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Speaker 1: left waiting by the phone? It's the Fread Show. Hey BB,

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Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: Laden, how are you?

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Speaker 1: We are super excited to have you here. So waiting

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Speaker 1: by the phone is on. We're trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: why you may have been ghosted BB, So why don't

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Speaker 1: you tell us about this guy Max, how you met,

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Speaker 1: give us any background and then kind of where things

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Speaker 1: are now and so we can figure out how we

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Speaker 1: can help.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I met on the app, know as

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Speaker 2: a lot of us do the day. So yeah, we

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Speaker 2: started talking and to connect fairly well, you know, he

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Speaker 2: was witty. He was funny, so I was like, okay,

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Speaker 2: and then you know, we kept talking and it started

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Speaker 2: to get a little flirty, and then he asked me out,

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Speaker 2: asked me for my actual numbers. So we moved, you know,

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Speaker 2: off the app started actually you know, texting, and got

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Speaker 2: flirty and we decided to go out, and I was

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Speaker 2: really excited about that, and we went out. It was great, Like.

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Speaker 3: Underdos are never that good.

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Speaker 2: I was super happy, shocked that it was going this well.

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Speaker 2: And I mean, you know, I even ended up, you know,

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Speaker 2: sleeping over at his place at the end of it.

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Speaker 2: Believe me, I wouldn't do this often, and it was

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Speaker 2: I was shocked that it went as well.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, no, so you have no idea after this

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Speaker 1: amazing date, why and even with the you guys hooked

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Speaker 1: up and everything, so this is all good stuff. And

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Speaker 1: then since then you have not heard from him. Have

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Speaker 1: you reached out to him? Have you tried to contact

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Speaker 1: him at all?

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Speaker 2: I tried calling him, I texted him. I only texted

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Speaker 2: him once because I didn't, you know, want to see

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Speaker 2: too much. I had already tried calling.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it would be nice to know after you

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Speaker 1: hook up with somebody why they you know, why they're

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Speaker 1: not interested. I guess they don't necessarily owe you that,

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Speaker 1: but it's always nice to know I have some closure.

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Speaker 1: It's respectful.

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Speaker 2: So sure, especially after you hook up with someone, you know,

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Speaker 2: if we haven't plupt together, okay, see whatever, but at least.

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Speaker 1: You know why you know, I get it, I get it.

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Speaker 1: Ideally you'd like to know. And that's where we come in.

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Speaker 1: So we'll call we'll call Max. You'll be on the

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Speaker 1: phone at the same time. I don't want you to

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Speaker 1: say anything right at first, because we're gonna try and

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Speaker 1: get some info for you. But at some point you're

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Speaker 1: welcome to jump in and hopefully we can figure out

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Speaker 1: what's going on. Maybe we can patch things up I

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Speaker 1: don't know, any kind of disconnect and get you guys

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Speaker 1: set up on another date that we pay for. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: so good, all right. I'm gonna play one song and

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Speaker 1: then we'll come back and two minutes and we'll call

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Speaker 1: this dude and figure it out. Hey, Bibe, Yeah, Hi, Bby,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Max. You guys met on one

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Speaker 1: of the dating apps and you chatted and he went

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Speaker 1: on this this date that you thought went really well,

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Speaker 1: so well that you slept over in his house, you know,

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Speaker 1: So that's good. However, since then you haven't heard from him.

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Speaker 1: You've reached out once, he hasn't responded. I can understand

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Speaker 1: why that might bother you, because you want to know why.

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Speaker 1: You want to know what happened? Where's this guy? Where

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I just want to know why. You know,

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Speaker 2: at the end of the day, if he's not interested, well,

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Speaker 2: but at least let me know why.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, fair enough, let's call him now. Good luck, Bibe. Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi isus? Max? Ye? Hey Max? Good morning. My name

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Speaker 1: is Fredam calling from the French show on one O

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Speaker 1: three five Kiss FM, and I'm starting to bother I

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Speaker 1: of minutes on the show? Yeah, that's fine, Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. I'm not sure if you've heard this before,

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Speaker 1: but we're actually calling on behalf of a woman named

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Speaker 1: Phoebe who says she met you on one of the

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Speaker 1: what she described as a really successful date to remember her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I definitely remember.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well, so what she told us that,

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Speaker 1: you know that you guys were flirting again? Long, Well,

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Speaker 1: she did say that she slept over at your house. However,

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Speaker 1: she says she can't get a hold of you. You're

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Speaker 1: not responding, you're not reaching out. It's kind of bugging her.

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Speaker 1: We had no problem getting ahold of you. So what

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Speaker 1: you know, can you kind of would you mind filling

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the date was good.

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Speaker 3: The everything else that happened after was good. It was

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Speaker 3: just actually it was it was sort of what happened

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Speaker 3: after after was what was kind of weird. I woke

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Speaker 3: up like just in the middle of the I just

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Speaker 3: had a pea and I was like hearing noises from

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Speaker 3: my living room and I walked it into my living

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Speaker 3: room and she was watching, like horn.

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Speaker 1: She did she fire up the fifty inch and like,

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Speaker 1: you know, share it to the street like and uh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like we had just soaked up like an hour

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Speaker 1: There was just like, hey, hey, maybe this lady is insatiable.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she you know, maybe she was ready for another round.

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Speaker 1: Uh well, you know what I forgot to mention the BB.

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Speaker 1: You see, I I don't know what. I always have

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Speaker 1: his laps in my memory. I forget to mention that part.

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Speaker 1: The BB's here, Max, you guys know each other, bby.

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Speaker 1: So what was going on on the couch after afterwards?

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Speaker 1: And why was it so loud by the.

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Speaker 2: Way, Yeah, I didn't know that he caught me, that's

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Speaker 1: Okay, well he did so why an hour after you

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Speaker 1: look up with the Are you in the other room

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Speaker 1: watching you know those kind of videos? Well, why do

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Speaker 1: you think so you didn't? Oh you did so, Pauline

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Speaker 1: is right, So you didn't. It wasn't satisfying. It wasn't satisfactory.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't even I wouldn't say that though I had

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Speaker 2: a great experience, like it was a really fun time.

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Speaker 1: Didn't, girl? You didn't. You didn't get to the high

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Speaker 1: the highest hight. I did not.

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Speaker 2: Finish so, and I did not expect him to walk

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Speaker 2: in and catch me. You know, that was never my intention.

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Speaker 1: I guess in the future, maybe I would leave. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I you know, I I I might conceal what I'm

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Speaker 1: doing a little better if I didn't want any chance

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Speaker 1: that the guy I liked or girl I liked or

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Speaker 1: whatever would find out. I mean, because I get it.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's you don't always get to that point.

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Speaker 1: But Max, man, you're awfully quiet on this whole thing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you hear what this is the reason why?

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Speaker 1: What say you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I I guess I get it.

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Speaker 3: It's just it was just kind of weird. I definitely

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Speaker 3: didn't expect it.

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Speaker 1: You don't seem real surprise.

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Speaker 3: I thought it would great like we did.

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying I don't. I'm not saying it wasn't

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Speaker 2: a great time. That was not at all what I'm

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Speaker 1: I will say this is a difficult concept for most

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Speaker 1: men to understand, myself included. We're like operating an appliance,

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Speaker 1: you know, on off. It's not that tricky. Women typically

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Speaker 1: are a little it's a little more complicated women. I

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Speaker 1: think you guys would agree, right, I mean, for the

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Speaker 1: most part that it can be a little trickier. And

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Speaker 1: I think men, just because we're we're used to most

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Speaker 1: think we just expect that we can get that to

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Speaker 1: our partners only. And I think many men are of

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Speaker 1: surprised to find out that you guys can have a

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Speaker 1: great time and enjoy the experience but not automatically get

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Speaker 1: to that height. Mm hmm. Yeah, so I think that's

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Speaker 1: it's a hard thing for guys who understand. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I get that.

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Speaker 3: I just like washing porn on like my couch hack.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I just I was right next to her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well yeah, I don't know, so finished like what

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Speaker 1: a gentleman. Yeah, I would have been more offended that

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Speaker 1: I wasn't invited to that party, you know. I would

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Speaker 1: have been like, well, I mean I could help with them,

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Speaker 1: but then again it didn't. It didn't work the first time.

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Speaker 1: All right. Well look, Max, I mean so since you

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Speaker 1: say you have an understanding of this whole concept, so

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Speaker 1: why are you ignoring her? Are you embarrassed by it?

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Speaker 1: Are you? I don't know what, what did it hurt

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Speaker 1: your masculinity somehow? I mean, I don't mean to generalize her, like,

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Speaker 1: I don't mean to suppose, but what why wouldn't you

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Speaker 3: I don't know. It was just a little weird to me.

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Speaker 3: It was, uh, it just it was just really off putting,

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Speaker 3: and I don't know, it was just really weird and

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Speaker 3: it just it threw me off. And I'm sorry. I'm

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Speaker 3: not good at, you know, just not talking to people,

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Speaker 3: so I tend to just not talk to people. I'm

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Speaker 3: not good at confrontation or like dealing with that stuff,

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Speaker 3: so I tend to just not respond.

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Speaker 1: And I know it's clearly not good and here we are.

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Speaker 1: But well, that's that's nice, you know. There you go, Bbe.

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Speaker 1: So that was the issue. I don't know that every

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Speaker 1: guy would handle it that way, but you know, he's

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Speaker 1: admitting that he's not really good. I think I think

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Speaker 1: many of us are not good at that. At that

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Speaker 1: phone call later where it's like, hey, by the way,

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Speaker 1: I don't like you, not that that's how you say it,

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Speaker 1: but you know, it sounds like that's the issue here.

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Speaker 1: So Boebe, I'm sorry. I don't think it's going to

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Speaker 1: work out well fair enough, man, I know he doesn't

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Speaker 1: seem too surprised by all this. I don't know, it

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Speaker 1: just maybe it's just not a it's not a match.

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Speaker 1: But guys, thank you so much for your time, best

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Speaker 1: selected both of you. Thank you