WEBVTT - 2 Chainz Interview & More 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:05.279 It was time time time to wake up. Taking fancileg 0:00:05.680 --> 0:00:08.720 and Charlotte Mean the Doctor to practice Club Bitches the 0:00:08.880 --> 0:00:11.520 voice of the culture. People watch The Breakfast Club for 0:00:11.960 --> 0:00:14.360 like news to really be tuned in. It's one of 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:17.080 my favorite shows to do, just because y'all always keep 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:19.200 you one hunting, y'all keep you really. They might not 0:00:19.239 --> 0:00:21.480 watch the news, but they're on Twitter, they're on Facebook, 0:00:21.760 --> 0:00:23.639 they're you know, they're listening to the break of the 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:28.840 Brother get your ass a, wake up, wake up, wake y'all. 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:31.720 This is your time to get it off your chest. 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:35.239 Whether you're mad or black, we want to hear from 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:39.120 you on the Breakfast Clove. Hello. Who's this this? Missus 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:41.360 sparkt Up. I go by the name of Jay Maine. 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:43.559 Is it okay whatever? Get it off your chess, bro 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:47.600 Oh yeah, I just like to, uh, let's know that 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:51.519 at the fifteen Long month, your boys finally got his 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:57.040 life was clear. Yes, their noble dirty driving okay, no regulations, King, 0:00:57.600 --> 0:01:00.360 yes sir, Thank y'all, Thank y'all. Every month. Right, we'll 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:02.480 be safe out there. Don't lose it again. Brother. Hey, 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:05.760 one more thing though, Hey, uh, y'alla call our d 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:08.480 gohead and say my number. So when I called this time, 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:12.600 y'all already we don't got no damn call our d D. 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:15.800 But we're not. We're not storing this number number because 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:18.400 I can win. You gotta ask you. I got something 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:21.440 on the ask your numbers, the nine O four number, right, 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:23.600 you're yeah, we're not storing that though, but have a 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:32.440 good one, no, brother dualla from Hello? Who's this Sapers Man? 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:34.560 What's up? Broke? Get it off your chest? And man, 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:37.240 I'm just black, you know, woke up this morning, got 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:40.600 a little work out man at work? No blesh a 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:44.800 dog relations bro. Bro that's it man, that's how you 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:49.040 feel out good? Yeah? Yeah, I let me gonna follow 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:52.720 me on Instagram at case the man or not? Okay? Brother? Hello, 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:56.920 who's this Romeo? Romeo? What's up? Making off your chest? 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:00.720 What's up? How you doing? First? First? Because lunch this morning, 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:05.720 I'm having my first timegulations. Thank you, thank you, but 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:08.320 your soul in the guard? Man, I love you. Ain't 0:02:08.360 --> 0:02:11.359 enough wrong with a black brother? You love you? Say 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:15.360 I'm mad at you. I'm mad at you because I 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:18.400 can't believe you. You're surprised that on every lights can 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:21.760 Lucy so can't change them Talus Man, Well, I don't 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:24.880 want to stereotype people, but either to take to take 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:26.720 some tire, you like how you can't take some time, 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:28.560 or you gotta be taught like my father had to 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:30.160 teach me. I mean I know how to I mean, 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:31.760 I know the concept for changing the tie. I just 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:36.240 haven't changed concept. It's a very easy thing, Jersey concept. 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:37.560 But I just don't. I'm not gonna sit and say 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:40.960 it's easy, you know, rather to do it? Were you 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:45.160 from brother from Brooklyn? How many how many uh fixing 0:02:45.200 --> 0:02:47.560 flat places? About you? It's a whole lot every day 0:02:47.560 --> 0:02:48.960 you go. That's why I got to change the tie. 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:50.600 That's what I pay them to do. Thank you, though, brother, 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:54.200 you might not have the money. People are in struggling, 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:57.760 you know even does it. Some people don't even have 0:02:57.800 --> 0:03:03.000 actually tire in their time. Now that's expensive around with 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:07.480 extra tire. Hello, who's this? Hey? What's up this? John? 0:03:07.560 --> 0:03:09.760 Y'all were doing today? John? What's up? Get up your chests? 0:03:09.840 --> 0:03:12.080 I just wanted to spray some positivity. Man, tell you 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:15.640 guys you're doing a great job over as usual. Charlotte Man, 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:17.400 we had to compromise last week. I just want to 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:19.520 make sure you stand true to yo yo yo, yo yo, 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:22.160 regardless of what time you show up. Right, Yes, sir, 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:25.480 he missed it this morning. I didn't do it today. Yeah, yeah, 0:03:25.720 --> 0:03:27.720 I didn't. I missed you this morning because I was 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:30.000 kind of late tuning in. And so, man know whether 0:03:30.040 --> 0:03:32.639 you do or not. So, But also, I'm heading to 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:35.400 vacation in two days. I'm on vacation for the next 0:03:35.440 --> 0:03:37.360 five days, headed to Miami for the first time. So 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:40.560 I'm happy about that. You're about to wild out. I'm 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:42.680 I'm gonna I'm gonna have a little fun. There you go, 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:46.120 laughing a little fun, Black Man, don't cheat, that's right. 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:48.400 I didn't, And I hold on wilding. That doesn't mean cheating, 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:52.040 I know. So I'm just okay to do with anything 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:54.280 you're just telling y'all. I'm just making some clear I'm 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:56.600 just getting clearly in the situation. That's all. You guys. 0:03:56.640 --> 0:04:00.560 Have a great morning, now, bro Lorenzo. Yeah, what's going on? 0:04:00.680 --> 0:04:04.360 I's going on? What's up? Broke? Get off your chests? Hey, listen, 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:08.320 Charlotte Maine Day, I'm right here, sir. Yeah, what's going on? Charlotte. 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:12.080 I'm blessed Black and Holly favored what's happening? Yes, sir, yus, sir, 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:15.200 good morning eats too. But I want to know what's 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:18.440 going on, um within the past few years, like ten years, 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:22.400 why everybody's so got so damn like like sensitive over everything. Man, 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:25.039 you can't you can't say nothing online. You gotta watch 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:29.159 you say. I'll be feeling like sometimes you ever heard 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:30.880 of that, like like you be seeing in movies, like 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:32.680 when people put in movies like that cry off sleep. 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:35.640 I just feel like doing something like that for like 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:37.279 ten years or come back and be like, yeah, what's 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:39.880 going on? Oh, everybody's so fake politically correct. You can 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:41.200 say whatever you want, you know what I'm saying. You 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:43.200 just gotta deal with the consequences of what you said, 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:45.080 you know. And I think that everybody's so afraid of 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:48.120 like these social media mobs and being attacked that they'd 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:50.359 be walking tight ropes and walking on walking on thin 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:51.840 nits because they don't want to be be attacked by the 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:54.960 mob players everything. But there's so much access now too. 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:58.120 Before social media, we weren't hearing what everyone had to 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:01.039 say about everything. Now every he's voicing their opinions, and 0:05:01.080 --> 0:05:04.240 sometimes they're saying things that maybe they regret saying or 0:05:04.279 --> 0:05:06.039 maybe they're not saying it in the right way, and 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:09.040 sometimes they're putting it out there. They get over analyzed 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:13.239 by people. They only regret when they get attacked. That's 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:14.719 that's cool, that's cool. But you know what I'm saying. 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:17.200 It's like, let's say it's Charlomagne. He don't have to 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:19.479 post his kids, but he posted his kids and hate 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:22.080 thought something with his kids. You know right away, Oh 0:05:22.120 --> 0:05:24.200 my god, there he shouldn't been throwing this, listen, this 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:28.440 and that, like come on yoa business like yeah, I 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:31.719 agree with you. Everybody's so sense if everybody's so soft nowadays. 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:34.279 But it's just the way society say whatever you want. 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:36.400 Who gives the damn? Let the mob attack. Get it 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:38.680 off your chests. Eight, don't dreat five eight five one 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:40.160 oh five one. If you need to vent, you can 0:05:40.240 --> 0:05:48.680 hit us up at any time the breakfast club. It 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:50.600 is your time to get it off your chests, whether 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:53.200 you're man or blast. So people better have the same industry. 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:55.840 We want to hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello, 0:05:55.960 --> 0:05:59.920 who's this is to terray from Detroit? What I've done? 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:03.480 Don't you gonna make it fun of her accent child 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:07.880 speaking of accents, antybody making fun of Detroit. Speaking of accents, 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:10.200 tell me why I just moved here from New York. 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:14.359 I'm gass as hell, crop tops, couchie cut is everything, 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:17.279 join me, live my good life. But I live amongst 0:06:17.320 --> 0:06:20.719 all these Caribbeans and flat Bush. So you know they're 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:23.760 staring me down, looking like they're gonna try to kill me. 0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:26.760 And I have to give them Detroit attitude because I 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:29.880 already know y'all can't do no hate crimes here because 0:06:30.000 --> 0:06:33.440 they don't revoke your immigration car honey, and God only 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:35.680 knows what you did in a Jamaica. So you can 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:38.720 get here, but just keep staring while I keep walking. 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:42.280 You tell them Terray, and you know I'm from flat Bush, honey. 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:45.080 Let me tell your people. Young people just getting on 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:48.359 my nerves and they always here. They're looking at me 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:52.559 all crazy eas and I can't take it, Honey. I'm wushing. 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:54.720 Then me gonna put the word out there. They got 0:06:54.720 --> 0:06:56.839 to leave you alone and show you some respect, or 0:06:56.880 --> 0:07:00.240 at the very least follow my Instagram at Jay Terrey Toray. 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:01.720 You know what's your fault, right to Ray. You got 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:04.680 your buns out, you got your stomach out. You look 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:08.640 at all sexy. So that's the reason they're looking at you. 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:11.120 And they are because all the trade is looking at me. 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:16.240 And I had a few little trade pieces or whatever. Okay, trash, 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:20.280 I know, was very disappointment, very disappointment. The penis is trash. 0:07:20.280 --> 0:07:22.400 And then you can do right to Ray, that's nothing 0:07:22.440 --> 0:07:25.240 I can do. I'm gonna go to the bronte. Alright, 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:28.520 buy down to Ray. If you get pregnant, you call 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:30.520 us up immediately. All right, we need you up here. 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:34.040 I'm sure Wheel had answer. All right, trade to Ray 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:45.960 Jay Ray d forget Hello. Who's this? Hello? Hello? Response, 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:49.160 that's a very original name. I've never heard that before. 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:53.560 What are you calling from? I'm going from Angola, Africa? Africa? 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:57.720 All right, Africa? Wow, all right, the motherland. What's happening? 0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:02.400 Get it up your chest in morning? Good morning, be 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:06.040 the anty, good morning, flement of God. What's up? King? 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:11.600 Good morning? Very long business called. I might spend it here. 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:14.440 I had a dollar customent this call. I just want 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:17.000 to I just want to say that this this show 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:19.640 is amazing. Um, you guys are doing an incredible job. 0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:22.880 And I let every day in my Apple podcast and 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:25.240 I don't even know if the program was live. I 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:29.480 just called okay some POSITIVT Yeah, you guys doing and 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:32.679 keep inspiring us all. What time is it in Africa 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:35.360 right now? And a goal? What time is It's eleven 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:42.200 eleven sixteen? Okay PM, am am okay, all right, good 0:08:42.200 --> 0:08:46.000 to talk to you, brother. Hello? Who's this? Are we comedians? Say? 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:48.600 Give you a features? I just want to thank God 0:08:48.679 --> 0:08:53.480 for this day's right, you know, I know. Look, I'm 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:55.679 thank God for this day, for this job. I'm so 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:58.280 blessed on how they favored that my own business. Not 0:08:58.400 --> 0:09:02.000 just folly to thank God. Shanahan, You're not just blessed 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:06.080 in Holly Favorite, You're blessed black and Holly Favorite. You absolutely, 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:08.480 But I ambles like a Holly Favorite, and I just 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:12.800 want to thank God for it. Hello. Who's this? Hey man? 0:09:12.800 --> 0:09:14.760 What's up? This is a reckless CV. How y'all doing? 0:09:14.840 --> 0:09:17.000 What's up? Reckless TV? Get you off? At chessing. I 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:20.000 wanted to speak about college. I did trade school. I 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:24.120 did two years for ah v ACC and electricity, and 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:26.960 I can work anywhere in the United States. I'm twenty 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:30.320 three years old, and nobody's doing trade no more. Everybody's 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:33.040 trying to be doctors and lawyers, so right now, trade 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:35.360 school is the best thing you can do. I agree. 0:09:36.320 --> 0:09:40.400 After I graduated, my teacher came to me and said 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:42.400 I should go for another four years and I'd be 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:44.920 guaranteed to make six figures and I can go anywhere 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:48.760 in the United States. So trade school is POPUA right now, 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:51.520 because ain't nobody really doing it and everybody needs help 0:09:51.600 --> 0:09:55.600 with HVAC and kenders. Yeah. Man, I met this guy 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:57.000 the other day, I think when I was in DC. 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:58.520 Man he ran upon me and he was like, man, 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:00.800 thank you for always talking about trade age school because 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:03.760 I went to trade school and I've been gainfully employed 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:06.520 for forty plus year. Yeah, I forgot what he said. 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:10.839 He did. Hello, who's this? What's up every e from Ashville, 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:13.960 North Carolina? Again? Looks up bro? You started your business 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:16.320 this weekend? Man, I started me up my business this 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:21.559 weekend as hot as a hot dog cart called Bunnett LLLC. 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:25.440 I like that. That's dope. Congratulations, sir. You should have 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:27.400 came out to the seminar, man, you'd have had over 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:30.240 a thousand people wanting to my dogs. Brother. Oh yeah, man, 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:31.840 that's what I'm waiting on. Man, I gotta get you 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:35.199 this money, man any man. I want to thank y'all 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:38.600 man you Charlemagne Andrew yeh man, how you be a 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:40.680 family guy? Man? I really love that man, and there's 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:42.760 a lot of family men out here to look up 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:45.880 to that man. Keep going, keep doing that, Charlemagne. Man, 0:10:46.000 --> 0:10:48.840 you just keep us in from inspired and everything. Anew Lee, 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:51.880 I love you. You're beautiful and everything. Baby. Um. I 0:10:51.880 --> 0:10:53.880 would like all y'all to take a look at Black 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:57.280 and Latchian. Here. He hiked the Appalachian Trail and he 0:10:57.400 --> 0:11:01.000 biked the underground railroad Black of La. He got youtubed 0:11:01.080 --> 0:11:03.000 up and he just trying to show, you know, black 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:05.520 people that we can hike into the world. Come to 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:07.400 an end, boy, we ain't gonna know how to do nothing, 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:11.120 so you know, check him out and loco all right, bro, 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:13.360 thank you man. I say that all the time. If 0:11:13.360 --> 0:11:16.000 it's a nuclear bomb or something was to hit, like, 0:11:16.080 --> 0:11:18.360 what how would people survive? People don't know how to fish, 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:19.880 they don't know how to hunt, they don't know how 0:11:19.920 --> 0:11:22.240 to live off the land. Nothing. Get it off your chests. 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:24.520 Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:25.840 you need to vent hit us up. Now it's the 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:31.640 Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:35.520 DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:38.280 Breakfast Club. Now. Iphew just joined us. We were talking 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:40.839 about love and hip hop New York. Chrissie and Jim 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:43.839 Jones had a conversation that the sparks some interest was here. 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:47.160 If marriage never happens, I don't feel a way about 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:49.680 it anymore because it doesn't complete us. But I do 0:11:49.760 --> 0:11:53.680 want to get married. I believe that every woman who's 0:11:53.720 --> 0:11:56.520 in love or isn't a strong relationship, that we are 0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:59.880 deserved to have. That. I don't know, I don't know, 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:02.400 sounds crazy. In the beginning, I thought that was the 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:04.959 end all be all. I thought that was natural progression. 0:12:05.520 --> 0:12:07.440 But at this point, what is that going to change? 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:10.120 So we're asking eight hundred five eighty five one oh 0:12:10.200 --> 0:12:13.079 five one. If you've been in a long relationship more 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:16.480 than ten years, is it necessary to get married now? Charlemagne, 0:12:16.480 --> 0:12:18.840 you said you had a conversation like this. Yeah, I 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:23.080 mean I've been with my beautiful black wife, my beautiful 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:26.480 black queen for twenty one years. Discresing that I married 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:30.720 a black woman. We've been together twenty one years, married 0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:34.800 for five, I believe. And I the night I actually proposed, 0:12:34.880 --> 0:12:38.040 you know, we were on the beautiful island of Anguilla 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:39.640 and we were having dinner on the beach, and we 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:42.760 were having that exact same conversation, and she sounded a 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:44.680 lot like Chrissy. She was like, you know, at this point, 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:48.640 I'm not even really tripping, you know, off marriage, Like 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:51.240 what's that gonna change between us? And you know, then 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:53.280 I changed the conversation and I was like, well, if 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:54.959 I got married, if I did propose to you, I 0:12:55.000 --> 0:12:57.160 would want to propose, you know, in a place like this, 0:12:57.720 --> 0:12:59.599 you know, like doing what we're doing right now on 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:02.360 the be having dinner, and then you know, I would 0:13:02.440 --> 0:13:04.840 stand up like this, And so I actually stood up 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:06.319 and I would get down on my knees like this, 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:08.600 and she's looking at me, and I pulled the ring 0:13:08.679 --> 0:13:10.920 in my pocket and asked her to marry me. So 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:14.360 for you, it was important for her not as much. Um, 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:15.760 I you know what, I'm gonna be honest with you. 0:13:15.800 --> 0:13:18.160 I think and I'm not speaking I'm not a woman, 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:19.719 as I can't speak for women. I can only say 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:22.400 I think sometimes women they just they love you and 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:24.120 they just like whatever. Man, I'll take it out. I 0:13:24.120 --> 0:13:26.040 can get it, you know what I'm saying. Like, I don't. 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:28.360 I don't think they get to the I think some 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:30.280 women might pressure you to get married. Some women might 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:33.640 just be like whatever. But I still think deep down 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:36.959 a lot of them do want to get married. Because 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:40.040 it's not like, you know, she didn't accept that wedding ring, right, 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:43.160 you know what I was saying. I definitely wanted to 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:44.640 get married, you know what I'm saying. And it's like 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:47.240 the conversation shifted, so we went. She went from signing 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:48.959 like Christy, but when actually got down on my knees 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:51.600 and proposed, in that moment, you know, the tids came 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:53.560 and everything else came, and you know she was she 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:56.000 was happy to be engaged. Yeah, I got I got 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:58.559 married or earlier. I was twenty three, my wife was 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:01.480 twenty two. I just was just something that I always wanted. 0:14:01.480 --> 0:14:03.320 I've seen it with my parents, I've seen it with 0:14:03.360 --> 0:14:06.920 my aunts and uncles, and I always dreamed of leaving 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:09.760 Queens and buying a house with a white picket fence 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:12.440 and getting married and having five kids. Now you got 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:15.760 an electric black fence. I got electric black electric black gate, 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:19.120 twelve feet ears, a little bigger house than I expected. 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:22.000 I got five kids, and we've been married for eighteen years. 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:24.200 But you know, it's just it's just what I wanted. 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:26.040 What about you, how do you feel about it? Well, 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:28.080 I've always been very vocal about the fact that I 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:30.840 think it's your choice, like some people can be in 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:33.200 a relationship. I've been in mind for over five years, 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:36.880 and you know, I just haven't been feeling like we 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:40.080 have to get married. So maybe that'll change. And if 0:14:40.080 --> 0:14:43.840 it does change, you know, it'll happen. But it's not 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:46.240 really something that I've ever felt like stressed about. I 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:49.080 never sat around and playing my wedding or I was like, Okay, 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:50.360 this is what I'm gonna do. I want to get 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:52.520 married here. I think for some people in marriage is 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:55.320 extremely important, like as a woman like me and my 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:57.360 friends have had this discussion, and I've had friends who 0:14:57.760 --> 0:15:00.400 felt pressured to get married from their family men. My 0:15:00.480 --> 0:15:02.400 family's never pressured me to feel like I have to 0:15:02.440 --> 0:15:04.880 get married. I had one friend who, you know, her 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:07.360 father was very sick and had Alzheimer's and she wanted 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:09.640 to get married while he was still alive for him 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:11.400 to be able to witness that. But I think it's 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:13.400 important for you to get married because you want to. 0:15:13.480 --> 0:15:15.160 I know so many people who who have gotten married 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:17.960 not because they were in love, but just because I'm 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:19.880 pregnant and I feel like it's the right thing to do, 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:22.200 or we've been together this long and so on and 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:24.280 so forth. And when I get married, I wanted to 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:26.120 feel like this is going to last forever, and I'm 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:28.440 doing it just because I'm so in love. That's all 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:30.320 I want to do. You know what else about that too? Though, 0:15:30.320 --> 0:15:32.160 It's like, if you're the man, right, because me and 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:34.760 my wife never literally we literally never had that conversation 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:38.320 until that night I proposed, right. So I wonder if 0:15:38.360 --> 0:15:40.960 a guy is having that conversation with his woman doesn't 0:15:40.960 --> 0:15:44.880 confuse him because he's like, well, damn, I want to propose, 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:46.600 but I don't know if she's gonna say yes or not, 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:49.280 because she's telling me she may not want to be married, 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:50.960 you know what I mean. Let's let's open up the 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:52.520 phone lines. We'll take your calls when we come back. 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:54.440 Eight hundred five eighty five one or five one. I 0:15:54.440 --> 0:15:55.880 think I told my wife at sixteen I was gonna 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:57.280 marry her. I was like, I'm gonna marry you. Like 0:15:57.360 --> 0:16:00.520 I knew. I was like, I'm going to marry you. Yeah, 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:03.560 that was a blessing for you because I give Especially 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:07.080 back then, she was definitely dating down. What are you 0:16:07.120 --> 0:16:09.480 what are you talking about? Listen? Man, Ladies out there, 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:11.000 you know when you find a man that you can 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:16.200 peg lock them down, slut to give. This guy just 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:18.520 found out with pegmant like maybe a month ago, and 0:16:18.520 --> 0:16:20.320 I'm still trying to how he found out what it was. 0:16:20.360 --> 0:16:25.560 Salute the horrible decisions. We didn't know how you found out. 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:29.160 Shout to travel right eight and Peggings. That's just great 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:33.800 upside of me. We're taking your calls when we come 0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:39.600 back at the Breakfast clubal body the breakfast Club wanting 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:43.640 everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:45.360 are the breakfast club now if you just joined us, 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:48.440 we're talking about. Jim Jones and Christie had a conversation 0:16:48.440 --> 0:16:50.840 on love and Hippopla's played clip of it. If marriage 0:16:50.880 --> 0:16:53.800 never happens, I don't feel a way about it anymore 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:56.080 because it doesn't complete us. But I do want to 0:16:56.120 --> 0:17:00.280 get married I believe that every woman who's of all 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:04.199 isn't a strong relationship that we are deserved to have that. 0:17:04.680 --> 0:17:06.800 I don't know that way, and I know what sounds crazy. 0:17:06.960 --> 0:17:08.919 In the beginning, I thought that was the end all 0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:12.040 be all. I thought that was natural progression. But at 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:14.000 this point, what is that going to change for? So 0:17:14.040 --> 0:17:16.480 we're asking, if you've been in a relationship for a 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:20.679 long time, is it necessary to get married? Hello? Who's this? Yo? 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:23.000 What's up? Envious mellow? And I'm here with our fall 0:17:23.080 --> 0:17:27.560 sim toot y'all about to get married? Yeah? Yeah, okay, 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:36.479 all right, congratulations king, Congratulationsratulations kings, I'll kill you. What 0:17:36.520 --> 0:17:39.440 are you talking about? Happy? I'm happy that y'all. Y'all 0:17:39.480 --> 0:17:43.639 gonna hear wedding balls too, I mean wedding bells too. 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:48.199 But really, honestly speaking, I don't really think you know, 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:52.160 marriage is necessarily necessary. The man you said, I that's 0:17:52.200 --> 0:17:54.040 one tim you said one Jella's connected at the soul, 0:17:54.119 --> 0:17:56.280 y'all already married. Marriage is a piece of paper. Man, 0:17:56.480 --> 0:17:58.639 that was before he got married. Then he got married 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:02.760 and changed. Yeah, that is the fact. But you're right, though, 0:18:04.240 --> 0:18:10.439 Sometimes I think that sometime you just never know he said, Yo, 0:18:10.720 --> 0:18:17.440 we're gonna do this up either being cystical. I feel 0:18:17.520 --> 0:18:19.800 like one of ours. I feel like one of our 0:18:20.400 --> 0:18:25.119 uncle different differently. How that's how that's your uncle and 0:18:25.160 --> 0:18:30.919 you the same age. You and Kobe the same age. 0:18:31.200 --> 0:18:34.639 Kobe man, goodbye, man home you big forty two year 0:18:34.640 --> 0:18:37.800 old grown man talking about his uncle pathed away Sarah, 0:18:37.920 --> 0:18:40.040 good morning, Hey, good morning. We're talking about it. If 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:42.760 you've been in a long term relationship, isn't necessary to 0:18:42.760 --> 0:18:45.560 get married. So I was with my son's father for 0:18:45.720 --> 0:18:48.520 over ten years and we never got married, thinking it 0:18:48.560 --> 0:18:52.399 wouldn't change anything. We ended up breaking up. And then 0:18:52.760 --> 0:18:55.679 the next man I got with was the one initiating 0:18:55.680 --> 0:18:58.200 the conversation for married, and we got married after six 0:18:58.240 --> 0:19:03.400 months of being together. Right, so there was a surety 0:19:03.520 --> 0:19:07.479 and finanimal finality, at least from the legal standpoint of 0:19:07.960 --> 0:19:11.800 you'll get the benefits. You have to say, the recognition 0:19:11.800 --> 0:19:14.800 and acknowledgement of being a wife instead of being a girlfriend. 0:19:14.840 --> 0:19:17.520 There is nothing that comes with being a girlfriend. Besides, 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:20.480 y'all are hanging out and you get married, and then 0:19:21.000 --> 0:19:23.679 all of a sudden you are missus so and so, 0:19:24.440 --> 0:19:28.920 and it brings families together. It brings wives together more 0:19:29.000 --> 0:19:35.000 so than just being together and chilling. You know, ideally though, 0:19:35.040 --> 0:19:37.639 because some people get married and act like they're not. Hello, 0:19:37.680 --> 0:19:42.120 who's this? This is Ivory, Hey Ivory, good morning, good 0:19:42.200 --> 0:19:48.320 morning hey from May that we're asking, after being in 0:19:48.320 --> 0:19:51.520 a long term relationship, isn't necessary to get married? No, 0:19:51.800 --> 0:19:54.200 I don't feel like it's necessary to get married. I've 0:19:54.200 --> 0:19:57.920 been with my duperdict years he proposed about three years ago. 0:19:58.359 --> 0:20:00.679 Everybody keeps asking us whinner we get married? When we're 0:20:00.680 --> 0:20:02.680 getting married, and I honestly feel like it's not gonna 0:20:02.720 --> 0:20:05.840 change anything in our relationships. We already lived together, we 0:20:05.880 --> 0:20:08.080 have two kids together. I know what I know. I'm 0:20:08.080 --> 0:20:10.000 going to be with him and I really just a 0:20:10.359 --> 0:20:13.840 paper marriage is not doesn't necessarily mean it's gonna be forever. 0:20:14.240 --> 0:20:16.040 As long as we know and we love each other, 0:20:16.119 --> 0:20:18.200