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Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl? Next? Peak any Sugarl Drea Nicole.

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Speaker 2: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor

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Speaker 2: Mind Speaks Sober Baby, it's giving you look good?

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Speaker 1: Got the green on? I know that's right birthday, but

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Speaker 1: I knows.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 2: And you know what's crazy though, I never take pictures

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Speaker 2: in like my really cute outfits because I like to

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Speaker 2: wear that shit again. Yeah, Like, I was just looking

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Speaker 2: at my Instagram and I don't have any pictures of

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Speaker 2: me like super dressed up whenever I go out like

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Speaker 2: the stuff, because I'll be putting that ship on.

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Speaker 1: Bitch, I'll be putting that. I'll be putting that ship

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Speaker 1: on now.

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Speaker 2: But I never take a picture in it because I'm

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Speaker 2: like this, I might have to whip this out again,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, I already posted a picture in it because

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Speaker 1: it's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Because when I was in Mexico a few weeks ago,

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Speaker 2: or whenever I went with Ali for her birthday, I

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Speaker 2: had on a swim suit that I have probably I

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Speaker 2: wore it like once last year just because I took

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Speaker 2: a picture in it. I never wore because you remember

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Speaker 2: COVID was last year. It was just a bikini. It

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Speaker 2: was a leoper bikini that I had, and literally someone

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Speaker 2: from a fake page dm me and there was like, bitch,

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Speaker 2: how many times you're gonna wear this fucking bikini? I said,

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Speaker 2: God damn, you're plugging me in guardfield. But I just

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Speaker 2: feel like I wore one time on the ground and

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Speaker 2: that was it, just to take a picture. That's why

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Speaker 2: I'm like, you know what, I'm not giving you all

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Speaker 2: my good shit no more because you host is watching me.

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Speaker 2: But stuff like that is just so weird to me,

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Speaker 2: because it's like when people buy stuff. If you buy

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Speaker 2: something and you spend a good amount of money on

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Speaker 2: it and it's something that's good quality, like do you

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Speaker 2: really just expect somebody to only wear it one time?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's just the like, are we

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Speaker 1: really only supposed to wear our clothes? I don't care

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Speaker 1: if I spend ten dollars on it, Bitch.

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Speaker 2: If I want to wear that shit again, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: run it back, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm not really the type of person that'll take

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Speaker 2: multiple pictures in the same right. I have a picture

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Speaker 1: We did on but I'm gonna wear that shit again

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Speaker 2: The only thing I don't do is I don't wear

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Speaker 2: if I got my picture like my Avvy, I don't

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Speaker 2: show up in that out fit nowhere, because that's the

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Speaker 2: one that everybody remember.

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Speaker 1: Like, bitch, you have you got that on in your

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Speaker 1: Abyba swim swimsuit.

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Speaker 2: I got on a swim stuit in Miavy, my Abby,

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Speaker 2: I got wear it nowhere.

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Speaker 1: I got on this bronze dress.

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Speaker 2: But let it be known, bitch, I wore that bronze

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Speaker 2: dress to the ground before I posted a picture in it.

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Speaker 2: I had to get my money's worth, bitch, all twenty dollars.

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Speaker 1: I had to wear it out. Bitch A dollar per

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Speaker 1: were twenty times. I'm not about to play with you.

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Speaker 2: Well, I was like, okay, you know what, I can

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Speaker 2: post a picture in this dress because it's time to retire,

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Speaker 2: because baby.

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Speaker 1: He that was my dinner dress.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't understand it because I feel like

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Speaker 1: I mean, so, why do they expect for us to

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Speaker 2: Well, it's not just us, I feel like they just

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Speaker 2: feel like anybody who's quote unquote like popular on social media,

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Speaker 1: Well why would you like, bitch? We got favorites too,

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Speaker 2: The I I like favorite shirt to favorite shorts, favorite dresses,

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Speaker 1: Should I havena wear them holes all the time all

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Like I said, I don't know why

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Speaker 1: Y'all know I got three dollars match. Y'all be ordering

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Speaker 1: everything off Amazon, Amazon and Fashion not a lo keto.

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Speaker 1: People been sleep on Amazon. Amazon got fire as feet Amazon,

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Speaker 1: really do. I ain't ordered anything from Amazon.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but so many people been telling me that they

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you, let me tell you how ridiculous

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Speaker 2: So the episode that Carlos came on, remember I had

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Speaker 1: Like, damn that cute you good from Amazon? I got

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Speaker 1: it from Amazon? And so I went back about fourteen

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Speaker 1: more you because you did, you did? Got them in

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Speaker 2: Can't tell like like you can't get it in every

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Speaker 2: fucking everywhere, y'all. Y'all told me, I like, y'all like

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Speaker 2: my red hair. I had this wing on for three months, bitch,

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Speaker 1: Side of bun a swoof.

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Speaker 2: But y'all gonna get every time you have had like

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Speaker 2: a good amount of hairstyle.

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Speaker 1: You had a good amount of hairstyle.

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Speaker 2: Three hairs, because like I said, you know it's given Battie.

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Speaker 1: I like red on you.

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Speaker 2: I think I just feel like this, look, I'm going

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Speaker 2: through this phase right now. You know how you go

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Speaker 2: through those phases of like how you do your hair

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Speaker 2: and makeup your nails. So right now I'm in like

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Speaker 1: I got the extendo nails the same. No they don't.

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Speaker 1: They're long girl, my nail.

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Speaker 2: Yes, my nel tech told me she ordered she literally

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Speaker 2: ordered some new Neil tips just for me. This is crazy,

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Speaker 2: and they're so long. I was like, damn, I wonder

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Speaker 2: But yeah, she got me some longer nails and they're

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Speaker 2: more straight and they're so cute. So I feel like

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Speaker 2: I'm going through my like little hood princess nineties phase.

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Speaker 1: You know, big swoop.

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Speaker 2: I've been telling bar bitch swoop that shape.

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Speaker 1: If my edge is not touching my brother, that's what

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Speaker 2: So yes, I'm in like my ghetto princess face. I

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Speaker 2: just I've been really extremely happy lately. Everything has just

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Speaker 2: been going. Life has been grand.

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Speaker 1: Birthday was lit, the birthday hosting was lit. I got

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Speaker 2: The birthday housing was so so much we couldn't even

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we didn't even make it.

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Speaker 2: Brought me boot and shout out to bro.

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Speaker 1: He had me thought big ass links too. Goddamn I hate.

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Speaker 1: At least yea was lit. I got. I got my

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Speaker 1: things for my birth I had a really good birthday.

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Speaker 1: That's all right.

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Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, but just no, just no, big Mommy is

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Speaker 2: stepping and it's given. Baddie, Like you said, you did

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Speaker 2: speak that into existence for us what you said this year,

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Speaker 2: We're coming for our things and we really have mere

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Speaker 1: I'll be prophified. The drive a profit and im and

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Speaker 1: another thing. I'm always gonna get my things if I

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Speaker 1: don't do nothing literally contagios because you spread it onto me.

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Speaker 1: Now I know because my birthday, Yes, to see my

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean they gonna see it when I

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Speaker 2: post the pictures, okay, because I got that be more

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know, but it was.

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Speaker 2: Some things I can't like, I'm not gonna tell, like

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Speaker 2: what Big Papa got mean because that's like, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: No, I feel you so, but yes, the birthday was

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Speaker 2: We're in a good mood today, so a great mood.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be a great.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna let you bring in the first topic.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Is your girl like Pete and it's

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Speaker 1: Sugarls Dray and the call and we are here to

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Speaker 1: tell y'all about usy.

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Speaker 2: Y'all know, we love us some busy because you know,

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Speaker 2: the girls be drinking yaky, but it doesn't hurt when

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Speaker 1: And it's extracted from the erolla cherry.

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Speaker 2: Now it's a superfood, so you know when you hear

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Speaker 2: Every time y'all be like, ooh, what's in the cup?

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Speaker 2: We'll send them silver cups, We'll send them red cups,

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Speaker 1: But I'm gonna go ahead. Let y'all know.

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Speaker 2: It's busy and the acerolla cherry has thirty times more

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Speaker 1: What's your favorite flavor right now? I like the watermelon.

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Speaker 1: I like the watermelon pecks that they just came out

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Speaker 2: The watermelon pack is good, but I recently changed Now

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Speaker 2: I like the raspberries tangerine. The race hangerine is good.

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Speaker 1: So it's given what it need. It's gives it is

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Speaker 1: so men, it's tasting. Yes. So uh.

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Speaker 2: To find out where you can purchase busy go to

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Speaker 2: busyheartselter dot com backslash Poor Minds that busyheartselz dot com

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Speaker 2: backslash poor Minds. And remember, now, I know some of

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Speaker 2: y'all young. You gotta be twenty one and older, okay.

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Speaker 1: Because if you not, don't say we seek you nah,

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Speaker 1: because I didn't if you're under twenty one. But if

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Speaker 1: you're over twenty one, no, Pier, you wanna let me

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Speaker 1: So for the first topic, we wanted to talk about

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Speaker 2: Boundaries with your friends and your bou friend. I like, lately,

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Speaker 2: as of recently, I have been in a situation where,

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Speaker 2: you know, somebody that I was talking to has overstepped

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Speaker 2: their boundaries, in my opinion, with you.

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Speaker 1: He text me with you, what did he say? Let

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Speaker 1: me see, let me let's let's do this on camera.

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Speaker 1: Let me see. I'm not gonna read, No I want to.

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Speaker 2: Read's nothing to read. He just a tweet of mine

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Speaker 2: had went borraling. He said it to me like.

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Speaker 1: The door you know. He called me to Dawn and

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Speaker 1: I just sent back to day emoji's like what it was.

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Speaker 2: It's just like, bro, So see what I'm see what

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Speaker 2: the fuck I'm talking about?

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Speaker 1: See what the fuck I'm talking about? So I feel

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Speaker 1: like he.

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Speaker 2: Oversteps his boundaries with you, He oversteps his boundaries with Lynn. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And at first I didn't really want to say he

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Speaker 2: overstepped his boundaries with Linn.

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Speaker 1: Because I met him through Lynn.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I didn't want to be like, Okay, well

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Speaker 2: you overstepping your boundaries. Well, how because you knew her

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Speaker 2: Like seriously, seriously, I don't, I don't, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: But I would say this, you cannot if I'm confiding

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Speaker 2: that is not your place to be like the mediator.

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Speaker 1: That mean I don't need no mediator with my niggas.

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Speaker 2: I'm a big communicator. I know how to talk. I'm

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Speaker 1: Mitch, I'm thirty two.

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Speaker 2: Period, I'm thirty two now with the extra year baby,

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Speaker 2: He's coming to wisdom, the wisdom I felt it. So

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Speaker 1: And that's the problem in your situation too. He's telling

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Speaker 2: We need you to relay a message because the thing

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Speaker 1: And this is also another thing that I want to say.

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Speaker 1: Niggas like niggas and women. Whatever, you don't need women

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Speaker 2: Women, you are a terrible person, but it's like, you

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Speaker 2: don't need to be telling somebody's friends their business before

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Speaker 2: You can please and because I want to also put

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Speaker 1: I said what boy now? He said, I said that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because she told her she was gonna eat that

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Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna lie. No me, I don't even

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Speaker 2: When he said that, it made me feel a little

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Speaker 1: And then you ain't even receive eating nothing. That's the

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Speaker 2: It literally made me feel so uncomfortable. I'm like, not

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Speaker 1: That's over stepping a boundary.

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Speaker 2: Don't talk to me about what you and my friend

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Speaker 1: Like, do you know how mad I would be if

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Speaker 2: My niggas was like, yeah, let's gave me this slap

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Speaker 1: Are you telling me I'm gonna be like, right, why

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: Now you know we.

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Speaker 2: Only say that for special occasions. Okay, you're taking shit

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Speaker 2: all that shit needs to cut out. If you know

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Speaker 2: stay your ass out of it. Yeah, stay and like me,

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Speaker 2: I knew him before you started talking to him, but

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Speaker 2: So there's nothing you can do or say. I don't

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Speaker 1: It's too much and I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: Those are the type of men that we don't deal with,

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Speaker 2: Like I just can't deal with.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's definitely be dB energy, he's badd energy.

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Speaker 2: Well, well he got the last B baller.

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Speaker 1: That's about it. Oh okay you.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I didn't mean like that because I

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Speaker 2: don't know about the bad That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about the b d Oh yeah, I

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Speaker 2: Wait, I don't know about the BED. I don't know

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Speaker 2: about the I don't know baller, Yeah for sure. But

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Speaker 2: it's like, you gotta stop doing it corny shep though,

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Speaker 2: because if you do it corny sheet, I just cannot.

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Speaker 1: I can't.

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Speaker 2: It's given corny corny and it's like that overshadows the

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Speaker 1: When you corny, it overshadows you being a baller. Because

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Speaker 2: We have said this plenty and times over and over

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Speaker 2: Because some of y'all be corny very much. I don't

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Speaker 2: not fucking with you.

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Speaker 1: I'm not dealing with yup.

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Speaker 2: That's why it's some niggas out there that I'd be like, Man,

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Speaker 2: I'm not a baller, and I fucked with less because.

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Speaker 1: You was cool.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm not gonna lie like that. I peep

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Speaker 2: stuff like that. And it's like, if a nigga ever

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Speaker 2: that's why because you kind of corny.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you all right now, corny yourself. Most

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Speaker 1: But I think everybody know that. Yeah, we already know that. Yeah. So,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say eighty percent of them niggas, Lane Lane,

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Speaker 1: Lex think my favorite person Lane? I do so lame

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444
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Speaker 2: debt right now. All right, I'm gonna let you also

445
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:06,119
Speaker 2: bringing this up. Actually, before we move on to this

446
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:08,320
Speaker 2: next topic, let us know if y'all have ever had

447
00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 2: a friend that.

448
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,440
Speaker 1: Oversteps their boundaries with your.

449
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,440
Speaker 2: Friend their boundaries, because I really want to hear y'all stories,

450
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 2: because I know we're not the only people who have

451
00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,119
Speaker 2: experienced this on more than one occasion.

452
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 1: All right, all nigga used to do then too before

453
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:32,399
Speaker 1: both of them. Of them, they used to love to

454
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 1: call us about each other.

455
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 2: Yes, so when me and drive first we are daddy,

456
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,360
Speaker 2: two friends, we were dating two friends. We've talked about

457
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:42,880
Speaker 2: this before in past episodes, but literally, her nigga used

458
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:47,880
Speaker 2: to call me on my work phone, My nigga, that

459
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:49,119
Speaker 2: that's dragon got me fucked up?

460
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 1: Her pussy too good, Bro, I can't let it go.

461
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:57,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is a pussy too good, but I'll fu.

462
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:01,400
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, this is juicy. No, I'm

463
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I used to let him finish because

464
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:05,120
Speaker 1: but she used to.

465
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:08,239
Speaker 2: Call me after like, Bro, I'm at work, I used

466
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:09,960
Speaker 2: y'all know I used to work at European Wax.

467
00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:13,399
Speaker 1: I'm trying to wax and coat yourself and what LEXI

468
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:14,400
Speaker 1: would you like a wax tack?

469
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 2: Yo? That ass I'll be like like, whoa, I'm like

470
00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 2: a brother about to lose my job.

471
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:27,879
Speaker 1: And then ma Bo used to call Drayah about me, Yo, Drea,

472
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 1: that's how he would talk yod.

473
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 2: And it wasn't Michael Jackson because that's what you're but

474
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 2: Michael Jackson was dead by the time.

475
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 1: But guess what you were giving yo, drean Lexi tripping? No, No,

476
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,200
Speaker 1: he used to call you tier. No, he used to

477
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:47,360
Speaker 1: call me Lexi. He did.

478
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:51,399
Speaker 2: He used to call you Lexi, Yo, Lexi, LEXI be tripping,

479
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,440
Speaker 2: and I just I don't get it, like I don't

480
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 2: I don't understand.

481
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,360
Speaker 1: What I'm to do because I be trying as a man.

482
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 1: I love her.

483
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 2: I love he used to be trying. Hood I started

484
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 2: cheating and they all went down. Here we were, we

485
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,159
Speaker 2: was all sick ass he was.

486
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 1: Anyways, listen, we want.

487
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you introduce his next topic because I'm

488
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:18,479
Speaker 2: you are very educated, because I've never heard of this.

489
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 1: Really, actually I have heard of this.

490
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,679
Speaker 2: I just don't know because I've been to you know,

491
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,919
Speaker 2: the Greek mythology type ship, but I just don't know

492
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 2: how to say it. So so the next topic I

493
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 2: kind of wanted to talk about, like needy men and

494
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 2: the Edipe's complex because I feel like they kind of

495
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 2: go hand in hand. So if you're not familiar with

496
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 2: what the edipet complex is, I looked up the definition.

497
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 1: For y'all socker reads.

498
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:45,439
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So the complex of emotions aroused in a

499
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,439
Speaker 2: young child, typically around the age of four, by an

500
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 2: unconscious sexual desire for the parent of the office six

501
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 2: and wish to exude to exclude the parent of the

502
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 2: same six. The term was originally applied to boys to

503
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,440
Speaker 2: equival and girls, being called the electra complex.

504
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 1: Electra complex, I've never heard of that.

505
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 2: Right So, I think personally that a lot of men

506
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 2: that are very needy and have this need for their

507
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 2: woman to be like a mother to them, they have

508
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:21,400
Speaker 2: an edopiest complex. Absolutely, I feel like like I'm supposed

509
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 2: to be a woman, but I'm not some motherfucking my mom.

510
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,480
Speaker 1: You know, every single podcast in the country right.

511
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 2: Now, every single one, and you go on YouTube right now,

512
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 2: there there's fifty people sitting at a table and they're talking.

513
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 1: About what do Lemon bring to the table.

514
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 2: That's something the most popular thing on podcasts is all

515
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:39,119
Speaker 2: about right now.

516
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: Everybody talks because my mama worked five jobs.

517
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, well goddamn, I don't want to work five jobs.

518
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 2: And nothing was little about that. Your mama is not

519
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:50,639
Speaker 2: lead bitch. Pussy was trash. Your mama wasn't getting a

520
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 2: trash pussy.

521
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 1: Because not giving that girl mama, never has I have one.

522
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: But I'll say this, we need to stop. They need

523
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:02,679
Speaker 1: to know.

524
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 2: So when you see these podcasts and these people talking

525
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 2: like what do women bring to the table, and the

526
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 2: mean talking about I need.

527
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 1: Her to cook, I need her to clean, I need

528
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,360
Speaker 1: her to hold my girls, I need.

529
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 2: Her to cut my steak up, It's like, brow, what

530
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 2: were you doing before she came there? Because when I

531
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 2: look at when people ask me, what do I expect

532
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 2: for a man to bring to the table? Okay, be

533
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 2: a provider whatever, that's cool. That's that's a given. A

534
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 2: woman cooking and cleaning or doing whatever whatever, that's a given.

535
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:37,120
Speaker 2: But why aren't we talking about the dynamic of feeling safe,

536
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 2: feeling secure, having someone you can share things with that

537
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 2: you can unload on and they can unload on you,

538
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 2: like you know how, Like there's there's never anything that's

539
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,360
Speaker 2: more deeper than like surface level shit.

540
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 1: Cooking and cleaning. Who the fuck cares? We all cook

541
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: and clean? Hire somebody to do that.

542
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 2: Like, once we get to a certain level of money,

543
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 2: that's what you're supposed to do. You're supposed to make

544
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 2: your life easier. That's what's by a certain level of money.

545
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 2: You're supposed to delegate tasks. I am gonna delegate task

546
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:07,679
Speaker 2: to Maria.

547
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 1: I am queen.

548
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 2: Now why her name had to be Maria could have

549
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 2: been Keisha, because honestly.

550
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 1: It could be Birtha. I don't give a fuck what

551
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 1: her name is.

552
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 2: I lady, Actually her name is Maria.

553
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't know that. I really was to be

554
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: a funny. I'm serious, but I say this. I will

555
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 1: stay more for when I get to my house. I

556
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 1: know that's right. I think it's gonna come with me.

557
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: But I'll say this.

558
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:39,120
Speaker 2: I really feel like people aren't so surface level when

559
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,920
Speaker 2: it comes to things like that, and men that always

560
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 2: say that they were like the Mama's Boys, And I

561
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 2: talked about this on an episode a long time ago.

562
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 1: I do not fuck with Mama's boys.

563
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 2: Because Dave the bitches you go to the house and

564
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 2: be like, oh girl, you know you was always my favorite.

565
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 2: Then another fue come over there, Oh girl, you know

566
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,879
Speaker 2: you was always my favorite. Them be the ones that

567
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 2: be having sixteen baby Mama's twenty kids because their mom wasn't, like,

568
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 2: you know what, This is not how you treat a woman.

569
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 1: I feel like that's Mama's in general.

570
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 2: Though, because you know what's crazy though, that's just mother's mother.

571
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 1: You know what's.

572
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 2: Crazy because you see women all the time raising their kids.

573
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 2: A lot of people do this in a lot of

574
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 2: different communities and cultures.

575
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 1: They teach their.

576
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 2: Women they I mean, they teach their child and they

577
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 2: raise them how to treat a man. Okay, this is

578
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 2: what you need to do. You see how I'm treating

579
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 2: your father. This is what you need to do. They

580
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,119
Speaker 2: raise them to treat a man and put a man

581
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:42,919
Speaker 2: number one. But you never hear about men or women

582
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 2: raising these little boys how to treat a woman. You

583
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, they want us to

584
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 2: be training. Oh yo, mama didn't teach you how.

585
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 1: To cook hump. Your daddy didn't teach you how to

586
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: change his higher you know what I'm saying. It's like

587
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 1: it's the same thing. It's like, what are you talking about?

588
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 2: But it's like it's so much pressure on us women

589
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 2: to bring so much to the table, not even realizing

590
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 2: that these men, it's so many men on the internet

591
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:09,400
Speaker 2: all day every day that be calling us hoes, bitches,

592
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 2: this and that, and they want to talk about us

593
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 2: now because we call people broke and say this and that,

594
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 2: but we're just retaliating.

595
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: But I think that's.

596
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 2: Because traditionally, like a household was set up that way.

597
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 2: It's like when women were supposed to, you know, have

598
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 2: the kids, take care of the kids, take care home,

599
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 2: clean up, have dinner ready when her men got home.

600
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 2: The men was supposed to go out, make all the money,

601
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 2: be the provider, pay the bills. But now you niggas

602
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 2: don't even provide, so we provoid. Niggas don't even be provoding, right,

603
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 2: y'all don't even be having no money, So she ain't

604
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 2: the same as it was in nineteen seventy two. I'll

605
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 2: say this, Hell, I would have put my apron on

606
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 2: baked in too. We got the key chen and baked

607
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 2: some cookies from scratch. But I'm not doing that shit

608
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty one, y'all booked. But I also feel like,

609
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 2: I don't know, I feel like anybody that's just attached

610
00:28:58,160 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 2: to their parents like that, that's weird.

611
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 1: But how do you say it again?

612
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 2: Annipis complex is fucking weird.

613
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 1: But a lot of people have that, a lot of

614
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: people do have that. Yeah, yeah, that is girls. But

615
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: I think all that shit, it's weird, but no.

616
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,239
Speaker 2: I seen somebody actually tweet the other that they were like,

617
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 2: my daddy did this and this and that for me,

618
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 2: So I'm not expecting I'm expecting XXX from you niggas,

619
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 2: and it's like, I get that, cool whatever, But at

620
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 2: the same time, they're not your daddy.

621
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 1: Like I always say, I just.

622
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 2: Think that's standards, though you think maybe that that's a

623
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 2: difference between having standards and expectations. I'm not expecting a

624
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 2: nigga to do nothing for me. Everything that a nigga

625
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 2: does for me, like we always say, is extra. But

626
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 2: to expect the niggas just to pay your rent after

627
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 2: three days because your daddy been paying your rent since

628
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 2: you was eighteen, that's.

629
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 1: Not the same, right, It's night. So you can't expect

630
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 1: a man to treat you like your father because he's

631
00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: not your father.

632
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 2: I don't ever expect a man to take care of me.

633
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 2: I don't want a man to take care of me.

634
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 2: And that goes back to the topic that we had

635
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 2: the other day about wanting a man to need a man.

636
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 2: Do I need a man?

637
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 1: No? Do I want a man, Absolutely right, but not

638
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 1: a need. It's not necessary.

639
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 2: That's why people fuck up because you know why these

640
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 2: people are fucked up because they depend on their mother.

641
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: We'll see.

642
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 2: When I think of the oedipist complex, I more so

643
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 2: think of like children even as adults, who become jellies

644
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 2: when their mother or their father gets another singing.

645
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 1: Yes yes, like to me, that's what that's weird.

646
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 2: That's weird because like never thinking nobody good enough for y'all,

647
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 2: Mama right, or never thinking nobody good enough today, Joe,

648
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: Daddy right girl, because I'm a fuck with you daddy?

649
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: He fine, Oh you ain't going nowhere? No, I'm dead.

650
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 2: I'll say this with my mom because I think I

651
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 2: went through that growing up, Like.

652
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: My mom dated you know guys and well not guys.

653
00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: I won't say they. I'm not saying that. No, after

654
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 1: my dad passed, like my mom got it. No, I

655
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 1: wasn't saying that because my.

656
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 2: Mom really don't be out here like that at all.

657
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 2: I don't care how much money you got. My mom

658
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 2: gonna be like, let's play big bank, take a little bank.

659
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 2: That's where I get this shit from. Like my mom

660
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 2: is very much like you can't fuck with me. She

661
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 2: is very much a toys like she feels like nobody

662
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 2: is good enough for her. But what I'm saying is,

663
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 2: like my mom, like I can remember one relationship she

664
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 2: was in and I liked him.

665
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 1: I did.

666
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 2: I was happy for her. I wanted my mom to

667
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 2: have somebody. I still want my mom to have somebody,

668
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. But like, I've never felt

669
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 2: like nobody is good enough for you. And even though

670
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 2: me and my mom are like tight, that's my best friend.

671
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 1: I want her to have love, but it's usually not

672
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 1: with the same six child.

673
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you did say that that's what you don't have,

674
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 2: no son.

675
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just think that that.

676
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 2: It's just weird because I always say my mom always

677
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 2: taught me, like how to take care of myself. Like

678
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 2: she's like, I'm not gonna be here one day, so

679
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 2: you need to learn how to I'm that kid.

680
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: Like I just went to the dentist the other day.

681
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: I was like, Mom, do I give them my insurance card?

682
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 1: What do I do? I called my mom for everything.

683
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: I'm like mom about everything.

684
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 2: I'm like mom my assurance said that I had to

685
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 2: meet something and she's like, what, my girl just painting that?

686
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 1: She like, what is you talking about? Finish?

687
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, Mom, I got a headache, What do I do, bitch?

688
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 2: Go take you some medicine.

689
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 1: Like I'm that girl, still I am, But I will.

690
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 2: Say my mom always has said, like, prepare yourself because

691
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 2: I'm not going to be here one day.

692
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 1: So she has taught me how to be a grown woman,

693
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

694
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 2: So I feel like it's just weird that parents see

695
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 2: this in their children and don't try to teach them like, hey,

696
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be here, you need to get off

697
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 2: of me like that. I think that parents that caught

698
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 2: all their children too much, that's you don't want to

699
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 2: get to a certain age. Yeah, you gotta let your

700
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 2: child do them. I mean my sister and of course,

701
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 2: like yeah, if you're a good parent, let them. Oh

702
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 2: that I'm always here in case you fall on your ass,

703
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 2: and you right, I'm here, but but I'm gonna let

704
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 2: you follow your ass a little bit though, yeah, cause

705
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 2: you need that.

706
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: It builds character.

707
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 2: Jackson, my nephew, he's about to turn a and he

708
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 2: already in the kitchen cooking, whipping it up like because

709
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 2: that my sister is teaching him, like skills. I'm not

710
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 2: always gonna be here to cook for you. So I

711
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 2: think it's so weird that sometimes that parents let their

712
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 2: children just depend on them for everything, and I was

713
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 2: very spoilt. Well, I'm not gonna lie like I do

714
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 2: feel that way, but I feel like going to college

715
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 2: kind of really let me like show me that my

716
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 2: parents wasn't gonna be there. I feel like for some

717
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 2: kids it's even younger than they, but for me, it

718
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 2: was really going to college. Because I'll never forget when

719
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 2: I got to my freshman year in college in the

720
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 2: dorms or whatever, of course, like I had to wash

721
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 2: my own clothes and stuff.

722
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: I did not know how to wash my clothes for real.

723
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 2: I bido was coming out pink as fun. And my

724
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 2: roommate was like, because I had asked her a question,

725
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 2: like I was like it on white.

726
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 1: Why had first of.

727
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 2: All girl norms beach so it was a girl room mate?

728
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:13,800
Speaker 2: I can't remember, Sorry.

729
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 1: Go ahead, go ahead. I remember I.

730
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,439
Speaker 2: Didn't know if I should put warm water or cold

731
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 2: water on the settings. And she was like, you don't

732
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 2: know how to wash your own clothes? And I was like,

733
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 2: honestly no, because my daddy was no. Because my dad

734
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 2: used to wash my clothes all the time up until

735
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,879
Speaker 2: I moved out and went to colleague, right. I mean

736
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 2: I definitely feel like I was kind of coddled a

737
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 2: little bit too. Yeah, I mean it's also given a

738
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:40,320
Speaker 2: lot of freedom. So that's why I like, it's a balance.

739
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 2: You definitely have to make that balance. But I feel

740
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 2: like needy men as adults, they definitely have that say

741
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 2: it again.

742
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 1: Conflict and they always silent.

743
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 2: Is silent for sure, he's over here that the fucking

744
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 2: me up?

745
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: Are you sitting right there? You don't want to be

746
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 1: seen that always fucking me? I can't understand somebody being solid.

747
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 2: Why you did not say you don't want to even

748
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 2: make a word. But anyways, No, I feel like, uh, definitely,

749
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 2: men that are needy and dependent on women vice versa

750
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 2: daddy's girls, they have the electra complex or the complex. Uh.

751
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 2: But I think that's something that needs to be addressed, honestly.

752
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 2: Oh for sure, because like I said, people come in

753
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 2: your life grown ass men like, I'm gonna be there

754
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 2: for you in whatever capacity that you need me. But

755
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 2: I'm not about to do the things that your mama

756
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,240
Speaker 2: do because I'm not trying to fucking mama.

757
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,280
Speaker 1: I'm your girlfriend, I'm your wife. I'm not your mom.

758
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 2: Right because I feel like when people come into your life,

759
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 2: they're always they always should be the icing on the case.

760
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 2: They should never be the cake. You don't need anybody,

761
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 2: And that's where people get fucked up at. When I

762
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 2: was saying I didn't need a man, it wasn't like

763
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 2: I was just trying to like diss.

764
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: All men and say men were useless. I was making

765
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 1: jokes and this and that.

766
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 2: But I will say, like, when you depend on a

767
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 2: person for your happiness to wake up in the morning

768
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 2: to feel a purpose, you're living life wrong. I wake

769
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 2: up every morning knowing that I'm feeling my purpose within myself.

770
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 2: You better be for few for fear. I am for

771
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 2: feeling my passion within myself. Kay't nobody make me happy

772
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 2: with me. I'm happy when I come here and I

773
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 2: do my job right. I'm happy when I wake up

774
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 2: and like I get a text message and she get

775
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 2: a FaceTime call from me from dravving like friend and

776
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 2: I love you. I'm like, I'm a good friend. I'm

777
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 2: doing what I'm supposed to do. I'm feeling my purpose

778
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 2: and being a good person. Colleagues like these, what's move on?

779
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,360
Speaker 2: I know not but what I was gonna say is

780
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:59,280
Speaker 2: a good and a good example of the edifice complex.

781
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 2: It's like, if you've ever watched the Steve Harvey movie

782
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 2: Harvey what.

783
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: Was the name of that book? Think like a man?

784
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 2: If you watched the movie Terrence Jay's role in the movie, Yes,

785
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 2: is a very good example of the end complex. If

786
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 2: y'all need a little further explanation. So, yeah, right, exactly,

787
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 2: because I don't.

788
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 1: Know what to tell you. Sorry to that like that

789
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: was a famous act. I can't but some of it.

790
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 2: Actually just came out with an interview and said he

791
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,320
Speaker 2: actually didn't Marla Wayne's.

792
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,800
Speaker 1: He said he actually, oh yeah, he didn't get married.

793
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 2: He didn't get married because he felt like his mom

794
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 2: needed him, because he said she was his number one girl.

795
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 2: You wanted her to always feel like that. Okay, and

796
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 2: now you're fifty.

797
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 1: No no, his mom passed. I think no, And I said, okay,

798
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: and now you're fifty. Oh no, he's fifty and you

799
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: single because you did not want to. I'm not saying

800
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 1: nothing about Marlin because I want to be one of

801
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: your movies.

802
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 2: No, I do too. I like him, but I'm just

803
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 2: saying I feel like once people speak on things publicly,

804
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:11,439
Speaker 2: we can say something about it. So I've never gonna

805
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 2: bash nobody. But I'm just saying like, because even in

806
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 2: the article.

807
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:15,399
Speaker 1: I read the shit too.

808
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:19,240
Speaker 2: He said he said that now he's considering like getting

809
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 2: married because I mean that maybe he feels like he

810
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 2: wasted Marlon's bachelorettes.

811
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: Would you go on it and compete for his love?

812
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 2: Go in it and compete for his love. I'm not

813
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 2: competing for nobody loves. But if he hollered at me,

814
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 2: maybe I'll talk to him.

815
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: I feel you really need a dating show because I

816
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:40,960
Speaker 1: love to see him never. Yeah, niggas can compete over me,

817
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: but I'm not competing for nobody.

818
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,920
Speaker 2: I would love to see how you act like because

819
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 2: you gotta be on the show too.

820
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 1: I just want to regulate. I just want to regulate.

821
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 1: What do you not want to regulate? Nothing? I am

822
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: the niggas. I'm like you, Let me see that watch.

823
00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 1: We got the same, let me.

824
00:38:59,200 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 2: See that ship.

825
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: I already know what d fraud, just like you Captain

826
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: eliminated next.

827
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 2: All right, so now we're gonna get into the bed

828
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:19,359
Speaker 2: all the bow. I'm sorry, you just look so beautiful today.

829
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,479
Speaker 2: Let me just say that you really do.

830
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: It's giving whrow what we need. Okay.

831
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:34,240
Speaker 2: So I want to just talk about this today because

832
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 2: I feel like we talk a lot about getting niggas

833
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 2: that's gonna do this, niggas that don't do that, being

834
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,279
Speaker 2: a good woman and being that. But sometimes you just

835
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 2: want to fuck sometimes it ain't It ain't about this,

836
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 2: and it ain't about the money.

837
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:51,360
Speaker 1: It's about what.

838
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 2: Okay, So let's talk about to get a woman to

839
00:39:56,800 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 2: be sexually attracted to you, sexually attracted to you? How

840
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 2: to get a woman just to want to fuck you

841
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 2: and don't want nothing else. She don't want no bags,

842
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 2: she don't want no shoes, she don't want to rent pay,

843
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 2: she just want that dip.

844
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 1: How do you get a woman to be sexually attracted

845
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: to you?

846
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,360
Speaker 2: So I have a few things men too, So I

847
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 2: feel like for me, ninety percent of it.

848
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 1: Is mental that mental stimulation. Yeah, okay, for me, that's

849
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 1: what it is.

850
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:27,719
Speaker 2: So what's an example of a man like say, I

851
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 2: don't got no money like that? Okay, well, first of all,

852
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:32,280
Speaker 2: but we're not talking it's just sexually.

853
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: Let me say that twenty percent of it is mental.

854
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 1: You can from nigga because when you.

855
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,239
Speaker 2: Start talking about a nigga not having no money, we

856
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 2: ain't even about to have a conversation.

857
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 1: It's mental though you said, it is mental, but you

858
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:49,840
Speaker 1: gotta have some money.

859
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:54,799
Speaker 2: Mentally, what if I mentally got twenty million dollars. I

860
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 2: have twenty million dollars mentally right now, I can see

861
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,400
Speaker 2: that shit. I can feel that it just ain't physically

862
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 2: here well for you mentally we dating.

863
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: In real life. In real life, you don't got twenty million.

864
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 2: Dollars, okay, so what else?

865
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:13,359
Speaker 1: What else?

866
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 2: Because for me, I feel like it's mental for me,

867
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 2: like I like people who can stimulate me when we

868
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 2: having conversations, because I feel like most people and I'm

869
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 2: not just talking about men, and I'm talking about women too,

870
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 2: I feel like most people cannot hold conversations of substance.

871
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: Facts.

872
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 2: So whenever I meet somebody that we can have refreshing conversations,

873
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 2: like I don't know, we should just it's like we

874
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 2: just be talking and not just be good shiting.

875
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: I agree with that it was supposed to, but I

876
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:48,320
Speaker 1: don't know how to do the soundific.

877
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 2: The number one thing for me, and this is like

878
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,880
Speaker 2: I said, niggas that have money can get away with

879
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 2: a little.

880
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:58,839
Speaker 1: Bit more shit. But we're not talking about money right now.

881
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 2: So I'll say that attraction is it's something that's natural.

882
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 2: Like I feel like when you're really attracted to somebody sexually,

883
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 2: you don't have no control over. That's why I said,

884
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,720
Speaker 2: when you having those type of conversations with people and stuff,

885
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 2: and you'll be like, damn, why am I bussy weed.

886
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 1: Doing nothing? We're just talking.

887
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 2: So let me say this sexually. For me to be

888
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:23,719
Speaker 2: sexually attracted to you, like off top, it's about the physical.

889
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 2: I love a sex physical too, like a certain like

890
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 2: let me tell you right now, physically, if you got

891
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 2: your full hair line, you got a lot of hair,

892
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:37,240
Speaker 2: you got a beard, or you got a nice ass

893
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 2: like it look like you used to play football or

894
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:43,240
Speaker 2: something like you know you're kind of tall. You're getting

895
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 2: a pussy.

896
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,879
Speaker 1: So what if getting So what if he find right?

897
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 2: What if he find and y'all having a good conversation

898
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 2: with his hairline receiving a little bit?

899
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:53,959
Speaker 1: Didn he be using Beijing?

900
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 2: And that's why it comes in do you got money

901
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 2: or not? Do you got money? That's when it comes

902
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 2: to but I'm talking about just no, no, money is

903
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 2: not on my list. I'm talking about this to be

904
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:07,879
Speaker 2: to be sexually attracted to you. I want to talk

905
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 2: about things outside of the money. If I'm like one

906
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 2: hundred percent, I never come across niggas that one hundred percent.

907
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 1: They are physically everything I want.

908
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. Throw Back Bay was physically everything

909
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 2: I wanted. It was like, I mean, I'm.

910
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 1: Not gonna say.

911
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say, but I'll say this. That what

912
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:35,840
Speaker 2: I just explained, full hairline, full bed, nice body, like.

913
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 1: That's what I like.

914
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 2: So if that's how you come in number two and

915
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 2: you got a little mouthpiece on you, I can tell

916
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 2: when a nigga spent in game. I know, like, no, no,

917
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 2: we're talking about men in general. Because I say he

918
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 2: was mentally unstable.

919
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 1: Yeah he didn't. He didn't really have no game. He

920
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 1: really didn't.

921
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 2: But he the physical was so there. But I was fine,

922
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,359
Speaker 2: he was fine. But it's let me go to number two.

923
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 1: This is why I'm going on my little trip. What's

924
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,759
Speaker 1: number two? I'm come in, Okay, you can go.

925
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 2: I'll say this. It's because we all he got on.

926
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 2: He got a little mouthpiece on him. He knows how

927
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 2: to Yeah, you know tell me a little bit. I

928
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 2: know he knows how on the he know he knows

929
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 2: how to talk to me a little bit. He knows

930
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 2: I don't know.

931
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: What you're doing. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. No, I just

932
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:48,479
Speaker 1: I don't know you lie.

933
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:51,720
Speaker 2: No. Okay, so let me say this. Okay, this sounds

934
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 2: silly as fucked, but like he invited me somewhere. He

935
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 2: was like, our bet need Joe name date of birth.

936
00:44:58,239 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: Bet.

937
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:00,040
Speaker 2: I don't even we don't even have a have a

938
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 2: conversation about a flight being paid for. It's little stuff

939
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:06,919
Speaker 2: like that named Dana birth. That's a little swag, like, yeah,

940
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,360
Speaker 2: you know, I'm about your flight. I ain't even gotta

941
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 2: We ain't even about to talk about that. He don't

942
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 2: talk about money to me. And I love that because

943
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 2: I feel like, but I said this before on the

944
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 2: show me and that I have dated that it was

945
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 2: very obvious that they had money, and it was already

946
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,800
Speaker 2: known not just by me, but by multiple people. Everybody

947
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 2: knew they had money. We never had this, We never

948
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 2: had conversations about money. The only niggas I have conversations

949
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 2: about money with is the niggas who feel like they

950
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 2: got to prove to me that they got money, right,

951
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:38,800
Speaker 2: because don't nobody know you.

952
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 1: You don't nobody know that you got money.

953
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 2: Right, that's all Like it is like with football players

954
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:44,360
Speaker 2: and they have their hammele on.

955
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 1: We talked about that before.

956
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 2: And it's like even when we're talking about money. When

957
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,799
Speaker 2: I'm talking about money with these niggas, the level of

958
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 2: money that they be like, oh, I'm rich, I got money,

959
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 2: it's like you don't got money like that? All right,

960
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 2: I'm just saying. So that's those are my things. Physical

961
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 2: wealth is very quiet and.

962
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:14,919
Speaker 1: That's why I'm loud. You're becoming more quiet.

963
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 2: Okay, So those are my two things. How to get

964
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 2: a woman sexually attracted to you physically, you gotta be attractive.

965
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 2: I know people put a lot of pressure on women

966
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,280
Speaker 2: to be attractive, but I hate to say you niggas

967
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:25,760
Speaker 2: is ugly.

968
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 1: No too for me? Is money for sure. Niggas be ugly.

969
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 2: They feel like they don't have to be attracted, Like, no,

970
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,440
Speaker 2: you niggas is ugly like that they don't got to

971
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:38,800
Speaker 2: be attractive, bitch. They can't help that they're not attractive.

972
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 2: They no, but you can you can help your physical appearance.

973
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:45,319
Speaker 2: Like I'm not gonna lie, I don't be in the gym.

974
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is I don't be in the

975
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,760
Speaker 2: gym every day, but I also don't eat like crazy.

976
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 1: I try to keep I'm a bad bitch.

977
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:56,400
Speaker 2: I gotta keep this ship together now, Like I make

978
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 2: a lot of jokes and I'll be playing on the show,

979
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 2: but don't play with me because I'm a bad bitch.

980
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:02,440
Speaker 2: Like I gotta keep this ship up.

981
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 1: Well for me, you don't have to be like fine,

982
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 1: that's not a deal breaker for me. You don't have

983
00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:07,399
Speaker 1: to be.

984
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 2: To be sexually attract to you. I want to look

985
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 2: at you and be like, I amn this, nigga, Fine,

986
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 2: don't you can't be like but ass ugly. No, but

987
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:17,839
Speaker 2: you don't have to be super fine. But I mean,

988
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:20,880
Speaker 2: you definitely need to cover the bake the basics, like

989
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 2: you need to have nice teeth, a nice smile, your

990
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 2: black feet, nice your breath, your breath can't see you

991
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 2: gotta have nice feet because I can't fun with black

992
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:35,839
Speaker 2: It ain't even about that because I'm not gonna suck

993
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 2: your mother.

994
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 1: That's one nigga and he Richard and are y'all So

995
00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 1: now I didn't know who told you we're gonna bleep

996
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 1: that outside of here.

997
00:47:56,080 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 2: Okay, But like I was saying, yeah, but you got oh,

998
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,560
Speaker 2: I definitely are here.

999
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,479
Speaker 1: I don't know all right, I'm the text out.

1000
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 2: Here when when this episode coming out, he remember le

1001
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 2: bleep it's only well, no, I slipped up one time

1002
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 2: on Patreon. Well I never slip up, neither do I.

1003
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:23,919
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

1004
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,800
Speaker 2: Is your girl lex p And it's Sugar's Ray and

1005
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:30,399
Speaker 2: the call And he said, P s A PSA because

1006
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 2: we don't like no hairy balls.

1007
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 1: And you know what's crazy.

1008
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 2: I cannot believe men will shave their balls and shave

1009
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 2: their face.

1010
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 1: You got tubes in your mouth.

1011
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 2: So we have partnered with man Skate to get y'all

1012
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 2: something that exclusively for Okay, So man skate that has

1013
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:53,800
Speaker 2: a guard on it so you can choose how long.

1014
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 1: You want me if you want them naked. Yeah, you

1015
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:56,839
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

1016
00:48:56,920 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 2: Sometimes they don't like no help. Sometimes you like a

1017
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,839
Speaker 2: little hell. Sometimes you're like a lot of here, But

1018
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 2: you just gotta get it all.

1019
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: You gotta get a nice and groom.

1020
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 2: And you cannot use the same raises that you use

1021
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 2: on your face as your balls, y'all.

1022
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: Like y'all need decide you no, no, yes. So over

1023
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 1: two million men worldwide trust man.

1024
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 2: Skates okay, and they just came out with the lawnmore

1025
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 2: four point out, four point out.

1026
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 1: It's real serious. You want you want them balls up?

1027
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 1: Also still smooth.

1028
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 2: So what y'all need to do is go to manscape

1029
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 2: dot com. Pick out whatever you home. You're gonna get

1030
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 2: twenty percent off of us. All you gotta use do

1031
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 2: is use the cold poor minds and you gonna get

1032
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 2: twenty percent off your order. Get them balls straight, get

1033
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 2: them balls nice and tidy.

1034
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:49,760
Speaker 1: All the girls gonna love you because if your balls

1035
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 1: is nappy, she's not gonna be happy. The word.

1036
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:59,239
Speaker 2: But yeah, So, like I was saying, I don't know,

1037
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 2: you don't have to be st We're fine to me,

1038
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:04,840
Speaker 2: but you do have to be attractive in my eyes.

1039
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 1: With money matters. Okay, money matters. Your third one.

1040
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:14,439
Speaker 2: My third one would have to be your style. I'm

1041
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:17,240
Speaker 2: not I'm not walking around here like Telly. I'm the tailor.

1042
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 1: I'm not the most swaggy bitch. I'm not gonna lie.

1043
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 2: But I look nice in my shit, like I said,

1044
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 2: And I know a bunch of y'all going on my

1045
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 2: Instagram and be like, Lex, you don't be dressed like

1046
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 2: a bitch. I don't post my shit on Instagram like

1047
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:29,160
Speaker 2: we talked about earlier.

1048
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: But I feel like when I step out, niggas be like, Okay,

1049
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 1: I see it's about swag. Yeah, they'd be like, yeah, bitch,

1050
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 1: you like.

1051
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 2: I mean, what I give in real life and what

1052
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 2: I give on my social media is totally different.

1053
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: I'm really a different person completely everything.

1054
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 2: So I feel like if I'm showing up and I'm

1055
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 2: looking a certain type of way, like I can honestly say,

1056
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 2: the most compliment I get is I always smell good.

1057
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 2: People always say, damn, you smell good. What's that you got?

1058
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 2: I literally that's the most compliment I get the most.

1059
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 2: And after that, I always get a compliment about something

1060
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 2: I have on.

1061
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 1: I have on, whether it be.

1062
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,920
Speaker 2: My shirt, my shoes, my purse, whatever, I get a

1063
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:17,399
Speaker 2: lot of compliments about what I have on. So yeah,

1064
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 2: my third thing would have to be like, I like

1065
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,879
Speaker 2: niggas that can dress a little bit. Not gonna lie

1066
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:24,760
Speaker 2: dated nigga that he used to be kind of tacky,

1067
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 2: but he was so fine it kind of I don't

1068
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 2: want to throw back baby could not dress. Bro Ooh

1069
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:39,400
Speaker 2: he couldn't dress. Oh no, that was your flaw for you.

1070
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 2: That wasn't a flaw for me, bitch. But yes, I've

1071
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 2: dated a nigga that couldn't be wearing.

1072
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:47,760
Speaker 1: Girl, I'm wearing. What do you wearing?

1073
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 2: Man?

1074
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: Come on now, doll, come on. I don't know. I

1075
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 1: had typical date night out there.

1076
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 2: Well, one time we went on a date and this

1077
00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 2: nigga had on a leather jacket.

1078
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 1: It was like a thriller jacket. Bitch. I thought, no

1079
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:10,880
Speaker 1: it was red. It wasn't red. It was black.

1080
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 2: But it just didn't It wasn't one of them fly

1081
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:14,760
Speaker 2: ass leather jackets.

1082
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:18,479
Speaker 1: Bro It had a bunch of zippers. And I don't

1083
00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: know what this what kind of shoes he had on?

1084
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:24,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. Shoes are very important Hena. His shoe game.

1085
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:26,359
Speaker 1: His shoe game was cool, Like.

1086
00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:29,719
Speaker 2: He would never wear no TACKI shoes, but the jacket

1087
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 2: and like it would just be like he don't put

1088
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:34,319
Speaker 2: shit together right, he don't be putting this, He don't

1089
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,440
Speaker 2: be putting that ship on. Like he the type of nigga,

1090
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Speaker 2: like if he'll have on like an Adida's outfit, Nike

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Speaker 2: Tech outfit and that's what he needs to wear because

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00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 2: when it comes to dressing, dressing, you not that boy. No,

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Speaker 2: Big Papa be wearing dad hats first of all, but

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Speaker 2: they'd be icy and they be matching his ship. Big

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00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:01,400
Speaker 2: Papa be putting that ship on. Don't do that that

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Speaker 2: nigga be having.

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Speaker 1: On a three piece soup. That nigga be in the

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Speaker 1: love sweet but fine, don't sw me, swift me. But

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Speaker 1: guess what he in the club.

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Speaker 2: He don't be in the club sweat bitch, because he

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00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 2: owned the club is his so he can do whatever

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00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:17,320
Speaker 2: the he wants.

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Speaker 1: So because he own the club, he don't sweet No.

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Speaker 2: No, because everybody, I ain't never seen that nigga sweating

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00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 2: in the club. I seen him sweating when he was.

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Speaker 1: You do this every time, my nigga, do not he

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00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 1: loss my hookah. I was like, no, he don't.

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00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:54,439
Speaker 2: Okay, anyways, that nigga be fly fuck you And that's

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Speaker 2: my third reason.

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Speaker 1: Next tipic fucking bitch. Well, now y'all know it's time,

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00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 1: So it's the vout, the viob the U dreg Okay. No,

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Speaker 1: So let me just say this before I get into

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00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 1: the bop of the week.

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00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 2: I literally scroll back to our first episodes that were

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00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 2: posting on our YouTube, and I was watching literally the

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00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,799
Speaker 2: first episode of wind Down Wednesday, and.

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00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:25,760
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy.

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00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:30,720
Speaker 2: The bop segment is the only segment that we've kept

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00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 2: from day one till now, is it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we always had a sex segment.

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00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:39,760
Speaker 2: No, no, we all the bop is the only segment

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00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 2: that's made it, and that just shows to show how

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00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 2: much we love music. The bop segment was on the

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00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 2: absolute first episode of wind Down Wednesday, and you had

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00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 2: Bruno Mars and Cardi b No, no, what was this on?

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00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 2: They had in Chop Chop Porsche. I don't know what

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00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 2: you're saying. What card be saying? What's the song her

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00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 2: and Bruno Marts had together? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah

1129
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 2: it was that song. So that was your first bop

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00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 2: of the week. I can't remember what my oh, mom

1131
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 2: was about dj X so it's some money around here, Yeah,

1132
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 2: finesse finess.

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00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 1: That's about.

1134
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 2: Cardiff song. I had a dj X song from my first.

1135
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,280
Speaker 1: It's like, Damn Leelo, you will versus the DJ because.

1136
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 2: I'm like, Damn, I mean is very talented because he

1137
00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:33,440
Speaker 2: produced a song by Black Young so money bag yo

1138
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 2: that song. But that song that they had together, I

1139
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 2: can't remember it. It was a popular song, okay, but

1140
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:43,360
Speaker 2: but yeah, that was our first bop of the week.

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00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 1: And so this is the only sick that's the only

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00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 1: segment that we still have.

1143
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 2: We needed to do hot topics, yeah, we used to

1144
00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:53,040
Speaker 2: do hot topics.

1145
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:55,919
Speaker 1: I was trying to look up the song about money

1146
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:58,799
Speaker 1: dad Yon one two three.

1147
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's a song that XO did. Shout out

1148
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:05,520
Speaker 2: to XO. So that was our first bop of the week. Okay,

1149
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:17,840
Speaker 2: came out that long ago. Who okay, I thought you

1150
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 2: new the word okay, but.

1151
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 1: My windows ain't.

1152
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 2: Okay, So my bop of the week someone actually sent

1153
00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 2: me this on Twitter. And let me say, literally, all

1154
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:32,840
Speaker 2: my bots of the week for the past month have

1155
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:36,319
Speaker 2: been music that y'all have sent me. So let me

1156
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 2: just say thank y'all. Y'all know my taste of music now.

1157
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 2: And that's crazy because I made my bop of the

1158
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:48,839
Speaker 2: week Nio Antidote one week and that is literally my

1159
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 2: favorite song right now.

1160
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:51,799
Speaker 1: So whoever sent me that one, thank you.

1161
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 2: And then my bop of the week today is by

1162
00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 2: how do you say that? Because this is an Asian

1163
00:56:56,760 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 2: name she's Asian. Bye, I think th h u y ron,

1164
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:02,719
Speaker 2: how you say that?

1165
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: I know she was about to add. We both looked

1166
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 1: at Ryan Ron Ron said, nigga, I'm from the hood.

1167
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:12,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay.

1168
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 2: So th h e y bye ty t twee tweet tweet.

1169
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 1: Okay. So she has a song anyways called you're trying

1170
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 1: to act like he ain't out time, trying to play us.

1171
00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:29,479
Speaker 2: So she has a song called Universe, and it's very

1172
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 2: y'all know, I'm not about to sing like them again,

1173
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:34,120
Speaker 2: but y'all know how them singers be singing. I told

1174
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 2: y'all with the chin. She's definitely given the chin. She's

1175
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:41,160
Speaker 2: got a song called Universe. It's like that R and

1176
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 2: B sound, eclectic sound that salone, really kind of low

1177
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 2: key A little bit started, I see, but all right,

1178
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 2: we're gonna well it really goes back to tweet, but

1179
00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 2: that's another conversation. But it is a beautiful song. She's

1180
00:57:57,160 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 2: basically talking about being in love. This man is her universe,

1181
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 2: her everything. Her son said, I love when people paint

1182
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 2: a picture, and she's painting a picture in this song.

1183
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 1: It's a slow song, it's a vibe. I love it.

1184
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 2: Somebody sent me this. I don't know they're at name.

1185
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:14,439
Speaker 2: I don't have my phone on me right now. But yeah,

1186
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 2: my bop of the week is tweet th h u y.

1187
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 2: Sorry if I'm pronouncing it wrong. Her song Universe it's

1188
00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 2: about we approve period. So my bob of the week

1189
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 2: is nine times out of ten. It's a boy Gunner

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00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 2: featuring Toys who I don't know. I guess an artist

1191
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 2: is signed to.

1192
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:38,400
Speaker 1: Why it said. I'm not gonna lie. I haven't listened.

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00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: Gunna used to be my favorite rapper, but I really

1194
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:46,480
Speaker 1: like this song. I haven't listened to Gunner in a minute.

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00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 2: It came out August eighteen, so it just came out

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00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 2: after your birthday. I really liked this song came out already.

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00:58:55,560 --> 00:59:00,600
Speaker 1: Was it good? All right? All right? So about what

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00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 1: is it about? Nine times out of ten? I'm gonna

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00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:05,920
Speaker 1: fuck that nigga bitch. I mean, I don't know what

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00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:06,400
Speaker 1: it's about.

1201
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:10,560
Speaker 2: It's a vibe like it's good the fuck like it's

1202
00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 2: a good song. He just saying, we're gonna say on tracks,

1203
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 2: I don't know how much how deep I can go,

1204
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 2: and damn.

1205
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

1206
00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:20,080
Speaker 2: He was just saying, like nine times out of ten,

1207
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get that be in nine times. I like that.

1208
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:26,360
Speaker 2: But that's basically what the song is, not saying, like

1209
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 2: nine times out of ten, I'm gonna dude.

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00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 1: But I said, I'm like, I like that shut out

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00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 1: to one.

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00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 2: It's a good song, though, I do like it. I'll

1213
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 2: be riding in my card. Okay, so now we're gonna

1214
00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:42,200
Speaker 2: get into the pour your heart out segment of the week.

1215
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:45,880
Speaker 2: Make sure when you email us, you email us at

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00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:49,120
Speaker 2: ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. That's as k

1217
00:59:49,360 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 2: p oh you are, m I N d s at

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00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. Listen, I love y'all so much.

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00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 1: I do. I swear to God I do. But when

1220
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 1: y'all send y'all questions to our DMS.

1221
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:01,680
Speaker 2: I I'm not gonna read those. I'm not gonna lie

1222
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:04,880
Speaker 2: y'all starting to send them to our dms. And that's

1223
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,120
Speaker 2: you got to send them to the email. Basically, just send.

1224
01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:10,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, send them to the email.

1225
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:12,520
Speaker 2: And if you're a Patreon member, make sure you put

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01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 2: in the subject line that you are a Patreon member

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01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 2: because you can skip the line and come, you know forward.

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01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 1: Okay, what's up, y'all, it's your girl. XP any sugarl

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Speaker 1: dra and a cold.

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Speaker 2: Now y'all know we're gonna tell y'all every week about

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Speaker 2: Better Hell because we use it every week.

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01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:30,280
Speaker 1: Yes, I love it. I actually have a session tomorrow

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01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:31,640
Speaker 1: and you're just very excited about it.

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Speaker 2: Yes. So, if you've ever thought about getting therapy, you

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Speaker 2: have things going on in your life, you're struggling with depression,

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Speaker 2: post part of depression, any LGBTQ community issues, anything.

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Speaker 2: I know. I feel like with me, I was always

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Speaker 2: scared to do therapy because it's like you got to

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Speaker 2: go to an office, you gotta find a doctor that

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Speaker 2: you like. With Better Help, it takes all that stuff out.

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Speaker 2: You do it from the comfort of your own home.

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Speaker 2: You find your counselor, and if you don't like that,

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Speaker 1: Whatever you want to do. They make everything convenient for you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And for me, it was just always the stigma

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Speaker 2: that was attached to going to their right what I mean,

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Speaker 2: But I've realized like nothing has to be wrong for

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Speaker 2: you to go to a there.

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Speaker 1: So we actually have a patient review.

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Speaker 2: It says Julia has been a kind and caring counselor

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01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 2: for myself personally. She has really helped me feel listened

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Speaker 2: to without feeling judged and will help me to understand

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Speaker 2: my thoughts. I can only thank her for her time

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Speaker 2: and her health. This review was written by a better

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Speaker 2: help user after working with Julia Mendoza for two weeks

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Speaker 2: on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts,

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Speaker 2: and coping with life changes. Yes, so make sure y'all

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Speaker 2: go to better help dot com backslash poor Minds. That's

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Speaker 2: join over the over one million people. Cliff started their

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Speaker 2: therapy and you're gonna get ten percent off and also

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Speaker 2: financial aid is so.

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Speaker 1: And then we also said, uh, what do we call it?

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Speaker 1: We wanted the YEP, the yelp reviews about our advice because.

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Speaker 2: Timonial the testimonial is because somebody sent me a testimonial

1268
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 2: this morning to my DMS. She was like, this is

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01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 2: my second date with this guy and he flew me

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01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 2: out from She's going from Philly to la and he

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01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 2: flew her out.

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01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 1: She looked like she was at least in Comfort Plus

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01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:35,440
Speaker 1: because she had a little leg room. She sent me

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01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:36,320
Speaker 1: a picture.

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Speaker 2: Because let me tell, if Nigga fly you out, it

1276
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 2: needs to be Delta and it needs to be Comfort.

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Speaker 1: Plus a first class now, no other way. You know

1278
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:45,800
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

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01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:49,320
Speaker 2: So she was honestly, I've listened to poor minds, and

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Speaker 2: I don't feel bad asking for this and that.

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01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 1: I was like Bet, I said, girl, have a great time.

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01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:58,280
Speaker 1: I love to see it. Okay, so give you the

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01:02:58,360 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 1: first question, miss Dre.

1284
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 2: I love your show so much. I've literally gone back

1285
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 2: and binge watched every episode and I'm a Patreon period.

1286
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 2: My husband and I recently got married two months ago.

1287
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 2: We had been together five years before this. He told

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Speaker 2: me about a month ago that he met another woman

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01:03:15,120 --> 01:03:18,360
Speaker 2: and he ended up cheating woman. Right now, we are separated.

1290
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:20,360
Speaker 2: I asked him for a divorce and he is begging

1291
01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 2: for my forgiveness. He was acting called to me weeks

1292
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 2: before he told me the truth, which was odd considering

1293
01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 2: we just got married and most people would be smeeting

1294
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:32,160
Speaker 2: during the honeymoon phase. In the end, he came clean

1295
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:34,040
Speaker 2: and told me he met up with a woman twice

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01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 2: without my knowledge and in one of the encounters, he

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01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:39,479
Speaker 2: had sex because they were drunk. He portrayed the whole

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Speaker 2: story as if he was innocent and vulnerable and taking

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Speaker 2: advantage of which is bullshit to me. I've tried counseling

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01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 2: on what I should do, and they told me the

1301
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 2: whole situation is a bit odd, considering I never had

1302
01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 2: a feeling of him being a cheater. They recommended that

1303
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 2: I should probably walk away or spend more time separating

1304
01:03:57,440 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 2: for now and to think logically and not a mother.

1305
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:03,440
Speaker 2: He is been begging for my forgiveness, and he finally

1306
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 2: gave me her number. Should I even reach out. I

1307
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:08,960
Speaker 2: also just want to know her perspective and if her

1308
01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:12,240
Speaker 2: story will match his. My feelings have been all over

1309
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:14,640
Speaker 2: the place the last over the last month, and I'm

1310
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 2: trying to decide do I let go of this five

1311
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:20,720
Speaker 2: year relationship, slash marriage and walk away, or keep pursuing,

1312
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 2: or keep bless you, thank you, or keep pursuing more

1313
01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:27,200
Speaker 2: information and or try to work it out.

1314
01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 1: I will say this, when a man confesses to cheating,

1315
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 1: I feel likes another chance. No, I'm not saying that.

1316
01:04:40,080 --> 01:04:41,960
Speaker 2: No, I feel like when a man confesses to cheating,

1317
01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:45,360
Speaker 2: there's something that led him to confess that something was

1318
01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:49,720
Speaker 2: going on, like no, no, I feel like maybe the

1319
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 2: girl was like you've been playing me for too long

1320
01:04:51,880 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 2: and I'm about to tell her everything type shit.

1321
01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1322
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 1: I just don't. But the thing is, I think it

1323
01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 1: was something that like, besides, now I gotta.

1324
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 2: Tell her because she the side bitch about to act

1325
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:05,000
Speaker 2: out because a lot of girls don't know how to

1326
01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:05,720
Speaker 2: be side bitches.

1327
01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:08,160
Speaker 1: Let's be one hundred.

1328
01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 2: So I will say this if you can't get over it,

1329
01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 2: and even if he is being honest, let's say she

1330
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 2: wasn't threatening him and he just wanted to tell you

1331
01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:21,080
Speaker 2: because he loved you that much. If you cannot get

1332
01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:24,920
Speaker 2: over this and forgive him, you're never gonna be happy.

1333
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:28,120
Speaker 1: So either y'all need to go to counseling together to

1334
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 1: try to work through this.

1335
01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 2: But if you don't see yourself letting that shit go

1336
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 2: and moving on, because like I said, I always feel

1337
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 2: like ninety nine point nine nine nine percent of me

1338
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:37,480
Speaker 2: in cheat, So.

1339
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:39,400
Speaker 1: Nigga cheated on you.

1340
01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 2: If my nigga told me he cheated on me, I'll

1341
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 2: be like, damn you, pussy, why would you tell me?

1342
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:46,880
Speaker 1: Because I ain't tell you. Why is you tell it

1343
01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:52,400
Speaker 1: on yourself? Dummy? But why would you tell on yourself?

1344
01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 1: But I would say, that's what I'm saying. But he

1345
01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:58,439
Speaker 1: did tell you. Should you reach out to the girl?

1346
01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:01,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, because some bitches be lying.

1347
01:06:01,600 --> 01:06:03,520
Speaker 2: They try to make shit more than what it seems,

1348
01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:06,040
Speaker 2: and they want to see y'all unhappy and they want

1349
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 2: to see y'all break up. You don't know this girl,

1350
01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:09,680
Speaker 2: so I don't think you should reach out to her

1351
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:12,920
Speaker 2: because she's not gonna make you feel better. It's only

1352
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 2: gonna make the situation worse. So I feel like, y'all,

1353
01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:16,960
Speaker 2: I just feel like, when a nigga cheat on you,

1354
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 2: what is ever the point to talk to the other girl?

1355
01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 2: Yeah he cheated, Yeah, regardless of what it was, even

1356
01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:24,919
Speaker 2: if he told her about you. Whatever the case, maybe

1357
01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:29,280
Speaker 2: they still fugged. The fact remains that they fugged.

1358
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 1: She was probably sucking his dick.

1359
01:06:31,520 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 2: So I don't understand what there is to like try

1360
01:06:34,440 --> 01:06:38,640
Speaker 2: to get closer about. Like he cheated, they fugged, and that's.

1361
01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:39,880
Speaker 1: What it is. I feel like, if you want to

1362
01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:40,880
Speaker 1: forgive him, hear.

1363
01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:43,520
Speaker 2: About all technical details, because you said that you've been

1364
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 2: going to counseling. But maybe y'all should try counseling together.

1365
01:06:47,480 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 2: But I honestly, I hate to say this. Cheating is

1366
01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:51,640
Speaker 2: not a deal breaker for me.

1367
01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 1: It's not.

1368
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 2: But for him to be kind of distant from you

1369
01:06:58,280 --> 01:07:00,200
Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden he admitted it to you,

1370
01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 2: some sounds fishy in the water.

1371
01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:05,000
Speaker 1: Because I'm gonna tell you it might be there possy.

1372
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:09,160
Speaker 1: Next question, All right, I'll go.

1373
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 2: I was just gonna say that it sounds like something

1374
01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 2: on the something I ain't right on the side bitches.

1375
01:07:16,800 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 1: Then, because I'm gonna tell you married married niggas.

1376
01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 2: I hate to say this, but marry niggas love they

1377
01:07:23,440 --> 01:07:25,120
Speaker 2: side bitches, bro, they do.

1378
01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:28,400
Speaker 1: They love it there because it's like a release. I

1379
01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 1: hate to say that.

1380
01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:32,000
Speaker 2: But and not only married women too, because married women

1381
01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 2: be having side side pieces. So what I'm saying is

1382
01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 2: you need to really get into why he was being

1383
01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 2: so distant from you, because I feel like, if you

1384
01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 2: have a side bitch or you have a side nigga, cool,

1385
01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:45,920
Speaker 2: but don't treat your main different because they didn't do

1386
01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:49,320
Speaker 2: anything to you, you know what I'm saying, So go

1387
01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 2: to counseling.

1388
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 1: Girl, Neither forgive them or not. That's the best I

1389
01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:54,000
Speaker 1: can say. I will break up with that nigga. You

1390
01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:57,200
Speaker 1: will leave for jitty two months? Ein't damn you couldn't

1391
01:07:57,240 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 1: even wait two years? Oh that is kind of We

1392
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 1: just got married like two months ago, so you need to.

1393
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:08,080
Speaker 2: Missing that would make me feel like your heart was

1394
01:08:08,160 --> 01:08:10,800
Speaker 2: never really in the shit for real, Like, goddamn, nigga,

1395
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:12,200
Speaker 2: we just got married.

1396
01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:13,439
Speaker 1: That is true.

1397
01:08:13,640 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 2: It's the difference between cheating on your beach after y'all

1398
01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:18,600
Speaker 2: been together for ten twenty years and then cheating on

1399
01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:19,839
Speaker 2: your beach after two months.

1400
01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:22,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, like what the fun a chance?

1401
01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:26,000
Speaker 2: I would absolutely leave and because y'all haven't been married

1402
01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:27,719
Speaker 2: that long, I will get that shit in old goodbye

1403
01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:28,599
Speaker 2: and leave.

1404
01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:31,599
Speaker 1: Me the alone. You are. You are definitely the chunk

1405
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:34,880
Speaker 1: up the deuce because no, because I clearly wasted my time.

1406
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:38,759
Speaker 2: And sometimes I do feel like we've talked about this before, niggas. Always,

1407
01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:40,720
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that you're the good girl. I'm not

1408
01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:43,559
Speaker 2: saying that, but sometimes niggas be like, let me marry

1409
01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 2: her because it's the right thing to do, and then

1410
01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:48,360
Speaker 2: they don't be happy five years and he cheated after

1411
01:08:48,400 --> 01:08:50,160
Speaker 2: two months to marriage. She was probably cheating on you

1412
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:54,040
Speaker 2: the whole time. That's the time you found out question too.

1413
01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:57,120
Speaker 1: I'll read this one. I'll read questioned too. Its long.

1414
01:08:57,280 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 1: I'm reading because you all read three. The size matter

1415
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:03,320
Speaker 1: circumcised or uncircumcised.

1416
01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:08,360
Speaker 2: I hate uncircumcised dick. Why is it like this that

1417
01:09:08,600 --> 01:09:12,519
Speaker 2: targle deck. Okay, let me say this.

1418
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:17,800
Speaker 1: Let me not body shag. That's I'm not trying to eat,

1419
01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:18,200
Speaker 1: no plan.

1420
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:22,240
Speaker 2: And let me also say this, I'm not body shaming

1421
01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 2: because honestly, getting circum yes, it is because you're mutilating

1422
01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:30,919
Speaker 2: a child's body for people like to say the aesthetic

1423
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:35,320
Speaker 2: and the standards, but honestly, for cleanliness that.

1424
01:09:35,360 --> 01:09:38,680
Speaker 1: Would be stuff around. Now, I'm not gonna lie to you.

1425
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:42,240
Speaker 2: One of the first dicks I sucked was uncircumcised, so

1426
01:09:42,360 --> 01:09:45,840
Speaker 2: I just thought that's how they all work. And once

1427
01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:48,800
Speaker 2: I saw a circumcised penis, I was.

1428
01:09:48,840 --> 01:09:51,920
Speaker 1: Like, you're a liar. It is not supposed to be

1429
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:58,160
Speaker 1: this devastating sucking dick. Sucking an uncircumcised dick is literally

1430
01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 1: for me, it's meeding so much meat. You gotta go

1431
01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:04,439
Speaker 1: like this for the first five minutes.

1432
01:10:05,040 --> 01:10:07,719
Speaker 2: Then their their tip is very sensitive because you gotta

1433
01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:11,080
Speaker 2: realize their skin is over it nine of the time,

1434
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:13,439
Speaker 2: so that little and their.

1435
01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:16,720
Speaker 1: Dicks are so pink. Well he put he pulled that

1436
01:10:16,760 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 1: ship out and put some glasses on. I said, oh god,

1437
01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 1: oh no, what am I supposed to do? He pulled

1438
01:10:24,000 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 1: it out for some glasses on.

1439
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:27,799
Speaker 2: I put the glasses on because that dick was shining,

1440
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:29,400
Speaker 2: shining bright, like a diamon.

1441
01:10:29,720 --> 01:10:30,120
Speaker 1: Not young.

1442
01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:36,080
Speaker 2: That's why I was saying so like, honestly, size does

1443
01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:37,960
Speaker 2: matter as far as girth goes.

1444
01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:39,320
Speaker 1: I need that girth.

1445
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:44,960
Speaker 2: I said this, before girth shows your worth. Circumcised, I

1446
01:10:45,080 --> 01:10:49,559
Speaker 2: prefer circumcised penis. That uncircumcised penis. It got a little

1447
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 2: twained to it. Well, I can't remember because I'm not

1448
01:10:54,320 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 2: gonna lie. I only it was uncircumcised.

1449
01:10:56,880 --> 01:10:59,840
Speaker 1: One time. Did you suck as dick? No, no, no,

1450
01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 1: But the other time, so okay, I lie. But the

1451
01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:11,679
Speaker 1: second time I m hm mm hmmm. It ain't no twain,

1452
01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:13,840
Speaker 1: though it had he had, But we was young too,

1453
01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:15,599
Speaker 1: I was in high school. That was the first and last.

1454
01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:20,200
Speaker 1: The second time he did, no twain. Yeah, it just

1455
01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 1: be like I feel like a nigga.

1456
01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:25,639
Speaker 2: When they are uncircumcised, they pe they put the cover

1457
01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:27,679
Speaker 2: back on, so some of that pe be getting caught

1458
01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:31,120
Speaker 2: in them, and they get a little crusty, and they'd

1459
01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:33,640
Speaker 2: be like wiping and rubbing them crumbs and flicking them.

1460
01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:37,320
Speaker 1: You got peat crumbs in your bed, nigga.

1461
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:39,000
Speaker 2: The.

1462
01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:50,040
Speaker 1: Crumbs, you know, Niggas like to eating the beag. I

1463
01:11:50,200 --> 01:12:00,320
Speaker 1: hate this. Get a little crumbs in the beds like

1464
01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:02,519
Speaker 1: they're supposed to eat it. Now with that, he said, this,

1465
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:04,880
Speaker 1: SHO just be wondering why they wake up all scratched up. Bitch?

1466
01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:08,720
Speaker 1: Is them to READO crumbs? It's why? But it could

1467
01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:13,080
Speaker 1: be but it could be pea crumbs. Not what is

1468
01:12:13,160 --> 01:12:14,760
Speaker 1: the fuckingest pea crumbs be?

1469
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:17,599
Speaker 2: When you ever I told you niggas when they pee

1470
01:12:17,800 --> 01:12:21,160
Speaker 2: and they unsize, If you're.

1471
01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:23,719
Speaker 1: Right, it might have been little stone stone.

1472
01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:27,000
Speaker 2: He might what is what is they called god blest

1473
01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:30,960
Speaker 2: kidney stone and they roll them up? He probably got

1474
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:33,000
Speaker 2: a kidney stone that ain't no crumb.

1475
01:12:33,479 --> 01:12:42,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, girl, so he's away. We don't like it. Get circumcised, please, okay.

1476
01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:46,920
Speaker 1: Question three, I guess I'll read this one. It says, hey, Lexendrea,

1477
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:47,760
Speaker 1: I love the show.

1478
01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:49,760
Speaker 2: I'm nineteen years old and I met this guy through

1479
01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:52,080
Speaker 2: a mutual friend, and he is twenty six years old.

1480
01:12:52,479 --> 01:12:55,240
Speaker 2: Fors for his age, he is somewhat on the verge

1481
01:12:55,280 --> 01:12:58,320
Speaker 2: of becoming a bead be. None of my friend's family

1482
01:12:58,600 --> 01:13:00,760
Speaker 2: knows his true age because I don't feel like telling

1483
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:03,559
Speaker 2: them and them judging me. We've been talking for five

1484
01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:06,080
Speaker 2: to six months and I let him take my b card.

1485
01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:08,640
Speaker 2: We live about thirty minutes away from each other, and

1486
01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:11,080
Speaker 2: I still rarely see him, but when I do, he

1487
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:14,519
Speaker 2: always wants to do the nasty. I guess I get

1488
01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:15,839
Speaker 2: it with him being older.

1489
01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:20,640
Speaker 1: Nothing mesty, I missed the dasty time. I guess I

1490
01:13:20,760 --> 01:13:22,000
Speaker 1: get it with him being older.

1491
01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 2: But y'all, I want more from him, such as money,

1492
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:28,439
Speaker 2: But all he has ever got me such as money,

1493
01:13:29,200 --> 01:13:34,360
Speaker 2: but but all he has ever done, all has he?

1494
01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:37,200
Speaker 2: But all he has ever got me was a pair

1495
01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:40,160
Speaker 2: of shoes? Am I done for messing with him? How

1496
01:13:40,200 --> 01:13:42,040
Speaker 2: would I know if he's playing me and my end

1497
01:13:42,120 --> 01:13:44,719
Speaker 2: over my head for messing with this grown man? FYI,

1498
01:13:44,880 --> 01:13:46,360
Speaker 2: he doesn't know that I used to mess around with

1499
01:13:46,439 --> 01:13:48,439
Speaker 2: his cousin and I haven't told him either. Well, that's

1500
01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:50,600
Speaker 2: why he only got your pair of shoes. He You

1501
01:13:50,640 --> 01:13:52,320
Speaker 2: ain't never tell us what they was. They probably was,

1502
01:13:52,360 --> 01:13:54,880
Speaker 2: so Steve, Maddie, and honestly, let me tell you, twenty

1503
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:58,680
Speaker 2: six years old, that man is not twenty six years old.

1504
01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:00,760
Speaker 2: Is not a grown ass man. He's still growing. And

1505
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:03,120
Speaker 2: this is what y'all have to stop doing. Stop falling

1506
01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:05,840
Speaker 2: in love with the potential, and know a person for

1507
01:14:06,040 --> 01:14:06,840
Speaker 2: what they really are.

1508
01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:07,519
Speaker 1: First.

1509
01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:10,200
Speaker 2: Second of all, you're not done for messing with him.

1510
01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:12,679
Speaker 2: The age gap is really not that much. You're nineteen,

1511
01:14:12,720 --> 01:14:14,840
Speaker 2: he's twenty six. That's not a bad age gap. I'm

1512
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:15,320
Speaker 2: not gonna lie.

1513
01:14:15,360 --> 01:14:17,280
Speaker 1: I mean, it is a little bit of an age

1514
01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:21,439
Speaker 1: gap though, because she well, I mean say, yes it is.

1515
01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:23,559
Speaker 1: She just graduated from high school.

1516
01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:28,040
Speaker 2: She's not even legal. She's nineteen. Yeah, she's nineteen, twenty

1517
01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:30,680
Speaker 2: six a DL. So that means he's in he's I mean,

1518
01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:32,600
Speaker 2: they all look like babies to me. But now that

1519
01:14:32,720 --> 01:14:34,680
Speaker 2: you said you fucked his cousin, it sounded like his

1520
01:14:34,880 --> 01:14:37,640
Speaker 2: cousin told him that you had some good pussy.

1521
01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:39,040
Speaker 1: And he wanted to see what it was hitting for.

1522
01:14:39,920 --> 01:14:41,599
Speaker 1: That's what it sounded like to me. I'm not gonna lie.

1523
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:46,439
Speaker 1: He wanted to see what it was hitting for. So ooh,

1524
01:14:47,080 --> 01:14:47,920
Speaker 1: so you was wrong.

1525
01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:48,280
Speaker 2: No.

1526
01:14:50,240 --> 01:14:52,040
Speaker 1: Oh, so she didn't hit the cousin.

1527
01:14:52,439 --> 01:14:56,680
Speaker 2: She said, she talked to him. You're right because he

1528
01:14:56,720 --> 01:14:59,599
Speaker 2: took your v car y'ad. No, she said she messed

1529
01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:00,320
Speaker 2: around him.

1530
01:15:00,960 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 1: So maybe the head was good or something. He was like, man,

1531
01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:05,040
Speaker 1: this head five.

1532
01:15:05,160 --> 01:15:11,280
Speaker 2: I'm always advocate to get well. Maybe she gave the

1533
01:15:11,400 --> 01:15:14,599
Speaker 2: cousin head and so I don't advocate that either way

1534
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:16,880
Speaker 2: it goes. I'm not gonna try to guess what that meant,

1535
01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:22,200
Speaker 2: but I'll say this, make sure that you're happy whatever

1536
01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 2: you want from the situation. I always tell y'all this,

1537
01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:27,640
Speaker 2: why are you about to cry? I was trying to

1538
01:15:27,920 --> 01:15:31,280
Speaker 2: hold back my bitch. Damn, I can't ever try to

1539
01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:40,720
Speaker 2: play nothing off to hold back my birth bitch. You're

1540
01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:42,280
Speaker 2: done scare that bitch away now.

1541
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:48,080
Speaker 1: I was trying to scare me. I thought you was

1542
01:15:48,080 --> 01:15:50,679
Speaker 1: about fall out the jail to hold back of birth.

1543
01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:54,800
Speaker 1: Lad's to tell you, okay, I can't ever play ship

1544
01:15:54,840 --> 01:16:04,600
Speaker 1: off on this. Goddamn sure what the fu o?

1545
01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:05,639
Speaker 3: Brother?

1546
01:16:06,400 --> 01:16:12,959
Speaker 1: Let me get back to my advice. Okay, So anyways,

1547
01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:13,880
Speaker 1: I will say this.

1548
01:16:15,040 --> 01:16:17,840
Speaker 2: I hate when a lot of like our younger listeners y'all,

1549
01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:20,280
Speaker 2: are in a situation and y'all are so unhappy.

1550
01:16:20,680 --> 01:16:22,760
Speaker 1: The main thing is whether it's money.

1551
01:16:22,880 --> 01:16:27,160
Speaker 2: Dig time, dates, whatever it is, get from this man

1552
01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:28,720
Speaker 2: the things that you want.

1553
01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:31,200
Speaker 1: Don't be afraid to ask what you want. I'm not

1554
01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:33,759
Speaker 1: saying that y'all are young. A lot of our listeners

1555
01:16:33,760 --> 01:16:34,080
Speaker 1: are young.

1556
01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:35,920
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that every man gonna have to buy

1557
01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:39,960
Speaker 2: you a Chanelle bag, a y Sale bag some Louie Like.

1558
01:16:40,080 --> 01:16:44,120
Speaker 1: We're not saying that, but we're saying you should. That's

1559
01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:47,320
Speaker 1: what they caught about us because the Chanel's are Chanelli.

1560
01:16:49,439 --> 01:16:52,800
Speaker 2: But I will say I feel like if you're in

1561
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:55,240
Speaker 2: a situation, it should be beneficial for you, especially if

1562
01:16:55,320 --> 01:16:57,840
Speaker 2: y'all are in a situationship and y'all are just fucking.

1563
01:16:57,880 --> 01:17:01,200
Speaker 1: He's getting his nuts. Make sure you're getting what you

1564
01:17:01,320 --> 01:17:04,040
Speaker 1: want from the situation. Yeah, it's like, you don't see

1565
01:17:04,080 --> 01:17:07,200
Speaker 1: you happy with them shoes. That's the only she don't

1566
01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:14,840
Speaker 1: bro why she don't. She said all I got was

1567
01:17:15,200 --> 01:17:18,160
Speaker 1: a pair of shoes. She ain't happy with them.

1568
01:17:20,240 --> 01:17:22,800
Speaker 2: A situation when a niggam like, damn, I like the

1569
01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:24,479
Speaker 2: shoes that he got me, but that's all I got,

1570
01:17:24,600 --> 01:17:25,400
Speaker 2: But I want some more.

1571
01:17:25,479 --> 01:17:30,080
Speaker 1: So maybe that's what she meant either way, Yeah, get

1572
01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:30,519
Speaker 1: some more.

1573
01:17:30,640 --> 01:17:32,560
Speaker 2: Get what you want, because clearly you're not happy with

1574
01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:34,439
Speaker 2: them shoes because you wouldn't have never just broke it.

1575
01:17:35,560 --> 01:17:38,479
Speaker 1: Next question, you don't have to read this on the

1576
01:17:38,560 --> 01:17:45,000
Speaker 1: show girl? Why and Ryan missy is he read the

1577
01:17:45,160 --> 01:17:50,800
Speaker 1: first line and he still say you don't have to

1578
01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:51,800
Speaker 1: read this on the show.

1579
01:17:51,840 --> 01:17:54,200
Speaker 2: But I wanted to ask you, Drea, about your surgery.

1580
01:17:54,600 --> 01:17:57,040
Speaker 2: Your body looks amazing. Do you mind sharing where and

1581
01:17:57,160 --> 01:18:00,519
Speaker 2: who did your surgery? Also any other information our advice

1582
01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 2: concerning having surgery you can share.

1583
01:18:03,720 --> 01:18:07,960
Speaker 1: So when I was twenty three, I went to what

1584
01:18:08,160 --> 01:18:09,759
Speaker 1: was his name, Chunk?

1585
01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:12,000
Speaker 3: No Chang.

1586
01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:17,360
Speaker 2: We're gonna get canceled this whole episode. Why we've been

1587
01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:18,320
Speaker 2: racist this whole time.

1588
01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:21,799
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. Go ahead, no, but that's not racist.

1589
01:18:21,840 --> 01:18:26,160
Speaker 1: His name was doctor. We were like tweet or whatever.

1590
01:18:26,240 --> 01:18:29,599
Speaker 1: We're like, right, go ahead, go ahead.

1591
01:18:29,680 --> 01:18:33,400
Speaker 2: Doctor Chang in Houston did my breast and he did

1592
01:18:33,479 --> 01:18:37,519
Speaker 2: my life. Bo hmm okay, So yeah that's what I

1593
01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:41,600
Speaker 2: got done. And then like last year, I got like

1594
01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:42,920
Speaker 2: bo again.

1595
01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 1: Body five.

1596
01:18:45,640 --> 01:18:49,400
Speaker 2: But I don't want to recommend the doctor that I

1597
01:18:49,479 --> 01:18:53,040
Speaker 2: went to the last time, just because.

1598
01:18:54,520 --> 01:18:56,160
Speaker 1: I felt like it was very unprofessional.

1599
01:18:56,760 --> 01:18:59,519
Speaker 2: And I would never recommend somebody to go to somebody

1600
01:18:59,560 --> 01:19:02,080
Speaker 2: that's unper I said doctor Chang's name because I was

1601
01:19:02,600 --> 01:19:07,160
Speaker 2: obviously I'm very still happy with my rec augmentation. I

1602
01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:09,639
Speaker 2: do want to get my boobs free done, just because

1603
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:13,320
Speaker 2: it's been a while, because like I said, with twenty fifteen,

1604
01:19:13,560 --> 01:19:15,280
Speaker 2: y'all say twenty thirteen, it was at the end of

1605
01:19:15,360 --> 01:19:18,920
Speaker 2: twenty fifth because yeah, yeah, so.

1606
01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:22,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's been like almost seven years at this point,

1607
01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:23,519
Speaker 1: so I'm ready.

1608
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:26,280
Speaker 2: To like get another boob job. But I went to

1609
01:19:26,360 --> 01:19:28,599
Speaker 2: doctor Change in Houston. He was very professional. I feel

1610
01:19:28,720 --> 01:19:31,800
Speaker 2: very comfortable with the whole situation, and I love him,

1611
01:19:31,880 --> 01:19:34,040
Speaker 2: like I would recommend him to anybody, especially if you

1612
01:19:34,120 --> 01:19:36,720
Speaker 2: live in the Houston area. The doctor that I went

1613
01:19:36,800 --> 01:19:40,040
Speaker 2: to last year, when I got like like, oh, I

1614
01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:43,000
Speaker 2: don't know if I would recommend him to anybody just because.

1615
01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:45,840
Speaker 1: But I think people need to understand as well.

1616
01:19:46,520 --> 01:19:49,559
Speaker 2: I hate when people look at somebody's body and they're like, oh,

1617
01:19:49,640 --> 01:19:51,960
Speaker 2: I want to go to her doctor. Y'all have to understand,

1618
01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:55,120
Speaker 2: Drea is fine as fuck, been fine, so a doctor

1619
01:19:55,240 --> 01:19:56,559
Speaker 2: could not mess up her body.

1620
01:19:56,920 --> 01:19:58,920
Speaker 1: So whenever y'all do y'all's research on a doctor.

1621
01:19:59,000 --> 01:20:01,080
Speaker 2: You can't look at a fine and be like, oh,

1622
01:20:01,160 --> 01:20:03,000
Speaker 2: I want to go to her because he made her fine.

1623
01:20:03,520 --> 01:20:05,679
Speaker 2: DRAM's waste was already small.

1624
01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:06,919
Speaker 1: Well yeah, and I'll.

1625
01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:09,080
Speaker 2: Say this too because I think this is also something

1626
01:20:09,120 --> 01:20:11,960
Speaker 2: that goes and into when you get surgery.

1627
01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:14,800
Speaker 1: I've said this before on the show.

1628
01:20:15,360 --> 01:20:19,920
Speaker 2: I have always, literally, like since I was in high school,

1629
01:20:20,200 --> 01:20:22,200
Speaker 2: had like a small waist and a big butt, and

1630
01:20:22,320 --> 01:20:25,400
Speaker 2: I've always had hips, like I've naturally always kind of

1631
01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:27,800
Speaker 2: had like a kind of hour glass shape. So I

1632
01:20:27,880 --> 01:20:30,799
Speaker 2: feel like work that I have had done just enhanced

1633
01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:33,639
Speaker 2: what I already had. Like Leck said, you can't really

1634
01:20:33,760 --> 01:20:35,479
Speaker 2: go to a doctor if.

1635
01:20:35,320 --> 01:20:36,960
Speaker 1: You have literally you could have went to me and

1636
01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:38,559
Speaker 1: you would have been snatched, right.

1637
01:20:38,960 --> 01:20:42,880
Speaker 2: I mean honestly, And if people who knew me in

1638
01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:45,240
Speaker 2: high school, people who knew me in college will tell you, like,

1639
01:20:45,560 --> 01:20:48,200
Speaker 2: prior to me getting any work done, my TDS whatever,

1640
01:20:48,280 --> 01:20:50,240
Speaker 2: I always still had like a big bud in a

1641
01:20:50,280 --> 01:20:54,320
Speaker 2: little waist and hips, So I think that definitely plays

1642
01:20:54,360 --> 01:20:56,439
Speaker 2: a role in it. But like I said, I would

1643
01:20:56,439 --> 01:21:00,320
Speaker 2: recommend people to doctor change in Houston. It's cool for

1644
01:21:00,439 --> 01:21:03,120
Speaker 2: boobs and lio. If you're going to stay in the States,

1645
01:21:03,720 --> 01:21:06,760
Speaker 2: it's called Timeless Plastic Surgery. Is the place is the

1646
01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:09,280
Speaker 2: name of the places in sugar Land in Houston. And

1647
01:21:11,280 --> 01:21:13,800
Speaker 2: the second person that I got like from last year

1648
01:21:13,840 --> 01:21:15,880
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty, like I said, I'm not I have

1649
01:21:16,040 --> 01:21:18,680
Speaker 2: great results, like my body looks higher, but I'm not

1650
01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:21,240
Speaker 2: going to recommend him just because I feel like the

1651
01:21:21,360 --> 01:21:25,040
Speaker 2: process as a whole made me very uneasy. And I

1652
01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:27,560
Speaker 2: remember like, yeah, because I was supposed to go to

1653
01:21:27,680 --> 01:21:29,880
Speaker 2: him and he was like, lex no, and damn I

1654
01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:31,600
Speaker 2: have to do other stuff.

1655
01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:34,200
Speaker 1: Right, but yeah, so yeah, I just feel like, do

1656
01:21:34,320 --> 01:21:38,040
Speaker 1: your research on your doctor. And the body is body, YadA, YadA, YadA,

1657
01:21:38,120 --> 01:21:38,719
Speaker 1: YadA YadA.

1658
01:21:39,240 --> 01:21:40,800
Speaker 2: But I feel like, yeah, just do your research on

1659
01:21:40,880 --> 01:21:43,320
Speaker 2: your doctor, make sure that you go to somebody that

1660
01:21:43,400 --> 01:21:47,439
Speaker 2: you trust, and make sure that you do your postop care.

1661
01:21:47,800 --> 01:21:49,840
Speaker 2: To me, that's the most important thing when you get

1662
01:21:50,040 --> 01:21:53,200
Speaker 2: surgery done. That's that's the determining factor of how your

1663
01:21:53,240 --> 01:21:58,479
Speaker 2: results are going to be. Do you wearing are you

1664
01:21:58,560 --> 01:22:00,840
Speaker 2: wearing your FI high? Are you going to get your

1665
01:22:01,400 --> 01:22:04,240
Speaker 2: lymphatic massages? Even when you come back, like even if

1666
01:22:04,240 --> 01:22:05,840
Speaker 2: you are out the country or whatever, when you come

1667
01:22:05,920 --> 01:22:07,960
Speaker 2: back to your city, you still have to find somebody

1668
01:22:08,000 --> 01:22:10,479
Speaker 2: to do lymphatic massages for at least another two months.

1669
01:22:10,720 --> 01:22:12,479
Speaker 2: So you have to get your massages. You gotta wear

1670
01:22:12,520 --> 01:22:15,800
Speaker 2: you'all fi ho for at least six months. Excuse me.

1671
01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:19,280
Speaker 2: You also need to monitor what you eat, and you

1672
01:22:19,400 --> 01:22:21,759
Speaker 2: need to not drink as much. When I first got surgery,

1673
01:22:21,960 --> 01:22:24,559
Speaker 2: I didn't not drink at all, like the first month

1674
01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:27,960
Speaker 2: and a half. I only would drink on the days

1675
01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:30,320
Speaker 2: that me and Lex will record, so once a week.

1676
01:22:32,400 --> 01:22:34,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I'm just saying because and if

1677
01:22:34,840 --> 01:22:37,400
Speaker 2: I didn't have to record and drink a little bit,

1678
01:22:37,880 --> 01:22:40,439
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have been as like.

1679
01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:43,040
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even probably been drinking at all. Yeah, I mean,

1680
01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:46,840
Speaker 1: the results are amazing. You look good, so love it.

1681
01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:52,160
Speaker 1: There you go, because y'all be wanting to maybe y'all

1682
01:22:52,240 --> 01:22:55,680
Speaker 1: swear I'll be knowing something, don't be knowing nothing, all right,

1683
01:22:55,800 --> 01:22:58,960
Speaker 1: So there you go. Let me get into this little

1684
01:22:59,080 --> 01:23:01,840
Speaker 1: song real quick. What is the song? Bich I ain't

1685
01:23:01,840 --> 01:23:02,519
Speaker 1: even think about it.

1686
01:23:03,680 --> 01:23:05,519
Speaker 2: Oh, and can I say these real quick too, because

1687
01:23:05,520 --> 01:23:11,200
Speaker 2: I had somebody message me before about facial plastic surgery. Literally,

1688
01:23:11,360 --> 01:23:14,160
Speaker 2: you have never done anything to my face other than

1689
01:23:14,200 --> 01:23:15,040
Speaker 2: getting live feelers.

1690
01:23:17,000 --> 01:23:19,040
Speaker 1: I mean you've said I feel like this, but I

1691
01:23:19,520 --> 01:23:21,320
Speaker 1: like you could vouch for that too, because.

1692
01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:25,120
Speaker 2: People are so weird and I don't understand why people

1693
01:23:25,120 --> 01:23:27,240
Speaker 2: be trying to say but I've done something to my

1694
01:23:27,360 --> 01:23:28,720
Speaker 2: face or my nose, Like my.

1695
01:23:28,840 --> 01:23:31,240
Speaker 1: Nose is literally the nose I've had for thirty years.

1696
01:23:31,280 --> 01:23:35,160
Speaker 2: I'll say this, I have stopped looking at the negative

1697
01:23:35,240 --> 01:23:37,960
Speaker 2: comments and the negative a DM, That's what I'm saying.

1698
01:23:38,040 --> 01:23:40,439
Speaker 1: They do that to me too, But I feel like this.

1699
01:23:40,760 --> 01:23:42,919
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, we're beautiful.

1700
01:23:50,760 --> 01:23:53,960
Speaker 2: I mean me along message the other day because they

1701
01:23:54,000 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 2: were saying that I was being condescending because I still

1702
01:23:57,000 --> 01:23:57,639
Speaker 2: use filters.

1703
01:23:58,880 --> 01:24:00,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, they were saying I was being rude and that

1704
01:24:00,840 --> 01:24:02,599
Speaker 1: it was fucked up. Let me say this. The reason

1705
01:24:02,640 --> 01:24:04,719
Speaker 1: I was saying that it's not about us as women

1706
01:24:04,920 --> 01:24:05,200
Speaker 1: or men.

1707
01:24:05,640 --> 01:24:08,600
Speaker 2: It's about these companies that are putting these filter us

1708
01:24:08,640 --> 01:24:11,040
Speaker 2: out that make our noses smaller and our lips bigger

1709
01:24:11,120 --> 01:24:14,160
Speaker 2: and our skin smoother. It wasn't about us. Yes, I

1710
01:24:14,240 --> 01:24:16,759
Speaker 2: still use filters every now and then, but nine times

1711
01:24:16,800 --> 01:24:18,639
Speaker 2: out of your most part, I don't use a filter.

1712
01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:23,040
Speaker 2: That wasn't to anybody. All I'm saying is, if you

1713
01:24:23,080 --> 01:24:26,280
Speaker 2: want to get little things tweets. That's fine, but I

1714
01:24:26,360 --> 01:24:29,120
Speaker 2: was talking about the filters how drastically they change our

1715
01:24:29,160 --> 01:24:32,400
Speaker 2: faces and people also they just they just say South.

1716
01:24:32,479 --> 01:24:34,840
Speaker 1: But then also we have plenty of content on the

1717
01:24:34,960 --> 01:24:35,840
Speaker 1: internet with.

1718
01:24:36,280 --> 01:24:39,560
Speaker 2: No natural hair and our natural hair natural hair that

1719
01:24:39,680 --> 01:24:42,120
Speaker 2: we literally have about four episodes where we have both

1720
01:24:42,160 --> 01:24:44,479
Speaker 2: on our natural hair in and a makeup And this

1721
01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:47,520
Speaker 2: was before you got your lips done and before the botars.

1722
01:24:47,680 --> 01:24:50,240
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Really, be sort of like yous

1723
01:24:50,400 --> 01:24:53,439
Speaker 1: be mad. That's what he's giving. It's giving mad. It's

1724
01:24:53,520 --> 01:24:58,920
Speaker 1: giving mad because the boys love it. It's bringing all

1725
01:24:59,080 --> 01:25:00,960
Speaker 1: going to the y'all and I can teach you, but

1726
01:25:01,040 --> 01:25:05,719
Speaker 1: I have to charge so I can get into this song.

1727
01:25:05,880 --> 01:25:08,120
Speaker 2: So the reason I wanted to sing this song today

1728
01:25:08,200 --> 01:25:11,560
Speaker 2: is because we just simply forgot to sing it. And

1729
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:13,960
Speaker 2: this is a very important song to me because it

1730
01:25:14,040 --> 01:25:16,040
Speaker 2: taught me about love.

1731
01:25:16,720 --> 01:25:19,040
Speaker 1: I already know, bitch. Let me look at the lyrics

1732
01:25:19,240 --> 01:25:20,479
Speaker 1: because I already see what it is.

1733
01:25:20,920 --> 01:25:22,680
Speaker 2: So I wanted to say this because we didn't sing

1734
01:25:22,760 --> 01:25:24,240
Speaker 2: this when he was here, and I couldn't believe I

1735
01:25:24,280 --> 01:25:24,720
Speaker 2: forgot it.

1736
01:25:25,920 --> 01:25:28,240
Speaker 1: Our friend, the friend of the show.

1737
01:25:28,200 --> 01:25:28,439
Speaker 2: R L.

1738
01:25:29,120 --> 01:25:30,960
Speaker 1: Let me say this is that was one of my

1739
01:25:31,120 --> 01:25:34,120
Speaker 1: favorite episodes. By the way. Oh yeah, I love Aril

1740
01:25:34,360 --> 01:25:37,560
Speaker 1: like all right, that's for life. He I was on

1741
01:25:37,760 --> 01:25:40,400
Speaker 1: Live last week and he commented under the Live I

1742
01:25:40,520 --> 01:25:45,280
Speaker 1: love him. I know that's right. I love Aril.

1743
01:25:45,880 --> 01:25:47,040
Speaker 3: I love like.

1744
01:25:48,520 --> 01:25:50,320
Speaker 2: You don't mean a lot of real niggas, that's like

1745
01:25:50,400 --> 01:25:52,360
Speaker 2: in the industry, and he's one of the.

1746
01:25:52,360 --> 01:25:55,519
Speaker 1: Few like niggas. That's like, he's very nice. So let

1747
01:25:55,560 --> 01:25:59,839
Speaker 1: me get to a song to just that lie.

1748
01:26:01,600 --> 01:26:02,600
Speaker 2: We never.

1749
01:26:05,640 --> 01:26:15,320
Speaker 1: How wait so time and naxt so? How damn we

1750
01:26:18,320 --> 01:26:27,120
Speaker 1: my shaky hands? I'm just months go? How was he

1751
01:26:29,439 --> 01:26:41,080
Speaker 1: watch a mad go? He wait ver believe we agreed

1752
01:26:41,360 --> 01:26:46,680
Speaker 1: it was over and we were through. I'm trying to

1753
01:26:47,360 --> 01:26:53,400
Speaker 1: compose myself, but I just can't get over you because

1754
01:26:54,000 --> 01:26:58,320
Speaker 1: we can't be free.

1755
01:27:00,200 --> 01:27:02,160
Speaker 2: No oh no, we.

1756
01:27:04,240 --> 01:27:14,720
Speaker 3: Can bugging a bean jy o. We can's be forriend.

1757
01:27:15,400 --> 01:27:28,280
Speaker 1: Because I'm still in love with you. I went by

1758
01:27:28,840 --> 01:27:39,320
Speaker 1: my chill so your car to your family, and it

1759
01:27:39,520 --> 01:27:52,160
Speaker 1: don't seems every to just go along. I've tried, and

1760
01:27:52,439 --> 01:28:00,639
Speaker 1: I can do it because I'm still talk I try

1761
01:28:00,840 --> 01:28:06,840
Speaker 1: to tell me go you it's just another another lord

1762
01:28:07,960 --> 01:28:13,120
Speaker 1: my pants that did it did, But it's not that's

1763
01:28:15,479 --> 01:28:29,240
Speaker 1: we be for No, no, no, we can't be. If

1764
01:28:29,280 --> 01:28:38,439
Speaker 1: we can't be love us, we can't befriend. There's some

1765
01:28:38,720 --> 01:28:39,960
Speaker 1: silly love.

1766
01:28:41,200 --> 01:28:41,560
Speaker 3: Will you?

1767
01:28:48,280 --> 01:28:52,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was so That was beautiful, so good.

1768
01:28:52,360 --> 01:28:56,720
Speaker 1: That was fucking beautiful. That was beautiful.

1769
01:28:57,800 --> 01:29:03,479
Speaker 2: Wow, look at the fucking material. You can hit them, miss,

1770
01:29:03,760 --> 01:29:05,439
Speaker 2: I could do a lot of things you don't know about.

1771
01:29:05,840 --> 01:29:07,920
Speaker 2: You did that hidden talent.

1772
01:29:08,800 --> 01:29:11,400
Speaker 1: Thank y'all so much for tun You played me that

1773
01:29:11,560 --> 01:29:16,400
Speaker 1: week and I told her I thought that I was

1774
01:29:16,439 --> 01:29:20,559
Speaker 1: coming back, turning up the man, hold it up, turning

1775
01:29:20,680 --> 01:29:24,679
Speaker 1: up once my first what's y'all? Next week? By y'all

1776
01:29:28,040 --> 01:29:31,559
Speaker 1: told you? You told you I'll be back. I told

1777
01:29:31,640 --> 01:29:34,120
Speaker 1: you I was coming back for you, as I know,

1778
01:29:34,800 --> 01:29:41,000
Speaker 1: mother fucking ass. I was time, it was given what

1779
01:29:41,120 --> 01:29:42,840
Speaker 1: it needed to give back.