1 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Welcome to Money Making Conversations. It's the show that she 2 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: has the secrets of success experience firsthand by marketing and 3 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 1: Brandon expert Rashan McDonald. I will know he's giving me 4 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: advice to many occasions. In the case you didn't notice, 5 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 1: I'm not broke, you know, He'll be interviewing celebrity CEOs, entrepreneurs, 6 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: and industry decision makers. It's what he likes to do. 7 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:25,319 Speaker 1: It's what he likes to share. Now it's time to 8 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: hear from my man, Rashan McDonald. Money Making Conversations. Here 9 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: we come. It's money, money making conversations. That's what I do. 10 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: I talk. I talk a lot because I have a 11 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: lot to think, a lot of things to say. Welcome 12 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 1: to another episode of podcast, radio show, or talk show, 13 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: or whatever you want to call it. I'm here to 14 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 1: deliver information. This is money making Conversation. I'm your host, 15 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,160 Speaker 1: Rashwan McDonald. Right. Next guest is an award winning civil 16 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: rights attorney, autism advocate, bestselling author, TV host, and illegal 17 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: analyst for CNN. Please welcome back to Money Making Conversations 18 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: or Riva Martin. Hello, Rashean, how are you my friend? Good? Good? 19 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 1: Areva so you know the West coast? Correct, Yes, I 20 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 1: say Angeles time because you know I'm on the East coast. 21 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: And I, okay, what time I call a reva or 22 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: email her? She responds, So what time do you get 23 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: up on the West coast, Reriva? Well, I have a 24 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:29,199 Speaker 1: pretty strict exercise regime that I follow, so in order 25 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: to do everything I need to do in the morning 26 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 1: before I hit the gym, I get up around five 27 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: am Pacific Standard time. Okay, get up at five am 28 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: because you'll respond back to you. That's what I love 29 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 1: about it, you know. So obviously the phone is always 30 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: near you because you are always making yourself available to 31 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: breaking news or breaking political news for CNN. Correct. Yes, 32 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: And because my job is breaking news. You know, the 33 00:01:55,520 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: news breaks in this world we live in today two seven. 34 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: I'm always checking my news sites to see what's going on, 35 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: what's hot, what's you know, what's trending, because I never 36 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,839 Speaker 1: know when I'm going to have to show up and 37 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: start talking about what's happening, or get a call or 38 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 1: email saying did you see this story? Or what are 39 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 1: your thoughts? What are your you know, your your opinions. 40 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 1: And I'm a news junky. I love it, so I 41 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: don't feel like I'm working. I feel like I'm enriching 42 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: myself and it's what I love. I love news, so 43 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: I can't consume enough of it. Now you've seeing it 44 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: being an analysts on seeing it, you know, everybody wants jobs, 45 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: and how did that opportunity come to you? And how 46 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: do you, Like I said, you always told me you 47 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: Enjorgia News. You stay on top of it naturally. Anyway, 48 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:47,119 Speaker 1: how did the opportunity to come to you? Well, that's 49 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 1: a good question. I get asked that question a lot, 50 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: and you're writing lots of people. He's a lawyer friend 51 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: of mine and sends every time he sees me, says 52 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: the reve I want your job. Uh. But I'm very fortunate. 53 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: I started guests appearing. You know, I made myself available 54 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 1: to some local news channels here in Los Angeles to 55 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: talk about a bunch of local topics and things that 56 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 1: were in the news in the Los Angeles community. And 57 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: starting out doing those local news segments led me to 58 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 1: getting some opportunities to talk on national TV. And it 59 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 1: wasn't just being n it was MSNBC, it was Stocked, 60 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 1: it was uh ABC News and other national news outlets 61 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: is where I actually started and before I actually became 62 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: a paid contributor and a contracted with CNN, I would 63 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,839 Speaker 1: frequently appear, sometimes in one day on four or five 64 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: different networks, UH, including UH, the BBC and Good Morning 65 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: Britain and some shows that only you know can be 66 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: UH shows that are aired outside the country. No, as 67 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 1: you is, So, what you do, I think is is opinionated. 68 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: It has to be fact driven. Do you feel pressure 69 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: do you feel to get it right or because of 70 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: the fact that it is an opinion but it is 71 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 1: fact based. How do how do you deal with that? Yeah, 72 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: that's a good question too, Rashan, And yes, I do 73 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: feel pressure to be accurate because people follow me, people 74 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 1: watch me, people UH quote me, they recite what they 75 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: hear me say. And I take that very seriously. And 76 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: when I give my opinion or I you know, way 77 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: in on issues and I'm talking, you know, some of 78 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: the biggest issues in this country, from abortion rights to 79 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: sexual harassment to you know, the political debates that we 80 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: just had with the Democratic candidates. UH, police brutality, police shootings, 81 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: I mean, all of the big issues that that are 82 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 1: in the news every day. I typically am weighing in 83 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 1: on and I want the information I provide to be accurate, 84 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: don't want it to be quote unquote fake news. I 85 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: don't want to give the wrong statistics. I don't want 86 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: to mislead people about the facts. So I often tell 87 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: people for a three minute segment that I'm doing, I 88 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 1: may spend three to five hours researching and reading, and 89 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 1: not just one outlet or one opinion or one source, 90 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 1: but reading and listening to videos and getting as much 91 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: factual background as I can because unfortunately, so much there's 92 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 1: a lot of noise in the news. Uh there's so 93 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: many different sites, there's so many different sources, and unfortunately, 94 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: now you may have a story and that's released and 95 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: it will be picked up by a hundred different outlets, 96 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 1: and that story may contain a bunch of inaccuracies, and 97 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: everybody just picks up on it and starts reciting it 98 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: as if it is accurate. But when you do your 99 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: research and big deeper, you'll learn that maybe some of 100 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 1: the facts, the facts and from Nation Sided are actually inaccurate. 101 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 1: So I think I have a responsibility that someone who 102 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 1: has a large platform to make sure that I'm using 103 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: that platform in a responsible way. Well, you've always been 104 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:15,679 Speaker 1: responsible when I've spoken to you. Your background at the St. 105 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,919 Speaker 1: Louis uh Inner City. You grew up in the inner 106 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: city and you went east and that go with a 107 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: Harvard grad and now you west. You have a law 108 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: firm with your husband based in Los Angeles, Martin and Martin. 109 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: How is that work? You know, working in the environment 110 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: of trying to maintain a balance, like we're gonna get 111 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 1: your kids, because that's a major part of your balanced life, because, 112 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: like you said, you up in five years a ragiar resume. 113 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:43,799 Speaker 1: I didn't know this. You you you run five k races. Yeah, 114 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: I became an avid runner. I was doing half a 115 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: marathons a couple of years ago. Uh, and I kind 116 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 1: of half marathon, rishawn, not even close to half maybe trotten. 117 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: I'm trotting friend as a marathon or and she got 118 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:06,039 Speaker 1: me excited and geeked about running, So I was that 119 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 1: was pretty hard pour for a while. I've kind of 120 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: switched up and I'm working out more in the gym now, 121 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: but I still I'm gonna do a five k on 122 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 1: the fourth of July here to celebrate the holiday. But 123 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: you know, you mentioned balance life and It is so important, 124 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: whether you're a woman or a man, that you have 125 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 1: not only what you do professionally to earn a living, 126 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: but what you do socially, what you do for the community, 127 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: what you do to just even you know, gratify yourself 128 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 1: and and uh, you know, enrich your own soul. So 129 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:40,239 Speaker 1: I'm all about self care, self love. Uh. I'm also 130 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: about you know, finding those opportunities to do those things 131 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 1: that that really helped, you know, keep you going, those 132 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 1: things that motivate you, that inspire you, that give you 133 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:54,679 Speaker 1: a sense of renewal. And it's sometimes can't get lost. 134 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: And I hear a lot of women. I threw a 135 00:07:56,880 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 1: lot of speaking around the country, particularly to women business 136 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 1: owners and professionals and aspiring entrepreneurs. And that's always the 137 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: biggest question, you know, can I have it all? Can 138 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: I have a family? Can I have a husband or 139 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: a partner or a a spouse and children, and you know, 140 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: be successful in whatever my career choices are. We we 141 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 1: mentioned earlier about you being a autism advocacy advocate, and 142 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: then your youngest son has autism and you started a 143 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: special needs networking On July twenty seven, Holly Robinson Pete 144 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 1: and your husband will be honoring you and UH tremendous 145 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 1: program that I will be in attendance. I will be 146 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 1: there also long being honored that same night to be 147 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 1: an Eva Longoria. When you're being honored because the recognition 148 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: have come to you on a regular basis, because you're 149 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: passionate about it, because this is a personal concern with yours. 150 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 1: To be honored on that event on July twenty seven, 151 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: What does that mean for your brand? What it means 152 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 1: to the attention you're trying to bring to the cause 153 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:58,199 Speaker 1: of autism. Because also Holly Robinson Pete and Rod Pete 154 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 1: have a have a son who it's autism as well. Yeah, 155 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 1: I'm excited about it. You have brought me and Holly 156 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 1: and I have collaborated in the past, so they have 157 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: a foundation uh that works. They do a lot of 158 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: work with adults, with artists, and they've opened up a 159 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:19,680 Speaker 1: couple of centers that provide job training. Uh. The work 160 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 1: in my organization does. It's different and that we've really 161 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 1: focused on underserved poor communities, early intervention, early detection, and 162 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: providing autism behavioral therapies for kids as well as advocacy 163 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 1: training for their parents and We've also focused a lot 164 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 1: on legislation within really the drivers of some key laws 165 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 1: that have been passed in the state of California, and 166 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 1: only consultants at the national level on several federal pieces 167 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 1: of legislation. So it's great when you have organizations, you know, 168 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 1: whether it's Save the Wells or Saved the Children, that 169 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 1: have common goals, common purpose for those organizations to figure 170 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: out ways to work together. When I first started my organization, 171 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:08,079 Speaker 1: you know, people would always ask me about Holly, and 172 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 1: you know, Holly tells me people always ask her about me. 173 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: But what I'm excited about it is an opportunity to 174 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 1: show her audience, which she has this really at this 175 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: event she gives every summer. She's at this twenty one 176 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: or twenty third year, but it's it's been going strong. 177 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: And autism and Purposes disease which her dad had partisans 178 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,959 Speaker 1: but now her brother has partisans. But just as the 179 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 1: opportunity for me to show the autism and the broader 180 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: social justice vistability community that you know here to nonprofits 181 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 1: run by African American families who have been touched by 182 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: this disorder, and you know, we're working together for a 183 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 1: common goal. Which is helping thousands, not billions, of other 184 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 1: families and children are So I'm excited about it, Excited 185 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 1: to see you, Excited to see uh, you know a 186 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: great group of people that Holly and Rotten bring together 187 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 1: every years the Star studed events. Yes, it is July 188 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: twenty seven, Malibu, California. Yeah, beautiful state, amount overlooking the 189 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: ocean or ever your focus going in and out? Are 190 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 1: you walking around or your phone? Okay? Cool? Was it 191 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 1: going in and out? Sometimes you're clear, sometimes you're not clear. 192 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 1: And I do want to make sure that you know 193 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: it's a big party, but with a really incredible purpose. Well, 194 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:36,319 Speaker 1: the thing about it is that you know, we've got 195 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: two minutes less than two minutes left, and I know 196 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: you're branching out into doing your own productions, Uh, you know, 197 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: executive producing your own shows and pitching your own ideas. 198 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: Why is that a desire? You're you know, you're a 199 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,839 Speaker 1: successful lawyer, you're an advocate, and you have a voice 200 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 1: in social media. You've been recognized as a legal analysts 201 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 1: of seeing it. Why is it important for you to 202 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 1: produce your own projects? You know, I feel Roshan, I've 203 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: always had lots of stories decided me, and I told 204 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: those stories of different platforms via social media, contributed tons 205 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 1: of articles to online and print publications like Time, uh, 206 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 1: Motto dot com and CNN dot com. And I've just 207 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:25,559 Speaker 1: I've been a writer pretty much throughout my career, and 208 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 1: TV is another medium through which I get to tell stories. 209 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: So I am excited about this new chapter. I get 210 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 1: to add producer title uh to my you know, long 211 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 1: list of things that I've been able to accomplish in 212 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 1: my life and and it this is another way that 213 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 1: I get to tell what I think are important stories. 214 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: What I think are stories that will not only informing 215 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 1: it and educate, but stories that will also inspire and 216 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: motivate it and and cause people to take action in 217 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 1: their own communities and in other and in their own lives. 218 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: As an advocate, that's what my whole journey is about, 219 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: is being the voice for the voice list, but also 220 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 1: helping other people find their voice. Well, thank you for 221 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:11,439 Speaker 1: calling my show. You are amazing. You know I'm a 222 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 1: big fan of yours and I will be seeing you. 223 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: I will be seeing you before you live to win 224 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: or seven, but definitely be there too. UH. Wish you 225 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 1: will keep winning. Okay, I was looking for a better 226 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: way to check in on our house while I was 227 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,839 Speaker 1: at work and a friend recommended Blink. I was skeptical 228 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 1: but decided to give it a shot, and I bought 229 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:41,479 Speaker 1: a Blink camera system. 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She's the 247 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 1: host financial Guru, a bestselling author of financial self help books, 248 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 1: and an ordained minister. So you know I can't be 249 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 1: too you know, to you know me, I'll be edgy sometimes, 250 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 1: you know, all right, because stay right in that lane 251 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: with her. Her new book, The Symphony, A Guide to 252 00:14:56,080 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 1: Creating and Balancing Multiple Streams of Income is published and 253 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: I have been reading it all weekend right here. I 254 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 1: cared on the plane with the Houston this weekend, had 255 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: in my bag, so it's reading on the plane. A 256 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: lot of pages are folded. Today on my show, be 257 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: sharing her secrets on how to monetize all of your 258 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 1: gifts to create a beautiful symphony of income streams. Please 259 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 1: welcome to Money Making Conversation for the very first time, 260 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: Dr Lynn Richardson, Well, good morning is thank you so much. 261 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 1: Mr McDonald, thank you. I'm honored to be here with 262 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 1: you where I'm honored to have you because we met 263 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 1: many time. We talked of the projects that you've been 264 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 1: involved in. She's been to the Hoodie Awards with my 265 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 1: favorite person, mc light and that's how I got my girls. 266 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 1: You know how I feel about mc light now and 267 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 1: so yes, but it's all about you. It's all about 268 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 1: you on this show right now. Dr Lynn Richardson, um UM, 269 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: I want you to talk about because I always talk 270 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: about multiple streams of income, and that's in your title 271 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 1: of your book. What exact actually is multiple streams of 272 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 1: income just to the layman person, it's having more than 273 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 1: one way of making money. UH. And you know I 274 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 1: wrote this book, Mr McDonald because not many people have 275 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 1: mastered what you have mastered over your career, and that 276 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: is applying strategy to UH finances. And I was in 277 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: my twenties and I had a whole bunch of jobs. 278 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: It was like, my name is Lenny, and I got 279 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 1: plenty from good time. I could tell you some lighters 280 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 1: of insurance. You could come to my house on a Saturday. 281 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: I could be your hair, your nails, nail heelps you 282 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 1: write in insurance policy, get a job, quit a job, 283 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 1: whatever it was. But I was like being on a treadmill. 284 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 1: I was running fast and going nowhere. I was unfulfilled, 285 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 1: and I certainly was not monetizing any of those income 286 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 1: streams um the way I thought I would, UH, and 287 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: the whole idea that many of us are serial entrepreneurs 288 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 1: created people who come up with ideas and think it's 289 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: the next best thing to do, and you jump on 290 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: board and you get in there and you find out 291 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 1: it's not what you thought it was, or it's more 292 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: work than you think it is. And so I wrote 293 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 1: this book for people like me who needed to find 294 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 1: their way, uh, to find purpose, to find strategy, but 295 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:18,400 Speaker 1: more importantly, to figure out that you can do it all, 296 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:20,719 Speaker 1: but you just not you can't do it all at 297 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:22,880 Speaker 1: the same time. This back up the step here because 298 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 1: you was talking about you know, when you were doing insurance, 299 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 1: you was doing hair, you're doing you're doing all these 300 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: skill sets and give out all the advice, but there 301 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: was no check tied to them. Give it out the advice. 302 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:38,400 Speaker 1: Why well, there was no check tied to them because 303 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 1: I didn't have a strategy, right, you know. I talked 304 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:45,400 Speaker 1: about the personality of an entrepreneur and and that one 305 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 1: of them is the dreamer. The dreamer things everything is 306 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 1: gonna be great. The dreamer think that this idea is 307 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 1: a great idea, and it probably is. But if you 308 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:56,400 Speaker 1: don't have a thinker, see see that's what you have said, 309 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 1: Mr McDonald, a thinker. The sinker is the strategist, the 310 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 1: thing kerls gonna ask all the questions that the dreamer 311 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,159 Speaker 1: doesn't want to hear. The thinker's gonna say, now, how 312 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 1: are we gonna do this, what is the plan, how 313 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:08,879 Speaker 1: are we going to roll this out? Who are we 314 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:11,400 Speaker 1: in business with? How much does it call? How much 315 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 1: work does that actually take? Uh? And so on. And 316 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 1: then the other part of it is the storyteller. Who's 317 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 1: gonna tell the story. You've said that to me many times, 318 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 1: who's gonna market it, who's gonna put it out there, 319 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 1: who's gonna get it into the universe? And then of 320 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 1: course that that that last thing, who is the hunter. 321 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 1: The hunter is always seeking new opportunities. So you can 322 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:36,240 Speaker 1: be a dreamer with a great idea, but if you 323 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 1: don't have a strategy in place to build relationships, to 324 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 1: get leads, to get new business opportunities, to get new 325 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:46,919 Speaker 1: contract signed, then your dream will become a nightmare. And 326 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 1: so I think that's the reason why people don't fulfill 327 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 1: what it is that they see because they don't think 328 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:56,159 Speaker 1: of all of those different steps. We really is really great. Uh, 329 00:18:56,240 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: we're talking to Dr Lynn Richardson will discovers her new 330 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 1: book The Symphony, A Guide to Creating and balancing multiple 331 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,880 Speaker 1: streams of income. The reason I was excited about having 332 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 1: you on the show because to give where I'm at, 333 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 1: you know, experience, but just confidence, uh, the ability to say, hey, 334 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 1: that costs if you want me to talk about that, 335 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 1: if you want me to walk over there and talk 336 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 1: to you about that, and that comes with a fee, 337 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 1: because it's really tired to fear, because the people need 338 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:30,360 Speaker 1: to understand that a lot of times we like the attention, 339 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,640 Speaker 1: We like people coming to us asking us for advice. 340 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: But guess what if you put a price tag on it, 341 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 1: they might stop coming. Well, well, guess what. You want 342 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 1: them to stop coming because you want to stop being free. 343 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,199 Speaker 1: You want them to stop coming to me and say, oh, 344 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 1: rou sean here. Tell you guess what somebody around the 345 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:53,000 Speaker 1: corner with lesser value, that's your experience. It's actually charging 346 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 1: for your services. While you over there, Mr Popular, I'm 347 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:01,200 Speaker 1: spread walkoming and all this all this busy work and 348 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:03,360 Speaker 1: not getting paid for And that's why I wanted to say. 349 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 1: What she was talking about, all those different jobs, all 350 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:08,400 Speaker 1: those different opportunities, is a lot of us just tied 351 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:10,919 Speaker 1: to she was popular, she was super popular, but the 352 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:14,680 Speaker 1: income went tied to because sometimes deep inside you don't 353 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:17,679 Speaker 1: know how to turn that corner, to turn that corner 354 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:21,679 Speaker 1: to say, hey, I like being popular, but guess what 355 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 1: this is what's gonna cost? And then you would agree 356 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 1: to this as well, Doctor Lemrick, So this is that 357 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:29,680 Speaker 1: what is that value? How do how does the person 358 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 1: get that value point of what their services are? Can 359 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: you expand on that? Yes, you know, it's interesting that 360 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:38,680 Speaker 1: you say that, and I have to, you know, kind 361 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,399 Speaker 1: of say amen to what you just said, because in 362 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:44,680 Speaker 1: all too many cases, people think that they can call 363 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 1: and ask for advice and that if there's no price 364 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:50,640 Speaker 1: tag attached to it. And I tell people this, it's 365 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 1: like if you call the attorney and you want the 366 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,360 Speaker 1: attorney to give you some advice, don't you know that 367 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 1: that's what the attorney is selling advice. If you go 368 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:58,920 Speaker 1: to the grocery store, you're gonna get a local bread. 369 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 1: You cannot walk out of the store with the local 370 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 1: bread and not pay, So you're not gonna get a 371 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:05,920 Speaker 1: local bread at the attorney's office. You're not gonna get 372 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 1: a local bread at Rushan MacDonald's office. You're not gonna 373 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:10,600 Speaker 1: get a local bread at my office. You're actually gonna 374 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:12,959 Speaker 1: get a strategy. You're gonna get advice. You're gonna get 375 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,639 Speaker 1: an idea, you're gonna get a new thought process. And 376 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:17,919 Speaker 1: there's a cost attached to that. And this is so 377 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 1: funny because you know I always talk I talk about 378 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 1: how you're in your kids to work in your home 379 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 1: based business. And my oldest daughter, she was in her teens, 380 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,080 Speaker 1: and she was rebelling, and I was telling her the 381 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 1: same thing over and over again. Then one day I decided, no, 382 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:33,119 Speaker 1: I'm gonna start charging you. I made four hundred and 383 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 1: fifty dollars an hour to give people advice. So when 384 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,640 Speaker 1: you do something that I have already told you not 385 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 1: to do, and now I have to tell you how 386 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 1: to undo what you did, you're gonna have to pay 387 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,360 Speaker 1: me for my advice. Because this is no longer parenting, 388 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 1: this is now counseling, and you're gonna have to pay 389 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:51,120 Speaker 1: a fee. And the first time I charged her a fee, 390 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:55,199 Speaker 1: a counseling fee to talk to me, if it changed 391 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:58,679 Speaker 1: everything around. So I would start by saying, if you 392 00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 1: if you're trying to idea to buy your value, find 393 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 1: someone who's great at what they do in your area, 394 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,919 Speaker 1: discover what their fees are, and then you adjust accordingly. 395 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 1: So if you know that you are into business strategy, 396 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 1: and you know that Rashan McDonald does X, Y and Z, 397 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 1: where you are a beginner, you can't charge what was 398 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 1: Sean McDonald charges, but you can scale it up or 399 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: down depending on your level of expertise. You can ask 400 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 1: me any question about money in any area, and I've 401 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: worked it. I've been a financial aid counselor, I've been 402 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 1: in investments, I've been an insurance and mortgages, so it 403 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 1: was a very natural experience. However, if people are ready 404 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 1: to get your service and you are not ready to 405 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:45,120 Speaker 1: service them, the bigger they are, the harder they fall. 406 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:48,919 Speaker 1: Everybody who went on national television wasn't successful. I know 407 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:52,120 Speaker 1: one person right now who went on Missus Harvard show, 408 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 1: talked about a service and got inundated with thirty six 409 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 1: thousand phone calls in one day. Didn't have a toll 410 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 1: free number to capture all the calls, didn't have a 411 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 1: system in place to make sure that if the person call, 412 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,679 Speaker 1: you would get an email for the message and the 413 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 1: text for the message and the message on your phone, 414 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:11,680 Speaker 1: so you could figure out how to distribute the process 415 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:15,679 Speaker 1: of answering those calls. So it was a massive it 416 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 1: was a massive influx of people inquiring how to get 417 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 1: their finances straight, buying books, wanting help, and Rashan every 418 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 1: single day. I'm I'm up at six am on days 419 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: when I'm not traveling, and I'm talking to regular everyday 420 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:35,400 Speaker 1: people about regular everyday money problems because what happens. They 421 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,199 Speaker 1: see me doing it for some family on television, but 422 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 1: they want to know how they can have that for themselves. 423 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 1: So I I set up a fast f a s T. 424 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 1: It's a financial assessment Strategy session and it's ten minutes. 425 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,919 Speaker 1: And if you send me your budget, I send you 426 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: all the steps what you need to do. How give 427 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:56,119 Speaker 1: anybody ten minutes. I'll give anybody ten minutes of my 428 00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: time to help change their life. And and so that's 429 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 1: what it's been. But the work is just beginning. That's 430 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,439 Speaker 1: what it really showed me, Mr McDonald, that it's not 431 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 1: over and I have not arrived. The work is just 432 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:12,400 Speaker 1: the beginning. Because there's so many millions of people who 433 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 1: are living check to check or worse, check to Monday, 434 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: which is my other book. I'm gonna send you that 435 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 1: one too. Who need a plan to get out of 436 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 1: financial bondage? Well, this is amazing interview. I mad because 437 00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: I don't know why I've not had you on this 438 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 1: show before. You're brilliant, You are you are, You're entertaining you. 439 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 1: You have a common sense about you that uh the 440 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,360 Speaker 1: world needs to hear on the regular basis. Definitely will 441 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:42,640 Speaker 1: be posting your book. Go to Amazon uh dot com 442 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,160 Speaker 1: and Dr Lynn Richardson. You can do a name search 443 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 1: on that as Lynn as l y n N Richardson, 444 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 1: Doctor UH The Symphony A Guide to Creating and Balancing 445 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,959 Speaker 1: Multiple streams of Income. Um, wow, we when we when 446 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 1: you're in closing, we have a minute left? What what? What? 447 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,680 Speaker 1: One point of advised that people make a mistake all 448 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: that you wish they would stop. I wish people would 449 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:09,400 Speaker 1: stop trying to rush the process. And to your point, 450 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 1: Mr McDonald, you haven't had me on before because I 451 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 1: didn't come out before. I was very comfortable being behind 452 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 1: the scenes. I was as as a matter of fact, 453 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,879 Speaker 1: I was too comfortable being behind me. Russell wanted me 454 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: to come out and see light, wanted me to come up. 455 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:29,679 Speaker 1: I didn't start speaking and teaching on this level until 456 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 1: I until it was time. I didn't want to be 457 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:37,640 Speaker 1: trying to help another person and then helping myself by 458 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:41,680 Speaker 1: helping them, I am helping myself. It's ocarried, So that's 459 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,439 Speaker 1: a part of the symphony as well. Stay in your lane, 460 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 1: Stay in your lane, Master your lane. And what I 461 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:51,440 Speaker 1: showed that I could do is I can help catapult 462 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: a platform to another level. And once I did that 463 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 1: for empty Light and Russell Simmons and Lohama and she 464 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:02,679 Speaker 1: would even her foundation and whatever I gotta let you go, 465 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,600 Speaker 1: it is amazing. Oh she's back. I was looking for 466 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 1: a better way to check in on our house while 467 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,119 Speaker 1: I was at work and a friend recommended Blink. 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Hey, this is Tasha Evans, and I'd 486 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: love to eat a great restaurant. And more than that, 487 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 1: I love great desserts. So does Rashan McDonald. Check out 488 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 1: his new website. That's www. Rashan McDonald dot com. Let 489 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 1: me tell you about the host of money Making Conversations, 490 00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:29,119 Speaker 1: Rashaan McDonald. He's a social media influencer. Of his seven 491 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:32,679 Speaker 1: hundred thousand plus social media followers are female. He's a 492 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 1: two time Emmy Award winner, three time n double A 493 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:39,879 Speaker 1: CP Image Award winner, sitcom writer, stand up comic, former 494 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 1: IBM executive, and has a degree in mathematics. More importantly, 495 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 1: Rashan McDonald will use his business and celebrity relationships to 496 00:27:51,400 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 1: empower small businesses with information to succeed. My next guest, 497 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 1: it's a planner. He's a guy who don't allow setbacks 498 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:13,159 Speaker 1: to hold him back. When he see opportunity, he leaps forward. 499 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,639 Speaker 1: My next guest is a Billboard number one selling singer 500 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:21,479 Speaker 1: songwriter recording artists from Dallas, Texas. See I'm from Houston, Texas, 501 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:25,879 Speaker 1: so I know Dallas two and forty marls Oft North 502 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 1: So I've been up that fact. I bought my first 503 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:32,199 Speaker 1: Mercedes Bins in Dallas. Texts drove it that seven. The 504 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:35,679 Speaker 1: Dallas Nabors has performed on the Smash NBC series. The Voice, 505 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 1: has recorded six acclaimed studio albums and a Christmas collection 506 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 1: released on the Acclaim in an acclaimed book, starting two films, 507 00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,760 Speaker 1: headline of concert and conference tours all over the world. 508 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 1: Please welcome to Money Making Conversations. My man from Dallas, Texas, 509 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 1: Anthony Evans. Hey, I'm just hyped, man. I'm just hyped 510 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 1: because I you know, we've been trying to connect and 511 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 1: we finally connected on this interview today because I wanted 512 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 1: to bring your money making conversation, because you know, I'm 513 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 1: a type of person. Every every Tuesday I meet with 514 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 1: my my, my producers, and they pitch out people. They 515 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 1: recommend people would be great for the show, who have 516 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 1: great stories. And I just when they told me your story, 517 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 1: you know, I just felt I wanted to hear it 518 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 1: from you and talk about what drives you. That's the 519 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 1: one first question I want to ask you, Anthony, what 520 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 1: drives you to be successful? You know what there are 521 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 1: there are a few things that drive me. The first 522 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 1: thing I think about is being able to excellence. Drives me. 523 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 1: Actually being able to find them a way to another way, 524 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: avenues to be excellent. That that drives me at what 525 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 1: I do when it comes to being on the stage 526 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 1: and off the stage, but when it comes to planning 527 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 1: tours and events. But also what driving me is is 528 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 1: feeling like I'm actually fulfilling what I was born to do, 529 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 1: what I was calling to do. That is a driving 530 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 1: force to me, so excellent and then being in the 531 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 1: center of what I I'm supposed to be doing um 532 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 1: and not settling that that those are those are the 533 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 1: driving factors for me. And then so when somebody tells you. 534 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 1: I would tell you about me, a little bit about me, 535 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 1: you know, like my degrees in mathematics. And so I 536 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 1: was just in college. I was doing stand up comic 537 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 1: at night, stand up comedy at night. And so, you know, 538 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 1: people just like telling you know you're not gonna be 539 00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 1: a Eddie Murphy. You know, people really tell you, but 540 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 1: your friends and your family can actually hold you back. 541 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 1: I'm just let you know that, right, the people you understand, 542 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,440 Speaker 1: the people who are so close to you, can actually 543 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,520 Speaker 1: be the people put the nail in it. But are 544 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 1: you wasting your time? You're wasting your time and so 545 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,880 Speaker 1: so and so when I left IBM do stand up comedy, 546 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 1: they really thought I was crazy. And so so when 547 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 1: I when I look at you, and because you know 548 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,160 Speaker 1: you you're now living in the Los Angeles areas, so 549 00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:55,480 Speaker 1: you're you're transplant. So how did you undercome overcome people 550 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 1: telling you what you couldn't do versus achieving what you 551 00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 1: are achieving? Well, I had a very great from my family, 552 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:06,120 Speaker 1: but my they has always been very supportive of me. 553 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 1: Before I even knew what my ability was and what 554 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 1: I was going to actually end up doing, my parents 555 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 1: spotted it in me first, before I actually knew that 556 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 1: I had sang the way that I sing or knew 557 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:18,080 Speaker 1: that I had the ability and music, they spotted it 558 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 1: and then they started to They started to cultivate that 559 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 1: before I was even wanting to do it. So I'm 560 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 1: very grateful and uh for that. But then I also 561 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,720 Speaker 1: watched my dad, who was from both both my parents. 562 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 1: My mom is from South America, my dad is from 563 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 1: the inner City of Baltimore, and stats would say that 564 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 1: they aren't supposed to be who they are now, but 565 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 1: I watched them not operate upon what stats. But they 566 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 1: were not defined by what the statistics said they should be, 567 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 1: and they would step into situations where they were the 568 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:46,800 Speaker 1: odd man out. They were different. They were like, where 569 00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 1: are you from? You know that those kind of vibes 570 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 1: happened because they weren't the traditional person that was expected 571 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,280 Speaker 1: to be where they were. But they walked in there 572 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 1: knowing what their ability was and let everybody's um knowledge 573 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:01,120 Speaker 1: of let let everybody figure agree out what they already knew. 574 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: They would walk into a room and be like, eventually 575 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 1: y'all will figure out that we're supposed to be here, 576 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 1: but until then, we're gonna stay here. We're not gonna 577 00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 1: leave because y'all think we're not supposed to be here. 578 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,320 Speaker 1: So I watched that my whole life, and so now 579 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 1: it created us, and there it created a driving me 580 00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 1: where I am from my nature likes to choose faith 581 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: over fear and courage overcomfort. That's that's just because I 582 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 1: know on the other side of that there is something bigger, 583 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 1: broader and better waiting for me. When I choose faith 584 00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 1: over fear, our courage overcomfort. That that's how I've gotten 585 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 1: to the place I am. It's because of my my family. 586 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 1: Now now you you appeared on the Voice correct, Yes, yeah, 587 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:37,320 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to remember because I's also I would 588 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: look at some photos and I was and you know, 589 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 1: I'm one of those surfers, you know. I look at 590 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 1: television and I just go from channel to channel. And 591 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 1: now that did you sing a moth and a song 592 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,960 Speaker 1: on the Voice? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I wasn't into that song. 593 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 1: I wasn't in that that that pan. I love our game, 594 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: but I wasn't. You know, you do down Anthony our 595 00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 1: the Marvin game because people have told me I looked 596 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 1: like Martha Gage. I'm a Marvin gay fan, know, I'm saying, 597 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,440 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let you know that you put you 598 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,320 Speaker 1: put me in the right angle, put me in the 599 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:13,560 Speaker 1: right darkness. I'm Marvin Gaye, oh day know and so 600 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 1: and when you did that, Marvin, I said, wow, wow, 601 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 1: because you're a certain artists you just can't do. And 602 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 1: I remember, I remember because because because at the time, 603 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 1: Aguilara was still one of the judges. Correct, Yeah, she 604 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 1: she was. She was my coach on the show. Yeah, 605 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 1: I don't know you. I would dude, Hey, hey, that 606 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,000 Speaker 1: might you might not have felt it, but you hit 607 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:36,680 Speaker 1: it though, Okay, thank you. Which it's hard to feel 608 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 1: that scenario in general, where a quiet room and four backs, 609 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, face you when you're saying 610 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:44,600 Speaker 1: like you're trying to get people to turn around, it's 611 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 1: just a weird feeling. And I come from the church. 612 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:50,400 Speaker 1: I come from church world, So like, what's going on? Right? Right? 613 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 1: I understand what you're saying because you used to people 614 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 1: giving it. It's being inspired by your voice, being inspired 615 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 1: by your movement, and you're looking at four chairs, you're 616 00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:00,480 Speaker 1: going okay, okay, and then then it's the song goes 617 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 1: along who it starts eating on you. Who's gonna turn rap, 618 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 1: who's gonna turn around? They're not gonna do me like this. 619 00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:08,680 Speaker 1: It's a lot of emotions to run your head when 620 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,360 Speaker 1: you're actually performing on the voice, because you have convinced 621 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,719 Speaker 1: four chairs to turn around, and as you say and 622 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:17,760 Speaker 1: then turn around, you go okay, really on National TV. Really, 623 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,600 Speaker 1: and normally you convinced them, You convinced people to turn 624 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,120 Speaker 1: around normally with intensity and kind of going off and 625 00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 1: doing the most. But Marvin gay didn't do that. So 626 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,239 Speaker 1: I was like, I was choosing in my head to 627 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,319 Speaker 1: honor Marvin Gaye and sing the song the way he would, 628 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,319 Speaker 1: which is chilled. But but the way you got those 629 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:34,440 Speaker 1: chairs to turn around was by doing the most. And 630 00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,920 Speaker 1: so I was I'm conflicted in my head because it's 631 00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 1: just a weird it's just a weird feeling to try 632 00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 1: to you know, he is the antithesis of doing the most. 633 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 1: He just was him and everybody loved him, you know 634 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:47,840 Speaker 1: what I mean. So I was trying to figure it 635 00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:51,160 Speaker 1: out anyway. I want to let you know I know 636 00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 1: of your abilities from that time frame. Now, prior to that, 637 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:58,720 Speaker 1: you had already dropped an album. Correct, Yeah, I actually 638 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:02,240 Speaker 1: had to three I had three albums out before The Voice, 639 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 1: So that's why it was weird going to the show 640 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:05,879 Speaker 1: because people were like, you already have a career, You're 641 00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 1: doing it. And that goes back to what I was 642 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:10,360 Speaker 1: saying a minute ago, which is choosing courage over comfort 643 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 1: and faith. I could have been comfortable and just stayed 644 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,400 Speaker 1: where I was, but this was an opportunity to do 645 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 1: something broad. I knew people would have stuff to say, 646 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 1: like what are you doing on a topic like why 647 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 1: would you do? You know? People talk, but I ask 648 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,640 Speaker 1: forward to what's going on in my life because of 649 00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 1: that show and the people in that nineties seconds during 650 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,080 Speaker 1: a battle round, I sang in front of fifteen million 651 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,000 Speaker 1: people at that point. That's how many people were watching 652 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:33,440 Speaker 1: the show. And what happened after the show, because I 653 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 1: chose to be to move to to push through that 654 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,000 Speaker 1: moment of like, wy should I be here or not? 655 00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:40,800 Speaker 1: Has been amazing. Stuff has happened off camera that no, 656 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 1: y'all wouldn't know about unless I told you, But it's 657 00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,560 Speaker 1: it's major. If we mentioned the Voice, we mentioned the 658 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,879 Speaker 1: albums everything. What is your message? What is your general purpose? 659 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:53,560 Speaker 1: I always tell people that I'm constantly building uh content 660 00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 1: so I could just push down my efforts so people 661 00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:58,360 Speaker 1: could look at understand I am, I'm a three sixty 662 00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 1: brand and so yeah, so like you know, I mentioned 663 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,280 Speaker 1: the VARs and before the Wars you had already dropped 664 00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,359 Speaker 1: three cs. You know what I'm saying. And you're about 665 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 1: to go on a fall tour with your sister. What 666 00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:10,080 Speaker 1: is what is the plan? You know you got that, 667 00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:13,400 Speaker 1: you got the turn key company, You're reaching masses. You 668 00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:15,320 Speaker 1: know you even knew the fact that, hey, when you 669 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:17,759 Speaker 1: was on divorce, you were seen by fifteen million. You're 670 00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:23,719 Speaker 1: very calculated in your approach and your planner correct, right, Yes, yes, 671 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,400 Speaker 1: I'm very calculated in my approach. And I can answer 672 00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:29,160 Speaker 1: your question on two sides. I'll inswo it first from 673 00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:31,839 Speaker 1: the business side, because that's obviously what we're here. We're 674 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,400 Speaker 1: here to talk about. Um. The business side is I 675 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,919 Speaker 1: want to work hard. Basically, I want to work hard 676 00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,640 Speaker 1: in these years of creating new concepts and ideas so 677 00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:43,279 Speaker 1: that I'm diversified. And that's just a basic you know that, 678 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,520 Speaker 1: that's just basic. That's released the money business. I want 679 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,200 Speaker 1: to be diversified because I'm also aware of the fact 680 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 1: that in entertainment, especially or in I do gospel, but 681 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,880 Speaker 1: in entertainment in general, I have to be aware that 682 00:36:55,880 --> 00:37:00,319 Speaker 1: there's always some new talent coming and eventually the road, 683 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 1: I'll be fifty five years old and there will be 684 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,919 Speaker 1: some other year old that that is doing. I don't 685 00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:06,799 Speaker 1: let you have to go out and sing. I don't 686 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:09,920 Speaker 1: want to feel like, you know, anybody need me to 687 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:11,720 Speaker 1: come saying because I gotta pay them more. I don't 688 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 1: want that. Maybe it made me think of what are 689 00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:18,400 Speaker 1: other ways I can be intuitive about what um using 690 00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:21,400 Speaker 1: branches of this ability not not going way off. And 691 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,120 Speaker 1: that was starting the production company. And that's also the 692 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:27,399 Speaker 1: vocal vocal arranging and contracting, which started because of the voice. 693 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,800 Speaker 1: Like we didn't talk about that, but I've vocal arranged 694 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 1: and contracted for Kanye and to Chains and Tyler the 695 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:38,040 Speaker 1: creatives Last Album and Blackish and all these different TVs 696 00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:40,040 Speaker 1: because of the chance I took on myself going to 697 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:42,440 Speaker 1: the voice. So it started to diversify me. So the 698 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 1: goal on the business side is to be diversified to 699 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 1: what I don't have to I get to do what 700 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:50,080 Speaker 1: I want to do. I'm doing what I'm living kind 701 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:53,200 Speaker 1: of in a state of um of of developing that 702 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:55,040 Speaker 1: so that later on I don't have a lot of 703 00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 1: half to I can. I can operate from a place 704 00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:00,520 Speaker 1: of want to not have to. And then sir, yes, 705 00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:03,880 Speaker 1: you know I call that. I call that multiple streams 706 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:06,000 Speaker 1: of income on this show that you just talked about, 707 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,120 Speaker 1: called multiple streams of income. Like you said, Hey, man, 708 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,160 Speaker 1: when I wake up, if somebody tell me no, I go, 709 00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 1: I just go back to sleep. That's just one, you know. 710 00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,200 Speaker 1: Oh oh that's overweight. Okay, cool, okay, cool, my wife 711 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,239 Speaker 1: look at me. You know, I don't stress. I don't. 712 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,240 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not gonna put myself in a position 713 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,319 Speaker 1: where somebody tells one person tells me my my, my 714 00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,759 Speaker 1: gigs over with, my life's over, my last checks over. 715 00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,640 Speaker 1: That can't happen with me. I've learned that. I've learned that. 716 00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,960 Speaker 1: And that's all you're telling that my listeners in our 717 00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:36,000 Speaker 1: viewer exactly exactly. And then the other point, it's real quick. 718 00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,680 Speaker 1: I was gonna touch on it that my purpose also 719 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:42,080 Speaker 1: is not just to be um about not well. Because 720 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,840 Speaker 1: I'm a gospel singer. I'm not just trying to be 721 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,480 Speaker 1: about the bottom line, which is very important. But I 722 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,279 Speaker 1: also want to make sure that the work I'm doing 723 00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:51,400 Speaker 1: is resonating in people's hearts and their souls. And I 724 00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,520 Speaker 1: there's don't be a story to tell above and beyond 725 00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:57,239 Speaker 1: money or number one, because those can come and go. 726 00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:59,160 Speaker 1: But but what happens in the lives of the people 727 00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,880 Speaker 1: that you're impacting, whatever field you're in. It's a happens 728 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:03,759 Speaker 1: to be more obvious with me because of what I do. 729 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,880 Speaker 1: But I think that that the peace and the emotional 730 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:10,239 Speaker 1: health and spiritual health that comes from Matt's also has 731 00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:13,440 Speaker 1: a value. May not be a monetary value, but there 732 00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,400 Speaker 1: is something to be said about making a good living 733 00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:18,640 Speaker 1: and being excited about what's happening in you and others 734 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:21,879 Speaker 1: emotionally and spiritually. I believe it's all tied together. That's 735 00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:25,520 Speaker 1: all prosperities to me, that's all being wealthy to me, 736 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 1: It goes beyond just the bank account. I love this dude. 737 00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:32,560 Speaker 1: You from Dallas, Texas. I'm from Houston, Texas. Uh, I'm 738 00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,000 Speaker 1: a foodie. I'm a foodie. I got I got nanny 739 00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,799 Speaker 1: seconds left in this show. Um, I'm gonna just tell 740 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:39,960 Speaker 1: you this. Uh, you know how the best food in 741 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,000 Speaker 1: the world is in Houston, Texas. Now I'm just gonna 742 00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 1: let y'all know Dallas, Houston, Texas is generally. I know 743 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,640 Speaker 1: you've been in Houston. Now, what where do you ate 744 00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:57,759 Speaker 1: toward you? Is where we live in Houston. Loopy, he's 745 00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:04,720 Speaker 1: not lying. Looping is you get the Pento beans? They listen, 746 00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:09,359 Speaker 1: I get to everything. I'm telling something. I would tell 747 00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 1: my wife Chico, I come home because I live in Houston. 748 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:13,920 Speaker 1: I live in Atlanta. She said, what you want say, 749 00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:18,200 Speaker 1: let's go by loope because they staying breakfast. They say breakfast. 750 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:20,279 Speaker 1: You know I'm telling the true And though I'm telling something, 751 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:24,960 Speaker 1: those beans with what they look through the chip, Oh lord, 752 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:28,200 Speaker 1: and that's where it starts to me. They got so 753 00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 1: much going on in there. So yes, I I actually 754 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 1: had my account on one time called me and go, 755 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,120 Speaker 1: what is this loope to a place? You need to 756 00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,160 Speaker 1: slow it out? Like that's that's how much you need 757 00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:39,400 Speaker 1: to start. Family means it to Rushaw and my wife. 758 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:42,759 Speaker 1: I'm going to town Saturday. I kid you not, I'll 759 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:45,040 Speaker 1: be leading a loope is told to you because I 760 00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:46,760 Speaker 1: go to the the one right on our tennis right around 761 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,600 Speaker 1: my house. So Anthony, next time you come to Houston, 762 00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:52,440 Speaker 1: know that you eat right around my house. You need 763 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,640 Speaker 1: to call me boy gay perfect. I gotta listen. I 764 00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:57,680 Speaker 1: will hit you up at two seconds. All right, but man, 765 00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,880 Speaker 1: you stay strong. I love you, brother. You keep winning 766 00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:02,440 Speaker 1: and always know this is family. Come to me. We 767 00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,920 Speaker 1: need to promote something. Okay, thank you, Thank you for 768 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 1: your time. I appreciate it. I was looking for a 769 00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:11,120 Speaker 1: better way to check in on our house while I 770 00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 1: was at work, and a friend recommended Blink. I was skeptical, 771 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,279 Speaker 1: but decided to give it a shot, and I bought 772 00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:20,200 Speaker 1: a Blink camera system. With our last security system, false alarms, 773 00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:23,200 Speaker 1: wires everywhere, and monthly fees, we couldn't get out of 774 00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,840 Speaker 1: my bad But our Blink system is different. Their motion 775 00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:29,080 Speaker 1: activated cameras that work inside and outside, their wire free, 776 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,120 Speaker 1: easy to set up, and they run on two lithium 777 00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,799 Speaker 1: batteries that last up to two years. Total peace of 778 00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:36,879 Speaker 1: mind and Blink camera system started under eighty bucks with 779 00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 1: no subscriptions. We were on vacation and I gotten to 780 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:41,960 Speaker 1: learn of my smartphone that motion was detected at our 781 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,319 Speaker 1: front door. I checked my Blink app and I saw 782 00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:47,040 Speaker 1: it was just my cool new device being delivered. Hey, 783 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 1: we agreed no new devices except Blink just kidding, not kidding. 784 00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:54,799 Speaker 1: With Blink camera systems starting under eighty bucks, home security 785 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:58,840 Speaker 1: just got easier. Go to Blink Protected dot Com, slash Secure, 786 00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:03,839 Speaker 1: Blink Protect acts dot Com, Slash Secure, blink Protect dot 787 00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:07,680 Speaker 1: Com slash Secure. Blink is an Amazon company and it 788 00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 1: works with Alexa Wow. Money making conversations. Well, I've heard 789 00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:15,360 Speaker 1: a great day. I always have a great day. The 790 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:18,160 Speaker 1: staff told me I came here looking sluggish, but said 791 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,319 Speaker 1: that I picked up the pace, which is always good 792 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,800 Speaker 1: to know that they have approved of my energy level 793 00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:28,440 Speaker 1: home money making conversations, Sam, I good, Sam thumbs up, 794 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,640 Speaker 1: Slams gives me the thumbs up. But next year I 795 00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:32,840 Speaker 1: saw our power couple. Hadn't had them on short a 796 00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:35,680 Speaker 1: long time, but they are fantastic. Last time I in 797 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:39,359 Speaker 1: in season three of Black Love and when I had 798 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,120 Speaker 1: them own the season one at Premier and it was 799 00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:44,760 Speaker 1: two great numbers. They are the creators of the popular 800 00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:48,360 Speaker 1: series Black Love that airs on the own network UM 801 00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:51,760 Speaker 1: two great numbers uh in season three. Like I stated earlier, 802 00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,280 Speaker 1: the goal is to become the hub for black couples 803 00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:59,480 Speaker 1: and singles looking to build community and conversation around healthy relationships. 804 00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:03,520 Speaker 1: A free stage of life. Please welcome back to money 805 00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:08,920 Speaker 1: making Conversation. My favorite couple, Cody and Tommy Oliver. Hello, 806 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:13,799 Speaker 1: your favorite couple. You gotta to you know, because y'all 807 00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,160 Speaker 1: y'all doing what so many people have said. It is 808 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:19,680 Speaker 1: a problem in the in the black community, not understanding 809 00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:23,839 Speaker 1: relationships amongst each other, not communicating with each other. And 810 00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,600 Speaker 1: it also you know, I don't know, are you helping 811 00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:31,240 Speaker 1: to find what black relationships can be? And they and 812 00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 1: when I say that, I mean they could be so 813 00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,759 Speaker 1: many different levels and so sometimes you know, I come 814 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,800 Speaker 1: from a traditional black family, you know, more from the South. 815 00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 1: My mom didn't work, she stayed at home and and 816 00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:46,920 Speaker 1: a lot of African American's my age have that experience 817 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:50,040 Speaker 1: like that. But technology has changed so many things. So 818 00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:53,600 Speaker 1: the experience of what black love is is being communicated 819 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:56,319 Speaker 1: differently to so many people. And that's why you are 820 00:43:56,360 --> 00:44:02,360 Speaker 1: my favorite. Tommy favorite is incredibly kind and we appreciate 821 00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,359 Speaker 1: that a lot. Absolutely tell me what's going on? Season three? Brother? 822 00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:11,120 Speaker 1: Come on now? Season three? There was the season three Yeah, 823 00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:15,640 Speaker 1: you you seem to have the scoop. I have to 824 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,040 Speaker 1: scoop that I'm gonna have some information. But to me, 825 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:22,040 Speaker 1: about it that you guys created this project, which which 826 00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,319 Speaker 1: I think is really let's go let's go back to 827 00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:27,480 Speaker 1: getting started. The first started because it was just an idea. 828 00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:30,560 Speaker 1: It was a concept where you called what I say, 829 00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:34,719 Speaker 1: called on favors to get people to reveal themselves in 830 00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,680 Speaker 1: an emotional manner as a couple. And then it and 831 00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:42,319 Speaker 1: then it aired and wail right, so we um, you know, 832 00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:48,719 Speaker 1: not quite that simple, but it felt like Hollywood's magic 833 00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:54,400 Speaker 1: happened for several years before there. But yeah, we we 834 00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:57,399 Speaker 1: certainly called on favors in terms of relationships with with 835 00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:01,239 Speaker 1: some friends and friends of friends and parents, friends to 836 00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:04,160 Speaker 1: sit down and have honest conversations. And Tommy and I 837 00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,279 Speaker 1: have kept it just the four of us in a room, 838 00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:09,399 Speaker 1: met him and the couple. So there's no gaffer, there's 839 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:14,200 Speaker 1: no p a, there's no you know, there's yeah, the 840 00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:17,000 Speaker 1: four of us. Tommy does all the production and I 841 00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:20,520 Speaker 1: just asked the question, and and so we keep it 842 00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 1: really intimate. And then and we've and we've tried to 843 00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:29,280 Speaker 1: maintain that um through season one, season two and what's 844 00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:33,360 Speaker 1: to come. And you know what, I think you move 845 00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,920 Speaker 1: inspired us. I think we should probably make an anouncement 846 00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:42,080 Speaker 1: sometimes here's the deal. Here's the deal, Tommy, you inspire me. Okay, 847 00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:44,000 Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about a little bit about the things 848 00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:48,000 Speaker 1: that you guys do outside of UH, outside of UH, 849 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:51,080 Speaker 1: you know, black love because of the fact that this 850 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:54,879 Speaker 1: is so important because of the fact that black people 851 00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:57,120 Speaker 1: were interesting group of people were interesting people. You know, 852 00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:01,040 Speaker 1: we don't talk about situation. When it comes to health issues, 853 00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:04,120 Speaker 1: we don't. We don't lad to talk about mental issues, 854 00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,880 Speaker 1: you know, we don't want to talk about I definitely 855 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,920 Speaker 1: want to talk about these sexual issues. Okay, So, so 856 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,240 Speaker 1: we we we were live in this little boxed world 857 00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:16,439 Speaker 1: of bad information, you know, and so and that bad 858 00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:21,080 Speaker 1: information really doesn't help because guess what if you're passing 859 00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:25,360 Speaker 1: along bad information leads to more ignorance, and so socially 860 00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:29,840 Speaker 1: and emotionally within our community we live. We live in 861 00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:35,040 Speaker 1: a box of lies, I believe, and your show, I 862 00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:39,600 Speaker 1: feel starts to peel back the truth and allow people 863 00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,400 Speaker 1: to be honest. That's why that's why I'm I'm fans 864 00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:45,880 Speaker 1: because of the fact that, you know, it's an idea 865 00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:49,360 Speaker 1: that that that only YouTube could have thought of, because 866 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:52,400 Speaker 1: of the fact that it was derived through through a 867 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,920 Speaker 1: trail of emotions through an idea of that this is 868 00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:58,360 Speaker 1: the truth and this is what's really happening, and we 869 00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:01,560 Speaker 1: want to reveal it. That's why when I watched an episode, 870 00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:03,880 Speaker 1: you know, it's really intimate to me. And you know, 871 00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:05,799 Speaker 1: I see him sitting here close to each other on 872 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,480 Speaker 1: the sofa. You know, nobody's you know, nobody's worried about 873 00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:10,759 Speaker 1: the shirt being buttoned up right on the pants. Talk 874 00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,880 Speaker 1: to time. They just you know, I'll be going, Okay, 875 00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,480 Speaker 1: they could have fixed their shirt right there, but this 876 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,320 Speaker 1: is but this is, this is the moment. You know, 877 00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:19,400 Speaker 1: I'm being a producer, you know what I'm saying exactly. 878 00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,520 Speaker 1: Trust me, sometimes I'm thinking it too. But I'm also like, 879 00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,880 Speaker 1: you know what, I don't want to stop right what's 880 00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,320 Speaker 1: what's happening right now? I don't want to stop someone 881 00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:34,359 Speaker 1: from sharing something by making themselves conscious. And so much 882 00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,400 Speaker 1: of it is, you know, like Cody said, it's the 883 00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,360 Speaker 1: four of his interroment. And so when you're sitting down 884 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,799 Speaker 1: with your friends or with your marriage mentors, if you 885 00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,120 Speaker 1: are fortunate enough to have them and somebody's shirt has 886 00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:47,920 Speaker 1: had something, you're not gonna be like, yo, bro, what's 887 00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,600 Speaker 1: up with your shirt? Right? Right right, right, right right, 888 00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:52,920 Speaker 1: because it will it will break the moment because it's 889 00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:56,040 Speaker 1: like it's about our story about how we should look 890 00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,799 Speaker 1: you feel me, yeah, and then that's what that's what 891 00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:03,080 Speaker 1: you know. I feel that that stops communication within the 892 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:07,080 Speaker 1: within the our black families. And that's why when I 893 00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,000 Speaker 1: look at the show, when you first came on the 894 00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:12,760 Speaker 1: show and they sent me some of take to review 895 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,120 Speaker 1: the show and really get a clue understand of the show, 896 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:19,720 Speaker 1: my big takeaway was thank you, thank you for allowing 897 00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:23,400 Speaker 1: us to talk and what what and hear me speak 898 00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,399 Speaker 1: like this, What has been the most satisfied takeaway from 899 00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 1: you guys with your show? I think it's been twofold one. 900 00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:38,080 Speaker 1: There is a sense of selfishness and so we started 901 00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,200 Speaker 1: the show because there are a couple of reasons. The 902 00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:43,799 Speaker 1: one was because we didn't have the examples that we 903 00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:47,480 Speaker 1: felt we needed in order to be properly equipped and 904 00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:50,480 Speaker 1: to be able to have a marriage back into this 905 00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:53,120 Speaker 1: name until we wanted to talk to people who had 906 00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:55,160 Speaker 1: done it. And so I think we've learned a lot 907 00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:58,360 Speaker 1: and we're still struggling and working through things, but having 908 00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:02,480 Speaker 1: gone through these couples in these interviews and this experience 909 00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 1: has certainly given us tools that helps us day to day. 910 00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:11,319 Speaker 1: But beyond that, like you said, the idea of there 911 00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,640 Speaker 1: are two things, we don't see ourselves. So before this 912 00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,399 Speaker 1: we hadn't seen ourselves much in the right way. We 913 00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:22,240 Speaker 1: were always categorized or misrepresented on TV or on social media. 914 00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:26,040 Speaker 1: And but we knew sort of like privately, we knew 915 00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:27,759 Speaker 1: that there were couples that made our work. We knew 916 00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:30,160 Speaker 1: that you know, there was a neighbor, the neighbor across 917 00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,000 Speaker 1: the street, or that you know a couple from the 918 00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:34,680 Speaker 1: church or whatever has been but they just never got 919 00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:36,840 Speaker 1: any shine. And so we wanted to be able to 920 00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:39,600 Speaker 1: show people no, no, no, we are out there. It's 921 00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:41,759 Speaker 1: happy love and couples. And then we wanted to be 922 00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:46,799 Speaker 1: able to normalize the this understanding of marriage and how 923 00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:50,360 Speaker 1: things actually worked, which is very different than if you 924 00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:54,440 Speaker 1: take your cues from TV or film. Now, when you 925 00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:56,480 Speaker 1: say when I was when I was reading some of 926 00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:58,360 Speaker 1: your credits, it was saying, uh, the goal is to 927 00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:01,160 Speaker 1: become the hub, which means that you want to be 928 00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:05,040 Speaker 1: a creative content of black couples and singles looking to 929 00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:09,320 Speaker 1: build community and conversation around healthy relationships at every stage 930 00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:12,160 Speaker 1: of your life. Explain that man, explain that format. So 931 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:17,759 Speaker 1: with with some Black Love, the series that is on own, UM, 932 00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:21,880 Speaker 1: we were able to show couples, married couples making it 933 00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:25,279 Speaker 1: work and what that requires, right UM. But one of 934 00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:29,080 Speaker 1: the things that we noticed is that in order to 935 00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,880 Speaker 1: have a healthy, happy relationship, a lot of the times 936 00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:35,320 Speaker 1: the relationships of your past and not you know, boyfriend's 937 00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:39,719 Speaker 1: girlfriends exclusively, but your parents, your siblings, your best friends, 938 00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:45,279 Speaker 1: those relationships being fractured, those relationships having trauma, those relationships 939 00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:48,480 Speaker 1: being uncomfortable or as you mentioned, you know, not talking 940 00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:52,640 Speaker 1: about what's real. UM play a role in your marriage 941 00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:56,120 Speaker 1: because they play a role in your expectations and UM 942 00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:58,880 Speaker 1: and how you operate in your patterns. And so we 943 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:03,040 Speaker 1: actually launched black love dot com to expand the conversation 944 00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:05,560 Speaker 1: past marriage. You know, we felt like it was important 945 00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:08,000 Speaker 1: to keep talking about marriage and partnership, but also to 946 00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:11,600 Speaker 1: talk about those other I guess tenants of one's life 947 00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:14,600 Speaker 1: and how important it is when we're trying to like 948 00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,759 Speaker 1: build a relationship for decades UM, to make sure that 949 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,360 Speaker 1: those other areas are healthy as well. This is a 950 00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:25,960 Speaker 1: passion project that I love talking to you too. About 951 00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:29,560 Speaker 1: because it's started with love. It's gonna be built on love, 952 00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:31,680 Speaker 1: and it's gonna be you guys are going to become 953 00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:36,360 Speaker 1: you know, content creators, content builders, holders of this information, 954 00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:39,520 Speaker 1: and distributors of this information. And I think that's amazing 955 00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:41,560 Speaker 1: that you've been able to find this level of balance 956 00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:44,840 Speaker 1: in your personal life and your professional life and something 957 00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:48,560 Speaker 1: that's a passion driven project that can make money. Rache. 958 00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 1: And we didn't say we had any balance in our 959 00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:55,480 Speaker 1: personal life. What did you say? I said we we 960 00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:57,799 Speaker 1: didn't say we have any balance in our personal life. 961 00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:03,680 Speaker 1: You do have about three kids were under three. You're 962 00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:05,759 Speaker 1: talking to me on this radio show right now. There's 963 00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:08,680 Speaker 1: part there that's balance because the kids somewhere else, somebody, 964 00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:10,600 Speaker 1: somebody else take care. I know what balance is. I 965 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,760 Speaker 1: got a kid, Okay, they in the interview of my life. 966 00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,920 Speaker 1: There is balanced, So somebody's take care. That's the balance 967 00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:19,600 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. But but I do We have two 968 00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,480 Speaker 1: minutes left and I wanted to uh comment up Tommy 969 00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:25,520 Speaker 1: coming a little bit on uh Flint, Michigan and what's 970 00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:27,120 Speaker 1: going on there. If you can update us on what's 971 00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:29,279 Speaker 1: going on up there, I really appreciate it. Uh It 972 00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:31,759 Speaker 1: made the news real big and you knows and it 973 00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,080 Speaker 1: just dropped off. What is that's going up there? If 974 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:35,400 Speaker 1: you can help us out a little bit before we 975 00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:37,759 Speaker 1: wrap up the interview, because I need one minute left 976 00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:42,520 Speaker 1: for you guys to give me the dramatic tease. 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So we we don't we're 990 00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:28,000 Speaker 1: not we don't have dates that yet, but it'll probably 991 00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:31,359 Speaker 1: shoot either later this year or easy the topic next year. 992 00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:33,920 Speaker 1: But we're still figuring out everything and we got to 993 00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:38,239 Speaker 1: really awesome talent on word and it's a it's a 994 00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:44,200 Speaker 1: meaningful and really cool project. You gods give me that 995 00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:48,160 Speaker 1: big tea soon. Three. Okay, so you alluded to it. 996 00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:57,319 Speaker 1: The Three of Black Love will return. And you heard 997 00:53:57,360 --> 00:53:59,080 Speaker 1: it here first, you did? 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