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Speaker 1: It's time for your morning hack one or two point

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Speaker 1: seven KISSFM on a Wednesday and a quart of the day.

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Speaker 1: So you meet somebody and you wonder, what's the right

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Speaker 1: amount of time you should spend before you spend the

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Speaker 1: night together. Is there a is there any sort of

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Speaker 1: scientific study on this? Well, psychotherapists got together and they

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Speaker 1: came up with a number of hours how long you

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Speaker 1: should wait before sleeping with someone new. Do you want

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Speaker 1: to guess how how long it is? It's hours. It's

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Speaker 1: more than ten, then twelve, Nope, it fifty thirty six.

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Speaker 1: They don't have to be consecutive hours, just enough dates

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Speaker 1: to add up to thirty six. So what did a

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Speaker 1: couple of days quest? I know, I know. They say

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Speaker 1: if you wait much longer, the desire may begin to wane.

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Speaker 2: You know, sleeping next to somebody is very intimate unless

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Speaker 2: you were drunk getting into the bed still intimate. Then

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Speaker 2: you get out.

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Speaker 1: You can sleep next to some mighty before you sleep

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Speaker 1: with somebody.

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Speaker 2: Correct.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a good step.

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Speaker 2: I think it's very intimate, like the fact that you're

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Speaker 2: sleeping with somebody next or.

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Speaker 1: To sleep next to somebody before sleeping with somebody, I

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Speaker 1: would yeah, yes, good, Well we're all aligned for once.

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Speaker 1: Happy Wednesday. Yay.

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Speaker 2: You're never so uncomfortable that is sleeping next to somebody new.

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Speaker 1: I think, well, it depends where you are, if you're

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Speaker 1: into the bike, if you like the person.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was never weird with Michael. It was so

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Speaker 2: hard for me in the beginning. Always I was like,

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Speaker 2: am I breathing too loud? Am I like? On my side?

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Speaker 1: Everything's been an uphill battle if we look back. But

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Speaker 1: here we are at the top of the mountain, conquer

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Speaker 1: and you are love. Yeah, cold plunge. All right. Today's

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Speaker 1: quote You don't need to immediately respond to a text

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Speaker 1: or a notification. Urgency culture keeps us in fight or flight.

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Speaker 1: Tired of urgency culture. Honestly, healthy people will respect your timing.

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Speaker 1: I think this is one we should all implement. Wow,

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Speaker 1: urgency culture is toxic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you are, mister urgency culture.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be mister less urgency culture. Cool. I'm down

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Speaker 1: for that. I don't think I responded to that Halloween

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Speaker 1: email for a day or so.

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Speaker 2: M No, it's more the other way around. Yeah, when

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Speaker 2: you need something, it's like five phone calls, four text messages,

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Speaker 2: all the things uh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you did actually respond.

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Speaker 2: You said copy copy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. That's my favorite response, my favorite work response. Got

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Speaker 1: it copy