still cordial. We can still 34 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: look each other in the eye. Everything's fine. We made 35 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: it to and Fro and everything was wonderful. They're very 36 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 1: nice people. We had a nice time. I did send 37 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: them the clip of k of all of your speculation. 38 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,479 Speaker 1: It was a little weird because they do listen sometimes, 39 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: and so I didn't know if they had heard this 40 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: because I didn't hear from them all Friday and we 41 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: left Saturday morning, and I was like, are they formulating 42 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: after that segment where you guys said that basically I was. 43 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 3: Going to be their third in a swinger dynamic. 44 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: I kind of wondered if they were like looking for 45 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: a way out or or in fairness, if they were like, 46 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: oh my god, he's on to us, he's on to us, 47 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: and they were shy about it. But no, in fact, 48 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: they didn't hear it, and of course I'm the one 49 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: who brought it up. And then they were like, oh, 50 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 1: we got to hear this, and so I sent it 51 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 1: to and they enjoyed it. But it was fine. It 52 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: was fine. It's so sad said that. 53 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 3: I wasn't. No. 54 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: No, I think it's better for my long term like 55 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: community relations that we didn't do something like that. I 56 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: don't know, this is not my thing. They're in your 57 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: building right, like they're new neighbors. Oh they're like I can 58 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: see their door from my door. Okay, yeah, it's just 59 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: a bad keep a casual. I think so too, h. 60 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 2: Meeting is gonna be real awkward. 61 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: But you guys put me in a spot on Friday 62 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 1: because it's like, well, do you want to And I'm like, well, 63 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: if I say no, then I'm essentially saying I don't 64 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: want to have sex with my neighbors. But if I 65 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: say yes, then I'm saying I want to have sex 66 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: with my neighbors. Now one is more complimentary than the other, 67 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: but I so I'm in the middle. I like them, 68 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 1: I don't want to have sex with them. How about that. 69 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: I think they're very attractive. I have boundaries, not many, 70 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 1: but some, So how about that for an answer. I 71 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: had to think about that all weekend because you put 72 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: me in because if I everybody wants to be invited 73 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 1: to the party, but you don't want to have to go, 74 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 1: Like if somebody were like, would you get with Fred? 75 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: And it's like, no, Well my feelings are hurt now 76 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, even though there was no expectation 77 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: of that ever happening. I'd never even thought about it. 78 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 1: But as soon as you say no, I feel rejected. 79 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 1: So that's why I was worried about it. I was 80 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: worried that I had offended them or hurt their feelings. However, 81 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: I did catch them one time. We had like three 82 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: hours between whatever we were doing in dinner, and I 83 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: was like, you guys can go to dinner without me. 84 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: It's like it's fine. I go to dinner somewhere. It's 85 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: all good. I'll go to Tim Horton's or something. Get 86 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: you get a donut. Okay, if you've been to torn so 87 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: I'll go to Earls. I'll go to Earls and get 88 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: me an Earl's a girl. It'll be fine. Don't you 89 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: worry about it. I've been there twice in the last month. 90 00:03:55,640 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: I'm basically Canadian now. So but then they were like, yeah, yeah, well, yeah, 91 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: that's great. We're gonna take a nap. We'll meet you 92 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: at dinner. And I'm like, and I told them, I said, 93 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go out. I'm gonna go out for a walk. 94 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: And that's what I did. I went out for a walk. Now, 95 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: about half an hour later, I walked back. They're coming 96 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: out of the elevator for their walk. But they told 97 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 1: me they were napping, so I and they looked at 98 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: me like they looked scared when they saw me, Like 99 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: I like, I think they wanted to hang out without me, 100 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 1: and that's totally fine, or maybe they changed their mind. 101 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 1: But as soon as I saw them, I'm like, uh, 102 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: huh on that, huh, yeah, I see how it is. 103 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 3: You wanted to ditch me. It's fun. And then I 104 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 3: felt rejected. 105 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 4: Oh oh, see this is why three people can never 106 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 4: travel together. 107 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 3: I did this company. I didn't really, No, that was good. 108 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 3: That's all good. 109 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 2: Do you know there's a bar there called Friend's Not Here. 110 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 2: I have a picture of it, and I really wish 111 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 2: I would have I don't think. 112 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:50,719 Speaker 3: I don't think I did know that because I probably 113 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 3: would have gone to that bar. 114 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, hand me that is your bar. 115 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 1: But anyway, just for those of you who were wondering, 116 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: I did not there no shenan against none whatsoever, damn 117 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 1: and I did. I was like on the dating apps, 118 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, what if what? I just let me just 119 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: match with some random person and bring him to dinner. 120 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 1: But then I was like, that's awkward for them. You know, 121 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 1: that's awkward for everybody. So I didn't do anything. I 122 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 1: just was the third wheel and it was fine. I 123 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: think it was fine. I mean they were they were 124 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:20,280 Speaker 1: talking about future endeavors. So I feel like that means 125 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:20,799 Speaker 1: that they. 126 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 2: You invited back, right? 127 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 3: I guess I think I passed. 128 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 2: Why not? 129 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 3: Yeah? 130 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: I also was the one who flew them there, so 131 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 1: they had if they wanted to return to their country, 132 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 1: then they had to be nice to meet. 133 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 3: This more fresh show next right here a fresh show. 134 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 1: We have your chance to win a trip for two 135 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 1: to see Kelly Clarkson's return to Las Vegas for her 136 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 1: brand new residency studio Sessions Live at the Coliseum at 137 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:49,119 Speaker 1: Caesar's Palace on August first. Text Kelly to three seven 138 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: three three seven now for a chance to win two 139 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: tickets to the August first show, two nights hotels day 140 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 1: July thirty first to August second at the Flamingo, Las 141 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: Vegas and round trip. Aarfair information text that we sent 142 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: standard message to data rates to apply all thanks to 143 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: Live Nation. 144 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 3: Oh it's courting, all right. 145 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: All right, it's the honorable Kiki is here eight Kik Yeah, 146 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 1: take it away, please. 147 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 5: All right, let's get in the courtroom. It says Kiki, 148 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 5: am I wrong for telling the other mom at my kids' 149 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 5: school that she is raising a screen zombie. I have 150 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 5: a ten year old daughter. Her name is Lily. She's active, 151 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 5: artistic and very social. She used to be friends with 152 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 5: another girl in her grade named Mia. Now MIA's mom, Jessica, 153 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 5: and I were casual friends because our daughters, you know, 154 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 5: hung out together. 155 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 2: But lately it's been very tense. Here's the thing. 156 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 5: Every time, Lily would go over to MIA's house, all 157 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 5: Mia wanted to do was sit on her iPad for hours. 158 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 5: No conversation, no playing, no creativity, just roadblocks and TikTok. 159 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 5: Lily would come home bored and frustrate it. I talked 160 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 5: to Jessica about it once, casually, and she brushed it off, 161 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 5: saying that this is just what kids do now. So 162 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 5: Lily stopped one to hang out with Mia. I didn't 163 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 5: make it a big deal, you know, kids grow apart, 164 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 5: but Jessica approached me at the school pickup last week 165 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 5: and asked why was Lily ghosting Mia. I tried to 166 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 5: be polite and say that their interests have changed, but 167 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 5: she pushed, so I finally said, look, girl, your daughter 168 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 5: is always on screens. Lily wants to actually do things 169 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 5: when she hangs out. She's not into just sitting around 170 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 5: being a screen zombie. I even brought up how she's 171 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 5: allowing Miss Rachel to raise her youngest child. My kids 172 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 5: are limited to thirty minutes of screen time a day, 173 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 5: so that is what Lily is used to. 174 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 3: Well. 175 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 5: Miss Jessica freaked out on me and said I was 176 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 5: insulting her parenting. She said, I was shaming her and 177 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 5: her daughter and creating drama. She told a few other 178 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 5: moms that I'm judgmental and toxic, and they've since removed 179 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 5: me from the mom group chat. But I just feel 180 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 5: like parents need to stop using screens as a babysitter 181 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 5: and be a real parent. 182 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:58,239 Speaker 2: If you can't leave. 183 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 5: Your house without your child's iPad, then you are the problem. 184 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 2: Am I wrong? Do I need to apologize? 185 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 3: Judge Kiki girl? 186 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 5: I mean yeah, I think you do need to apologize, 187 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 5: Like you don't know what her mom is going through, 188 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 5: and you know, I know your daughter is saying she 189 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 5: goes over there and they're just watching screens all day, 190 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 5: but like thirty minutes only a day. I can't even 191 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 5: get through my other Like I can't get through my 192 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 5: emails in thirty minutes. 193 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 1: Well, what's the point of even hanging out if you're 194 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: just gonna stare at screens? 195 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 3: Well, I understand the same room, Like what's the pot. 196 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 5: You don't have to call the lady her kid a 197 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 5: scream zombie and say she's a bad mom because she's 198 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 5: watching letting the kids watch Miss Rachel Like, come on, lady. 199 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 1: Well, I mean she asked, you know you better have 200 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: to close on a bad mom. But she asks, why 201 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,320 Speaker 1: is your daughter not wanting to come over anymore? And 202 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: she answered the question honestly because there's no there's no 203 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: there's nothing happening. There's no conversation, there's no you know, bonding, 204 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 1: there's no camaraderie. You go over watch TV like I don't. 205 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 3: I don't need to that. 206 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:02,199 Speaker 5: You don't think it's a little judge when she says 207 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 5: you're not a real parent if you're letting screens be 208 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 5: your babysitter and if we leave home without the iPad 209 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:12,439 Speaker 5: and you're the problem, like, ma'am out my barney back 210 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 5: in the day that I mean, my mom was a 211 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 5: bad mom. 212 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question, Giggy, if you an 213 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: eight five five three five to get a call, because 214 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 1: you guys are the jury. If you had a kid, 215 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: would you want your kid spending as much time on 216 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 1: social media as you do? Oh? 217 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 2: Please? 218 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 5: Oh no, but but yes, because what am I going 219 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 5: to do entertain the kid all day? 220 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:33,959 Speaker 3: Absolutely not exactly. 221 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 1: Oh, you guys are crazy. 222 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 3: So you agree, you agree that that's too much. 223 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 2: I think that there should be a limit. 224 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:46,839 Speaker 5: I don't, I don't know, I don't think just because 225 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 5: you decide that thirty minutes is the limit that should 226 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 5: be the standard for all parents, and if they don't 227 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:52,959 Speaker 5: follow that, then they're a bad parent. 228 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 2: I don't think that, you know, m. 229 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 6: Yeah, as a parent, I think one of my biggest 230 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 6: fears is a couple when a I'm supparenting our screens. 231 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 6: I know one day my daughter is going to pick 232 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 6: up she's one, she's gonna pick up an iPad and 233 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 6: she already knows how to pick up my phone and 234 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 6: look at herself and start to scroll. And that does 235 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 6: scare me because I don't want my daughter to be 236 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 6: I'm going to call it an addiction because like I, 237 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 6: as an adult, feel like I am addicted to screens 238 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 6: like my phone and everything, and if I don't have it, 239 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 6: I constantly like I feel like I'm missing something and 240 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 6: I don't want my daughter to have that. 241 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 7: Now. 242 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 2: Is that unrealistic? 243 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 6: Yes, because she's going to be born and raised in 244 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 6: this era right of the technology. 245 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 2: It's just the truth. 246 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 6: But I do believe in limiting screen time and access 247 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 6: to what they're seeing and have access to you on 248 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 6: the screens because I don't think I'm no doctor anymore. 249 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 2: I was once and not anymore. 250 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 6: But I from my understanding, it's not that beneficial for 251 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 6: your kids to be on screens all day, every day. 252 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 6: Right Again, I'm no doctor, I'm no expert, but it 253 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 6: can't be good. So that's why I feel like she's 254 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 6: not wrong for what she said, but the delivery was 255 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 6: completely wrong. 256 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 2: You don't call another mom a bad mom. You don't 257 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: judge them. 258 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:58,559 Speaker 6: If you said they could be going through something you 259 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 6: don't know, if it's like a one pair household. And 260 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 6: there's no Miss Rachel slander on this show. Because I 261 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 6: love Miss Rachel, that is my co parent. But however, 262 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 6: I do I do limit the screen time with Miss Rachel. 263 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:11,560 Speaker 6: So even though she's taught my daughter sign language and 264 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 6: other things, you know, it's hard. 265 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 2: It's it's really hard, I think with the screens. 266 00:11:15,120 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, you know, why parent when you've got YouTube? 267 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: I mean just an endless possibility. I mean, seriously, why 268 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:27,080 Speaker 1: pay for a babysitter? Hey, hey, Kim, how you doing, Kim? 269 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 6: I'm good? 270 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 3: How are you? 271 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 1: Kim? I'm doing great? Thanks for Colin? What do you 272 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:33,720 Speaker 1: think you hear this story? What's your take? 273 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 4: My cake is there's a way to say things and 274 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 4: the delivery was really bad. The way she said it, 275 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 4: she could have said it in a more polite way. 276 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 4: She could have handled it, maybe not calling her saying 277 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 4: she's the type of mom she is. 278 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 8: Just maybe like my my. 279 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:56,080 Speaker 7: Child doesn't like to be on on her you know, 280 00:11:56,200 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 7: her computer, her tablet, whatever may be the case, as 281 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 7: much as as that, and I think she should apologize, 282 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 7: maybe tell her that my delivery could have been better, 283 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 7: and I apologize for how I came across. 284 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 1: Yes, she didn't have to call her a bad mom, 285 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: but the woman asked the question. She answered the question honestly. 286 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 5: I mean, she gave it to her straight but it's like, oh, 287 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 5: it just sounded so mental. 288 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:17,440 Speaker 8: Mm hmm. 289 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 4: Here, nobody likes the judger. You shouldn't judge and straight forward. 290 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 4: Sometimes people can't handle it. 291 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:28,680 Speaker 1: You have to be Yeah, yeah, Kim, thank you for calling. 292 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 3: Have a great day. You too, have a great day, 293 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 3: as you called. I love you too. Yeah, Hi, Mike, 294 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 3: how you doing. 295 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 8: I'll go a good so, Mike, I'm. 296 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 3: Doing all right. Man. 297 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 1: So this woman, you know, if you just are just 298 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 1: tuning in, it's two moms interacting with each other and 299 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 1: they both have kids and and one mom used to 300 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 1: send her kid over to the other mom's house, but 301 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 1: all they would do is watch TV basically, or screens 302 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 1: or you know, iPads or phones or whatever. And so 303 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: the kid didn't want to go over there anymore, and 304 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: so did the mom. Asked the other mom more, well, 305 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: how come the kids that coming over? And then she said, well, 306 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 1: because you're a bad mom because all you do is 307 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 1: let the kids watch TV. Now, I don't think you 308 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: had to say that, but I think you could say, hey, 309 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 1: my daughter was you know, she likes to be a 310 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 1: little more active than that, and she don't want to 311 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: sit there and watch TV. She wants to go do 312 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: stuff and your daughter doesn't. So that's the answer, right, right, 313 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: I'd have. 314 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 8: To agree with you. 315 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 9: My daughter is the same way. She loves being outside 316 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 9: doing things, drawing. 317 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 8: Building, whatever it is. 318 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 9: But if I'm just going to send her over there 319 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 9: to watch some TV, she can do that at home. 320 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 9: That to me, that that's you know, what's the point 321 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 9: of being the kid when you're just watching the screen. 322 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 9: So yeah, I definitely have to agree. My daughter is 323 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 9: very active and she could have been more tactful with 324 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 9: it that that could have been. But you know, the 325 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 9: lady did push her to keep asking, you know, what's 326 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 9: the issue, so she did. Yeah, she gave her the response, 327 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 9: and then she didn't like the response, so she tried 328 00:13:58,360 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 9: to make her out to be the bad guy. 329 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Mike, good points. Thank you, have a good days. 330 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 5: Maybe what this mom could have done was invite her, 331 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 5: the kid the screen zombie over to. 332 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:11,839 Speaker 3: Her house so she could see a tree. 333 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know some activity. 334 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 3: This is place called a park. It's free and they 335 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 3: have stuff. 336 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 2: You can YouTube. 337 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, let me show you a slide, you know, a 338 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 5: monkey bar or something. 339 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: And I get to a certain extent, this is generational, 340 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: Like I know that there are a lot of kids 341 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 1: who interact. 342 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 3: We talked about this all the time. 343 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: They interact primarily through technology and not face to face. 344 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 1: That's kind of what it's causing problems. It is. And 345 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 1: I have a buddy whose daughter just graduated in high school, 346 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: and she's a wonderful girl and they're a wonderful family. 347 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 1: But her interests are primarily, from what I understand, playing 348 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: video games on the computer. And she'll lock herself in 349 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 1: the room for hours and hours and hours, and that's 350 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 1: how she interacts with her friends, real life people but 351 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: his thing was, Hey, that's cool, but why am I 352 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: paying to send my kids away for college when more 353 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 1: than likely, for the time being, she's gonna sit in 354 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 1: her dorm room, and you know, she's gonna go to 355 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: class and do her homework and then she's gonna sit 356 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: in her dorm room and play video games with her 357 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 1: friends on the thing. 358 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 3: We can do that from home. Yeah, I don't have 359 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 3: to pay for a dorm for that. 360 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 4: True. 361 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: Now, I mean you could argue, well, you got to say, 362 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 1: you know, if you have the opportunity to send your 363 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 1: kid away, then you know there's some growth and all 364 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 1: this stuff. She'll have to fend for herself in some ways. 365 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: But you know, if she's gonna sit in the room, 366 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: I kind of see his point. It's like, maybe she 367 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 1: goes to community college and stays here until she grows 368 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 1: out of this thing, and maybe when she has an 369 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 1: interest in like sort of expanding her horizons, then maybe 370 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 1: that's when we send her away, right because you know, 371 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: does does the venue matter if you're not going to 372 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: leave the room, you know what I mean. I see 373 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: his point. I see I see his wife's point too, 374 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 1: which is, well, we need to push her out and 375 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: maybe she'll, you know, have to figure this out when 376 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 1: when we're not here to pull her away. 377 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 3: You know, Lowland, Hi, Lolan, how you doing. 378 00:15:57,440 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 10: It? 379 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 3: Like Ronald? As it is? 380 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 1: That's what it says. And I'm dumb, but it looks 381 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 1: like Lowland and Donald lolland it like Ronald. I've see 382 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 1: that name Donald Donald. But the way that she spelled it. 383 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 3: Was l O l A n D. Is that how 384 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 3: you spell your name? 385 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 8: L O n A l D. 386 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 1: That would have helped anyway, So go right ahead. I'm 387 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: a dumbie, but the spelling would help. What do you 388 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 1: think Kicky scored? 389 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 8: So I'm pairing a two three and an almost seven 390 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 8: year old. We limit them to so little screen time. 391 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 8: They get about twenty minutes during the week when we 392 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 8: do their hair, and on the weekend they get an 393 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 8: hour maybe two tops with me and my wife are 394 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 8: feeling lazy that day. And I am not a fan 395 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 8: of carrying a screen out anywhere, like we out, they 396 00:16:56,320 --> 00:17:00,120 Speaker 8: don't get our phone. You need to learn to be bored, 397 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 8: to learn how to entertain yourself. We'll pack some crowns 398 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 8: or a coloring book like read them in you I 399 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 8: don't care. 400 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 1: Read read them for you like that. 401 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:13,679 Speaker 3: I love it. 402 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: I would think as a parent, it would be very easy, 403 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 1: Paulina to just hand your kid the iPad to turn 404 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:21,200 Speaker 1: the TV on. And I think at times it's probably 405 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 1: a tool, right guys like you, uh, you know, when 406 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,320 Speaker 1: you absolutely have to get something done or cook dinner 407 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 1: or something, it's like here, okay now. But like if 408 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:33,640 Speaker 1: you just don't feel like it, the whole parenting thing, 409 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 1: I think that could become a crutch. 410 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:36,399 Speaker 2: That would be me. 411 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 6: Well, yeah, if you yeah, you shouldn't have kids in 412 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 6: my opinion, if you can't parent, that's number one. But 413 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 6: number two, yeah, you're absolutely right cooking dinner, getting laundry, 414 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 6: doing something I need to, you know, have her in 415 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 6: this one spot. 416 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 2: We'll put the TV on. Okay, I'll give her that. 417 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:50,919 Speaker 6: But like the screen and everything with the with the 418 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 6: iPads and the phones like that to me is just 419 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 6: so much trickier too, because I think from my understanding, 420 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,919 Speaker 6: TV and iPads are actually different, like as far as 421 00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 6: their engagement and like their focus because it's the access 422 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 6: to scrolling. I mean, like I'm not saying it's worse, 423 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 6: but it's not great either for a child to be 424 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 6: scrolling all day. 425 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 3: We'll give you g off a TikTok man. I mean, 426 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:09,399 Speaker 3: come on, young. 427 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:11,479 Speaker 2: Blowing up right now on TikTok. I can't get her 428 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 2: off anymore. 429 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: Don't tell her she's gonna want money for creater fund. Okay, Hey, 430 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:18,680 Speaker 1: thanks for calling. I have a great day. I appreciate you. 431 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:20,400 Speaker 8: All right, thank you too. 432 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 2: Donald not spelled Lowland kids need to learn to be bored. 433 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 2: That's real. Oh, that is so real. It is real. 434 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 1: I think that is actually excellent advice. Yes, I do, yes, 435 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 1: Like what's it like to just sit for a second 436 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:39,680 Speaker 1: with no stimulation, just just for one minute, like just 437 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 1: let your brain, you know, breathe. 438 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,439 Speaker 3: For a second. Oh God, is it me? 439 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 9: She? 440 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 3: Oh, I said it right? Thank god. Hi, Good morning 441 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 3: Kiki's Court. What do you think? 442 00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:57,200 Speaker 10: Well, personally, I think that the other mom was wrong 443 00:18:57,359 --> 00:19:01,120 Speaker 10: for having the one mom lead it off the mom 444 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 10: group chat. Yeah, and I didn't hear in the story 445 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 10: that the original mom said that the other mom was 446 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:10,879 Speaker 10: a bad mom, Like, did she tell her to her 447 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 10: face she thought she was a bad mom or that 448 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 10: different philosophy? 449 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 5: That was her going off at the end, she said, 450 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 5: if you can't leave your home without your child's iPad. 451 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:21,120 Speaker 2: You are the problem. 452 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 10: So I don't necessarily think that the first mom is 453 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 10: wrong because she has her way of raising her kids 454 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,399 Speaker 10: like we all do. And then the kid is just 455 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 10: not happy going over there. So the woman kept pushing 456 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 10: and asking what was it? What was it? 457 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:39,360 Speaker 1: What was it? 458 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 10: And the mom said, look, your daughter's on the iPad 459 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 10: all the time during the visit, so what's the point. 460 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 10: And I think that the other lady's projecting. She decided that, oh, 461 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 10: I must be a bad mom. You know, she's calling 462 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 10: me this, she's calling me that. And I think that's 463 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 10: how it all blew up, because the other lady knows 464 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 10: deep inside that made the first mom is onto something. 465 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 1: She asked and she got an answer and she didn't 466 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: like the answer. So yeah, it's true. Thank you so much, 467 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:10,320 Speaker 1: have a good day.