WEBVTT - Spilling Tea from Selling Sunset 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.359 Wind Down with Jane Kramer and I heard radio podcast. 0:00:06.440 --> 0:00:12.080 All right, guys, this is your post Christmas podcast. Um, 0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:15.000 Katherine and I are here, and we are pumped because 0:00:15.000 --> 0:00:18.000 who are we talking to today? Catherine? Emma Hernan. I'm 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:21.920 so excited. She's on Selling Sunset, one of my favorite shows. 0:00:21.920 --> 0:00:24.320 I just bingeed it last weekend. I'm so excited to 0:00:24.360 --> 0:00:26.520 talk to her because I'm a little backed up. But um, 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:28.000 she's actually on right now, so we're gonna go a 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:32.159 little out of order. Um, so let's talk to her 0:00:32.600 --> 0:00:45.599 and let's get her on. Hey, Emma, Hi, how are 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:52.000 you good? How are you? Ben? Really good? So? I know, Um, 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:57.440 so you're you just had your first season on Selling Sunset? 0:00:57.880 --> 0:01:00.600 So were you? Because I didn't, I unfortunate? Did you 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:02.480 Did you watch it? I did, because I have not 0:01:02.520 --> 0:01:04.480 caught up like I've been, Like, so I was. So 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:07.480 I'm so back with all my shows because of like 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:11.039 holidays and kids and stuff. But like so, I'm like 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:13.120 so excited to meet your character. But what did you 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:15.440 get from Emma? Well, I just binged it and it 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:20.040 was great. I know. I do I want all of 0:01:20.160 --> 0:01:23.000 I want all of it. Yeah, Well, I don't know. 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:26.240 I don't even know where to begin because there's mean 0:01:26.840 --> 0:01:33.880 so nice Okay, so she's involved drama. She's involved in drama, right, yes, 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:37.400 So who's who's nicer, Krishal or Emma because it doesn't 0:01:37.400 --> 0:01:40.240 like the nice one. Like that's how I've always like 0:01:40.240 --> 0:01:43.720 perceived her. Yeah, but they're different, They're they're different. Are 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:46.680 you all friends on the show? Yeah? My girl? So 0:01:46.720 --> 0:01:48.960 I love her? Okay, yeah, no, I love both of them. 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:52.160 Y'all are my two favorite. Don't anybody else, um, don't worry. 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:58.800 Just a couple hundred thousand people. Okay, So I guess 0:01:58.880 --> 0:02:01.080 where do we even start? So just to kind of 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:04.880 catch you up, there's drama with her and Christine Christine right, yeah, 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:08.519 I feel like she has drama with everybody, right. But 0:02:08.639 --> 0:02:10.359 that's what I don't understand too, because I will say, 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:12.080 I know that they have to have that character on 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:14.160 a show. I get it, But at the same time, 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:17.440 like I just feel like she's you can still be nice, 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:18.919 do you know what I mean? Like, I just feel 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:21.040 like she doesn't care about anyone, has like no empathy. 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:22.680 That's like what I got from her, Like she just 0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:26.000 doesn't have empathy or care about other people's feelings. Am 0:02:26.000 --> 0:02:28.080 I off on that? Or no, oh no, you're pretty 0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:32.560 dead on okay. I mean I tell it like it is, 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:35.520 so I keep it one hundred. But yeah, I just 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:38.160 don't understand what do you think it is? Like? Is 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:40.280 it like a childhood trauma or is it like, hey, 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:43.360 just like she just wants to win and doesn't care 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:46.320 who she stomps on like to get there. It could 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:50.040 be both. I really don't know the reasoning behind it. 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:52.480 I don't understand it at all. And I mean, it's 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:54.200 one thing to be like kind of okay, make it 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:57.080 a little bitchy remarks and stuff like that. It's another 0:02:57.200 --> 0:02:59.440 thing to take it to the level that she takes it. 0:03:00.600 --> 0:03:03.680 You know. That's how I feel. All the girls feel 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:05.960 the same, you know, I think every single person feels 0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:08.359 the exact same. Why But do you think that producers 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:10.560 are like keep going like cause the drama, because like, 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:12.400 you're not going to have a show without any drama. 0:03:12.800 --> 0:03:14.960 I get that for short, And I think producers, of 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:17.160 course they need, you know, kind of the billing character, 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:21.160 but she does the work on your own. They're not like, 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:23.600 I mean, she takes it to the next level, to 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:26.640 the point where they're like, did that just happen? You know? 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:28.920 I mean it makes for great TV for sure, but 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:31.040 this is actually a real live so we have to 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:35.680 deal with with this, you know. So that's unfortunate, right, 0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:38.120 What what's been the most hurtful thing that you're kind 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:42.000 of like that's like stayed with you from Christine? Well, 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:44.320 you know for years. You know, I had to deal 0:03:44.360 --> 0:03:47.000 with I mother. She's banging on my windows. I mean 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:49.440 you obviously know the story, but you know, banging on 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:54.040 my windows and d NS, I mean driving by peper class, 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:57.480 beeping the horn, almost hitting my friend. I mean, it's 0:03:57.480 --> 0:04:00.240 still a level where you know it's it's not head 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:05.320 but why oh we have we share mutual acts, Okay, 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:07.880 is my best friend and I share like well, it 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:12.000 is very similar situation. However, she's basically they're telling two 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:14.440 different stories. I'm not going to outright say, but they 0:04:14.440 --> 0:04:17.960 are basically telling two different who who had him first? 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:21.520 She dated him before me? So are you saying like 0:04:21.600 --> 0:04:24.400 that you were like the mistress that came in. No, 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:26.960 I mean they had been broken up, she wasn't taking 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:29.679 the break up well, and she knew about a girl 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:32.120 that he was seeing right before me. You know, I 0:04:32.160 --> 0:04:34.240 didn't know about any of the girls, so he should 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:36.919 have shared that with me, for sure. Guys will be guys. 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:42.600 Don't agree with their behavior. Guys, you guys. But you know, unfortunately, 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:44.680 she's the type of person where takes it out on 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:47.440 the girl that had no idea about her, you know 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:51.040 what I mean. But they weren't together anyways, it was irrelevant, 0:04:51.760 --> 0:04:54.920 she says that they were together. Yeah, of course, I mean, 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:58.720 none of her fact. Oh she made up a full 0:04:58.800 --> 0:05:02.720 loan engage that never copped. What does he say to it? 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:06.000 Are you still together? No, we're not still together, but 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:08.840 we're friendly and we're he's still friends and like basically 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:13.000 everyone he's best friend. Oh my god, you guys broke up? 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:16.240 Was it like because he did something bad or No, honestly, 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:18.520 we didn't break up because he's cheating or anything like that. 0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:21.839 We just honestly wanted different things at the time. You know, 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:25.160 I'm super family oriented and loved kids and stuff like that, 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:27.200 So it was more of like, I don't know if 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:30.320 our like futures a line, but we're still totally fine. 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:33.520 We have to do business together and we're fine friends. 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:39.080 So right, But yeah, also really interesting, So she had 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:43.200 had a baby? Who did Christine with? Who? Her husband? 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:46.279 She's married? I don't know, she's I don't remember her. 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:51.159 I don't really either. Um, but she's like two weeks 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:55.400 after having a baby full glam had just had a 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:59.239 c section, but does not look like she had a baby. 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:01.240 It's I mean, it's so do you think she like 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:03.479 had a surrogate? I don't know. There's a lot of 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:07.000 there's a lot of kins talk out there, but I mean, 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:09.880 it's it's pretty unbelievable. I will say, Okay, I'm gonna 0:06:09.880 --> 0:06:12.040 play Devil's advocate just because people were so mean when 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:14.760 a post baby for me, They're like, oh, you look 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:16.400 And I'm like, am I supposed to be ashamed that 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:19.880 I look good two weeks after having a baby? Yeah? 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:23.440 I mean, I think the whole one way or the others. 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:25.040 I'm not trying to say that you're wrong, and I'm 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:28.120 not necessarily mom shaming. I mean, she's she's a skinny. 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:30.160 I know you're not. I'm just it was, by the way, 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:36.120 we're best friend. I love that my best friend. I 0:06:36.200 --> 0:06:38.159 love it. Anyway, I just saw a lot of talk 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:40.440 about that. It's been interesting to watch because people are 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:43.520 like whoa, she just had a baby. But anyway, yes, 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:46.599 you did get crap for that too. You're right, so 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:52.840 I'll back off. I'm just saying, Okay. The only thing 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:54.440 that like, I kind of want to that I'm still 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:57.440 stuck on is the fact that she was because here's 0:06:57.440 --> 0:07:01.240 the deal. I like kind of said about someone that 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:03.080 I was dating, and I found out that it was 0:07:03.160 --> 0:07:05.840 a girl that he had been with. And it's like, 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:08.360 when someone is done with a relationship, why do you 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:10.000 feel like you have to go to the girl and 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:12.200 then like say these things about the guy you know 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:15.000 to be like and I'm just kind of like, you like, 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:17.960 is it a jealousy thing? Is it just like because 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:19.960 you're not They're like, we're warning you, and I'm like, well, 0:07:20.120 --> 0:07:22.400 then give me evidence of that. I don't please. I 0:07:22.440 --> 0:07:25.720 welcome it. I've always welcomed it. I'm not going to 0:07:25.760 --> 0:07:28.040 be a dumb naive girl. I like, I welcome anything 0:07:28.080 --> 0:07:30.160 that you want to bring to me. But they're just like, oh, 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:32.840 you were so insecure for not you know, And I 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:35.480 was like, no, I'm just smart because I'm asking for 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:40.120 physical proof something. No. I mean, yeah, I mean. The 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:42.840 unfortunate thing is is you know, this was a relationship, 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:45.480 first of all, for that was five years ago. So 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:50.360 why more than so, why you're married with a baby. 0:07:50.360 --> 0:07:53.520 Why is this still even an issue or something that 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:59.239 you're concerned about? That's my Have you asked her that? Uh, 0:07:59.560 --> 0:08:01.920 you don't. It's one of interaction. You see the interaction 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:04.080 you guys get to see the interaction we have on camera. 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:06.440 Than that, I have the only need to be around 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:09.640 somebody like that. Work could not be more polar opposite, 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:14.040 like completely different ends of the spectrum. So which you 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:16.560 know why because we were talking a few episodes ago 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:18.600 where it's like at our age, I don't know how 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:19.960 old you are, but it's like at our age, it's 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:24.760 like nourished nurture. I guess the relationships that you know 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:26.560 are the most important too, and the other ones like 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:29.080 don't don't let the drama and the chaos and all 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:31.000 the other stuff come in because it's not like why 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:33.959 you know, there's there's literally no point. Fine, make a 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:35.840 TV about it. But then also like one day to 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:39.400 be like you know what, like she's obviously jealous, but 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:41.720 also at the same time, it's it happened a long 0:08:41.720 --> 0:08:45.200 time ago. You she's obviously moved on your Where are 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:48.840 you dating again? I'm dating again. I'm single, but I'm 0:08:48.880 --> 0:08:55.719 dating again. Dating so hard. Oh, it's a fol it's 0:08:55.760 --> 0:08:58.880 a job. Honestly, I'm taking a break. G it's a job, 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:02.000 but it's so freaking hard. I was just like, because 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:05.320 I've because you have to just like you know, when 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:07.480 you start hearing about people's past and like then you 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:09.560 have to explain yours, and it's just like, oh my god, 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:12.200 Like it's just like seeing what you can deal with 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:13.920 and what you can't do with with the next person, 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:16.040 because like everyone's going to have Like that's why my girlfriend, 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:18.160 she's like, Janet, You're not going to find a unicorn 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:20.280 who has never been married, who doesn't have trauma, who 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:23.720 doesn't have you know, maybe has never cheated before, because 0:09:23.760 --> 0:09:25.520 I have like a big thing with you know, because 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:28.160 my ex had cheated on me. So it's like now 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:29.640 I'm like, well, I kind of like a guy that 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:32.000 hasn't cheated before. But I'm like, is that even possible? 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:37.200 I don't even know. I don't know, And they say 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:39.360 that they haven't, but really they have, you know, they're 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:41.000 just not caught in that moment that I'm coming to 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:43.400 get away. That's no. I've never cheated. I've never looked 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:45.760 at another girl when I've been dating someone and I 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:48.160 think that they're Yeah, and I do think that there 0:09:48.160 --> 0:09:49.679 are good guys out there like your husband. I don't 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:52.079 think you would ever freaking cheat ever. But I'm just 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:54.320 saying like, at like, you know, thirty eight years old, 0:09:54.320 --> 0:09:57.360 it's like, I'm not going to meet this like he's 0:09:57.400 --> 0:09:59.720 probably going to be divorced and there's gonna be a 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:01.760 reason that he was maybe like him and his wife 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:05.240 had issues because he was not while at communicating or whatever. Well, 0:10:05.240 --> 0:10:07.640 that's also dating at thirty eight years old. I know 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:10.559 there's a big difference. There's a big difference than when 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:13.319 we got married. Something. You could also find a really 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:15.240 great guy that like the wife was a little nuts, 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:18.080 because like, come on, let's be girls are clearly nuts. 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:22.120 We all saw its. Sorry, I mean girls can be 0:10:22.200 --> 0:10:25.840 nuts too, and then you know, maybe topic guys. No, 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:31.160 it's true, I know, are you and Riya? Yes, I 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:33.920 went on there a few months ago and I was 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:37.280 just like, it's so crazy because there's so many guys 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:39.160 in l A that I knew because I still have 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:42.240 in l A for like ten plus years and it's 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:47.200 the same guys. They're still there and like the same 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:52.200 guys are going to be just I know. I was 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:54.480 just like, oh god, I can't do this. I just 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:56.960 can't like it, went on a date with him, don't like, 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:04.679 but he's on there, okay, right, Um we brought up 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:06.160 the kid point and I think, how old are you? 0:11:06.200 --> 0:11:11.920 By the way? Okay, And because I'm friendly with Krishell 0:11:12.200 --> 0:11:14.920 and um, we've had her on the podcast when she 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:16.800 was actually married to Justin and then I had her 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:21.200 you know, we've talked since, um, like the Kio split, 0:11:21.320 --> 0:11:25.400 and I first of all, I loved how did you hear? Damn? 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:27.840 I mean her DM but her message her in feet 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:31.520 about like you know, it was so yeah, it was 0:11:31.520 --> 0:11:34.600 like so beautifully said, but it was also like to 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:37.080 what I made what like I made up with that 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:39.080 was that like he didn't want kids and she did. 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:41.280 That's what I'm thinking, and you know, kind of to 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:42.320 your point too. I don't know if that was the 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:44.840 same situation why you why you and your ex broke up? 0:11:44.920 --> 0:11:47.480 But it's like I'm I'm proud of her for not 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:50.440 saying in something that like I didn't serve her and 0:11:50.440 --> 0:11:52.320 that like that's not what she wants to obviously to 0:11:52.320 --> 0:11:53.920 have kids. I don't know. Again, I'm just making this up, 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:56.720 So no, no, for sure, you know, I feel like 0:11:56.760 --> 0:11:59.520 she's very open and honest about that, and you know, 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:03.040 they we do love and pack each other, like I mean, 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:05.800 I wish that I have a relationship put end that way, 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:07.719 you know what I mean. But of course it's heartbreaking 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:10.959 because it's hard, Like, you know, there's not a ton 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:14.200 wrong with the relationship. There's just people want different things, 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:16.760 which is crazy to think about it, but it actually 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:20.160 does happen, you know, yeah, well, and especially with them 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:24.160 working together, like thank goodness that it ended. I mean, 0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:26.920 I would imagine they probably can you know, go forward 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:30.680 in a working relationship and be you know, okay, thank you. Yeah. 0:12:30.720 --> 0:12:32.240 And I remember like someone was like, oh, this is 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:34.199 just for publicity for the show, and I'm like, Krishell, 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:36.480 like her heart and like how she looks. I don't 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:38.480 think it's for I didn't think it was play out 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:40.880 on the show. Yeah, so but maybe like people are 0:12:40.920 --> 0:12:44.000 gonna want to watch it now to see how But 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:46.040 I don't. I don't, like I didn't. I didn't. I 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:48.320 was like, I don't think Krishell would ever do that? Truly, 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:52.720 you would never do that. I mean wears her heart 0:12:52.720 --> 0:12:55.240 and her sleep. She's like one of my favorite people 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:58.400 in the entire world. She would never do anything for publicity. 0:12:58.480 --> 0:13:01.520 I mean they had the most special relationship in the 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:04.000 entire world. They were genuinely in love, you know, and 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:06.959 for them to open up about it, you know, proved 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:09.240 how much they really cared about each other. You know. 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:15.520 Question for you, would you be friends with your ex's girlfriend? 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:18.240 Kind of like how like Christine so how she was 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:20.280 being to you know, to you, would you be friends 0:13:20.280 --> 0:13:22.760 with When your ex gets a new girlfriend? Would you 0:13:22.800 --> 0:13:24.880 be friends with her? I feel like I would be. 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:28.280 I'm not a jealous person. I'm a super sweet, like 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:30.800 caring person, and I feel like, honestly, I would really 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:32.600 have a problem with it as long as you know, 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:36.280 things ended somewhat sadly. Obviously even think that they're never like, 0:13:36.320 --> 0:13:39.079 oh my god, super great. But at the same time, 0:13:39.120 --> 0:13:41.640 if it wasn't something that that you know, my family 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:44.000 was affected by or something like that, then yeah, I 0:13:44.040 --> 0:13:46.880 mean I would be friends or whoever. Keep So That's 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:49.679 why I'm like, if I didn't dislike my ex so much, 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:51.719 i'd be like, I want you in my extant date. 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:57.800 But like, I'm just saying, like you would like your 0:13:57.840 --> 0:14:00.320 ex to be with someone someone who I like and 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:02.000 like who I can like be like girl, like I 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:03.840 get let's go get a drink of wine. Glass of wine. 0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:06.800 The problem is is if you like them and you 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:08.880 don't want them to be with your ex. No, But 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:10.840 because I you know, I think people like I hope 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:14.920 that people can like change and stuff. But you know, 0:14:15.320 --> 0:14:18.240 and and again, I think people are different versions of 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:21.320 themselves with like like I am a totally different version 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:23.440 than I was with and I'm going to be a 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:25.960 different version in my next relationship because you know, I 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:29.200 won't have all this resentment and hate and you know whatever. 0:14:30.200 --> 0:14:32.120 So I mean it would be nice because I'm like, Okay, 0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:34.400 I'm like, I wish I could just like there should 0:14:34.400 --> 0:14:36.880 be a show where the ex wife gets to pick 0:14:36.920 --> 0:14:42.120 the new wife. I think that's great because it's like 0:14:42.120 --> 0:14:44.040 they're gonna be around my kids, you know what I mean. 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:45.320 So I'm like, I want to be the one to 0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:47.880 pick and be like, Okay, this girl is mature, she's beautiful, 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:50.720 she's fun. The kids love her, Like like I think 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:52.960 it's a great idea. Yeah, and I get to pick 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:56.320 like three girls that he can choose from. Yeah exactly, 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:58.720 I mean he could pick Curry, but there's three that 0:14:58.720 --> 0:15:01.560 that have been approved. I mean, I'm here. I always 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:04.120 think it's so fun when like the Axes do stuff 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:06.560 together with the kids. I'm like, wow, Like if that 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:08.520 happens to me, I hope that I can be friends 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:11.040 with my ex and whoever he ended up work, especially 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:12.520 if you're kid. Well, you know, the funny thing is 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:13.600 that I don't want be friends with him, and when 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:19.240 we'll be friends with his wife? Yeah, yeah, like literally 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:22.600 just eventually sell. I don't know, we'll see. But I 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:25.200 do think it's interesting that you said you're different. You're 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:28.040 a different version of yourself in every relationship. And I 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:31.400 do think that for sure, because I meant that I 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:34.280 was with I'm such a different person, and I was 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:36.760 such a different person in my next relationship then I 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:38.800 was with him, because you just you grow, you know, 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:43.840 with each relationship, you learn, you grow you you know, Yeah, 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:46.440 and and and whatever they do, however they affect you 0:15:46.520 --> 0:15:48.080 or you affect them in a relationship, you guys are 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:51.640 going to like have a different chemistry yeah, for sure. 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:55.040 So are you excited to have like a new storyline 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:58.840 on the show like this to not be about God? Yea. 0:16:00.200 --> 0:16:01.920 I knew that I was going to have to address it, 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:03.880 of course, because you know, I had to deal with 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:06.280 a lot of like the harassing for years, so there 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:08.400 was so many things I had to be addressed on 0:16:08.440 --> 0:16:11.600 the show. Sure, but it took away a little bit 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:13.760 from who I am the person and I have a 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:16.800 huge heart, and you got you got to see less 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:19.800 of that. And you know, obviously I've been really successful 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:21.560 on my own and it's hard as a woman who 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:24.800 would to approve yourself. So I feel like that storyline 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:28.160 overshadowed who I actually am, and I didn't love that 0:16:28.200 --> 0:16:31.160 I have to be So who are you then? I mean, 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:33.960 I feel like, you know, I'm super family oriented. Boston 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:36.400 will always be my heart, like my mom is my 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:39.000 best friend in the entire world, and you know, I've 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:41.600 worked really hard to get where I am. It wasn't easy. 0:16:41.640 --> 0:16:44.920 I've been laughed out of so many meetings because they 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:48.040 thought I was somebody's girlfriend and they thought, oh literally, 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:50.360 I was told I was walked into the wrong meeting 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:53.040 because it was an investor meeting and I was the 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:55.200 only female in there, and obviously, you know what I 0:16:55.200 --> 0:16:57.600 mean that they judged me I kind of present based 0:16:57.600 --> 0:17:01.000 off my look. They laughed me out of beating noble 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:06.720 I had. So I've had to prove myself so many times, 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:08.840 and I think that, you know, you really don't get 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:11.280 to see that as much in season four five. I 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:12.800 do think you get to see a little bit more 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:15.399 of who I am. You know, my family comes on, 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:18.840 so my mom no good, Yeah, because I'm excited to 0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:20.480 see more about that. You can tell you have a 0:17:20.520 --> 0:17:22.879 lot more to you and that you were trying to 0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:26.640 be respectful. You're actually handled everything really well. Um, but yeah, 0:17:26.680 --> 0:17:28.560 I'm excited to see more of your storyline and kind 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:32.360 of see more about you versus Christine kind of over 0:17:32.440 --> 0:17:36.919 her story Yeah, Like it's like like why have the 0:17:36.960 --> 0:17:38.800 same It's like no one wants to see the same 0:17:38.880 --> 0:17:42.720 character arc. Yeah. Yeah, I mean it's kind of addressing 0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:45.280 all of her friendship fallouts, you know, I mean it 0:17:45.320 --> 0:17:46.560 kind of goes there and then she kind of actually 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:48.639 kind of makes you feel bad for her a little 0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:51.919 bit towards the end. I mean, yes, it's because she 0:17:51.960 --> 0:17:54.040 gets upset like all of her friends have left her 0:17:54.119 --> 0:17:56.960 kind of things, so you know, Um, but again I 0:17:57.040 --> 0:18:01.280 just think that strategic plan of course, yeah that comes off. 0:18:01.320 --> 0:18:04.639 But yeah, yeah, I know for sure. But yeah, no, 0:18:04.680 --> 0:18:07.360 I'm excited to see more of your story, for sure. 0:18:07.400 --> 0:18:12.159 I think you've got a lot to give to the show. Um, 0:18:12.480 --> 0:18:14.960 is there someone that you have like a kind of 0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:19.320 crush on, like actor, athlete? Like what what do you 0:18:19.320 --> 0:18:22.720 what do you usually go for? I feel like athletes 0:18:22.760 --> 0:18:27.400 are trouble so yeah, okay, so my act as an 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:30.040 athlete and I just feel like they're so used to 0:18:30.080 --> 0:18:33.480 getting everything that they want and they have that mentality 0:18:33.560 --> 0:18:35.920 it's like they have to go out and basically win 0:18:36.160 --> 0:18:39.840 at whatever. So you know, propably, I would not date 0:18:39.880 --> 0:18:42.080 an athlete. I feel like I'm more attracted to like 0:18:42.520 --> 0:18:46.080 nerdy businessmen than athletes. But back in the day, like 0:18:46.119 --> 0:18:49.080 when I was in my early twenties, for sure, every 0:18:49.080 --> 0:18:53.600 athlete I was like, you know, you get excited, But yeah, no, 0:18:54.200 --> 0:18:57.199 I think like I don't have a specific person, but 0:18:57.280 --> 0:19:00.280 I feel like I like more like businessmen and people 0:19:00.280 --> 0:19:02.919 that I can you know, connect with on an intelligence 0:19:03.000 --> 0:19:06.160 level too. You know, athletes aren't usually all there either. 0:19:06.720 --> 0:19:09.320 Did you see the CEO of Riya on on there. 0:19:09.400 --> 0:19:12.919 He's kind of cute. He's a businessman. The CEO of 0:19:13.000 --> 0:19:15.000 Ryo is on Ria. Yeah, I mean has It's like 0:19:15.000 --> 0:19:19.560 it's like Tom on Facebook or single. My Space's tom Space, 0:19:20.080 --> 0:19:22.400 Thomas my Space. I mean, I think if he's on right, 0:19:22.440 --> 0:19:28.000 he's single because it's like as asking right, I mean, 0:19:28.119 --> 0:19:29.920 is he doesn't look nerd ever? Think I remember, I think, 0:19:29.920 --> 0:19:32.760 I think, I'm really Oh he's cute. He hurt me back? 0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:38.879 What's it? What's a deal breaker in a relationship? Do 0:19:38.920 --> 0:19:43.000 you have any Definitely someone who doesn't want kids. That's 0:19:43.040 --> 0:19:47.679 like number one obviously loyalty. I'm a really big communicator too, 0:19:47.800 --> 0:19:49.840 so it would be hard for me to be with 0:19:49.920 --> 0:19:53.560 somebody that's not good at communicating. I over communicate, I 0:19:53.600 --> 0:19:56.359 overshare because I think it's so important and guys are 0:19:56.480 --> 0:19:59.240 so bad at that. You know, both of my accents 0:19:59.320 --> 0:20:01.760 like they just literally like I feel like it was 0:20:01.840 --> 0:20:04.680 so hard for them, was like drawing blood to try 0:20:04.720 --> 0:20:07.240 and get them to talk and communicate how they're feeling 0:20:07.240 --> 0:20:09.439