Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2: Hayden is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up. He's getting ghosted by Atlanta. So in a minute,
Speaker 2: we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why
Speaker 2: she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date.
Speaker 2: But first, Hayden, how long has it been since you
Speaker 2: heard from her.
Speaker 1: It's been about nine days, I'd say nine days.
Speaker 3: So how many times have you tried to reach out
Speaker 3: to her?
Speaker 4: Once every other day? I mean the most recent was
Speaker 4: this morning.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm still trying to, you know, connect with
Speaker 1: her if if possible.
Speaker 3: Okay, how is the day?
Speaker 1: The day was great, h That's why I'm so baffled, Like, so,
Speaker 1: you know, we met online and then we met up
Speaker 1: at this little wine bar, you know, in kind of
Speaker 1: a middle of the neighborhood, which was really nice, and
Speaker 1: there was like they had a little patio out there.
Speaker 1: She brought her dog. She had her little baby dog.
Speaker 1: I think it was like a Pomeranian or something, which cute.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I guess in a.
Speaker 3: Sense she didn't tell you.
Speaker 4: No, no, not a dog.
Speaker 5: A dog. I'd be kind of weird.
Speaker 3: I think it's cool.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 4: Anyway, dog's name was Biscuit. It was you know, it
Speaker 4: was fine or whatever.
Speaker 2: You know, you didn't mind that she surprised you with
Speaker 2: the dog on your date.
Speaker 1: I I am a dog lover myself, so like, at
Speaker 1: first it was you know, cly by surprise.
Speaker 4: But after a while, you know, I got adjusted to
Speaker 4: the dog. I mean, I don't know if the dog
Speaker 4: was getting so adjusted to me.
Speaker 1: He kept trying to like bite on me, and every
Speaker 1: time I try to pet him, he would growl and stuff.
Speaker 1: But didn't like he was just he was just being
Speaker 1: protective I guess of his of his owner. You know.
Speaker 1: She even actually had a little joke saying something like,
Speaker 1: you know, if Biscuit doesn't vibe with you, then that's
Speaker 1: a red flag or something like that. But I think
Speaker 1: she was just I think he was just joking. I
Speaker 1: think I hope, God, I hope, because you know, I
Speaker 1: can bribe Biscuit. You know, dogs love me eventually, right.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she might have been joking.
Speaker 2: You know some people are very dogs, can you know sense?
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe she was serious.
Speaker 1: I mean, hopefully this can give me a second chance,
Speaker 1: because I know I can win him over because the day,
Speaker 1: the day was going great.
Speaker 4: Like after a while, you know, the dog.
Speaker 1: Kind of laid there and just kind of kept to himself,
Speaker 1: and then we started vibing, connecting. You know, we got
Speaker 1: to we shared a truery. She actually made fun of
Speaker 1: me for not knowing that. I thought that was actually
Speaker 1: kind of cute. But yeah, one of those cheese boys.
Speaker 1: And it was really nice pair of fun with the wine.
Speaker 1: We had a couple uh we like shared a bottle.
Speaker 1: After that, we went back to her place and you know,
Speaker 1: we were still vibe and everything was good, and you know,
Speaker 1: one thing was doing. We we hooked up, you know,
Speaker 1: you know I say, just like that, but yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah we did.
Speaker 4: It happened and uh put.
Speaker 6: In another yeah dog, this k he was in the bathroom,
Speaker 6: this kid or him in the bathroom and we you know,
Speaker 6: we just tended to each other.
Speaker 1: And it was it was it was just electric. It
Speaker 1: was amazing. It was some of the best I've ever had,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to lie, you know. On top of
Speaker 1: that being wonderful, and I don't know, she just had
Speaker 1: a thing about her like she seems so genuine and real.
Speaker 1: And when I was talking to her. She seemed like
Speaker 1: she was interested and wasn't you know, just kind of
Speaker 1: one earing up the other. And you know, she was
Speaker 1: sarcastic and sharp and witty and funny, and you know
Speaker 1: she was calling me out for trying to act smarter
Speaker 1: than I am. You know, I guess it didn't help
Speaker 1: when I didn't know the name of the cheeseboard. But
Speaker 1: we just had something, and I just I want to
Speaker 1: know why she while of a sudden, she's ghosting me.
Speaker 5: You know, what could have gone wrong?
Speaker 6: Was there any other moment aside from biscuit nipping at
Speaker 6: your ankles that was kind of awkward or no?
Speaker 1: I have no no idea. I mean, yeah, he was
Speaker 1: nipping at me at first, but you know he calmed
Speaker 1: down after a while, and we were having such a
Speaker 1: great time. I mean, I thought I did a great job,
Speaker 1: you know, performing if you will.
Speaker 4: I don't know, maybe I might have. I might have
Speaker 4: said something stupid towards.
Speaker 1: The end of the night. You know, I had a
Speaker 1: good buzz on me. I was tired, dehydrated that you know.
Speaker 1: I've been working a lot lately, so you know, hasn't
Speaker 1: been catching up on sweep much, so I might have
Speaker 1: said something stupid.
Speaker 5: Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: Then well, play a song, come back, and then call
Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
Speaker 2: you and maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 4: All right, thank you guys, I appreciate that.
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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.
Speaker 2: Hayden is on the phone and he's getting ghost to buyolini.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
Speaker 2: a second date. But before we do that, Hayden, why
Speaker 2: don't you break down your date for us real quick again?
Speaker 4: Made at a wine bar, had a great time.
Speaker 1: She brought her dog, which was a little love putting
Speaker 1: at first because he kept.
Speaker 4: You know, nipping at me and growling at me. But
Speaker 4: after a while he calmed down and.
Speaker 1: We had a great night and even great overnight, if
Speaker 1: you will. And ever since then, you know she's been
Speaker 1: ghosted me. I thought we had a great connection, and
Speaker 1: I tried calling her. She doesn't call me back, doesn't
Speaker 1: text me back. I mean, I don't know. Like I said,
Speaker 1: maybe she is, you know, serious about Biscuit and you
Speaker 1: know the vibe because he was growing at me. Maybe
Speaker 1: she's true about like you know, she did call him
Speaker 1: her his spurry gatekeeper. I guess, well.
Speaker 2: Maybe, Okay, so maybe her dog didn't like you. That
Speaker 2: might be the reason you think you're getting ghosted here.
Speaker 2: Maybe it was a gatekeeper didn't like it.
Speaker 5: Maybe that, or I guess.
Speaker 4: I'm stupid in the middle of the night, which I
Speaker 4: don't recall, I was buzzed. I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: Why are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 5: Please, okay, here we go. I'm a dollar fund of
Speaker 5: right now.
Speaker 3: Hello?
Speaker 5: Him as speaking to Elena? Please?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 3: Is this is she?
Speaker 5: Hey Elena?
Speaker 6: How are you?
Speaker 5: This is a radio show. It's called the Jebel Show.
Speaker 3: Hi, Elena. I'm Nina Hi, and I'm Victorian.
Speaker 5: And my name's Jubile. What's up? How are you?
Speaker 7: I'm good?
Speaker 5: Great? Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 7: I have? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Dope?
Speaker 5: Have you ever heard a first day follow up before?
Speaker 3: I have?
Speaker 5: Dope?
Speaker 3: Kay?
Speaker 2: Guess what, Elena? What you're ghosting? Somebody and they emailed us.
Speaker 3: Oh no, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: We do a segment called the First Day follow Up
Speaker 2: where if you're ghosting somebody, you can email us and
Speaker 2: we call that person and see if they'll tell us why.
Speaker 5: They're ghosting you. So do you know who would have
Speaker 5: emailed us about you?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 7: I have a speaking suspicion of Hayden, isn't it?
Speaker 2: Yes, it is Hayden. Do you have a few minutes
Speaker 2: to talk to us and tell us where your ghosts?
Speaker 2: He said he really liked you and he thought you
Speaker 2: were into him.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 7: I mean the date was actually really fun. I mean
Speaker 7: he's adorable, he's cute, he made me laugh, and.
Speaker 8: He even tried to win over my dog, which was
Speaker 8: a big.
Speaker 3: Big thing for me.
Speaker 2: You brought your dog on the date and that your
Speaker 2: dog didn't like him, so he thought maybe that was
Speaker 2: a red flag.
Speaker 4: I mean, no, that's not.
Speaker 7: That's not why I've been ghosting him.
Speaker 3: He is like a bathroom criminal. What does that mean?
Speaker 3: A criminal?
Speaker 7: A bathroom criminal. After we hooked up, I went to
Speaker 7: the bathroom and he left the toilet seabap, which wasn't
Speaker 7: the worst thing, okay, but then he also didn't flush
Speaker 7: and let's just say hydration is not his strong suit.
Speaker 4: Okay, No, it was disgusting.
Speaker 8: It was like someone poured beer into like a hot
Speaker 8: window and you got it everywhere, I'm telling you, like everywhere.
Speaker 4: And to me, that's like just.
Speaker 7: So gross and disrespectful to not even attempt to clean
Speaker 7: up after himself, like you know, as good. At the
Speaker 7: time we were having to see that, I was like.
Speaker 5: Okay, what was in your bathroom?
Speaker 4: In my bathroom? We went back to my place and
Speaker 4: you just as happened. Wait can I I can't stay
Speaker 4: quiet now, can.
Speaker 5: Elena? That's Hayden. He's on the phone and wants to
Speaker 5: talk to you.
Speaker 4: Elena.
Speaker 6: Oh that's why you ghosted me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you get it all over the bathroom.
Speaker 1: It was an accident. It was a complete accident. I'm
Speaker 1: still sorry. In my defense, it was like three am.
Speaker 1: I was half asleep, dehydrated, and clearly not at my best.
Speaker 4: You know, I respect you, I swear, I just.
Speaker 8: Forgot to you forgot how toilets work? Like what that's
Speaker 8: not comforting at all.
Speaker 1: I didn't forget how toilets work. That was just not
Speaker 1: my right state of mind. You don't go someone for
Speaker 1: an overnight slush Mithshap. You know, I made a mistake.
Speaker 1: Guess that was my air, and I will own it.
Speaker 1: But you don't go someone for that month. We had chemistry,
Speaker 1: right we You even laughed in my dumb jokes.
Speaker 5: Listen.
Speaker 8: I do love the dumb jokes, but I mean, just
Speaker 8: the bathroom was just out of control, Like I didn't
Speaker 8: even I didn't even know how to deal with that.
Speaker 9: So I don't know, Alena, Listen, I really do like you,
Speaker 9: and you know, we just hooked up right after that,
Speaker 9: and it's kind of hard to control after hooking up.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry if I wasn't really paying attention to.
Speaker 7: Where it was.
Speaker 3: Is that a true?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is actually, But I mean I don't know.
Speaker 2: You know, I didn't see it, so i'd have to
Speaker 2: know how bad it was.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry about that, but I know we can move
Speaker 4: past this. You know.
Speaker 1: I think Biscus heard it like me towards the end
Speaker 1: of it, you know, And I'm willing to give you know,
Speaker 1: a biscuit of bribe. I will come in, I will
Speaker 1: clean your bathrooms early, I will bleach it, I will
Speaker 1: I will reshingle your tile whatever whatever we're going to do.
Speaker 4: If I can get a second date with you, please.
Speaker 3: I listen.
Speaker 8: I really do like you, but I just don't want
Speaker 8: to start this whole thing off with me having to
Speaker 8: clean up after you and reminding you to drink water
Speaker 8: like that does not sound fun for me.
Speaker 1: Look, if you go on another day with me, I
Speaker 1: promise I will peece straight.
Speaker 5: Hey what do you think? Would you go on another take?
Speaker 5: I mean with Hayden.
Speaker 2: We'll pay for it. I mean that's a big promise.
Speaker 2: I've never heard anybody promise that before for somebody.
Speaker 4: Bye.
Speaker 3: Yes, we can go on a second date, but we're.
Speaker 7: Staying out of my bathroom.
Speaker 3: Okay. The straight promise is what did it?
Speaker 4: Deal? Deal?
Speaker 1: And I'm bringing a water bottle and men ride for
Speaker 1: biscuits and bleach for the bathroom.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, whatever you want?
Speaker 5: That is so sweet. We congratulations, Hayden, you got another date.
Speaker 4: I couldn't have done it with how you guys? Thank
Speaker 4: you so much. This was great. All right, thanks guys.
Speaker 7: You know what, I'm actually pretty excited.
Speaker 1: I'll call you afore we get done with this radio
Speaker 1: thing and I'll call you on your phone.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, I'm looking forward to do it. Another wine
Speaker 4: trip or something awesome. Thank you, guys, appreciate it. I'll
Speaker 4: talk to you soon, okay.
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