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Speaker 1: It's really good to be in studio. By the way,

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Speaker 1: this is the Ben and Ashley I Almost famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with IR Radio. Hey everybody, I'm Ben, oh and I'm Nicky. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're doing this like this. Um. Nick Viole is here today.

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Speaker 1: Ashley is out of the country and so we thought

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Speaker 1: special guest, the former Bachelor himself. Welcome to the podcast, Nick,

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Speaker 1: thanks for having Ben. Are you the most recent bachelor

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Speaker 1: other than Ari? Yes? Oh? Do we have the most

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Speaker 1: recent bachelor and the one before? Are you the one before?

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Speaker 1: So we have the two most recent bachelors talking about

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Speaker 1: the new one. You are nothing if not observing. Oh man,

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Speaker 1: it's like you playing that or something. Um. Anyways, immediately

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Speaker 1: I have some breaking news. I'd love to hear this.

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Speaker 1: I would like to read from US magazines End of

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Speaker 1: the Year issue some things that were the most googled in.

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Speaker 1: The most googled person Matt Lower, The most googled musician

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Speaker 1: Lincoln Park That's sad. The most googled wedding Pippa Middleton,

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Speaker 1: and James Matthews and the most googled breakup, Ben Higgins

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Speaker 1: and Lauren Bushnell. Way to go, congratulations, I was really

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Speaker 1: excited for this list. How is that possible? What do

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Speaker 1: you mean? How is that possible? How is that possible

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Speaker 1: that like more people googled you than Chris Pratt and

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Speaker 1: Anna Ferris or Anna Anna whatever her name is, Josh

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Speaker 1: de mel and Fergie. Let's know what you're saying right now?

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Speaker 1: Besides all yeah, besides all of variables that now my

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Speaker 1: I am like shocked, amy stop. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: be mean, like I'm proud of you. Well, I don't

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Speaker 1: want this is doing No, we're good people, truly believed

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Speaker 1: in your relationship. I believe that. Unfortunately that I don't

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Speaker 1: know what to say. I want to know what you're

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Speaker 1: feeling now that I've told you you're the most googled breakup.

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Speaker 1: How does that make you feel? Sad? Happy? I don't know, um, confused?

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Speaker 1: It's like a minor win in your failed relationship. There's

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Speaker 1: the Ultimate Participation Award. Hey, you tried really hard, really hard,

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Speaker 1: and as a result we cared. Yeah, but hey listen,

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Speaker 1: you know like people cared that you lost all right,

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Speaker 1: Hey everybody, unlike my relationship, apparently people just went on

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Speaker 1: with their day. It's like, well, you know, yeah, Nick,

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Speaker 1: do you think you'd feel better if you were the

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Speaker 1: most google I'm comfortable with letting Ben have this award.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's in Prince I printed it magazine. I

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Speaker 1: can see the picture, highest grossing film, Beauty and the beast,

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Speaker 1: most googled breakup, Ben Higgins. It's really nice to be

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Speaker 1: back in studio with you all um. I'm so happily

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Speaker 1: ever after your question, absolutely not. You know, there's some

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Speaker 1: I never thought I'd fall in love on the Bachelor.

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Speaker 1: ask Ben about Winter Games. You're going back. What were

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Speaker 1: take over too much. And you know, like producers let

427
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 1: women do their thing. But there if if someone says

428
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 1: I want to see Ari again, and they've already talked

429
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,919
Speaker 1: to him twice, they'll probably make it easy for them

430
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 1: to find our How long are those little talks It depends.

431
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 1: It could be thirty seconds, it could be ten minutes. Yeah,

432
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:19,879
Speaker 1: it just matters kind of where it's going and how

433
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 1: how beneficial it is. I mean, that's that's it, Nick,

434
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 1: It's the difficult situation. And as Amy was getting to,

435
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 1: these talks can often often be really short or really long.

436
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 1: You don't as the lead, you don't know how this

437
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 1: is going to play out, you don't know what it's

438
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: gonna look like. You want to give everybody their opportunity.

439
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 1: I want to ask you before we keep breaking down

440
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 1: this episode what was in week two? From one week

441
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 1: one to four, what was your most difficult experience being

442
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:45,680
Speaker 1: the bachelor? What was the situation that you didn't know

443
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 1: how to handle it? Well, I mean, I don't know

444
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:50,640
Speaker 1: if there's a situation I didn't know how to handle.

445
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 1: I think the most difficult thing about being the Bachelor

446
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 1: early on, it's just exhausting. I mean there's so many

447
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,680
Speaker 1: women that you really want to try to get to know, Like,

448
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,359
Speaker 1: you know, already had a gre update here was fifteen women.

449
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: So that's fifteen conversations. And assuming you only talked to

450
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 1: one person once, I mean, so he probably had twenty

451
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: little conversations. It's it's basically another night one. It's tiring,

452
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: itause exhausting. You have a sincere you have a sincere

453
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 1: effort to try to get to know these women, and

454
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 1: it's just exhausting. And so you know, for me, obviously

455
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 1: it was it was the Karin Show early on of

456
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 1: her wanting to get time and again, like it wasn't

457
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: like I didn't know how to handle the situation. It

458
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: was me letting Karinn be Karin, and then the fear

459
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Speaker 1: of like, you know, how how long can I let

460
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 1: this go on? Without really pissing off the other women's

461
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 1: it's a cat and mouse game. It's like it definitely

462
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 1: a juggling act. Is a complete juggling act. I think

463
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 1: you used the right word there. It's exhausting. Uh And

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493
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: we gotta get to I think one of the best

494
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: scenes ever in The Bachelor, one of the best dates,

495
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: Demolition Derby. That was pretty cool, amazing. I cannot believe

496
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 1: they were able to do that. Yeah, I was honestly

497
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 1: watching thinking a couple of things. One, it's just like

498
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 1: my dates were fine, there were, especially early on, but

499
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: like just early on, it's like hard to like, you know,

500
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 1: like Ari's first group date, he's Demolition Derby. He gets

501
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 1: to drive around and you can decorate these cars for

502
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 1: how do they find these cars that they just destroy?

503
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: I had to do a wedding photo shoot where like

504
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: I had to change into like twenty ridiculous freaking office

505
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 1: dressed up is like Adam and Eve and like half naked.

506
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 1: It was just like exhausting. And then like, yeah it

507
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: was Ori is just like driving around in cars, so

508
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 1: he's definitely that was a cool date. I mean, um,

509
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 1: I had some cool dates but whatever. Um, but yeah,

510
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:11,679
Speaker 1: that was that. When then I had the track date

511
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: where I'm just like running around. I didn't get to me.

512
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,879
Speaker 1: Carl Lewis, that was really cool. Um, but yeah, I

513
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: agree with you. I thought that was. I feel a

514
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: little bad for myself watching this episode. Now. I was like,

515
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 1: he pulls up in a motorcycle. I pull up in

516
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: a in a Volva. I had this, I had this

517
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 1: car convertible. Yeah different, I had this like a little

518
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:36,960
Speaker 1: tiny audio which wasn't very masculine at all. You know

519
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: that says about me? Yeah, it really went with all

520
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 1: his blue eyes and cloud puffy lips. Yeah, I mean

521
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 1: they're really playing this guy up. And then he could

522
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: have a demolition derby. I gotta break down and saying, okay,

523
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 1: so so far. We talked about Becca. She was lovely.

524
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 1: There's something more there than what you that any of

525
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:54,399
Speaker 1: the viewer actually knows. I think this she's gonna be

526
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 1: around about. We talked about Crystal on her one on

527
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 1: one date, really great one on one day. I feel

528
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 1: like she's playing into the role of hey, I need

529
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 1: more time, and she's overconfident in their relationship and as

530
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 1: a result, that's going to cause some problems I think,

531
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:12,159
Speaker 1: for her later. And now we're getting into the not

532
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: for the viewers. That's why we watch right now. We

533
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 1: watched A Fine Love and Ari goes on gets into

534
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 1: a car something he does love and Analyze does not

535
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: love it. She was the mass girl night one. She

536
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: has a breakdown because she has a terror of bumper cars.

537
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 1: Now here's the thing. Before we get into this, I

538
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: want to be very clear. I don't want to judge

539
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 1: her for her fear. I am so scared of clowns,

540
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: like so unbelievably scared of clowns. I know people that

541
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: are scared of dark spaces that are adults. I know

542
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: people that are definitely scared of spiders. Technology. There are

543
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: some weird fears out there. So let's set the record

544
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 1: straight as we get to talk here. We're not saying

545
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 1: she's wrong for her fear. Well, I asked her about it.

546
00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: What did she say? I met her, so we ked

547
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 1: about it last week that I hung out with her.

548
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: Can we have her as a guest? I think once

549
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 1: she doesn't marry Ari or does or does I would

550
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: I would love to ask some questions. Watching here's what

551
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 1: she told me. She had gone to do bumper cars

552
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 1: with her friends, and I guess they were mean to her.

553
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 1: What does that mean? I believe? And when she says friends,

554
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: how old is she? I think nine? Maybe let me

555
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: text her. Let me text her and find out how

556
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: old she was. But I think it triggered her or something.

557
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 1: She was having these like flashbacks stuff when like kids

558
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 1: were mean to her and bumping into her or something.

559
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: It was just like watching it, she's like she gets

560
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: really emotional. I'm like, oh, what happened? And I'm like

561
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 1: feeling really really bad. And then like I thought, maybe

562
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 1: she like got ran over or like there were some

563
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 1: serious injuries. And then she just basically described your like

564
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 1: very typical bumper car experience where people were bumping into

565
00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 1: you and ganging up on you, which is what like

566
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 1: what happens. Anyone who's ever done pepper cars has had

567
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: the same experience. And then she's just the way she

568
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 1: tells the story, it was just like it would be

569
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: the same as someone's like, you know, I just I'm

570
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: terrified of crossing the street because this is one time

571
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 1: I crossed the street. In the middle of me crossing

572
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: the street, it said don't walk, and I didn't know

573
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: what to do, and so I froze and all these

574
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: cars came and it was just like terrifying. So I

575
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: swear to God, I haven't crossed the street since you're right,

576
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 1: I mean, so my seven it was the most unrelatable,

577
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: like devastating story. Well, and it was hyped up. So

578
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: I was watching tonight and she's like crying, like you said,

579
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: I thought, I think it's gonna be like, oh, she's

580
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,479
Speaker 1: been in a major car wreck. A family's member been

581
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 1: in a major car wrec this is gonna be really hard.

582
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 1: The poor girl should not do this because it's triggering something.

583
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: But I'll be when she had an incident at the

584
00:30:56,080 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: County Fair, when when she announced her terror because of

585
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: my evilness, I laughed, Yeah, and then and I'm sorry,

586
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 1: and at least I'm sure you're I'm sure she's fine.

587
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 1: Who was there who called her out that she was

588
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 1: just like, I'm confused, and the girl was like, I'm

589
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 1: gonna ram right into I mean, the girls did not

590
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: take this series like they were like, yeah, I'm gonna

591
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: make her life worse because she's now announced her fear.

592
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: But she was scared. She was crying. It was crying.

593
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 1: I think she was just having a meltdown. I wouldn't

594
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: have done it if I was on the show, which

595
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 1: I would never be, But if I was, I would

596
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 1: have said, passed. I'm not going to go in that

597
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 1: rent a wreck and have someone banging into view past.

598
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: You're not gonna take the opportunity to overcome your traumatic

599
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 1: bumper experience. Because then is the good news is she

600
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 1: did and you know she's fine. No pass past. I'm

601
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: not going to like that weird car that had no

602
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 1: air bags or safety protect me. Stop stop what are

603
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 1: everybody out there listening? Amy doesn't get an elevator. She doesn't.

604
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,080
Speaker 1: She hasn't flown on a plane in eighteen years. She

605
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: drives everywhere. She's scared of everything. So her telling me

606
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 1: what she's scared of and wanting me to take it

607
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 1: serious is really difficult. I wouldn't get into those cars.

608
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: There's tons of things on your show. I'd never do

609
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 1: my point exactly, Yeah, my point exactly. You would do

610
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 1: very little. Amy won't go on the show. The show

611
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: won't have Yeah, she she would fill a couple of

612
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: good roles. Um, and she would be the hottie. But

613
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: thank you, I needed that today. Next thank you? Um Yeah,

614
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 1: I mean, but I did think that might have been

615
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 1: one of the best and most exciting group dates I've

616
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 1: ever watched on television. They're all very lucky that they

617
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: think they get to have that uh bumper car experience. UM. Okay,

618
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: let's move on the cocktail party, the heart and soul

619
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: of the Bachelor, you know, the Bachelor. Can we back

620
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 1: up for a second. We can do whatever you'd like.

621
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: Who was the young lady um from what I believe Miami, Um.

622
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 1: I call her no show Biana, one of our favorites

623
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 1: on this podcast, one of our favorites. No chill. I

624
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 1: have to refer to her is that from now because

625
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: that kind of starts on the group day and I

626
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: really quite liked her in terms of like every season,

627
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: there's always someone early on who like it's like it

628
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: just started. I mean that we're talking like day two,

629
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: day three of filming here, and this person is already

630
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: losing their ship in terms of like the time they're

631
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 1: not getting in just time out. We can't I like

632
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: what she's doing. Though she's being very honest, very straightforward.

633
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: We need to appreciate her honesty more. I'm not I'm

634
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: not saying I don't appreciate I'm saying she still has

635
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 1: no chill, Like she's she's listen that that world is

636
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: hard and painful and it messes with you. She clearly

637
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 1: has not gotten much time with ari Um. It's early on,

638
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 1: and that's getting to her. She clearly she might be

639
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: the coolest person. I'm sure she is, Like she's probably

640
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 1: a lot of fun, but she's very outspoken. Obviously clearly

641
00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 1: I would guess as an attractive woman used to like

642
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: getting attention, and now she's in a world that she's not,

643
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: and it's like messing with her and driving her nuts.

644
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,399
Speaker 1: And on the first date she is losing her mind

645
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 1: and melting down. It's is it weird that I'm semi

646
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 1: attracted to that I haven't attracted that my whole life.

647
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 1: I watched it. I'm like, I love this, it's great.

648
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 1: But like she's I mean, she's very intense. But anyways,

649
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 1: I think she might, like I think off camera she would.

650
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 1: I think she'd hit someone. Yeah, I think she would.

651
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: I think I think she's capable of hitting someone, a

652
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 1: guy or a girl. I hope it happens. I don't

653
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 1: think it will, but she is really over it, and

654
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:38,919
Speaker 1: so it kind of sets up into the cocktail party.

655
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 1: So I just wanted to segue into that bend. So

656
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: that was that. That was kind of the best part

657
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 1: of the cocktail party of her just going off on crystals. Yeah,

658
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,240
Speaker 1: crazy crystal, and then all the making out with Becca,

659
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: the shorthaired Becca. They just seemed to be making out.

660
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 1: She's the most impressive one I think just as as

661
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: a person. Well, it's interesting because like she's the youngest.

662
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 1: I love her. They don't show her her age. Um,

663
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 1: it was night one like little things you pick up on.

664
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 1: Clearly she's young. They won't show her age. But to me,

665
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: she's one of the most self assuring, confident people on there.

666
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 1: When she called out when the whole like what makes

667
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 1: you excited, and Ari said excitement like, you know, that

668
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 1: was a funny little thing, and like, you know, we

669
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: don't know if that was like the end of the night.

670
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 1: Are he's excited in his brains? Fried? Like, I'm not

671
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 1: here to pick on Ari about answering that question, But

672
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,360
Speaker 1: first of all, it was just a good question. It

673
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: wasn't like very overly specific, but it was better than well,

674
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,280
Speaker 1: I'm just happy to be here and tell me about yourself.

675
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 1: It was like, all right, I'm gonna like ask you

676
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 1: a question that like might be able to tell me

677
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 1: something about yourself by the way you answer it. So

678
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 1: I thought it was a very thoughtful question. She's not dumb,

679
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 1: problem is going to be her age. Yeah, And then

680
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: the fact that, like when Aris said the excitement word,

681
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 1: she had the confidence, not in any bitchy sort of way,

682
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: but she called him out. You know, in a lot

683
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 1: of situations on that show, she could have been like

684
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,359
Speaker 1: a lot of the women we are just like yeah, yeah,

685
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 1: excitement makes me excited too, Or she could have left

686
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 1: the conversation be like that moron, I'm sorry that moron,

687
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 1: like and so so yeah, she but the fact that

688
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:18,479
Speaker 1: she like had the confidence on Night one to call

689
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 1: out the big old bachelor in terms of it just

690
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: showed a lot of it showed that she was very

691
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,359
Speaker 1: self assured and confident herself. She's got a great voice.

692
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I'm really impressed with her. She's clearly

693
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 1: too young, and you're right, like, I think she'll go

694
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 1: for a while based off of that. She's very you know,

695
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: sexy and whatever, but like eventually I think her age, well,

696
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 1: we'll kill her. Well, it's funny. I'm watching it and

697
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, like, you compare this girl to karn it's

698
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: just like two and different maturity levels. Because she would

699
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 1: make a good bachelorette, but she's sex six years I'm

700
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: pretty sure. I mean that's but I mean it's good

701
00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 1: for her. She's so I mean that shows that she

702
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 1: is very Uh, she's very as a young lady. She's

703
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,879
Speaker 1: she's very impressive. Is in that world to like hold

704
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: her own and um, it's impressive. She I mean she

705
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 1: had one of the things that sit out to me

706
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: most on Night one was when she's sitting with Ari

707
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: and he was on the back of the car and

708
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: they were talking about, um, what they were into, and

709
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 1: she said, you know, something along the lines of so

710
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: far this is this is good for me, not giving

711
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 1: him too much confident, but just enough to be that,

712
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 1: you know, kind of sweet gesture to make him know, hey,

713
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: I want to be here a little longer. And I

714
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 1: think he was into it. He should be into it.

715
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 1: She's she's really great. She can you can tell. She

716
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: has a magnetic personality. He would want her, but she's

717
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:40,800
Speaker 1: like twenty years younger than him. Yeah, it would just

718
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 1: be frowned upon fifteen years. I say, if he's hey,

719
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 1: love is love. If you I'm not judging, you know

720
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: it's anyways. Um, So okay, Nick, I want to ask you,

721
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 1: we're gonna go to the cocktail party. People these girls

722
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: grabbing uh Ari for more time, even when they have roses.

723
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 1: I know you're probably I'm gonna assume you're a fan

724
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 1: of this because you're all about, hey, take your time

725
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 1: to get as much time as possible. I mean, listen,

726
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,879
Speaker 1: there's there's a there's there's a fine line of having show.

727
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 1: I think the idea that you have a rose and

728
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: so therefore you're not allowed. It's like, that's a bunch

729
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 1: of crap. I mean, I actually, and I think you

730
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: probably remember remember this when I came out on Caitlyn

731
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:21,439
Speaker 1: Seas and I was like, listen, remember that, Like I'm

732
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,399
Speaker 1: I don't I'm going to go out of my way

733
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 1: to try to find time with Cam and there's a

734
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 1: respectful way of doing it. But I'm not going to

735
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: concede time just because I've gotten a rose. There's a

736
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 1: difference between like getting a little bit of time and

737
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 1: waiting at the end or maybe there's you know, uh

738
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:37,800
Speaker 1: as opposed to like going three times. I mean that

739
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 1: was a little a little much, But I don't think

740
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,359
Speaker 1: you should immediately concede sometime because you've got some time.

741
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:46,359
Speaker 1: That's the most insane thing to do, to just be like, well,

742
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: I've already had some time, and therefore please guy and

743
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 1: try to like so you're saying the people, the cast

744
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,399
Speaker 1: members on the show, So the baby on it, let's

745
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 1: talk about beyond, and the babyon is upset because crystals

746
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 1: a rose and she keeps stealing Ari away from other conversations.

747
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 1: Do you feel like biby on anger is unwarranted, then

748
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 1: I think it's unwarranted to immediately be mad at the

749
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 1: first like she was mad immediately. She was mad that

750
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: she went to talk to her at all, like nothing

751
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 1: stopping Bibi On or anyone else to just grabbing her.

752
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:22,359
Speaker 1: So like this idea, like they even said on the show,

753
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 1: there was this kind of one moment where they're like, well,

754
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: she's gonna go and then I'm gonna go, Like they

755
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: all like made a list, like if they said a

756
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 1: lot of the producers are gonna just be like, all right,

757
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: we're all gonna grab you from i TM and just

758
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 1: mess up your intentions. But like that's insane, Like this

759
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: is not like this idea of we're all going to

760
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 1: share the same guy and so yes, but at the

761
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 1: same time, now that she's you know, and it's not

762
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 1: a quins that the girl who got the most mad

763
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 1: was the one she interrupted, you know. But I think again,

764
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 1: there it's a fine line, so like you can be

765
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 1: assertive and make the most of your time without being

766
00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 1: quote unquote disrespectful. And I think I think both girls

767
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 1: were wrong in that situation where Babiana was had no chill.

768
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: That's no chill, right, yeah, that's no chill, no chill,

769
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:11,840
Speaker 1: had no chill. And I think Crystal, I think Crystal

770
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: like should have just you know, been happy with a

771
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:17,320
Speaker 1: little bit of time and then left it alone. Do

772
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 1: you think, as guys that were on the Bachelorette that

773
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 1: guys in general have way more chill than girls? I

774
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 1: just picture myself in that situation, and I would just

775
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: run out of the house screaming like a maniac, Get

776
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:32,320
Speaker 1: me out of here. You just gave me the craziest

777
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,120
Speaker 1: So are you saying, okay, Nick and Amy, are you

778
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: saying you believe guys have more chill? Wait? Wait, it

779
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: just depends. I mean there's been plenty of guy breakdowns

780
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 1: and season. Yeah, I was there for that where any

781
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: of your guys, like Ben, you just took all the

782
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: time with this. It happens every season, every single season,

783
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: and it blows my mind that people are every single season. Yeah,

784
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,320
Speaker 1: I just cannot imagine guys being like that. Yeah, I

785
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 1: mean I just turned into some of the biggest women

786
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:03,880
Speaker 1: in that show. Well, I mean I go back to

787
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 1: when Nick came on. So we for the first four

788
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 1: weeks of The Bachelor during Caitlin season, the guys that

789
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:10,799
Speaker 1: we didn't go along with kind of all went home

790
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: pretty early, and so we never had that contention or

791
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 1: that those arguments existing. So when Nick came on, it

792
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: was a huge it really stirred the pot. We all

793
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:20,360
Speaker 1: had this kind of close knit friendship. I think he

794
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 1: felt it. We can ask him. He sitting next to me. Um,

795
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:27,279
Speaker 1: he he comes on and anytime he interrupted, he kind

796
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: of became the guy that was the interrupter. And a

797
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:34,240
Speaker 1: couple of guys that's the thing. Fair in your opinion,

798
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 1: but from like the Josh Alberts of the world, who

799
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 1: was on Caitlyn season with us, he was one of

800
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: those guys that got very upset with you interrupted me.

801
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: I didn't interrupt, Josh. Well, we need to break this

802
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: down a little bit. It sounds like we haven't figured

803
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:49,920
Speaker 1: this one out yet, but it's true. If that happens

804
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 1: every year, it's it's gonna happen. Um, did you did

805
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:57,920
Speaker 1: you ever on Caitlyn season. There's a difference interrupting and

806
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 1: then going right because every every time they're like, all right, hey,

807
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:03,800
Speaker 1: I want to talk to so and so, especially early on,

808
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 1: they're like, all right, well she's in that room talking

809
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: to someone. Go in there, right, And I know I'm

810
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,839
Speaker 1: assuming at some point you went and grabbed Caitlin while

811
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: she was talking to a guy. Now, of course, now

812
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 1: they just some Again. I've always said that they choose

813
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: this air some things and then choose the air not right, right,

814
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 1: and so like that happens. In fact, that almost happens.

815
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: Every single conversation is almost always ended by someone else

816
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 1: coming in because I'm thinking about it. In real life,

817
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 1: we're all at a party, right, and like, some girls

818
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 1: want to talk to Nick. It's not like they're going

819
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 1: to ask each other if you had some time with Nick,

820
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 1: because I have. But it's it's the people who go

821
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 1: like it's the people who go like two or three

822
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 1: times in a night. There's a that's but at a

823
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: real party, in a real life this is supposed to

824
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,280
Speaker 1: be real life, right, So at a real life party,

825
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 1: you just go and talk to who you want to

826
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 1: talk to when you want to talk to them. There's

827
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 1: no like list and I haven't had my time. It's like,

828
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: so this is supposed to be real life, and I

829
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 1: guess Crystal can do whatever she wants, But isn't real life,

830
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 1: and we're not go like if you saw a guy

831
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 1: and a girl talking and either they were hitting it

832
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 1: off or you don't even know if the in a relationship,

833
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 1: you're not gonna walk up and be like hey, like listen,

834
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: I just borrow this dude for a second, like that's

835
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 1: not gonna happen. So well, that does not compare this

836
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:17,879
Speaker 1: to real life, because it's not. Um No, it's real

837
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: life for me, Nick, I had to relive the most

838
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 1: Google breakup of It's a real it's a real Like

839
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 1: I've said this before, it's very real and a very

840
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 1: unrealistic environment. It's not a realistic environment, you know, but

841
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 1: everything on that in that world is real. These are

842
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 1: real freakouts, These are really like real feelings, These are

843
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:43,480
Speaker 1: real conversations in an incredibly unrealistic situation. Because we have

844
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 1: the opportunity to have Nick in studio, I want to

845
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 1: take a little time here too, honestly, earnestly and the

846
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 1: best of our ability break down aries bachelor performance so

847
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 1: so far, Okay, if you want to call it a performance, um,

848
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 1: I don't know what else to call it. So if

849
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:04,800
Speaker 1: you have a better word for it, please right in

850
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 1: and tell me. But Ari is earnestly trying to find love.

851
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 1: We've we've said that. I believe he cares a lot

852
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: about the woman involved, he cares a lot about the process,

853
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 1: um Nick, so far, after watching Ari, what do you

854
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:22,839
Speaker 1: think his intrigue and appeal is like what the women

855
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 1: seem very into him. Um, I feel like the country

856
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 1: is going to start falling in love with this guy

857
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 1: because they really want to see him successful. I mean

858
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 1: that's the question I'm asking you. But what why would

859
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 1: they want to find? Why would they want to see that?

860
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: Like what intrigues them by about Ari? I mean, he's

861
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: a good looking guy and I met him once. He's

862
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 1: been very nice. Um. I mean so far this season

863
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: has been kind of it's interesting because he hasn't been

864
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 1: on in a while, and I feel like it's almost

865
00:44:53,000 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: slightly more reminiscent of like past seasons. Um, it's old school. Yeah,

866
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 1: I mean listen, not everything like I say this, um sarcastically.

867
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: And I wasn't thrilled with it when it happened, but like,

868
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 1: not every Batcher can be as lucky or unlucky in

869
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 1: terms of good TV of having someone they you know,

870
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:19,319
Speaker 1: met at a wedding on episode one to create immediate drama. Um.

871
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 1: You know, I wasn't thrilled with it, but certainly it

872
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 1: made things, you know, interesting for viewers. Um. And so

873
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 1: it's kind of again. I just found it really interesting

874
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: that they started with two one on ones. It was like,

875
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 1: you know, like you know, usually the you know, you

876
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 1: get a little drama early on. I mean, Ari doesn't

877
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 1: seem like he's going to take a ton of risks. Um,

878
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 1: are you scared? I mean, are you scared for Ari

879
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 1: at all? Because he won't take those risks not necessarily?

880
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, again, Ben and I you have

881
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 1: talked about it's it's hard for me to be critical

882
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 1: of of Ari or any other batch or just because

883
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 1: it's so hard to be the lead and there's so

884
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 1: many things we don't know, invariables, and it's it's easy

885
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: to nitpick, like you know, the way they answered questions,

886
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: so much of of what's talked about isn't aired, you know. Um,

887
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: so it's hard to me for me to be overly critical. Um,

888
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:19,840
Speaker 1: you know, he's just kind of he's just kind of

889
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 1: going through it. I just don't My guess is this

890
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 1: season is we're going to get all most of our

891
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 1: entertainment from the women, and I don't think we're gonna

892
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 1: get a ton from Ari. I mean that's kind of

893
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 1: that's somewhat truthful in every season, uh is because they

894
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 1: just don't allow that, you know. Um, and so I

895
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 1: think that might be just even more heightened on this

896
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 1: season because I just got the impression that Ari, we'll

897
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 1: just kind of you know, and I think that's well,

898
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: I think that's why, in all honesty, I was so

899
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:54,800
Speaker 1: excited for your season, because you were the first person

900
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 1: in a while that I thought had the confidence, knew

901
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: themselves the most, and and cared enough about the process

902
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 1: to take those risks. I mean, I I was, I

903
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,399
Speaker 1: kind of did whatever. They just you know, they again

904
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 1: don't show a lot and you know, I I there

905
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:09,560
Speaker 1: were conversations I had that I wanted to get aired

906
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:11,759
Speaker 1: because it showed me having more of an opinion and

907
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 1: things like that. But like again, I don't get to

908
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 1: choose what they show or don't show. Obviously you had

909
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:20,880
Speaker 1: like the drama with Liz early on, and you know,

910
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:24,320
Speaker 1: the I was willing to take a risk on taking

911
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 1: Karen far I knew I wasn't get criticist for it,

912
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,239
Speaker 1: but I had my reasons. You know, everyone wanted to

913
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: meet the nanny and she was cool, um, and so

914
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 1: you know, um, but yeah, it's it's it's tough to

915
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 1: to criticize. I mean, I will say, you know, we

916
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 1: talked about this before. Like, I do believe Ari is Sincerian,

917
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 1: is pursued for love. I think every single lead wants

918
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 1: it like and people are like, oh, like, you don't

919
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: become the lead with the pressure of knowing that everyone

920
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 1: who watched the show expects you to fall forward and

921
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 1: not want it like it's terrifying. I mean, I was

922
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 1: terrified that it wouldn't work out for me. I desperately

923
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 1: wanted it to work out. Um, you know, and so

924
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: I definitely believe he's sincere in that. Um. I mean

925
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: I don't. I think you make a good point there.

926
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:16,440
Speaker 1: I don't think Chris or the show would have a

927
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 1: lead who they didn't believe really wanted to find somebody

928
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: because that could blow that could blow this whole show up.

929
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 1: And so I think every lead we have to expect, hey,

930
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 1: they really care. I think Ari uh cared, maybe so

931
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 1: much because he feels like this is maybe his last chance.

932
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,399
Speaker 1: Not and it's not. We know that, but I think

933
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: the pressure of all this felt like that to him.

934
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:38,919
Speaker 1: I don't know about that. I mean again, I don't

935
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 1: think I think if if Ari didn't become the Bachelor,

936
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 1: I think he'd be fine. I don't think anyone becomes

937
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 1: the batchler because they think this is there they'll never

938
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: find love in the real world. That's I think he feels.

939
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 1: Once you get asked to be the lead, there's just

940
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 1: an immense amount of pressure on the expectation of what

941
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 1: that is. And I think, you know, the show took

942
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 1: a risk asking r to be the Bachelor, and there's

943
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 1: immense amount of pressure UM on that. And I think

944
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:08,399
Speaker 1: and so if nothing else, Yeah, like listen, if it's

945
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 1: an opportunity to meet someone, and I think Al takes

946
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: it very seriously, and I he wants it to work out,

947
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,640
Speaker 1: like every lead does. Um. I don't know if he

948
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: wants it more or less than any lead before him.

949
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: And I don't know if it's has anything other than

950
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 1: to do with that's the world he agreed to be

951
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 1: a part of and that's the expectation of the show. UM.

952
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 1: I don't think that in any way makes it insincere. UM.

953
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 1: And I you know, yeah, I mean you're not wrong there.

954
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 1: I think you're actually spot on. I realized last night

955
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:37,880
Speaker 1: watching the episode that Ari was not one that was

956
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:39,800
Speaker 1: going to take many risks. And do you do you

957
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 1: want to know why? Why's that? Because on his one

958
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 1: on one day with Crystal. They went back to Scottsdale

959
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: and they visited his apartment, and as they walked into

960
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 1: his apartment, they walked through his closet, and his closet,

961
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:54,840
Speaker 1: if you paid close attention, was completely from shoes to

962
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:59,399
Speaker 1: helmets to his shirts color coded. I mean, I'm not kidding,

963
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 1: you need to watches back. Everything was color coded, which

964
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 1: tells me one of two things. He has a dark side,

965
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:14,359
Speaker 1: or the man knows what ye or the man knows

966
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 1: what he wants and he knows how to represent his wardrobe.

967
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 1: I actually have my closet color color coded, so I

968
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 1: cannot you know which is a lot of cardigans apparently

969
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:26,800
Speaker 1: dresses like Mr Rogers me or him? Alright, he does know.

970
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 1: I wondered that too. His his wordrobe is not risque

971
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 1: in itself, so I wanted to bring that up. I

972
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:34,839
Speaker 1: did notice his his closet was color coded. What one

973
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 1: situation is the bachelor that I never knew how to

974
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 1: do well. I don't know if anybody knows how to

975
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,800
Speaker 1: do it well. But it also really affected me and

976
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: and my experience was this this the breakups, the saying goodbyes,

977
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 1: the moments where you have to give no explanation, but

978
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:56,759
Speaker 1: you're asking somebody to leave. Tonight, we saw Ari at

979
00:50:56,800 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 1: the roast ceremony say goodbye to somebody. She walks out,

980
00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 1: no hug, no goodbye, No, hey, this has been great.

981
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 1: She walks out and wants an explanation, and are are

982
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 1: all ri you can do is try to hug her,

983
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: which was awkward in itself and are probably not a

984
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:13,800
Speaker 1: great decision there, But hey again, what do you do?

985
00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:19,800
Speaker 1: How do you recommend any bachelor bachelorrette saying goodbye? And

986
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: and does Ari o her an explanation? I thought I

987
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 1: thought that was a great TV moment um. It was

988
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:29,759
Speaker 1: a classic case of you can't fire me. I quit

989
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 1: because she was like, well, I don't even like I'm

990
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 1: not even upset about you. I just don't want to

991
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 1: have friends here and I have friends here, which is

992
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 1: probably true, but like she just felt the need to

993
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 1: say that. I give ari a lot of credit because

994
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 1: like that is you think you said it best. It's

995
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 1: an incredibly awkward situation, and so you're just so used

996
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 1: to people kind of like quote unquote doing what they're

997
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 1: supposed to do, and just like I'm gonna give you

998
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 1: an instance here hug and say thank you and wish

999
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 1: you the best of luck and you're gonna leave, but

1000
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 1: she didn't. And it's just like in that moment, already

1001
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:03,759
Speaker 1: has this side what do I do? Which like there's

1002
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 1: no playbook and and you know, I we I think

1003
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:08,359
Speaker 1: we'd all like to think we would do the same thing,

1004
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:09,840
Speaker 1: but like I don't know, it could just be like

1005
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 1: this awkward. Like I don't know, do I make it

1006
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:13,440
Speaker 1: worse by going over? So I give Area a lot

1007
00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 1: of credit by going and making an attempt, and you know,

1008
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: whether you try to hugg her or whatever, like I don't,

1009
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:19,839
Speaker 1: that's not on Ari, that's it's just like you said,

1010
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 1: it's very awkward situation. She thought had andoed herself terribly

1011
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 1: showed in an immends amount of immature a charity, uh,

1012
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 1: And like I thought it was really telling that she was,

1013
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 1: like I've never been broke up with before, and like,

1014
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:32,759
Speaker 1: clearly I don't know how all this girl is, but

1015
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:35,799
Speaker 1: I'm guessing she's incredibly young and very immature and has

1016
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: a lot of growing up to do and for future,

1017
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 1: for future cast members, I think it's important to remember

1018
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:44,240
Speaker 1: that at most people don't get a lot of memorable

1019
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 1: moments or air times. But your most memorable moment is

1020
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:49,800
Speaker 1: always going to be unless you get engaged, when you

1021
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 1: get dumped, and it has a chance to be either

1022
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: a great moment or a bad moment. I've you know,

1023
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:55,879
Speaker 1: kind of you could argue, but on the best side

1024
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:59,959
Speaker 1: of both moments. I mean, but yes, she clearly didn't

1025
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: show any type of maturity or gracefulness and in her

1026
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 1: breakup and uh if for for people go on when

1027
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:10,760
Speaker 1: you get dumped, you know, that's your moment to shine

1028
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 1: and shows show something that that's it. I mean, that's um.

1029
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 1: She didn't handle her stuff very well, which it was

1030
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 1: fun to watch. You know. The goodbye is always hard

1031
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:21,360
Speaker 1: in the Bachelor because there isn't a lot of explanation.

1032
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 1: There's not a lot of lead up to it. Pretty

1033
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:27,520
Speaker 1: much for the most part, you're saying goodbye for whatever reasons,

1034
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:30,879
Speaker 1: and you just hope that there's an understanding that, hey,

1035
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:35,399
Speaker 1: this show has thirty people on it, I'm only gonna

1036
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:38,880
Speaker 1: hopefully end up with one. There's gonna be a lot

1037
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 1: of goodbyes. I don't want to say goodbye either. This

1038
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 1: isn't the fun part for me or the lead. Please

1039
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 1: make this as easy as possible, and if you want

1040
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:49,800
Speaker 1: an explanation, maybe reach out later. But that moment, like

1041
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:53,800
Speaker 1: you said, is is is your your shining moment. You

1042
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 1: know what, Be cordial, say your goodbyes, keep your head

1043
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:01,239
Speaker 1: held high. You're you're gonna be fine, You're you're gonna

1044
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 1: be okay. Well, let's let's be honest, like at this point,

1045
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 1: Ari doesn't know any of these women. He knows Becca

1046
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 1: a little bit because he went on on a one

1047
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: on one day with there, he knows Crystal a little

1048
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 1: bit because, but other than that, he doesn't really know

1049
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: any of them yet. The hardest part about being the

1050
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:18,399
Speaker 1: batchelor sometimes is um, like you're always gonna be drawn

1051
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 1: to a handful of women and just it's just natural,

1052
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 1: and it's you try to be open to get to

1053
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:26,759
Speaker 1: know the rest of the women, but it's harder to do.

1054
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 1: And women are intuitive and smart and they pick up

1055
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: on that um and you know, so they they're they're

1056
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,439
Speaker 1: kind of faking it too in terms of their level

1057
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:38,719
Speaker 1: of interest for the lead until they get broken up

1058
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:40,239
Speaker 1: with and they're like, well, I don't even like them,

1059
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:41,759
Speaker 1: and then they go home and they get on a

1060
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 1: group chat with all their other you know, early exit

1061
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 1: friends and like just talk crap about you know, Ari

1062
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 1: and and and all the girls who are still there.

1063
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:54,360
Speaker 1: Like it happens every season. Um, there's always an immediate

1064
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 1: group chatte I mean for my season, one of the

1065
00:54:57,680 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 1: breakups that stood out to me the most was when

1066
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 1: were in bar Uh, this beautiful young lady from Oklahoma

1067
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 1: said goodbye. She just wanted to leave, she wanted to

1068
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 1: go home. It wasn't for it's a power move. But

1069
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 1: it also affected me because that was weak, I think

1070
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 1: two and I was questioning myself not at that point,

1071
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:16,680
Speaker 1: is this gonna happen to me over and over and

1072
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:18,800
Speaker 1: over again? Is this is this? Is this gonna be

1073
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:23,840
Speaker 1: a constant this season? Yeah, luckily that didn't happen to me.

1074
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, because you're you're told it doesn't mean anything.

1075
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:30,359
Speaker 1: It just means that maybe they that's maybe just I'm

1076
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,960
Speaker 1: sure there are plenty of girls who are like, he

1077
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 1: doesn't even like me, but I hate him, you know

1078
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:36,960
Speaker 1: who knows, right, But like that's the show is like

1079
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:38,840
Speaker 1: you're told that you're the guy or the man, and

1080
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:40,759
Speaker 1: everyone's there is like I can't believe it's you and

1081
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:42,799
Speaker 1: you're so great And then like and that was when

1082
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 1: someone leaves. I mean, like that would just mess with

1083
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:48,200
Speaker 1: your psyche. Um you handle yourself well, then thank you

1084
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 1: having a power moved by that Lauren girl, like you know,

1085
00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: who is this? Like who sincirely was like I'm out,

1086
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 1: I'm out from this dude that I'm gone listen. But

1087
00:55:58,160 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 1: also like you probably weren't giving her any time and

1088
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:02,720
Speaker 1: she probably knew it and she beat you to the punch.

1089
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 1: That's all. Yeah, I think for the exit where she's

1090
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 1: she told Ari, Hey, I have a lot of friends here,

1091
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 1: I'm not that upset about you. In a sense is

1092
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 1: a power move as well, and so we got to

1093
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 1: give her a little credit. I don't think so credit.

1094
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:19,520
Speaker 1: That was just like you can't fire me, I quit

1095
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:23,520
Speaker 1: so so Nick, good for you to finish this up. Then,

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00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 1: on a scale of one to ten, how is ari

1097
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 1: as the bachelor so far? I don't know. I don't

1098
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 1: feel that was so weak. I think you don't feel

1099
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 1: like making headlines? What else would you invite you on

1100
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 1: the podcast with you and rumor willis while we're at it?

1101
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:45,280
Speaker 1: Friend just everybody was talking about it because you posted

1102
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 1: a photo with it. Yeah, she's just a good friend.

1103
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:50,240
Speaker 1: I mean not just she's a great friend, she's awesome.

1104
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 1: You walked into that season. I gave you a one

1105
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:56,440
Speaker 1: to ten. All you have to do is give give

1106
00:56:56,480 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: a positive number. Instead, Amy just crushes you with, Hey,

1107
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 1: what's this gossip of about? Oh? I got way more

1108
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 1: secrets than that. All right, So Nick, we want to

1109
00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:08,920
Speaker 1: go into one of our favorite segments, and that is

1110
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:12,880
Speaker 1: taking reading emails from our listeners. But before you do,

1111
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:14,839
Speaker 1: I want you to give me right now, who's your

1112
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 1: top choice of cast members on the Bachelor and who

1113
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 1: is someone on the batchelor right now that gives you hesitancy.

1114
00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 1: I don't know about hesitancy. I'll start with but listen,

1115
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 1: it's fun to watch the women who are creating good TV.

1116
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if they give me hesitancy.

1117
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 1: You know, uh, I don't think Lauria Ari's gonna end

1118
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 1: up with Crystal. Who's the other who's the young lady,

1119
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:42,479
Speaker 1: who's a mother? Who? You know? I think it's gonna

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00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 1: be an entertaining show because, like you have in this week,

1121
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,120
Speaker 1: you have a lot of personalities, a lot of women who,

1122
00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 1: like you know, Chelsea, you watch episode one, You're like, oh,

1123
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:53,360
Speaker 1: here's your villain, and then all of a sudden Episode two,

1124
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:55,360
Speaker 1: you got Crystal and you're like, oh, here's another villain.

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00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 1: You know, then you have no chill freaking out, and

1126
00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: then you said you have some other other moments. So

1127
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 1: I think it's going to be interesting. None of these women,

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00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 1: I think really are probably gonna win or capture are

1129
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 1: his heart. But who knows. Um, I don't know. If

1130
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 1: they give me hesitancy. I hope there's more of it.

1131
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 1: I hope they stick around for a while. Um. In

1132
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:18,960
Speaker 1: terms of you know, Becca, both Becca's, I mean I think, um,

1133
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: the Becca who had the one on one day, she

1134
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 1: just seems like, you know, someone who again she has

1135
00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 1: has some confidence, she seems mature. They seem to hit

1136
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 1: it off. You know. Again, we've already talked about her

1137
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 1: sticking around. I think we are on the same page

1138
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,800
Speaker 1: that the other Becca. Um, well, you know, it's too

1139
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 1: young and will be kind of the her fate. But

1140
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 1: to me, she's easily she's the only one who really

1141
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 1: stands out. I mean, she's you know, and you know,

1142
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:44,960
Speaker 1: I don't think that means either Ben and I want

1143
00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:48,520
Speaker 1: to you know, meet Becca in that sense, but well

1144
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 1: there you mean you're you're fairly age appropriate. Um. But

1145
00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: she's to me the only one who really stands out

1146
00:58:57,240 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 1: in terms of I think in Yeah, the rest I'm

1147
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 1: not don't. I can't really remember, I'm sure. More it's

1148
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:08,080
Speaker 1: early on, so it's hard to have anyone stand out.

1149
00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:10,960
Speaker 1: So again, it's I think it says more about Becca

1150
00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:15,840
Speaker 1: standing out this early on, um, just because she clearly

1151
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 1: has something going for in that sense, and she's probably

1152
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:21,440
Speaker 1: just been that type of person who's always stood out. Um.

1153
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: And you know, I think as as the season progresses

1154
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 1: will have we'll get introduced to more women and more

1155
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 1: personalities and their stories and and things like that. All Right,

1156
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:33,480
Speaker 1: So I want to give my top girls Number one.

1157
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 1: C n She's she's an Ivy League grad, she got

1158
00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:39,320
Speaker 1: the group they rose, She's been a little quiet so far.

1159
00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:42,960
Speaker 1: I find her absolutely beautiful and very very intriguing. Um.

1160
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:45,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go in order, so I have a top

1161
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 1: five here. Uh. Next is one that I don't know. Guys.

1162
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 1: Nick doesn't want to create headlines, but I might have to. Um,

1163
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 1: I think this tea girl is something special. Which one

1164
00:59:57,600 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 1: she's guys, you're really crushing my moment. Raven's friend. The

1165
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 1: one who arm tattoo. Yeah, she's very very interesting, funny, Uh, beautiful.

1166
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 1: I don't know she she might have a future. Yeah,

1167
01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:20,560
Speaker 1: let's not forget the original Becca. I'm moving on. Yeah, Brittany, Brittany,

1168
01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:23,280
Speaker 1: the one from last week that I thought maybe went home.

1169
01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:25,840
Speaker 1: There must have been another Brittany that went home. Brittany

1170
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 1: is great, Marie owns the restaurant. Uh, stunningly beautiful. Here's

1171
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 1: one for you. No chill, Bibiana. I mean that girl,

1172
01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:39,400
Speaker 1: she's got something special. I know she's she's aggressive, I

1173
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 1: know she's fierce. I'm not saying it's bad, she just no.

1174
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:44,560
Speaker 1: But I watched her, and I say, girl, you get

1175
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 1: it like you just keep causing drama and I'm gonna

1176
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 1: keep watching. You should have been the Bachelor yet. Um? Yeah,

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01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: the original Becca obviously, uh is one of a kind.

1178
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: Original one on one Um. Yeah, one on one Becca,

1179
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 1: call her their original? Yeah, the original the top dog. Um.

1180
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 1: And then here's the ones that give me hesitancy and

1181
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 1: and I mean hesitancy in the in the sense of

1182
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:10,720
Speaker 1: I'm a little bit like it's early on. We don't

1183
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 1: know them fully. We've liked them at times, maybe I

1184
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:16,600
Speaker 1: haven't And I'm a little nervous. Chelsea, the mom I

1185
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:18,880
Speaker 1: thought had Episode two was one that I go, Okay,

1186
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:20,920
Speaker 1: I can see it now she's she's great. She was

1187
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 1: nervous night one because she didn't want to tell her

1188
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:24,840
Speaker 1: she had a kid. Now that she said that, we're

1189
01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:26,640
Speaker 1: gonna start to see her real personality and I think

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01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:29,920
Speaker 1: she might shine. But she still gives me hesitancy. Uh

1191
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:33,440
Speaker 1: mickel Um, you know obviously just we didn't see a

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01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:36,880
Speaker 1: lot from her week two. She she was the one

1193
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 1: that drove up in in the fancy car on night one,

1194
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 1: flipped her hair around a little bit. Yeah. She She

1195
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:47,800
Speaker 1: was in the news this week apologizing for um a

1196
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:52,440
Speaker 1: picture she posts on Instagram years ago. So yeah, Mickelson,

1197
01:01:54,840 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 1: it was appropriately racist. Yeah so what she yeah? Um?

1198
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 1: And then we have Crystal. Crystal was one that I

1199
01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:06,440
Speaker 1: know we talked about a little bit ago. There's just

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01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 1: something different there And I don't know why she won't

1201
01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 1: just be friendly and day ari and chill a little bit.

1202
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 1: I actually will call her my no chill number two. Um,

1203
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 1: she's just vocal fry. So that's that's that's why I

1204
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:24,720
Speaker 1: got top CNTA, Brittany Marieke and Bibbie, Anna and then

1205
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Speaker 1: the original Becca. Hey, everybody. Before we're moving the emails,

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1209
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Speaker 1: we're all very busy. Uh. Luckily we we spaced out

1210
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Speaker 1: some time for Nick to get the studio and he

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Speaker 1: It's new year. Get rid of the stuff you're not

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't get that I have. I have

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Speaker 1: to your door check out Lotte. Hey, everybody, let's read

1245
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:29,480
Speaker 1: some listener emails. I want to start here with one

1246
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 1: called suspicious in Seattle, says so amped watch our season,

1247
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:37,000
Speaker 1: hoping the womanizer rumors would be put to rest. Well.

1248
01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:39,320
Speaker 1: To my surprise, are tagged the young woman on his

1249
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 1: Snapchat story in New York City between on New Year's Eve.

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Speaker 1: Between his and her Instagram, there were multiple pictures of

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Speaker 1: them spending time together in on New Year's Eve in

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Speaker 1: New York City. One of hers was even captured calling

1253
01:04:52,640 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 1: him daddy. Oh jeez. Anyways, who is this a Bachelor handler,

1254
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 1: a friend, a date? I need to know? Is he

1255
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:03,840
Speaker 1: really a change man? Or is this a sign that

1256
01:05:03,920 --> 01:05:06,439
Speaker 1: his venture didn't end with love. I figured if anyone

1257
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 1: can get to the bottom of it, it would be

1258
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 1: producer Amy, producer, what do you think? What's yeah? I

1259
01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:16,360
Speaker 1: recognized the girl as somebody like a producer or something. Yeah,

1260
01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:18,920
Speaker 1: she's a producer on the she's a producer on the show. Um.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah. They were there in New York City for

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Speaker 1: New Year's Eve. Nothing because he was there for work

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Speaker 1: promoting The Bachelor. He was on Good Morning America the

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Speaker 1: next day. She was there with him. Of course she's

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01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 1: going to go and be his friend and hang out

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Speaker 1: during that evening. It was nothing. It's a hand it's

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Speaker 1: a handler producer from the show. Uh, they were just

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Speaker 1: having a good time. Don't look too much into it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here's one from Skyler, Ben and Nick. For the past

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Speaker 1: few seasons, the bachelors always seemed to give the first

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Speaker 1: impression rows to the women who don't get along with

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Speaker 1: the other girls, the ones who are aggressive, out spoken

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01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:50,640
Speaker 1: in know what they want with the acceptance. With the

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01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 1: exception of Sean and Nick, wand Pablo gave it to Charlene, Krista,

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01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:57,920
Speaker 1: britt Bend Olivia and now Ari to Chelsea. It makes

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Speaker 1: me wonder to producers recommend who to give the rose too.

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01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:05,120
Speaker 1: And then bachelrettes seem to have a very good sense

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01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:07,200
Speaker 1: of the men in the beginning, with the exception of

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Speaker 1: Andy and Desiree, who both gave it to the runner ups.

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01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:12,840
Speaker 1: Caitlin give it to Sean, Jojo to Jordan, and Rachel

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Speaker 1: to Brian. Just interesting, just an interesting observation. Would like

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Speaker 1: to hear from you guys, thoughts on why this is well.

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Speaker 1: First off, it's very clear Skyler, women are more intuitive

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01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:25,960
Speaker 1: than men. That's just true. So of course they're going

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01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 1: to give it to the right people. And of course

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Speaker 1: we're gonna give you the wrong gave mine to Rachel.

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01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:33,840
Speaker 1: That's not a bad call, I mean no, So to

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Speaker 1: answer the question here, uh, and I'll answer for Nick.

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Speaker 1: And I know the producers don't recommend. They can't recommend. Obviously,

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01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:42,000
Speaker 1: we don't know these women fully, we know what we've seen,

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01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:45,360
Speaker 1: and I think, as we talked about on last week's podcast,

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01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:47,800
Speaker 1: women that are a little more outspoken, a little more

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01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:50,480
Speaker 1: forward on Night one definitely come off as somebody more

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01:06:50,560 --> 01:06:53,360
Speaker 1: invested into the experience. And so I think our poll

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01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:55,800
Speaker 1: as the Bachelor is going to be okay. That women's

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01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 1: woman seems to be here for the right reasons, and

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01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:00,960
Speaker 1: as a result, I want to make sure to invest

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01:07:01,120 --> 01:07:05,120
Speaker 1: in this relationship and to let her know that I care. Um, Bachelor,

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01:07:05,200 --> 01:07:06,920
Speaker 1: that's just a really smart I don't know. Yeah, they've

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01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:08,920
Speaker 1: made some really good decisions now I read this email back.

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01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 1: There's also like different reasons why people might give out

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01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:14,600
Speaker 1: the first impression ros you know, elite a leader could

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01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,640
Speaker 1: give it to someone who finds intriguing, but they're not

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01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 1: even sure if if they could easily be more into

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01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 1: other people and give someone else the first impression rolls,

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01:07:26,360 --> 01:07:28,280
Speaker 1: advice you know, or you know, and some people could

1307
01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:29,920
Speaker 1: literally just say that this is the person I like

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01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:32,200
Speaker 1: the most, you know, I mean, that's why I'm watching

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01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:34,920
Speaker 1: the show is you're watching the whole story play out,

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01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 1: so from night one on who he's into first or

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01:07:37,840 --> 01:07:40,120
Speaker 1: who she's into first, to the very end when we

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01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 1: get the final conclusion the show. That's why we watched this.

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01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:47,480
Speaker 1: Perfect decisions won't always exist, but the bleed tries I

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01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:50,040
Speaker 1: would assume very hard. Nick on with the next email,

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Speaker 1: I think it's from Elizabeth. From Elizabeth, Hey, Ben and Nick.

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01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:57,760
Speaker 1: Have you all seen what the ladies who got sent

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01:07:57,880 --> 01:08:01,480
Speaker 1: home night one from our season have created? See at

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01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 1: the Rose Girls or at the Underscore Rose Girls on Instagram.

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01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 1: They also have a YouTube channel. Really well, I haven't

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01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:12,240
Speaker 1: fully investigated because I was too stunned and have to

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01:08:12,360 --> 01:08:15,280
Speaker 1: check in immediately and we see if all you If

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01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:18,280
Speaker 1: y'all new, and hope you could share your thoughts on

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01:08:18,360 --> 01:08:20,840
Speaker 1: the next podcast. The fact that the ladies sent home

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01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 1: night one can now ride the fame train is unreal

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01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:26,519
Speaker 1: to me. This is adding a whole new element to

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01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 1: the social experiment that is The Bachelor. How do you

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01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:32,160
Speaker 1: think this will affect the show in casting? In the future.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing your thoughts in talents in broadcasting, journalism, podcasting, blogging, etcetera, etcetera.

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Speaker 1: With the world best allies. Um, I don't think this

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01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:45,280
Speaker 1: is anything new. I think it's just more of the same.

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01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 1: It's I think it's it's it's typical. Every every person

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01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:52,280
Speaker 1: who goes on the show. Um, I think more than anything,

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01:08:52,560 --> 01:08:55,519
Speaker 1: is open to love but excited about this new experience.

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01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:57,680
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean they're only going to be famous. It

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01:08:57,760 --> 01:08:59,840
Speaker 1: just means they're going on for this thing. And the

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01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:02,080
Speaker 1: people who get sent home early on, especially at one,

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01:09:02,840 --> 01:09:06,920
Speaker 1: are it's hard. It's it's it's certainly their egos that

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01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:11,120
Speaker 1: are certainly shot down. Um, you listen, it's it's silly.

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01:09:11,280 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 1: Yes and no, they're not going to ride the fame

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01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:15,479
Speaker 1: train because they have known none and no one cares

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01:09:15,520 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 1: about it. Almost yeah, they're not even they're not remotely famous,

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01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:23,639
Speaker 1: and certainly comes across as a little thirsty and you know, lame,

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01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:27,280
Speaker 1: But there's there's some solidarity. I think they're just there's

1344
01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:29,200
Speaker 1: just hope and maybe strength and numbers. It's just like

1345
01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:32,760
Speaker 1: whatever I mean, not to be too like, you know,

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01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:34,920
Speaker 1: not to be overly critical, like I think there's just

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01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:36,720
Speaker 1: a lot of disappointment, and yeah, they're trying to make

1348
01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:38,920
Speaker 1: the most of it. I don't think it is going

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01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 1: to affect casting. This isn't the first time. Um, the

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01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:46,479
Speaker 1: women who got sent home early like tried to make

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01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:49,160
Speaker 1: the most of their experience. The man. I remember a

1352
01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:52,360
Speaker 1: hashtag that was the Rose Boys. It's not yeah, exclusive

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01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:56,200
Speaker 1: with the women anyway. They're like, you're gonna find people

1354
01:09:56,240 --> 01:09:59,080
Speaker 1: who go home early go going on as many podcasts

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01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,880
Speaker 1: as they can possibly go on. I don't even cares,

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01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:04,120
Speaker 1: just like, we'll go, you know, because they're just trying

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01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:06,960
Speaker 1: to maximize their time, of which they didn't. They probably

1358
01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 1: went into the show with a lot of hopes and

1359
01:10:09,920 --> 01:10:12,600
Speaker 1: dreams that you immediately got crushed. So I'm not, you know,

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01:10:12,760 --> 01:10:15,760
Speaker 1: judging it's not gonna go anywhere. It's It's typical. It

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01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:18,639
Speaker 1: happens every single series. I would just I mean, my one,

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01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:21,880
Speaker 1: my one if I can give my advice, would be

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01:10:22,040 --> 01:10:25,800
Speaker 1: I agree, it doesn't. It's not uncommon. However, they spent

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01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 1: a lot of money on some videos. I watched these

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01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:30,040
Speaker 1: videos when I saw this email, and I watched the

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01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:32,439
Speaker 1: videos back. There's there's some high production value in them,

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01:10:32,840 --> 01:10:34,760
Speaker 1: so I'm worried that they've all invested a lot of

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Speaker 1: money and and they're hoping to get a return out

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01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:38,760
Speaker 1: of it. I would just advise anybody, Hey, don't go

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01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 1: on the show because you think you're gonna you're gonna

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01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:43,920
Speaker 1: get famous from it. It happens very rarely, if at all.

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01:10:44,760 --> 01:10:46,840
Speaker 1: The luck involved. There's a lot of luck involved. There's

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01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 1: a lot of being in the right place at the

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01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:50,600
Speaker 1: right time. Just do it because it's a cool experience,

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01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:53,960
Speaker 1: but don't go into it thinking this is gonna change

1376
01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:55,839
Speaker 1: your life. I've said it many times on this podcast.

1377
01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:58,360
Speaker 1: The best advice I has ever given was do this

1378
01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:00,840
Speaker 1: whole experience to enhance the left you already had. Not

1379
01:11:00,960 --> 01:11:04,879
Speaker 1: change your life completely. Uh, if you weren't making YouTube

1380
01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 1: videos before, I wouldn't recommend doing it because of the show. Nick.

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01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 1: I think we have one more email for either from tests. Hi.

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01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:15,320
Speaker 1: I'm twenty seven years old and perpetually single. I do

1383
01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:17,920
Speaker 1: my best to say positive and understand that timing is everything.

1384
01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:21,120
Speaker 1: Everything happens for a reason. To disagree with that, UM,

1385
01:11:21,320 --> 01:11:24,200
Speaker 1: know yourself first. Each year I get older, the more

1386
01:11:24,600 --> 01:11:27,360
Speaker 1: the fear of being alone presses on me, like not

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01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:31,360
Speaker 1: finding someone who is a real thing without settling. What

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01:11:31,479 --> 01:11:34,080
Speaker 1: advice do you have for myself and others like me

1389
01:11:34,160 --> 01:11:36,840
Speaker 1: who are feeling discouraged? Thank you for reading and keep

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01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:40,240
Speaker 1: doing what you're doing. Tests well tests. Uh, you're only

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01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:43,280
Speaker 1: twenty seven, So first and foremost, I know a couple

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01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:45,720
Speaker 1: of things that I kind of say. I get that

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01:11:46,000 --> 01:11:49,160
Speaker 1: you feel old because today is the oldest you've ever been,

1394
01:11:49,439 --> 01:11:53,920
Speaker 1: But you're only um, so when you're thirty five, you'll

1395
01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:57,439
Speaker 1: look back and think how young felt Um. So you're

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01:11:57,479 --> 01:12:01,840
Speaker 1: not that old, so you'll be fine. Um. Second of all, yeah,

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01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 1: I mean listen. I also say one thing that people

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01:12:04,240 --> 01:12:07,640
Speaker 1: forget when when they have relationships don't work out is

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01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:11,160
Speaker 1: that if you're really, really really lucky. Uh. And I

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01:12:11,200 --> 01:12:13,320
Speaker 1: think Alm stole us in from me in this book.

1401
01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 1: He got this from me. But if you're really really lucky,

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01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:19,760
Speaker 1: at most, you'll only have one relationship your life that

1403
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:22,479
Speaker 1: doesn't fail. One. That's the most. It's the most possible.

1404
01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:25,439
Speaker 1: Unless you know someone dies, it's not necessarily a failure,

1405
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:27,720
Speaker 1: and you meet someone else, but that's it. You can

1406
01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:29,960
Speaker 1: only have one. So the fact that you're twenty seven

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01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:32,439
Speaker 1: and you you haven't found that one yet, it's not

1408
01:12:33,479 --> 01:12:35,800
Speaker 1: that big of a deal and in a good way.

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01:12:35,880 --> 01:12:39,000
Speaker 1: So just keep doing what you're doing. It eventually happened. Um,

1410
01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:40,880
Speaker 1: don't stress about it's probably the worst thing you can do.

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01:12:41,240 --> 01:12:44,280
Speaker 1: And um, you know, enjoy being twenty seven, have some fun,

1412
01:12:44,439 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 1: make some bad choices, and then you know, when you're

1413
01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:49,720
Speaker 1: thirty years old, you know he'll come come running. You know.

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01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:52,120
Speaker 1: The book that Nick dis reverenced to is Buy a

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01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:55,000
Speaker 1: Long Gael. It's called You're Not That Great, great book.

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01:12:55,080 --> 01:12:57,759
Speaker 1: And but neither is anyone else along as a producer

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01:12:57,960 --> 01:13:00,040
Speaker 1: on The Bachelor, and he is also one of the

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01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:02,600
Speaker 1: people that will usually sit there and there's one on

1419
01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:05,280
Speaker 1: one interviews and and dive to the heart of your

1420
01:13:05,439 --> 01:13:08,439
Speaker 1: fears and your insecurities. Go check out his book. Um,

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01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:11,720
Speaker 1: but I would agree. I just want to add to

1422
01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 1: that is let's start accepting singleness and saying there's actually

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01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:19,000
Speaker 1: a lot of benefit to it. Um, you get to

1424
01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:20,760
Speaker 1: explore who you are better, You get a lot of

1425
01:13:20,800 --> 01:13:24,240
Speaker 1: time to process and think. Uh, your schedule is pretty

1426
01:13:24,320 --> 01:13:28,160
Speaker 1: much your own without a few you know, side activities.

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01:13:29,000 --> 01:13:33,559
Speaker 1: Singleness can be a very positive experience. And don't waste

1428
01:13:33,960 --> 01:13:37,839
Speaker 1: this time or this season of singleness because you're hoping

1429
01:13:38,320 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 1: for a relationship, I would. I just think that's something

1430
01:13:41,920 --> 01:13:45,120
Speaker 1: I'm learning right now too, is be in the present moment,

1431
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:50,000
Speaker 1: focus on where you're at now, become the person that

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01:13:50,080 --> 01:13:51,640
Speaker 1: you need to be for yourself so you can be

1433
01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:55,080
Speaker 1: that person for somebody else later. And don't don't compare

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01:13:55,080 --> 01:13:57,080
Speaker 1: yourself to others. I mean, I don't know if if

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01:13:57,920 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 1: tests you know, has a circle of friends is where

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01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:03,160
Speaker 1: they're all married and having kids already, And so even

1437
01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 1: though she's only twenty seven and relatively young, she feels

1438
01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:08,679
Speaker 1: a lot older because everyone else is at different stages

1439
01:14:08,720 --> 01:14:10,240
Speaker 1: in their life and that can happen. And if that

1440
01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:15,200
Speaker 1: is the case, um, get more friends. Um you know, yeah,

1441
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:16,960
Speaker 1: and that's that's kind of the journey of life and

1442
01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:19,080
Speaker 1: it's just between to learn about yourself. But I think

1443
01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:22,400
Speaker 1: it's just important not to stress yourself out. And um

1444
01:14:23,400 --> 01:14:26,519
Speaker 1: uses an opportunity to you know, and not maybe find

1445
01:14:26,560 --> 01:14:30,280
Speaker 1: new friends, but like it is an opportunity to take

1446
01:14:30,320 --> 01:14:32,920
Speaker 1: advantage of, like Ben said, of of being single and

1447
01:14:33,080 --> 01:14:36,040
Speaker 1: have new adventures because even though maybe you want to

1448
01:14:36,080 --> 01:14:38,400
Speaker 1: get married and have a kid, you'll be the one

1449
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:41,559
Speaker 1: person who's like your friends live vicariously through you because

1450
01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:43,880
Speaker 1: You're doing all this fun, single and exciting things and

1451
01:14:43,960 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 1: they're like not um, not to you know, discourage that. Yeah,

1452
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:52,439
Speaker 1: grass is always greener. Is something that I think our

1453
01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:55,200
Speaker 1: generation uh needs to deal with and see that the

1454
01:14:55,680 --> 01:14:57,800
Speaker 1: shiny new thing isn't always the best thing, but we're

1455
01:14:57,840 --> 01:15:00,160
Speaker 1: always gonna want the shiny new thing. Hey, we'll one

1456
01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:02,160
Speaker 1: last email. This one is really interesting to me, and

1457
01:15:02,200 --> 01:15:04,320
Speaker 1: I think Nick and I we got to prepare for

1458
01:15:04,360 --> 01:15:06,720
Speaker 1: a little tough love. I'm gonna read it here. It's

1459
01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:10,040
Speaker 1: from Jessica. I've been in a relationship for three years

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01:15:10,080 --> 01:15:12,840
Speaker 1: with a man who I love. The relationship is, for

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01:15:12,920 --> 01:15:15,439
Speaker 1: the most part great. For the most part, it's a

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01:15:15,479 --> 01:15:18,760
Speaker 1: relationship I've been I've dreamt up, except that about a

1463
01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:21,679
Speaker 1: year into our relationship, my friend discovered him on Plenty

1464
01:15:21,720 --> 01:15:24,439
Speaker 1: of Fish, which is a dating app, and Ashley Madison

1465
01:15:24,920 --> 01:15:28,240
Speaker 1: trying to find other girls. I was devastated. I planned

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01:15:28,280 --> 01:15:29,960
Speaker 1: to break up with him. He begged me not to

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Speaker 1: when I confronted him and promised me he would never

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01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:36,120
Speaker 1: cheat and that he will never go on another dating site.

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01:15:36,400 --> 01:15:39,160
Speaker 1: At that time, we're in a long distant relationship and

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01:15:39,200 --> 01:15:40,920
Speaker 1: I found out I was moving the same city as him,

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01:15:40,960 --> 01:15:42,840
Speaker 1: so I chalked the whole thing up too. We were

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01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:45,080
Speaker 1: only together on weekends, so it would be different now

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01:15:45,160 --> 01:15:47,599
Speaker 1: that we're in the same city. Fast forward four months later,

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01:15:47,720 --> 01:15:49,920
Speaker 1: I snooped through his email and found that he had

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01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:53,240
Speaker 1: signed up for another dating site. He said his account

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01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:58,000
Speaker 1: was hacked. Fast forward another nine months after this, and

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01:15:58,080 --> 01:16:00,280
Speaker 1: I snooped through his phone and he had good old

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01:16:00,439 --> 01:16:03,599
Speaker 1: Best hookup site, and then he was looking for hookups

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01:16:03,600 --> 01:16:07,160
Speaker 1: on Craiglist and plenty of Fish. I love him so much,

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01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:09,560
Speaker 1: of course you do. The thought of breaking up is

1481
01:16:09,720 --> 01:16:13,040
Speaker 1: so sad. I'd like to mention that he's literally treats

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01:16:13,120 --> 01:16:15,240
Speaker 1: me like a queen. And I don't think he's actually

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01:16:15,320 --> 01:16:18,120
Speaker 1: cheating because we were so we're together so often. I

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01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:21,639
Speaker 1: don't think he could. But I wonder if he's addicted

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01:16:21,680 --> 01:16:24,320
Speaker 1: to seeing what else is out there. Should I end this?

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01:16:25,720 --> 01:16:30,559
Speaker 1: Please help? Can I can Nick take this away? Be honest,

1487
01:16:30,680 --> 01:16:34,960
Speaker 1: because I think this email requires honesty, Jessica. If I

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01:16:35,040 --> 01:16:37,720
Speaker 1: were to sum up my advice into one word, it

1489
01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:43,360
Speaker 1: would be run um, listen, listen, We've all been there.

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01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:46,800
Speaker 1: No judgment. I get where you're coming from. I think

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01:16:46,840 --> 01:16:48,960
Speaker 1: your ego is messing with you. A little bit. Um,

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01:16:49,400 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 1: this guy is a terrible human being. She's been with

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01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:54,479
Speaker 1: him for a long time. It sounds like he checks

1494
01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:56,360
Speaker 1: a lot of the boxes of things that she wants,

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01:16:56,439 --> 01:16:58,519
Speaker 1: And there's probably a lot of great things about the relationship,

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01:16:58,560 --> 01:17:01,600
Speaker 1: but she's right now deciding to ignore a lot of

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01:17:01,640 --> 01:17:04,160
Speaker 1: the terrible things. And maybe there's a lot of fears

1498
01:17:04,200 --> 01:17:06,519
Speaker 1: of like, you know, the fear of being single, like

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01:17:06,680 --> 01:17:09,800
Speaker 1: the fear of admitting to yourself this is not the

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01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:13,280
Speaker 1: perfect relationship that you you thought it was. Um, there's

1501
01:17:13,320 --> 01:17:15,040
Speaker 1: some things with your ego in terms of I don't

1502
01:17:15,040 --> 01:17:16,920
Speaker 1: think he's capable of cheating on me. Of course, he's

1503
01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:20,840
Speaker 1: capable of cheating on you, like everyone, Like everyone is

1504
01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:23,400
Speaker 1: capable of being cheated on. No one's so great or

1505
01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:25,960
Speaker 1: special that you know someone wouldn't possibly cheat on them.

1506
01:17:25,960 --> 01:17:28,560
Speaker 1: It's it's happened to the best of us. Um, so

1507
01:17:28,680 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 1: I think just it's tough to admit that to yourself. Um. Yeah,

1508
01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:36,920
Speaker 1: it was a long distance relationship. This guy is aggressively

1509
01:17:37,640 --> 01:17:41,439
Speaker 1: trying to meet other women, and you're just his side girl,

1510
01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:45,040
Speaker 1: to be honest, jess U and Um, you're his comfort,

1511
01:17:45,080 --> 01:17:47,200
Speaker 1: you're his Netflix and chill. You're the girl he gets

1512
01:17:47,240 --> 01:17:49,679
Speaker 1: to go on the dates with and pretend like. There's

1513
01:17:49,680 --> 01:17:51,639
Speaker 1: a lot of guys out there who like I don't

1514
01:17:51,640 --> 01:17:54,280
Speaker 1: get it. It's too much effort. Why guys will have

1515
01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 1: relationship and and still like date other women Because it's

1516
01:17:57,479 --> 01:18:01,040
Speaker 1: too hard to make a success relationship work. Um, but

1517
01:18:01,200 --> 01:18:04,120
Speaker 1: some guys do. And so you're his Netflix and Show person,

1518
01:18:04,240 --> 01:18:07,000
Speaker 1: you know, the person who he does relationship things with,

1519
01:18:07,400 --> 01:18:11,200
Speaker 1: and he gets to meet other women. UM. So this

1520
01:18:11,400 --> 01:18:14,280
Speaker 1: is a toxic and terrible situation that you're in that

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01:18:14,680 --> 01:18:17,720
Speaker 1: um I won't last. And if I can give you

1522
01:18:17,800 --> 01:18:21,599
Speaker 1: any final thoughts of of hope, is that I can

1523
01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:23,920
Speaker 1: promise you one thing I know, you won't end up

1524
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:26,160
Speaker 1: with this guy. You might make a terrible decision get engaged,

1525
01:18:26,200 --> 01:18:28,320
Speaker 1: you might make an even worse terrible decision and get married,

1526
01:18:28,360 --> 01:18:30,120
Speaker 1: And you might make an even worse terrible decision like

1527
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:32,880
Speaker 1: have a family with him. But eventually this relationship will end,

1528
01:18:32,960 --> 01:18:36,879
Speaker 1: hopefully sooner than later. When it does end and time passes,

1529
01:18:36,960 --> 01:18:39,120
Speaker 1: he will look back and be mad at yourself that

1530
01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:43,320
Speaker 1: you weren't more honest with yourself about the reality of

1531
01:18:43,360 --> 01:18:46,679
Speaker 1: the situation. And you will cry and laugh, but most importantly,

1532
01:18:46,760 --> 01:18:49,040
Speaker 1: just be happy he's no longer in your life that much.

1533
01:18:49,160 --> 01:18:53,320
Speaker 1: I can guarantee you that was beautiful, that was honest,

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01:18:53,400 --> 01:18:56,240
Speaker 1: and that was that was And I think Jessica just

1535
01:18:58,360 --> 01:19:01,120
Speaker 1: tad on the Nick is listen to to Nick. I mean,

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01:19:01,160 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 1: I think that's coming from a place where we have

1537
01:19:02,960 --> 01:19:05,880
Speaker 1: this on adulterated view of where this relationship is. We

1538
01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:08,840
Speaker 1: have this view from from a very high level based

1539
01:19:08,880 --> 01:19:11,599
Speaker 1: on an email. And what Nick is saying is don't

1540
01:19:12,760 --> 01:19:16,040
Speaker 1: you can like and you can love somebody, But when

1541
01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:18,760
Speaker 1: you see the signs like this, especially when they're this

1542
01:19:19,680 --> 01:19:23,280
Speaker 1: um deep and dark and there could this consistent, it's

1543
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:25,280
Speaker 1: it's time to go, no matter how much it hurts.

1544
01:19:25,320 --> 01:19:28,920
Speaker 1: So also listen to yourself. Give yourself some credit in

1545
01:19:29,000 --> 01:19:31,960
Speaker 1: the sense that this advice for anyone at the moment

1546
01:19:32,200 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 1: you feel then urge to check someone's messages, emails, text

1547
01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:40,000
Speaker 1: or anything. The relationships over um because there's a reason

1548
01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:42,839
Speaker 1: why you're doing it, and maybe they're not necessarily doing anything,

1549
01:19:42,920 --> 01:19:45,519
Speaker 1: but there's something toxic about the relationship that's making you

1550
01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:48,240
Speaker 1: do something that that that you're better than UM. So

1551
01:19:48,360 --> 01:19:51,000
Speaker 1: listen to yourself. There's something a part of you is

1552
01:19:51,080 --> 01:19:53,519
Speaker 1: telling you there's something wrong here. Your ego is telling

1553
01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:55,679
Speaker 1: you that it's not you know, because your ego doesn't

1554
01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:58,160
Speaker 1: want you to think that you can be in this

1555
01:19:58,520 --> 01:20:01,760
Speaker 1: terrible relationship or be do by this asshole, our guy

1556
01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:05,240
Speaker 1: or this jerk or whatever. Um. But listen to yourself,

1557
01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:07,000
Speaker 1: because there is a part of you is telling you

1558
01:20:07,240 --> 01:20:09,760
Speaker 1: the the the telling you the right thing to do,

1559
01:20:10,040 --> 01:20:12,120
Speaker 1: the urge to to email and ask these questions. You

1560
01:20:12,200 --> 01:20:13,800
Speaker 1: know the answer, and I think you just have to

1561
01:20:13,840 --> 01:20:15,880
Speaker 1: have the courage and the guts to do their to

1562
01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:20,640
Speaker 1: do the right thing. Hey, everybody, this has been an

1563
01:20:20,760 --> 01:20:24,720
Speaker 1: incredible podcast. I want to thank Nick for coming in

1564
01:20:24,800 --> 01:20:28,600
Speaker 1: and hanging out with us today. Yes please, uh what

1565
01:20:28,840 --> 01:20:31,080
Speaker 1: what an awesome opportunity for us on this podcast to

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01:20:31,160 --> 01:20:33,120
Speaker 1: have Nick in here to talk about the Bachelor, to

1567
01:20:33,160 --> 01:20:36,960
Speaker 1: break down the Bachelor, because I think, just like Ari did,

1568
01:20:37,280 --> 01:20:40,360
Speaker 1: Nick took this experience very seriously, was close to his heart,

1569
01:20:40,439 --> 01:20:44,080
Speaker 1: and his life has been affected in and because of

1570
01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:45,680
Speaker 1: the show. And so Nick, thank you for coming in

1571
01:20:45,680 --> 01:20:47,439
Speaker 1: and you're sharing your heart with us and talking about

1572
01:20:47,479 --> 01:20:50,759
Speaker 1: a show that you and I have both participated in. Also,

1573
01:20:51,200 --> 01:20:55,920
Speaker 1: please keep those emails coming. We enjoy them, we need them. Uh.

1574
01:20:56,040 --> 01:20:59,120
Speaker 1: I love reading through them. This is a fun segment

1575
01:20:59,160 --> 01:21:01,200
Speaker 1: for us, so email us at Ben and Ashley at

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01:21:01,240 --> 01:21:04,480
Speaker 1: I heart media dot com. I want to thank our sponsors,

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01:21:04,800 --> 01:21:09,519
Speaker 1: Sleep Number, Litote and bio Clarity. Finally, ash will be

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01:21:09,600 --> 01:21:12,320
Speaker 1: back next week and we'll break down episode three of

1579
01:21:12,439 --> 01:21:17,280
Speaker 1: our season, which is actually season four, episode three for

1580
01:21:17,400 --> 01:21:21,320
Speaker 1: this podcast. How crazy Will we ever leave you alone?

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01:21:21,439 --> 01:21:23,680
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I hope we don't. Until then,

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01:21:24,240 --> 01:21:27,960
Speaker 1: I've been been and you've been Nick. Hey. Thanks everybody.

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01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:32,880
Speaker 1: Follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on

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